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<v Speaker 2>Sous-titrage Société Radio-Canada C'est

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<v Speaker 3>pas si mauvais, pour être honnête.

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<v Speaker 4>Triumph et connectez-vous avec moi 24-7 à drlaura. com. Il y

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<v Speaker 4>a quelques week-ends, j'ai été connectée à... cette petite ville

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<v Speaker 4>sur l'eau. C'est juste une petite ville sur l'eau, c'est mignon.

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<v Speaker 4>Pour le déjeuner. On s'est assis, et je dirais que

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<v Speaker 4>98% des gens qui passaient par étaient dans des groupes

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<v Speaker 4>ou avec quelqu'un, très peu étaient seuls, et tout le

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<v Speaker 4>monde regardait leurs téléphones. My friend and I were looking

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<v Speaker 4>around and I said, you know, I'd love to put

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<v Speaker 4>this on my Facebook, but I'm not sure if you

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<v Speaker 4>can take a picture of all these people and put

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<v Speaker 4>it on your Facebook for the show, because I just

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<v Speaker 4>want to make the point that this is bad. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>most everybody out there is a tech addict. et que

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<v Speaker 4>les gens ne s'interagissent pas avec l'autre, et que vous

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<v Speaker 4>vous demandez pourquoi tout le niveau de dépression est augmenté,

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<v Speaker 4>nous sommes des entités grecques. Nous avons besoin de camaraderie,

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<v Speaker 4>pas de camaraderie comme les socialistes ou les communistes, nous

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<v Speaker 4>n'en avons pas besoin. Mais nous avons besoin de la

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<v Speaker 4>compagnie des gens. Et quand nous n'avons pas cela, et

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<v Speaker 4>que nous avons des mondes virtuels, nous ne faisons pas bien.

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<v Speaker 4>I wonder why your kids are depressed and they can't

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<v Speaker 4>focus and talk to you. I spend the weekend with

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<v Speaker 4>some friends of mine, two kids, a little boy, five,

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<v Speaker 4>and a girl, ten. And I hadn't... We've been friends

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<v Speaker 4>for 15 years, but I haven't seen everybody all together. I

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<v Speaker 4>get parts. Mother and daughter, mother, mom and dad. But

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<v Speaker 4>this time I got all four of them at one time.

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<v Speaker 4>And I sat there and I watched how they parented.

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<v Speaker 4>I told them I was going to talk about it today.

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<v Speaker 4>I watched the dad deal with a little boy who

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<v Speaker 4>is a very active little boy bouncing off walls. I

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<v Speaker 4>consider that very healthy in a five-year-old boy. Teachers in

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<v Speaker 4>school don't like that, but I do. So the boy

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<v Speaker 4>went to my captain's chair, and you know there are

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<v Speaker 4>a million buttons on your boat, And dad saw that

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<v Speaker 4>and said, buddy, it's not his name, that's what he

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<v Speaker 4>calls him, buddy, don't touch the buttons. And the kid

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<v Speaker 4>sort of stopped and then looked like he was going

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<v Speaker 4>to start touching the buttons again. He's five. So dad

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<v Speaker 4>said in the lowest voice, come here, buddy. Do you

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<v Speaker 4>want to go over there alone and have a conversation?

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<v Speaker 4>The boy said no. Or then you're going to leave

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<v Speaker 4>the buttons alone? Yes. That was the end of it.

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<v Speaker 4>So when the kid was playing, I said, when you

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<v Speaker 4>say you're going to have a conversation with him over there,

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<v Speaker 4>what actually happens? Is this a talk? Is this a

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<v Speaker 4>swat and a twitch? What exactly happens? And he says,

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<v Speaker 4>I say to him, I told you you weren't supposed

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<v Speaker 4>to touch, he gave an example, you weren't supposed to

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<v Speaker 4>touch the buttons, and you touched the buttons anyway. Donc

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<v Speaker 4>tu sais que c'était mal. Donc tu as choisi de

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<v Speaker 4>le faire mal. C'est très décevant

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<v Speaker 4>ie These kids just don't want to displease mom and dad.

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<v Speaker 4>They don't have to be beaten, smacked, swatted, nothing. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>very disappointed in the choice you made. Because you knew

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<v Speaker 4>you were not supposed to do that. So, how do

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<v Speaker 4>we make sure it doesn't happen again? And the kid says, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>first of all, he says, why did you do that?

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<v Speaker 4>You never ask that because kids always go, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>What are you going to do to make sure it

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't happen again? I'm just not going to do it. Good.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a good choice. That's what would have happened if

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<v Speaker 4>they went out and had a talk. But so many

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<v Speaker 4>times the kid was doing something and dad would say,

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<v Speaker 4>do you want to go have a talk about this? No,

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<v Speaker 4>it's okay. He would just stop doing whatever it was.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't want to hear how dad was disappointed. And

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<v Speaker 4>then about a half an hour later, I see him say, buddy,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really pleased with the choice you made to leave

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<v Speaker 4>it alone. I'm really very pleased with that. So, the

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<v Speaker 4>kid's beaming. He gets positive feedback, for doing, not doing

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<v Speaker 4>the bad thing anymore. I mean, it was amazing. And

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<v Speaker 4>this kid, I think in the hands of most parents,

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<v Speaker 4>would have been out of control. And yelling and screaming

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<v Speaker 4>and smacking him, I have a feeling, would not have

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<v Speaker 4>had any impact. And dad never raised his voice above

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<v Speaker 4>what I'm doing now. And dad is 6'5. Big dude. Maman

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<v Speaker 4>est six ans. Et quand mon père le dit, ça

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<v Speaker 4>se passe. Et tous les jours quand mon père va

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<v Speaker 4>à l'emploi, mon père dit,« Mon pote, je vais à

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<v Speaker 4>l'emploi maintenant. Tu es le homme de la maison. Tu

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<v Speaker 4>dois prendre soin de tes choses. Tu dois prendre soin

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<v Speaker 4>de ta mère. Tu dois prendre soin de ta soeur.

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<v Speaker 4>Tu as compris? Tu as compris, papa.» So, mom and sister,

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<v Speaker 4>don't freak out about a bug. I am telling you,

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't seen in front of my eyeballs such good parenting.

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<v Speaker 4>And I told them that. And we're dear friends. So

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<v Speaker 4>if I had told them otherwise, it would have been like,

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<v Speaker 4>can I talk to you over there? So, you disappointed me.

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<v Speaker 4>They're amazing. Loving, but there's a line. I expect you

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<v Speaker 4>to make a better choice. You know that was wrong. Yes. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>what are you going to do to make sure it

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't happen again? I'm just not going to do it. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And later, positive feedback for not doing it again. So

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<v Speaker 4>it reminded me when I took, I call it the

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<v Speaker 4>death hike because it ends up with a very tall

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<v Speaker 4>hill to get back to my house. And I'm coming

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<v Speaker 4>up that very tall hill and it's getting hotter and

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<v Speaker 4>hotter and I'm just looking forward to getting home. And

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<v Speaker 4>I see this lady going in the opposite direction with

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<v Speaker 4>a teenage-level dog. And so I was ready for the parenting. Sit, sit, sit, sit, sit, sit, sit.

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<v Speaker 4>The dog isn't even listening. Sit doesn't mean anything to

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<v Speaker 4>the dog. Not established anything alpha over the dog. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>it was embarrassing. Je n'ai pas dit rien, j'ai juste

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<v Speaker 4>continué à marcher. J'avais besoin de rentrer à la maison,

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<v Speaker 4>j'avais trop de douleur, j'ai dû rentrer dans la chambre.

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<v Speaker 4>Je l'ai vraiment fait. Donc, c'est de ça que je parle.

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<v Speaker 4>Et l'une des raisons pour lesquelles vous, les parents, n'avez

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<v Speaker 4>pas beaucoup d'interaction avec vos enfants sur ce niveau supérieur,

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<v Speaker 4>c'est que vous ne passez pas du temps concentré avec

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<v Speaker 4>eux parce que vous êtes sur votre téléphone. Vous êtes

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<v Speaker 4>sur votre Facebook. Vous êtes sur votre troisième mariage. Quoi

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<v Speaker 4>que ce soit, vous êtes sur ça au lieu. You

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<v Speaker 4>need to unplug from technology and your children need to

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<v Speaker 4>unplug for technology. The kids did not have cell phones.

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<v Speaker 4>Mom and dad did and I only saw them once

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<v Speaker 4>at night when they were ready to go to bed.

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<v Speaker 4>They took the phones upstairs. So we had a whole

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<v Speaker 4>weekend with no technology except for a boat. And everybody interacted. Constamment.

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<v Speaker 4>Sauf quand on est rentré à la maison et tout

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<v Speaker 4>le monde était fatigué et tout le monde a pris

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<v Speaker 4>environ une heure de repos. Donc, vous devez s'éloigner de

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<v Speaker 4>la technologie pour que vous puissiez avoir une famille. Pour

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<v Speaker 4>que vous puissiez vous débrouiller votre cerveau. Pour que vous

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<v Speaker 4>puissiez être plus heureux. Les gens qui vont sur Facebook

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<v Speaker 4>et regardent tout le monde sur Facebook et leurs histoires

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<v Speaker 4>sur comment les vies sont merveilleuses et comment c'est génial

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<v Speaker 4>ce qu'ils font et tous les sourires, sont dépressifs. Les

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<v Speaker 4>enfants sont très dépressifs quand ils regardent d'autres enfants. with

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<v Speaker 4>the made-up stuff on Facebook and all the so-called... I

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<v Speaker 4>hate that they use the word friends. Friends is such

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<v Speaker 4>a sacred word and to use it for somebody who

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<v Speaker 4>clicked on a site is absurd. So the people who

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<v Speaker 4>are mostly disconnected from technology tend to be happier, tend

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<v Speaker 4>to really revel in the quiet time, build real-life relationships,

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<v Speaker 4>actually get the sleep they need and feel a lot

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<v Speaker 4>less stress. beaucoup moins de stress. Vous avez besoin de

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<v Speaker 4>temps libre, pas de temps de scénario. Les enfants ne

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<v Speaker 4>devraient pas avoir des téléphones sur Internet. Ils ont des

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<v Speaker 4>téléphones qui font juste des appels. Pas de photos, pas d'Internet.

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<v Speaker 4>C'est ce que les enfants devraient avoir. Ils doivent apprendre

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<v Speaker 4>qu'ils peuvent vivre dans le monde réel. You're not doing

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<v Speaker 4>them a service by wussing out because you don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to have an argument and because you're so busy and

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<v Speaker 4>because you spend most of your time. And as I said,

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<v Speaker 4>my friend and I were sitting there having lunch and

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<v Speaker 4>we couldn't find hardly anybody who wasn't staring at a screen.

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<v Speaker 4>You all know I love the movie Warm Bodies. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>he's dead and he's walking around LAX with a bunch

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<v Speaker 4>of other living dead who are walking around L-A-X, et

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<v Speaker 4>il parle à lui-même, et vous l'entendez. Et il parle

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<v Speaker 4>de la façon dont personne ne se connecte à n'importe qui,

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<v Speaker 4>il ne sait pas comment se connecter, parce qu'il est mort.

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<v Speaker 4>Et puis ils montrent un flashback à L-A-X, avant que

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<v Speaker 4>tout le monde ne soit devenu le mort du marchand,

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<v Speaker 4>et ils n'étaient pas en relation avec l'autre, et ils

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<v Speaker 4>étaient sur les téléphones. J'ai manqué la première fois que

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<v Speaker 4>je l'ai vu. La deuxième fois, je me suis dit,

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<v Speaker 4>oh mon Dieu. We're the walking dead before we become

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<v Speaker 3>votre futur, c'est déjà en train de se développer. Apprenez

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<v Speaker 3>plus à myfuturefund. ie