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A podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio in
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Billified the Bill Moran Podcast.
Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome. Thank you for getting your pot on.
Thank you for telling a friend. That's how we spread
the word about the pirate ship. Danny is here. I
can't Danny's even texted. They said he was gonna be
few minutes. Like traffic really bad, No big, You would
think I would have everything right. Then I I go
live by accident, so then I turn everything off. Then
when I go back in, now it's changed all my settings.
Speaker 2: I can't you.
Speaker 1: Can't win, but I can't win. They can't win. But
I will say this, I'm winning because I'm not. I'm
not sick. You're not sick. I'm hearing a lot of people.
Speaker 4: Yeah you can still hear the end of it in
my voice. But yeah, take here. I'll tell you what
to take.
Speaker 1: I just take garlic.
Speaker 4: Take garlic. That's important. Garlicgency, Yeah, that's all good.
Speaker 2: That stuff's good.
Speaker 1: I rub my feet with vapor vix vapor rub that's important.
Speaker 2: Actually, there's a way you if you if you take
a scoop of mixed vapor rub, stop it. Stop you
take a skip scoop stop it.
Speaker 1: Where do I stick it?
Speaker 4: You take a scoop, Yeah, scoop. You boil. You put
in a boil of water and you boil it up.
Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Then you pour it into like an ice tray.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, and then you.
Speaker 4: Go and freeze it. Now you have about but twelve
different va mixed vapor rubs. You throw those in the
shower every.
Speaker 1: Ooh Danny man, oh man man, have you open again?
Say that again? Take it.
Speaker 2: Take a scoop of vixed vapor rub.
Speaker 4: Okay, Now, save some for yourself or under your nose,
in your chest at night, but the majority of it.
Speaker 2: Take a scoop of it. Put it in a you know,
pot cooking, put water in hot water boiler, right, make
sure it come.
Speaker 1: We to have a whole scoop of the whole scoop.
Speaker 2: Of this stuff.
Speaker 4: And then you pour it into an ice tray, okay,
And then you put it in the freezer and freeze it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and put it in your shower in the morning.
Speaker 4: And yeah, then take one a day and put them
in your shower. It'll clean up all your snot and
everything feel great. Look at But if you're one if
here's here's a medication on a medication, but you go
to you go to Amazon.
Speaker 1: Listen to doctor Dan and a seed consisting this.
Speaker 2: Stuff will it helps slow down the aging process.
Speaker 4: But it also helps you get over colds and stuff fast.
Speaker 2: And it's a or you could do that too.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I got over this this this virus in like two days.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I I just take that stuff whenever I feel. Now,
here's the other thing I do. I do a sinus wash.
But I can't find distilled water. Walgreens didn't have it,
just didn't have it. Yeah, this happens.
Speaker 2: I have a seapap, so I have to have the
still water.
Speaker 1: Runs out of distilled water. Yeah, it's a little like.
Speaker 4: It's like okay, first it was like with Biden, it
was the eggs now, it's the distilled water.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're right, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: Because he's giving it all to the Californians, they have
to fight there. Jamison Moran's taking forty five minutes showers
and fair play children feel water supply. We got fires
going out in California. No water, our pets heads have
fallen off, Danny.
Speaker 1: I'd like to uh read you an email that I
received today and people can email Beat Moran Productions at
outlook dot com. We're gonna fix all that, Kevin. No,
Kevin's already texted me. He texted already. Uh are you
recording or did you go live by accident? I went
live for like we got it nine and second we
got under control.
Speaker 5: Bro.
Speaker 1: It was my fault. It was my fault, and I
don't like the way things look on the screen now.
But there's not a lot I can do about it.
But you can watch anyway.
Speaker 4: Uh you see it was Cod Carlson's This Weekend.
Speaker 2: Orlando Jones, Orlando.
Speaker 1: Jones, Yeah, Orlando makeup. Yeah, he may come here. Oh no, kid,
we may do a little bit of a.
Speaker 2: Set it up yours?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well on one on one, Uh before I do that.
It is funny how everybody I love I absolutely love
it at a different point in time. How do you
think I would feel about what I'm going to tell you?
I have come to love text Like Kevin just sent me.
Speaker 2: The show shows off?
Speaker 1: Oh right, and what would I used to do? I
got it. I got it. We're fixed, because I would
be the one.
Speaker 2: I'd be sick.
Speaker 5: Right.
Speaker 4: I rarely missed work, but if I missed work, I
had to be really like down and out and I'd
be listening to the show and be texting you.
Speaker 2: Daddy's texting me.
Speaker 4: I know, I know, I know, I know what button
to push to take the calls.
Speaker 1: All right, But here's the thing that like, here's how
I see it now.
Speaker 2: And he should be he should be sipping on checking soup.
Speaker 1: I should Uh. I love the people are that connected
to this? Yeah, I'm not kidding. I know that sounds.
And I hope Kevin hears this and does and take
it the wrong way you would.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think like Kevin's that sensitive.
Speaker 1: Yes I do. I tell him the time.
Speaker 2: I forgot who breaks so many balls?
Speaker 1: I tell him all the time.
Speaker 2: It's really sensitive.
Speaker 1: I tell him it was shocked. But I somebody sent
me a text message today, Hey, I want to talk
to you about a couple of things.
Speaker 5: Uh.
Speaker 1: One was something and then the other was you should
get a website, which I do have but I have
not set up.
Speaker 2: Is one of the under construction sites out the website.
Speaker 1: Very very long time. Hang on, Kevin, just text I
hear you, asshole. I'm not saying anything bad. This is
what I'm starting to say, is so I get this again.
It does it sort of does say that, but not exactly.
And I got to figure out it's just just finding
the time. But I got to do it. And I
have a deadline in my head for this. But the
person said to me, you should do a website and
then put all the different people who are on the
podcast regularly with their picture that you can click to like,
you know, oh, you want to order bTB or you
want to do this, you can go under Matt and
you can click that and see if Danny did do
what I'm praying to my God, which isn't I don't know.
Uh No, I really hope that you somehow consider that
I love you. In the backing track, I had people
writing me going, I have a friend who does it.
They kill kill, and just to fill it out, this
person has somebody play guitar with them, but it's mostly
the backing tracks and things and they kill. I go,
Danny would be so good yacht rocking?
Speaker 2: Yes, like the Weird right, like the Weird?
Speaker 1: Do do do do? I? Would just love it. So anyway,
Uh yeah, but that was.
Speaker 2: I actually thought about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I knew it. I knew we got oh good,
good about it.
Speaker 2: I'm telling you a name for it and everything.
Speaker 1: But so this person's I with the website would be
that they could then have click and then give you
for a private part of the words.
Speaker 4: It would be like an Angie's list, but more animals list,
a bilified list.
Speaker 2: Right, So you want food, you go to B T B. Right,
you know you want your something fixed to your house.
You go to Mac. You click on Mac.
Speaker 4: You you want someone to like, you know, be a
hockey dad, You click on Kevin.
Speaker 2: You want to be annoyed the heck? You click on me?
Speaker 1: Oh Doug?
Speaker 4: You know I think Doug gets a bad way? Does
this podcast? Doug's produced a movie? How many people could
say they've done like a real freaking movie.
Speaker 1: That that was another email I got. We're coming up
on the twentieth anniversary of the Dugs movie. Yes, do
you think we can show it? The little he wants
to show it at the drive it out in uh
uh or whatever? Okay, Yeah, I don't know we can
silver gotta know there's one in Newark. There's one silver Advertising.
Speaker 2: I think there's one in Auburn somewhere.
Speaker 1: All right, let me let me read you this, because
this is I find this to be.
Speaker 2: I think that website is a good idea.
Speaker 1: I think it's a great idea. I think it's a
great idea that That's what I'm saying is I absolutely
love that you, Kevin. I'm not going to leave it
organized stuff. You go to Laura, Yes you need a house.
Speaker 2: You go to Stephanie, Yes you need law advice, legal advice.
You go to our friend Steve Sircu.
Speaker 4: Yes you got a personal injury issue you or a
workman's cop.
Speaker 2: You go to Greg.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Dandy, I got it.
Speaker 4: Okay, we'll make sure we'll get some money's worth in
the first ten minutes of the show where you got
parabills first.
Speaker 1: To just fuck you only because you said that. I
used to say to Daddy, I got it, and I
know I did. I know I did.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 1: So I will leave the person's name out of this email.
But it's a big long email. I see that there's
two sides front. I don't know why my printers print.
Speaker 4: I can't figure Perkins menu, hang off a Perkins Man Place,
Mike McCarthy.
Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning. First off, I want to again
tell you how much I love your podcast.
Speaker 2: That's great.
Speaker 1: I try to listen every morning. Uh, but love that
it is a podcast so that I can catch up
later in the day or the next morning if I
need to. I love all the regulars except no, and
why did you think that was coming? Where's the why?
Speaker 2: Because because you and Kevin like to break ball. Yes
we do both professional d I c ks.
Speaker 1: So anyone's surpressing me, I've been out of practice. He's
working hard to be good.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: He had joke yesterday about the scale with the thing
that was good. Uh so she said, this person says
and really loved the bill Lightenman episodes. Most are very
empowering and enlightening. Hah hah. I always try to think
positive and keep moving forward. I also love your advice
about starting a new venture. Just do it and tell
no one. Which is something that you know I've said. Uh, well,
here's how I took this advice and what happened. If
you don't have time to read the rest, just know
you were right. So I read the rest, and I
don't know whether.
Speaker 2: You yourself on the back.
Speaker 1: No, I didn't. I didn't. I actually felt right, Bill,
I felt a little bad.
Speaker 2: The bills are pretty good.
Speaker 1: I felt a little bad. Yeah, I felt a little bad.
Should I read the whole thing or sposttermize it? Well,
I'll read it. I am a care manager at Casey,
at a nonprofit. I work with children and families in
their homes that have mental illness. I help them set goals,
link to services, and follow up and make sure they
are attaining their goals. If something is getting in their way,
I help them work through it. I've been in the
field for about twenty five years. My current job I
love for the most part, though, will never make a
lot of money, and I yeah, which is kind of
unfortunate because that's a job. That's a tough job. Gosh,
that's a tough job because you're going into people's homes
and you're seeing you know, that's where you can kind
of she said, mental illness, And you can see mental
illness when you really have.
Speaker 2: To feel rewarded.
Speaker 4: But at the same time, I hope she has a
therapist that can help her through that, because that's a lot.
Speaker 1: I've always thought of being a life coach, helping people
that have more money achieve their goals. I have a
master's in psychology, so I never could be a therapist.
You need a master's in social work or counseling, do Yeah,
I didn't know that. To be a therapist, oh, to
be a therapist, yes, yes, So she said, I could
never be a therapist. Yeah yeah, not a life coach,
no way. I'm looking at one. They got it, and
I think I'm better at helping people create and achieve
their goals. I told people about it here and here
and there, but never did much about it. Then I
stopped telling people, following your lead and just research. This
past fall, I reconnected with an old coworker who now
has a private practice in therapy. She started all on
her own. I mentioned to her my idea of life coaching,
and she thought it was a great idea and a
big need in our community. She was agreeable to meet
and talk about how she started her business and answered
my questions. We met, and then she offered her office
space to me when she or her colleague were not
using it. She also offered referrals if she thought they
were appropriate, and she has a big network of other
providers who share referrals This got me moving even more.
I talked to my insurance guy about liability insurance. I
looked into LLC's I kept planning and thinking, I made list.
I didn't tell anyone right. The only reason I say
that is well, you'll see why. Then I reached out
to a new friend who was a paralegal and asked
if she thought I could do an LLC myself, or
if I should get or if I should just get
a lawyer. She said, come over sometime. I will do
it all for you, no charge, but what the state
charges and they I think it's really nothing for an LLC.
Everything was lining up for this. In twenty twenty five.
The chat GPT helped me with some branding and a name.
My therapist friend continued to cheer me on and answered
any questions and offered a very reasonable price for using
her office when it was available. So today my friend
is going to help file the LLC and then nope.
Last night I told my husband I was meeting with
my friend this stuff LLC. I told him a few
things before this. He knew that I met with the
therapist friend and she offered her office. He knew that
I had talked with the insurance guy. I guess he
didn't know how serious I was, because when I told
him about the LLC meeting and my plan, he shot
the whole He shot down the whole thing. He questioned,
how am I going to handle my clients? Where I
was going to get my clients from, and even the
safety of meeting with clients by myself. Mind you, my
current job, I meet with clients in their homes and
many are.
Speaker 2: Pretty sketchy by herself.
Speaker 1: Yes, my husband is generally a pessimistic person, but this
was a lot. Not an encouraging or positive thing came
out of his mouth. I'm so glad I already had
the LLC meeting lined up and everything else falling into place,
because I think if he would have known from the
beginning how serious I would I was, I would never
have gotten this far. And he has put doubt my mind,
which I'm trying to push out. I do understand his concerns, However,
this is just a side hustle. I'm not quitting my
job and starting up a new business. Sorry this is
so long, but thank you. I really feel that I
got this far because of you. An old coworker and
a new friend. Sincerely, now. I was thinking about this
a lot on and off today because I saw this
this morning.
Speaker 2: I kind of want to do something like this.
Speaker 1: And all I could think was, sometimes you're the only
way to describe it is you're pulled in a certain direction,
right You're you're pulled in a way. I know several
people who use life coaches and the goal setting and
all that. I guess I could say I think Greg does,
and I think Laura does, and and a lot of
times too, it's helping you kind of step into the
fear of whatever you're afraid of in your business world
or in your in that life. It's more of a coach,
which sometimes a therapist can be too, if you find
the right therapist. But with this one, it's hard when
it's your your spouse, and if you know the person
is more of a pessimist than an optimist anyway, and
who knows. I think you've just got to understand where
they're coming from, because what I always say is, no
one's giving you advice from a bad spot. They're usually
not telling you to be a dream crusher. They're telling
you because they're concerned, or they're worried, or hey, what's
gonna happen to the job that's actually paying the bills.
And this is what my father would call your pipe dream.
Everything was a pipe dream. Oh you got these pipe
dreams really well? The pipe dream, you know, could turn
into something great. And you're right, and it's gonna start out.
Maybe you start out one or two. I would love
to know like Laura with organizing, right, she started out
and it was all word of mouth. I think she's
down in DC because a friend of hers moved down there.
Speaker 2: I got this woman named Laura. She's the best organizer.
She's got to get my cabinet all rate rearraged. It's
gotta be great. I got Pete Eiggs's coming up.
Speaker 1: No, but I think that that's part of it. I
think she got so anyway, she went down there and
some other friend came over to this one's house and goes,
oh my god, this is amazing. How do I get her?
So now they fly her down wow. Right, So it's
all word of mouth. And I think the same thing
with the coaching. I think the same thing with the podcast.
There's no better than someone going I love that podcast.
You should check it out, you know whatever. I hope
you say that about our podcast, but this for this lady. Yeah,
it's tough when you have to be in the same
space with the person. But I think if you can
sometimes look at it as they're not shitting all over
what I want to do. They're scared that, you know,
we have a budget. If I start losing this and
going on this, and let's say this doesn't work out
as well, are we gonna have lasts as there? You
know what I'm saying all these.
Speaker 4: Well, So when I started my business, which didn't last
real long, and I'm not gonna explain why it was
because of what you just said. I had a friend
who encouraged me to do this right and talked me
into it. And my radio career at that point we
thought had ended and run its course.
Speaker 2: You'd moved on.
Speaker 4: So then at that point I was going to move
on too and start this business and in life coaching.
Speaker 2: Because what happened was a lot of people.
Speaker 4: I had some psychiatrist friends, and a lot of the
people's issues weren't like psychological. They were more like adult
like just getting over stupid stuff right, or just organizing
your life.
Speaker 2: That's all it was.
Speaker 4: But they weren't like These people weren't ready to pay
that full price, and a lot of them didn't take insurance.
But like, if you gave them a more affordable rate
and gave them more like life coaching advice, they'd be
more apt to follow that and go to you. What
ended up happening was threefold. My ex wife at the time,
who was my fiance at the time, was all for
it until she realized that most of my clientele was women.
Speaker 2: So she's she didn't trust. She was just insecure.
Speaker 4: She was an insecure brat is what she was, so
she like, I couldn't see women right. The other thing, too,
is I had to pay for a website. I had
to get on a couple of like.
Speaker 1: Wait, is the website still out there?
Speaker 2: I don't, no, no, it's it's not there anymore.
Speaker 1: What was it called.
Speaker 2: I think it was called ROC Life Coaching.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna look at it radio. I think it's impressive.
It might be it might be there, yeah, But to
just go out and try something. Look, the thing is,
like we all get worried about that we're gonna get
laughed at, or someone's gonna mock us, or or or
our job is our identity. There is no either or
it's and I'm I'm a podcaster and a life coach Dan.
Speaker 2: Gorilla the other thing, and a musician the other It's yeah, exactly.
You don't want to make this your full time thing
until you can. Yes, Then once you can, it's like, hey, look, husband,
I have all these clients and I could do this
and oh, by the way, I could raise my rates
and do all this stuff. It's gonna be fantastic because
I don't.
Speaker 4: I mean, I know a psychologist whom you know, started
out is private practice while doing his other job full time,
and he would like sleep between, like you know, for
six hours a night and then go like see people
during the day.
Speaker 1: I tell you about remind me before we wrap up tonight,
and I do have a heart out, not a heart
on again about a sleep study I read. Okay, I
think I started to tell you least.
Speaker 4: So long story short, the reason why my thing wasn't
successful is because I had an unsupportive ex wife. Secondly,
the people that I started seeing, I found out from
a personal standpoint that I was kind of enabling them.
They weren't getting better. What was happening, well, one did,
one did really well. The other ones were just they
wouldn't do the exposure therapy, right, they wouldn't take the
extra step, they wouldn't do the homework. I started seeing
myself as an enabler or they just wanted a they
just wanted a friend for an hour. Yeah, they weren't
getting that I was trying to help them. They weren't listening.
They just wanted to be They just what they wanted
was an excuse to be an idiot. Hey, I got
a personal problem, but I'm gonna go with therapy for it. Right,
So instead of fixing the problem, they think therapy or
me being their friend was fixing the problem. It wasn't
fixing the problem. It was giving them an excuse to
be the problem. I can't do that in my consciousness.
I could not allow somebody to. I can't be their
crutch either.
Speaker 1: Gonna do the homework.
Speaker 2: We're not going to meet anymore. Don't care how much
you pay me? Yeah, and I can't even pay you. Okay,
Well we're done. I mean that's what that's what happened.
Speaker 4: But if you're if you're committed to it, and people really,
then more power to you.
Speaker 2: Whoever this person is, keep going, keep trying it. There's
a couple of sites that you need to subscribe to,
like good Therapy and psychology today.
Speaker 1: Well she's a psychologist.
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, But that's where that's how you get leads.
That's how you get leads.
Speaker 4: Though they will send your name out there as hey,
so and so in Rochester is a life coach, and
they that way. You can generate leads that way because
like word of mouth and advertising sometimes work.
Speaker 1: But maybe I'll go to this person. Honestly, maybe I'll
consider like life coach because there's a lot of things
that I'm I have and I stall out and I
think I stall out more because I'm afraid and I'm
you use the excuse of oh I had no time.
I got James and I got this, I got that.
And you know, it's funny that sometimes the things that
you say come back to bite you, but remind you,
remind you to bite you is certainly one thing, but
that this isn't a bite. I've always sort of tried
and told you each guy is different, but I hold
I would call each son like I was kind of
tough on Jordan, right, but I and there were reasons
why and uh, but Jameson said to me the other
day everyone's got the same twenty four hours in a day, right,
And I was like, that's something I've said. But I've
said that if you want.
Speaker 4: If you want to do something, you will, you will,
and if you don't, you'll find an excuse.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: And I've had to use that phrase with a couple
of people in my personal life.
Speaker 1: It's hard.
Speaker 2: You don't like it.
Speaker 1: It's hard because I think sometimes you we used the
excuse of no time, We use theses, but if we
stop to look at what are we really doing? And
I read this sleep study and we're going to take
a moment because Kevin APPARENTLYOK, somebody I have to call
the break. They booked somebody for I have no idea.
Speaker 4: What did he not say that I had more time
than everybody else in the room last week?
Speaker 1: I don't, But look what have I said for years?
It's all relative? Yeah, yes, I thought I had no
time when I had no one with me. Now I
am Jamison, and I feel like, you know, so last
night Kevin writes me and goes, hey, you got that
promo up quick? Because I put together a video promo.
And I'm like, yeah, because I went home and I
just focused on it. I wanted to get to bed
at a certain time because I have this sleep study.
Freaked me out a little bit. And we'll get to that,
and we'll find out who kevin guest is, Kevin's guest is,
and I have a news story that I'm a lot
of questions about, lots of questions about. Get to all that.
Right after this, we should get what is it rocklifecoach dot.
Speaker 2: Com, rocklifecoaching dot com. Okay, I think it's there.
Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna look. Okay, we'll find out right
after that. I've been bragging to you about Cobblestone on
Maine and one on nine West Main Street in the
village of Webster for as long as I've been doing
the podcast, and the reason is it's got an upscale bar,
a warm, inviting atmosphere. It's just fun. When you walk
in there, your mood could go from really lousy to great,
or from great to over the top. I'm just saying,
it's just always a happy vibe. And that's because the
food is fantastic. The shareables are so delicious. I love
going there. It's great for intimate dining, it's great for
hanging out with friends and family. But don't take my
word for it. Listen to Ashley. Ashley writes, we went
last night and I haven't stopped thinking about the food
ever since. Everything including appetizers and entrees, was all delicious
and could tell was fresh. High quality drinks were also
awesome with choices, I wasn't expecting to have his options.
That's what Ashley writes. I don't think there's much more
I need to say other than Cobblestone on Maine one
on nine West Main Street in the village of Webster.
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Speaker 6: It's it's sun your cover.
Speaker 1: That's when let joy the fel They are the New
York Doll. It's one of Bobby Slayton comedians, Bobby Slayton's
favorite mans, Kevin, So they could call Slayton. So we'll
give Kate Slayton call and see if the answers. What's
going on on? The fires out in La?
Speaker 5: All right, let's get this boy.
Speaker 1: I guess you're still You're fine where you are? I
take it? Bobby?
Speaker 5: Are we people listening to us the O or no?
Speaker 1: Yes? No?
Speaker 5: Really?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm on I did Billy Yes live on the
uh on the internet.
Speaker 5: Well, where's my where's my big introduction? I don't get
an introduction just because there's a fire.
Speaker 1: No, we had to get to you. It was an emergency.
I thought maybe you're gonna be homeless. I have no
idea what's happening. Where's Bobby's to call?
Speaker 2: Nine one one? We had to get to you.
Speaker 1: Now did he save his sketchle?
Speaker 5: Well, let me tell you what's going on here. It's
really weird actually, because you know when the fire, you know,
I have the TV on, you know twenty four seven.
I mean I know you guys followed on the news
and it's on everything, but you know here because right
in the middle of this thing. You know, I went
up in the middle of that. I turned on the
news because I never know what it's going to reach
my house, which had almost it was really close. You know,
My girlfriend lives five minutes for me, like the next
kind of canyon over over Mulholland, and she almost had
to evacuate. I just because you evacuate doesn't mean your
house is going to bring down, right, But it was
really really close to her house. And then you know,
the city turns off the lights, you know, it turns
off the power in certain areas, so you know, so
she came to my house. Was no big deal. But
what was really scary is that there's so many little
micro climates here, like the winds if you're watching the news,
which probably are are picking up crazy in Pacific Palisades
and made the Boll Canyon my house. Because I live
on a ridge, it's always windy here. I actually get
even though it's California, I'll get Florida Katrina type winds occasionally.
So when this fire started, my palm trees over my
house and said, well, one of these is going to
come down, because it looked like all the you know,
Katrina ahurricane photos and videos you see on the news,
and I was okay, but it's like, right now, there's
not a cloud in the sky. It's really weird because
like for three days after the I almost had to
evacuate too, so I packed up my car. And then
it's like, you don't expect this to happen, you know.
I guess it's like a hurricane or an earthquake or
you just don't expect crap like this to happen. And
it's got to the point where, you know, I'm calling
friends in Asheville, North Carolina to see if we beat them,
and well, you got more dead people, but we got
more houses loss. Checkmate, Well we have a contest to
see who's winning as far as tragedy and a nightmare goes.
But it's it's not good. It's not good.
Speaker 1: Well I know that there's it's not as bad as
living in Rochester.
Speaker 5: No, you know, I don't want to get carried away here.
Speaker 1: You know that's awful.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, okay, I keep saying about Rochester or maybe
Fort Laughter and algo, this could be a lot worse.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm lucky.
Speaker 5: You know, I only have a couple of not close friends,
but a few friends that have lost their homes. But
everybody I know, if they don't know somebody, they're one
degree of separation. But everybody knows somebody who knows somebody
that lost their home. And you know, it's it's just
so awful. You know, you're talking about the trickle down
effect of not only like specific palace hades or whatever,
all the people who worked there, the landscape, naties. It's
almost like when when COVID hit, I mean it affected everybody,
but in La when the movie studio shut down, then
the caterers, than these people, then those people, and then
you know, and it just it just hits everybody. It's
I'm very lucky that so far, because every day for
the last week until I think yesterday the day before,
right over the ridge, the giant clouds and the uh
and as the sun would set would be more dramatic
because be a bright orange sun and a bright orange
moved from all the fire and helicopters. It was like
you're they said it was like being in a warzone.
But thankfully I'm right outside of that war zone so far.
But I don't know how closer you followed the whole
thing though. When the fires went to Laura canyon Son
said Boulevard, those were embers from the Palisades, which is
not really that close, but close enough that's where they
think they came from. You know.
Speaker 1: Well, you talk about the winds, Bobby, I mean, I
think some of those winds get up to they were
saying up to one hundred miles an hour long.
Speaker 5: There were one hundred miles an hour in my backyard,
yeah for sure. I mean I didn't sit here, you know,
actually measuring them. But like I said, those winds for
you know, and then you know, all of a sudden,
the cushions from my pool fall over the hillside. I
went the next day, I'm going, damn, and I'm realizing, really, Bobby,
that's a good a bit about your pool cushions all
over the hillside where people don't have the hillside or
pool cushions or a goddamn house. So it pres everything in.
Speaker 1: Perspective, you know, it really does. There's an awful lot
like even on the political side, of those people pointing
fingers and things. When I got at this point, just
just get it under control would.
Speaker 5: Be the only you know what though, And I'm not
going to sit talking about politics. But I've been following
this really closely, and every day there's editorials on the
news in the newspaper. This is nobody's fault. I had
all these jackass Republicans or right wing idiots or whatever.
It's Gavin Newsom, nobody. You can't blame anybody for this, because, yeah,
the things you could do and you could have done.
But it's like you say, if somebody's dying, oh I
could have I could have done this before they killed themselves.
I could have reached. Yeah, you could have, you should have,
but you don't think about it. And nobody was expecting,
you know, the infrastructure and Pacific Palisades and everywhere. And
I'm sure it's the same in Rochester. Anywhere they put
a fire hydrant, the fire department shows up. Maybe a
house is on fire, right, maybe building on fire. Sometimes
a little mini ball in a crazy Nobody expects a
whole neighborhood to go down. And they didn't have water
for that. They were redoing the reservoir, which, by the way,
they said, even if it was full, it would have
lasted this way, would have lasted a day, you know,
And there were giant water tanks of reserve water that
the DWP had but it couldn't reach because the fire
was doing tests like them. They're blaming the mayor who's
been in office for like a year, but it's her fault.
The mayor. Well, you know, it's just stupid. But if
Trump was president, he would have fixed everything.
Speaker 1: Yes, he would have.
Speaker 5: He would have fixed the right way. But he doesn't
like Califorida.
Speaker 1: No, it's Biden's fault that the fire started. I mean,
come on, Bobby, we know it's Biden. It's very scary though,
as I watched that the tough part, and I don't
think anybody who has never dealt with a fire realizes
it's not the things, it's the irreplaceable things. Because my
parents have well.
Speaker 5: You know, well, thank God, like people like Billy Crystal
and all these famous people see this good book. My
career has been so niocre. I've never want to the awards,
but have nothing to say there. So I thank God
for the fact that there was nothing, no gold records,
no Emmys, so okay, but you know I do have.
It's funny because as two days ago, the winds change
direction and I could see the flames coming closer to
my house, and I say closer, I don't mean I
could feel the heat and they were coming closer, and
I said, you know what, Okay, I got a couple
of prescriptions, I got some family photos. I'm going to
get these by the door, even though it's not that close.
I want to get ready. But then I have some
really cool you know, I hate to be so pretentious
a materialistic, but I have some really cool, you know,
autoive pictures of when I did some movies with Riddy
Allen and you know, and I met Keith Richards or whatever.
So I'm going to take these. And then I have
a couple of monsters that I have that I can't replace,
that I love. And my girlfriend says, look, how am
I going to fit in the car? We have to evacuate.
And I said, wait a second, you have your own car,
like Clemenza said in The Godfather, you know, leave the girlfriend,
take the canoli, leave the girlfriend, take the monsters. I
can replace the girlfriend. There a diamond, does it? But
to have a real Gremlins for one of the movies,
I didn't it collectible things.
Speaker 1: You have a real greblin, you have a real.
Speaker 5: Actually no, no, you know where it came from. Actually, no,
it wasn't a real greblin. I have a Gremlin that
came from the Remember the water Brothers stores. They were
like the Disney stores. Yeah, yeah, they had when the
stores when they went out of business, they had like
these beautiful giant statues of Superman and Gremlins, and I
mean really really well made. And when they shook the
stores instead of selling them, which the Disney stores did do,
I heard that water brother is destroyable. So supposedly one
of the managers and one of the stores took the
Gremlins put them on eBay, and water Brother sent them
a season and says, you can't sell me. So I
bought them undercover in the black market. So right now
I could get reported. But if anybody from Warner Brothers
is listening, I want to let you know that the
Gremlins were being stored at a friend's house and that
house burnt out.
Speaker 1: That is the record. That's the stuff, man, My parents'
house burned down. And you lose that stuff. The other
things you can replace and you'll get you got to
fight through insurance. Hopefully they didn't cancel you. But you
know that stuff can come back. It's those things. It's
your daughter Natasha and the pictures and the family and
all that stuff along the way that you just can't replace.
That's that's the that's you know, like.
Speaker 5: I said, you know it made it was a little
wake up call that uh, you know, I'm gonna get
a storage area put some of that stuff in storage.
Good and uh, you know whatever, it's it's it's it's
just stuff. But you know, when you do get out
of this and you do move task, you got it.
Wish I had my gremlin. I wish my picture of
from Woody Allen. I wish I had this. And you know,
so you saved when you can. But like everybody says,
blows you get out with your life. But what could
you your life? You don't have a gremlin and you
live in Rochester, you know.
Speaker 1: Like Alin there how migly city operating? I mean, besides,
look there's portions of it that are on fire. But
well still, yeah.
Speaker 5: Okay, it's such a massive city. And some friend of
mine just came in from lax and said it was
perfectly fine, that that part of the town is perfectly fine.
I live in a valley. I'm up on the hill
right now. So today I went to the grocery store,
I went to the car wash. You wouldn't know anything's
going on. And I hate to make such a graphic analogy,
but it's almost like that movie that just came out
about the Holocaust, where all these people are being killed
at Auschwitz, and right over the right, over the wall
the commandant, a family is swimming to the pool and barbecuing.
I feel like the Comma dot because last time my
girlfriend and I went swimming, we had a delicious dinner
and our neighborhood. You would not know anything's going on here.
But on the other side of the wall, people have
lost everything, and I feel guilty. So the city's operating
perfectly fine, at least most of the city. You gotta
remember it's it's mostly two tremendous areas, you know, Pacific
Palisades at Altadina, which is a little town of Pasadena.
But you see the news people broadcasting from Pasadena right
outside of and it looks fine. Now where I am
for now looks perfectly fine. So you know, scary scary are.
Speaker 1: The you're doing any stand up? You should go do
a fire set.
Speaker 5: No, I'm not really doing any stand up you know,
I believe me. If I was doing stand up these days,
I'm sure I would have jokes about the fire like
every comet wood that gallows you. But you know, I
remember who is. I think Gilbert Godfrey today after nine
eleven had some great jokes.
Speaker 1: But whatever, So.
Speaker 5: You know, it's it's it's yeah, I'm not doing stand
up anymore. I'm just doing my uh guitars radio commercials
to sketchers. You know, I'm not Connsidered doing commercial for them,
although they're available skin the store, sketches dot com wherever
find foot or assault. Get the slippings. No bending over,
no tied laces. Try to pair sketches today. How's that good?
Speaker 1: It's amazing?
Speaker 5: That good.
Speaker 1: That's that's a take. It's done. Don't even worry about it.
I'll send it out to sketchers. And now that you
don't have to go back into a studio. What's uh?
How about the guitars you're making?
Speaker 5: What about them?
Speaker 1: No? Are you still selling them?
Speaker 5: Working on one right now? Well, yeah, I make these guitars.
I guess you're seeing the pictures of them there. They
take months to make, and my girlfriend Dominique Cohen sells
them at a gallery of Palm Desert, and you know,
I saw the half a dozen of them. They sell
for a lot of money. They're really cool, but uh,
it's kind of you know, it keeps me busy because
I'm not doing stand up anymore, and I stopped going
out for additions. You know, we're doing show business or
on the borderline the show business, you know, on the
edges of the show business, the periphery of show business.
I you still have that drive to do something creative.
So I go downstairs and I play my drums, which
I suck at. I'm thirty years and I'm worse than ever.
I'm not wearing hearing aids because I you know, I
killed my hearing. I've hear ads now. I killed my
hearing playing the drums and blasting music and working out
of the gym with my with my Sony walkman, if
you remember those lasting So I'm I'm half deaf right now.
I still can't play the drums and I'm still not
in good shape. So I'm deaf for no reason. I
still have a deer belly and I can't play the
goddamn drum, and I'm deaf. I sacrifice my health at
least it might go, yeah, well, yeah, I'm deaf. Put
I'm an amazing drummer. Maybe I'm a better drummer than
I think. I just can't hear myself.
Speaker 1: That might be. That might actually be. Yeah the uh
we actually to give you the proper intro. I did
play the New York Dolls and then called.
Speaker 5: You just to well, you know what amazing that I
keep feeling, well, you're my favorite band of all time,
and I keep feeling next to the Chesterfield.
Speaker 1: Came to brought Shaw and together.
Speaker 5: By the way, I know, I actually drove to Vegas
two months ago. They were playing in la in a
good place, and I said, you know what, I'm going
to drive to Vegas. You know a little Stevemen at
the Underground Garage, which I love with a passion, had
them and the Cocktail Slippers and another band. And my
girlfriend says, you're driving to Vegas. I said, yeah. They're
playing a little forty seat room in a in a
hotel and Stephen brought him on stage and they were great,
and the drummer Mike and Andy Mubukee, one of the founders.
I think I gave them both COVID because I got
home and had COVID and I called them and he goes,
like a COVID too, and maybe he gave it to
me that brick maybe, you know, But yeah, Andy and
their car broke down going from from from Vegas to
la and they had so, you know, I go, you know,
it's not just comedy. It could be brutal and un romantic.
You can be rock and roll too.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, and has his guitar shop right up
from our studio here.
Speaker 4: I know he's I bought a guitar from Andy on
the day that COVID started, that Saturday where they canceled
the parades.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we all to put a mask.
Speaker 4: I bought a guitar from him that day and then
like then the world shut down.
Speaker 1: All right, Maybe we have a connection in here with
Anny and COVID.
Speaker 4: And he said he was really sick a couple of
weeks earlier, Yeah, because he had to go to this
event called nam or something, which is a music thing,
and he goes, I got to get better for this.
And he was talking about how sick he was and
he thinks that he may have had it before.
Speaker 2: So maybe this is a coming full circle.
Speaker 5: Maybe you know, it's Yeah, it's funny me remember many
years ago when he worked at before he had a shop.
What's that famous guitar the guitars?
Speaker 1: Yeah, the great House Guitar gar.
Speaker 5: I remember when he worked there. God must have been
twenty years ago. It was twenty years ago to pay
how I know because my daughter was about My daughter
was fifteen. Yeah, and I brought her to Rochester and
she got a tattoo, even though she wasn't old enough.
You know, I got connections. We both got tattoos, daddy
and daughter tattoos. Then I brought it to a house
of guitars and Andy. I think she bought a guitar
from Andy, or maybe we just went there. I don't know,
but she was sorry to play guitar. And I said
to Andy and this guy, I wish I played guitar,
but I'm fifty years old. Now he ses, you're not.
It's not too late. If you start now, by the
time you're seventy, you'll be great. Well, I turned seventy
in May, and I can't play guitar or the drums.
And you know, your daughter, I could have been a
great I could have been a great guitar player. That
but who wants a seven year old old dem jew,
you know, with Ben Pascua and a beer belly.
Speaker 1: Hey, I want to see the Stones this year. Keith
isn't that far off. Well, actually he's older. He's eighty.
Speaker 5: Eighty one eighty two. He just turned out to any
one in December. You know, Keith signed a beautiful picture
for me, and that's one of the treasure things I have,
which I love. He that famous picture of guy who's
the damn I know the photographer too, I can't think
of his name, the picture where he goes keep America
drug Free. You know that picture.
Speaker 2: I don't like that.
Speaker 1: Yes, I have seen that. Yes, it's a.
Speaker 5: Very very famous picture that you did not post for that.
He got off the Stones plane he was in he
was in customs going through the lead out the water fountain,
and the photographer took the picture and you know, keep
America drug free, are safe from drugs, whatever the hell isaid,
And so Customs came over and saying you can't take
any photos because I haven't shot any photos yet. Anyway,
I have a beautiful sign picture of that from Keith.
So that's one of the things I'm taking before I
get my girlfriend in the car.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad you're gremlin. Yeah, I'm glad the bags
were packed in that you're safe. You sound great, dude,
you sound amazing.
Speaker 5: That's because I'm un sentinel. Don't read all that stuff.
You say. My photo it's a lovely drug, you know what.
I sound great because I'm in the sun right now,
in my backyard, relaxing and there's no problem right now.
And it's you know, I'm not gloating, believe me, because
things could change with the winds and the fires and
who knows what's going to happen here. But you know,
the worst thing is worse than all the houses and
even the dead people, is the whole wildlife, you know,
the santamount of you know, mountains. You know, besides the
fact that it's some mid century case houses and Will
Rogers Original House and the Will Rogers State Park, I
mean it's gone, but the mountains between the Pacific Coast
Highway and where I live, the mountains were wiped out,
and the wildlife that was there there's nothing for them.
You know. It's just horrible. And it's interesting too because
all the people, you know, Paris, Hilton, and then all
the you know, Jeff Bridges and all the people that
are at home. So I'm sure you've seen pictures are
malible and it looks like, yeah, there's about one hundred
houses down over half over well over half from Carbon
Beach all the way down to Santa Monica, and those
people were probably figuring the only way we're going to
go is if there's a earthquake, in a tsunami, that
would be buried by water. And nobody would ever think
that those flames could have jumped over the Pacifico's Highway
if it's not that big. There's also not that much
brush there. It's not a lot, you know, but once
what house catches on fire, they're right on top of
each other. There's no way to stop it, you.
Speaker 1: Know, No, I know that the fire. You just start
watching the roofs. It's basically what you're doing and hoping
you catch whatever amember. If it's in a hose shot
that was landing on people's rooms. It was happening so quickly,
at least from what I saw, And you're right, I've
never seen anything where it's not just one house, as
you say, with the fire hydrant, you know, having family members,
my parents' house burned down. It was just them, right,
The only people affected were them. This is entire neighborhoods, blocks, streets.
I don't know how you even go back and read build.
I just think it would be well.
Speaker 5: You know, it's funny watching the mayor today. You know,
there's press conferences every hour from either the governor or
the mayor or the fire chief or FEMA. You know,
they're making speeches all day, which is great because they're
trying to encourage people to you know, you know, the
outpouring of people giving stuff. I mean I gave half
my clothes away. Yeah, and a little bit of money.
I don't have a lot of money, but I gave
what I could. But they're not even they're not even
taking clothes anymore now. They just want food. So people
in La are kind of except the looters. You know,
some people have a lot of balls. You hear about
that one looter left to addressed like a firefighter the
loot house.
Speaker 1: Yeah went in. I go, that is that is the balls.
That's a guy you'd like to just talk to for
a minute, Like, how do you see this as an
opportunity as people are diving?
Speaker 5: Well, you know what if you don't believe in the
death penalty. There's one thing where when you bury them
up to his head, you throw rocks. And I'm like
the Iranian way to take care of the hasibal Middle
East way. Yeah that I needs the diet brutal does.
But besides that, everybody else seems to be. It's kind
of cool, very very depressing, you know. I mean. I
was swing into New York today of nine to eleven,
and even though I wasn't there, my plane of course
got canceled. But I was going into New York and
I was going to do Me and Joe Rogan were
over here a new comedy club by Madison Square Garden,
and I was booked to do the Howard String Show
in Good Morning America and I've never done goimboarding America.
And I got all these teens and then everything I
can this movie I didn't band it since premiering. I go, hey,
I'm actually show business and this is going to be great.
Maybe you see nine to eleven and I'm feeling really
bad for myself. Oh there goes my career. There does
my movie premier. I've never been to a movie premier.
Then they see the two people on fire, jumping out
all the him jumping out of the World Trade Center
and go, this is almost as bad as my cushion's
going over the.
Speaker 1: Side of the wall, right exactly.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you got to put everything in perspective, you know.
Speaker 1: That's just what I was going to say. Perspective is everything,
and it you know, sometimes, unfortunately, is things like this
that put life back in perspective for you a little bit. Well,
I'm glad you're I'm glad you're well. I'm glad Sketchers
is still treating you well. And uh man, you sound
yeah fucking awesome, dude, you really do. Yeah, you sound
like the same old Bobby Slayton. And we all know
and love.
Speaker 5: Who knows. Nobody knows who loves me. Anybody knows me
doesn't love me except for you too. The reason I'm
doing this show.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well I don't you guys couldn't You couldn't find
anybody else in La to call.
Speaker 5: I know you called me. Do you know any celebrities
in La? You know? This exact same thing he happened
when Robin Williams died. People knew that Robin and I
started out together and they were friends, so I got
always called some radio stations and podcasts and and I
guess they can't reach what to your billy, so they're
calling me. That's exactly what happened. Do you know anybody
else I knew Robin that day, Slayton from San Francisco,
what they were friends? He didn't find him, so yeah, great.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you were you were you were friends with
Robin when it was before he was what everybody knew.
You guys were both under Robin before more.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he was up. What was it fifty? I'm trying
to the first time I did stand up was in nineteen.
I was twenty one. I think we had Data. Carvey
actually started the same week at the Holy City there
in San Francisco. He might have done it once or twice,
and I had we started the same summer. I got
to talk today. I've talked to Data about that. He
doesn't really remember, but I remember going on at twenty
one and uh or twenty two, and then it was
like open mic night and uh it was me and
Data of whoever that was else was on and then
we have a special dropping guest. And this is at
least at least three four years they Yeah, a few
years before More Whatever, more Commedia if he came out
in seventy seven, So remember a year or two before
More Committy and nobody really knew who Robin was, and
he just go, wow, this guy wow, you know, he's
kind of crazy. So yeah, we go, we go back. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: He just had that mind that just absorbed everything. And
I think there were people that, you know, thought you
told us he stole jokes from you. Well, I mean
or whatever. Didn't you call him up on a special
going hey man, and he's like, oh yeah, sorry.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know a lot of people called him on it.
He would always go, I'll pay him for that joke,
and he just didn't do it anymore. But it was
weird because he was that kind of guy. He don't
really he did a couple of my lines, but but
he was a kind of guy like I remember I
we tell him a joke and then twenty minutes later
he came up and goes, hey, it's a great joke too,
was walking the bar, and I go, I just told
you that joke twenty minutes ago. So it's like I
think he took stuff in yeah, and did I don't know,
you know. Yeah, So that was the roblem.
Speaker 1: I add, is a beautiful thing like the eighty eight?
Speaker 5: Ever?
Speaker 1: Really do I think it's a beautiful gift kinds of people? Right?
Speaker 5: I think I got that too.
Speaker 2: Actually, you know how to harness it, if you harness
it right, Yeah, people don't.
Speaker 1: Well, Bobby, thank you for answering the phone. And I'd
love to talk to you again when there's not a tragedy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, boy, if if, if, if I was busy, I
would have picked up.
Speaker 1: But all right, I'm glad.
Speaker 5: I'm glad my best to Rochester.
Speaker 1: Mamasan is still there, right, Mamisan is still around.
Speaker 5: Yes, I would live, makeure for Mami Son and Wegmans.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Wegmans is good. Well, I'll send you a care package.
Speaker 5: It's fine, you know. That's what I'll about little bit
where I live for now, I have six grocery stores
within a mile together. They were like Wegmans, if they
were all put together, that's you know. But it's fine.
I'll make it. I'll survive. I'll be okay with five
grocery stores.
Speaker 1: All right, all right, and make rooms for your girlfriend
in the car.
Speaker 5: Okay, I'll talk to you guys, all right, goodbye.
Speaker 1: Bye back there, he goes. Obviously, you can't get it
never stops. Did you ever meet Bobby.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if I have or not.
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe, I mean, I get him confused with the
other guy he had on last.
Speaker 1: Week, so oh oh oh, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 2: I may have. I may not.
Speaker 1: Bobby did do Uh?
Speaker 2: Was he the guy when we went down to Nashville?
Was he the comic?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 1: That was that was him? Okay, that was the other dude,
Okay last week that was yeah, Okay, that's right. Confused
Jimmy Shuber, Jimmy Shooter. Yeah, and this is Bobby Slayton.
But Bobby was in a movie that I think you
may have seen, The rat Pack.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I've seen it. I don't think
I've seen it.
Speaker 1: Okay, he was an HBO I think The rat Pack,
and he played someone more on the periphery of the
of the rat Pack, but he was, he was in it,
and he did. I just remembered laying in the basement
at our old house watching Disney Channel with the boys
and a mascot takes off its head and it's Bobby
Slate and I am fucking crying that the kids don't
know why anyway. I know it's like because Bobby was
the one that had the joke that one night, I
wind up going to see Bobby Slayton and they seat
me right in front of the stage and it's me
and my wife, her best friend who is involved with
a women's shelter. Uh. And then that one I know this.
Speaker 2: Is going and.
Speaker 1: That's that woman's mother and her mother's husband and we're
all there and uh, Bobby does the joke about yeah,
you got me hear about the Tempora house. It's not
lightly battered women. And I think there was a groan
and Bobby looks down and he recognizes me and he
goes he grabs me up on See. So now not
only do I have everybody at my table fucking ready
to just like walk, but right in the fucking front
because of that joke, because she's involved with this.
Speaker 7: Now he's all sweaty, he's all whatever up and he
pulls me up on stage, gives you a big hung
a big wet kiss of the thing. Everybody and that.
Speaker 1: Was I just remember going. I swear to God, if
that didn't happen, they would have left. I think that's
how I think that's how uncomfortable was and you know me,
I'm not. I hate that ship. Like the scenes. Just
it's a joke. Don't take yourself too serious. All right,
We're uh, we'll do one more quick set. I have
a story that I wish I had more time. I
didn't expect the Bobby thing, but that was good, very good.
He's an entertaining guy and he tells all the stories.
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Come on, dude, come on, you didn't know what started
that way to cross?
Speaker 2: No I did, I just you haven't heard it so long.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: I remember when this song was on AM radio.
Speaker 1: Oh sure, yeah, nineteen eighty three. Yeah, that's about right.
In fact, he.
Speaker 4: Brought Bobby Slayton brought a powered start in the movie
Private Parts. This is the song they cut to when
they're doing when he's getting the massage from the chick
who's naked and I have to cut to a record.
This is the song that they cut to. I think
the sale is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I I want Dandy to do a yacht
rock I've it's my selfishness that I just I think
you'd be great.
Speaker 4: Do you think this dude had a lot of money
before he wrote this song or somebody had to have
a lot of money becauseho's singing about sailing other than
someone with money, Like, I remember what a pastor wants.
Speaker 2: This is no joke, substitute pastor.
Speaker 4: Right, So any time of an associate pastor gets up
to preach, you know, he's like waiting for that moment,
you know, because he's I got things to say, He's.
Speaker 1: Got thoughts, he's got thoughts.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm trying to poop poo that whole thing. Ah oh,
because why it's turning me to a caricature. All right,
I'm not a caricature. Too old for that. Well, anyway,
this pastors.
Speaker 2: Every time I've tried sailing on a Sunday, it starts
raining because God wants me in church.
Speaker 4: Yeah, God wants to just yeah, because you're sailing, He's
gonna make the rest of us suffer and make it
raid because this pastor decided he's.
Speaker 2: Gonna go sailing.
Speaker 4: It's not a bigot church, Give me a break. This
is what we get too full of ourselves.
Speaker 1: Yes, but it is thinking a song.
Speaker 4: If you're a rock and roll star seeing a saw
about sailing, you have to be a professional douchebag.
Speaker 1: Seriously, I don't know, because when you're going out rock songs,
if you're going fishing, you're not going sick. Shit. It
gets me drunk. Would you sign it? No, you wouldn't.
I would do it as a joke, not with the
vackuing track or anything. I think it'd be so good.
Speaker 4: And I don't mean that I couldn't do it with
the straight face. It's like these guys with mustaches.
Speaker 2: I think they're making fun of guys with mustaches who
mean it.
Speaker 1: I see a lot of guys now with the mustache
tips tworld.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think they're trying to like they want attention.
Speaker 1: That's what it is.
Speaker 2: That is like the old Tibers. They actually did it
because they could do it.
Speaker 4: Yes, I think this generation growing mustache making fun of
our parents.
Speaker 2: That's what I think it is.
Speaker 1: Okay, Like it's a joke, all right, that could definitely
be because.
Speaker 2: Why else would you have a mustache. There's no other purpose.
Speaker 1: I think Jordan has a mustache. I never had a mustache.
Speaker 2: Well, we are coming out of November, really, I mean
it was only January.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but still I think Jordan does.
Speaker 2: I don't Jordan, Fine, would you say about me?
Speaker 6: Listen?
Speaker 1: Imagine there there's a party and you know a relative
was going to this place. You didn't know what the
party was, and then you don't hear from him for
a couple of days, and so you have a welfare
check done and they're dead. Listen to what happened.
Speaker 8: To a story out of Shakapi where this This is
in Minnesota. It's at the center of two death investigations.
Police believe the two died. We're attending a swingers party
when they were found dead in a hotel room.
Speaker 2: It's so funny you bring this up.
Speaker 4: Okay, so last night, Yeah, my wife has to watch
television when she goes to bed, right, she has to
have a TV on. Right, So we have to agree
on something. If I'm going to sleep with the TV on,
we gotta so you may make fun of me. I've
always thought The Golden Girls was funny since I was
a kid. It's like comfort food. Right, So I could
agree on that, right. So it was the episode where Dorothy.
It goes from the episode where Dorothy's in the I
think an affair with the guy who played Mo Green
and the Godfather, she cuts it off. The next episode
is Betty White's character Rose, who's kind of a dingbat.
Speaker 1: Yeah right.
Speaker 4: She brings this guy home and then the next morning,
you know, he goes, i'll be quiet, I'll be quiet, right,
guy's up dead in her bed. She goes to call
the guy's sister, finds out it's actually his wife. That's
why he wanted to do it at their place. So
now she's got to tell the wife that she was
poking him and he died of a heart attack in
that bed.
Speaker 2: So this swinger party, you know.
Speaker 4: You're a relative, you call me fagged out that grandma's
a swinger.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Here's another side, another thing. Somebody said
that your grandparents there was talk of bringing Golden Girls
back with their grandkids, daughters and grandkids instead of the
Golden Girls. But you would have whoever played Phoebe Lisa
Kudrow play Betty White's character as though she were her
granddaughter or her or her daughter. Oh okay, and they
would bring them back is yeah wow, because they were
all in their fifties when it started.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, so that would be about which which,
by the way, now looks like seventies.
Speaker 1: Yeah it does. But yes, all right, Here is a
little bit more on this story. Listen to this.
Speaker 8: On New Year's Day, police say they found drugs in
the room. Ian Russell is here with details and a
message from that party.
Speaker 1: Organice looks late tonight.
Speaker 9: Shockaby police are investigating after two people were found dead
at this Bamo By Wyndham hotel on New Year's Day. Birch.
Warrants obtained by Caro Levin show officers responding to the
hotel for a welfare check after family members a forty
seven year old Josh Peter Quayle said they hadn't heard
from him. Quail was supposed to check out on December
twenty ninth. When officers entered his hotel room, they say
they found a manned and woman later identified as Quail
and fifty four year old chant Held Denise Preston, dead
and decomposing.
Speaker 2: Ah oh both.
Speaker 1: I guess were they murdered? No, I don't know. I
think they owded they found drug paraphernalia and stuff. But
could you imagine what if they ow deed while in
the act and they just both the right there and
he's still in her.
Speaker 9: Officers say they saw illegal narcotics and drug paraphernalia close by.
Officers were told that the two were at the hotel
for a party known as the Big.
Speaker 1: O, I mean.
Speaker 9: The Big Daddy who the entire hotel has rented out
for this party. That event is sponsored by Midwest Euphoria,
a swingers group hosting parties hotel. In a post on
their website, that event, called Frozen Fantasy, spanned three days
in December.
Speaker 1: From the three days in December Fantasy, the Big O.
Too bad that these people didn't freeze, they died bloated.
Speaker 2: Twenty seven through the twenty ninth.
Speaker 1: How come nobody from the hotel went and checked.
Speaker 4: Your well, they probably put they probably put up well, Yeah,
that's what I'm also that what they told the family.
Speaker 1: Yeah, nobody from the hotel. Somebody and it's got a stink,
or maybe just the whole swinger thing just stay, or.
Speaker 2: Maybe they decided to take a few extra days for themselves.
Speaker 9: I'm a reporter at Carolevin it's like, you know, I'm
wearing a microphone, just looking to see if there's a
property manager I can speak with. Hotel staff declined to
speak with us, instead giving me the email for the
owner of the hotel.
Speaker 1: I've not heard back.
Speaker 9: I also reached out to win them hotels directly and
have also not heard back. Warrant isn't owner of Midwest Euphoria.
We spoke on the phone and he declined an interview,
but said they condemn all narcotic use at their events.
Speaker 2: Yes, on their website.
Speaker 9: That's listed on their rules for event participations.
Speaker 2: We have swingmer rooms.
Speaker 9: Constitution says all signs point to an overdose. In both cases,
they have a positive test for fentanyl. Tate says the
case is still active and there is still an event
on the Midwest Euphoria website schedule to take place at
that hotel in February.
Speaker 2: Julie and some sick, sick jackass would want to have
that room.
Speaker 1: So there, Yes, but there's that room is supposed to
have another event there. And when they cut back to
the studio, the female anchors coming, oh, oh my god,
it's so terrible. But what if you worked at the
hotel Now, Kevin worked as a hotel manager and they
had a swinger party there and he had to pull
like one of the young bartenders out and he went in.
There was a bartender in the room while all the
people are having their own.
Speaker 2: Takes me away from managine a hotel.
Speaker 1: What if you worked at the hotel and you recognize somebody,
like let's say they went to your church, or you
see them or your kids go to school together, do
you say hi or no? Like if you manage the
hotel and all of a sudden, here comes uh, Bob
and Sue and your kids go to the school.
Speaker 4: They's a Christian brother. If they were by my church,
I need to confront them. You would, I'd have to, Hey,
what what's going on?
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 2: As far as I think I would anybody else, I'd
just be like, hey, you do with your business man?
Because he's the thing.
Speaker 4: I've watched enough Bob shows to know you you see
no evil, you speak no evil, you hear no evil.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know nothing.
Speaker 1: I mean, did you ever find out something about somebody
after they died? They died and then you found like
sometimes people find out you know, secret families or mom
was having an affair, Dad was having an affair, or
mom had a mom was lowly. You know, mom was
a widow for twenty years, but she had a secret
boyfriend or something. You know what.
Speaker 4: I would love one of those stories. My family's pretty
clean though when it comes to that stuff. But we
But there was one time where I had a cousin
get remarried and it was the same weekend his Mother's day,
and I went home to see my mother and take
her out for breakfast. And at the time, she was
with a guy who just recently died and his family
was there. So you got all these mothers there, right,
and my cousin is celebrating the breakfast after her wedding.
Speaker 2: She just got remarried. So this all in the same
hotel banquet room.
Speaker 4: Now, well, you know how people start talking, right, So,
you know, they see my cousin, they start talking with
my cousin, They start talking to my cousin's family, and
they start talking with my cousins mother, who died like
thirty years ago. And then they started saying these things
about the mother who I remember as a kid when
she did I'm like, oh my gosh, Mom, she's my
cousin's right, keeping boys down.
Speaker 2: I mean they were saying it's a add stuff, well,
you know, related to her.
Speaker 1: Statute of limitations daddy thirty years.
Speaker 2: I mean, first of all shocks. Then I was like,
I really.
Speaker 4: Shouldn't be shocked. I know, I knew, I remember this woman.
She was a wild woman. And third her daughters didn't
keep it down.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just go, what if you I
could just imagine you're leaving one of these events. Let's
say you decided to go and because Laura is very
curious about this stuff. Who's on the podcast, she talks
about being curious. She doesn't think she could go through,
but she wanted. She just wants to see what is like.
They say that, yo, I think what she gets there
the pheromones and things start going and then you know
it's sodom and gomore. Yeah that's right, But I go.
Could you imagine if you're walking out and all of
a sudden you said, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, I'm sorry.
I meant to tell you last night. I'm a dermatologist.
I really think that thing in the center of your
back she needs to be looked at. Here's my card.
Speaker 2: You They did an episode of House about that.
Speaker 4: Did they really get one of the doctors tub he
was he was a plastic surgeon and he goes to
a strip club. His wife had thrown him out, and
he's trying and he tells he's trying to tell the
stripper that like, hey, you have a mole on your bed,
and they throw.
Speaker 2: Him out of the of the strip call like beat
the crop on them.
Speaker 4: He's like and like his life's like falling apart, and
he's like trying to help this woman because now he
feels terrible about what's going on with his wife. So
now he's trying to do a good thing, you know,
like gets compounded and it's worse because he's touching this
woman's back and you're not allowed to touch the girls.
No good d goes unpunished. But yeah, I mean, now.
Speaker 1: What if you were dating somebody and you found out
that they were once a swinger but the lifestyle wasn't
for them. They left the swinging, They left that person
that they swung with. They had a partner and all
that's over. It's been a couple of years. Would you
be able to stay with that or would always be
in the back of your.
Speaker 2: Mind always be in the back of my mind. But
I could get over it.
Speaker 1: You could.
Speaker 4: I could get over I think if you if there'd
be like if we were like in the situation, you know,
like like if it were my wife, Let's say she
told me that. Okay, yeah, I don't think you would
never do that. But I'm saying, yeah, I could get
over that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay.
Speaker 2: I think there's people people have to remember, like people
christian Christianity is a religion of second chances. You know,
you have to get over those things.
Speaker 4: You have to give people an opportunity to repent or change.
Speaker 2: You have to give people a chance to change.
Speaker 1: Get you off on me alone.
Speaker 2: That's not That's not what I was going with it.
Speaker 1: It's changed.
Speaker 4: But the point is, like, like, can I clarify something
we said yesterday? We were talking about the no that
so that guy that Philadelphia Eagles, he lost his.
Speaker 1: Job, lost his job and he's banned from the stadium.
Speaker 2: He's banned from the stadium. And I got to be
honest with you, Like last night, I said, like I
if that were my wife, that.
Speaker 1: He were, so, why are you gonna write? But here's
the thing, though, I put that out as a promo.
Speaker 4: Well, here's the thing, I know, I know you did
no no, no, no, no no, you didn't do anything wrong.
Speaker 1: I thought about it.
Speaker 4: I know I thought about it. I thought about it
for a second. That's the guttural feeling that I had
for that guy. But we have now become a culture
where there is this movement on what side of the ledger.
I'm not going to say which one. You could pretty
much figure out where now. Words are violence. So if
you say something now I have the right to hit you.
That's wrong And I don't want to end up like that.
I don't want to because that.
Speaker 2: Is not the case. Words are not violence. He may
make you violent, but it doesn't justify your violence. And
that's my point.
Speaker 1: Well, the only thing you can control your emotions. And
I think the person who is taking that video did
a great job of controlling their emotions. And I think
that you have to be better in that situation. And
you know, uh boy, I don't think he could have
asked for any more. I feel bad that a guy
loses his job, but it's horrible stuff if that he
was saying, and.
Speaker 2: Not because I don't think that's cool either.
Speaker 1: That he lost his job. I don't think that's cool.
I can see me and banned from the stadium going,
we're not going to tolerate.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because on the back of the ticket you have
to be you're supposed to behave.
Speaker 1: Let's not be a jackie losing the job thing again. Okay,
look it hackened.
Speaker 4: Well because here's the thing. Now, you could lose your
job for anything you say at this point. Now you've
opened up that stupid Pandora's box because everything becomes a
judgment call.
Speaker 1: But if you let's just say your job. Let's say
there was a video of you out there and you
did exactly what that guy did. I think I don't know,
and that people who know that you worked, you know
what I'm saying, it's almost like they're just trying to
save their ass to go because that was pretty bad.
But saying that to a woman, a stranger, you know
what I'm saying, You're ugly in a dumb f and C.
Speaker 4: It's like people will take the like about five years
ago during the pandemic, man, when people were virtue signaling
if your opinion JK Rowling, great example, when they were
talking about people who menstraight.
Speaker 2: She goes, oh, you mean women She.
Speaker 4: Got skewered for saying canceled for that because he's leftist lunatics.
Speaker 2: And by the way, the right does the same thing.
Want to cancel everybody. You can't do that.
Speaker 1: No, No, thro the stadium, he's You're a guest.
Speaker 2: So is everybody else's againest. So we all have the
rules of human society and decency. Let's treat each other
with respect.
Speaker 4: But after that, you want to throw him out of
the stadium and bantam, fine, But beyond that nothing else.
Speaker 2: We didn't put a hand on it.
Speaker 1: We talk about people being canceled, right, Yeah, and there's
that sort of thing. Here's what I would say, uh,
And I got to wrap things up here pretty quickly.
But the uh, I think sometimes it becomes like a
mob mentality and you're just trying to preserve yourself. Take
take today. Diet Coke was or Coca Cola was very
vocal about the January sixth riots when they happened, like
a sad day for democracy, the whole thing. They are
now the official drink of President Trump's inauguration, which they
felt like he was somewhat involved in January sixth. January
sixth was a sad day to me.
Speaker 4: I, But we're starting to find out that both sides
played a role, a significant role.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, but so diet cokes back. And my point
is that sometimes, like right now, people are very upset
over meta saying they're rolling back, they're fact checking.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't trust a snake. Well he ever changes.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. When the government comes and they
start leaning on you, you're gonna dance, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But the other thing is information has always been distorted
in one way or the other. So I don't think
that this is that big a deal. I really don't.
Maybe you'll actually get factual information. You might have to
do a little more homework to find out things and
really think about things, which I don't think is necessarily bad.
But the idea that fact checking and like, you know,
you could say our mainstream news, we're only hearing certain
sides of the story or a certain point of view. Yeah,
so I'm not so sure that it's that that bad.
Speaker 4: Well well, I mean, well you got Zuckerberg's like hosting
like parties for the White House for the inauguration. Well,
well when eight years ago when Trump got elected, when
Toby Keith played, Yeah, they practically canceled him. Now everyone's
like falling over themselves because all right, he won.
Speaker 1: Well, I think there was also the like a little
bit of pressure coming down, right, And so you want
to you know, I don't care, mom and pop, big business,
whatever you are, something, you're gonna wind up dance in
the dance a little bit here. But I'm not so
sure that it's all necessarily as bad as people make
it out to be. And I just, yeah, I don't
I don't think it is. I don't think it will be.
I don't think it'll be as bad as we're afraid
that it could be. I think there's a lot of
things that may come out, and maybe that's a good
thing in the long run.
Speaker 4: But I well, when Cash Pattel takes over the FBI,
we're gonna learn a lot.
Speaker 2: We might not learn.
Speaker 4: He says, the stuff about the Kennedy assassination, it's all
out there. There's no secrets. Nine to eleven, He goes,
he's going to piss some people off, though, Oh be
ready for that, Okay, all right, be ready for that?
All right, all right, I gotta wrap it up, all right,
Sorry for Bill Moram.
Speaker 1: I lost the train of think Kevin. I lost my
train of thought there for Bobby sleeping, I uh, for
the swing, go with the whole thing. And I started thinking,
oh my god, I gotta go be somewhere in fifteen minutes.
And the person that I'm going to see said to me, Hey,
can you make it at six? And I go, no,
I'm paping a podcast right now. Don't run up the
trains of thought, Danny. These trains, yeah, the connections these days.
Speaker 2: You missed one training.
Speaker 1: I know how it goes. I'll listen back to help
you get the.
Speaker 2: Trains running on time. On your mind.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I need. This person's maringa, all right,
we will Uh, I'll see you tomorrow. I don't know
if I'll see Danny tomorrow. Probably not tomorrow, probably not.
Danny's got things going on. I'm Bill Moran, He's Dan Burrillo,
He's doing yacht Rock Baby
Speaker 2: Sit somewhere in