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<v Speaker 1>Hey there, friends. Before we dive into today's episode, I

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<v Speaker 1>need to let you in on something a little different

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<v Speaker 1>that you're about to hear. Part two of an incredible

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<v Speaker 1>conversation that we had not on our show, but as

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<v Speaker 1>guests on An Unimaginable Life, a show with Gary Tumblebodley

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<v Speaker 1>and Christy Levy. If you've been following the Skeptic of Physicians,

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<v Speaker 1>then you already know that we're all about expanding consciousness,

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<v Speaker 1>exploring spiritual growth, and sometimes laughing our way through existential breakdowns.

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<v Speaker 1>Well this one, this conversation hit us hard in the

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<v Speaker 1>very best way possible. In this episode, Gary did and

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<v Speaker 1>Christy walk us through a process that's so powerful it

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<v Speaker 1>left us shook, like actual Mike drop brain rewired kind

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<v Speaker 1>of shook. And we're talking about tools that helped us

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<v Speaker 1>uncover limiting beliefs that we didn't even know we had

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<v Speaker 1>and how to transmute them on the spot. Plus we

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<v Speaker 1>learned how this one seemingly simple tool could literally rewire

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship with fear, inspiration, and joy. But here's the

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<v Speaker 1>big news. At the end of the episode, we're announcing

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<v Speaker 1>something huge. We're officially partnering with Gary and Christy to

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<v Speaker 1>launch a life changing new program, and we're inviting you

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<v Speaker 1>to go through it with us. That's right, This isn't

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<v Speaker 1>just something we're promoting. We're actually doing the program alongside you.

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<v Speaker 1>So stay tuned all the way to the end to

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<v Speaker 1>hear how you can join us in this powerful journey,

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<v Speaker 1>because trust us, this is one you don't want to miss.

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<v Speaker 1>I am so excited for this. This might be the

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<v Speaker 1>finally the breakthrough that I've been looking for. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>enough teasing, let's dive into the episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome Back.

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<v Speaker 1>We took a hiatus.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you guys working the same clothes?

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not neither. He scared me. He said, aren't you

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<v Speaker 1>wearing the same thing? Said no, he said, we all

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<v Speaker 1>are I swill the same thing?

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<v Speaker 3>Are we supposed to wear the same clothes?

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<v Speaker 1>And He's like, I don't remember what I was wearing.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't either.

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<v Speaker 1>Still, you're ready to ask Gary, can we bring clothes?

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<v Speaker 1>You know that we're not because I've had a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a growth on my face from the last time.

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<v Speaker 1>That goes really fast in a minute.

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<v Speaker 2>Great, All right, let's start with the cliffhanger from last episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I've lost sleep since that day that is not fair

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<v Speaker 1>to have waited this long to make it cliffhanger. It

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<v Speaker 1>would have done that to me, I would have been

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<v Speaker 1>a wren.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's something that you can do fifteen minutes every day,

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<v Speaker 2>and if you do this one thing, I'll do more

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<v Speaker 2>to change your perception of reality or your perspective than

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<v Speaker 2>anything else you can do. We have a tool that

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<v Speaker 2>was given to us. It was channeled called the manifestation

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<v Speaker 2>Event form, and this form takes you through an event

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<v Speaker 2>that just happened, called a manifestation event that caused you

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<v Speaker 2>to feel some emotion. It could be either positive emotion

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<v Speaker 2>or negative emotion. You can use it in either way.

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<v Speaker 2>The idea is that this is a feeling reality. All

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<v Speaker 2>we're ever doing is feeling something.

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<v Speaker 1>Think about that for a second. When you think about it,

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<v Speaker 1>you okay.

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<v Speaker 2>When an event outside of you occurs and you have

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<v Speaker 2>a reaction to it, either positive or negative, that event

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<v Speaker 2>is occurring just to show you a belief. If the

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<v Speaker 2>belief is empowering, then you can use this to increase

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<v Speaker 2>the intensity of that belief to make it even more empowering.

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<v Speaker 2>If a belief is limiting, if you feel negative emotion,

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<v Speaker 2>then you can use this to soften that belief. We

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<v Speaker 2>all have a mental construct, it's our view of reality,

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<v Speaker 2>and that mental construct is a combination of all our

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<v Speaker 2>empowering beliefs and all limiting beliefs, and the intensity of

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<v Speaker 2>those beliefs that forms our perspective of ourselves in our reality,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's translated into a vibration. We then admit that

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<v Speaker 2>a vibration, and all the universe is doing is creating

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<v Speaker 2>a reality that is a mirror to that vibration so

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<v Speaker 2>that we can see what we're vibrating. So if something

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<v Speaker 2>happens to cause you negative emotion, it's only because that's

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<v Speaker 2>vibrating in you now, and the universe is just showing

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<v Speaker 2>that to you. So you can feel the negative emotion

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<v Speaker 2>and realize that the people involved and the circumstances occurred

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<v Speaker 2>as a result of this limiting belief, this vibration of

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<v Speaker 2>a limiting belief going on within me. If I can

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<v Speaker 2>soften that limiting belief and soften that vibration, then I

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<v Speaker 2>will experience more of what I truly want. Actually, we're

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<v Speaker 2>expanding our belief system and seeing ourselves from higher perspectives

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<v Speaker 2>so that when something happens, we are less triggered by it.

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<v Speaker 2>Most of us live this roller coaster life. Something happens

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<v Speaker 2>and we feel bad, something happens and we feel excited.

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<v Speaker 2>We go up and down every single day of our

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<v Speaker 2>lives without understanding it's all being generated from within. So

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<v Speaker 2>this work that we've been doing for six years softens

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<v Speaker 2>all of that. You become more present, more clear, You

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<v Speaker 2>understand what's happening, and your focus is not tuned on

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<v Speaker 2>what's happening outside of you, but it's tuned to what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on inside. And that's when you receive inspiration, intuition.

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<v Speaker 2>And within a short while, a large percentage of people

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<v Speaker 2>who do this form we do it in one of

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<v Speaker 2>our courses called the boot Camp. A lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>who do this form their players come online. They started

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<v Speaker 2>having these abilities. This is what happened to Christy in

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<v Speaker 2>the course you can do It fifty six days in

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<v Speaker 2>a row. She did the course eight times. So she

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<v Speaker 2>did this over four hundred times, probably over six hundred

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<v Speaker 2>times in her life. Now are and by that time

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<v Speaker 2>time all of our abilities came online like full strength overnight.

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<v Speaker 1>Fully realized, Yeah, can I pick which power I get?

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<v Speaker 2>That the power that you get is the one you

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't want I would not want to be a channel.

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<v Speaker 2>If I could have picked this stuff, I'd want to

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<v Speaker 2>read minds or do something fun predict the future.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to talk to dead people. I would

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<v Speaker 4>never have wanted to talk to dead people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's a fair point.

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<v Speaker 4>So the manifestation met form, first of all, is just

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<v Speaker 4>one of many forms we have. Then we use them

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<v Speaker 4>in our courses to help all of us change that

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<v Speaker 4>mental construct, open up our belief structure so that we

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<v Speaker 4>are less triggered and our vibration goes up. It's like

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<v Speaker 4>dump and sand out of a hot air balloon. Every

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<v Speaker 4>time you soften a limiting belief, you go up a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit or and work on an empowering belief. But

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<v Speaker 4>something that you were saying at the end of the podcast,

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<v Speaker 4>you guys were talking about and Will specifically, I asked

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<v Speaker 4>why you wanted this to be successful, what that meant

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<v Speaker 4>to you, and it was we only have four years

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<v Speaker 4>to get this going, and in four years we want

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<v Speaker 4>to be digital nomads living in Italy and we want

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<v Speaker 4>to It's important to me. I need to be able

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<v Speaker 4>I was going with that to help you understand the

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<v Speaker 4>value in this manifestation of it form is what Gary

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<v Speaker 4>opened with, which is this reality is a feeling reality.

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<v Speaker 1>The only thing you're ever doing is feeling something.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to start a little softly because my example

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<v Speaker 4>takes people back really hard because when it hit me,

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<v Speaker 4>I was where you are and learning this stuff, and

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<v Speaker 4>I started to realize the only reason I want something,

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<v Speaker 4>it's because I think I'm going to feel good when

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<v Speaker 4>I get there. I want something because there's a feeling

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<v Speaker 4>I lack. So if you were to be digital nomads

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<v Speaker 4>living in Italy, new reality TV is successful, what are

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<v Speaker 4>the feelings that you are after that? You think you

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<v Speaker 4>would feel that you don't feel now freedom. So if

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<v Speaker 4>I were to tell you that, of course you attract

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<v Speaker 4>with your thought, with your focus. I think you guys

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<v Speaker 4>are very much there with all the work you've been doing.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's deeper than that, and it is your feeling

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<v Speaker 4>essentially that will let you know what your point of

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<v Speaker 4>attraction is. There is no way to become abundant when

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<v Speaker 4>you feel lackful. There's no way to feel love when

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<v Speaker 4>you feel alone or lonely. When you have that going on,

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<v Speaker 4>you will not attract that next thing. So if you

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<v Speaker 4>feel like you are not free, if you feel bound,

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<v Speaker 4>if you feel tied to.

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<v Speaker 1>What's a better word for that, imprisoned to an extent.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think they feel that way, right, But if

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<v Speaker 4>you feel this, you've got a child and a home

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<v Speaker 4>and you know these responsibilities.

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<v Speaker 1>So you are not free.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you see yourself in four years, if I

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<v Speaker 4>can just make this happen, I will suddenly feel free.

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<v Speaker 4>But what we have learned, what I believe and have

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<v Speaker 4>over and over again, it's been shown to me doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>work like that. You could get all of that, but

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<v Speaker 4>you will feel more imprisoned than you do now. If

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<v Speaker 4>you look back at your life, you think of the

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<v Speaker 4>things that you when it wanted so much, and because

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<v Speaker 4>you think it's going to give you a feeling, nothing

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<v Speaker 4>outside of us can give us any feeling. We can

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<v Speaker 4>for a moment think it does, but it doesn't. The

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<v Speaker 4>feeling is inside because it's communication letting it know how

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<v Speaker 4>we're looking at something. Getting that car feels great for

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<v Speaker 4>a little while, but it doesn't change that feeling. And

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<v Speaker 4>you believe you're missing reaching outside to be in that

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<v Speaker 4>life because now I will feel free can't make you

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<v Speaker 4>feel free. You will continue to feel how you feel

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<v Speaker 4>no matter what's going on around you. But we still

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<v Speaker 4>all seek conditions to change to make us feel something.

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<v Speaker 4>With Gary's channeling and his books and the things that

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<v Speaker 4>we've learned, is not from outside. The outside conditions can

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<v Speaker 4>make you feel nothing. It comes from inside and your perspective.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the great illusion. Out theay conditions make us feel something,

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<v Speaker 2>but we're feeling something, and the outset conditions reflect that feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll take conditions reflect that belief.

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<v Speaker 4>You think that made you happy. She makes me happy,

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<v Speaker 4>He makes me happy. This house will make me happy.

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<v Speaker 4>Having this paint down will make me happy. You can

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<v Speaker 4>use it as an excuse to feel good for a bit,

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<v Speaker 4>a very short time, and then it's always next, next, next.

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<v Speaker 4>You are trying to create feeling inside of yourself by

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<v Speaker 4>controlling outside conditions. This is not an outside in universe.

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<v Speaker 4>You are not an outside in being. You are inside out.

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<v Speaker 4>It has to change inside, including how you feel. How

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<v Speaker 4>do we change your perspective on your current circumstances working

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<v Speaker 4>nine hundred hours a day, raising a child, relationship that's

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<v Speaker 4>wonderful and fun, but you're doing it together so there's

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of stress in that, having to be everywhere

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<v Speaker 4>all of the time, and really wanting to make something

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<v Speaker 4>happen over here so that you don't have to do

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<v Speaker 4>this anymore. R How do we take those conditions and

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<v Speaker 4>change how you see them? You feel happy and free

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<v Speaker 4>no matter what happens. So if you are homeless and alone,

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<v Speaker 4>but you feel amazing and you are happy and you

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<v Speaker 4>are free, what do you care when you realize the

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<v Speaker 4>only thing you want is to feel something. You want

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<v Speaker 4>to feel free, you want to feel abundant, you want

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<v Speaker 4>to feel joy, You want to feel all of those things,

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<v Speaker 4>and I don't right now, and I'm afraid if that happens,

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<v Speaker 4>I'll feel bad. What Gary and I are going to

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<v Speaker 4>give you is a tool to help you understand that

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<v Speaker 4>when you do feel bad, you know exactly what to do.

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<v Speaker 4>You will feel better, that will soften, and now you

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<v Speaker 1>Does that make sense to you, guys? It makes perfect

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<v Speaker 3>But here's my thought, and just so you focus on

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<v Speaker 3>changing how you feel about it. Now, are you saying

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<v Speaker 3>when you do that, or you're just happy with what

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<v Speaker 1>Like we have a daughter, you know we need to

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<v Speaker 2>So imagine that you could feel free and abundant and

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<v Speaker 1>Great?

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<v Speaker 2>So that's the proof right there that if you could

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<v Speaker 2>four years, if you can do it right now, then

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<v Speaker 2>the conditions wouldn't matter. That is the mind flip, a

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<v Speaker 2>way of looking at things that takes practice. We're all

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<v Speaker 2>perspective that outside conditions are creating how I feel. To

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<v Speaker 2>shift that focus from outside to inside, it takes a while,

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<v Speaker 2>it's different for everyone, but once you get there, you

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<v Speaker 2>realize that you have everything you've always wanted. And of

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<v Speaker 2>course those conditions have to shift, because now how you

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<v Speaker 2>who get these amazing things, are never satisfied right, always

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<v Speaker 4>In fact, you might not want it from where you

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<v Speaker 2>Like I would not have wanted to be who I

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<v Speaker 2>and he's doing these weird things, and that was so

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<v Speaker 2>uncomfortable for me back then. But of course you do

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<v Speaker 2>small changes every day over twelve years you find this place. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>compared to the life I'm living now. The life I'm

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<v Speaker 2>living now is so full and exciting and interesting and

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<v Speaker 2>was a great life. But compared to this one, it

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<v Speaker 1>And you know.

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<v Speaker 4>In a side note, Karen, you and I will talk

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<v Speaker 4>about especially as you do these forms is I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>Guys.

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<v Speaker 4>I really enjoy coaching. These forms are not easy. That's

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<v Speaker 4>why we said you devote time to it. You devote

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<v Speaker 4>fifteen minutes a day. They bring up things. It can

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<v Speaker 4>be tough sometimes, So as I stay in touch with

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<v Speaker 4>you guys, we'll talk about why it is important to

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<v Speaker 4>you for your daughter to be happy. It has nothing

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<v Speaker 4>to do with her. What it has to do with

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<v Speaker 4>is if she's not, you'll feel bad if she is

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<v Speaker 4>not on this planet anymore. It's not about her. It's

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<v Speaker 4>about your fear that you will never be happy again.

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<v Speaker 4>When I got that realization a few years ago, it

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<v Speaker 4>dropped me because I thought I can't be that selfish,

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<v Speaker 4>and I realized, wait, that is it. Everything is about

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<v Speaker 4>how I think I might feel, how I believe I

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<v Speaker 4>will feel if that happens, and if I got to

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<v Speaker 4>control my conditions. I'm in fear all the time. But

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<v Speaker 4>what we're going to show you is and to help

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<v Speaker 4>you no matter what comes. It doesn't matter what it

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<v Speaker 4>is you feel that pain, fears, sadness, overwhelming, whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 4>You sit down with this thing and you work your

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<v Speaker 4>way through it, and all of a sudden it lifts

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<v Speaker 4>and you realize it doesn't matter what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>I know what to do.

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<v Speaker 4>What matters to me is this feeling of joy, freedom

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<v Speaker 4>and connection and power, knowing who I am. When you

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<v Speaker 4>have that, it doesn't matter what's going on around you,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's what you want.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what you want for your daughter too. This is

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<v Speaker 2>the work that will change her life by you being

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<v Speaker 2>an example seeing it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I dig this a lot, and I'm really excited

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<v Speaker 1>to dive into the form one question that comes to mind,

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<v Speaker 1>and this might extend the podcast into a long one,

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<v Speaker 1>So this may I make the final cut. In this movement,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you want to call it, new Age, whatever it

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<v Speaker 1>is that's going on right now, a new faction is

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<v Speaker 1>emerging that is vehemently fighting against what they call spiritual bypassing,

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<v Speaker 1>where the think rainbows and unicorns all the time and

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<v Speaker 1>good things will come right. We're trying to think positive

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<v Speaker 1>at all times. Some people are saying that to do

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<v Speaker 1>that is putting your head in the sand. And it

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<v Speaker 1>feels like what you're talking about is a form of

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<v Speaker 1>everything is rosy, doesn't matter what's happening, Everything's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be perfectly fine. So how does that? Christie's shaking her

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<v Speaker 1>head vehemently.

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<v Speaker 4>No, okay, so correct me just thinking positively, everything's fine.

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<v Speaker 4>But this is putting a happy face stick or over

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<v Speaker 4>an empty gas take. You're not getting very far like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I got stuck in that as well. I love being around.

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<v Speaker 1>People like that.

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<v Speaker 4>It's when you don't feel it in here and you

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<v Speaker 4>are still operating from here to try to control your conditions. No,

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<v Speaker 4>it's okay, it's fine, we'll just do this, everything will

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<v Speaker 4>be okay. Right, that's what you're doing. You're not accepting

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<v Speaker 4>what's coming and saying, ooh okay, that hurts. Damn, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>flipping out. I'm in total despair right now. I just

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<v Speaker 4>lost everything I've thought I ever wanted. This is falling apart.

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<v Speaker 4>That's real and authentic. To deny that you feel that

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<v Speaker 4>way is silly, right, But to understand what that's pointing out.

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<v Speaker 4>All that's happening is that the universe is reflecting to

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<v Speaker 4>you a self imposed limiting belief. It's pointing it out

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<v Speaker 4>so that you can look at it. Soften that belief.

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<v Speaker 4>You're going to automatically feel better. It's going to soften it,

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<v Speaker 4>and this kind of experience becomes fewer and farther between because.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need it anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>You never get rid of our limiting beliefs, because once

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<v Speaker 4>you attract something, you always have it.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can.

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<v Speaker 4>Soften them to the point that their intensity is so

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<v Speaker 4>mild that there's nothing that really triggers it anymore. And

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<v Speaker 4>that's what we're doing here. So it is an anti

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<v Speaker 1>It's just.

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<v Speaker 4>You're ignoring that you have these self imposed limitations and

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<v Speaker 4>still scurrying around trying to control all of your outside conditions.

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<v Speaker 4>How Karen sees you, how will see you, how your

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<v Speaker 4>happens out here, you know, how quick you can get somewhere,

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<v Speaker 4>which you look like. That's all of that stuff you're

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<v Speaker 1>So this is more like positive living than positive thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the difference. It's not putting your head in

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<v Speaker 1>the sands, actually changing behaviors in thought patterns, versus sticking

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<v Speaker 4>It's going in and understanding because you don't know. You

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<v Speaker 4>could not sit down and write for me all of

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<v Speaker 4>your limiting beliefs and all of your empowering beliefs. You

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<v Speaker 4>could come up with some, but you don't know. So

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<v Speaker 4>we use these events and the universe uses them to

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<v Speaker 4>point them out when it's time. Okay, now you can

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<v Speaker 4>catch them at the thought level, and we'll go through

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<v Speaker 4>this form. You can have a manifestation emit the thought.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's all this happening, so you just don't ignore it.

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<v Speaker 4>Go ahead, Gary.

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<v Speaker 2>A limiting belief is limiting because it limits you from

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<v Speaker 2>acting on inspiration. You get into a space, you receive

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<v Speaker 2>the inspiration, and then all this fear pops up. The

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<v Speaker 2>fear is driven by these beliefs that you're not aware of.

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<v Speaker 2>Once you soften those beliefs, then the fear is not

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<v Speaker 2>as intense and you're more likely to act on inspiration.

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<v Speaker 2>This is called the flow state. If you ain't get

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<v Speaker 2>in that flow state and push past the fear, the

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<v Speaker 2>fear is going to come no matter what. By doing

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<v Speaker 2>this work, you lower the intensity of that fear. If

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<v Speaker 2>you're able to push past the fear and take the

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<v Speaker 2>inspired action, then that belief is no longer limiting you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's there, but it doesn't limit you anymore. For instance,

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<v Speaker 2>let's imagine that you had the inspiration to join us

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<v Speaker 2>at a retreat in Orlando August fourteenth to the nineteenth.

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<v Speaker 2>It's thirteen hundred dollars and you'll be there with a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of like minded people, twenty five people in this

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<v Speaker 2>why couldn't you come?

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<v Speaker 1>Why couldn't we come Because we're coming back from Alaska

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<v Speaker 1>Right, okay, and money, and it's actually back to freedom

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<v Speaker 1>because my work won't allow me take that much time

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<v Speaker 2>Right, what if that was inspiration that came to you

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<v Speaker 2>and all these thoughts, now, okay't do that. Where I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to do that. What you're thinking is that

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<v Speaker 2>if I did it, I'm going to feel negative emotion,

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<v Speaker 2>so I want to protect myself from negative emotion. I'll

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<v Speaker 2>feel bad that I spent the money, or that we

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<v Speaker 2>put our daughter in school a couple of days later,

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<v Speaker 2>or we had to show up late because we're getting

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<v Speaker 2>work to do. Those are these fears. They don't feel

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<v Speaker 2>all of that is just fear. You may not even

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<v Speaker 2>re see that inspiration because your belief system knocks it

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<v Speaker 2>out of the way. But even if you were cognitive

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<v Speaker 2>of it, you probably wouldn't tell Caaren about it because

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<v Speaker 2>she would say, what are you nuts? We got all

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<v Speaker 1>How well you know us?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? I have this inspiration. Maybe we can just take

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<v Speaker 2>one step? What's the next thing to do with This

424
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<v Speaker 2>work allows you to do that allows you to at

425
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<v Speaker 2>least hear it and think of the one thing that

426
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<v Speaker 2>you could do. Imagine how less limited your life would

427
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<v Speaker 2>be if you could allow yourself just to do the

428
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<v Speaker 2>one step that's in front of you. Anytime you received

429
00:24:37.680 --> 00:24:42.079
<v Speaker 2>inspiration and then got good at receiving more inspiration and

430
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<v Speaker 2>good at acting and more inspiration than have intuition and

431
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<v Speaker 2>psychic abilities, That's what this work does.

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<v Speaker 1>What if you're inspired to go catch the Aurora borealis

433
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<v Speaker 1>for six months out of the year, I would lose

434
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<v Speaker 1>my job. You see, this not a bad thing.

435
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<v Speaker 4>There's no wrong in the universe. That everything is right,

436
00:25:06.680 --> 00:25:09.519
<v Speaker 4>which is the basis of everything. Gary and I teach

437
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<v Speaker 4>that that's not a bad thing.

438
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<v Speaker 2>Generally, inspiration there's two things, an urge and an inspiration.

439
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<v Speaker 2>So the inspiration, there's always some little thing that you

440
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<v Speaker 2>can do right now. You don't have to go all

441
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<v Speaker 2>the way to six months, right and so maybe the

442
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<v Speaker 2>inspiration is just to check out where it's going to

443
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<v Speaker 2>be in six months, or how much flights cost to

444
00:25:35.960 --> 00:25:38.079
<v Speaker 2>get there, and then you wait for the next inspiration.

445
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<v Speaker 2>So you take this patient, calm approach to this one

446
00:25:42.839 --> 00:25:46.279
<v Speaker 2>little tiny thing that you can do. You don't have

447
00:25:46.319 --> 00:25:48.119
<v Speaker 2>to book the flights, you don't have to get the hotel,

448
00:25:48.160 --> 00:25:50.279
<v Speaker 2>you don't have to take a leave of absent from work,

449
00:25:50.440 --> 00:25:51.759
<v Speaker 2>you don't have to pull your din out of school.

450
00:25:52.039 --> 00:25:54.480
<v Speaker 2>All you have to do is find out where it's happening,

451
00:25:54.599 --> 00:25:57.119
<v Speaker 2>where's the best place to see it. And maybe the

452
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<v Speaker 2>inspiration is not actually going for six months. Maybe it's

453
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<v Speaker 2>just to have a conversation. Maybe the next podcast host

454
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<v Speaker 2>we bring it up and they happened to have seen

455
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<v Speaker 2>it and had done this exact same thing, and then

456
00:26:08.799 --> 00:26:11.400
<v Speaker 2>sparks this great conversation that you had. So you never

457
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<v Speaker 2>know where the inspiration is going to lead. But we

458
00:26:13.960 --> 00:26:17.079
<v Speaker 2>tend to fill out the story in advance, and the

459
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<v Speaker 2>idea is just the next moment, one moment to the

460
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<v Speaker 2>next moment.

461
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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's do this forum, or we're going to be

462
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<v Speaker 1>on here all day.

463
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<v Speaker 2>Should we have them think of a meifestation event that

464
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<v Speaker 2>happened recently or do you want to make one up? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I think that would get is getting it a little

466
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<v Speaker 4>deep if we have them actually do one unless you

467
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<v Speaker 4>can think of us. If you guys, can think of

468
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<v Speaker 4>one that happened in the last day or so that

469
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<v Speaker 4>made you feel some negative emotion, but that isn't insanely personal.

470
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<v Speaker 1>We might be able to go lightly through this. I

471
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<v Speaker 1>can't think of anything that's not insanely personal, Like manifestingos

472
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<v Speaker 1>hemorrhoids was really a bad thing. Now, let's go ahead

473
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<v Speaker 1>and make one up and see.

474
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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Gary, make one up. I coach people all the time.

475
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<v Speaker 4>I've got a million.

476
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<v Speaker 2>But it's really good. Want to do the flat tire

477
00:27:04.200 --> 00:27:05.960
<v Speaker 2>on the way home and you're supposed to get all

478
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<v Speaker 2>these new episodes downloaded into new reality TV?

479
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<v Speaker 1>That would be a good one. Oa. It just happened

480
00:27:12.599 --> 00:27:14.880
<v Speaker 1>like a week ago, did it?

481
00:27:15.119 --> 00:27:15.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

482
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<v Speaker 1>Did it?

483
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<v Speaker 5>So?

484
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<v Speaker 1>Thank you Christy because my right left tire got flat.

485
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<v Speaker 1>That's what life with me is like. Can you just

486
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<v Speaker 1>tell me good things from that one?

487
00:27:25.799 --> 00:27:27.519
<v Speaker 4>The best thing to do with this form, you, guys,

488
00:27:27.759 --> 00:27:30.960
<v Speaker 4>is a print of copy out and get notebooks that

489
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<v Speaker 4>you just use for this. Keep one blank copy in

490
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<v Speaker 4>the pocket of your notebook, and when you go to

491
00:27:36.200 --> 00:27:38.440
<v Speaker 4>do these, you just have one spot and you write

492
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<v Speaker 4>your format.

493
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<v Speaker 2>The mafetation occurs anytime you feel negative emotion at some

494
00:27:42.839 --> 00:27:45.920
<v Speaker 2>point in the day. Let's put your awareness towards anytime

495
00:27:45.920 --> 00:27:49.000
<v Speaker 2>you feel negative or positive emotion. So it works either way,

496
00:27:49.240 --> 00:27:51.440
<v Speaker 2>and you want to do an equal balance of both,

497
00:27:51.440 --> 00:27:53.960
<v Speaker 2>because what we're doing is reducing the intensity of limiting

498
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<v Speaker 2>beliefs and raising the intensity of empowering beliefs to make

499
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<v Speaker 2>our mental construct move from mostly limited to more empowering.

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<v Speaker 2>Think about a manifestation event you had today yesterday. I

501
00:28:04.880 --> 00:28:08.720
<v Speaker 2>described the event below. Describe the event. So we were.

502
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<v Speaker 1>Going to lunch on a workday. As we were pulling

503
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<v Speaker 1>into the parking lot, I felt something strange happened with

504
00:28:16.440 --> 00:28:18.720
<v Speaker 1>my tire and I felt Oh. When I got out

505
00:28:18.759 --> 00:28:21.039
<v Speaker 1>of the car, I saw that my tire was on

506
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<v Speaker 1>the ground.

507
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<v Speaker 2>Describe the emotion you felt in your reaction to the event.

508
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<v Speaker 1>I was frustrated, and it wasn't that bad of a

509
00:28:31.079 --> 00:28:35.640
<v Speaker 1>reaction because how long it was going to take. That's true. Yeah,

510
00:28:35.680 --> 00:28:38.559
<v Speaker 1>so I was frustrated, but I knew we would fix

511
00:28:38.599 --> 00:28:41.160
<v Speaker 1>it until we realized that we didn't have a fare

512
00:28:42.119 --> 00:28:44.160
<v Speaker 1>or a fix a flat, so we had to call

513
00:28:44.200 --> 00:28:45.119
<v Speaker 1>it to blaze.

514
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<v Speaker 2>Okay, rate the intensity of that emotion one to ten,

515
00:28:49.200 --> 00:28:53.480
<v Speaker 2>initially at probably four grape. And then is the emotion

516
00:28:53.599 --> 00:28:58.039
<v Speaker 2>positive or negative? It's negative? Now, what were the initial

517
00:28:58.039 --> 00:29:00.400
<v Speaker 2>thoughts you received due to the emotions you were so

518
00:29:00.440 --> 00:29:05.440
<v Speaker 2>you felt negative emotion? What were the thoughts? And you

519
00:29:05.599 --> 00:29:06.799
<v Speaker 2>describe a couple thoughts there?

520
00:29:07.640 --> 00:29:13.319
<v Speaker 1>Inconvenient? Why is it inconvenient? Because now I've got to

521
00:29:13.319 --> 00:29:15.000
<v Speaker 1>get on my car. I got to fix this tire.

522
00:29:15.480 --> 00:29:18.559
<v Speaker 1>It's going to take up time on my day to work.

523
00:29:18.720 --> 00:29:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I've got to get back to work. I've got too

524
00:29:20.720 --> 00:29:23.000
<v Speaker 1>much on my plate to be dealing with this right now.

525
00:29:24.240 --> 00:29:25.880
<v Speaker 2>What happens if you're late to work.

526
00:29:26.680 --> 00:29:30.119
<v Speaker 1>I can't get my work done. And if I can't

527
00:29:30.119 --> 00:29:33.079
<v Speaker 1>get my work done, then it backs up and I

528
00:29:33.119 --> 00:29:35.720
<v Speaker 1>have more work to do the next day. Then I

529
00:29:35.720 --> 00:29:38.119
<v Speaker 1>start feeling overwhelmed because I'm never going to get to

530
00:29:38.200 --> 00:29:40.000
<v Speaker 1>the end of all this work, and I've got a

531
00:29:40.039 --> 00:29:42.680
<v Speaker 1>thousand other things I've got to do. Got it?

532
00:29:42.960 --> 00:29:47.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay? Now, did you have the urge to change or

533
00:29:47.200 --> 00:29:50.400
<v Speaker 2>control the conditions or the people involved. There's nothing much

534
00:29:50.440 --> 00:29:53.559
<v Speaker 2>you could do here, but a lot of times, say,

535
00:29:53.759 --> 00:29:56.319
<v Speaker 2>for instance, if you were in an argument, you want

536
00:29:56.359 --> 00:29:59.400
<v Speaker 2>to make the other person wrong, or you wish they

537
00:29:59.440 --> 00:30:03.000
<v Speaker 2>weren't even in the place at that time. The urges

538
00:30:03.039 --> 00:30:06.400
<v Speaker 2>are really important to understand because a lot of times

539
00:30:06.440 --> 00:30:08.319
<v Speaker 2>we act on the urgers, like you could have thrown

540
00:30:08.359 --> 00:30:11.200
<v Speaker 2>a tire, iron or something, you know, that sort of thing,

541
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<v Speaker 2>not saying I.

542
00:30:12.519 --> 00:30:14.000
<v Speaker 1>Didn't, but that's an urge.

543
00:30:14.000 --> 00:30:15.880
<v Speaker 4>If you had some urge to change your control of

544
00:30:15.920 --> 00:30:18.799
<v Speaker 4>the conditions, right the guy there faster, You yell at somebody,

545
00:30:18.839 --> 00:30:20.720
<v Speaker 4>Your neighbors are playing their music too loud, and you

546
00:30:20.759 --> 00:30:22.839
<v Speaker 4>wake up. You can't go back to sleep. You scream

547
00:30:22.880 --> 00:30:26.079
<v Speaker 4>at them some urge to change or control the condition.

548
00:30:26.359 --> 00:30:28.720
<v Speaker 2>When we act on urges, it takes us away from

549
00:30:28.759 --> 00:30:31.200
<v Speaker 2>what we want always. So the best thing you can

550
00:30:31.240 --> 00:30:33.799
<v Speaker 2>do is learn that you're going to feel that urge

551
00:30:33.839 --> 00:30:36.440
<v Speaker 2>to change things, but you don't have to act, and

552
00:30:36.480 --> 00:30:38.720
<v Speaker 2>if you don't act, it's going to go a lot

553
00:30:38.759 --> 00:30:42.079
<v Speaker 2>smoother for you. A big part of this is recognizing

554
00:30:42.079 --> 00:30:47.599
<v Speaker 2>those urges that happen in negative motion, identify the related desire. Generally,

555
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<v Speaker 2>The reason we get upset is because we think that

556
00:30:51.319 --> 00:30:56.039
<v Speaker 2>this event causes our desire not to manifest, or its

557
00:30:56.160 --> 00:30:59.759
<v Speaker 2>impedes what we want in some way. There's a desire

558
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<v Speaker 2>that you had at that moment that this got in

559
00:31:02.960 --> 00:31:04.799
<v Speaker 2>the way of. What do you think that desire might be?

560
00:31:06.039 --> 00:31:07.839
<v Speaker 1>To get back home quickly so I can give to work?

561
00:31:08.559 --> 00:31:09.799
<v Speaker 2>Why do you want to get back to work.

562
00:31:10.720 --> 00:31:13.880
<v Speaker 1>There's got a lot of work I'm going to do, right, So.

563
00:31:13.920 --> 00:31:17.359
<v Speaker 2>It's this desire not to be overwhelmed, not to have

564
00:31:17.440 --> 00:31:19.440
<v Speaker 2>to work late in the night, that sort of thing.

565
00:31:20.440 --> 00:31:25.000
<v Speaker 2>Looking at that desire objectively, is that desire based in

566
00:31:25.160 --> 00:31:26.519
<v Speaker 2>fear or flow?

567
00:31:27.799 --> 00:31:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Definitely?

568
00:31:28.200 --> 00:31:30.720
<v Speaker 2>Exactly. So now you're saying that allow of your desires

569
00:31:30.759 --> 00:31:34.000
<v Speaker 2>are based in fear to begin with, and so we

570
00:31:34.079 --> 00:31:39.000
<v Speaker 2>call those false desires. Okay, So returning to your mental construct,

571
00:31:39.000 --> 00:31:42.000
<v Speaker 2>identify the belief that triggered the emotions you felt. What

572
00:31:42.279 --> 00:31:45.279
<v Speaker 2>is the belief? And this is the fun part.

573
00:31:45.960 --> 00:31:48.160
<v Speaker 1>This is the one that gets tricky, the belief.

574
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<v Speaker 2>So this flat tire didn't happen on the own. It

575
00:31:51.720 --> 00:31:55.640
<v Speaker 2>was orchestrated by the entire universe, by your inner self,

576
00:31:55.680 --> 00:31:59.160
<v Speaker 2>by your guides, by your supporters for you to find

577
00:31:59.240 --> 00:32:03.640
<v Speaker 2>us one limiting belief. Why did this happen? What? What's

578
00:32:03.680 --> 00:32:05.359
<v Speaker 2>the belief that they want to point out to you

579
00:32:05.599 --> 00:32:08.279
<v Speaker 2>that's holding you apart from everything you want.

580
00:32:08.559 --> 00:32:11.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think like you, guys, no, don't. That's

581
00:32:11.519 --> 00:32:14.440
<v Speaker 1>not going to help you. A limiting belief, the reason

582
00:32:14.480 --> 00:32:15.319
<v Speaker 1>why that happened.

583
00:32:15.599 --> 00:32:18.680
<v Speaker 4>I could say, let me give you some ideas and

584
00:32:18.720 --> 00:32:21.160
<v Speaker 4>then might help you go in a direction. You might

585
00:32:21.200 --> 00:32:25.279
<v Speaker 4>have a belief that I have to work hard to

586
00:32:26.640 --> 00:32:30.920
<v Speaker 4>be successful. I have to work hard to pay my bills.

587
00:32:31.119 --> 00:32:34.799
<v Speaker 4>You might have a belief that I can't enjoy myself

588
00:32:34.880 --> 00:32:36.720
<v Speaker 4>during a work day, like you're trying to go out

589
00:32:36.720 --> 00:32:40.359
<v Speaker 4>to lunch right, I can't stop to enjoy myself. I

590
00:32:40.400 --> 00:32:42.640
<v Speaker 4>have to keep working. You can have beliefs like that,

591
00:32:42.680 --> 00:32:43.720
<v Speaker 4>and they always refer to you.

592
00:32:44.359 --> 00:32:47.599
<v Speaker 1>I believe the belief was I have too many people

593
00:32:47.640 --> 00:32:51.000
<v Speaker 1>counting on me. I have a lot of people counting

594
00:32:51.000 --> 00:32:52.160
<v Speaker 1>on me. I'm going to let them down.

595
00:32:52.240 --> 00:32:54.799
<v Speaker 2>Anyone that comes up is perfect. I have a limited

596
00:32:54.839 --> 00:32:55.759
<v Speaker 2>amount of time.

597
00:32:56.319 --> 00:32:58.480
<v Speaker 1>That's the initial. But then if I go further down

598
00:32:58.559 --> 00:33:01.240
<v Speaker 1>the rabbit hole limited amount of time, and if I

599
00:33:01.279 --> 00:33:03.319
<v Speaker 1>don't get everything done, then I'm going to drop the

600
00:33:03.319 --> 00:33:05.359
<v Speaker 1>ball and all these people shows are going to be

601
00:33:05.400 --> 00:33:08.160
<v Speaker 1>going on, all these clients are waiting for information for me.

602
00:33:08.279 --> 00:33:09.720
<v Speaker 1>They're not going to get the information they need on

603
00:33:09.759 --> 00:33:14.839
<v Speaker 1>a timely basis. I'm going to look bad and it's

604
00:33:14.880 --> 00:33:19.000
<v Speaker 1>going to feel like my work ethic is no longer

605
00:33:19.039 --> 00:33:20.640
<v Speaker 1>what I believe it is.

606
00:33:20.799 --> 00:33:25.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I believe my work is the reason people love

607
00:33:25.319 --> 00:33:30.759
<v Speaker 2>appreciate me. Sure, what if you didn't have that work ethic,

608
00:33:32.200 --> 00:33:35.160
<v Speaker 2>I might have a fewer friends. Right. We believe that

609
00:33:35.319 --> 00:33:37.240
<v Speaker 2>the only reason people like us is because we do

610
00:33:37.319 --> 00:33:41.640
<v Speaker 2>something right, and that that we be something. I don't

611
00:33:41.720 --> 00:33:46.000
<v Speaker 2>like you because you have a good work ethic. That's

612
00:33:46.160 --> 00:33:47.079
<v Speaker 2>not reason I like you.

613
00:33:47.480 --> 00:33:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I just get on here and chit chat with you.

614
00:33:49.160 --> 00:33:50.240
<v Speaker 1>You're awesome. I have no idea.

615
00:33:50.359 --> 00:33:54.920
<v Speaker 2>We don't like you because you're good parents. Right, But actually,

616
00:33:54.960 --> 00:33:56.279
<v Speaker 2>what we're saying that we're going to joke for you

617
00:33:56.319 --> 00:33:58.319
<v Speaker 2>because you guys were two minutes late. How dare you

618
00:33:58.400 --> 00:33:59.039
<v Speaker 2>come late to this?

619
00:34:00.359 --> 00:34:03.039
<v Speaker 1>You're on this belief.

620
00:34:03.240 --> 00:34:06.440
<v Speaker 4>The first one that comes is fine, people always try

621
00:34:06.480 --> 00:34:08.880
<v Speaker 4>to get to know I want the one doesn't matter.

622
00:34:09.159 --> 00:34:12.719
<v Speaker 4>So the first thing that hit you was I don't

623
00:34:12.760 --> 00:34:15.400
<v Speaker 4>have enough time. I never have enough time. Another one

624
00:34:15.599 --> 00:34:19.920
<v Speaker 4>was I have too many people counting on me to

625
00:34:20.039 --> 00:34:20.719
<v Speaker 4>pick one of those.

626
00:34:20.800 --> 00:34:23.000
<v Speaker 1>So let's pick something that feels right to you. A

627
00:34:23.000 --> 00:34:26.760
<v Speaker 1>belief about yourself. My sense of self is dependent on

628
00:34:27.400 --> 00:34:28.440
<v Speaker 1>not letting people down.

629
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's real deep though, That's great.

630
00:34:31.320 --> 00:34:35.400
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, we can step back if you need to.

631
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<v Speaker 4>If I it's gonna be a way to make it

632
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<v Speaker 4>into a sentence. This is what it's always fun with

633
00:34:39.760 --> 00:34:41.400
<v Speaker 4>me when I'm working with somebody. So it's make that

634
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<v Speaker 4>into a sentence that has I in it. And perhaps

635
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<v Speaker 4>even so, if I blank, I will lose everyone's.

636
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<v Speaker 1>Respect, I will lose love. No one will love me. Well,

637
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<v Speaker 1>if I don't do what expected of me in a

638
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<v Speaker 1>timely manner, I will lose the respect of those depending

639
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<v Speaker 1>on me. Stay with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, is that belief limiting or empowering? It could be

641
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<v Speaker 2>either one. What do you think an.

642
00:35:14.639 --> 00:35:16.880
<v Speaker 1>Argument could be made for both. It drives you to

643
00:35:16.960 --> 00:35:19.760
<v Speaker 1>be the best you can be by not letting people down,

644
00:35:20.360 --> 00:35:22.880
<v Speaker 1>but it also forces you to get a flat tire

645
00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:25.320
<v Speaker 1>in the middle of the workday and not get to

646
00:35:25.840 --> 00:35:26.880
<v Speaker 1>all the work you gotta do.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you think it could be empowering that you believe

648
00:35:30.920 --> 00:35:34.000
<v Speaker 4>the reason people like and respect you is because you

649
00:35:34.079 --> 00:35:35.719
<v Speaker 4>perform like a show pony.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, perfectly mean that's not empowering. Well, let me sure

651
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<v Speaker 1>some insight with you. While that was growing up, I

652
00:35:42.760 --> 00:35:47.199
<v Speaker 1>was very irresponsible. I went through jobs like water. I

653
00:35:47.280 --> 00:35:51.920
<v Speaker 1>was not dependent at all. It wasn't until it became

654
00:35:52.000 --> 00:35:55.719
<v Speaker 1>really important to me because I had a family that

655
00:35:56.079 --> 00:35:59.840
<v Speaker 1>it dawned on me that I've got to be responsible

656
00:36:00.199 --> 00:36:04.719
<v Speaker 1>and deliver what people expect of me in order for

657
00:36:04.800 --> 00:36:07.119
<v Speaker 1>my work ethic to be something that people will respect.

658
00:36:07.360 --> 00:36:13.039
<v Speaker 1>That way, I will be liked and promoted and be

659
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<v Speaker 1>able to continue to provide for my family in bigger

660
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<v Speaker 1>and better ways year after year.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally reasonable belief, completely, but just imagine it might be

662
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<v Speaker 2>limiting because it will limit you from going to see

663
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<v Speaker 2>a movie in the daytime. When's the last time you

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<v Speaker 2>saw a movie on a Wednesday in the middle of

665
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<v Speaker 2>the day, well before COVID. Just so, it does limit

666
00:36:38.400 --> 00:36:41.159
<v Speaker 2>you from certain things, and you'll get good at this

667
00:36:41.199 --> 00:36:42.079
<v Speaker 2>and you'll get to see how that.

668
00:36:42.320 --> 00:36:43.639
<v Speaker 1>Met you from probably quite a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is where the fun starts. Now that we

670
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<v Speaker 2>know that it is a limiting belief, all limiting beliefs

671
00:36:52.320 --> 00:36:57.480
<v Speaker 2>are false. You can prove examples in your life where

672
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<v Speaker 2>this is absolutely so. Christy, go ahead and see if

673
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<v Speaker 2>you can help think of some examples.

674
00:37:05.199 --> 00:37:07.039
<v Speaker 1>I can think of examples from his life.

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00:37:07.239 --> 00:37:11.000
<v Speaker 4>What we are proving false is that your work ethic

676
00:37:12.239 --> 00:37:16.000
<v Speaker 4>is why people love and respect you. It's why you

677
00:37:16.000 --> 00:37:17.679
<v Speaker 4>have the family you have, It's why you have the

678
00:37:17.679 --> 00:37:20.559
<v Speaker 4>friends you have, it's why you have. Every single thing

679
00:37:20.599 --> 00:37:23.599
<v Speaker 4>in your life is because of your work ethic. Right,

680
00:37:23.719 --> 00:37:26.960
<v Speaker 4>It's why everyone likes, loves, and respects you. You do

681
00:37:27.039 --> 00:37:30.559
<v Speaker 4>kind of believe that right that if you don't have

682
00:37:30.599 --> 00:37:35.559
<v Speaker 4>this work ethic, you are not going to be liked, loved, respected, Yes, okay.

683
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<v Speaker 4>Can you look back at your life and go all

684
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<v Speaker 4>the way back to when you were terribly irresponsible?

685
00:37:43.639 --> 00:37:46.079
<v Speaker 1>When you say I was awful, I was so irresponsible.

686
00:37:46.599 --> 00:37:50.079
<v Speaker 4>Was there anyone in your life that liked you, loved you,

687
00:37:50.239 --> 00:37:51.559
<v Speaker 4>or respected you at that time?

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00:37:52.599 --> 00:37:55.840
<v Speaker 1>My mom doesn't matter who it is. She has to

689
00:37:56.400 --> 00:37:59.559
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't have to be obligated. Did you have any friends?

690
00:38:00.320 --> 00:38:03.360
<v Speaker 1>That's debatable? I think so, but I don't know how

691
00:38:03.880 --> 00:38:06.960
<v Speaker 1>close we were. Liked you? Sure? Okay?

692
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<v Speaker 4>And in your marriage to Karen, have you ever done

693
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<v Speaker 4>anything stupid or irresponsible.

694
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<v Speaker 1>That would be a nope. Yes, no, it's unfortunate. Yes

695
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<v Speaker 1>all the time.

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00:38:21.440 --> 00:38:25.159
<v Speaker 4>Yes, And does Karen still love you?

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<v Speaker 5>You'd have to ask her from your perspective, Do you

698
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<v Speaker 5>feel liked, loved and respected by your wife even though

699
00:38:33.679 --> 00:38:36.639
<v Speaker 5>in the years you've been married you have probably done

700
00:38:37.239 --> 00:38:40.679
<v Speaker 5>eight million stupid, irresponsible things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, but I've always made.

702
00:38:42.719 --> 00:38:43.079
<v Speaker 2>Up for it.

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00:38:44.960 --> 00:38:47.280
<v Speaker 1>That's the only reasons she loves you. Okay, Gary, you

704
00:38:47.280 --> 00:38:47.599
<v Speaker 1>want to go.

705
00:38:48.800 --> 00:38:51.639
<v Speaker 2>How about your daughter? Does she love and respect you?

706
00:38:51.719 --> 00:38:55.440
<v Speaker 1>I'd like to think so because of your work ethic. No,

707
00:38:55.519 --> 00:38:58.559
<v Speaker 1>she couldn't go care, couldn't care. That's in fact, as

708
00:38:58.639 --> 00:39:00.760
<v Speaker 1>she wishes I didn't work as much as I do. Right,

709
00:39:00.840 --> 00:39:03.559
<v Speaker 1>So anyway, this is the idea here. All you do

710
00:39:03.599 --> 00:39:05.280
<v Speaker 1>is write them down. You don't have to believe them.

711
00:39:05.360 --> 00:39:09.400
<v Speaker 1>But when you have evidence that contradicts that belief, that

712
00:39:09.440 --> 00:39:13.000
<v Speaker 1>belief is automatically softened. It just is softened.

713
00:39:13.679 --> 00:39:15.880
<v Speaker 2>Right. You weren't even aware of this belief until we

714
00:39:15.880 --> 00:39:18.639
<v Speaker 2>started talking about it, and now it's out in the open.

715
00:39:18.679 --> 00:39:22.599
<v Speaker 2>You're actually doing the work. This is not spiritual bypassing.

716
00:39:22.639 --> 00:39:25.880
<v Speaker 2>This is doing the work, and that belief is different

717
00:39:25.960 --> 00:39:29.800
<v Speaker 2>now as a result of this experience and that just.

718
00:39:29.800 --> 00:39:30.800
<v Speaker 1>Even if you're not aware of it.

719
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<v Speaker 4>So during this work, if you guys choose to take

720
00:39:37.239 --> 00:39:39.559
<v Speaker 4>thirty days and do this for fifteen, each one of

721
00:39:39.559 --> 00:39:43.239
<v Speaker 4>you separately, you should do it. I will be there

722
00:39:43.280 --> 00:39:46.079
<v Speaker 4>for you to help you through it because you can

723
00:39:46.119 --> 00:39:49.079
<v Speaker 4>see where it's easy to get a little stuck and

724
00:39:49.119 --> 00:39:51.719
<v Speaker 4>go wait, okay what It just takes a little practice.

725
00:39:52.440 --> 00:39:56.519
<v Speaker 4>So your ego as you go through this, because this

726
00:39:56.599 --> 00:39:59.400
<v Speaker 4>is a belief, this is something you believe is true.

727
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<v Speaker 4>You fully believe it isn't true at all, but you

728
00:40:03.920 --> 00:40:07.280
<v Speaker 4>believe it is, so it's true for you. And as

729
00:40:07.320 --> 00:40:10.679
<v Speaker 4>you try to prove it false, your ego is going

730
00:40:10.679 --> 00:40:13.800
<v Speaker 4>to do everything. Well, she's my mother, she has to.

731
00:40:14.119 --> 00:40:16.880
<v Speaker 1>That's not what I asked. I said, did anyone love you?

732
00:40:17.000 --> 00:40:20.360
<v Speaker 4>Yes, my mother? And is that belief true?

733
00:40:20.559 --> 00:40:20.760
<v Speaker 1>It is?

734
00:40:21.039 --> 00:40:23.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but that was because and yeah I probably had

735
00:40:23.920 --> 00:40:25.719
<v Speaker 4>some friends, but I don't think we were that close.

736
00:40:25.920 --> 00:40:27.159
<v Speaker 4>Like you don't know how close you are with your

737
00:40:27.159 --> 00:40:28.880
<v Speaker 4>friends now you think you do, but you don't know.

738
00:40:29.480 --> 00:40:31.159
<v Speaker 4>But your ego is trying to get in there and

739
00:40:31.159 --> 00:40:33.079
<v Speaker 4>say this belief is true, and I'm going to protect

740
00:40:33.119 --> 00:40:36.199
<v Speaker 4>you so that you never stop working hard and you

741
00:40:36.280 --> 00:40:38.719
<v Speaker 4>never stop having that work ethic because that's what's kept

742
00:40:38.719 --> 00:40:41.880
<v Speaker 4>you alive. And your ego is wonderful. You love your ego.

743
00:40:41.920 --> 00:40:44.559
<v Speaker 4>It's kept you alive, it's doing this for you. But

744
00:40:44.719 --> 00:40:49.440
<v Speaker 4>now you're ready to say, perhaps this isn't true. Oh,

745
00:40:49.480 --> 00:40:52.599
<v Speaker 4>perhaps this isn't true. It isn't about my work ethic,

746
00:40:54.079 --> 00:40:58.000
<v Speaker 4>just because I'm willing to look at this belief and

747
00:40:58.599 --> 00:41:00.960
<v Speaker 4>recognize that it's not because of my work ethic that

748
00:41:01.000 --> 00:41:03.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm respected, that I'm loved, that I'm liked, and that

749
00:41:03.960 --> 00:41:05.880
<v Speaker 4>I have everything that I have in my life.

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00:41:06.440 --> 00:41:08.400
<v Speaker 1>Let me just think about that possibility. What if it's

751
00:41:08.400 --> 00:41:09.119
<v Speaker 1>not because of that?

752
00:41:10.239 --> 00:41:12.880
<v Speaker 4>Does that mean that I'm now going to become a

753
00:41:12.960 --> 00:41:15.280
<v Speaker 4>lazy slob be late for everything?

754
00:41:15.559 --> 00:41:18.199
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not. You are who you are.

755
00:41:19.039 --> 00:41:22.800
<v Speaker 4>What drives you right now are these limitations and fears.

756
00:41:23.960 --> 00:41:28.639
<v Speaker 4>But the inspiration fills in as you soften those beliefs

757
00:41:29.159 --> 00:41:33.519
<v Speaker 4>and the power of what you do expands. You are

758
00:41:33.559 --> 00:41:36.920
<v Speaker 4>not dragging this limiting belief with you just because you

759
00:41:37.840 --> 00:41:38.960
<v Speaker 4>are aware of my.

760
00:41:39.000 --> 00:41:43.280
<v Speaker 1>Work ethic that people love and respect. It's who I am.

761
00:41:43.519 --> 00:41:46.039
<v Speaker 4>As you soften the belief that it's your work ethic

762
00:41:46.119 --> 00:41:49.320
<v Speaker 4>that gets you everything, a lot of other inspiration and

763
00:41:49.360 --> 00:41:51.960
<v Speaker 4>ideas can come in, and like I said before, the

764
00:41:52.000 --> 00:41:56.280
<v Speaker 4>power that creates worlds gets things done. You're not suddenly

765
00:41:56.320 --> 00:41:59.760
<v Speaker 4>going to be late. My guess is in a short

766
00:41:59.760 --> 00:42:03.559
<v Speaker 4>amount of time you will find that you have a

767
00:42:03.599 --> 00:42:08.960
<v Speaker 4>lot more time and things get done. That's easier much questioning. Well,

768
00:42:09.000 --> 00:42:11.320
<v Speaker 4>you won't know because you don't need to be shown

769
00:42:11.360 --> 00:42:15.199
<v Speaker 4>this all the time, so your reality starts to shift

770
00:42:15.199 --> 00:42:15.760
<v Speaker 4>in front of you.

771
00:42:16.960 --> 00:42:20.039
<v Speaker 1>What you said to use this form every time you

772
00:42:20.119 --> 00:42:24.679
<v Speaker 1>have an emotional reaction sounds like I need to dive

773
00:42:24.760 --> 00:42:27.280
<v Speaker 1>deeper into this because the emotional reaction I'm getting by

774
00:42:27.320 --> 00:42:31.320
<v Speaker 1>the thought of what you just said is very strong,

775
00:42:31.599 --> 00:42:35.639
<v Speaker 1>like it makes me very scared. I guess I would

776
00:42:35.639 --> 00:42:37.760
<v Speaker 1>then use the form to dive deeper into that. You could.

777
00:42:38.360 --> 00:42:41.440
<v Speaker 4>You could say, Okay, today's event is when Christy said

778
00:42:41.440 --> 00:42:44.800
<v Speaker 4>all those words, I started freaking out. Here were the

779
00:42:44.800 --> 00:42:47.440
<v Speaker 4>thoughts I was having. Here is the emotion that I felt.

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00:42:47.639 --> 00:42:49.920
<v Speaker 4>You can use the thoughts a lot to help you

781
00:42:49.960 --> 00:42:54.760
<v Speaker 4>identify the belief. I was angry because I was going

782
00:42:54.760 --> 00:42:56.559
<v Speaker 4>to be like getting back to the house. Then you

783
00:42:56.599 --> 00:42:59.400
<v Speaker 4>say why Sometimes that will lead you to what you're

784
00:42:59.440 --> 00:43:02.440
<v Speaker 4>limiting beliefizz Because if I don't get back the house,

785
00:43:02.440 --> 00:43:04.559
<v Speaker 4>I'm going to let everyone down and we're going to

786
00:43:04.599 --> 00:43:07.440
<v Speaker 4>lose our business. I'm gonna be homeless alone. Right So,

787
00:43:08.719 --> 00:43:11.039
<v Speaker 4>just because you had an emotional reaction to this, that's great.

788
00:43:12.599 --> 00:43:14.880
<v Speaker 1>You had a reaction. So now you.

789
00:43:14.840 --> 00:43:17.920
<v Speaker 4>Can write about that tonight, about the fear of the

790
00:43:17.960 --> 00:43:21.800
<v Speaker 4>negative emotion to whatever it was brought up and said,

791
00:43:21.800 --> 00:43:24.199
<v Speaker 4>if you get stuck, you can reach out.

792
00:43:24.280 --> 00:43:26.440
<v Speaker 1>I'll help you through it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's easier to do the little ones. First, I got

794
00:43:29.800 --> 00:43:33.440
<v Speaker 2>yelled at by a car driven by emotional This just

795
00:43:33.440 --> 00:43:36.920
<v Speaker 2>happened to me. This guy screamed at me driving by,

796
00:43:37.440 --> 00:43:40.440
<v Speaker 2>and I had no idea why. I just instantly felt

797
00:43:40.440 --> 00:43:44.079
<v Speaker 2>this surge of rage. I'm going to follow him. It

798
00:43:44.119 --> 00:43:47.280
<v Speaker 2>goes real quick, you know. But once I get back

799
00:43:47.320 --> 00:43:50.599
<v Speaker 2>to calm, I can entertain the thoughts. What was possibly

800
00:43:50.639 --> 00:43:52.119
<v Speaker 2>going on? Did I pull out in front of them?

801
00:43:52.159 --> 00:43:54.400
<v Speaker 2>Then I realized, oh, I'm in a Tesla and he's

802
00:43:54.440 --> 00:43:56.920
<v Speaker 2>mad at tesla's That was the only reason. It had

803
00:43:56.920 --> 00:43:59.400
<v Speaker 2>nothing to do with me. It was the car I

804
00:43:59.480 --> 00:44:03.480
<v Speaker 2>was in. The ones I realized that. I said, okay, well,

805
00:44:03.519 --> 00:44:06.440
<v Speaker 2>why was I so upset about someone I didn't know

806
00:44:07.440 --> 00:44:09.280
<v Speaker 2>yelling at me for something I didn't know. I did

807
00:44:09.280 --> 00:44:10.239
<v Speaker 2>you know? So I had to go and do a

808
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<v Speaker 2>mass station of form on that and find that limiting belief.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotcha? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Would we say fifteen minutes a day? Eventually you're going

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<v Speaker 4>to love doing this so much. And they can bring

812
00:44:21.000 --> 00:44:22.719
<v Speaker 4>up a lot of pain, but I loved. I carried

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<v Speaker 4>the damn thing with me everywhere in my notebook. Every

814
00:44:25.920 --> 00:44:28.199
<v Speaker 4>time something happened, I stopped. I don't care where I'm

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00:44:28.239 --> 00:44:30.480
<v Speaker 4>supposed to be. This is my work. This is what's important.

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00:44:30.480 --> 00:44:34.920
<v Speaker 4>When these limitations are softened, I'm unstoppable and I knew that.

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00:44:35.199 --> 00:44:37.519
<v Speaker 4>Our assignment for you, should you choose to accept it,

818
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<v Speaker 4>is that at the end of the day, you take

819
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<v Speaker 4>fifteen or so minutes, look back at your day, find

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00:44:43.719 --> 00:44:49.079
<v Speaker 4>something that either made you excited, happy, joyful, or angry, frustrated,

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00:44:49.760 --> 00:44:51.840
<v Speaker 4>anything like that. And if you have trouble and you

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00:44:51.840 --> 00:44:53.480
<v Speaker 4>get stuck, you can reach out to us and we'll.

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00:44:53.320 --> 00:44:56.880
<v Speaker 1>Help you through it. So, when you say good or bad,

824
00:44:57.000 --> 00:44:59.119
<v Speaker 1>how does this help on the goods? We just went

825
00:44:59.119 --> 00:45:01.239
<v Speaker 1>down the bad rabbit hole? How does his work on

826
00:45:01.280 --> 00:45:02.360
<v Speaker 1>the good side of things?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, when do you realize that you're happy or excited

828
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<v Speaker 2>something interesting. That emotion is showing you that you have

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<v Speaker 2>an empowering belief. So, just like the limiting beliefs that

830
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<v Speaker 2>are bringing you reflections of those limiting beliefs, those negative

831
00:45:17.800 --> 00:45:22.719
<v Speaker 2>those situations, situations also are occurring because you have a

832
00:45:22.800 --> 00:45:29.880
<v Speaker 2>vibration of these empowering ideas about yourself going on. So

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<v Speaker 2>you get ten new subscribers, they go, oh, what a

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<v Speaker 2>great day. This was, right, and that ten subscriber is

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00:45:38.679 --> 00:45:41.000
<v Speaker 2>a reflection of a belief inside yourself that what you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing is relevant and worthwhile. Then you say, okay, what's

837
00:45:44.320 --> 00:45:47.119
<v Speaker 2>the belief there. The belief is that this thing is

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<v Speaker 2>doing some good in the world. And then you ramp

839
00:45:50.159 --> 00:45:52.840
<v Speaker 2>up that belief. You prove that it's true. You write

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00:45:53.360 --> 00:45:56.079
<v Speaker 2>five or six examples of other times in your life

841
00:45:56.119 --> 00:46:01.480
<v Speaker 2>when that belief generated wonderful things. It brings that belief

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<v Speaker 2>to the forefront. The reason it's happening is you have

843
00:46:04.000 --> 00:46:08.480
<v Speaker 2>that belief right. As that belief intensifies, more of this

844
00:46:08.519 --> 00:46:11.800
<v Speaker 2>stuff happens as well. There's more to be grateful for,

845
00:46:11.960 --> 00:46:15.760
<v Speaker 2>more to appreciate. You start moving that mental construct. You

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<v Speaker 2>see what's always been there, how wonderful everything is, and

847
00:46:20.199 --> 00:46:23.000
<v Speaker 2>more stuff keeps coming, more stuff keeps coming. You're in

848
00:46:23.119 --> 00:46:28.320
<v Speaker 2>less fear, so you're acting on more offers and inspiration

849
00:46:28.519 --> 00:46:33.320
<v Speaker 2>and invitations and ideas, and people start relating to you

850
00:46:33.400 --> 00:46:38.119
<v Speaker 2>completely differently. You're just so much more fun to be with,

851
00:46:38.239 --> 00:46:43.239
<v Speaker 2>and you have so much more time. You'll be amazed

852
00:46:43.239 --> 00:46:46.320
<v Speaker 2>at how much time you have. Everything you do will

853
00:46:46.320 --> 00:46:49.079
<v Speaker 2>be done quickly and effectively when you're in this flow

854
00:46:49.119 --> 00:46:52.519
<v Speaker 2>state of doing what you're interested in doing. The reason

855
00:46:52.559 --> 00:46:57.280
<v Speaker 2>that you're manually doing all this labor is because you

856
00:46:57.280 --> 00:47:02.840
<v Speaker 2>have a perspective of yourself that likes that you're sacrificing

857
00:47:03.039 --> 00:47:07.840
<v Speaker 2>time these people's needs so that in your mind you

858
00:47:07.880 --> 00:47:10.719
<v Speaker 2>can believe that they think that you're a good guy.

859
00:47:10.760 --> 00:47:12.760
<v Speaker 2>If you didn't have to do that, you would have

860
00:47:12.840 --> 00:47:16.280
<v Speaker 2>had someone take care of this other than you. You

861
00:47:16.280 --> 00:47:18.960
<v Speaker 2>would have outsourced it or set up automation. But you

862
00:47:19.159 --> 00:47:23.559
<v Speaker 2>like it. Because of this belief, you do it. So

863
00:47:23.639 --> 00:47:26.400
<v Speaker 2>imagine you didn't have these things going on here, you

864
00:47:26.400 --> 00:47:28.599
<v Speaker 2>would act on the inspiration because you've had the inspiration

865
00:47:28.719 --> 00:47:32.559
<v Speaker 2>to go on up work and have someone do it.

866
00:47:32.920 --> 00:47:38.960
<v Speaker 2>But because you are generating this feeling of being reliable,

867
00:47:39.639 --> 00:47:41.960
<v Speaker 2>that the fear goes. Oh what if they screw it up,

868
00:47:42.360 --> 00:47:47.480
<v Speaker 2>then I'm outsourcing my greatest fear to someone else. And

869
00:47:47.480 --> 00:47:49.559
<v Speaker 2>this is why people don't delegate, because all of this

870
00:47:49.599 --> 00:47:51.400
<v Speaker 2>stuff very interesting.

871
00:47:52.719 --> 00:47:56.119
<v Speaker 4>Sorry, We've watched so many people go through this work,

872
00:47:56.239 --> 00:47:58.719
<v Speaker 4>and it's always the same. If people handle it differently,

873
00:47:58.760 --> 00:48:01.519
<v Speaker 4>like Karen's very quiet, right, they handle it differently. This

874
00:48:01.760 --> 00:48:05.960
<v Speaker 4>freaks you out at first because you think I cannot

875
00:48:06.360 --> 00:48:09.559
<v Speaker 4>lose this belief. It's keeping me alive. I just want

876
00:48:09.599 --> 00:48:11.840
<v Speaker 4>to tell you, think about how funny that is. Your

877
00:48:11.880 --> 00:48:16.320
<v Speaker 4>beliefs about yourself and your reality are not true. They're

878
00:48:16.400 --> 00:48:19.280
<v Speaker 4>just what you believe, and they empower us and limit

879
00:48:19.360 --> 00:48:23.440
<v Speaker 4>us in so many ways. You start playing with it

880
00:48:23.519 --> 00:48:27.800
<v Speaker 4>and letting them fall away, believing that hard work is

881
00:48:27.840 --> 00:48:30.199
<v Speaker 4>good for you, Believing that whatever you know, whatever it is,

882
00:48:30.440 --> 00:48:32.719
<v Speaker 4>you're not going to change what you enjoy doing.

883
00:48:32.800 --> 00:48:33.679
<v Speaker 1>Is it going to change?

884
00:48:33.800 --> 00:48:37.079
<v Speaker 4>I haven't decided now that suddenly I'm late for everything.

885
00:48:37.239 --> 00:48:40.880
<v Speaker 4>I just don't freak out. I'm never late, am I man?

886
00:48:40.880 --> 00:48:43.679
<v Speaker 4>I'm still never late. It just doesn't happen, in fact,

887
00:48:44.119 --> 00:48:46.840
<v Speaker 4>but I don't worry about it. If something happens, I trust,

888
00:48:46.840 --> 00:48:49.280
<v Speaker 4>I go well, wow, okay, I can feel that, But

889
00:48:49.480 --> 00:48:51.760
<v Speaker 4>that's fine, Everything's going to be fine and always is.

890
00:48:52.239 --> 00:48:55.880
<v Speaker 4>So oh, I'm so glad you were late, Christy, I've overslept.

891
00:48:55.920 --> 00:48:56.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, good.

892
00:48:57.119 --> 00:48:58.679
<v Speaker 1>You know what the messed up thing about all of

893
00:48:58.719 --> 00:49:01.559
<v Speaker 1>it is picked the flat tire because it was gonna

894
00:49:01.559 --> 00:49:08.840
<v Speaker 1>be safe. And now I am you. I am fucked up,

895
00:49:08.920 --> 00:49:09.840
<v Speaker 1>Like my head is like.

896
00:49:10.039 --> 00:49:12.840
<v Speaker 3>It just reminded me of a conversation we had. You

897
00:49:12.840 --> 00:49:15.880
<v Speaker 3>were super stressed about work, and you like it was

898
00:49:15.920 --> 00:49:17.559
<v Speaker 3>like that little barb that you threw at me, and

899
00:49:17.599 --> 00:49:19.920
<v Speaker 3>you're like, well, I can't just walk away from work

900
00:49:19.920 --> 00:49:23.480
<v Speaker 3>as easy as you can, ah, because you're a better person.

901
00:49:23.280 --> 00:49:25.000
<v Speaker 1>And neither confirm or denying and care.

902
00:49:25.039 --> 00:49:27.599
<v Speaker 2>And how did that feel? You know that was your

903
00:49:27.639 --> 00:49:30.000
<v Speaker 2>maniftation of it? Right, it did not feel good.

904
00:49:30.639 --> 00:49:33.599
<v Speaker 4>Now A certainly he's calling you, like what you mean?

905
00:49:33.639 --> 00:49:36.000
<v Speaker 4>I don't care, I'm irresponsible. Is it important to me

906
00:49:36.079 --> 00:49:38.679
<v Speaker 4>to work hard? That's important to me? You know you're right.

907
00:49:38.840 --> 00:49:41.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't need this shit. I stay with it, buddy,

908
00:49:42.320 --> 00:49:42.880
<v Speaker 1>take a break.

909
00:49:43.360 --> 00:49:44.119
<v Speaker 2>You're the provider.

910
00:49:45.159 --> 00:49:45.719
<v Speaker 1>It's funny.

911
00:49:45.760 --> 00:49:49.519
<v Speaker 4>What's important to your identity? Listen, I've had years to

912
00:49:49.559 --> 00:49:52.639
<v Speaker 4>go through this. We're laughing and I'm telling him here

913
00:49:52.639 --> 00:49:55.159
<v Speaker 4>to tell you it's gonna be okay, but you're gonna

914
00:49:55.199 --> 00:49:58.119
<v Speaker 4>have moments like this where you're hyperventilating. If I don't

915
00:49:58.360 --> 00:50:01.440
<v Speaker 4>care anymore, I'm gonna be apathy. If I'm neutral life,

916
00:50:01.440 --> 00:50:04.960
<v Speaker 4>it's going to be boring. If I don't worry about

917
00:50:05.000 --> 00:50:07.320
<v Speaker 4>what people think of me, I'm gonna get fat and

918
00:50:07.400 --> 00:50:10.159
<v Speaker 4>sloppy and right, all these things are going to happen

919
00:50:10.559 --> 00:50:13.000
<v Speaker 4>if I let go of these things. I believe that

920
00:50:13.199 --> 00:50:15.239
<v Speaker 4>why people like me, why they love me, why they

921
00:50:15.280 --> 00:50:16.400
<v Speaker 4>want to be with me, why do I have a

922
00:50:16.400 --> 00:50:17.039
<v Speaker 4>beautiful home?

923
00:50:17.079 --> 00:50:17.360
<v Speaker 2>Why?

924
00:50:17.760 --> 00:50:21.039
<v Speaker 4>Because I'm all of these things, And it's none of that.

925
00:50:21.639 --> 00:50:25.440
<v Speaker 4>It's a reflection of how I feel about myself, and

926
00:50:25.679 --> 00:50:28.599
<v Speaker 4>those beliefs are not helping me feel anything. In fact,

927
00:50:29.039 --> 00:50:31.639
<v Speaker 4>you're having a conversation with your wife about being stressed

928
00:50:31.639 --> 00:50:32.320
<v Speaker 4>out about work.

929
00:50:32.400 --> 00:50:36.079
<v Speaker 1>Right, do you have any idea? We don't have that

930
00:50:36.199 --> 00:50:39.840
<v Speaker 1>kind of conversation. But you're super stressed about work.

931
00:50:39.920 --> 00:50:42.440
<v Speaker 4>Let me help you, No, because we have done all

932
00:50:42.440 --> 00:50:46.079
<v Speaker 4>this work, Work still happens, things still go on, but

933
00:50:46.119 --> 00:50:47.280
<v Speaker 4>nobody's stressed.

934
00:50:46.920 --> 00:50:50.519
<v Speaker 1>About it anymore. That's all you want. And this is

935
00:50:50.639 --> 00:50:55.519
<v Speaker 1>like deceivingly simple, like it's fucked up, like it's beautiful.

936
00:50:56.039 --> 00:51:01.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it is an absolutely beautiful way on live and

937
00:51:01.360 --> 00:51:01.880
<v Speaker 4>it's the thing.

938
00:51:01.920 --> 00:51:04.880
<v Speaker 1>It's like I want everyone to know, but it's something

939
00:51:04.880 --> 00:51:07.840
<v Speaker 1>that you can't just explain, right, You've got to walk

940
00:51:07.920 --> 00:51:09.840
<v Speaker 1>them through it in order for them to find that.

941
00:51:09.880 --> 00:51:12.199
<v Speaker 1>You have to make the connection yourself. When it clicked,

942
00:51:13.360 --> 00:51:16.880
<v Speaker 1>hit me like a frecking mac truck. Had we not

943
00:51:17.079 --> 00:51:19.599
<v Speaker 1>been on camera, I would have been a puddle on

944
00:51:19.599 --> 00:51:22.039
<v Speaker 1>the floor somewhere. I mean, it was that impactful to me.

945
00:51:23.199 --> 00:51:25.880
<v Speaker 1>And it's crazy to me to say that because I

946
00:51:25.960 --> 00:51:27.920
<v Speaker 1>worked really hard for the past four years and I've

947
00:51:27.960 --> 00:51:29.280
<v Speaker 1>done nothing.

948
00:51:29.480 --> 00:51:33.519
<v Speaker 4>You haven't got yourself ready to hear this, right, everything

949
00:51:33.559 --> 00:51:37.079
<v Speaker 4>you've done has been important to lead you to this moment,

950
00:51:37.239 --> 00:51:39.239
<v Speaker 4>and this moment is just going to lead you to

951
00:51:39.280 --> 00:51:42.599
<v Speaker 4>the next one. You've done so much work because if

952
00:51:42.639 --> 00:51:44.639
<v Speaker 4>I had said these words to you two years ago

953
00:51:44.760 --> 00:51:46.880
<v Speaker 4>or three years ago, your vibration would have been so

954
00:51:47.320 --> 00:51:49.119
<v Speaker 4>down here that you could have even heard the words.

955
00:51:49.199 --> 00:51:50.320
<v Speaker 1>So it's really beautiful.

956
00:51:50.400 --> 00:51:53.199
<v Speaker 4>That's why we do these classes that we do. I mean,

957
00:51:53.360 --> 00:51:56.320
<v Speaker 4>these are things that we teach that Gary taught to

958
00:51:56.360 --> 00:52:02.239
<v Speaker 4>me over eight times of doing an eight week intensive course,

959
00:52:03.000 --> 00:52:05.320
<v Speaker 4>and we have five or six other courses that we've

960
00:52:05.360 --> 00:52:09.760
<v Speaker 4>developed together to take people through this approach the way

961
00:52:09.800 --> 00:52:14.599
<v Speaker 4>to live life. It's not fifteen minutes on a podcast.

962
00:52:14.719 --> 00:52:15.880
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot of learning.

963
00:52:15.920 --> 00:52:19.239
<v Speaker 4>But it is so fantastic and that's the community that

964
00:52:19.280 --> 00:52:22.199
<v Speaker 4>we have people that are doing this work and helping

965
00:52:22.199 --> 00:52:25.639
<v Speaker 4>each other do it. It's so much fun. But sometimes

966
00:52:25.639 --> 00:52:27.079
<v Speaker 4>at the beginning it feels a little intense.

967
00:52:29.239 --> 00:52:32.079
<v Speaker 1>All right, here we go my work, here's done. A

968
00:52:32.159 --> 00:52:35.199
<v Speaker 1>freak come out, and now I can do Like I

969
00:52:35.199 --> 00:52:37.599
<v Speaker 1>said another podcast, if this mic wasn't on an arm,

970
00:52:37.599 --> 00:52:39.960
<v Speaker 1>I would drop it. That's incredible how that worked to do.

971
00:52:40.119 --> 00:52:42.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, I think this is going to be a

972
00:52:42.119 --> 00:52:45.199
<v Speaker 2>great episode. People are going to love this, oh yeah,

973
00:52:45.800 --> 00:52:48.760
<v Speaker 2>and so they're going to be directed to new Reality

974
00:52:48.800 --> 00:52:52.440
<v Speaker 2>TV where I just uploaded a whole bunch of shorts

975
00:52:53.800 --> 00:52:56.039
<v Speaker 2>because you were talking about you have shorts in there,

976
00:52:56.079 --> 00:52:59.760
<v Speaker 2>so we got Josho shorts on nice awesome.

977
00:53:00.079 --> 00:53:01.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, don't hesitate to reach out to me.

978
00:53:02.400 --> 00:53:04.280
<v Speaker 4>If you don't reach out to me, I'm probably going

979
00:53:04.280 --> 00:53:05.960
<v Speaker 4>to assume you're not doing it, and I'm not going

980
00:53:06.000 --> 00:53:07.719
<v Speaker 4>to love and respect you because that will mean you

981
00:53:07.760 --> 00:53:08.559
<v Speaker 4>don't have a good work.

982
00:53:08.599 --> 00:53:09.639
<v Speaker 2>That is so unfair.

983
00:53:10.199 --> 00:53:13.039
<v Speaker 1>That mean yeah, I'm a little mean. You know, you're

984
00:53:13.039 --> 00:53:14.760
<v Speaker 1>not supposed to take advantage of someone wanted down.

985
00:53:16.519 --> 00:53:19.559
<v Speaker 4>When else can I take advantage of someone most impactful?

986
00:53:19.639 --> 00:53:21.679
<v Speaker 1>So I see what your plan is. You find the

987
00:53:21.719 --> 00:53:24.280
<v Speaker 1>biggest weakness and you prey on it. Uh huh oh,

988
00:53:24.320 --> 00:53:24.880
<v Speaker 1>I get it.

989
00:53:25.679 --> 00:53:26.440
<v Speaker 2>You found it.

990
00:53:27.199 --> 00:53:27.639
<v Speaker 1>Good point.

991
00:53:29.719 --> 00:53:32.639
<v Speaker 2>It's not a weakness, it's just to believe that isn't true.

992
00:53:33.039 --> 00:53:36.239
<v Speaker 1>Now, it's a false construct that I've gone my entire

993
00:53:36.320 --> 00:53:38.800
<v Speaker 1>life believing, especially in the last few years.

994
00:53:39.119 --> 00:53:41.639
<v Speaker 3>And we ended up sitting in the car for two

995
00:53:41.679 --> 00:53:43.480
<v Speaker 3>hours waiting for the tire guy and then he blew

996
00:53:43.480 --> 00:53:44.360
<v Speaker 3>off work for the rest of the day.

997
00:53:44.360 --> 00:53:45.199
<v Speaker 1>We had a good time.

998
00:53:46.000 --> 00:53:48.800
<v Speaker 4>There you go, because you're like, okay, and that's was

999
00:53:48.880 --> 00:53:50.559
<v Speaker 4>part of that event probably.

1000
00:53:50.400 --> 00:53:52.039
<v Speaker 2>And nothing actually happened.

1001
00:53:52.599 --> 00:53:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Actually one person got a little panky, but well really,

1002
00:53:56.079 --> 00:54:00.559
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's fine, no, great, okay, all right, we'll

1003
00:54:00.559 --> 00:54:08.079
<v Speaker 1>go get to work. You two. Thanks thanks for playing. Thanks, Okay,

1004
00:54:08.320 --> 00:54:11.159
<v Speaker 1>deep breath. Right if your brain feels like it just

1005
00:54:11.199 --> 00:54:14.880
<v Speaker 1>went through a metaphysical car washed, but we totally get it.

1006
00:54:15.239 --> 00:54:19.239
<v Speaker 1>That is exactly how we felt after recording this. Now

1007
00:54:19.239 --> 00:54:22.400
<v Speaker 1>here's what we promised you. The exciting news we have

1008
00:54:22.519 --> 00:54:26.320
<v Speaker 1>officially partnered with Gary and Christy to bring you the

1009
00:54:26.440 --> 00:54:30.679
<v Speaker 1>very sane transformational course that they mentioned in the episode.

1010
00:54:30.800 --> 00:54:34.280
<v Speaker 1>It's called Foundations, and the best part is we're going

1011
00:54:34.360 --> 00:54:37.480
<v Speaker 1>to go through it right alongside you. We found it

1012
00:54:37.599 --> 00:54:40.360
<v Speaker 1>so amazing that we wanted to do a deeper dive

1013
00:54:40.400 --> 00:54:44.119
<v Speaker 1>on it, so they graciously offered to provide this program

1014
00:54:44.440 --> 00:54:49.360
<v Speaker 1>to us, along with our listeners, our audience, so that

1015
00:54:49.440 --> 00:54:52.320
<v Speaker 1>we can go through it together. That's kind of exciting

1016
00:54:52.360 --> 00:54:55.400
<v Speaker 1>to me. Now, this four week journey, it's actually a

1017
00:54:55.440 --> 00:54:59.119
<v Speaker 1>twenty eight day journey, is designed to help you raise

1018
00:54:59.119 --> 00:55:03.079
<v Speaker 1>your vibration, identify and dissolve those limiting beliefs that are

1019
00:55:03.079 --> 00:55:07.719
<v Speaker 1>holding you back, and finally align fully with your true power,

1020
00:55:08.000 --> 00:55:12.239
<v Speaker 1>joy and freedom. Now, if you decide to sign up,

1021
00:55:12.440 --> 00:55:14.639
<v Speaker 1>not only will you go through the program with Karen

1022
00:55:14.679 --> 00:55:17.519
<v Speaker 1>and I, but you can either get ten percent off

1023
00:55:17.519 --> 00:55:20.119
<v Speaker 1>the course for being an audience member of these skeptic

1024
00:55:20.199 --> 00:55:24.480
<v Speaker 1>meant physicians, or something even more exciting still, Gary and

1025
00:55:24.559 --> 00:55:28.880
<v Speaker 1>Christy have graciously offered to give us a bring a

1026
00:55:28.920 --> 00:55:32.360
<v Speaker 1>friend for free bonus to you. Yes, really, you can

1027
00:55:32.400 --> 00:55:35.039
<v Speaker 1>bring a friend to do the program with you for

1028
00:55:35.079 --> 00:55:38.360
<v Speaker 1>free if you want that. You also have access to

1029
00:55:38.400 --> 00:55:41.519
<v Speaker 1>Christy's live weekly group coaching where you'll see Karen and

1030
00:55:41.599 --> 00:55:45.320
<v Speaker 1>I and you'll have direct support from Gary and Christy

1031
00:55:45.679 --> 00:55:49.360
<v Speaker 1>every step of the way. If you ever felt the

1032
00:55:49.400 --> 00:55:52.039
<v Speaker 1>call to finally break free from fear based living and

1033
00:55:52.079 --> 00:55:56.039
<v Speaker 1>step into your purpose with clarity and confidence, this is

1034
00:55:56.360 --> 00:55:59.400
<v Speaker 1>it now. To sign up or book your discovery call,

1035
00:55:59.519 --> 00:56:01.119
<v Speaker 1>just head over the show notes and you'll see a

1036
00:56:01.159 --> 00:56:03.119
<v Speaker 1>link for each of them. You can either go ahead

1037
00:56:03.119 --> 00:56:05.480
<v Speaker 1>and sign up right now if you're already convinced you

1038
00:56:05.559 --> 00:56:09.239
<v Speaker 1>want to do it, or book your discovery call with Christy.

1039
00:56:09.559 --> 00:56:11.559
<v Speaker 1>There's a link to her calendar in a show notes

1040
00:56:11.599 --> 00:56:13.480
<v Speaker 1>as well. She'll tell you all about the program. If

1041
00:56:13.480 --> 00:56:15.559
<v Speaker 1>you're not convinced, she'll talk to you about the program,

1042
00:56:15.559 --> 00:56:18.159
<v Speaker 1>what it's like. We've had a sneak preview into it,

1043
00:56:18.239 --> 00:56:21.079
<v Speaker 1>and man, we excited to go through this.

1044
00:56:21.519 --> 00:56:21.719
<v Speaker 2>Now.

1045
00:56:22.159 --> 00:56:26.199
<v Speaker 1>Remember this is not just a course, it is truly

1046
00:56:26.360 --> 00:56:29.079
<v Speaker 1>a transformation. So if you're coming on board on this,

1047
00:56:29.920 --> 00:56:34.760
<v Speaker 1>get ready to transform. Let you and I and Karen

1048
00:56:35.000 --> 00:56:38.079
<v Speaker 1>and all of us let's rise together. Go to our

1049
00:56:38.079 --> 00:56:40.840
<v Speaker 1>show notes, check out those links. I look forward to

1050
00:56:40.920 --> 00:56:43.199
<v Speaker 1>seeing you on those weekly calls.

1051
00:56:43.199 --> 00:56:43.559
<v Speaker 2>See that