Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to Pink Shade. You guys. This is
Speaker 1: a special Thursday episode with a special guest. It's a
Speaker 1: lease from Before the ninety Days.
Speaker 2: Hi, Hi, Hi, So where did y'all?
Speaker 1: Good to see you again? Yes, okay, Elise, I saw
Speaker 1: you in New York at the epic TLC holiday party
Speaker 1: and I was like, I can't believe you're going to
Speaker 1: be on this new season of Before the ninety Days.
Speaker 1: And you're like me either, I know. You were like
Speaker 1: I didn't know it, And I was like, what was
Speaker 1: the deal? Because when they put out the initial press stuff,
Speaker 1: you were not on it. And then like a week
Speaker 1: or two before when they were doing the big press push,
Speaker 1: you were there with Joshua, but totally a photoshopped picture
Speaker 1: and not even a good picture of you, I might add,
Speaker 1: because you're a gorgeous girl. I was like, they couldn't
Speaker 1: get a they couldn't get a better picture than that.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, the worst picture. It's so embarrassing, but
Speaker 2: like whatever.
Speaker 1: And then they fixed it. But then they fixed it
Speaker 1: so obviously it was sort of maybe like a last
Speaker 1: minute edition and we were the whole season, like, okay,
Speaker 1: one of these couples is going to completely drop off,
Speaker 1: so they had to bring in a new couple to
Speaker 1: make it even. But really only Emma, I was like
Speaker 1: with the hair, only Emma dropped off kind of early,
Speaker 1: but not really because the season is always over. So
Speaker 1: what was it about? Explained to me how that happened
Speaker 1: or how you found out or if you thought you
Speaker 1: were shooting another show or what.
Speaker 2: No, So I don't know the backstory of like the
Speaker 2: picture and how I was put in last and our photoshopping.
Speaker 2: I don't know, because when you guys find out like
Speaker 2: the photos, I found out too, So I the back
Speaker 2: end of that happened. But I was talking to Josh
Speaker 2: for like six months on Instagram and like it progressed
Speaker 2: and we were talking on the phone, and you know,
Speaker 2: we were talking every single day honestly, and TLS reached
Speaker 2: out to me and they're like, hey, at least, like
Speaker 2: I just want to see where you are in life,
Speaker 2: if you're like talking to anyone, if you're in a relationship,
Speaker 2: And I was like, well, actually I am. And I
Speaker 2: have been talking to this guy for a while now
Speaker 2: and he lives in Australia and I've never met him before,
Speaker 2: so I think they were like, Okay, this is perfect.
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you want.
Speaker 2: To do before the ninety days? And I was like absolutely,
Speaker 2: So that's how it happened.
Speaker 1: Because it also could have been the other way because
Speaker 1: like you went there, it's another person coming here. But anyway, Okay,
Speaker 1: so you met him on Instagram. So like I'm a
Speaker 1: person that's been married for twenty five years, I don't
Speaker 1: know anything about swiping or apps or how people date
Speaker 1: that way. I'm fascinated by it. I'm always like I
Speaker 1: want to find somebody who's on Tinder or Bumble or
Speaker 1: something and just look at their phone, like I just
Speaker 1: need to see what do you see? Like I don't know,
Speaker 1: I've never seen it.
Speaker 2: Well, it wasn't a dating appo was on Instagram.
Speaker 1: But that's question is like, are you just like you
Speaker 1: post hot pictures on Instagram and guys a thousand guys
Speaker 1: a minute DM me.
Speaker 2: Okay, So like everyone knows he's a yacht broker and
Speaker 2: I actually modeled for a boat company that he sells. Okay,
Speaker 2: saw me on a boat in the in the the
Speaker 2: boat company had tagged my Instagram, so that's how he
Speaker 2: had found me. I mean, I do post a lot
Speaker 2: of thirst traps. Let's be real. I post like on
Speaker 2: boats a lot and bikinis a lot. But it was
Speaker 2: just so ironic because I was on a I did
Speaker 2: a literal photo shoot. The photo was tagged and he
Speaker 2: saw it and then reached out to me.
Speaker 1: Okay, So it wasn't like he was searching like ninety
Speaker 1: Day cast members or oh no, yeah, yeah, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: no crazy okay. But again, if somebody DMS, you aren't
Speaker 1: you like, okay, you get a lot, you know, yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Do do get a lot of DMS now, especially, but
Speaker 2: I don't know. There was something that like I don't know,
Speaker 2: like you know, the invisible string theory or something. I
Speaker 2: wrote back and his profile was private, so I had
Speaker 2: to add him. But like his profile fixture was cute
Speaker 2: and I was like, Australia is so hot, Like let
Speaker 2: me go for it. Because typically ninety nine point nine
Speaker 2: nine nine percent of the time, if a guy DMS me,
Speaker 2: I do not answer. Yeah, I'm in a relationship, I'll
Speaker 2: never answer. But when I'm single, Like it's weird that,
Speaker 2: like guys always shoot their shot. It's like a numbers
Speaker 2: game from them. It's like literally like they'll DM probably
Speaker 2: fifty girls hoping one will answer.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 2: I truly believe, like in fate or something, because I
Speaker 2: answered him and I was like, wow.
Speaker 1: That's how I feel. Like with Daniel and Lisa on
Speaker 1: this season, I think Daniel probably DMed like one hundred
Speaker 1: girls and Lisa was the one that bit. That's what
Speaker 1: I think probably. Okay, So what was the tell me
Speaker 1: the time frame between when you guys shot Hunt for
Speaker 1: Love okay, to when that was done and then to
Speaker 1: when this happened, because meanwhile, you were hanging out with
Speaker 1: Carlo a little bit after Hunt for Love and and
Speaker 1: so what was the time frame, Like were you talking
Speaker 1: to Joshua during the same time or was it like
Speaker 1: such a big time difference. It's hard.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to think it was like it was
Speaker 2: a big time difference. Like I it was nine months
Speaker 2: after I got back from Hunt for.
Speaker 1: Love, Okay, okay, because you were you hung out with
Speaker 1: Carla for several months, Like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Carlo and I hadn't spoken for probably five to
Speaker 2: six months when I first started talking.
Speaker 1: To josh okay, okay, time, and that was.
Speaker 2: When I hadn't had sex and like I was like
Speaker 2: working on.
Speaker 1: Myself, Okay, all right, celibacy okay period, Yeah yeah, So
Speaker 1: do you keep in touch with any of that Hunt
Speaker 1: for Love cast?
Speaker 2: Courtney Love Love? Poor girls going going through it.
Speaker 1: For that loser? I mean, have you ever?
Speaker 2: I just don't understand. It's like either just wants to
Speaker 2: self sabotage because like, how do you disrespect someone like that? Like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I have no idea, but.
Speaker 1: No, he's he I. I interviewed Kimberly recently and she's like,
Speaker 1: he's a loser. Gina's a loser. Kimberly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Wow, her story is pretty inspiring too. I've
Speaker 2: been following her story on the Single Life. Wow, I
Speaker 2: give her so much credit, like so much credit. That
Speaker 2: must be really hard to do.
Speaker 1: I know, I give her so much credit too. And
Speaker 1: Courtney is on this single Life, Oh my god. Every
Speaker 1: time they show her like they show they're like their
Speaker 1: hero shots. We're like yours A joshuas is like you're
Speaker 1: in like the skimpiest clothes and he's hot and you're
Speaker 1: like on a mountain in Australia with your hair, and
Speaker 1: then you see Courtney she's pushing Colt in a wheelchair
Speaker 1: and that's their hero shot. You're like I'm dead.
Speaker 2: I'm dead, Like you can't make this up.
Speaker 1: I love her, I love her, I want the best
Speaker 1: for her, and I'm glad you guys are still friends. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I talked to her quite often. That's like the
Speaker 2: only person I really talked to to be honest with you.
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Speaker 1: I want to know how long does it take you
Speaker 1: to get from Miami to Australia.
Speaker 2: I took thirty nine hours.
Speaker 1: Okay, Now how many airplanes is this?
Speaker 2: So I did two flights, So I did from here
Speaker 2: from Miami to LA and then from LA to Sydney.
Speaker 2: And here to LA what like five and a half hours,
Speaker 2: and then LA to Sydney was fourteen hours.
Speaker 1: In the air, never stopping, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I'm.
Speaker 1: Easy to think that an airplane can do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but then I had like a layover and then whatever.
Speaker 2: So like all in total, from leaving my house here
Speaker 2: to getting to his rental after the bar, it was
Speaker 2: like thirty nine hours.
Speaker 1: And you had no way to take a shower or anything.
Speaker 2: No, nothing. I felt disgusting. I'm like, are you joking?
Speaker 2: Like I have to be cool, calm and collected and
Speaker 2: just like go with the flow. But yeah, he came
Speaker 2: to the airport with his friend and he wanted to
Speaker 2: go to the bar because that's what was important to him.
Speaker 1: I guess, Okay, I remember I sent you a DM
Speaker 1: and I was like, girl, is this man homeless? You
Speaker 1: were like, you don't even know allegedly allegedly. Okay, so
Speaker 1: that you guys go, like you said, to Chris's apartment now,
Speaker 1: in my mind, this is Chris's apartment and.
Speaker 2: Josh they rented it.
Speaker 1: Well, in my mind, I thought this is Chris's actual
Speaker 1: apartment where he lives, and he's just letting Joshua stay
Speaker 1: there in this bare room while you're in town so
Speaker 1: he doesn't have to be at NAT's. That was my theory.
Speaker 2: Well, the theory's wrong. Chris actually has another place and
Speaker 2: Josh and Chris split it while I was there. But like,
Speaker 2: my thing is, if like Josh and not are such
Speaker 2: good friends and he was living there rent free, why
Speaker 2: would he want to pay for a rental if there's
Speaker 2: nothing going on between him and now, why wouldn't we
Speaker 2: stay at Nats?
Speaker 1: That's literally on my list. If Josh and Natt or
Speaker 1: such buddies, why don't you just stay with him at
Speaker 1: her place? Either way, it's going to be a roommate situation,
Speaker 1: which is weird, So you may as well just stay
Speaker 1: at the place where he already lives.
Speaker 2: Right, And if you're hurting financially, why waste money to
Speaker 2: try and impress me with a rental but.
Speaker 1: Still with a roommate, So it's not that impressive.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, But I guess in Australia because when I
Speaker 2: went to meet his friends that night, like all his
Speaker 2: friends it's like the norm to have roommates, and I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, I somebody that's from Australia. A listener wrote me
Speaker 1: and said, it's very normal for people after college to
Speaker 1: have boy girl roommates, and the parents really like it
Speaker 1: because in their mind they're like, my son will be
Speaker 1: taken care of because the girl might cook for him.
Speaker 1: And then the girls, their parents feel safe having a
Speaker 1: man as a roommate and they're all just platonic and
Speaker 1: they're all just friends. But I go, Okay, that's right
Speaker 1: out of college. This man is almost forty. Yeah, he's
Speaker 1: had a full life and a kid. Like, yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 2: And it's also weird, like why if you know I'm
Speaker 2: traveling around the world, we're talking every day, Like why
Speaker 2: wouldn't you just tell me you're living with her? Why
Speaker 2: are you telling me right?
Speaker 1: Because you knew they were friends because she said you
Speaker 1: would talk to her on the phone.
Speaker 2: Yep, Yeah, I had talked to her and I knew
Speaker 2: they were friends, and I didn't. I didn't care until
Speaker 2: I have a reason to care or get mad, Like
Speaker 2: I was fine with them being friends because I didn't
Speaker 2: know anything, and like, yeah, it was just weird.
Speaker 1: It is weird. I have to agree. Now, I don't
Speaker 1: agree with your behavior in the bar, but uh, I
Speaker 1: mean these poor people though, people that were over on
Speaker 1: the side that you went up to them. I was like,
Speaker 1: these people are trying to have a beer and a
Speaker 1: Mazarelli stick and you were yelling in their face.
Speaker 2: Well, at least they agreed with me.
Speaker 1: They agreed, Well, what are they going to not agree
Speaker 1: with you? You're like yelling at them. They're like, yes, girl,
Speaker 1: back up.
Speaker 2: They're like what the books would I just walk into
Speaker 2: you know what? My delivery was completely off and it's
Speaker 2: I feel so embarrassed by it, but like my points
Speaker 2: were valid. I handled it really poorly. We all know.
Speaker 2: I apologize. I think that it's like it was everything
Speaker 2: leading up to it. It's just like they were like
Speaker 2: they were like eye fucking each other, like like esp
Speaker 2: Like you could see their eyes, like Natt was saying
Speaker 2: something and Josh was bouncing off it, like you could
Speaker 2: tell that they were like holding things in from me.
Speaker 2: And I'm sitting there and I feel like it's two
Speaker 2: against one and I don't feel like any of the
Speaker 2: answers are getting answered, like everything, Like, so I just
Speaker 2: handled it really bad. I did.
Speaker 1: I mean, from what I saw, I did not see
Speaker 1: that there was any like chemistry between them or anything.
Speaker 1: But what And also like I think if there was
Speaker 1: something between them, he wouldn't bring this girl around that
Speaker 1: he's dating this hot model. He's not going to bring
Speaker 1: her around to NAT to be like make her jealous
Speaker 1: because he wants to toll have a place to live. Now, Okay,
Speaker 1: now his parents were obviously local because he told you
Speaker 1: he lived with his parents. Did you ever meet his parents?
Speaker 2: I did not. And that's another thing, like we're too yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well why not? Did he say why not?
Speaker 2: Said they were away or something?
Speaker 1: You're like, well, can we go see their house? I'd
Speaker 1: like to see your room.
Speaker 2: That's that was like a big thing, Like I traveled
Speaker 2: around the world to see to be my potential husband,
Speaker 2: and I'm giving it my all. And the only people
Speaker 2: I've met in his life was like his partying friends, right,
Speaker 2: Like I haven't met his son, I haven't met his family.
Speaker 2: I don't know where he lives. Like it just feels
Speaker 2: like I traveled around the world just to live in
Speaker 2: a rental and meet his partying friends, like I want
Speaker 2: to get something deeper. I want something more meaningful, you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and how long were you there in total?
Speaker 2: Oh? Good question. I think two and a half weeks.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think that if you go to Australia,
Speaker 1: everybody says you have to say a minimum two weeks,
Speaker 1: just because at the time, difference sucks you up so much.
Speaker 2: Sixteen hours forward or backwards, so forwards so they're the
Speaker 2: next day ahead.
Speaker 1: They're already the next day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: Okay, now Chris, Chris seemed to be like from what
Speaker 1: we see, like to your face, he's like, your fun
Speaker 1: and you're cool, but then kind of behind your back,
Speaker 1: he's like, this is toxic case her. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: like that.
Speaker 2: I don't like that either. I think he just tries
Speaker 2: to appease anyone and say whatever to Like in the moment,
Speaker 2: it's like one second hill on my side, one second
Speaker 2: held of Joshu's side. I get it, he's Josh's friends.
Speaker 2: He should, you know, by default or obligation, have Joshu's side.
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's.
Speaker 2: Also like he's putting the blame on me, like I'm
Speaker 2: the toxic one, Like I'm reacting to Josh's lies, and yeah,
Speaker 2: reacting to the like suspicion and that I'm reacting. Yes,
Speaker 2: I reacted poorly. We know I reacted poorly. I got
Speaker 2: too mad. But the like question marks in his life
Speaker 2: are super scary for me. Like I'm looking to get
Speaker 2: married and I'm looking to have kids, and when you
Speaker 2: go into something with lies, it's really.
Speaker 1: Hard to like.
Speaker 2: To navigate it, you know, especially so far away. I
Speaker 2: didn't have any of my friends there. I was by myself.
Speaker 2: I couldn't talk to anyone because the time difference, all
Speaker 2: very isolated, and I really solely relied on Josh. And
Speaker 2: I feel like Josh had like a whole support system
Speaker 2: around him, and I was kind of just like there
Speaker 2: and like my emotions got the best of me. You know.
Speaker 1: Did you have as far as like the crew, did
Speaker 1: you have like a producer there that was like at
Speaker 1: least somebody you could talk to?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean, yeah, I loved the crew that came out.
Speaker 2: My producer is great. They're great, but it's also like
Speaker 2: they're filming a show.
Speaker 1: Right, It's's not like your best friend or anything, right,
Speaker 1: And like I wish.
Speaker 2: I could call my best friend, but it's like in
Speaker 2: the middle of the night there vice, Yeah, it was
Speaker 2: impossible to talk to anyone.
Speaker 1: Well, this is sort of my question too. So if
Speaker 1: you know, you and Josh you get there and and
Speaker 1: everything works out, what is the plan because this is
Speaker 1: he one. I mean, Australia is pretty great. I don't
Speaker 1: know why you know, so you would plan to move
Speaker 1: there because he has a kid, he can't move to
Speaker 1: the States. That was that the plan? Is that the plan?
Speaker 2: Well, you should stay tuned for the last episode because
Speaker 2: we definitely we definitely have that conversation. But I would say,
Speaker 2: is like it's scary, right you're around the world. I'm
Speaker 2: falling in love with this man, and it's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: he I don't know if he can come to America
Speaker 2: because of his son, and like it would take a
Speaker 2: lot for me to go to Australia, Like I need
Speaker 2: he Josh is a really good talker, and like he
Speaker 2: says things to just appease me, and I don't necessarily
Speaker 2: know if he means it, but like, yeah, I would
Speaker 2: come to Australia and I would move there, but like
Speaker 2: I need a game plan. I needed where were you
Speaker 2: going to sleep at night, We're going to sleep with
Speaker 2: your parents, because like, I've lived on my own since
Speaker 2: I've been a freshman in college, you know, so like
Speaker 2: where are we going to live? Like what is the
Speaker 2: game plan? Like something like that. So definitely stay tuned
Speaker 2: for the last episode because you will hear a lot
Speaker 2: about that. But I like, I want to, you know,
Speaker 2: get married and have kids, and I wanted to be
Speaker 2: with him, So something's got to happen.
Speaker 1: Well, I just don't quitederstand the financial part of why
Speaker 1: he was having to live with his parents or live
Speaker 1: with nat is fine. If she's got some big, fabulous
Speaker 1: house and they have their own space and their roommates
Speaker 1: at this age, that's if that's what they do over there,
Speaker 1: that's fine. But what is the financial problem? Because it
Speaker 1: was made out to be that he was in a
Speaker 1: spiral situation in his life and had a boat crash
Speaker 1: and owed all this money. But then later he tells you,
Speaker 1: now it was like two thousand dollars. It was fine.
Speaker 1: So it wasn't like, oh, I'm twenty k in the hole,
Speaker 1: let me live with my parents for a few months
Speaker 1: to get back on my feet. That wasn't the situation.
Speaker 1: So why at his again, at his age, does he
Speaker 1: not have the financial stability as a yacht broker?
Speaker 2: Explain, I'm still trying to figure that out. Like, I
Speaker 2: don't know if he's super irresponsible with his money. I
Speaker 2: don't know if he's not taking his job seriously. I
Speaker 2: don't know what's going on. But it's it's like he
Speaker 2: doesn't have the money. So it's like, you're forty, what
Speaker 2: if you are you not saving? Like I don't understand.
Speaker 2: It's yeah, the same question you have now is what
Speaker 2: I still have today. Okay, we don't know if we'll
Speaker 2: ever get an answer, y'all.
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Speaker 1: speaking of adventure, the previews for next week, I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck they're doing. But I
Speaker 1: would first of all, I would have never surfed in
Speaker 1: that water because they are the great white shark capital
Speaker 1: of the world. I would have never set one toe
Speaker 1: that is where all the great white shark attacks happen
Speaker 1: on that beach. And I was like, and I know
Speaker 1: this because I'm obsessed with sharks, and I'm like, I
Speaker 1: would have never gotten in that water. She's very brave.
Speaker 1: And then I don't know what the hell it is
Speaker 1: you guys do next week, but it looks like you're
Speaker 1: repelling down a waterfall, and I was terrified.
Speaker 2: It was well, first of all, I was trying to
Speaker 2: be a team player, and like anything that Josh wanted
Speaker 2: to do, I was just like, I'm just trying to
Speaker 2: be a team player.
Speaker 1: So I'm a cool girl. And that's right, just like at.
Speaker 2: The airport, like when he brought his friend and he
Speaker 2: wanted to go to the bar. Okay, okay, I'm a
Speaker 2: team player. I want to be cool, you know. So
Speaker 2: the surfing it was kind of fun. I was horrible,
Speaker 2: but yeah, next week, let me tell you, like that
Speaker 2: was the scariest experience in my life, like very like
Speaker 2: very very very very scary.
Speaker 1: It looks like you guys go on a hike and
Speaker 1: then you're repelling at the end of it, but it's
Speaker 1: down like a waterfall.
Speaker 2: Like what the hell called ab sailing. I've never I've
Speaker 2: never heard of the word before.
Speaker 1: No, I was.
Speaker 2: I was trying to make it up to Josh and
Speaker 2: like tell him I'm sorry, and he likes adventurous stuff.
Speaker 2: So I went online and I booked this ab sailing
Speaker 2: adventure for us. But little did I know what I
Speaker 2: was about to walk into it.
Speaker 1: It looks like the Blair Witch Project. It's like it's
Speaker 1: like I came on your head. You're like, ah, it.
Speaker 2: Looks like I didn't see because the water was going
Speaker 2: in my eyes. I couldn't hear because we had like
Speaker 2: this thing over our ears. And then I couldn't feel
Speaker 2: because I lost touch because it was so cold. And
Speaker 2: I'm going down this mountain and or the waterfall and
Speaker 2: I got stuck. I couldn't repel down. It was very,
Speaker 2: very very scary, like like.
Speaker 1: Bad and tlc' is like, oh my god, we don't
Speaker 1: have the insurance for this. Ye what if she dies?
Speaker 2: No, I yeah, it was. It was pretty intense. I
Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know you're I'm going to see
Speaker 2: it with you guys next week. But I saw the preview,
Speaker 2: I was like, whoa.
Speaker 1: They probably brought back some memories of like I'm never
Speaker 1: doing that again ever in my life. Okay, I have
Speaker 1: to talk about your purse wall in your apartment.
Speaker 2: Talk to me.
Speaker 1: Okay. I DMed you about it immediately. Okay, So this
Speaker 1: is your apartment, and last time I interviewed the same one,
Speaker 1: so it's like the same one we see. So it's
Speaker 1: a lot of black and white, and there's the stairs
Speaker 1: that go up, and then there's your bed up there.
Speaker 1: But is it like a loft and that's like a
Speaker 1: half wall.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's a lot. So this is actually my
Speaker 2: hallway when you walk in, I'm sitting okay. I thought
Speaker 2: this was good biting. And then you like there's stairs
Speaker 2: after the kitchen and you walk up and then it's
Speaker 2: my bedroom's up top.
Speaker 1: Okay, is the bathroom up there?
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's two. There's one downstairs, one's upstairs.
Speaker 1: Okay. All right. So the half wall that you have,
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with it. So it's like a half wall
Speaker 1: with little shelves like a purse store. Yeah, with your
Speaker 1: purses on it like lit up.
Speaker 2: Well it wasn't lit up. It's just like literal shelving.
Speaker 2: I put my purses on, but like.
Speaker 1: At the foot of your bed so you can stare
Speaker 1: at them. Why you sleep?
Speaker 2: Well, I mean I wasn't like trying to be like
Speaker 2: showing them off, but I just didn't know where to
Speaker 2: put them. And I don't have that much closet space,
Speaker 2: so I thought, like to put shelving there.
Speaker 1: It's aspirational. I think, well, thank you, yeah, because I
Speaker 1: have all my purses, you know, whether they're like fancy
Speaker 1: or not. And I have some that are fancy and
Speaker 1: some that are just like regular, and they're just sort
Speaker 1: of all shoved. I have all the dust bags like
Speaker 1: in a different place, and I had a closet organizer recently.
Speaker 1: And she goes, okay, so we're gonna put all the
Speaker 1: pursons like in their dust bags. And I go but
Speaker 1: then I won't know what they are, right, And she goes, well,
Speaker 1: I go no, because I have some that are no.
Speaker 1: I don't want to I want the dust bag to
Speaker 1: go inside. She's like, this is not and I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't have this space to like do like people
Speaker 1: do like take a picture and put it outside the
Speaker 1: box and put the box in the thing. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not that girl, you know.
Speaker 2: So I used to have before the shelving. I used
Speaker 2: to have like a pole and like it looked like
Speaker 2: a tree, like like yes, the little rods coming out,
Speaker 2: and it just looked so messy. Believe chunky, yeah, chunky,
Speaker 2: great wordy not. I'm very clean and organized all like
Speaker 2: just having them like laying out like that, it was
Speaker 2: much cleaner. Look because my closet is completely filled with
Speaker 2: all my clothes, so I nowhere else to.
Speaker 1: Put the girl. Let me tell you something. There's not
Speaker 1: anyway your closet could be two packs with clothes because
Speaker 1: your clothes are two handkerchiefs and a string.
Speaker 2: Okay, if you've got it, we were.
Speaker 1: Looking at I was like, I bet she saved so
Speaker 1: much space unpacking because all over clothes or just all
Speaker 1: through little strings.
Speaker 2: I literally brought three suitcases there full of clothes.
Speaker 1: One has to be just shoes and one has to
Speaker 1: be just ersus.
Speaker 2: You know what's so funny. And I've never told anyone this.
Speaker 2: I forgot all my shoes going to Australia. I don't
Speaker 2: know how I managed to. I think I was like
Speaker 2: rushing to pack, but like I had a bag and
Speaker 2: all my shoes I left except two pairs, so.
Speaker 1: You just have to go buy shoes.
Speaker 2: I bought a few pairs, and I just I don't
Speaker 2: know if you'll see on the show, but like I
Speaker 2: rewore the same one. They don't really get your feet
Speaker 2: that much, so thank god.
Speaker 1: But yeah, and you're really tall, and it seems like
Speaker 1: in one CNNA was like, you're in flats and y'all
Speaker 1: are about the same height, so you can't really wear
Speaker 1: I mean to see about the same height.
Speaker 2: No, so I'm five eleven, he's six two. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm really all posture though, so I think it looks
Speaker 2: like I'm like probably as tall as him. But no,
Speaker 2: he's six too, maybe six one and a half.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, when I saw you at that party, you
Speaker 1: were a foot taller than me. But maybe but maybe
Speaker 1: you had on like super high hea else No, I.
Speaker 2: Had heels on. But I also I'm like five to eleven.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah you have to because you're a model. Okay,
Speaker 1: now tell me the scoop on the tell all I
Speaker 1: heard we have heard the tell all is nuts? Who
Speaker 1: is it? That is fighting at the tell All or everybody.
Speaker 2: Obviously hello, hello, yeah you know what. Everyone kind of
Speaker 2: chimed in and had some words to be honest with you. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: So we've.
Speaker 1: Got Lisa and Daniel, We've got Aviva and Stig, we
Speaker 1: have Jovan and annalyin. I'm literally just trying to think
Speaker 1: we've got the two of you. Oh my god, Forrest
Speaker 1: and Sena. Okay, hold on, like I've got my list
Speaker 1: up right here.
Speaker 2: We also have guest appearances at the tell All, so
Speaker 2: you'll see some guest appearances come with a tell All.
Speaker 1: We always have guest appearances and I don't think we
Speaker 1: need them. Oh and we also have Laura and you're gone,
Speaker 1: m how is he?
Speaker 2: Well, he was like coming over the zoom. I don't
Speaker 2: love him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did he come across as like, well, he talks
Speaker 1: like a sing song robot. He's like, I don't know
Speaker 1: what you are thinking.
Speaker 2: Are you violent?
Speaker 1: I like to watch violence? You're like, wow, Okay, don't
Speaker 1: love him.
Speaker 2: I definitely got a tacked at the tell All. I
Speaker 2: am not telling you who. You have to watch. It's
Speaker 2: pretty insane how I got attacked. And there's definitely some like.
Speaker 1: Why would you get attacked right, like, who would attack me? Well, no, listen,
Speaker 1: if you said something, if your mouth got you in trouble,
Speaker 1: I could see it. But I don't see why anybody
Speaker 1: would be like coming for your story or anything, because
Speaker 1: it all seems pretty straightforward and you're the only thing
Speaker 1: you so far that we see you did wrong was
Speaker 1: like you acted rude at the bar, but you you
Speaker 1: profusely apologize the next day, which we also don't see
Speaker 1: a lot on the show. Thank you.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I think they just didn't like they
Speaker 2: don't like me or didn't like me. But I will
Speaker 2: tell you it. I got attacked by someone because I
Speaker 2: think they just like thought maybe I was a bully
Speaker 2: on my season, like on my show. But at the
Speaker 2: end of the tell all, that person was like, wow,
Speaker 2: I really judged you wrong, like I judge a book
Speaker 2: by its cover, and like I should not have judged
Speaker 2: you like that, and like we're okay now. But the
Speaker 2: tell all was crazy, like crazy, okay, crazy.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think we have maybe one or
Speaker 1: two more episodes and then we have the tell I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's one, two or three parts. How
Speaker 1: they've done it.
Speaker 2: So April twenty sixth, and then May third, the two tells.
Speaker 1: To tell us, Okay, well, I listen that Lisa and
Speaker 1: Daniel thing. I'm just like. I watched pillow Talk last night,
Speaker 1: which I don't always get a chance to because it
Speaker 1: comes on late, and it was Darcy and Jasmine and Matt.
Speaker 1: I was like, whatever his name is, Matt, and they
Speaker 1: were so funny talking about Daniel saying he won't go
Speaker 1: down on her.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I saw that.
Speaker 1: It was the three of them talking about it was
Speaker 1: so funny because Jazz was like, I mean, sorry, Matt,
Speaker 1: but he really looks like he'd be good at it.
Speaker 1: Matt's like, okay, yeah, sure he does. I don't know.
Speaker 1: She's like, look at the way he kisses. He looks
Speaker 1: like you good at it?
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Lisa and Daniel kissing in the car NonStop.
Speaker 1: It's like, I mean, was.
Speaker 2: Kissing a lot too, but like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: But this is not like I'm licking your entire face
Speaker 1: like it's regular kissing.
Speaker 2: Okay, So like I've cleaned up this season compared to last.
Speaker 1: Season alas no, because this week with the joke about
Speaker 1: the salad dressing, I was like, we don't know.
Speaker 2: I okay, Like I purposely tried to have the salad
Speaker 2: dressing go in my face like that.
Speaker 1: No, I didn't think you did. But then I was like,
Speaker 1: don't let her say the obvious joke. Don't let her
Speaker 1: do it.
Speaker 2: Duh.
Speaker 1: And then she did and then she did.
Speaker 2: Well like you can't make that shit up. The only
Speaker 2: only happens to me, Like only happens to me. I'm like,
Speaker 2: there was no scissors, so I'm like.
Speaker 1: Well that's it. We said, We're like, why didn't she
Speaker 1: just get some scissors?
Speaker 2: I don't know, there was none.
Speaker 1: The funniest face and the cooking when you were and
Speaker 1: he goes, it's good, and you're like, this is terrible.
Speaker 1: He was trying to be nice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's like so cute. That's like things I
Speaker 2: like about him, Like he knows it's horrible. He knows
Speaker 2: I'm a goof in the kitchen, but he's like my
Speaker 2: biggest cheerleader, and that's like cute.
Speaker 1: You know, I thought it was nice. Okay, I want
Speaker 1: I know you have a time frame here, so I
Speaker 1: have a question. Do you see the Miami people, the
Speaker 1: silvatorands Lauren and Alexi Yara Jovie. Do you see them ever?
Speaker 2: Saturday? I saw Darcy and Stacy and Jovi. I am
Speaker 2: Florian and Georgio.
Speaker 1: Not Yara.
Speaker 2: No. I think she stayed in because of lent or something.
Speaker 1: Oh, because of the religion. Okay, Well, Yara is top
Speaker 1: of my list, like Courtney, like you like Julia. They
Speaker 1: of the people than the show that are just sort
Speaker 1: of naturally funny. Yeah, cunning too, yaha. And so I
Speaker 1: would like her to leave Jovi. That's mine. That's my dream,
Speaker 1: that's my dream. I love her. I want her to
Speaker 1: be free of him, That's what I want, you know.
Speaker 2: It's funny. I've actually never watched any of their seasons,
Speaker 2: so I don't even know. But Jovi's been a really
Speaker 2: good soundboard to me, okay, all of this, and he's
Speaker 2: been really helpful, so like very level headed, very sweet,
Speaker 2: very inclusive. Same with us twins, Like they've been just
Speaker 2: so loving to me and like elusive and like, you
Speaker 2: definitely need this in this franchise because it's a different animal,
Speaker 2: you know. So I love having them here and I'm
Speaker 2: able to talk to them and see them and.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean as you learned on Hunt for Love,
Speaker 1: because I remember when I first interviewed you, you were like, no,
Speaker 1: we came there and we thought it was just like
Speaker 1: a dating show, and and you quickly realized like a
Speaker 1: bunch of these people know each other, Like how that's yeah,
Speaker 1: but now you're one of those people.
Speaker 2: Crazy to think about it. I never thought in my
Speaker 2: life that I'd be like, yeah, I'm a ninety day er.
Speaker 1: You are, and I love it because you know, this
Speaker 1: is this is my life. As you say, we have
Speaker 1: got like s all we do.
Speaker 2: I love you, I love your posts, I love seeing you.
Speaker 2: You make me happy and.
Speaker 1: It's funny you. You can take some shit and that's
Speaker 1: what we appreciate about you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a roller coaster, especially with the people that
Speaker 2: DM you and write you. It's like I get a
Speaker 2: lot of hate, but I also get a lot of love.
Speaker 2: And if I could try and inspire one person with
Speaker 2: something in my life with one story I've ever told,
Speaker 2: you know, with one past history of me, if I
Speaker 2: could better on one person like, then I've done my job.
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, And I think you've been very honest
Speaker 1: about you know, your past relationships and things that have
Speaker 1: happened in relationship with your parents and the guy that
Speaker 1: sold the money and all of that, and so it's
Speaker 1: sort of like as we learn about our ninety day people,
Speaker 1: we learn more and more about them as the years go.
Speaker 1: You're like, wait, I never knew that. So I appreciate
Speaker 1: you being honest about everything you've been through. And you know,
Speaker 1: people don't have a lot of sympathy for you because
Speaker 1: you're a hot model. A hot models have feelings too, right,
Speaker 1: I'm a sensitive gangster, Like, Okay, thank you so much, Alisea.
Speaker 1: I appreciate you doing this.
Speaker 2: You're SOPs to thank you.
Speaker 1: Okay, Bye,