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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons. Throwing some ice,

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mixing some vodka in color.

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Speaker 2: The podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio in

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Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dots jeep Ram.

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Speaker 1: It's Billified, the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello and welcome.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for getting your pot on.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for telling a friend.

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Speaker 3: That's how we spread the word about the bird ship.

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Oh a little surprise today, back from the resorts of

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Turks and Fatso I mean Keikos.

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Speaker 1: You submit?

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Speaker 4: Is this the only reason you have got nobody else

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to pick out?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Baby, I'm bat Dougie Fresh, the hipshaking money making Tower,

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part Man of the twenty four to seven, the one

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your mother warned you.

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Speaker 1: About getting a tan? And look at I any fine

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his back home? Baby? How are you?

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Speaker 2: I am?

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Speaker 1: Well, you're looking good. I gotta say.

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Speaker 2: Man, Turks and Kekos and you got a little bit

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of a tan going there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I burned the first day I used to do.

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You gotta be careful with that ship, dude, I had,

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I had sunscreen on and.

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Speaker 2: Still through the spf fifty. You were getting fifty.

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Speaker 4: It was only date fifty, but you were out there.

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Speaker 2: Man, you put a picture of you on social media. Yeah, shirtless,

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standing there, arms wide open, and I go to a towel.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm like, you know what, Yeah, but who should care?

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Speaker 4: Right, I'm in the middle of son and fun, my

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good friends getting married.

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Speaker 2: Look at some point in your life, right, yeah, you're

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either keep hiding the parts you're insecure about or you

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just walk out and.

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Speaker 4: Go Love me for who I am.

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Speaker 2: This is the body that got me here, and that's

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what you did. And I loved it. I thought that

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was great.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you since January, the second week

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in January, I've lost twenty two pounds. Really did not

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show in that picture. I'd actually have to lose another.

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Speaker 2: You got one. Great about that, though. I do what

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you been doing?

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Speaker 4: Very little exercising, okay, so well, I mean diet, yes,

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eating a whole lot less a lot of protein, not

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a lot of protein, but just enough to fill me

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up in the move on, exercising in the morning, some

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plank works now and just itching up just a little.

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Speaker 2: Bit, doing some plank work.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, for the belly, because if you lose your way

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too fast, like these people with the SAIC, it gets saggy.

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Remember the old what was it when your mom had

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the wash the wash line out back, she had that

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big thing full of pins. We just hang there. Yeah,

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that's what I always see. I don't want to be

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yes the meat skirt that comes out. I don't want

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to be hanging over like that.

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Speaker 2: You see there. There are a couple of thoughts I

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had about all this, and and then and let's go

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back to the ozembic because I think at some point

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in your life you gotta let go of performative youth.

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You just are what you are, right and and and

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and so be it. And I think a lot of

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times attractive is attractive. But what it's also attractive is

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a confidence and a self security right.

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Speaker 4: Yes, rightackage that you like right.

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Speaker 2: And the other thing is women have a lot of

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things that they can hide flaws with. I don't mean

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to sound like a misogynistic jerk, but they do, like

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uh oh, when they get a little bit older, if

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things get a little big. You got the bathing suit

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with the little skirt that goes around the side, right,

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kind of hides everything, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: There ain't shit for us, No, there's not ship. Let

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it all hang out.

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Speaker 2: Are fucking fat, beautiful, right, and then that's it. And

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I think that it becomes like it's confidence first delusion.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, people hanging in their youth. I mean I did

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an old timer wrestling tournament twelve years ago, got a

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shape for that, down to one seventy and this is obvious.

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I've ever been too fifty. Now I'm done, just twenty

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seven a day on the scale.

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Speaker 2: Good.

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Speaker 4: So this in the next three months. And I hate

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talking about this because I always feel, just do it.

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Don't tell everybody gonna do it. You do it, and

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then have somebody else toot your horn instead of you

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blowing yourself. I'm gonna I'm gonna lose this and I'm

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gonna do that. You know you're not doing anything.

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Speaker 2: You're speaking my language because I often say, uh, go

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forth and tell no one. And I say it that

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way because it was like, you know, almost biblical in

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a sense, because it was Jesus and I had this

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disagreement i'll call it with my dad philosophically on whether

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or not Jesus had actually said something like that. But

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I believe that he would heal people with leoparsy or

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whatever and then say go back to your village. But

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tell no one that you've been healed. And because as

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if you do, you know, dogs gonna come along go

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fuck you is gonna fall off again. And then it

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gets in your head and you and and everything I

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believe in life really is up here. And so oh yeah,

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you know what I'm.

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Speaker 1: Saying, like the way you feel about all that stuff,

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and that's why.

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Speaker 4: Well that's as xempech. It doesn't make you lose weight,

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it gets you on a mind path off.

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Speaker 2: Don't even talk to me about I have such a problem. Okay,

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I'm just saying, you know, I know.

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Speaker 4: People, it gets you thinking not to eat so much.

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It helps you that way, just so you just don't

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stick it in you and you're losing weight automatically. There's

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a whole process to it. If that's what you feel.

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Didn't go for. I didn't want to do that. Some

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people suggest that. I'm like, no, I'm gonna lose weight

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on my own and I do feel better.

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Speaker 2: Let me.

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Speaker 4: Let me sleeping through the night. You don't have to

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wake up and piss because your belly is not hanging

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on your bladder. You know, your knees don't hurt as much.

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Blong Dave bartending.

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Speaker 2: Uh, I think you should be but the whole.

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Speaker 4: But getting back to the picture, yes, you know the whole.

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It was a this is what they're doing in France

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with a towel around you so I could hide my belly.

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Speaker 1: Oh I got you still in the arm.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, had a lily white bowling ball there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but not as bad as hanging it out. And

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then I'm like, you know what, why do you care?

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Speaker 2: But you do. The beach is the last honest place

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on earth. It really is, because even I mean as

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I kind of joke that women have the the thing.

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Oh many of them do. You'll see flaws, and my

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favorite are the women that just don't care. I loved

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when I.

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Speaker 4: Was self confidence is very sexy in a woman.

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Speaker 2: Well, self confidence and almost maybe not understanding.

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Speaker 4: Uh, they're not worried about being judged. They like their outfit.

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I'm going out in there, and I've met a lot

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of people in the bars obviously, yeah, and over there

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is and I remember some of the women that just

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you know, I like this and this is who I am,

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and they don't like it. They can go to hell.

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They're not wearing it. They didn't pay for it.

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Speaker 2: No, look I. But what I was gonna say is

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I used to have a timeshare, so we would go

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to different places. You know, you can. My wife at

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the time was great at like booking it out west

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and you know, trading whatever we had in Florida. And

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I remember being at one family resort, family place, and

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this lady sitting up like you had to swim out

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to like this makeshift island in the pool, and she's

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sitting on this thing and she.

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Speaker 1: Has on fucking dental floss.

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Speaker 2: I mean, there's nothing there and I and I go,

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goddamn lady. And you knew every nobody there dressed that way,

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so every woman was probably you know, in some way

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judging under their threat and all this stuff, and it

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seemed inappropriate for the place. But I, you know, I

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fully appreciated it in all its beauty, and that was

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fine with me. That was fine. Oh, zemic, Let me

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let me say something.

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Speaker 4: We can go back to something else.

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Speaker 2: No, well, let me tell you about my trip and

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we'll go to that. Let me talk about ozembic because

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you brought it up and it's too fresh.

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Speaker 5: Uh.

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Speaker 2: Ozembic to me is a wonderful thing for people who

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are really struggling to lose weight. I think that that's okay.

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I don't have problem with any of that stuff. But

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even the people and we can think of this, and

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everybody probably knows of someone who had gastric bypass, and

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most people who had gastric bypass ate through it. They

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blew through it at some point. You mean, most people

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like to put on more weight sometimes had problems because

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they the mesh or whatever they put around you to

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constrict it blew out. I mean, I've known people who've

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done that. Yeah, And here's the thing that that I

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think of often with ozembic, and I again, I truly

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at my core, whatever is going to make you feel best.

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The human experience can be tough. Judgment can be tough.

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But because of that, when I'm hearing less and less

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of is people saying not so much big as beautiful,

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but body acceptance. You know, this is who I am.

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I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, don't judge me because I'm this.

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Speaker 2: Don't do that. And if you said to somebody the

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greatest way to really feel good about yourself and lose

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weight is consistency with diet and exercise, but when you

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said that, you were kind of an asshole because you're

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shaming them and you're doing this, and I'm hearing less

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and less from the the Lizos and the other people

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of the world that were kind of big and beautiful

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and flauning it. And I thought, even with Lizzo, fuck

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go go girl, do whatever. But now they've all found

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a zembac and they're all in shape and skinny, and

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nobody's saying that anymore. Nobody's fucking saying it. And the

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other thing is, I do believe, like anything in life,

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if you have skin in the game, it's valued more.

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Now ozembic is the uh the or or any GLP one.

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I think some even coming up in a pill form.

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But if you're stabbing yourself with this medicine once a day,

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once a week, whatever it is, it does constrict your

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eating and a lot of people talk about how painful

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it is, like you get cramping and it's awful and

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you don't want to eat, so you don't eat. Look

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if it again, if it helps, if you went through it,

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I help you maintain it. I hope there's no real

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side effect, because I don't know that.

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Speaker 4: They've stun a ton of reasons and some people do

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because of the metabolism are just naturally heavy and it's

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helped them. That's I don't know what percentage that is. Now.

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I also know people that smoking hot Yeah, and they

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got their hands out of them because they want to

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be even skinnier. Yes, and they're on their phone taking

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pictures yes all day.

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Speaker 2: No, I got it. But the part with me is

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like when I say no skin in the game is

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you took an easy way to get to where you

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wanted to get. When you actually work for it, you

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maintain it longer. It's a lifestyle, right. I don't know

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how long a GLP one lifestyle can go. You want

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to be stabbing yourself all the time with a needle,

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I don't know if it works for you. Great, But

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what bothers me is the people who said diet and

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exercise is really the key to a longer, better life

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were often told, don't tell me how to fucking live,

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love my body for the way it is. I am

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what I am. And now I hear less of that

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because those fuckers got GLP one. And that's the thing

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that I go, Oh my god, they were full of shit.

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Speaker 5: Ever look at your wall and think, hmmm, that hole

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definitely wasn't there yesterday, Or maybe your faucet's got a

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drip that's slowly driving you into madness. That's when you

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got to call my buddies at Mac of All Trades

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because it's your home and if you don't have the

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skills to fix it yourself.

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Speaker 2: Go to the people who do. And trust me, there's

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nobody better than Mac of All Trades. They do everything

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it They got it. Drafty windows and doors done, electrical plumbing,

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carpentry sure, full kitchen or bathroom model, Oh yeah, they'll

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do that too. From patching the hole that someone made

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by definitely not slamming the door, to transforming your entire space.

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to do list today, Mac of All Trades. No job

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too small. Where was the last time you went to

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a doctor? Honestly, I do I say it? Okay, all right,

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all right, okay, this has been a long time.

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Speaker 4: It's been a long time.

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Speaker 2: Now, there are many many I am.

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Speaker 4: Actively not really, I am looking for a doctor.

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Speaker 2: Whatever.

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Speaker 1: I did just get New York State Health insurance.

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Speaker 2: Awesome.

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Speaker 4: Yes, very like cat hear in commercials. My friends my

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age were bugging me, so I signed up. Ye have

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it good finding a doctor. I have a couple of

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leads I just haven't followed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 4: But if anything happens, car accident, anything you got, I've

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got the thing in my pockets.

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Speaker 2: So the only reason I bring that up is a

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lot of men don't live as long as women, especially men.

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Speaker 4: Because they drive us to the grad.

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Speaker 2: Well they could. Yeah. I saw an old Bobby Slaton

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that I texted him about the other day because he's

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mentioned in the Epstein Files. Oh no, oh, yeah, he's

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mentioned in the Epstein Files, just as he in one

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of them. He says something basically is, I'd love to

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go to dinner with you and Woody Allen, but I'm

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on my way to the shithole of comedy, Rochester, York,

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and it's I was dying, but then I was showing

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my kid a piece of my kids, laughing his ass off,

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and I go This material from almost twenty five years

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ago holds up today, man, and it's a lot of

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what marriage and what are you talking about? But most

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marry guys for sure live longer because they have a

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wife nagging them or or or pushing them politely to

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go to the doctor and be checked out. You don't,

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I don't really anymore. I'm on top of it. I

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got kids, I want to be here. I got a

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lot of shit. I feel like I need to accomplish

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it before I leave the planet. But here's the story

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that I think would discourage many men from going to

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the doctor. Oh y oh yeah, male practice. Well there's

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a guy general practitioner. He has had his medical license

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suspended after multiple male patients accused him of sexual misconduct

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during exams. Let me go into what these men are

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claiming that this doctor did, and then I have a

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lot of questions, but we'll start with this. According to

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the petition, this guy, doctor Gurgis, is accused of watching

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a patient ejaculate in order to provide a semen sample.

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Speaker 4: He watches it.

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Speaker 2: I I've never heard of that. Usually they send you

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to Okay, what grabbing a patient's penis during a prostate exam?

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Got a finger up his ass and he does that

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telling a patient he needed to perform Wait, listen to

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this now, I want, I want, I need you for

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a moment. Okay, I don't need you to act this out, Okay,

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I just need you to put yourself. You're in a

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doctor's office. Yes, you're in a doctor's office. They've asked

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you to get down. You're in the gown. You can

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keep your underwear on, and he can keep your socks on.

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You look very sexy. And he comes in and says

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I need to perform a stretch test, and then grabs

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your penis and starts tugging it back and forth. What

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do you? I are you questioning this?

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Speaker 4: Are you gonna make a blue animal out of this?

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There's clowns, clown colle.

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Speaker 1: But the thing is like we we don't know.

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Speaker 4: Oh, just like the path I know, I haven't been

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to a doctor in forty years.

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Speaker 1: I know I haven't even seen anything like that. No,

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or heard about it.

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Speaker 4: No, but this doesn't coming to start.

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Speaker 2: No, not a guy right exactly. But my point is this,

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just like the pathology report, where I go, I don't

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know what I'm looking at. I don't know what all

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this means. I think you're half naked on a table

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and the person with the white coat is the authority,

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so you don't really.

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Speaker 1: Question it, right, But that's fucked up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like he starts yanking you back and forth, spending

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approximately ten minutes on a genital examination.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I have ten minutes to jump to

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look over five minutes. Yeah, when you had seven and

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a half minutes, I think that's done. I did have

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a rectel.

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Speaker 2: Exam.

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Speaker 4: Exam was, but it was really weird. He goes, you

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might feel some pressure. I go, yeah, I go, but

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why are both your hands on my shoulders.

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Speaker 2: You hold that thought for a second, because another these

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guy's accused of is using more than one finger.

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Speaker 1: To perform a rectal and prostate examination.

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Speaker 2: Let me in there, Yeah, I mean wow. Uh. Then

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failing to tell some patients he was about to insert

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his finger into their rectum.

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Speaker 4: I had that happen. It was at my dentist.

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Speaker 2: This one hurt a bit. We've done yep. Failing to

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wear gloves during genital and or prostate exams.

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Speaker 4: Now that's just kind of sense.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm not going to put a glove unless he's

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going later. Hey, doc, I hope you're not a nail butter.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it goes down with whipped cream. I think there's

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something wrong.

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Speaker 2: In December, according to the petition, uh, he was found

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to be grossly unprofessional grossly unprofessional conduct. And I go,

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that is the most corporate way to ribe. I mean

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that that that phrase is doing a lot of pr

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work because you say to me, he was grossly on

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professional conduct? I go, what did he wear crocs in

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the surgery? I mean you know what I'm saying. It

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is like he no, he stuck two fingers in your

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asshole and goes hey.

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Speaker 4: And you know how many reports does it take for

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him to get looked at? How long did it go on?

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How long does it take to evaluate.

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Speaker 2: Started being a doctor in two thousand and eight? This

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just happened in twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 4: That's seventeen years, right, yeah, twenty five, twenty well whatever,

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oh fifteen, sixteen years?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so long.

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Speaker 4: Who's the first one that's gonna blow down?

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Speaker 2: I don't know that. This is my point, right, Like,

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we trust doctors because you've got the lab coat, you're

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the authority, right, And I'm like, holy crap, Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 4: I mean even if you google what to expect during

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a process exam.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, yeah, right, what does.

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Speaker 4: Everybody usually have seven shots at tequila before they bet

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ot bro?

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Speaker 2: But I mean even some clear communication. I'm going into

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the rectal exam? Now, right?

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Speaker 4: Did they put you under? I thought you were going

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to tell me that somebody knows under. They do do

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that though.

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Speaker 2: For what rectal exams for the prost for the king,

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Yes they can. I was numbed up, but somewhat loucid numb.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean I would want to be out,

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but I want somebody I know in the room. I mean,

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you don't want to take advantage of this.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think they're you're in much danger because

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the's a lot of cameras that they can all see.

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This is a private practice where you know, go in

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for a physical element. And I don't think in New

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York State any I don't know what the laws are,

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but I don't think they do prosted exams and physicals anymore. However,

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this is another state. I don't know what they're what

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theirs are. Do you understand what it was? Indiana?

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Speaker 4: Oh, they just carry Indiana as a music man. They're

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getting the bears.

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Speaker 2: I know, But that transparency reduces trauma saying I'm about

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to enter your ass. Let's you know, I mean you

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would do that politely to if you had somebody over

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the house.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, at least a glass of wine. Let's play doctor.

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Go to the whole new level playing doctor.

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Speaker 1: I yes, I just you know, no nurse ratchet.

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Speaker 2: Just well, anytime a medical exam uses the word stretch test,

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that's not a medical exam. That's creative writing. That's not

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that is not what.

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Speaker 4: Somebody starts pulling in your penis.

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Speaker 2: Well, and that's the thing. But I go we mistake

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authority for legitimacy because he's the doctor. So I'm gonna

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go and take you, for example, just you've said I

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haven't been there in a while.

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Speaker 4: You go in, we got new precidures. Now we're gonna

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do a stretch test. Grab your crank and see how

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far goes across the room. Bend over, and everybody's gonna

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pick a finger.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh god.

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Speaker 4: I rides downstairs.

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Speaker 2: Well. The other thing is like, if you have to

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override your gut because of somebody's credentials, that's submission. If

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the new year has you saying I did not sign

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up for this, like a worker's comp case, social security disability,

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or a personal injury claim. Don't try to google lawyer

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have offices in Buffalo, New York City, Syracuse, and Rochester

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so even when you're stress scrolling at two am, you

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can call two six to two COMP, tell them a

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helps available right. Now saw an article In Psychology today

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and it talked about.

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Speaker 4: A magazine Called Psychology. Today, yeah, okay yeah there. Is

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it used to be a magazine for. Everything, yes, yes.

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Speaker 2: Things are mostly online, now but they've been around for,

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PROBABLY i don't, know fifty years Six and the article

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argues that lonely.

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Speaker 4: Freud pinup girl in a straight. Jacket, no it's just.

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Speaker 6: Sorry that loneliness is a lot of TIMES i think

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that people say it maybe even diagnosed as an individual.

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Speaker 2: Failure go join a, gym start going to the, church

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download right right out of the gate ladividual. Failure, WELL

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i think that's how it's. Diagnosed i'm not saying that

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that's what that's not what it. Is and this, article

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by the, way argues against. That the article, says that's not.

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therapy try. Harder and this person, writes but what if

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loneliness isn't about personal effort at? All because AND i

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didn't know, this THE Us Surgeon general has labeled loneliness

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a public health. Crisis NOW i can just tell you

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BIT i swear To. God my mom is thriving because

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she has a strong social. Network she's out doing things

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college in the. Fall she's got some other. Groups she's

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part of some meditation. Things she's, like she has a coffee.

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think that's why THE Us Surgeon general is, saying, yeah

473
00:24:16,599 --> 00:24:17,079
it is A.

474
00:24:17,519 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: I didn't realize it was a public health.

475
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,839
Speaker 2: Crisis but chronic loneliness is linked to, depression heart, disease

476
00:24:23,319 --> 00:24:27,240
and increase. Mortality. Uh but most most of the stuff

477
00:24:27,279 --> 00:24:30,680
focuses on the, individual as you just need to get

478
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,359
better social. Skills and this, person who is a train,

479
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:37,359
sect he goes, that ain't fucking. It that's not the.

480
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,119
Answer and here's the. Thing she started to write an

481
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:49,000
article on STUDYING bdsm GROUPS BDMS bdsm that what are you?

482
00:24:49,039 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 4: Ever what's like a barber shop quartet where you get

483
00:24:52,279 --> 00:25:00,759
together and you, sing, oh madarlin no madarl in the, bank, misolue.

484
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 2: Bonding, bondage, discipline, sadism and.

485
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,279
Speaker 4: Masochism, yes, yes my ex girlfriend was IN s AND. Ms,

486
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,359
Okay so this this.

487
00:25:11,279 --> 00:25:19,079
Speaker 2: Woman this woman writes that she found something, surprising not

488
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:25,079
just the sex, culture but, structured recurring face to face

489
00:25:26,799 --> 00:25:30,640
interaction and not even like of a sexual. Nature she,

490
00:25:30,839 --> 00:25:38,039
said these people were actually making lasting relationships in this

491
00:25:38,839 --> 00:25:42,880
offshoot kink group that was helping. Them and she, said

492
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:47,519
to the point where if people had mechanical, problems someone

493
00:25:47,599 --> 00:25:51,680
from the group could was helping, them making job, suggestions loaning,

494
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:55,960
money just having a, network just having a, network you,

495
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,279
Know AND i think of that. OFTEN i, go you

496
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,519
got to kind of have a network of. People you

497
00:26:00,599 --> 00:26:02,880
need to be active in the network of friends and

498
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,799
things like. That you, know it's a it's a reciprocal.

499
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,880
Thing but how do you make. Friends you make friends

500
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,240
by well just think about, this the people who have

501
00:26:12,279 --> 00:26:15,599
come even as an. Adult let's say it's somebody that

502
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,680
you see every week when you're, bartending, right and you

503
00:26:18,839 --> 00:26:21,400
just it's and it's a it's a guy about your,

504
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:25,160
age maybe, divorced single themselves, like and you guys start,

505
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,000
talking and the more you, talk the more he starts

506
00:26:28,039 --> 00:26:30,960
to reveal about, himself and then you start revealing things about.

507
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,720
Yourself and that's how you make a fucking. Friend AND i,

508
00:26:33,799 --> 00:26:37,279
go and this person's saying there isn't that? Anymore AND

509
00:26:37,319 --> 00:26:40,480
i have said for a fucking long time on this

510
00:26:40,519 --> 00:26:43,079
podcast now THAT i think one of the worst things

511
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:47,039
about the pandemic was worked from home only because is

512
00:26:47,079 --> 00:26:50,240
it more? Convenient? Fuck, yeah does it save? You maybe some,

513
00:26:50,319 --> 00:26:53,519
money probably because you're not, driving you, know every. Day

514
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:55,920
but what do you miss out? On you miss out on,

515
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,200
Friendships you miss out on. Mentors you may even miss

516
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,680
out on romantic relationships that sometimes come out of, work

517
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,599
but not, always but at least those other two you

518
00:27:04,599 --> 00:27:06,079
know WHAT i. Mean and how many people have you

519
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,240
worked with over the years that you no longer work

520
00:27:08,319 --> 00:27:09,519
with but you're still friends?

521
00:27:09,519 --> 00:27:14,519
Speaker 4: With that ON i have to think. About, actually my first,

522
00:27:14,559 --> 00:27:18,920
Manager Kenny, Shoes Kirk. Candana, YEAH i just called him

523
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,359
on the way. Here, yeah that'll be off work the

524
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,240
next few, days come over and help me with the.

525
00:27:23,279 --> 00:27:27,200
House but that's been nineteen eighty, eight so that's coming

526
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,799
in almost forty years and three.

527
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,319
Speaker 2: Years, yeah and that started as a work. Relationship, yes

528
00:27:32,519 --> 00:27:33,519
that's the larngest.

529
00:27:33,519 --> 00:27:35,519
Speaker 4: One But i'll tell you, THIS i Think i've sold this.

530
00:27:35,559 --> 00:27:37,880
Before there was a bus trip WHEN i was working wind,

531
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,319
jammers and they all came back in the bus and

532
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,759
somebody left this big rush and babushka furry hat AND

533
00:27:43,799 --> 00:27:45,279
i put it on my head AND i started Doing

534
00:27:45,319 --> 00:27:49,359
Rodney dangerfield in. RUSH i, know if she's on me

535
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,039
every TIME i come home, better it says quick out the.

536
00:27:52,039 --> 00:27:57,240
Window So, mark the guy that just got, married is

537
00:27:57,319 --> 00:28:01,480
listening and laughing his ass, off and we started hanging.

538
00:28:01,519 --> 00:28:03,559
Out he, goes, dude he, goes you just sound just

539
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,640
like my. Grandparents let's have, it you, know drinking a

540
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,720
couple of days going over, here AND i mean just

541
00:28:07,799 --> 00:28:10,880
instantly bonded like, that and we got to know each.

542
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,000
Other and he, goes you, KNOW i didn't know how

543
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,079
to take. You sometimes you're, this sometimes you're, That and

544
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:15,759
then getting to know me is LIKE i get it,

545
00:28:15,799 --> 00:28:17,799
now especially working.

546
00:28:17,799 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 2: There.

547
00:28:18,319 --> 00:28:21,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, so AND i was telling that story at the

548
00:28:21,559 --> 00:28:25,039
Wedding turks And. CAICOS i, go that hat was a game.

549
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:28,200
Changer sure that hat wasn't. HERE i mean ten years,

550
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,400
Later i'm at his wedding on this beautiful beach with

551
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,119
all these beautiful Butt and also that's the beauty of.

552
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,279
Speaker 2: Life but the other thing is if had you not

553
00:28:36,559 --> 00:28:40,759
built and had the confidence to build the breast cancer,

554
00:28:40,799 --> 00:28:43,759
thing that wouldn't happened, either, right, Right so that was

555
00:28:43,799 --> 00:28:46,799
the opportunity to be face to face with. People you've

556
00:28:46,799 --> 00:28:49,839
built a community that supports your efforts to do. That,

557
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,200
yes that's how you make. Friendships And i'm not trying

558
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,079
to get all preachy and see, it BUT i was

559
00:28:54,119 --> 00:28:56,680
shocked at THE Us Surgeon general, goes it's a health

560
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:57,799
it's a chronic health.

561
00:28:57,799 --> 00:29:01,319
Speaker 4: Problem, WELL I i KNOW i get, emotional but you,

562
00:29:01,319 --> 00:29:03,000
know my MOM i always you, know you have some

563
00:29:03,039 --> 00:29:04,640
friends you can go out for, lunch and she never

564
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,960
want to do, them LIKE i gotta get out and

565
00:29:07,039 --> 00:29:09,480
they do because it does a little bit once a, month,

566
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:12,160
yes but she never. Wanted she wanted to WATCH, tv

567
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:16,640
smoking at, home the dog, there and just, yeah so

568
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,240
and that's you, know some people don't like to go,

569
00:29:19,279 --> 00:29:21,039
out some people don't want to interact. Them you, know

570
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,440
it's just, yeah not everybody can be like. Me, obviously

571
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,599
somewhere on that you, know somebody that's miserable all the

572
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,400
time compared to me THAT i would think mostly happy

573
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,519
all the, time ALTHOUGH i had my, moments but you,

574
00:29:33,559 --> 00:29:36,480
know telling, jokes there's a somewhere in between that you

575
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,640
can find your happiness and you, know it's not going to.

576
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:40,200
Bars you can go to a Red wing game by,

577
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:42,480
yourself AN amag game by, yourself go to movies by, yourself,

578
00:29:42,559 --> 00:29:44,200
right you, know just even to get out, there just

579
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:44,720
to see other.

580
00:29:44,759 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 2: PEOPLE a lot of times when you're in the.

581
00:29:46,279 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 4: LIBRARY i, mean just think about take a ride In Niagara,

582
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:53,680
falls go to the, casino you, know just new, restaurants lunch,

583
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:55,160
place coffee.

584
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,319
Speaker 2: Shop you, KNOW i used TO i mean used to

585
00:29:57,359 --> 00:29:59,359
make fun of like, bowling leagues and, things and always.

586
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,200
Go it's the only sport that you can get better

587
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,920
at while eating nachos and drinking. Beer you know WHAT i.

588
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 1: Mean it's, like it's the always a lot.

589
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,039
Speaker 2: Of, fun a lot of, fun a lot of, friendships

590
00:30:09,039 --> 00:30:11,759
a lot of. Connection made you feel, good you looked

591
00:30:11,759 --> 00:30:15,599
forward to. Something, yes right now we've replaced, FINALLY i

592
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:16,119
can't do this.

593
00:30:16,119 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 4: Anymore i'm getting too drunk every.

594
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:20,839
Speaker 2: Week, okay but what? Happened don't?

595
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 4: Drink i'm, like well why WOULD i? Bowl?

596
00:30:22,359 --> 00:30:24,519
Speaker 2: Yeah the?

597
00:30:24,559 --> 00:30:27,359
Speaker 1: Reason but it was, Fun yes it WAS i got.

598
00:30:27,359 --> 00:30:29,519
Speaker 2: It and that's What i'm. Saying and we've replaced that

599
00:30:29,559 --> 00:30:32,440
with scrolling on our fucking phone looking at ship that

600
00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:36,680
we can't achieve jealous of somebody else making up conversations

601
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,720
in our, head AND i, go, YEAH i fucking get,

602
00:30:38,759 --> 00:30:41,839
this AND i think it's a bigger. Problem.

603
00:30:42,039 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 4: UH i, MEAN i think the scrolling on the phone

604
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:48,799
And facebook And instagram is it's, Stepcha it's not. Terrible, no,

605
00:30:49,079 --> 00:30:52,440
well yes and, no there's pros and kinds. Everything so

606
00:30:52,519 --> 00:30:54,839
if you post something as somebody likes, you somebody's in

607
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,759
your circle, now so somebody's noticing me even just to

608
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,680
like that you're not home all, lowe, right you know

609
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:02,759
WHAT i? Mean SO i, mean, yes IF i post, something,

610
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,759
WELL i THINK i might might get more. Likes but

611
00:31:04,799 --> 00:31:06,400
there's a few people THAT i knew were bitching and

612
00:31:07,119 --> 00:31:09,599
being not. Sneaky But i'm, like, YEAH i mean look

613
00:31:09,599 --> 00:31:13,319
at this and they have a dozen posts and nobody's

614
00:31:13,359 --> 00:31:15,519
liking them or they have one thumbs, up And i'm,

615
00:31:15,519 --> 00:31:18,039
like it's so. Sad what is this? Person no wonder

616
00:31:18,079 --> 00:31:21,960
they're so miserable and. Sad guys from working in the

617
00:31:22,119 --> 00:31:24,039
in the, bars and you wonder about people and you're,

618
00:31:24,079 --> 00:31:26,640
like because people are, like what is her, Story i'm,

619
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,599
LIKE i don't think you want to know, that or you,

620
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,960
know what's his? Story i'm, like you, KNOW i don't

621
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,640
really want to say that to them BECAUSE i don't

622
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,200
know them that. Well you know WHAT i. Mean they

623
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:37,759
might want to hit on them or have a drink with.

624
00:31:37,839 --> 00:31:39,920
Them what do you. Think i'm, LIKE i. Don't don't

625
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,680
take it from. Me you, Know i'll find out for

626
00:31:42,759 --> 00:31:46,079
myself and Then i'll relay it to you and the

627
00:31:46,119 --> 00:31:47,640
closer you're. IN i, mean If i'm out with a

628
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,599
stranger or somebody asked me about SOMEBODY i don't, Know

629
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,599
but if you ask me because we're a, friend and be,

630
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:57,839
like they're fucking, nuts don't don't even don't even, engage

631
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,720
don't even look over because it's a. Nightmare, Right they're

632
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:04,119
gonna latch on a pit bull and yeah.

633
00:32:03,839 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 2: Yeah BUT i want you to also think about. This,

634
00:32:05,759 --> 00:32:07,599
people this And i'm very. Important let, me let me

635
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:11,160
just look at the camera. Here this, this this is

636
00:32:12,319 --> 00:32:15,000
such a crisis that THE Us, JOURNAL Us search And

637
00:32:15,079 --> 00:32:18,839
general has come out to talk about. It and loneliness

638
00:32:18,839 --> 00:32:21,200
increases your. Mortality SO i want you to, remember this

639
00:32:21,839 --> 00:32:26,680
annoying motherfucker at work that has talked NonStop about his

640
00:32:26,799 --> 00:32:30,559
fantasy football league has kept you. Alive you lonely fuck.

641
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 4: When we go off, There i'm going to show you

642
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:38,079
SOMETHING i got last. Night oh, YEAH i can't put

643
00:32:38,079 --> 00:32:38,240
it on.

644
00:32:38,319 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 2: Air bend.

645
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 4: Over that's, loneliness, right it's. TOUGH i heard a new

646
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,000
joke on THAT i never heard. BEFORE i want to

647
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:50,319
tell you this husband wife are struggling to pay the.

648
00:32:50,319 --> 00:32:52,640
BILLS i got no. Money so they decide that the,

649
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,839
woman the, wife is going to be a. Prostitute she,

650
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,119
GOES i don't know how to. Do you know what

651
00:32:56,119 --> 00:32:58,559
DO i? Do, Well i'll drive, You i'll drop you

652
00:32:58,559 --> 00:33:00,559
outside of, bar and i'll hire around the corner and

653
00:33:00,599 --> 00:33:02,359
i'll just you, know take care of, you make sure

654
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,079
everything goes. Right she, goes, well SHOULD i? Charge and

655
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,720
he goes one hundred dollars. Away she, goes, okay so he,

656
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:12,160
leaves guy walks. Up he, goes so he turned the.

657
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,599
Tricks she, goes, yeah how much one hundred. Dollars he,

658
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,400
GOES i only got thirty. Dollars i'll be right. Back

659
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,160
so she goes around the, corner talks on you know

660
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:22,680
this guy's only got thirty, dollars just give him a hand. Job,

661
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:25,200
Okay so she goes. Back she goes for thirty Dollars

662
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:26,559
i'll give you a hand. Jab he, goes. Okay so

663
00:33:26,599 --> 00:33:29,079
they go in his car and he pulls his dick

664
00:33:29,079 --> 00:33:32,000
out and it's the, biggest hugest cock she's ever, seen

665
00:33:32,359 --> 00:33:36,039
and her eyes light. Up she, goes i'll be right.

666
00:33:36,079 --> 00:33:38,920
Back so she goes back to her husband, says, hey

667
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:40,440
can you lend this guy seventy?

668
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:49,319
Speaker 2: Dollars, Oh Dougie, FRESH i think on that. One we'll

669
00:33:49,319 --> 00:33:51,160
take it out on. That all, right we'll take it

670
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:52,279
out on. That it's good to see.

671
00:33:52,319 --> 00:33:53,759
Speaker 1: It see you're looking.

672
00:33:53,799 --> 00:33:58,319
Speaker 4: Good, yes, baby we're, rocking we're, rolling making. It life

673
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,240
is a beautiful. Things kids get out there to get

674
00:34:00,319 --> 00:34:04,319
some sunshine and you, know make it happen. Things that's.

675
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah and and Find Dougie. Philips, yeah brighten your.

676
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:08,159
Speaker 3: Day.

677
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:09,320
Speaker 4: Absolutely I'm Bill.

678
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:10,320
Speaker 2: Moran we'll see you next.

679
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:10,559
Speaker 3: Time