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Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome. It's been a while. Oh daddy,

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it's been a minute.

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Speaker 2: I missed you.

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Speaker 1: You missed me too, Yes.

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Speaker 2: I told you that this is Craig Everyboddy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, love me, buddy.

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Speaker 1: So I've never just disappeared like the podcast just the way.

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I just didn't do episodes. I didn't know I didn't

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know what to do. I wasn't prepared for this last Thursday.

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So we're still in the month of June. We're taping

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this on Monday Sunday, excuse me, July sixth so we're

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going back to the last Thursday in June. That night

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we had taped a podcast. Were you part of that.

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I don't think I was there that night, Okay, I

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don't know, I don't remember, don't remember. Okay. So I

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get home and I'm putting the podcast together and I

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get a call from my brother, going, dad's in really

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bad shape. I don't think he's gonna last the weekend.

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You better get here.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I was there that night, but yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, yeah, oh, I don't know what to think, right.

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So I end up talking to my sister and I'm like,

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I figured do I drive? What do I do? Talking

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to my sister? So here's the thing. I'm gonna tell

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the story. Somebody said to me yesterday. Every time you talk,

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it sounds like you're telling a story. I don't know

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if that's a good thing or a bad thing.

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Speaker 4: Right, that's a good thing it is, yes, Okay, yeah,

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that's the idea.

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Speaker 1: All right. Well, anyway, so I will tell this story,

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and I'm going to tell this This is from my perspective.

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Please understand that, and please understand that none of it

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is meant to be harmful or mean to anybody. And

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I know my family may listen to this and may

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be bothered by some of the things that I say.

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I think that some of the they're a little more

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private than I am with information like this, but I've

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been fairly open. So my brother was kind of emotional

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on the phone. I mean not for him like me.

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It's kind of like, you know, I'm gonna I'm gonna

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get emotional, so I'm getting off the phone kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: He's coming out his baseline.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So so I call my mother and I said, hey, listen,

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I may drive to you because she's sort of the

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halfway point. It would be about a seven and a

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half hour ride straight through to Maine. And I'm like,

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I don't know what to do. I got to figure

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out what to do with Jamison because I don't want

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to bring him if my father's exiting the planet doesn't

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seem right. So you know what I mean, too many people,

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it'd be disturbing for him. There's not a lot for

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him to do there the cousins. My brother lives in

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Kenny Bunk, Main that's where my father is in an

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assistant living place. But his kids are young, so you know,

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you're talking eight and thirteen or twelve. So I call

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my mother and this is terrible, but I have to

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say everybody, it was weird because I hesitate. I haven't

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thought of how I would really talk about this, so

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going to tell you the way it was. So I

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called my mother and I said, listen, I'm gonna probably

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stop at your house. I'll leave. I was thinking of

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leaving that night Thursday, and then driving continuing on on Friday.

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know I was talking to your brother too. He said

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my dad had fallen like I think a total of

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twelve times within a week and was telling people he

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thought he was dying. Okay. So I say to my mother, says, well,

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you know your brother told me that I can I

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should come as well. We were married for thirty five years.

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sister's beeping in. So I wind up talking to my sister.

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I call my mother back. My mother's like, I don't

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know what to do. My mother, I will say, and

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if she hears this, she'll get annoyed with me, probably,

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But I say, sometimes she turns into him one legged duck,

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or she's just quacking and going around in the circle

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and can't seem to figure out what she going to

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do or what her purpose is or whatever. And maybe

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it's a bad analogy, but it's the only one that's

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the one I've said for years. And she's like, well,

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I don't know what to do because I mean, I

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don't want to get in the way. But I should

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be there. Shouldn't I be there? Your brother said I

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should be there. Maybe I go with you? Do I

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not go with you? I go, look, this is something

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you have to figure out on your own. And then

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I talked to my sister and she's like, why don't

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you just fly? And I go, oh, yeah, why don't

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I just fly? That was why shouldn't I do that?

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So I start looking for tickets and I go, I'm

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going to go one way to keep this open ended,

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because I don't know what's happening. I have no idea.

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So I book a flight and I wind up flying

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out like two o'clock in the afternoon on Friday from Buffalo.

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It's the only one way flight I can get. I

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can't get into Portland. Portland one way flights are taking

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you like to Charlotte and back, and they're like a

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thousand bucks, And I'm like the.

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Speaker 2: Greatest thing about Buffalo is that airport.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the airport's pretty nice.

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Speaker 1: So I book a flight Jet Blue Boston. I pay

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our friend Doug Phelps to uber me up there, so

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I don't bring a car and I'm one way.

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Speaker 2: Did work out his new material with you in the car?

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Speaker 1: You know, everybody's asked me that he did.

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Speaker 5: SE's you what a hack?

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Speaker 1: I am no, no, no, no, no no, And he did not.

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He did not do any material at all. We actually

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just talked about other things. I think I interrupted, I.

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Speaker 2: Tell you what about black Elvis?

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Speaker 1: So I go, I get on the plane and then

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I'm going to take a bus from Boston to Portsmouth,

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New Hampshire, which is actually really close to where my

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brother is that they're like twenty minutes away. So I

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booked the flight. I get on the flight, I fly there,

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no problems going to Buffalo, get there early. Doug's got

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me there within an hour. You know, I get through security.

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I have all that I do not have the enhanced ID.

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I am one of the laggers of the enhanced ID.

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So I just got my renewal and I have but

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you have to do it in person. Sixty seven dollars

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or something like that. You got to do it in

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person at DMV again a goal for the week, right,

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gotta get that done. But so I'm standing in line

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and they're saying, you gotta have your enhanced idea or

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your passport, blah blah blah. And I see this woman

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and I go, hey, listen, is there any way I

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can So she goes, ah, they're probably letting some people go.

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She calls over a guard and the guard goes, you

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gotta get this fixed, but we'll let it slide this time.

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So he opens up a lane and I purposely try

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to time it. So I get in his line and

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I do, and he goes, ah, we already spoke, get

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that fixed. And on the plane, I go, boom, I'm

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out there. So I fly up and I take the

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bus over to Portsmouth and my brother meets me and

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he goes, maybe this is a false alarm. I'm feeling terrible.

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Dad's in the car.

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Speaker 2: He's waving bay.

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Speaker 1: He goes, he goes, I don't know. He goes. He's

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got his pink shirt on. He's all he's all pretty dogs,

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he's all great. He goes, he's in the car. I

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feel terrible. I swear to god, I thought he was dying.

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I go, no big deal. I'm glad I'm here.

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Speaker 2: I get time out for a second. That's gotta be

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the greatest. I don't know whether to laugh or cry

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Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, because here you are. The whole time, you

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gotta be think Dad' daring, dance dying, dance, dye, And

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then you get the don he's in the car. I

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don't well, I just go for a ride like a dog.

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probably I've been told by uh those who were in

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my life at different points that I compartamentalize things and

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I put them away and I keep them in this box.

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some trauma throughout my life, as I've talked about being

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molested and things like that, So you probably do learn

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to do that. That's a coping mechanism. But I always

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figure it's not that bad until it's that bad, right,

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you know what I mean? So everything to me is

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kind of at a neutral level, and that's it. So

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we go there and I get in and my dad

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is like skinnier, looks like some muscle atrophy. I mean,

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he's only sitting in the front seat, and it's just

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this silent kind of ride, and he starts dozing off,

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and he is not in good shape, like he can't move.

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the next two days. And I say to my brother,

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I go. The grimmer doesn't respond to calendar invites. They

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come by surprise, so I can't tell if this you know.

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day's getting worse. My brother has realized at this point,

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my dad can't be alone, like at all. He fell

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my I guess my brother spent the night with him,

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left and said, I'm going I'm gonna go to work,

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I'll be you know, I'll check on you, or I'm

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going home. I'm gonna shower, I need to check in

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at work, and then I'm gonna come back and I'm

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gonna work from here. So my brother leaves. My father

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falls and like lands in a wall, knocks a chair

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over on top of himself, and he's laying there for

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two hours while my brother's gone. From the time my

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brother's gone till the time my brother gets back, which

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was about two hours, my dad's just laying on the floor. Yeah.

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just all this stuff. So this is why my dad's

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convinced he's dying. Here's the thing with Parkinson's disease. It

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doesn't kill you, No, it just gets worse, right and

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swallow so you afphyxiate or.

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Speaker 4: It's the complications of the disease often like age, like

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age itself does it. I'm not trying to compare the two,

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off your t cells and then you die of a cold, right, which.

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Speaker 1: So I had like a stuffy head for a week,

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like I had I felt like at times I was underwater,

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like I couldn't hear. Then I started worrying, Im I

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going death, knowing I think it's just congestion. So I

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kept doing all these things. I went and talked to

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a pharmacist. I took something. Then I had an appointment

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Friday morning early, and that person says to me, hey, listen,

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I know a lot of adults that are getting your infections.

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If you're getting on a plane and stuff, you should

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probably get your stuf on anantyby out. I don't. I

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get there and my cold just gets worse and worse.

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I wind up staying every night that I was in Maine,

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other than the last night at my dad's with my dad,

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it's just me and my dad. So the first night,

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my dad it says to me, I'm afraid to go

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to sleep because he thinks he's going to die in sleep.

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So we wind up sitting sitting up and just shooting

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the shit until like two o'clock in the morning. Then

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you go to sleep. There's appointments the next day. Hospice

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is coming in. Because hospice is not like where you

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go to the hospice center and it's the end of life.

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They'll come in wherever you are, and they'll just they'll

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do two days a week. They have volunteers, they have

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people that come around and see you. So my brother's like, look,

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he can't be alone at all. The place he's living

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at does provide a higher level of care, but it's

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in a completely different building, and my dad's like, I

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just want to I want to stay where I am. Well,

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we wind up having to shower my dad. We're getting

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him out of the shower, We're drying them off, You're

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helping him get dressed, You're doing all these things. Some

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days he's in the morning, he was a little better.

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was afraid to go to sleep. One night I said

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to him, I think I'm gonna stay at Kevin's tonight.

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He's like, I'm gonna be alone, and it was it

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was just strange. So we would go over to my

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brothers at night, try to get my dad out. My

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mom did show up. She was absolutely wonderful, stayed with

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the kids. I have to say my brother has carried

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the load on this. My brother has been absolutely and

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my sister, but primarily my brother absolutely amazing with this.

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He's the one that pushed my dad two years ago

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to move to Maine and he lived there from November

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to April and decided he hated it was the darkest

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place on the planet and it's always cold. I fucking

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hate it. Here, goes back to Jersey and then he

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fell and he had some problems. And my brother flies

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in from a business trip and re routes to Newark,

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drives over to where he is in Jersey and sees

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them and goes, we're not doing this, You're coming with me,

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and packs them up and puts them in the assistant

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living center and then went back down without my help,

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and my sister came up from so my sister, my

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brother and his wife, who's been amazing Morgan, they pack

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up a trailer. They put all his stuff in there,

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all the things he needs, his furniture, his big couch,

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his big giant fucking bookcase, Dan and it's like unbelievable,

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and trailer their own car behind the U haul all

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the way back to me. And yeah, in one film,

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by the.

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Speaker 2: Way, those are not comfortable rides you.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm even like.

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Speaker 4: Going to taking a U haul across town. Now, imagine

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doing that for like hours and hours and hours.

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Speaker 2: So with a car behind.

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Speaker 1: You gotcha, So you got it. So my brother decides

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that this is and the air goes out. Oh yeah,

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and you know, get satellite radio. So my dad he

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gets all that stuff in there, and then my dad

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starts having like from Father's Day on, there's been a

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lot of falls, Like that morning I called him. He's

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saying to me, I'm in desperate you know, I'm in

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a desperate situation. I can't can hold anybody. You gotta

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call somebody, blah blah blah. Uh. So that's when I

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had called my brother. I called, I called the front

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desk of the place. So now he's had a few

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more of these instances. So I wound up staying with

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him again. It was showering. But then we're meeting with

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all these different people. He agrees to let hospice come in.

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Now he goes, I stress is a bad thing. We

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know that stress with Parkinson's. I think it's just wiping

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them out. And the idea of just having had his stuff,

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some of it's still not unpacked fully and having to

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move again, he was totally against it. So we priced

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out what would it be for twenty four hour care

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coming in from the outside to be to let him

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stay where he was, and we had a financial advisor

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come in, we had and the hospice people come in.

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We had there was a social worker, and of course,

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like there's all these interviews and things, and my dad

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the one thing that isn't really going is his mind.

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Speaker 2: Right, He's like, I'm right here.

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Speaker 1: So at one point to go well, he kept saying,

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I'll do whatever you want me to do, but I

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don't want to go so and don't forget that Friday

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that I'm there. He's calling one of his best friends

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ever says, I'm dying in the next two days. Calls

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his brother, I'm dying in the next two days. My

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uncle's calling me, going, is he really dying in the

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next two days because I got I got a bunch

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of shit going out of my life and I can't

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get can't get to the East coast because he lives

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in Utah. He goes, I can't get get there, you know,

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until this date or whatever I go. I have no

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idea he wants it sounds like he wants to die.

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So then I'm realizing I'm watching him as as they're

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doing these interviews and they say to him, listen, we

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have to ask you a lot of questions and things

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like that. And they even do a memory test where

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they go, uh, you know the color blue coffee and

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the number three, And then they talked about something and

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go repeat back to me what I said in that order,

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and he did it no problem, and so like you

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could see things and I'm watching and then they go,

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do you remember your wife's name? He goes, what what

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did you call your wife when you were married? And

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my father says, when we were fighting.

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Speaker 2: Social workers got to be like or or just.

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Speaker 1: Normal, which made everybody laugh. Right, So, like, I think

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this is an assessment by the place. So I'm going, Okay,

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he's great. My man ain't dying. He ain't dying, but

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I am watching every day getting worse. The last day

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that I'm with him, he fell twice. While I'm there.

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I turned to move the coffee table because I got

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him up, got him out of a chair. He's holding

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on to his walker, and all of a sudden, as

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I turned to move the coffee table so it's not

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in the way of the walker, I hear he went

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back down in the chair, hit the arm, hit the lamp,

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you know, a lot of noise. Nothing. Again, another time

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I'm washing a dish, I turn around, I see him

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going I grab him. So there was a lot of that.

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You're lifting them up, you're carrying them, you're helping them.

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And then there were days where he would just do

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everything on his own. So we finally convinced him that

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the best mode for him was to move. He's got

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to move to the higher level of care. So that

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requires everything being moved out of his apartment. Now I

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feel like shit, I haven't really slept every night. He's

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afraid to sleep. I'm waking up a couple times a night.

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As he's waking up, he's going to the bathroom. I'm

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not interfering with him, but I'm standing there at the

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ready in case he goes down. I got to be there.

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So all this stuff is going on, and we get

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a place. They have a room. It's but it all

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it is is a studio with a bathroom. So in

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this place season now he has like it would be

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a great for my brother, and I go. They should

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open these for college graduates before they get into life.

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Like it's all young people, you got your own plays.

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There's a cafeteria, if you want to go still get meals.

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You can cook your own if you want to. But

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we're like, this would be the great cool, the greatest thing,

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like to graduate into adulthood.

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Speaker 2: I'll go now, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: And he's got this nice kitchen and everything. So this

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has no kitchen, no refrigerator, know anything. So uh, we're

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going he's gonna he's gonna fucking hate it. He's gonna

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hate it. And but my brother and I his wife

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ran the lead. She did a great job. My sister,

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by the way, I don't mean to leave her out

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on any of this. She did. She was there, she

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had Poor Katie got to the airport. Her flight was

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canceled so she can wound up renting a car and

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driving from DC to Maine just to be there. Yep.

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Speaker 2: And sixteen hours.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she still had to do work. She had

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to work on odd hours with this grant thing she's doing.

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And it was good. She was amazing too, but just crazy.

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So I said to my brother, looking, I don't want

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you move all this stuff again, this big heavy, Oh,

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think of like like one of those Think of a

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room with rich mahogany and thick leather furniture. Yes, that's

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what my father has. He's a thick leather black couch,

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big thick leather chair, thick leather ottoman right these things, yes,

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and one of these really big, heavy, gigantic bookcases filled

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with books. So I say, listen, man, I don't want

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you to moving that shit alone again. I will stay

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until that's done. Meanwhile, I got my fifteen year old.

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Jordan steps up and stays with him. But I'm sure

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Jordan was, you know, rerouted his whole schedule, so he's

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staying with Jamison, and who knows what's happening there, you know.

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But at one point, Jordan's going, oh my god, I

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haven't talked to grand Baia.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe it.

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Speaker 1: I go, who wha what what?

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Speaker 3: Whoa?

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Speaker 2: Whoa whoa whoa whoa.

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Speaker 1: This is not about you, This is about him. And

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your grandfather wouldn't want his twenty three year old grandson

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hanging on his dying breath. Life is to be lived,

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and that's fine. Do not go burdening yourself with I

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didn't call, I didn't do it. Just hang tight. So

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Jordan handled the things here. I came home. The frat

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house was exactly what I thought it was a frat house.

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And then my brother and I man, we humped that

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stuff all the way up. We threw it in the

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back of his pickup truck and went up the hill

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to the new place. Carried it in. Right. We got

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this big dresser. We're going in. You got the doors.

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We're trying to hit the doors to open up. And

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we noticed that the funeral parlor is outside the place.

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They're there to pick up a body. Somebody died. H

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they're there to pick up a body.

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Speaker 2: I first Dame moved into the city of Rochester. I'm

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not joking.

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Speaker 1: So my brother and I are wheeling in this giant dresser.

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We've got it on. I don't even I think we

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were carrying it. I think we took it off the

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back of the bed and we're carrying it and whatever angle.

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It's too wide to get through the second door into

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the building. So we're like, so we're it bangs again.

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I go Jackson, Jackson, Jesus Kevin. We got to turn this.

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We get and right behind us is the gurney, like

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it's right there.

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Speaker 5: Like the gurney.

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Speaker 1: Guys had to back up with the gurney because we've

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got the dresser that we're going through. We're holding up

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someone picking up a body to bring to be.

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Speaker 2: Sorry fellas, but the guys were like, oh, no problem,

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no problem, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: So we get in there, everything everything's set up beautifully

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like it was great. Then my sister in law very

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smartly had ordered a wheelchair. We get my dad, we

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put him in a wheelchair and we wheel him. I

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wheel him, I push him up the hill and into

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the new building and into the room and we spin

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him around and he looks at me and I'm like,

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this is where I have not been emotional once the

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entire week, like not any of the five days. And

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he looks at me and goes, well, yeah, okay, I

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guess this is it. And the only thing that I

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could equate this too is dropping off my first child

469
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at daycare and walking away as their little face crumpled

470
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,839
because they don't know anybody and it's all strangers and

471
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,480
it's scary, and you know, everybody goes through it. And

472
00:24:34,519 --> 00:24:36,799
I remember going walking out with my brother and I'm like,

473
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:40,799
I couldn't even talk. I couldn't talk at that moment.

474
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:43,519
I was like, you gotta be I don't even know

475
00:24:43,559 --> 00:24:46,759
what's happening here? And my sister in law swooped in

476
00:24:46,799 --> 00:24:48,480
and took my dad and showed them all these different

477
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,440
places and stuff. My brother and I continue to move

478
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,240
things in. We wound up bringing some of the furniture back.

479
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:55,640
They've got to get rid of a lot of his

480
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,960
furniture because it won't fit in there. He's fine in

481
00:24:59,039 --> 00:25:01,240
his room, and and the next day says to me,

482
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:04,400
this place is a lot more lively than the last place.

483
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,480
I feel much better here. But he goes, I had

484
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,319
a problem in the shower this morning. I pulled the bell,

485
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:14,279
twelve people came in, and then he goes, let me

486
00:25:14,279 --> 00:25:17,200
tell you something. I'm on their shower. I got scrubbed

487
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,039
like I've never been scrubbed before. I mean, I'll tell

488
00:25:20,079 --> 00:25:22,279
you what they scrub places. I don't know if she'll

489
00:25:22,319 --> 00:25:25,279
let me do something my own, but I'm yeah. So

490
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,640
he's got a sense of humor. He's doing fine. Then

491
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:31,640
he fell again in the new place, so and and

492
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,079
other things are happening. So I don't know, but he's

493
00:25:34,079 --> 00:25:37,039
in a better place. And it's better for my brother

494
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:40,599
and sister in law because they're not running over every

495
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:44,039
day with every little thing to help him through. But

496
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:47,000
I'll tell you, man, it took the wind out of

497
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,160
my sails. It took the wind out of my saals.

498
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,119
And then I drove back with my mom to Albany

499
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,119
and then took a train from Albany back up. So

500
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,920
my mother's with me on the last day, and we

501
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:02,079
go to say goodbye, and my mother gets herself very

502
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,359
upset and leaves and goes to the bathroom and she's

503
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,519
in there for a while and her stomach's all upset,

504
00:26:07,559 --> 00:26:09,680
and I have no idea she's spraying like a skunk

505
00:26:09,759 --> 00:26:13,039
or something in there. I don't know. And my father, meanwhile,

506
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:16,160
my father who had that morning was the problem with

507
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,519
the shower. When I get there, I knock on the

508
00:26:18,519 --> 00:26:21,559
door and goes come in and he goes it took

509
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,440
him like seventeen minutes to get his underwear on. I

510
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,920
mean that that's where we're at, right. And here's what

511
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,680
is so difficult to watch with this is you're watching

512
00:26:31,759 --> 00:26:38,160
the deterioration of a body, not necessarily a mind, a body.

513
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,319
Although he feels like dements is moving in, but I'm

514
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:44,000
not so sure. And he said to me, you know,

515
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:47,599
some of the things with Parkinson's is you start to hallucinate, Okay,

516
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,400
And so he said to me, yesterday, I had a

517
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,599
full conversation with your sister about picking up medicine and

518
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,000
when she was going to come back with it, blah

519
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,359
blah blah. And he goes and then I'm talking to

520
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:58,160
her later and I hallucinated the whole thing. And what

521
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:01,960
he said to me was, how can a mind that

522
00:27:02,039 --> 00:27:06,920
build the house be the mind that hallucinates this? And

523
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,400
I think he's having a hard time coming to great

524
00:27:09,519 --> 00:27:12,599
It's just just it's it's a hard thing, and I

525
00:27:12,799 --> 00:27:16,559
look at it at it this way. No one gets

526
00:27:16,559 --> 00:27:20,400
out of this planet alive. I believe there's a purpose

527
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,359
as to why we're here. Everybody's different, but I think

528
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:27,319
it's I have my belief. I won't say exactly what

529
00:27:27,319 --> 00:27:31,000
it is, and I don't want to change anybody, but

530
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,119
but it's the natural order of life.

531
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:33,759
Speaker 5: Right.

532
00:27:34,079 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 1: He's seventy nine years old, probably may live to be

533
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:41,400
eighty in October. What is the natural order of Life's

534
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,319
just the way the way it should be. Doesn't make

535
00:27:43,319 --> 00:27:48,319
it any easier, really, but it's you know, you can

536
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,839
kind of give your condolences. It's not a child, it's

537
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,119
not somebody in the prime of their life. It's not

538
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,440
a mother who has four kids and struck down at

539
00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:00,000
forty two years old because of whatever. So you got

540
00:28:00,079 --> 00:28:03,160
to look at it that way. Maybe I'm too practical,

541
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,440
but I you know, that's it. And I call him

542
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:10,119
every day and so far he's been Yeah.

543
00:28:09,599 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 4: I remember this with my father, and he had cancer

544
00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:14,960
and the last thing to go was his mind. And

545
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,440
as soon as he started like asking questions about relatives

546
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,200
that already passed down, why they hadn't come to visit

547
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:19,960
him at the hospital.

548
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 2: H my dearest brother hasn't come to see I me.

549
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 4: I've been here three weeks, and my other uncle telt

550
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:25,720
to well, when I see it, I'll give him hell.

551
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,000
The things we had to do were and I wish

552
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,039
somebody had told me this eighteen years ago. We had

553
00:28:32,039 --> 00:28:34,519
to kind of have some humor with it to wash

554
00:28:34,559 --> 00:28:36,480
it down, or else you would have been like just

555
00:28:36,599 --> 00:28:38,359
completely saddened.

556
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,079
Speaker 1: A spoonful of sugar. Right.

557
00:28:39,519 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 2: First, remember that we're Christians.

558
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 4: That my father, like when he died, was more alive

559
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,160
than he ever was in his in his body number one,

560
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,440
number two. And I kind of learned this over the weekend.

561
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,960
It's third of July. My my stepdad has this huge

562
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,960
annual party. This is his holiday.

563
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,119
Speaker 2: And they live on this perfect spot in the beach.

564
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:56,319
Speaker 5: You couldn't you could not.

565
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,279
Speaker 4: Draw a better place to live on a on a

566
00:28:58,319 --> 00:29:00,400
beach in Lake Carry, Right, It's.

567
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 2: This bungalow that goes down has a walkway down to

568
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,839
the beach. You got sand, and you got trees and

569
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,920
you got grass. It's perfect.

570
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,759
Speaker 4: It's on a little hill like it's the prime real estate.

571
00:29:09,839 --> 00:29:11,279
If they ever wanted to sell this, they can make

572
00:29:11,279 --> 00:29:13,640
a killing for it. They'll never sell it, right. And

573
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:15,880
there's this one woman there who has a husband who

574
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:18,400
has dementia in Alzheimer's. He's going through that. I know,

575
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,680
it's not the same thing as parkinsists, right, And she

576
00:29:21,839 --> 00:29:23,680
was telling I asked him, I go, how's he doing?

577
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:25,599
And she says, you know, And she told me these

578
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,720
stories where she joined the support group where she knows

579
00:29:27,759 --> 00:29:30,039
people who they left their husband for two hours, they

580
00:29:30,079 --> 00:29:34,599
come back the entire grandfather clocksmen dismantled it, organized pieces,

581
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:36,720
but they could never put it back together. But like

582
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:38,839
that type of thing, or I have to go home,

583
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,880
I got paperwork to do. They flash back to a

584
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,960
job they had thirty years ago, and she goes, I

585
00:29:44,119 --> 00:29:47,240
was told this that the things you'll cry about today

586
00:29:47,599 --> 00:29:49,039
you will laugh about tomorrow.

587
00:29:49,119 --> 00:29:51,279
Speaker 1: Oh and that's usually the case in just like in

588
00:29:51,279 --> 00:29:51,880
life to general.

589
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:53,279
Speaker 2: And that's the thing that I really took from that.

590
00:29:53,319 --> 00:29:56,119
Speaker 4: I wish I had that bad idea back sure when

591
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,400
my father was dying. The things you'll cry about today

592
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,440
you will laugh about tomorrow. The fact that I had to, like,

593
00:30:01,519 --> 00:30:03,960
you know, wash my father Dahlia's day looks like a

594
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:04,680
shrivel pretzel.

595
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: Do ye look even that? I mean, I think my

596
00:30:06,839 --> 00:30:10,000
dad was very My dad's very private and very proud

597
00:30:10,079 --> 00:30:13,640
and certainly never would be one for any of this.

598
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,279
But he's very accepting of where you know, not very accepting,

599
00:30:17,319 --> 00:30:19,920
but he's accepting of where he is. And when we

600
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,200
helped him, he helped him. And you don't bat an eye,

601
00:30:22,279 --> 00:30:23,920
and you would do it in a second. And I

602
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:25,799
think at some point he said to me, you know,

603
00:30:26,119 --> 00:30:29,000
I feel so bad. We're rerouting everybody's schedule, and I

604
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,720
you and Katie and Kevin bah and I said, I

605
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,119
will speak for my brother and sister on this one.

606
00:30:35,799 --> 00:30:39,200
I don't think there's any place we'd rather be than

607
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,799
where we are right now with you, because we want

608
00:30:41,839 --> 00:30:44,759
to make sure everything's okay. Yeah, And I don't know

609
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,440
how that hit him or didn't hit him. It wasn't

610
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:49,720
meant to be. It just it was like it just

611
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,000
flew out of me, right, those words just flew out,

612
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:56,559
And I feel that way. I also can never. I

613
00:30:56,599 --> 00:30:58,440
don't think I'll ever be able to thank my brother

614
00:30:58,599 --> 00:31:01,759
enough for all he's done, and my sister, but especially

615
00:31:01,799 --> 00:31:04,160
you know, Kevin really's taking the reins on this and

616
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:09,359
his wife because I I would go into like my mom,

617
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,359
the one like a duck. I guess I don't know. Uh,

618
00:31:12,519 --> 00:31:15,640
he just really took it ran. And my thing is

619
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,880
I have no ego in this, but I didn't want

620
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,960
my brother doing the move again by himself. And he

621
00:31:22,039 --> 00:31:25,599
has some some great friends, I mean amazing friends. Like

622
00:31:25,599 --> 00:31:28,599
one of them comes over after and he goes, yeah,

623
00:31:28,599 --> 00:31:30,480
I just left George Bush. I had to cook dinner.

624
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,880
And he's a private chef. He just cooked dinner for

625
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,640
George Bush who lives in Kenny Bunk, you know, our

626
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,200
summers or whatever in Kenny Bunk. And he goes, yeah,

627
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,960
I went over there, and he goes, I actually prepared

628
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,279
it at home and brought the food over. Uh. They

629
00:31:44,319 --> 00:31:45,759
were having whatever party.

630
00:31:45,519 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 2: And the bases are coming back, you know what I'm saying.

631
00:31:50,079 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: And then he comes to help. That guy brings like

632
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,920
I mean, they brought Dolly's. He had another buddy come iris,

633
00:31:56,359 --> 00:31:59,599
and it was just everything could not have gone smoother

634
00:31:59,759 --> 00:32:04,240
and easier as a whole. You know. The only downside

635
00:32:04,279 --> 00:32:06,200
is I ended up with bronchitis. I've been on an

636
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,720
antibiotic for me. Like I told you, I did not.

637
00:32:09,319 --> 00:32:12,119
I should have brought the bottle with me. I will

638
00:32:12,119 --> 00:32:13,880
bring the bottle. Don't bring the bottle. I will go

639
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:14,359
get gluten.

640
00:32:14,359 --> 00:32:16,079
Speaker 2: It's not a biolet, it's more of like a container.

641
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 1: I will get it, all right.

642
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 2: But the one thing it's it's funny though.

643
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:21,279
Speaker 4: You know, this is a guy named doctor Peter to

644
00:32:21,359 --> 00:32:23,160
you who tells you we never prepare for our last

645
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,000
ten years of life, and even if you do, you

646
00:32:25,079 --> 00:32:27,000
have to prepare for it because things like like your

647
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,119
father seemed like a guy who prepared for that. But

648
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,680
when Parkins took over, it took over. Just imagine where

649
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,720
he would be if he wasn't working out and all

650
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:34,079
those things.

651
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 2: But I want to think about this too, you.

652
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 4: You telling you know, you speaking for your brother and sister,

653
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:41,880
giving them marve Leeby's Beach. There's no place I'd rather

654
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,640
be right here right now. That is a testament to

655
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:48,400
your parents raising of you guys, because you're all smart kids.

656
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:51,319
You're selfless people, and you always have a plan. And

657
00:32:51,359 --> 00:32:53,160
I doubt that Bill Moran would have become the one

658
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,279
legged duck even if you were owned by your only

659
00:32:55,359 --> 00:32:57,759
by yourself, because you always figure it out.

660
00:32:57,759 --> 00:32:59,119
Speaker 2: You always freaking fun.

661
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,599
Speaker 4: You have always as long as I've known you, You've

662
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,079
always found a way. And your parents raised and I

663
00:33:04,079 --> 00:33:06,160
remember when they were both here and I said.

664
00:33:06,039 --> 00:33:08,319
Speaker 2: What's your secret? Because you know your son thinks that

665
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:12,200
Italians are dumb Jews. My family, you know, we're very tight,

666
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,519
we're Christians, but we're not very smart. You raised three

667
00:33:14,559 --> 00:33:15,200
smart kids.

668
00:33:15,359 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: What was your secret?

669
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 4: And of course making them laugh, and you know it

670
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,599
was just the fact that they they may not have

671
00:33:21,599 --> 00:33:23,240
been on the same page, but they teamed up to

672
00:33:23,319 --> 00:33:24,319
raise three great kids.

673
00:33:24,319 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 2: And now this is the return on their investment. And

674
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,400
I want you your father should always know that.

675
00:33:29,599 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 4: You know that seeing you, the three of you do

676
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:35,240
that for him is the ultimate return on an investment

677
00:33:35,279 --> 00:33:36,039
in parenting that.

678
00:33:36,039 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: You could ever ask, well, I would never, you know.

679
00:33:38,759 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 2: Among the other things, the grandkids and all that stuff.

680
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,519
It's just one big part of that.

681
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:45,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was nice to have the whole family together,

682
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,119
like all three of us, and it was nice that

683
00:33:48,119 --> 00:33:51,119
it was kind of small and not, you know, like

684
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,400
it was just my sister and just me. My sister

685
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,119
in law is wonderful, and there are two kids. But

686
00:33:56,119 --> 00:33:58,599
I think any more of that it would become almost chaotic,

687
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,200
and you didn't need chaos. We needed to kind of

688
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,799
streamline things but also spend some time together. And you know,

689
00:34:04,839 --> 00:34:06,720
there's a lot of other things man, that you don't

690
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,119
think about, like getting other people's in somebody's name on

691
00:34:10,159 --> 00:34:12,400
a bank account, and you got to do it in person.

692
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,400
Banks no longer because of all the you know, I

693
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,920
think they just arrested a guy who is Canadian who

694
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:21,440
is the head of the scam what they call the

695
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,920
grandparents scam, where people are calling up and saying I

696
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,119
need money now I've been in an accident, that sort

697
00:34:26,159 --> 00:34:30,679
of thing. So they got that guy. But still you've

698
00:34:30,679 --> 00:34:33,960
got to go into institutions with the person. Now, if

699
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:37,440
somebody dies, then it goes into probate court sometimes because

700
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,559
and that takes forever. So we're trying to figure out,

701
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,519
you know, can we do almost a weekend at Bernie's

702
00:34:43,639 --> 00:34:47,440
with my dad? Cut him down to one bank in

703
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,840
New York State and one bank in New Jersey and

704
00:34:51,079 --> 00:34:53,519
get my brother on there because my brother's closest. I

705
00:34:53,559 --> 00:34:55,880
go yeah, And I said to my brother and go, look,

706
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,199
that's not a tripe. You can do a loan.

707
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 2: So I will your brother's friends with the bushes.

708
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:01,159
Speaker 4: They have to know some I A people that'll make

709
00:35:01,159 --> 00:35:03,679
a mask, that'll make a mask that you can walk in,

710
00:35:03,679 --> 00:35:04,679
because that's what they do with Biden.

711
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: Man.

712
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 2: But don't tell me Biden was making all those appearances.

713
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,760
Speaker 4: They had a special mask. Now they had like a

714
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,440
weekend at Biden's type of situation.

715
00:35:10,519 --> 00:35:13,079
Speaker 1: We're gonna We're gonna take a moment. Kevin Uh. I

716
00:35:13,199 --> 00:35:17,199
was with Kevin for the fourth of July and Uh, Kevin, Yes,

717
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,880
r Kevin Kevin Mure and I loved it. It was fantastic.

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Kevin Uh says, we still have all of his fingers.

719
00:35:23,199 --> 00:35:24,440
Kevin has all of his fingers.

720
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Speaker 2: Kevin does.

721
00:35:25,199 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: Yes. I'm not sure if our kids almost lost probably,

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763
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the canvas, and my ain't a picture of you and me.

764
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Speaker 3: Round across country in a dusty, old log.

765
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Speaker 2: Just a boat and.

766
00:38:36,039 --> 00:38:43,280
Speaker 1: Its majesty And now i'm looking at you with the

767
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world in the.

768
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Speaker 4: Rear view pretty is gonna be see in the rosy

769
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look at me telling me you?

770
00:38:53,599 --> 00:38:57,280
Speaker 2: LOVE me i Didn't shoot, jetic yeah Son of whalen?

771
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:58,119
Speaker 1: Did shooter.

772
00:38:59,639 --> 00:38:59,679
Speaker 4: And?

773
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: What else what is is?

774
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 2: He done he's done. A ton he has a. FEW

775
00:39:05,079 --> 00:39:06,960
hits i mean this is one of his, few hits

776
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,760
but he. Never exploded like all the sons of.

777
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 4: Cash And And whale Jennings And george jones and all

778
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:16,199
they all like the grandkids now are starting, bands together all,

779
00:39:16,199 --> 00:39:17,800
their grandkids but none of them are really.

780
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 2: LIKE hitting i think what they're trying to do is they're.

781
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,000
Speaker 4: Trying to play off the, old men the fathers and

782
00:39:22,079 --> 00:39:25,840
grandfathers just do their, old stuff but they're they can't

783
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:26,960
recapture the.

784
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 2: Same success shooter came.

785
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 4: THE closest i Watched The bob Dylan movie Yeah with

786
00:39:33,119 --> 00:39:34,360
gary With That's Timothy.

787
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:34,679
Speaker 2: Shalla.

788
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:35,199
Speaker 1: MAY yeah i.

789
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 2: Liked it was.

790
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:37,559
Speaker 1: IT good i thought it was. Really GOOD and i

791
00:39:37,639 --> 00:39:41,480
Didn't Realize johnny cash had such a part. In there oh, No,

792
00:39:41,599 --> 00:39:44,199
KIDDING well i mean it's such a part in like

793
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,599
the beginning OF of i played a lot of the

794
00:39:46,679 --> 00:39:48,840
Festivals with dylan and then and would say to them

795
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:52,360
and wrote them and they in. Corresponded together and and

796
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,280
Then when bob it Ends with bob going electric At

797
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:59,199
The Newport jazz Festival In, rhode island, and uh what,

798
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,960
you know everything that happens, from that it kind of.

799
00:40:02,039 --> 00:40:05,800
Ends there but. It's great it's. Well done uh tells you.

800
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,840
A Lot and bob. Gone around bob got, the ladies that's. For.

801
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:13,639
Sure uh kevin is joining us from. His compound not in, The.

802
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,239
Garage kevin. I'M disappointed i thought for sure there'd Be.

803
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:18,760
The garageio it's two.

804
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:19,320
Speaker 5: Goddamn.

805
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: Hot yeah, well yeah it's like ninety something. Degrees today

806
00:40:22,599 --> 00:40:25,199
that laid out in the in the heat today with,

807
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:31,400
THE sun i Should do. Danny's, Dirty oh danny's growing.

808
00:40:31,599 --> 00:40:35,000
A beard, I think I think I Think danny's are you? Or,

809
00:40:35,079 --> 00:40:38,960
no no there WAS talk i couldn't, do it but.

810
00:40:39,079 --> 00:40:40,639
You couldn't but you got. THE stubble i got. The

811
00:40:40,679 --> 00:40:42,840
stubble is This? Stubble? Suffice yeah right for?

812
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:43,079
Speaker 4: Right?

813
00:40:43,119 --> 00:40:43,800
Speaker 2: Now yeah yeah.

814
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,519
Speaker 1: You have now you've let the mustache grow longer than

815
00:40:46,559 --> 00:40:47,199
the arrest, of it.

816
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,280
Speaker 2: NOT intentionally i just have. It shaved it's growing.

817
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: Faster now, oh okay, All right Bobby, The, Booby, Mario

818
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,679
uh KEVIN and i were Together for Fourth. Of july

819
00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:00,760
we Went To Wally. Wally pecones What's that? Wally, is

820
00:41:01,039 --> 00:41:03,880
uh give me the name of IT because i always?

821
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:04,239
Say wrong?

822
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:08,119
Speaker 5: Is It O'mearo's, Omarow custom taylor's.

823
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,280
Speaker 1: Yea a merrow custom tailors like they do high, end

824
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:15,119
suits high end, beautiful, STUFF right, I, mean kevin this Stuff.

825
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 5: Is hwan potter's kind of.

826
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 1: High, end yes and, it's uh.

827
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 4: You guys getting fitted for Suits for. Greg's wedding, well,

828
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,599
no no, No no And Like buffalo bills players. Go

829
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,079
there there are People that wally won't even.

830
00:41:28,119 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 1: Tell you he will. Not disclose there's. PROBABLY uh i,

831
00:41:34,039 --> 00:41:36,880
Was thinking i'm Thinking Of tom. CRUISE type i don't

832
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,159
Know A tom. CRUISE type i would THINK that i

833
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:40,199
may have. Been too he.

834
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:42,599
Speaker 5: Protects us he, protects us and.

835
00:41:42,679 --> 00:41:45,679
Speaker 1: His son is taken over and doing a. Great, Job matt.

836
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,920
Matt pecone but we had a great time And they

837
00:41:49,199 --> 00:41:51,960
Wally invited JAMISON and i, to join and so uh

838
00:41:52,639 --> 00:41:56,119
so we Did, And jamison jamison was all About the

839
00:41:56,199 --> 00:42:00,079
jamison asked if he could bring, his friend uh, a

840
00:42:00,199 --> 00:42:03,159
GIRL and, i said, let me let me double Check,

841
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:07,360
with wally and he, said absolutely and so uh out.

842
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:11,599
We went But but Jamison was jamison walked in and

843
00:42:11,679 --> 00:42:16,559
looked Like. Nan north he did Well Like. NANAGA north

844
00:42:16,599 --> 00:42:17,679
i don't know he had.

845
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:21,559
Speaker 5: He had He had jackson's. Pants, on yeah there are

846
00:42:21,559 --> 00:42:22,840
about six sizes too long.

847
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:24,519
Speaker 2: For Him m.

848
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 1: James and jordan's.

849
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:28,679
Speaker 5: Shirt on it was about three sizes too big.

850
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:32,159
Speaker 1: For him he bought that. Shirt right So it's jamison

851
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,320
is NOW actually i think taller. THAN me i think he's.

852
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:39,880
Six too he Is uh jackson's. Cowboy BOOTS so i said, to,

853
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:41,840
him listen it's really. Hot out you're going to. A

854
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:45,920
pool he. Goes well the weather forecast he gave, TO

855
00:42:46,039 --> 00:42:49,599
me i didn't. Check myself the weather forecast he gave

856
00:42:49,639 --> 00:42:51,239
to me was that it was supposed to drop into

857
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,519
the sixties at night. Or something it was supposed to get.

858
00:42:54,559 --> 00:42:58,079
Very COOL so i threw on, a PULLOVER which i Left,

859
00:42:58,119 --> 00:43:04,559
at Wally's and jamison put on, like, this no no.

860
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,960
Big DEAL so, i uh it's a some button. Down

861
00:43:09,039 --> 00:43:13,039
shirt he's very into his. Own style so there's. Jeans

862
00:43:13,119 --> 00:43:15,960
there instead of, a belt it's, a rope it's. Cowboy

863
00:43:16,039 --> 00:43:19,920
boots they're flared at the bottom like he's. Got HIMSELF and,

864
00:43:20,039 --> 00:43:23,840
I go i'm not sure we show up every kid

865
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,880
his age is in a. Bathing suit he. DIDN'T flinch

866
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:28,880
i said, to him bring a, bathing suit bring, a

867
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:30,559
towel put it all in. The back but he went

868
00:43:30,599 --> 00:43:32,320
and changed and that. Was it but. He did he

869
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,519
came In AND kevin i think he would. HAVE melted

870
00:43:34,519 --> 00:43:36,320
i think he was melting because he came in and

871
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,159
he was sitting with. EVERYBODY talking i looked.

872
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 5: At him, I'm like, i'm, like, really yeah, Pool, party yeah.

873
00:43:42,079 --> 00:43:45,039
Speaker 1: Pool party that was. The thing that's what. He wore

874
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,280
he was sweating his ass off but that was a.

875
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,239
Great time and then we went back Over to kevin's

876
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:53,239
house and uh they lit off fireworks, and uh, you

877
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,760
know harassed the neighbors and uh did all kinds. Of

878
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:56,679
stuff but the good the.

879
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 5: Good parents were sitting there drinking while the kids are blowing.

880
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,199
Speaker 1: Things, off yes they were blowing off a ton. Of

881
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:07,039
stuff like you had to See the kevin must have

882
00:44:07,119 --> 00:44:09,719
had like an arsenal. Of things they went down there

883
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,880
nearly like it was nearly a thousand dollars worth. OF fireworks,

884
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:13,960
I THINK am? I, wrong.

885
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 5: No we don't get me. In trouble come.

886
00:44:19,679 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 1: Before. The, Discount no i'm not trying to get. To

887
00:44:22,519 --> 00:44:25,360
divorce but it was like before, the discount. All right,

888
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:27,519
so YEAH so i mean in, these guys you're seeing

889
00:44:27,519 --> 00:44:29,519
the boys go and light it and then run back

890
00:44:29,559 --> 00:44:32,000
and row, and lighted. Run back so that was fun, and,

891
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,280
uh yeah we just. It was it was a pretty

892
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,840
good overall fourth ate like a freaking Pig. At wallis,

893
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:43,119
and uh by, the way some Lady. At, WALLY'S uh

894
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,119
i normally don't see, friend REQUESTS and i think it's

895
00:44:46,199 --> 00:44:49,239
because maybe it Came on instagram. Or SOMETHING but i

896
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,320
saw a MESSAGE and i haven't. Opened it, but this

897
00:44:52,519 --> 00:44:55,320
this is this is why everybody yells, at, me OKAY

898
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,800
because i get the banner that tells me pretty MUCH

899
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:02,639
everything i. Need, to no maybe there's, more INFORMATION but i.

900
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,880
Got it and the message said we should go. Out

901
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:13,280
sometime THAT'S what, i SAID and i. DO it i did,

902
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:18,000
not respond. LOVELY person i actually found.

903
00:45:18,039 --> 00:45:20,679
Speaker 5: That person i'm surprised you saw because your face was

904
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,800
buried on your phone most of. The day jamison over

905
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:29,119
there no text all. Day long we were texting all,

906
00:45:29,159 --> 00:45:30,239
day long but you were texting.

907
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,320
Speaker 1: All man because everything with my dad AND my i.

908
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,079
DON'T remember i don't, remember THAT BUT i. I had

909
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,519
I thought i had a. GREAT time i was sitting chatting.

910
00:45:38,599 --> 00:45:41,960
With you we're, busting balls, we're playing, you know watching

911
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,719
the kids do, their thing, and uh. That's it but

912
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:46,639
then this person did send me we should go. Out

913
00:45:46,679 --> 00:45:49,679
sometime and she was floating in, the pool had, a

914
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:51,280
drink the, whole, thing right she.

915
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 5: Had like.

916
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:57,039
Speaker 1: They were out floating and having herself A grand, all

917
00:45:57,159 --> 00:46:02,719
right that, was IT and i It's. WEST side I

918
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:07,039
just i Can't. West side it's, too far, you know that's.

919
00:46:07,119 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 5: The thing he's not The west, side, though oh, you're

920
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:11,840
right but she's.

921
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 1: You're.

922
00:46:13,639 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 5: Fucking.

923
00:46:15,599 --> 00:46:17,039
Speaker 1: Here, wow well.

924
00:46:18,639 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 2: So maybe she moved over in the. CONTINENTAL drill i.

925
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: DON'T know i have no idea but the, uh yeah

926
00:46:23,079 --> 00:46:23,880
but she could be the.

927
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 5: Next she could be the next Double Dater.

928
00:46:27,079 --> 00:46:32,639
Speaker 1: Maton mark, oh, Yeah, UH KEVIN i i want to

929
00:46:32,639 --> 00:46:35,639
see if we can find out any more information. On

930
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:39,840
this something happened on your side of TOWN because i

931
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:43,960
was looking for there were a whole bunch of, firework

932
00:46:44,039 --> 00:46:47,480
mishaps like around. The country they Go from Utah. To illinois.

933
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:52,480
TEENS lost i guess SEVERAL teens i had partial amputations on,

934
00:46:52,519 --> 00:46:55,760
their HANDS and i always saw. The headlines but. ONE

935
00:46:55,960 --> 00:47:03,119
here i don't know if this is a tragic low

936
00:47:04,159 --> 00:47:11,519
or a strangely responsible workaround for something that. Had happened

937
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:17,079
but a guy In The brockport ogden area got into,

938
00:47:17,119 --> 00:47:19,519
an accident like car went off, the road hit, a

939
00:47:19,559 --> 00:47:25,280
tree both, airbags, DEPLOYED right, i mean this is a,

940
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:28,480
Shit SHOW and i don't know that there was anybody

941
00:47:28,519 --> 00:47:31,519
else in. The car so you got to be traveling

942
00:47:31,559 --> 00:47:33,840
at a high rate of speed for both of them to.

943
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:36,039
Go off usually it's just the one with, the person

944
00:47:36,119 --> 00:47:39,880
but they both, went off and this guy was found

945
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:45,039
pushing this Dented up honda back to wherever he was

946
00:47:45,079 --> 00:47:48,760
trying to get TO and, I go i, don't know

947
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,360
but his blood alcohol level it was at the level

948
00:47:52,599 --> 00:47:55,800
of that you would sanitize a. Hospital with he. Blew

949
00:47:55,920 --> 00:48:01,679
up he had a point two nine, nine nine, Your,

950
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:06,400
guest kevin. We did we did right the experiment, With,

951
00:48:06,559 --> 00:48:09,679
you yes at, your house in, Your garage we did the.

952
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:11,480
Whole experiment there's an episode you can go back and,

953
00:48:11,559 --> 00:48:14,079
listen TO and, i think what did you end? Up at?

954
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,719
POINT one i think it was one three or, one

955
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,920
four one three or one four? That high so this

956
00:48:20,079 --> 00:48:22,719
guy had to be DRINKING for, i mean it feels

957
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:27,559
like days and days. AND days i. Can't imagine and who's.

958
00:48:27,599 --> 00:48:29,840
Speaker 5: The cop who's the dick cop that doesn't give him?

959
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:32,480
The round round? It up give, them three don't?

960
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:35,599
Speaker 1: GIVE him i think it was two nine. NINE nine

961
00:48:35,679 --> 00:48:39,679
i think if you look, around nine, uh yeah four

962
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:43,559
times the, legal limit which is point. Zero, eight yeah

963
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:46,320
so you're over four times the legal limit, on, that

964
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:52,360
yeah your point two four would be yeah. Yeah yeah

965
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:57,800
so this guy is, uh wait point, three two so

966
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,280
he's just under, excuse, ME yeah i did my math oka,

967
00:49:01,599 --> 00:49:04,880
just yes but it is basically four times he got an.

968
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,880
Appearance TICKET but, i go this is what.

969
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:08,639
Speaker 2: He would here's the thing when when they let, him

970
00:49:08,679 --> 00:49:09,079
out was he?

971
00:49:09,199 --> 00:49:12,760
Speaker 4: STILL wasted i have, no idea but just based on having,

972
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,519
the ALCOHOL the bac is so high to, BEGIN with.

973
00:49:16,559 --> 00:49:19,320
Speaker 1: I have, no IDEA but, i go if you have

974
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:23,960
a point TWO nine bac and you're still mobile enough

975
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:28,159
to push your car and sweat some of, this out

976
00:49:28,679 --> 00:49:30,840
do you not get a few? Extra points is this

977
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,199
not a little bit of a bragging right? For somebody

978
00:49:34,559 --> 00:49:34,960
what kind?

979
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,800
Speaker 5: Of caught was he pushing it? IN reverse i.

980
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 1: DON'T know i mean that that's olympic. Level, dysfunction yes.

981
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:52,880
Functioning dysfunction that's that's olympic, function alcoholism. Functioning dysfunction at point,

982
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:56,159
two nine you fucking crash your car, so hard both airbags,

983
00:49:56,199 --> 00:49:58,559
go off you're still, don't talk you're, still alive and

984
00:49:58,679 --> 00:49:59,239
you push.

985
00:49:59,119 --> 00:50:01,079
Speaker 2: That mother to get this thing back on.

986
00:50:01,199 --> 00:50:03,199
Speaker 1: The Road if i'm, THE cop i may. FEEL bad

987
00:50:04,079 --> 00:50:06,880
i may. Feel bad no one, got hurt no one. Got,

988
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,199
ANYTHING now i know people, who say if you, drive

989
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:14,480
drunk you should be charged with uh. Involuntary manslaughter because

990
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:17,079
you could. Kill, somebody, yes RIGHT but i go in,

991
00:50:17,159 --> 00:50:19,280
this Case if i'm the, police officer it's a lot

992
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,119
of paperwork, for me and you are a bit of.

993
00:50:21,119 --> 00:50:23,360
A hero you're trying not to leave your. DEBRIS everywhere,

994
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,000
i mean there's probably a license playholder somewhere on someone's lawn.

995
00:50:27,119 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 2: Or so let's pretend you.

996
00:50:28,039 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 1: Got it let's pretend you to.

997
00:50:29,199 --> 00:50:31,360
Speaker 2: Crash, today yes let's just go home and sleep. This,

998
00:50:31,519 --> 00:50:34,320
off yeah my father back in, my day they just

999
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:35,920
bring you home because you.

1000
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:39,559
Speaker 1: Gotta go what kind of mindset goes crash. MY car

1001
00:50:40,199 --> 00:50:43,239
i pop both airbags Off and i'm gonna push, this,

1002
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:45,880
Home right That's what i'm.

1003
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:47,679
Speaker 2: Gonna do that's a mental toughness, right there you.

1004
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,679
Speaker 1: Know what i'll push. It home there's nothing, stopping me

1005
00:50:51,119 --> 00:50:54,360
and they. Will Not so i'm wondering if it's an.

1006
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,400
Undraged person they have not released the name of the

1007
00:50:56,480 --> 00:51:00,920
person that, Did, this okay so they're saying who, Did

1008
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:05,639
it but somebody somewhere knows who this is that crashed

1009
00:51:05,679 --> 00:51:09,320
their car at eight pm it might have been last

1010
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:12,239
night or the, night before and then decided to push

1011
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,239
it down. The road you still, got daylight you got

1012
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:14,679
to get there.

1013
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,119
Speaker 4: Before daylight you KNOW what? I, mean yeah with the

1014
00:51:17,159 --> 00:51:21,039
blue laws, nine, o'clock right is that what they call

1015
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,880
they call, blue laws not, blue laws, but, like.

1016
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:28,079
Speaker 1: Yes card it's. Blue laws it's like blue laws.

1017
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:29,559
Speaker 2: Were like you, couldn't serve you couldn't do Anything.

1018
00:51:29,559 --> 00:51:29,599
Speaker 3: On.

1019
00:51:29,679 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 4: SUNDAYS yeah i think it's a, blue card like you

1020
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:33,559
get your, blue card meaning you could drive after.

1021
00:51:33,599 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 2: NINE o'clock i think.

1022
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,159
Speaker 1: There were blue laws, in radio like you could say

1023
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:39,320
anything you want after ten O'CLOCK. THE fc i didn't

1024
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:40,480
know this until it was.

1025
00:51:40,559 --> 00:51:44,119
Speaker 4: Too, late yeah between ten pm and. Six AM so

1026
00:51:44,199 --> 00:51:45,719
i was at a boarding Show with Beth and chet.

1027
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 2: Remember them on the way the. Check goes after we took,

1028
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:50,480
the test we found we could swear between five. And,

1029
00:51:50,559 --> 00:51:51,880
six yeah.

1030
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:57,599
Speaker 1: That's funny check was. OF course i mean this guy

1031
00:51:57,679 --> 00:52:02,440
at point, twenty nine you got to, be like you're pushing,

1032
00:52:02,519 --> 00:52:04,920
the car you're arguing with the transformer right.

1033
00:52:09,119 --> 00:52:10,159
Speaker 2: Post jumped out in front.

1034
00:52:10,159 --> 00:52:10,559
Speaker 3: Of me what?

1035
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:13,679
Speaker 1: The hell you never heard anything, About? That kevin you

1036
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:15,760
know police officers and things in that side of.

1037
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:17,639
Speaker 5: THE town i have not heard anything.

1038
00:52:17,679 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 1: About, that no just thank god this dude's.

1039
00:52:21,199 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 2: Investigative work this person is, still alive.

1040
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: Because that might be a Come, to jesus will Come.

1041
00:52:27,079 --> 00:52:30,519
TO jesus i think you hit, the bottom but you're

1042
00:52:31,199 --> 00:52:33,199
you are in such. Good look you want to talk,

1043
00:52:33,199 --> 00:52:35,559
About longevity you want to talk about keeping your body.

1044
00:52:35,599 --> 00:52:38,800
In shape you hit, a car you are so drunk

1045
00:52:39,199 --> 00:52:41,679
that you could sanitize a hospital with your blood, alcohol

1046
00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:44,320
level and you decide to push your.

1047
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 2: Car home that to me is YOUR respond i think

1048
00:52:48,079 --> 00:52:50,760
that Was our Prince, of ohio Our. Frindvable ohio and

1049
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:51,639
the Seventy.

1050
00:52:51,679 --> 00:52:51,760
Speaker 1: Was.

1051
00:52:55,599 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 4: Yeah the operating. WELL ability i think it was AN

1052
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,239
o w i' something. Like, that yeah it might have been,

1053
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:02,360
that dude you had seventy.

1054
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:03,280
Speaker 2: Of them he's.

1055
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,559
Speaker 5: A professional, i, GO yeah i go the. OTHER way

1056
00:53:05,559 --> 00:53:07,679
i feel Like if i'm hitting at a point, TWO

1057
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:10,280
nine i still got room. To grow.

1058
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 2: See if we can break a.

1059
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:18,880
Speaker 1: New. Record yeah, it's, like well you start to wonder

1060
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,199
because you're hearing all these things like you shouldn't drink.

1061
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:24,519
At all drinking is, Pure poison.

1062
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 4: Like seven units of alcohol a week could give. You,

1063
00:53:27,159 --> 00:53:28,280
CANCER supposedly i.

1064
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:31,119
Speaker 1: Don't, Know okay I'm.

1065
00:53:31,119 --> 00:53:34,719
Speaker 2: Doing I'm, Not yeah i'm. Not well if you do,

1066
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:35,840
the math it doesn't make.

1067
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 4: Any SENSE like i read something the other day with

1068
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:40,000
every class of alcohol lowers your life expectancy by. Thirty

1069
00:53:40,039 --> 00:53:42,320
minutes and, somebody, GOES well i should have been dead twenty. Years, ago,

1070
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,880
Yeah OKAY so, i mean but alcohol is not good.

1071
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:45,639
Speaker 2: For you let's we, know.

1072
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,840
Speaker 1: That right but then you start, to wonder like what

1073
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:53,320
when you drink that much on a, regular basis what

1074
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,000
do you? Covering up what mental health thing is?

1075
00:53:56,039 --> 00:53:58,559
Speaker 2: Going on something's? Going on don't, you, think yeah you're,

1076
00:53:58,639 --> 00:54:00,840
self medicaid you? Want it for. GET something i got.

1077
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,679
Speaker 1: To think this is a, young guy by, the way definitely. A.

1078
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:08,960
Dude huh it's. Called marriage. My marriage definitely. A dude

1079
00:54:09,199 --> 00:54:12,840
can we agree on that they're? Not really no no

1080
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:17,000
chicks pushing the fucking. CAR either, i remember, years ago,

1081
00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:23,960
Years ago i'm coming under the one lane Bridge On

1082
00:54:24,119 --> 00:54:27,480
winton ROAD because i had been DJing At. The windfield

1083
00:54:27,559 --> 00:54:30,639
it was like right, after COLLEGE and i see this

1084
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:33,159
car and. It's over it comes all the way over

1085
00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:36,039
into my lane and it's coming. At ME so i

1086
00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:38,800
blow the horn AND then i Stop and i'm on

1087
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:40,400
the other side of the bridge and the car goes

1088
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,239
back into its lane and just as she approaches the

1089
00:54:43,639 --> 00:54:45,440
of the railroad bridge that she's going to. Go under

1090
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:50,199
she comes along, and boom she goes right into, the

1091
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:54,960
thing into the, medium right and so there's, the car and,

1092
00:54:55,079 --> 00:54:58,239
she's LIKE so i stopped to make sure. She's okay

1093
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:03,960
and it's this strike makingly. Pretty girl could have, been

1094
00:55:04,079 --> 00:55:08,159
seventeen could have been, twenty seven, no idea hard. To

1095
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:13,480
TELL and i, Remember going i'm pissed because you could have.

1096
00:55:13,559 --> 00:55:16,920
Killed me you could have fucking killed me and or

1097
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:18,920
at least, caused me like to not have, my car

1098
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:23,079
all the inconvenience of. That shit and, she's LIKE so

1099
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,159
i had called nine. ONE one i had a cell

1100
00:55:25,159 --> 00:55:30,000
phone at, the TIME and i CALLED and i waited

1101
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:31,800
with her till like the cops. Show up and, she's

1102
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:33,639
like my dad's gonna. Kill me can you just get

1103
00:55:33,679 --> 00:55:35,360
me out. Of here i'll, Do anything i'll. Do anything, i'm,

1104
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:39,679
LIKE no i want nothing to do, with this not

1105
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,960
a fucking thing to do. WITH this i want. Out, out.

1106
00:55:43,119 --> 00:55:44,800
Speaker 2: Sorry, honey yeah that. Was that that.

1107
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:48,000
Speaker 1: WAS that i know she. WAS striking i just remember

1108
00:55:48,039 --> 00:55:50,840
she was a striking. Blonde GIRL but i probably was in,

1109
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,280
high school Is what. I'M thinking i don't want nothing

1110
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,599
to do with, This NOTHING and i. Was pissed, i'm

1111
00:55:55,639 --> 00:55:57,320
like you could fucking. Kill me AND all i want

1112
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,519
to do is get home and, you know live to see.

1113
00:55:59,519 --> 00:55:59,960
Another day.

1114
00:56:00,599 --> 00:56:03,199
Speaker 5: ALL right i did not.

1115
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:06,360
Speaker 1: DO that i was only part time in. THE radio

1116
00:56:07,599 --> 00:56:07,840
i was.

1117
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,360
Speaker 2: Part time it was do you?

1118
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:15,840
Speaker 1: KNOW who? I know it's still, The, Case kevin what

1119
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:16,599
are you doing the rest?

1120
00:56:16,639 --> 00:56:16,679
Speaker 3: Of?

1121
00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:23,039
Speaker 1: TODAY uh I think i'm gonna wake? Pop, up yeah

1122
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:27,159
hit that. Garage baby the. Weekend continues Fourth of july.

1123
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:28,559
Weekend continues we're.

1124
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:30,519
Speaker 5: Just gonna we're just gonna soak in. THE pool a

1125
00:56:30,599 --> 00:56:30,920
couple of.

1126
00:56:31,039 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: Dudes soaking thank thank you for. Jumping on, somebody says

1127
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:37,559
chick pushing. The car we'll kick, Your. Ass kevin you

1128
00:56:37,639 --> 00:56:43,320
don't want to? FIND her, i do? All, Right, uh

1129
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,719
kevin thank you for for, popping on and thank You

1130
00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:49,320
for Fourth of july. WAS fantastic i really did have a.

1131
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:52,199
Good TIME and I hope i didn't. EMBARRASS myself.

1132
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:56,280
Speaker 5: I was recognized all over. THE neighborhood, i WAS.

1133
00:56:58,119 --> 00:57:03,280
Speaker 1: But, I was. I was i kept. Myself together, you were,

1134
00:57:03,559 --> 00:57:06,679
you were you. Were fine you, were drunk but you.

1135
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:09,039
Were fine NOBODY knew i. Was, drunk no it's hard

1136
00:57:09,079 --> 00:57:11,199
to Tell when. Kevin's drunk it's hard to tell you.

1137
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:14,800
It is he carries, it well carries. It well, all right.

1138
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,679
Speaker 2: Thanks buddy you're a Great, drunk kevin you're a great.

1139
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: Drunk drunk go do, a uh go do some. Day

1140
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:25,559
drinking you? Know it, all right see. You later there,

1141
00:57:25,559 --> 00:57:28,559
He goes There. Goes kevin we'll take, a moment and

1142
00:57:28,679 --> 00:57:30,679
when we, Come, back danny your wife is. A, teacher

1143
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:36,000
ah wait till you hear. This story, Oh yeah i'll tell.

1144
00:57:36,039 --> 00:57:37,519
YOU what i almost wanted to see if we could

1145
00:57:37,519 --> 00:57:39,800
Get beth on to talk about. This STORY but i

1146
00:57:40,239 --> 00:57:43,840
thought we'll just we'll just. Opine ourselves we'll get to

1147
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:47,119
that right. After this leo's, my friends you, know what

1148
00:57:47,639 --> 00:57:50,000
you know what makes a. Nice, gift honestly if you're

1149
00:57:50,079 --> 00:57:53,440
going even to a picnic, or something you never want

1150
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,760
to show up. Empty handle why don't you come With some.

1151
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:58,719
Leo's cookies why don't you go over there and Get

1152
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:02,599
some leo's Cannolis The. Canoe, station yes fill it right up.

1153
00:58:02,639 --> 00:58:05,000
For you they can, be, fresh fresh and you can

1154
00:58:05,079 --> 00:58:08,480
get like chocolate. Chip filled you can get it's it's

1155
00:58:08,559 --> 00:58:12,239
delicious AND then i like things like bores head WAS

1156
00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:14,440
something i grew up with in cold cuts. And things.

1157
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:17,519
They're delicious they have a grabbing go case so you

1158
00:58:17,559 --> 00:58:19,199
don't have to wait in line if you just KNOW

1159
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:21,199
that i want a quarter pound. Of cheat they got

1160
00:58:21,239 --> 00:58:23,559
it all. Right there they make it, so convenient, so

1161
00:58:23,639 --> 00:58:27,360
easy and don't forget two dollars. Fresh bread, yeah, right

1162
00:58:27,599 --> 00:58:30,760
brilliant yeah, right there. All perfect they got, the, stuff

1163
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:34,719
breads they, got. Everything, everything yeah because what's the best

1164
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,440
Thing About, leo's. Yeah everything it's the make this summer

1165
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:40,199
Event A Victor Chrysler Dodge deep ram Right off route

1166
00:58:40,239 --> 00:58:42,960
ninety Six in victor and the deals they're as hot

1167
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:45,800
as a car's leather Seats. In july want to level

1168
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:48,960
up your, summer swagger well cruise into the season in

1169
00:58:49,079 --> 00:58:53,000
the brand new twenty Twenty Five Dodge CHARGER. Daytona rt

1170
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:57,480
this beast is built for boldness and get this lease

1171
00:58:57,519 --> 00:59:01,039
it for just one ninety nine a month for twenty. Four,

1172
00:59:01,119 --> 00:59:04,920
months yup not. A typo this car is so fun

1173
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:07,559
to drive with just thirty five hundred down first, PAYMENT

1174
00:59:07,599 --> 00:59:11,480
taxes dmv fees at signing conquest least required seventy five

1175
00:59:11,559 --> 00:59:15,119
hundred miles. Per year details and. Exclusions apply Offer ends july,

1176
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:18,719
thirty first which means if, you snooze. You lose or

1177
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:21,719
maybe you're all about that comfort meets. Adventure vibe check

1178
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,840
out the twenty Twenty Five Jeep Grand cherokee laredo four, By, four,

1179
00:59:25,119 --> 00:59:29,599
roomy rugged and ridiculously. Good looking just two seventy nine

1180
00:59:29,679 --> 00:59:32,719
per month for twenty. Four months perfect for stuffing it,

1181
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:36,679
with friends, beach, gear snacks and just a little. EMOTIONAL baggage,

1182
00:59:36,679 --> 00:59:38,400
i mean, come on we all, have it so whether

1183
00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:40,880
you're tearing up the pavement in a charger or heading

1184
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:44,119
off grid In A. Grand Cherokee victor chrysler Dot jeep

1185
00:59:44,199 --> 00:59:47,159
ram has your dream ride Right on route ninety Six

1186
00:59:47,239 --> 01:00:38,920
And victor or Online at victor cdjr. Dot com this

1187
01:00:39,159 --> 01:00:44,639
is a song about the air conditioning. Going, down really

1188
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,920
it's Called Vendor. Later blues it's one of the few

1189
01:00:49,159 --> 01:00:55,400
songs that somebody else gets credit, for writing because it's

1190
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:58,679
always the. Glimmer twins it's making, and KEY and i

1191
01:00:59,199 --> 01:01:03,519
don't think they no matter, who contributed they didn't give

1192
01:01:03,519 --> 01:01:05,880
the other people. Writing FREITS just i think it was

1193
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,519
a thing in. The band whatever the contracts were a

1194
01:01:08,639 --> 01:01:11,519
young Guy Named mick taylor had joined the band at nineteen,

1195
01:01:11,639 --> 01:01:15,480
years old a real great, rhythm guitarist and he fit

1196
01:01:15,559 --> 01:01:18,679
in in that. Whole song he gets credit on the riff.

1197
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:21,199
For that he came up with the Riff and Exile

1198
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:24,639
On main Street. Is god it's a fifty four year.

1199
01:01:24,679 --> 01:01:27,519
Old ALBUM now i. LOVE it i think it's the

1200
01:01:27,639 --> 01:01:31,239
best rock. Album ever was recorded in like a House. In,

1201
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:35,159
france YEAH and i think the ventilator went down and so,

1202
01:01:35,519 --> 01:01:38,079
you know and you know how that can fuck, up,

1203
01:01:38,119 --> 01:01:41,440
instruments man it, can, like right you can warp.

1204
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 5: Your guitar it can worp.

1205
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,519
Speaker 2: Your guitar everything has to be tuned. And, retuned yeah

1206
01:01:45,559 --> 01:01:46,639
you could lose the tuning in the middle of.

1207
01:01:46,679 --> 01:01:49,920
Speaker 1: A song so they, did this but the songwriting process

1208
01:01:50,119 --> 01:01:54,599
with this album was, just chaotic and so they came

1209
01:01:54,679 --> 01:01:56,519
up with the riff And then mick just sort of

1210
01:01:56,599 --> 01:01:59,480
ad libbed over it and somebody, you know caught it

1211
01:01:59,559 --> 01:02:02,239
all and they put together. The song but it's one

1212
01:02:02,239 --> 01:02:04,199
of the Few That mick taylor. Gets Credit And mick

1213
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:08,239
taylor was nineteen and then he decided to leave the

1214
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:12,000
man in his Twenties And keith richards was noted for

1215
01:02:12,039 --> 01:02:15,880
saying nobody leaves the band unless. They DIE and I

1216
01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:18,280
think mick or somebody. Goes down let the, kid go let. Him,

1217
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:22,239
go yeah he's. Still Alive So mick taylor years ago

1218
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:27,239
playing a gig, in town shows up and he was

1219
01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:29,840
doing like he was just a fucking mess of a.

1220
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:30,760
Speaker 2: Human being oh.

1221
01:02:31,079 --> 01:02:34,039
Speaker 1: Oh god but it was like he was this pretty

1222
01:02:34,159 --> 01:02:36,960
nineteen year old kid when he Joined the stones. And,

1223
01:02:37,519 --> 01:02:39,840
WHATEVER man i don't know if they fucked. HIM up

1224
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:41,960
i don't Know, IF keith i have no idea. What

1225
01:02:42,119 --> 01:02:46,559
happened but that dude was like he. Was bloated he was.

1226
01:02:46,639 --> 01:02:49,239
A mess and part of his deal was he needed an.

1227
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:53,239
Eight ball, oh wow, oh, yeah no he needed he

1228
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:55,119
had to be he had to have an. Eight, ball

1229
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:58,719
yeah like wherever club he. Was playing and he came

1230
01:02:58,719 --> 01:03:02,079
into the radio SEASON and i don't know that the

1231
01:03:02,199 --> 01:03:04,320
interview was even. That good it wasn't me that was,

1232
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:06,840
doing IT but, i, oh man, you know to be

1233
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:10,960
around some OF the i mean historical shit That the

1234
01:03:11,039 --> 01:03:15,320
stones had done at that time and not remember he

1235
01:03:15,519 --> 01:03:18,239
was like didn't. Remember stuff he was a. Fucking, mess,

1236
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:21,559
yeah yeah it.

1237
01:03:21,679 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 4: Is, CRAZY yeah i mean you're the only guy that

1238
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:28,920
Left The rolling. Stones, alive Yeah Well bill wyman.

1239
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 1: Retired Basically But bill wyman, was like, you know he's

1240
01:03:33,039 --> 01:03:35,360
eighty something years, old now and they did bring him

1241
01:03:35,400 --> 01:03:38,239
back to play on the. Latest, album yeah they brought

1242
01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:39,880
him back for like a song, or two just to have.

1243
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:43,920
IT there i think they brought back The original stones

1244
01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:47,400
Because they. Charlie died he was, the drummer but they

1245
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,599
had laid down some drum, tracks already so they had the.

1246
01:03:49,679 --> 01:03:52,199
Drum tracks, charlie died and so They brought bill in

1247
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:54,320
to play bass on that, one song so they would

1248
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:58,320
have All, the stones All the stones that were alive for.

1249
01:03:58,440 --> 01:04:01,480
That album. You know, of course the founding member Of

1250
01:04:01,519 --> 01:04:05,440
The rolling stones died very. Very, YOUNG brian i want,

1251
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:07,800
To Say brian Johnson And. Brian Jones, brian jones. THANK

1252
01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:10,039
you i Was Going, BRIAN johnson i. Go ahead.

1253
01:04:10,559 --> 01:04:12,440
Speaker 4: Very fun there's a very famous story About How louke

1254
01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:15,360
graham's then Girlfriend When the stones came, to town he ran.

1255
01:04:15,239 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 1: Out of the house and Went To, john, yes, yes,

1256
01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:17,480
yes yes.

1257
01:04:17,480 --> 01:04:19,599
Speaker 2: How like they were out that the show got. Got

1258
01:04:19,679 --> 01:04:20,639
stopped they had.

1259
01:04:20,679 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 4: To go So the stones are escorted out of the

1260
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:25,039
building out of the well the more memorial at, the

1261
01:04:25,119 --> 01:04:28,599
Time and lou's girlfriend was Chasing After brian jones and

1262
01:04:28,719 --> 01:04:31,760
she Fell And brian jones helped pick, her up and then,

1263
01:04:32,079 --> 01:04:33,599
you know, you okay and then he got to the

1264
01:04:33,639 --> 01:04:36,159
limo and, then left, you know and Then that luke.

1265
01:04:36,239 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 2: Was, like well that's that's my girlfriend, that fell. You

1266
01:04:38,039 --> 01:04:40,760
KNOW oh i. Told that so then he ended up

1267
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:42,599
running home and his father grounded in for. A, WEEK

1268
01:04:42,719 --> 01:04:43,199
yeah i thought That.

1269
01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 1: WAS hendrix. I can't i couldn't remember Who.

1270
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 2: THE hendricks i think was the story Of. Jukebox hero

1271
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:49,199
that could.

1272
01:04:49,239 --> 01:04:52,320
Speaker 1: Be, wrong no, you're right that. Is, it yeah couldn't

1273
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:53,480
get a ticket and. Got IN oh. I.

1274
01:04:53,519 --> 01:04:56,920
Speaker 4: DIDN'T yeah I read low's biography in, two, days okay

1275
01:04:56,960 --> 01:04:59,960
And the Scott pat toonica was just two days because, he, wrote,

1276
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:02,000
yeah yeah it only took you two days to.

1277
01:05:02,079 --> 01:05:04,880
Speaker 1: Write, that yeah it wasn't that, engrossing, THAT yeah. I.

1278
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:08,039
Speaker 2: THOUGHT yeah i think he took it AS like i

1279
01:05:08,119 --> 01:05:09,639
put a lot more effort to it. THAN that, I,

1280
01:05:09,719 --> 01:05:10,920
go no it just took me two days to.

1281
01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:13,599
Speaker 1: Read it it's a. Light compliment it's a. Good compliment

1282
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:16,639
let me say, something real. Real fast, YOU know i

1283
01:05:16,679 --> 01:05:19,599
don't know if, it's summertime and and that's, the Deal

1284
01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:22,880
as i'm all NASILY and i have, a COULD but

1285
01:05:23,039 --> 01:05:28,119
i have noticed that women seem to like women who are.

1286
01:05:28,239 --> 01:05:31,840
Middle aged maybe, they're single maybe, They're not maybe they're sort,

1287
01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:35,239
of single maybe they're, half in. Half out they they

1288
01:05:35,360 --> 01:05:37,880
are making themselves known to. BE available i will, Tell.

1289
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 2: You, oh really they're.

1290
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:38,639
Speaker 3: Moving.

1291
01:05:38,719 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 2: Forward, Huh yeah i've.

1292
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:42,199
Speaker 1: Heard it i've seen it with other. People too AND then,

1293
01:05:42,239 --> 01:05:44,480
i go look. At this it's a brave new world,

1294
01:05:44,559 --> 01:05:48,280
out there, you know twenty, Twenty five. JESUS coming i myself,

1295
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:50,800
a man summer summer. Twenty five you got to get the.

1296
01:05:51,639 --> 01:05:51,880
Speaker 2: Ship.

1297
01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:54,719
Speaker 1: Down uh your wife is, A TEACHER and i think

1298
01:05:54,760 --> 01:06:00,239
it's sometimes we undervalue what teachers deal with on. Aular

1299
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:05,440
basis we always used, To say china is going to

1300
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:07,760
outperform us on blah blah blah blah blah. BLAH whatever

1301
01:06:08,599 --> 01:06:11,320
i think now it's, just, like yeah they're gonna blow

1302
01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:15,079
us away because some kids just they don't even want to.

1303
01:06:15,119 --> 01:06:17,519
Be there they're not. Doing ANYTHING and i don't know

1304
01:06:17,559 --> 01:06:19,239
if school needs to. BE changed i have, no idea

1305
01:06:20,519 --> 01:06:23,719
but this teacher is in. Some trouble it is not an,

1306
01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:29,639
our country just to say it's a. WORLDWIDE problem a

1307
01:06:29,719 --> 01:06:33,159
health Class in wales took a wild turn When Teacher,

1308
01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:38,719
alice ashton previously known for being quiet, and reserved allegedly

1309
01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:44,360
down booze from a disguised, water bottle, blasted music swore at,

1310
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:47,840
the students calling them little fuckers or, little motherfuckers and

1311
01:06:48,199 --> 01:06:53,880
led a spontaneous macarina session instead. Of teachers to sixteen

1312
01:06:54,159 --> 01:06:58,519
year old students described the class as chaotic, and Bizarre with,

1313
01:06:58,679 --> 01:07:03,440
ashton swearing, gesturing aggressively and dancing erratically.

1314
01:07:03,519 --> 01:07:05,960
Speaker 2: To, the macharina which they probably. Did, Recognize no i'm.

1315
01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:08,079
Speaker 1: Sure not this Person looks.

1316
01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:10,599
Speaker 2: So did you guys have?

1317
01:07:10,679 --> 01:07:10,719
Speaker 1: To?

1318
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:12,800
Speaker 4: Do line was line dancing a thing when you were

1319
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:15,119
in school or that BECOME after i? Think, after okay

1320
01:07:15,159 --> 01:07:17,360
so my dancing we had, square dancing that we had.

1321
01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:20,039
Line dancing so they were teaching us all like those

1322
01:07:20,159 --> 01:07:22,719
dances like The boots, guten boogie yeah and all. Those

1323
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:26,719
dances the electric slide, Really right so like the macharina

1324
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:28,800
came out at, that time so we grew up with.

1325
01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:31,199
The macarena these kids probably have no idea what any

1326
01:07:31,199 --> 01:07:31,440
of these.

1327
01:07:31,519 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 1: DANCES are i used to love to jump in at

1328
01:07:35,079 --> 01:07:37,960
WEDDINGS when i, was drunk to the electric SLIDE because

1329
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:40,199
i thought it was the dumbest, fucking THING and i

1330
01:07:40,239 --> 01:07:42,960
would do it wrong, on purpose so like whenever we would,

1331
01:07:43,000 --> 01:07:47,760
turn around turned the. Wrong Direction so i'm facing fat in.

1332
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:51,199
The back you're doing. It wrong you're. All crazy why

1333
01:07:51,239 --> 01:07:53,559
do you? Do IT and i don't KNOW why i

1334
01:07:53,719 --> 01:07:57,920
found that. So entertaining it's, just obnoxious just Obnox'll be oh,

1335
01:07:57,920 --> 01:08:00,480
My gosh i'm. SO sorry. I wasn't i wasn't like

1336
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:04,199
making fun of. THEM exactly i was. In, THERE well

1337
01:08:04,440 --> 01:08:07,000
i didn't. SAY anything i didn't. SAY anything i just

1338
01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:08,920
would go in there to mess it UP because i

1339
01:08:09,199 --> 01:08:11,480
would annoy some people because they took it very. Very

1340
01:08:11,559 --> 01:08:15,119
soon oh they take it very seriously at the at

1341
01:08:15,159 --> 01:08:19,239
the at. The wedding it's a very. Serious thing but

1342
01:08:20,039 --> 01:08:24,000
so this THIS woman i guess had a D w,

1343
01:08:24,359 --> 01:08:28,279
i prior but was, very, quiet reserved and she's been

1344
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:31,560
fired but she can reapply in. Two years.

1345
01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 2: Good luck, with that Apparently, in England, Oh, god wales.

1346
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:41,079
Speaker 4: It's it's FREAKING unbelieve i go that that's somebody Who

1347
01:08:41,199 --> 01:08:43,079
Remember mariah carey had her melt down ON.

1348
01:08:43,159 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 2: A tv i think that's where that. Was at these

1349
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:47,079
teachers get, no help they get.

1350
01:08:47,119 --> 01:08:49,079
Speaker 1: No, support no that's not a, health class it's a P.

1351
01:08:49,239 --> 01:08:51,680
S a and why you don't mix vodka. And responsibility,

1352
01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:54,439
it's like this is why kids we don't, do that

1353
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:58,359
don't Drink on but does it talk about a bigger

1354
01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:02,880
problem for teachers where you just how? Many teachers and

1355
01:09:03,560 --> 01:09:06,359
it's been said for YEARS and i think you have said,

1356
01:09:06,399 --> 01:09:10,119
it yourself maybe prior to being married to, a teacher

1357
01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:14,479
but knowing people who, were teachers the, Teachers drink they

1358
01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:14,920
go out.

1359
01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:18,640
Speaker 4: And DRINK and i remember upon A time i put

1360
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:21,840
Up a facebook post back in nine or, TWENTY ten

1361
01:09:21,880 --> 01:09:22,199
i think it was.

1362
01:09:22,199 --> 01:09:23,399
Speaker 5: ON nine i live.

1363
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 2: Next door my SISTER and i. Live together we live

1364
01:09:26,079 --> 01:09:26,520
next door to.

1365
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:30,359
Speaker 4: These teachers and every day after school that bottle was

1366
01:09:30,399 --> 01:09:35,119
Out and i'm talking the big jumbo sized yellowtail bottles,

1367
01:09:35,199 --> 01:09:38,319
that yeah every teacher drank because you like you.

1368
01:09:38,319 --> 01:09:40,720
Speaker 2: Get at least a LIQUOR barn i pay more and

1369
01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:42,479
like they'd have THOSE big i mean.

1370
01:09:42,640 --> 01:09:47,520
Speaker 4: Jumbo sized they still sell them bottles, of yellowtail and

1371
01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:50,880
those girls will be out for at least two hours heading,

1372
01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:55,640
into dinner just drinking their appetizers because they hated teaching.

1373
01:09:56,039 --> 01:09:58,680
So MUCH and i Posted on facebook and then why

1374
01:09:58,720 --> 01:09:58,840
are you?

1375
01:09:58,960 --> 01:09:59,279
Speaker 5: Doing it?

1376
01:10:00,159 --> 01:10:03,039
Speaker 2: THESE people i got more RESPONSES from x Classmates. From

1377
01:10:03,039 --> 01:10:05,239
fishery you don't. Get it you have to raise somebody

1378
01:10:05,279 --> 01:10:08,520
else's kids. Right out and my whole point wasn't but

1379
01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:09,359
this is what you signed.

1380
01:10:09,399 --> 01:10:11,920
Speaker 1: Up for well, it is and it isn't you signed

1381
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:13,279
up to be. A, teacher.

1382
01:10:13,079 --> 01:10:15,640
Speaker 2: Yes right SO because i was twenty nine at, THE

1383
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:15,920
time i.

1384
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:19,119
Speaker 1: Knew, everything, well, YEAH right i remember. That, Guy yeah,

1385
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:22,199
oh gosh. So stupid it's not that. Far away.

1386
01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:24,920
Speaker 2: I'm just a.

1387
01:10:24,960 --> 01:10:31,680
Speaker 1: Different, versions yeah, he's right he's moved over a.

1388
01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:34,560
Speaker 2: Little bit but my wife like going through what she,

1389
01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:36,600
goes through and she's not reaching for.

1390
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:37,800
Speaker 5: A bottle, BUT man i hear.

1391
01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 2: About it these teachers get stripped of more and.

1392
01:10:40,119 --> 01:10:44,720
Speaker 1: More, RIGHTS yeah, i mean we don't talk about.

1393
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:47,039
Speaker 2: We don't they're not they're not. Students anymore it's almost

1394
01:10:47,079 --> 01:10:50,479
like they're customers. Or clients remember the customer is, always

1395
01:10:50,560 --> 01:10:52,680
right or the customer's parent is.

1396
01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:55,039
Speaker 1: Always, right YEAH but i mean the number of teachers

1397
01:10:55,079 --> 01:10:57,680
that have to self medicate to survive the system and

1398
01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:01,439
then talk about the number of teaching positions that are

1399
01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:05,680
available in some areas because nobody wants to Deal with,

1400
01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:06,239
OH yeah.

1401
01:11:06,079 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 4: I know if somebody who got tenured probably should why

1402
01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:09,439
because they're short.

1403
01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:12,199
Speaker 1: On, teachers, amen baby get in there and take a.

1404
01:11:12,279 --> 01:11:12,920
Bike in they.

1405
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:16,279
Speaker 4: Got tenure, you're kidding take a. Bike in miss twenty

1406
01:11:16,319 --> 01:11:18,880
seven days of school and still, Got tenure?

1407
01:11:20,279 --> 01:11:23,880
Speaker 1: No, kidding, well yeah you can do what you can't

1408
01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:26,119
miss twenty. Seven days there's one hundred and. EIGHTY eight

1409
01:11:26,199 --> 01:11:28,000
i think there's one hundred and eighty eight, for teachers

1410
01:11:28,079 --> 01:11:29,960
one hundred and eighty. For students but that's a much.

1411
01:11:30,039 --> 01:11:31,720
Speaker 2: Worth, that Yeah, Taking yeah i'm just Gonna take.

1412
01:11:31,760 --> 01:11:34,399
Speaker 1: May, off yeah no, problem ahead Seeing.

1413
01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,920
Speaker 4: Seeing june, yeah, right WELL actually i think the every

1414
01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:41,079
month and teacher land is, twenty days so it'll be

1415
01:11:41,159 --> 01:11:43,000
like a month and, a in, you know a week.

1416
01:11:43,079 --> 01:11:46,039
Or so are we expecting too much perfection from teachers

1417
01:11:46,159 --> 01:11:48,359
or is, the bar as you're, pointing out already, too

1418
01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:50,479
low like this is what.

1419
01:11:50,560 --> 01:11:54,840
Speaker 1: WE'RE getting i. DON'T know i. Don't know the TEACHERS

1420
01:11:54,880 --> 01:11:56,840
that i have, interacted WITH and i have over the

1421
01:11:56,880 --> 01:12:00,640
past year more so than ever. WERE wonderful i saw

1422
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:04,800
some really dedicated teachers who were there to educate kids at,

1423
01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:08,479
all levels from kindergarten to. Senior year you had some.

1424
01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:11,039
WONDERFUL teachers i did not run into ANYBODY that i

1425
01:12:11,079 --> 01:12:15,720
thought was, like ubu they. Get HERE and i saw

1426
01:12:16,319 --> 01:12:20,119
some really challenging students, at TIMES and, i, thought man

1427
01:12:20,239 --> 01:12:22,800
these people are they do a hell of. A JOB like,

1428
01:12:22,960 --> 01:12:26,920
i go they. Deserve more this. They do they.

1429
01:12:27,000 --> 01:12:29,079
Speaker 2: Certainly do it's not an.

1430
01:12:29,079 --> 01:12:31,920
Speaker 4: Easy job and like that whole MENTALITY that i had

1431
01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:34,680
in like nine or twenty ten that this is what

1432
01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:37,359
you signed, Up, for no. It's, not well it's it

1433
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:40,199
has evolved, or devolved if you want to call, it

1434
01:12:40,279 --> 01:12:42,439
that into something beyond just.

1435
01:12:42,640 --> 01:12:46,039
Speaker 2: Teaching curriculum it has now become. Professional.

1436
01:12:46,159 --> 01:12:51,600
Speaker 4: Babysitting, yeah yeah in a way for students who are

1437
01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:53,960
in a perpetual state of arrested development for.

1438
01:12:54,199 --> 01:12:56,600
Speaker 2: Their age and fifth graders aren't fifth.

1439
01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:59,680
Speaker 4: Graders anymore they're like. Second graders junior high kids are like.

1440
01:12:59,720 --> 01:13:03,079
Fifth greaters seniors are more. Like freshmen depends on where, you,

1441
01:13:03,159 --> 01:13:05,479
ARE yeah, i mean it's not gonna happen like that. In,

1442
01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:08,199
McQuaid no it depends on where, YOU are i mean where.

1443
01:13:08,239 --> 01:13:10,920
You're teaching, BUT yeah i think that it JUST looks, i,

1444
01:13:11,000 --> 01:13:15,680
GO boy i was never one. TO buy i used

1445
01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:16,439
to have a problem with.

1446
01:13:18,359 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 1: The the number of PEOPLE that i knew who would drink.

1447
01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:25,680
While driving AND now i sort of get it in.

1448
01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:28,600
A way now you're, going home you can, handle it, you, know,

1449
01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:32,520
Illegal right i've done, this before a couple of nips

1450
01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:34,319
IN my I mean i remember being around painters and

1451
01:13:34,319 --> 01:13:37,000
STUFF when i was doing a. Little construction you'd see.

1452
01:13:37,039 --> 01:13:41,199
Those motherfuckers they had their little stuff in. Their coffee

1453
01:13:41,600 --> 01:13:43,319
they had oh yeah there.

1454
01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:44,920
Speaker 4: All.

1455
01:13:46,119 --> 01:13:47,840
Speaker 1: You know one guy comes in and, goes man great

1456
01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:50,399
lad night, last night gave the old lady a wool

1457
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:51,840
paint roller. Right across.

1458
01:13:54,119 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 4: That was.

1459
01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 1: Their thing was just that was the way.

1460
01:13:56,920 --> 01:13:59,119
Speaker 4: It was THAT was i were working in a factory

1461
01:13:59,159 --> 01:14:02,159
between semesters. And, college man, these guys like the one

1462
01:14:02,199 --> 01:14:03,279
guy's wife packed them.

1463
01:14:03,199 --> 01:14:06,039
Speaker 2: A beer in, his yeah in. His COOLER well i can't,

1464
01:14:06,119 --> 01:14:07,760
have this so he go out to his car. And

1465
01:14:07,800 --> 01:14:08,520
drinking yeah.

1466
01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:12,000
Speaker 1: RIGHT right i mean it's a. Little escape it's A

1467
01:14:12,039 --> 01:14:12,800
little it's.

1468
01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:14,439
Speaker 4: Not like these guys weren't there. To lie they did

1469
01:14:14,479 --> 01:14:17,119
these big jobs for. Twenty years they're not gonna like

1470
01:14:17,239 --> 01:14:17,800
screws up.

1471
01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:20,119
Speaker 1: It up it's not like one beer is gonna. F

1472
01:14:20,359 --> 01:14:25,680
up it's just that one leads to like, too many? Too,

1473
01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:31,079
many yeah, that's awesome is uh is? TOO many i

1474
01:14:31,119 --> 01:14:35,199
don't know? What else what else it? Would? BE uh i, Don't,

1475
01:14:35,239 --> 01:14:37,279
know dan should we wrap just kind of wrap it.

1476
01:14:37,399 --> 01:14:39,239
UP here i know that we've done sort of a,

1477
01:14:39,319 --> 01:14:42,039
shorter episode but just short of. Getting back what do we?

1478
01:14:42,119 --> 01:14:42,239
Speaker 4: Learn?

1479
01:14:42,239 --> 01:14:44,199
Speaker 2: Today bill learn that.

1480
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:48,479
Speaker 1: Women of a certain age are horny and ready in.

1481
01:14:48,520 --> 01:14:50,600
Speaker 2: The summer they are this may be, your time fellows

1482
01:14:50,840 --> 01:14:52,760
comes out summer, a love.

1483
01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:55,960
Speaker 1: Get your vitamin. D uh that my dad is still

1484
01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:58,960
alive even though he was predicting his own death and

1485
01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:01,680
calling people and, telling themselves.

1486
01:15:02,359 --> 01:15:04,560
Speaker 2: If this, is it please let.

1487
01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 1: Me, Know yeah AND that i. HAVE emotions i. LEARNED

1488
01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:13,600
that i LEARNED that i have emotions by by helping

1489
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:15,840
him move in and just sort of seeing him When

1490
01:15:15,880 --> 01:15:17,199
he when he said that, TO me i, was, LIKE

1491
01:15:17,239 --> 01:15:21,039
oh i, was Like, oh god your whole. Heart sank,

1492
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:24,840
you know your heart's like all the other, stuff falling helping,

1493
01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:28,159
Him shower none of that really. AFFECTED me i. FELT

1494
01:15:28,199 --> 01:15:31,640
bad i could tell there's muscle atrophying and all. That

1495
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:34,319
STUFF but i, was, like whoa that was the one

1496
01:15:34,399 --> 01:15:36,159
that was the killer the. Killer blow and THEN when

1497
01:15:36,159 --> 01:15:39,520
i had, TO leave i. Walked AWAY and i don't

1498
01:15:39,560 --> 01:15:42,159
Know if i'll ever regret this, or NOT but i

1499
01:15:42,279 --> 01:15:44,640
was walking down. The hall my mother was slightly ahead.

1500
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:47,600
Of me we. Said goodbye he had walked to, his

1501
01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:50,800
DOOR and i gave him, a hug AND then i

1502
01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:52,239
gave HIM and, I said i'm going to give you a,

1503
01:15:52,279 --> 01:15:55,079
second hug, you KNOW before. I leave AND then i

1504
01:15:55,159 --> 01:15:58,239
turned AROUND and i was holding everything IN and i

1505
01:15:58,439 --> 01:16:02,600
just kept WALKING and i wanted to turn around and,

1506
01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:06,199
see HIM because, i go it could be one, last,

1507
01:16:06,239 --> 01:16:09,840
time right you? Never KNOW and i didn't on PURPOSE

1508
01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:11,640
because i would have.

1509
01:16:11,680 --> 01:16:13,279
Speaker 2: Lost it, OH yeah i would have.

1510
01:16:13,359 --> 01:16:15,880
Speaker 1: LOST it i would have. Lost IT and i don't

1511
01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:19,000
know if that was cold to just turn your back and,

1512
01:16:19,079 --> 01:16:22,960
walk OUT but i, was leaving, you KNOW so i

1513
01:16:23,039 --> 01:16:24,720
felt like that was the best thing to do in,

1514
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:28,399
that moment to stay, the course let's. Be cool my

1515
01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:31,319
mother was already on the, edge of, you, know herself being.

1516
01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:33,800
VERY upset i don't forget they were together for many

1517
01:16:33,880 --> 01:16:37,439
years and they have three children together AND so i, was,

1518
01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:40,840
like yeah that that was the those are the. Things

1519
01:16:41,079 --> 01:16:42,880
say this whole thing is taken a little bit of

1520
01:16:42,920 --> 01:16:45,439
the wind out of. My sails it's taken me like

1521
01:16:46,239 --> 01:16:48,560
just to get back in the swing. Of things i've

1522
01:16:48,640 --> 01:16:53,600
been back Since last WHEN did i Get? Back Friday?

1523
01:16:53,640 --> 01:16:55,399
Maybe friday When was? July?

1524
01:16:55,520 --> 01:16:55,680
Speaker 5: Fourth?

1525
01:16:55,720 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 1: Saturday, yes YEAH so i got back Four? Was friday

1526
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:02,119
july Fourth? Was FRIDAY so i Got back Thursday and

1527
01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:05,920
thursday night at like, eight o'clock eight thirty and then

1528
01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:10,439
came home to the, frat HOUSE which i. LOVE this

1529
01:17:10,640 --> 01:17:11,000
i love this.

1530
01:17:11,199 --> 01:17:12,199
Speaker 2: GREEN clouds.

1531
01:17:13,880 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 1: I will not answer, that ONE but. I will i

1532
01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:17,680
will tell you a story.

1533
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:20,840
Speaker 2: Off air, oh, good yeah bonus.

1534
01:17:21,399 --> 01:17:25,279
Speaker 1: For, US yeah i should tell him, out there BUT someday,

1535
01:17:25,319 --> 01:17:28,239
i will because everything, comes out everything. Comes OUT but,

1536
01:17:28,399 --> 01:17:30,840
I Ye i so.

1537
01:17:31,840 --> 01:17:33,720
Speaker 4: Third, of july, my STEPDAD as, i mentioned it's this

1538
01:17:33,800 --> 01:17:36,359
big party and everybody in town comes and they blow

1539
01:17:36,359 --> 01:17:38,319
off the fireworks in, my hometown and they blow them

1540
01:17:38,319 --> 01:17:40,239
off on the third because everybody Goes to dunkirk on,

1541
01:17:40,359 --> 01:17:42,199
the fourth they blow them off in. The, Lake right

1542
01:17:42,399 --> 01:17:46,000
so my brothers bought these FIREWORKS and i wanted to

1543
01:17:46,039 --> 01:17:48,039
help him blow off, these fireworks and EVERY time i

1544
01:17:48,159 --> 01:17:51,479
wandered near my brother's blown, Off, fireworks beth my wife will.

1545
01:17:51,279 --> 01:17:54,680
Speaker 2: Be honey can you go get me a glass? Of, water,

1546
01:17:56,119 --> 01:18:00,399
sure okay she's TRYING to i wander. Back, Over, honey

1547
01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:04,239
hey you KNOW what i need my sweater. Or sweatshirt

1548
01:18:04,239 --> 01:18:07,800
it's in. Your car can you Go, Get yeah i'll go. Get,

1549
01:18:07,840 --> 01:18:09,000
IT right i want to hang out with.

1550
01:18:09,079 --> 01:18:12,159
Speaker 4: My brothers she was, preventing me probably from getting like

1551
01:18:12,279 --> 01:18:14,239
my arm, blown OFF because i would, probably, said hey

1552
01:18:14,319 --> 01:18:16,000
this is how you, do it EVEN though i had.

1553
01:18:16,039 --> 01:18:17,279
Speaker 2: NO intention i just wanted to like.

1554
01:18:17,359 --> 01:18:20,319
Speaker 4: Help, out yeah but there these are my brothers were lighting,

1555
01:18:20,359 --> 01:18:23,159
the fireworks maybe with, a cigar, maybe not and then

1556
01:18:23,279 --> 01:18:26,079
running backwards as if like these things could blow off

1557
01:18:26,159 --> 01:18:28,479
at any time and had. No IDEA and i think

1558
01:18:28,560 --> 01:18:30,479
she saw this AND thought i might. Be next so

1559
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:33,560
for my, own protection she. Prevented me did you ask? Her? What,

1560
01:18:34,039 --> 01:18:36,640
NO no i wanted TO just i just, theorized, That,

1561
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:38,399
like okay that's the third time you've asked me to

1562
01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:40,800
do something within. Ten minutes and it's NOT like i

1563
01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:42,800
could just like walk two steps and get. IT now

1564
01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:44,359
i had to walk all the way to. The car

1565
01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:46,840
all the way up, the hill all the way up,

1566
01:18:46,880 --> 01:18:49,800
the stairs, back down say hi, to somebody talk, to

1567
01:18:49,920 --> 01:18:53,399
somebody do. Something else come back down and they're still blowing.

1568
01:18:53,399 --> 01:18:54,840
Off FIREWORKS and i wanted to hang out with. My

1569
01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:58,239
brothers my one brother went Back, to florida AND so, i, want.

1570
01:18:58,600 --> 01:19:01,600
Speaker 2: Honey, no, NO no i could you uh could you do?

1571
01:19:01,720 --> 01:19:03,279
This INSTEAD because i think she.

1572
01:19:03,359 --> 01:19:05,239
Speaker 4: WAS afraid i was going to blow my, hand off

1573
01:19:05,760 --> 01:19:07,840
EVEN though i had no intentions of lighting a single.

1574
01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:10,800
Speaker 2: FIREWORK myself i. Don't know, but man when you get

1575
01:19:10,880 --> 01:19:13,000
up close, band them things, are loud right.

1576
01:19:13,199 --> 01:19:15,840
Speaker 1: They are. THEY'RE real i think one of one of

1577
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:18,399
the Ones that kevin's house was like. A mortar i

1578
01:19:18,479 --> 01:19:20,560
mean it, was like, holy shit it's just.

1579
01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:22,880
Speaker 2: ONE thousands i don't.

1580
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:24,159
Speaker 1: KNOW what i don't. KNOW what i don't know what.

1581
01:19:24,279 --> 01:19:26,039
HE had i didn't light. ANYTHING off i let the

1582
01:19:26,119 --> 01:19:28,359
kids saw, his kids, my kid and they went.

1583
01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:29,039
Speaker 5: ONE thing i.

1584
01:19:29,119 --> 01:19:32,560
Speaker 1: WILL think i Came, Back wednesday that's what. IT was

1585
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:35,680
i Got back wednesday at like eight o'clock.

1586
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:35,800
Speaker 5: At.

1587
01:19:35,880 --> 01:19:40,159
Speaker 1: Night thursday, YOU know I just i'm still dragging. THIS

1588
01:19:40,279 --> 01:19:42,439
bronchitis i had THE doctor i had THIS that i

1589
01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:44,399
wanted to get, checked out and then the Fourth of

1590
01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:47,680
July Was. Friday saturday it's taken me like this long

1591
01:19:47,800 --> 01:19:51,319
to just get back into the swing and figure Out where.

1592
01:19:51,399 --> 01:19:54,319
I'm at and here comes a week right that's rushing,

1593
01:19:54,399 --> 01:19:57,439
at YOU and i don't know what what could happen

1594
01:19:57,479 --> 01:20:00,199
around the bend with the old man point, you know

1595
01:20:00,319 --> 01:20:03,560
get that that's the ship that's kind of driving. You

1596
01:20:03,680 --> 01:20:06,039
nuts you didn't blow off, Anything.

1597
01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:07,920
Speaker 4: Though, No no and then a lot of people were

1598
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:10,319
like complaining about like people blowing off fireworks.

1599
01:20:09,880 --> 01:20:11,880
Speaker 1: On The fifth oh did they still?

1600
01:20:13,479 --> 01:20:14,439
Speaker 2: Left over and people are.

1601
01:20:14,359 --> 01:20:16,840
Speaker 4: Like of people who blow up fourworks in the fifth

1602
01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:18,920
those of es who have animals Have to, i'm, like okay.

1603
01:20:18,960 --> 01:20:20,399
Speaker 2: Time OUT if i got to deal with your dog

1604
01:20:20,520 --> 01:20:24,159
barking wells three and sixty five days, A year i

1605
01:20:24,199 --> 01:20:25,319
don't have any sympathy.

1606
01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:28,960
Speaker 4: For you okay that don't get, a dog then don't

1607
01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:30,800
get a. Freaking DOG then I know i'm gonna get

1608
01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:33,039
hate mail. For this we get to celebrate the Freedom.

1609
01:20:33,039 --> 01:20:34,920
Of america next year is gonna be two hundred and fifty.

1610
01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:35,880
Speaker 1: Years free maybe.

1611
01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:39,600
Speaker 4: That's right i'm milking every single day. Of whatever and by,

1612
01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:40,920
the way the fourth On a saturday.

1613
01:20:41,239 --> 01:20:44,760
Speaker 1: That's alright so, You, Know, Friday, saturday sunday right In,

1614
01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:45,720
a monday come.

1615
01:20:45,760 --> 01:20:48,239
Speaker 2: On NIGHT so, i, mean listen like you could deal

1616
01:20:48,319 --> 01:20:50,279
with a couple. Of days if your dog's getting a

1617
01:20:50,319 --> 01:20:52,680
little scared of. The fireworks they don't, LAST forever.

1618
01:20:53,079 --> 01:20:56,279
Speaker 4: I understand take a, deep breath just, you know path

1619
01:20:56,359 --> 01:20:57,920
the dog and everything's gonna.

1620
01:20:57,920 --> 01:20:59,359
Speaker 2: Be okay give them. A treat they'll.

1621
01:20:59,399 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 3: Be fine.

1622
01:21:00,119 --> 01:21:03,560
Speaker 1: It's right just remember everything is always. Working out that's

1623
01:21:03,600 --> 01:21:06,399
the way. It is they're always, working out, All, right

1624
01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:08,520
danny we will wrap it for our first.

1625
01:21:08,600 --> 01:21:09,520
Speaker 2: One, back yes.

1626
01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 1: Not bad oh by, the way Did the yankees win? Let,

1627
01:21:11,960 --> 01:21:13,640
yesterday no my mom was at.

1628
01:21:13,680 --> 01:21:16,600
Speaker 4: The game such they'd such dires this is we're Talking.

1629
01:21:16,600 --> 01:21:19,199
About saturday there's such dire straits, right now like.

1630
01:21:19,239 --> 01:21:20,279
Speaker 1: The call are going to.

1631
01:21:20,319 --> 01:21:22,560
Speaker 2: Be fired he won't. BE fired I mean ifolti threw

1632
01:21:22,600 --> 01:21:24,960
a ball back And Hit aaron judge in. THE face,

1633
01:21:25,479 --> 01:21:28,279
i mean they. Got problems the, bullpen sucks there's. No

1634
01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:30,079
discipline they, can't field.

1635
01:21:29,880 --> 01:21:31,319
Speaker 5: They, can't hit they can't.

1636
01:21:31,359 --> 01:21:33,960
Speaker 2: Do anything. They're terrible And the mets just came off

1637
01:21:34,039 --> 01:21:35,760
like a losing streak Of the yeah.

1638
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:39,359
Speaker 1: They Did the reds look like they're. Pretty hot they're. Doing,

1639
01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:41,079
WELL yeah i mean. They were they beat up On.

1640
01:21:41,119 --> 01:21:44,119
The mets they beat up On. The phillies phillies are, Good,

1641
01:21:44,159 --> 01:21:47,039
too yeah and they get some fight in the stands between.

1642
01:21:47,079 --> 01:21:49,359
Speaker 2: A player and the first ten days After The all,

1643
01:21:49,399 --> 01:21:50,520
star break we'll find out.

1644
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:53,479
Speaker 1: Who's who, all right. Who's who we'll get to, all

1645
01:21:53,600 --> 01:21:58,760
that plus football's, coming back all that fun stuff coming

1646
01:21:58,840 --> 01:22:02,840
up right Here. On bill thank you for spending some

1647
01:22:03,039 --> 01:22:03,560
of your day.

1648
01:22:03,680 --> 01:22:04,960
Speaker 2: With us, hold.

1649
01:22:04,720 --> 01:22:08,960
Speaker 1: Downside she was shivering in the Dark flowerd rid, free

1650
01:22:09,079 --> 01:22:13,119
Banks Having petter pod cars had Go from Mississippi.

1651
01:22:13,560 --> 01:22:14,560
Speaker 2: And austin anybod