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Oh a little surprise today, back from the resorts of
Turks and Fatso I mean Keikos.
Speaker 1: You submit?
Speaker 4: Is this the only reason you have got nobody else
to pick out?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 4: Baby, I'm bat Dougie Fresh, the hipshaking money making Tower,
part Man of the twenty four to seven, the one
your mother warned you.
Speaker 1: About getting a tan? And look at I any fine
his back home? Baby? How are you?
Speaker 2: I am?
Speaker 1: Well, you're looking good. I gotta say.
Speaker 2: Man, Turks and Kekos and you got a little bit
of a tan going there?
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I burned the first day I used to do.
You gotta be careful with that ship, dude, I had,
I had sunscreen on and.
Speaker 2: Still through the spf fifty. You were getting fifty.
Speaker 4: It was only date fifty, but you were out there.
Speaker 2: Man, you put a picture of you on social media. Yeah, shirtless,
standing there, arms wide open, and I go to a towel.
Speaker 1: No, I'm like, you know what, Yeah, but who should care?
Speaker 4: Right, I'm in the middle of son and fun, my
good friends getting married.
Speaker 2: Look at some point in your life, right, yeah, you're
either keep hiding the parts you're insecure about or you
just walk out and.
Speaker 4: Go Love me for who I am.
Speaker 2: This is the body that got me here, and that's
what you did. And I loved it. I thought that
was great.
Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you since January, the second week
in January, I've lost twenty two pounds. Really did not
show in that picture. I'd actually have to lose another.
Speaker 2: You got one. Great about that, though. I do what
you been doing?
Speaker 4: Very little exercising, okay, so well, I mean diet, yes,
eating a whole lot less a lot of protein, not
a lot of protein, but just enough to fill me
up in the move on, exercising in the morning, some
plank works now and just itching up just a little.
Speaker 2: Bit, doing some plank work.
Speaker 4: Yeah, for the belly, because if you lose your way
too fast, like these people with the SAIC, it gets saggy.
Remember the old what was it when your mom had
the wash the wash line out back, she had that
big thing full of pins. We just hang there. Yeah,
that's what I always see. I don't want to be
yes the meat skirt that comes out. I don't want
to be hanging over like that.
Speaker 2: You see there. There are a couple of thoughts I
had about all this, and and then and let's go
back to the ozembic because I think at some point
in your life you gotta let go of performative youth.
You just are what you are, right and and and
and so be it. And I think a lot of
times attractive is attractive. But what it's also attractive is
a confidence and a self security right.
Speaker 4: Yes, rightackage that you like right.
Speaker 2: And the other thing is women have a lot of
things that they can hide flaws with. I don't mean
to sound like a misogynistic jerk, but they do, like
uh oh, when they get a little bit older, if
things get a little big. You got the bathing suit
with the little skirt that goes around the side, right,
kind of hides everything, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: There ain't shit for us, No, there's not ship. Let
it all hang out.
Speaker 2: Are fucking fat, beautiful, right, and then that's it. And
I think that it becomes like it's confidence first delusion.
Speaker 4: Yeah, people hanging in their youth. I mean I did
an old timer wrestling tournament twelve years ago, got a
shape for that, down to one seventy and this is obvious.
I've ever been too fifty. Now I'm done, just twenty
seven a day on the scale.
Speaker 2: Good.
Speaker 4: So this in the next three months. And I hate
talking about this because I always feel, just do it.
Don't tell everybody gonna do it. You do it, and
then have somebody else toot your horn instead of you
blowing yourself. I'm gonna I'm gonna lose this and I'm
gonna do that. You know you're not doing anything.
Speaker 2: You're speaking my language because I often say, uh, go
forth and tell no one. And I say it that
way because it was like, you know, almost biblical in
a sense, because it was Jesus and I had this
disagreement i'll call it with my dad philosophically on whether
or not Jesus had actually said something like that. But
I believe that he would heal people with leoparsy or
whatever and then say go back to your village. But
tell no one that you've been healed. And because as
if you do, you know, dogs gonna come along go
fuck you is gonna fall off again. And then it
gets in your head and you and and everything I
believe in life really is up here. And so oh yeah,
you know what I'm.
Speaker 1: Saying, like the way you feel about all that stuff,
and that's why.
Speaker 4: Well that's as xempech. It doesn't make you lose weight,
it gets you on a mind path off.
Speaker 2: Don't even talk to me about I have such a problem. Okay,
I'm just saying, you know, I know.
Speaker 4: People, it gets you thinking not to eat so much.
It helps you that way, just so you just don't
stick it in you and you're losing weight automatically. There's
a whole process to it. If that's what you feel.
Didn't go for. I didn't want to do that. Some
people suggest that. I'm like, no, I'm gonna lose weight
on my own and I do feel better.
Speaker 2: Let me.
Speaker 4: Let me sleeping through the night. You don't have to
wake up and piss because your belly is not hanging
on your bladder. You know, your knees don't hurt as much.
Blong Dave bartending.
Speaker 2: Uh, I think you should be but the whole.
Speaker 4: But getting back to the picture, yes, you know the whole.
It was a this is what they're doing in France
with a towel around you so I could hide my belly.
Speaker 1: Oh I got you still in the arm.
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, had a lily white bowling ball there.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but not as bad as hanging it out. And
then I'm like, you know what, why do you care?
Speaker 2: But you do. The beach is the last honest place
on earth. It really is, because even I mean as
I kind of joke that women have the the thing.
Oh many of them do. You'll see flaws, and my
favorite are the women that just don't care. I loved
when I.
Speaker 4: Was self confidence is very sexy in a woman.
Speaker 2: Well, self confidence and almost maybe not understanding.
Speaker 4: Uh, they're not worried about being judged. They like their outfit.
I'm going out in there, and I've met a lot
of people in the bars obviously, yeah, and over there
is and I remember some of the women that just
you know, I like this and this is who I am,
and they don't like it. They can go to hell.
They're not wearing it. They didn't pay for it.
Speaker 2: No, look I. But what I was gonna say is
I used to have a timeshare, so we would go
to different places. You know, you can. My wife at
the time was great at like booking it out west
and you know, trading whatever we had in Florida. And
I remember being at one family resort, family place, and
this lady sitting up like you had to swim out
to like this makeshift island in the pool, and she's
sitting on this thing and she.
Speaker 1: Has on fucking dental floss.
Speaker 2: I mean, there's nothing there and I and I go,
goddamn lady. And you knew every nobody there dressed that way,
so every woman was probably you know, in some way
judging under their threat and all this stuff, and it
seemed inappropriate for the place. But I, you know, I
fully appreciated it in all its beauty, and that was
fine with me. That was fine. Oh, zemic, Let me
let me say something.
Speaker 4: We can go back to something else.
Speaker 2: No, well, let me tell you about my trip and
we'll go to that. Let me talk about ozembic because
you brought it up and it's too fresh.
Speaker 5: Uh.
Speaker 2: Ozembic to me is a wonderful thing for people who
are really struggling to lose weight. I think that that's okay.
I don't have problem with any of that stuff. But
even the people and we can think of this, and
everybody probably knows of someone who had gastric bypass, and
most people who had gastric bypass ate through it. They
blew through it at some point. You mean, most people
like to put on more weight sometimes had problems because
they the mesh or whatever they put around you to
constrict it blew out. I mean, I've known people who've
done that. Yeah, And here's the thing that that I
think of often with ozembic, and I again, I truly
at my core, whatever is going to make you feel best.
The human experience can be tough. Judgment can be tough.
But because of that, when I'm hearing less and less
of is people saying not so much big as beautiful,
but body acceptance. You know, this is who I am.
I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Well, you know, don't judge me because I'm this.
Speaker 2: Don't do that. And if you said to somebody the
greatest way to really feel good about yourself and lose
weight is consistency with diet and exercise, but when you
said that, you were kind of an asshole because you're
shaming them and you're doing this, and I'm hearing less
and less from the the Lizos and the other people
of the world that were kind of big and beautiful
and flauning it. And I thought, even with Lizzo, fuck
go go girl, do whatever. But now they've all found
a zembac and they're all in shape and skinny, and
nobody's saying that anymore. Nobody's fucking saying it. And the
other thing is, I do believe, like anything in life,
if you have skin in the game, it's valued more.
Now ozembic is the uh the or or any GLP one.
I think some even coming up in a pill form.
But if you're stabbing yourself with this medicine once a day,
once a week, whatever it is, it does constrict your
eating and a lot of people talk about how painful
it is, like you get cramping and it's awful and
you don't want to eat, so you don't eat. Look
if it again, if it helps, if you went through it,
I help you maintain it. I hope there's no real
side effect, because I don't know that.
Speaker 4: They've stun a ton of reasons and some people do
because of the metabolism are just naturally heavy and it's
helped them. That's I don't know what percentage that is. Now.
I also know people that smoking hot Yeah, and they
got their hands out of them because they want to
be even skinnier. Yes, and they're on their phone taking
pictures yes all day.
Speaker 2: No, I got it. But the part with me is
like when I say no skin in the game is
you took an easy way to get to where you
wanted to get. When you actually work for it, you
maintain it longer. It's a lifestyle, right. I don't know
how long a GLP one lifestyle can go. You want
to be stabbing yourself all the time with a needle,
I don't know if it works for you. Great, But
what bothers me is the people who said diet and
exercise is really the key to a longer, better life
were often told, don't tell me how to fucking live,
love my body for the way it is. I am
what I am. And now I hear less of that
because those fuckers got GLP one. And that's the thing
that I go, Oh my god, they were full of shit.
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too small. Where was the last time you went to
a doctor? Honestly, I do I say it? Okay, all right,
all right, okay, this has been a long time.
Speaker 4: It's been a long time.
Speaker 2: Now, there are many many I am.
Speaker 4: Actively not really, I am looking for a doctor.
Speaker 2: Whatever.
Speaker 1: I did just get New York State Health insurance.
Speaker 2: Awesome.
Speaker 4: Yes, very like cat hear in commercials. My friends my
age were bugging me, so I signed up. Ye have
it good finding a doctor. I have a couple of
leads I just haven't followed.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 4: But if anything happens, car accident, anything you got, I've
got the thing in my pockets.
Speaker 2: So the only reason I bring that up is a
lot of men don't live as long as women, especially men.
Speaker 4: Because they drive us to the grad.
Speaker 2: Well they could. Yeah. I saw an old Bobby Slaton
that I texted him about the other day because he's
mentioned in the Epstein Files. Oh no, oh, yeah, he's
mentioned in the Epstein Files, just as he in one
of them. He says something basically is, I'd love to
go to dinner with you and Woody Allen, but I'm
on my way to the shithole of comedy, Rochester, York,
and it's I was dying, but then I was showing
my kid a piece of my kids, laughing his ass off,
and I go This material from almost twenty five years
ago holds up today, man, and it's a lot of
what marriage and what are you talking about? But most
marry guys for sure live longer because they have a
wife nagging them or or or pushing them politely to
go to the doctor and be checked out. You don't,
I don't really anymore. I'm on top of it. I
got kids, I want to be here. I got a
lot of shit. I feel like I need to accomplish
it before I leave the planet. But here's the story
that I think would discourage many men from going to
the doctor. Oh y oh yeah, male practice. Well there's
a guy general practitioner. He has had his medical license
suspended after multiple male patients accused him of sexual misconduct
during exams. Let me go into what these men are
claiming that this doctor did, and then I have a
lot of questions, but we'll start with this. According to
the petition, this guy, doctor Gurgis, is accused of watching
a patient ejaculate in order to provide a semen sample.
Speaker 4: He watches it.
Speaker 2: I I've never heard of that. Usually they send you
to Okay, what grabbing a patient's penis during a prostate exam?
Got a finger up his ass and he does that
telling a patient he needed to perform Wait, listen to
this now, I want, I want, I need you for
a moment. Okay, I don't need you to act this out, Okay,
I just need you to put yourself. You're in a
doctor's office. Yes, you're in a doctor's office. They've asked
you to get down. You're in the gown. You can
keep your underwear on, and he can keep your socks on.
You look very sexy. And he comes in and says
I need to perform a stretch test, and then grabs
your penis and starts tugging it back and forth. What
do you? I are you questioning this?
Speaker 4: Are you gonna make a blue animal out of this?
There's clowns, clown colle.
Speaker 1: But the thing is like we we don't know.
Speaker 4: Oh, just like the path I know, I haven't been
to a doctor in forty years.
Speaker 1: I know I haven't even seen anything like that. No,
or heard about it.
Speaker 4: No, but this doesn't coming to start.
Speaker 2: No, not a guy right exactly. But my point is this,
just like the pathology report, where I go, I don't
know what I'm looking at. I don't know what all
this means. I think you're half naked on a table
and the person with the white coat is the authority,
so you don't really.
Speaker 1: Question it, right, But that's fucked up?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like he starts yanking you back and forth, spending
approximately ten minutes on a genital examination.
Speaker 4: I don't think I have ten minutes to jump to
look over five minutes. Yeah, when you had seven and
a half minutes, I think that's done. I did have
a rectel.
Speaker 2: Exam.
Speaker 4: Exam was, but it was really weird. He goes, you
might feel some pressure. I go, yeah, I go, but
why are both your hands on my shoulders.
Speaker 2: You hold that thought for a second, because another these
guy's accused of is using more than one finger.
Speaker 1: To perform a rectal and prostate examination.
Speaker 2: Let me in there, Yeah, I mean wow. Uh. Then
failing to tell some patients he was about to insert
his finger into their rectum.
Speaker 4: I had that happen. It was at my dentist.
Speaker 2: This one hurt a bit. We've done yep. Failing to
wear gloves during genital and or prostate exams.
Speaker 4: Now that's just kind of sense.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not going to put a glove unless he's
going later. Hey, doc, I hope you're not a nail butter.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it goes down with whipped cream. I think there's
something wrong.
Speaker 2: In December, according to the petition, uh, he was found
to be grossly unprofessional grossly unprofessional conduct. And I go,
that is the most corporate way to ribe. I mean
that that that phrase is doing a lot of pr
work because you say to me, he was grossly on
professional conduct? I go, what did he wear crocs in
the surgery? I mean you know what I'm saying. It
is like he no, he stuck two fingers in your
asshole and goes hey.
Speaker 4: And you know how many reports does it take for
him to get looked at? How long did it go on?
How long does it take to evaluate.
Speaker 2: Started being a doctor in two thousand and eight? This
just happened in twenty twenty five.
Speaker 4: That's seventeen years, right, yeah, twenty five, twenty well whatever,
oh fifteen, sixteen years?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so long.
Speaker 4: Who's the first one that's gonna blow down?
Speaker 2: I don't know that. This is my point, right, Like,
we trust doctors because you've got the lab coat, you're
the authority, right, And I'm like, holy crap, Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 4: I mean even if you google what to expect during
a process exam.
Speaker 2: Well, you know, yeah, right, what does.
Speaker 4: Everybody usually have seven shots at tequila before they bet
ot bro?
Speaker 2: But I mean even some clear communication. I'm going into
the rectal exam? Now, right?
Speaker 4: Did they put you under? I thought you were going
to tell me that somebody knows under. They do do
that though.
Speaker 2: For what rectal exams for the prost for the king,
Yes they can. I was numbed up, but somewhat loucid numb.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean I would want to be out,
but I want somebody I know in the room. I mean,
you don't want to take advantage of this.
Speaker 2: No, I don't think they're you're in much danger because
the's a lot of cameras that they can all see.
This is a private practice where you know, go in
for a physical element. And I don't think in New
York State any I don't know what the laws are,
but I don't think they do prosted exams and physicals anymore. However,
this is another state. I don't know what they're what
theirs are. Do you understand what it was? Indiana?
Speaker 4: Oh, they just carry Indiana as a music man. They're
getting the bears.
Speaker 2: I know, But that transparency reduces trauma saying I'm about
to enter your ass. Let's you know, I mean you
would do that politely to if you had somebody over
the house.
Speaker 4: Yeah, at least a glass of wine. Let's play doctor.
Go to the whole new level playing doctor.
Speaker 1: I yes, I just you know, no nurse ratchet.
Speaker 2: Just well, anytime a medical exam uses the word stretch test,
that's not a medical exam. That's creative writing. That's not
that is not what.
Speaker 4: Somebody starts pulling in your penis.
Speaker 2: Well, and that's the thing. But I go we mistake
authority for legitimacy because he's the doctor. So I'm gonna
go and take you, for example, just you've said I
haven't been there in a while.
Speaker 4: You go in, we got new precidures. Now we're gonna
do a stretch test. Grab your crank and see how
far goes across the room. Bend over, and everybody's gonna
pick a finger.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh god.
Speaker 4: I rides downstairs.
Speaker 2: Well. The other thing is like, if you have to
override your gut because of somebody's credentials, that's submission. If
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and it talked about.
Speaker 4: A magazine Called Psychology. Today, yeah, okay yeah there. Is
it used to be a magazine for. Everything, yes, yes.
Speaker 2: Things are mostly online, now but they've been around for,
PROBABLY i don't, know fifty years Six and the article
argues that lonely.
Speaker 4: Freud pinup girl in a straight. Jacket, no it's just.
Speaker 6: Sorry that loneliness is a lot of TIMES i think
that people say it maybe even diagnosed as an individual.
Speaker 2: Failure go join a, gym start going to the, church
download right right out of the gate ladividual. Failure, WELL
i think that's how it's. Diagnosed i'm not saying that
that's what that's not what it. Is and this, article
by the, way argues against. That the article, says that's not.
True but you, know download a friend, napp go to,
therapy try. Harder and this person, writes but what if
loneliness isn't about personal effort at? All because AND i
didn't know, this THE Us Surgeon general has labeled loneliness
a public health. Crisis NOW i can just tell you
just in terms of it sounds, ridiculous right a little.
BIT i swear To. God my mom is thriving because
she has a strong social. Network she's out doing things
all the. Time she's preparing to teach classes At Bard
college in the. Fall she's got some other. Groups she's
part of some meditation. Things she's, like she has a coffee.
Group my dad fucking did. NOTHING i went to visit
him In jersey when he was living down, there And,
doug we did. Nothing we went to the diner three times.
Today that was the big, out like. Nothing and this
was just at the nonset Of parkinson's for, him like
he you, know there was still the, ability but he
was doing. Nothing AND i, go, wow what a. Difference,
Yes so that's WHAT i get to, That AND i
think that's why THE Us Surgeon general is, saying, yeah
it is A.
Speaker 1: I didn't realize it was a public health.
Speaker 2: Crisis but chronic loneliness is linked to, depression heart, disease
and increase. Mortality. Uh but most most of the stuff
focuses on the, individual as you just need to get
better social. Skills and this, person who is a train,
sect he goes, that ain't fucking. It that's not the.
Answer and here's the. Thing she started to write an
article on STUDYING bdsm GROUPS BDMS bdsm that what are you?
Speaker 4: Ever what's like a barber shop quartet where you get
together and you, sing, oh madarlin no madarl in the, bank, misolue.
Speaker 2: Bonding, bondage, discipline, sadism and.
Speaker 4: Masochism, yes, yes my ex girlfriend was IN s AND. Ms,
Okay so this this.
Speaker 2: Woman this woman writes that she found something, surprising not
just the sex, culture but, structured recurring face to face
interaction and not even like of a sexual. Nature she,
said these people were actually making lasting relationships in this
offshoot kink group that was helping. Them and she, said
to the point where if people had mechanical, problems someone
from the group could was helping, them making job, suggestions loaning,
money just having a, network just having a, network you,
Know AND i think of that. OFTEN i, go you
got to kind of have a network of. People you
need to be active in the network of friends and
things like. That you, know it's a it's a reciprocal.
Thing but how do you make. Friends you make friends
by well just think about, this the people who have
come even as an. Adult let's say it's somebody that
you see every week when you're, bartending, right and you
just it's and it's a it's a guy about your,
age maybe, divorced single themselves, like and you guys start,
talking and the more you, talk the more he starts
to reveal about, himself and then you start revealing things about.
Yourself and that's how you make a fucking. Friend AND i,
go and this person's saying there isn't that? Anymore AND
i have said for a fucking long time on this
podcast now THAT i think one of the worst things
about the pandemic was worked from home only because is
it more? Convenient? Fuck, yeah does it save? You maybe some,
money probably because you're not, driving you, know every. Day
but what do you miss out? On you miss out on,
Friendships you miss out on. Mentors you may even miss
out on romantic relationships that sometimes come out of, work
but not, always but at least those other two you
know WHAT i. Mean and how many people have you
worked with over the years that you no longer work
with but you're still friends?
Speaker 4: With that ON i have to think. About, actually my first,
Manager Kenny, Shoes Kirk. Candana, YEAH i just called him
on the way. Here, yeah that'll be off work the
next few, days come over and help me with the.
House but that's been nineteen eighty, eight so that's coming
in almost forty years and three.
Speaker 2: Years, yeah and that started as a work. Relationship, yes
that's the larngest.
Speaker 4: One But i'll tell you, THIS i Think i've sold this.
Before there was a bus trip WHEN i was working wind,
jammers and they all came back in the bus and
somebody left this big rush and babushka furry hat AND
i put it on my head AND i started Doing
Rodney dangerfield in. RUSH i, know if she's on me
every TIME i come home, better it says quick out the.
Window So, mark the guy that just got, married is
listening and laughing his ass, off and we started hanging.
Out he, goes, dude he, goes you just sound just
like my. Grandparents let's have, it you, know drinking a
couple of days going over, here AND i mean just
instantly bonded like, that and we got to know each.
Other and he, goes you, KNOW i didn't know how
to take. You sometimes you're, this sometimes you're, That and
then getting to know me is LIKE i get it,
now especially working.
Speaker 2: There.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so AND i was telling that story at the
Wedding turks And. CAICOS i, go that hat was a game.
Changer sure that hat wasn't. HERE i mean ten years,
Later i'm at his wedding on this beautiful beach with
all these beautiful Butt and also that's the beauty of.
Speaker 2: Life but the other thing is if had you not
built and had the confidence to build the breast cancer,
thing that wouldn't happened, either, right, Right so that was
the opportunity to be face to face with. People you've
built a community that supports your efforts to do. That,
yes that's how you make. Friendships And i'm not trying
to get all preachy and see, it BUT i was
shocked at THE Us Surgeon general, goes it's a health
it's a chronic health.
Speaker 4: Problem, WELL I i KNOW i get, emotional but you,
know my MOM i always you, know you have some
friends you can go out for, lunch and she never
want to do, them LIKE i gotta get out and
they do because it does a little bit once a, month,
yes but she never. Wanted she wanted to WATCH, tv
smoking at, home the dog, there and just, yeah so
and that's you, know some people don't like to go,
out some people don't want to interact. Them you, know
it's just, yeah not everybody can be like. Me, obviously
somewhere on that you, know somebody that's miserable all the
time compared to me THAT i would think mostly happy
all the, time ALTHOUGH i had my, moments but you,
know telling, jokes there's a somewhere in between that you
can find your happiness and you, know it's not going to.
Bars you can go to a Red wing game by,
yourself AN amag game by, yourself go to movies by, yourself,
right you, know just even to get out, there just
to see other.
Speaker 2: PEOPLE a lot of times when you're in the.
Speaker 4: LIBRARY i, mean just think about take a ride In Niagara,
falls go to the, casino you, know just new, restaurants lunch,
place coffee.
Speaker 2: Shop you, KNOW i used TO i mean used to
make fun of like, bowling leagues and, things and always.
Go it's the only sport that you can get better
at while eating nachos and drinking. Beer you know WHAT i.
Speaker 1: Mean it's, like it's the always a lot.
Speaker 2: Of, fun a lot of, fun a lot of, friendships
a lot of. Connection made you feel, good you looked
forward to. Something, yes right now we've replaced, FINALLY i
can't do this.
Speaker 4: Anymore i'm getting too drunk every.
Speaker 2: Week, okay but what? Happened don't?
Speaker 4: Drink i'm, like well why WOULD i? Bowl?
Speaker 2: Yeah the?
Speaker 1: Reason but it was, Fun yes it WAS i got.
Speaker 2: It and that's What i'm. Saying and we've replaced that
with scrolling on our fucking phone looking at ship that
we can't achieve jealous of somebody else making up conversations
in our, head AND i, go, YEAH i fucking get,
this AND i think it's a bigger. Problem.
Speaker 4: UH i, MEAN i think the scrolling on the phone
And facebook And instagram is it's, Stepcha it's not. Terrible, no,
well yes and, no there's pros and kinds. Everything so
if you post something as somebody likes, you somebody's in
your circle, now so somebody's noticing me even just to
like that you're not home all, lowe, right you know
WHAT i? Mean SO i, mean, yes IF i post, something,
WELL i THINK i might might get more. Likes but
there's a few people THAT i knew were bitching and
being not. Sneaky But i'm, like, YEAH i mean look
at this and they have a dozen posts and nobody's
liking them or they have one thumbs, up And i'm,
like it's so. Sad what is this? Person no wonder
they're so miserable and. Sad guys from working in the
in the, bars and you wonder about people and you're,
like because people are, like what is her, Story i'm,
LIKE i don't think you want to know, that or you,
know what's his? Story i'm, like you, KNOW i don't
really want to say that to them BECAUSE i don't
know them that. Well you know WHAT i. Mean they
might want to hit on them or have a drink with.
Them what do you. Think i'm, LIKE i. Don't don't
take it from. Me you, Know i'll find out for
myself and Then i'll relay it to you and the
closer you're. IN i, mean If i'm out with a
stranger or somebody asked me about SOMEBODY i don't, Know
but if you ask me because we're a, friend and be,
like they're fucking, nuts don't don't even don't even, engage
don't even look over because it's a. Nightmare, Right they're
gonna latch on a pit bull and yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah BUT i want you to also think about. This,
people this And i'm very. Important let, me let me
just look at the camera. Here this, this this is
such a crisis that THE Us, JOURNAL Us search And
general has come out to talk about. It and loneliness
increases your. Mortality SO i want you to, remember this
annoying motherfucker at work that has talked NonStop about his
fantasy football league has kept you. Alive you lonely fuck.
Speaker 4: When we go off, There i'm going to show you
SOMETHING i got last. Night oh, YEAH i can't put
it on.
Speaker 2: Air bend.
Speaker 4: Over that's, loneliness, right it's. TOUGH i heard a new
joke on THAT i never heard. BEFORE i want to
tell you this husband wife are struggling to pay the.
BILLS i got no. Money so they decide that the,
woman the, wife is going to be a. Prostitute she,
GOES i don't know how to. Do you know what
DO i? Do, Well i'll drive, You i'll drop you
outside of, bar and i'll hire around the corner and
i'll just you, know take care of, you make sure
everything goes. Right she, goes, well SHOULD i? Charge and
he goes one hundred dollars. Away she, goes, okay so he,
leaves guy walks. Up he, goes so he turned the.
Tricks she, goes, yeah how much one hundred. Dollars he,
GOES i only got thirty. Dollars i'll be right. Back
so she goes around the, corner talks on you know
this guy's only got thirty, dollars just give him a hand. Job,
Okay so she goes. Back she goes for thirty Dollars
i'll give you a hand. Jab he, goes. Okay so
they go in his car and he pulls his dick
out and it's the, biggest hugest cock she's ever, seen
and her eyes light. Up she, goes i'll be right.
Back so she goes back to her husband, says, hey
can you lend this guy seventy?
Speaker 2: Dollars, Oh Dougie, FRESH i think on that. One we'll
take it out on. That all, right we'll take it
out on. That it's good to see.
Speaker 1: It see you're looking.
Speaker 4: Good, yes, baby we're, rocking we're, rolling making. It life
is a beautiful. Things kids get out there to get
some sunshine and you, know make it happen. Things that's.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah and and Find Dougie. Philips, yeah brighten your.
Speaker 3: Day.
Speaker 4: Absolutely I'm Bill.
Speaker 2: Moran we'll see you next.
Speaker 3: Time