Speaker 1: Hey there, friends. Before we dive into today's episode, I
Speaker 1: need to let you in on something a little different
Speaker 1: that you're about to hear. Part two of an incredible
Speaker 1: conversation that we had not on our show, but as
Speaker 1: guests on An Unimaginable Life, a show with Gary Tumblebodley
Speaker 1: and Christy Levy. If you've been following the Skeptic of Physicians,
Speaker 1: then you already know that we're all about expanding consciousness,
Speaker 1: exploring spiritual growth, and sometimes laughing our way through existential breakdowns.
Speaker 1: Well this one, this conversation hit us hard in the
Speaker 1: very best way possible. In this episode, Gary did and
Speaker 1: Christy walk us through a process that's so powerful it
Speaker 1: left us shook, like actual Mike drop brain rewired kind
Speaker 1: of shook. And we're talking about tools that helped us
Speaker 1: uncover limiting beliefs that we didn't even know we had
Speaker 1: and how to transmute them on the spot. Plus we
Speaker 1: learned how this one seemingly simple tool could literally rewire
Speaker 1: your relationship with fear, inspiration, and joy. But here's the
Speaker 1: big news. At the end of the episode, we're announcing
Speaker 1: something huge. We're officially partnering with Gary and Christy to
Speaker 1: launch a life changing new program, and we're inviting you
Speaker 1: to go through it with us. That's right, This isn't
Speaker 1: just something we're promoting. We're actually doing the program alongside you.
Speaker 1: So stay tuned all the way to the end to
Speaker 1: hear how you can join us in this powerful journey,
Speaker 1: because trust us, this is one you don't want to miss.
Speaker 1: I am so excited for this. This might be the
Speaker 1: finally the breakthrough that I've been looking for. All right,
Speaker 1: enough teasing, let's dive into the episode.
Speaker 2: Welcome Back.
Speaker 1: We took a hiatus.
Speaker 2: Are you guys working the same clothes?
Speaker 1: Absolutely not neither. He scared me. He said, aren't you
Speaker 1: wearing the same thing? Said no, he said, we all
Speaker 1: are I swill the same thing?
Speaker 3: Are we supposed to wear the same clothes?
Speaker 1: And He's like, I don't remember what I was wearing.
Speaker 2: I don't either.
Speaker 1: Still, you're ready to ask Gary, can we bring clothes?
Speaker 1: You know that we're not because I've had a little
Speaker 1: bit of a growth on my face from the last time.
Speaker 1: That goes really fast in a minute.
Speaker 2: Great, All right, let's start with the cliffhanger from last episode.
Speaker 1: I've lost sleep since that day that is not fair
Speaker 1: to have waited this long to make it cliffhanger. It
Speaker 1: would have done that to me, I would have been
Speaker 1: a wren.
Speaker 2: Well, it's something that you can do fifteen minutes every day,
Speaker 2: and if you do this one thing, I'll do more
Speaker 2: to change your perception of reality or your perspective than
Speaker 2: anything else you can do. We have a tool that
Speaker 2: was given to us. It was channeled called the manifestation
Speaker 2: Event form, and this form takes you through an event
Speaker 2: that just happened, called a manifestation event that caused you
Speaker 2: to feel some emotion. It could be either positive emotion
Speaker 2: or negative emotion. You can use it in either way.
Speaker 2: The idea is that this is a feeling reality. All
Speaker 2: we're ever doing is feeling something.
Speaker 1: Think about that for a second. When you think about it,
Speaker 1: you okay.
Speaker 2: When an event outside of you occurs and you have
Speaker 2: a reaction to it, either positive or negative, that event
Speaker 2: is occurring just to show you a belief. If the
Speaker 2: belief is empowering, then you can use this to increase
Speaker 2: the intensity of that belief to make it even more empowering.
Speaker 2: If a belief is limiting, if you feel negative emotion,
Speaker 2: then you can use this to soften that belief. We
Speaker 2: all have a mental construct, it's our view of reality,
Speaker 2: and that mental construct is a combination of all our
Speaker 2: empowering beliefs and all limiting beliefs, and the intensity of
Speaker 2: those beliefs that forms our perspective of ourselves in our reality,
Speaker 2: and that's translated into a vibration. We then admit that
Speaker 2: a vibration, and all the universe is doing is creating
Speaker 2: a reality that is a mirror to that vibration so
Speaker 2: that we can see what we're vibrating. So if something
Speaker 2: happens to cause you negative emotion, it's only because that's
Speaker 2: vibrating in you now, and the universe is just showing
Speaker 2: that to you. So you can feel the negative emotion
Speaker 2: and realize that the people involved and the circumstances occurred
Speaker 2: as a result of this limiting belief, this vibration of
Speaker 2: a limiting belief going on within me. If I can
Speaker 2: soften that limiting belief and soften that vibration, then I
Speaker 2: will experience more of what I truly want. Actually, we're
Speaker 2: expanding our belief system and seeing ourselves from higher perspectives
Speaker 2: so that when something happens, we are less triggered by it.
Speaker 2: Most of us live this roller coaster life. Something happens
Speaker 2: and we feel bad, something happens and we feel excited.
Speaker 2: We go up and down every single day of our
Speaker 2: lives without understanding it's all being generated from within. So
Speaker 2: this work that we've been doing for six years softens
Speaker 2: all of that. You become more present, more clear, You
Speaker 2: understand what's happening, and your focus is not tuned on
Speaker 2: what's happening outside of you, but it's tuned to what's
Speaker 2: going on inside. And that's when you receive inspiration, intuition.
Speaker 2: And within a short while, a large percentage of people
Speaker 2: who do this form we do it in one of
Speaker 2: our courses called the boot Camp. A lot of people
Speaker 2: who do this form their players come online. They started
Speaker 2: having these abilities. This is what happened to Christy in
Speaker 2: the course you can do It fifty six days in
Speaker 2: a row. She did the course eight times. So she
Speaker 2: did this over four hundred times, probably over six hundred
Speaker 2: times in her life. Now are and by that time
Speaker 2: time all of our abilities came online like full strength overnight.
Speaker 1: Fully realized, Yeah, can I pick which power I get?
Speaker 2: That the power that you get is the one you
Speaker 2: wouldn't want I would not want to be a channel.
Speaker 2: If I could have picked this stuff, I'd want to
Speaker 2: read minds or do something fun predict the future.
Speaker 4: I don't want to talk to dead people. I would
Speaker 4: never have wanted to talk to dead people.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: No, that's a fair point.
Speaker 4: So the manifestation met form, first of all, is just
Speaker 4: one of many forms we have. Then we use them
Speaker 4: in our courses to help all of us change that
Speaker 4: mental construct, open up our belief structure so that we
Speaker 4: are less triggered and our vibration goes up. It's like
Speaker 4: dump and sand out of a hot air balloon. Every
Speaker 4: time you soften a limiting belief, you go up a
Speaker 4: little bit or and work on an empowering belief. But
Speaker 4: something that you were saying at the end of the podcast,
Speaker 4: you guys were talking about and Will specifically, I asked
Speaker 4: why you wanted this to be successful, what that meant
Speaker 4: to you, and it was we only have four years
Speaker 4: to get this going, and in four years we want
Speaker 4: to be digital nomads living in Italy and we want
Speaker 4: to It's important to me. I need to be able
Speaker 4: to do what I love and support my family. Where
Speaker 4: I was going with that to help you understand the
Speaker 4: value in this manifestation of it form is what Gary
Speaker 4: opened with, which is this reality is a feeling reality.
Speaker 1: The only thing you're ever doing is feeling something.
Speaker 4: I'm going to start a little softly because my example
Speaker 4: takes people back really hard because when it hit me,
Speaker 4: I was where you are and learning this stuff, and
Speaker 4: I started to realize the only reason I want something,
Speaker 4: it's because I think I'm going to feel good when
Speaker 4: I get there. I want something because there's a feeling
Speaker 4: I lack. So if you were to be digital nomads
Speaker 4: living in Italy, new reality TV is successful, what are
Speaker 4: the feelings that you are after that? You think you
Speaker 4: would feel that you don't feel now freedom. So if
Speaker 4: I were to tell you that, of course you attract
Speaker 4: with your thought, with your focus. I think you guys
Speaker 4: are very much there with all the work you've been doing.
Speaker 4: But it's deeper than that, and it is your feeling
Speaker 4: essentially that will let you know what your point of
Speaker 4: attraction is. There is no way to become abundant when
Speaker 4: you feel lackful. There's no way to feel love when
Speaker 4: you feel alone or lonely. When you have that going on,
Speaker 4: you will not attract that next thing. So if you
Speaker 4: feel like you are not free, if you feel bound,
Speaker 4: if you feel tied to.
Speaker 1: What's a better word for that, imprisoned to an extent.
Speaker 4: I don't think they feel that way, right, But if
Speaker 4: you feel this, you've got a child and a home
Speaker 4: and you know these responsibilities.
Speaker 1: So you are not free.
Speaker 4: And if you see yourself in four years, if I
Speaker 4: can just make this happen, I will suddenly feel free.
Speaker 4: But what we have learned, what I believe and have
Speaker 4: over and over again, it's been shown to me doesn't
Speaker 4: work like that. You could get all of that, but
Speaker 4: you will feel more imprisoned than you do now. If
Speaker 4: you look back at your life, you think of the
Speaker 4: things that you when it wanted so much, and because
Speaker 4: you think it's going to give you a feeling, nothing
Speaker 4: outside of us can give us any feeling. We can
Speaker 4: for a moment think it does, but it doesn't. The
Speaker 4: feeling is inside because it's communication letting it know how
Speaker 4: we're looking at something. Getting that car feels great for
Speaker 4: a little while, but it doesn't change that feeling. And
Speaker 4: you believe you're missing reaching outside to be in that
Speaker 4: life because now I will feel free can't make you
Speaker 4: feel free. You will continue to feel how you feel
Speaker 4: no matter what's going on around you. But we still
Speaker 4: all seek conditions to change to make us feel something.
Speaker 4: With Gary's channeling and his books and the things that
Speaker 4: we've learned, is not from outside. The outside conditions can
Speaker 4: make you feel nothing. It comes from inside and your perspective.
Speaker 2: That's the great illusion. Out theay conditions make us feel something,
Speaker 2: but we're feeling something, and the outset conditions reflect that feeling.
Speaker 2: We'll take conditions reflect that belief.
Speaker 4: You think that made you happy. She makes me happy,
Speaker 4: He makes me happy. This house will make me happy.
Speaker 4: Having this paint down will make me happy. You can
Speaker 4: use it as an excuse to feel good for a bit,
Speaker 4: a very short time, and then it's always next, next, next.
Speaker 4: You are trying to create feeling inside of yourself by
Speaker 4: controlling outside conditions. This is not an outside in universe.
Speaker 4: You are not an outside in being. You are inside out.
Speaker 4: It has to change inside, including how you feel. How
Speaker 4: do we change your perspective on your current circumstances working
Speaker 4: nine hundred hours a day, raising a child, relationship that's
Speaker 4: wonderful and fun, but you're doing it together so there's
Speaker 4: a lot of stress in that, having to be everywhere
Speaker 4: all of the time, and really wanting to make something
Speaker 4: happen over here so that you don't have to do
Speaker 4: this anymore. R How do we take those conditions and
Speaker 4: change how you see them? You feel happy and free
Speaker 4: no matter what happens. So if you are homeless and alone,
Speaker 4: but you feel amazing and you are happy and you
Speaker 4: are free, what do you care when you realize the
Speaker 4: only thing you want is to feel something. You want
Speaker 4: to feel free, you want to feel abundant, you want
Speaker 4: to feel joy, You want to feel all of those things,
Speaker 4: and I don't right now, and I'm afraid if that happens,
Speaker 4: I'll feel bad. What Gary and I are going to
Speaker 4: give you is a tool to help you understand that
Speaker 4: when you do feel bad, you know exactly what to do.
Speaker 4: You will feel better, that will soften, and now you
Speaker 4: don't have to be afraid of anything that comes your
Speaker 4: way because you know what to do when it does.
Speaker 1: Does that make sense to you, guys? It makes perfect
Speaker 1: sense to me. It does.
Speaker 3: But here's my thought, and just so you focus on
Speaker 3: changing how you feel about it. Now, are you saying
Speaker 3: that the universe will supply you with what you need
Speaker 3: when you do that, or you're just happy with what
Speaker 3: you have, because theoretically, if someone just focuses on being
Speaker 3: happy with what they have and they end up homeless.
Speaker 1: Like we have a daughter, you know we need to
Speaker 1: take care of her and provide her a home. I
Speaker 1: could be happy living in a tent. I was the
Speaker 1: backpacker back in the day. But you know I got
Speaker 1: to take care of her too. Yeah. Right, this is
Speaker 1: like one oh one, do you want to speak to
Speaker 1: that or do you want me to?
Speaker 2: So imagine that you could feel free and abundant and
Speaker 2: satisfied and enjoy and curiosity, and your powers of focus
Speaker 2: and clarity would be really strong, intuition inspiration, we'd be strong,
Speaker 2: and the fear that you've been feeling your whole life
Speaker 2: is gone. If you could do that in the conditions
Speaker 2: that you have now, what would life be like.
Speaker 1: Great?
Speaker 2: So that's the proof right there that if you could
Speaker 2: feel all those things that you seeking to feel in
Speaker 2: four years, if you can do it right now, then
Speaker 2: the conditions wouldn't matter. That is the mind flip, a
Speaker 2: way of looking at things that takes practice. We're all
Speaker 2: brought up from the time. We're born with the opposite
Speaker 2: perspective that outside conditions are creating how I feel. To
Speaker 2: shift that focus from outside to inside, it takes a while,
Speaker 2: it's different for everyone, but once you get there, you
Speaker 2: realize that you have everything you've always wanted. And of
Speaker 2: course those conditions have to shift, because now how you
Speaker 2: feel shifts. Right, All the efforts struggle to change conditions,
Speaker 2: work hard, pay the bills, paint the house, buy a
Speaker 2: new house. Never it makes you feel anything. No one's
Speaker 2: ever satisfied. We have million of the stories of people
Speaker 2: who get these amazing things, are never satisfied right, always
Speaker 2: want more and more and more. Why because they can't
Speaker 2: do anything. But if you switch high, you feel if
Speaker 2: this was possible, then now you're generating a vibration that
Speaker 2: suddenly not only do you not get upset at anything,
Speaker 2: you have no fear of doing anything, but you're so
Speaker 2: much an appreciation awe of what's happening. And then what
Speaker 2: starts to happen is unimaginable. Now you can't plan for
Speaker 2: what's going to happen, right, because it's unimaginable from where
Speaker 2: you are now.
Speaker 4: In fact, you might not want it from where you
Speaker 4: are now. That's the interesting thing.
Speaker 2: Like I would not have wanted to be who I
Speaker 2: am now when I started this twelve years ago. From
Speaker 2: my perspective back then, this guy is so weird, right,
Speaker 2: and he's doing these weird things, and that was so
Speaker 2: uncomfortable for me back then. But of course you do
Speaker 2: small changes every day over twelve years you find this place. Now.
Speaker 2: I look back at who I was twelve years ago
Speaker 2: and I can't even recognize that person was so limited
Speaker 2: compared to the life I'm living now. The life I'm
Speaker 2: living now is so full and exciting and interesting and
Speaker 2: so much is happening that this guy twelve years ago
Speaker 2: was blind to and had no idea that existed or
Speaker 2: was even possible. It was a normalst life and it
Speaker 2: was a great life. But compared to this one, it
Speaker 2: was just so limiting and so much fear. It didn't
Speaker 2: feel good. Either doesn't.
Speaker 1: And you know.
Speaker 4: In a side note, Karen, you and I will talk
Speaker 4: about especially as you do these forms is I'd like
Speaker 4: to stay in touch with you.
Speaker 1: Guys.
Speaker 4: I really enjoy coaching. These forms are not easy. That's
Speaker 4: why we said you devote time to it. You devote
Speaker 4: fifteen minutes a day. They bring up things. It can
Speaker 4: be tough sometimes, So as I stay in touch with
Speaker 4: you guys, we'll talk about why it is important to
Speaker 4: you for your daughter to be happy. It has nothing
Speaker 4: to do with her. What it has to do with
Speaker 4: is if she's not, you'll feel bad if she is
Speaker 4: not on this planet anymore. It's not about her. It's
Speaker 4: about your fear that you will never be happy again.
Speaker 4: When I got that realization a few years ago, it
Speaker 4: dropped me because I thought I can't be that selfish,
Speaker 4: and I realized, wait, that is it. Everything is about
Speaker 4: how I think I might feel, how I believe I
Speaker 4: will feel if that happens, and if I got to
Speaker 4: control my conditions. I'm in fear all the time. But
Speaker 4: what we're going to show you is and to help
Speaker 4: you no matter what comes. It doesn't matter what it
Speaker 4: is you feel that pain, fears, sadness, overwhelming, whatever it is.
Speaker 4: You sit down with this thing and you work your
Speaker 4: way through it, and all of a sudden it lifts
Speaker 4: and you realize it doesn't matter what happens.
Speaker 1: I know what to do.
Speaker 4: What matters to me is this feeling of joy, freedom
Speaker 4: and connection and power, knowing who I am. When you
Speaker 4: have that, it doesn't matter what's going on around you,
Speaker 4: and that's what you want.
Speaker 2: That's what you want for your daughter too. This is
Speaker 2: the work that will change her life by you being
Speaker 2: an example seeing it.
Speaker 1: So I dig this a lot, and I'm really excited
Speaker 1: to dive into the form one question that comes to mind,
Speaker 1: and this might extend the podcast into a long one,
Speaker 1: So this may I make the final cut. In this movement,
Speaker 1: whatever you want to call it, new Age, whatever it
Speaker 1: is that's going on right now, a new faction is
Speaker 1: emerging that is vehemently fighting against what they call spiritual bypassing,
Speaker 1: where the think rainbows and unicorns all the time and
Speaker 1: good things will come right. We're trying to think positive
Speaker 1: at all times. Some people are saying that to do
Speaker 1: that is putting your head in the sand. And it
Speaker 1: feels like what you're talking about is a form of
Speaker 1: everything is rosy, doesn't matter what's happening, Everything's going to
Speaker 1: be perfectly fine. So how does that? Christie's shaking her
Speaker 1: head vehemently.
Speaker 4: No, okay, so correct me just thinking positively, everything's fine.
Speaker 4: But this is putting a happy face stick or over
Speaker 4: an empty gas take. You're not getting very far like that.
Speaker 4: I got stuck in that as well. I love being around.
Speaker 1: People like that.
Speaker 4: It's when you don't feel it in here and you
Speaker 4: are still operating from here to try to control your conditions. No,
Speaker 4: it's okay, it's fine, we'll just do this, everything will
Speaker 4: be okay. Right, that's what you're doing. You're not accepting
Speaker 4: what's coming and saying, ooh okay, that hurts. Damn, I'm
Speaker 4: flipping out. I'm in total despair right now. I just
Speaker 4: lost everything I've thought I ever wanted. This is falling apart.
Speaker 4: That's real and authentic. To deny that you feel that
Speaker 4: way is silly, right, But to understand what that's pointing out.
Speaker 4: All that's happening is that the universe is reflecting to
Speaker 4: you a self imposed limiting belief. It's pointing it out
Speaker 4: so that you can look at it. Soften that belief.
Speaker 4: You're going to automatically feel better. It's going to soften it,
Speaker 4: and this kind of experience becomes fewer and farther between because.
Speaker 1: You don't need it anymore.
Speaker 4: You never get rid of our limiting beliefs, because once
Speaker 4: you attract something, you always have it.
Speaker 1: But you can.
Speaker 4: Soften them to the point that their intensity is so
Speaker 4: mild that there's nothing that really triggers it anymore. And
Speaker 4: that's what we're doing here. So it is an anti
Speaker 4: positive thinking.
Speaker 1: It's just.
Speaker 4: You're ignoring that you have these self imposed limitations and
Speaker 4: still scurrying around trying to control all of your outside conditions.
Speaker 4: How Karen sees you, how will see you, how your
Speaker 4: daughter sees you, what the world thinks of you, what
Speaker 4: happens out here, you know, how quick you can get somewhere,
Speaker 4: which you look like. That's all of that stuff you're
Speaker 4: trying to control and you can't.
Speaker 1: So this is more like positive living than positive thinking.
Speaker 1: And that's the difference. It's not putting your head in
Speaker 1: the sands, actually changing behaviors in thought patterns, versus sticking
Speaker 1: lipstick on a pig and saying it's beautiful.
Speaker 4: It's going in and understanding because you don't know. You
Speaker 4: could not sit down and write for me all of
Speaker 4: your limiting beliefs and all of your empowering beliefs. You
Speaker 4: could come up with some, but you don't know. So
Speaker 4: we use these events and the universe uses them to
Speaker 4: point them out when it's time. Okay, now you can
Speaker 4: catch them at the thought level, and we'll go through
Speaker 4: this form. You can have a manifestation emit the thought.
Speaker 4: But that's all this happening, so you just don't ignore it.
Speaker 4: Go ahead, Gary.
Speaker 2: A limiting belief is limiting because it limits you from
Speaker 2: acting on inspiration. You get into a space, you receive
Speaker 2: the inspiration, and then all this fear pops up. The
Speaker 2: fear is driven by these beliefs that you're not aware of.
Speaker 2: Once you soften those beliefs, then the fear is not
Speaker 2: as intense and you're more likely to act on inspiration.
Speaker 2: This is called the flow state. If you ain't get
Speaker 2: in that flow state and push past the fear, the
Speaker 2: fear is going to come no matter what. By doing
Speaker 2: this work, you lower the intensity of that fear. If
Speaker 2: you're able to push past the fear and take the
Speaker 2: inspired action, then that belief is no longer limiting you.
Speaker 2: It's there, but it doesn't limit you anymore. For instance,
Speaker 2: let's imagine that you had the inspiration to join us
Speaker 2: at a retreat in Orlando August fourteenth to the nineteenth.
Speaker 2: It's thirteen hundred dollars and you'll be there with a
Speaker 2: bunch of like minded people, twenty five people in this
Speaker 2: mansion we rented in Orlando. You're actually asking me, imagine,
Speaker 2: why couldn't you come?
Speaker 1: Why couldn't we come Because we're coming back from Alaska
Speaker 1: on the thirteenth.
Speaker 3: Seeing I start school on the eighteenth.
Speaker 1: Right, okay, and money, and it's actually back to freedom
Speaker 1: because my work won't allow me take that much time
Speaker 1: because work a two weeks, go to Alaska and now
Speaker 1: it'll be another week to be you know, Landu.
Speaker 2: Right, what if that was inspiration that came to you
Speaker 2: and all these thoughts, now, okay't do that. Where I
Speaker 2: don't want to do that. What you're thinking is that
Speaker 2: if I did it, I'm going to feel negative emotion,
Speaker 2: so I want to protect myself from negative emotion. I'll
Speaker 2: feel bad that I spent the money, or that we
Speaker 2: put our daughter in school a couple of days later,
Speaker 2: or we had to show up late because we're getting
Speaker 2: back from Alaska, or it was irresponsible because I had
Speaker 2: work to do. Those are these fears. They don't feel
Speaker 2: like the same kind of fear we're used to. But
Speaker 2: all of that is just fear. You may not even
Speaker 2: re see that inspiration because your belief system knocks it
Speaker 2: out of the way. But even if you were cognitive
Speaker 2: of it, you probably wouldn't tell Caaren about it because
Speaker 2: she would say, what are you nuts? We got all
Speaker 2: the stuff to do right? Right?
Speaker 1: How well you know us?
Speaker 2: Well? I have this inspiration. Maybe we can just take
Speaker 2: one step? What's the next thing to do with This
Speaker 2: work allows you to do that allows you to at
Speaker 2: least hear it and think of the one thing that
Speaker 2: you could do. Imagine how less limited your life would
Speaker 2: be if you could allow yourself just to do the
Speaker 2: one step that's in front of you. Anytime you received
Speaker 2: inspiration and then got good at receiving more inspiration and
Speaker 2: good at acting and more inspiration than have intuition and
Speaker 2: psychic abilities, That's what this work does.
Speaker 1: What if you're inspired to go catch the Aurora borealis
Speaker 1: for six months out of the year, I would lose
Speaker 1: my job. You see, this not a bad thing.
Speaker 4: There's no wrong in the universe. That everything is right,
Speaker 4: which is the basis of everything. Gary and I teach
Speaker 4: that that's not a bad thing.
Speaker 2: Generally, inspiration there's two things, an urge and an inspiration.
Speaker 2: So the inspiration, there's always some little thing that you
Speaker 2: can do right now. You don't have to go all
Speaker 2: the way to six months, right and so maybe the
Speaker 2: inspiration is just to check out where it's going to
Speaker 2: be in six months, or how much flights cost to
Speaker 2: get there, and then you wait for the next inspiration.
Speaker 2: So you take this patient, calm approach to this one
Speaker 2: little tiny thing that you can do. You don't have
Speaker 2: to book the flights, you don't have to get the hotel,
Speaker 2: you don't have to take a leave of absent from work,
Speaker 2: you don't have to pull your din out of school.
Speaker 2: All you have to do is find out where it's happening,
Speaker 2: where's the best place to see it. And maybe the
Speaker 2: inspiration is not actually going for six months. Maybe it's
Speaker 2: just to have a conversation. Maybe the next podcast host
Speaker 2: we bring it up and they happened to have seen
Speaker 2: it and had done this exact same thing, and then
Speaker 2: sparks this great conversation that you had. So you never
Speaker 2: know where the inspiration is going to lead. But we
Speaker 2: tend to fill out the story in advance, and the
Speaker 2: idea is just the next moment, one moment to the
Speaker 2: next moment.
Speaker 1: Well, let's do this forum, or we're going to be
Speaker 1: on here all day.
Speaker 2: Should we have them think of a meifestation event that
Speaker 2: happened recently or do you want to make one up? Yeah?
Speaker 4: I think that would get is getting it a little
Speaker 4: deep if we have them actually do one unless you
Speaker 4: can think of us. If you guys, can think of
Speaker 4: one that happened in the last day or so that
Speaker 4: made you feel some negative emotion, but that isn't insanely personal.
Speaker 1: We might be able to go lightly through this. I
Speaker 1: can't think of anything that's not insanely personal, Like manifestingos
Speaker 1: hemorrhoids was really a bad thing. Now, let's go ahead
Speaker 1: and make one up and see.
Speaker 4: Okay, Gary, make one up. I coach people all the time.
Speaker 4: I've got a million.
Speaker 2: But it's really good. Want to do the flat tire
Speaker 2: on the way home and you're supposed to get all
Speaker 2: these new episodes downloaded into new reality TV?
Speaker 1: That would be a good one. Oa. It just happened
Speaker 1: like a week ago, did it?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did it?
Speaker 5: So?
Speaker 1: Thank you Christy because my right left tire got flat.
Speaker 1: That's what life with me is like. Can you just
Speaker 1: tell me good things from that one?
Speaker 4: The best thing to do with this form, you, guys,
Speaker 4: is a print of copy out and get notebooks that
Speaker 4: you just use for this. Keep one blank copy in
Speaker 4: the pocket of your notebook, and when you go to
Speaker 4: do these, you just have one spot and you write
Speaker 4: your format.
Speaker 2: The mafetation occurs anytime you feel negative emotion at some
Speaker 2: point in the day. Let's put your awareness towards anytime
Speaker 2: you feel negative or positive emotion. So it works either way,
Speaker 2: and you want to do an equal balance of both,
Speaker 2: because what we're doing is reducing the intensity of limiting
Speaker 2: beliefs and raising the intensity of empowering beliefs to make
Speaker 2: our mental construct move from mostly limited to more empowering.
Speaker 2: Think about a manifestation event you had today yesterday. I
Speaker 2: described the event below. Describe the event. So we were.
Speaker 1: Going to lunch on a workday. As we were pulling
Speaker 1: into the parking lot, I felt something strange happened with
Speaker 1: my tire and I felt Oh. When I got out
Speaker 1: of the car, I saw that my tire was on
Speaker 1: the ground.
Speaker 2: Describe the emotion you felt in your reaction to the event.
Speaker 1: I was frustrated, and it wasn't that bad of a
Speaker 1: reaction because how long it was going to take. That's true. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I was frustrated, but I knew we would fix
Speaker 1: it until we realized that we didn't have a fare
Speaker 1: or a fix a flat, so we had to call
Speaker 1: it to blaze.
Speaker 2: Okay, rate the intensity of that emotion one to ten,
Speaker 2: initially at probably four grape. And then is the emotion
Speaker 2: positive or negative? It's negative? Now, what were the initial
Speaker 2: thoughts you received due to the emotions you were so
Speaker 2: you felt negative emotion? What were the thoughts? And you
Speaker 2: describe a couple thoughts there?
Speaker 1: Inconvenient? Why is it inconvenient? Because now I've got to
Speaker 1: get on my car. I got to fix this tire.
Speaker 1: It's going to take up time on my day to work.
Speaker 1: I've got to get back to work. I've got too
Speaker 1: much on my plate to be dealing with this right now.
Speaker 2: What happens if you're late to work.
Speaker 1: I can't get my work done. And if I can't
Speaker 1: get my work done, then it backs up and I
Speaker 1: have more work to do the next day. Then I
Speaker 1: start feeling overwhelmed because I'm never going to get to
Speaker 1: the end of all this work, and I've got a
Speaker 1: thousand other things I've got to do. Got it?
Speaker 2: Okay? Now, did you have the urge to change or
Speaker 2: control the conditions or the people involved. There's nothing much
Speaker 2: you could do here, but a lot of times, say,
Speaker 2: for instance, if you were in an argument, you want
Speaker 2: to make the other person wrong, or you wish they
Speaker 2: weren't even in the place at that time. The urges
Speaker 2: are really important to understand because a lot of times
Speaker 2: we act on the urgers, like you could have thrown
Speaker 2: a tire, iron or something, you know, that sort of thing,
Speaker 2: not saying I.
Speaker 1: Didn't, but that's an urge.
Speaker 4: If you had some urge to change your control of
Speaker 4: the conditions, right the guy there faster, You yell at somebody,
Speaker 4: Your neighbors are playing their music too loud, and you
Speaker 4: wake up. You can't go back to sleep. You scream
Speaker 4: at them some urge to change or control the condition.
Speaker 2: When we act on urges, it takes us away from
Speaker 2: what we want always. So the best thing you can
Speaker 2: do is learn that you're going to feel that urge
Speaker 2: to change things, but you don't have to act, and
Speaker 2: if you don't act, it's going to go a lot
Speaker 2: smoother for you. A big part of this is recognizing
Speaker 2: those urges that happen in negative motion, identify the related desire. Generally,
Speaker 2: The reason we get upset is because we think that
Speaker 2: this event causes our desire not to manifest, or its
Speaker 2: impedes what we want in some way. There's a desire
Speaker 2: that you had at that moment that this got in
Speaker 2: the way of. What do you think that desire might be?
Speaker 1: To get back home quickly so I can give to work?
Speaker 2: Why do you want to get back to work.
Speaker 1: There's got a lot of work I'm going to do, right, So.
Speaker 2: It's this desire not to be overwhelmed, not to have
Speaker 2: to work late in the night, that sort of thing.
Speaker 2: Looking at that desire objectively, is that desire based in
Speaker 2: fear or flow?
Speaker 1: Definitely?
Speaker 2: Exactly. So now you're saying that allow of your desires
Speaker 2: are based in fear to begin with, and so we
Speaker 2: call those false desires. Okay, So returning to your mental construct,
Speaker 2: identify the belief that triggered the emotions you felt. What
Speaker 2: is the belief? And this is the fun part.
Speaker 1: This is the one that gets tricky, the belief.
Speaker 2: So this flat tire didn't happen on the own. It
Speaker 2: was orchestrated by the entire universe, by your inner self,
Speaker 2: by your guides, by your supporters for you to find
Speaker 2: us one limiting belief. Why did this happen? What? What's
Speaker 2: the belief that they want to point out to you
Speaker 2: that's holding you apart from everything you want.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think like you, guys, no, don't. That's
Speaker 1: not going to help you. A limiting belief, the reason
Speaker 1: why that happened.
Speaker 4: I could say, let me give you some ideas and
Speaker 4: then might help you go in a direction. You might
Speaker 4: have a belief that I have to work hard to
Speaker 4: be successful. I have to work hard to pay my bills.
Speaker 4: You might have a belief that I can't enjoy myself
Speaker 4: during a work day, like you're trying to go out
Speaker 4: to lunch right, I can't stop to enjoy myself. I
Speaker 4: have to keep working. You can have beliefs like that,
Speaker 4: and they always refer to you.
Speaker 1: I believe the belief was I have too many people
Speaker 1: counting on me. I have a lot of people counting
Speaker 1: on me. I'm going to let them down.
Speaker 2: Anyone that comes up is perfect. I have a limited
Speaker 2: amount of time.
Speaker 1: That's the initial. But then if I go further down
Speaker 1: the rabbit hole limited amount of time, and if I
Speaker 1: don't get everything done, then I'm going to drop the
Speaker 1: ball and all these people shows are going to be
Speaker 1: going on, all these clients are waiting for information for me.
Speaker 1: They're not going to get the information they need on
Speaker 1: a timely basis. I'm going to look bad and it's
Speaker 1: going to feel like my work ethic is no longer
Speaker 1: what I believe it is.
Speaker 2: Okay, I believe my work is the reason people love
Speaker 2: appreciate me. Sure, what if you didn't have that work ethic,
Speaker 2: I might have a fewer friends. Right. We believe that
Speaker 2: the only reason people like us is because we do
Speaker 2: something right, and that that we be something. I don't
Speaker 2: like you because you have a good work ethic. That's
Speaker 2: not reason I like you.
Speaker 1: I just get on here and chit chat with you.
Speaker 1: You're awesome. I have no idea.
Speaker 2: We don't like you because you're good parents. Right, But actually,
Speaker 2: what we're saying that we're going to joke for you
Speaker 2: because you guys were two minutes late. How dare you
Speaker 2: come late to this?
Speaker 1: You're on this belief.
Speaker 4: The first one that comes is fine, people always try
Speaker 4: to get to know I want the one doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: So the first thing that hit you was I don't
Speaker 4: have enough time. I never have enough time. Another one
Speaker 4: was I have too many people counting on me to
Speaker 4: pick one of those.
Speaker 1: So let's pick something that feels right to you. A
Speaker 1: belief about yourself. My sense of self is dependent on
Speaker 1: not letting people down.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's real deep though, That's great.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, we can step back if you need to.
Speaker 4: If I it's gonna be a way to make it
Speaker 4: into a sentence. This is what it's always fun with
Speaker 4: me when I'm working with somebody. So it's make that
Speaker 4: into a sentence that has I in it. And perhaps
Speaker 4: even so, if I blank, I will lose everyone's.
Speaker 1: Respect, I will lose love. No one will love me. Well,
Speaker 1: if I don't do what expected of me in a
Speaker 1: timely manner, I will lose the respect of those depending
Speaker 1: on me. Stay with that.
Speaker 2: Now, is that belief limiting or empowering? It could be
Speaker 2: either one. What do you think an.
Speaker 1: Argument could be made for both. It drives you to
Speaker 1: be the best you can be by not letting people down,
Speaker 1: but it also forces you to get a flat tire
Speaker 1: in the middle of the workday and not get to
Speaker 1: all the work you gotta do.
Speaker 4: Do you think it could be empowering that you believe
Speaker 4: the reason people like and respect you is because you
Speaker 4: perform like a show pony.
Speaker 1: Okay, perfectly mean that's not empowering. Well, let me sure
Speaker 1: some insight with you. While that was growing up, I
Speaker 1: was very irresponsible. I went through jobs like water. I
Speaker 1: was not dependent at all. It wasn't until it became
Speaker 1: really important to me because I had a family that
Speaker 1: it dawned on me that I've got to be responsible
Speaker 1: and deliver what people expect of me in order for
Speaker 1: my work ethic to be something that people will respect.
Speaker 1: That way, I will be liked and promoted and be
Speaker 1: able to continue to provide for my family in bigger
Speaker 1: and better ways year after year.
Speaker 2: Totally reasonable belief, completely, but just imagine it might be
Speaker 2: limiting because it will limit you from going to see
Speaker 2: a movie in the daytime. When's the last time you
Speaker 2: saw a movie on a Wednesday in the middle of
Speaker 2: the day, well before COVID. Just so, it does limit
Speaker 2: you from certain things, and you'll get good at this
Speaker 2: and you'll get to see how that.
Speaker 1: Met you from probably quite a bit.
Speaker 2: Okay, this is where the fun starts. Now that we
Speaker 2: know that it is a limiting belief, all limiting beliefs
Speaker 2: are false. You can prove examples in your life where
Speaker 2: this is absolutely so. Christy, go ahead and see if
Speaker 2: you can help think of some examples.
Speaker 1: I can think of examples from his life.
Speaker 4: What we are proving false is that your work ethic
Speaker 4: is why people love and respect you. It's why you
Speaker 4: have the family you have, It's why you have the
Speaker 4: friends you have, it's why you have. Every single thing
Speaker 4: in your life is because of your work ethic. Right,
Speaker 4: It's why everyone likes, loves, and respects you. You do
Speaker 4: kind of believe that right that if you don't have
Speaker 4: this work ethic, you are not going to be liked, loved, respected, Yes, okay.
Speaker 4: Can you look back at your life and go all
Speaker 4: the way back to when you were terribly irresponsible?
Speaker 1: When you say I was awful, I was so irresponsible.
Speaker 4: Was there anyone in your life that liked you, loved you,
Speaker 4: or respected you at that time?
Speaker 1: My mom doesn't matter who it is. She has to
Speaker 1: she doesn't have to be obligated. Did you have any friends?
Speaker 1: That's debatable? I think so, but I don't know how
Speaker 1: close we were. Liked you? Sure? Okay?
Speaker 4: And in your marriage to Karen, have you ever done
Speaker 4: anything stupid or irresponsible.
Speaker 1: That would be a nope. Yes, no, it's unfortunate. Yes
Speaker 1: all the time.
Speaker 4: Yes, And does Karen still love you?
Speaker 5: You'd have to ask her from your perspective, Do you
Speaker 5: feel liked, loved and respected by your wife even though
Speaker 5: in the years you've been married you have probably done
Speaker 5: eight million stupid, irresponsible things.
Speaker 1: Yes, but I've always made.
Speaker 2: Up for it.
Speaker 1: That's the only reasons she loves you. Okay, Gary, you
Speaker 1: want to go.
Speaker 2: How about your daughter? Does she love and respect you?
Speaker 1: I'd like to think so because of your work ethic. No,
Speaker 1: she couldn't go care, couldn't care. That's in fact, as
Speaker 1: she wishes I didn't work as much as I do. Right,
Speaker 1: So anyway, this is the idea here. All you do
Speaker 1: is write them down. You don't have to believe them.
Speaker 1: But when you have evidence that contradicts that belief, that
Speaker 1: belief is automatically softened. It just is softened.
Speaker 2: Right. You weren't even aware of this belief until we
Speaker 2: started talking about it, and now it's out in the open.
Speaker 2: You're actually doing the work. This is not spiritual bypassing.
Speaker 2: This is doing the work, and that belief is different
Speaker 2: now as a result of this experience and that just.
Speaker 1: Even if you're not aware of it.
Speaker 4: So during this work, if you guys choose to take
Speaker 4: thirty days and do this for fifteen, each one of
Speaker 4: you separately, you should do it. I will be there
Speaker 4: for you to help you through it because you can
Speaker 4: see where it's easy to get a little stuck and
Speaker 4: go wait, okay what It just takes a little practice.
Speaker 4: So your ego as you go through this, because this
Speaker 4: is a belief, this is something you believe is true.
Speaker 4: You fully believe it isn't true at all, but you
Speaker 4: believe it is, so it's true for you. And as
Speaker 4: you try to prove it false, your ego is going
Speaker 4: to do everything. Well, she's my mother, she has to.
Speaker 1: That's not what I asked. I said, did anyone love you?
Speaker 4: Yes, my mother? And is that belief true?
Speaker 1: It is?
Speaker 4: Yeah, but that was because and yeah I probably had
Speaker 4: some friends, but I don't think we were that close.
Speaker 4: Like you don't know how close you are with your
Speaker 4: friends now you think you do, but you don't know.
Speaker 4: But your ego is trying to get in there and
Speaker 4: say this belief is true, and I'm going to protect
Speaker 4: you so that you never stop working hard and you
Speaker 4: never stop having that work ethic because that's what's kept
Speaker 4: you alive. And your ego is wonderful. You love your ego.
Speaker 4: It's kept you alive, it's doing this for you. But
Speaker 4: now you're ready to say, perhaps this isn't true. Oh,
Speaker 4: perhaps this isn't true. It isn't about my work ethic,
Speaker 4: just because I'm willing to look at this belief and
Speaker 4: recognize that it's not because of my work ethic that
Speaker 4: I'm respected, that I'm loved, that I'm liked, and that
Speaker 4: I have everything that I have in my life.
Speaker 1: Let me just think about that possibility. What if it's
Speaker 1: not because of that?
Speaker 4: Does that mean that I'm now going to become a
Speaker 4: lazy slob be late for everything?
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. You are who you are.
Speaker 4: What drives you right now are these limitations and fears.
Speaker 4: But the inspiration fills in as you soften those beliefs
Speaker 4: and the power of what you do expands. You are
Speaker 4: not dragging this limiting belief with you just because you
Speaker 4: are aware of my.
Speaker 1: Work ethic that people love and respect. It's who I am.
Speaker 4: As you soften the belief that it's your work ethic
Speaker 4: that gets you everything, a lot of other inspiration and
Speaker 4: ideas can come in, and like I said before, the
Speaker 4: power that creates worlds gets things done. You're not suddenly
Speaker 4: going to be late. My guess is in a short
Speaker 4: amount of time you will find that you have a
Speaker 4: lot more time and things get done. That's easier much questioning. Well,
Speaker 4: you won't know because you don't need to be shown
Speaker 4: this all the time, so your reality starts to shift
Speaker 4: in front of you.
Speaker 1: What you said to use this form every time you
Speaker 1: have an emotional reaction sounds like I need to dive
Speaker 1: deeper into this because the emotional reaction I'm getting by
Speaker 1: the thought of what you just said is very strong,
Speaker 1: like it makes me very scared. I guess I would
Speaker 1: then use the form to dive deeper into that. You could.
Speaker 4: You could say, Okay, today's event is when Christy said
Speaker 4: all those words, I started freaking out. Here were the
Speaker 4: thoughts I was having. Here is the emotion that I felt.
Speaker 4: You can use the thoughts a lot to help you
Speaker 4: identify the belief. I was angry because I was going
Speaker 4: to be like getting back to the house. Then you
Speaker 4: say why Sometimes that will lead you to what you're
Speaker 4: limiting beliefizz Because if I don't get back the house,
Speaker 4: I'm going to let everyone down and we're going to
Speaker 4: lose our business. I'm gonna be homeless alone. Right So,
Speaker 4: just because you had an emotional reaction to this, that's great.
Speaker 1: You had a reaction. So now you.
Speaker 4: Can write about that tonight, about the fear of the
Speaker 4: negative emotion to whatever it was brought up and said,
Speaker 4: if you get stuck, you can reach out.
Speaker 1: I'll help you through it.
Speaker 2: It's easier to do the little ones. First, I got
Speaker 2: yelled at by a car driven by emotional This just
Speaker 2: happened to me. This guy screamed at me driving by,
Speaker 2: and I had no idea why. I just instantly felt
Speaker 2: this surge of rage. I'm going to follow him. It
Speaker 2: goes real quick, you know. But once I get back
Speaker 2: to calm, I can entertain the thoughts. What was possibly
Speaker 2: going on? Did I pull out in front of them?
Speaker 2: Then I realized, oh, I'm in a Tesla and he's
Speaker 2: mad at tesla's That was the only reason. It had
Speaker 2: nothing to do with me. It was the car I
Speaker 2: was in. The ones I realized that. I said, okay, well,
Speaker 2: why was I so upset about someone I didn't know
Speaker 2: yelling at me for something I didn't know. I did
Speaker 2: you know? So I had to go and do a
Speaker 2: mass station of form on that and find that limiting belief.
Speaker 1: Gotcha? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Would we say fifteen minutes a day? Eventually you're going
Speaker 4: to love doing this so much. And they can bring
Speaker 4: up a lot of pain, but I loved. I carried
Speaker 4: the damn thing with me everywhere in my notebook. Every
Speaker 4: time something happened, I stopped. I don't care where I'm
Speaker 4: supposed to be. This is my work. This is what's important.
Speaker 4: When these limitations are softened, I'm unstoppable and I knew that.
Speaker 4: Our assignment for you, should you choose to accept it,
Speaker 4: is that at the end of the day, you take
Speaker 4: fifteen or so minutes, look back at your day, find
Speaker 4: something that either made you excited, happy, joyful, or angry, frustrated,
Speaker 4: anything like that. And if you have trouble and you
Speaker 4: get stuck, you can reach out to us and we'll.
Speaker 1: Help you through it. So, when you say good or bad,
Speaker 1: how does this help on the goods? We just went
Speaker 1: down the bad rabbit hole? How does his work on
Speaker 1: the good side of things?
Speaker 2: Okay, when do you realize that you're happy or excited
Speaker 2: something interesting. That emotion is showing you that you have
Speaker 2: an empowering belief. So, just like the limiting beliefs that
Speaker 2: are bringing you reflections of those limiting beliefs, those negative
Speaker 2: those situations, situations also are occurring because you have a
Speaker 2: vibration of these empowering ideas about yourself going on. So
Speaker 2: you get ten new subscribers, they go, oh, what a
Speaker 2: great day. This was, right, and that ten subscriber is
Speaker 2: a reflection of a belief inside yourself that what you're
Speaker 2: doing is relevant and worthwhile. Then you say, okay, what's
Speaker 2: the belief there. The belief is that this thing is
Speaker 2: doing some good in the world. And then you ramp
Speaker 2: up that belief. You prove that it's true. You write
Speaker 2: five or six examples of other times in your life
Speaker 2: when that belief generated wonderful things. It brings that belief
Speaker 2: to the forefront. The reason it's happening is you have
Speaker 2: that belief right. As that belief intensifies, more of this
Speaker 2: stuff happens as well. There's more to be grateful for,
Speaker 2: more to appreciate. You start moving that mental construct. You
Speaker 2: see what's always been there, how wonderful everything is, and
Speaker 2: more stuff keeps coming, more stuff keeps coming. You're in
Speaker 2: less fear, so you're acting on more offers and inspiration
Speaker 2: and invitations and ideas, and people start relating to you
Speaker 2: completely differently. You're just so much more fun to be with,
Speaker 2: and you have so much more time. You'll be amazed
Speaker 2: at how much time you have. Everything you do will
Speaker 2: be done quickly and effectively when you're in this flow
Speaker 2: state of doing what you're interested in doing. The reason
Speaker 2: that you're manually doing all this labor is because you
Speaker 2: have a perspective of yourself that likes that you're sacrificing
Speaker 2: time these people's needs so that in your mind you
Speaker 2: can believe that they think that you're a good guy.
Speaker 2: If you didn't have to do that, you would have
Speaker 2: had someone take care of this other than you. You
Speaker 2: would have outsourced it or set up automation. But you
Speaker 2: like it. Because of this belief, you do it. So
Speaker 2: imagine you didn't have these things going on here, you
Speaker 2: would act on the inspiration because you've had the inspiration
Speaker 2: to go on up work and have someone do it.
Speaker 2: But because you are generating this feeling of being reliable,
Speaker 2: that the fear goes. Oh what if they screw it up,
Speaker 2: then I'm outsourcing my greatest fear to someone else. And
Speaker 2: this is why people don't delegate, because all of this
Speaker 2: stuff very interesting.
Speaker 4: Sorry, We've watched so many people go through this work,
Speaker 4: and it's always the same. If people handle it differently,
Speaker 4: like Karen's very quiet, right, they handle it differently. This
Speaker 4: freaks you out at first because you think I cannot
Speaker 4: lose this belief. It's keeping me alive. I just want
Speaker 4: to tell you, think about how funny that is. Your
Speaker 4: beliefs about yourself and your reality are not true. They're
Speaker 4: just what you believe, and they empower us and limit
Speaker 4: us in so many ways. You start playing with it
Speaker 4: and letting them fall away, believing that hard work is
Speaker 4: good for you, Believing that whatever you know, whatever it is,
Speaker 4: you're not going to change what you enjoy doing.
Speaker 1: Is it going to change?
Speaker 4: I haven't decided now that suddenly I'm late for everything.
Speaker 4: I just don't freak out. I'm never late, am I man?
Speaker 4: I'm still never late. It just doesn't happen, in fact,
Speaker 4: but I don't worry about it. If something happens, I trust,
Speaker 4: I go well, wow, okay, I can feel that, But
Speaker 4: that's fine, Everything's going to be fine and always is.
Speaker 4: So oh, I'm so glad you were late, Christy, I've overslept.
Speaker 2: Okay, good.
Speaker 1: You know what the messed up thing about all of
Speaker 1: it is picked the flat tire because it was gonna
Speaker 1: be safe. And now I am you. I am fucked up,
Speaker 1: Like my head is like.
Speaker 3: It just reminded me of a conversation we had. You
Speaker 3: were super stressed about work, and you like it was
Speaker 3: like that little barb that you threw at me, and
Speaker 3: you're like, well, I can't just walk away from work
Speaker 3: as easy as you can, ah, because you're a better person.
Speaker 1: And neither confirm or denying and care.
Speaker 2: And how did that feel? You know that was your
Speaker 2: maniftation of it? Right, it did not feel good.
Speaker 4: Now A certainly he's calling you, like what you mean?
Speaker 4: I don't care, I'm irresponsible. Is it important to me
Speaker 4: to work hard? That's important to me? You know you're right.
Speaker 1: I don't need this shit. I stay with it, buddy,
Speaker 1: take a break.
Speaker 2: You're the provider.
Speaker 1: It's funny.
Speaker 4: What's important to your identity? Listen, I've had years to
Speaker 4: go through this. We're laughing and I'm telling him here
Speaker 4: to tell you it's gonna be okay, but you're gonna
Speaker 4: have moments like this where you're hyperventilating. If I don't
Speaker 4: care anymore, I'm gonna be apathy. If I'm neutral life,
Speaker 4: it's going to be boring. If I don't worry about
Speaker 4: what people think of me, I'm gonna get fat and
Speaker 4: sloppy and right, all these things are going to happen
Speaker 4: if I let go of these things. I believe that
Speaker 4: why people like me, why they love me, why they
Speaker 4: want to be with me, why do I have a
Speaker 4: beautiful home?
Speaker 2: Why?
Speaker 4: Because I'm all of these things, And it's none of that.
Speaker 4: It's a reflection of how I feel about myself, and
Speaker 4: those beliefs are not helping me feel anything. In fact,
Speaker 4: you're having a conversation with your wife about being stressed
Speaker 4: out about work.
Speaker 1: Right, do you have any idea? We don't have that
Speaker 1: kind of conversation. But you're super stressed about work.
Speaker 4: Let me help you, No, because we have done all
Speaker 4: this work, Work still happens, things still go on, but
Speaker 4: nobody's stressed.
Speaker 1: About it anymore. That's all you want. And this is
Speaker 1: like deceivingly simple, like it's fucked up, like it's beautiful.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it is an absolutely beautiful way on live and
Speaker 4: it's the thing.
Speaker 1: It's like I want everyone to know, but it's something
Speaker 1: that you can't just explain, right, You've got to walk
Speaker 1: them through it in order for them to find that.
Speaker 1: You have to make the connection yourself. When it clicked,
Speaker 1: hit me like a frecking mac truck. Had we not
Speaker 1: been on camera, I would have been a puddle on
Speaker 1: the floor somewhere. I mean, it was that impactful to me.
Speaker 1: And it's crazy to me to say that because I
Speaker 1: worked really hard for the past four years and I've
Speaker 1: done nothing.
Speaker 4: You haven't got yourself ready to hear this, right, everything
Speaker 4: you've done has been important to lead you to this moment,
Speaker 4: and this moment is just going to lead you to
Speaker 4: the next one. You've done so much work because if
Speaker 4: I had said these words to you two years ago
Speaker 4: or three years ago, your vibration would have been so
Speaker 4: down here that you could have even heard the words.
Speaker 1: So it's really beautiful.
Speaker 4: That's why we do these classes that we do. I mean,
Speaker 4: these are things that we teach that Gary taught to
Speaker 4: me over eight times of doing an eight week intensive course,
Speaker 4: and we have five or six other courses that we've
Speaker 4: developed together to take people through this approach the way
Speaker 4: to live life. It's not fifteen minutes on a podcast.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of learning.
Speaker 4: But it is so fantastic and that's the community that
Speaker 4: we have people that are doing this work and helping
Speaker 4: each other do it. It's so much fun. But sometimes
Speaker 4: at the beginning it feels a little intense.
Speaker 1: All right, here we go my work, here's done. A
Speaker 1: freak come out, and now I can do Like I
Speaker 1: said another podcast, if this mic wasn't on an arm,
Speaker 1: I would drop it. That's incredible how that worked to do.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think this is going to be a
Speaker 2: great episode. People are going to love this, oh yeah,
Speaker 2: and so they're going to be directed to new Reality
Speaker 2: TV where I just uploaded a whole bunch of shorts
Speaker 2: because you were talking about you have shorts in there,
Speaker 2: so we got Josho shorts on nice awesome.
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't hesitate to reach out to me.
Speaker 4: If you don't reach out to me, I'm probably going
Speaker 4: to assume you're not doing it, and I'm not going
Speaker 4: to love and respect you because that will mean you
Speaker 4: don't have a good work.
Speaker 2: That is so unfair.
Speaker 1: That mean yeah, I'm a little mean. You know, you're
Speaker 1: not supposed to take advantage of someone wanted down.
Speaker 4: When else can I take advantage of someone most impactful?
Speaker 1: So I see what your plan is. You find the
Speaker 1: biggest weakness and you prey on it. Uh huh oh,
Speaker 1: I get it.
Speaker 2: You found it.
Speaker 1: Good point.
Speaker 2: It's not a weakness, it's just to believe that isn't true.
Speaker 1: Now, it's a false construct that I've gone my entire
Speaker 1: life believing, especially in the last few years.
Speaker 3: And we ended up sitting in the car for two
Speaker 3: hours waiting for the tire guy and then he blew
Speaker 3: off work for the rest of the day.
Speaker 1: We had a good time.
Speaker 4: There you go, because you're like, okay, and that's was
Speaker 4: part of that event probably.
Speaker 2: And nothing actually happened.
Speaker 1: Actually one person got a little panky, but well really,
Speaker 1: I mean it's fine, no, great, okay, all right, we'll
Speaker 1: go get to work. You two. Thanks thanks for playing. Thanks, Okay,
Speaker 1: deep breath. Right if your brain feels like it just
Speaker 1: went through a metaphysical car washed, but we totally get it.
Speaker 1: That is exactly how we felt after recording this. Now
Speaker 1: here's what we promised you. The exciting news we have
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Speaker 1: Remember this is not just a course, it is truly
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Speaker 2: See that