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Speaker 3: have seen in the news about the guy or person
Speaker 3: or person's that is tormenting a soccer field. It's either
Speaker 3: in Jinks or in Sand Springs. And they show up
Speaker 3: at a park, which they're completely allowed to do, and
Speaker 3: they wear a real scary mask, but not like scary,
Speaker 3: like a devil mask, like a really large, grotesquely large
Speaker 3: mask that seems scary. It would definitely be scary kids.
Speaker 3: And they did it with this one type of mask,
Speaker 3: and then whatever he stood there for a while or
Speaker 3: she or she got a be equal and stood there
Speaker 3: for a while and then left, and then it happened again,
Speaker 3: different mask.
Speaker 6: I don't know if it's a different person.
Speaker 3: And they stood there for a while and then they left,
Speaker 3: and people are bothered by it. Whether they should or shouldn't,
Speaker 3: I don't know. You know, you can't go hey when
Speaker 3: you see something, say something, are they and then not
Speaker 3: say something.
Speaker 7: They're doing this while like the kids are playing soccer there.
Speaker 7: Oh okay, okay, yeah, okay, I mean weird, but whatever.
Speaker 3: I mean. Yeah, I guess. But if you're on your
Speaker 3: way to a little D and D and you just
Speaker 3: happen to be like, I'm gonna check out the soccer game. Yeah, yeah, right,
Speaker 3: it's not that weird. Do we have pictures of this?
Speaker 3: I did in my Facebook Facebook refreshed. Ah, but it's
Speaker 3: the one with like the HORSEHP with the giant antlers horns.
Speaker 6: Nah, moose isn't scary.
Speaker 3: And then there was another one with really odd mask
Speaker 3: that I don't even know what it was. I don't know, Okay,
Speaker 3: I don't know what the I'd never seen the mask before.
Speaker 6: But they people are are bothered by it? Should they?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess, But what do you what do you
Speaker 3: go confront?
Speaker 6: Right? Hey? What are you doing here? That's what they want? Yeah,
Speaker 6: I could. I mean I could see some parents stepping
Speaker 6: up and doing that.
Speaker 7: What are you doing here? Do you have kids here?
Speaker 7: Do you know anybody here? You're just being weird? Yeah,
Speaker 7: come on, you're scaring the kids. Get out of here?
Speaker 3: Yeah right, I don't. I don't have to answer you.
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter if I have kids here. It's a
Speaker 3: public park, right right, I mean I guess it is. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I don't have to have kids, I can be here
Speaker 3: or just answer them like this, No.
Speaker 6: That won't get the cops called on you at all.
Speaker 3: There's nothing that can happen.
Speaker 7: I mean, I guess at most the masked person can
Speaker 7: be trespassed for what being in a public park, I guess.
Speaker 7: I mean, is it a public park or is it
Speaker 7: like a soccer field.
Speaker 6: It's a it's a public park.
Speaker 3: It's a soccer field slash public park my understanding.
Speaker 7: But I mean, if they don't have kids there, if
Speaker 7: they don't know anybody there, they're just random strangers.
Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 7: Maybe maybe not trespassed, but the cops will be like, listen,
Speaker 7: you got to go, man, you're freaking people out.
Speaker 6: Bro.
Speaker 3: Now, I think the cop could say that, but I
Speaker 3: don't think you can be trespassed. Yeah, on a public park,
Speaker 3: maybe you can't. We have cop friends. Maybe maybe you
Speaker 3: can be trespassed anywhere for any reason. But I think
Speaker 3: the way a trespass works is somebody has to go, hey,
Speaker 3: they need to go.
Speaker 7: And I think in this this case it would work
Speaker 7: because it's the parents of the kids at the soccer game,
Speaker 7: or the soccer official whatever be like, hey, you gotta go,
Speaker 7: and then the guy's.
Speaker 6: Not going or goal whatever.
Speaker 3: Yeah, except that usually it's the owner of the establishment
Speaker 3: saying or the owner of the property saying you.
Speaker 6: Need to go.
Speaker 7: Right, I just simply type in can you be trespassed
Speaker 7: on public property? Because that's essentially what we're talking about,
Speaker 7: right the part, Yes you can legally, you can be
Speaker 7: legally trespassed issued a new trispass order for public property
Speaker 7: even though it's owned by the good men. While citizens
Speaker 7: have a right to access public spaces, authorities can restrict
Speaker 7: access if you violate rules, commit crimes, disrupt operations, or
Speaker 7: pose safety risks. And I would say, out of all
Speaker 7: of those, this masked person at least falls under disrupt operations.
Speaker 6: Disrupting the applications of their soccer game.
Speaker 3: Yea, only because you're choosing to let it disrupt.
Speaker 7: Right, Yeah, I get it, Like y'all listen to parents' kids,
Speaker 7: shut up and play the game, let dismash it would
Speaker 7: be a mass weirdo. But if it's causing a distraction, right,
Speaker 7: same reason. Like when I had super long hair and
Speaker 7: I was in high school, right, and I had it
Speaker 7: all braided up first day of school, right, and they're like,
Speaker 7: you need that.
Speaker 6: Braid that hair by b But why it's my hair.
Speaker 6: I'll do whatever the hell I want. It's a distraction.
Speaker 7: You can't do that, all right, whatever, So I had
Speaker 7: to go home take it down and.
Speaker 6: Keep my hair long and not braided.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think if you really wanted to be a stickler,
Speaker 3: you could fight it, right, because it feels like a
Speaker 3: little bit of a Fourth Amendment violation. Yeah, I agree
Speaker 3: with you, because it's interpretation. It's not you know, if
Speaker 3: you know the whole thing of like people walking around
Speaker 3: with ars, nobody's got a problem with that. That's not disrupting, right, Well,
Speaker 3: it violates, it's not, you know, it's a constitution. I
Speaker 3: understand that that's far more disruptive. Right, you show up
Speaker 3: at a park with a long rifle. That feels disruptive, right.
Speaker 3: Also it calls for safety concern, all right, right, but
Speaker 3: it's constitutional, right right. I don't see how that is
Speaker 3: less dangerous than a guy showing up in a horn mask.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Scary for kids, yes, one hundred percent.
Speaker 6: Yeah, parent's concerned, one hundred percent. Sure.
Speaker 3: It just feels like they're both the same.
Speaker 7: Maybe it was dress up day at the soccer field.
Speaker 7: And nobody got the memo except.
Speaker 6: For that person.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it could be. Maybe it's a parent who isn't
Speaker 3: allowed to see their kid in the mask. Right, I
Speaker 3: love that.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Right.
Speaker 3: If they're not allowed to see the kid though, and
Speaker 3: they're in a mask, you've opened yourself up to a
Speaker 3: whole other set of problems as the person who's not
Speaker 3: supposed to be there. Arrested for disturbing the peace? Do
Speaker 3: you get arrested for disturbing the piece? Or you just
Speaker 3: get sighted and told to move along? That's a good question.
Speaker 3: Arrested for disturbing disorderly conduct usually, I've always seen that
Speaker 3: as attack.
Speaker 7: On charge, and arrest for disturbing the piece typically involves
Speaker 7: actions that violate public orders, such as excessive noise, fighting,
Speaker 7: or using obscene language in public.
Speaker 3: Oh hell, who'd you get arrested for disturbing the peace?
Speaker 6: What were you doing? I said, damn it? Right? That
Speaker 6: feels wild. Yet, tell me the police have other things.
Speaker 3: Tell me the police have other things to do, like
Speaker 3: worried about a guy stabbing people at a farmer's market?
Speaker 6: Right, it says here.
Speaker 7: Often treated as a misdemeanor a crime, but in some
Speaker 7: cases can be reduced to a minor infraction. Penalties can
Speaker 7: include fines up to one hundred dollars in Oklahoma or
Speaker 7: four hundred dollars in other areas, probation or jail time.
Speaker 7: So typically, yes, it's like either move along, right or
Speaker 7: here's a ticket. But if you're being one of those people, oh,
Speaker 7: I mean the ones that's confrontational and combative with the
Speaker 7: police because you feel entitled and you're being wronged, and yeah,
Speaker 7: they could probably lock you up for that for.
Speaker 6: Disturbing the peace.
Speaker 3: Now, I could see using disturbing the peace or hooking
Speaker 3: somebody up to try and de escalate because they're not
Speaker 3: coming like all right, you're gonna go, and then they
Speaker 3: hook you up and then you chill out and they're like,
Speaker 3: all right, we're gonna let you go, but you gotta leave.
Speaker 6: I could see that happening. That would be a nice officer.
Speaker 3: Yes, well, well I could see it being used as
Speaker 3: a de escalation measure, but not following through with the yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: but not following through with the complete chart, like we're
Speaker 3: gonna give you a ticket for disturbing the piece all
Speaker 3: those things, but I'm not gonna.
Speaker 6: Take you right right right right.
Speaker 3: It just feels a little ticky tacky.
Speaker 7: But again, if you're being a dick, or if the
Speaker 7: officers having a bad day, you know, as.
Speaker 3: Being a dick is hardly a crime because y'all need
Speaker 3: to get arrested a lot. Yeah, I would agree, So
Speaker 3: it just feels like a weird thing. This also feels
Speaker 3: a little bit like those uh what are those people
Speaker 3: called amendment checkers? First amendment checkers, whethery're like, I'm on
Speaker 3: the popperty, I'm not touching you, I'm not touching you.
Speaker 3: I'm not touching you.
Speaker 6: I'm not touching except.
Speaker 3: They're on like I'm on private I'm on public property.
Speaker 6: All right. You know I can film you if I
Speaker 6: want to.
Speaker 7: You're disturbing the peace. Turn around, put your hands behind
Speaker 7: your back.
Speaker 3: The amount of organization it takes for those people to
Speaker 3: do that is really crazy too, because I've seen watch
Speaker 3: some of those videos where they do that and they're like, hey,
Speaker 3: they're coming over here, like it's a total setup. They're
Speaker 3: baiting people into those moments.
Speaker 6: Yeah, just so they can get clicks. Yes, that's all
Speaker 6: it is.
Speaker 3: And you get an assault charge because you push them. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you can't film my business?
Speaker 6: Eh, Well, who cares. Yeah.
Speaker 7: But the thing about it is is like everybody nowadays
Speaker 7: feels entitled in some sense or the other.
Speaker 6: This is my property, this is my sidewalk, this is
Speaker 6: my neighborhood. Yeah, that's an ego. You have an ego, absolutely,
Speaker 6: one hundred percent. That's all that is. That's all that is.
Speaker 3: So we texted, I hear what you're saying, Corbyn, and
Speaker 3: you're not wrong. However, if my kids was there and
Speaker 3: it was making them uncomfortable as well as other kids,
Speaker 3: I would go ask them to leave. If they don't, Okay,
Speaker 3: they don't have to, but I'm standing by watching.
Speaker 6: Their every move. Why let me let me spoil this
Speaker 6: for you.
Speaker 3: He doesn't stand there in his horned mask and then
Speaker 3: unleash his sabers. I'm just saying that that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 3: Why do we have to go go through this every time?
Speaker 3: The most habitual problem is not the scariest looking person
Speaker 3: in the room. It's the person you trust. It's the
Speaker 3: coach on the field right right.
Speaker 7: Well, that just goes to show that's another person like
Speaker 7: and as they're right, yes, trying to protect your kids,
Speaker 7: but it's like, this is my little piece of land,
Speaker 7: and I'm here.
Speaker 6: To save everybody that entitlement. He says.
Speaker 3: I'm not saying it's right, but the masked person shouldn't
Speaker 3: be surprised if a parent escalates in exchange. If someone
Speaker 3: was disturbing my kid or kids around me, I wouldn't.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't head that direction with it. It's one thing
Speaker 3: if they're just standing there. It's another if they start
Speaker 3: trying to interact with kids. Yeah, you start interacting with kids,
Speaker 3: I'm absolutely getting involved right now, trying to just physically
Speaker 3: or violate them in some sort of boundary, right like
Speaker 3: getting on the standing on the edge of the field.
Speaker 3: I'd be like, you need to back up. I don't
Speaker 3: care what you're doing, but you need to back up.
Speaker 3: Go back to the tree line.
Speaker 6: Be creepy over there, bro.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, catch an assault charge to deal with the guy
Speaker 3: in the mask.
Speaker 6: Would you? No? No, I wouldn't mess with it. What
Speaker 6: are you in for? Guy was wearing a mask and
Speaker 6: I didn't like it. Well, what kind of mask was it?
Speaker 3: It was a giant it was scary.
Speaker 6: Horns and air.
Speaker 3: No no, no, it was at a park. There were
Speaker 3: kids there, So I assaulted them in front of everybody.
Speaker 3: That's less scary.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Kids don't like seeing people get hit hurt.
Speaker 8: No.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a crazy story and to see them do
Speaker 3: it again. It's because it was on the news and
Speaker 3: it was on all the neighborhood facebook pages. If you're
Speaker 3: wearing a mask, you're scaring kids. What are you wearing?
Speaker 9: Probably something just like that, Okay, I mean that's like
Speaker 9: the I picture the you have you ever seen the
Speaker 9: movie Him?
Speaker 6: I don't think so. I've seen whym No.
Speaker 9: Yeah, but that was like the the the Devilish Big
Speaker 9: Horns and I mean it is creepy af so that gimp.
Speaker 6: What are you wearing? There's a lot to choose from.
Speaker 7: I agree, I like because I just googled scary masks, right,
Speaker 7: I like the Terrifier. If you see that movie, that's
Speaker 7: always fun. I think like there's one here that it's
Speaker 7: a crampus mask. Yeah, okay, I think stuff like that's
Speaker 7: a little over the top, huh, right, Like you you
Speaker 7: clearly know that, like that's not real, that's a mask,
Speaker 7: but somebody dressed up like a creepy, weird clown that
Speaker 7: could totally be legit.
Speaker 6: Like you're like.
Speaker 3: The nun mask, the Nun from the movie Conjuring. Okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: and then I saw that I've never seen this, the
Speaker 3: baghead mask.
Speaker 6: Bag head, Yeah, because you just put a bag over
Speaker 6: your head.
Speaker 3: It's no, it's a mask like a canvas, like a
Speaker 3: canvas bag.
Speaker 6: Okay, I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 7: I think i'll uh uh Friday the thirteenth one, the
Speaker 7: very first one before he got his hockey mask. Yeah,
Speaker 7: he had a burlap sack yeah over his head. Yeah yeah, okay, yeah,
Speaker 7: that's kind of a little weird.
Speaker 3: But the Nune one is like it's just there's no blood,
Speaker 3: there's no nothing, right.
Speaker 9: I think even better though, just scare would be the
Speaker 9: human bush, just like.
Speaker 8: Being at the standard bush.
Speaker 7: You see those videos on TikTok whatever. They look like
Speaker 7: a bush and they're just standing on the sidewalk. People
Speaker 7: walk by and the bush will move stand up.
Speaker 6: And this is my point, we think that's funny when.
Speaker 3: It's at like the park or like at a mall. Yeah,
Speaker 3: someone's ability to interpret the difference. I shouldn't get you
Speaker 3: in charge, right, if you walk around the mall, you're
Speaker 3: definitely getting walked, right, you're getting.
Speaker 6: Told to leave. Oh yeah, for sure. By Paul blurt.
Speaker 3: Mhm, sorry, sir, you need to leave. Don't make me
Speaker 3: throw my keys. I'll get on this walkie talkie.
Speaker 6: I've got mace.
Speaker 3: You remember like like I remember mall and I remember
Speaker 3: my friends like trying to have interactions with them and
Speaker 3: running and the mall cops chasing them. And at the
Speaker 3: time you were like, and now I look at him,
Speaker 3: like that's dumb.
Speaker 6: On both parties. Yes, yes, we had a friend.
Speaker 3: What was the name, Eric, Eric Smith I think, and
Speaker 3: he became a mall cop like our senior year, and
Speaker 3: we were like, what are you doing, bro, Because he'd
Speaker 3: be like, hey, guys, you gotta go.
Speaker 6: We're like, okay, Eric, whatever, dude, let's do my job.
Speaker 10: Come on.
Speaker 3: Oh god, yeah, don't get a job in high school
Speaker 3: as a mall cop or is the security guard in general?
Speaker 6: No, make fun of you.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, you're asking for your friends to come mess
Speaker 3: with you.
Speaker 6: All right.
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Speaker 9: High school student slash UPS employee arrested for stealing forty
Speaker 9: thousand dollars worth of packages. This happened down in Miami Dade, Florida,
Speaker 9: where three South Florida teenagers who work for a UPS
Speaker 9: store are facing felony charges after deputies say they participated
Speaker 9: in a month's long a theft scheme involving tens of
Speaker 9: thousands of dollars in missing merchandise intended for Amazon customers.
Speaker 9: Eighteen year old Angel Caleb Pagan was arrested last Wednesday
Speaker 9: at school, and he faces charges of second degree grand
Speaker 9: theft involving property valued between twenty and one hundred grand
Speaker 9: and tampering with physical evidence. Police also identified two co defendants,
Speaker 9: his Matthew Martinez, who's seventeen, and Jacob Diez, who's also seventeen.
Speaker 9: According to the affidavit, the investigation began after two business
Speaker 9: owners reported that eighty boxes containing Bathom body Works and
Speaker 9: Victorious Secret products had gone missing between March twenty first
Speaker 9: and April thirteenth. Detectives said the stolen merchandise was valued
Speaker 9: at approximately forty thousand dollars. The victims said that they
Speaker 9: operate an online retail business that ship's products to Amazon
Speaker 9: fulfillment centers and directly to customers. The couple said the
Speaker 9: missing packages had been dropped off at a UPS store
Speaker 9: for shipment, but never reached their destinations. So what had
Speaker 9: happened was their surveillance video that shows them dropping off
Speaker 9: these packages, but only five of the boxes. Out of
Speaker 9: the ten that were dropped off, only five of them
Speaker 9: were scanned into the shipping system, while the remaining five
Speaker 9: were taken through a back door. The kids had apparently
Speaker 9: come up with this plan to take them and they
Speaker 9: were selling them on their own Facebook marketplace for like
Speaker 9: a dollar each.
Speaker 6: Steal the cigarettes off the truck.
Speaker 8: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 9: Yeah. Authorities accused them all of tampering with the store
Speaker 9: surveillance system. Video footage showed them shutting off the system
Speaker 9: on April fifteenth around five oh eight pm, leaving no
Speaker 9: additional recordings until the store owner restored power later that evening.
Speaker 9: They were taken into custody transported to Northwest District Station
Speaker 9: for questioning after being advised of their miranda rights. Investigators
Speaker 9: said they declined to answer questions regarding the case. It's
Speaker 9: under investigation. They're being held on a bond that has
Speaker 9: yet to be set.
Speaker 7: Yeah, they stole yeahs I ever stood about this or
Speaker 7: porch pirates, Like, you don't know what's in the box?
Speaker 7: I guess maybe with these you can open them up,
Speaker 7: right because they work at the facility and they can
Speaker 7: be like, Okay, this is you know, worth something, we'll
Speaker 7: steal this. Well, they're opening it up and being like, ah,
Speaker 7: well this is a litter box. We're not gonna take you.
Speaker 7: See what I'm saying. But like with porch pirates, you
Speaker 7: have no idea what's in the package? What's in the box?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's lazy storage unit bind.
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, Yeah, it's one way to look at it.
Speaker 3: If I get a cat box, I'll just sell it.
Speaker 6: On eat, which might get something good. Okay, take your chances.
Speaker 3: Yeah, people typically don't get kitty litter boxes delivered. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I typically Yeah, I didn't say never.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Man arrested for droning while intoxicated comes out of Florida,
Speaker 7: wor a dude name Richard Carpenter who's a contractor.
Speaker 6: Think about that for a second, right, he go. Yes,
Speaker 6: he was.
Speaker 7: Hanging outside of his apartment about twelve thirty at night,
Speaker 7: buzzing his drone around. Apparently there was a dude close by,
Speaker 7: guy named John Murray. He was sitting in his car,
Speaker 7: and old Dick here would take his uh take his
Speaker 7: drone and buzz it by the passenger and driver windows.
Speaker 3: Zoom several times, several times, and.
Speaker 7: Uh, now, I guess at some point in time Old
Speaker 7: Dick goes over to the window and tries to take
Speaker 7: the man's phone out of his hand, like, reaches into
Speaker 7: the car and tries to take his phone out. Well, okay,
Speaker 7: well now now guy's got to call the police. So
Speaker 7: he called the police. Police come out there. They talked
Speaker 7: to Old Dicky and he's like, yeah, man, this guy
Speaker 7: here's been following me because I've seen him at multiple
Speaker 7: different locations. Well, come to find out, the guy's a
Speaker 7: delivery driver and that's why Richard's seeing him at different
Speaker 7: locations at different times. You're not being followed, Japiannoyd Dick anyway,
Speaker 7: So comps like they smelled the booze on him, noticed
Speaker 7: that he was slurring, he got watery eyes or whatever,
Speaker 7: and they went ahead and arrested him. They arrested him
Speaker 7: ultimately for the uh for the burglary is what they're
Speaker 7: calling it, because he reached into the car and tried
Speaker 7: to take the man's phone and so yeah, he.
Speaker 6: Was later mont it out. Yeah, this is my favorite
Speaker 6: segment we do. This is just people being.
Speaker 3: Doctor accused of trying to secretly induce abortions. All right,
Speaker 3: Like I was saying, don't this happens in Ohio where
Speaker 3: this doctor is accused of administering abortion inducing drugs to
Speaker 3: women that he'd gotten pregnant.
Speaker 6: Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3: The man has been indicted on charges including abduction, tampering
Speaker 3: with evidence, and the unlawful distribution of an abortion inducing drug.
Speaker 3: Prosecutors say that the doctor had used his estranged wife's
Speaker 3: info to obtain the drugs. He's pleading no contest to
Speaker 3: charges including an unlawful distribution of abortion inducing drug and
Speaker 3: identity fraud. The man's medical license has been suspended and
Speaker 3: he will get sentenced at a later date. I couldn't
Speaker 3: find how many people he's done this too. Are allegedly
Speaker 3: done this too.
Speaker 6: How's he do? It? Is?
Speaker 9: Like?
Speaker 6: Here, have a dream? Can I get you something to dream?
Speaker 11: Right?
Speaker 6: Right, Bill Cosby, Let's let's play charades. Who am I?
Speaker 6: There's a lot of sill. This tastes affull tart.
Speaker 3: I don't know if abortion drugs taste.
Speaker 6: I don't know anything. I don't know. I'member taken one.
Speaker 3: You holstered tart pretty fast. I just met pills.
Speaker 6: Pills. Pills are tart. Medications are kind of tart. You know.
Speaker 7: Let's just trying to associate one with what I do know.
Speaker 7: They taste like, yeah, that's gross.
Speaker 3: I don't think I've tasted a lot of medication powder
Speaker 3: wise like crumpled it up. Not since I was really young.
Speaker 3: Where you you know, broke up pill like aspirins or whatever.
Speaker 6: Damn, and you gotta chew them up. That's how they
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Speaker 3: The more you know. I wonder why then they make
Speaker 3: you swallow it? Wells, said the doctor who got arrested.
Speaker 6: Right, could be worse. We could be breaking them down
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Speaker 3: No one does that, all right, we got to take
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Speaker 3: the weekend. What's the best thing that happened this weekend?
Speaker 3: And the worst thing that happened this weekend? BMMS and
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Speaker 3: Do best and worst of the weekend. What's the best
Speaker 3: part of the weekend. What's the worst part of the weekend?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 3: Lindsey, what's the best and what's the worst.
Speaker 9: Uh, the entire weekend was was pretty damn good.
Speaker 8: Others day weekend, can't complain.
Speaker 9: Yeah, you know, uh it mine really started on Saturday,
Speaker 9: Kevin and I joined Gimpy and his girl at the
Speaker 9: Banana Ball had never been and it was fantastic. It
Speaker 9: was so fun, very entertaining. I think I wish all
Speaker 9: baseball could be like that, where they discontinuously play music
Speaker 9: the entire time.
Speaker 6: It it was.
Speaker 9: It was a giant party at the ballpark. And then
Speaker 9: we uh, I got to hit up Gimpy's favorite spot
Speaker 9: on Saturday night at the Town Pump and it was
Speaker 9: a blast. I got to kick ass and darts. I
Speaker 9: even won one for Gimpy right on accident.
Speaker 6: He stole the darts right out of my hands.
Speaker 8: I thought he was handing them to me. He literally
Speaker 8: had his hand extended.
Speaker 9: I took the darts and shot and won and I
Speaker 9: was like yay, celebrating and.
Speaker 8: It was actually his turn anyway, Yeah you're welcome.
Speaker 9: And then yesterday it was amazing because I had no idea,
Speaker 9: but my son was. We got a text message that
Speaker 9: he became a All Conference player. This year for lacrosse,
Speaker 9: third year in and he was an All Conference player.
Speaker 9: So yeah, we got to go and watch Broken Arrow
Speaker 9: when the state championship in lacrosse yesterday against Casha Hall,
Speaker 9: who always wins, so it was nice to see them dethroned.
Speaker 8: And before that game started.
Speaker 9: My my son was on the field to take his
Speaker 9: little patch for All Conference and that was cool. I
Speaker 9: was a neat proud mom moment on Mother's Day. I
Speaker 9: guess the worst part of the weekend for me came
Speaker 9: on Saturday. I realized while I was having a cold
Speaker 9: high noon at the ballpark and I've since experienced this,
Speaker 9: I had a Peter Griffin moment. I've got really bad
Speaker 9: teeth sensitivity on my bottom row. All of a sudden,
Speaker 9: it just hit me, like on Saturday, I've noticed it
Speaker 9: for the first time, and now it's that Peter Griffin moment,
Speaker 9: you know, and it's getting really bad. So I think
Speaker 9: I need to call the dentist and be like, hey,
Speaker 9: is a certain toothpaste gonna help? Or is there something
Speaker 9: else going on?
Speaker 6: When was the last time you were at the dentist?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 8: Probably eleven months?
Speaker 6: Oh okay, yeah, so you go yearly?
Speaker 9: Oh yeah, I try to go every six months as
Speaker 9: much as possible, but.
Speaker 8: I got real busy.
Speaker 3: Sure, yeah, sure, maybe that's why you've got it right,
Speaker 3: I know, all right? Anything else, yeah, best and worst
Speaker 3: of the weekend bmms and whatever that is to eight
Speaker 3: two nine four five GIMPI.
Speaker 7: I would say yes, definitely. Saturday was the best part
Speaker 7: of the weekend. Before Manna Ball. My old lady wanted
Speaker 7: to ride to paw Huska to the Pioneer Woman Store
Speaker 7: right mark Tail to get a cookie so she could
Speaker 7: steal the recipe. So uh allegedly, allegedly she we we
Speaker 7: got on our bikes a couple of friends. We all
Speaker 7: rode up to paw Huska. Even though I took us,
Speaker 7: I overshot our destination by about twenty minutes. It's okay,
Speaker 7: just turn around and go back. We get all the
Speaker 7: way there and will be damn. They didn't have the
Speaker 7: cookie she was looking for, and so we ended up
Speaker 7: getting some other sweet treats and we hung out and
Speaker 7: then then rode back. It was an awesome day of riding.
Speaker 7: We took Highway eleven all the way up there and
Speaker 7: then ninety nine back down, so it was just this
Speaker 7: big giant circle. But it was really awesome, and then
Speaker 7: hit the ballpark and then, like Lindsay said, town pump
Speaker 7: afterwards for Karaeoka, and it was cool getting to share
Speaker 7: that with her. Worst part of the weekend was yesterday,
Speaker 7: which really isn't that bad, but I learned some things yesterday.
Speaker 6: Okay, So I go to my lady's house. You know,
Speaker 6: it's Mother's Day.
Speaker 7: She's got her kids grilling up some food and along
Speaker 7: a fence line, just wanting to clear out some.
Speaker 6: Of the brush and stuff out there.
Speaker 7: So break out the loppers, start clearing stuff up, and
Speaker 7: I'm looking at this, these these plants out there, and
Speaker 7: I was like, something doesn't seem right about this plant.
Speaker 7: So I break out my phone and I opened up
Speaker 7: the camera and I point at it, and Da da
Speaker 7: Da Da. Has this thing where you take a picture
Speaker 7: of something and it'll research whatever the hell it is
Speaker 7: that you're pointing your camera at. Right, I could point
Speaker 7: it at Corbin and it would tell me exactly what
Speaker 7: kind of flannel shirt he's wearing right now. Right, It's
Speaker 7: pretty groovy little little feature. Well, I'll be damned with
Speaker 7: that any poison ivy that I'm clearing out right there,
Speaker 7: And yeah, yeah, I'm not like horribly allergic, right, but
Speaker 7: I do break out when I hit it. I'm not
Speaker 7: one of those ones that can roll around in it
Speaker 7: and not have anything happen. But I learned yesterday that
Speaker 7: when poison ivy reaches its peak, the oils, the eustra
Speaker 7: oil or whatever will leave a black, brownish resin stain
Speaker 7: whatever it is.
Speaker 6: Because I was like, after I.
Speaker 7: Was messing around with that and I found out around
Speaker 7: this is poison ivy. I go in instantly, right, soap
Speaker 7: and water, wash up, scrub up to my elbows, everything
Speaker 7: that I thought might have been contaminated. And I was like,
Speaker 7: all right, to think I'm good. Which I think I've
Speaker 7: got like an itch here, an inch there, and a
Speaker 7: nitch here and.
Speaker 6: An itch there. But I think it's a psychological thing.
Speaker 7: It's a psychological itch, right, not like actual from the
Speaker 7: poison ivy or whatever. But after I get done scrubbing up,
Speaker 7: I'm just sitting around hanging out and I look down
Speaker 7: at my hand and it it looks like a.
Speaker 6: Crap all over my hands. I was like, what is this?
Speaker 6: I don't know. You guys probably don't know.
Speaker 7: But when you're cleaning out your your cannabis paraphernalia. Right,
Speaker 7: you get that resin all over your hands. It's all
Speaker 7: black and brown. I thought that's what it was. I
Speaker 7: was like, I haven't messed with the pipe in a
Speaker 7: long time, okay, so surely that's not it. And so
Speaker 7: doing some research, and that's that's what it was. When
Speaker 7: it hits its peak and starts, you know, it's oozing
Speaker 7: out of the vine and on the leaves or whatever,
Speaker 7: it will leave a black and brown resin on your hand.
Speaker 7: And usually it's less severe rash. Right, that type of
Speaker 7: resin won't be as bad as if, you know, just
Speaker 7: regular you know whatever. And I was like, okay, well
Speaker 7: that's good, but still I'm still scrubbing the crap off.
Speaker 6: Of my hands. Basically, it was what it one was
Speaker 6: down to. Yeah, that's no joke, man. Yeah.
Speaker 7: I come to find out that crap is everywhere, all
Speaker 7: over her place, and I was like, uh, good luck
Speaker 7: with that, right, you got to get some herbicide.
Speaker 6: I told her, just get some diesel and put it
Speaker 6: on there. But whatever leaves the three, let them be
Speaker 6: leaves a four eat some more. Yeah. That's why I
Speaker 6: was like.
Speaker 7: I was looking at that because I didn't see these
Speaker 7: three leaves until I was like down in it, like
Speaker 7: I was already pulling stuff out, and I was like, hmm,
Speaker 7: that doesn't seem right.
Speaker 6: That looks it looks that looks wrong.
Speaker 3: Best and worst the weekend. What's the best part of
Speaker 3: your weekend and the worst part of your weekend? Bmms
Speaker 3: and whatever that is to eight two, nine four Five.
Speaker 3: Best part of the weekend would be that my brother
Speaker 3: came in to town for Mother's Day. We went over
Speaker 3: to my mom's house. We grilled out, hung out, all
Speaker 3: that stuff. So that was pretty awesome. Get to hang out,
Speaker 3: the kids, get to hang out with their uncle and stuff.
Speaker 6: So that was fun.
Speaker 3: That's the uh, it's always a good time reminiscing. We
Speaker 3: had a good flashback with my mom her believing she's
Speaker 3: never left my brother and I alone overnight or on
Speaker 3: a weekend, and my brother have distinct, visual, vivid memories
Speaker 3: of it that we both recounted at the exact same time.
Speaker 3: So so that was fun. And then the worst part
Speaker 3: of the weekend would have to be I've been finally
Speaker 3: got my car in for the windshield to get repaired,
Speaker 3: but I had to drop it. I did a drop
Speaker 3: and go because when I called to set the appointment,
Speaker 3: they're like, oh, just do drop and go drop it
Speaker 3: off and when it's done, they'll call you pick it up.
Speaker 6: Great.
Speaker 3: That makes I love that because I don't want to
Speaker 3: sit and wait, and so I did that. When I
Speaker 3: dropped it off, They're like, just so you know, we
Speaker 3: do everybody else's first, and at the end, if yours
Speaker 3: is it's still there, then we work on it. So
Speaker 3: even though it says we close it five, we may
Speaker 3: call you, oh, well yeah, except when you drop it
Speaker 3: off at eight thirty in the morning. Yeah, and you
Speaker 3: think it's going to be done by three. Nope, Nope,
Speaker 3: they called it five. So not a big problem. I
Speaker 3: don't blame them. That place is always wildly busy, right,
Speaker 3: So that was the worst, best and worst of the
Speaker 3: weekend is the text. Best got to hang out with
Speaker 3: Gimpi and Lindsay and there's others Friday night and Saturday night.
Speaker 3: My boyfriend asked to make it official with the rose
Speaker 3: Friday night.
Speaker 6: Worst.
Speaker 3: We almost got hit on the way to get ice
Speaker 3: cream Sunday night by a high speed chase.
Speaker 6: WHOA, that sounds terrible.
Speaker 3: What's really gonna mess with your Noggin is would you
Speaker 3: have gone for ice cream if you would have not.
Speaker 6: Offered you the rose.
Speaker 3: Best of the weekend was I had the weekend off.
Speaker 3: The worst of the weekend was I got the news
Speaker 3: my grandpa died over the weekend. Best trip to Arlington
Speaker 3: to watch the Cubs versus Rangers with family. Worst driving
Speaker 3: back in the storm, the storm last night when Texas.
Speaker 6: Yes, the storm Friday.
Speaker 8: Holy, that was crazy?
Speaker 6: Was it crazy?
Speaker 3: And broken? Aron?
Speaker 4: No, my kid had a.
Speaker 9: Game in Clearmore and some friends of ours. Actually he drove.
Speaker 6: With them, and so you didn't go.
Speaker 9: No, I did not go because he went early with
Speaker 9: them because they have to be there, you know early.
Speaker 6: I thought he hurt his hand.
Speaker 8: No, he's playing.
Speaker 9: He just had to sit out one practice because he
Speaker 9: couldn't get his thumb wet. Four hours. But they had
Speaker 9: to sit in a truck for over an hour while
Speaker 9: it's hailing. And he sent video, I mean this hale
Speaker 9: and then in front of an old client of Kevin
Speaker 9: sent him video from their house. There was four feet
Speaker 9: of hail in their backyard that was.
Speaker 6: Coming from there running off the house.
Speaker 9: I was like, holy, I mean it looked like snow
Speaker 9: piles it was so massive I could not believe it.
Speaker 9: So I feel for anyone who had to endure that
Speaker 9: and the damage it must have caused.
Speaker 3: We had a fence blow Down's not going to go
Speaker 3: talk to the neighbor and be like, hey, yeah, technically
Speaker 3: it's his fence. But state of Oklahoma, right, you share
Speaker 3: fence lines no matter what.
Speaker 7: Yeah, well you guys ain't got trees or anything over there, right,
Speaker 7: it was just the wind that blew it down.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, it was already. I think he's got a
Speaker 3: water leak.
Speaker 7: Ow anyway, then then then you should totally pay more
Speaker 7: of them. It wasn't for your stupid water leak, we wouldn't.
Speaker 7: You're going to end up on Judge Judy.
Speaker 3: Nope, I'll just pay for it.
Speaker 6: It's not worth the trouble.
Speaker 3: Best having a great Mother's Day lunch with my in
Speaker 3: laws and family tacos. Worst got insane hail damage Friday,
Speaker 3: and we just got a new roof gutter six weeks ago.
Speaker 6: Crap.
Speaker 3: Louk goes to me, I have a friend in the
Speaker 3: roofing business, and I mean the sun hadn't even been
Speaker 3: gone down and he was like, hey, that's settled out.
Speaker 3: We are power went out and it was out until
Speaker 3: nine o'clock.
Speaker 6: Oh kidding?
Speaker 3: Uh, Worst continuing symptoms from food poisoning. Best lost sixteen
Speaker 3: pounds so far. How long have you had it?
Speaker 6: Wow?
Speaker 3: If you've lost fifty sixteen pounds from food poison you
Speaker 3: better be in the hospital. Yeah, that is a concerning
Speaker 3: amount of weight to lose for food poisoning.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I wonder what they ate to get it though, unless
Speaker 3: you've been in the hospital and you're already out and
Speaker 3: you're still recouping. But if you ate, you know, at
Speaker 3: Bob's Day Old Tuna Sandwich shop, and you got food
Speaker 3: poisoning yesterday and you're still and you've lost.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think am I the only one? Sixteen pounds
Speaker 6: is alarming? Right? Yeah? Best?
Speaker 3: I didn't go anywhere to see my mom for Mother's
Speaker 3: Day where she's currently living with me because of a
Speaker 3: small electrical fire.
Speaker 6: That sucks.
Speaker 3: Best part of the weekend was spending the weekend in
Speaker 3: Hootch Town with family for birthdays and Mother's Day. Worst
Speaker 3: part here I am back at work. Bett had the
Speaker 3: entire family over for smoked burgers and hot dogs and
Speaker 3: ice school beer. On Saturday, Worst got caught in the
Speaker 3: fishing dock on Fort Gibson Lake during the storm. Ooh,
Speaker 3: I went outside to get something that had blown over
Speaker 3: during the storm, and it had just like a pause
Speaker 3: in the moment. But the wind's still wild. And I
Speaker 3: heard a dog bark. And this was after the hail.
Speaker 3: I mean, somebody's left their dog out. You're like, ah,
Speaker 3: that scumbags. Best went down to Oklahoma City to see
Speaker 3: my nephew graduate from high school and welding school. Worst
Speaker 3: spent Mother's Day in the r because my wife has
Speaker 3: a kidney stone with a sinus infection on top, just
Speaker 3: for a little additional flavor. This was Sunday and the
Speaker 3: homemade gifts my two younger kids made me. One was
Speaker 3: a cookbooker. Classmate did nothing but rest and watched TV
Speaker 3: and deferred to father for all child quarrels. Worst was
Speaker 3: my kids shared germs more than toys.
Speaker 6: I woke up sick today.
Speaker 3: Best had a great Mother's Day with mom and family.
Speaker 3: Worst had to clean the house to prepare to get together.
Speaker 3: Best it was a weekend. Worst it was Mother's Day weekend.
Speaker 3: My mom is dead. Sucks every year, Hey, you get
Speaker 3: used to it. Best of the weekend volunteering at the
Speaker 3: Cancer Sucks car show and getting to see all the
Speaker 3: cool cars with the family. Worst of the weekend, I
Speaker 3: ain't really got one.
Speaker 6: Another one.
Speaker 3: Best of the weekend. My youngest daughter graduated high school.
Speaker 3: The worst she did it with her mom who passed
Speaker 3: away without her mom who passed away two weeks ago,
Speaker 3: rough May, with graduation, Mother's Day and daughter's birthday.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that does suck, and.
Speaker 3: I'm glad it's completely different context if the mom graduates
Speaker 3: with your daughter, right, not that that's impossible, She's just
Speaker 3: like prolonged burying her so she could be there.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: H Best, got to spend Sunday with my dad. Worst
Speaker 3: it was in the ICU.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 6: Second.
Speaker 3: Best my mother invited us over for breakfast and she
Speaker 3: had all the ingredients purchased, so I got to cook
Speaker 3: for her like I used to when I still live there.
Speaker 3: Worst my fiance was driving our only working car when
Speaker 3: someone on the highway, not paying attention, slammed into him
Speaker 3: from behind doing sixty traffic was slowing to twenty to
Speaker 3: twenty in an exit lane. He got spun into oncoming traffic,
Speaker 3: only to tokyo drift to try and get out of
Speaker 3: the way. Unfortunately, a semi truck clipped him while he
Speaker 3: was maneuvering out of the way and totaled the car
Speaker 3: and the semi flipped over and blocked off the Creek
Speaker 3: Turnpike for hours. First best fiance walked away with only
Speaker 3: small bruise on his leg. Have you seen the video
Speaker 3: footage of the person that was running across the runway
Speaker 3: at Denver International and got hit by a plane?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Bro, that's insane. Worst got diagnosed with little kemia and
Speaker 6: heart failure. What about it?
Speaker 8: Best still alive?
Speaker 3: Best of our weekend was one of those. It tried,
Speaker 3: but we just didn't let it. We had a gig
Speaker 3: in Arkansas, rented a trailer one of those. The tire
Speaker 3: shredded itself, so we had to wait in the church
Speaker 3: parking lot with the Ghost Tribute band. Huh, Ghost Tribute band.
Speaker 3: That was funny in itself. Oh, I should have kept riding.
Speaker 7: They call themselves spirit uh of course, because like you know, tribute,
Speaker 7: they always have something close to the original. Right, So well,
Speaker 7: it's g oest right right.
Speaker 3: Hour later, trailer tired, Tony showed up. Seven minutes later
Speaker 3: we were back on the road, even though we were
Speaker 3: late to the venue. Set up went smooth. We overcame
Speaker 3: technical problems, showed up, had a great show. I guess
Speaker 3: the tough part was driving home in the rainstorm for
Speaker 3: forty minutes. But we all made it home around five
Speaker 3: am Sunday morning, and I believe half of.
Speaker 6: Us are still recovering.
Speaker 3: Worst woke up Saturday and Pain went to p passed
Speaker 3: out for the first time, ended up with two stitches,
Speaker 3: also for the first time on a chin. Best was
Speaker 3: getting stitches. I was still able to spend time with
Speaker 3: my family and mother in law.
Speaker 6: For Mother's Day at the zoo.
Speaker 3: You don't don't do that.
Speaker 6: Don't go to the zoo.
Speaker 3: No, don't tell us what happened. You got to tell
Speaker 3: us what happened.
Speaker 7: Yeah, like, what why did you pass out?
Speaker 3: I mean, what short of kidney stone, I don't know
Speaker 3: what you pass out from while you're peeing?
Speaker 7: Okay, Well, well, as a guy who has passed out
Speaker 7: for no reason, I can say that does happen. I
Speaker 7: was walking around mart My groceries and then just fell
Speaker 7: out and cracked my head on the the cooler there.
Speaker 6: So maybe the same thing happened.
Speaker 3: One hundred percent. But the pen is the part that's
Speaker 3: the interesting attribute.
Speaker 7: Well, maybe there's a similarity here between their story and
Speaker 7: my story, because I just got done picking up a
Speaker 7: heavy bag of dog food.
Speaker 3: Oh, don't compliment. Was it his last ounce of fluids
Speaker 3: he was letting go of. Yeah, right, Uh, it's got
Speaker 3: to be something that's got to be a red flag.
Speaker 6: I would think you would think you would think really.
Speaker 3: Low blood sugar, micro nutrition, syncope, fainting while pen or
Speaker 3: right after pen.
Speaker 6: It's a real thing.
Speaker 3: It happens when your blood pressure drops fast, often from
Speaker 3: a mix of waking up from a deep sleep, standing
Speaker 3: up quickly, pain, dehydration, emptying a full bladder, low blood sugar, alcohol,
Speaker 3: some medications, straining or bearing down.
Speaker 7: You strain or bear down when you're pee gimpy woman sometimes,
Speaker 7: h you want to make sure you get it all out.
Speaker 7: You just gonna be very careful, Okay, Yeah, sow, you
Speaker 7: crap yourself.
Speaker 6: Dude.
Speaker 3: If I urinated and passed out and woke up like
Speaker 3: there's all these people around me, Oh god.
Speaker 7: That's a fear of mine. Yeah, that is definitely a
Speaker 7: fear of that.
Speaker 3: All right, we come back. We got tickets to give
Speaker 3: away to the Black Crows. I typically wouldn't bring this
Speaker 3: up in this format. But so I'm reading this book
Speaker 3: and it might be the wildest book I've ever read,
Speaker 3: and I can't put it down now. The genre is
Speaker 3: science fiction, and I'm going to give you just a
Speaker 3: couple highlights of it to explain how wild this book is.
Speaker 3: And one of the highlight lights is the two main
Speaker 3: characters are a man and a talk cat. Okay, And
Speaker 3: at one point, the two main characters start a meth
Speaker 3: war between goblins and lamas.
Speaker 2: What I know, joblins, I know, there's no reason I
Speaker 2: should like this book. I got it Tuesday.
Speaker 6: I'm two hundred and ten pages already out. What made
Speaker 6: you want to pick this particular book?
Speaker 3: I'm glad you asked. I'm always building my TBR to
Speaker 3: be read, okay, and I was ready for a new book.
Speaker 3: And so I was at the bookstore just perusing some
Speaker 3: of the books that I have been eyeing to read.
Speaker 3: And so I'm standing in front of this display for
Speaker 3: this franchise, because there's seven books, I think at eighth
Speaker 3: or ninth one is getting ready to come out this month,
Speaker 3: and the I'm just standing there, this lady comes up
Speaker 3: to me and goes, I love this book so much.
Speaker 6: Like, she's got to be ten years older than me,
Speaker 6: maybe older.
Speaker 3: She's like, this is the best book and starts giving
Speaker 3: me all these things about the book, and I'm like, okay.
Speaker 3: And when you read the sleeve to kind of get
Speaker 3: an idea and what I was told it was about,
Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know. It has a fun cover.
Speaker 3: Each cover tells a story. If you hold under a
Speaker 3: black light, it does something different to reveal part of
Speaker 3: the story, right, They little tidbits like that, like real
Speaker 3: in depth type of thing.
Speaker 6: And when you.
Speaker 3: Read the book, the story is that there's been an
Speaker 3: apocalyptic event and a lot of people are dead, and
Speaker 3: to survive you've now got to go underground and compete
Speaker 3: in this reality show for aliens. I understand how stupid
Speaker 3: this sounds. I understand how stupid this sounds. And I
Speaker 3: don't know if this gives cred to it. I'm all,
Speaker 3: by the way, I'm only talking about this because he
Speaker 3: got the song so fast. But the uh the the
Speaker 3: only this this gives cred to it?
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Seth McFarlane has bought the rights to it to develop
Speaker 3: a TV show or a movie.
Speaker 6: Then I'm in that's how weird.
Speaker 3: It is that he's like, oh, yeah, I don't think
Speaker 3: they'll ever make it. I don't think they'll ever make
Speaker 3: this movie or TV show because they had to cancel
Speaker 3: ted two the series because of too much special effects.
Speaker 3: It was too expensive, and this show is all that.
Speaker 3: That's the only thing there's this series is it's a
Speaker 3: talking cat that shoots lightning bolts out of its eyes.
Speaker 6: They couldn't do it animation.
Speaker 3: They could, I just don't think it lives up to
Speaker 3: it with animation. And like, one of the funnier parts
Speaker 3: is why so the cat belonged to his girlfriend. The
Speaker 3: story starts where he finds out his girlfriend's cheating by
Speaker 3: she posts a picture of herself on her ex boyfriend's
Speaker 3: lap while she's in supposed to be in the Bahamas
Speaker 3: with her boy with her girlfriends, and he's just he's
Speaker 3: the kind of guy who doesn't want drama.
Speaker 6: So he's like, I'm done.
Speaker 3: I'll hold the cat till you get back, and then
Speaker 3: this apocalyptic then happens the cat, but the cat can talk,
Speaker 3: so as time goes by, he makes a pretty funny
Speaker 3: statement about sharing like he's pretty strong in the in
Speaker 3: the book and killing goblins and meth lamas, but he's like, man,
Speaker 3: if you were the Cat's like, if you were this
Speaker 3: tough when Beatrice was around, she probably wouldn't have been
Speaker 3: dating two other guys. And he keeps finding out that
Speaker 3: she's been cheating a lot.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And at one.
Speaker 3: Point he goes, the cat goes, do you think that
Speaker 3: Beatrice would have been mad if she always watched you
Speaker 3: knew you were watching those videos of women cleaning themselves,
Speaker 3: cleaning each other, because the cat doesn't that's cats like,
Speaker 3: oh that's how you clean.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's funny. I'm telling you.
Speaker 3: It's one of the most Yeah, people are texting it's yeah,
Speaker 3: Dungeon Crawler Carl's the name of the book franchise. It's
Speaker 3: it's fantastic. I don't know about the other the other
Speaker 3: eight or whatever, but it is the most wild, bizarre.
Speaker 3: I've never read a science fiction series like this. I've
Speaker 3: never I cannot explain what's happening, and to explain it
Speaker 3: to people, I sound like I'm on meth.
Speaker 6: Does this book make you want to check out the
Speaker 6: other ones?
Speaker 3: Okay, I've never went to look for a podcast on
Speaker 3: the book like I have. For this, I went down
Speaker 3: the Rabbit hole, and I want to turn people onto
Speaker 3: it because you sound so stupid talking about it when
Speaker 3: no one else knows about it or isn't.
Speaker 6: Familiar with it.
Speaker 8: So it's a series, Yes.
Speaker 3: I said that, there is almost not there's a ninth
Speaker 3: one coming out this month.
Speaker 11: I believe.
Speaker 8: Seems like a good stoner read.
Speaker 3: No, stoners don't like to read, not when they're high.
Speaker 3: But it's I can't say. And if you like crazy stories, bizarre,
Speaker 3: pushing the limits, is there a book? There's no book
Speaker 3: called Tenders the Flesh Where the Eight Humans. If that
Speaker 3: kind of stuff doesn't bother you like wild stories, then
Speaker 3: you would love this type of science fiction. I'm sweating.
Speaker 3: I'm so embarrassed. All Right, we got to take a break.
Speaker 6: We'll be back. The Big Man Morning Show returns.
Speaker 3: Next Al Golvin try to sell them book sold.
Speaker 7: US passengers from the Hackman virus see a cruise ship
Speaker 7: to be flown to Nebraska. American passengers aboard the cruise ship,
Speaker 7: stricken by a deadly Hackman virus outbreak, are evacuating from Spain.
Speaker 7: The seventeen American Americans began boarding buses yesterday and are
Speaker 7: expected to be flown back to the US on a
Speaker 7: special chartered plane. Once they arrive, they will be monitored
Speaker 7: at the National Unit at the University of Nebraska Medical Center.
Speaker 7: Six confirmed cases and three deaths have been linked to
Speaker 7: this here virus outbreak on the ship, which anchored offshore
Speaker 7: in Spain's Canary Island.
Speaker 3: So many questions I have about this one. I had
Speaker 3: no idea we had a national quarantine center.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and nebra. I mean, it makes sense, no one's there.
Speaker 3: But how gom we're only hearing from like one person
Speaker 3: on the ship. Why are we not hearing from the
Speaker 3: family of people that died. Why are we not hearing
Speaker 3: from the crew members that are on the ship. Why
Speaker 3: are we not hearing more?
Speaker 6: That's a good question.
Speaker 3: Some people are saying it's diverting from the Disney story
Speaker 3: cruise ship story if you.
Speaker 6: Know that, Uh, what's going on with the Disney.
Speaker 3: They apparently rested some employees on a Disney cruise ship,
Speaker 3: like I want to say twenty oh.
Speaker 6: They were like linked like child press and stuff like. Yeah.
Speaker 6: I did catch that headline on the TikTok.
Speaker 3: It was like, oh, some people are shocked at because
Speaker 3: this cruise ship only hounds like one hundred and fifty people.
Speaker 3: Just a cruise ship isn't always a gazillion people.
Speaker 6: Right right?
Speaker 7: They have smaller yeh rips whatever, hah, Well, we'll see
Speaker 7: what happens there.
Speaker 6: What else we got here?
Speaker 7: Pentagon releases new UFO files. The Department of War released
Speaker 7: never before seeing files related to alien and extraterrestrial life
Speaker 7: on Friday that are now, as it put it, all
Speaker 7: in one place, no clearance required. The Department said that
Speaker 7: it will be releasing new materials on a rolling basis
Speaker 7: and will likely be posted every few weeks. The release
Speaker 7: follows a directive from Trump earlier this year that instructed
Speaker 7: the Pentagon and other relevant agency to start releasing the files.
Speaker 3: Have you looked at any I did and they were
Speaker 3: all dumb.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Basically, you're not gonna get anything new here.
Speaker 3: No, there are some photos, and you're like, okay, I
Speaker 3: think the most interesting would be the pictures from the
Speaker 3: Apollo missions that they found. They saw some things they
Speaker 3: couldn't identify.
Speaker 6: Okay, what else we got here?
Speaker 7: Trump's hosting maternal health events and football champions at the
Speaker 7: same time.
Speaker 6: Not sure.
Speaker 7: President Trump's hosting a maternal healthcare event at the White
Speaker 7: House following the launch of the website moms dot gov.
Speaker 6: The site provides resources for expectant mothers. Oh no not.
Speaker 7: At the same time, later in the day, he'll welcome
Speaker 7: the twenty twenty five twenty six National Football champions DA Hoosiers.
Speaker 7: And then lastly here new owner announces Yudica Square updates.
Speaker 7: Northwood Retail announced plans to redevelop the iconic center, but
Speaker 7: hopes to preserve the character of the square. Renovation plans
Speaker 7: include a new park and green space designed for better
Speaker 7: serving the guests, enhanced streetscape with additional angled parking, a
Speaker 7: widened realigned crosswalk to improve pedestrian walkability, refreshed landscaping and signage,
Speaker 7: and they say construction is expected to begin by the
Speaker 7: end of these At the.
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Speaker 11: Good morning, Jeff, Hey, good money.
Speaker 4: Hey it's still Weezer, right, I mean, come on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you do you play pickleball? You feel like a
Speaker 3: pickleball kind of guy.
Speaker 11: So I know about pickleball.
Speaker 4: I know a lot of people that play pickleball, but no,
Speaker 4: I'm not a pickleball player.
Speaker 3: We were Kimpie and I were talking earlier and that
Speaker 3: there is a new rule about one hundred thousand.
Speaker 6: If you get so much in debt.
Speaker 7: Yeah, the state departments like if you have one hundred
Speaker 7: thousand dollars or more in back child support, they're revoking
Speaker 7: your passport.
Speaker 4: Well, which is interesting because legally they should have been
Speaker 4: doing that job anyway. The law has been very clear
Speaker 4: for many, many years about if you were behind on
Speaker 4: child sport, you can actually suspend somebody's passport, and you know,
Speaker 4: I've seen cases where people have done that, where they
Speaker 4: actually contact and actually reach out and get it suspended
Speaker 4: and things like that. But the fact that the State
Speaker 4: Department's getting involved is interesting because it's been the law anyway.
Speaker 4: So congratulations, guys, you're finally doing your jobs.
Speaker 3: And do you have to file something that's not an
Speaker 3: automatic trigger?
Speaker 4: Well okay, so well, interestingly enough, all right, if DHS
Speaker 4: is involved in your case, they can put a hold
Speaker 4: on your passport.
Speaker 11: Okay, they have that ability.
Speaker 4: My understanding is, and the orders go out and they're
Speaker 4: automatically sent out.
Speaker 11: And that's supposed to be taken care of.
Speaker 4: The fact that we're getting this big hoor rah on
Speaker 4: the news about oh, look what the State Department's doing,
Speaker 4: We're finally doing our jobs is frustrating and misleading because
Speaker 4: there are orders already out there that should have been
Speaker 4: in place anyway, and catching these people trying to leave
Speaker 4: the country and most and understand.
Speaker 11: I don't think most people are.
Speaker 4: Leaving the country like to abscond from the United States
Speaker 4: because they ow one hundred thousand dollars. I don't doubt
Speaker 4: the kids. I think they're just going on vacation and
Speaker 4: they don't give a crap. I think that's what's going on.
Speaker 4: And I think they're finally breaking down it or cracking
Speaker 4: down on it for some reason. But yeah, that law
Speaker 4: has been there forever and DHS, I know, has tried
Speaker 4: to get people stuff suspended, and I'm glad they're finally
Speaker 4: cracking down on it because if you know one hundred
Speaker 4: thousand dollars, I'm sorry. You don't need to be going
Speaker 4: to Mexico. You don't need to be going to Europe.
Speaker 4: You don't need to be going to Hawaii or wherever.
Speaker 4: Get your stuff paid man, take.
Speaker 3: Care of your obligations absolutely. Jefferins is here to answer
Speaker 3: questions about Famila on divorce, custody, guardianship, name change. A
Speaker 3: couple of ways to get your question to us. You
Speaker 3: can email show at kmod dot com. You can call
Speaker 3: eight through three four six oh KMOD, or you can
Speaker 3: text BMMS and whatever your question is to eight two
Speaker 3: nine four five. This text says, I'm contemplating divorce. My
Speaker 3: wife is the vehicles in her name because of credit.
Speaker 3: Hers is good, mine isn't. Do I lose the truck,
Speaker 3: I can't afford to pay it off and my credit
Speaker 3: won't allow me to put it in my name.
Speaker 6: How does that work?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean what will happen is is if he
Speaker 4: wants the truck.
Speaker 6: Right.
Speaker 4: First of all, changing the title is easy, right, you
Speaker 4: just signed the title over title parts easy. It's it's
Speaker 4: the debt that's involved in it, right. So you know,
Speaker 4: if for some reason you want your truck and you
Speaker 4: can't afford to make the payment on it, you know,
Speaker 4: there may be some wheeling and dealing to be done.
Speaker 4: What I mean by that is is how much is
Speaker 4: it in the four one K? And we offset the
Speaker 4: cost of the vehicle based upon your you know, portion
Speaker 4: of what you're going to get from a four to
Speaker 4: one K, or from your equity in the house, or
Speaker 4: you know, whatever it may be there. But if there's
Speaker 4: not any of that there to deal with, and you
Speaker 4: want your truck and you can't afford it, sorry, I
Speaker 4: mean most likely it's going to have to be sold
Speaker 4: and you're gonna have to find something that's cheaper and
Speaker 4: in your price range. I mean, unfortunately, again, title change
Speaker 4: is easy.
Speaker 11: It's the debt.
Speaker 4: I mean, if it's a vehicle you owe on and
Speaker 4: it's in somebody's name because of credit, like you said,
Speaker 4: then and you can't afford to make that payment, I mean,
Speaker 4: why would you want something you can't pay for anyway?
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 11: I mean that's not very smart.
Speaker 4: Get something you can't afford or pay get something that's
Speaker 4: paid off.
Speaker 3: Is it a misconception that people think when they get
Speaker 3: divorced they can keep their same status of life, cars, house, I.
Speaker 4: Think it is, and you know, I blame TV and
Speaker 4: some other things for that. But the idea behind divorces
Speaker 4: is the basic ten it is is things are going
Speaker 4: to change.
Speaker 11: Period.
Speaker 4: For some people they change drastically. For other people they
Speaker 4: don't change as much. Why because, well, if you're in
Speaker 4: a household where you have to.
Speaker 11: Have two incomes.
Speaker 4: To survive, like most of us do, all right, things
Speaker 4: are going to change drastically. If you're in a relationship
Speaker 4: where or a marriage where that's not the case, and
Speaker 4: you've got you know, you're financially stable, and you've got
Speaker 4: plenty of money and all that kind of stuff. Not
Speaker 4: much will change as much. There won't be as much
Speaker 4: change by any means, because there'll be money split and
Speaker 4: life will go on and things like that. But for
Speaker 4: the vast majority of us, I'd say ninety plus percent
Speaker 4: of us you need two incomes to survive, things will
Speaker 4: change drastically, which means you're going to have to learn
Speaker 4: to live us out certain things, or make some sacrifices,
Speaker 4: or make, you know, make some changes that are going
Speaker 4: to be financially smart for you, that kind of thing.
Speaker 11: So getting this idea of well, I'm going to continue
Speaker 11: to live.
Speaker 4: The exact lifestyle I had when we had two incomes
Speaker 4: is just it's not realistic and it's a dangerous mentality.
Speaker 6: Jeff Finsley's in the studio.
Speaker 3: You got a question about divorce, custody, guardianship, maybe you
Speaker 3: want to do in a guardianship for a brother's kid
Speaker 3: or anything like that. He can answer how all that works.
Speaker 3: Or you're thinking about adoption, he can answer how that
Speaker 3: will work. This text says, my sixteen year old daughter
Speaker 3: wants to move to Indiana with my sister and finish
Speaker 3: out her junior and senior year there. Her mom and
Speaker 3: I are divorced, What papers need to be filed? And
Speaker 3: how do we process that with minimal hiccups?
Speaker 4: Well, okay, so minimal hiccups is going to be based
Speaker 4: upon the people involved. If a kid wants to move
Speaker 4: to another state with a relative, that relative is going
Speaker 4: to have to become their guardian or you can give
Speaker 4: that relative however attorney. But the problem you run into
Speaker 4: is is that, you know, do you have joint custody?
Speaker 4: Do you have soul custody? Is the other parent okay
Speaker 4: with this? Are they not okay with this? I mean again,
Speaker 4: hiccups are largely controlled by the people involved in how
Speaker 4: they handle this situation and how they treat one another
Speaker 4: in dealing with that situation.
Speaker 11: So it really depends.
Speaker 4: But you know, the basic gist is is that if
Speaker 4: the ant I think so was the ant. If the
Speaker 4: ANT is going to take over as parent and take
Speaker 4: care of the sixteen year old kid until the kid graduates,
Speaker 4: there needs to be some safeguards put in place, i e.
Speaker 4: Either a power of attorney which has to be okay
Speaker 4: by both parents typically or a guardianship, at which point
Speaker 4: that's a whole nother problem you can run into so
Speaker 4: whoever this is, please give me a call. We've got
Speaker 4: a few more details we need to fill in for
Speaker 4: an exact answer, but that's kind of the broad overlaying
Speaker 4: issue of power of attorney or guardianship and is the
Speaker 4: other parent on board.
Speaker 3: Jeff Finsley's with us eight three three four six Oh, KMOD.
Speaker 3: You can email show at kmod dot com or you
Speaker 3: can text a bmmss and whatever your question is to
Speaker 3: eight two nine four to five. A Saul Survey question
Speaker 3: about financial infidelity. This question kind of feels like that. Okay,
Speaker 3: I just found out my husband has been racking up
Speaker 3: credit card debt on cards I didn't even know they existed.
Speaker 3: We're talking like forty thousand dollars. We live in the
Speaker 3: same state we got married in, and my goal to
Speaker 3: be responsible for paying that off even though I had
Speaker 3: no idea it existed.
Speaker 4: If it's the state of Oklahoma. The answers, Yes, it
Speaker 4: doesn't matter what kind of debt, whether you knew about
Speaker 4: it or didn't know about it, It's still considered marital
Speaker 4: debt if it was done during the time the marriage existed.
Speaker 4: So you know, if you come to find out like
Speaker 4: this that somebody's got forty thousand dollars in debt behind
Speaker 4: your back and you want to get a divorce. That's
Speaker 4: just the way the cookie crimbles on Oklahoma. That's the
Speaker 4: way the law is in the vast majority of states.
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter whether it's known or not. It is
Speaker 4: marital debt and has to be addressed.
Speaker 3: What about debt because of like fines are criminal stuff
Speaker 3: and you get divorced, do those get considered marital debt?
Speaker 11: Well, so you're okay, So let me back up.
Speaker 4: So you're saying that someone has been charged and they've
Speaker 4: reached some sort of deal where now owe a fee
Speaker 4: to the state. You know, typically the way those are
Speaker 4: handled is is that that goes with the person. Okay,
Speaker 4: that's typically how that's look at because that's it's not
Speaker 4: the same as going out and knowingly running up ten, fifteen, twenty,
Speaker 4: one hundred thousand, whatever it is. You know, it's handled differently.
Speaker 4: So if it's a debt that's based upon consumer debt,
Speaker 4: this consumer debt is split between the parties in Oklahoma.
Speaker 3: Jeffinsley's in the studio bmmss at whatever you'd like to say,
Speaker 3: or you can email show at kmod dot com. To
Speaker 3: ask questions about family law, you can call eight three
Speaker 3: three four six oh kmod. This email says, about a
Speaker 3: year into our separation, my ex and I had a
Speaker 3: conversation where he agreed to pay for our son's private
Speaker 3: school tuition. We were in a good place at the time,
Speaker 3: and I didn't think to write it down. Now he's
Speaker 3: backing out. Is a verbal agreement legally binding?
Speaker 11: No, not in this situation.
Speaker 6: No, in any scenario.
Speaker 4: Is a verbal he said.
Speaker 6: She said, not really.
Speaker 4: I mean it comes down to you, he said, she said,
Speaker 4: And that's why you want to put things in an actual,
Speaker 4: written out contract. I mean I applaud the days and
Speaker 4: we all kind of look at it in nostalgia where
Speaker 4: we could, you know, shake hands and say, this is
Speaker 4: my grandfather when he had a bulldozing business out in
Speaker 4: eastern or western Oklahoma when I was a kid, and
Speaker 4: he always talked about how he was able to deal
Speaker 4: with you know, shaking hands and you know that was
Speaker 4: the contract and that was the agreement. Well that was
Speaker 4: fifty years ago. No, I mean, you got to get
Speaker 4: this stuff in writing. And when even if you had
Speaker 4: it in writing, when it comes down to what is
Speaker 4: legally required in the state of Alclahmoma. Private tuition is
Speaker 4: not something that's legally required. Why because we have a
Speaker 4: public school system all right. There's no law that says
Speaker 4: because your kid is in private school now that when
Speaker 4: you get divorced, the.
Speaker 11: Other party has to pay for that. It doesn't work
Speaker 11: that way.
Speaker 3: So we have friends and stuff like that say well
Speaker 3: I got him to pay for private tuition. That's just
Speaker 3: their agreement. There's no binding in the content, right.
Speaker 4: There's nothing binding that's correct. It's all in their agreement.
Speaker 4: And that's great that they get along. And they weren't
Speaker 4: a quote good place then. But even if you had
Speaker 4: written it down, then unless it's an order signed by
Speaker 4: a judge, it means it.
Speaker 6: Bo.
Speaker 3: Jeff Finsley's in the studio with us, bmmss and whatever
Speaker 3: you'd like to say to eight two, nine, four or five.
Speaker 3: We talk about that a lot. It's what's in the order, right,
Speaker 3: and you have to follow it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's why we have orders, right, Otherwise it
Speaker 4: would be just chaos out there with people making all
Speaker 4: sorts of agreements saying, well, she said she would do this,
Speaker 4: or he said he would do that. I mean, this
Speaker 4: is why we have orders. This is why things are
Speaker 4: in place. This is why our system is the way
Speaker 4: it is. If an order exists, it needs to be
Speaker 4: signed by a judge, and if it is, it needs
Speaker 4: to be followed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because that even goes true with somebody holding withholding visitation,
Speaker 3: which we get a lot of text on saying, oh,
Speaker 3: she won't let me see the kids, right.
Speaker 4: But without an order, there's nothing. And part of it
Speaker 4: is is that without an order, you can't enforce something
Speaker 4: right without the law says, unless you've got an order
Speaker 4: signed by a judge, there's nothing that can be You
Speaker 4: can't file an enforcement because there's no order signed by
Speaker 4: a judge. That's why we want to get these things
Speaker 4: signed by a judge, so that if she does or
Speaker 4: he does break the visitation agreement that is signed by
Speaker 4: a judge and is in order of the court, then
Speaker 4: that person can be held in indirect content of court.
Speaker 3: Jeffenziy's in the studio eight three three four six ol
Speaker 3: kmo D. You can also text BM a mass and
Speaker 3: then what you want to say to eight two nine
Speaker 3: four five or call eight three three four six ol
Speaker 3: kmod like Andrew did Andrew go ahead? You're on the
Speaker 3: Jeff Finsley of Finsley and Associates.
Speaker 13: Yeah, so me and my wife have been separated for
Speaker 13: about a year and a half and we've been trying
Speaker 13: to basically do everything. It's all mutual. None of us
Speaker 13: are fighting. We have no entities or anything like that.
Speaker 13: But every time I try and call and find out
Speaker 13: about it, it costs an armand lake to do it.
Speaker 13: Is there any paperwork that I can get to just
Speaker 13: go ahead and file it and turn it into the
Speaker 13: court system.
Speaker 11: You mean as far.
Speaker 4: As what starting the divorce process and entering a decree
Speaker 4: you and all that kind of stuff, Well, I mean
Speaker 4: there's different ways to handle that. Just understand whatever you
Speaker 4: find online is not accurate typically and ends up causing
Speaker 4: you more problems than anything else. I mean, you can
Speaker 4: always feel free to give us a call out her office.
Speaker 4: We draft up paperwork for people all the time. We
Speaker 4: don't have to represent you. We can draft the paperwork
Speaker 4: up for you so that you can get it filed
Speaker 4: and and all that stuff.
Speaker 11: And so if you want to.
Speaker 4: Do that, if you'll give your name or number to gimpee,
Speaker 4: I'll have somebody from my office give you a call
Speaker 4: and we can talk to you about that. But yeah,
Speaker 4: I mean, there are options out there and we can
Speaker 4: help you through that.
Speaker 6: So hang on the line, okay, buddy.
Speaker 3: Already this text says, my fiance wants to change your
Speaker 3: last name to mine, but she wants to do it
Speaker 3: before the actual marriage. How would we actually go about that?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 11: Why? I mean, well, you.
Speaker 6: Can't see what the benefit would be. No, okay, I can't.
Speaker 11: I don't.
Speaker 4: I mean, regardless of why, and it's not my job
Speaker 4: to question. I guess the way to do it is
Speaker 4: an adult name change. I mean, it's very simple. It's
Speaker 4: one of those things that we can make that happen
Speaker 4: no matter what county it's in. You know, we basically
Speaker 4: file something set of hearing and that's about the end
Speaker 4: of it. I mean, adult the name changes.
Speaker 11: Are very easy. They really really are.
Speaker 4: Obviously, you can't there's certain names and things that you
Speaker 4: can't have legally that are against the law in most states.
Speaker 4: But you know, when you're talking about suggestive sexual things
Speaker 4: and whatnot. But other than that, we can do a
Speaker 4: name change for an adult easy. It's the children. It's
Speaker 4: a little more complicated because you've got to get approval
Speaker 4: from both parents.
Speaker 3: Well and why you would want to go through a
Speaker 3: separate costly Yeah, I mean, why not just makes no sense.
Speaker 4: The only reason I can think of. And we don't
Speaker 4: have this person on the air to ask them this,
Speaker 4: but my thought would be is, well, maybe they're not
Speaker 4: going to get married for two or three years and they're.
Speaker 11: Wanting to buy something.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't I don't see the upside
Speaker 4: to it in any way, shape or form other than
Speaker 4: you just love that person so much that you want to,
Speaker 4: you know, be part of them in every single way
Speaker 4: before you marry.
Speaker 11: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Would a name change be equal to a marriage quote
Speaker 3: unquote contract.
Speaker 4: No, I mean you're just changing your name.
Speaker 6: I mean.
Speaker 4: The one thing these people are going to have to
Speaker 4: be careful about, obviously, is dealing with the issue of
Speaker 4: potential common law marriage issues, meaning say, for example, they
Speaker 4: change her name and they decide to file taxes as married,
Speaker 4: filing jointly even though they're not quote legally married yet,
Speaker 4: and that's because they want to have the maximum savings
Speaker 4: that the federal government allows so they can get as
Speaker 4: much money in their return, which is a very common tale.
Speaker 4: The problem you run into there is that now you've
Speaker 4: made yourself common law married, whether you're realize it or not,
Speaker 4: why because otherwise you have now committed federal tax fraud.
Speaker 4: So careful how you file out there, ladies and gentlemen,
Speaker 4: it can bite in the butt.
Speaker 11: Talks later.
Speaker 3: Jeffinsli's in the studio, BMMS and whatever you'd like to
Speaker 3: say to eight two nine for five or email show
Speaker 3: at kmod dot com. We can call eight three three
Speaker 3: four six. Oh, KMOD. I don't know if this question
Speaker 3: is general or specific to you. Can you do a
Speaker 3: child custody case through the Cherokee or only through the state.
Speaker 4: No, you can do it through any tribe. I mean
Speaker 4: whatever your tribe that you are a member of. We
Speaker 4: can do that through the tribe. So I think I'm
Speaker 4: licensed in I think eight different tribes in the state
Speaker 4: of Oklahoma, and my associates that work for me, most
Speaker 4: of them are in the big ones such as Cherokee, Creek,
Speaker 4: O Sage, things like that. So you know, if you've
Speaker 4: got that, we're happy to help you with it. You
Speaker 4: don't have to file it in state court if you're
Speaker 4: a member of that tribe. The only problem you run
Speaker 4: into there, just be aware is just because you file
Speaker 4: in a tribal courts is not Let's say you're the
Speaker 4: tribal member and you're the one that's filing for the
Speaker 4: child or whatever it may be, but the other parent
Speaker 4: is not a tribal member at all of any tribe.
Speaker 4: They do not have to subject themselves to the jurseydiction
Speaker 4: of the Native American Court.
Speaker 11: There's actually federal law out.
Speaker 4: There, and I've gotten cases removed from Native courts because
Speaker 4: of this. They don't want to subject themselves to the
Speaker 4: tribal court for whatever reason. It doesn't matter why, other
Speaker 4: than to say, a lot of people think that if
Speaker 4: you're a tribal member and you're in a tribal court
Speaker 4: that you get preferential treatment because you're the tribal member.
Speaker 11: That's not true.
Speaker 4: An old friend of mine is actually a Cherokee Nation
Speaker 4: Court judge, and I will tell you that he and
Speaker 4: his group of judges they're fair. They don't give preferential
Speaker 4: treatment to people who are Native Americans.
Speaker 11: That's not their job.
Speaker 4: And so it's one of those things that it's an
Speaker 4: urban legend if you think you're going to get a
Speaker 4: leg up just because you file in a Native court.
Speaker 3: Well, and sometimes people make those things up to to
Speaker 3: avoid going through the hard process, right. Jeff Finsley's in
Speaker 3: the studio eight three three four six oh kmo D
Speaker 3: and Mike is on Mike. What's your question for? Jeff
Speaker 3: Heinsley of Hensley and Associates.
Speaker 10: I was the one that actually tested about the name changed.
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, we're carrying. We're carrying, and I wasn't trying
Speaker 4: to be real. We're just trying to figure out why
Speaker 4: she would want to change it before the marriage.
Speaker 6: What's that? Dude?
Speaker 10: H what the student? I'm not not sure how true
Speaker 10: this is the story. I'm getting that that her name,
Speaker 10: the last name of Griffith, her family on the on
Speaker 10: that side, it's a Welsh it's a royal Welsh name,
Speaker 10: and basically they're wanting her to denounce her citizenship here.
Speaker 11: Okay, okay, stop, where'd you meet this chick?
Speaker 10: But do my daughther about nine months ago?
Speaker 11: Where on the internet?
Speaker 10: Actually imperson?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you've met her and seen her physically.
Speaker 4: Have you seen her past? Have you have you seen
Speaker 4: her passport or any document that says that she's a royal?
Speaker 10: No, nothing that I've seen.
Speaker 4: If it smells like crap and well let's talk about
Speaker 4: this second. I mean, can we gotta be careful about
Speaker 4: that because there's lots of people that because a lot
Speaker 4: of us can say, oh, well, I've got and I
Speaker 4: don't mean this really, I'm just saying a lot of
Speaker 4: people say oh well, I'm I'm royal because I can
Speaker 4: prove in my genealogy that I've got this, this, and this.
Speaker 4: I mean, be careful man, that this this smells.
Speaker 3: Yeah, not that this doesn't.
Speaker 11: Pass the red face, not.
Speaker 3: That this isn't happening to him. But scams are a
Speaker 3: real thing. Yeah, talk about what can happen if you
Speaker 3: do a name change and you're getting scammed.
Speaker 4: Right, So, if you're doing this, I mean I see
Speaker 4: her backing you into something in some way that's going
Speaker 4: to attach to some sort of big, huge debt or
Speaker 4: something of that nature. I would ask for proof. I mean,
Speaker 4: run a background I mean give me a call. Give
Speaker 4: your name, MP, and I will call you this week.
Speaker 4: I can't do it today because I'm chaperoning a field
Speaker 4: trip for my kid, but I am I'm.
Speaker 10: A really good dad, understandable.
Speaker 4: Give me a call. Seriously, I can run a background
Speaker 4: check and we'll see if she's actually really from where
Speaker 4: she related to she says she is. I mean, I
Speaker 4: it's a rarety. Maybe it's true. I mean maybe maybe
Speaker 4: it's one of those things where if you've ever seen
Speaker 4: the Princess Diaries, maybe it's one of those things where
Speaker 4: someone didn't even realize their royal or if they I
Speaker 4: don't know what it is, but it just something doesn't
Speaker 4: smell right.
Speaker 3: Let me ask you this, Mike, why is she in
Speaker 3: Tulsa If she's a part of the some royal family
Speaker 3: family that.
Speaker 14: I agree with on that she was actually born in
Speaker 14: Tulsa anyway. So so I'm so well, so I don't know.
Speaker 6: I'm just that.
Speaker 4: No, I'm glad you called him. I'm really glad you called.
Speaker 4: We were really wondering why we didn't. I can't see
Speaker 4: any but but something's not right here, man, And I
Speaker 4: don't want you to get stuck in something you shouldn't
Speaker 4: be stuck in.
Speaker 11: That's not fair to you.
Speaker 4: So give your name. I will call you, call you
Speaker 4: probably tomorrow, and we'll see what we can figure out. Man.
Speaker 4: That's this is intriguing, and I want to see what's
Speaker 4: going on.
Speaker 3: Absolutely intriguing. Are they offering money for her to abstain No, no,
Speaker 3: I mean thank you, yeah, not abstain.
Speaker 10: No no, that actually not. She just wants to get
Speaker 10: rid of the them. So she so because she doesn't
Speaker 10: want to. She loves my daughter, loves me. You know,
Speaker 10: she's a sweet girl. I'm honestly that I love her.
Speaker 10: H She just wants to be away from that name.
Speaker 10: That's all it is.
Speaker 4: Yeah, should have even when you guys a better question?
Speaker 11: When are you getting married? What's the date? H? Turber
Speaker 11: twenty ninth of this year?
Speaker 4: Yes, so why the hell not? Just wait till October?
Speaker 4: It's it's it's may see June July, August, four months, man,
Speaker 4: I mean, what's the what's the deal.
Speaker 10: I'm just it's.
Speaker 4: And I'm not just.
Speaker 10: How old are How.
Speaker 6: Old are you?
Speaker 3: How old are you?
Speaker 6: Forty five?
Speaker 11: Old is she?
Speaker 6: Yes?
Speaker 3: How old is she?
Speaker 4: She?
Speaker 10: I said?
Speaker 4: Twenty? Okay, bro, dude, man answered your own question.
Speaker 3: Come on, Mike, listen. I'm sure she's great. You need
Speaker 3: to I'm sure she's hot.
Speaker 4: I mean that's great too. But something again, what is it? Uh?
Speaker 11: Something smells rotten in Denmark?
Speaker 3: Hey, Admiral Akbar, it's a trap, A trap, a trap.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying tread lightly. Have you done a background
Speaker 3: check on this individual?
Speaker 4: I hate that we have to do that. I'm so
Speaker 4: glad I'm married because I would want to date people.
Speaker 4: I mean seriously, because you'd have to. You've got so
Speaker 4: many people that can pull this fake garbage all the time.
Speaker 6: I do.
Speaker 3: We're probably wrong.
Speaker 4: I will run the background check for free. Give your
Speaker 4: name a number. I will call you tomorrow, I swear
Speaker 4: to God. Something something doesn't smell right. Something that's rotten
Speaker 4: in Denmark, my friend, and maybe it's rotten in the
Speaker 4: Welch country.
Speaker 3: Do all right, hang on the line, because hang on
Speaker 3: the line because Jeff wants to help you. So hang
Speaker 3: on the line so you can get your info. Okay,
Speaker 3: all right, don't go anywhere.
Speaker 11: Buyer beware man.
Speaker 4: And I hate to say that, but into Dave's world
Speaker 4: because we're so digital, right, it is so easy I
Speaker 4: think for a lot of people, at least from what
Speaker 4: I've seen, to fake who they are. I mean, fake
Speaker 4: Facebook profiles, fake ex profiles, fake you know, whatever what
Speaker 4: else is out there, Instagram whatever, I mean, you can
Speaker 4: come up with all these fake things.
Speaker 11: You never really have to bring me.
Speaker 4: How many times have you been on a date with somebody
Speaker 4: and you said show me your ID, right, you don't
Speaker 4: you know, right? I mean you could the dude could
Speaker 4: be saying that his name is John and he's really.
Speaker 11: Boba fet I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying that there's unless you're asking for ID
Speaker 4: and proof of who these people are.
Speaker 3: Well, not that this person's doing this too much.
Speaker 4: And I'm not saying that. Okay, whoever this lady is,
Speaker 4: if she's listening, we're not trying to be.
Speaker 6: She's going to have to damage control.
Speaker 4: She is lying, right, because the story that is spun
Speaker 4: is weird and it's a little out there, and maybe
Speaker 4: it's true. But being born here, I'm not aware of
Speaker 4: any royals that have any ties to Tulsa, to the
Speaker 4: royal family, and if you are a royal connected to
Speaker 4: them in some way, it's got to be You've got
Speaker 4: to be like eighty fifth down the line. I guess,
Speaker 4: you know. I don't know why that would be an issue.
Speaker 3: So and she could have changed taken herself out of
Speaker 3: the lineage at any point.
Speaker 11: Right why now than he's going to pay for it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And people scam all the time based off love.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, they make you think.
Speaker 4: We get calls all the time about well we got
Speaker 4: married and I found out that she is this, or
Speaker 4: she is that, or I've got one where she lied
Speaker 4: about being able to get pregnant and he wanted every
Speaker 4: kid and she can't because she's got some strange medical
Speaker 4: condition that prevents her from getting pregnant. I mean, people
Speaker 4: lie about stuff all the time, no matter what it is, big, small,
Speaker 4: in between, white lies.
Speaker 11: I mean, it just that's.
Speaker 4: Unfortunately, that's humanity, and not everybody has the level of
Speaker 4: integrity that some people do.
Speaker 3: You know, things can get complicated real fast, and that's
Speaker 3: why you need someone to help you that knows what
Speaker 3: they're doing and knows how the system works. And don't
Speaker 3: trust any search engine, don't trust any AI, don't trust
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Speaker 3: had somebody on hold with a different call about a
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Speaker 4: Too, absolutely so through our office in Pasca. And don't
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Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 4: Leah up there does a great job with anything in
Speaker 4: addition to family law. So you've got an issue with criminal,
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter if it's something as mundane as a
Speaker 4: speeding ticket or a jaywalking ticket.
Speaker 11: All the way up to excuse me, murder and everything
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Speaker 4: She can help you any if you've got any land issues, guardianships,
Speaker 4: if you've got any sort of contract issue, if you whatever,
Speaker 4: it may be literally anything in between. If you've got
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Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 11: Thanks.
Speaker 3: If you're listening to the Big Man Morning Show, the
Speaker 3: rabbit hole of romance scams. Just off that brief little
Speaker 3: call ah. Yeah, some red flags. Welsh royal family. That
Speaker 3: is a weird phrasing. There isn't a separate modern Welsh
Speaker 3: royal family and the way that it's casually meant here,
Speaker 3: the current Prince of Wales is Prince William and the
Speaker 3: title belongs to the British royal family. Changing her name
Speaker 3: to get away from the family drama sounds dramatic and unverifiable.
Speaker 3: A twenty year old can legally change her name for
Speaker 3: normal reasons, but tying it to royalty secrecy, family escape
Speaker 3: and marriage creates a story that makes people stop asking
Speaker 3: practical questions. Twenty and forty five with a wedding in
Speaker 3: five months is a yellow slash red flag, not because
Speaker 3: age gaps are wrong, but because a twenty year old
Speaker 3: rushing marriage with a forty five year old by mid
Speaker 3: October is exactly the kind of emotional acceleration People ignore
Speaker 3: obvious problems.
Speaker 4: And.
Speaker 3: Any type of manipulation or fraud situation can be housing money.
Speaker 3: What do you open yourself up to possible scenarios where
Speaker 3: they can get bank access? Yeah, okay, yeah, take out loans, right,
Speaker 3: they can take advantage of you in ways that you
Speaker 3: don't expect. And I can understand why this cat's excited.
Speaker 3: She's twenty years younger. Yeah, and she's got to be
Speaker 3: at least a seven, at least in his world, probably
Speaker 3: a ten. And that means only because their age difference. Yeah,
Speaker 3: there are plenty of girls walking around at twenty that
Speaker 3: are fives. But if you're twenty years older, you're like,
Speaker 3: and maybe you thought you'd be alone your whole life.
Speaker 3: They're a nine or.
Speaker 8: Ten, right, they're getting a trophy, a dream, yep.
Speaker 3: The golden ticket. They're envious of all their friends. And
Speaker 3: the worst part, this is the worst part about scams
Speaker 3: is the shame, and you'll stay in it because of
Speaker 3: the shame. That's true with cults, that's true with scams
Speaker 3: like this, because you're just afraid of looking stupid, and you're.
Speaker 6: Like, I just didn't know what to do. I was
Speaker 6: afraid my friends were gonna makew this.
Speaker 3: This gal could bankrupt you, Yeah, bankrupt you and you
Speaker 3: be on the hook. I hope that's not happened, friend,
Speaker 3: I hope this is a good person that is just
Speaker 3: eager suddenly. Yeah, because she's had two years to change
Speaker 3: her name. Right, it works out, well, probably we won't.
Speaker 9: But when it doesn't, we want you on our listeners
Speaker 9: are awesome.
Speaker 3: Or if it does work out, yeah story, Yeah I wouldn't.
Speaker 3: I gotta know more. Somebody emailed and said, you got
Speaker 3: to get an update. I'm invested. That's crazy thing about
Speaker 3: the show man. He could have been lying, right, I
Speaker 3: have no way to verify his information. He's a call
Speaker 3: that pops up and goes away.
Speaker 6: That's it. That's it.
Speaker 7: Kind of like that listener a while back with the
Speaker 7: baby naming the baby after the dude that she works with.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh weird. Yeah yeah, that one with the
Speaker 3: cell phones.
Speaker 9: Yeah, they are still waiting for that update.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but again usually we don't get those updates because
Speaker 3: they're shame involved.
Speaker 6: And I get it.
Speaker 3: No judgment here, lie, but it is what it is.
Speaker 3: But yeah, man, that's that is a real skin And
Speaker 3: you've only the other flag is the short time they've
Speaker 3: been together. Yeah, okay, right, because you've been together this long,
Speaker 3: she's had plenty of time to change your name.
Speaker 6: Yes, not just now.
Speaker 7: You know, money's tight, you know, when you're shunned from
Speaker 7: the Welsh royal family.
Speaker 3: Is it safe to say that if you're someone who
Speaker 3: does this type of con work, that you are potentially
Speaker 3: involved in some sort of other problem, gambling, drugs, something
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 7: I think it's safe to say. Why else would you
Speaker 7: be conning people like that just to do it?
Speaker 6: The thrill?
Speaker 3: I mean, some of the documentaries out there about men
Speaker 3: who do this, it's the thrill.
Speaker 6: Really. Yeah.
Speaker 7: I always thought there's like, at least typically anyway, my
Speaker 7: sponsors financial reason to con people like that. Sure, you
Speaker 7: don't want to work, not just because it's Tuesday.
Speaker 3: It's the but the thrill of the hunt and the
Speaker 3: capture is what usually engages them. Who was the guy
Speaker 3: that was doing that with women in Netflix documentary?
Speaker 6: That was his thing.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he just loved the three He says, he's not
Speaker 3: doing it, but it was the thrill.
Speaker 6: Of the hunt.
Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, it's I guess it's setting off chemicals and torphins.
Speaker 7: You're getting high off of it like you would meth
Speaker 7: and it.
Speaker 3: Well, it's the the the i'm, it's the ego, the
Speaker 3: I'M a thing like, oh man, oh they trust me.
Speaker 6: This is so empowering. Yeah, yeah, scummy people.
Speaker 3: Man, man, we did it. We started the show people
Speaker 3: are awesome. Man, they just are. We got to take
Speaker 3: a break.
Speaker 6: We'll be back.