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<v Speaker 1>Okay, everybody, Hey, welcome to Pink Shade. It's Mary Payne here.

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<v Speaker 1>It is TLC Tuesday. I'm with Kimberly. She was making

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<v Speaker 1>me laugh and also.

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<v Speaker 2>Grows out traumatizing her. Yeah, oop, stories don't no, I

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<v Speaker 2>won't care about it. The P word anymore. Usually on

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<v Speaker 2>these shows the P word is something else. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like they say the P word a lot on

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<v Speaker 2>This is Polly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's a lot of peep. She doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>beep my peep. Gisha always like she doesn't want to.

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<v Speaker 2>I know there was one in this and I was

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<v Speaker 2>trying to figure it out, but I think he just

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<v Speaker 2>said fucked. Josh said something in this episode. It was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I think your bleep, yoe, you apostrophe ra bleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're fucked.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was fucked.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to say that. I stayed up till one

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<v Speaker 1>o'clock last night writing these notes because Thursday to Monday,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had an HVAC person at this house sometimes twice

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<v Speaker 1>a day, every single day. Wow, I had a broken

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<v Speaker 1>AC unit upstairs here in my bedroom that got fixed

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<v Speaker 1>and then started pouring water from my ceiling. So then

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<v Speaker 1>God wanted to come back. And then they fixed it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then guess what, more water started pulling from my

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<v Speaker 1>ceilings and then they had to come back. So this

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<v Speaker 1>morning I had the two h BACK guys, the ones

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<v Speaker 1>that had been rotating coming to my house, plus my contractor,

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<v Speaker 1>plus an island contractor that is going to be fixing

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<v Speaker 1>the drywall paid for by the HVAC company because they're

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that made the mistake with my contractor. Also

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<v Speaker 1>realizing he when he put in our attic fan, he

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<v Speaker 1>put in the wrong type. So now using that for free,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there any other damage besides to the drywall with

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<v Speaker 2>the from the water?

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<v Speaker 1>No? Okay, good because when I'd gone to the beach

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<v Speaker 1>with my friends and I put a towel under it

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<v Speaker 1>just in case, Like now it's been like three days

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<v Speaker 1>of maybe it's gonna come through the celium, maybe it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just put a towel down before I left,

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<v Speaker 1>and when I came back, it was not soaked, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was wet, and I was like, look up there

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<v Speaker 1>it is a drip, drip, drip. So yeah, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>super fun. And then my really my best friend from

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<v Speaker 1>college arrived today with her husband and we've just been

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<v Speaker 1>riding around. I had such an amazing alligator hunt this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh they were just swimming around. It was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, love it.

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<v Speaker 1>We saw a little baby a couple of days go

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, look at that little baby. Baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Alligator is cute, kimberly, so cute. It couldn't really kill you, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not a baby, No no. They could take a chump,

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<v Speaker 1>but they couldn't take you down. They don't have the

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<v Speaker 1>strength to you know where. They take you down and

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<v Speaker 1>then they roll you. Yeah, that's the allixy.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop drop and roll it. Stop, drop and roll you.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not know that. I thought they just dragged

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<v Speaker 2>you into the water.

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<v Speaker 1>They call it a death roll. Once they get you

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<v Speaker 1>into the water, they roll and then they get you

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<v Speaker 1>all the way to the bottom and then they put

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<v Speaker 1>you under something to let you desin it right a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit before they go in for the eating.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what they do.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm, Like they bear put you under a big

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<v Speaker 2>boulder or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they find like branches, yeah, branches or something to

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<v Speaker 1>put you under, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Then they bury you in the water in a watery

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<v Speaker 2>grave so that you're bones and flesh get soft enough

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<v Speaker 2>for them to chew.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I mean they could chew it anyway, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's called a death roll when they do that.

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<v Speaker 2>And they're fine with this. But you don't like me

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<v Speaker 2>telling you about poop.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't want to hear about poop. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 2>We at poop, Mary Payne. But we don't all experience

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<v Speaker 2>a death role before we die in a watery grieve.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody's going to experience a death roll. It's not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>happen to anybody. But you can't just look up alligator

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<v Speaker 1>death roll and see them how they do it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty crazy, it's pretty they're pretty nuts anyway. The dinosaurs,

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<v Speaker 1>they're dinosaurs. I'm seeing them from a respectable distance. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>you worry. I'm following all the alligator rules here. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very happy my friend and her husband are here,

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<v Speaker 1>and very happy my husband's coming tomorrow to help me

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<v Speaker 1>deal with all this house bullshit. Yeah, because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you look over and there's a big giant brown

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<v Speaker 1>spot on your ceiling, it's not attractive at least, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like right over the bed where I was just

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for It's like it's just like right in a doorway. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fun. That's been house talk. Okay. Now, I was

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<v Speaker 1>very happy this week Ninety Day Fiance, Season twelve, episode eight.

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<v Speaker 1>Love is a work in progress. I was glad this

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<v Speaker 1>week that there was no debian Medow. I was glad

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<v Speaker 1>for the break.

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<v Speaker 2>We all needed a break, and I think we're all

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<v Speaker 2>just over it because it feels now that we know

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<v Speaker 2>what the outcome is. I don't like when there's spoilers

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<v Speaker 2>when we find out if they got married or not.

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<v Speaker 1>Me too, I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>We're either like, oh, that was expected, so now there's

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<v Speaker 2>no or we're like, fuck me, I can't believe this happened.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's what I like.

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<v Speaker 2>Was this all fake?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Why did they? Or is she dumber than I thought?

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's I think the most obvious answer

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<v Speaker 1>is the answer. Yes. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Unless he's a really good actor and was acting his

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<v Speaker 2>scary tantrum, his man baby tantrum in the car about

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<v Speaker 2>women and respect in a toga, then I think that sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>an Egyptian whatever he was wearing, I think, and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think he's that good of an actor. I need

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<v Speaker 2>to see his reel first of all, and he won't

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<v Speaker 2>even show Debbie's reel so because she won't understand it

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<v Speaker 2>because it's yeah, not in English. It has nothing to

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<v Speaker 2>do with the fact that he's probably wears a costume

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<v Speaker 2>in commercials, like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a.

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<v Speaker 2>What like a falafel? What do they eat in Egypt?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I was thinking. I was thinking like

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<v Speaker 1>an Elmow costume like the people in Times Square.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm thinking like a euro costume like Giro, but

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<v Speaker 2>that's Greek. But so I don't know what they eat

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<v Speaker 2>in Egypt. So some sort of costume like that for

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<v Speaker 2>a local restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's costume that he's that's that costume

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<v Speaker 1>that he's wearing, and he's standing outside of the pyramids,

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<v Speaker 1>going do you want a tour? You want a tour? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what he's saying. I'm grateful for the break this

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<v Speaker 1>week of those two. So let's start with Mallory and

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<v Speaker 1>raw Sheet.

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<v Speaker 2>So they are more fun poop talk, more poop.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk with these two. So they talk about how important

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<v Speaker 1>it is to be clean, and he is saying, she

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<v Speaker 1>leaves a dirty dish for days without putting it away,

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<v Speaker 1>and she goes, yeah, the most arguments we have are

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<v Speaker 1>about cleanliness. So I'm going to tell you something. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you should leave a dirty dish around for

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<v Speaker 1>days either. I think if you put it in there

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<v Speaker 1>at night and then the next day you put in

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<v Speaker 1>the dishrusher, I'm okay, but like days is not great.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a soaker, and not in the Mormon way. I

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<v Speaker 2>believe in soaking if there's something that will stick, So

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<v Speaker 2>I would never just put a dry dish in the sink.

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<v Speaker 2>That's gross. Then you're gonna have to scrub and pick

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<v Speaker 2>things off with your fingernails. Yes, no dishwasher is strung enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Plus I don't use dishwasher or hand wash.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you really?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because my last apartment that I had for like

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<v Speaker 2>twelve years, I didn't have a dishwasher, and now I

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<v Speaker 2>have one, and I forget that I have it, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I don't trust it. So I just hand washed.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're like the pla no dishwasher.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like a bigger deal was not having a

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<v Speaker 2>garbage disposal for twelve years. That's really annoying because you

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<v Speaker 2>can't let any food get down there.

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<v Speaker 1>And oh that when we when we got this beach house,

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<v Speaker 1>it was the first thing we did was install a

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<v Speaker 1>garbage dispuzzal because yeah, I can't take it when you

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<v Speaker 1>have that little net and you have to flip that out. Yeah, noah.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm glad they're a dressing this because I do

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<v Speaker 2>feel like there's a cleanliness issue. And I'm still talking

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<v Speaker 2>about her hair. It's just never been washed.

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<v Speaker 1>She is even, Yeah, she's she's one of those people

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<v Speaker 1>that's like, I just washed my hair once a week

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<v Speaker 1>like that does. I think she's some people, but not

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<v Speaker 1>all people.

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<v Speaker 2>She might be trying to train her hair to do

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<v Speaker 2>like a once a week wash, and she is constantly

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<v Speaker 2>on day six of that schedule. But she should have

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<v Speaker 2>done this training before she was on TV.

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<v Speaker 1>Hair Wonky. Lindsay says, that's not good for your hair

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<v Speaker 1>to let that much oil build up.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's correct, Lindsay, Yeah, and I trust your judgment.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So they're headed out to look for a day

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<v Speaker 1>and she says, nothing like water shooting up your butthole

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<v Speaker 1>to make it feel like home. Do you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do that I forgot to do and I

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was a little concerned about your mic, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's wrong, a little echoey.

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<v Speaker 1>I just fixed it. Is it better now?

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<v Speaker 2>I just fixed it much better, so much better. I

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<v Speaker 2>should have said something. Okay, guys, but I remembered you

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<v Speaker 2>were sometimes echoe in that room unless you put pillows

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<v Speaker 2>around you.

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot to do all my settings. So anyway, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>sorry about that.

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<v Speaker 3>So sorry, all good now, Okay, it didn't sound that bad. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>So the da anchrid, she says.

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<v Speaker 1>She says, nothing like water shooting up your buttole to

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<v Speaker 1>make you feel like home. And then they're in the

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<v Speaker 1>car and they're driving and she has a Starbucks bacon,

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<v Speaker 1>egg and cheese I think is what it is, and

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, babe, you can't have that, starts laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>He goes, what is it? He goes, pork. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>he said poop. No, I thought he said poop, and

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<v Speaker 1>I wrote it down as poop. And then I looked

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<v Speaker 1>up and where I paused it, and he said, what

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<v Speaker 1>is it? Pork? And he does what we call the

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<v Speaker 1>Tom Hanks in Big when he hit the cavear. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he starts scraping his tongue with his hand. He oh,

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<v Speaker 1>my God, and then he rinses his mouth and spits

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<v Speaker 1>it out the window, and she's like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>you're so dramatic. He's like, oh my god, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>Say, oh, no, you bite. You didn't eat that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever they were playing. Yeah, yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he hears that. He immediately's like and then he

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<v Speaker 1>mouth to feed and a butthole to clean. So they

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<v Speaker 1>meet Heather at a place called Harrington's. They look at

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<v Speaker 1>the bidet and he is so happy. He says, he's aroused.

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<v Speaker 1>They sent him to the bathroom to be with his bidet.

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<v Speaker 1>But it is one of those that like opens when

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<v Speaker 1>you walk in. Like we've been at hotels that have

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. My aunt just got one of those fancy ones.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Ingrid has one because her husband they were remodeling

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<v Speaker 1>a big bathtub. All I want is a fancy toilet,

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<v Speaker 1>and she remember let him have it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a happy toilet, happy husband. Yeah, the expression Tiger

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<v Speaker 2>Lily and Adnn got one. And I believe it was

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody tell us.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like it was like that log cabin.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, anyway, you can easily get a bidet to attach

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<v Speaker 2>I looked it up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's your existing toilet. You can get one on Amazon.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thirty bucks, forty bucks, tie us with sixty bucks. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>get get one come by people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you don't have to buy the entire bidet toilet.

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<v Speaker 1>You can buy that thing. I would recommend that because

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<v Speaker 1>then you could put on all your toilets and if

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<v Speaker 1>it breaks, who cares. It was fifty bucks by any one,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, So anyway, she says, let's look at

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<v Speaker 1>it cheaper one. So then they look at one that's

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<v Speaker 1>eight hundred, and she goes, this is a want and

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<v Speaker 1>not a need, and I'm the one paying for it.

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<v Speaker 1>And he goes, but you have accident money. You are rich?

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<v Speaker 1>Really talking and she tells us I got an insurance

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<v Speaker 1>settlement and I'm not a multimillionaire. She didn't say she

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<v Speaker 1>has a millionaire. She just said she's not a multimillionaire.

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<v Speaker 1>And she goes, and it's in a brokerage account which

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<v Speaker 1>I can barely access, which is good, you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>that's good. Know yourself, know that you would spend it.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, she put in an account to give it

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<v Speaker 1>a few layers that she has to go through before

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<v Speaker 1>she buys something big. And she goes, and it irritates

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<v Speaker 1>me that he thinks this money that we could just

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to build my future with it. But

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<v Speaker 1>what if then he's not in it, then I'm broke

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<v Speaker 1>with no money and no man. So I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>getting him a day is stupid shit. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>very important for him. And they don't have to buy

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<v Speaker 1>an eleven one hundred dollars or an eight hundred dollars one.

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<v Speaker 1>They could. They could get a lesser mob, So this

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<v Speaker 1>is Yeah. I think they are struggling to find issues

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<v Speaker 1>because they're really pretty good. Yeah, yeah, are Brandon Brandy

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<v Speaker 1>don't forget about Brandy says?

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<v Speaker 2>And the kids? Are they going to ever bring up

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<v Speaker 2>the kids issue?

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<v Speaker 1>No? That was it? Well, yeah they will, but once

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<v Speaker 1>they realized the toilet issue is not going to be

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<v Speaker 1>about Marissa and Edward and if you guys, miss Pink

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<v Speaker 1>Shade live last Tuesday for on the paid feed. We

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<v Speaker 1>do a live once a month, and I shared on

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<v Speaker 1>there that a listener had reached out who spoiler fast

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<v Speaker 1>forward if you don't want to know this. Marissa and

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<v Speaker 1>Edward also got married and it was in their local

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<v Speaker 1>thing with the florists posted about it because I guess

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<v Speaker 1>they got the flowers for free or whatever. And this

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<v Speaker 1>person lived in Bluebelt and said Marissa's mom is seventy

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<v Speaker 1>five years old. Credible saw her again this week and thought,

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<v Speaker 1>there's not any way this woman is even barely fifty

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<v Speaker 1>five years old. Holy can Holy credible. I told this listener,

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<v Speaker 1>not even kidding, not joking, all jokes aside, find out

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<v Speaker 1>who this woman's doctor is, because I can drive to

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<v Speaker 1>Pennsylvania to get work done.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, except this is this work is expensive. Whatever work

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<v Speaker 2>she's had is expensive.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're right. I have to save it up for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. Yeah, yeah, I have to sell somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Ads just a few more. Yeah, all right, Rissa and Edward,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So he's fixing a fence in her backyard because

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<v Speaker 2>it really bothered him when she said it was like

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<v Speaker 2>having a third child. So he's trying to help out

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<v Speaker 2>around the house, but he doesn't know how to fix

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<v Speaker 2>the fence, so he keeps blaming it on the imbecile

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<v Speaker 2>who fixed it before him, and it's not his fault

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<v Speaker 2>that he doesn't know what he's doing. So he basically

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<v Speaker 2>just welded it together so the gate part doesn't open.

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<v Speaker 2>He just hammered it. But and he shows her and

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<v Speaker 2>he's so proud, and she's like, what if we need

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<v Speaker 2>to use the gate part? And he's like, no, you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>You can go around the other way. She's like, what

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<v Speaker 2>if the gardeners need to come in. He's like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>they can go through the house. It's fine with their lawnmower.

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<v Speaker 1>But she was like when like, we have a fence

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<v Speaker 1>around part of our backyard and one side does have

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<v Speaker 1>a gate and the other side doesn't. So her whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing was like, what if, like the guy needs to

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<v Speaker 1>come in to mow the lawns, he goes he can

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<v Speaker 1>go through the other side. She's like, no, he can't,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no gate over there. That's the point of a

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<v Speaker 1>gate is to be able to come into the backyard. Hilarious, hilarious.

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking, like, what if there's a fire, Yeah,

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00:21:42.000 --> 00:21:44.319
<v Speaker 2>like you're trapped in your backyard.

421
00:21:44.519 --> 00:21:47.920
<v Speaker 1>She just boosts everybody up over I guess yeah. Yeah.

422
00:21:47.960 --> 00:21:53.880
<v Speaker 2>So he keeps saying it's fixed, it, fixed it, And

423
00:21:54.599 --> 00:21:57.839
<v Speaker 2>they're holding hands as they're walking around looking at the

424
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<v Speaker 2>fence like they love each other, but they actually each other.

425
00:22:00.640 --> 00:22:04.720
<v Speaker 2>There's so much tension and she's very cold. So she says,

426
00:22:05.000 --> 00:22:07.039
<v Speaker 2>in the last few days, a lot of concerns have

427
00:22:07.079 --> 00:22:10.480
<v Speaker 2>come into her head. Yes, yes, I'm excited. Yes, yes

428
00:22:10.519 --> 00:22:17.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm excited, But I am I really wanting to take

429
00:22:17.319 --> 00:22:21.759
<v Speaker 2>on another child in my life? And also why did

430
00:22:21.799 --> 00:22:23.839
<v Speaker 2>I fall in love with the child? Because she never

431
00:22:23.920 --> 00:22:28.400
<v Speaker 2>really asked that question. She never says. It's always like,

432
00:22:28.480 --> 00:22:31.039
<v Speaker 2>do I want to take care of another child? It's

433
00:22:31.079 --> 00:22:35.720
<v Speaker 2>not what in me. Sought out this man to date

434
00:22:36.119 --> 00:22:38.079
<v Speaker 2>and then Mary.

435
00:22:38.160 --> 00:22:40.319
<v Speaker 1>And then keep it up so far as to get married.

436
00:22:40.440 --> 00:22:46.799
<v Speaker 2>Yes, this man who you consider a third child, because

437
00:22:46.839 --> 00:22:49.880
<v Speaker 2>that's weird. So she wants him to step up and

438
00:22:49.920 --> 00:22:52.720
<v Speaker 2>be a man and do things on his own without her,

439
00:22:53.039 --> 00:22:55.720
<v Speaker 2>and she feels like she's holding his hand through every step.

440
00:22:56.160 --> 00:22:58.799
<v Speaker 2>And then she sees the other side of the fence,

441
00:22:58.880 --> 00:23:03.720
<v Speaker 2>which he has just it up four ugly boards that

442
00:23:03.839 --> 00:23:06.920
<v Speaker 2>are broken, like he snapped them over his knees and

443
00:23:07.720 --> 00:23:15.039
<v Speaker 2>just hammered them haphazardly in janky angles. That just ceiling

444
00:23:15.279 --> 00:23:18.960
<v Speaker 2>the gate shut and it looks like crap. And she

445
00:23:19.039 --> 00:23:20.559
<v Speaker 2>lives in a really nice neighborhood.

446
00:23:20.680 --> 00:23:24.720
<v Speaker 1>It looks like literally like what a cartoon would be

447
00:23:25.119 --> 00:23:28.240
<v Speaker 1>when you see a cartoon like nailing up a closed

448
00:23:28.359 --> 00:23:32.359
<v Speaker 1>sign or something. It's like just like like a house

449
00:23:32.400 --> 00:23:34.519
<v Speaker 1>that the three little pigs built or something like. That's

450
00:23:34.559 --> 00:23:37.519
<v Speaker 1>what it looks like. It is so comical that you

451
00:23:37.559 --> 00:23:39.880
<v Speaker 1>think there's not anyway he did that and thought this

452
00:23:39.920 --> 00:23:40.559
<v Speaker 1>is the solution.

453
00:23:41.160 --> 00:23:44.079
<v Speaker 2>This looks good. Yeah, at least make them parallel to

454
00:23:44.200 --> 00:23:47.839
<v Speaker 2>each other or something something. Yeah, it looks like a

455
00:23:47.880 --> 00:23:49.119
<v Speaker 2>meth house. Let's do it.

456
00:23:50.160 --> 00:23:50.519
<v Speaker 1>It does.

457
00:23:51.279 --> 00:23:54.599
<v Speaker 2>So she's like, my neighbor is gonna look and see

458
00:23:54.640 --> 00:23:58.119
<v Speaker 2>how poor she keeps her house, like this is so embarrassing.

459
00:23:58.519 --> 00:24:00.720
<v Speaker 2>And he says, well, I don't care about people opinions,

460
00:24:00.720 --> 00:24:03.319
<v Speaker 2>and she says I do, and my house represents me.

461
00:24:03.720 --> 00:24:05.279
<v Speaker 2>And he goes, I don't care.

462
00:24:05.319 --> 00:24:05.839
<v Speaker 1>Who cares.

463
00:24:05.880 --> 00:24:08.240
<v Speaker 2>They don't pay our bills and she says, but I

464
00:24:08.400 --> 00:24:13.519
<v Speaker 2>pay your bills and I care Yike, just say and

465
00:24:13.559 --> 00:24:17.000
<v Speaker 2>she says, just say yes, honey, And he's like, okay, babe,

466
00:24:17.000 --> 00:24:17.599
<v Speaker 2>it's fine.

467
00:24:17.880 --> 00:24:19.119
<v Speaker 1>Okay. Yeah.

468
00:24:19.160 --> 00:24:22.319
<v Speaker 2>So she says, I need this cleaned up immediately, not

469
00:24:22.480 --> 00:24:25.799
<v Speaker 2>in an hour now, because I am mortified that everyone

470
00:24:25.880 --> 00:24:27.799
<v Speaker 2>driving by s he's the white trash house.

471
00:24:28.079 --> 00:24:31.039
<v Speaker 1>So again, yeah, he found an old piece of like

472
00:24:31.119 --> 00:24:34.559
<v Speaker 1>ceiling molding in the garage and like broke it over

473
00:24:34.640 --> 00:24:37.640
<v Speaker 1>his knee and each that it's like a piece of wood,

474
00:24:37.799 --> 00:24:41.519
<v Speaker 1>a piece of like Amazon box, a piece of molding,

475
00:24:41.799 --> 00:24:43.720
<v Speaker 1>Like it's crazy, it's crazy.

476
00:24:43.680 --> 00:24:47.200
<v Speaker 2>Yah. Yeah, but she is talking to him like he's

477
00:24:47.240 --> 00:24:51.279
<v Speaker 2>a teenager. But again he is acting like one where

478
00:24:51.319 --> 00:24:55.240
<v Speaker 2>you I felt like I don't even have anyone in

479
00:24:55.279 --> 00:24:57.240
<v Speaker 2>my life where I have to constantly be on them.

480
00:24:57.279 --> 00:24:59.839
<v Speaker 2>You have a child and a husband that would probably

481
00:25:00.319 --> 00:25:04.160
<v Speaker 2>like this, two children where it's like can you do this?

482
00:25:04.359 --> 00:25:06.240
<v Speaker 2>And they'll say yes, but then they need help with

483
00:25:06.279 --> 00:25:08.440
<v Speaker 2>every single step or do it wrong and you have

484
00:25:08.480 --> 00:25:09.000
<v Speaker 2>to fix it.

485
00:25:09.759 --> 00:25:10.160
<v Speaker 1>Yep.

486
00:25:11.240 --> 00:25:12.839
<v Speaker 2>That's got to be really annoying.

487
00:25:13.319 --> 00:25:17.119
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's hard to do everything, it is, especially when

488
00:25:17.480 --> 00:25:19.319
<v Speaker 1>you have water pouring through your ceilings.

489
00:25:19.400 --> 00:25:23.079
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, So he tells us no matter what I do,

490
00:25:23.119 --> 00:25:24.960
<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's not good enough, it's not up

491
00:25:24.960 --> 00:25:27.920
<v Speaker 2>to her standards. And she's always cutting me down and

492
00:25:28.200 --> 00:25:31.559
<v Speaker 2>insulting me, and I don't like it. So then they

493
00:25:31.559 --> 00:25:34.359
<v Speaker 2>are driving into New York because she is now has

494
00:25:34.440 --> 00:25:38.119
<v Speaker 2>to work, and she is eating gram crackers, which was

495
00:25:38.200 --> 00:25:41.960
<v Speaker 2>good to see because yeah, honestly, I thought she just

496
00:25:42.240 --> 00:25:45.359
<v Speaker 2>ate protein shakes with half heart boiled it.

497
00:25:45.480 --> 00:25:48.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. A little carbo. Yeah.

498
00:25:48.359 --> 00:25:51.119
<v Speaker 2>So he says he's excited to be free in New

499
00:25:51.200 --> 00:25:54.279
<v Speaker 2>York without this bitch who is made to him. Essentially,

500
00:25:54.640 --> 00:25:59.000
<v Speaker 2>he is Kevin McAllister home alone too. He is on

501
00:25:59.079 --> 00:26:02.839
<v Speaker 2>the streets of New York, running wild, making friends with

502
00:26:02.839 --> 00:26:05.519
<v Speaker 2>the pigeon lady. It's going to be great times.

503
00:26:05.720 --> 00:26:07.680
<v Speaker 1>Did you think it was like take your son to workday?

504
00:26:08.599 --> 00:26:11.200
<v Speaker 2>Yes, a little bit. Yeah, she might need to put

505
00:26:11.279 --> 00:26:14.440
<v Speaker 2>him on a leash because New York is very crowded

506
00:26:14.440 --> 00:26:15.480
<v Speaker 2>and you can lose someone.

507
00:26:15.559 --> 00:26:19.079
<v Speaker 1>He's get an air tag in ring pocket. Yeah, uh huh.

508
00:26:19.119 --> 00:26:23.119
<v Speaker 2>So he is going to be a tourist. So she says, okay,

509
00:26:23.319 --> 00:26:26.039
<v Speaker 2>do you have money and he says, oh, I have

510
00:26:26.079 --> 00:26:29.759
<v Speaker 2>a couple hundreds And she says did you bring it

511
00:26:29.799 --> 00:26:32.880
<v Speaker 2>with you? And he says, no, I don't have a wallet,

512
00:26:33.319 --> 00:26:36.680
<v Speaker 2>so I need to buy a wallet. She's like, how

513
00:26:36.720 --> 00:26:39.440
<v Speaker 2>are you gonna buy a wallet if you don't have money?

514
00:26:39.880 --> 00:26:41.000
<v Speaker 2>Do you have a credit card?

515
00:26:41.319 --> 00:26:41.519
<v Speaker 1>No?

516
00:26:42.240 --> 00:26:44.440
<v Speaker 2>So she's like, how do you just are going to

517
00:26:44.519 --> 00:26:46.680
<v Speaker 2>be alone in a big city with no money or

518
00:26:46.720 --> 00:26:51.039
<v Speaker 2>no ID? He really needs ID? Yeah?

519
00:26:51.440 --> 00:26:55.720
<v Speaker 1>In this day and age taken down by yeah exactly. Yea.

520
00:26:56.480 --> 00:26:58.759
<v Speaker 2>So she's like, I feel like he just flies by

521
00:26:58.759 --> 00:27:00.480
<v Speaker 2>the seat of his pants and I don't want to

522
00:27:00.480 --> 00:27:03.200
<v Speaker 2>worry about him, like I have another child. And she

523
00:27:03.319 --> 00:27:08.359
<v Speaker 2>says this so much, so she says, you know, I

524
00:27:08.400 --> 00:27:10.240
<v Speaker 2>feel like I've been cold to you lately, and I

525
00:27:10.279 --> 00:27:12.519
<v Speaker 2>am sorry about that. But these past few days have

526
00:27:12.599 --> 00:27:15.759
<v Speaker 2>not been easy for me. We just live very different lifestyles.

527
00:27:15.799 --> 00:27:18.279
<v Speaker 2>I work full time and I am a full time mom.

528
00:27:18.759 --> 00:27:20.920
<v Speaker 2>And he says, well, I can help you, and she says,

529
00:27:20.960 --> 00:27:22.839
<v Speaker 2>I need you to be self sufficient. I don't have

530
00:27:22.880 --> 00:27:27.240
<v Speaker 2>the bandwidth to take on another person. And he says, honestly, like,

531
00:27:27.440 --> 00:27:29.799
<v Speaker 2>you just need to calm down. You're being too loud.

532
00:27:30.279 --> 00:27:34.960
<v Speaker 2>Calm down, and you decide the kind of life you have,

533
00:27:35.359 --> 00:27:37.759
<v Speaker 2>and you're going to live in two cities and have

534
00:27:37.839 --> 00:27:40.440
<v Speaker 2>a big house and a big, high power job. You're

535
00:27:40.440 --> 00:27:43.960
<v Speaker 2>going to be stressed out. And she's like, no, because

536
00:27:44.039 --> 00:27:46.119
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that when I got married and had

537
00:27:46.119 --> 00:27:48.160
<v Speaker 2>two kids that my marriage was going to fall apart

538
00:27:48.200 --> 00:27:50.559
<v Speaker 2>and I would have to raise these kids on my

539
00:27:50.640 --> 00:27:53.920
<v Speaker 2>own most of the time and pay for everything and

540
00:27:54.200 --> 00:27:56.519
<v Speaker 2>need to support myself with a big job in the

541
00:27:56.559 --> 00:27:59.799
<v Speaker 2>city and all this stuff. So she takes offense to

542
00:27:59.839 --> 00:28:02.279
<v Speaker 2>that and He's like, life can be tough, but you

543
00:28:02.319 --> 00:28:04.839
<v Speaker 2>have to deal with it. And she's like, I'm overwhelmed

544
00:28:04.880 --> 00:28:07.599
<v Speaker 2>and I'm taking on more expenses and another person in

545
00:28:07.640 --> 00:28:11.400
<v Speaker 2>my life and but all those harboiled eggs and cheat.

546
00:28:11.680 --> 00:28:16.480
<v Speaker 1>She's being so rude to him, so rude, so rude.

547
00:28:16.799 --> 00:28:19.920
<v Speaker 2>But also he is a little dismissive of her concerns.

548
00:28:20.039 --> 00:28:24.440
<v Speaker 2>He's very like, well, it'll work itself out, like whatever.

549
00:28:24.720 --> 00:28:27.279
<v Speaker 1>Right, I don't think he's had enough time to sort

550
00:28:27.319 --> 00:28:29.480
<v Speaker 1>of see like I got to get up in the morning,

551
00:28:29.559 --> 00:28:32.119
<v Speaker 1>I got to get the kids to school or camp

552
00:28:32.200 --> 00:28:34.119
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and then I got a half the time

553
00:28:34.240 --> 00:28:36.480
<v Speaker 1>drive into New York City. You know, it's a lot.

554
00:28:37.160 --> 00:28:40.279
<v Speaker 2>It's a lot. So and she was hoping to have

555
00:28:40.440 --> 00:28:45.119
<v Speaker 2>a male nanny and a housekeeper and a part time

556
00:28:45.160 --> 00:28:47.680
<v Speaker 2>father who can do that stuff for her.

557
00:28:47.599 --> 00:28:49.240
<v Speaker 3>Which, by the way, I think he would be glad

558
00:28:49.319 --> 00:28:51.279
<v Speaker 3>to all of someone, you know, I think he would

559
00:28:51.279 --> 00:28:52.759
<v Speaker 3>be glad to do all that fun stuff.

560
00:28:52.839 --> 00:28:56.000
<v Speaker 1>She just if he doesn't do it her way, then

561
00:28:56.000 --> 00:28:58.599
<v Speaker 1>he gets so it's like he can't win if he

562
00:28:58.640 --> 00:29:00.400
<v Speaker 1>tries to help a kiuse he doesn't do it right,

563
00:29:00.519 --> 00:29:00.839
<v Speaker 1>you know.

564
00:29:01.039 --> 00:29:03.599
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you just have to let go of the rains

565
00:29:03.599 --> 00:29:05.640
<v Speaker 2>a tiny bit, and it's gonna get done, but it'll

566
00:29:05.640 --> 00:29:07.960
<v Speaker 2>get done differently, and it might not be perfect. There

567
00:29:08.039 --> 00:29:10.079
<v Speaker 2>might still be crumbs on the counter, but you can

568
00:29:10.160 --> 00:29:11.920
<v Speaker 2>just you're gonna have to learn to deal with that

569
00:29:12.599 --> 00:29:18.160
<v Speaker 2>or hire someone to do this stuff for you. You have

570
00:29:18.400 --> 00:29:23.160
<v Speaker 2>a professional and that's and then don't rely on this

571
00:29:23.240 --> 00:29:25.519
<v Speaker 2>man who's supposed to be your romantic partner to do

572
00:29:25.559 --> 00:29:26.039
<v Speaker 2>this stuff.

573
00:29:27.519 --> 00:29:28.799
<v Speaker 1>It's very layered.

574
00:29:29.079 --> 00:29:32.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is. So she's like, I'm taking on more

575
00:29:32.440 --> 00:29:35.039
<v Speaker 2>expenses and blah blah blah. She's like, I don't think

576
00:29:35.079 --> 00:29:39.200
<v Speaker 2>he's taking my concerns seriously or getting it. And she

577
00:29:39.720 --> 00:29:42.359
<v Speaker 2>says to him, look, I just need to decide if

578
00:29:42.359 --> 00:29:44.720
<v Speaker 2>this is the right path for me. She says that

579
00:29:44.799 --> 00:29:46.880
<v Speaker 2>over and over again, like I have a big decision

580
00:29:46.880 --> 00:29:48.519
<v Speaker 2>to make if this is going to work out in

581
00:29:48.599 --> 00:29:52.400
<v Speaker 2>my life. And so finally he says, it's not just you.

582
00:29:52.920 --> 00:29:56.319
<v Speaker 2>I also have to decide if this is right for me,

583
00:29:56.599 --> 00:29:59.960
<v Speaker 2>and I'm making a mistake, like because it's always about her.

584
00:30:00.200 --> 00:30:02.640
<v Speaker 2>She has the upper hand and she makes the final

585
00:30:02.680 --> 00:30:05.160
<v Speaker 2>decision on if they get married or not. He can

586
00:30:05.200 --> 00:30:08.039
<v Speaker 2>decide as well to go back to his country. This

587
00:30:08.400 --> 00:30:12.319
<v Speaker 2>he had a fine life there. Yes, it's not like

588
00:30:12.519 --> 00:30:16.119
<v Speaker 2>he won the lottery with her, and right, no one

589
00:30:16.119 --> 00:30:18.960
<v Speaker 2>would ever turn that down. He could turn that down,

590
00:30:19.240 --> 00:30:23.359
<v Speaker 2>and she needs to realize that. So that's it.

591
00:30:25.400 --> 00:30:27.480
<v Speaker 1>She bugs. She does.

592
00:30:27.680 --> 00:30:29.799
<v Speaker 2>Unfortunately she's getting a really bad edit.

593
00:30:30.039 --> 00:30:35.039
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, and her mom was seventy five. Okay, okay.

594
00:30:35.359 --> 00:30:41.960
<v Speaker 1>So Asha and Maxwell. So he's getting ready in his

595
00:30:42.079 --> 00:30:45.000
<v Speaker 1>room and says, today, Ash and are going to go

596
00:30:45.039 --> 00:30:47.559
<v Speaker 1>to the market. And I'm nervous because now I realize

597
00:30:47.599 --> 00:30:50.319
<v Speaker 1>after the dinner last night, I need to be around

598
00:30:50.640 --> 00:30:53.319
<v Speaker 1>to keep everyone in check, especially Asia, Like if they're

599
00:30:53.319 --> 00:30:55.000
<v Speaker 1>all going to be together, I need to be there.

600
00:30:56.839 --> 00:30:59.720
<v Speaker 1>So the producer asked him, how would you feel if

601
00:30:59.759 --> 00:31:03.240
<v Speaker 1>you're family doesn't like her? And he's like, oh, and

602
00:31:03.279 --> 00:31:06.000
<v Speaker 1>she sort of walks in at that moment, and as

603
00:31:06.079 --> 00:31:07.839
<v Speaker 1>he's like, oh, I'll cross that bridge when I come

604
00:31:07.920 --> 00:31:10.480
<v Speaker 1>to it, right, And so she walks in while he's

605
00:31:10.519 --> 00:31:14.440
<v Speaker 1>getting dressed, and she's telling him what to wear, and

606
00:31:14.480 --> 00:31:16.599
<v Speaker 1>the producer asked them and the talking head together, do

607
00:31:16.640 --> 00:31:19.119
<v Speaker 1>you think that Maxwell has a good sense of fashion?

608
00:31:19.200 --> 00:31:22.680
<v Speaker 1>And she's like, oh lord, I'm gonna get in trouble,

609
00:31:22.720 --> 00:31:25.160
<v Speaker 1>but I have it ingrained in my mind that blue

610
00:31:25.160 --> 00:31:27.720
<v Speaker 1>suit he wore when he first picked me up, and

611
00:31:27.759 --> 00:31:31.240
<v Speaker 1>he said, well, he basically said, I've watched the show

612
00:31:32.200 --> 00:31:35.279
<v Speaker 1>and seen how people show up to show their culture.

613
00:31:35.839 --> 00:31:39.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, or other shows like I think, like any show

614
00:31:39.759 --> 00:31:42.000
<v Speaker 2>you know when someone's at the airport with flowers.

615
00:31:42.279 --> 00:31:44.599
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I kind of felt like he'd watched this show.

616
00:31:46.359 --> 00:31:49.640
<v Speaker 1>It's possible, Yeah, he said, So I wore a blue senator,

617
00:31:49.920 --> 00:31:51.880
<v Speaker 1>which I guess is the name of the outfit to

618
00:31:52.000 --> 00:31:54.400
<v Speaker 1>sell my culture. And she's like, you don't need to

619
00:31:54.400 --> 00:31:56.480
<v Speaker 1>sell it to me. I didn't need to see that. No. Meanwhile,

620
00:31:56.519 --> 00:31:58.839
<v Speaker 1>they show her and she is in green skin tight

621
00:31:58.880 --> 00:32:00.680
<v Speaker 1>leggings and a matching tank top.

622
00:32:01.640 --> 00:32:04.119
<v Speaker 2>I thought he looked better than she did. I didn't

623
00:32:04.160 --> 00:32:08.000
<v Speaker 2>mind that blue suit either. The boots made it look

624
00:32:08.079 --> 00:32:10.119
<v Speaker 2>like he was an inmate a little bit, like a

625
00:32:10.119 --> 00:32:13.519
<v Speaker 2>little bit so, but I did. I didn't mind the suit.

626
00:32:13.839 --> 00:32:15.200
<v Speaker 2>I thought it was a nice color.

627
00:32:15.680 --> 00:32:17.440
<v Speaker 1>She's like, where I come from, we say, he look

628
00:32:17.519 --> 00:32:22.960
<v Speaker 1>real country. Okay, girl. So they talk and she's like,

629
00:32:23.000 --> 00:32:24.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna pick out what you're gonna wear, Like, you

630
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<v Speaker 1>can't wear long sleeves, you'll be hot. That short sleeve

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<v Speaker 1>of work, it'll go with what I'm wearing, and he's like,

632
00:32:30.480 --> 00:32:32.799
<v Speaker 1>you're wasting time in here. Go get ready, go, you know,

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00:32:32.880 --> 00:32:34.119
<v Speaker 1>you don't us to stand here and tell me what

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<v Speaker 1>to do.

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00:32:34.680 --> 00:32:37.680
<v Speaker 2>She's that she thinks she's like Kim Kardashian or something,

636
00:32:37.759 --> 00:32:40.200
<v Speaker 2>and like every time they step out on the town

637
00:32:40.839 --> 00:32:43.759
<v Speaker 2>in the African market, they have to wear like color

638
00:32:43.839 --> 00:32:47.319
<v Speaker 2>coordinated outfits because they're the king and queen and people

639
00:32:47.319 --> 00:32:50.559
<v Speaker 2>are gonna be taking paparazzi photos of them or something

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00:32:50.920 --> 00:32:52.039
<v Speaker 2>like calm down.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember Montana Mills and Justine us everything they want with Yes, yeah,

642
00:32:56.839 --> 00:33:00.000
<v Speaker 1>it's too much. So talking to her, he says, you know,

643
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<v Speaker 1>she's bossy, and my family expects peace, love and respect,

644
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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want them to misunderstand her.

645
00:33:09.279 --> 00:33:12.119
<v Speaker 2>So he goes in there understanding they understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So he goes to her room and is like, Okay,

647
00:33:15.799 --> 00:33:18.039
<v Speaker 1>you gotta get ready. She's like, don't rush me, and

648
00:33:18.079 --> 00:33:20.359
<v Speaker 1>he goes, Now, remember when we go down, you say

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00:33:20.440 --> 00:33:25.119
<v Speaker 1>good morning, ma'am, good morning sir. Because they are traumatized

650
00:33:25.160 --> 00:33:27.480
<v Speaker 1>already from what you're trying to change about me. I

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<v Speaker 1>love He's traumatized, and he goes, my mom doesn't like

652
00:33:30.680 --> 00:33:33.440
<v Speaker 1>the idea of you changing my eyes, my nose, my mouth,

653
00:33:33.640 --> 00:33:36.119
<v Speaker 1>and she goes, you didn't even explain to them about

654
00:33:36.119 --> 00:33:38.359
<v Speaker 1>your eye thing. And he goes and don't say anything

655
00:33:38.400 --> 00:33:41.960
<v Speaker 1>about my hair again. The eye thing. We've had several

656
00:33:42.000 --> 00:33:45.640
<v Speaker 1>listeners write me and I'm sure as you as well,

657
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<v Speaker 1>that what he has is an actual condition where something

658
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<v Speaker 1>does grow in addition to over the white part of

659
00:33:51.160 --> 00:33:53.400
<v Speaker 1>your eye can grow into your eyeball. And they say

660
00:33:53.440 --> 00:33:56.759
<v Speaker 1>it's literally like an outpatient surgery at the eye doctor

661
00:33:57.160 --> 00:34:00.680
<v Speaker 1>to get it fixed, and it is. It does from

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00:34:01.359 --> 00:34:03.799
<v Speaker 1>lots of people in countries where they have like severe

663
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<v Speaker 1>sun damage to their eyes that'll happen.

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<v Speaker 2>So what she wants him to fix is not just aesthetic,

665
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<v Speaker 2>it is.

666
00:34:11.119 --> 00:34:11.679
<v Speaker 1>For his vision.

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00:34:11.800 --> 00:34:18.159
<v Speaker 2>Is a medical condition. Okay, the rest, the rest is aesthetic.

668
00:34:18.239 --> 00:34:21.199
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, chemical peel, change the hairline, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So the talking head she goes, yeah, I felt

671
00:34:25.639 --> 00:34:29.599
<v Speaker 1>attacked at that dinner. They were not listening about the skincare,

672
00:34:29.719 --> 00:34:33.159
<v Speaker 1>they were not listening about his eye condition. I've suggested

673
00:34:33.199 --> 00:34:35.599
<v Speaker 1>these things and he's been completely on board. So I

674
00:34:35.679 --> 00:34:37.519
<v Speaker 1>was shocked when he didn't have my back. I think

675
00:34:37.559 --> 00:34:39.920
<v Speaker 1>he was kind of embarrassed, Yeah, that he was letting

676
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<v Speaker 1>a woman kind of make him over.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

678
00:34:43.400 --> 00:34:47.800
<v Speaker 1>So she walks in goes hello mom, hello dad, Hey mom,

679
00:34:47.840 --> 00:34:52.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, and he says, baby, correct yourself, and

680
00:34:52.400 --> 00:34:57.440
<v Speaker 1>she goes, oh, good morning mom, good morning dad. So

681
00:34:58.360 --> 00:35:00.960
<v Speaker 1>in the talking head he explains, you don't say hey

682
00:35:01.519 --> 00:35:05.320
<v Speaker 1>to somebody out of respect. You just don't. You don't

683
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<v Speaker 1>do it here. You say good morning, sir or ma'am.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how you do it. To me, this seems like

685
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<v Speaker 1>a very very easy fix, a very easy thing to explain.

686
00:35:13.480 --> 00:35:15.960
<v Speaker 1>Like when you're in France, you when you walk into

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<v Speaker 1>anywhere it's a taxi, a store, a restaurant, it is

688
00:35:21.440 --> 00:35:24.440
<v Speaker 1>very rude if you don't say bonchour once while, and

689
00:35:24.480 --> 00:35:26.599
<v Speaker 1>you may feel stupid doing it. Even if you just

690
00:35:26.639 --> 00:35:31.960
<v Speaker 1>say hello, good morning. If you don't greet somebody, every

691
00:35:32.000 --> 00:35:36.199
<v Speaker 1>single person that you walk past, that they consider it rude.

692
00:35:36.719 --> 00:35:39.880
<v Speaker 1>And so it's a show of respect for their culture.

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<v Speaker 1>And it just seems so easy. He just says, don't

694
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<v Speaker 1>say hey, say good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Are not saying that you have to kneel on the

696
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<v Speaker 2>ground like they made Danielle do constantly in her season.

697
00:35:54.840 --> 00:36:00.159
<v Speaker 2>Also like no, sorry, Lisa, I'm thinking, Oh Lisa.

698
00:35:59.920 --> 00:36:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Was constantly having to kneel and then like submit Jimmy

699
00:36:02.960 --> 00:36:05.079
<v Speaker 1>and Jinny and the Indian culture you always have to

700
00:36:05.159 --> 00:36:06.320
<v Speaker 1>lean down and touch the feet.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all that she's saying is that the words you

702
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<v Speaker 2>have to use. That she's being difficult on purpose. This

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00:36:12.719 --> 00:36:16.000
<v Speaker 2>is so easy to respect their culture by doing this.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, How are you a bitch? Instead of hey?

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00:36:18.920 --> 00:36:20.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>So he tells he's telling the parents, we're going to

707
00:36:25.000 --> 00:36:27.920
<v Speaker 1>go to the market and have some alone time. We're

708
00:36:27.920 --> 00:36:29.840
<v Speaker 1>going to discuss the visa and what we're going to do.

709
00:36:30.639 --> 00:36:32.639
<v Speaker 1>And the mother says, you're not going to discuss these

710
00:36:32.639 --> 00:36:35.559
<v Speaker 1>things in the house, and he says, we're going to

711
00:36:35.639 --> 00:36:39.000
<v Speaker 1>go alone and discuss it first, and he goes, don't worry, mom,

712
00:36:39.039 --> 00:36:40.960
<v Speaker 1>while we're gone, We're not gonna work on my nose

713
00:36:41.039 --> 00:36:43.079
<v Speaker 1>or my eyes or my ears. Don't worry, and he

714
00:36:43.159 --> 00:36:47.320
<v Speaker 1>kind of laughs. She's not amused, she's nice, angry.

715
00:36:47.480 --> 00:36:51.280
<v Speaker 2>Taraji p Henson is full of hate this morning.

716
00:36:51.199 --> 00:36:52.679
<v Speaker 1>And I got to say, now I'm saying it. She

717
00:36:52.719 --> 00:36:54.000
<v Speaker 1>does look like Traji Vinson.

718
00:36:55.079 --> 00:36:57.039
<v Speaker 2>We need to do a side by side because they

719
00:36:57.039 --> 00:37:01.599
<v Speaker 2>have like very similar noses and features, but she's not

720
00:37:01.840 --> 00:37:06.440
<v Speaker 2>as obviously beautiful. I definitely felt like she's very angry.

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00:37:07.079 --> 00:37:12.119
<v Speaker 1>I definitely felt like I sweetie Mama, seemed like she's

722
00:37:12.239 --> 00:37:16.199
<v Speaker 1>very upset. I took some screenshots because I thought it

723
00:37:16.239 --> 00:37:18.519
<v Speaker 1>was pretty funny. Let's see if I could find the

724
00:37:18.559 --> 00:37:19.079
<v Speaker 1>other one.

725
00:37:18.920 --> 00:37:24.079
<v Speaker 2>That her outfit. The mom's outfit also is wild, big

726
00:37:24.119 --> 00:37:25.440
<v Speaker 2>poofy sleeves.

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00:37:25.519 --> 00:37:32.440
<v Speaker 1>Just it's let's see there she is. Yeah, yes, she says,

728
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<v Speaker 1>I say I'm weak, I'm weak. Hilarious. Hey, Hey, it's

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<v Speaker 1>officially a Hot Girl summer and this is the time

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<v Speaker 1>of year where I literally thrive because I love to

731
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<v Speaker 1>than getting outside in the salt air and just looking

733
00:37:50.360 --> 00:37:54.880
<v Speaker 1>at the ocean. It's such a good reset for my brain. Now,

734
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<v Speaker 1>if the beach is not for you, any little change

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<v Speaker 1>you got. Okay, So the talkinghead Maria the mom says,

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<v Speaker 1>in our culture, being submissive means you obey the man,

763
00:39:37.320 --> 00:39:40.280
<v Speaker 1>whether he has money or not. You must, whether he

764
00:39:40.400 --> 00:39:43.280
<v Speaker 1>is short, whether he is tall, whether or not he

765
00:39:43.360 --> 00:39:47.639
<v Speaker 1>knows how to dress well. You must because the woman

766
00:39:47.719 --> 00:39:50.719
<v Speaker 1>cannot disobey. You don't want the man to see you

767
00:39:50.760 --> 00:39:53.840
<v Speaker 1>as somebody who is so arrogant. I am weak, I

768
00:39:53.920 --> 00:39:58.400
<v Speaker 1>tell you I am weak. And again, that is their culture.

769
00:39:58.519 --> 00:40:01.039
<v Speaker 1>And I don't think you and I don't think it's

770
00:40:01.079 --> 00:40:04.880
<v Speaker 1>so literal as to woman get me a cup of coffee.

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00:40:04.960 --> 00:40:07.280
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a it's based on mutual respect. But

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<v Speaker 1>the man is the head of the household and makes

773
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<v Speaker 1>the big decisions, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're not going to change their culture, especially not

775
00:40:16.199 --> 00:40:21.679
<v Speaker 2>one person in a few days. Like no, just respect

776
00:40:21.719 --> 00:40:22.559
<v Speaker 2>it while you're there.

777
00:40:23.119 --> 00:40:25.760
<v Speaker 1>So they're in the car and Asha is showing Maxwell

778
00:40:25.800 --> 00:40:29.440
<v Speaker 1>the joy of the personal fan. Just look at it,

779
00:40:30.079 --> 00:40:31.639
<v Speaker 1>Look at it. I've got one right here.

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00:40:32.039 --> 00:40:36.199
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I love it, the joy loves fan.

781
00:40:36.440 --> 00:40:36.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

782
00:40:36.880 --> 00:40:39.400
<v Speaker 2>I want one of those circle ones that you clip it.

783
00:40:39.400 --> 00:40:40.039
<v Speaker 1>To your shirt.

784
00:40:40.639 --> 00:40:43.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Kimberly, I only have the neck ones.

785
00:40:44.920 --> 00:40:46.679
<v Speaker 1>I the one the one that you clip to your shirt.

786
00:40:46.719 --> 00:40:48.920
<v Speaker 1>You can also clip to your and it'll blow up

787
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<v Speaker 1>your dress.

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00:40:50.079 --> 00:40:51.400
<v Speaker 2>Ah, genius.

789
00:40:51.760 --> 00:40:56.360
<v Speaker 1>Good. So they're in the car and she's showing him

790
00:40:56.400 --> 00:40:58.599
<v Speaker 1>the fan and she's like, now you want one, don't you.

791
00:40:58.719 --> 00:41:03.400
<v Speaker 1>He's like, no, he did, and she says, it seems

792
00:41:03.400 --> 00:41:05.679
<v Speaker 1>your mom was mad at me, and he goes, no,

793
00:41:05.800 --> 00:41:08.199
<v Speaker 1>I didn't notice that, but I told you how to

794
00:41:08.320 --> 00:41:14.039
<v Speaker 1>address them. Not. Hey, it's so simple. Looking ahead, she says,

795
00:41:14.079 --> 00:41:16.119
<v Speaker 1>when I first met the parents, I called them mom

796
00:41:16.159 --> 00:41:18.360
<v Speaker 1>and dad right away, and he didn't tell me any

797
00:41:18.360 --> 00:41:20.639
<v Speaker 1>of this. And now it's the second time with them,

798
00:41:20.760 --> 00:41:24.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's something new. That's crazy. Okay, Well, just do it.

799
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<v Speaker 1>It's not hard. Just do it.

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00:41:26.360 --> 00:41:29.119
<v Speaker 2>He didn't want to correct you on your first time there.

801
00:41:29.559 --> 00:41:32.599
<v Speaker 2>They gave you allowances because it was your first time visiting.

802
00:41:32.800 --> 00:41:35.320
<v Speaker 2>Right now, you know better, so do it.

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00:41:35.840 --> 00:41:38.679
<v Speaker 1>I think it's so easy. So she goes, why do

804
00:41:38.760 --> 00:41:41.039
<v Speaker 1>you care? Are you dating me or are you dating

805
00:41:41.039 --> 00:41:43.599
<v Speaker 1>your family? And he says you were dating me and

806
00:41:43.679 --> 00:41:47.199
<v Speaker 1>my family, and she goes, m mmmm, that's not true.

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00:41:47.440 --> 00:41:51.000
<v Speaker 1>It's not biblical that way. And you know, let me

808
00:41:51.039 --> 00:41:53.880
<v Speaker 1>tell you something. If the visa was approved, you'd already

809
00:41:53.920 --> 00:41:55.800
<v Speaker 1>be in the us with me right now and not

810
00:41:55.840 --> 00:41:58.000
<v Speaker 1>even worried about them.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you saying it's his fault the visa wasn't approved.

812
00:42:02.039 --> 00:42:04.920
<v Speaker 1>And you're also saying once he gets to the US,

813
00:42:04.920 --> 00:42:08.360
<v Speaker 1>he's just gonna say fuck my family, Like no, also.

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<v Speaker 2>You brought your mom on this trip because what the

815
00:42:11.679 --> 00:42:14.599
<v Speaker 2>parents think is important, right totally.

816
00:42:15.800 --> 00:42:19.239
<v Speaker 1>So he goes, yeah, but right now you're here, and

817
00:42:19.400 --> 00:42:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't want all of this advice of

818
00:42:24.519 --> 00:42:27.039
<v Speaker 1>this is I don't want their advice, like are you

819
00:42:27.079 --> 00:42:28.880
<v Speaker 1>doing the right thing? Is this a mistake? Like he

820
00:42:28.920 --> 00:42:32.199
<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to hear it from them, And she goes, well,

821
00:42:32.239 --> 00:42:34.039
<v Speaker 1>you should have been worried about that the first or

822
00:42:34.079 --> 00:42:38.199
<v Speaker 1>the second time I came here, not the third. He goes, well,

823
00:42:38.360 --> 00:42:40.440
<v Speaker 1>now I'm thinking about the visa, and now I'm thinking

824
00:42:40.440 --> 00:42:43.159
<v Speaker 1>maybe it's a sign. Maybe God doesn't want us to

825
00:42:43.199 --> 00:42:46.360
<v Speaker 1>be married. No, he can't bring God into it because

826
00:42:46.400 --> 00:42:47.960
<v Speaker 1>God speaks to her directly.

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00:42:48.360 --> 00:42:52.079
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because she'll he'll just be like, no, God's telling me, no, bitch,

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00:42:52.119 --> 00:42:55.199
<v Speaker 2>God's telling me. He just told me. I'm listening to

829
00:42:55.239 --> 00:42:59.719
<v Speaker 2>him right now. Special like Sarrah, no diversarec liked to

830
00:43:00.119 --> 00:43:00.719
<v Speaker 2>do here?

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00:43:01.320 --> 00:43:03.000
<v Speaker 1>Yep? God breaking news.

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<v Speaker 2>He just told me you're full of shit. You could

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00:43:07.000 --> 00:43:09.239
<v Speaker 2>do it for anything. He could tell me he wants

834
00:43:09.280 --> 00:43:11.320
<v Speaker 2>you to change your outfit because he doesn't like that

835
00:43:11.360 --> 00:43:13.760
<v Speaker 2>blue on you. He told me that you need eye

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00:43:13.760 --> 00:43:16.480
<v Speaker 2>surgery and fix your hairline right now.

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00:43:17.760 --> 00:43:22.119
<v Speaker 1>So she says, did you change your mind? Are you confused?

838
00:43:22.360 --> 00:43:24.920
<v Speaker 1>And he goes, yeah, a little bit. And she says

839
00:43:25.039 --> 00:43:27.639
<v Speaker 1>you ought to be ashamed of yourself. You're letting other

840
00:43:27.679 --> 00:43:30.199
<v Speaker 1>folks make your decisions. And I thought you weren't like that.

841
00:43:30.360 --> 00:43:34.039
<v Speaker 1>I thought you made decisions for yourself. And he says

842
00:43:34.360 --> 00:43:37.719
<v Speaker 1>I do. I do, But if your mom didn't support us,

843
00:43:37.840 --> 00:43:41.320
<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't want to get married. Uh huh, And she goes,

844
00:43:41.440 --> 00:43:43.679
<v Speaker 1>she would only say that if there was a reason,

845
00:43:43.880 --> 00:43:47.039
<v Speaker 1>like being abusive or cheating, and he.

846
00:43:47.000 --> 00:43:49.079
<v Speaker 2>Says, well, you're kind of being a bitch.

847
00:43:49.800 --> 00:43:52.639
<v Speaker 1>He says, well, my parents might think you're being disrespectful

848
00:43:52.679 --> 00:43:56.159
<v Speaker 1>to them, and she goes, that's a misunderstanding and he goes, no,

849
00:43:56.239 --> 00:43:59.360
<v Speaker 1>you're misunderstanding the culture. And she says, stop yelling in

850
00:43:59.400 --> 00:44:01.719
<v Speaker 1>my ear. He goes, I'm yelling so it will stick

851
00:44:01.760 --> 00:44:02.360
<v Speaker 1>into your head.

852
00:44:03.400 --> 00:44:04.800
<v Speaker 2>I didn't feel like he was yelling.

853
00:44:05.039 --> 00:44:07.719
<v Speaker 1>Did you barely getting agitated.

854
00:44:08.159 --> 00:44:12.880
<v Speaker 2>You know, his voice went like one octave higher. Yeah, yeah,

855
00:44:12.920 --> 00:44:15.239
<v Speaker 2>Like I don't think the uber driver even would have

856
00:44:15.280 --> 00:44:15.960
<v Speaker 2>turned around.

857
00:44:16.199 --> 00:44:20.559
<v Speaker 1>No, I agree. So the talking head, she goes, this

858
00:44:20.679 --> 00:44:22.360
<v Speaker 1>is not the man I fell in love with. He

859
00:44:22.519 --> 00:44:25.840
<v Speaker 1>is raising his voice to me and disrespecting God. He

860
00:44:25.960 --> 00:44:30.800
<v Speaker 1>is letting his family come in and waiver what he believes. Okay,

861
00:44:30.840 --> 00:44:33.840
<v Speaker 1>it's not that. Okay, just say good morning instead of hey,

862
00:44:34.360 --> 00:44:34.760
<v Speaker 1>not art.

863
00:44:34.840 --> 00:44:36.159
<v Speaker 2>This could have all been avoided.

864
00:44:36.480 --> 00:44:41.039
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So in the market, as they're walking around, he goes, Okay,

865
00:44:41.039 --> 00:44:43.159
<v Speaker 1>now you'll need to behave and she goes, you better

866
00:44:43.239 --> 00:44:48.119
<v Speaker 1>stop using that word. So they shop and she finds

867
00:44:48.119 --> 00:44:50.800
<v Speaker 1>some things that she likes and the market looks very cool,

868
00:44:51.519 --> 00:44:53.679
<v Speaker 1>and she's like, I love to shop, and he says

869
00:44:53.719 --> 00:44:56.079
<v Speaker 1>he hates it. But he's bargaining, you know, when they're

870
00:44:56.119 --> 00:44:58.480
<v Speaker 1>saying a price and they're going back and forth. The

871
00:44:58.559 --> 00:45:00.360
<v Speaker 1>talking head, she says, in the United he says, the

872
00:45:00.400 --> 00:45:02.559
<v Speaker 1>price is the price. And I can't believe it with

873
00:45:02.639 --> 00:45:04.360
<v Speaker 1>this bargaining. But I like it when he does it.

874
00:45:04.400 --> 00:45:08.000
<v Speaker 1>I think it's sexy. So they're talking in a story

875
00:45:08.000 --> 00:45:09.519
<v Speaker 1>and because you need to get something for your mom,

876
00:45:09.880 --> 00:45:11.920
<v Speaker 1>and he gets the mam a purse. They bargain on

877
00:45:11.960 --> 00:45:12.320
<v Speaker 1>the price.

878
00:45:12.639 --> 00:45:16.039
<v Speaker 2>Now she's like, God told me he only wants me

879
00:45:16.079 --> 00:45:17.760
<v Speaker 2>to pay ten dollars for this purse.

880
00:45:18.320 --> 00:45:20.519
<v Speaker 1>And you should listen because God speaks to her directly.

881
00:45:21.039 --> 00:45:25.920
<v Speaker 1>So now the apartment, Maria says, now that they're gone,

882
00:45:26.039 --> 00:45:32.199
<v Speaker 1>we can discuss things. Juliette to Asia's mom. So Clement

883
00:45:32.480 --> 00:45:36.800
<v Speaker 1>and Maria sit to talk with Juliette, and Maria says,

884
00:45:37.320 --> 00:45:41.519
<v Speaker 1>Asia wants to change his eyes, change his face. All

885
00:45:41.559 --> 00:45:44.480
<v Speaker 1>of these things are no good. God hates it. Oh,

886
00:45:44.760 --> 00:45:46.079
<v Speaker 1>now Marie is bringing God in.

887
00:45:47.280 --> 00:45:49.840
<v Speaker 2>And what if you all speak to God but God

888
00:45:49.920 --> 00:45:52.920
<v Speaker 2>is telling you all something different? How do you decide?

889
00:45:53.079 --> 00:45:55.159
<v Speaker 1>Why has God being so messy? And tell him his different?

890
00:45:55.239 --> 00:45:58.039
<v Speaker 2>I know he's gossip. He's telling one person. It's like

891
00:45:58.079 --> 00:46:01.400
<v Speaker 2>the valley. He's telling one person and then another person

892
00:46:01.480 --> 00:46:02.119
<v Speaker 2>something else.

893
00:46:04.920 --> 00:46:07.639
<v Speaker 1>She says, God hates it. God says, you keep things

894
00:46:07.679 --> 00:46:10.599
<v Speaker 1>in a natural state the way he made it, and

895
00:46:10.679 --> 00:46:13.559
<v Speaker 1>Juliette says, well, I think she just wanted his skin

896
00:46:13.679 --> 00:46:17.960
<v Speaker 1>to be smooth and better. And Maria says, in Africa,

897
00:46:18.239 --> 00:46:21.119
<v Speaker 1>women submit to the husband and if there's an issue

898
00:46:21.159 --> 00:46:26.320
<v Speaker 1>of money, she just thinks she has everything and the

899
00:46:26.400 --> 00:46:31.079
<v Speaker 1>mom says, no, I don't think just because Asha makes

900
00:46:31.199 --> 00:46:34.119
<v Speaker 1>money that she would try to push Maxwell around. I mean,

901
00:46:35.000 --> 00:46:37.280
<v Speaker 1>she could have found somebody that really had a lot

902
00:46:37.280 --> 00:46:39.679
<v Speaker 1>of money. She is thirty eight, and she could have

903
00:46:39.679 --> 00:46:45.760
<v Speaker 1>been married years ago. So I'm talking head. Maria says,

904
00:46:45.920 --> 00:46:50.320
<v Speaker 1>I am shocked to hear that Asia is approximately forty.

905
00:46:51.679 --> 00:46:56.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm age twenty five up to thirty five is okay,

906
00:46:57.119 --> 00:47:00.719
<v Speaker 1>but thirty eight is no. I don't want her to

907
00:47:00.800 --> 00:47:03.760
<v Speaker 1>be a problem for my son, and he will obey

908
00:47:04.079 --> 00:47:04.639
<v Speaker 1>his mama.

909
00:47:05.920 --> 00:47:09.400
<v Speaker 2>I loved this so freaking much.

910
00:47:10.280 --> 00:47:15.440
<v Speaker 1>Maria says to juliet after above age twenty five, thirty

911
00:47:16.239 --> 00:47:20.320
<v Speaker 1>is much matured, because after that you cannot marry and

912
00:47:20.360 --> 00:47:23.719
<v Speaker 1>you cannot take care of children in that old age.

913
00:47:25.119 --> 00:47:29.199
<v Speaker 1>And mom says, oh okay. So Juliette says, so that's

914
00:47:29.280 --> 00:47:32.760
<v Speaker 1>too old to get married, and Clement says the woman

915
00:47:32.800 --> 00:47:38.559
<v Speaker 1>should be thirty maximum. And then he says menopause is

916
00:47:38.639 --> 00:47:46.119
<v Speaker 1>knocking on the door at thirty and Maria says, yes,

917
00:47:46.400 --> 00:47:50.599
<v Speaker 1>that is true, menopause. I am very afraid. Oh my god.

918
00:47:50.519 --> 00:47:54.000
<v Speaker 2>I am very afraid. Honestly, if Asia were nicer, I

919
00:47:54.000 --> 00:47:55.119
<v Speaker 2>would feel bad for.

920
00:47:55.000 --> 00:47:57.199
<v Speaker 1>Her, calling her and oldie.

921
00:47:57.360 --> 00:48:00.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but she's so bitchy and I can't wait for

922
00:48:00.800 --> 00:48:03.360
<v Speaker 2>her to find out that her mom spilled the beans

923
00:48:03.639 --> 00:48:06.800
<v Speaker 2>on how old she was or did she not know?

924
00:48:07.079 --> 00:48:08.760
<v Speaker 2>Did she think the parents knew?

925
00:48:09.119 --> 00:48:09.199
<v Speaker 1>So?

926
00:48:09.440 --> 00:48:13.239
<v Speaker 2>Was Maxwell hiding this on purpose? How old is Maxwell?

927
00:48:13.320 --> 00:48:15.199
<v Speaker 2>He's quite a bit younger.

928
00:48:15.440 --> 00:48:18.159
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so he's twenty eight, she's thirty eight.

929
00:48:19.000 --> 00:48:23.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, ten years. I cannot wait for her to find out.

930
00:48:23.159 --> 00:48:26.679
<v Speaker 2>This is going to be now they have another reason

931
00:48:26.719 --> 00:48:31.719
<v Speaker 2>to hate her. I'm so excited this is and Juliet,

932
00:48:31.800 --> 00:48:33.639
<v Speaker 2>you could see her. She's like, they.

933
00:48:33.519 --> 00:48:36.280
<v Speaker 1>Didn't know, they didn't know. I don't know what we

934
00:48:36.320 --> 00:48:38.920
<v Speaker 1>don't know what age Maxwell said she was though.

935
00:48:38.960 --> 00:48:43.320
<v Speaker 2>Right, I mean she's leary. Yeah, incredible.

936
00:48:44.719 --> 00:48:50.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's go on to Thomas and Paula. So they're bugging.

937
00:48:51.440 --> 00:48:53.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. If he's so allergic, why isn't he

938
00:48:53.920 --> 00:48:57.320
<v Speaker 2>carrying an EpiPen or benadryl around And why did he

939
00:48:57.440 --> 00:49:00.000
<v Speaker 2>get over the bottle with the lid open. I'm still

940
00:49:00.159 --> 00:49:04.599
<v Speaker 2>not over it. I can't. And again, I see all

941
00:49:04.679 --> 00:49:10.519
<v Speaker 2>the listeners that have invisible ill like diseases and allergies

942
00:49:10.599 --> 00:49:15.639
<v Speaker 2>and stuff. He is full of crap. And also, if

943
00:49:15.679 --> 00:49:18.039
<v Speaker 2>you have Krohne's disease. You're not supposed to eat all

944
00:49:18.039 --> 00:49:21.440
<v Speaker 2>that beef, like you're not supposed to eat paleo. So

945
00:49:22.039 --> 00:49:26.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what he's doing. So, yeah, he's wrong

946
00:49:26.239 --> 00:49:27.000
<v Speaker 2>about everything.

947
00:49:27.400 --> 00:49:29.280
<v Speaker 1>A lot of people wrote to say like, no, you

948
00:49:29.320 --> 00:49:31.800
<v Speaker 1>can have like severe reactions, and I get all that,

949
00:49:31.880 --> 00:49:34.719
<v Speaker 1>like you can have a severe reaction to smells and

950
00:49:34.760 --> 00:49:36.800
<v Speaker 1>things like that, and I get it. I just think

951
00:49:36.840 --> 00:49:39.679
<v Speaker 1>that from what she has said, he's around people with

952
00:49:39.719 --> 00:49:42.559
<v Speaker 1>perfume all the time and never is bothered. It's only

953
00:49:42.599 --> 00:49:43.679
<v Speaker 1>because she did it.

954
00:49:43.599 --> 00:49:48.039
<v Speaker 2>So and he chose to stand over the bottle and

955
00:49:48.280 --> 00:49:51.639
<v Speaker 2>glue it shut with brand open and had no reaction.

956
00:49:52.559 --> 00:49:56.199
<v Speaker 1>Right, So unclear what his problem is, but continue.

957
00:49:56.960 --> 00:49:59.679
<v Speaker 2>So she shows some of these tiny little spoons that

958
00:49:59.719 --> 00:50:02.800
<v Speaker 2>she can, these miniatures, and she's like, what do the

959
00:50:02.960 --> 00:50:05.519
<v Speaker 2>make you think of? And he says a bad investment.

960
00:50:07.880 --> 00:50:11.760
<v Speaker 2>They make me remember how warm and cozy a family

961
00:50:11.840 --> 00:50:15.320
<v Speaker 2>can be, like cooking in a kitchen together. Sometimes I

962
00:50:15.480 --> 00:50:21.199
<v Speaker 2>cry because I'm manifesting so hard and my manifesting comes true.

963
00:50:21.400 --> 00:50:24.159
<v Speaker 2>And he says, You're manifesting comes true because I'm paying

964
00:50:24.239 --> 00:50:29.960
<v Speaker 2>the bills, And he's like, this was ninety cents so

965
00:50:30.639 --> 00:50:33.639
<v Speaker 2>stop pitching, and he says, it all adds up. Look

966
00:50:33.679 --> 00:50:36.840
<v Speaker 2>at all these packages you ordered, and there's like piles

967
00:50:36.880 --> 00:50:39.639
<v Speaker 2>of Amazon packages that she has ordered.

968
00:50:40.159 --> 00:50:43.239
<v Speaker 1>Is my house because that's what my house looks like. Yeah.

969
00:50:43.320 --> 00:50:46.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So she's like, we need these things because this

970
00:50:46.960 --> 00:50:50.199
<v Speaker 2>is not a rotel room. And we did not laugh

971
00:50:51.119 --> 00:50:56.360
<v Speaker 2>good for him, and she says to us like I

972
00:50:56.400 --> 00:50:58.679
<v Speaker 2>gave her a credit card. I trusted her, and she's

973
00:50:58.719 --> 00:51:03.559
<v Speaker 2>abusing that trust. Okay, she just wants a couch, so

974
00:51:03.599 --> 00:51:06.679
<v Speaker 2>she ordered a mini couch because she's gonna manifest it

975
00:51:06.719 --> 00:51:09.880
<v Speaker 2>into a regular couch. Who knew couch drama would be

976
00:51:09.920 --> 00:51:12.280
<v Speaker 2>so big on this show because Katie and Josh also

977
00:51:12.320 --> 00:51:13.840
<v Speaker 2>had couch drama.

978
00:51:14.039 --> 00:51:17.119
<v Speaker 1>Okay, but here's a question. When we saw last week

979
00:51:17.119 --> 00:51:18.840
<v Speaker 1>when they were putting things in the closet, they did

980
00:51:18.880 --> 00:51:20.360
<v Speaker 1>seem to be in a bedroom.

981
00:51:22.760 --> 00:51:25.920
<v Speaker 2>They only have that bed, so that's the only place

982
00:51:25.920 --> 00:51:28.480
<v Speaker 2>they can lay down, so or sit.

983
00:51:29.639 --> 00:51:32.639
<v Speaker 1>Is there a bedroom in addition to the bed in

984
00:51:32.679 --> 00:51:33.360
<v Speaker 1>the living room?

985
00:51:33.880 --> 00:51:37.000
<v Speaker 2>I think there is, or it's a cordon off space

986
00:51:37.119 --> 00:51:40.119
<v Speaker 2>like a studio apartment. But okay, it's a little bit

987
00:51:40.159 --> 00:51:43.000
<v Speaker 2>of a separate space. They have room for a couch.

988
00:51:43.639 --> 00:51:45.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't understand why the bed is not in

989
00:51:46.000 --> 00:51:48.000
<v Speaker 1>the bedroom. There's not a couch in the living room.

990
00:51:48.440 --> 00:51:53.679
<v Speaker 2>Well, because it's multifunctional, so it's stupid. He likes looking

991
00:51:53.679 --> 00:51:56.280
<v Speaker 2>out that window, remember, So he lays down to drink

992
00:51:56.280 --> 00:52:01.360
<v Speaker 2>his coffee, completely horizontal, drinking his coffee like, that's not

993
00:52:01.360 --> 00:52:02.880
<v Speaker 2>going to spill all over you.

994
00:52:02.880 --> 00:52:04.599
<v Speaker 1>You can get a couch with an automan and get

995
00:52:04.639 --> 00:52:08.480
<v Speaker 1>real low. Yeah, that's what I do real. I guess

996
00:52:08.519 --> 00:52:14.760
<v Speaker 1>he's not allergic to burning coffee burns. So she wants

997
00:52:14.800 --> 00:52:17.599
<v Speaker 1>to manifest a real couch and he's like, fine, let's

998
00:52:17.639 --> 00:52:19.639
<v Speaker 1>just keep this mini one and not get a real one.

999
00:52:19.719 --> 00:52:23.599
<v Speaker 2>That's a compromise. No, that's not a compromise. And then

1000
00:52:23.679 --> 00:52:26.639
<v Speaker 2>she lies and says that it was on clearance, the

1001
00:52:26.679 --> 00:52:31.199
<v Speaker 2>mini couch. So she says, look, I don't feel welcome here.

1002
00:52:31.280 --> 00:52:34.039
<v Speaker 2>It's like he doesn't want to commit to buying furniture,

1003
00:52:34.239 --> 00:52:37.480
<v Speaker 2>which means it's like he's not committing to our relationship,

1004
00:52:37.760 --> 00:52:40.440
<v Speaker 2>like I'm going to be here long term. And so

1005
00:52:40.480 --> 00:52:43.679
<v Speaker 2>she goes to visit their neighbors, Felix and Anderson, who

1006
00:52:43.719 --> 00:52:46.800
<v Speaker 2>she met because the doorman, there's a doorman in that building.

1007
00:52:48.039 --> 00:52:49.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't know any apartments in of doorman.

1008
00:52:51.360 --> 00:52:52.639
<v Speaker 1>That's cool, Nancy.

1009
00:52:52.840 --> 00:52:57.000
<v Speaker 2>It's like New York City. So the doorman said, there's

1010
00:52:57.039 --> 00:53:00.320
<v Speaker 2>another Brazilian who lives here, and so she met them

1011
00:53:00.480 --> 00:53:02.719
<v Speaker 2>and one of the guys is Brazilian and so she

1012
00:53:02.800 --> 00:53:05.440
<v Speaker 2>knocks on the door and she's like surprise, even though

1013
00:53:05.440 --> 00:53:10.760
<v Speaker 2>there's a camera crew in their apartment. And she loves

1014
00:53:10.960 --> 00:53:15.480
<v Speaker 2>their apartment because it looks like a it looks like

1015
00:53:15.639 --> 00:53:16.320
<v Speaker 2>a store.

1016
00:53:16.920 --> 00:53:20.599
<v Speaker 1>It's yes, nothing there, Yeah, it looks nice. It looks

1017
00:53:20.719 --> 00:53:22.800
<v Speaker 1>very staged. Yes. Yeah.

1018
00:53:22.880 --> 00:53:27.239
<v Speaker 2>So she's like, wow, you have a couch and a table,

1019
00:53:27.320 --> 00:53:29.679
<v Speaker 2>and I have a bed couch and I have a

1020
00:53:29.719 --> 00:53:33.239
<v Speaker 2>camping table and we have to sit squatting on yoga

1021
00:53:33.239 --> 00:53:39.840
<v Speaker 2>blocks and it's horrible. And they say Thomas is a

1022
00:53:39.880 --> 00:53:45.440
<v Speaker 2>little challenging. So now you have neighbors who are also

1023
00:53:45.519 --> 00:53:47.239
<v Speaker 2>seeing it that he is the problem.

1024
00:53:47.559 --> 00:53:50.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and it's a little strange. Yeah. Yeah.

1025
00:53:50.480 --> 00:53:52.920
<v Speaker 2>So she says, I'm sorry to vent. It's just I

1026
00:53:52.960 --> 00:53:55.360
<v Speaker 2>work so hard in Brazil and I'm here, I'm living

1027
00:53:55.440 --> 00:53:58.840
<v Speaker 2>like I'm homeless. Well, you have an apartment, but you

1028
00:53:59.000 --> 00:54:01.679
<v Speaker 2>just want to couch. So she's like, I have boss

1029
00:54:01.880 --> 00:54:04.920
<v Speaker 2>and power and tattoos that remind me of who I am,

1030
00:54:05.480 --> 00:54:10.039
<v Speaker 2>because I feel so worthless here and I was. She said,

1031
00:54:10.039 --> 00:54:12.840
<v Speaker 2>I was married before in Brazil, and I dealt with

1032
00:54:13.000 --> 00:54:15.719
<v Speaker 2>these bad issues and it ended very badly, and I

1033
00:54:15.719 --> 00:54:19.199
<v Speaker 2>don't want to be treated like that again. So yeah,

1034
00:54:19.320 --> 00:54:22.519
<v Speaker 2>no more details about that. She says, I love Thomas,

1035
00:54:22.519 --> 00:54:26.280
<v Speaker 2>but I love myself more and I don't need to

1036
00:54:26.320 --> 00:54:29.679
<v Speaker 2>beg for things that are so normal to have, yeah,

1037
00:54:29.840 --> 00:54:33.360
<v Speaker 2>like a couch and I'm living like a refugee in

1038
00:54:33.440 --> 00:54:37.440
<v Speaker 2>my apartment again. All right, it's not you are being

1039
00:54:37.480 --> 00:54:42.360
<v Speaker 2>a little dramatic. Yeah, They're both pretty dramatic in their

1040
00:54:42.400 --> 00:54:47.599
<v Speaker 2>own ways. So another day they are rollerblading, and well,

1041
00:54:47.639 --> 00:54:51.599
<v Speaker 2>he's rollerblading and pulling her on a skateboard, and she

1042
00:54:51.840 --> 00:54:54.960
<v Speaker 2>tells him that she really wants furniture, and she wants

1043
00:54:55.000 --> 00:54:57.480
<v Speaker 2>more closet space because she's still living out of that

1044
00:54:57.559 --> 00:54:59.760
<v Speaker 2>little hallway coat closet and.

1045
00:54:59.719 --> 00:55:03.440
<v Speaker 1>She's he gave her one tiny bin, yeah.

1046
00:55:02.960 --> 00:55:06.679
<v Speaker 2>On one cube, And she says, I feel like a

1047
00:55:06.760 --> 00:55:10.920
<v Speaker 2>guest in your life, and I don't like feeling like that,

1048
00:55:11.119 --> 00:55:13.039
<v Speaker 2>and I want as nice a life as I had

1049
00:55:13.079 --> 00:55:15.599
<v Speaker 2>in Brazil, because WHI else am I here? If I'm

1050
00:55:15.599 --> 00:55:20.440
<v Speaker 2>not getting the life I had in Brazil, and he

1051
00:55:20.480 --> 00:55:23.599
<v Speaker 2>feels like she doesn't appreciate all that he did to

1052
00:55:23.679 --> 00:55:26.000
<v Speaker 2>bring her here. He paid for the fees, he filled

1053
00:55:26.000 --> 00:55:28.000
<v Speaker 2>out the paperwork, and he gave her a credit card.

1054
00:55:28.719 --> 00:55:31.599
<v Speaker 2>And he says, when I visited you in Brazil, you

1055
00:55:31.639 --> 00:55:34.119
<v Speaker 2>gave me five hangars to put my clothes on. And

1056
00:55:34.199 --> 00:55:37.559
<v Speaker 2>she said, but you were visiting, you had five shirts here.

1057
00:55:37.679 --> 00:55:41.440
<v Speaker 2>Now yeah, and you have five shirts I live here now,

1058
00:55:41.639 --> 00:55:44.000
<v Speaker 2>so it's not the same thing. And he says, your

1059
00:55:44.000 --> 00:55:46.960
<v Speaker 2>closet is still empty in that coat closet because I

1060
00:55:47.000 --> 00:55:49.360
<v Speaker 2>think she hasn't unpacked at all because there's no room

1061
00:55:49.400 --> 00:55:53.599
<v Speaker 2>to put things in. So he goes when it's full,

1062
00:55:53.639 --> 00:55:55.840
<v Speaker 2>we'll talk and she's like, fine, I'm just going to

1063
00:55:55.880 --> 00:55:58.920
<v Speaker 2>go back to Brazil. And life in Brazil is easy

1064
00:55:58.960 --> 00:56:01.800
<v Speaker 2>with no drama. Here, I am fighting for everything and

1065
00:56:01.840 --> 00:56:02.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm tired.

1066
00:56:03.880 --> 00:56:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Good. Good. She's not gonna go back to herself.

1067
00:56:07.400 --> 00:56:08.920
<v Speaker 2>She's not well.

1068
00:56:08.960 --> 00:56:11.360
<v Speaker 1>We don't know if they get married. That hasn't been

1069
00:56:11.400 --> 00:56:13.199
<v Speaker 1>spoiled for us. We don't know if they got married.

1070
00:56:13.760 --> 00:56:16.519
<v Speaker 2>No, but I feel like it's probably a yes. It's

1071
00:56:16.519 --> 00:56:18.920
<v Speaker 2>always a yes, no matter how much you think they're

1072
00:56:18.920 --> 00:56:21.360
<v Speaker 2>gonna call it off. They always get married.

1073
00:56:22.039 --> 00:56:26.440
<v Speaker 1>If Debbie and Medo get married, everybody get married. Yep, yeah,

1074
00:56:27.000 --> 00:56:35.679
<v Speaker 1>because the Lord knows. Alrighty, Shaye and Annabel. Okay, Annabel

1075
00:56:35.840 --> 00:56:39.320
<v Speaker 1>is making Shae a smoothie and she goes, no, it's

1076
00:56:39.360 --> 00:56:41.039
<v Speaker 1>so good. Have it. She hands it to him and

1077
00:56:41.079 --> 00:56:43.119
<v Speaker 1>he tastes it, says it's good, and she looks at

1078
00:56:43.119 --> 00:56:46.119
<v Speaker 1>the camera and says, I put twelve milligrams of ozembic

1079
00:56:46.159 --> 00:56:51.360
<v Speaker 1>in there, and I'm just gonna put the shot in

1080
00:56:51.440 --> 00:56:55.559
<v Speaker 1>once a week. He won't know, and she's and he's like,

1081
00:56:55.599 --> 00:56:58.000
<v Speaker 1>oh man, I gotta I gotta drink this protein smoothie

1082
00:56:58.000 --> 00:56:59.880
<v Speaker 1>and normal, but have beer or something. She goes, I

1083
00:57:00.079 --> 00:57:01.800
<v Speaker 1>told you, when you get here, the fun is over.

1084
00:57:03.920 --> 00:57:06.800
<v Speaker 1>So in the talking did together, he says he's been

1085
00:57:06.840 --> 00:57:09.960
<v Speaker 1>in an adjustment. She's arrived on my friends or texts

1086
00:57:10.000 --> 00:57:12.639
<v Speaker 1>and called like, hey, the game's on, and I'm like,

1087
00:57:12.960 --> 00:57:17.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm watching it here with Annabel and protein smoothie. But babe, babe,

1088
00:57:18.039 --> 00:57:19.800
<v Speaker 1>I already feel good. I feel like I lost weight.

1089
00:57:19.840 --> 00:57:22.519
<v Speaker 1>Look babe, look babe. And he's holding up and he's

1090
00:57:22.599 --> 00:57:24.559
<v Speaker 1>pulling up a shirt and everything. She's like, sit down, No,

1091
00:57:24.679 --> 00:57:28.440
<v Speaker 1>you haven't he's Almolla, get I'm gonna get batteries for

1092
00:57:28.559 --> 00:57:31.079
<v Speaker 1>that scale and then I will prove it because he

1093
00:57:31.360 --> 00:57:32.800
<v Speaker 1>let the batteries die in the scale.

1094
00:57:32.960 --> 00:57:35.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I'm glad he's feeling better, but she needs to

1095
00:57:35.320 --> 00:57:39.239
<v Speaker 2>address the litany of doctors and specialists that we have recommended.

1096
00:57:39.840 --> 00:57:44.480
<v Speaker 2>Uh dermatologists, kidney and liver doctor, dentist. Get his A

1097
00:57:44.639 --> 00:57:51.000
<v Speaker 2>one C checked. Yeah, heard cardio echo work up. I'm

1098
00:57:51.000 --> 00:57:51.960
<v Speaker 2>gonna need it all.

1099
00:57:52.239 --> 00:57:56.119
<v Speaker 1>We need it all. And somebody did write and I

1100
00:57:56.199 --> 00:57:59.519
<v Speaker 1>could have been in reality Gay's Facebook group, but it

1101
00:57:59.519 --> 00:58:01.400
<v Speaker 1>was one of the It could have been an A Yurcher's.

1102
00:58:01.440 --> 00:58:03.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, don't at me. I can't remember, but

1103
00:58:04.199 --> 00:58:05.400
<v Speaker 1>it could have been mine. It could have been my

1104
00:58:05.400 --> 00:58:07.719
<v Speaker 1>Facebook group. But somebody wrote in one of those groups

1105
00:58:07.840 --> 00:58:10.920
<v Speaker 1>that they had run into him in Kentucky and he

1106
00:58:11.039 --> 00:58:12.440
<v Speaker 1>lost like seventy pounds.

1107
00:58:12.920 --> 00:58:13.280
<v Speaker 2>Wow.

1108
00:58:13.679 --> 00:58:14.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so he's.

1109
00:58:14.800 --> 00:58:16.280
<v Speaker 2>To be doing a good job Annabelle.

1110
00:58:16.440 --> 00:58:19.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So in the talking head alone, he says, ever

1111
00:58:19.760 --> 00:58:22.960
<v Speaker 1>since the SPA Day, I think Alison and annabel are

1112
00:58:23.000 --> 00:58:26.840
<v Speaker 1>getting along better. I don't know. I am kind of

1113
00:58:26.880 --> 00:58:30.440
<v Speaker 1>worried that my relationship with Alison, my favorite daughter, could suffer.

1114
00:58:30.960 --> 00:58:33.800
<v Speaker 1>He doesn't say favorite daughter, but she is so Yeah.

1115
00:58:33.920 --> 00:58:36.000
<v Speaker 1>They get in the car and he goes, well, it's

1116
00:58:36.000 --> 00:58:37.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna be nice to see Alison. You at sad Yours

1117
00:58:38.079 --> 00:58:40.719
<v Speaker 1>is nail salon, And you know, I feel bad. She

1118
00:58:40.760 --> 00:58:42.880
<v Speaker 1>called me yesterday asked me go to lunch. I was busy.

1119
00:58:42.920 --> 00:58:46.639
<v Speaker 1>I been so busy. So they go to the grocery

1120
00:58:46.639 --> 00:58:49.159
<v Speaker 1>store to meet up with Alison and Cruz and I

1121
00:58:49.159 --> 00:58:50.360
<v Speaker 1>can't remember her daughter's same.

1122
00:58:51.159 --> 00:58:53.599
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. This is also he can pay for her groceries.

1123
00:58:54.280 --> 00:58:57.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure, but it's interesting, like they sort of tried

1124
00:58:57.360 --> 00:58:59.360
<v Speaker 1>to act like great to see you here, like we

1125
00:58:59.440 --> 00:59:01.599
<v Speaker 1>ran the car, he said, they're going to see her.

1126
00:59:02.039 --> 00:59:03.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was planned.

1127
00:59:03.239 --> 00:59:07.079
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So Annabelle is looking stuff to make chicken adobo

1128
00:59:07.400 --> 00:59:09.480
<v Speaker 1>and Alice says, oh my gosh, if you have that,

1129
00:59:09.519 --> 00:59:12.559
<v Speaker 1>please have me over, and her cute little daughter is

1130
00:59:12.639 --> 00:59:14.920
<v Speaker 1>kissing her, and her little two year old son has

1131
00:59:14.920 --> 00:59:19.280
<v Speaker 1>his own little cart is going around with cute Alison

1132
00:59:21.039 --> 00:59:26.719
<v Speaker 1>asked about Nicole, and you know, Nicole says you've been

1133
00:59:26.800 --> 00:59:29.400
<v Speaker 1>cheating or something, and he goes, well, now you and

1134
00:59:29.400 --> 00:59:31.679
<v Speaker 1>annabel already talks, so now we don't need to bring

1135
00:59:31.719 --> 00:59:34.440
<v Speaker 1>this up anymore, right, And I said, why are we

1136
00:59:34.440 --> 00:59:36.199
<v Speaker 1>doing this in the grocery store in front of the children,

1137
00:59:36.400 --> 00:59:37.880
<v Speaker 1>talking about granddad being a cheater.

1138
00:59:38.639 --> 00:59:38.920
<v Speaker 2>Yep.

1139
00:59:39.320 --> 00:59:42.599
<v Speaker 1>And the daughter is right there kissing her mom on

1140
00:59:42.639 --> 00:59:45.039
<v Speaker 1>the face. Yeah. And so I got to say tell

1141
00:59:45.079 --> 00:59:48.000
<v Speaker 1>you something. I think her lips look good.

1142
00:59:48.360 --> 00:59:51.840
<v Speaker 3>Alison's yeah, I do too, Yeah, because I know you

1143
00:59:51.880 --> 00:59:53.559
<v Speaker 3>said that her dad paid for all the lip filler.

1144
00:59:53.559 --> 00:59:55.119
<v Speaker 1>But I don't think they look bad. They don't look.

1145
00:59:54.960 --> 00:59:57.360
<v Speaker 2>Crazy, no, I know. I think they look fine.

1146
00:59:58.400 --> 01:00:02.320
<v Speaker 1>So Day and Annabelle are like, we got through it,

1147
01:00:02.480 --> 01:00:05.920
<v Speaker 1>we talked it through. Everything is fine, and Alica goes, well,

1148
01:00:06.440 --> 01:00:08.760
<v Speaker 1>since she didn't go to lunch with me yesterday, now

1149
01:00:08.800 --> 01:00:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to bring up did you ask Nicole to

1150
01:00:12.039 --> 01:00:14.880
<v Speaker 1>get all her stuff out of your shed? Now? Annabel

1151
01:00:15.000 --> 01:00:17.360
<v Speaker 1>is holding the little daughter and like rocking her back

1152
01:00:17.360 --> 01:00:21.639
<v Speaker 1>and forth, and it's so sweet. Annabel goes like what

1153
01:00:21.639 --> 01:00:24.440
<v Speaker 1>what what stuff? And what shit? He goes, Oh, you know,

1154
01:00:24.480 --> 01:00:27.239
<v Speaker 1>I got sheds on a property. She I forgot about that, babe.

1155
01:00:27.280 --> 01:00:30.519
<v Speaker 1>I forgot about that, babe. And Alica goes, you should

1156
01:00:30.519 --> 01:00:32.400
<v Speaker 1>tell her to get get get it out of there.

1157
01:00:32.440 --> 01:00:34.280
<v Speaker 1>You're just gonna get rid of it and throw it away,

1158
01:00:34.760 --> 01:00:36.599
<v Speaker 1>and Annabel goes, I don't know what this is, but

1159
01:00:36.639 --> 01:00:39.320
<v Speaker 1>I want it out today. I want her stuff out

1160
01:00:39.320 --> 01:00:42.599
<v Speaker 1>of your shed today. He goes, Okay, babe, I'll send

1161
01:00:42.599 --> 01:00:44.280
<v Speaker 1>her a text. I don't know if she gonna take babe,

1162
01:00:45.239 --> 01:00:47.039
<v Speaker 1>and Alisa goes, you need to send her a text

1163
01:00:47.039 --> 01:00:49.000
<v Speaker 1>and you need to mean it or she just walks

1164
01:00:49.039 --> 01:00:54.159
<v Speaker 1>all over you. They're talking head. Alison says, my dad

1165
01:00:54.360 --> 01:00:57.480
<v Speaker 1>made a promise to me that our relationship would remain

1166
01:00:57.559 --> 01:01:00.280
<v Speaker 1>the priority, but now I have to see I'm at

1167
01:01:00.320 --> 01:01:04.559
<v Speaker 1>the grocery store, so yeah, I'm really enjoying poking at them.

1168
01:01:05.039 --> 01:01:06.760
<v Speaker 1>And I like Annabelle a lot.

1169
01:01:06.960 --> 01:01:07.480
<v Speaker 2>Just snake.

1170
01:01:07.719 --> 01:01:10.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's I like Annabell a lot so far, but

1171
01:01:10.639 --> 01:01:13.760
<v Speaker 1>I feel like he's not being truthful and she's not

1172
01:01:13.880 --> 01:01:16.440
<v Speaker 1>asking the right questions. Stuff needs to be said.

1173
01:01:17.480 --> 01:01:19.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're doing this because this is fun.

1174
01:01:19.800 --> 01:01:20.280
<v Speaker 1>It's fun.

1175
01:01:20.800 --> 01:01:25.360
<v Speaker 2>Secondary you might like Annabelle, but really it's because you're

1176
01:01:25.360 --> 01:01:27.159
<v Speaker 2>pissed off that your dead is ignoring you.

1177
01:01:27.519 --> 01:01:29.079
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. She can't wait to get home and call the

1178
01:01:29.119 --> 01:01:30.880
<v Speaker 1>other sister and be like, guess what I did.

1179
01:01:31.519 --> 01:01:32.519
<v Speaker 2>Uh huh.

1180
01:01:32.679 --> 01:01:35.719
<v Speaker 1>She goes, oh god, Well, you know how Nicole is.

1181
01:01:36.079 --> 01:01:38.119
<v Speaker 1>She'll say she got no way to get it. She

1182
01:01:38.199 --> 01:01:40.840
<v Speaker 1>got no truck, and Alison goes, I don't know what

1183
01:01:40.880 --> 01:01:43.000
<v Speaker 1>the deal is. I don't know why you protect her

1184
01:01:43.039 --> 01:01:45.920
<v Speaker 1>for no reason. He goes, because I got to run

1185
01:01:45.920 --> 01:01:49.360
<v Speaker 1>into her sometimes and I want to stay cordial. And also,

1186
01:01:49.400 --> 01:01:52.480
<v Speaker 1>you have a child together. Are we forgetting? He's got like, I.

1187
01:01:53.000 --> 01:01:58.639
<v Speaker 2>Get yes, Wait, what the kid's like five? Shae has

1188
01:01:58.679 --> 01:01:59.559
<v Speaker 2>a five year old.

1189
01:02:01.199 --> 01:02:04.920
<v Speaker 1>While he was dating Annabelle, he married and divorced Nicole

1190
01:02:05.079 --> 01:02:08.920
<v Speaker 1>and they had a kid in eighteen months. They had

1191
01:02:08.960 --> 01:02:10.519
<v Speaker 1>a kid, so he's got like a five year old.

1192
01:02:10.519 --> 01:02:14.199
<v Speaker 1>Her name was like Maddie, Yes, you forgot, we've seen

1193
01:02:14.239 --> 01:02:17.400
<v Speaker 1>that child. No, we've only seen drunk Nicole.

1194
01:02:19.199 --> 01:02:21.400
<v Speaker 2>While he was with annabel.

1195
01:02:21.440 --> 01:02:24.559
<v Speaker 1>Yes, he married and divorced Nicole and they had a child.

1196
01:02:25.079 --> 01:02:26.360
<v Speaker 1>They were only married for like a year.

1197
01:02:26.679 --> 01:02:30.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but does annabel know that, yes, and that this

1198
01:02:31.159 --> 01:02:34.000
<v Speaker 2>was the cheating and she moved They moved on, but

1199
01:02:34.079 --> 01:02:36.239
<v Speaker 2>it wasn't cheating. He married the other woman.

1200
01:02:36.480 --> 01:02:41.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, he said. Nicole was his most recent

1201
01:02:41.480 --> 01:02:43.679
<v Speaker 1>ex wife and they had like a five year old.

1202
01:02:43.960 --> 01:02:45.760
<v Speaker 1>And then when you do the math, they've been together

1203
01:02:45.840 --> 01:02:48.639
<v Speaker 1>seven years, so somewhere in the middle there. When he

1204
01:02:48.679 --> 01:02:53.039
<v Speaker 1>first started dating annabel he accidentally Oopsie married Nicole and

1205
01:02:53.039 --> 01:02:55.480
<v Speaker 1>got her married and divorced her at the lake.

1206
01:02:55.519 --> 01:02:58.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure when he's on the screen, I am so

1207
01:02:58.480 --> 01:03:02.719
<v Speaker 2>distracted by his instillation of ailments and like trying to

1208
01:03:02.760 --> 01:03:05.920
<v Speaker 2>look at what I would fix first, that I think

1209
01:03:06.039 --> 01:03:09.639
<v Speaker 2>I'm not paying attention to what he's saying because I

1210
01:03:09.679 --> 01:03:10.800
<v Speaker 2>can't believe I missed this.

1211
01:03:11.239 --> 01:03:14.679
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they have a kid, have a kid. Wow, So

1212
01:03:15.599 --> 01:03:19.239
<v Speaker 1>Annabel says, regarding anicle, you still love her, and he goes, no, bibe,

1213
01:03:19.400 --> 01:03:22.880
<v Speaker 1>no bibe, no scared of her, babe, So if a

1214
01:03:23.000 --> 01:03:26.199
<v Speaker 1>talking head. Annabel goes, I don't know why she didn't

1215
01:03:26.239 --> 01:03:29.079
<v Speaker 1>come and get her stuff, but I wanted out today,

1216
01:03:30.159 --> 01:03:34.880
<v Speaker 1>And I feel annoyed that. Alison says Shaye has a

1217
01:03:34.920 --> 01:03:37.440
<v Speaker 1>soft spot for Nicole. It's no, I mean you know.

1218
01:03:38.199 --> 01:03:40.559
<v Speaker 1>So now they go out to the car. Annabel is

1219
01:03:40.599 --> 01:03:42.960
<v Speaker 1>over there buckling the kids in my grandma.

1220
01:03:43.360 --> 01:03:45.119
<v Speaker 2>I know coming is It's cute.

1221
01:03:45.199 --> 01:03:47.280
<v Speaker 1>It's cute. It's I like how the kids like her

1222
01:03:47.320 --> 01:03:52.320
<v Speaker 1>so much. Yeah, and Shay says to Alison, why you

1223
01:03:52.320 --> 01:03:53.960
<v Speaker 1>got to bring that up in front of her. That's

1224
01:03:53.960 --> 01:03:56.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna make it hard on me, and she goes, well,

1225
01:03:56.920 --> 01:03:58.840
<v Speaker 1>she needs to know these things, and you're just trying

1226
01:03:58.840 --> 01:04:01.360
<v Speaker 1>to avoid it, so I'm just moving it along. He's like, damn.

1227
01:04:02.519 --> 01:04:05.920
<v Speaker 2>So also, you didn't have lunch with me yesterday.

1228
01:04:05.599 --> 01:04:08.320
<v Speaker 1>And I needed my lunch paid for and I had

1229
01:04:08.360 --> 01:04:12.920
<v Speaker 1>to go hungry. So on the way home, Annabelle says,

1230
01:04:12.960 --> 01:04:16.280
<v Speaker 1>I want to see what is in shed, Nicole. So

1231
01:04:17.039 --> 01:04:19.880
<v Speaker 1>they look and it's just like some ugly leather furniture.

1232
01:04:20.239 --> 01:04:22.599
<v Speaker 1>And annabel goes call her, tell her she has to

1233
01:04:22.599 --> 01:04:26.039
<v Speaker 1>get the stuff, and she says, I'm willing to move on,

1234
01:04:26.239 --> 01:04:28.960
<v Speaker 1>but all of her stuff needs to be gone. So

1235
01:04:29.039 --> 01:04:33.480
<v Speaker 1>he goes off, you know, to call her quietly, and

1236
01:04:33.679 --> 01:04:37.639
<v Speaker 1>you hear him go, okay, you need to come get uh, Okay,

1237
01:04:37.639 --> 01:04:39.239
<v Speaker 1>I'll take care of it. Okay, I'll take care of it.

1238
01:04:40.119 --> 01:04:40.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

1239
01:04:41.440 --> 01:04:44.679
<v Speaker 1>So in the talking head, Annabelle says, we almost broke

1240
01:04:44.760 --> 01:04:47.960
<v Speaker 1>up because of his ex Nicole, and I have suspected

1241
01:04:48.079 --> 01:04:50.400
<v Speaker 1>something is going on, and I don't know if I

1242
01:04:50.400 --> 01:04:52.440
<v Speaker 1>can continue if I keep finding out all these lies,

1243
01:04:52.480 --> 01:04:57.800
<v Speaker 1>like what else? Right? So he goes to Annabelle and

1244
01:04:57.880 --> 01:05:02.519
<v Speaker 1>Nicole is standing there too, right, he says, Alix is

1245
01:05:02.559 --> 01:05:05.519
<v Speaker 1>Alison sitting there too? Sorry I didn't to say Alison.

1246
01:05:06.159 --> 01:05:07.440
<v Speaker 2>No, she's not okay.

1247
01:05:07.639 --> 01:05:10.039
<v Speaker 1>So he goes, I just told her I'll post pictures

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01:05:10.039 --> 01:05:12.320
<v Speaker 1>of the stuff on the internet and sell it for her.

1249
01:05:12.400 --> 01:05:14.519
<v Speaker 1>And then I just I almost send her the money,

1250
01:05:15.000 --> 01:05:17.800
<v Speaker 1>and annabel goes, no, if she can't come and get it,

1251
01:05:17.800 --> 01:05:20.000
<v Speaker 1>throw it in the dump like because now he's like,

1252
01:05:20.239 --> 01:05:22.119
<v Speaker 1>now I'm gonna pull each piece of furniture out and

1253
01:05:22.119 --> 01:05:24.880
<v Speaker 1>photograph it and put it on Facebook marketplace for meet

1254
01:05:24.880 --> 01:05:28.159
<v Speaker 1>the people, sell it. Send her. I mean, what, no, no.

1255
01:05:29.719 --> 01:05:33.280
<v Speaker 2>Unless he's not paying her child support, Like.

1256
01:05:34.719 --> 01:05:36.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the deal is with her. I

1257
01:05:36.280 --> 01:05:38.280
<v Speaker 1>think she also has got so much shit on him

1258
01:05:38.559 --> 01:05:40.880
<v Speaker 1>that every time he goes, hey, can he come, she goes, oh,

1259
01:05:40.920 --> 01:05:43.000
<v Speaker 1>would you like me to tell your fiance about what

1260
01:05:43.079 --> 01:05:46.079
<v Speaker 1>he did sell myself on Facebook marketplace. He's like okay, bye.

1261
01:05:46.960 --> 01:05:50.599
<v Speaker 2>He so honestly, she that's the way to get murdered

1262
01:05:50.840 --> 01:05:52.519
<v Speaker 2>is constantly blackmailing someone.

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01:05:53.400 --> 01:05:58.159
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so the dad, uh, Annabelle says, I'm gonna talk

1264
01:05:58.199 --> 01:06:01.960
<v Speaker 1>to Alison to get the truth. He's a bitch. He

1265
01:06:02.079 --> 01:06:08.719
<v Speaker 1>keeps sicking, and I'm done. So annabel goes over to

1266
01:06:08.800 --> 01:06:11.719
<v Speaker 1>Alison's and I said, Alice's place, sing it's a good powerwash.

1267
01:06:12.199 --> 01:06:17.079
<v Speaker 1>It's sure yeah, and Alison says to Annabel, look, y'all

1268
01:06:17.079 --> 01:06:21.039
<v Speaker 1>have been engaged for four years, but he's also been

1269
01:06:21.079 --> 01:06:24.880
<v Speaker 1>hanging out with Nicole and she goes on the boat

1270
01:06:24.960 --> 01:06:28.039
<v Speaker 1>sometimes and they text sometimes, and she comes to the

1271
01:06:28.079 --> 01:06:32.800
<v Speaker 1>bar with us sometimes, and Annabel says, well. He says

1272
01:06:32.840 --> 01:06:36.599
<v Speaker 1>his friends are there, and Alison goes, yeah, but Nichole

1273
01:06:36.719 --> 01:06:39.000
<v Speaker 1>is also there, and she turns the camera around. He

1274
01:06:39.039 --> 01:06:41.199
<v Speaker 1>turns the camera around so you can't see it.

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01:06:41.920 --> 01:06:45.079
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm. Also, why are you always getting drunk with

1276
01:06:45.159 --> 01:06:45.920
<v Speaker 2>your dad?

1277
01:06:46.159 --> 01:06:49.679
<v Speaker 1>It's Alison good a life, good life, So I'm talking

1278
01:06:49.679 --> 01:06:52.360
<v Speaker 1>to her. Alison goes, as much as I hate that

1279
01:06:52.400 --> 01:06:55.119
<v Speaker 1>Annabel has taken my dad from me, I do like

1280
01:06:55.239 --> 01:06:58.840
<v Speaker 1>her and she deserves the truth. My dad came back

1281
01:06:58.960 --> 01:07:01.920
<v Speaker 1>four years ago engage from the Philippines and has been

1282
01:07:01.920 --> 01:07:05.360
<v Speaker 1>living a double life, engaged to the Philippines but living

1283
01:07:05.400 --> 01:07:12.920
<v Speaker 1>single in America. Okay, and Allison says regarding Nicole. She goes,

1284
01:07:12.960 --> 01:07:15.519
<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen him hold hands or anything, but I

1285
01:07:15.559 --> 01:07:18.679
<v Speaker 1>have heard him talk about her body or smack her

1286
01:07:18.719 --> 01:07:23.480
<v Speaker 1>on the butt or tiller. He loves her. And Annabel goes,

1287
01:07:23.639 --> 01:07:26.280
<v Speaker 1>you heard him saying that to her. I love you

1288
01:07:26.920 --> 01:07:29.639
<v Speaker 1>and Alison goes, yeah, I've heard him say I love

1289
01:07:29.679 --> 01:07:33.159
<v Speaker 1>you and I will always love you to her, and

1290
01:07:33.360 --> 01:07:36.239
<v Speaker 1>in the talking Head Annabel says, he stabbed my back.

1291
01:07:36.840 --> 01:07:40.320
<v Speaker 1>I love him, but he's a liar. So she's gonna

1292
01:07:40.360 --> 01:07:44.079
<v Speaker 1>again threaten to leave and she won't do it. Okay,

1293
01:07:44.280 --> 01:07:48.320
<v Speaker 1>let's finish up with Katie and Josh hot mess express

1294
01:07:48.519 --> 01:07:49.679
<v Speaker 1>poo poo party of.

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01:07:49.599 --> 01:07:56.320
<v Speaker 2>Two, well, party of three, party of eight if we're

1296
01:07:56.360 --> 01:07:58.480
<v Speaker 2>counting all the dudes that she has made out with

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01:07:58.519 --> 01:07:59.280
<v Speaker 2>at this party.

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01:08:01.400 --> 01:08:03.480
<v Speaker 1>I also, you know, things that give me the it

1299
01:08:03.719 --> 01:08:06.719
<v Speaker 1>are teeth, and Kimberly sent me a close up of

1300
01:08:06.760 --> 01:08:11.480
<v Speaker 1>this guy's teeth. Not appreciated, girl, not appreciated.

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01:08:12.440 --> 01:08:14.320
<v Speaker 2>I just couldn't believe you hadn't noticed it.

1302
01:08:15.199 --> 01:08:16.800
<v Speaker 1>Because I watched it on my computer. I didn't have

1303
01:08:16.800 --> 01:08:17.520
<v Speaker 1>a big enough screen.

1304
01:08:17.760 --> 01:08:20.279
<v Speaker 2>He got it fixed, though, it's fit, definitely fixed. It's

1305
01:08:20.359 --> 01:08:22.760
<v Speaker 2>just in one of the photos of him and Katie

1306
01:08:23.399 --> 01:08:24.399
<v Speaker 2>spending time together.

1307
01:08:24.520 --> 01:08:29.399
<v Speaker 1>Maybe okay. Also just came to me. It was definitely

1308
01:08:29.439 --> 01:08:31.800
<v Speaker 1>in Little mis Recaps Facebook group that I can give

1309
01:08:32.079 --> 01:08:35.239
<v Speaker 1>credit to because I can fully remember that somebody wrote

1310
01:08:35.399 --> 01:08:39.600
<v Speaker 1>that they are in a running club with this guy Ryan. Yes,

1311
01:08:40.159 --> 01:08:42.239
<v Speaker 1>they're in a running club with him, and then did

1312
01:08:42.279 --> 01:08:44.640
<v Speaker 1>you or I write under it and say what's wrong

1313
01:08:44.680 --> 01:08:45.159
<v Speaker 1>with the tooth?

1314
01:08:46.439 --> 01:08:47.680
<v Speaker 2>No, I didn't write that.

1315
01:08:47.960 --> 01:08:51.159
<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was me. It was me, it was yeah, Yeah,

1316
01:08:51.279 --> 01:08:52.359
<v Speaker 1>find out what's wrong at this tooth?

1317
01:08:52.600 --> 01:08:56.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I want to know from him what Katie's

1318
01:08:56.359 --> 01:08:59.800
<v Speaker 2>breath smells like, because it can't be good. But she's

1319
01:09:00.079 --> 01:09:03.520
<v Speaker 2>constantly breathing on people right up in their nose and

1320
01:09:03.560 --> 01:09:06.479
<v Speaker 2>making out and shoving their tongue her tongue all over

1321
01:09:06.560 --> 01:09:11.079
<v Speaker 2>and she's constantly wasted. So I just can't imagine it is.

1322
01:09:11.520 --> 01:09:13.079
<v Speaker 2>It's a nice experience.

1323
01:09:13.279 --> 01:09:15.319
<v Speaker 1>It definitely smells like a dark beer.

1324
01:09:16.079 --> 01:09:23.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So they're still at this party and he is

1325
01:09:24.119 --> 01:09:30.319
<v Speaker 2>she's wasted, and no, she's half wasted. And they're outside,

1326
01:09:30.680 --> 01:09:33.600
<v Speaker 2>the three of them, and Josh says, are you ready

1327
01:09:33.640 --> 01:09:40.239
<v Speaker 2>to be married? And she says unsure. She says I

1328
01:09:40.359 --> 01:09:46.159
<v Speaker 2>don't okay, So the subtitles said I don't know or

1329
01:09:46.239 --> 01:09:50.359
<v Speaker 2>I don't think so, but the it sounded like she

1330
01:09:50.439 --> 01:09:55.000
<v Speaker 2>was saying I think so. So the subtitles are really

1331
01:09:55.039 --> 01:09:57.359
<v Speaker 2>bad on the screener and I should have gone on my.

1332
01:09:58.840 --> 01:10:00.760
<v Speaker 1>Dr Yeah, her there.

1333
01:10:01.359 --> 01:10:04.520
<v Speaker 2>Regardless of whether she said she was or wasn't sure.

1334
01:10:04.640 --> 01:10:07.479
<v Speaker 2>She's not sure, so it doesn't matter what she said.

1335
01:10:07.800 --> 01:10:10.760
<v Speaker 2>So she said, I feel like I'm the problem.

1336
01:10:13.199 --> 01:10:13.479
<v Speaker 1>You are.

1337
01:10:13.840 --> 01:10:17.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you're the problem. It's you and your alcoholism.

1338
01:10:18.279 --> 01:10:22.800
<v Speaker 2>So Josh said, you both made this problem together, you

1339
01:10:23.039 --> 01:10:27.439
<v Speaker 2>and Ryan. And he tells Ryan, I don't understand your behavior. Again,

1340
01:10:28.159 --> 01:10:31.520
<v Speaker 2>don't blame Ryan. Ryan is not in a relationship, right,

1341
01:10:32.279 --> 01:10:34.800
<v Speaker 2>it was kind of shady what he did, But like,

1342
01:10:35.399 --> 01:10:38.119
<v Speaker 2>blame her. She's the one that's in the relationship.

1343
01:10:38.239 --> 01:10:39.760
<v Speaker 1>That's your girlfriend, not Ryan.

1344
01:10:39.920 --> 01:10:44.960
<v Speaker 2>Yes, so he says, I I thought everything was friendly

1345
01:10:45.079 --> 01:10:47.720
<v Speaker 2>and then it just went downhill at that party, and

1346
01:10:47.760 --> 01:10:52.560
<v Speaker 2>then I was collateral damage from your behavior. And Ryan says, yeah,

1347
01:10:52.640 --> 01:10:55.119
<v Speaker 2>Katie and I did some things that were inappropriate. But

1348
01:10:55.600 --> 01:10:58.600
<v Speaker 2>she's hard to say no to. You know, those bozo

1349
01:10:58.680 --> 01:11:03.479
<v Speaker 2>the clown red lips and sticky tongue coming at you.

1350
01:11:03.560 --> 01:11:05.119
<v Speaker 2>It's hard to say to know.

1351
01:11:05.720 --> 01:11:07.600
<v Speaker 1>Listen, if you're drunking a party and a girl is

1352
01:11:07.600 --> 01:11:09.439
<v Speaker 1>trying to kiss you, then you're gonna kiss that girl.

1353
01:11:09.560 --> 01:11:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, I guess that's how Yeah. I mean

1354
01:11:12.720 --> 01:11:14.920
<v Speaker 1>Ryan doesn't have any self control, is what he's saying. Yeah.

1355
01:11:14.960 --> 01:11:17.640
<v Speaker 2>Also, she has that upper body strength, so she can

1356
01:11:17.720 --> 01:11:20.840
<v Speaker 2>like force your hands away as you're trying to push

1357
01:11:20.840 --> 01:11:22.760
<v Speaker 2>her away, so she's not assaulting you.

1358
01:11:23.119 --> 01:11:26.760
<v Speaker 1>She's also a runner, so she could chase you. Yeah.

1359
01:11:27.960 --> 01:11:31.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Josh says to Ryan, I can't help but judge

1360
01:11:31.119 --> 01:11:36.000
<v Speaker 2>someone who would do that knowing our relationship. And Ryan says,

1361
01:11:36.079 --> 01:11:39.840
<v Speaker 2>I made a mistake and I apologize, and Josh says,

1362
01:11:39.880 --> 01:11:42.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm glad to hear he apologized, because but like, how

1363
01:11:42.960 --> 01:11:45.640
<v Speaker 2>many times have I heard an apology in this situation?

1364
01:11:46.199 --> 01:11:49.760
<v Speaker 2>I've been apologized from her from all these dudes. People

1365
01:11:49.880 --> 01:11:51.880
<v Speaker 2>strangers walk up to me and say, I'm sorry I

1366
01:11:51.880 --> 01:11:53.359
<v Speaker 2>made up with your girlfriend, And he's like.

1367
01:11:53.319 --> 01:11:53.800
<v Speaker 1>Do I know you?

1368
01:11:55.159 --> 01:11:59.840
<v Speaker 2>So he tells Ryan that in other languages, like people

1369
01:11:59.880 --> 01:12:01.680
<v Speaker 2>just come up to me in other languages and like

1370
01:12:01.720 --> 01:12:03.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't understand. I pull out a translator app and

1371
01:12:03.960 --> 01:12:05.720
<v Speaker 2>they're like, I'm sorry I made out with your beyance.

1372
01:12:07.520 --> 01:12:10.680
<v Speaker 2>This curly haired guy in leggings spoke to me an

1373
01:12:10.680 --> 01:12:13.079
<v Speaker 2>Egyptian and said, I'm sorry I made out with your girlfriend.

1374
01:12:13.840 --> 01:12:16.319
<v Speaker 1>He didn't make out with her or with her.

1375
01:12:18.520 --> 01:12:24.720
<v Speaker 2>So he tells Ryan, You've apologized, but it's happened more times,

1376
01:12:24.920 --> 01:12:27.640
<v Speaker 2>So you apologize to me right after that party and

1377
01:12:27.680 --> 01:12:31.119
<v Speaker 2>then it went on to happen again. So why should

1378
01:12:31.119 --> 01:12:35.199
<v Speaker 2>I take this apology seriously? And Ryan says, Katie and

1379
01:12:35.239 --> 01:12:39.600
<v Speaker 2>I have decided that we're just friends. I would hope, so.

1380
01:12:40.039 --> 01:12:42.760
<v Speaker 1>She would hope. So she's supposed to marry somebody else

1381
01:12:42.840 --> 01:12:44.800
<v Speaker 1>in like what sixty days or whatever.

1382
01:12:44.960 --> 01:12:49.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So Josh says, I don't want to control you, Katie,

1383
01:12:49.680 --> 01:12:53.399
<v Speaker 2>but you keep making these decisions and I don't know

1384
01:12:53.439 --> 01:12:56.479
<v Speaker 2>what to do. So Josh tells Ryan, you know, I'm

1385
01:12:56.600 --> 01:12:59.680
<v Speaker 2>basically not interested into friendship with you, but we can

1386
01:12:59.720 --> 01:13:02.680
<v Speaker 2>just this in the past. Thank you for apologizing, but like,

1387
01:13:02.720 --> 01:13:04.640
<v Speaker 2>we're not going to be brows or anything.

1388
01:13:04.800 --> 01:13:05.000
<v Speaker 1>Right.

1389
01:13:05.000 --> 01:13:07.880
<v Speaker 2>Well, Ryan doesn't even live there, so that's fine. So

1390
01:13:09.399 --> 01:13:13.760
<v Speaker 2>Katie jokes to Josh like it's an appropriate time. So

1391
01:13:13.800 --> 01:13:15.279
<v Speaker 2>can I just make out with everyone?

1392
01:13:15.359 --> 01:13:15.600
<v Speaker 1>I know?

1393
01:13:16.920 --> 01:13:20.319
<v Speaker 2>So cute? Aren't so cute? Aren't I cute? For my behavior?

1394
01:13:20.640 --> 01:13:23.399
<v Speaker 2>Can I just keep making jokes out of it? And

1395
01:13:23.439 --> 01:13:29.800
<v Speaker 2>she's just been drinking this whole conversation too, so she again.

1396
01:13:29.880 --> 01:13:32.439
<v Speaker 2>They go inside and she's like, can I kiss everyone

1397
01:13:32.640 --> 01:13:36.119
<v Speaker 2>I'm and he's like, no, God, it's not funny. Can

1398
01:13:36.199 --> 01:13:38.600
<v Speaker 2>I get it? I'm going to get an espresso martini

1399
01:13:38.680 --> 01:13:41.439
<v Speaker 2>and he's like, can you have a water first, So

1400
01:13:41.880 --> 01:13:44.399
<v Speaker 2>he's having to police her like she's a child and

1401
01:13:46.119 --> 01:13:52.640
<v Speaker 2>toddler and who hasn't learned body space and like personal bubbles.

1402
01:13:53.199 --> 01:13:57.760
<v Speaker 2>So Katie starts to lean on guys like she does,

1403
01:13:57.840 --> 01:14:01.039
<v Speaker 2>like she's kind of crawling all over them, and then

1404
01:14:01.199 --> 01:14:05.359
<v Speaker 2>on Ryan, who they just had this conversation about crawling

1405
01:14:05.439 --> 01:14:08.640
<v Speaker 2>all over him. And he's like, Katie, stop, be in

1406
01:14:08.720 --> 01:14:11.399
<v Speaker 2>good mode. You're being crazy mode. And she's like, I'm

1407
01:14:11.439 --> 01:14:14.479
<v Speaker 2>in crazy mode. And he's like trying to push her

1408
01:14:14.520 --> 01:14:18.880
<v Speaker 2>away because he just had this conversation. And Josh is

1409
01:14:18.920 --> 01:14:21.119
<v Speaker 2>watching this and he's like, I thought we were past this,

1410
01:14:21.239 --> 01:14:24.600
<v Speaker 2>but we're not. And Katie keeps trying to kiss Ryan.

1411
01:14:24.760 --> 01:14:28.720
<v Speaker 2>He is pushing her face away and she is not

1412
01:14:29.119 --> 01:14:30.279
<v Speaker 2>taking no for an answer.

1413
01:14:30.399 --> 01:14:32.880
<v Speaker 1>She's like, I want to kiss you, want to make out.

1414
01:14:34.119 --> 01:14:37.920
<v Speaker 2>He is right there and a camera crew right there,

1415
01:14:38.359 --> 01:14:41.520
<v Speaker 2>and I don't I don't think Ryan felt like he

1416
01:14:41.600 --> 01:14:44.560
<v Speaker 2>was being assaulted. But if the roles were reversed this, yes,

1417
01:14:45.239 --> 01:14:47.840
<v Speaker 2>if this was a man acting like this with the

1418
01:14:47.880 --> 01:14:53.039
<v Speaker 2>pitch the pitchforks would be out. So this is gross behavior,

1419
01:14:53.600 --> 01:14:58.039
<v Speaker 2>regardless of their genders. So Josh is like, I'm done,

1420
01:14:58.199 --> 01:15:01.199
<v Speaker 2>and he walks outside. He should go home, go pack

1421
01:15:01.239 --> 01:15:01.760
<v Speaker 2>your things.

1422
01:15:01.920 --> 01:15:01.960
<v Speaker 1>Go.

1423
01:15:02.760 --> 01:15:04.000
<v Speaker 2>I have no self respect for.

1424
01:15:03.920 --> 01:15:07.079
<v Speaker 1>You Anymore's pretty So he's pretty good, you.

1425
01:15:07.039 --> 01:15:11.239
<v Speaker 2>Know, great. So I mean it's fine. There's still some problem,

1426
01:15:11.319 --> 01:15:12.600
<v Speaker 2>but like it's still fine.

1427
01:15:12.760 --> 01:15:14.680
<v Speaker 1>It's not go back, there's pretty good.

1428
01:15:14.680 --> 01:15:19.760
<v Speaker 2>Go back. So she's like slurring to Ryan, I'm sorry,

1429
01:15:19.840 --> 01:15:24.640
<v Speaker 2>I get close to people's faces. I didn't mean it

1430
01:15:24.720 --> 01:15:34.279
<v Speaker 2>in a close faced way. And so Mark, who was

1431
01:15:34.399 --> 01:15:38.439
<v Speaker 2>the friend who Katie also has had relations with and

1432
01:15:39.479 --> 01:15:42.680
<v Speaker 2>has kind of wanted to keep hooking up with, goes

1433
01:15:42.720 --> 01:15:47.119
<v Speaker 2>outside to check on Josh, and he says, how are

1434
01:15:47.119 --> 01:15:49.960
<v Speaker 2>you feeling? And he's like, well, I'm disappointed. It's super

1435
01:15:50.000 --> 01:15:54.239
<v Speaker 2>fucked up how she's behaving. And he says, I'm trying

1436
01:15:54.239 --> 01:15:58.039
<v Speaker 2>to be patient. And I think that underneath all the silliness,

1437
01:15:58.439 --> 01:16:01.079
<v Speaker 2>she is the person I think she is. So I

1438
01:16:01.199 --> 01:16:02.920
<v Speaker 2>just keep reminding myself of that.

1439
01:16:03.720 --> 01:16:05.800
<v Speaker 1>Okay, we haven't seen it. We haven't seen you guys

1440
01:16:06.039 --> 01:16:09.960
<v Speaker 1>nice to each other. We haven't seen any silliness between you.

1441
01:16:10.000 --> 01:16:13.000
<v Speaker 2>No, she was acting like a bitch the other day,

1442
01:16:13.239 --> 01:16:16.319
<v Speaker 2>just sober about just furniture.

1443
01:16:16.039 --> 01:16:18.800
<v Speaker 1>About calling you stupid because you wanted a couch, yeah,

1444
01:16:18.920 --> 01:16:19.319
<v Speaker 1>or a chair.

1445
01:16:19.479 --> 01:16:23.119
<v Speaker 2>So Mark says, I would be furious. I would yank

1446
01:16:23.159 --> 01:16:25.199
<v Speaker 2>her out of the bar and say we're going home.

1447
01:16:25.720 --> 01:16:28.640
<v Speaker 2>And Josh says, I guess I'm looking for reasons to

1448
01:16:28.760 --> 01:16:35.840
<v Speaker 2>excuse her behavior because if not, what why did I

1449
01:16:35.880 --> 01:16:38.399
<v Speaker 2>move my whole life here? So I gave up my

1450
01:16:38.520 --> 01:16:41.760
<v Speaker 2>whole life to be here. So I'm making excuses for

1451
01:16:41.840 --> 01:16:45.359
<v Speaker 2>why her behavior is okay because otherwise I've made a

1452
01:16:45.600 --> 01:16:46.479
<v Speaker 2>huge mistake.

1453
01:16:46.960 --> 01:16:47.479
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

1454
01:16:47.560 --> 01:16:51.279
<v Speaker 2>So Mark says, it's okay to feel mad like and

1455
01:16:51.560 --> 01:16:55.039
<v Speaker 2>would feel mad, and everyone in America is losing respect

1456
01:16:55.079 --> 01:16:57.560
<v Speaker 2>for you the more you don't get mad about this.

1457
01:16:58.399 --> 01:17:01.359
<v Speaker 2>So Josh says, I'm just trying to figure out what

1458
01:17:01.600 --> 01:17:05.359
<v Speaker 2>is OCD and what is her being dramatic because they

1459
01:17:05.399 --> 01:17:08.760
<v Speaker 2>look similar. None of it is OCD.

1460
01:17:09.399 --> 01:17:10.960
<v Speaker 1>It's something else.

1461
01:17:11.840 --> 01:17:18.880
<v Speaker 2>It's something else, and it rhymes with malcoholism, so and

1462
01:17:19.119 --> 01:17:24.760
<v Speaker 2>other undiagnosed mental health issues. So she says, Mark says,

1463
01:17:24.840 --> 01:17:27.399
<v Speaker 2>I worry about you. I know she's my friend, but

1464
01:17:27.479 --> 01:17:29.760
<v Speaker 2>I like you, and I worry about you. You deserve

1465
01:17:29.800 --> 01:17:33.520
<v Speaker 2>to be respected as a person and as her fiance.

1466
01:17:34.039 --> 01:17:36.800
<v Speaker 2>And you have to put your foot down because you're

1467
01:17:36.840 --> 01:17:41.000
<v Speaker 2>being a doormat and Mark says, I cannot comprehend how

1468
01:17:41.079 --> 01:17:44.159
<v Speaker 2>Josh is reacting to this. I think he's scared of

1469
01:17:44.239 --> 01:17:46.840
<v Speaker 2>the reaction if you were to get angry, but like

1470
01:17:46.960 --> 01:17:50.680
<v Speaker 2>he has to get angry. This is ridiculous. So Josh says,

1471
01:17:50.960 --> 01:17:54.640
<v Speaker 2>she's so good at winning people's hearts despite what she does,

1472
01:17:55.079 --> 01:17:59.479
<v Speaker 2>and Mark says, yeah, she is charming. Footage not found.

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01:18:00.279 --> 01:18:02.960
<v Speaker 1>Let's yeah, we haven't seen it, but maybe one day

1474
01:18:02.960 --> 01:18:03.960
<v Speaker 1>we will. Yeah.

1475
01:18:04.000 --> 01:18:08.079
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but if you keep rolling over, she'll just keep

1476
01:18:08.119 --> 01:18:11.960
<v Speaker 2>doing it because it's acceptable. And what if she's you

1477
01:18:12.000 --> 01:18:14.159
<v Speaker 2>get married and she's still doing this in a year

1478
01:18:14.479 --> 01:18:17.800
<v Speaker 2>and you're married. So Josh says, I don't know if

1479
01:18:17.800 --> 01:18:22.319
<v Speaker 2>it's timidus or Britishness, but I need to get over it.

1480
01:18:22.880 --> 01:18:25.640
<v Speaker 2>And Mark says, you need to do it now before

1481
01:18:25.680 --> 01:18:29.399
<v Speaker 2>you get married. And Katie needs tough love. Josh needs

1482
01:18:29.439 --> 01:18:31.479
<v Speaker 2>to be a manly man and not let Katie walk

1483
01:18:31.479 --> 01:18:34.560
<v Speaker 2>all over him. So they go inside. Katie starts to

1484
01:18:34.600 --> 01:18:38.199
<v Speaker 2>try to make out with Mark and he is literally

1485
01:18:38.239 --> 01:18:42.319
<v Speaker 2>pushing her face away with his hand and she is

1486
01:18:42.359 --> 01:18:44.640
<v Speaker 2>trying to tongue kiss his hand.

1487
01:18:45.000 --> 01:18:49.359
<v Speaker 1>It's this has gone on an hour longer than it should.

1488
01:18:49.399 --> 01:18:51.000
<v Speaker 1>He should have pulled her out of there and said

1489
01:18:51.000 --> 01:18:51.720
<v Speaker 1>we're going home.

1490
01:18:52.239 --> 01:18:56.920
<v Speaker 2>This is unbelievable. Also, even if you don't care that

1491
01:18:57.039 --> 01:19:00.399
<v Speaker 2>you're being humiliated, she's humiliating her self.

1492
01:19:00.760 --> 01:19:03.319
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and all her friends don't want to see her

1493
01:19:03.359 --> 01:19:04.760
<v Speaker 1>coming when she's had drunks.

1494
01:19:05.039 --> 01:19:09.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly. So you are letting her now, not saying

1495
01:19:09.479 --> 01:19:12.720
<v Speaker 2>she's not responsible for her own behavior, but like pull

1496
01:19:12.760 --> 01:19:15.800
<v Speaker 2>her out of there so she doesn't embarrass herself further

1497
01:19:15.880 --> 01:19:18.359
<v Speaker 2>on national TV and in front of all her friends.

1498
01:19:18.960 --> 01:19:24.039
<v Speaker 2>You know, let alone that you're being humiliated, So she's

1499
01:19:24.079 --> 01:19:27.159
<v Speaker 2>Mark keeps saying, you have a fiance. Stop trying to

1500
01:19:27.199 --> 01:19:29.960
<v Speaker 2>kiss me, you have a fiance, like putting her his

1501
01:19:30.199 --> 01:19:35.239
<v Speaker 2>hand on her face to get her away from him,

1502
01:19:35.720 --> 01:19:39.279
<v Speaker 2>and Mark says, I think she's too drunk and you

1503
01:19:39.399 --> 01:19:41.640
<v Speaker 2>need to get her out of here, Josh, like now,

1504
01:19:42.079 --> 01:19:45.119
<v Speaker 2>And Katie keeps trying to make out and Josh is

1505
01:19:45.199 --> 01:19:47.319
<v Speaker 2>looking at her like giving her a look like he

1506
01:19:47.359 --> 01:19:50.600
<v Speaker 2>thinks that's going to do it, and she's like, what

1507
01:19:50.640 --> 01:19:54.199
<v Speaker 2>am I doing wrong? And Josh says, I think you're fucked,

1508
01:19:54.960 --> 01:19:57.840
<v Speaker 2>and which again he should have said, I think you're

1509
01:19:57.840 --> 01:20:01.279
<v Speaker 2>a fucking asshole, like done, Like he needs to yell

1510
01:20:01.319 --> 01:20:05.560
<v Speaker 2>at her or something, and he says, let's go home, babe, like,

1511
01:20:05.760 --> 01:20:09.039
<v Speaker 2>don't call her babe, Like you're again. Maybe now it's

1512
01:20:09.079 --> 01:20:10.760
<v Speaker 2>not the right time and you need to wait till

1513
01:20:10.800 --> 01:20:14.039
<v Speaker 2>she's sober to have this conversation. Right, But she's gonna

1514
01:20:14.079 --> 01:20:17.680
<v Speaker 2>keep doing this. You're not being stern enough and she

1515
01:20:17.800 --> 01:20:20.960
<v Speaker 2>keeps trying to kiss Mark and Josh says to us,

1516
01:20:21.159 --> 01:20:23.880
<v Speaker 2>I've just got to really make sure that she's ready

1517
01:20:23.920 --> 01:20:24.760
<v Speaker 2>to get married.

1518
01:20:25.960 --> 01:20:26.399
<v Speaker 1>She's not.

1519
01:20:27.520 --> 01:20:28.520
<v Speaker 2>Are you kidding me?

1520
01:20:29.920 --> 01:20:34.239
<v Speaker 1>What do you have that she's ready to get married?

1521
01:20:34.279 --> 01:20:35.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean, everything points to know.

1522
01:20:36.840 --> 01:20:39.840
<v Speaker 2>Is he on the run from like the mob or

1523
01:20:39.880 --> 01:20:42.960
<v Speaker 2>something in England? Is there a reason he needs to

1524
01:20:43.000 --> 01:20:47.199
<v Speaker 2>stay here so badly? Likes he a rifter? Is he

1525
01:20:47.439 --> 01:20:50.199
<v Speaker 2>like a scam artist? Is he like I do not

1526
01:20:50.399 --> 01:20:54.399
<v Speaker 2>understand how any person with self respect could be okay

1527
01:20:54.399 --> 01:20:57.119
<v Speaker 2>with this, Although we've seen that lady with the big

1528
01:20:57.119 --> 01:20:59.800
<v Speaker 2>boobs on. This is Polly, and I've never seen someone

1529
01:20:59.840 --> 01:21:01.119
<v Speaker 2>with less self esteem than that.

1530
01:21:01.600 --> 01:21:04.880
<v Speaker 1>But Josh is Oh to Mina, I was like, who

1531
01:21:04.880 --> 01:21:05.520
<v Speaker 1>to Mina? Yeah?

1532
01:21:05.560 --> 01:21:10.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, Josh is a close second, because I've lost

1533
01:21:10.359 --> 01:21:13.640
<v Speaker 2>all respect for him and he's defending her all over

1534
01:21:13.720 --> 01:21:14.800
<v Speaker 2>social media.

1535
01:21:15.000 --> 01:21:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Yep, yep, yep. I mean there are no consequences to

1536
01:21:17.600 --> 01:21:19.840
<v Speaker 1>her actions, Like that's the bottom of mine. There's no

1537
01:21:19.840 --> 01:21:23.680
<v Speaker 1>consequence to her actions. She's never losing anything because of it.

1538
01:21:23.880 --> 01:21:26.800
<v Speaker 1>Her friends still want to hang out with her, she's

1539
01:21:27.000 --> 01:21:30.279
<v Speaker 1>her fiances moved here for her, paid for everything. There's

1540
01:21:30.319 --> 01:21:33.319
<v Speaker 1>no consequences to her actions, so we'll just keep doing it.

1541
01:21:33.640 --> 01:21:37.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and she doesn't want to change. She likes the

1542
01:21:37.119 --> 01:21:40.439
<v Speaker 2>lifestyle she's living. Yes, and I don't know how much

1543
01:21:40.479 --> 01:21:43.079
<v Speaker 2>she actually likes him even so.

1544
01:21:43.520 --> 01:21:45.399
<v Speaker 1>I think she's like, I didn't know he's actually going

1545
01:21:45.479 --> 01:21:45.920
<v Speaker 1>to come here.

1546
01:21:46.560 --> 01:21:49.560
<v Speaker 2>She said, I didn't even want to do the K one.

1547
01:21:49.840 --> 01:21:51.800
<v Speaker 2>You're the one who wanted to do the K one.

1548
01:21:51.880 --> 01:21:54.399
<v Speaker 2>I would leave if I came to another country and

1549
01:21:54.439 --> 01:21:57.000
<v Speaker 2>someone said I didn't even want you here.

1550
01:21:57.520 --> 01:22:00.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yes, So having such a hard time living with

1551
01:22:00.399 --> 01:22:02.720
<v Speaker 1>another person grows gross.

1552
01:22:02.760 --> 01:22:05.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't even let Yeah.

1553
01:22:04.880 --> 01:22:06.880
<v Speaker 1>I just want to chair guide.

1554
01:22:08.319 --> 01:22:09.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, your back hurts.

1555
01:22:09.920 --> 01:22:10.159
<v Speaker 1>God.

1556
01:22:11.479 --> 01:22:16.159
<v Speaker 2>I hate her and I hate him, and I I'm mad.

1557
01:22:16.199 --> 01:22:18.199
<v Speaker 1>To tell you. I have to tell you that the

1558
01:22:18.239 --> 01:22:23.119
<v Speaker 1>funniest picture I have a screenshot. I wonder if I'll

1559
01:22:23.119 --> 01:22:24.800
<v Speaker 1>be able to pull it up. It is of our

1560
01:22:24.880 --> 01:22:28.720
<v Speaker 1>friend reality Rocks doing the two doing the two of

1561
01:22:28.760 --> 01:22:32.800
<v Speaker 1>them together, and it is the funniest. I sent it

1562
01:22:32.840 --> 01:22:34.560
<v Speaker 1>to Matt the other day just because I could not

1563
01:22:35.600 --> 01:22:38.039
<v Speaker 1>take it. Let me see, let me just save these pictures.

1564
01:22:39.079 --> 01:22:43.720
<v Speaker 1>Add a photo library, add a photo library. Okay, so

1565
01:22:43.800 --> 01:22:48.840
<v Speaker 1>let me pull it up. I screenshot. Isn't it too Matt?

1566
01:22:48.880 --> 01:22:50.760
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, this is too much? He goes,

1567
01:22:50.800 --> 01:22:54.800
<v Speaker 1>she's the best. She's so damn funny. Okay, let's see,

1568
01:22:55.479 --> 01:22:58.600
<v Speaker 1>I'll pull it up. Okay, here's red lipstick. Here's one.

1569
01:22:59.680 --> 01:23:07.880
<v Speaker 1>Here's one at the stage. There's one. Look at her

1570
01:23:08.000 --> 01:23:12.239
<v Speaker 1>invitation of Josh, whom just smiling looking at her like

1571
01:23:12.279 --> 01:23:13.399
<v Speaker 1>she's hilarious.

1572
01:23:13.800 --> 01:23:16.079
<v Speaker 2>You're so funny, babe, when you make out with other

1573
01:23:16.079 --> 01:23:17.399
<v Speaker 2>people right in front of me.

1574
01:23:17.479 --> 01:23:20.119
<v Speaker 1>It is so funny. Okay, let me remove that one

1575
01:23:20.199 --> 01:23:28.119
<v Speaker 1>and let me add another one, because there's the second one. Scared. Oh,

1576
01:23:28.239 --> 01:23:28.960
<v Speaker 1>here's the other one.

1577
01:23:29.000 --> 01:23:31.039
<v Speaker 2>I need the puppets to do her.

1578
01:23:31.119 --> 01:23:33.119
<v Speaker 1>Oh they have to be doing her. Yeah, the puppets.

1579
01:23:33.680 --> 01:23:39.199
<v Speaker 1>And then ah, okay, here it is at a stage. Okay,

1580
01:23:39.199 --> 01:23:41.039
<v Speaker 1>I lost you, but they're okay. You see it now?

1581
01:23:41.479 --> 01:23:41.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

1582
01:23:41.760 --> 01:23:46.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, look at her, look at him, look at her

1583
01:23:46.119 --> 01:23:49.319
<v Speaker 1>invitation of him. That is what somebody who are like, Ah,

1584
01:23:49.399 --> 01:23:50.159
<v Speaker 1>she's so funny.

1585
01:23:51.479 --> 01:23:56.840
<v Speaker 2>She's so funny. Isn't she charming? My fiance, my wild

1586
01:23:56.920 --> 01:23:58.359
<v Speaker 2>and free spirited fiance.

1587
01:23:58.960 --> 01:24:01.119
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, the red lips.

1588
01:24:01.560 --> 01:24:03.399
<v Speaker 2>She needs to lay off the red lips too.

1589
01:24:04.520 --> 01:24:06.520
<v Speaker 1>Do we have anything for Kimberly's corner? Do we have

1590
01:24:06.600 --> 01:24:10.000
<v Speaker 1>time for Kimberly's corner? Do you need to take care

1591
01:24:10.039 --> 01:24:12.680
<v Speaker 1>of a personal matter instead of doing Kimberly's Corner?

1592
01:24:13.399 --> 01:24:16.479
<v Speaker 2>No, I can do it. I'm fine because I have

1593
01:24:16.520 --> 01:24:18.199
<v Speaker 2>a very short Kimberly's Corner.

1594
01:24:18.399 --> 01:24:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Okay, great, love it.

1595
01:24:20.520 --> 01:24:24.119
<v Speaker 2>I have Diaries and this one was called I'm at

1596
01:24:24.119 --> 01:24:29.359
<v Speaker 2>a breaking Point. And first we have Olga and Steven Steve.

1597
01:24:29.479 --> 01:24:33.840
<v Speaker 2>Then they are early couple, so a lot of people

1598
01:24:33.920 --> 01:24:38.199
<v Speaker 2>might now remember them. But go back to Russia. I

1599
01:24:38.279 --> 01:24:42.439
<v Speaker 2>go back, I go Russia. I know, I know. But

1600
01:24:43.079 --> 01:24:47.319
<v Speaker 2>Olga is lovely and Stephen was a douchebag and then

1601
01:24:47.399 --> 01:24:50.720
<v Speaker 2>became much better. On an earlier season of Diaries, he

1602
01:24:50.800 --> 01:24:52.000
<v Speaker 2>really tried to step up.

1603
01:24:52.279 --> 01:24:53.119
<v Speaker 1>Beautiful people.

1604
01:24:53.399 --> 01:24:58.119
<v Speaker 2>Beautiful they are. He's gorgeous, she's gorgeous. They are just

1605
01:24:58.239 --> 01:25:00.319
<v Speaker 2>way too young to have a kid, and and they

1606
01:25:00.319 --> 01:25:03.399
<v Speaker 2>had another kid, and now they are separating and divorcing.

1607
01:25:03.640 --> 01:25:05.199
<v Speaker 1>I don't think i'd two kids.

1608
01:25:05.680 --> 01:25:10.359
<v Speaker 2>They had a daughter in New York and they were

1609
01:25:10.399 --> 01:25:13.640
<v Speaker 2>already having marital troubles and.

1610
01:25:14.760 --> 01:25:15.199
<v Speaker 1>A baby.

1611
01:25:15.439 --> 01:25:20.760
<v Speaker 2>Another baby. Yeah, And so they're divorcing now and he's

1612
01:25:20.800 --> 01:25:23.439
<v Speaker 2>moved into a new apartment. She's thrilled that he's moved

1613
01:25:23.479 --> 01:25:27.960
<v Speaker 2>out and she has her own place now. So she

1614
01:25:28.079 --> 01:25:30.800
<v Speaker 2>says she's grown up a lot now and has found

1615
01:25:30.800 --> 01:25:33.520
<v Speaker 2>her voice and is speaking up when she isn't happy,

1616
01:25:33.640 --> 01:25:37.119
<v Speaker 2>whereas before she just won't say anything. And she goes

1617
01:25:37.119 --> 01:25:39.479
<v Speaker 2>to the city to see her friend Natalie, and I

1618
01:25:39.640 --> 01:25:43.720
<v Speaker 2>was terrified. But it's a different Natalie. Oh, thank god,

1619
01:25:44.960 --> 01:25:47.880
<v Speaker 2>but I hear I get I have PTSD from the

1620
01:25:48.000 --> 01:25:52.479
<v Speaker 2>name Natalie now. And this Natalie takes them to a

1621
01:25:52.600 --> 01:25:55.279
<v Speaker 2>rage room where you break stuff and they have a

1622
01:25:55.319 --> 01:25:59.279
<v Speaker 2>good time, and she, yeah, she's scared, but she's open

1623
01:25:59.399 --> 01:26:02.680
<v Speaker 2>to start dating. So she goes on a date with

1624
01:26:02.760 --> 01:26:04.960
<v Speaker 2>a guy she met on a dating app, a lawyer

1625
01:26:05.000 --> 01:26:07.920
<v Speaker 2>from Manhattan, because they live in New York. And I

1626
01:26:08.039 --> 01:26:10.920
<v Speaker 2>was like, no, I do not trust this lawyer from Manhattan.

1627
01:26:11.159 --> 01:26:13.439
<v Speaker 2>I bet he's a player, and he looks like a player.

1628
01:26:14.800 --> 01:26:17.640
<v Speaker 2>They walk around a Christmas market she has prepared a

1629
01:26:17.680 --> 01:26:20.239
<v Speaker 2>bunch of hard questions, like how long he's been single,

1630
01:26:20.399 --> 01:26:24.920
<v Speaker 2>does he want children? And he's in, what I'm looking

1631
01:26:24.960 --> 01:26:29.199
<v Speaker 2>for is someone responsible because my ex is Stephen and

1632
01:26:29.359 --> 01:26:33.720
<v Speaker 2>emotionally available and kind. And he's like, I wasn't expecting

1633
01:26:33.760 --> 01:26:36.079
<v Speaker 2>all these hard questions on a first date. But it's okay.

1634
01:26:36.159 --> 01:26:41.119
<v Speaker 2>She's really pretty and she seems nice. So then they

1635
01:26:41.159 --> 01:26:43.720
<v Speaker 2>go sit on Santa's lap and it was a cute

1636
01:26:43.720 --> 01:26:47.199
<v Speaker 2>first date then, but I don't think he really likes her.

1637
01:26:47.479 --> 01:26:51.039
<v Speaker 2>Then Steven brings their son, Alex, who's very cute and

1638
01:26:51.159 --> 01:26:56.159
<v Speaker 2>very precocious and seems like a lot like Daniel Tiffany's son. Oh,

1639
01:26:56.199 --> 01:27:00.399
<v Speaker 2>it's just like older, wiser than his age. And he's

1640
01:27:00.439 --> 01:27:03.199
<v Speaker 2>had a hard time with them separating, but he feels

1641
01:27:03.239 --> 01:27:06.039
<v Speaker 2>better now that Stephen has an apartment close by and

1642
01:27:06.079 --> 01:27:07.880
<v Speaker 2>he's going to be spending time there. He has his

1643
01:27:07.920 --> 01:27:10.920
<v Speaker 2>own bedroom there, and he's like, are you going to

1644
01:27:10.960 --> 01:27:12.640
<v Speaker 2>get am I going to get a new step mom?

1645
01:27:12.680 --> 01:27:15.600
<v Speaker 2>And Steven starts laughing and says, I'm not even thinking

1646
01:27:15.640 --> 01:27:17.720
<v Speaker 2>about that yet, but I promise, like, I'll get your

1647
01:27:17.760 --> 01:27:20.359
<v Speaker 2>approval first, and Alex says, I want to be on

1648
01:27:20.399 --> 01:27:23.920
<v Speaker 2>a walkie talkie when you're on your date, and Steven's like,

1649
01:27:24.000 --> 01:27:25.920
<v Speaker 2>so you can approve, and he goes, no, so I

1650
01:27:25.920 --> 01:27:31.479
<v Speaker 2>can give you pointers during your day. So it's very cute, Okay.

1651
01:27:31.600 --> 01:27:35.199
<v Speaker 1>Caesar, Caesar the nail tech.

1652
01:27:35.399 --> 01:27:38.439
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I cannot believe it's only been six years since

1653
01:27:38.479 --> 01:27:42.359
<v Speaker 2>we first met Caesar and since he was ghosted by Maria,

1654
01:27:42.399 --> 01:27:44.359
<v Speaker 2>who we all thought was not a real person, and

1655
01:27:44.359 --> 01:27:46.319
<v Speaker 2>then she turned out to be a real person.

1656
01:27:46.239 --> 01:27:48.159
<v Speaker 1>Sued out to be a real person, but she didn't

1657
01:27:48.199 --> 01:27:48.560
<v Speaker 1>like him.

1658
01:27:49.119 --> 01:27:53.159
<v Speaker 2>No, he's fifty three now, Caesar still looks very young.

1659
01:27:53.640 --> 01:28:03.399
<v Speaker 2>He looks good. He could date Marissa's mom, so he

1660
01:28:03.399 --> 01:28:06.600
<v Speaker 2>he I don't know what that means because he's still

1661
01:28:06.640 --> 01:28:09.159
<v Speaker 2>twenty years younger than her, but he looks so, he

1662
01:28:09.239 --> 01:28:13.880
<v Speaker 2>looks great. So he met a woman Victoria online. He

1663
01:28:14.039 --> 01:28:18.039
<v Speaker 2>is flying to Arizona to meet her in person. She's Mexican.

1664
01:28:18.479 --> 01:28:22.159
<v Speaker 2>He calls her his Latina heat. I don't really like

1665
01:28:22.239 --> 01:28:26.199
<v Speaker 2>that she's forty, which I felt like was at least

1666
01:28:26.239 --> 01:28:29.520
<v Speaker 2>more age appropriate than I feel like he was dating before. Yeah,

1667
01:28:29.600 --> 01:28:34.359
<v Speaker 2>so I'm actually okay with that. She's a single mom

1668
01:28:34.960 --> 01:28:39.079
<v Speaker 2>and we see all the stuff with Maria. He oh

1669
01:28:39.119 --> 01:28:43.159
<v Speaker 2>and then Alona. Remember he went on the Single Life

1670
01:28:43.359 --> 01:28:47.520
<v Speaker 2>to Ukraine and he met Alona because he hired a

1671
01:28:47.560 --> 01:28:52.680
<v Speaker 2>matchmaker and she decided. The war broke out and she

1672
01:28:52.800 --> 01:28:56.399
<v Speaker 2>decided she would rather stay in Ukraine and support her

1673
01:28:56.439 --> 01:29:01.319
<v Speaker 2>country than come to America to be with Caesar. That's

1674
01:29:01.479 --> 01:29:02.279
<v Speaker 2>that has to her.

1675
01:29:02.560 --> 01:29:03.680
<v Speaker 1>That somewhat rings a bell.

1676
01:29:03.800 --> 01:29:10.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, God, bless, I'm choosing war over your Sorry. So

1677
01:29:11.159 --> 01:29:14.920
<v Speaker 2>he and Victoria have only been messaging for two weeks

1678
01:29:15.520 --> 01:29:19.000
<v Speaker 2>and she asked him to come fly to Arizona to

1679
01:29:19.199 --> 01:29:21.680
<v Speaker 2>celebrate Thanksgiving with her family.

1680
01:29:22.079 --> 01:29:23.720
<v Speaker 1>Weird, okay, weird.

1681
01:29:24.359 --> 01:29:27.079
<v Speaker 2>He thought that was weird too, but he's going with it.

1682
01:29:27.439 --> 01:29:30.399
<v Speaker 1>Is he's still an ail tech. He's still an al teck. Yes, okay.

1683
01:29:30.720 --> 01:29:33.159
<v Speaker 2>So she picks him up at the airport. He's happy

1684
01:29:33.199 --> 01:29:36.560
<v Speaker 2>that that she looked like she did online even though

1685
01:29:36.560 --> 01:29:39.880
<v Speaker 2>they had like facetimed, and they go to dinner. She

1686
01:29:39.920 --> 01:29:42.560
<v Speaker 2>shows him her nails because he does nails for a living,

1687
01:29:42.840 --> 01:29:45.520
<v Speaker 2>and they're laughing at having a good time. The next day,

1688
01:29:45.560 --> 01:29:49.159
<v Speaker 2>he's going to Thanksgiving and he is wearing a Christmas

1689
01:29:49.199 --> 01:29:53.119
<v Speaker 2>sweater that lights up. For some reason, he thinks it

1690
01:29:53.159 --> 01:29:54.439
<v Speaker 2>will impress the family.

1691
01:29:54.840 --> 01:29:56.079
<v Speaker 1>No, not sure why.

1692
01:29:56.239 --> 01:30:00.319
<v Speaker 2>No, but he shows up at the house and there's

1693
01:30:00.319 --> 01:30:02.640
<v Speaker 2>a Christmas wreath on the door, so I thought that

1694
01:30:02.720 --> 01:30:03.600
<v Speaker 2>was a really good sign.

1695
01:30:04.159 --> 01:30:06.039
<v Speaker 1>Is it cold in Arizona in December.

1696
01:30:07.279 --> 01:30:11.079
<v Speaker 2>He's always sweating, sweating, so they probably if the a

1697
01:30:11.239 --> 01:30:14.119
<v Speaker 2>see on. So but she opens the door. She really

1698
01:30:14.199 --> 01:30:19.279
<v Speaker 2>likes the sweater. There's fifteen people at this Thanksgiving okay,

1699
01:30:19.960 --> 01:30:23.000
<v Speaker 2>And they all sit along this one side of a

1700
01:30:23.039 --> 01:30:26.239
<v Speaker 2>long table while he sits on the other side, and

1701
01:30:26.279 --> 01:30:30.439
<v Speaker 2>they grill him. Oh my god, and they're like, how

1702
01:30:30.479 --> 01:30:33.600
<v Speaker 2>old are you? And he says, I in twenty in

1703
01:30:33.680 --> 01:30:37.560
<v Speaker 2>dog years, I'm twenty five, but actually I'm fifty three.

1704
01:30:38.359 --> 01:30:40.840
<v Speaker 1>That's not funny or is that true now?

1705
01:30:41.359 --> 01:30:43.920
<v Speaker 2>And then one of them goes, where's your other earring?

1706
01:30:44.439 --> 01:30:48.800
<v Speaker 2>And he says, I only wear one. They laugh, and

1707
01:30:48.840 --> 01:30:51.800
<v Speaker 2>then they say where do you see this going? And

1708
01:30:51.880 --> 01:30:53.800
<v Speaker 2>he says, well, I plan to treat her like a

1709
01:30:53.840 --> 01:30:56.399
<v Speaker 2>best friend and I'm looking for someone I can share

1710
01:30:56.439 --> 01:30:59.079
<v Speaker 2>the good times and the bad times with. And they

1711
01:30:59.199 --> 01:31:02.720
<v Speaker 2>liked that answer, and then they love his sweater and

1712
01:31:03.279 --> 01:31:09.119
<v Speaker 2>they have a live laugh, love, sing dance sign. So okay, nice, yeah,

1713
01:31:09.159 --> 01:31:12.239
<v Speaker 2>so it good times. The next day they go to

1714
01:31:12.359 --> 01:31:15.640
<v Speaker 2>a light festival. He in Victoria. He brings her flowers.

1715
01:31:15.800 --> 01:31:19.760
<v Speaker 2>They're getting along, but then if she reveals she wants

1716
01:31:19.760 --> 01:31:22.399
<v Speaker 2>to get married, and she wants to only date if

1717
01:31:22.399 --> 01:31:24.920
<v Speaker 2>it's with intention and it's going to lead to marriage,

1718
01:31:25.439 --> 01:31:28.640
<v Speaker 2>and if they date long distance, she wants a plan

1719
01:31:29.079 --> 01:31:32.399
<v Speaker 2>of where it's going. And he says he's not sure

1720
01:31:32.439 --> 01:31:34.680
<v Speaker 2>about marriage, but he could be down for a long

1721
01:31:34.800 --> 01:31:39.720
<v Speaker 2>time partnership. And she does not like this, and it

1722
01:31:39.760 --> 01:31:42.960
<v Speaker 2>gets really awkward, and she says, well, I think if

1723
01:31:43.039 --> 01:31:45.399
<v Speaker 2>you're an adult, you should know if you're going to

1724
01:31:45.439 --> 01:31:47.199
<v Speaker 2>marry the person within a few months.

1725
01:31:48.680 --> 01:31:49.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Victoria.

1726
01:31:50.000 --> 01:31:54.840
<v Speaker 2>He's like, wow, this is moving very fast. And he's like,

1727
01:31:54.880 --> 01:31:57.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm not opposed to marriage, but I would rather go slow.

1728
01:31:57.880 --> 01:31:59.439
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, you're fifty three.

1729
01:32:00.119 --> 01:32:03.720
<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, yeah, I think he's probably too set in

1730
01:32:03.720 --> 01:32:05.399
<v Speaker 1>his ways. Yeah yeah.

1731
01:32:05.439 --> 01:32:08.720
<v Speaker 2>And she says she's a control freak, but she needs

1732
01:32:08.760 --> 01:32:11.479
<v Speaker 2>a plan, but she needs to work on loosening up

1733
01:32:11.479 --> 01:32:14.520
<v Speaker 2>a little. So the next day it's super awkward. She's

1734
01:32:14.560 --> 01:32:17.479
<v Speaker 2>taken him to the airport and then he says, look,

1735
01:32:17.560 --> 01:32:20.520
<v Speaker 2>I get about what we talked about. I know what

1736
01:32:20.560 --> 01:32:23.720
<v Speaker 2>you're looking for, and I get it, and I really

1737
01:32:23.720 --> 01:32:26.119
<v Speaker 2>want you to come and visit me in North Carolina

1738
01:32:26.479 --> 01:32:29.960
<v Speaker 2>and she's like really to like seriously, and he's like yes,

1739
01:32:30.359 --> 01:32:32.720
<v Speaker 2>So they feel like they're moving in the same direction.

1740
01:32:33.079 --> 01:32:34.720
<v Speaker 2>And then he gives her a kiss on the cheek.

1741
01:32:35.920 --> 01:32:39.640
<v Speaker 2>That's it, Wow, no kiss, just a kiss now, kiss

1742
01:32:39.640 --> 01:32:39.920
<v Speaker 2>on the.

1743
01:32:39.920 --> 01:32:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Cheek, Kiss on the cheek definitely says marriage any day, exactly,

1744
01:32:43.600 --> 01:32:45.479
<v Speaker 1>any day now, yep, yeah, okay.

1745
01:32:45.560 --> 01:32:50.399
<v Speaker 2>Our last couple is Anna and Marcel who oh may remember,

1746
01:32:50.560 --> 01:32:56.359
<v Speaker 2>oh god, okay, the bee keepers. And he is from Turkey.

1747
01:32:56.800 --> 01:33:01.720
<v Speaker 2>He speaks almost no English still still, and he is

1748
01:33:01.920 --> 01:33:07.920
<v Speaker 2>forty four, she's forty four. People thought he was slow.

1749
01:33:09.840 --> 01:33:12.119
<v Speaker 2>There were a lot of people who speak Turkish that

1750
01:33:12.159 --> 01:33:18.760
<v Speaker 2>were writing and saying his language was very underdeveloped. And yeah,

1751
01:33:18.800 --> 01:33:21.319
<v Speaker 2>I remember looking at Reddit on the time being like,

1752
01:33:21.560 --> 01:33:24.760
<v Speaker 2>is he just like it seems like he's dumb or

1753
01:33:25.399 --> 01:33:30.560
<v Speaker 2>actually like has a disability, and yes, being hidden, it's

1754
01:33:30.600 --> 01:33:35.319
<v Speaker 2>being hidden by this language difference because she doesn't know

1755
01:33:35.760 --> 01:33:39.560
<v Speaker 2>how he's speaking and she thinks it's just a language barrier,

1756
01:33:39.640 --> 01:33:42.680
<v Speaker 2>but that actually he was not understanding things. And people

1757
01:33:42.680 --> 01:33:45.119
<v Speaker 2>wrote in and were like, yeah, the language he uses

1758
01:33:45.239 --> 01:33:49.239
<v Speaker 2>is like a second grader, like it's very strange. Oh

1759
01:33:49.319 --> 01:33:54.720
<v Speaker 2>my god, who knows. So they're preparing this well, she

1760
01:33:54.840 --> 01:33:57.159
<v Speaker 2>is doing all the hard work. They have this beauty

1761
01:33:57.359 --> 01:34:01.560
<v Speaker 2>in the Beast Honey shop because they sell honey and

1762
01:34:01.600 --> 01:34:05.520
<v Speaker 2>their beekeepers, but they also sell candles and gelato and

1763
01:34:05.600 --> 01:34:10.279
<v Speaker 2>like baked goods like baklava and Yeah, so he has

1764
01:34:10.359 --> 01:34:14.439
<v Speaker 2>built some stuff for the shop, like the shelves and stuff,

1765
01:34:14.439 --> 01:34:17.920
<v Speaker 2>but he hasn't finished, and she's annoyed. They met eight

1766
01:34:18.000 --> 01:34:20.840
<v Speaker 2>years ago through beekeepers group. She looks so much better

1767
01:34:20.880 --> 01:34:23.159
<v Speaker 2>now than she did then. She has had a real

1768
01:34:23.159 --> 01:34:26.199
<v Speaker 2>glow up. She has a cute little bob that's very

1769
01:34:26.239 --> 01:34:30.800
<v Speaker 2>flattering on her personally. I think she looks better without

1770
01:34:30.840 --> 01:34:33.119
<v Speaker 2>the moles, but if you want to keep them, she

1771
01:34:33.199 --> 01:34:35.760
<v Speaker 2>had a lot of them. But I think she looks great.

1772
01:34:36.319 --> 01:34:40.159
<v Speaker 2>She's lost a lot of weight. Her skin looks really good.

1773
01:34:40.560 --> 01:34:44.840
<v Speaker 2>So they used to surrogate in Ukraine because he wanted

1774
01:34:44.920 --> 01:34:48.520
<v Speaker 2>children and she could not have any more children. And

1775
01:34:48.600 --> 01:34:50.960
<v Speaker 2>they had a child in Ukraine right as the war

1776
01:34:51.079 --> 01:34:52.800
<v Speaker 2>was breaking out, right, so I.

1777
01:34:52.800 --> 01:34:54.399
<v Speaker 1>Had to figure out a way to get the baby.

1778
01:34:54.560 --> 01:34:58.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yet the baby from Ukraine, and they named the

1779
01:34:58.920 --> 01:35:03.279
<v Speaker 2>baby Gok, which sounds like she's saying goat con But

1780
01:35:03.359 --> 01:35:04.560
<v Speaker 2>it's go con.

1781
01:35:05.159 --> 01:35:05.880
<v Speaker 1>Con and.

1782
01:35:07.199 --> 01:35:09.359
<v Speaker 2>I feel like that child is gonna be made fun

1783
01:35:09.399 --> 01:35:09.680
<v Speaker 2>of them.

1784
01:35:09.720 --> 01:35:13.000
<v Speaker 1>Okay, grow yeah, yeah, they better give him the nickname

1785
01:35:13.000 --> 01:35:14.279
<v Speaker 1>real quick. Yeah.

1786
01:35:14.840 --> 01:35:18.920
<v Speaker 2>So she was sick of sharing a bed with go

1787
01:35:19.119 --> 01:35:22.640
<v Speaker 2>con At when he was three years old. He had

1788
01:35:22.680 --> 01:35:25.479
<v Speaker 2>been sleeping with them the whole time, and she was

1789
01:35:25.560 --> 01:35:30.600
<v Speaker 2>horny for Murcell, and so she, even though Marcell knows

1790
01:35:30.640 --> 01:35:33.560
<v Speaker 2>how to build things, took it upon herself to build

1791
01:35:33.640 --> 01:35:37.199
<v Speaker 2>him a bed in his kid's bedroom so that she

1792
01:35:37.239 --> 01:35:40.039
<v Speaker 2>could get laid by her husband. But they still aren't

1793
01:35:40.079 --> 01:35:46.680
<v Speaker 2>having sex. Anna tells her friend that Marcell isn't helping

1794
01:35:46.720 --> 01:35:48.840
<v Speaker 2>out at the shop, and he's also not helping out

1795
01:35:48.880 --> 01:35:50.840
<v Speaker 2>at home. And she's a full time mom. She has

1796
01:35:50.880 --> 01:35:54.399
<v Speaker 2>three other kids and she has to make dinner and

1797
01:35:54.439 --> 01:35:57.359
<v Speaker 2>do all that stuff and he does barely anything. And

1798
01:35:57.720 --> 01:36:01.840
<v Speaker 2>now Marcell has started sleep thing in go Khan's room

1799
01:36:02.199 --> 01:36:02.680
<v Speaker 2>with him.

1800
01:36:04.239 --> 01:36:07.399
<v Speaker 1>This man does not want to be around you, right.

1801
01:36:08.239 --> 01:36:11.520
<v Speaker 2>He has laid out a comforter on the floor next

1802
01:36:11.520 --> 01:36:14.479
<v Speaker 2>to the kid's bed and is sleeping there. And he

1803
01:36:14.560 --> 01:36:17.319
<v Speaker 2>claims this because go Kan does not want to sleep alone,

1804
01:36:17.359 --> 01:36:19.640
<v Speaker 2>but she thinks he just doesn't want to be intimate

1805
01:36:19.680 --> 01:36:22.920
<v Speaker 2>with her. Yeah, and so she tells her friend that

1806
01:36:23.039 --> 01:36:26.079
<v Speaker 2>she needs intimacy. She feels like she's his roommate or

1807
01:36:26.119 --> 01:36:29.800
<v Speaker 2>his mom, and she wonders if he's cheating, and the

1808
01:36:29.880 --> 01:36:32.600
<v Speaker 2>friend suggests therapy, but he doesn't like to talk about

1809
01:36:32.600 --> 01:36:36.399
<v Speaker 2>his feelings and Turkish men need to feel macho, and

1810
01:36:36.640 --> 01:36:39.520
<v Speaker 2>I was laughing because Marcella is like the opposite of macho,

1811
01:36:39.640 --> 01:36:46.159
<v Speaker 2>like Sarper would eat him for Turkish breakfast. Yes, so

1812
01:36:46.439 --> 01:36:50.720
<v Speaker 2>she tells, But she tells Mrsa as we say in Turkey,

1813
01:36:51.039 --> 01:36:55.479
<v Speaker 2>real men get stung by bee and their penis grows bigger.

1814
01:36:55.600 --> 01:36:58.720
<v Speaker 1>Sleep with wife, yeah, yeah, So.

1815
01:36:59.079 --> 01:37:01.800
<v Speaker 2>She tells Mrcella well that she needs help finishing stuff

1816
01:37:01.800 --> 01:37:04.840
<v Speaker 2>at the shop. She's not happy with what's been going

1817
01:37:04.840 --> 01:37:07.520
<v Speaker 2>on in their marriage. He won't have sex with her,

1818
01:37:07.840 --> 01:37:10.720
<v Speaker 2>and he says, stop this talking, stop this, I don't

1819
01:37:10.760 --> 01:37:12.920
<v Speaker 2>like this. And I remembered this from last time. He

1820
01:37:12.960 --> 01:37:15.680
<v Speaker 2>would walk off if she was trying to film them

1821
01:37:15.720 --> 01:37:17.960
<v Speaker 2>when they were when and she would bring up sex

1822
01:37:18.359 --> 01:37:20.600
<v Speaker 2>because he won't talk about it on camera, And so

1823
01:37:21.560 --> 01:37:25.000
<v Speaker 2>then they're in their talking head and she he says,

1824
01:37:25.079 --> 01:37:27.479
<v Speaker 2>I won't do this, and she's like, okay, he had

1825
01:37:27.520 --> 01:37:29.920
<v Speaker 2>told me if I brought up sex that he wouldn't film,

1826
01:37:30.600 --> 01:37:33.840
<v Speaker 2>so I'm not supposed to talk about that. She tells

1827
01:37:33.880 --> 01:37:36.159
<v Speaker 2>him that they need therapy and he agrees to go,

1828
01:37:36.640 --> 01:37:38.680
<v Speaker 2>and she says, you need to be honest and you're

1829
01:37:38.720 --> 01:37:40.600
<v Speaker 2>gonna have to talk about sex to the therapist.

1830
01:37:40.720 --> 01:37:44.039
<v Speaker 1>Then okay, but we know in real time, she posted

1831
01:37:44.079 --> 01:37:46.520
<v Speaker 1>a lot of shit about him being a cheater with

1832
01:37:46.680 --> 01:37:51.199
<v Speaker 1>like online sex workers, and then she later found out

1833
01:37:51.239 --> 01:37:54.600
<v Speaker 1>that it was just like online online chaten. It was

1834
01:37:54.680 --> 01:37:58.720
<v Speaker 1>online chaten and that he never met with anybody in person,

1835
01:37:58.800 --> 01:38:02.079
<v Speaker 1>although I don't think that's true, and uh.

1836
01:38:02.680 --> 01:38:06.399
<v Speaker 2>She was scammed. She said he was scammed because it

1837
01:38:06.520 --> 01:38:09.399
<v Speaker 2>was like fake it was catfishing or something.

1838
01:38:09.560 --> 01:38:12.319
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well he was still he was still fishing. He

1839
01:38:12.399 --> 01:38:13.039
<v Speaker 1>was still fishing.

1840
01:38:13.640 --> 01:38:16.000
<v Speaker 2>And then I think she said he knew that it

1841
01:38:16.039 --> 01:38:19.520
<v Speaker 2>was catfishing and that he was playing along to like

1842
01:38:20.439 --> 01:38:24.279
<v Speaker 2>whatever or something. And I was like, there's no way

1843
01:38:24.359 --> 01:38:25.920
<v Speaker 2>Marcel figured that out.

1844
01:38:26.960 --> 01:38:30.520
<v Speaker 1>Sorry, but no, no, And then she said after she

1845
01:38:30.600 --> 01:38:33.079
<v Speaker 1>posted all their business out to the internet, then she

1846
01:38:33.079 --> 01:38:35.319
<v Speaker 1>said she forgiven him, which is the thing. It's the

1847
01:38:35.359 --> 01:38:37.199
<v Speaker 1>same thing you and I talk about all the time.

1848
01:38:37.560 --> 01:38:39.960
<v Speaker 1>If your girlfriend tells you all this terrible stuff about

1849
01:38:39.960 --> 01:38:42.239
<v Speaker 1>a boyfriend and she dumps him and then gets back

1850
01:38:42.279 --> 01:38:45.199
<v Speaker 1>together with them. Well, now you know all these horrible things. Yes,

1851
01:38:45.319 --> 01:38:47.359
<v Speaker 1>so now we know all the horrible things about Marcel.

1852
01:38:47.920 --> 01:38:48.239
<v Speaker 3>Mm hm.

1853
01:38:48.560 --> 01:38:51.520
<v Speaker 2>So I'm so you really should have impulse posted your

1854
01:38:51.640 --> 01:38:56.439
<v Speaker 2>business on social media and she forgave him like within

1855
01:38:56.479 --> 01:38:58.039
<v Speaker 2>then a week. So I felt like.

1856
01:38:58.039 --> 01:38:58.760
<v Speaker 1>It was two days.

1857
01:38:59.199 --> 01:39:01.520
<v Speaker 2>It was like two days. So we had whiplash. We

1858
01:39:01.720 --> 01:39:03.600
<v Speaker 2>just like, Okay, now we're not supposed to be mad

1859
01:39:03.640 --> 01:39:05.920
<v Speaker 2>at him. We know we're still mad at him. So

1860
01:39:06.159 --> 01:39:10.640
<v Speaker 2>next time on Diaries, Courtney and Philip are planning their wedding.

1861
01:39:11.039 --> 01:39:11.479
<v Speaker 1>Yay.

1862
01:39:11.960 --> 01:39:15.800
<v Speaker 2>They're disagreeing on everything. She wants to celebrate in Florida

1863
01:39:15.920 --> 01:39:18.680
<v Speaker 2>with her friends and family. He wants a destination wedding

1864
01:39:18.800 --> 01:39:22.720
<v Speaker 2>at Turks and Caicos. She wants alcohol at the wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>He wants a dry wedding, and she says, so I

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01:39:25.479 --> 01:39:28.399
<v Speaker 2>can have them with my friends, and he says, I

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01:39:28.439 --> 01:39:30.079
<v Speaker 2>just don't want you to embarrass yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Josh can use a little of that with Katie,

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01:39:34.159 --> 01:39:35.039
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Yep.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe Tyrae is exercising and he's had weight loss

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01:39:41.079 --> 01:39:45.000
<v Speaker 2>surgery and he is getting hair transplant surgery. So he

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01:39:45.159 --> 01:39:47.279
<v Speaker 2>is going to the doctor and he gets to pick

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<v Speaker 2>out his hairline.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so very excited for him. He's kind now.

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01:39:53.399 --> 01:39:57.680
<v Speaker 2>And then Kenny and Armando and Hannah. Kenny and Hannah

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01:39:57.760 --> 01:40:01.600
<v Speaker 2>are dancing to TikTok videos as they wait for Armando

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<v Speaker 2>to have his visa interview because remember he had tuberculosis

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01:40:05.680 --> 01:40:09.640
<v Speaker 2>or something and crazy yeah yeah, and so he is

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01:40:09.760 --> 01:40:12.359
<v Speaker 2>nervous and so we don't know if he gets approved.

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<v Speaker 1>He definitely gets approved.

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01:40:14.319 --> 01:40:17.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure he gets approved. And they're just adorable.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah okay, Well that's it, everybody. Wow, Wow, we did it.

1883
01:40:24.640 --> 01:40:27.399
<v Speaker 1>We did it in one hundred two hours. Wow. I know.

1884
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<v Speaker 1>My friends that are here were asking me at lunch, like,

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01:40:30.560 --> 01:40:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, if you have an episode that's x amount

1886
01:40:33.640 --> 01:40:35.479
<v Speaker 1>of time, how many minutes of ADS are in it.

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01:40:35.600 --> 01:40:38.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't know, and he goes, so if

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<v Speaker 1>it's like an hour and a half episodes at twenty minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>his as ago, Oh no, so that's the angry question.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know. It's like, wow, what a deep

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01:40:46.159 --> 01:40:48.920
<v Speaker 1>question I never thought about. So yeah, because I was

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01:40:48.960 --> 01:40:50.920
<v Speaker 1>trying to explain to him about host roid ads versus

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01:40:51.119 --> 01:40:56.279
<v Speaker 1>programmatic ads, and they were fascinated, fascinating with the holes. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, thank you for being interested in my job.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody ever is no, I don't care. Nobody ever asked

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<v Speaker 1>me any question what the show is called. Yes, that's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>They go, we watched some of your videos, like you're funny.

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01:41:08.479 --> 01:41:12.239
<v Speaker 3>I was like, ah, you have known me since I

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01:41:12.319 --> 01:41:13.560
<v Speaker 3>was eighteen, so.

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<v Speaker 1>This is like my very best friend of college. We

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01:41:17.039 --> 01:41:20.600
<v Speaker 1>met like first day freshman year, like moved into the dorm.

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<v Speaker 1>It's my friend Emily, and I never met a Yankee before.

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01:41:25.119 --> 01:41:30.600
<v Speaker 1>That's it's crazy Allentown, Pennsylvania. I was like, whoa saw

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01:41:30.680 --> 01:41:34.640
<v Speaker 1>My parents won't believe this girl's accent. Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, that's hilarious. Also, is are we allowed to

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<v Speaker 2>say yankee? I just saw a post on Reddit that

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<v Speaker 2>yankee is apparently offensive, and I was I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Emily would not be offended because she knows that

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01:41:47.199 --> 01:41:49.079
<v Speaker 1>she was a Yankee, but now she's lived in like

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01:41:49.239 --> 01:41:51.520
<v Speaker 1>Mississippi in the South for a long time, so now

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01:41:51.520 --> 01:41:53.319
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't consider herself Yankee anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Gotcha, it's offensive.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I mean, come on, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Think it's offensive.

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<v Speaker 1>What can you say? Nothing? Yeah, okay, apologies to the

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<v Speaker 1>Yankees out there.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess no one is getting offended by it. I

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01:42:08.079 --> 01:42:11.880
<v Speaker 2>guarantee you that we've said so many worse things. I

1919
01:42:11.920 --> 01:42:13.520
<v Speaker 2>have said so many worse things.

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<v Speaker 1>Kimberly. Is Taylor Swift getting married July third at Mason's

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<v Speaker 1>Square Garden.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I lot my invitation must have gotten

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01:42:21.760 --> 01:42:23.600
<v Speaker 2>lost in the mail, and I'm pretty pissed about it,

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01:42:23.640 --> 01:42:25.159
<v Speaker 2>to be honest, I feel.

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01:42:24.880 --> 01:42:27.600
<v Speaker 1>Like that would be very weird that she would want

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01:42:27.600 --> 01:42:30.760
<v Speaker 1>to get married. Even if they made it the most gorgeous,

1927
01:42:30.960 --> 01:42:33.319
<v Speaker 1>flower filled thing and you couldn't see like the hot

1928
01:42:33.319 --> 01:42:35.399
<v Speaker 1>dog vendors, and you know what I mean, Even if

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01:42:35.399 --> 01:42:38.720
<v Speaker 1>they covered every single bit of grossness and carpeted the

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01:42:38.760 --> 01:42:41.960
<v Speaker 1>whole thing and made it beautiful, that still seems weird

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<v Speaker 1>that she would do that.

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<v Speaker 2>It does seem weird because she's more like a background

1933
01:42:46.920 --> 01:42:52.039
<v Speaker 2>backyard wedding person, that's right, yes, but maybe for security

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01:42:52.079 --> 01:42:54.279
<v Speaker 2>reasons weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, well, it will say, We'll say. I

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01:42:56.880 --> 01:42:58.640
<v Speaker 1>just thought I would ask you. I thought you would

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<v Speaker 1>know inside scoop.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I haven't really been paying attention, but okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want that for her. Everybody make sure you're

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<v Speaker 1>following following us on social media. As always, we always

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01:43:10.119 --> 01:43:14.800
<v Speaker 1>ask it's at date dateline. That's Instagram and at a

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01:43:14.960 --> 01:43:18.399
<v Speaker 1>date a date with K and K on YouTube. I

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01:43:18.479 --> 01:43:24.520
<v Speaker 1>am at Pink Shade Pod and Pink Shade Monkies on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, my brain just froze and there was

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01:43:26.800 --> 01:43:29.479
<v Speaker 1>a problem. I'm all right, I'm okay. I was trying

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01:43:29.520 --> 01:43:31.279
<v Speaker 1>to say YouTube and my mind went.

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<v Speaker 2>I know if this stream yard has been glitchy, but

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's Mary Payne's brain. That's that white spot.

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01:43:37.880 --> 01:43:39.359
<v Speaker 1>That's that white spot coming back.

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<v Speaker 2>Never read that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, everybody, love you mean it, Bye bye, thank you,
