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Speaker 1: All right, you guys, it is time for a second

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date update. We're going to Southington this morning. Okay, and yeah,

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Jake's on the line. Obviously, went on a great first date.

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Now he's getting ghosted and we're going to get the answers.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Jake, Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey, So Jake, tell me, well, first of all, welcome

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to the show. Welcome to second date update. Tell me

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about this first date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I thought it was a pretty great first date.

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You know, we went on a hike and you know,

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I packed a lunch and some wine, and you know,

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we had a great day, and you know, at the

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end of the date, you know, we even shared a

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kiss and like everything seemed great. And then like I'm I,

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you know, I messaged her a couple of times the

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night after and you know, said, you know, thanks for

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having such a great date. And then that was the

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end of it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So you go on a hike, you pack one.

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It sounds like a fantastic and very romantic date.

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Speaker 3: Sounds good.

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Speaker 1: Did you did you, guys? Obviously, did you feel like

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a connection, like physical connection?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. Like I said, we shared a kiss

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at the end of the date, and like, you know,

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I didn't just you know, hop in out of nowhere

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or anything like that. So like I definitely felt the connection,

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and like, you know, it seemed like, you know, she

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enjoyed the kids and stuff. So yeah, I don't know

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what's happening, hey, Jake.

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Speaker 3: This is what I like to call audition season for

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the ladies out there that are single. Basically, they'll go

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on a bunch of dates just to land a guide

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just in time for fall, and they can get all

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like the pumpkin patch photos and the pumpkin spice lattes.

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She might be like just playing the field and maybe

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hitting up like a couple of different guys and then

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you know, if you might move on to the next

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round in auditions.

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Speaker 1: Bro, where do you come up with this stuff? Honestly,

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don't look. Don't listen to him, Jake. To me, it

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sounds like a great date and romantic and you kissed

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at the end.

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Speaker 2: What we're gonna do is we're gonna call her up.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna just ask her. To be honest, you're gonna

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be listening in and at any point if you want

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to talk to her yourself, you can just jump right

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in okay, sure, okay, you're gonna be listening in hold on,

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let's call her curious. I'm so curious to find out why. No,

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it sounds so romantic, like a little picnic, little wine,

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like come on, I don't even like wine, and it

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sounds like a great I don't get you don't like

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wine vodka?

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi, is Jenna there?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hey Jenna, it's Courtney Jenna.

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Speaker 3: It's Walmart Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jenna, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven.

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You're on the radio this morning, Jenna.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god? Really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Hey, you're on the show because we do something

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called second Date Update. I'm sure you're familiar with it,

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and you go on a first date. Yeah, okay, you

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get ghosted. We get answers, Jenna, I gotta tell you.

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Jake called us. He said he went on a great

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date with you, that he actually packed a bottle of wine.

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You guys went for a hike. There was definitely a

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physical connection because you kissed at the end.

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Speaker 3: Of the dates.

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Speaker 1: He says, he's reached out to you and you're ghosting him.

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What is going on?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm ghosting him.

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Speaker 3: He sent me a pick.

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Speaker 1: Whoa oh oh, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Like, what else do I need to say?

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Speaker 1: Like just come right in with it? Okay, wait wait,

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I'm looking him wait like fully unsolicited pick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so okay, like he's a stranger. I don't know

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what's going on. Oh okay.

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Speaker 1: So he reaches out to you with a like hey,

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I had a great date, and then he sent a

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picture of his wiener. All right, I'm confused. Can we

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just bring Jake on?

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Speaker 3: Jake?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Jake, why what are you doing? Why are you laughing?

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Speaker 1: You went on one date with this woman and you're

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sending her a DP?

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, but you know, like we shared a kiss,

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like I said, and like I don't know, I thought

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that was like, you know, the kind of like the

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next step, Like that's fine, Psycho. I'm like jail for that. No,

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Like I just thought it was the next step, Like

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I didn't think it was so angry, Like, okay, I'm with.

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Speaker 1: You on this, Jenna, the next step?

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Speaker 2: You thought she wanted adep?

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Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? Jake? Hey?

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Speaker 2: You know I thought it was a pretty good one too,

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Like if we're gonna be honest, like you know, you know,

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the boys don't call me for nothing.

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Speaker 1: Oh my God, I'm so confused by this. Like I

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would think you would wait a little bit, Jake, before

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you send these photos like first date. It's a little cuckoo.

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Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, can't consent?

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Speaker 1: Is everything?

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Speaker 2: What is wrong with you? We're insane?

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Speaker 1: Can we get another male's perspective? One more, Jeff, like,

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is this like the logical next step? Because I'm so shocked,

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don't ask Ken? Yeah no, I'm actually really curious. So

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what Jeff has to say about this? Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean back in the day, the next step, Yeah,

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I wasn't the old pick. Yeah, no, that's weird.

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Speaker 1: You gotta get I mean, at least go to second base.

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Yeah you're not saying no, I don't think I can't

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raise this.

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Speaker 3: The age old question of what second base nowadays? Maybe

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that is his second day.

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Speaker 1: This really took a left turn, Jenna, I will say

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for you to be offended, I agree, Jake. I think

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that was probably a little bit disgusting to send a

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picture after your first date when she didn't even ask

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for one.

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Speaker 2: It's a little forward. Well you know to me that

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that is second base. Like, first of all, I just

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thought it was playful and the second of all, Like,

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how was like sending a pick worse than like, you know,

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actually like touching a private part Like okay, like that's

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what second base is. So like no, like I don't

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get the big deal. Like it was just playful. It

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was intimate and like, you know, I've done this before

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and never had any complaints like this though.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe it wasn't a big deal for Jenn,

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if you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: I gotta say it was not impressive.

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Speaker 1: That's why I felt maybe that's why you're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 3: It's no big deal.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you scared of it, you scared of the cobra.

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Speaker 1: All right, Corney, can we move on? I'm like, yeah,

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I usually offer to pay for another date, but I

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just feel like Jenna, this is I get it. I

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think it was out of line to send the photo.

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Speaker 2: Jake.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to offer to pay because I'm absolutely

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one hundred percent positive that Jenna's not going to want

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to go on a date with you.

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Speaker 2: Well that's fine because she sounds a little upset.

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Speaker 1: If I'm going to be honest, Okay, that's fine. Listen,

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I'm with you Jenna on this one. Thank you for

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being honest, very honest, too honest.

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Speaker 2: Great