WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.560 --> 00:00:05.799 Welcome to The Attuned Guidance Show with Brenda Lee Mattosh, 2 00:00:06.080 --> 00:00:09.519 where you step into the power of creating your reality 3 00:00:09.519 --> 00:00:13.640 and become the main character of your life's script. This 4 00:00:13.919 --> 00:00:17.800 is your invitation to break free from outdated identities and 5 00:00:17.960 --> 00:00:22.239 reconnect with the truth of who you are. Here we 6 00:00:22.399 --> 00:00:27.679 explore the quantum field of infinite potential, alive, responsive and 7 00:00:28.039 --> 00:00:31.960 always communicating with you, guiding you to create a life 8 00:00:32.079 --> 00:00:36.840 aligned with your soul. Each episode, we awaken your inner wisdom, 9 00:00:37.280 --> 00:00:41.600 expand your awareness, and remind you that you are not 10 00:00:41.759 --> 00:00:45.640 just living your life, you are creating it. If you're 11 00:00:45.679 --> 00:00:49.840 ready to trust your intuition, embody your authentic expression, and 12 00:00:49.960 --> 00:00:53.359 bring your highest vision to life, You're in the right place. 13 00:00:53.880 --> 00:00:59.200 Let's awaken, create, and rise together. The Attuned Guidance Show 14 00:00:59.520 --> 00:01:07.079 starts now. Hey, everybody, welcome. I'm doctor Patt and I 15 00:01:07.079 --> 00:01:11.280 get to take this amazing bride of life with Brenda Lee. 16 00:01:11.319 --> 00:01:16.079 This is a very, very, very important episode. It is 17 00:01:16.159 --> 00:01:19.280 one of the things that I believe most people are 18 00:01:19.359 --> 00:01:24.359 aware of that it exists, and very few people are 19 00:01:24.400 --> 00:01:29.079 aware that it matters and that what it can do 20 00:01:29.400 --> 00:01:32.920 to attract your life the life you want. Hello, and 21 00:01:32.920 --> 00:01:35.640 maybe the life you don't want. Today's episode is your 22 00:01:35.719 --> 00:01:40.079 vibration matters. How your vibration attracts your life. This is 23 00:01:40.120 --> 00:01:42.239 what we're going to talk about today. It is more 24 00:01:42.319 --> 00:01:45.599 than just a transformative journey. You know, I look at 25 00:01:45.599 --> 00:01:49.079 this as almost like a magnet. I remember as a 26 00:01:49.159 --> 00:01:51.439 kid when I was first introduced to a magnet. I 27 00:01:51.480 --> 00:01:54.359 mean you remember being a kid, Brenda Lee, and you 28 00:01:54.359 --> 00:01:57.840 know you're introduced something and you thinking, what how is 29 00:01:57.920 --> 00:02:01.920 that thing sticking to this thing? And so part of 30 00:02:02.079 --> 00:02:07.760 life shows us things that stick. But we don't get 31 00:02:07.799 --> 00:02:12.759 the explanation of the principles of vibration. We know it, 32 00:02:13.560 --> 00:02:17.439 we understand it, we feel it. How many of you 33 00:02:17.759 --> 00:02:21.439 have little massage machines that you lay on because your 34 00:02:21.560 --> 00:02:24.719 back hurts? Why do you do that? What is it 35 00:02:24.800 --> 00:02:25.360 about that? 36 00:02:26.159 --> 00:02:26.360 Or? 37 00:02:26.520 --> 00:02:29.280 Better yet, what kind of music do you listen to? 38 00:02:29.919 --> 00:02:33.439 How do you feel after you listen to Sinead O'Connor's 39 00:02:33.560 --> 00:02:38.159 Nothing Compares to you? Try not crying with that video, 40 00:02:38.639 --> 00:02:42.719 Brenda Lee. Let's take this thing on. Vibration matters, doesn't it? 41 00:02:42.759 --> 00:02:44.919 But do you agree with me? I think people understand 42 00:02:44.919 --> 00:02:47.599 what vibration is, but they have no idea how it works. 43 00:02:47.960 --> 00:02:52.080 Yeah, Yeah, you're right, doctor Pat. It's because it's we're 44 00:02:52.080 --> 00:02:54.919 on autopilot, right. And I love the way you just 45 00:02:54.960 --> 00:02:58.159 brought up that analogy of the magnet and what sticks, 46 00:02:58.719 --> 00:03:02.759 because we're supposed to experience life through the vibrational field, 47 00:03:02.759 --> 00:03:07.439 the quantum field, but sometimes things stick too long. We 48 00:03:07.560 --> 00:03:11.280 hold on to things too long, and when it sticks 49 00:03:11.319 --> 00:03:14.960 too long, we're missing out on the evolutionary process of 50 00:03:15.000 --> 00:03:19.199 our souls wisdom that's guiding us to the next phase, right, 51 00:03:19.479 --> 00:03:22.879 the next opportunity, the next person. And so I love 52 00:03:22.960 --> 00:03:25.879 that you just came up with that. I always love 53 00:03:25.960 --> 00:03:28.719 that there's always like a good synergy with us. And 54 00:03:29.039 --> 00:03:30.560 I just got to give you a title and then 55 00:03:30.599 --> 00:03:31.360 it just flows. 56 00:03:31.439 --> 00:03:31.639 Right. 57 00:03:32.039 --> 00:03:36.439 This is vibration in motion right here on this show. 58 00:03:36.560 --> 00:03:40.560 Even with your opening, right, it's just letting us know that, 59 00:03:41.280 --> 00:03:46.120 you know, we are the magnet. I don't chase anything anymore. 60 00:03:46.240 --> 00:03:50.000 I attract everything. And when I say I attract everything, 61 00:03:50.039 --> 00:03:52.719 it's good, bad, and ugly. It has to be everything. 62 00:03:53.240 --> 00:03:57.319 I'm with you, yeah, because I can't tell the universe 63 00:03:57.479 --> 00:03:59.840 show me who I am, help me get through that 64 00:04:00.000 --> 00:04:03.280 illlutionary process, and then be controlling on how it's coming 65 00:04:03.280 --> 00:04:05.199 in and who it's being delivered through. 66 00:04:05.479 --> 00:04:08.800 Right, Yeah, you know, it's so interesting we're talking about this. 67 00:04:08.840 --> 00:04:10.719 I want to talk up to this about this in 68 00:04:10.800 --> 00:04:13.120 terms of who we are and the things that are 69 00:04:13.199 --> 00:04:15.879 unseen to us. And this is where you're going to 70 00:04:15.960 --> 00:04:18.560 jump in here and talk about the frequency of our thoughts, 71 00:04:18.800 --> 00:04:22.639 because we don't actually think our thoughts are vibrational. All right. 72 00:04:22.800 --> 00:04:26.480 So I started a post on X you know, Twitter X, 73 00:04:28.480 --> 00:04:32.399 but I post differently. You know, I do comment on 74 00:04:32.480 --> 00:04:35.480 other things I see, but I have this tendency to 75 00:04:35.560 --> 00:04:40.399 create a graphic and ask questions, right, So I started 76 00:04:40.399 --> 00:04:43.519 to do that a lot. And I'm a researcher. So 77 00:04:43.600 --> 00:04:46.279 I'll create an image or a graphic and it'll have 78 00:04:46.399 --> 00:04:49.879 some information, but it looks kind of cool. And sometimes 79 00:04:49.879 --> 00:04:53.360 I get a little edgy with my post, especially when 80 00:04:53.360 --> 00:04:57.000 I'm talking about my research and integrity and different things 81 00:04:57.079 --> 00:04:58.519 that I care about. And I have to tell you, 82 00:04:58.639 --> 00:05:01.439 I have been an advocate and an athlete myself still 83 00:05:01.519 --> 00:05:04.639 am of women's sports, so there are some things that 84 00:05:04.759 --> 00:05:08.199 hit me harder than others. People ask me why don't 85 00:05:08.199 --> 00:05:12.600 I comment on politics. My answer always is that's my 86 00:05:12.680 --> 00:05:17.399 next lifetime. But let's talk about these frequencies, how they 87 00:05:17.639 --> 00:05:22.360 enter through this invisible space we call our thoughts, and 88 00:05:23.319 --> 00:05:26.199 do they mean something important to vibration? 89 00:05:28.439 --> 00:05:32.399 So if I could just give you, you know, when you're 90 00:05:32.439 --> 00:05:35.959 standing at the ocean and you're watching the waves crash 91 00:05:36.079 --> 00:05:41.120 onto the shore, there's something magical, even when they're big 92 00:05:41.160 --> 00:05:43.560 waves or little waves, or you have, you know, a 93 00:05:43.600 --> 00:05:48.439 glass smooth surface on the ocean. You don't question how 94 00:05:48.480 --> 00:05:52.160 the water's moving or how it got there. That's energy 95 00:05:52.199 --> 00:05:56.319 and motion, authentically just moving through the cosmos. And so 96 00:05:56.600 --> 00:06:01.759 as humans, we're that same energy as the water. But 97 00:06:01.920 --> 00:06:07.959 we're conditioned when we're very young to do things this way, 98 00:06:08.160 --> 00:06:10.279 this way, and this way the way my grandparents did it, 99 00:06:10.279 --> 00:06:12.560 the way my parents did at the teacher, and so 100 00:06:12.680 --> 00:06:20.560 we're just completely overloaded with this program that creates our mind. 101 00:06:21.720 --> 00:06:26.120 And that's okay. That's part of the evolutionary experience is 102 00:06:26.160 --> 00:06:29.360 to go through life. We come into the body not 103 00:06:29.519 --> 00:06:32.399 remembering who we are, why we're on this darn earth, 104 00:06:33.079 --> 00:06:35.680 and then we have to experience all that is and 105 00:06:35.759 --> 00:06:37.879 ever will be, and then we come to a place 106 00:06:38.000 --> 00:06:40.439 and a time in our evolutionary process. Some people call 107 00:06:40.480 --> 00:06:44.879 it new chapter, new cycle. All the same thing where 108 00:06:44.920 --> 00:06:49.680 we have to start being accountable for what we're thinking, 109 00:06:51.319 --> 00:06:56.439 what we're saying to ourselves and others, what the emotions 110 00:06:56.680 --> 00:07:01.079 really mean that we're holding in our body, because the 111 00:07:01.120 --> 00:07:06.040 body's attracting the bodies the magnet. Right, It's almost like 112 00:07:06.120 --> 00:07:10.480 the mind is the architect, you know, the architect that's 113 00:07:10.560 --> 00:07:13.079 drawing it in the body. Whatever the mind tells it, 114 00:07:13.120 --> 00:07:17.199 the body brings it in. And so you get to 115 00:07:17.279 --> 00:07:20.480 a point where you want to know and understand how 116 00:07:20.480 --> 00:07:24.040 the world works. That's me And once you figure it out, 117 00:07:24.279 --> 00:07:29.360 it's magical because you can't deny that you have a big, 118 00:07:29.439 --> 00:07:32.680 important part of your life and you're not just here 119 00:07:32.720 --> 00:07:35.680 to exist and be the way you've been and blame 120 00:07:35.759 --> 00:07:39.199 it on everybody from your past. Right that you can 121 00:07:39.319 --> 00:07:43.680 actually look at yourself and go, I am a powerful 122 00:07:43.800 --> 00:07:46.959 being and I was created from the same creator that 123 00:07:47.040 --> 00:07:49.360 created everything. And if I look around and see all 124 00:07:49.360 --> 00:07:51.680 the good in the world, I'm a part of that too. 125 00:07:52.279 --> 00:07:55.800 So if this is politics and this is sports, and 126 00:07:55.879 --> 00:07:59.920 these things aren't my passion, they're playing out in the field, 127 00:08:00.079 --> 00:08:03.160 I'm fine with it. I don't need to get involved 128 00:08:03.160 --> 00:08:06.920 in that. I now am aware of the entire world 129 00:08:07.040 --> 00:08:09.120 is a big show, and I'm going to create what 130 00:08:09.199 --> 00:08:11.519 I want my play and movie to look like. And 131 00:08:11.600 --> 00:08:14.360 I'm the author and the writer and the main character. 132 00:08:16.000 --> 00:08:20.240 Yeah, twenty three years ago, we were surrounded with a 133 00:08:20.279 --> 00:08:23.639 new kind of talk talk radio. Back then it was 134 00:08:23.720 --> 00:08:27.120 called I still call it talk radio, right, but it 135 00:08:27.160 --> 00:08:31.959 was a different kind of energy. It was angry talk. 136 00:08:32.600 --> 00:08:35.440 You couldn't do a show except for maybe Oprah, but 137 00:08:35.519 --> 00:08:38.159 even over back in the day, really had to do 138 00:08:38.200 --> 00:08:41.600 some edgy things. But you weren't going to get syndicated. 139 00:08:41.759 --> 00:08:43.559 You weren't going to be on any of the radio 140 00:08:43.639 --> 00:08:46.039 networks unless you do what I did. And I paid 141 00:08:46.039 --> 00:08:49.440 for every dime of air time I ever had. But 142 00:08:49.559 --> 00:08:53.000 it was different, and you know, I had the opportunity, 143 00:08:53.080 --> 00:08:57.320 through a long phone number to actually say yes. And 144 00:08:57.360 --> 00:09:01.360 once I said yes, I just started to talk about 145 00:09:01.360 --> 00:09:04.519 the things that were passionate. And the funny thing about 146 00:09:04.559 --> 00:09:08.840 it is, this crust busting thing I created, even though 147 00:09:08.840 --> 00:09:11.720 it sounds a little negative, was the funnest thing I 148 00:09:11.799 --> 00:09:16.440 ever done. And so I didn't know that I was 149 00:09:16.600 --> 00:09:19.399 entering around myself and five other women at the time 150 00:09:20.240 --> 00:09:24.679 that didn't exist yet. But it's to your point. It 151 00:09:24.759 --> 00:09:29.200 wasn't a marketing plan, it wasn't somebody giving me a blueprint. 152 00:09:30.080 --> 00:09:33.840 It was an energy and a passion that I have 153 00:09:33.960 --> 00:09:37.840 for optimism. See there's a reason they call me Pollyanna Patty. 154 00:09:38.639 --> 00:09:42.759 Yeah right, But what we don't know, and this is 155 00:09:42.799 --> 00:09:47.240 my question for you that you know, I guess, the 156 00:09:47.320 --> 00:09:50.279 question is what if these vibrations, what if the energy 157 00:09:50.320 --> 00:09:55.480 whatever they are, emit and shape the reality for us 158 00:09:55.519 --> 00:09:57.799 in ways? One like I said, we're not aware of 159 00:09:57.919 --> 00:10:01.799 we can't imagine, but what if we could harness this 160 00:10:02.000 --> 00:10:05.240 energy to shape it? Just because I decided to talk 161 00:10:05.360 --> 00:10:09.240 positive talk doesn't mean I was fully aware to maybe 162 00:10:09.240 --> 00:10:12.480 two decades later, of what you're talking about. 163 00:10:13.480 --> 00:10:18.600 Yeah. So look, first of all, anybody that has negative 164 00:10:18.759 --> 00:10:23.799 talk and criticism and is living in fear, it's okay. 165 00:10:24.960 --> 00:10:31.440 There's nothing wrong with that. There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. 166 00:10:31.440 --> 00:10:35.440 It's when you decide that you want to experience something 167 00:10:35.480 --> 00:10:39.559 different is where your power comes in. And so everybody's 168 00:10:39.600 --> 00:10:43.799 getting everything they want all the time, they just are 169 00:10:43.879 --> 00:10:48.399 blaming something on the outer for providing it. And it's 170 00:10:48.519 --> 00:10:52.960 not anything out there. It's within you, and what's within 171 00:10:53.039 --> 00:10:57.279 you surrounds you. So the universe is neutral and whatever 172 00:10:57.480 --> 00:11:02.799 you put out your little can, your little signal, your vibration, 173 00:11:03.039 --> 00:11:06.519 your words, your thoughts, whether negative or positive, the universe 174 00:11:06.600 --> 00:11:09.679 just shows up for you. It rearranges everything in your 175 00:11:09.679 --> 00:11:12.519 favor because it loves you, because you are the creator 176 00:11:13.039 --> 00:11:15.720 of your reality, and the universe would never go against 177 00:11:15.799 --> 00:11:19.399 the creator of their reality because you have that much power. 178 00:11:20.080 --> 00:11:23.440 So you know, this show is about teaching people that 179 00:11:23.519 --> 00:11:28.759 you're not wrong and I'm not right, and that positive 180 00:11:28.799 --> 00:11:31.919 frequencies isn't the only way to live. We're living in 181 00:11:31.960 --> 00:11:35.240 a world where there's a lot of things happening, but 182 00:11:35.480 --> 00:11:41.360 where how much are you attaching your magnet to letting 183 00:11:41.440 --> 00:11:45.840 that information stick to you? Because if you do, you 184 00:11:45.919 --> 00:11:50.720 continually are feeding in the outer in then you're messing 185 00:11:50.840 --> 00:11:53.720 up your vibration to attract the things you want. Right, 186 00:11:54.279 --> 00:11:57.200 and so you've got to keep everything clear here and 187 00:11:57.279 --> 00:12:00.840 just observe everything out there. Don't touch it, but be 188 00:12:00.960 --> 00:12:04.159 aware of it, and don't criticize it, and don't criticize 189 00:12:04.200 --> 00:12:08.240 others that are stuck in their mold because they get 190 00:12:08.279 --> 00:12:11.480 to choose at any moment how they want to live 191 00:12:11.559 --> 00:12:14.600 their life. We need to remove guilt and shame from 192 00:12:14.600 --> 00:12:21.080 this planet. Everything, everything just is right. And so when 193 00:12:21.080 --> 00:12:24.080 you were talking about in the past and you were 194 00:12:24.080 --> 00:12:28.480 talking about the old shows, what if those shows where 195 00:12:28.559 --> 00:12:34.440 everything was amplified in the audience for that host. What 196 00:12:34.480 --> 00:12:37.120 if that's the only time that people could get out 197 00:12:37.159 --> 00:12:39.440 of the house and use their throat chakra and it 198 00:12:39.559 --> 00:12:42.600 just came out in anger because they vibrate in fear exactly. 199 00:12:43.039 --> 00:12:45.320 And so those shows at that time, in that era 200 00:12:45.440 --> 00:12:49.399 were perfect for people to use their voice. Now we're 201 00:12:49.440 --> 00:12:52.000 just learning that we don't have to use our voice 202 00:12:52.000 --> 00:12:53.320 and anger and fear. 203 00:12:54.960 --> 00:12:56.399 Right, Yeah, yeah. 204 00:12:56.200 --> 00:12:58.679 That's what I'm that's what I'm here to guide. 205 00:12:59.240 --> 00:13:01.600 Well, let's take it to the next level, because I 206 00:13:01.639 --> 00:13:04.600 think this is where the confusion is for people. You know, 207 00:13:04.679 --> 00:13:08.480 this may be a new idea for people, or maybe 208 00:13:08.559 --> 00:13:12.559 a new idea they're discovering about themselves. Right, this may 209 00:13:12.600 --> 00:13:15.360 be an idea, But here's the thing that I don't 210 00:13:15.360 --> 00:13:17.080 want to give. I don't want to give my audience 211 00:13:17.080 --> 00:13:19.879 a false impression of who I am or my personality. 212 00:13:20.840 --> 00:13:24.639 You know, starting a network on human potential doesn't mean 213 00:13:25.360 --> 00:13:28.879 the sun is going to shine every day. Our hosts 214 00:13:28.960 --> 00:13:32.320 talk about a ray of things. When it comes to 215 00:13:32.399 --> 00:13:35.440 certain things I'm passionate about and I'm an advocate about. 216 00:13:36.480 --> 00:13:39.120 There's a different side of me that will show up 217 00:13:39.240 --> 00:13:41.799 if you ever catch any of my Unstuckable shows where 218 00:13:41.799 --> 00:13:47.559 we're taking on conversations, for example, about abuse right going 219 00:13:47.679 --> 00:13:51.399 up in an alcoholic family, sexual abuse. That's a different 220 00:13:51.519 --> 00:13:54.039 energy for me, and I know I'm putting that energy 221 00:13:54.080 --> 00:13:57.159 out and so I'd love for you to walk people 222 00:13:57.279 --> 00:14:02.519 through this idea of energy. Now. I will also tell you, 223 00:14:02.720 --> 00:14:05.000 if you know anything about me, which I think you do, 224 00:14:06.000 --> 00:14:09.759 there are times that I have climbed up the back 225 00:14:09.799 --> 00:14:13.000 of a softball backstop because I didn't agree with the 226 00:14:13.000 --> 00:14:16.320 call that the referee made. Of course, I was like 227 00:14:16.360 --> 00:14:21.080 a lot younger than But to your point, it's not good. 228 00:14:21.399 --> 00:14:22.080 It's not bad. 229 00:14:23.759 --> 00:14:31.279 Look when we're living when we dismantled this monkey mind program, Okay, 230 00:14:32.559 --> 00:14:36.519 when it starts to fall away and it no longer 231 00:14:36.600 --> 00:14:42.519 defines you and your intention is good. I want to 232 00:14:42.600 --> 00:14:44.799 learn about myself and I want to do this show 233 00:14:44.840 --> 00:14:47.480 about abuse, and I want to speak the truth and 234 00:14:47.559 --> 00:14:49.679 bring it out to the forefront. But I'm not going 235 00:14:49.759 --> 00:14:52.360 to bring that story home with me and have dinner 236 00:14:52.399 --> 00:14:57.320 with it. Right, And when you're passionate about a sport 237 00:14:57.360 --> 00:15:02.080 you're playing. You have to rememb that if everything just 238 00:15:02.480 --> 00:15:04.639 is all the time, with no right or wrong, guilt 239 00:15:04.720 --> 00:15:08.039 or shame, then you should never feel bad about anything 240 00:15:08.080 --> 00:15:12.320 you do because in that moment, there's energy moving through 241 00:15:12.360 --> 00:15:16.480 you to teach you something about yourself. Now, if you're 242 00:15:16.519 --> 00:15:18.879 projecting it and jumping on the back of somebody else, 243 00:15:18.919 --> 00:15:21.840 they might not like that. But in that moment, there's 244 00:15:21.879 --> 00:15:25.559 a mirror. The two of you have a vibrational perfect match. 245 00:15:25.679 --> 00:15:28.799 That's divine in that moment for the two of you 246 00:15:28.879 --> 00:15:30.679 to see how you're going to handle your side of 247 00:15:30.720 --> 00:15:34.519 the mirror. And so you know, there's nothing wrong with 248 00:15:34.600 --> 00:15:37.360 being passionate. We don't want to get violent, but that's 249 00:15:37.720 --> 00:15:41.559 you know, don't feel bad about the fire moving through you. 250 00:15:42.080 --> 00:15:46.080 Generally it's our soul trying to say, knock knock, human, 251 00:15:46.840 --> 00:15:49.720 I came here to experience all that isn't ever will be. 252 00:15:49.840 --> 00:15:52.039 Why are you restricting me? Why are you making me 253 00:15:52.080 --> 00:15:55.000 feel bad because I spoke up? Why are you making 254 00:15:55.039 --> 00:15:57.919 me feel be bad because I asked for a boundary? 255 00:15:58.200 --> 00:16:01.080 Don't I don't want to feel bad about it? So 256 00:16:01.759 --> 00:16:06.840 you know, you can only vibrate with a perfect match 257 00:16:07.279 --> 00:16:10.080 on a frequency of another human being equal or less 258 00:16:10.120 --> 00:16:13.960 to you. Yeah, that's just how energy's working, right, You're 259 00:16:14.000 --> 00:16:17.799 a magnet. So I don't regret anything I've ever done, 260 00:16:17.799 --> 00:16:20.080 and I'm not mad at one single person I've ever 261 00:16:20.120 --> 00:16:22.519 come in contact with, because now I can look back 262 00:16:23.159 --> 00:16:26.879 with a higher view and go the entire time they 263 00:16:26.879 --> 00:16:30.200 were matching something in me for me to see myself 264 00:16:31.159 --> 00:16:34.279 after pat, all we're ever doing is looking at ourselves 265 00:16:34.320 --> 00:16:34.720 and others. 266 00:16:34.759 --> 00:16:35.480 There's no question. 267 00:16:35.840 --> 00:16:39.240 There's no question, and that's really hard for people to live. 268 00:16:39.679 --> 00:16:44.159 But if you practice it, you'll get there. I promise you, 269 00:16:44.240 --> 00:16:46.440 And I'm not saying doing it twenty four hours a day. 270 00:16:46.759 --> 00:16:50.000 But if you see yourself in every single person that 271 00:16:50.039 --> 00:16:52.720 you come in contact with, and you see your mirror, 272 00:16:53.200 --> 00:16:57.200 they're literally on your side. Every other human is on 273 00:16:57.279 --> 00:16:59.279 your side, and the universe is supporting it with a 274 00:16:59.320 --> 00:17:02.559 frequency and energy that you're admitting out. And when your 275 00:17:02.720 --> 00:17:06.400 soul is set, I've had enough of this. You're gonna 276 00:17:06.440 --> 00:17:10.799 get triggered, You're gonna get irritated, anger, or something's gonna 277 00:17:10.839 --> 00:17:12.440 come up in your body. You're going to feel it, 278 00:17:12.880 --> 00:17:14.680 and what are you going to do with it? 279 00:17:15.480 --> 00:17:17.240 Yeah? I mean, let's break this down. 280 00:17:17.319 --> 00:17:18.160 The magic is. 281 00:17:18.400 --> 00:17:20.759 Let's break this down because you have you have some 282 00:17:20.920 --> 00:17:22.920 ideas for people and how to help them with this. 283 00:17:23.319 --> 00:17:26.640 You know, I reacted to something that happened, oh over 284 00:17:26.680 --> 00:17:30.400 the past three weeks because number one, I work with 285 00:17:30.559 --> 00:17:34.079 people that are in recovery and addiction. Let's just say 286 00:17:34.079 --> 00:17:39.720 that all kinds like okay, drug, the latest now is gambling, right, 287 00:17:39.960 --> 00:17:42.720 I got. I'm working with a couple of people in recovery. 288 00:17:42.759 --> 00:17:44.680 I can't talk about it, but I'm just gonna say 289 00:17:44.680 --> 00:17:44.960 I do. 290 00:17:45.839 --> 00:17:45.920 So. 291 00:17:46.000 --> 00:17:49.839 An incident came up in a sport I really appreciate, 292 00:17:50.720 --> 00:17:53.680 and I get my client coming to me and say, 293 00:17:55.119 --> 00:17:59.200 why are we doing all this work? I just watched 294 00:17:59.200 --> 00:18:04.960 this sport who caught two players gam making a bet 295 00:18:05.079 --> 00:18:09.799 on their teams in video and have no consequences. And yet, Pat, 296 00:18:09.880 --> 00:18:12.640 you talk to me about that, And here was my answer. 297 00:18:12.720 --> 00:18:16.200 I said, Well, here's the simple answer. You're not them, 298 00:18:16.519 --> 00:18:19.240 You're you. I'm here to help you. 299 00:18:21.160 --> 00:18:24.440 The only other than she saw it is because it's 300 00:18:24.480 --> 00:18:25.000 in her. 301 00:18:25.680 --> 00:18:26.400 It's in her. 302 00:18:26.720 --> 00:18:32.480 She's exactly looking at the television watching players. She's not 303 00:18:33.000 --> 00:18:38.279 this has been projected out of her onto the screen 304 00:18:38.359 --> 00:18:44.480 that she calls her life because she's resisting changing it 305 00:18:44.599 --> 00:18:48.160 in herself. So they'll peer out here, and what she's 306 00:18:48.200 --> 00:18:51.880 doing is projecting. Why are they doing this? No? Why 307 00:18:52.000 --> 00:18:56.839 am I doing this? This is the magic of the universe. 308 00:18:57.160 --> 00:18:59.279 The universe is all that isn't ever will be, which 309 00:18:59.319 --> 00:19:05.200 is TV, screen movies, ads, commercials, strangers. Right, a van 310 00:19:05.559 --> 00:19:08.079 driving by with a sign on the side that makes 311 00:19:08.119 --> 00:19:12.799 you go, what anything that is irritating you means it's 312 00:19:13.000 --> 00:19:15.880 stuck in you wanting to come to the surface to 313 00:19:15.960 --> 00:19:20.599 be witnessed and get the teaching right. And so yeah, 314 00:19:20.640 --> 00:19:24.480 this is I believe that people's conscious awareness of this 315 00:19:24.720 --> 00:19:29.519 is expanding. These talks can plant the seeds and help 316 00:19:29.559 --> 00:19:32.319 people that are a little further along than growing the 317 00:19:32.359 --> 00:19:35.960 seed that are actually implementing some of this stuff into 318 00:19:36.000 --> 00:19:38.519 their life. But if you're just got the blinders on 319 00:19:38.599 --> 00:19:41.359 and you're looking out all day, you're gonna miss the 320 00:19:41.440 --> 00:19:44.119 magic of what your soul's trying to teach you for yourself. 321 00:19:44.160 --> 00:19:47.839 Because we can't control anything out there, people, stop trying 322 00:19:47.880 --> 00:19:51.000 to control anything out in the world. Just stop it. 323 00:19:51.079 --> 00:19:53.559 Your life will be so much easier. Speaking from a 324 00:19:53.640 --> 00:19:56.839 previous control freak, right, just stop it all I promise 325 00:19:56.880 --> 00:19:59.079 you your shoulders will drop. Life will be amazing and 326 00:19:59.119 --> 00:20:00.880 you won't care. You'll just observe it. 327 00:20:00.920 --> 00:20:04.200 From Afar, I got a lesson in gratitude. Let's talk 328 00:20:04.200 --> 00:20:06.519 about gratitude for a minute and how that can elevate 329 00:20:06.559 --> 00:20:09.319 our frequency. We have a four h fair going on 330 00:20:09.359 --> 00:20:12.680 here in New Jersey and a four h fair. Okay, 331 00:20:13.119 --> 00:20:15.960 a lot of the kids, I'm serious about it. They 332 00:20:15.960 --> 00:20:18.920 put a full year of raising a pig or doing 333 00:20:18.960 --> 00:20:22.680 whatever they're doing to show up at the fourage Fear. Hello. 334 00:20:23.400 --> 00:20:28.599 The day of the fourage Fear started thunderstorms, rain, thunderstorms, rain, 335 00:20:29.000 --> 00:20:32.680 thunderstorms rain, And so Linda loves the fourage Fears, and 336 00:20:32.960 --> 00:20:35.559 so we were hearing some chit chat about it, like 337 00:20:35.640 --> 00:20:41.200 sidebar right people, neighbors or whatever, And my friend says, 338 00:20:42.440 --> 00:20:45.119 we need to go support these kids. So she doesn't 339 00:20:45.119 --> 00:20:47.599 care about the rain, the thunderstorms. Wear your boots, you're 340 00:20:47.640 --> 00:20:51.359 gonna get mud on your Who cares? These kids put 341 00:20:51.400 --> 00:20:55.640 a lot of time and energy in this. And I said, 342 00:20:55.720 --> 00:20:57.839 you know, we got a window after my show at 343 00:20:57.839 --> 00:21:00.440 Brenda today. We just gonna put on a little rubber 344 00:21:00.480 --> 00:21:03.000 shoes and we can hop over there and do that. 345 00:21:04.000 --> 00:21:09.440 You see, that's an aspect of a situation that change 346 00:21:09.480 --> 00:21:13.640 the frequency of a conversation. 347 00:21:14.319 --> 00:21:17.160 Right, it's not a hurricane, it's not a tornado. At 348 00:21:17.359 --> 00:21:20.319 rate of storm, right, we make the our mind can 349 00:21:20.400 --> 00:21:22.880 make us think it's so much bigger than it is. 350 00:21:23.599 --> 00:21:26.920 But that's good for you to see. Hey, let just 351 00:21:27.039 --> 00:21:29.240 give the gratitude to the kids for showing up and 352 00:21:29.279 --> 00:21:31.640 grab an umbrella and grab a raincoat. That's why they 353 00:21:31.640 --> 00:21:34.559 make umbrellas and raincoats and boots to use them. Hello, 354 00:21:35.319 --> 00:21:41.039 and so be in the moment because you watching those kids, 355 00:21:42.160 --> 00:21:44.480 seeing that people are showing up, You're going to see 356 00:21:44.480 --> 00:21:47.240 the spark in them. Right, that's an energy exchange to 357 00:21:47.279 --> 00:21:50.119 go in full support no matter what happens, you know. 358 00:21:50.960 --> 00:21:52.920 And yeah, that's what we're coming home to is to 359 00:21:52.960 --> 00:21:57.720 support each other even in our storms, our internal storms. Right, 360 00:21:57.799 --> 00:21:59.279 we have an internal storm. 361 00:22:00.079 --> 00:22:02.200 Talk about how we can align our energy, because I 362 00:22:02.200 --> 00:22:04.559 think this is where we started a little bit with 363 00:22:04.720 --> 00:22:08.440 from and aligning that energy. Because that magnet experience when 364 00:22:08.480 --> 00:22:10.599 I was a young kid, I mean, I was all 365 00:22:10.759 --> 00:22:15.880 full blown fascination. You know, I have a little tendency. 366 00:22:15.960 --> 00:22:18.759 So my mom used to explain it, like, honey, we 367 00:22:18.799 --> 00:22:21.079 couldn't get the magnets away from you. You sat there 368 00:22:21.079 --> 00:22:23.640 for four hours, putting them together, pulling them apart, putting 369 00:22:23.680 --> 00:22:27.359 them together, pulling them apart. She's right, because that was 370 00:22:27.359 --> 00:22:30.279 a fascination to me. You know, I was trying to 371 00:22:30.319 --> 00:22:32.759 see are they always going to go back together? It 372 00:22:32.799 --> 00:22:35.559 was just an interesting thing about me as a kid. 373 00:22:36.119 --> 00:22:40.759 But my mom didn't say, honey, you're stupid. Why do 374 00:22:40.839 --> 00:22:44.319 you keep doing that? She didn't do that. So this 375 00:22:44.559 --> 00:22:49.319 was mindfulness on her part to align energy without even 376 00:22:49.359 --> 00:22:51.880 having the conversation you and I are having. You see 377 00:22:51.880 --> 00:22:52.359 what I mean? 378 00:22:53.000 --> 00:22:56.039 Yeah, I mean, look, it's an evolutionary process. The first 379 00:22:56.039 --> 00:23:00.680 thing we have to start to ask is is what 380 00:23:00.920 --> 00:23:04.039 doctor pat and Brenda talking about real? Do I believe 381 00:23:04.160 --> 00:23:07.799 that there's a cause and effect in the quantum field 382 00:23:07.799 --> 00:23:10.079 of the universe? Do I believe the universe is made 383 00:23:10.160 --> 00:23:13.400 up of energy and motion and that I'm a part 384 00:23:13.480 --> 00:23:18.039 of that greater energy and motion that I exist, My 385 00:23:18.200 --> 00:23:20.640 puzzle piece is important and I'm a part of it, 386 00:23:20.680 --> 00:23:23.160 and I get to choose, you know, what I want. 387 00:23:23.720 --> 00:23:26.119 And you have to work on that belief system. And 388 00:23:26.160 --> 00:23:28.039 if it comes up that you don't believe in that, 389 00:23:28.079 --> 00:23:30.799 why don't you believe it? Do you need to research 390 00:23:30.839 --> 00:23:34.279 it more? Do you need to investigate it? What belief system? 391 00:23:34.559 --> 00:23:38.599 Limiting belief system is holding you back from learning something new, 392 00:23:39.000 --> 00:23:42.839 hearing something for the first time that you know nothing about, 393 00:23:43.440 --> 00:23:46.440 and figuring out how to trust that to take you 394 00:23:46.519 --> 00:23:50.279 on a new path. Right, because people are so stuck 395 00:23:50.640 --> 00:23:54.400 in their ways, right, they're in resistance all day long, 396 00:23:54.519 --> 00:23:58.400 unknowingly on autopilot. Right. And so the first thing is, 397 00:23:58.480 --> 00:24:01.799 you know, watch your words, you know, watch your words, 398 00:24:01.839 --> 00:24:07.240 because your words become your actions, and watch your actions 399 00:24:07.319 --> 00:24:11.599 because that becomes your behavior, right, And your behavior becomes 400 00:24:11.599 --> 00:24:16.880 your habits, and your habits become your character, and your 401 00:24:16.960 --> 00:24:19.119