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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice

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mix in some vodka colored a podcast from the Mac

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of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor

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Chrysler Dots. Gee Ram, It's Billified The Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Ol, Hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on.

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Thank you for telling a friend.

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Speaker 3: And that's how we spread the word cool.

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Speaker 2: What hat is that?

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Speaker 3: New York pilots?

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Speaker 2: All that's right.

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Speaker 3: I love a game. Collegiate Baseball League.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and Oakley, you're a big Oakley guy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I have a pair of Oakley sunglasses. I was just

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like the sweatshirt.

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Speaker 2: I had a dream the other night.

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Speaker 3: They had a sale one day and I bought a few.

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Speaker 2: I uh, somebody, somebody's trying to get me to buy Oakley,

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not sunglasses, ski goggles, not kidding, And I said, no,

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I want to go buy these this brand knock around,

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I like, knock around their glasses, their sunglasses, and they're inexpensive.

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And they're like, I mean, I say expensive, I don't know,

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twenty five dollars a pair. But they hold up their

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knock around they could fall down. They and they a

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bunch of different styles. You can get your sports teams

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if you want. It's a great website. And then they

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have ski goggles and things as well, and sometimes they

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run package deals and I just like them. I've liked

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them for a while. And uh so I in my dream,

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I'm going no want, I want. It was a weird thing.

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It was just this week and this is so funny.

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You wear the Oakley thing. I have no idea. I

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saw you hanging out with Juice Fields on Super Bowl Sunday. Yeah, yeah,

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how is that party?

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Speaker 3: Great spread, trevendous spread, great party, that tremendous party. Yeah,

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Jet Juice want a ton of money?

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Speaker 2: Look at you? Yeah you texted me.

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Speaker 4: Ye his his his boiler busted the night before. Oh

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my god, and he want enough money to pay for it.

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And then some okay turned the super Bowl. So yeah,

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I mean he's very successful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he Uh it looked nice and I it was

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a fun time. He's taller than I thought. Yeah he

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has tall that or you shrunk, No, No, he's tall okay. Yeah,

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because I wasn't sure what expect and I felt bad

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because I was invited there. I was invited to Kevin,

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not Kevin's house, but Kevin's buddies and uh and then

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Arnie Roth's child who uh rbtl uh said, invited me

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to his he has a loft downtown and uh, I

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went to none. I had just so much work in

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schoolwork stuff. I didn't do any. I didn't do any

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I didn't even really watch the game. It was kind

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of a boring game.

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Speaker 4: You know it, but it kept you in it just

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because you're waiting for New England to be just.

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Speaker 3: To wake up.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because when because I've seen Seattle play before, and

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I've seen Arnold in games where you let the opponent

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hang around. It's three nothing, six nothing, nine nothing. You

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don't want to be kicking field goals. You want to

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bury them. And eventually they they did. And you know,

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of course Collinsworth is praising Drake made everybod's killing collins Worth.

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I think Collinsworth does a great job. And he's like,

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you know, now he's started to fight his rhythm. Next play,

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Oh what do I know?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: Who would make that play? Patrick Mahoes.

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Speaker 4: By the way, there were bets on Cashi on whether

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or not Collinsworth would mention Patrick.

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Speaker 3: Mahomes you're kidding, no, oh wow?

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Speaker 4: And somebody asked him about it in a radio row at

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the Super Bowl, and so he didn't mention mahomes once

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the entire game. Yea, so people want some money on Collinsworth,

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whether or not he mentioned Patrick Mahoe. So yeah, but

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we had a great time. But juiced to throw a

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heck of a party. He's got a beautiful house. He

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took him like years to remodel it. He and his

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wife done a great job. They got a nice little dog,

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two great kids. My nephew and niece are terrors.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. They had like the second quarter. We

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had to calm my nephew down.

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Speaker 4: He's like bam, bam, he's breaking all my nieces or

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his cousin's toys and stuff.

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Speaker 3: You want.

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Speaker 4: You want to talk about a halftime show? My goodness,

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we're picking up stuff.

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Speaker 2: Well, the halftimes show is the most washed halftime show

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in Super Bowl history.

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Speaker 3: See what controversy does? It creates cash?

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Speaker 2: I guess I don't even know. Like I I watched it.

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I didn't. I thought I get it, I get it.

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I see what this is.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I didn't see it. I didn't see any halftime show.

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I was driving home.

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Speaker 4: Oh but my wife wanted to listen to it because

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she's a music person. We'll buy people she like, you know,

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and so I just they played it on the radio broadcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So I didn't understand it.

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Speaker 2: No, I mean either, but it was okay, eating fun.

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It kind of reminded me of the Caribbean a little bit,

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and I thought that there was a lot of cool

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things in there. When he gave himself his young self

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the grammy, I was like, that's that's pretty cool, and

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you know, just kind of a pitch to Puerto Rico

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and Latin countries and it was all in Spanish.

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Speaker 4: I mean, the people who were gonna hate it said

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they hated it. The people were gonna love it said

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they loved it. You could tell. But there was one

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person locally who actually gave bad Money a compliment and

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said that he really enjoyed it. And it's somebody that

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I didn't think would say that. And I'm like, Okay,

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here's a thinking person. Oh okay, here's someone who is

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not just swept away by audiology. Yeah he's he's I'm

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gonna give this a neutral I'm gonna.

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Speaker 2: Give this conservative talk show host. Yes, yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Gonna give this some Yes, it was Bob, and he

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gave it. He gave it a fair shake, and he

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said he really enjoyed it. Everybody else on one side

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a ledger, you could pretty much figure out what their

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opinion is.

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Speaker 2: There was it's interesting. This is very interesting because there

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are there. I had put up a clip and all

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I said in the clip was I enjoyed it. I

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thought it was more about unity. I thought it was

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showing kind of the melting pot of what this country is,

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the influences of that. I wasn't offended by the fact

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that it was all in Spanish. It was all in Spanish,

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so and uh, I thought it was kind.

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Speaker 3: Of cool and it felt like a good vibe.

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Speaker 2: And what did I care. It's a halftime show. It's

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not a do you know what I'm saying, It's a

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half time it's entertainment. If I didn't and I said,

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you know what, if you didn't like it, there was

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an alternative.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, three million people want didn't have to You.

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Speaker 2: Didn't have to like it, right, You didn't have to

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like it, Yeah, I mean to like either one of them.

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You could like both, yeah, or like both like it

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just didn't matter. So I had put something up there

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and man, the the stuff it went, it went flying.

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Speaker 3: You know, our favorite pastime is in this country outrage.

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Speaker 2: Well it was weird to me because it's it's not

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you ever notice that when you're in an argument. Okay,

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So whenever there's an argument and someone calls you a name,

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it's basically over the argument.

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Speaker 4: Isy've lost, thoughts well, yeah, proud of ideas, not because

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it's resolved, exactly, because it just fell off a freaking

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cliff man. There's nothing there and it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: What the what the argument is about. The argument could

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be about parenting, football policy, whatever it is. You go

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to name calling, and it's basically like it's over.

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Speaker 4: Once you reach the ad hominem portion of the program.

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It is no longer a valid exactly.

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Speaker 3: You've lost. Yeah, it feels okay, So I've been If

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I call you an a hole in the argument, I've lost.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because the next second you're a washed up loser

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and somebody I have no care. I'll just say this.

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I didn't. I don't enter into the arguments on my

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own page. I usually don't look at them, but now

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I'm getting notices that they that people are commenting on

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these stuff.

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Speaker 3: People which are really four people comment to your post.

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Speaker 2: Over and over, and you know it's it's I go,

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we're not debating anymore. It's like you're auditioning for middle school.

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But it was Bjsha. It was an old it was

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an old producer of the of a legendary morning show

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in this town had gone and just said how awful

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this was. And then people are putting up pictures of

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Bad Bunny in address, and bad Bunny says all these things,

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and I'm like, okay, when we start litigating the past.

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The only thing that I saw was a guy who

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seemed to be tastefully and respectfully dressed, paying homage to

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the football game that his uncle played with his uncle's

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number sixty four, and that who gave himself a Grammy,

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which who wouldn't want to give yourself when you're a

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kid going hey, hang in there, it's gonna you know,

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all your dreams come true. I thought it was great.

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I thought it paid it. But this, I mean, well,

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to take bad Bunny, I take that side out of it.

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It was like I'm watching this and I see these

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people arguing, and I go when it dissolves into to

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in you know, into insults. Did that person just lose

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the argument? And what does it say when our leaders

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do it? I don't.

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Speaker 3: I mean they're out of ideas.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's kind of it kind of comes up with like,

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that's it, that's the best you got.

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Speaker 3: You're the guy in charge. Well, when you're one of

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the people in charge.

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Speaker 2: You could say things like and I think you started

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to say you're out of ideas. Cognitively, yeah, you you

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have nothing else to say.

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Speaker 3: Or at the very least, you don't know how to go.

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Speaker 2: Well, you've lost cognitive control. Yeah, right, you've got so

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pissed off. And I believe me, I've been there. I

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think I probably you know in the past you all

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have or you don't.

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Speaker 3: We all have.

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Speaker 2: You don't have a stronger point left. You feel threatened,

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not necessarily wrong, but threatened.

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Speaker 4: I mean you think about all your thoughts, they're all there,

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the end game of no more ideas? Right, every thought

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you have, every idea you have, every belief you have,

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is the end game that you've come to. That's the

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conclusions that you've come to. There's that you don't or

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you that's that's the best argument you can make.

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Speaker 2: The only thing I can think too, is could they

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wanted to stabilize you emotionally so your head's out of

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the game, Like they're getting in your head a little

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bit by calling you names.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I will say when President and Drum was

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on the debate stage the first time, he starts calling

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a little Marco Rubio or just these little you know, uh, sleepy,

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sleepy joke sleep. Yeah. But it wasn't that. It was

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who was He was going after Bush's brother and he

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hadn't Jeb. Yeah, he had a name for Jeb, and

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I forget what the nickname was for Jeb. And I

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remember going, oh my god, you.

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Speaker 3: Could do that, you can do I never saw that.

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He never did.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know that he was out of ideas.

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I don't think he was. I just and that's where

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I'm going. Okay, when you attack the person instead of

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the position at hominem as you say, right, and so

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it's basically what that is, You're attacking the person, not

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the position. You've left the substance of the argument.

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Speaker 3: And I go.

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Speaker 2: Today, Pam Bondy is in front of Congress and listen

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to this. She listen. It's it's the same thing.

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Speaker 4: A guy called Bjyshay on my Facebook page washed up loser.

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Speaker 3: Listen, you can let her filibuster all day long, but

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not on the our watch, not on our time, No way.

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Speaker 2: We clear. I told you about that Attorney general before

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Speaker 3: You don't tell me. I did tell you, because you

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saw what you did in the center.

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Speaker 2: Lawyer not even a lawyer. Now, I would normally say, Danny,

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you go to like you're down to the insult. You've

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kind of hit the intellectual eject button in the argument, right,

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I mean it would I would say that.

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Speaker 4: Like I ever seen Lauren Babbert, who's the representative from

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Colorado calling a host on CNN a washed up loser

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or something like that, And I'm like, well, what was

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the argument?

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Speaker 3: All I know is that, like I don't know what

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Speaker 4: I just know that, like she's just going to insults

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when you have to go to the insult box.

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Speaker 3: The augument's over.

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Speaker 2: We'll hang on now, hang on now, hang on just

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a second, hold that thought and see if you agree

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with her what I'm about to say to you, because

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when I saw this, I go, I'm not sure, Pambot.

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going to let you run on and on and on. Well,

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she has nothing she can really say to that on

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any level, not intellectual, not anything. Right, you're sort of

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at their mercy. So to come back and insult people

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sometimes it's not because you lost, it's because you're trying

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to win the crowd. Okay, you see what I'm saying.

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trying to win the style you got it. It's performance aggression.

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It's exactly what it is.

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Speaker 3: Christ Colt said, so wo what did he say? Nothing?

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Speaker 2: I just made fun of the rack, and I go,

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that's different from intellectual defeat. This is an intellectual defeat.

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This is that you can let her filibuster all day long,

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but not on arguing issues. Just not on our time,

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no way. And I told you about that Attorney General

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before you start.

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Speaker 3: You don't tell me.

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Speaker 4: I did tell you because I saw what you did

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in the center.

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Speaker 2: Lawyer not even a lawyer, she married, she married. I

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don't either. I don't know however, whoever has to deal

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with that. Oh God, you can hear that like slightly southern.

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Speaker 3: Tell me, are you but you washed up loser?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? But when you drop washed up loser. I would

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normally go, okay, once loser comes right, intellectual eject button,

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you're out. You're out of the argument intellectually. But now

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I'm starting to think when it when it's some when

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it's someone of power, it's like it's it's about winning

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the crowd and people want to see this. Well then

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later on, yeah, I didn't get later on with her, Yeah, yeah,

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go on, it was this about Epstein. Yes, okay, it

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was about Epstein.

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Speaker 3: This is all we're hearing about now.

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Speaker 2: And well they're going hard at it because they think

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there's more there.

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Speaker 3: Now, there's a lot. But at the end of the day,

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no one's going to get prosecuted for this.

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Speaker 2: But but yeah, it's really I'm fortunate, right, it's awful.

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But she go, but she's not saying like it's I

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don't mean that for anything. It's like, believe me, there

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are people on both sides of the aisle, yes, that

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had something to do with it.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we made we actually know a guy named

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the Bitiness Flow. He's not he's not invulved.

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Speaker 2: Bobby Slayton didn't go go ahead, didn't tell the story.

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Speaker 4: Bobby Slayton is not involved in the Epstein situation.

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Speaker 3: But they they went and got all the emails, or

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not all of them. They're getting.

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Speaker 2: They're letting us see certainty, just I think to satiate us.

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Speaker 4: Yes, right, because like there's there's a lot more they're

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not going to show us, and there's a lot that's redacted. Okay,

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But Bobby Slayton it has since told Jeffrey Epstein he'd

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rather be in Manhattan having lunch or dinner with him

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than going to that crap hole Rochester to do. I

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think the hell whole of roches of comedy is Rochester,

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New York or.

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Speaker 3: Something like that, Okay, And.

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Speaker 4: You know it'll be so I'm just saying, we know

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people who are like, it's kind of funny when it

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hits home. U.

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Speaker 2: Well, is funny. And I and and and I.

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Speaker 3: Found that in that vein if he were like doing

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something bad, that'd be different.

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Speaker 2: I would be supposed to go to dinner with Woody

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Allen and he goes, I wish I was going to

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dinner with you and Woody Allen. And then I think

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he Epstein was a fan of stand up comedy, so

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I think he took Lewis Black to a dinner there

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with him. I don't remember. I wish. I was so

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tempted to call Bobby, but then I'm like.

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Speaker 3: He's probably getting it from all sides.

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Speaker 2: Bobby was a friend of mine and I don't even

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know that we were really friends. We hung out. I

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opened for him a few times. I am seed for him.

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the wrong way. I am seed the shows he did

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and uh I and we hung out with each other

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and he's come on the podcast graciously many times. But

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he's brother Weez's friend. You know, they were tight and

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uh so I don't I don't know about Uh yeah,

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I wouldn't call, you know.

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Speaker 4: It's just like there's he's like Sean Gruden Washington, the

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Washington Redskins got investigated, and Seohan Grudge just happened to

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like call de Morris Smith, the head of the Players

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Association by a certain name. This was fifteen years before

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they opened up these emails because of that email had

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nothing to do with anything that were being investigated for.

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Speaker 3: And so it becomes news.

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Speaker 2: Well, yes it gets out. We can't have people we

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just you just can't write.

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Speaker 4: And he's the NFL and it's it's advancing, like it's

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going to the next level.

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Speaker 2: I don't think. My only question for Bobby is like,

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how cool that you're mentioned? Like that's my thing? I go, God, damn,

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you got mentioned in the file. He do it?

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Speaker 3: He could play Epstein bingo.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And by the way, Bobby has I would I

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would absolutely bet all the money in my bank account.

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That's not that much, but I would bet all that

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that he never would do something like that because he

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has a daughter who he loved and her mother died

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and it was just her and Bobby when she was

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like sixteen seven team I think she died and uh

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Sasha I think is her name, and really pretty girl.

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She was in a girl group for a while. But Bobby,

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I just go, how could you go? And the one

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I'm curious about honestly in the Epstein files and don't

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want to get back to the arguing thing, Peter Tia No, okay,

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Bill Gates. Oh yeah, I'm just curious about Bill Gates.

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I really am. So what do you do when someone

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throws an insult at you in an argument? Me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I hate arguing, So yeah, whatever, Okay, yep you win? Yeah, yep.

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That's right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you don't fire.

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Speaker 4: I'm a douchia sourus. I just repeat what back what

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they say, I'm a douchia saurus. Put it back then,

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Pam BONDI said, look at the economy, Look at the

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Dow Joes, look at the S and B five hundred.

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Speaker 3: Okay, she's deflecting. She was deflecting basically, look at the

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stock market. Why are we talking about this?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we're not answering the question, right, right, Okay, Yeah,

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I mean I've been in situations like that, even sort

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of recently, where I've had to say to somebody, I'm

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not here to litigate the past. I'm not I'm Mark mcgworth.

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I'm here to well, I'm not here to litigate the past. Well,

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it's done. It's done. I can't change them. I want

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to have things moving forward. Yes, and believe it or not,

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we're on the same page. It was a statement I've

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recently made, and I go, okay. You know a lot

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of people though, when that happens, yeah, go ahead.

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Speaker 4: When people argue, you need to remember you can't look

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at your person like as an adversary.

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Speaker 3: You need to look at them as a partner.

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Speaker 4: You're a person. Yes, the person you're arguing with, you

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actually want to look at them as a partner. If

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you really try to solve the issue, you really want

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to look at them as a partner, And that way

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you'll actually But.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes even in a like Okay, I thought you're talking

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more about romantic relationship. No, no, no, what you're saying in.

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Speaker 4: Other words, like you and I are on opposite sides

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of a certain subject. You know, it's the argument becomes

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more productive if I look at you as a partner

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than an adversary, right, And that way we come to

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a conclusion that we're we could both learn from.

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Speaker 2: Who do most people our age argue with younger people?

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Do you think so older people? I don't have an answer.

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I have an answer. I don't know that it's a

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correct answer, but I have an answer. Are people are

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a people somewhere in our age? Who do they argue

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most with? And I would think it's their partner, their spouse.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I see what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you meant like not exers like to

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argue with millennials. No, no, no, I've phrased that wrong.

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But so that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: My wife and I don't argue at all. I think

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it's a little weird.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but but maybe you should or at least bring

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things up, because otherwise, if nothing's brought up and everything's

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boring all the time, a little little spark once in

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a while.

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Speaker 3: Oh, we're very affectionate. Get her all repd ups think

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I should Yeah, boo, tonight we're going to play law darts.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean when you name call it destroys progress,

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then there's people who just freeze right, not thing goes

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forward because they.

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Speaker 3: I've been in that situation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you freeze right, you can't think, well, you start

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to internalize it, what is this really?

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Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden, now you're instead of like,

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you know, you're not listening.

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Speaker 2: Anymore in the argument, why are you saying that to me?

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Speaker 3: And then five minutes later, why didn't I say this exactly?

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Speaker 2: You feel like George Costanza's here, It's like, why.

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Speaker 3: Did I say that?

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Speaker 2: I do that?

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Speaker 3: I was thinking about that earlier.

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Speaker 2: I think the people that usually win, and I think

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if you're in a relationship, pay attention to this for

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a second. The people that win are the ones that

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can regulate and use a com tone. I really do,

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even if the other person is like raising their voice

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and doing things, And think back to moments in your life,

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whether it be with a partner, a coworker, and anybody,

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a girlfriend at one point, a boyfriend at one point,

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you know, because you don't reward the insult by giving

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them anything. And I even god something we were I

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was out somewhere and I just thought of this. Now,

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a couple argument kind of breaks out and the guy

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says something to his wife like, yeah, you're such a

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wherever you get to be such a mouthy bitch, or

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something to that effect. And I think she said, if

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we're done name calling. It was always like being scolded

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by a teacher.

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Speaker 3: If we're just calling accusations on it, well, that's what

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it's called.

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Speaker 2: If we're done name calling, and actually like to get

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back to the actual issue here, which is the fact

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that you're drunk and we need to go home. But

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I remember thinking, oh, that's that's different. My parents didn't

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do that. They were screaming at each other.

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Speaker 4: I think we have more information now to understand how to.

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We have more thought leaders and more information and podcasts

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and people who specialize in psychology to kind of who

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have written books and given us better ideas on how

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to do that. Our parents' generation, like they were raised

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by the World War two generation, they didn't have time

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to find their innerself. I get that work on their

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personal growth.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure I can take that as an answer anymore.

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00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,599
I hear what you're saying, and I understand it, and

469
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:19,400
I will say this.

470
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:20,799
Speaker 3: It was to the mood Alice.

471
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 2: I will say this. I think that everybody I'd like

472
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:28,359
to believe this, and I sometimes waffle a little bit,

473
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,880
but everybody is doing the best, did the best they

474
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:34,799
could with what they had, right, Okay, so if we

475
00:22:34,839 --> 00:22:39,880
go with that, so that's it. However, the intergenerational trauma

476
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,599
that went on in my family, all right, we hear

477
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:48,279
about generational trauma. That's different. Intergenerational trauma. Mom and dad

478
00:22:48,319 --> 00:22:50,359
fought a lot. They screamed in front of each other.

479
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,960
I find somebody who does that same dance with me.

480
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,559
I yell and scream in front of my kids. Those

481
00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:01,279
kids grow up, they find somebody that doesn't. Intergenerational trauma

482
00:23:01,319 --> 00:23:03,640
and it really is and it's something that just never

483
00:23:03,839 --> 00:23:06,359
kind of resolves. And what you wind up doing is

484
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,799
this awful dance it's drinking. It's the you know what

485
00:23:08,839 --> 00:23:11,480
I mean, And I gotta tell you I saw it

486
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,319
in my family. I mean terribly sorry. You ever look

487
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:18,519
at your wall and think, hmm, that hole definitely wasn't

488
00:23:18,519 --> 00:23:22,559
there yesterday, Or maybe your faucet's got a drip that's

489
00:23:22,599 --> 00:23:28,079
slowly driving you into madness. That's when you got to

490
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,559
call my buddies at Mac of All Trades because it's

491
00:23:31,559 --> 00:23:33,640
your home and if you don't have the skills to

492
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,799
fix it yourself, go to the people who do. And

493
00:23:36,799 --> 00:23:40,160
trust me, there's nobody better than Mac of All Trades.

494
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They do everything. Leaky faucett they got it, Drafty windows

495
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and doors done, electrical plumbing, carpentry sure, full kitchen or

496
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bathroom model, Oh yeah, they'll do that too, From patching

497
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the hole that someone made by definitely not slamming the door,

498
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to transforming your entire space. Mac of All Trades get

499
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it done quickly and the right way. Stop putting up

500
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with cold drafts and half finished to do list. Give

501
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,200
him a call at five eight five two zero two

502
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ninety two eighteen or find them online at Macofolltrades dot net.

503
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Get started on that to do list today. Mac of

504
00:24:14,839 --> 00:24:19,559
all trades, no job too small. When have you messed

505
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:25,839
up and everyone knew? And I don't even mean necessarily romantically,

506
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:27,759
but you've messed up and everyone knows, And just think

507
00:24:27,759 --> 00:24:29,400
about that, firs. I don't even have to say anything.

508
00:24:29,799 --> 00:24:32,279
And then I want you to imagine winning the bronze

509
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:35,839
medal and calling it the worst week of your life,

510
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:49,440
because that is exactly what happened for an Olympic Nordic

511
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:57,480
skier out of Norway. He wins the bronze and breaks down,

512
00:24:57,519 --> 00:25:03,599
crying and say saying that he feels like he lost

513
00:25:04,279 --> 00:25:07,680
the gold medal of life with this woman that he loved,

514
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:12,039
and he cheated on her. And he's saying this now

515
00:25:12,079 --> 00:25:14,200
in national television through tears.

516
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 3: So he just basically melted down.

517
00:25:17,519 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and from what I can gather, sad state. From

518
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:26,720
what I can gather, he cheated and then admitted it

519
00:25:26,799 --> 00:25:30,720
to her a while ago, That's what I was gathering

520
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:34,519
in one story, and she knew he had already confessed privately.

521
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,039
But now he goes on it's national TV in Norway

522
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:44,519
and admits it and so now everyone knows. So here,

523
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,960
so now they're at the it's after the race, the

524
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:52,720
winners go up kind of like uh PGA when they,

525
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:54,519
you know, the golfers finished, they come up and they

526
00:25:54,559 --> 00:25:56,880
sit at a dais and they get asked questions, And

527
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:58,920
this is what happened at the Olympic's Listen to this.

528
00:26:00,559 --> 00:26:02,680
It's it's a pretty good You talked in the mixed

529
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,720
shown about about meeting your love of your life and

530
00:26:07,079 --> 00:26:09,519
cheating on her. But how do you feel about it

531
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,720
right now? Do you think it was the right choice.

532
00:26:11,559 --> 00:26:18,920
Speaker 5: Or yeah, if it's the right choice or not, But

533
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,759
it was the choice I made. We make different choices

534
00:26:22,799 --> 00:26:27,279
during our life and that's how you make life basically.

535
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,240
So today I made the choice to tell the world

536
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,839
what I did. So maybe maybe there's a chance she

537
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:43,200
will see what she really means to me, and maybe not.

538
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:47,799
But I don't want to think I didn't try everything

539
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:49,640
to get her back.

540
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,279
Speaker 3: So yeah, again you.

541
00:26:52,279 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 5: Want I don't want to steal the show today. I hope,

542
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,279
I hope this is just like a day or two

543
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,559
long thing and your Olympical Medalist forever.

544
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 2: First, I have to say this a completely off topic

545
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,160
on this. The fact that you can answer such a

546
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,599
question in a language that is not your native language

547
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,519
is so impressive. To me, right, especially in English, and

548
00:27:17,519 --> 00:27:20,079
English is being spoken like I didn't realize that you

549
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,160
have to speak English in every cockpit around the around

550
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,119
the world, not the country, the world. It's called aviation English,

551
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,680
and they try to teach that to all the crew

552
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:33,079
members of every flight around the world. So English is

553
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:37,440
kind of becoming the international language. But I'm like, that's

554
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,319
where when he goes, that is a that's his life.

555
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,400
It's it's life. Yeah, because I go. I don't know

556
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,119
what else. I don't even know. Can you come up

557
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,799
with a word that quickly? They always say you know

558
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,720
another language well enough when you dream in it. I've

559
00:27:51,759 --> 00:27:52,880
never dreamt of another language.

560
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 3: I've never dreamt an Italian?

561
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, can you? But can you speak it?

562
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:56,599
Speaker 3: No?

563
00:27:56,839 --> 00:28:00,160
Speaker 2: Okay? But it was spoken around you, Yes, often he

564
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,480
could occasion and you when you were a kid, Yeah,

565
00:28:02,559 --> 00:28:05,599
and you could understand it. Not really okay, all right,

566
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,839
I don't know. I'm just saying, like, to me, that's

567
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:13,480
that's impressive. Impressive. But here's I don't know. I don't

568
00:28:13,799 --> 00:28:16,759
I don't know how I would feel if that were me.

569
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:22,799
I don't know how I would feel if I did

570
00:28:22,799 --> 00:28:24,720
it and told I don't know, it's ex to me,

571
00:28:24,799 --> 00:28:28,920
this isn't about cheating. It's about the confession the cheating,

572
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:32,599
and I go, people usually do it out of guilt.

573
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 3: Well, was he caught before he admitted it?

574
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,799
Speaker 2: I don't think he was caught. I think he just

575
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,920
it was weighing on him so much that he said

576
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,599
to her, I have to tell you about something, you know.

577
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, he couldn't just tell her, he had to tell

578
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:46,599
the world.

579
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 2: Well he told her and then he and and I

580
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,200
think he hadn't heard from her after that. Oh, and

581
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,519
I think in the latest article she said that it's, uh,

582
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:56,440
it's a very hard thing to get over.

583
00:28:57,119 --> 00:28:58,559
Speaker 3: That's why he was He was like trying to like

584
00:28:58,599 --> 00:28:58,960
reach out.

585
00:28:59,000 --> 00:28:59,839
Speaker 2: I think he's reaching out.

586
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 3: Is it me you're looking for? But that's a terrible

587
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:13,839
Norwegian or yeah, because it's like I can't.

588
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,519
Speaker 2: Live with the weight anymore. Like sometimes you'll hear take

589
00:29:16,519 --> 00:29:20,039
it away from that murders, like somebody just goes, I

590
00:29:20,079 --> 00:29:22,759
can't take it anymore, all right, you just carried around

591
00:29:22,799 --> 00:29:25,440
that guilt and after so many years, you know, or

592
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:29,160
I think I remember seeing somebody saying after they were

593
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,799
caught after thirty five years on the run or thirty

594
00:29:32,839 --> 00:29:34,680
five years I don't even know if they were on

595
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,720
the run. They were probably in the same vicinity, but

596
00:29:36,799 --> 00:29:38,960
no one could pin it to that person. And when

597
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:43,000
they did, through more or better technology as it was developed,

598
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:47,440
the person goes I feel somewhat relieved because I've been

599
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,039
carrying this around for so long that I was like,

600
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:51,240
that's weird thing to say.

601
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 4: But Matt, maybe, yeah, I could see that psychoam plays

602
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,799
different games with different people. I get pretty messed up

603
00:29:56,839 --> 00:29:59,319
to do something like that, of course, So I mean

604
00:29:59,519 --> 00:30:02,519
the I'm not surprised by the psychology of relief. I mean,

605
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,119
it's it's almost like it's kind of strange to us

606
00:30:05,119 --> 00:30:08,559
because we're thinking logically. But I mean, I remember, Ron

607
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,960
Washington was the manager of the Texas Rangers, brought them

608
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:12,559
to the World Series back to back years.

609
00:30:12,559 --> 00:30:13,279
Speaker 3: They lost both.

610
00:30:13,559 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 4: In fact, they had a lot of Buffalo Bill's jokes

611
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,000
because they were actually like a one hour away from

612
00:30:17,039 --> 00:30:19,279
winning it one year, and then he decides to call

613
00:30:19,279 --> 00:30:21,240
a press conference on a Thursday afternoon to announce that

614
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:22,240
he was cheating on his wife.

615
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,759
Speaker 2: Well round a third is slid home and not with her.

616
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:30,279
It's like, holy cow, serious, seriously, dude, I mean, like

617
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,799
what he really did. Yeah, we're all.

618
00:30:32,799 --> 00:30:35,039
Speaker 4: Kind of like, you know, like Sports World was like

619
00:30:35,039 --> 00:30:37,000
that was awkward. Why do we need to know about it?

620
00:30:37,119 --> 00:30:40,359
Speaker 2: Right? Because it's like I can't keep continuing a lie

621
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:44,240
or or I'll say this letterman was great with this.

622
00:30:44,839 --> 00:30:48,079
I control the narrative. Yes, right now. Dave was coming

623
00:30:48,119 --> 00:30:52,599
out ahead of it and probably spoke to his wife, right,

624
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,920
but might have been forced to speak to his wife

625
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:56,319
because I think this stuff had gone on.

626
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 3: Well, he was trying to be they were going to

627
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:58,440
extort him.

628
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:01,119
Speaker 2: That wasn't somebody was going to extort him exactly with

629
00:31:01,279 --> 00:31:03,880
video or whatever. And so he came out and he

630
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,559
confessed it. And it is the idea of if I

631
00:31:06,599 --> 00:31:09,680
tell it first, I control the narrative. I'm not sure

632
00:31:09,799 --> 00:31:11,960
that in the manager's case. I wonder if this other

633
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,079
woman goes either you say something or I'm saying something. Yeah,

634
00:31:15,839 --> 00:31:19,480
and so maybe hey, you don't know they got up.

635
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,359
Speaker 3: Next top ten, ex apologies to my wife for cheating.

636
00:31:22,559 --> 00:31:25,079
Speaker 2: I don't know if this was Richard Nixon or Gerald

637
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,480
Ford or I maybe have the wrong president altogether. I

638
00:31:28,519 --> 00:31:30,720
think because my father used to quote it all the

639
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,359
time when they have you buy the balls your heart

640
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,640
and mind will follow, you know what I mean. And

641
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,920
that's that's that's kind of it. You know, there is

642
00:31:40,119 --> 00:31:44,599
argument though to not say anything in these situations. I mean,

643
00:31:44,599 --> 00:31:47,319
it just is like even if you carry tremendous skill,

644
00:31:47,759 --> 00:31:50,839
right and that that's a you thing, And sometimes I

645
00:31:50,839 --> 00:31:53,519
think it's almost selfish to then admit it, Oh I

646
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:57,319
made this terrible mistake. Oh fuck you. You know what I mean,

647
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,720
A fuck you. I'm sorry for yourself.

648
00:31:59,799 --> 00:32:00,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all.

649
00:32:00,599 --> 00:32:03,039
Speaker 2: And it's this big So then so then what you get?

650
00:32:03,079 --> 00:32:06,000
Do you know that was really brave? You stood up there.

651
00:32:06,079 --> 00:32:07,839
You were a brave Yeah, you know it was brave.

652
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:09,599
Is when you had your fucking pants down and you're

653
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:13,119
dick buried and somebody that wasn't your wife. And I

654
00:32:13,119 --> 00:32:15,279
don't think this guy, by the way, is married. I don't.

655
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:19,160
I don't think that's the case. But and look, sometimes

656
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:26,480
a confession could traumatize a lot of people. Right If

657
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,640
you were married and have children and then you went

658
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,960
and had an affair and they find out, you could

659
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:34,599
have a really rough relationship forever there you if you

660
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,240
have a daughter, you could have this whole trust issue

661
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,880
with men after that, there's all kinds of I mean,

662
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:41,920
there's real shit that can come out of that. I'm

663
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,480
trying to think of couples who survived affairs. And I

664
00:32:44,559 --> 00:32:48,839
know one or two that survived affairs. Yes, yeah, did

665
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:50,759
they ever? I would love to know.

666
00:32:50,839 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 3: They turned to christ I'm not joking, Okay.

667
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's usually when a lot of guys

668
00:32:55,799 --> 00:32:59,200
do you want because you don't want to lose half

669
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:00,359
your shit and you're kids.

670
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 4: Well, in divorce, let's be honest, the man's good the

671
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,200
most to lose. That's why most men are not most men,

672
00:33:06,359 --> 00:33:08,079
A lot of guys are now just like I'm not

673
00:33:08,119 --> 00:33:10,720
doing it. Yeah, I'm not doing it. I have the

674
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,720
most to lose. You have nothing to lose. Why would

675
00:33:12,759 --> 00:33:13,400
I risk at all?

676
00:33:13,519 --> 00:33:15,799
Speaker 2: Well, I think too, if you're gonna stay with somebody,

677
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:19,000
there's a difference between regret regret. As I got caught,

678
00:33:19,079 --> 00:33:22,680
I wish I didn't remorse. Is I'm truly sorry. I

679
00:33:22,759 --> 00:33:24,880
heard you, you know what I mean, And there is

680
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:26,839
a difference there, and you got to be able to

681
00:33:27,839 --> 00:33:29,480
know the difference and know how.

682
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 3: There's a thin line, but you gotta know it.

683
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:36,359
Speaker 2: But the thing that I'm kind of spins in my

684
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,519
head about this one is you admit it on national

685
00:33:39,559 --> 00:33:43,799
TV in your country. Now, there's a good chance that

686
00:33:43,799 --> 00:33:47,319
if something like that happens, the people closest to her

687
00:33:47,359 --> 00:33:50,640
are aware. I will tell you that had I ever

688
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:54,519
done anything like this, you think I'm telling margin Bill? No, okay,

689
00:33:55,519 --> 00:33:57,440
stick a microphone in my face, and now they know.

690
00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:59,160
You know what I mean. I talked a lot of

691
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,160
shit out the radio. But they didn't live in the

692
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:05,680
town for streaming, right. This is this is the national stuff.

693
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,159
You know, your your coworkers know, her friends know, her

694
00:34:09,199 --> 00:34:12,679
cousin knows, her aunt, her big mouth grandmother, everybody in

695
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,079
that fucking family knows. They all know, and they all

696
00:34:15,079 --> 00:34:18,159
think you're a piece of shit. That's what I got.

697
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,119
Speaker 3: Some of those maybe crazy and reach out to the

698
00:34:20,119 --> 00:34:20,960
girl he did it with.

699
00:34:21,119 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 2: Wow, that could be future children if you if you are,

700
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,400
do you you know what I'm saying. You just think

701
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,880
of that dies on the internet future children. Well no,

702
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,719
Now you weren't married.

703
00:34:32,559 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 4: Right, So wasn't it that country song before Mama was Mama?

704
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:38,920
And those guys dug up all that stuff about their mom.

705
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:40,639
Speaker 2: Oh guy, I got Mama was mom.

706
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,119
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to dig that up. So That's where

707
00:34:43,159 --> 00:34:43,880
I go was that.

708
00:34:44,039 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 4: I know a lot of mobs who were who weren't

709
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,159
exactly the mom they are now.

710
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 2: What your mom is. No, it's a weird thing. This year,

711
00:34:54,199 --> 00:34:57,039
twenty twenty six is a little bit of a weirder,

712
00:34:57,159 --> 00:35:00,559
weirder year than I thought. Not a bad year, not everything,

713
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:04,920
but I feel like everything in twenty twenty six at

714
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,039
some point is content. Go back to the thing we

715
00:35:08,079 --> 00:35:11,480
talked about in the beginning, right the argument and and

716
00:35:11,639 --> 00:35:14,000
how I just said, you're going for the viral clip.

717
00:35:14,079 --> 00:35:17,519
It's not it's about winning the crowd. That's not It's

718
00:35:17,559 --> 00:35:19,519
not about winning the argument. It's about winning the crowd.

719
00:35:19,559 --> 00:35:22,480
The com person wins the argument. Yes, And you know,

720
00:35:22,519 --> 00:35:24,920
the Pambondi thing wasn't really about an issue. She just

721
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:26,800
felt like, you're not gonna shut me down, you know.

722
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:29,639
And it's a powerful I am, it's a powerful I

723
00:35:30,119 --> 00:35:31,320
get that, even.

724
00:35:31,119 --> 00:35:33,159
Speaker 3: Though everything on Capitol Hill really is just kabookie theater.

725
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,599
Speaker 2: But I'm like, I just feels like everything is content.

726
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:42,280
So if you're gonna do a live confession now it's everywhere.

727
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,599
This is a guy from Norway. It was just using normal.

728
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,280
Speaker 3: And he was a Brod's medallist who we don't forget otherwise.

729
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:48,320
Speaker 2: You got it.

730
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:50,119
Speaker 4: He was in the gold. He didn't get hit in

731
00:35:50,119 --> 00:35:53,519
the knee with with a freaking tire iron like Nancy Carriyan.

732
00:35:53,559 --> 00:35:55,559
Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, no, no, Yeah, he didn't lose

733
00:35:55,559 --> 00:35:58,079
four straight Super Bowls. Oh no, this is a there's

734
00:35:58,119 --> 00:35:59,920
a Brod's medalist.

735
00:36:01,519 --> 00:36:07,159
Speaker 2: I just think I don't know, man, because almost everybody

736
00:36:08,119 --> 00:36:12,559
has hurt someone. And I'm not even saying through cheating,

737
00:36:12,639 --> 00:36:17,719
but has hurt someone. Right, everybody I believe has hidden

738
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:23,800
something something, maybe not forever, but you hit something for

739
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,360
a long time, you had a secret, maybe you're holding

740
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:29,199
one now, maybe you're holding a secret whatever. I think

741
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:32,239
everybody has debated telling the truth. Do I say this,

742
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,400
do I not say this? What happens? If I do?

743
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,039
What if happens if I don't? How many times I'm

744
00:36:37,079 --> 00:36:39,639
sure there's a plus minus column on a lot of things,

745
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:45,079
you know what I mean? And I don't know. You

746
00:36:45,159 --> 00:36:49,559
sometimes wonder and I always thought, like a little bit,

747
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,320
not so much this because can he come back from

748
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,320
a mistake? Like I'm trying to think of people who

749
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:57,320
did have legitimate comebacks from mistakes.

750
00:36:58,679 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 3: President Clinton, Yeah, okay, yeah, I mean if they.

751
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 4: Let's put it this way, in two thousand, if he

752
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,000
could have had a third term, he would have won

753
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:10,239
hands down over George W.

754
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: Bush.

755
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,280
Speaker 4: America was doing great, and I remember having great answers.

756
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,320
I don't care who he screws as long as I

757
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:18,760
get my Social Security check.

758
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 2: See that was all seat. Now did he normalize cheating?

759
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,039
You know what I mean? I mean we could. I'm

760
00:37:25,079 --> 00:37:27,119
just saying, and by the way.

761
00:37:27,159 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 4: About because we'll think about it. After Kennedy, after Kennedy

762
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:32,239
who was messing around on their wife.

763
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: They hang on a second. Maybe I had that wrong.

764
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:39,159
Maybe it wasn't Nixon, Maybe it was Bill Clinton. Normalized

765
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:43,000
lying could be I did not have sex with that.

766
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 3: Woman, have sexual relations with that woman?

767
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I remember going in and chopping out the

768
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,480
audio and being so proud of myself and leaving it

769
00:37:50,559 --> 00:37:52,320
for brother Weiz who played it.

770
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:53,199
Speaker 3: Who did this?

771
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 2: Is it great? Because they said, and I had sex

772
00:37:57,039 --> 00:38:00,440
with that woman? Because you know I did not took

773
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:05,199
the did not out. I'd save that one. Yeah, it's

774
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,159
a I think it was Clinton that they said normalized lying.

775
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:13,480
Trust is the real podium in your relationship, and you

776
00:38:13,519 --> 00:38:16,119
don't want to stand on trust alone, because if the

777
00:38:16,119 --> 00:38:18,360
other person doesn't trust you, you're up there by yourself.

778
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no trust, say truthfull yeah, no.

779
00:38:21,039 --> 00:38:23,599
Speaker 2: No, okay trust. If the new year has you saying

780
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,400
I did not sign up for this, like a worker's

781
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:30,840
comp case, social security disability, or a personal injury claim,

782
00:38:31,199 --> 00:38:34,400
don't try to google lawyer your way through it. Go

783
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,719
to Connors and Ferris. They have offices in Buffalo, New

784
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:41,840
York City, Syracuse, and Rochester and they'll get back to

785
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:45,599
you within twenty four hours. Yeah. So even when you're

786
00:38:45,639 --> 00:38:48,559
stress scrolling at two am, you can call two six

787
00:38:48,599 --> 00:38:51,039
to two comp, tell them a little bit about what's

788
00:38:51,079 --> 00:38:53,360
going on in your life, and within twenty four hours

789
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,119
one of their attorneys will get back to you. You'll

790
00:38:56,159 --> 00:38:59,760
talk to real lawyers who will explain things in plain English.

791
00:39:00,199 --> 00:39:06,679
Legal mumbo jumbo, workers comp, social security disability, personal injury complicated.

792
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:13,159
Absolutely something you should handle alone. Nope, Connors and Ferris experienced,

793
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:17,039
responsive and committed to serving you better. Called two six'

794
00:39:17,159 --> 00:39:21,599
two meter comp helps Available right. Now there you. Go

795
00:39:22,039 --> 00:39:26,719
reaching back into my knowledge of, WOMEN i think that

796
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:31,239
most women don't want expensive as much as they want

797
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:36,480
Intentional AND i think that spending money on a nice,

798
00:39:36,519 --> 00:39:43,599
restaurant while impressive to really seal the, night eye, contact listening,

799
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:48,480
right paying. Attention even this story you've heard for the

800
00:39:48,559 --> 00:39:53,360
fucking ninetieth time About beth and how she once farted

801
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:56,039
on her way into a meeting and everybody. Laughed, NO

802
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:57,679
i don't MEAN i.

803
00:39:57,639 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 3: Was gonna, say is there SOMETHING i told you about

804
00:39:59,480 --> 00:39:59,880
That i'm gonna.

805
00:39:59,880 --> 00:40:03,599
Speaker 2: Wak BUT i. DO i think there's a lot of,

806
00:40:03,639 --> 00:40:07,760
times especially let me say, THAT i think there are

807
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,480
women who get to a certain age and they have,

808
00:40:11,599 --> 00:40:14,000
kids and they do, things and they feel like they're not.

809
00:40:14,079 --> 00:40:16,719
SEEN i really. DO i think that that's a real.

810
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,199
THING i think it's a real feeling they.

811
00:40:18,199 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 3: Have, yeah that's.

812
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:20,559
Speaker 4: How that's how like when the kids all of a

813
00:40:20,559 --> 00:40:22,480
sudden grow up and go off the college you, got

814
00:40:22,559 --> 00:40:24,679
the parents look at each other and, Go, okay what

815
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:25,039
do we have?

816
00:40:25,159 --> 00:40:26,599
Speaker 3: Left, yeah kids are.

817
00:40:26,599 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 2: Going sex becomes fuck you when you pass each other

818
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,760
in the. Hallway it's Not it's not a good. Thing

819
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,639
not a good. Thing BUT i DO i think you

820
00:40:33,679 --> 00:40:35,719
want to feel, Desired oh, YEAH i want to. Go

821
00:40:36,199 --> 00:40:38,920
you want to feel, hot feel, sexy you do one

822
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,880
hundred and nothing like undivided. Attention if you make her

823
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:46,519
feel like the only woman in that, restaurant any, dropper

824
00:40:46,559 --> 00:40:48,199
you might get blown in the, car. Buddy i'm just

825
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:48,840
saying it could.

826
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:54,320
Speaker 4: Happen, okay all, right taking. Notes see my wife is.

827
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,559
Afraid my wife's not a Big Valentine's day. Fan, no

828
00:40:56,599 --> 00:40:58,519
BUT i KNOW i gotta do So SO i get

829
00:40:58,559 --> 00:40:59,880
that in our anniversary is like the weak.

830
00:41:00,079 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 3: After, okay so so back to, back you're your.

831
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 2: ANNIVERSARY i get. IT a lot of women will Say valentine's,

832
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:09,239
SAY i don't want to made up Holiday hallmark to

833
00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,039
remind you that you love. Me it's kind of a shitty.

834
00:41:12,079 --> 00:41:15,039
Speaker 3: Thing, however, well well it's out.

835
00:41:15,079 --> 00:41:18,039
Speaker 2: There, yeah but here here's WHAT i thought, about BECAUSE

836
00:41:18,039 --> 00:41:19,920
i think about like my sons all the, time AND i,

837
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:23,239
go what men are taught and not not sat down

838
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:25,880
and go let me teach you. Something but just by watching,

839
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:30,639
example your taught, performance your taught. Performance and women are

840
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:34,559
looking for and probably taught more about connection because they're

841
00:41:34,599 --> 00:41:37,280
about a connection with. SOMEBODY i just have a connection

842
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,039
with that. Guy why are you dating? Him he's got

843
00:41:40,039 --> 00:41:43,719
a fucking beer, belly his pants ride. LOW i don't.

844
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:49,639
KNOW i have a. Connection usually they also have a big. Wallet.

845
00:41:49,679 --> 00:41:52,679
Speaker 4: Ill, yeah LIKE i see these beat a Big sopranos.

846
00:41:52,679 --> 00:41:54,880
Fan the algorithm's got to, me. Right so you see

847
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:58,960
these pictures On twitter Or instagram of a cartoon version

848
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:02,320
Of Tony soprano in like a bath in a bathrobe

849
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:06,679
and they cut an undershirt and boxers with a newspaper

850
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:08,960
under his. Arm and then you see the women that love,

851
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,320
him and they're all. Gorgeous, YES i, mean it's like

852
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,920
there is an aura with certain. Men there is. Attractive

853
00:42:15,159 --> 00:42:18,320
the looks are. Secondary it's all About it's about the.

854
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:21,360
Guy he's a, Leader he's.

855
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:24,119
Speaker 3: A James his. ORANGE i can see His Charlie Charlie,

856
00:42:24,159 --> 00:42:24,639
murphy his.

857
00:42:24,639 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 2: ORANGE i can. See but it's like it's, yeah and it.

858
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:31,480
Is there's something about an. Energy there's a way they carry.

859
00:42:31,559 --> 00:42:34,679
Themselves there's in confidence to it that all that is

860
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:36,840
is part of. It and he really can't fake that.

861
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:40,320
Ship what did your dad do for your? Mom card? Flowers, no,

862
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,119
no no? No in? Life what did he do?

863
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 3: Well he provided?

864
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:44,199
Speaker 2: Well he solved their.

865
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:47,639
Speaker 3: Problems, yes car broke, Down dad took care of, it got.

866
00:42:47,679 --> 00:42:51,079
Speaker 2: It that is how? Men and what what did you

867
00:42:51,159 --> 00:42:54,599
learn take care of your. Wife, men solve, ship, yes right, men,

868
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:55,360
men men are.

869
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 3: Problems solve manner.

870
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 4: Problems, well, problem we'll, say like Like i've had to

871
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:02,079
like to coach myself not to try to solve all her,

872
00:43:02,079 --> 00:43:03,480
problems like when she comes.

873
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 3: Home and she's.

874
00:43:04,039 --> 00:43:06,639
Speaker 4: Venting just, Listen yeah you, don't well you know what

875
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:08,960
you should tell your cowork.

876
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 2: Right because that's what we.

877
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 3: Do we. Do we're.

878
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 2: Raised, yes, yes just. Listen you know how hard that

879
00:43:15,039 --> 00:43:17,199
was for me To i'm learning my first. Semester oh,

880
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:21,360
yeah first semester of grad. School, okay because in there

881
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:23,480
you're not supposed to say, anything And i'm like going to.

882
00:43:23,519 --> 00:43:25,760
Speaker 6: Get to sit in the, STEW i Am, yeah you

883
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,679
gotta sit in the. Stew yeah DID i say? That

884
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,159
or do you know that you said? That OH i caught. It, yes,

885
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,679
YEAH i listened to. You, okay you gotta sit with

886
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,000
a minute that's in the.

887
00:43:34,039 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 3: Stew well that was slow let us slow cook and

888
00:43:37,599 --> 00:43:38,639
fifty MINUTES i.

889
00:43:38,639 --> 00:43:40,760
Speaker 2: COULDN'T i would start. SOLVING i would be, like why

890
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:42,400
don't you just sell that bitch to you know WHAT i?

891
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:43,400
Mean or whatever it?

892
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 3: Was and is this a way to like keep the racket?

893
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:46,519
Going week to.

894
00:43:46,599 --> 00:43:51,039
Speaker 2: Week, no, no, NO i understand what you're. Saying what

895
00:43:51,079 --> 00:43:54,320
the truth is is that IF i solve your, problem

896
00:43:54,679 --> 00:43:58,480
the problem isn't. Solved but if you solve your, problem You're.

897
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 3: Oh it's like leading the, horse you got.

898
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,079
Speaker 2: It it's like meeting the person where they are and

899
00:44:03,199 --> 00:44:06,239
helping them find their own ladder on the way. Out

900
00:44:06,559 --> 00:44:11,280
because and, again AND i THINK i always THOUGHT i

901
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,880
love this, saying AND i was never sure IF i

902
00:44:14,039 --> 00:44:17,960
fully understood. It words don't, teach, Right words don't, teach

903
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:23,320
and experience, Teaches SO i. CAN i can tell you

904
00:44:23,400 --> 00:44:26,360
the formula and then you apply it and it's like

905
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,280
it doesn't work or it does, work or you don't.

906
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,960
Care but when you struggle through it and figure it,

907
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:32,199
out it means more to.

908
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 3: You, Right, like let's take That nordic.

909
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:39,519
Speaker 4: Dude, yes, okay now we talk about this in church with, salvation, Right, Okay,

910
00:44:39,559 --> 00:44:41,360
well what DO i? Say, well, no it's got to

911
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,599
come from your. Heart if like if like this guy

912
00:44:43,679 --> 00:44:47,559
cheated on his on his, Girl, okay and, Well, billy

913
00:44:47,599 --> 00:44:47,960
what DO i?

914
00:44:48,039 --> 00:44:48,199
Speaker 2: Do?

915
00:44:49,119 --> 00:44:51,039
Speaker 3: Okay, well if you, say well say.

916
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,639
Speaker 4: This, Okay i'll just repeat that it's not, meaningful like

917
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:58,559
say you're. Sorry i'm sorry For i'm sorry for WHAT

918
00:44:58,679 --> 00:45:01,880
i do. Cheating i'm sorry for. Cheating it's not from the.

919
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:02,559
Speaker 2: Heart, right you.

920
00:45:02,559 --> 00:45:04,079
Speaker 3: Gotta like, Help this gotta come from.

921
00:45:04,119 --> 00:45:06,639
Speaker 4: You it's got to come from your, mind your, body your,

922
00:45:06,679 --> 00:45:07,000
heart your.

923
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:11,159
Speaker 2: Spirit men solve. Problems women, feel they feel, shit they

924
00:45:11,199 --> 00:45:16,159
feel twenty eight, everything they feel, everything and and So

925
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,800
Valentine's day or even a. Brain it's not about it's

926
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:24,920
not about solving anything, right like Make it's about in

927
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,800
some way kind of signaling you pay.

928
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:31,679
Speaker 3: Attention, yes you want to telegraph. It plant those little, seeds.

929
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 2: Fellas you're if you're, uncomfortable plant signaling, infection you're in.

930
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,119
Speaker 3: Trouble plant the seed of. Love do it.

931
00:45:37,159 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 2: Now and here's the. Thing attention is. Currency, yes attention is.

932
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 3: Current certainly is.

933
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,559
Speaker 4: Now on the flip, side talk about women with feelings

934
00:45:44,599 --> 00:45:46,400
and feeling things out and thinking them with their.

935
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,679
Speaker 3: Feelings how do they don't feel like getting me nothing

936
00:45:48,679 --> 00:45:49,400
For Validide's?

937
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:51,639
Speaker 2: Day what do you? Want? Dan?

938
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 4: No my point is Like, america like they gear the

939
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,519
advertising towards the. Men it's like the men's responsibility for the. Worst,

940
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:02,559
yes and then they create a sea a. Holiday that's Why, okay,

941
00:46:02,599 --> 00:46:04,639
there you're going to create a second holiday At October

942
00:46:04,639 --> 00:46:06,000
Cold Sweetest. DAY i don't know if you've heard of.

943
00:46:06,039 --> 00:46:07,960
This this is A buffalo holiday or.

944
00:46:08,039 --> 00:46:09,519
Speaker 2: Whatnot it's A polish.

945
00:46:09,559 --> 00:46:13,159
Speaker 3: Thing, yeah and it's also, well That's Dingus, day that's After. Easter.

946
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:15,679
Speaker 4: Yeah but the point is that these the florists have

947
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,360
come up with these holidays to get men to open their,

948
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:18,800
wallets to.

949
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,639
Speaker 2: Spend more, money to kill something if you give them more. Stuff,

950
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:23,320
okay and you know, what but they never tell, them,

951
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:25,760
way get get it from a. Flowers get them from

952
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:29,000
a local. Flowers don't do them hundred flowers. Sucks and

953
00:46:29,079 --> 00:46:32,880
if you think a fucking gas station, flowers you're already

954
00:46:33,199 --> 00:46:37,039
you're already in. Trouble because if she says it's, fine guess,

955
00:46:37,119 --> 00:46:37,840
what it's not.

956
00:46:38,079 --> 00:46:39,119
Speaker 3: Fine who's got great?

957
00:46:39,159 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 2: Flowers fine is the worst word she could.

958
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 3: Say who's got great? Flowers? What Trader joe's tremendous, flowers great?

959
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 2: Flowers, yeah Trader Joe's. Yeah, okay good, tip good, hours good, tip,

960
00:46:50,199 --> 00:46:53,960
fellas here's something, else and she'll notice. This you spent

961
00:46:54,199 --> 00:46:59,079
five days total of nine, hours five days and nine

962
00:46:59,119 --> 00:47:03,920
hours total putting together your fucking fantasy football team and

963
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:05,840
you're gonna Freestyle Valentine's.

964
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:06,519
Speaker 3: Day can't do?

965
00:47:06,599 --> 00:47:12,119
Speaker 2: It fuck you in, Trouble danny can recite you playoff

966
00:47:12,199 --> 00:47:16,760
stats from nineteen ninety. Two does he know what his

967
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:20,320
wife left for? DESSERT i know That i'm not. Spoking

968
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:24,400
get out of.

969
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 3: You well it's not the Super.

970
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:31,639
Speaker 2: Bowl well, no but but you Said, juice And juice

971
00:47:31,639 --> 00:47:36,280
said to, us it's like his. Holiday oh, gosh and it's.

972
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,920
Amazing does he work the next? Day oh? Yeah was he? Drunk?

973
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 3: No you should see the spread he. Had, Man i'm.

974
00:47:42,519 --> 00:47:44,480
Disappin told my wife to put the desserts in the.

975
00:47:44,559 --> 00:47:49,719
Purse we had a. Blast, hey, honey steal a couple of.

976
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:52,119
Those i'll leave you. Half he's on like sixteen TVs

977
00:47:52,119 --> 00:47:52,880
of that, house.

978
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,159
Speaker 2: Thinking about, you. Honey i'm thinking about. YOU i was

979
00:47:55,199 --> 00:47:56,400
thinking about. YOU i left you.

980
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:58,880
Speaker 4: HALF i, mean, well we got the Super bowl on

981
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:00,760
The Big street outs, there and then he's got like

982
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,000
college basketball and the OTHER.

983
00:48:02,039 --> 00:48:05,559
Speaker 2: Tv it's like a, yeah it's a sports. Park yeah that's.

984
00:48:05,599 --> 00:48:08,719
Awesome and NOW i WISH i had Taken jackson over.

985
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:11,960
There Jackson jackson came to my house and THEN i

986
00:48:12,039 --> 00:48:15,559
wound up just staying, home AND i made many steaks

987
00:48:15,599 --> 00:48:18,000
and some other. Stuff and then he looked at me and,

988
00:48:18,039 --> 00:48:21,679
GOES i needed a day. Off we did two nice. Shoes,

989
00:48:22,639 --> 00:48:28,199
okay all right For Dan. Barrillo for You Valentine's day.

990
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,400
Suckers do it right or don't do it at. All

991
00:48:31,559 --> 00:48:37,480
I'm Bill. Moran we'll see you next. Time down in the,

992
00:48:37,639 --> 00:48:40,039
norm we was hook they wouldn't have let us in.

993
00:48:40,079 --> 00:48:41,880
Them now we land it And mamma's lock a.

994
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 4: Bitch no Sand elvis best they bowled apart in The breastland.

995
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:46,159
Speaker 2: Game