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Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome. It's been a while. Oh daddy,
it's been a minute.
Speaker 2: I missed you.
Speaker 1: You missed me too, Yes.
Speaker 2: I told you that this is Craig Everyboddy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been.
Speaker 2: Yeah, love me, buddy.
Speaker 1: So I've never just disappeared like the podcast just the way.
I just didn't do episodes. I didn't know I didn't
know what to do. I wasn't prepared for this last Thursday.
So we're still in the month of June. We're taping
this on Monday Sunday, excuse me, July sixth so we're
going back to the last Thursday in June. That night
we had taped a podcast. Were you part of that.
I don't think I was there that night, Okay, I
don't know, I don't remember, don't remember. Okay. So I
get home and I'm putting the podcast together and I
get a call from my brother, going, dad's in really
bad shape. I don't think he's gonna last the weekend.
You better get here.
Speaker 2: Maybe I was there that night, but yeah.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, yeah, oh, I don't know what to think, right.
So I end up talking to my sister and I'm like,
I figured do I drive? What do I do? Talking
to my sister? So here's the thing. I'm gonna tell
the story. Somebody said to me yesterday. Every time you talk,
it sounds like you're telling a story. I don't know
if that's a good thing or a bad thing.
Speaker 4: Right, that's a good thing it is, yes, Okay, yeah,
that's the idea.
Speaker 1: All right. Well, anyway, so I will tell this story,
and I'm going to tell this This is from my perspective.
Please understand that, and please understand that none of it
is meant to be harmful or mean to anybody. And
I know my family may listen to this and may
be bothered by some of the things that I say.
I think that some of the they're a little more
private than I am with information like this, but I've
been fairly open. So my brother was kind of emotional
on the phone. I mean not for him like me.
It's kind of like, you know, I'm gonna I'm gonna
get emotional, so I'm getting off the phone kind of thing.
Speaker 2: He's coming out his baseline.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So so I call my mother and I said, hey, listen,
I may drive to you because she's sort of the
halfway point. It would be about a seven and a
half hour ride straight through to Maine. And I'm like,
I don't know what to do. I got to figure
out what to do with Jamison because I don't want
to bring him if my father's exiting the planet doesn't
seem right. So you know what I mean, too many people,
it'd be disturbing for him. There's not a lot for
him to do there the cousins. My brother lives in
Kenny Bunk, Main that's where my father is in an
assistant living place. But his kids are young, so you know,
you're talking eight and thirteen or twelve. So I call
my mother and this is terrible, but I have to
say everybody, it was weird because I hesitate. I haven't
thought of how I would really talk about this, so
I figure if I whenever, I don't know, I'm just
going to tell you the way it was. So I
called my mother and I said, listen, I'm gonna probably
stop at your house. I'll leave. I was thinking of
leaving that night Thursday, and then driving continuing on on Friday.
And she said, uh, okay, and then she said, you
know I was talking to your brother too. He said
my dad had fallen like I think a total of
twelve times within a week and was telling people he
thought he was dying. Okay. So I say to my mother, says, well,
you know your brother told me that I can I
should come as well. We were married for thirty five years.
And I said okay, and then I wind up my
sister's beeping in. So I wind up talking to my sister.
I call my mother back. My mother's like, I don't
know what to do. My mother, I will say, and
if she hears this, she'll get annoyed with me, probably,
But I say, sometimes she turns into him one legged duck,
or she's just quacking and going around in the circle
and can't seem to figure out what she going to
do or what her purpose is or whatever. And maybe
it's a bad analogy, but it's the only one that's
the one I've said for years. And she's like, well,
I don't know what to do because I mean, I
don't want to get in the way. But I should
be there. Shouldn't I be there? Your brother said I
should be there. Maybe I go with you? Do I
not go with you? I go, look, this is something
you have to figure out on your own. And then
I talked to my sister and she's like, why don't
you just fly? And I go, oh, yeah, why don't
I just fly? That was why shouldn't I do that?
So I start looking for tickets and I go, I'm
going to go one way to keep this open ended,
because I don't know what's happening. I have no idea.
So I book a flight and I wind up flying
out like two o'clock in the afternoon on Friday from Buffalo.
It's the only one way flight I can get. I
can't get into Portland. Portland one way flights are taking
you like to Charlotte and back, and they're like a
thousand bucks, And I'm like the.
Speaker 2: Greatest thing about Buffalo is that airport.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the airport's pretty nice.
Speaker 5: Fly everywhere it is.
Speaker 1: So I book a flight Jet Blue Boston. I pay
our friend Doug Phelps to uber me up there, so
I don't bring a car and I'm one way.
Speaker 2: Did work out his new material with you in the car?
Speaker 1: You know, everybody's asked me that he did.
Speaker 5: SE's you what a hack?
Speaker 1: I am no, no, no, no, no no, And he did not.
He did not do any material at all. We actually
just talked about other things. I think I interrupted, I.
Speaker 2: Tell you what about black Elvis?
Speaker 1: So I go, I get on the plane and then
I'm going to take a bus from Boston to Portsmouth,
New Hampshire, which is actually really close to where my
brother is that they're like twenty minutes away. So I
booked the flight. I get on the flight, I fly there,
no problems going to Buffalo, get there early. Doug's got
me there within an hour. You know, I get through security.
I have all that I do not have the enhanced ID.
I am one of the laggers of the enhanced ID.
So I just got my renewal and I have but
you have to do it in person. Sixty seven dollars
or something like that. You got to do it in
person at DMV again a goal for the week, right,
gotta get that done. But so I'm standing in line
and they're saying, you gotta have your enhanced idea or
your passport, blah blah blah. And I see this woman
and I go, hey, listen, is there any way I
can So she goes, ah, they're probably letting some people go.
She calls over a guard and the guard goes, you
gotta get this fixed, but we'll let it slide this time.
So he opens up a lane and I purposely try
to time it. So I get in his line and
I do, and he goes, ah, we already spoke, get
that fixed. And on the plane, I go, boom, I'm
out there. So I fly up and I take the
bus over to Portsmouth and my brother meets me and
he goes, maybe this is a false alarm. I'm feeling terrible.
Dad's in the car.
Speaker 2: He's waving bay.
Speaker 1: He goes, he goes, I don't know. He goes. He's
got his pink shirt on. He's all he's all pretty dogs,
he's all great. He goes, he's in the car. I
feel terrible. I swear to god, I thought he was dying.
I go, no big deal. I'm glad I'm here.
Speaker 2: I get time out for a second. That's gotta be
the greatest. I don't know whether to laugh or cry
moment maybe of your life.
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean, because here you are. The whole time, you
gotta be think Dad' daring, dance dying, dance, dye, And
then you get the don he's in the car. I
don't well, I just go for a ride like a dog.
Speaker 1: Here's my thing, And I think that I'm weird. I
probably I've been told by uh those who were in
my life at different points that I compartamentalize things and
I put them away and I keep them in this box.
And I probably I probably have done that. I've had
some trauma throughout my life, as I've talked about being
molested and things like that, So you probably do learn
to do that. That's a coping mechanism. But I always
figure it's not that bad until it's that bad, right,
you know what I mean? So everything to me is
kind of at a neutral level, and that's it. So
we go there and I get in and my dad
is like skinnier, looks like some muscle atrophy. I mean,
he's only sitting in the front seat, and it's just
this silent kind of ride, and he starts dozing off,
and I'm like, probably a good idea that I'm actually here.
So then we end up going back to his place
and he is not in good shape, like he can't move.
He's having a hard time getting in and out of things.
You're practically and he's saying, I think I'm dying in
the next two days. And I say to my brother,
I go. The grimmer doesn't respond to calendar invites. They
come by surprise, so I can't tell if this you know.
But but he's convinced this is it. This is it.
So and he goes every day it's getting worse. Every
day's getting worse. My brother has realized at this point,
my dad can't be alone, like at all. He fell
my I guess my brother spent the night with him,
left and said, I'm going I'm gonna go to work,
I'll be you know, I'll check on you, or I'm
going home. I'm gonna shower, I need to check in
at work, and then I'm gonna come back and I'm
gonna work from here. So my brother leaves. My father
waits till the door gets shut, decides to get up,
falls and like lands in a wall, knocks a chair
over on top of himself, and he's laying there for
two hours while my brother's gone. From the time my
brother's gone till the time my brother gets back, which
was about two hours, my dad's just laying on the floor. Yeah.
Prior to that, he had been laying on the floor
and had gone to the bathroom. I mean, there was
just all this stuff. So this is why my dad's
convinced he's dying. Here's the thing with Parkinson's disease. It
doesn't kill you, No, it just gets worse, right and
worse until some it helps with something like you can't
swallow so you afphyxiate or.
Speaker 2: Disease itself doesn't kill you.
Speaker 4: It's the complications of the disease often like age, like
age itself does it. I'm not trying to compare the two,
but age itself does not kill you. It just kills
off your t cells and then you die of a cold, right, which.
Speaker 1: So I had like a stuffy head for a week,
like I had I felt like at times I was underwater,
like I couldn't hear. Then I started worrying, Im I
going death, knowing I think it's just congestion. So I
kept doing all these things. I went and talked to
a pharmacist. I took something. Then I had an appointment
Friday morning early, and that person says to me, hey, listen,
I know a lot of adults that are getting your infections.
If you're getting on a plane and stuff, you should
probably get your stuf on anantyby out. I don't. I
get there and my cold just gets worse and worse.
I wind up staying every night that I was in Maine,
other than the last night at my dad's with my dad,
it's just me and my dad. So the first night,
my dad it says to me, I'm afraid to go
to sleep because he thinks he's going to die in sleep.
So we wind up sitting sitting up and just shooting
the shit until like two o'clock in the morning. Then
you go to sleep. There's appointments the next day. Hospice
is coming in. Because hospice is not like where you
go to the hospice center and it's the end of life.
They'll come in wherever you are, and they'll just they'll
do two days a week. They have volunteers, they have
people that come around and see you. So my brother's like, look,
he can't be alone at all. The place he's living
at does provide a higher level of care, but it's
in a completely different building, and my dad's like, I
just want to I want to stay where I am. Well,
we wind up having to shower my dad. We're getting
him out of the shower, We're drying them off, You're
helping him get dressed, You're doing all these things. Some
days he's in the morning, he was a little better.
Some days is a little worse. He's every night he
was afraid to go to sleep. One night I said
to him, I think I'm gonna stay at Kevin's tonight.
He's like, I'm gonna be alone, and it was it
was just strange. So we would go over to my
brothers at night, try to get my dad out. My
mom did show up. She was absolutely wonderful, stayed with
the kids. I have to say my brother has carried
the load on this. My brother has been absolutely and
my sister, but primarily my brother absolutely amazing with this.
He's the one that pushed my dad two years ago
to move to Maine and he lived there from November
to April and decided he hated it was the darkest
place on the planet and it's always cold. I fucking
hate it. Here, goes back to Jersey and then he
fell and he had some problems. And my brother flies
in from a business trip and re routes to Newark,
drives over to where he is in Jersey and sees
them and goes, we're not doing this, You're coming with me,
and packs them up and puts them in the assistant
living center and then went back down without my help,
and my sister came up from so my sister, my
brother and his wife, who's been amazing Morgan, they pack
up a trailer. They put all his stuff in there,
all the things he needs, his furniture, his big couch,
his big giant fucking bookcase, Dan and it's like unbelievable,
and trailer their own car behind the U haul all
the way back to me. And yeah, in one film,
by the.
Speaker 2: Way, those are not comfortable rides you.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm even like.
Speaker 4: Going to taking a U haul across town. Now, imagine
doing that for like hours and hours and hours.
Speaker 2: So with a car behind.
Speaker 1: You gotcha, So you got it. So my brother decides
that this is and the air goes out. Oh yeah,
and you know, get satellite radio. So my dad he
gets all that stuff in there, and then my dad
starts having like from Father's Day on, there's been a
lot of falls, Like that morning I called him. He's
saying to me, I'm in desperate you know, I'm in
a desperate situation. I can't can hold anybody. You gotta
call somebody, blah blah blah. Uh. So that's when I
had called my brother. I called, I called the front
desk of the place. So now he's had a few
more of these instances. So I wound up staying with
him again. It was showering. But then we're meeting with
all these different people. He agrees to let hospice come in.
Now he goes, I stress is a bad thing. We
know that stress with Parkinson's. I think it's just wiping
them out. And the idea of just having had his stuff,
some of it's still not unpacked fully and having to
move again, he was totally against it. So we priced
out what would it be for twenty four hour care
coming in from the outside to be to let him
stay where he was, and we had a financial advisor
come in, we had and the hospice people come in.
We had there was a social worker, and of course,
like there's all these interviews and things, and my dad
the one thing that isn't really going is his mind.
Speaker 2: Right, He's like, I'm right here.
Speaker 1: So at one point to go well, he kept saying,
I'll do whatever you want me to do, but I
don't want to go so and don't forget that Friday
that I'm there. He's calling one of his best friends
ever says, I'm dying in the next two days. Calls
his brother, I'm dying in the next two days. My
uncle's calling me, going, is he really dying in the
next two days because I got I got a bunch
of shit going out of my life and I can't
get can't get to the East coast because he lives
in Utah. He goes, I can't get get there, you know,
until this date or whatever I go. I have no
idea he wants it sounds like he wants to die.
So then I'm realizing I'm watching him as as they're
doing these interviews and they say to him, listen, we
have to ask you a lot of questions and things
like that. And they even do a memory test where
they go, uh, you know the color blue coffee and
the number three, And then they talked about something and
go repeat back to me what I said in that order,
and he did it no problem, and so like you
could see things and I'm watching and then they go,
do you remember your wife's name? He goes, what what
did you call your wife when you were married? And
my father says, when we were fighting.
Speaker 2: Social workers got to be like or or just.
Speaker 1: Normal, which made everybody laugh. Right, So, like, I think
this is an assessment by the place. So I'm going, Okay,
he's great. My man ain't dying. He ain't dying, but
I am watching every day getting worse. The last day
that I'm with him, he fell twice. While I'm there.
I turned to move the coffee table because I got
him up, got him out of a chair. He's holding
on to his walker, and all of a sudden, as
I turned to move the coffee table so it's not
in the way of the walker, I hear he went
back down in the chair, hit the arm, hit the lamp,
you know, a lot of noise. Nothing. Again, another time
I'm washing a dish, I turn around, I see him
going I grab him. So there was a lot of that.
You're lifting them up, you're carrying them, you're helping them.
And then there were days where he would just do
everything on his own. So we finally convinced him that
the best mode for him was to move. He's got
to move to the higher level of care. So that
requires everything being moved out of his apartment. Now I
feel like shit, I haven't really slept every night. He's
afraid to sleep. I'm waking up a couple times a night.
As he's waking up, he's going to the bathroom. I'm
not interfering with him, but I'm standing there at the
ready in case he goes down. I got to be there.
So all this stuff is going on, and we get
a place. They have a room. It's but it all
it is is a studio with a bathroom. So in
this place season now he has like it would be
a great for my brother, and I go. They should
open these for college graduates before they get into life.
Like it's all young people, you got your own plays.
There's a cafeteria, if you want to go still get meals.
You can cook your own if you want to. But
we're like, this would be the great cool, the greatest thing,
like to graduate into adulthood.
Speaker 2: I'll go now, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And he's got this nice kitchen and everything. So this
has no kitchen, no refrigerator, know anything. So uh, we're
going he's gonna he's gonna fucking hate it. He's gonna
hate it. And but my brother and I his wife
ran the lead. She did a great job. My sister,
by the way, I don't mean to leave her out
on any of this. She did. She was there, she
had Poor Katie got to the airport. Her flight was
canceled so she can wound up renting a car and
driving from DC to Maine just to be there. Yep.
Speaker 2: And sixteen hours.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she still had to do work. She had
to work on odd hours with this grant thing she's doing.
And it was good. She was amazing too, but just crazy.
So I said to my brother, looking, I don't want
you move all this stuff again, this big heavy, Oh,
think of like like one of those Think of a
room with rich mahogany and thick leather furniture. Yes, that's
what my father has. He's a thick leather black couch,
big thick leather chair, thick leather ottoman right these things, yes,
and one of these really big, heavy, gigantic bookcases filled
with books. So I say, listen, man, I don't want
you to moving that shit alone again. I will stay
until that's done. Meanwhile, I got my fifteen year old.
Jordan steps up and stays with him. But I'm sure
Jordan was, you know, rerouted his whole schedule, so he's
staying with Jamison, and who knows what's happening there, you know.
But at one point, Jordan's going, oh my god, I
haven't talked to grand Baia.
Speaker 2: I can't believe it.
Speaker 1: I go, who wha what what?
Speaker 3: Whoa?
Speaker 2: Whoa whoa whoa whoa.
Speaker 1: This is not about you, This is about him. And
your grandfather wouldn't want his twenty three year old grandson
hanging on his dying breath. Life is to be lived,
and that's fine. Do not go burdening yourself with I
didn't call, I didn't do it. Just hang tight. So
Jordan handled the things here. I came home. The frat
house was exactly what I thought it was a frat house.
And then my brother and I man, we humped that
stuff all the way up. We threw it in the
back of his pickup truck and went up the hill
to the new place. Carried it in. Right. We got
this big dresser. We're going in. You got the doors.
We're trying to hit the doors to open up. And
we noticed that the funeral parlor is outside the place.
They're there to pick up a body. Somebody died. H
they're there to pick up a body.
Speaker 2: I first Dame moved into the city of Rochester. I'm
not joking.
Speaker 1: So my brother and I are wheeling in this giant dresser.
We've got it on. I don't even I think we
were carrying it. I think we took it off the
back of the bed and we're carrying it and whatever angle.
It's too wide to get through the second door into
the building. So we're like, so we're it bangs again.
I go Jackson, Jackson, Jesus Kevin. We got to turn this.
We get and right behind us is the gurney, like
it's right there.
Speaker 5: Like the gurney.
Speaker 1: Guys had to back up with the gurney because we've
got the dresser that we're going through. We're holding up
someone picking up a body to bring to be.
Speaker 2: Sorry fellas, but the guys were like, oh, no problem,
no problem, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: So we get in there, everything everything's set up beautifully
like it was great. Then my sister in law very
smartly had ordered a wheelchair. We get my dad, we
put him in a wheelchair and we wheel him. I
wheel him, I push him up the hill and into
the new building and into the room and we spin
him around and he looks at me and I'm like,
this is where I have not been emotional once the
entire week, like not any of the five days. And
he looks at me and goes, well, yeah, okay, I
guess this is it. And the only thing that I
could equate this too is dropping off my first child
at daycare and walking away as their little face crumpled
because they don't know anybody and it's all strangers and
it's scary, and you know, everybody goes through it. And
I remember going walking out with my brother and I'm like,
I couldn't even talk. I couldn't talk at that moment.
I was like, you gotta be I don't even know
what's happening here? And my sister in law swooped in
and took my dad and showed them all these different
places and stuff. My brother and I continue to move
things in. We wound up bringing some of the furniture back.
They've got to get rid of a lot of his
furniture because it won't fit in there. He's fine in
his room, and and the next day says to me,
this place is a lot more lively than the last place.
I feel much better here. But he goes, I had
a problem in the shower this morning. I pulled the bell,
twelve people came in, and then he goes, let me
tell you something. I'm on their shower. I got scrubbed
like I've never been scrubbed before. I mean, I'll tell
you what they scrub places. I don't know if she'll
let me do something my own, but I'm yeah. So
he's got a sense of humor. He's doing fine. Then
he fell again in the new place, so and and
other things are happening. So I don't know, but he's
in a better place. And it's better for my brother
and sister in law because they're not running over every
day with every little thing to help him through. But
I'll tell you, man, it took the wind out of
my sails. It took the wind out of my saals.
And then I drove back with my mom to Albany
and then took a train from Albany back up. So
my mother's with me on the last day, and we
go to say goodbye, and my mother gets herself very
upset and leaves and goes to the bathroom and she's
in there for a while and her stomach's all upset,
and I have no idea she's spraying like a skunk
or something in there. I don't know. And my father, meanwhile,
my father who had that morning was the problem with
the shower. When I get there, I knock on the
door and goes come in and he goes it took
him like seventeen minutes to get his underwear on. I
mean that that's where we're at, right. And here's what
is so difficult to watch with this is you're watching
the deterioration of a body, not necessarily a mind, a body.
Although he feels like dements is moving in, but I'm
not so sure. And he said to me, you know,
some of the things with Parkinson's is you start to hallucinate, Okay,
And so he said to me, yesterday, I had a
full conversation with your sister about picking up medicine and
when she was going to come back with it, blah
blah blah. And he goes and then I'm talking to
her later and I hallucinated the whole thing. And what
he said to me was, how can a mind that
build the house be the mind that hallucinates this? And
I think he's having a hard time coming to great
It's just just it's it's a hard thing, and I
look at it at it this way. No one gets
out of this planet alive. I believe there's a purpose
as to why we're here. Everybody's different, but I think
it's I have my belief. I won't say exactly what
it is, and I don't want to change anybody, but
but it's the natural order of life.
Speaker 5: Right.
Speaker 1: He's seventy nine years old, probably may live to be
eighty in October. What is the natural order of Life's
just the way the way it should be. Doesn't make
it any easier, really, but it's you know, you can
kind of give your condolences. It's not a child, it's
not somebody in the prime of their life. It's not
a mother who has four kids and struck down at
forty two years old because of whatever. So you got
to look at it that way. Maybe I'm too practical,
but I you know, that's it. And I call him
every day and so far he's been Yeah.
Speaker 4: I remember this with my father, and he had cancer
and the last thing to go was his mind. And
as soon as he started like asking questions about relatives
that already passed down, why they hadn't come to visit
him at the hospital.
Speaker 2: H my dearest brother hasn't come to see I me.
Speaker 4: I've been here three weeks, and my other uncle telt
to well, when I see it, I'll give him hell.
The things we had to do were and I wish
somebody had told me this eighteen years ago. We had
to kind of have some humor with it to wash
it down, or else you would have been like just
completely saddened.
Speaker 1: A spoonful of sugar. Right.
Speaker 2: First, remember that we're Christians.
Speaker 4: That my father, like when he died, was more alive
than he ever was in his in his body number one,
number two. And I kind of learned this over the weekend.
It's third of July. My my stepdad has this huge
annual party. This is his holiday.
Speaker 2: And they live on this perfect spot in the beach.
Speaker 5: You couldn't you could not.
Speaker 4: Draw a better place to live on a on a
beach in Lake Carry, Right, It's.
Speaker 2: This bungalow that goes down has a walkway down to
the beach. You got sand, and you got trees and
you got grass. It's perfect.
Speaker 4: It's on a little hill like it's the prime real estate.
If they ever wanted to sell this, they can make
a killing for it. They'll never sell it, right. And
there's this one woman there who has a husband who
has dementia in Alzheimer's. He's going through that. I know,
it's not the same thing as parkinsists, right, And she
was telling I asked him, I go, how's he doing?
And she says, you know, And she told me these
stories where she joined the support group where she knows
people who they left their husband for two hours, they
come back the entire grandfather clocksmen dismantled it, organized pieces,
but they could never put it back together. But like
that type of thing, or I have to go home,
I got paperwork to do. They flash back to a
job they had thirty years ago, and she goes, I
was told this that the things you'll cry about today
you will laugh about tomorrow.
Speaker 1: Oh and that's usually the case in just like in
life to general.
Speaker 2: And that's the thing that I really took from that.
Speaker 4: I wish I had that bad idea back sure when
my father was dying. The things you'll cry about today
you will laugh about tomorrow. The fact that I had to, like,
you know, wash my father Dahlia's day looks like a
shrivel pretzel.
Speaker 1: Do ye look even that? I mean, I think my
dad was very My dad's very private and very proud
and certainly never would be one for any of this.
But he's very accepting of where you know, not very accepting,
but he's accepting of where he is. And when we
helped him, he helped him. And you don't bat an eye,
and you would do it in a second. And I
think at some point he said to me, you know,
I feel so bad. We're rerouting everybody's schedule, and I
you and Katie and Kevin bah and I said, I
will speak for my brother and sister on this one.
I don't think there's any place we'd rather be than
where we are right now with you, because we want
to make sure everything's okay. Yeah, And I don't know
how that hit him or didn't hit him. It wasn't
meant to be. It just it was like it just
flew out of me, right, those words just flew out,
And I feel that way. I also can never. I
don't think I'll ever be able to thank my brother
enough for all he's done, and my sister, but especially
you know, Kevin really's taking the reins on this and
his wife because I I would go into like my mom,
the one like a duck. I guess I don't know. Uh,
he just really took it ran. And my thing is
I have no ego in this, but I didn't want
my brother doing the move again by himself. And he
has some some great friends, I mean amazing friends. Like
one of them comes over after and he goes, yeah,
I just left George Bush. I had to cook dinner.
And he's a private chef. He just cooked dinner for
George Bush who lives in Kenny Bunk, you know, our
summers or whatever in Kenny Bunk. And he goes, yeah,
I went over there, and he goes, I actually prepared
it at home and brought the food over. Uh. They
were having whatever party.
Speaker 2: And the bases are coming back, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And then he comes to help. That guy brings like
I mean, they brought Dolly's. He had another buddy come iris,
and it was just everything could not have gone smoother
and easier as a whole. You know. The only downside
is I ended up with bronchitis. I've been on an
antibiotic for me. Like I told you, I did not.
I should have brought the bottle with me. I will
bring the bottle. Don't bring the bottle. I will go
get gluten.
Speaker 2: It's not a biolet, it's more of like a container.
Speaker 1: I will get it, all right.
Speaker 2: But the one thing it's it's funny though.
Speaker 4: You know, this is a guy named doctor Peter to
you who tells you we never prepare for our last
ten years of life, and even if you do, you
have to prepare for it because things like like your
father seemed like a guy who prepared for that. But
when Parkins took over, it took over. Just imagine where
he would be if he wasn't working out and all
those things.
Speaker 2: But I want to think about this too, you.
Speaker 4: You telling you know, you speaking for your brother and sister,
giving them marve Leeby's Beach. There's no place I'd rather
be right here right now. That is a testament to
your parents raising of you guys, because you're all smart kids.
You're selfless people, and you always have a plan. And
I doubt that Bill Moran would have become the one
legged duck even if you were owned by your only
by yourself, because you always figure it out.
Speaker 2: You always freaking fun.
Speaker 4: You have always as long as I've known you, You've
always found a way. And your parents raised and I
remember when they were both here and I said.
Speaker 2: What's your secret? Because you know your son thinks that
Italians are dumb Jews. My family, you know, we're very tight,
we're Christians, but we're not very smart. You raised three
smart kids.
Speaker 1: What was your secret?
Speaker 4: And of course making them laugh, and you know it
was just the fact that they they may not have
been on the same page, but they teamed up to
raise three great kids.
Speaker 2: And now this is the return on their investment. And
I want you your father should always know that.
Speaker 4: You know that seeing you, the three of you do
that for him is the ultimate return on an investment
in parenting that.
Speaker 1: You could ever ask, well, I would never, you know.
Speaker 2: Among the other things, the grandkids and all that stuff.
It's just one big part of that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was nice to have the whole family together,
like all three of us, and it was nice that
it was kind of small and not, you know, like
it was just my sister and just me. My sister
in law is wonderful, and there are two kids. But
I think any more of that it would become almost chaotic,
and you didn't need chaos. We needed to kind of
streamline things but also spend some time together. And you know,
there's a lot of other things man, that you don't
think about, like getting other people's in somebody's name on
a bank account, and you got to do it in person.
Banks no longer because of all the you know, I
think they just arrested a guy who is Canadian who
is the head of the scam what they call the
grandparents scam, where people are calling up and saying I
need money now I've been in an accident, that sort
of thing. So they got that guy. But still you've
got to go into institutions with the person. Now, if
somebody dies, then it goes into probate court sometimes because
and that takes forever. So we're trying to figure out,
you know, can we do almost a weekend at Bernie's
with my dad? Cut him down to one bank in
New York State and one bank in New Jersey and
get my brother on there because my brother's closest. I
go yeah, And I said to my brother and go, look,
that's not a tripe. You can do a loan.
Speaker 2: So I will your brother's friends with the bushes.
Speaker 4: They have to know some I A people that'll make
a mask, that'll make a mask that you can walk in,
because that's what they do with Biden.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 2: But don't tell me Biden was making all those appearances.
Speaker 4: They had a special mask. Now they had like a
weekend at Biden's type of situation.
Speaker 1: We're gonna We're gonna take a moment. Kevin Uh. I
was with Kevin for the fourth of July and Uh, Kevin, Yes,
r Kevin Kevin Mure and I loved it. It was fantastic.
Kevin Uh says, we still have all of his fingers.
Kevin has all of his fingers.
Speaker 2: Kevin does.
Speaker 1: Yes. I'm not sure if our kids almost lost probably,
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Sure uh kevin is joining us from. His compound not in, The.
Garage kevin. I'M disappointed i thought for sure there'd Be.
The garageio it's two.
Speaker 5: Goddamn.
Speaker 1: Hot yeah, well yeah it's like ninety something. Degrees today
that laid out in the in the heat today with,
THE sun i Should do. Danny's, Dirty oh danny's growing.
A beard, I think I think I Think danny's are you? Or,
no no there WAS talk i couldn't, do it but.
You couldn't but you got. THE stubble i got. The
stubble is This? Stubble? Suffice yeah right for?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 2: Now yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: You have now you've let the mustache grow longer than
the arrest, of it.
Speaker 2: NOT intentionally i just have. It shaved it's growing.
Speaker 1: Faster now, oh okay, All right Bobby, The, Booby, Mario
uh KEVIN and i were Together for Fourth. Of july
we Went To Wally. Wally pecones What's that? Wally, is
uh give me the name of IT because i always?
Say wrong?
Speaker 5: Is It O'mearo's, Omarow custom taylor's.
Speaker 1: Yea a merrow custom tailors like they do high, end
suits high end, beautiful, STUFF right, I, mean kevin this Stuff.
Speaker 5: Is hwan potter's kind of.
Speaker 1: High, end yes and, it's uh.
Speaker 4: You guys getting fitted for Suits for. Greg's wedding, well,
no no, No no And Like buffalo bills players. Go
there there are People that wally won't even.
Speaker 1: Tell you he will. Not disclose there's. PROBABLY uh i,
Was thinking i'm Thinking Of tom. CRUISE type i don't
Know A tom. CRUISE type i would THINK that i
may have. Been too he.
Speaker 5: Protects us he, protects us and.
Speaker 1: His son is taken over and doing a. Great, Job matt.
Matt pecone but we had a great time And they
Wally invited JAMISON and i, to join and so uh
so we Did, And jamison jamison was all About the
jamison asked if he could bring, his friend uh, a
GIRL and, i said, let me let me double Check,
with wally and he, said absolutely and so uh out.
We went But but Jamison was jamison walked in and
looked Like. Nan north he did Well Like. NANAGA north
i don't know he had.
Speaker 5: He had He had jackson's. Pants, on yeah there are
about six sizes too long.
Speaker 2: For Him m.
Speaker 1: James and jordan's.
Speaker 5: Shirt on it was about three sizes too big.
Speaker 1: For him he bought that. Shirt right So it's jamison
is NOW actually i think taller. THAN me i think he's.
Six too he Is uh jackson's. Cowboy BOOTS so i said, to,
him listen it's really. Hot out you're going to. A
pool he. Goes well the weather forecast he gave, TO
me i didn't. Check myself the weather forecast he gave
to me was that it was supposed to drop into
the sixties at night. Or something it was supposed to get.
Very COOL so i threw on, a PULLOVER which i Left,
at Wally's and jamison put on, like, this no no.
Big DEAL so, i uh it's a some button. Down
shirt he's very into his. Own style so there's. Jeans
there instead of, a belt it's, a rope it's. Cowboy
boots they're flared at the bottom like he's. Got HIMSELF and,
I go i'm not sure we show up every kid
his age is in a. Bathing suit he. DIDN'T flinch
i said, to him bring a, bathing suit bring, a
towel put it all in. The back but he went
and changed and that. Was it but. He did he
came In AND kevin i think he would. HAVE melted
i think he was melting because he came in and
he was sitting with. EVERYBODY talking i looked.
Speaker 5: At him, I'm like, i'm, like, really yeah, Pool, party yeah.
Speaker 1: Pool party that was. The thing that's what. He wore
he was sweating his ass off but that was a.
Great time and then we went back Over to kevin's
house and uh they lit off fireworks, and uh, you
know harassed the neighbors and uh did all kinds. Of
stuff but the good the.
Speaker 5: Good parents were sitting there drinking while the kids are blowing.
Speaker 1: Things, off yes they were blowing off a ton. Of
stuff like you had to See the kevin must have
had like an arsenal. Of things they went down there
nearly like it was nearly a thousand dollars worth. OF fireworks,
I THINK am? I, wrong.
Speaker 5: No we don't get me. In trouble come.
Speaker 1: Before. The, Discount no i'm not trying to get. To
divorce but it was like before, the discount. All right,
so YEAH so i mean in, these guys you're seeing
the boys go and light it and then run back
and row, and lighted. Run back so that was fun, and,
uh yeah we just. It was it was a pretty
good overall fourth ate like a freaking Pig. At wallis,
and uh by, the way some Lady. At, WALLY'S uh
i normally don't see, friend REQUESTS and i think it's
because maybe it Came on instagram. Or SOMETHING but i
saw a MESSAGE and i haven't. Opened it, but this
this is this is why everybody yells, at, me OKAY
because i get the banner that tells me pretty MUCH
everything i. Need, to no maybe there's, more INFORMATION but i.
Got it and the message said we should go. Out
sometime THAT'S what, i SAID and i. DO it i did,
not respond. LOVELY person i actually found.
Speaker 5: That person i'm surprised you saw because your face was
buried on your phone most of. The day jamison over
there no text all. Day long we were texting all,
day long but you were texting.
Speaker 1: All man because everything with my dad AND my i.
DON'T remember i don't, remember THAT BUT i. I had
I thought i had a. GREAT time i was sitting chatting.
With you we're, busting balls, we're playing, you know watching
the kids do, their thing, and uh. That's it but
then this person did send me we should go. Out
sometime and she was floating in, the pool had, a
drink the, whole, thing right she.
Speaker 5: Had like.
Speaker 1: They were out floating and having herself A grand, all
right that, was IT and i It's. WEST side I
just i Can't. West side it's, too far, you know that's.
Speaker 5: The thing he's not The west, side, though oh, you're
right but she's.
Speaker 1: You're.
Speaker 5: Fucking.
Speaker 1: Here, wow well.
Speaker 2: So maybe she moved over in the. CONTINENTAL drill i.
Speaker 1: DON'T know i have no idea but the, uh yeah
but she could be the.
Speaker 5: Next she could be the next Double Dater.
Speaker 1: Maton mark, oh, Yeah, UH KEVIN i i want to
see if we can find out any more information. On
this something happened on your side of TOWN because i
was looking for there were a whole bunch of, firework
mishaps like around. The country they Go from Utah. To illinois.
TEENS lost i guess SEVERAL teens i had partial amputations on,
their HANDS and i always saw. The headlines but. ONE
here i don't know if this is a tragic low
or a strangely responsible workaround for something that. Had happened
but a guy In The brockport ogden area got into,
an accident like car went off, the road hit, a
tree both, airbags, DEPLOYED right, i mean this is a,
Shit SHOW and i don't know that there was anybody
else in. The car so you got to be traveling
at a high rate of speed for both of them to.
Go off usually it's just the one with, the person
but they both, went off and this guy was found
pushing this Dented up honda back to wherever he was
trying to get TO and, I go i, don't know
but his blood alcohol level it was at the level
of that you would sanitize a. Hospital with he. Blew
up he had a point two nine, nine nine, Your,
guest kevin. We did we did right the experiment, With,
you yes at, your house in, Your garage we did the.
Whole experiment there's an episode you can go back and,
listen TO and, i think what did you end? Up at?
POINT one i think it was one three or, one
four one three or one four? That high so this
guy had to be DRINKING for, i mean it feels
like days and days. AND days i. Can't imagine and who's.
Speaker 5: The cop who's the dick cop that doesn't give him?
The round round? It up give, them three don't?
Speaker 1: GIVE him i think it was two nine. NINE nine
i think if you look, around nine, uh yeah four
times the, legal limit which is point. Zero, eight yeah
so you're over four times the legal limit, on, that
yeah your point two four would be yeah. Yeah yeah
so this guy is, uh wait point, three two so
he's just under, excuse, ME yeah i did my math oka,
just yes but it is basically four times he got an.
Appearance TICKET but, i go this is what.
Speaker 2: He would here's the thing when when they let, him
out was he?
Speaker 4: STILL wasted i have, no idea but just based on having,
the ALCOHOL the bac is so high to, BEGIN with.
Speaker 1: I have, no IDEA but, i go if you have
a point TWO nine bac and you're still mobile enough
to push your car and sweat some of, this out
do you not get a few? Extra points is this
not a little bit of a bragging right? For somebody
what kind?
Speaker 5: Of caught was he pushing it? IN reverse i.
Speaker 1: DON'T know i mean that that's olympic. Level, dysfunction yes.
Functioning dysfunction that's that's olympic, function alcoholism. Functioning dysfunction at point,
two nine you fucking crash your car, so hard both airbags,
go off you're still, don't talk you're, still alive and
you push.
Speaker 2: That mother to get this thing back on.
Speaker 1: The Road if i'm, THE cop i may. FEEL bad
i may. Feel bad no one, got hurt no one. Got,
ANYTHING now i know people, who say if you, drive
drunk you should be charged with uh. Involuntary manslaughter because
you could. Kill, somebody, yes RIGHT but i go in,
this Case if i'm the, police officer it's a lot
of paperwork, for me and you are a bit of.
A hero you're trying not to leave your. DEBRIS everywhere,
i mean there's probably a license playholder somewhere on someone's lawn.
Speaker 2: Or so let's pretend you.
Speaker 1: Got it let's pretend you to.
Speaker 2: Crash, today yes let's just go home and sleep. This,
off yeah my father back in, my day they just
bring you home because you.
Speaker 1: Gotta go what kind of mindset goes crash. MY car
i pop both airbags Off and i'm gonna push, this,
Home right That's what i'm.
Speaker 2: Gonna do that's a mental toughness, right there you.
Speaker 1: Know what i'll push. It home there's nothing, stopping me
and they. Will Not so i'm wondering if it's an.
Undraged person they have not released the name of the
person that, Did, this okay so they're saying who, Did
it but somebody somewhere knows who this is that crashed
their car at eight pm it might have been last
night or the, night before and then decided to push
it down. The road you still, got daylight you got
to get there.
Speaker 4: Before daylight you KNOW what? I, mean yeah with the
blue laws, nine, o'clock right is that what they call
they call, blue laws not, blue laws, but, like.
Speaker 1: Yes card it's. Blue laws it's like blue laws.
Speaker 2: Were like you, couldn't serve you couldn't do Anything.
Speaker 3: On.
Speaker 4: SUNDAYS yeah i think it's a, blue card like you
get your, blue card meaning you could drive after.
Speaker 2: NINE o'clock i think.
Speaker 1: There were blue laws, in radio like you could say
anything you want after ten O'CLOCK. THE fc i didn't
know this until it was.
Speaker 4: Too, late yeah between ten pm and. Six AM so
i was at a boarding Show with Beth and chet.
Speaker 2: Remember them on the way the. Check goes after we took,
the test we found we could swear between five. And,
six yeah.
Speaker 1: That's funny check was. OF course i mean this guy
at point, twenty nine you got to, be like you're pushing,
the car you're arguing with the transformer right.
Speaker 2: Post jumped out in front.
Speaker 3: Of me what?
Speaker 1: The hell you never heard anything, About? That kevin you
know police officers and things in that side of.
Speaker 5: THE town i have not heard anything.
Speaker 1: About, that no just thank god this dude's.
Speaker 2: Investigative work this person is, still alive.
Speaker 1: Because that might be a Come, to jesus will Come.
TO jesus i think you hit, the bottom but you're
you are in such. Good look you want to talk,
About longevity you want to talk about keeping your body.
In shape you hit, a car you are so drunk
that you could sanitize a hospital with your blood, alcohol
level and you decide to push your.
Speaker 2: Car home that to me is YOUR respond i think
that Was our Prince, of ohio Our. Frindvable ohio and
the Seventy.
Speaker 1: Was.
Speaker 4: Yeah the operating. WELL ability i think it was AN
o w i' something. Like, that yeah it might have been,
that dude you had seventy.
Speaker 2: Of them he's.
Speaker 5: A professional, i, GO yeah i go the. OTHER way
i feel Like if i'm hitting at a point, TWO
nine i still got room. To grow.
Speaker 2: See if we can break a.
Speaker 1: New. Record yeah, it's, like well you start to wonder
because you're hearing all these things like you shouldn't drink.
At all drinking is, Pure poison.
Speaker 4: Like seven units of alcohol a week could give. You,
CANCER supposedly i.
Speaker 1: Don't, Know okay I'm.
Speaker 2: Doing I'm, Not yeah i'm. Not well if you do,
the math it doesn't make.
Speaker 4: Any SENSE like i read something the other day with
every class of alcohol lowers your life expectancy by. Thirty
minutes and, somebody, GOES well i should have been dead twenty. Years, ago,
Yeah OKAY so, i mean but alcohol is not good.
Speaker 2: For you let's we, know.
Speaker 1: That right but then you start, to wonder like what
when you drink that much on a, regular basis what
do you? Covering up what mental health thing is?
Speaker 2: Going on something's? Going on don't, you, think yeah you're,
self medicaid you? Want it for. GET something i got.
Speaker 1: To think this is a, young guy by, the way definitely. A.
Dude huh it's. Called marriage. My marriage definitely. A dude
can we agree on that they're? Not really no no
chicks pushing the fucking. CAR either, i remember, years ago,
Years ago i'm coming under the one lane Bridge On
winton ROAD because i had been DJing At. The windfield
it was like right, after COLLEGE and i see this
car and. It's over it comes all the way over
into my lane and it's coming. At ME so i
blow the horn AND then i Stop and i'm on
the other side of the bridge and the car goes
back into its lane and just as she approaches the
of the railroad bridge that she's going to. Go under
she comes along, and boom she goes right into, the
thing into the, medium right and so there's, the car and,
she's LIKE so i stopped to make sure. She's okay
and it's this strike makingly. Pretty girl could have, been
seventeen could have been, twenty seven, no idea hard. To
TELL and i, Remember going i'm pissed because you could have.
Killed me you could have fucking killed me and or
at least, caused me like to not have, my car
all the inconvenience of. That shit and, she's LIKE so
i had called nine. ONE one i had a cell
phone at, the TIME and i CALLED and i waited
with her till like the cops. Show up and, she's
like my dad's gonna. Kill me can you just get
me out. Of here i'll, Do anything i'll. Do anything, i'm,
LIKE no i want nothing to do, with this not
a fucking thing to do. WITH this i want. Out, out.
Speaker 2: Sorry, honey yeah that. Was that that.
Speaker 1: WAS that i know she. WAS striking i just remember
she was a striking. Blonde GIRL but i probably was in,
high school Is what. I'M thinking i don't want nothing
to do with, This NOTHING and i. Was pissed, i'm
like you could fucking. Kill me AND all i want
to do is get home and, you know live to see.
Another day.
Speaker 5: ALL right i did not.
Speaker 1: DO that i was only part time in. THE radio
i was.
Speaker 2: Part time it was do you?
Speaker 1: KNOW who? I know it's still, The, Case kevin what
are you doing the rest?
Speaker 3: Of?
Speaker 1: TODAY uh I think i'm gonna wake? Pop, up yeah
hit that. Garage baby the. Weekend continues Fourth of july.
Weekend continues we're.
Speaker 5: Just gonna we're just gonna soak in. THE pool a
couple of.
Speaker 1: Dudes soaking thank thank you for. Jumping on, somebody says
chick pushing. The car we'll kick, Your. Ass kevin you
don't want to? FIND her, i do? All, Right, uh
kevin thank you for for, popping on and thank You
for Fourth of july. WAS fantastic i really did have a.
Good TIME and I hope i didn't. EMBARRASS myself.
Speaker 5: I was recognized all over. THE neighborhood, i WAS.
Speaker 1: But, I was. I was i kept. Myself together, you were,
you were you. Were fine you, were drunk but you.
Were fine NOBODY knew i. Was, drunk no it's hard
to Tell when. Kevin's drunk it's hard to tell you.
It is he carries, it well carries. It well, all right.
Speaker 2: Thanks buddy you're a Great, drunk kevin you're a great.
Speaker 1: Drunk drunk go do, a uh go do some. Day
drinking you? Know it, all right see. You later there,
He goes There. Goes kevin we'll take, a moment and
when we, Come, back danny your wife is. A, teacher
ah wait till you hear. This story, Oh yeah i'll tell.
YOU what i almost wanted to see if we could
Get beth on to talk about. This STORY but i
thought we'll just we'll just. Opine ourselves we'll get to
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it's Called Vendor. Later blues it's one of the few
songs that somebody else gets credit, for writing because it's
always the. Glimmer twins it's making, and KEY and i
don't think they no matter, who contributed they didn't give
the other people. Writing FREITS just i think it was
a thing in. The band whatever the contracts were a
young Guy Named mick taylor had joined the band at nineteen,
years old a real great, rhythm guitarist and he fit
in in that. Whole song he gets credit on the riff.
For that he came up with the Riff and Exile
On main Street. Is god it's a fifty four year.
Old ALBUM now i. LOVE it i think it's the
best rock. Album ever was recorded in like a House. In,
france YEAH and i think the ventilator went down and so,
you know and you know how that can fuck, up,
instruments man it, can, like right you can warp.
Speaker 5: Your guitar it can worp.
Speaker 2: Your guitar everything has to be tuned. And, retuned yeah
you could lose the tuning in the middle of.
Speaker 1: A song so they, did this but the songwriting process
with this album was, just chaotic and so they came
up with the riff And then mick just sort of
ad libbed over it and somebody, you know caught it
all and they put together. The song but it's one
of the Few That mick taylor. Gets Credit And mick
taylor was nineteen and then he decided to leave the
man in his Twenties And keith richards was noted for
saying nobody leaves the band unless. They DIE and I
think mick or somebody. Goes down let the, kid go let. Him,
go yeah he's. Still Alive So mick taylor years ago
playing a gig, in town shows up and he was
doing like he was just a fucking mess of a.
Speaker 2: Human being oh.
Speaker 1: Oh god but it was like he was this pretty
nineteen year old kid when he Joined the stones. And,
WHATEVER man i don't know if they fucked. HIM up
i don't Know, IF keith i have no idea. What
happened but that dude was like he. Was bloated he was.
A mess and part of his deal was he needed an.
Eight ball, oh wow, oh, yeah no he needed he
had to be he had to have an. Eight, ball
yeah like wherever club he. Was playing and he came
into the radio SEASON and i don't know that the
interview was even. That good it wasn't me that was,
doing IT but, i, oh man, you know to be
around some OF the i mean historical shit That the
stones had done at that time and not remember he
was like didn't. Remember stuff he was a. Fucking, mess,
yeah yeah it.
Speaker 4: Is, CRAZY yeah i mean you're the only guy that
Left The rolling. Stones, alive Yeah Well bill wyman.
Speaker 1: Retired Basically But bill wyman, was like, you know he's
eighty something years, old now and they did bring him
back to play on the. Latest, album yeah they brought
him back for like a song, or two just to have.
IT there i think they brought back The original stones
Because they. Charlie died he was, the drummer but they
had laid down some drum, tracks already so they had the.
Drum tracks, charlie died and so They brought bill in
to play bass on that, one song so they would
have All, the stones All the stones that were alive for.
That album. You know, of course the founding member Of
The rolling stones died very. Very, YOUNG brian i want,
To Say brian Johnson And. Brian Jones, brian jones. THANK
you i Was Going, BRIAN johnson i. Go ahead.
Speaker 4: Very fun there's a very famous story About How louke
graham's then Girlfriend When the stones came, to town he ran.
Speaker 1: Out of the house and Went To, john, yes, yes,
yes yes.
Speaker 2: How like they were out that the show got. Got
stopped they had.
Speaker 4: To go So the stones are escorted out of the
building out of the well the more memorial at, the
Time and lou's girlfriend was Chasing After brian jones and
she Fell And brian jones helped pick, her up and then,
you know, you okay and then he got to the
limo and, then left, you know and Then that luke.
Speaker 2: Was, like well that's that's my girlfriend, that fell. You
KNOW oh i. Told that so then he ended up
running home and his father grounded in for. A, WEEK
yeah i thought That.
Speaker 1: WAS hendrix. I can't i couldn't remember Who.
Speaker 2: THE hendricks i think was the story Of. Jukebox hero
that could.
Speaker 1: Be, wrong no, you're right that. Is, it yeah couldn't
get a ticket and. Got IN oh. I.
Speaker 4: DIDN'T yeah I read low's biography in, two, days okay
And the Scott pat toonica was just two days because, he, wrote,
yeah yeah it only took you two days to.
Speaker 1: Write, that yeah it wasn't that, engrossing, THAT yeah. I.
Speaker 2: THOUGHT yeah i think he took it AS like i
put a lot more effort to it. THAN that, I,
go no it just took me two days to.
Speaker 1: Read it it's a. Light compliment it's a. Good compliment
let me say, something real. Real fast, YOU know i
don't know if, it's summertime and and that's, the Deal
as i'm all NASILY and i have, a COULD but
i have noticed that women seem to like women who are.
Middle aged maybe, they're single maybe, They're not maybe they're sort,
of single maybe they're, half in. Half out they they
are making themselves known to. BE available i will, Tell.
Speaker 2: You, oh really they're.
Speaker 3: Moving.
Speaker 2: Forward, Huh yeah i've.
Speaker 1: Heard it i've seen it with other. People too AND then,
i go look. At this it's a brave new world,
out there, you know twenty, Twenty five. JESUS coming i myself,
a man summer summer. Twenty five you got to get the.
Speaker 2: Ship.
Speaker 1: Down uh your wife is, A TEACHER and i think
it's sometimes we undervalue what teachers deal with on. Aular
basis we always used, To say china is going to
outperform us on blah blah blah blah blah. BLAH whatever
i think now it's, just, like yeah they're gonna blow
us away because some kids just they don't even want to.
Be there they're not. Doing ANYTHING and i don't know
if school needs to. BE changed i have, no idea
but this teacher is in. Some trouble it is not an,
our country just to say it's a. WORLDWIDE problem a
health Class in wales took a wild turn When Teacher,
alice ashton previously known for being quiet, and reserved allegedly
down booze from a disguised, water bottle, blasted music swore at,
the students calling them little fuckers or, little motherfuckers and
led a spontaneous macarina session instead. Of teachers to sixteen
year old students described the class as chaotic, and Bizarre with,
ashton swearing, gesturing aggressively and dancing erratically.
Speaker 2: To, the macharina which they probably. Did, Recognize no i'm.
Speaker 1: Sure not this Person looks.
Speaker 2: So did you guys have?
Speaker 1: To?
Speaker 4: Do line was line dancing a thing when you were
in school or that BECOME after i? Think, after okay
so my dancing we had, square dancing that we had.
Line dancing so they were teaching us all like those
dances like The boots, guten boogie yeah and all. Those
dances the electric slide, Really right so like the macharina
came out at, that time so we grew up with.
The macarena these kids probably have no idea what any
of these.
Speaker 1: DANCES are i used to love to jump in at
WEDDINGS when i, was drunk to the electric SLIDE because
i thought it was the dumbest, fucking THING and i
would do it wrong, on purpose so like whenever we would,
turn around turned the. Wrong Direction so i'm facing fat in.
The back you're doing. It wrong you're. All crazy why
do you? Do IT and i don't KNOW why i
found that. So entertaining it's, just obnoxious just Obnox'll be oh,
My gosh i'm. SO sorry. I wasn't i wasn't like
making fun of. THEM exactly i was. In, THERE well
i didn't. SAY anything i didn't. SAY anything i just
would go in there to mess it UP because i
would annoy some people because they took it very. Very
soon oh they take it very seriously at the at
the at. The wedding it's a very. Serious thing but
so this THIS woman i guess had a D w,
i prior but was, very, quiet reserved and she's been
fired but she can reapply in. Two years.
Speaker 2: Good luck, with that Apparently, in England, Oh, god wales.
Speaker 4: It's it's FREAKING unbelieve i go that that's somebody Who
Remember mariah carey had her melt down ON.
Speaker 2: A tv i think that's where that. Was at these
teachers get, no help they get.
Speaker 1: No, support no that's not a, health class it's a P.
S a and why you don't mix vodka. And responsibility,
it's like this is why kids we don't, do that
don't Drink on but does it talk about a bigger
problem for teachers where you just how? Many teachers and
it's been said for YEARS and i think you have said,
it yourself maybe prior to being married to, a teacher
but knowing people who, were teachers the, Teachers drink they
go out.
Speaker 4: And DRINK and i remember upon A time i put
Up a facebook post back in nine or, TWENTY ten
i think it was.
Speaker 5: ON nine i live.
Speaker 2: Next door my SISTER and i. Live together we live
next door to.
Speaker 4: These teachers and every day after school that bottle was
Out and i'm talking the big jumbo sized yellowtail bottles,
that yeah every teacher drank because you like you.
Speaker 2: Get at least a LIQUOR barn i pay more and
like they'd have THOSE big i mean.
Speaker 4: Jumbo sized they still sell them bottles, of yellowtail and
those girls will be out for at least two hours heading,
into dinner just drinking their appetizers because they hated teaching.
So MUCH and i Posted on facebook and then why
are you?
Speaker 5: Doing it?
Speaker 2: THESE people i got more RESPONSES from x Classmates. From
fishery you don't. Get it you have to raise somebody
else's kids. Right out and my whole point wasn't but
this is what you signed.
Speaker 1: Up for well, it is and it isn't you signed
up to be. A, teacher.
Speaker 2: Yes right SO because i was twenty nine at, THE
time i.
Speaker 1: Knew, everything, well, YEAH right i remember. That, Guy yeah,
oh gosh. So stupid it's not that. Far away.
Speaker 2: I'm just a.
Speaker 1: Different, versions yeah, he's right he's moved over a.
Speaker 2: Little bit but my wife like going through what she,
goes through and she's not reaching for.
Speaker 5: A bottle, BUT man i hear.
Speaker 2: About it these teachers get stripped of more and.
Speaker 1: More, RIGHTS yeah, i mean we don't talk about.
Speaker 2: We don't they're not they're not. Students anymore it's almost
like they're customers. Or clients remember the customer is, always
right or the customer's parent is.
Speaker 1: Always, right YEAH but i mean the number of teachers
that have to self medicate to survive the system and
then talk about the number of teaching positions that are
available in some areas because nobody wants to Deal with,
OH yeah.
Speaker 4: I know if somebody who got tenured probably should why
because they're short.
Speaker 1: On, teachers, amen baby get in there and take a.
Bike in they.
Speaker 4: Got tenure, you're kidding take a. Bike in miss twenty
seven days of school and still, Got tenure?
Speaker 1: No, kidding, well yeah you can do what you can't
miss twenty. Seven days there's one hundred and. EIGHTY eight
i think there's one hundred and eighty eight, for teachers
one hundred and eighty. For students but that's a much.
Speaker 2: Worth, that Yeah, Taking yeah i'm just Gonna take.
Speaker 1: May, off yeah no, problem ahead Seeing.
Speaker 4: Seeing june, yeah, right WELL actually i think the every
month and teacher land is, twenty days so it'll be
like a month and, a in, you know a week.
Or so are we expecting too much perfection from teachers
or is, the bar as you're, pointing out already, too
low like this is what.
Speaker 1: WE'RE getting i. DON'T know i. Don't know the TEACHERS
that i have, interacted WITH and i have over the
past year more so than ever. WERE wonderful i saw
some really dedicated teachers who were there to educate kids at,
all levels from kindergarten to. Senior year you had some.
WONDERFUL teachers i did not run into ANYBODY that i
thought was, like ubu they. Get HERE and i saw
some really challenging students, at TIMES and, i, thought man
these people are they do a hell of. A JOB like,
i go they. Deserve more this. They do they.
Speaker 2: Certainly do it's not an.
Speaker 4: Easy job and like that whole MENTALITY that i had
in like nine or twenty ten that this is what
you signed, Up, for no. It's, not well it's it
has evolved, or devolved if you want to call, it
that into something beyond just.
Speaker 2: Teaching curriculum it has now become. Professional.
Speaker 4: Babysitting, yeah yeah in a way for students who are
in a perpetual state of arrested development for.
Speaker 2: Their age and fifth graders aren't fifth.
Speaker 4: Graders anymore they're like. Second graders junior high kids are like.
Fifth greaters seniors are more. Like freshmen depends on where, you,
ARE yeah, i mean it's not gonna happen like that. In,
McQuaid no it depends on where, YOU are i mean where.
You're teaching, BUT yeah i think that it JUST looks, i,
GO boy i was never one. TO buy i used
to have a problem with.
Speaker 1: The the number of PEOPLE that i knew who would drink.
While driving AND now i sort of get it in.
A way now you're, going home you can, handle it, you, know,
Illegal right i've done, this before a couple of nips
IN my I mean i remember being around painters and
STUFF when i was doing a. Little construction you'd see.
Those motherfuckers they had their little stuff in. Their coffee
they had oh yeah there.
Speaker 4: All.
Speaker 1: You know one guy comes in and, goes man great
lad night, last night gave the old lady a wool
paint roller. Right across.
Speaker 4: That was.
Speaker 1: Their thing was just that was the way.
Speaker 4: It was THAT was i were working in a factory
between semesters. And, college man, these guys like the one
guy's wife packed them.
Speaker 2: A beer in, his yeah in. His COOLER well i can't,
have this so he go out to his car. And
drinking yeah.
Speaker 1: RIGHT right i mean it's a. Little escape it's A
little it's.
Speaker 4: Not like these guys weren't there. To lie they did
these big jobs for. Twenty years they're not gonna like
screws up.
Speaker 1: It up it's not like one beer is gonna. F
up it's just that one leads to like, too many? Too,
many yeah, that's awesome is uh is? TOO many i
don't know? What else what else it? Would? BE uh i, Don't,
know dan should we wrap just kind of wrap it.
UP here i know that we've done sort of a,
shorter episode but just short of. Getting back what do we?
Speaker 4: Learn?
Speaker 2: Today bill learn that.
Speaker 1: Women of a certain age are horny and ready in.
Speaker 2: The summer they are this may be, your time fellows
comes out summer, a love.
Speaker 1: Get your vitamin. D uh that my dad is still
alive even though he was predicting his own death and
calling people and, telling themselves.
Speaker 2: If this, is it please let.
Speaker 1: Me, Know yeah AND that i. HAVE emotions i. LEARNED
that i LEARNED that i have emotions by by helping
him move in and just sort of seeing him When
he when he said that, TO me i, was, LIKE
oh i, was Like, oh god your whole. Heart sank,
you know your heart's like all the other, stuff falling helping,
Him shower none of that really. AFFECTED me i. FELT
bad i could tell there's muscle atrophying and all. That
STUFF but i, was, like whoa that was the one
that was the killer the. Killer blow and THEN when
i had, TO leave i. Walked AWAY and i don't
Know if i'll ever regret this, or NOT but i
was walking down. The hall my mother was slightly ahead.
Of me we. Said goodbye he had walked to, his
DOOR and i gave him, a hug AND then i
gave HIM and, I said i'm going to give you a,
second hug, you KNOW before. I leave AND then i
turned AROUND and i was holding everything IN and i
just kept WALKING and i wanted to turn around and,
see HIM because, i go it could be one, last,
time right you? Never KNOW and i didn't on PURPOSE
because i would have.
Speaker 2: Lost it, OH yeah i would have.
Speaker 1: LOST it i would have. Lost IT and i don't
know if that was cold to just turn your back and,
walk OUT but i, was leaving, you KNOW so i
felt like that was the best thing to do in,
that moment to stay, the course let's. Be cool my
mother was already on the, edge of, you, know herself being.
VERY upset i don't forget they were together for many
years and they have three children together AND so i, was,
like yeah that that was the those are the. Things
say this whole thing is taken a little bit of
the wind out of. My sails it's taken me like
just to get back in the swing. Of things i've
been back Since last WHEN did i Get? Back Friday?
Maybe friday When was? July?
Speaker 5: Fourth?
Speaker 1: Saturday, yes YEAH so i got back Four? Was friday
july Fourth? Was FRIDAY so i Got back Thursday and
thursday night at like, eight o'clock eight thirty and then
came home to the, frat HOUSE which i. LOVE this
i love this.
Speaker 2: GREEN clouds.
Speaker 1: I will not answer, that ONE but. I will i
will tell you a story.
Speaker 2: Off air, oh, good yeah bonus.
Speaker 1: For, US yeah i should tell him, out there BUT someday,
i will because everything, comes out everything. Comes OUT but,
I Ye i so.
Speaker 4: Third, of july, my STEPDAD as, i mentioned it's this
big party and everybody in town comes and they blow
off the fireworks in, my hometown and they blow them
off on the third because everybody Goes to dunkirk on,
the fourth they blow them off in. The, Lake right
so my brothers bought these FIREWORKS and i wanted to
help him blow off, these fireworks and EVERY time i
wandered near my brother's blown, Off, fireworks beth my wife will.
Speaker 2: Be honey can you go get me a glass? Of, water,
sure okay she's TRYING to i wander. Back, Over, honey
hey you KNOW what i need my sweater. Or sweatshirt
it's in. Your car can you Go, Get yeah i'll go. Get,
IT right i want to hang out with.
Speaker 4: My brothers she was, preventing me probably from getting like
my arm, blown OFF because i would, probably, said hey
this is how you, do it EVEN though i had.
Speaker 2: NO intention i just wanted to like.
Speaker 4: Help, out yeah but there these are my brothers were lighting,
the fireworks maybe with, a cigar, maybe not and then
running backwards as if like these things could blow off
at any time and had. No IDEA and i think
she saw this AND thought i might. Be next so
for my, own protection she. Prevented me did you ask? Her? What,
NO no i wanted TO just i just, theorized, That,
like okay that's the third time you've asked me to
do something within. Ten minutes and it's NOT like i
could just like walk two steps and get. IT now
i had to walk all the way to. The car
all the way up, the hill all the way up,
the stairs, back down say hi, to somebody talk, to
somebody do. Something else come back down and they're still blowing.
Off FIREWORKS and i wanted to hang out with. My
brothers my one brother went Back, to florida AND so, i, want.
Speaker 2: Honey, no, NO no i could you uh could you do?
This INSTEAD because i think she.
Speaker 4: WAS afraid i was going to blow my, hand off
EVEN though i had no intentions of lighting a single.
Speaker 2: FIREWORK myself i. Don't know, but man when you get
up close, band them things, are loud right.
Speaker 1: They are. THEY'RE real i think one of one of
the Ones that kevin's house was like. A mortar i
mean it, was like, holy shit it's just.
Speaker 2: ONE thousands i don't.
Speaker 1: KNOW what i don't. KNOW what i don't know what.
HE had i didn't light. ANYTHING off i let the
kids saw, his kids, my kid and they went.
Speaker 5: ONE thing i.
Speaker 1: WILL think i Came, Back wednesday that's what. IT was
i Got back wednesday at like eight o'clock.
Speaker 5: At.
Speaker 1: Night thursday, YOU know I just i'm still dragging. THIS
bronchitis i had THE doctor i had THIS that i
wanted to get, checked out and then the Fourth of
July Was. Friday saturday it's taken me like this long
to just get back into the swing and figure Out where.
I'm at and here comes a week right that's rushing,
at YOU and i don't know what what could happen
around the bend with the old man point, you know
get that that's the ship that's kind of driving. You
nuts you didn't blow off, Anything.
Speaker 4: Though, No no and then a lot of people were
like complaining about like people blowing off fireworks.
Speaker 1: On The fifth oh did they still?
Speaker 2: Left over and people are.
Speaker 4: Like of people who blow up fourworks in the fifth
those of es who have animals Have to, i'm, like okay.
Speaker 2: Time OUT if i got to deal with your dog
barking wells three and sixty five days, A year i
don't have any sympathy.
Speaker 4: For you okay that don't get, a dog then don't
get a. Freaking DOG then I know i'm gonna get
hate mail. For this we get to celebrate the Freedom.
Of america next year is gonna be two hundred and fifty.
Speaker 1: Years free maybe.
Speaker 4: That's right i'm milking every single day. Of whatever and by,
the way the fourth On a saturday.
Speaker 1: That's alright so, You, Know, Friday, saturday sunday right In,
a monday come.
Speaker 2: On NIGHT so, i, mean listen like you could deal
with a couple. Of days if your dog's getting a
little scared of. The fireworks they don't, LAST forever.
Speaker 4: I understand take a, deep breath just, you know path
the dog and everything's gonna.
Speaker 2: Be okay give them. A treat they'll.
Speaker 3: Be fine.
Speaker 1: It's right just remember everything is always. Working out that's
the way. It is they're always, working out, All, right
danny we will wrap it for our first.
Speaker 2: One, back yes.
Speaker 1: Not bad oh by, the way Did the yankees win? Let,
yesterday no my mom was at.
Speaker 4: The game such they'd such dires this is we're Talking.
About saturday there's such dire straits, right now like.
Speaker 1: The call are going to.
Speaker 2: Be fired he won't. BE fired I mean ifolti threw
a ball back And Hit aaron judge in. THE face,
i mean they. Got problems the, bullpen sucks there's. No
discipline they, can't field.
Speaker 5: They, can't hit they can't.
Speaker 2: Do anything. They're terrible And the mets just came off
like a losing streak Of the yeah.
Speaker 1: They Did the reds look like they're. Pretty hot they're. Doing,
WELL yeah i mean. They were they beat up On.
The mets they beat up On. The phillies phillies are, Good,
too yeah and they get some fight in the stands between.
Speaker 2: A player and the first ten days After The all,
star break we'll find out.
Speaker 1: Who's who, all right. Who's who we'll get to, all
that plus football's, coming back all that fun stuff coming
up right Here. On bill thank you for spending some
of your day.
Speaker 2: With us, hold.
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