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<v Speaker 1>More importantly, justin Worsham.

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<v Speaker 2>Who cares about all this real politics and acid blooms.

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<v Speaker 3>Get out of his side note Curveball, Oh his father's

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<v Speaker 3>they going to be weird for us. Do you consider

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<v Speaker 3>father's they weird?

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<v Speaker 4>Now? Yeah? Oh all three of us lost our dads. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I for me, I've chosen I could. I could tell

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<v Speaker 2>subliminately because until you said that, I have purposely not

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<v Speaker 2>like you know how like Freud says, there are no mistakes, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I think I've purposely chose not to think about it dad.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's yeah, but it's yeah, it's it is different.

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<v Speaker 2>And to add to it, my dad at the cabin

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<v Speaker 2>community he lived in, he they he found out that

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<v Speaker 2>like forty some odd years ago, they used to do

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<v Speaker 2>this fishing tournament on Father's Day weekend for kids, and

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<v Speaker 2>he thought that was a cool idea, Like he found

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<v Speaker 2>old photos of it from like forever ago, and so

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<v Speaker 2>he was like, I want to bring this back. So

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<v Speaker 2>he purposely got on the ho a board started the saying,

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<v Speaker 2>my family would run it every year and they're naming

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<v Speaker 2>it after him.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, are they doing it on father?

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<v Speaker 4>Father? It's on Father's Day every year?

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<v Speaker 2>And so On this Father's Day, I will be hosting

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<v Speaker 2>a raffle that I used to co host with my dad,

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<v Speaker 2>wearing a T shirt that says the Jesse Warship Fishing God,

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<v Speaker 2>you are going to be.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna be a mask. Can you imge?

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<v Speaker 3>I've got to just ugly cr winner the Courtolet take

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<v Speaker 3>a number two six zero one ninety three.

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<v Speaker 4>That's two six zero one.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I give you advice you didn't ask for?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I don't know what's ever stopped you before.

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<v Speaker 1>This is true, but at least I'm asking.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think that counts, but go for it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, consider the time that you've given unsolicited advice

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<v Speaker 2>in these segments to me, sometimes hurtful.

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't think it. No, now I'm no, she

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<v Speaker 4>did it. She did it, didn't me Gary, she did it.

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<v Speaker 4>Now she's got me begging for it. Now she's good.

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<v Speaker 4>She's got me begging for the.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just gonna say that to keep it together.

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<v Speaker 3>Imagine your dad there, my looking like the green ghost

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<v Speaker 3>at the end of Return of the Jedi when you've got.

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<v Speaker 1>Zombi vers, but it's like he's still there, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't cry like that in front of your dad.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I would Lord, that's the advice and how

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<v Speaker 2>it ends on the show's.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a new survey that says a lot of kids

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<v Speaker 3>believe that their dad is their top life mentor. Most

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<v Speaker 3>for those who grew up with a dad, seventy percent

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<v Speaker 3>said their dad was one of their greatest mentors in life.

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<v Speaker 4>How could it not be?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and I say the same thing for moms as well,

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<v Speaker 1>how could your parents not be a top life mentor.

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<v Speaker 1>You're raised in the house, you think this is the

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<v Speaker 1>way things are for some people have awful parents, but

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<v Speaker 1>still mentor is not. I mean you're looking to your

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<v Speaker 1>parent parents as an example of how to live.

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<v Speaker 4>Good or bad.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, there's I think maybe the difference would be top

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<v Speaker 3>influence in your life versus mentor R mentor I meet

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<v Speaker 3>somebody that you'd want to Yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 4>They also what I hear mentor.

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<v Speaker 2>Is is also a person who gives you that life advice,

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<v Speaker 2>like they guide you. And to me, this is I

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<v Speaker 2>can only speak from my perspective, is that I believe

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<v Speaker 2>my dad's secret power was this, like he was the

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<v Speaker 2>one of the the This is going to sound so dumb,

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<v Speaker 2>and maybe I will cry and I'm sorry. But the

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<v Speaker 2>most cliche, like the poetic thing he ever said to

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<v Speaker 2>me was I was in Alabama and I was having

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<v Speaker 2>a rough week doing stand up and I had called

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<v Speaker 2>him to just kind of vent and he gave me

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<v Speaker 2>this advice. He said, listen, I've seen you do shows

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<v Speaker 2>where if one little thing like isn't to your liking

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<v Speaker 2>or doesn't go the way you think it will go,

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<v Speaker 2>he said, you kind of just you lose it, like

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<v Speaker 2>you kind of start to fall apart. He said, just

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<v Speaker 2>go up there and have fun, and that's all you

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<v Speaker 2>need to do, and that's normal advice. And then he

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<v Speaker 2>ended it with saying, there is great this in you

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<v Speaker 2>don't get in its way.

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<v Speaker 4>And I like Star Wars right Skywalker, And I'm kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like, yeah, but let.

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<v Speaker 1>Me ask you, I mean the very similar.

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<v Speaker 3>They give some examples in this in this survey cup.

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<v Speaker 3>One one person said the most brogue thing my father

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<v Speaker 3>has ever done for me was during Hurricane Harvey, trudged

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<v Speaker 3>through the waters to come and get me. Another one said,

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<v Speaker 3>he stopped working, Dad, You never did any He stopped

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<v Speaker 3>working and took care of me when I had a car.

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<v Speaker 4>Ex Some of us are morning. Differently, My dad taught.

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<v Speaker 1>Me about money and keeping it and being smart with

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<v Speaker 1>it and if you don't know what you're doing, hire

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<v Speaker 1>someone who knows what they're doing and save it and

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<v Speaker 1>those and I think that that is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>most invaluable lessons because everybody needs it. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>love the Star Wars stuff, and it's true, and everyone

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<v Speaker 1>has greatness, not everyone. You have your own brand of greatness.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to take away from your greatness. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you look to dad's for that kind of like structure.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you can even throw in like a military

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<v Speaker 1>vibe to of routine and structure that that is important

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<v Speaker 1>for anybody to live their life.

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<v Speaker 3>Expectation throw that word in there too. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 3>not that moms don't have expectations, but that it might

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<v Speaker 3>be received differently from the father.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing, the thing that I'm most proud of so

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<v Speaker 2>far in being a father is that both my kids

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<v Speaker 2>both made this kind of comment about I made the

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<v Speaker 2>joke about whenever they want something, they always go to

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<v Speaker 2>their mother, and they both said, well, it's because you're

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<v Speaker 2>more likely to say no. And then my older son said, well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like you talked to mom about stuff, but if you

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<v Speaker 2>need like real life advice, you go to dad. And

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<v Speaker 2>then my younger son was like, yeah, yeah, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>I almost cried right there, like I was like, to me,

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<v Speaker 2>that was like mission accomplished that I feel for me,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I've always tried to be the father

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<v Speaker 2>that my father was to me, and to be that

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<v Speaker 2>mentor to be somebody that because my dad knew stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>My dad had no performance background whatsoever, but gave me

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<v Speaker 2>so much life advice. When I told him I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to be a perform about money, he said, you're not

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<v Speaker 2>going to know when your next paycheck is going to be,

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<v Speaker 2>so your thing in life is going to be about

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<v Speaker 2>minimizing your nut and keeping your expenses low so that

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<v Speaker 2>you can be mobile and fluid. That's exactly what he

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<v Speaker 2>told me when I was seventeen years old, and I

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<v Speaker 2>said I wanted to be an actor like that, and

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<v Speaker 2>he was right to and a thing that he had

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<v Speaker 2>no clue about what he.

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<v Speaker 1>Was talking about, And what great advice other that he

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<v Speaker 1>gave you, because it's much easier to say, get a

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<v Speaker 1>real job.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly exactly, which was also I think kind of what

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<v Speaker 2>I would have expected from him.

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<v Speaker 4>But he was not. He was not like that. He

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<v Speaker 4>also said this.

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<v Speaker 2>I interviewed him on the podcast one time, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like more of a stay at home dad, and

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<v Speaker 2>I often thought that he kind of thought that that

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<v Speaker 2>was silly or looked down on it. And when I

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<v Speaker 2>talked to him about it, he said, he goes, No, honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>I envy it, he goes, I grew up in a

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<v Speaker 2>time where as a husband, you were expected to just

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<v Speaker 2>go or make money, like that was your job.

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<v Speaker 4>He goes. You live at a time, if you liked

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<v Speaker 4>it or not, exactly that was what you did. He goes.

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<v Speaker 2>You live in a time where you're as a couple

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<v Speaker 2>you can decide what are your strengths, and as a couple,

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<v Speaker 2>as a team, you could decide who's going to be

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<v Speaker 2>the best person to do this job. He goes, I

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<v Speaker 2>would have loved to just been home with the kids,

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<v Speaker 2>like with you and even my stepbrother and.

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<v Speaker 4>Stepsister, Like, how was that a shock to you? And

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<v Speaker 4>it was very much a shock. It was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a big time shock.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm sorry if I'm making this all about me,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think it's in the same vein of what

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<v Speaker 2>we're talking about in this survey is that even my grandfather,

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<v Speaker 2>who did not graduate high school, barely finished middle school,

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<v Speaker 2>was born in the Great Depression, and we were I

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<v Speaker 2>did this Father's Day episode of the podcast where I

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<v Speaker 2>was my grandfather, my dad, and me all talking about

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<v Speaker 2>our experiences as dad's and my grandfather who was just

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<v Speaker 2>this like stereotypical redneck character from Bonanza, like even went

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<v Speaker 2>to high school with ass from Bonanza.

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<v Speaker 4>My grandfather Kelly, and so he you were so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyway, he said, he goes, I said, what do

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<v Speaker 2>you think about parentsing today? And I just threw out

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<v Speaker 2>just this lame question and my grandfather, again not educated anything.

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<v Speaker 2>He goes, I don't know how people today can raise

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<v Speaker 2>their kids. When I grew up, we were on a

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<v Speaker 2>farm and I didn't know what my neighbors had or

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<v Speaker 2>what they did. He goes, Every child is constantly hit

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<v Speaker 2>with what somebody else has and constantly confronted with a

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<v Speaker 2>life that they want that could be better than theirs.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like, I don't, like, he's breaking down media theory. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and he doesn't even have a high school diploma. Like, again,

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<v Speaker 2>there's just this benefit that I think hopefully a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of us and it seems like most of us get

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<v Speaker 2>to have is these guys that are wise in our

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<v Speaker 2>life beyond what you would expect them to be.

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't know why that is. It's interesting part of.

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<v Speaker 1>Its life experience. Sure you know.

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<v Speaker 3>All right why parents are asking kids to help plan trips.

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<v Speaker 3>This is an awful idea. Visit Anaheim commissioned to study

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<v Speaker 3>then asked about letting kids help plan vacation.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it when I could predict you, because I

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<v Speaker 2>saw this and I was like, oh, this seems like fun.

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<v Speaker 2>And then as soon as I thought that in my head,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I bet Gary's gonna hate this.

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<v Speaker 1>Gary's house kids are lucky. They have air to breathe

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<v Speaker 1>right before they are nineteen eighty four and every day

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<v Speaker 1>that's great. I would have been the same freaking way

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<v Speaker 1>I would have treated my house like it was a prison.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I am pretty much the same way too.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't something about the vacation idea because and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it's because I'm in the teenage quagmire where my

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<v Speaker 2>kids aren't jerks when we go on vacation. But I

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<v Speaker 2>just thought, I imagine this is born from the idea

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<v Speaker 2>that when you take a teenager and it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just sitting there and there on their phone. If

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<v Speaker 2>you let them have a buy in or some kind

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<v Speaker 2>of steak in it, then.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe see them like, this is your money, you're going

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<v Speaker 1>who works for it? They're lucky that they get to

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<v Speaker 1>tag along. Well, I will say this in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>in terms of planning a vacation, wouldn't say, when you

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<v Speaker 1>take us to the casino, I'm savvy enough.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm savvy enough to know stay on the walkway that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to plan where we go, right, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to do it in a way that I'm conscious of.

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<v Speaker 3>There's got to be something for them to enjoy. For example,

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<v Speaker 3>people who take kids to Vegas I think should be

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<v Speaker 3>arrested and thrown in jail for multiple presentdential terms.

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<v Speaker 1>Like she just said, this is I know my parents

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<v Speaker 1>would take us to Tahoe and my dad is again

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to gamble, and my brother and I

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<v Speaker 1>we would just go to the arcade. You know, but yes,

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<v Speaker 1>stay on the walk.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how That's how popular it was to take kids

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's like at the gym. It didn't even occur

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<v Speaker 4>to me as a child.

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<v Speaker 1>That I would ever have any say and any sort

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<v Speaker 1>of vacation, Like, that's so ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't take a kid also to Mexico, although I

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<v Speaker 3>say that now I took an eighteen month old on

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<v Speaker 3>a cruise there, which is a huge miss.

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<v Speaker 4>Did he get a tattoo, No, but he got dysentery.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you go to a place, you got to

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<v Speaker 2>It's but to support your point, a lot of them

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<v Speaker 2>said things that they would like to do on their

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<v Speaker 2>vacation to be like meet a celebrity.

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<v Speaker 4>Which like, that's not what a vacation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like most of were like, and then higher percentages

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<v Speaker 2>were like they wanted to go to an amusement park

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<v Speaker 2>or the beach, you know what I mean. Like it

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<v Speaker 2>seems like very stereotype. If my kid was to like

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<v Speaker 2>my older son, if he was to pick whatever we

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<v Speaker 2>do a restaurant tour of whatever city we were in.

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<v Speaker 2>He would want to try if they had a Michelin

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<v Speaker 2>Star restaurant, he would want to try it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's insane. Yeah, he should get a job, more jobs. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 4>that's this one doesn't have a job. He's a junior.

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<v Speaker 3>So next year, two years from now, you're going to

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<v Speaker 3>start talking about senior trip of some kind, right, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know if you do that.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't do that. I do not plan on providing

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<v Speaker 4>a senior trip. Is this a failure to for your kids?

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<v Speaker 4>Some people do that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, not like get that at home in the

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<v Speaker 3>South Padre Island. I mean like as a as a family,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys would go to a place of his choosing. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>like we take a vacation because he graduated high school,

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<v Speaker 3>which I mean is not a giant. It's not like

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<v Speaker 3>To me, I feel like you did what you should

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<v Speaker 3>have done like that. Yeah, I don't know, Maybe that

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<v Speaker 3>makes me a jerk.

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<v Speaker 1>But graduated extravagant college and my mom and dad, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was served by my mom paid for

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<v Speaker 1>a trip for me to go to Hawaii with a girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember being flabbergasted by that, Like you're doing

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<v Speaker 1>what like and that was graduating college? You know, twenty

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<v Speaker 2>Were taken aback because it's like, Wow, you're.

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<v Speaker 4>On the trip going, am I gonna come home?

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<v Speaker 2>And they're gonna go, great, here's all your stuff in

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<v Speaker 4>There's a U haul.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean that happened too, but still, you know, it.

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<v Speaker 3>Was really nice as they drive as she drives away,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it would be a fun exercise to ask

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<v Speaker 1>your kids what they would do if they could plan

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<v Speaker 1>their own vacation. That's a fun little dinner time exercise.

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<v Speaker 1>But actually doing it, the thing that they're not tethered

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<v Speaker 1>to is reality worse.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like you gave them a ram of hope only

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<v Speaker 2>so you could take it away from.

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<v Speaker 4>Them children before you go quick. Truly a question.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, you said that your grandfather went to

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<v Speaker 3>high school Dan Blocker, the guy who played Bonanza. Do

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<v Speaker 3>you know how old he was when he died? Dan

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<v Speaker 3>Blocker sixty two, probably forty three. Dan Blocker was forty

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<v Speaker 3>three when he died in the early seventies. I just

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<v Speaker 3>in hit my mind that guy was in his sixties.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was on show when you said that. I thought, well,

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<v Speaker 2>it had to be on the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hard forty three. Yeah, he lived a full life. He

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<v Speaker 4>really did his thing. We dedicate today's show to Dan Blocker.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he eat?

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<v Speaker 4>Everything? Clearly butter and steak.

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<v Speaker 3>And he was a four pack of day smoker, probably

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<v Speaker 3>because everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>Was yeah, the good old he lost.

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<v Speaker 3>Weight justin don't smoke. Oh all right, I did quit

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<v Speaker 3>and you made it past forty three.

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<v Speaker 4>Congrats to me. I'm gonna go on a trip and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to plan that sucker.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you as always, big humongous twelve block hours coming up,

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<v Speaker 3>one Gary, whenever I leave