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Speaker 1: Creativity is an addiction unplugged because we will always say

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yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes.

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So let's turn it into a tool. This is arrow unplugged. Oh,

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we're gonna break out some conversation today, and it's a

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conversation about things that really drive each and every one

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of us totally madly insane. Pet peeves. We all create

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them in other people, and we receive other people's pet peeves.

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They instantly put us in a place of discomfort. Of course,

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I had to look it up. Dictionary dot com describes

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a pet peeve as something that annoys us. A business

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who has poor customer service is a pet peeve. People

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who lick their fingers before touching money, that's a pet

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peeve to those doing something to others that is very irritating.

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Do they know what they're doing or is it invisible

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to them unknowing? Do they not care about what they're

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doing because it's created a pet peeve in the mind,

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body and soul of somebody that they know. How do

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we learn to identify our own pet peeves, the ones

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that we're generating and other people are going God, I

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just oh, I just don't like that person. I just

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this is what they do. Maybe my fake laugh drives

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people insane, so I'm learning how not to do that

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when I'm in public. How about my daily writing. I mean,

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nothing goes on in this house until I'm finished writing

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in the morning. That might be driving my wife totally

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berserk because nothing happens. We're just there identifying what might

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agitate someone else calls for a conversation. Ask the family

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member or a friend about the possibilities of there being

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something about us that triggers them a pet peeve? What

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about me comes to you as that pet peeve? But

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here's the thing, You've got to be prepared for the truth.

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It's almost never what you assume it is. Hey, Sarah,

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this is the Daily Mess, a chronological walk through an

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everyday world. I am a daily writer, the silent wolf.

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I watch, I listen, I study, and then I want

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to have a conversation, just to have a voice so

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that we can all learn and or grow from. This

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is the daily Mess. Well, it's no hidden secret. I

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am a time freak, yet I find just enough time

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to waste time. I feel like a giant mall or

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a shopping center, you know, they need those giant stores

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to bring people in those anchor stores. My Google calendar

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has big events on it every single day, but they're

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not together. They're always a part and the reason why

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is because I like to put little things in between

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the giant events. Some of that includes binge watching, making

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time to binge watch with my wife, which some people

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see as a total waste of time about hobbies although

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they seem very important to one person. What do the

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outsiders think of the amazing amount of time that is

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required to keep a hobby interesting? Guess what I found out.

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Outsiders see hobbies as frivolous, Yet those engaged in the

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hobby experience a positive impact on their work productivity. See

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there's a positive and there's a negative here. But how

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do we get them to come together in a place

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of peace and compassion? Who is being affected? How are

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they being affected? And what can we do to help

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create a solution. In some cases, people are locked so

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deeply into their hobby that they lock themselves away from

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family and friends. And I think I do that with

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my writing. I think I do that with my podcasting.

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I step into my own area and I don't put

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anything else in it. I'm blessed with the opportunity to

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talk to a lot of published authors, and we discuss

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that a lot in the way of when you go

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into your writing space, when do you know when it's

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time to come out? And a lot of creative people say,

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I do all of my writing at night. I get

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my family time in, I get my personal time in,

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and then at night, especially musicians, they go into the

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studio at night when everybody else is resting. Are you

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a time freak? Do you care about how much time

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you are wasting? What is your hobby? What is the

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pet peeve that drives you insane but you don't talk

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about it. I'm Eryl and that's the daily mess.