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Speaker 1: I made a decision pay sunny Sun yet on I

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had a vision. It's night.

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Speaker 2: Hey everybody, what's up? Well, thank you for joining us,

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for crying out loud.

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Speaker 1: It's Tuesday, It's Tuesday. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I'm excited about this because, as I was telling you

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before we hit record, I have some old school like

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bitching to do.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait. I had a week of clarenting.

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Speaker 3: Of like old school parenting where stuff makes you really mad. Yes,

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certain things that I haven't dealt with in a while. Right,

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I should just get right into it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's here. I'm gonna tell you this. This what happened,

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What happened? What happened?

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Speaker 3: So, oh my god, I don't even know where to

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start with this. Okay, Xander needed the kids need to

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have a pediatrician appointment. They needed to have a check up. Now,

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I'm sure you're the same way with this. Do I

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keep up every single anytime they've needed vaccines, We've got

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a pediatrician sometimes like a year and a half instead

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of a year if there's nothing needed because my kids

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all have different have some other doctors too, Like for

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many years, Sadie was also covered by an endocrinologist. Xander's

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seen regularly by an endocrinologist. He gets blood work regularly.

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Sadie got blood work. It wasn't always just a rush

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unless there was a reason like vaccinations, right, Okay, Well

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I had gotten a call I want to say, like

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four months ago saying, hey, the kids are due for

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their year their annual physical.

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Speaker 1: I didn't rush to call them.

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Speaker 3: Because it was like, Okay, I know that Xander has

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to get the meningitis because he's going to be going

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away to college and that's really important. And I was

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determined to get him that shot. So you get the

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men andingita's shot and then you follow up in six months.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember doing that. Yeah, but I'm pretty.

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Speaker 3: Sure they can start school as long as you had

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the first part of it anyway.

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Speaker 1: So it wasn't like in a huge rush. But I called.

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Speaker 3: I made appointments for them. The woman I talked to

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on the phone is I've known her. She's literally been

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there since I. So this pediatrician's office I got when

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Elbie was born. I found them, you know, somebody else.

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I farmed out the research to somebody else who is

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way more intense about doing all the background information. But

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I did all the it's in sippy Cups, I wrote

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about it. I went in there, I interviewed him, and

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I'll never forget the doctor being like I read a

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question that was like do you keep up on the

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latest and he was like, yeah, right, what do you think? Yeah?

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I think the joke I made in sippy Cups was like, hey,

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if there's not a jar of leeches on their desk, like,

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I'm sure they keep up with the latest technology, Like

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come on, you know the kids they're hearing child like

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they're up to date.

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Speaker 2: Right anyway, Yeah, now I got to get my kids

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up to date.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm pretty sure that's the last vaccination. They yeah,

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Elbie's hasn't been back, Alby hasn't had now.

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Speaker 2: I mean like they need a check up though they

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should have like you know, some blood work done and stuff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not an emergency, it's the thing. Well they

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act like it is though. Okay, So I make the

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appointment for Xander because his doctor was able to see

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him much quicker. He's kind of close to retirement, so

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I was like, well, sooner the better, and they're like,

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we have something tomorrow now for Sadie, she's with a

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different in the practice.

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Speaker 1: They didn't have anything for.

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Speaker 3: A few months, but they weren't like, oh, but it's

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been so long, you really need to get her in here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. I think they were.

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Speaker 3: Seen at the end of twenty twenty four, so they

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didn't go in at all in twenty twenty five, and

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then it's were like six months into twenty twenty six.

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Speaker 1: Okay, seven months, Okay, it doesn't matter. I go in.

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Speaker 3: I go with Xander. He asked me to come with him. Yeah,

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could he have Well, he couldn't drive himself anyway, he

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doesn't have a license. So I brought him in. We

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go in, we sit down, I check him in. They're like,

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so this is the woman somebody I didn't know, not

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the person I talked to on the phone, who I like.

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This woman just goes She's more like a girl. I'm

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going to say she was very early twenties. She was like,

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I'm gonna need you to fill out like a new

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registration for the office. And I said, why why been

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with them twenty one years?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Alby is twenty one, you know, going on twenty two.

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Met her the doctor met her at the hospital when

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she was fresh out of my womb.

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Speaker 1: Right, Okay, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Like I've been here, I said to her. I go, yeah,

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I go, I have three kids here at this practice.

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Speaker 1: We've been coming here twenty years. None of my information's changed.

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Speaker 3: She was like, yeah, we're going to need you to

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go ahead and like fill out the registration all the

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forms though, And I said, this.

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Speaker 1: Is why I don't want my doctors. But why no,

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you have my information?

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Speaker 3: And she goes, we don't have your information because you

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haven't been in in a really long time. That's how

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she said it to me. My god, So I said,

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well that's not true, I said, because Elbie was here

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like maybe a year ago. I said, yeah, I don't

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think she's like the Sadie and Xander haven't been in

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since twenty twenty four. I said, okay, done done, Well

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I go there. You got me on their vaccines. I go,

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we're here now, I go, But nothing's changed. And I said,

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and you do have all my information on file because

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you guys called me. I said, I, hey, all sorts

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of mail from you guys. You guys called me to

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remind me that we need an appointment. And I said,

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and you have my insurance information. You just read it

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to me, Because she said blue shield starting nine oh nine. Yeah, right, okay,

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what else do you need? You've called me, and when

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I made the appointment for them, I had to give

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both of their phone numbers because they're over eighteen. She's like,

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she goes like this, I don't want to argue about this,

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but you have to fill out the paperwork.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: So I said, okay, god, So there's like six pages

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of it. And what do you think it said in

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the paperwork? Name, who's the patient, who's their doctor.

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Speaker 1: It's like you already know this stuff.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to fill out six copies of this because

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I have multiple kids, right, Okay, So I fill it out.

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Speaker 1: I put it.

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Speaker 3: I literally don't argue with her. All six pages. I

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put in my insurance information. I have to put in

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my information, John's information, what his relationship is with the patient,

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mailing address, is this mailing address, the same phone number,

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all the information that they one hundred percent have on file,

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and by the way, not on an iPad, like not just.

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Speaker 1: Saying go into their computer system.

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Speaker 3: No, I've got to write it on a fucking old

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school clipboard.

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Speaker 1: Write it on a piece of paper.

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Speaker 3: So you mean to tell me that you're going to

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take this information and re input it a cure system

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that already has this information, right, or why would you?

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And I Okay, you could say, well, no, they're going

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to just cross check in and make sure.

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Speaker 1: It's the same. But I just told you it's the

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fucking same.

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Speaker 3: If I tell you that, you just called me so

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you have my phone number, you have my mailing address,

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you have my insurance information. You think they're letting me

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have an appointment without my insurance and room?

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Speaker 1: Hell?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, okay, oh god knife, And she's just

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being a bitch about it. I'm just telling you that

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she was not. She was like having none of me

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questioning it, right, which you know, like inflames me a

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little bit. I don't like it when people act like

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it's what you've always said.

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Speaker 1: It's like you give them a little juice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, well, I'm working the front desk over here, right, Yeah,

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new sheriff in town.

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Speaker 2: I got your dress, you know, yes, And you're gonna

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jump when I say out yes and I say yeah,

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it's so funny. I got in a huge argument with

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the lady at CBS over the phone the other day.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you that though. But this is reminding me.

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Speaker 3: Of that okay, okay, So now I'm kind of mad,

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but I'm like, I can't. First of all, I don't

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want to be a bitch back because, like Xander's with you,

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you need that brief, right, So I was just like, okay,

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so I come back up, I bring her the paperwork.

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I go, here, you go. I filled it out. I go,

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but I didn't fill out and you're going.

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Speaker 1: To remember this.

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Speaker 3: They wanted me to refill out the paying for the

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administration fee.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: They wanted to charge me four hundred fucking dollars for

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the privilege of being still in this practice. So I go, well,

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I didn't fill out this part because I'm not paying

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the administration fee. And our loyal listeners will remember that

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that was a huge drama where I got freakin' hauled

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into the back room, remember, because they were like, you, so,

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what's the deal. You don't want to pay this? And

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I call it. My doctor, the original doctor that I've

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been with for twenty one years, who's now only Xander's

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doctor because the other two went to a woman. But

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when I told him, he was like, oh my god,

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don't even worry about it. Of course not I remember that,

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but the front the front office had to fight with

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me and fight me and fight with me, and I

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was like, I will happily go somewhere else if that's like.

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If you I'm not paying four hundred dollars, we don't

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utilize any of your services. We don't ever cut.

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Speaker 1: We barely cut. So I okay.

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Speaker 3: So she's like, but you have to fill that, you

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have to pay the administration fee, and I was like, well,

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I've been through this a few years ago. I go,

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as you can see, we're barely here as it is.

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I go, you were just telling me that we haven't

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been here in since twenty four I said, my kids

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come in for one wellness visit a year, and not

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even that. I said, we don't utilize your extra hours

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in your walking hours. I go. If my kids have

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a problem, they go to urgent care. Yeah, I said.

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no you don't, and I just felt my body getting

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I was like, well, no, you don't go, and I'm

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not paying it.

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Speaker 1: I go.

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Speaker 3: So if we're going to if I'm going to have

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to go through all of this again, if you want

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four hundred dollars, I go, This visit is free from

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my kid, right, I go, and he just needs a vaccine.

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I go, I'm so happy to just take him to CVS. Yeah,

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and get the vaccine. It's the same thing. He doesn't

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even really need a physical. I go, So you find

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out if you don't want to treat him because we're

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not paying this fee, let me know.

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Speaker 1: Good God.

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Speaker 3: And then the other woman who is back there with her,

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she's acting like.

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Speaker 1: Then the other woman goes, it's.

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Speaker 3: Fine, it's fine, Oh, okay, great, so I sit down.

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Speaker 1: Then okay, I've.

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Speaker 2: Got side of these other families that are just going

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okay and working it over four hundred dollars, Like that's insane,

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that's ridiculous. And if if they let you go, then

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like then the other Porschemo comes in and thinks that

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they have to pay it, and then they have to

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like it's not fake, it's what like, how come you

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don't have to pay?

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Speaker 1: But then other people it just doesn't. They're all literally

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electing money from your insurance. So it's like, right, so

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what do they do with insurance is.

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Speaker 3: Kind of a scalem and a ripoff, which I know

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it is, and I know that insurance doesn't pay them

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their rate I get it, but the way to fix

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that is not to violate your client's bank accounts. Can't

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who are already I pay two thousand dollars a month

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for our health insurance premium, which covers a well visit. Yeah,

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so like I won't come in for a well visit.

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You're already mad that I'm not coming in.

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Speaker 1: Which is it? Exactly so?

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Speaker 3: And their whole thing is like, well, this covers emailing

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with the doctor camp forms. Well, guess what, I don't

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do any of that anymore.

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Speaker 1: It's for yours.

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Speaker 3: And I already wasn't using that by the time they

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were starting to ask for that fee.

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Speaker 1: By the way, I.

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Speaker 3: Changed gynecologists because my gynecologists wanted to charge like two

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hundred and fifty dollars a year, and I was like, well,

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I only come in once a year.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, now PAP, which is free. So I changed visit.

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I changed to that Tea.

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Speaker 3: Healthcare for that reason. I was like, well, I'm not

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paying two hundred and fifty dollars.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fuck yourself. Okay.

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Speaker 3: So now so now I'm sitting and I have to

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try to explain, try to picture this. There's like two

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sides to the I'm sitting like around the corner from

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the nurses station.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so.

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Speaker 3: I'm sitting on a chair the nurse. Like you'd have

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to be all the way at the edge of the

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nurses station to see that there's a like a person

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sitting there. So these nurses are talking. Now there's a

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little kid who I see, I find out later is

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like probably like three years old. He was barely three,

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and he had been scaraming. He obviously got shots and

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he was terrified. But he was screaming like like a

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horror movie screaming, right, which I was like, I get it,

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Like I was like that when I was a little

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little kid.

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Speaker 1: I would scream. I was so scared of nils.

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Speaker 3: In my mind, it's kind of a sign of like

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high intelligence. It's like you kind of know what's haming

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and you don't want any part of that.

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Speaker 1: You're not just like a sheep like.

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Speaker 3: Okay, cool, cool, You're scared and you're like I'm not

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having this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my kids hated it. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So this kid is screaming and this nurse goes something something.

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This is after the kids stops stopped.

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Speaker 1: This nurse.

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Speaker 3: This one of these women was talking to the other

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ones and she goes that kid's a real fucking ass.

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Speaker 2: What Lynette, Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: I was like the heat.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I hate all these people. I hate

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all of them. I hate this practice. The only person

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I still love is my doctor, is the doctor who

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start who founded this practice. It's gone downhill. These women

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are fucking bitches. And I so I leaned forward so

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that this woman who just said that could see me,

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and I just looked at her like oh busting, and

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herd like wow wow. And then she kind of got

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a you know, like looked away really fast, and then

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like kind of changed the subject and like started pretending

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like she'd you know, I think she thought she might

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have some plausive flausible deniability. But I was like, oh,

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you coming here again. They'll be lucky if I bring Sadie.

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And Sadie goes in for her last visit. She doesn't

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need she's just going to local. She's not going to

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be in a dorm, so she have to get the

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men in Jen's vaccine.

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Speaker 1: So like, I don't know, it's so done with these

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is insane. I can't believe she said that.

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Speaker 3: What Like there's people around, like you're at the nurses area.

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So I think she thought she could see like everybody

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who's a patient is in a room, and she said

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it kind of quietly, but I was like three feet

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from her. Wow, I wasn't in her direct eyeline.

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Speaker 2: Right, did you say anything to like the doctor anymore?

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Speaker 1: Because I was like no, And in fact, Xander texted

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me and.

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Speaker 3: He goes, can you come back here because our doctor,

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doctor Pete. Yeah, he's like, doctor Pete wants to say

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hi because I've known, you know, we're like my friends. Yeah,

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he's like, it's really mad about politics, like I do.

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The problem is I don't go in anymore because he'll

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direct most of the conversation to me, and I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, right, you're here right to my kids.

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Speaker 3: But so I went back and I talked to him

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and I was like he's old and he needed me

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to be like, dude, your stuff, everything about this place

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has gone.

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Speaker 1: Down, right, right, he's retiring.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, well thank god you're done with that place.

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Speaker 1: That's craziness. Yes, oh my god. But I haven't felt

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that kind of like rage in a while. Right, kind

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of sound good?

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Speaker 4: He left their feeling alive, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's

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like oh right, yeah, I got in an argument with

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this woman from CVS Pharmacy.

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Speaker 2: I cannot wait to get rid of them. We're moving

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so I'm not going to be going there anymore. But

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there it's like the DMV, it really is. And Italian's

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got this fucking prescription that kept getting sent to Santa

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Barbara's CVS and I have to like call them and

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they're like, well, we can't transfer it to your CVS

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because the doctor has to do it. So then I

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have to email the doctor. So then they don't for

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this prescription, I guess. So I had to email the doctor.

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The doctors sent it, Okay. Then I go down there

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to pick it up and they were like, yeah, the

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doctor hasn't approved it. I said, I got an email

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from the doctor that she sent it. Well, we don't

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have anything on our end, So now what am I.

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Speaker 1: Supposed to do?

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Speaker 2: Like go, hey, move out of the way, out the way, Jose,

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I'm going to get back behind that counter and I'm

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going to go find this.

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Speaker 1: Like what am I supposed to say that? Like, right, well,

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we don't have it on our end. I'm like, okay,

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well what do I do?

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Speaker 2: And she's like, well, you got to call the doctor

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make sure that she sent it to this location.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she sent it to a different location.

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Speaker 2: So now I'm thinking, okay, well maybe now the doctor

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screwed me up.

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Speaker 1: So then I go home.

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Speaker 2: So then I tell email the doctor and she's like, no,

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here's confirmation she sent it in an email, confirmation that

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it was sent to that my pharmacy.

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Speaker 1: So then I call before.

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Speaker 2: I go down there, because there's a huge always a

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huge line or that we're always always, especially because in

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my area we were going to write aid and right

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aid was great and they closed, so now everybody in

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my area is going to CBS. So the fucking line

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is like all the way down to like the tooth

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based department. So like, so I'm not going there yet,

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so I want to call and make sure it's there.

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Speaker 1: So then I and then you can't get anybody on

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the phone.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I was just gonna say good luck, good luck.

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Get out of a new system where you have to

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leave a message. You have to leave a message, pray

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that somebody calls you back, and then they don't listen

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to the message.

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Speaker 1: No they don't. They never they go HI, this is CBS. What.

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Speaker 2: So then so you call though, here's what you do

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you call? And they go, welcome to CEV And then

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they go, first of all, what's with this? If this

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is emergency, hang up now and call nine one one,

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no shit, Like, if I'm fucking bleeding on the floor,

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I'm gonna call CVS Pharmacy.

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Speaker 1: Sit on a phone tree. They press one for bleeding

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out right.

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Speaker 2: Even our doctor doctor knock around when you call them, like,

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if this is an emergency, call hang up now and call.

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Speaker 1: What what Like, obviously we're gonna call nine. We're not

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calling you people. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So you get through that part, then they're like, uh,

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enter your birthday. So I enter six seven, two thousand

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and six. Welcome Santino. Okay, no, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: People that don't have twins do not understand that.

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Speaker 2: And I every time I get somebody on the phone,

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I tell them that and they're like, yeah, well that sucks.

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Like what are they gonna say, Oh, we'll fix the system,

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So welcome to Santino.

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Speaker 1: So then you get to the thing.

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Speaker 2: Finally they're like, leave a message and then they will

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call you back within an hour, which they do.

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Speaker 1: Left the message okay.

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Speaker 3: But they don't listen to it. They don't say can

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you this is why I'm calling. They're like, leave a

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detailed message about why you're calling it. So I do

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because I need this prescription. It was over at this

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other pharmacy that they moved it over, and I need

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to come in and I need to pick it up.

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Speaker 1: Right Hi, yes, yeah, saying thanks for your message. What's

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going on?

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Speaker 2: So first of all, she puts me on a speaker

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so I could barely hear her. And I've talked to

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this woman now twice. And the first time was when

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I was like, where's the prescription? And then they were

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She was like, you know, you gotta have it said,

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and then she was like the first time I talked

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to her, she's like, let me finish. I was like, okay,

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and then I call and then do the thing. Then

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I go down there, Okay. Then now I'm calling again.

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Now I get the same bitch and she's like, now

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I got proof on my phone that they there's confirmation.

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So she's like, I go, where's the prescription. She's like, oh,

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it's still showing its instant Santa Barbara. And I go, okay, well,

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I said it was transfer. She goes, well, you have

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to have the doctor, I said, And then I cut

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her off, and I go, I have an email. She goes,

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can you let me finish again? And I go, how

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about you let me finish? I said, I said, let

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me finish. I have confirmation that she was said, and

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then she starts, hold please, and she puts me on.

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Speaker 1: A long asshole pose on purpose.

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Speaker 2: Then she comes back and she's like, Okay, it'll be

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ready by three o'clock.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, that's what I thought. Bitch fuck, I'm

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so mad. What is going on?

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Speaker 3: Most people work in a pharmacy, right, pharmacist, you have

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to go to pharmacy school.

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Speaker 1: You should have a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Of a brain, right, I know, it's it's just like that.

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That's CBS pharmacy. I don't know if they're all like that,

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but that they're bad. And I guess maybe they're, you know,

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overwhelmed because of right AD being closed.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Well, I got to tell you, the smaller pharmacies are

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not it either. I was getting a prescription for one

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of the kids from a different pharmacy because actually it

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was a it was the dermatologist. They have their own

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pharmacy that they just call it in. It's like a tap, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah,

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So we was using we was using that pharmacy and

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the woman was telling me that it was. She was

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just like, yeah, it's not going through on your insurance.

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It's coming up as like a full pay. And I

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was like, well, that's not right, because you know what.

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 3: This was when Xander was on acutane, so it was

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some drug that was they wanted to charge me like

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a crazy amount of money, but we needed it because

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he was out and we'd gone for the appointment. She

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was like, yeah, I don't know what to tell you.

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And I'm like, well, what are you about to tell

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me something?

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Speaker 1: She's like, I don't know, take it up with your

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insurance company. It did turn out that.

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Speaker 3: My premium was late, like whatever, and because I was

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saving up because I had to mortgage my house to pay.

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Speaker 1: My healthcare preme. No, but it was only late. I

470
00:23:02,279 --> 00:23:04,559
was late like ten days or something.

471
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 3: So they but I was like, you can't tell that.

472
00:23:09,079 --> 00:23:12,240
She was like nope, or maybe it was coming up

473
00:23:12,279 --> 00:23:14,799
like I didn't have insurance. I can't remember what it was.

474
00:23:14,839 --> 00:23:17,559
But she wanted nothing to do with like helping me out.

475
00:23:17,839 --> 00:23:20,359
I feel like she could have been like, you know what,

476
00:23:21,039 --> 00:23:22,680
I wonder if you're late paying your bill.

477
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, maybe not vent died or something. Nope. She

478
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,480
was just like, I don't know. Maybe it's the way

479
00:23:28,519 --> 00:23:31,960
I proved. Oh. She was like, this is what I was.

480
00:23:32,279 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 3: Made me so mad as her ideas were like, yeah,

481
00:23:35,039 --> 00:23:36,880
I don't know if this is an approved drug for

482
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,240
your insurance. And I was like, but you see in

483
00:23:39,279 --> 00:23:41,000
your system that I've been picking it up for the

484
00:23:41,039 --> 00:23:44,799
last six months, right, hello at a different price, right

485
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:50,440
at fifteen dollars right, Oh can you check? Oh yeah, yeah,

486
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,480
I do see that. Well, maybe they don't cover it anymore.

487
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,119
I was like, yeah, they still cover it.

488
00:23:56,319 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 1: I don't cover it anymore. It's so stupid. Oh my god,

489
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,079
it's so frushing. It is.

490
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 2: It is so Sonny was supposed to get a car

491
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:08,759
this weekend from Adam from Adam Lerner's got a car.

492
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,079
He's been great. Yeah, he found him a car. Everything

493
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,079
was all set up to be delivered. I told Sonny.

494
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:17,279
I was like, guess what. Sonny had his dad's car

495
00:24:17,799 --> 00:24:20,000
for the weekend, and then he had to bring it

496
00:24:20,079 --> 00:24:22,960
back on Saturday, and then he was going to get

497
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,480
his car delivered Saturday.

498
00:24:24,519 --> 00:24:25,559
Speaker 1: It's his birthday gift.

499
00:24:25,839 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 2: And then then I get a call from like the

500
00:24:28,759 --> 00:24:31,680
guy that's doing my loan for the house, and was like, hey,

501
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:35,839
we just got a flag that you were, you know,

502
00:24:36,079 --> 00:24:39,319
applied to get a loan for getting Sonny's car, and

503
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,960
he was like, can you just wait until escrow closes,

504
00:24:43,319 --> 00:24:47,799
which is July the end of July. So I was like, okay,

505
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:49,759
so I have to put it off. And I had

506
00:24:49,799 --> 00:24:51,519
to tell Sonny, and Sonny was like, it's all right.

507
00:24:51,599 --> 00:24:56,559
You know, Sonny's very easy, easy going. So he was like,

508
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,519
but he has dad's cool car this weekend. So he's like,

509
00:24:59,519 --> 00:25:01,480
I'm going on to drive. He drove it all the

510
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:06,319
way to Hurst Castle, which is five hours away. This kid,

511
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,519
he's crazy. He's crazy. His dad told him, He's like,

512
00:25:09,559 --> 00:25:11,440
you should drive it up there. You'd probably like it

513
00:25:11,519 --> 00:25:11,839
up there.

514
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 3: Oh.

515
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,319
Speaker 1: He told him to Yeah, And so he booked a

516
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:14,960
tour there.

517
00:25:15,039 --> 00:25:18,599
Speaker 2: And he took a tour at Hurst Castle and loved

518
00:25:18,599 --> 00:25:20,480
it and sent me pictures and then drove back.

519
00:25:21,519 --> 00:25:24,400
Speaker 1: I didn't even stay over night now, he just got.

520
00:25:24,319 --> 00:25:26,039
Speaker 2: Up early and just drove and did the whole thing,

521
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:27,640
came back late by himself.

522
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, he loves it. No, that's so interesting that he

523
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:34,400
just does stuff by himself.

524
00:25:34,519 --> 00:25:36,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's also been with his friends, Like he

525
00:25:36,839 --> 00:25:39,359
went out to his friend's house. They barbecued together on

526
00:25:39,599 --> 00:25:42,519
Saturday night and like hung out, and Sunday they hung out.

527
00:25:42,799 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 1: So he's lit with his friends.

528
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 2: But he also he's like, because I was telling him,

529
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,480
you know, Wendy's coming to town soon to help me

530
00:25:48,519 --> 00:25:52,119
with the house and stuff. And Wendy and her sisters

531
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,519
and all the nieces and nephews are going camping at

532
00:25:54,519 --> 00:25:55,680
the beginning of August.

533
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 1: And he was like, yeah, I'll do that. He's like,

534
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:58,640
but I also.

535
00:25:58,519 --> 00:26:01,039
Speaker 2: Like to, like, you know, kind of do my own thing,

536
00:26:01,319 --> 00:26:03,200
like just kind of go, I'm on to do camping

537
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:04,519
one more time by myself.

538
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,839
Speaker 1: Then he had a job in or View this morning,

539
00:26:06,839 --> 00:26:07,480
which is great.

540
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 2: Oh where Yeah, it really looked close by at this

541
00:26:10,759 --> 00:26:13,559
gym that he applied for. They called him like, last minute,

542
00:26:13,599 --> 00:26:15,240
can you come in? So he went in.

543
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:17,079
Speaker 1: So we'll see hopefully.

544
00:26:17,279 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 2: But you know, he's going back to school in like

545
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,839
two months, so yeah, now that's going to work.

546
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,519
Speaker 3: But yeah, because I hope he was going to try

547
00:26:25,519 --> 00:26:29,960
to get Xander a job being a host at the restaurant,

548
00:26:30,079 --> 00:26:33,319
but Xander leaves for has to go move into school.

549
00:26:33,079 --> 00:26:33,759
Speaker 1: On the eighteenth.

550
00:26:34,039 --> 00:26:34,279
Speaker 3: Yeah.

551
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,079
Speaker 1: See, oh my god.

552
00:26:37,079 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 3: Okay, so I have a little uh I think this

553
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:41,319
will be relatable.

554
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, with a lot of parents. Okay.

555
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 3: So I get an email the other day from Chapman basically,

556
00:26:47,079 --> 00:26:49,759
and I get a lot of emails from them, so

557
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,440
I guess they email both of us about certain things.

558
00:26:53,599 --> 00:26:54,839
Speaker 1: I get an email from them.

559
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 3: Saying, hey, so I wish I could remember exactly the email,

560
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:01,359
but something to the effect of like tuitions do by

561
00:27:01,519 --> 00:27:05,680
July twentieth, And I was like, wait, what this is

562
00:27:05,759 --> 00:27:08,160
like a couple of days ago, so you know we're

563
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:11,519
talking it's like the tenth like what tuitions do in

564
00:27:11,559 --> 00:27:13,000
ten days now.

565
00:27:14,079 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 1: Up until this point, all I've had to go on is.

566
00:27:18,839 --> 00:27:22,079
Speaker 3: The fact that Xander showed me a screenshot of his

567
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:32,240
financial offer, which included his like his scholarship for having

568
00:27:32,279 --> 00:27:32,880
good grades.

569
00:27:33,279 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 1: Right.

570
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 3: Also, we were we got some like financial aid, like

571
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:42,359
I don't know, a cal grant and we got and

572
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:47,119
then so the scholarship was really big. That's why I

573
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,119
was like, oh, we can afford to go here. Plus

574
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,000
the fact that we got the grant, the financial aid,

575
00:27:52,559 --> 00:27:56,519
and I think somebody because I talked about this before,

576
00:27:56,519 --> 00:27:59,799
and somebody was like, be careful because sometimes they suck

577
00:27:59,839 --> 00:28:02,160
you in by giving you that a good amount of

578
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,279
money off for the first year, but then it doesn't.

579
00:28:05,759 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: So I got all paranoid.

580
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:11,799
Speaker 3: I called them or I emailed them his person, his contact,

581
00:28:11,799 --> 00:28:14,920
and I was like, hey, this is the offer he got,

582
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:17,000
but is this good for all four years? And they

583
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:20,400
were like yes, unless anything changes, like with your FAFSA.

584
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,319
I have to do a FAFSA every year. And I

585
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:26,799
was like, okay, cool, So I'm basing. We're affording to

586
00:28:26,799 --> 00:28:29,119
go to this school. All the plans are made, but

587
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,720
all of a sudden, like the tuitions do I don't

588
00:28:31,759 --> 00:28:35,519
even know, because so there's the base of what he owes,

589
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,759
but to make it for what I have to pay,

590
00:28:38,839 --> 00:28:41,559
they give you these options of loans. So it's like,

591
00:28:42,119 --> 00:28:44,440
let's say nine thousand dollars in loans, which is what

592
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:49,359
it was because full disclosure, the school's like eighty nine

593
00:28:49,359 --> 00:28:54,039
thousand dollars a year, but we're supposed to pay twenty

594
00:28:54,079 --> 00:28:58,960
three thousand plus with loans, like it comes to like

595
00:28:59,079 --> 00:29:07,640
thirty two thousands. Okay, so pretty good, great, yes, perfect, Okay,

596
00:29:07,759 --> 00:29:10,480
So but now I'm getting this thing saying that you

597
00:29:10,519 --> 00:29:12,000
have to pay the money, and I'm like why, I

598
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,000
have no idea. I don't even know how to accept

599
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,400
the loans. I'm also getting emails like every day from

600
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:21,200
Sally May, like from these loan company, this loan company,

601
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,960
and I'm like, I think this is spam, Like I

602
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:25,720
don't think they're trying to tell me I have to

603
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,519
take out of Sally May loan. I'm pretty sure that's bad,

604
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,160
but I don't know. You'd think I would know from

605
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:34,240
having had a kid already in college, but I don't

606
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,640
remember going down this way. I remember LB in her

607
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:41,680
financial portal. I remember saying, yes, we'll accept this loan,

608
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:46,160
and then here's how you get third part access. Okay,

609
00:29:47,079 --> 00:29:50,519
So I'm like, Xander, do you have any information? Have

610
00:29:50,599 --> 00:29:55,559
you gotten a tuition bill? And he's like no. I'm

611
00:29:55,599 --> 00:29:57,839
making a face at Lynette, like you know where you

612
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,720
all know where this is going? Right? We're ten days

613
00:30:00,759 --> 00:30:02,839
away from when I have to pay this bill, because

614
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,680
right now we're a week we're a week out. Yeah,

615
00:30:06,039 --> 00:30:08,160
so yeah, so this is like a few days ago.

616
00:30:08,519 --> 00:30:13,240
So I email the Financial aid office. There's which it's

617
00:30:13,279 --> 00:30:15,920
pretty clear, like who you can talk to I email them,

618
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:20,240
I'm like, hey, I'm writing to you about Xander Taylor.

619
00:30:20,279 --> 00:30:23,039
He's an incoming freshman. I got a thing saying tuition

620
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,519
is due on the twentieth. I'm very surprised because I've

621
00:30:26,519 --> 00:30:31,200
gotten zero communication. I do not know how to access

622
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,359
the bill, how to if where, what the loan process is.

623
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:36,119
Speaker 1: I was told I.

624
00:30:36,119 --> 00:30:37,839
Speaker 3: Need to take out some loans, but do I have

625
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,519
to like go to the bank. I'm literally lost, right,

626
00:30:41,079 --> 00:30:43,599
So they write back, and they said, he needs to

627
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:47,319
log into his portal and then you're going to go.

628
00:30:47,519 --> 00:30:51,720
They give me like step by step instructions. Right, I go, hey, Xander,

629
00:30:51,799 --> 00:30:54,599
can you log into your portal because that's how we're

630
00:30:54,599 --> 00:30:56,240
going to Oh, and then he has to give you

631
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:01,720
third party authorization because due to FURPA laws.

632
00:31:02,119 --> 00:31:04,359
Speaker 1: Like, first of all, and I know I talked about

633
00:31:04,359 --> 00:31:04,960
this before.

634
00:31:06,119 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 3: How the fuck do they think that art that an

635
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,519
eighteen year old is paying for their own college?

636
00:31:11,599 --> 00:31:11,799
Speaker 1: Right?

637
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,559
Speaker 3: Of course they're not right, but they are high if

638
00:31:15,599 --> 00:31:18,240
they think that, like these eighteen year olds are coming

639
00:31:18,319 --> 00:31:21,160
up with, especially some of these more expensive schools, where

640
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,960
are they and they and the law they can't even

641
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,319
take out loans, So why don't we just all be

642
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,200
realistic and say, here's your parents exactly.

643
00:31:30,599 --> 00:31:31,519
Speaker 1: Send it to the parents.

644
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 3: What I know, and you're expecting these eighteen year olds, okay,

645
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:40,240
to be responsible enough. Xander's my more most responsible kid.

646
00:31:41,079 --> 00:31:44,920
He was like, oh, okay. He logs into his portal,

647
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:49,759
He's like, oh, I have a lot of emails. I'm like, yeah,

648
00:31:49,839 --> 00:31:53,279
I bet you do well. He goes, well, I've only

649
00:31:53,319 --> 00:31:56,519
gotten an email in the past. He got his financial

650
00:31:56,559 --> 00:32:00,319
offer on his regular email that he use when he

651
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:03,880
signed up, right, but then the college accepted him, and

652
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:07,839
when he enrolled, they gave him a Chapman email. He

653
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:11,720
proceeded to never ever check that one time. Now, okay,

654
00:32:12,119 --> 00:32:15,559
it be a long time ago. There were a lot

655
00:32:15,599 --> 00:32:19,200
of emails. I had to try so hard not to

656
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:20,000
be mad.

657
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: Because I'm like, I'm mad.

658
00:32:23,079 --> 00:32:25,279
Speaker 3: But part of that is the anxiety of like, oh

659
00:32:25,319 --> 00:32:26,880
my god, I've got to come up with this big

660
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:31,119
chunk of cash, which means I mean, I'm like anybody else,

661
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,799
like I don't have that liquid cash in my bank account.

662
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,599
We've got to have our money person wire us in

663
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,680
money from like yeah.

664
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 1: Investments and stuff. You know what I mean.

665
00:32:43,079 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 3: You don't just automatically go oh, okay, here's because because

666
00:32:46,519 --> 00:32:52,240
my payment for Okay, long story short, when I start

667
00:32:52,279 --> 00:32:54,359
looking at the loan stuff, now I got to start

668
00:32:54,359 --> 00:32:57,559
making decisions like really fast because he gives me the

669
00:32:57,599 --> 00:33:00,480
third party access. He's like, oh, there's this whole thing.

670
00:33:00,519 --> 00:33:06,279
I have to accept the aid. Yes, okay. So one

671
00:33:06,359 --> 00:33:08,279
of the things was like do you want this parent

672
00:33:08,359 --> 00:33:11,680
plus loan? And I'm like, oh, heard bad things. So

673
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,279
then I have to google. What's a parent plus loan?

674
00:33:14,359 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: Isn't bad? Right? And Google's like it's not great, you know.

675
00:33:20,119 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 3: I mean, okay, our buddy ai ol yes algorithm is like, uh, well,

676
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,680
you know you probably don't. Here's you want to take

677
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:37,119
this other I'm like Google, subsidized versus unsubsidized loan. They're like, well,

678
00:33:37,559 --> 00:33:40,920
subsidized loan is better. I don't remember this from two

679
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,240
years ago. When I do it with LB, I was like,

680
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:47,240
subsidize is better because they don't start charging you interest

681
00:33:47,319 --> 00:33:49,319
right away. You don't have to pay it back until

682
00:33:49,359 --> 00:33:53,000
six months after they graduate college. I'm like, okay, so

683
00:33:53,119 --> 00:33:55,480
that one's like a few thousand dollars a year. Then

684
00:33:55,519 --> 00:33:58,920
they're like the unsubsidized one, like you don't really want

685
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,920
that because it's your going to start accruing interest right away.

686
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,039
So if you can afford not to do that, don't

687
00:34:04,079 --> 00:34:06,000
do it. And then they're like, and then the parent

688
00:34:06,039 --> 00:34:12,000
plus loan that's like a high interest rate. Basically, Google's like,

689
00:34:12,079 --> 00:34:14,000
unless you really need.

690
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,119
Speaker 1: It, like I wouldn't.

691
00:34:15,679 --> 00:34:18,119
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, now you tell me, like

692
00:34:19,199 --> 00:34:21,400
I felt like I was just so under the gun.

693
00:34:22,119 --> 00:34:26,440
So then they offered Xander work study. So I'm like, yeah,

694
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,039
you're doing work study. You're going to help pay for college.

695
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,800
Oh okay, bitch doesn't have a job right now. He

696
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,079
doesn't really have any chores. I'm like, yeah, you know what,

697
00:34:34,199 --> 00:34:36,800
it'll be good for you. You can have a little job

698
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,920
on campus if you can get one, you know. And

699
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:44,079
then but that money goes towards your tuition, so that's.

700
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,599
Speaker 1: A good idea. And then I'll still give.

701
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:49,199
Speaker 3: You, I'll give him money, but base anyway, so that's great.

702
00:34:49,519 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 1: Then I have to.

703
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Speaker 3: Run in and talk to John and I'm like, okay,

704
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we take the subsidized loan. I say, we don't take

705
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the unsubsidized loan. And we know parent plus loans, so

706
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,440
we're going to oh little bit more intuition it's not

707
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,599
that bad, right, But so then I'm like, okay, so

708
00:35:06,679 --> 00:35:10,559
we owe fifteen thousand dollars in ten days.

709
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,039
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I'm just saying.

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Speaker 3: I was like, Xander, am, did you start checking your

711
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:18,880
email regularly?

712
00:35:19,079 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 2: But to be fairly, did he know like that he

713
00:35:21,559 --> 00:35:23,639
was getting I mean, he didn't know he was getting emails.

714
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Speaker 1: He had no idea how to check. No.

715
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Speaker 3: But on the other hand, because then I also have

716
00:35:31,519 --> 00:35:34,079
a story about Sadie that I might save for the

717
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next our next episode. Okay, but I just felt like

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I'm not the one going to college, right, Like I

719
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,440
didn't even go to college, so I've never had to

720
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be responsible for this stuff. I'm feeling the weight a

721
00:35:46,679 --> 00:35:51,880
lot of the responsibility of making sure because if I hadn't,

722
00:35:52,159 --> 00:35:54,159
if I hadn't been the one to dig into this,

723
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,639
we would have missed the deadline. And I'll tell you why.

724
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And that's why you just reminded me. Because Sonny and Elbe,

725
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,199
I mean, she's done now, but they start school much

726
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,000
later than everybody else. Yeah, so they didn't. Elbe didn't

727
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:12,519
start school until mid to late September. Same but Xander

728
00:36:12,599 --> 00:36:17,360
starts mid August, so he moves in on the eighteenth,

729
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,760
So probably I should have been like why. I think

730
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:22,800
I did have a couple of moments of like, how

731
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,000
come I haven't heard anything about like, right, I'm gonna

732
00:36:25,039 --> 00:36:29,159
owe tuition. Also with UCLA, they didn't even want you

733
00:36:29,199 --> 00:36:32,960
to pay. They didn't even release the bill until like

734
00:36:34,519 --> 00:36:36,000
two weeks before it's due.

735
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Speaker 2: But were you getting the bills from UCLA or were

736
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they going out in her cot But she but.

737
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 3: She was different, She's a different kid. She just knew

738
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,800
to log into her portal. She was like on top

739
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,920
of stuff. She did all the registering for her classes.

740
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,199
She did everything on her own. I never heard anything

741
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,800
about it. The only thing that happened was I said,

742
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,119
I don't know how to access how to connect my

743
00:36:58,159 --> 00:37:01,079
bank account, and I've heard some of my friends that

744
00:37:01,159 --> 00:37:03,719
you have to get third party access, and I remember that.

745
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,159
She was like, oh, so we googled it. It seemed

746
00:37:07,199 --> 00:37:08,440
like a bigger deal than it was.

747
00:37:08,559 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 1: She just had to go in.

748
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:13,159
Speaker 3: Her portal, go into she did a party, and then

749
00:37:13,199 --> 00:37:17,280
I had to get my own account. So Xander kind

750
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:20,320
of had to do that too. So I just but

751
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,840
but the email I got from Chapman told me I

752
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,000
just forwarded that email to Xander and I was like,

753
00:37:25,119 --> 00:37:27,599
do all these things get me in there?

754
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,679
Speaker 1: And then he gave me. Then I got a password

755
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:34,199
and it was that's oh good. And then I connected

756
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,280
my bank account. So I'm ready to go.

757
00:37:36,639 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 3: As soon as I have the money in my account,

758
00:37:39,039 --> 00:37:40,159
I can just hit.

759
00:37:40,159 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 1: Okay, that's god. But I was shy. And then my

760
00:37:44,119 --> 00:37:49,440
story is really about like Sadie having to like.

761
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 3: None of this would get done. I feel like nobody

762
00:37:53,039 --> 00:37:56,280
would be doing anything. I wasn't on top of it. Yeah,

763
00:37:56,679 --> 00:37:58,519
my own shit to be on top of I know.

764
00:37:58,679 --> 00:38:01,079
Speaker 2: See, we got lucky because like I have Setni and

765
00:38:01,159 --> 00:38:03,760
Italia that are like elbe, like they just do it

766
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,880
all and they take care of it and you know,

767
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:07,920
and then they just send me the bill, like I

768
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,079
paid this for books, I paid this for tuition, I

769
00:38:10,159 --> 00:38:14,039
paid this for classes, and that's pretty much it. But

770
00:38:14,039 --> 00:38:17,199
they're also in you know, they're at the community college,

771
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,159
so it's a little different, Like.

772
00:38:19,159 --> 00:38:22,679
Speaker 3: It's not that expense. Yes, it is a little different. Yeah,

773
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:26,599
but when you pay for like their apartments though, do

774
00:38:26,639 --> 00:38:27,840
you have it just set up that you.

775
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 1: Just pay it? Yes, we pay it.

776
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:34,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it comes out of their college tuition their college fun.

777
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 3: Okay, So like for Elb's rent, that was another thing.

778
00:38:39,599 --> 00:38:41,760
Elbe would just be like, oh my god, I forgot

779
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:46,000
we have to pay rent, and then I'd be like, oh,

780
00:38:46,079 --> 00:38:47,800
it's the first and then I'd have.

781
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,079
Speaker 1: To zell her friend.

782
00:38:51,599 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 3: Luckily, one of her friends was the one paying it,

783
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:56,280
so she would pay the whole rent, and then the

784
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:57,360
other roommates would.

785
00:38:57,119 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 2: Say, right, yeah, that's kind of like what Natalia had

786
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:01,400
set up.

787
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:04,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot.

788
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,559
Speaker 3: I know, it's a lot of money. It's a lot

789
00:39:06,599 --> 00:39:07,760
of payments.

790
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,519
Speaker 2: And then you know, but then you got like Sadie

791
00:39:10,559 --> 00:39:13,679
and Xander who like are not like them. They need help,

792
00:39:14,119 --> 00:39:17,679
you know, registering and just being more on top of it.

793
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,400
Speaker 1: But you know, they'll get into their groove.

794
00:39:19,559 --> 00:39:23,519
Speaker 3: The problem is, and so is that Xander doesn't know

795
00:39:23,679 --> 00:39:26,960
he needs help. Right, So Xander thinks he's on top

796
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,639
of stuff, but it's just a little bit last minute

797
00:39:29,679 --> 00:39:32,760
because there was another thing that happened that he goes, oh,

798
00:39:33,159 --> 00:39:37,920
I have to apply for this the grant, the California grant.

799
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,719
He goes by a certain deadline, which is tomorrow, and

800
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:42,719
I was like, oh, well, you.

801
00:39:42,679 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: Better go fucking do it, right, now then, and he.

802
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 3: Was like, okay, I got you, okay, yeah, but everything

803
00:39:49,519 --> 00:39:50,920
is just very last minute.

804
00:39:51,119 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah he I don't know.

805
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 2: It gives us anxient anxiety when that happens with our kids.

806
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 3: But he's living his best life right now, Like he's

807
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,920
not working, but he goes to the gym every day. Yeah,

808
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,880
so he can get so he can get himself situated

809
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,360
if it's if it's something he wants to do. Like

810
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:14,960
they were offering free memberships a Planet Fitness. Oh really,

811
00:40:15,119 --> 00:40:18,639
uh huh for if you're under like nineteen.

812
00:40:19,039 --> 00:40:20,039
Speaker 1: Oh, that's cool.

813
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:24,360
Speaker 3: So he went and signed himself up and Yola Crocodile

814
00:40:24,599 --> 00:40:27,199
got free gym memberships, right, and now he just goes

815
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:28,440
to the gym every single day.

816
00:40:28,679 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: Same with Sonny. Really yeah, goes every day. Yeah did

817
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,760
you wait? You said he goes to the y with you.

818
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:37,559
Speaker 2: Let's go to the Why But now he told me

819
00:40:37,599 --> 00:40:39,760
he's going to this other gym that his other friends

820
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:43,000
go to. It's still in our area, and that's where

821
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:44,119
he applied for the job.

822
00:40:44,599 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh that's good because then he'll get a

823
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:48,840
free membership here.

824
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 1: Yeah that would be cool, that'd be nice. Yeah, so

825
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:52,880
we'll see all.

826
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,760
Speaker 3: Right, Well, let's say hi to our fancy friends and

827
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,199
then so I can save you my Sadie story.

828
00:40:58,199 --> 00:41:00,599
Speaker 1: Plus we have some Karen Reid updates. It's a little

829
00:41:00,639 --> 00:41:00,960
bit of that.

830
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm excited. And plus we watched a couple of

831
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:05,639
yelly wizes.

832
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,559
Speaker 1: Right, all right, well let's say she crying.

833
00:41:08,679 --> 00:41:13,800
Speaker 3: We got Katie is rolling on e Christa gets strapped. Sandra,

834
00:41:14,119 --> 00:41:18,039
it's not easy Green Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, Leslie, stop

835
00:41:18,079 --> 00:41:21,599
with the coughing. You think COVID was back the way

836
00:41:21,639 --> 00:41:26,480
she's going on, I mean, come on, Cowcalante City, al Monte,

837
00:41:26,599 --> 00:41:31,559
Kelly Bryant, she's your aunt, Rebecca. He's so cute, so hot,

838
00:41:32,039 --> 00:41:34,599
Missy and Gabby those girls.

839
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:38,320
Speaker 1: She's out there out in Valencia, somewhere somewhere waiting for

840
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:39,000
you to move in.

841
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, uh, Katerina girl, check that Moler Valerie, Bubba Fenwick,

842
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,000
it's it out of the park, Holly.

843
00:41:46,079 --> 00:41:47,079
Speaker 1: We love your pancakes.

844
00:41:47,159 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 3: Rita whacking that brassinette with Elizabeth Williamson's poverticle, multiple sets

845
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:56,719
of multiples, Nikki call your girl, and Dick is frolicking.

846
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:59,840
And then I wanted to give a shout out to

847
00:42:00,119 --> 00:42:06,800
my friend Colleen who Colleen Saldonna. She's a listener of

848
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:10,360
our show, and she started a podcast called Deer Recovery

849
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,920
and she's a licensed marriage and family therapist. She was

850
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,360
a guest on Drunkish you might remember her.

851
00:42:16,559 --> 00:42:17,559
Speaker 1: But anyway, this is a.

852
00:42:17,519 --> 00:42:22,199
Speaker 3: New podcast called Deer Recovery and it's where listeners anonymously

853
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:26,400
write in with questions about eating disorders, addiction, body image, anxiety,

854
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,840
all sorts of stuff about recovery. So that's cool. Cool

855
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Deer Recovery anyway. Also another podcast for if you want

856
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to laugh about getting older. Our friends Jen and Ari

857
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have three Gray pubes.

858
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Speaker 1: I love that title.

859
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Speaker 3: Yes, so it's super funny title and it's just about

860
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you know, funny stream of consciousness chat show.

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Speaker 1: Love it.

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family recipes into a printed cookbook. Go to Spoonful full

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of Memories dot life. We've got our friend Kayleie Pettis.

865
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She's a marriage and family therapist. She's in Seattle, so

866
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anywhere in Washington she can help you virtually, and Seattle

867
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she's in person. Go to Emerald Bloomtherapy dot com. Also,

868
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we already talked about Adam.

869
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Speaker 1: Adam Larner's got a car yep.

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there to the northern California, why not use Christine Black

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Waves and Wonder Travel. It's not just like cruises, you know.

878
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She has a lot of stuff, so Waves and Wonder Travel.

879
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She's on our Facebook page. Jacob Crowley, love you Jacob,

880
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He's not Crowley and he's wanting to tell you about

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the ac LU.

882
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Speaker 1: Also Trevor Project. You guys, right, if you want to

883
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help out your LGBTQ.

884
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out or check out their instagram Sugar Skull eight oh eight.

887
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And I'll do a couple more on Friday's episode.

888
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Speaker 1: All right, all right, well we love you guys. Yeah,

889
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:32,440
you're a parent now, don't f it up.

890
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Speaker 2: It's good

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Speaker 1: That angel,