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Speaker 1: Are you guys ready to make a love connection? Yeah,

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all right, second date up day time in Winstead. Dalton's

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on the line. Good morning Dalton. Hi, Hey, welcome to

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the show. Welcome to second Date Update. Tell us about

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this great first date you went on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks for having me. Well, yeah, we went on

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a great date a few weeks ago and some of

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my friends set us up and it was Yeah, I

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thought it was really good. We went to get happy

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Hour cocktails and it was really fun and laughed a

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lot and okay, I know I really like her.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Alicia, according to our producer. So you

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go to happy Hour with this girl Alicia, set up

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by friends. You felt a connection like she you were laughing,

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she was laughing, You felt a spark.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just like, yeah, it definitely was like

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a really good date, I thought, and then I a

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texture and she just hasn't responded and it's been a

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couple of weeks at this point.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you're getting totally ghosted.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Did you pay for the date?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, yes I did pay for the date.

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Speaker 3: Did you drink too much? Did you get drunk?

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Speaker 2: No? I think I had, Like I think we each

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had like three drinks.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Just trying to figure out why you would be getting ghosted,

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you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to dig a little deeper down, just

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a little. I'm just going to ask the question everyone's thinking.

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Did you bring the energy? I mean it kind of

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no offense, but you kind of boring.

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Speaker 1: You're not a little low energy?

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Speaker 3: How was your energy on the date?

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Speaker 1: I did?

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Speaker 2: I did bring the energy. I mean I might come

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across as little energy, but I'm definitely I think a

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fun time.

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Speaker 3: All right, okay, great question. Question question. When you were

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leaving the date, did you get a little aggressive with

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the goodbye? If you catch my drift, M.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. No, all right, okay, good meaning

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like handsy?

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Speaker 3: Did you get a little handsy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? That's oh no, no okay, Oh all right.

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Speaker 1: Well, this is what I'm gonna do, dol. I'm gonna

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put you on hold. We're gonna call up Alicia. We're

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gonna get some answers. If you're ready to find out

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why you're getting ghosted, We're gonna.

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Speaker 3: Make the call.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do it, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, hold on, We're gonna call Alicia. Find out where

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you're getting ghosted. Jeff, what, Yes, it's the energy, he's yeah.

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I think you're right on that one. Really, yes, the energy.

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It just sucked the life out of me. His energy

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sucked the life out of me.

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Speaker 3: Just now, Maybe he's just stressed because you know it

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doesn't know why I got ghosted, And maybe he's like

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the brilliance curiously claiming up the radio can make you notice, right,

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I guess I just I need my Crystal, I need

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my energy back. Oh my god, he sucked the energy.

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Hi is Alisha there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Hey Alicia.

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Speaker 3: It's Courtney. Alicia, it's Walmart. Jeff. Hey, Alicia, it's Savannah.

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We're going from Kiss ninety five to seven.

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Speaker 1: You're on the radio, okay, okay, Well you're on the

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air this morning.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 3: We do something called second date update.

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Speaker 1: Somebody goes on a first date, they get ghosted after

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that first date, and they don't know why.

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Speaker 3: They call us, and that's why we're calling you this morning.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: So here's a.

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Speaker 1: Deal, Alicia. I just want you to be honest. Dalton

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called us he took you out on a date. I

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got a happy hour date. Okay, okay, yeah, said it

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was a great date that you guys had a lot

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in common, you laughed a lot, and he's reached out

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to you and you have not responded like you're ghosting.

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Speaker 3: Him, right, So tell me how, well how was it

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for you? Then?

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Speaker 4: Well, okay, he was a great, great guy, obviously, a

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you know, good person, all that stuff. I just have

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a non negotiable And it sounds weird, but it's good.

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Teeth me too, And I know it sounds shallow, but

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his teeth are They're a mess. Guys. Okay, I couldn't

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even concentrate and want he was saying because of teeth

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or something.

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Speaker 1: I just want to say, I that is one of

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my non negotiables too. So I get it, like you

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could you picture yourself kissing him at all?

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Speaker 4: Ever, No, I can't. I couldn't, and I was really

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because we were you know, obviously he's a he's a

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great guy. I just I would be. I couldn't even

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picture myself like kissing him.

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Speaker 1: It was just like, okay, let's just stop here because

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I want to let you know that he's also listening

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and I don't want to hurt his feelings because you

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know what, that's.

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Speaker 3: Something like that's not that's not a big thing.

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Speaker 1: I know it's your non negotiable, but it's Dalton, are

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you hearing this?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not a big thing.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Alicia to put you in that position that

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he was listening in. But you know there are things

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you can do, have a better have better teeth.

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Speaker 2: I guess it's hard to hear because it's like a

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huge insecurity of mine.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I get it.

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Speaker 2: We all have. It's like attraction is very important. It's

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I'm saving up. I mean, I've been saving up to

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get in visual line and like whitening stuff. It's just

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like super expensive and it's I'm working on it basically.

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But I am okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So and that's why I guess, Alicia, there's not

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going to be a sad. I mean, I will pay

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for another date if you think you guys are a

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match or not or is that just you're you're a.

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Speaker 4: Know, Alicia, it's going to be a noe for me.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Alicia, Listen.

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Speaker 1: I I I appreciate you being honest and telling us

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if it's it's a non negotiable. A lot of people

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have those, Dalton. I want to put you on hold,

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because I am going to help you out.

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Speaker 3: If it's an.

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Speaker 1: Insecurity of your yours, you're going to feel so much better.

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I'm going to help you out with a whiten ning

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and the invasi line Okay.

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Speaker 2: Oh awesome, Okay yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then you'll get back out there and you'll be

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so confident. Alicia, thank you for being honest.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for having me,