Speaker 1: Okay, everybody, Hey, welcome to Pink Shade. It's Mary Payne here.
Speaker 1: It is TLC Tuesday. I'm with Kimberly. She was making
Speaker 1: me laugh and also.
Speaker 2: Grows out traumatizing her. Yeah, oop, stories don't no, I
Speaker 2: won't care about it. The P word anymore. Usually on
Speaker 2: these shows the P word is something else. Yeah. I
Speaker 2: feel like they say the P word a lot on
Speaker 2: This is Polly.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot of peep. She doesn't want to
Speaker 1: beep my peep. Gisha always like she doesn't want to.
Speaker 2: I know there was one in this and I was
Speaker 2: trying to figure it out, but I think he just
Speaker 2: said fucked. Josh said something in this episode. It was like,
Speaker 2: I think your bleep, yoe, you apostrophe ra bleep.
Speaker 1: I think you're fucked.
Speaker 2: I think it was fucked.
Speaker 1: I got to say that. I stayed up till one
Speaker 1: o'clock last night writing these notes because Thursday to Monday,
Speaker 1: I've had an HVAC person at this house sometimes twice
Speaker 1: a day, every single day. Wow, I had a broken
Speaker 1: AC unit upstairs here in my bedroom that got fixed
Speaker 1: and then started pouring water from my ceiling. So then
Speaker 1: God wanted to come back. And then they fixed it,
Speaker 1: and then guess what, more water started pulling from my
Speaker 1: ceilings and then they had to come back. So this
Speaker 1: morning I had the two h BACK guys, the ones
Speaker 1: that had been rotating coming to my house, plus my contractor,
Speaker 1: plus an island contractor that is going to be fixing
Speaker 1: the drywall paid for by the HVAC company because they're
Speaker 1: the ones that made the mistake with my contractor. Also
Speaker 1: realizing he when he put in our attic fan, he
Speaker 1: put in the wrong type. So now using that for free,
Speaker 1: and yeah.
Speaker 2: Is there any other damage besides to the drywall with
Speaker 2: the from the water?
Speaker 1: No? Okay, good because when I'd gone to the beach
Speaker 1: with my friends and I put a towel under it
Speaker 1: just in case, Like now it's been like three days
Speaker 1: of maybe it's gonna come through the celium, maybe it's not.
Speaker 1: So I just put a towel down before I left,
Speaker 1: and when I came back, it was not soaked, but
Speaker 1: it was wet, and I was like, look up there
Speaker 1: it is a drip, drip, drip. So yeah, it's been
Speaker 1: super fun. And then my really my best friend from
Speaker 1: college arrived today with her husband and we've just been
Speaker 1: riding around. I had such an amazing alligator hunt this morning.
Speaker 1: Oh they were just swimming around. It was amazing.
Speaker 2: Okay, love it.
Speaker 1: We saw a little baby a couple of days go
Speaker 1: and I was like, look at that little baby. Baby.
Speaker 1: Alligator is cute, kimberly, so cute. It couldn't really kill you, no,
Speaker 1: not a baby, No no. They could take a chump,
Speaker 1: but they couldn't take you down. They don't have the
Speaker 1: strength to you know where. They take you down and
Speaker 1: then they roll you. Yeah, that's the allixy.
Speaker 2: Stop drop and roll it. Stop, drop and roll you.
Speaker 2: I did not know that. I thought they just dragged
Speaker 2: you into the water.
Speaker 1: They call it a death roll. Once they get you
Speaker 1: into the water, they roll and then they get you
Speaker 1: all the way to the bottom and then they put
Speaker 1: you under something to let you desin it right a
Speaker 1: little bit before they go in for the eating.
Speaker 2: Stop.
Speaker 1: That's what they do.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, Like they bear put you under a big
Speaker 2: boulder or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they find like branches, yeah, branches or something to
Speaker 1: put you under, and.
Speaker 2: Then they bury you in the water in a watery
Speaker 2: grave so that you're bones and flesh get soft enough
Speaker 2: for them to chew.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean they could chew it anyway, but yeah,
Speaker 1: it's called a death roll when they do that.
Speaker 2: And they're fine with this. But you don't like me
Speaker 2: telling you about poop.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to hear about poop. I don't
Speaker 1: I don't want to.
Speaker 2: We at poop, Mary Payne. But we don't all experience
Speaker 2: a death role before we die in a watery grieve.
Speaker 1: Nobody's going to experience a death roll. It's not gonna
Speaker 1: happen to anybody. But you can't just look up alligator
Speaker 1: death roll and see them how they do it. It's
Speaker 1: pretty crazy, it's pretty they're pretty nuts anyway. The dinosaurs,
Speaker 1: they're dinosaurs. I'm seeing them from a respectable distance. Don't
Speaker 1: you worry. I'm following all the alligator rules here. But
Speaker 1: I'm very happy my friend and her husband are here,
Speaker 1: and very happy my husband's coming tomorrow to help me
Speaker 1: deal with all this house bullshit. Yeah, because you know,
Speaker 1: when you look over and there's a big giant brown
Speaker 1: spot on your ceiling, it's not attractive at least, it's
Speaker 1: not like right over the bed where I was just
Speaker 1: waiting for It's like it's just like right in a doorway. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's fun. That's been house talk. Okay. Now, I was
Speaker 1: very happy this week Ninety Day Fiance, Season twelve, episode eight.
Speaker 1: Love is a work in progress. I was glad this
Speaker 1: week that there was no debian Medow. I was glad
Speaker 1: for the break.
Speaker 2: We all needed a break, and I think we're all
Speaker 2: just over it because it feels now that we know
Speaker 2: what the outcome is. I don't like when there's spoilers
Speaker 2: when we find out if they got married or not.
Speaker 1: Me too, I agree.
Speaker 2: We're either like, oh, that was expected, so now there's
Speaker 2: no or we're like, fuck me, I can't believe this happened.
Speaker 1: So that's what I like.
Speaker 2: Was this all fake?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: Why did they? Or is she dumber than I thought?
Speaker 1: And I think that's I think the most obvious answer
Speaker 1: is the answer. Yes. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Unless he's a really good actor and was acting his
Speaker 2: scary tantrum, his man baby tantrum in the car about
Speaker 2: women and respect in a toga, then I think that sorry,
Speaker 2: an Egyptian whatever he was wearing, I think, and I
Speaker 2: don't think he's that good of an actor. I need
Speaker 2: to see his reel first of all, and he won't
Speaker 2: even show Debbie's reel so because she won't understand it
Speaker 2: because it's yeah, not in English. It has nothing to
Speaker 2: do with the fact that he's probably wears a costume
Speaker 2: in commercials, like a.
Speaker 1: Like a.
Speaker 2: What like a falafel? What do they eat in Egypt?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I was thinking. I was thinking like
Speaker 1: an Elmow costume like the people in Times Square.
Speaker 2: No, I'm thinking like a euro costume like Giro, but
Speaker 2: that's Greek. But so I don't know what they eat
Speaker 2: in Egypt. So some sort of costume like that for
Speaker 2: a local restaurant.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's costume that he's that's that costume
Speaker 1: that he's wearing, and he's standing outside of the pyramids,
Speaker 1: going do you want a tour? You want a tour? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what he's saying. I'm grateful for the break this
Speaker 1: week of those two. So let's start with Mallory and
Speaker 1: raw Sheet.
Speaker 2: So they are more fun poop talk, more poop.
Speaker 1: Talk with these two. So they talk about how important
Speaker 1: it is to be clean, and he is saying, she
Speaker 1: leaves a dirty dish for days without putting it away,
Speaker 1: and she goes, yeah, the most arguments we have are
Speaker 1: about cleanliness. So I'm going to tell you something. I
Speaker 1: don't think you should leave a dirty dish around for
Speaker 1: days either. I think if you put it in there
Speaker 1: at night and then the next day you put in
Speaker 1: the dishrusher, I'm okay, but like days is not great.
Speaker 2: I'm a soaker, and not in the Mormon way. I
Speaker 2: believe in soaking if there's something that will stick, So
Speaker 2: I would never just put a dry dish in the sink.
Speaker 2: That's gross. Then you're gonna have to scrub and pick
Speaker 2: things off with your fingernails. Yes, no dishwasher is strung enough.
Speaker 2: Plus I don't use dishwasher or hand wash.
Speaker 1: Do you really?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because my last apartment that I had for like
Speaker 2: twelve years, I didn't have a dishwasher, and now I
Speaker 2: have one, and I forget that I have it, and
Speaker 2: so I don't trust it. So I just hand washed.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're like the pla no dishwasher.
Speaker 2: I feel like a bigger deal was not having a
Speaker 2: garbage disposal for twelve years. That's really annoying because you
Speaker 2: can't let any food get down there.
Speaker 1: And oh that when we when we got this beach house,
Speaker 1: it was the first thing we did was install a
Speaker 1: garbage dispuzzal because yeah, I can't take it when you
Speaker 1: have that little net and you have to flip that out. Yeah, noah.
Speaker 2: But I'm glad they're a dressing this because I do
Speaker 2: feel like there's a cleanliness issue. And I'm still talking
Speaker 2: about her hair. It's just never been washed.
Speaker 1: She is even, Yeah, she's she's one of those people
Speaker 1: that's like, I just washed my hair once a week
Speaker 1: like that does. I think she's some people, but not
Speaker 1: all people.
Speaker 2: She might be trying to train her hair to do
Speaker 2: like a once a week wash, and she is constantly
Speaker 2: on day six of that schedule. But she should have
Speaker 2: done this training before she was on TV.
Speaker 1: Hair Wonky. Lindsay says, that's not good for your hair
Speaker 1: to let that much oil build up.
Speaker 2: I think that's correct, Lindsay, Yeah, and I trust your judgment.
Speaker 1: Okay, So they're headed out to look for a day
Speaker 1: and she says, nothing like water shooting up your butthole
Speaker 1: to make it feel like home. Do you know what
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that I forgot to do and I
Speaker 1: logged on here check my settings.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was a little concerned about your mic, but yeah,
Speaker 2: it's wrong, a little echoey.
Speaker 1: I just fixed it. Is it better now?
Speaker 2: I just fixed it much better, so much better. I
Speaker 2: should have said something. Okay, guys, but I remembered you
Speaker 2: were sometimes echoe in that room unless you put pillows
Speaker 2: around you.
Speaker 1: I forgot to do all my settings. So anyway, guys,
Speaker 1: sorry about that.
Speaker 3: So sorry, all good now, Okay, it didn't sound that bad. Okay,
Speaker 3: So the da anchrid, she says.
Speaker 1: She says, nothing like water shooting up your buttole to
Speaker 1: make you feel like home. And then they're in the
Speaker 1: car and they're driving and she has a Starbucks bacon,
Speaker 1: egg and cheese I think is what it is, and
Speaker 1: he because, let me taste that. He tastes your sandwich
Speaker 1: and she's like, babe, you can't have that, starts laughing.
Speaker 1: He goes, what is it? He goes, pork. I thought
Speaker 1: he said poop. No, I thought he said poop, and
Speaker 1: I wrote it down as poop. And then I looked
Speaker 1: up and where I paused it, and he said, what
Speaker 1: is it? Pork? And he does what we call the
Speaker 1: Tom Hanks in Big when he hit the cavear. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he starts scraping his tongue with his hand. He oh,
Speaker 1: my God, and then he rinses his mouth and spits
Speaker 1: it out the window, and she's like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: you're so dramatic. He's like, oh my god, I can't
Speaker 1: believe it.
Speaker 2: So I don't think he I think that this is
Speaker 2: an issue for him, and she, yes, he's laughing. She
Speaker 2: should not, that's his religion. Don't laugh. And also she
Speaker 2: was really slow on the uptake. She had a good
Speaker 2: four seconds of him to take the sandwich to.
Speaker 1: Say, oh, no, you bite. You didn't eat that, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can't eat that.
Speaker 2: She waited until he took a bite.
Speaker 1: And then she was like, oh no. So in the
Speaker 1: talking head, he says, pork does not clean the body.
Speaker 1: Chicken is like human and clean on the inside. So
Speaker 1: I'm not completely one hundred percent sure. Somebody will tell
Speaker 1: us what this means, but it's something about if the
Speaker 1: pork goes and your body it's not clean, or an
Speaker 1: inside of a pig is not clean, one of those things. Yeah,
Speaker 1: But chicken are like human and they are clean on
Speaker 1: the inside, so you can eat a chicken. But God
Speaker 1: sent a message pork is dirty and Muslim people can't
Speaker 1: eat it. And he says, oh, I can juice and
Speaker 1: juice too, and he goes, I think in all my
Speaker 1: life and all my life, a first, A first, and
Speaker 1: she's like it's okay. She's like, but I got to say,
Speaker 1: you got to taste the best one. Bacon is the
Speaker 1: best one. And he just laughs and she's like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: Like you got to have it once. So they stopped
Speaker 1: by the place where she had her car accident, and
Speaker 1: she says she hasn't been by there since the accident happened,
Speaker 1: and she reminds us she was in the car with Michaela,
Speaker 1: her husband and baby, or Mikayla, her mother and baby,
Speaker 1: and somebody just came into a distracted driver came into
Speaker 1: the lane and hit them head on and everybody was
Speaker 1: in the hospital for a week, but everybody lived. But
Speaker 1: she had to have bowel surgery. She had to have
Speaker 1: three feet of her intestines removed.
Speaker 2: She got like fifty more feet.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're good girl. It was very hard for her,
Speaker 1: obviously because she could not be there, but it was
Speaker 1: very hard for him because he could not be there
Speaker 1: with her, you know, and that's you know, that is stressful.
Speaker 1: So then talking head, he cries and says, if you
Speaker 1: would have died. I did not ever want to marry
Speaker 1: anyone that would be it. I would say that was Mallory.
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Speaker 1: they go. They go to the spot and she's like, okay,
Speaker 1: let's get out of here, right, and they kind of
Speaker 1: hug and everything. So back in the car, he says,
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you're here, that you're safe, and she
Speaker 1: says me too. It's very sweet. He goes, let's open music,
Speaker 1: so I guess whatever he played in the car is
Speaker 1: definitely not TM, not copyright. It was pirated music. So
Speaker 1: we see him dance in the car, but not to
Speaker 1: whatever they were playing. Yeah, yeah, but.
Speaker 2: It was some sort of like Turkish music.
Speaker 1: Yeah it was. Yeah. So they're on the search.
Speaker 2: For Sarper would have been stripping.
Speaker 1: Oh he hears that. He immediately's like and then he
Speaker 1: does this, his his his signature down the Yeah. So
Speaker 1: they're on a search for a bidet and she's like, well,
Speaker 1: we'll have to see what the price is on these things, right,
Speaker 1: And he goes, well, you know, this is hard for
Speaker 1: me because I don't have any money, and she's like,
Speaker 1: we have a wedding to plan, Like it's going to
Speaker 1: be stressful. So talking head, she says, you know, he
Speaker 1: has no experience living on his own and paying a
Speaker 1: more mortgage, et cetera, because in their culture they live
Speaker 1: at home well into their twenties. And then they get
Speaker 1: married and she goes, and now I got an extra
Speaker 1: mouth to feed and a butthole to clean. So they
Speaker 1: meet Heather at a place called Harrington's. They look at
Speaker 1: the bidet and he is so happy. He says, he's aroused.
Speaker 2: Yeah, sexually aroused.
Speaker 1: They sent him to the bathroom to be with his bidet.
Speaker 1: But it is one of those that like opens when
Speaker 1: you walk in. Like we've been at hotels that have
Speaker 1: had that and you're.
Speaker 2: Like yeah, wow wow.
Speaker 1: And it knows your settings and that's crazy.
Speaker 2: Yeah. My aunt just got one of those fancy ones.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Ingrid has one because her husband they were remodeling
Speaker 1: their bathroom and he's like, I don't care about a
Speaker 1: granite countertop. I don't care about a two shower shower head,
Speaker 1: a big bathtub. All I want is a fancy toilet,
Speaker 1: and she remember let him have it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a happy toilet, happy husband. Yeah, the expression Tiger
Speaker 2: Lily and Adnn got one. And I believe it was
Speaker 2: thirty thousand dollars. Didn't they say it was twenty or
Speaker 2: thirty thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: Somebody tell us.
Speaker 2: I felt like it was like that log cabin.
Speaker 1: I felt like it was like eight thousand dollars.
Speaker 2: Somebody will let us know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, you can easily get a bidet to attach
Speaker 1: to your toilet.
Speaker 2: I looked it up.
Speaker 1: It's your existing toilet. You can get one on Amazon.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thirty bucks, forty bucks, tie us with sixty bucks. Yeah,
Speaker 2: get get one come by people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to buy the entire bidet toilet.
Speaker 1: You can buy that thing. I would recommend that because
Speaker 1: then you could put on all your toilets and if
Speaker 1: it breaks, who cares. It was fifty bucks by any one,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, So anyway, she says, let's look at
Speaker 1: it cheaper one. So then they look at one that's
Speaker 1: eight hundred, and she goes, this is a want and
Speaker 1: not a need, and I'm the one paying for it.
Speaker 1: And he goes, but you have accident money. You are rich?
Speaker 1: Really talking and she tells us I got an insurance
Speaker 1: settlement and I'm not a multimillionaire. She didn't say she
Speaker 1: has a millionaire. She just said she's not a multimillionaire.
Speaker 1: And she goes, and it's in a brokerage account which
Speaker 1: I can barely access, which is good, you know, she
Speaker 1: that's good. Know yourself, know that you would spend it.
Speaker 1: So yeah, she put in an account to give it
Speaker 1: a few layers that she has to go through before
Speaker 1: she buys something big. And she goes, and it irritates
Speaker 1: me that he thinks this money that we could just
Speaker 1: blow on stupid shit like it's and it's my money
Speaker 1: and I want to build my future with it. But
Speaker 1: what if then he's not in it, then I'm broke
Speaker 1: with no money and no man. So I don't think
Speaker 1: getting him a day is stupid shit. I think it's
Speaker 1: very important for him. And they don't have to buy
Speaker 1: an eleven one hundred dollars or an eight hundred dollars one.
Speaker 1: They could. They could get a lesser mob, So this
Speaker 1: is Yeah. I think they are struggling to find issues
Speaker 1: because they're really pretty good. Yeah, yeah, are Brandon Brandy
Speaker 1: don't forget about Brandy says?
Speaker 2: And the kids? Are they going to ever bring up
Speaker 2: the kids issue?
Speaker 1: No? That was it? Well, yeah they will, but once
Speaker 1: they realized the toilet issue is not going to be
Speaker 1: a big one. Because Okay, we're going to talk next
Speaker 1: about Marissa and Edward and if you guys, miss Pink
Speaker 1: Shade live last Tuesday for on the paid feed. We
Speaker 1: do a live once a month, and I shared on
Speaker 1: there that a listener had reached out who spoiler fast
Speaker 1: forward if you don't want to know this. Marissa and
Speaker 1: Edward also got married and it was in their local
Speaker 1: thing with the florists posted about it because I guess
Speaker 1: they got the flowers for free or whatever. And this
Speaker 1: person lived in Bluebelt and said Marissa's mom is seventy
Speaker 1: five years old. Credible saw her again this week and thought,
Speaker 1: there's not any way this woman is even barely fifty
Speaker 1: five years old. Holy can Holy credible. I told this listener,
Speaker 1: not even kidding, not joking, all jokes aside, find out
Speaker 1: who this woman's doctor is, because I can drive to
Speaker 1: Pennsylvania to get work done.
Speaker 2: Yeah, except this is this work is expensive. Whatever work
Speaker 2: she's had is expensive.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right. I have to save it up for
Speaker 1: a long time. Yeah, yeah, I have to sell somewhere.
Speaker 1: Ads just a few more. Yeah, all right, Rissa and Edward,
Speaker 1: here we go.
Speaker 2: Okay, So he's fixing a fence in her backyard because
Speaker 2: it really bothered him when she said it was like
Speaker 2: having a third child. So he's trying to help out
Speaker 2: around the house, but he doesn't know how to fix
Speaker 2: the fence, so he keeps blaming it on the imbecile
Speaker 2: who fixed it before him, and it's not his fault
Speaker 2: that he doesn't know what he's doing. So he basically
Speaker 2: just welded it together so the gate part doesn't open.
Speaker 2: He just hammered it. But and he shows her and
Speaker 2: he's so proud, and she's like, what if we need
Speaker 2: to use the gate part? And he's like, no, you don't.
Speaker 2: You can go around the other way. She's like, what
Speaker 2: if the gardeners need to come in. He's like, no,
Speaker 2: they can go through the house. It's fine with their lawnmower.
Speaker 1: But she was like when like, we have a fence
Speaker 1: around part of our backyard and one side does have
Speaker 1: a gate and the other side doesn't. So her whole
Speaker 1: thing was like, what if, like the guy needs to
Speaker 1: come in to mow the lawns, he goes he can
Speaker 1: go through the other side. She's like, no, he can't,
Speaker 1: there's no gate over there. That's the point of a
Speaker 1: gate is to be able to come into the backyard. Hilarious, hilarious.
Speaker 2: I was thinking, like, what if there's a fire, Yeah,
Speaker 2: like you're trapped in your backyard.
Speaker 1: She just boosts everybody up over I guess yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So he keeps saying it's fixed, it, fixed it, And
Speaker 2: they're holding hands as they're walking around looking at the
Speaker 2: fence like they love each other, but they actually each other.
Speaker 2: There's so much tension and she's very cold. So she says,
Speaker 2: in the last few days, a lot of concerns have
Speaker 2: come into her head. Yes, yes, I'm excited. Yes, yes
Speaker 2: I'm excited, But I am I really wanting to take
Speaker 2: on another child in my life? And also why did
Speaker 2: I fall in love with the child? Because she never
Speaker 2: really asked that question. She never says. It's always like,
Speaker 2: do I want to take care of another child? It's
Speaker 2: not what in me. Sought out this man to date
Speaker 2: and then Mary.
Speaker 1: And then keep it up so far as to get married.
Speaker 2: Yes, this man who you consider a third child, because
Speaker 2: that's weird. So she wants him to step up and
Speaker 2: be a man and do things on his own without her,
Speaker 2: and she feels like she's holding his hand through every step.
Speaker 2: And then she sees the other side of the fence,
Speaker 2: which he has just it up four ugly boards that
Speaker 2: are broken, like he snapped them over his knees and
Speaker 2: just hammered them haphazardly in janky angles. That just ceiling
Speaker 2: the gate shut and it looks like crap. And she
Speaker 2: lives in a really nice neighborhood.
Speaker 1: It looks like literally like what a cartoon would be
Speaker 1: when you see a cartoon like nailing up a closed
Speaker 1: sign or something. It's like just like like a house
Speaker 1: that the three little pigs built or something like. That's
Speaker 1: what it looks like. It is so comical that you
Speaker 1: think there's not anyway he did that and thought this
Speaker 1: is the solution.
Speaker 2: This looks good. Yeah, at least make them parallel to
Speaker 2: each other or something something. Yeah, it looks like a
Speaker 2: meth house. Let's do it.
Speaker 1: It does.
Speaker 2: So she's like, my neighbor is gonna look and see
Speaker 2: how poor she keeps her house, like this is so embarrassing.
Speaker 2: And he says, well, I don't care about people opinions,
Speaker 2: and she says I do, and my house represents me.
Speaker 2: And he goes, I don't care.
Speaker 1: Who cares.
Speaker 2: They don't pay our bills and she says, but I
Speaker 2: pay your bills and I care Yike, just say and
Speaker 2: she says, just say yes, honey, And he's like, okay, babe,
Speaker 2: it's fine.
Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So she says, I need this cleaned up immediately, not
Speaker 2: in an hour now, because I am mortified that everyone
Speaker 2: driving by s he's the white trash house.
Speaker 1: So again, yeah, he found an old piece of like
Speaker 1: ceiling molding in the garage and like broke it over
Speaker 1: his knee and each that it's like a piece of wood,
Speaker 1: a piece of like Amazon box, a piece of molding,
Speaker 1: Like it's crazy, it's crazy.
Speaker 2: Yah. Yeah, but she is talking to him like he's
Speaker 2: a teenager. But again he is acting like one where
Speaker 2: you I felt like I don't even have anyone in
Speaker 2: my life where I have to constantly be on them.
Speaker 2: You have a child and a husband that would probably
Speaker 2: like this, two children where it's like can you do this?
Speaker 2: And they'll say yes, but then they need help with
Speaker 2: every single step or do it wrong and you have
Speaker 2: to fix it.
Speaker 1: Yep.
Speaker 2: That's got to be really annoying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hard to do everything, it is, especially when
Speaker 1: you have water pouring through your ceilings.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So he tells us no matter what I do,
Speaker 2: I feel like it's not good enough, it's not up
Speaker 2: to her standards. And she's always cutting me down and
Speaker 2: insulting me, and I don't like it. So then they
Speaker 2: are driving into New York because she is now has
Speaker 2: to work, and she is eating gram crackers, which was
Speaker 2: good to see because yeah, honestly, I thought she just
Speaker 2: ate protein shakes with half heart boiled it.
Speaker 1: Yeah. A little carbo. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So he says he's excited to be free in New
Speaker 2: York without this bitch who is made to him. Essentially,
Speaker 2: he is Kevin McAllister home alone too. He is on
Speaker 2: the streets of New York, running wild, making friends with
Speaker 2: the pigeon lady. It's going to be great times.
Speaker 1: Did you think it was like take your son to workday?
Speaker 2: Yes, a little bit. Yeah, she might need to put
Speaker 2: him on a leash because New York is very crowded
Speaker 2: and you can lose someone.
Speaker 1: He's get an air tag in ring pocket. Yeah, uh huh.
Speaker 2: So he is going to be a tourist. So she says, okay,
Speaker 2: do you have money and he says, oh, I have
Speaker 2: a couple hundreds And she says did you bring it
Speaker 2: with you? And he says, no, I don't have a wallet,
Speaker 2: so I need to buy a wallet. She's like, how
Speaker 2: are you gonna buy a wallet if you don't have money?
Speaker 2: Do you have a credit card?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: So she's like, how do you just are going to
Speaker 2: be alone in a big city with no money or
Speaker 2: no ID? He really needs ID? Yeah?
Speaker 1: In this day and age taken down by yeah exactly. Yea.
Speaker 2: So she's like, I feel like he just flies by
Speaker 2: the seat of his pants and I don't want to
Speaker 2: worry about him, like I have another child. And she
Speaker 2: says this so much, so she says, you know, I
Speaker 2: feel like I've been cold to you lately, and I
Speaker 2: am sorry about that. But these past few days have
Speaker 2: not been easy for me. We just live very different lifestyles.
Speaker 2: I work full time and I am a full time mom.
Speaker 2: And he says, well, I can help you, and she says,
Speaker 2: I need you to be self sufficient. I don't have
Speaker 2: the bandwidth to take on another person. And he says, honestly, like,
Speaker 2: you just need to calm down. You're being too loud.
Speaker 2: Calm down, and you decide the kind of life you have,
Speaker 2: and you're going to live in two cities and have
Speaker 2: a big house and a big, high power job. You're
Speaker 2: going to be stressed out. And she's like, no, because
Speaker 2: I didn't know that when I got married and had
Speaker 2: two kids that my marriage was going to fall apart
Speaker 2: and I would have to raise these kids on my
Speaker 2: own most of the time and pay for everything and
Speaker 2: need to support myself with a big job in the
Speaker 2: city and all this stuff. So she takes offense to
Speaker 2: that and He's like, life can be tough, but you
Speaker 2: have to deal with it. And she's like, I'm overwhelmed
Speaker 2: and I'm taking on more expenses and another person in
Speaker 2: my life and but all those harboiled eggs and cheat.
Speaker 1: She's being so rude to him, so rude, so rude.
Speaker 2: But also he is a little dismissive of her concerns.
Speaker 2: He's very like, well, it'll work itself out, like whatever.
Speaker 1: Right, I don't think he's had enough time to sort
Speaker 1: of see like I got to get up in the morning,
Speaker 1: I got to get the kids to school or camp
Speaker 1: or whatever, and then I got a half the time
Speaker 1: drive into New York City. You know, it's a lot.
Speaker 2: It's a lot. So and she was hoping to have
Speaker 2: a male nanny and a housekeeper and a part time
Speaker 2: father who can do that stuff for her.
Speaker 3: Which, by the way, I think he would be glad
Speaker 3: to all of someone, you know, I think he would
Speaker 3: be glad to do all that fun stuff.
Speaker 1: She just if he doesn't do it her way, then
Speaker 1: he gets so it's like he can't win if he
Speaker 1: tries to help a kiuse he doesn't do it right,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you just have to let go of the rains
Speaker 2: a tiny bit, and it's gonna get done, but it'll
Speaker 2: get done differently, and it might not be perfect. There
Speaker 2: might still be crumbs on the counter, but you can
Speaker 2: just you're gonna have to learn to deal with that
Speaker 2: or hire someone to do this stuff for you. You have
Speaker 2: a professional and that's and then don't rely on this
Speaker 2: man who's supposed to be your romantic partner to do
Speaker 2: this stuff.
Speaker 1: It's very layered.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is. So she's like, I'm taking on more
Speaker 2: expenses and blah blah blah. She's like, I don't think
Speaker 2: he's taking my concerns seriously or getting it. And she
Speaker 2: says to him, look, I just need to decide if
Speaker 2: this is the right path for me. She says that
Speaker 2: over and over again, like I have a big decision
Speaker 2: to make if this is going to work out in
Speaker 2: my life. And so finally he says, it's not just you.
Speaker 2: I also have to decide if this is right for me,
Speaker 2: and I'm making a mistake, like because it's always about her.
Speaker 2: She has the upper hand and she makes the final
Speaker 2: decision on if they get married or not. He can
Speaker 2: decide as well to go back to his country. This
Speaker 2: he had a fine life there. Yes, it's not like
Speaker 2: he won the lottery with her, and right, no one
Speaker 2: would ever turn that down. He could turn that down,
Speaker 2: and she needs to realize that. So that's it.
Speaker 1: She bugs. She does.
Speaker 2: Unfortunately she's getting a really bad edit.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and her mom was seventy five. Okay, okay.
Speaker 1: So Asha and Maxwell. So he's getting ready in his
Speaker 1: room and says, today, Ash and are going to go
Speaker 1: to the market. And I'm nervous because now I realize
Speaker 1: after the dinner last night, I need to be around
Speaker 1: to keep everyone in check, especially Asia, Like if they're
Speaker 1: all going to be together, I need to be there.
Speaker 1: So the producer asked him, how would you feel if
Speaker 1: you're family doesn't like her? And he's like, oh, and
Speaker 1: she sort of walks in at that moment, and as
Speaker 1: he's like, oh, I'll cross that bridge when I come
Speaker 1: to it, right, And so she walks in while he's
Speaker 1: getting dressed, and she's telling him what to wear, and
Speaker 1: the producer asked them and the talking head together, do
Speaker 1: you think that Maxwell has a good sense of fashion?
Speaker 1: And she's like, oh lord, I'm gonna get in trouble,
Speaker 1: but I have it ingrained in my mind that blue
Speaker 1: suit he wore when he first picked me up, and
Speaker 1: he said, well, he basically said, I've watched the show
Speaker 1: and seen how people show up to show their culture.
Speaker 2: Yeah, or other shows like I think, like any show
Speaker 2: you know when someone's at the airport with flowers.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I kind of felt like he'd watched this show.
Speaker 1: It's possible, Yeah, he said, So I wore a blue senator,
Speaker 1: which I guess is the name of the outfit to
Speaker 1: sell my culture. And she's like, you don't need to
Speaker 1: sell it to me. I didn't need to see that. No. Meanwhile,
Speaker 1: they show her and she is in green skin tight
Speaker 1: leggings and a matching tank top.
Speaker 2: I thought he looked better than she did. I didn't
Speaker 2: mind that blue suit either. The boots made it look
Speaker 2: like he was an inmate a little bit, like a
Speaker 2: little bit so, but I did. I didn't mind the suit.
Speaker 2: I thought it was a nice color.
Speaker 1: She's like, where I come from, we say, he look
Speaker 1: real country. Okay, girl. So they talk and she's like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pick out what you're gonna wear, Like, you
Speaker 1: can't wear long sleeves, you'll be hot. That short sleeve
Speaker 1: of work, it'll go with what I'm wearing, and he's like,
Speaker 1: you're wasting time in here. Go get ready, go, you know,
Speaker 1: you don't us to stand here and tell me what
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 2: She's that she thinks she's like Kim Kardashian or something,
Speaker 2: and like every time they step out on the town
Speaker 2: in the African market, they have to wear like color
Speaker 2: coordinated outfits because they're the king and queen and people
Speaker 2: are gonna be taking paparazzi photos of them or something
Speaker 2: like calm down.
Speaker 1: Remember Montana Mills and Justine us everything they want with Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's too much. So talking to her, he says, you know,
Speaker 1: she's bossy, and my family expects peace, love and respect,
Speaker 1: and I don't want them to misunderstand her.
Speaker 2: So he goes in there understanding they understand.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So he goes to her room and is like, Okay,
Speaker 1: you gotta get ready. She's like, don't rush me, and
Speaker 1: he goes, Now, remember when we go down, you say
Speaker 1: good morning, ma'am, good morning sir. Because they are traumatized
Speaker 1: already from what you're trying to change about me. I
Speaker 1: love He's traumatized, and he goes, my mom doesn't like
Speaker 1: the idea of you changing my eyes, my nose, my mouth,
Speaker 1: and she goes, you didn't even explain to them about
Speaker 1: your eye thing. And he goes and don't say anything
Speaker 1: about my hair again. The eye thing. We've had several
Speaker 1: listeners write me and I'm sure as you as well,
Speaker 1: that what he has is an actual condition where something
Speaker 1: does grow in addition to over the white part of
Speaker 1: your eye can grow into your eyeball. And they say
Speaker 1: it's literally like an outpatient surgery at the eye doctor
Speaker 1: to get it fixed, and it is. It does from
Speaker 1: lots of people in countries where they have like severe
Speaker 1: sun damage to their eyes that'll happen.
Speaker 2: So what she wants him to fix is not just aesthetic,
Speaker 2: it is.
Speaker 1: For his vision.
Speaker 2: Is a medical condition. Okay, the rest, the rest is aesthetic.
Speaker 1: Yeah, chemical peel, change the hairline, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So the talking head she goes, yeah, I felt
Speaker 1: attacked at that dinner. They were not listening about the skincare,
Speaker 1: they were not listening about his eye condition. I've suggested
Speaker 1: these things and he's been completely on board. So I
Speaker 1: was shocked when he didn't have my back. I think
Speaker 1: he was kind of embarrassed, Yeah, that he was letting
Speaker 1: a woman kind of make him over.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So she walks in goes hello mom, hello dad, Hey mom,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, and he says, baby, correct yourself, and
Speaker 1: she goes, oh, good morning mom, good morning dad. So
Speaker 1: in the talking head he explains, you don't say hey
Speaker 1: to somebody out of respect. You just don't. You don't
Speaker 1: do it here. You say good morning, sir or ma'am.
Speaker 1: That's how you do it. To me, this seems like
Speaker 1: a very very easy fix, a very easy thing to explain.
Speaker 1: Like when you're in France, you when you walk into
Speaker 1: anywhere it's a taxi, a store, a restaurant, it is
Speaker 1: very rude if you don't say bonchour once while, and
Speaker 1: you may feel stupid doing it. Even if you just
Speaker 1: say hello, good morning. If you don't greet somebody, every
Speaker 1: single person that you walk past, that they consider it rude.
Speaker 1: And so it's a show of respect for their culture.
Speaker 1: And it just seems so easy. He just says, don't
Speaker 1: say hey, say good morning.
Speaker 2: Are not saying that you have to kneel on the
Speaker 2: ground like they made Danielle do constantly in her season.
Speaker 2: Also like no, sorry, Lisa, I'm thinking, Oh Lisa.
Speaker 1: Was constantly having to kneel and then like submit Jimmy
Speaker 1: and Jinny and the Indian culture you always have to
Speaker 1: lean down and touch the feet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all that she's saying is that the words you
Speaker 2: have to use. That she's being difficult on purpose. This
Speaker 2: is so easy to respect their culture by doing this.
Speaker 1: Good morning, How are you a bitch? Instead of hey?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's all.
Speaker 1: So he tells he's telling the parents, we're going to
Speaker 1: go to the market and have some alone time. We're
Speaker 1: going to discuss the visa and what we're going to do.
Speaker 1: And the mother says, you're not going to discuss these
Speaker 1: things in the house, and he says, we're going to
Speaker 1: go alone and discuss it first, and he goes, don't worry, mom,
Speaker 1: while we're gone, We're not gonna work on my nose
Speaker 1: or my eyes or my ears. Don't worry, and he
Speaker 1: kind of laughs. She's not amused, she's nice, angry.
Speaker 2: Taraji p Henson is full of hate this morning.
Speaker 1: And I got to say, now I'm saying it. She
Speaker 1: does look like Traji Vinson.
Speaker 2: We need to do a side by side because they
Speaker 2: have like very similar noses and features, but she's not
Speaker 2: as obviously beautiful. I definitely felt like she's very angry.
Speaker 1: I definitely felt like I sweetie Mama, seemed like she's
Speaker 1: very upset. I took some screenshots because I thought it
Speaker 1: was pretty funny. Let's see if I could find the
Speaker 1: other one.
Speaker 2: That her outfit. The mom's outfit also is wild, big
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Speaker 1: in our culture, being submissive means you obey the man,
Speaker 1: whether he has money or not. You must, whether he
Speaker 1: is short, whether he is tall, whether or not he
Speaker 1: knows how to dress well. You must because the woman
Speaker 1: cannot disobey. You don't want the man to see you
Speaker 1: as somebody who is so arrogant. I am weak, I
Speaker 1: tell you I am weak. And again, that is their culture.
Speaker 1: And I don't think you and I don't think it's
Speaker 1: so literal as to woman get me a cup of coffee.
Speaker 1: I think it's a it's based on mutual respect. But
Speaker 1: the man is the head of the household and makes
Speaker 1: the big decisions, you know.
Speaker 2: And you're not going to change their culture, especially not
Speaker 2: one person in a few days. Like no, just respect
Speaker 2: it while you're there.
Speaker 1: So they're in the car and Asha is showing Maxwell
Speaker 1: the joy of the personal fan. Just look at it,
Speaker 1: Look at it. I've got one right here.
Speaker 2: Yes, I love it, the joy loves fan.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I want one of those circle ones that you clip it.
Speaker 1: To your shirt.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Kimberly, I only have the neck ones.
Speaker 1: I the one the one that you clip to your shirt.
Speaker 1: You can also clip to your and it'll blow up
Speaker 1: your dress.
Speaker 2: Ah, genius.
Speaker 1: Good. So they're in the car and she's showing him
Speaker 1: the fan and she's like, now you want one, don't you.
Speaker 1: He's like, no, he did, and she says, it seems
Speaker 1: your mom was mad at me, and he goes, no,
Speaker 1: I didn't notice that, but I told you how to
Speaker 1: address them. Not. Hey, it's so simple. Looking ahead, she says,
Speaker 1: when I first met the parents, I called them mom
Speaker 1: and dad right away, and he didn't tell me any
Speaker 1: of this. And now it's the second time with them,
Speaker 1: and it's something new. That's crazy. Okay, Well, just do it.
Speaker 1: It's not hard. Just do it.
Speaker 2: He didn't want to correct you on your first time there.
Speaker 2: They gave you allowances because it was your first time visiting.
Speaker 2: Right now, you know better, so do it.
Speaker 1: I think it's so easy. So she goes, why do
Speaker 1: you care? Are you dating me or are you dating
Speaker 1: your family? And he says you were dating me and
Speaker 1: my family, and she goes, m mmmm, that's not true.
Speaker 1: It's not biblical that way. And you know, let me
Speaker 1: tell you something. If the visa was approved, you'd already
Speaker 1: be in the us with me right now and not
Speaker 1: even worried about them.
Speaker 2: Are you saying it's his fault the visa wasn't approved.
Speaker 1: And you're also saying once he gets to the US,
Speaker 1: he's just gonna say fuck my family, Like no, also.
Speaker 2: You brought your mom on this trip because what the
Speaker 2: parents think is important, right totally.
Speaker 1: So he goes, yeah, but right now you're here, and
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want all of this advice of
Speaker 1: this is I don't want their advice, like are you
Speaker 1: doing the right thing? Is this a mistake? Like he
Speaker 1: doesn't want to hear it from them, And she goes, well,
Speaker 1: you should have been worried about that the first or
Speaker 1: the second time I came here, not the third. He goes, well,
Speaker 1: now I'm thinking about the visa, and now I'm thinking
Speaker 1: maybe it's a sign. Maybe God doesn't want us to
Speaker 1: be married. No, he can't bring God into it because
Speaker 1: God speaks to her directly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because she'll he'll just be like, no, God's telling me, no, bitch,
Speaker 2: God's telling me. He just told me. I'm listening to
Speaker 2: him right now. Special like Sarrah, no diversarec liked to
Speaker 2: do here?
Speaker 1: Yep? God breaking news.
Speaker 2: He just told me you're full of shit. You could
Speaker 2: do it for anything. He could tell me he wants
Speaker 2: you to change your outfit because he doesn't like that
Speaker 2: blue on you. He told me that you need eye
Speaker 2: surgery and fix your hairline right now.
Speaker 1: So she says, did you change your mind? Are you confused?
Speaker 1: And he goes, yeah, a little bit. And she says
Speaker 1: you ought to be ashamed of yourself. You're letting other
Speaker 1: folks make your decisions. And I thought you weren't like that.
Speaker 1: I thought you made decisions for yourself. And he says
Speaker 1: I do. I do, But if your mom didn't support us,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't want to get married. Uh huh, And she goes,
Speaker 1: she would only say that if there was a reason,
Speaker 1: like being abusive or cheating, and he.
Speaker 2: Says, well, you're kind of being a bitch.
Speaker 1: He says, well, my parents might think you're being disrespectful
Speaker 1: to them, and she goes, that's a misunderstanding and he goes, no,
Speaker 1: you're misunderstanding the culture. And she says, stop yelling in
Speaker 1: my ear. He goes, I'm yelling so it will stick
Speaker 1: into your head.
Speaker 2: I didn't feel like he was yelling.
Speaker 1: Did you barely getting agitated.
Speaker 2: You know, his voice went like one octave higher. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: Like I don't think the uber driver even would have
Speaker 2: turned around.
Speaker 1: No, I agree. So the talking head, she goes, this
Speaker 1: is not the man I fell in love with. He
Speaker 1: is raising his voice to me and disrespecting God. He
Speaker 1: is letting his family come in and waiver what he believes. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's not that. Okay, just say good morning instead of hey,
Speaker 1: not art.
Speaker 2: This could have all been avoided.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So in the market, as they're walking around, he goes, Okay,
Speaker 1: now you'll need to behave and she goes, you better
Speaker 1: stop using that word. So they shop and she finds
Speaker 1: some things that she likes and the market looks very cool,
Speaker 1: and she's like, I love to shop, and he says
Speaker 1: he hates it. But he's bargaining, you know, when they're
Speaker 1: saying a price and they're going back and forth. The
Speaker 1: talking head, she says, in the United he says, the
Speaker 1: price is the price. And I can't believe it with
Speaker 1: this bargaining. But I like it when he does it.
Speaker 1: I think it's sexy. So they're talking in a story
Speaker 1: and because you need to get something for your mom,
Speaker 1: and he gets the mam a purse. They bargain on
Speaker 1: the price.
Speaker 2: Now she's like, God told me he only wants me
Speaker 2: to pay ten dollars for this purse.
Speaker 1: And you should listen because God speaks to her directly.
Speaker 1: So now the apartment, Maria says, now that they're gone,
Speaker 1: we can discuss things. Juliette to Asia's mom. So Clement
Speaker 1: and Maria sit to talk with Juliette, and Maria says,
Speaker 1: Asia wants to change his eyes, change his face. All
Speaker 1: of these things are no good. God hates it. Oh,
Speaker 1: now Marie is bringing God in.
Speaker 2: And what if you all speak to God but God
Speaker 2: is telling you all something different? How do you decide?
Speaker 1: Why has God being so messy? And tell him his different?
Speaker 2: I know he's gossip. He's telling one person. It's like
Speaker 2: the valley. He's telling one person and then another person
Speaker 2: something else.
Speaker 1: She says, God hates it. God says, you keep things
Speaker 1: in a natural state the way he made it, and
Speaker 1: Juliette says, well, I think she just wanted his skin
Speaker 1: to be smooth and better. And Maria says, in Africa,
Speaker 1: women submit to the husband and if there's an issue
Speaker 1: of money, she just thinks she has everything and the
Speaker 1: mom says, no, I don't think just because Asha makes
Speaker 1: money that she would try to push Maxwell around. I mean,
Speaker 1: she could have found somebody that really had a lot
Speaker 1: of money. She is thirty eight, and she could have
Speaker 1: been married years ago. So I'm talking head. Maria says,
Speaker 1: I am shocked to hear that Asia is approximately forty.
Speaker 1: I'm age twenty five up to thirty five is okay,
Speaker 1: but thirty eight is no. I don't want her to
Speaker 1: be a problem for my son, and he will obey
Speaker 1: his mama.
Speaker 2: I loved this so freaking much.
Speaker 1: Maria says to juliet after above age twenty five, thirty
Speaker 1: is much matured, because after that you cannot marry and
Speaker 1: you cannot take care of children in that old age.
Speaker 1: And mom says, oh okay. So Juliette says, so that's
Speaker 1: too old to get married, and Clement says the woman
Speaker 1: should be thirty maximum. And then he says menopause is
Speaker 1: knocking on the door at thirty and Maria says, yes,
Speaker 1: that is true, menopause. I am very afraid. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: I am very afraid. Honestly, if Asia were nicer, I
Speaker 2: would feel bad for.
Speaker 1: Her, calling her and oldie.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's so bitchy and I can't wait for
Speaker 2: her to find out that her mom spilled the beans
Speaker 2: on how old she was or did she not know?
Speaker 2: Did she think the parents knew?
Speaker 1: So?
Speaker 2: Was Maxwell hiding this on purpose? How old is Maxwell?
Speaker 2: He's quite a bit younger.
Speaker 1: Okay, so he's twenty eight, she's thirty eight.
Speaker 2: Yeah, ten years. I cannot wait for her to find out.
Speaker 2: This is going to be now they have another reason
Speaker 2: to hate her. I'm so excited this is and Juliet,
Speaker 2: you could see her. She's like, they.
Speaker 1: Didn't know, they didn't know. I don't know what we
Speaker 1: don't know what age Maxwell said she was though.
Speaker 2: Right, I mean she's leary. Yeah, incredible.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's go on to Thomas and Paula. So they're bugging.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. If he's so allergic, why isn't he
Speaker 2: carrying an EpiPen or benadryl around And why did he
Speaker 2: get over the bottle with the lid open. I'm still
Speaker 2: not over it. I can't. And again, I see all
Speaker 2: the listeners that have invisible ill like diseases and allergies
Speaker 2: and stuff. He is full of crap. And also, if
Speaker 2: you have Krohne's disease. You're not supposed to eat all
Speaker 2: that beef, like you're not supposed to eat paleo. So
Speaker 2: I don't know what he's doing. So, yeah, he's wrong
Speaker 2: about everything.
Speaker 1: A lot of people wrote to say like, no, you
Speaker 1: can have like severe reactions, and I get all that,
Speaker 1: like you can have a severe reaction to smells and
Speaker 1: things like that, and I get it. I just think
Speaker 1: that from what she has said, he's around people with
Speaker 1: perfume all the time and never is bothered. It's only
Speaker 1: because she did it.
Speaker 2: So and he chose to stand over the bottle and
Speaker 2: glue it shut with brand open and had no reaction.
Speaker 1: Right, So unclear what his problem is, but continue.
Speaker 2: So she shows some of these tiny little spoons that
Speaker 2: she can, these miniatures, and she's like, what do the
Speaker 2: make you think of? And he says a bad investment.
Speaker 2: They make me remember how warm and cozy a family
Speaker 2: can be, like cooking in a kitchen together. Sometimes I
Speaker 2: cry because I'm manifesting so hard and my manifesting comes true.
Speaker 2: And he says, You're manifesting comes true because I'm paying
Speaker 2: the bills, And he's like, this was ninety cents so
Speaker 2: stop pitching, and he says, it all adds up. Look
Speaker 2: at all these packages you ordered, and there's like piles
Speaker 2: of Amazon packages that she has ordered.
Speaker 1: Is my house because that's what my house looks like. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So she's like, we need these things because this
Speaker 2: is not a rotel room. And we did not laugh
Speaker 2: good for him, and she says to us like I
Speaker 2: gave her a credit card. I trusted her, and she's
Speaker 2: abusing that trust. Okay, she just wants a couch, so
Speaker 2: she ordered a mini couch because she's gonna manifest it
Speaker 2: into a regular couch. Who knew couch drama would be
Speaker 2: so big on this show because Katie and Josh also
Speaker 2: had couch drama.
Speaker 1: Okay, but here's a question. When we saw last week
Speaker 1: when they were putting things in the closet, they did
Speaker 1: seem to be in a bedroom.
Speaker 2: They only have that bed, so that's the only place
Speaker 2: they can lay down, so or sit.
Speaker 1: Is there a bedroom in addition to the bed in
Speaker 1: the living room?
Speaker 2: I think there is, or it's a cordon off space
Speaker 2: like a studio apartment. But okay, it's a little bit
Speaker 2: of a separate space. They have room for a couch.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't understand why the bed is not in
Speaker 1: the bedroom. There's not a couch in the living room.
Speaker 2: Well, because it's multifunctional, so it's stupid. He likes looking
Speaker 2: out that window, remember, So he lays down to drink
Speaker 2: his coffee, completely horizontal, drinking his coffee like, that's not
Speaker 2: going to spill all over you.
Speaker 1: You can get a couch with an automan and get
Speaker 1: real low. Yeah, that's what I do real. I guess
Speaker 1: he's not allergic to burning coffee burns. So she wants
Speaker 1: to manifest a real couch and he's like, fine, let's
Speaker 1: just keep this mini one and not get a real one.
Speaker 2: That's a compromise. No, that's not a compromise. And then
Speaker 2: she lies and says that it was on clearance, the
Speaker 2: mini couch. So she says, look, I don't feel welcome here.
Speaker 2: It's like he doesn't want to commit to buying furniture,
Speaker 2: which means it's like he's not committing to our relationship,
Speaker 2: like I'm going to be here long term. And so
Speaker 2: she goes to visit their neighbors, Felix and Anderson, who
Speaker 2: she met because the doorman, there's a doorman in that building.
Speaker 2: I don't know any apartments in of doorman.
Speaker 1: That's cool, Nancy.
Speaker 2: It's like New York City. So the doorman said, there's
Speaker 2: another Brazilian who lives here, and so she met them
Speaker 2: and one of the guys is Brazilian and so she
Speaker 2: knocks on the door and she's like surprise, even though
Speaker 2: there's a camera crew in their apartment. And she loves
Speaker 2: their apartment because it looks like a it looks like
Speaker 2: a store.
Speaker 1: It's yes, nothing there, Yeah, it looks nice. It looks
Speaker 1: very staged. Yes. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So she's like, wow, you have a couch and a table,
Speaker 2: and I have a bed couch and I have a
Speaker 2: camping table and we have to sit squatting on yoga
Speaker 2: blocks and it's horrible. And they say Thomas is a
Speaker 2: little challenging. So now you have neighbors who are also
Speaker 2: seeing it that he is the problem.
Speaker 1: Yes, and it's a little strange. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So she says, I'm sorry to vent. It's just I
Speaker 2: work so hard in Brazil and I'm here, I'm living
Speaker 2: like I'm homeless. Well, you have an apartment, but you
Speaker 2: just want to couch. So she's like, I have boss
Speaker 2: and power and tattoos that remind me of who I am,
Speaker 2: because I feel so worthless here and I was. She said,
Speaker 2: I was married before in Brazil, and I dealt with
Speaker 2: these bad issues and it ended very badly, and I
Speaker 2: don't want to be treated like that again. So yeah,
Speaker 2: no more details about that. She says, I love Thomas,
Speaker 2: but I love myself more and I don't need to
Speaker 2: beg for things that are so normal to have, yeah,
Speaker 2: like a couch and I'm living like a refugee in
Speaker 2: my apartment again. All right, it's not you are being
Speaker 2: a little dramatic. Yeah, They're both pretty dramatic in their
Speaker 2: own ways. So another day they are rollerblading, and well,
Speaker 2: he's rollerblading and pulling her on a skateboard, and she
Speaker 2: tells him that she really wants furniture, and she wants
Speaker 2: more closet space because she's still living out of that
Speaker 2: little hallway coat closet and.
Speaker 1: She's he gave her one tiny bin, yeah.
Speaker 2: On one cube, And she says, I feel like a
Speaker 2: guest in your life, and I don't like feeling like that,
Speaker 2: and I want as nice a life as I had
Speaker 2: in Brazil, because WHI else am I here? If I'm
Speaker 2: not getting the life I had in Brazil, and he
Speaker 2: feels like she doesn't appreciate all that he did to
Speaker 2: bring her here. He paid for the fees, he filled
Speaker 2: out the paperwork, and he gave her a credit card.
Speaker 2: And he says, when I visited you in Brazil, you
Speaker 2: gave me five hangars to put my clothes on. And
Speaker 2: she said, but you were visiting, you had five shirts here.
Speaker 2: Now yeah, and you have five shirts I live here now,
Speaker 2: so it's not the same thing. And he says, your
Speaker 2: closet is still empty in that coat closet because I
Speaker 2: think she hasn't unpacked at all because there's no room
Speaker 2: to put things in. So he goes when it's full,
Speaker 2: we'll talk and she's like, fine, I'm just going to
Speaker 2: go back to Brazil. And life in Brazil is easy
Speaker 2: with no drama. Here, I am fighting for everything and
Speaker 2: I'm tired.
Speaker 1: Good. Good. She's not gonna go back to herself.
Speaker 2: She's not well.
Speaker 1: We don't know if they get married. That hasn't been
Speaker 1: spoiled for us. We don't know if they got married.
Speaker 2: No, but I feel like it's probably a yes. It's
Speaker 2: always a yes, no matter how much you think they're
Speaker 2: gonna call it off. They always get married.
Speaker 1: If Debbie and Medo get married, everybody get married. Yep, yeah,
Speaker 1: because the Lord knows. Alrighty, Shaye and Annabel. Okay, Annabel
Speaker 1: is making Shae a smoothie and she goes, no, it's
Speaker 1: so good. Have it. She hands it to him and
Speaker 1: he tastes it, says it's good, and she looks at
Speaker 1: the camera and says, I put twelve milligrams of ozembic
Speaker 1: in there, and I'm just gonna put the shot in
Speaker 1: once a week. He won't know, and she's and he's like,
Speaker 1: oh man, I gotta I gotta drink this protein smoothie
Speaker 1: and normal, but have beer or something. She goes, I
Speaker 1: told you, when you get here, the fun is over.
Speaker 1: So in the talking did together, he says he's been
Speaker 1: in an adjustment. She's arrived on my friends or texts
Speaker 1: and called like, hey, the game's on, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm watching it here with Annabel and protein smoothie. But babe, babe,
Speaker 1: I already feel good. I feel like I lost weight.
Speaker 1: Look babe, look babe. And he's holding up and he's
Speaker 1: pulling up a shirt and everything. She's like, sit down, No,
Speaker 1: you haven't he's Almolla, get I'm gonna get batteries for
Speaker 1: that scale and then I will prove it because he
Speaker 1: let the batteries die in the scale.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I'm glad he's feeling better, but she needs to
Speaker 2: address the litany of doctors and specialists that we have recommended.
Speaker 2: Uh dermatologists, kidney and liver doctor, dentist. Get his A
Speaker 2: one C checked. Yeah, heard cardio echo work up. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna need it all.
Speaker 1: We need it all. And somebody did write and I
Speaker 1: could have been in reality Gay's Facebook group, but it
Speaker 1: was one of the It could have been an A Yurcher's.
Speaker 1: I don't know, don't at me. I can't remember, but
Speaker 1: it could have been mine. It could have been my
Speaker 1: Facebook group. But somebody wrote in one of those groups
Speaker 1: that they had run into him in Kentucky and he
Speaker 1: lost like seventy pounds.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so he's.
Speaker 2: To be doing a good job Annabelle.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So in the talking head alone, he says, ever
Speaker 1: since the SPA Day, I think Alison and annabel are
Speaker 1: getting along better. I don't know. I am kind of
Speaker 1: worried that my relationship with Alison, my favorite daughter, could suffer.
Speaker 1: He doesn't say favorite daughter, but she is so Yeah.
Speaker 1: They get in the car and he goes, well, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be nice to see Alison. You at sad Yours
Speaker 1: is nail salon, And you know, I feel bad. She
Speaker 1: called me yesterday asked me go to lunch. I was busy.
Speaker 1: I been so busy. So they go to the grocery
Speaker 1: store to meet up with Alison and Cruz and I
Speaker 1: can't remember her daughter's same.
Speaker 2: Yeah. This is also he can pay for her groceries.
Speaker 1: I'm sure, but it's interesting, like they sort of tried
Speaker 1: to act like great to see you here, like we
Speaker 1: ran the car, he said, they're going to see her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was planned.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So Annabelle is looking stuff to make chicken adobo
Speaker 1: and Alice says, oh my gosh, if you have that,
Speaker 1: please have me over, and her cute little daughter is
Speaker 1: kissing her, and her little two year old son has
Speaker 1: his own little cart is going around with cute Alison
Speaker 1: asked about Nicole, and you know, Nicole says you've been
Speaker 1: cheating or something, and he goes, well, now you and
Speaker 1: annabel already talks, so now we don't need to bring
Speaker 1: this up anymore, right, And I said, why are we
Speaker 1: doing this in the grocery store in front of the children,
Speaker 1: talking about granddad being a cheater.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: And the daughter is right there kissing her mom on
Speaker 1: the face. Yeah. And so I got to say tell
Speaker 1: you something. I think her lips look good.
Speaker 3: Alison's yeah, I do too, Yeah, because I know you
Speaker 3: said that her dad paid for all the lip filler.
Speaker 1: But I don't think they look bad. They don't look.
Speaker 2: Crazy, no, I know. I think they look fine.
Speaker 1: So Day and Annabelle are like, we got through it,
Speaker 1: we talked it through. Everything is fine, and Alica goes, well,
Speaker 1: since she didn't go to lunch with me yesterday, now
Speaker 1: I'm going to bring up did you ask Nicole to
Speaker 1: get all her stuff out of your shed? Now? Annabel
Speaker 1: is holding the little daughter and like rocking her back
Speaker 1: and forth, and it's so sweet. Annabel goes like what
Speaker 1: what what stuff? And what shit? He goes, Oh, you know,
Speaker 1: I got sheds on a property. She I forgot about that, babe.
Speaker 1: I forgot about that, babe. And Alica goes, you should
Speaker 1: tell her to get get get it out of there.
Speaker 1: You're just gonna get rid of it and throw it away,
Speaker 1: and Annabel goes, I don't know what this is, but
Speaker 1: I want it out today. I want her stuff out
Speaker 1: of your shed today. He goes, Okay, babe, I'll send
Speaker 1: her a text. I don't know if she gonna take babe,
Speaker 1: and Alisa goes, you need to send her a text
Speaker 1: and you need to mean it or she just walks
Speaker 1: all over you. They're talking head. Alison says, my dad
Speaker 1: made a promise to me that our relationship would remain
Speaker 1: the priority, but now I have to see I'm at
Speaker 1: the grocery store, so yeah, I'm really enjoying poking at them.
Speaker 1: And I like Annabelle a lot.
Speaker 2: Just snake.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's I like Annabell a lot so far, but
Speaker 1: I feel like he's not being truthful and she's not
Speaker 1: asking the right questions. Stuff needs to be said.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're doing this because this is fun.
Speaker 1: It's fun.
Speaker 2: Secondary you might like Annabelle, but really it's because you're
Speaker 2: pissed off that your dead is ignoring you.
Speaker 1: Yeah. She can't wait to get home and call the
Speaker 1: other sister and be like, guess what I did.
Speaker 2: Uh huh.
Speaker 1: She goes, oh god, Well, you know how Nicole is.
Speaker 1: She'll say she got no way to get it. She
Speaker 1: got no truck, and Alison goes, I don't know what
Speaker 1: the deal is. I don't know why you protect her
Speaker 1: for no reason. He goes, because I got to run
Speaker 1: into her sometimes and I want to stay cordial. And also,
Speaker 1: you have a child together. Are we forgetting? He's got like, I.
Speaker 2: Get yes, Wait, what the kid's like five? Shae has
Speaker 2: a five year old.
Speaker 1: While he was dating Annabelle, he married and divorced Nicole
Speaker 1: and they had a kid in eighteen months. They had
Speaker 1: a kid, so he's got like a five year old.
Speaker 1: Her name was like Maddie, Yes, you forgot, we've seen
Speaker 1: that child. No, we've only seen drunk Nicole.
Speaker 2: While he was with annabel.
Speaker 1: Yes, he married and divorced Nicole and they had a child.
Speaker 1: They were only married for like a year.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but does annabel know that, yes, and that this
Speaker 2: was the cheating and she moved They moved on, but
Speaker 2: it wasn't cheating. He married the other woman.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he said. Nicole was his most recent
Speaker 1: ex wife and they had like a five year old.
Speaker 1: And then when you do the math, they've been together
Speaker 1: seven years, so somewhere in the middle there. When he
Speaker 1: first started dating annabel he accidentally Oopsie married Nicole and
Speaker 1: got her married and divorced her at the lake.
Speaker 2: I'm sure when he's on the screen, I am so
Speaker 2: distracted by his instillation of ailments and like trying to
Speaker 2: look at what I would fix first, that I think
Speaker 2: I'm not paying attention to what he's saying because I
Speaker 2: can't believe I missed this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they have a kid, have a kid. Wow, So
Speaker 1: Annabel says, regarding anicle, you still love her, and he goes, no, bibe,
Speaker 1: no bibe, no scared of her, babe, So if a
Speaker 1: talking head. Annabel goes, I don't know why she didn't
Speaker 1: come and get her stuff, but I wanted out today,
Speaker 1: And I feel annoyed that. Alison says Shaye has a
Speaker 1: soft spot for Nicole. It's no, I mean you know.
Speaker 1: So now they go out to the car. Annabel is
Speaker 1: over there buckling the kids in my grandma.
Speaker 2: I know coming is It's cute.
Speaker 1: It's cute. It's I like how the kids like her
Speaker 1: so much. Yeah, and Shay says to Alison, why you
Speaker 1: got to bring that up in front of her. That's
Speaker 1: gonna make it hard on me, and she goes, well,
Speaker 1: she needs to know these things, and you're just trying
Speaker 1: to avoid it, so I'm just moving it along. He's like, damn.
Speaker 2: So also, you didn't have lunch with me yesterday.
Speaker 1: And I needed my lunch paid for and I had
Speaker 1: to go hungry. So on the way home, Annabelle says,
Speaker 1: I want to see what is in shed, Nicole. So
Speaker 1: they look and it's just like some ugly leather furniture.
Speaker 1: And annabel goes call her, tell her she has to
Speaker 1: get the stuff, and she says, I'm willing to move on,
Speaker 1: but all of her stuff needs to be gone. So
Speaker 1: he goes off, you know, to call her quietly, and
Speaker 1: you hear him go, okay, you need to come get uh, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'll take care of it. Okay, I'll take care of it.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So in the talking head, Annabelle says, we almost broke
Speaker 1: up because of his ex Nicole, and I have suspected
Speaker 1: something is going on, and I don't know if I
Speaker 1: can continue if I keep finding out all these lies,
Speaker 1: like what else? Right? So he goes to Annabelle and
Speaker 1: Nicole is standing there too, right, he says, Alix is
Speaker 1: Alison sitting there too? Sorry I didn't to say Alison.
Speaker 2: No, she's not okay.
Speaker 1: So he goes, I just told her I'll post pictures
Speaker 1: of the stuff on the internet and sell it for her.
Speaker 1: And then I just I almost send her the money,
Speaker 1: and annabel goes, no, if she can't come and get it,
Speaker 1: throw it in the dump like because now he's like,
Speaker 1: now I'm gonna pull each piece of furniture out and
Speaker 1: photograph it and put it on Facebook marketplace for meet
Speaker 1: the people, sell it. Send her. I mean, what, no, no.
Speaker 2: Unless he's not paying her child support, Like.
Speaker 1: I don't know what the deal is with her. I
Speaker 1: think she also has got so much shit on him
Speaker 1: that every time he goes, hey, can he come, she goes, oh,
Speaker 1: would you like me to tell your fiance about what
Speaker 1: he did sell myself on Facebook marketplace. He's like okay, bye.
Speaker 2: He so honestly, she that's the way to get murdered
Speaker 2: is constantly blackmailing someone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so the dad, uh, Annabelle says, I'm gonna talk
Speaker 1: to Alison to get the truth. He's a bitch. He
Speaker 1: keeps sicking, and I'm done. So annabel goes over to
Speaker 1: Alison's and I said, Alice's place, sing it's a good powerwash.
Speaker 1: It's sure yeah, and Alison says to Annabel, look, y'all
Speaker 1: have been engaged for four years, but he's also been
Speaker 1: hanging out with Nicole and she goes on the boat
Speaker 1: sometimes and they text sometimes, and she comes to the
Speaker 1: bar with us sometimes, and Annabel says, well. He says
Speaker 1: his friends are there, and Alison goes, yeah, but Nichole
Speaker 1: is also there, and she turns the camera around. He
Speaker 1: turns the camera around so you can't see it.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Also, why are you always getting drunk with
Speaker 2: your dad?
Speaker 1: It's Alison good a life, good life, So I'm talking
Speaker 1: to her. Alison goes, as much as I hate that
Speaker 1: Annabel has taken my dad from me, I do like
Speaker 1: her and she deserves the truth. My dad came back
Speaker 1: four years ago engage from the Philippines and has been
Speaker 1: living a double life, engaged to the Philippines but living
Speaker 1: single in America. Okay, and Allison says regarding Nicole. She goes,
Speaker 1: I haven't seen him hold hands or anything, but I
Speaker 1: have heard him talk about her body or smack her
Speaker 1: on the butt or tiller. He loves her. And Annabel goes,
Speaker 1: you heard him saying that to her. I love you
Speaker 1: and Alison goes, yeah, I've heard him say I love
Speaker 1: you and I will always love you to her, and
Speaker 1: in the talking Head Annabel says, he stabbed my back.
Speaker 1: I love him, but he's a liar. So she's gonna
Speaker 1: again threaten to leave and she won't do it. Okay,
Speaker 1: let's finish up with Katie and Josh hot mess express
Speaker 1: poo poo party of.
Speaker 2: Two, well, party of three, party of eight if we're
Speaker 2: counting all the dudes that she has made out with
Speaker 2: at this party.
Speaker 1: I also, you know, things that give me the it
Speaker 1: are teeth, and Kimberly sent me a close up of
Speaker 1: this guy's teeth. Not appreciated, girl, not appreciated.
Speaker 2: I just couldn't believe you hadn't noticed it.
Speaker 1: Because I watched it on my computer. I didn't have
Speaker 1: a big enough screen.
Speaker 2: He got it fixed, though, it's fit, definitely fixed. It's
Speaker 2: just in one of the photos of him and Katie
Speaker 2: spending time together.
Speaker 1: Maybe okay. Also just came to me. It was definitely
Speaker 1: in Little mis Recaps Facebook group that I can give
Speaker 1: credit to because I can fully remember that somebody wrote
Speaker 1: that they are in a running club with this guy Ryan. Yes,
Speaker 1: they're in a running club with him, and then did
Speaker 1: you or I write under it and say what's wrong
Speaker 1: with the tooth?
Speaker 2: No, I didn't write that.
Speaker 1: Maybe it was me. It was me, it was yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: find out what's wrong at this tooth?
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I want to know from him what Katie's
Speaker 2: breath smells like, because it can't be good. But she's
Speaker 2: constantly breathing on people right up in their nose and
Speaker 2: making out and shoving their tongue her tongue all over
Speaker 2: and she's constantly wasted. So I just can't imagine it is.
Speaker 2: It's a nice experience.
Speaker 1: It definitely smells like a dark beer.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So they're still at this party and he is
Speaker 2: she's wasted, and no, she's half wasted. And they're outside,
Speaker 2: the three of them, and Josh says, are you ready
Speaker 2: to be married? And she says unsure. She says I
Speaker 2: don't okay, So the subtitles said I don't know or
Speaker 2: I don't think so, but the it sounded like she
Speaker 2: was saying I think so. So the subtitles are really
Speaker 2: bad on the screener and I should have gone on my.
Speaker 1: Dr Yeah, her there.
Speaker 2: Regardless of whether she said she was or wasn't sure.
Speaker 2: She's not sure, so it doesn't matter what she said.
Speaker 2: So she said, I feel like I'm the problem.
Speaker 1: You are.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're the problem. It's you and your alcoholism.
Speaker 2: So Josh said, you both made this problem together, you
Speaker 2: and Ryan. And he tells Ryan, I don't understand your behavior. Again,
Speaker 2: don't blame Ryan. Ryan is not in a relationship, right,
Speaker 2: it was kind of shady what he did, But like,
Speaker 2: blame her. She's the one that's in the relationship.
Speaker 1: That's your girlfriend, not Ryan.
Speaker 2: Yes, so he says, I I thought everything was friendly
Speaker 2: and then it just went downhill at that party, and
Speaker 2: then I was collateral damage from your behavior. And Ryan says, yeah,
Speaker 2: Katie and I did some things that were inappropriate. But
Speaker 2: she's hard to say no to. You know, those bozo
Speaker 2: the clown red lips and sticky tongue coming at you.
Speaker 2: It's hard to say to know.
Speaker 1: Listen, if you're drunking a party and a girl is
Speaker 1: trying to kiss you, then you're gonna kiss that girl.
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, I guess that's how Yeah. I mean
Speaker 1: Ryan doesn't have any self control, is what he's saying. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Also, she has that upper body strength, so she can
Speaker 2: like force your hands away as you're trying to push
Speaker 2: her away, so she's not assaulting you.
Speaker 1: She's also a runner, so she could chase you. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Josh says to Ryan, I can't help but judge
Speaker 2: someone who would do that knowing our relationship. And Ryan says,
Speaker 2: I made a mistake and I apologize, and Josh says,
Speaker 2: I'm glad to hear he apologized, because but like, how
Speaker 2: many times have I heard an apology in this situation?
Speaker 2: I've been apologized from her from all these dudes. People
Speaker 2: strangers walk up to me and say, I'm sorry I
Speaker 2: made up with your girlfriend, And he's like.
Speaker 1: Do I know you?
Speaker 2: So he tells Ryan that in other languages, like people
Speaker 2: just come up to me in other languages and like
Speaker 2: I don't understand. I pull out a translator app and
Speaker 2: they're like, I'm sorry I made out with your beyance.
Speaker 2: This curly haired guy in leggings spoke to me an
Speaker 2: Egyptian and said, I'm sorry I made out with your girlfriend.
Speaker 1: He didn't make out with her or with her.
Speaker 2: So he tells Ryan, You've apologized, but it's happened more times,
Speaker 2: So you apologize to me right after that party and
Speaker 2: then it went on to happen again. So why should
Speaker 2: I take this apology seriously? And Ryan says, Katie and
Speaker 2: I have decided that we're just friends. I would hope, so.
Speaker 1: She would hope. So she's supposed to marry somebody else
Speaker 1: in like what sixty days or whatever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So Josh says, I don't want to control you, Katie,
Speaker 2: but you keep making these decisions and I don't know
Speaker 2: what to do. So Josh tells Ryan, you know, I'm
Speaker 2: basically not interested into friendship with you, but we can
Speaker 2: just this in the past. Thank you for apologizing, but like,
Speaker 2: we're not going to be brows or anything.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: Well, Ryan doesn't even live there, so that's fine. So
Speaker 2: Katie jokes to Josh like it's an appropriate time. So
Speaker 2: can I just make out with everyone?
Speaker 1: I know?
Speaker 2: So cute? Aren't so cute? Aren't I cute? For my behavior?
Speaker 2: Can I just keep making jokes out of it? And
Speaker 2: she's just been drinking this whole conversation too, so she again.
Speaker 2: They go inside and she's like, can I kiss everyone
Speaker 2: I'm and he's like, no, God, it's not funny. Can
Speaker 2: I get it? I'm going to get an espresso martini
Speaker 2: and he's like, can you have a water first, So
Speaker 2: he's having to police her like she's a child and
Speaker 2: toddler and who hasn't learned body space and like personal bubbles.
Speaker 2: So Katie starts to lean on guys like she does,
Speaker 2: like she's kind of crawling all over them, and then
Speaker 2: on Ryan, who they just had this conversation about crawling
Speaker 2: all over him. And he's like, Katie, stop, be in
Speaker 2: good mode. You're being crazy mode. And she's like, I'm
Speaker 2: in crazy mode. And he's like trying to push her
Speaker 2: away because he just had this conversation. And Josh is
Speaker 2: watching this and he's like, I thought we were past this,
Speaker 2: but we're not. And Katie keeps trying to kiss Ryan.
Speaker 2: He is pushing her face away and she is not
Speaker 2: taking no for an answer.
Speaker 1: She's like, I want to kiss you, want to make out.
Speaker 2: He is right there and a camera crew right there,
Speaker 2: and I don't I don't think Ryan felt like he
Speaker 2: was being assaulted. But if the roles were reversed this, yes,
Speaker 2: if this was a man acting like this with the
Speaker 2: pitch the pitchforks would be out. So this is gross behavior,
Speaker 2: regardless of their genders. So Josh is like, I'm done,
Speaker 2: and he walks outside. He should go home, go pack
Speaker 2: your things.
Speaker 1: Go.
Speaker 2: I have no self respect for.
Speaker 1: You Anymore's pretty So he's pretty good, you.
Speaker 2: Know, great. So I mean it's fine. There's still some problem,
Speaker 2: but like it's still fine.
Speaker 1: It's not go back, there's pretty good.
Speaker 2: Go back. So she's like slurring to Ryan, I'm sorry,
Speaker 2: I get close to people's faces. I didn't mean it
Speaker 2: in a close faced way. And so Mark, who was
Speaker 2: the friend who Katie also has had relations with and
Speaker 2: has kind of wanted to keep hooking up with, goes
Speaker 2: outside to check on Josh, and he says, how are
Speaker 2: you feeling? And he's like, well, I'm disappointed. It's super
Speaker 2: fucked up how she's behaving. And he says, I'm trying
Speaker 2: to be patient. And I think that underneath all the silliness,
Speaker 2: she is the person I think she is. So I
Speaker 2: just keep reminding myself of that.
Speaker 1: Okay, we haven't seen it. We haven't seen you guys
Speaker 1: nice to each other. We haven't seen any silliness between you.
Speaker 2: No, she was acting like a bitch the other day,
Speaker 2: just sober about just furniture.
Speaker 1: About calling you stupid because you wanted a couch, yeah,
Speaker 1: or a chair.
Speaker 2: So Mark says, I would be furious. I would yank
Speaker 2: her out of the bar and say we're going home.
Speaker 2: And Josh says, I guess I'm looking for reasons to
Speaker 2: excuse her behavior because if not, what why did I
Speaker 2: move my whole life here? So I gave up my
Speaker 2: whole life to be here. So I'm making excuses for
Speaker 2: why her behavior is okay because otherwise I've made a
Speaker 2: huge mistake.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So Mark says, it's okay to feel mad like and
Speaker 2: would feel mad, and everyone in America is losing respect
Speaker 2: for you the more you don't get mad about this.
Speaker 2: So Josh says, I'm just trying to figure out what
Speaker 2: is OCD and what is her being dramatic because they
Speaker 2: look similar. None of it is OCD.
Speaker 1: It's something else.
Speaker 2: It's something else, and it rhymes with malcoholism, so and
Speaker 2: other undiagnosed mental health issues. So she says, Mark says,
Speaker 2: I worry about you. I know she's my friend, but
Speaker 2: I like you, and I worry about you. You deserve
Speaker 2: to be respected as a person and as her fiance.
Speaker 2: And you have to put your foot down because you're
Speaker 2: being a doormat and Mark says, I cannot comprehend how
Speaker 2: Josh is reacting to this. I think he's scared of
Speaker 2: the reaction if you were to get angry, but like
Speaker 2: he has to get angry. This is ridiculous. So Josh says,
Speaker 2: she's so good at winning people's hearts despite what she does,
Speaker 2: and Mark says, yeah, she is charming. Footage not found.
Speaker 1: Let's yeah, we haven't seen it, but maybe one day
Speaker 1: we will. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you keep rolling over, she'll just keep
Speaker 2: doing it because it's acceptable. And what if she's you
Speaker 2: get married and she's still doing this in a year
Speaker 2: and you're married. So Josh says, I don't know if
Speaker 2: it's timidus or Britishness, but I need to get over it.
Speaker 2: And Mark says, you need to do it now before
Speaker 2: you get married. And Katie needs tough love. Josh needs
Speaker 2: to be a manly man and not let Katie walk
Speaker 2: all over him. So they go inside. Katie starts to
Speaker 2: try to make out with Mark and he is literally
Speaker 2: pushing her face away with his hand and she is
Speaker 2: trying to tongue kiss his hand.
Speaker 1: It's this has gone on an hour longer than it should.
Speaker 1: He should have pulled her out of there and said
Speaker 1: we're going home.
Speaker 2: This is unbelievable. Also, even if you don't care that
Speaker 2: you're being humiliated, she's humiliating her self.
Speaker 1: Yes, and all her friends don't want to see her
Speaker 1: coming when she's had drunks.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. So you are letting her now, not saying
Speaker 2: she's not responsible for her own behavior, but like pull
Speaker 2: her out of there so she doesn't embarrass herself further
Speaker 2: on national TV and in front of all her friends.
Speaker 2: You know, let alone that you're being humiliated, So she's
Speaker 2: Mark keeps saying, you have a fiance. Stop trying to
Speaker 2: kiss me, you have a fiance, like putting her his
Speaker 2: hand on her face to get her away from him,
Speaker 2: and Mark says, I think she's too drunk and you
Speaker 2: need to get her out of here, Josh, like now,
Speaker 2: And Katie keeps trying to make out and Josh is
Speaker 2: looking at her like giving her a look like he
Speaker 2: thinks that's going to do it, and she's like, what
Speaker 2: am I doing wrong? And Josh says, I think you're fucked,
Speaker 2: and which again he should have said, I think you're
Speaker 2: a fucking asshole, like done, Like he needs to yell
Speaker 2: at her or something, and he says, let's go home, babe, like,
Speaker 2: don't call her babe, Like you're again. Maybe now it's
Speaker 2: not the right time and you need to wait till
Speaker 2: she's sober to have this conversation. Right, But she's gonna
Speaker 2: keep doing this. You're not being stern enough and she
Speaker 2: keeps trying to kiss Mark and Josh says to us,
Speaker 2: I've just got to really make sure that she's ready
Speaker 2: to get married.
Speaker 1: She's not.
Speaker 2: Are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: What do you have that she's ready to get married?
Speaker 1: I mean, everything points to know.
Speaker 2: Is he on the run from like the mob or
Speaker 2: something in England? Is there a reason he needs to
Speaker 2: stay here so badly? Likes he a rifter? Is he
Speaker 2: like a scam artist? Is he like I do not
Speaker 2: understand how any person with self respect could be okay
Speaker 2: with this, Although we've seen that lady with the big
Speaker 2: boobs on. This is Polly, and I've never seen someone
Speaker 2: with less self esteem than that.
Speaker 1: But Josh is Oh to Mina, I was like, who
Speaker 1: to Mina? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Josh is a close second, because I've lost
Speaker 2: all respect for him and he's defending her all over
Speaker 2: social media.
Speaker 1: Yep, yep, yep. I mean there are no consequences to
Speaker 1: her actions, Like that's the bottom of mine. There's no
Speaker 1: consequence to her actions. She's never losing anything because of it.
Speaker 1: Her friends still want to hang out with her, she's
Speaker 1: her fiances moved here for her, paid for everything. There's
Speaker 1: no consequences to her actions, so we'll just keep doing it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she doesn't want to change. She likes the
Speaker 2: lifestyle she's living. Yes, and I don't know how much
Speaker 2: she actually likes him even so.
Speaker 1: I think she's like, I didn't know he's actually going
Speaker 1: to come here.
Speaker 2: She said, I didn't even want to do the K one.
Speaker 2: You're the one who wanted to do the K one.
Speaker 2: I would leave if I came to another country and
Speaker 2: someone said I didn't even want you here.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes, So having such a hard time living with
Speaker 1: another person grows gross.
Speaker 2: I don't even let Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just want to chair guide.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, your back hurts.
Speaker 1: God.
Speaker 2: I hate her and I hate him, and I I'm mad.
Speaker 1: To tell you. I have to tell you that the
Speaker 1: funniest picture I have a screenshot. I wonder if I'll
Speaker 1: be able to pull it up. It is of our
Speaker 1: friend reality Rocks doing the two doing the two of
Speaker 1: them together, and it is the funniest. I sent it
Speaker 1: to Matt the other day just because I could not
Speaker 1: take it. Let me see, let me just save these pictures.
Speaker 1: Add a photo library, add a photo library. Okay, so
Speaker 1: let me pull it up. I screenshot. Isn't it too Matt?
Speaker 1: And I was like, this is too much? He goes,
Speaker 1: she's the best. She's so damn funny. Okay, let's see,
Speaker 1: I'll pull it up. Okay, here's red lipstick. Here's one.
Speaker 1: Here's one at the stage. There's one. Look at her
Speaker 1: invitation of Josh, whom just smiling looking at her like
Speaker 1: she's hilarious.
Speaker 2: You're so funny, babe, when you make out with other
Speaker 2: people right in front of me.
Speaker 1: It is so funny. Okay, let me remove that one
Speaker 1: and let me add another one, because there's the second one. Scared. Oh,
Speaker 1: here's the other one.
Speaker 2: I need the puppets to do her.
Speaker 1: Oh they have to be doing her. Yeah, the puppets.
Speaker 1: And then ah, okay, here it is at a stage. Okay,
Speaker 1: I lost you, but they're okay. You see it now?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, look at her, look at him, look at her
Speaker 1: invitation of him. That is what somebody who are like, Ah,
Speaker 1: she's so funny.
Speaker 2: She's so funny. Isn't she charming? My fiance, my wild
Speaker 2: and free spirited fiance.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, the red lips.
Speaker 2: She needs to lay off the red lips too.
Speaker 1: Do we have anything for Kimberly's corner? Do we have
Speaker 1: time for Kimberly's corner? Do you need to take care
Speaker 1: of a personal matter instead of doing Kimberly's Corner?
Speaker 2: No, I can do it. I'm fine because I have
Speaker 2: a very short Kimberly's Corner.
Speaker 1: Okay, great, love it.
Speaker 2: I have Diaries and this one was called I'm at
Speaker 2: a breaking Point. And first we have Olga and Steven Steve.
Speaker 2: Then they are early couple, so a lot of people
Speaker 2: might now remember them. But go back to Russia. I
Speaker 2: go back, I go Russia. I know, I know. But
Speaker 2: Olga is lovely and Stephen was a douchebag and then
Speaker 2: became much better. On an earlier season of Diaries, he
Speaker 2: really tried to step up.
Speaker 1: Beautiful people.
Speaker 2: Beautiful they are. He's gorgeous, she's gorgeous. They are just
Speaker 2: way too young to have a kid, and and they
Speaker 2: had another kid, and now they are separating and divorcing.
Speaker 1: I don't think i'd two kids.
Speaker 2: They had a daughter in New York and they were
Speaker 2: already having marital troubles and.
Speaker 1: A baby.
Speaker 2: Another baby. Yeah, And so they're divorcing now and he's
Speaker 2: moved into a new apartment. She's thrilled that he's moved
Speaker 2: out and she has her own place now. So she
Speaker 2: says she's grown up a lot now and has found
Speaker 2: her voice and is speaking up when she isn't happy,
Speaker 2: whereas before she just won't say anything. And she goes
Speaker 2: to the city to see her friend Natalie, and I
Speaker 2: was terrified. But it's a different Natalie. Oh, thank god,
Speaker 2: but I hear I get I have PTSD from the
Speaker 2: name Natalie now. And this Natalie takes them to a
Speaker 2: rage room where you break stuff and they have a
Speaker 2: good time, and she, yeah, she's scared, but she's open
Speaker 2: to start dating. So she goes on a date with
Speaker 2: a guy she met on a dating app, a lawyer
Speaker 2: from Manhattan, because they live in New York. And I
Speaker 2: was like, no, I do not trust this lawyer from Manhattan.
Speaker 2: I bet he's a player, and he looks like a player.
Speaker 2: They walk around a Christmas market she has prepared a
Speaker 2: bunch of hard questions, like how long he's been single,
Speaker 2: does he want children? And he's in, what I'm looking
Speaker 2: for is someone responsible because my ex is Stephen and
Speaker 2: emotionally available and kind. And he's like, I wasn't expecting
Speaker 2: all these hard questions on a first date. But it's okay.
Speaker 2: She's really pretty and she seems nice. So then they
Speaker 2: go sit on Santa's lap and it was a cute
Speaker 2: first date then, but I don't think he really likes her.
Speaker 2: Then Steven brings their son, Alex, who's very cute and
Speaker 2: very precocious and seems like a lot like Daniel Tiffany's son. Oh,
Speaker 2: it's just like older, wiser than his age. And he's
Speaker 2: had a hard time with them separating, but he feels
Speaker 2: better now that Stephen has an apartment close by and
Speaker 2: he's going to be spending time there. He has his
Speaker 2: own bedroom there, and he's like, are you going to
Speaker 2: get am I going to get a new step mom?
Speaker 2: And Steven starts laughing and says, I'm not even thinking
Speaker 2: about that yet, but I promise, like, I'll get your
Speaker 2: approval first, and Alex says, I want to be on
Speaker 2: a walkie talkie when you're on your date, and Steven's like,
Speaker 2: so you can approve, and he goes, no, so I
Speaker 2: can give you pointers during your day. So it's very cute, Okay.
Speaker 1: Caesar, Caesar the nail tech.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I cannot believe it's only been six years since
Speaker 2: we first met Caesar and since he was ghosted by Maria,
Speaker 2: who we all thought was not a real person, and
Speaker 2: then she turned out to be a real person.
Speaker 1: Sued out to be a real person, but she didn't
Speaker 1: like him.
Speaker 2: No, he's fifty three now, Caesar still looks very young.
Speaker 2: He looks good. He could date Marissa's mom, so he
Speaker 2: he I don't know what that means because he's still
Speaker 2: twenty years younger than her, but he looks so, he
Speaker 2: looks great. So he met a woman Victoria online. He
Speaker 2: is flying to Arizona to meet her in person. She's Mexican.
Speaker 2: He calls her his Latina heat. I don't really like
Speaker 2: that she's forty, which I felt like was at least
Speaker 2: more age appropriate than I feel like he was dating before. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so I'm actually okay with that. She's a single mom
Speaker 2: and we see all the stuff with Maria. He oh
Speaker 2: and then Alona. Remember he went on the Single Life
Speaker 2: to Ukraine and he met Alona because he hired a
Speaker 2: matchmaker and she decided. The war broke out and she
Speaker 2: decided she would rather stay in Ukraine and support her
Speaker 2: country than come to America to be with Caesar. That's
Speaker 2: that has to her.
Speaker 1: That somewhat rings a bell.
Speaker 2: Yeah, God, bless, I'm choosing war over your Sorry. So
Speaker 2: he and Victoria have only been messaging for two weeks
Speaker 2: and she asked him to come fly to Arizona to
Speaker 2: celebrate Thanksgiving with her family.
Speaker 1: Weird, okay, weird.
Speaker 2: He thought that was weird too, but he's going with it.
Speaker 1: Is he's still an ail tech. He's still an al teck. Yes, okay.
Speaker 2: So she picks him up at the airport. He's happy
Speaker 2: that that she looked like she did online even though
Speaker 2: they had like facetimed, and they go to dinner. She
Speaker 2: shows him her nails because he does nails for a living,
Speaker 2: and they're laughing at having a good time. The next day,
Speaker 2: he's going to Thanksgiving and he is wearing a Christmas
Speaker 2: sweater that lights up. For some reason, he thinks it
Speaker 2: will impress the family.
Speaker 1: No, not sure why.
Speaker 2: No, but he shows up at the house and there's
Speaker 2: a Christmas wreath on the door, so I thought that
Speaker 2: was a really good sign.
Speaker 1: Is it cold in Arizona in December.
Speaker 2: He's always sweating, sweating, so they probably if the a
Speaker 2: see on. So but she opens the door. She really
Speaker 2: likes the sweater. There's fifteen people at this Thanksgiving okay,
Speaker 2: And they all sit along this one side of a
Speaker 2: long table while he sits on the other side, and
Speaker 2: they grill him. Oh my god, and they're like, how
Speaker 2: old are you? And he says, I in twenty in
Speaker 2: dog years, I'm twenty five, but actually I'm fifty three.
Speaker 1: That's not funny or is that true now?
Speaker 2: And then one of them goes, where's your other earring?
Speaker 2: And he says, I only wear one. They laugh, and
Speaker 2: then they say where do you see this going? And
Speaker 2: he says, well, I plan to treat her like a
Speaker 2: best friend and I'm looking for someone I can share
Speaker 2: the good times and the bad times with. And they
Speaker 2: liked that answer, and then they love his sweater and
Speaker 2: they have a live laugh, love, sing dance sign. So okay, nice, yeah,
Speaker 2: so it good times. The next day they go to
Speaker 2: a light festival. He in Victoria. He brings her flowers.
Speaker 2: They're getting along, but then if she reveals she wants
Speaker 2: to get married, and she wants to only date if
Speaker 2: it's with intention and it's going to lead to marriage,
Speaker 2: and if they date long distance, she wants a plan
Speaker 2: of where it's going. And he says he's not sure
Speaker 2: about marriage, but he could be down for a long
Speaker 2: time partnership. And she does not like this, and it
Speaker 2: gets really awkward, and she says, well, I think if
Speaker 2: you're an adult, you should know if you're going to
Speaker 2: marry the person within a few months.
Speaker 1: Okay, Victoria.
Speaker 2: He's like, wow, this is moving very fast. And he's like,
Speaker 2: I'm not opposed to marriage, but I would rather go slow.
Speaker 2: And I was like, you're fifty three.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, yeah, I think he's probably too set in
Speaker 1: his ways. Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2: And she says she's a control freak, but she needs
Speaker 2: a plan, but she needs to work on loosening up
Speaker 2: a little. So the next day it's super awkward. She's
Speaker 2: taken him to the airport and then he says, look,
Speaker 2: I get about what we talked about. I know what
Speaker 2: you're looking for, and I get it, and I really
Speaker 2: want you to come and visit me in North Carolina
Speaker 2: and she's like really to like seriously, and he's like yes,
Speaker 2: So they feel like they're moving in the same direction.
Speaker 2: And then he gives her a kiss on the cheek.
Speaker 2: That's it, Wow, no kiss, just a kiss now, kiss
Speaker 2: on the.
Speaker 1: Cheek, Kiss on the cheek definitely says marriage any day, exactly,
Speaker 1: any day now, yep, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: Our last couple is Anna and Marcel who oh may remember,
Speaker 2: oh god, okay, the bee keepers. And he is from Turkey.
Speaker 2: He speaks almost no English still still, and he is
Speaker 2: forty four, she's forty four. People thought he was slow.
Speaker 2: There were a lot of people who speak Turkish that
Speaker 2: were writing and saying his language was very underdeveloped. And yeah,
Speaker 2: I remember looking at Reddit on the time being like,
Speaker 2: is he just like it seems like he's dumb or
Speaker 2: actually like has a disability, and yes, being hidden, it's
Speaker 2: being hidden by this language difference because she doesn't know
Speaker 2: how he's speaking and she thinks it's just a language barrier,
Speaker 2: but that actually he was not understanding things. And people
Speaker 2: wrote in and were like, yeah, the language he uses
Speaker 2: is like a second grader, like it's very strange. Oh
Speaker 2: my god, who knows. So they're preparing this well, she
Speaker 2: is doing all the hard work. They have this beauty
Speaker 2: in the Beast Honey shop because they sell honey and
Speaker 2: their beekeepers, but they also sell candles and gelato and
Speaker 2: like baked goods like baklava and Yeah, so he has
Speaker 2: built some stuff for the shop, like the shelves and stuff,
Speaker 2: but he hasn't finished, and she's annoyed. They met eight
Speaker 2: years ago through beekeepers group. She looks so much better
Speaker 2: now than she did then. She has had a real
Speaker 2: glow up. She has a cute little bob that's very
Speaker 2: flattering on her personally. I think she looks better without
Speaker 2: the moles, but if you want to keep them, she
Speaker 2: had a lot of them. But I think she looks great.
Speaker 2: She's lost a lot of weight. Her skin looks really good.
Speaker 2: So they used to surrogate in Ukraine because he wanted
Speaker 2: children and she could not have any more children. And
Speaker 2: they had a child in Ukraine right as the war
Speaker 2: was breaking out, right, so I.
Speaker 1: Had to figure out a way to get the baby.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yet the baby from Ukraine, and they named the
Speaker 2: baby Gok, which sounds like she's saying goat con But
Speaker 2: it's go con.
Speaker 1: Con and.
Speaker 2: I feel like that child is gonna be made fun
Speaker 2: of them.
Speaker 1: Okay, grow yeah, yeah, they better give him the nickname
Speaker 1: real quick. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So she was sick of sharing a bed with go
Speaker 2: con At when he was three years old. He had
Speaker 2: been sleeping with them the whole time, and she was
Speaker 2: horny for Murcell, and so she, even though Marcell knows
Speaker 2: how to build things, took it upon herself to build
Speaker 2: him a bed in his kid's bedroom so that she
Speaker 2: could get laid by her husband. But they still aren't
Speaker 2: having sex. Anna tells her friend that Marcell isn't helping
Speaker 2: out at the shop, and he's also not helping out
Speaker 2: at home. And she's a full time mom. She has
Speaker 2: three other kids and she has to make dinner and
Speaker 2: do all that stuff and he does barely anything. And
Speaker 2: now Marcell has started sleep thing in go Khan's room
Speaker 2: with him.
Speaker 1: This man does not want to be around you, right.
Speaker 2: He has laid out a comforter on the floor next
Speaker 2: to the kid's bed and is sleeping there. And he
Speaker 2: claims this because go Kan does not want to sleep alone,
Speaker 2: but she thinks he just doesn't want to be intimate
Speaker 2: with her. Yeah, and so she tells her friend that
Speaker 2: she needs intimacy. She feels like she's his roommate or
Speaker 2: his mom, and she wonders if he's cheating, and the
Speaker 2: friend suggests therapy, but he doesn't like to talk about
Speaker 2: his feelings and Turkish men need to feel macho, and
Speaker 2: I was laughing because Marcella is like the opposite of macho,
Speaker 2: like Sarper would eat him for Turkish breakfast. Yes, so
Speaker 2: she tells, But she tells Mrsa as we say in Turkey,
Speaker 2: real men get stung by bee and their penis grows bigger.
Speaker 1: Sleep with wife, yeah, yeah, So.
Speaker 2: She tells Mrcella well that she needs help finishing stuff
Speaker 2: at the shop. She's not happy with what's been going
Speaker 2: on in their marriage. He won't have sex with her,
Speaker 2: and he says, stop this talking, stop this, I don't
Speaker 2: like this. And I remembered this from last time. He
Speaker 2: would walk off if she was trying to film them
Speaker 2: when they were when and she would bring up sex
Speaker 2: because he won't talk about it on camera, And so
Speaker 2: then they're in their talking head and she he says,
Speaker 2: I won't do this, and she's like, okay, he had
Speaker 2: told me if I brought up sex that he wouldn't film,
Speaker 2: so I'm not supposed to talk about that. She tells
Speaker 2: him that they need therapy and he agrees to go,
Speaker 2: and she says, you need to be honest and you're
Speaker 2: gonna have to talk about sex to the therapist.
Speaker 1: Then okay, but we know in real time, she posted
Speaker 1: a lot of shit about him being a cheater with
Speaker 1: like online sex workers, and then she later found out
Speaker 1: that it was just like online online chaten. It was
Speaker 1: online chaten and that he never met with anybody in person,
Speaker 1: although I don't think that's true, and uh.
Speaker 2: She was scammed. She said he was scammed because it
Speaker 2: was like fake it was catfishing or something.
Speaker 1: Okay, well he was still he was still fishing. He
Speaker 1: was still fishing.
Speaker 2: And then I think she said he knew that it
Speaker 2: was catfishing and that he was playing along to like
Speaker 2: whatever or something. And I was like, there's no way
Speaker 2: Marcel figured that out.
Speaker 1: Sorry, but no, no, And then she said after she
Speaker 1: posted all their business out to the internet, then she
Speaker 1: said she forgiven him, which is the thing. It's the
Speaker 1: same thing you and I talk about all the time.
Speaker 1: If your girlfriend tells you all this terrible stuff about
Speaker 1: a boyfriend and she dumps him and then gets back
Speaker 1: together with them. Well, now you know all these horrible things. Yes,
Speaker 1: so now we know all the horrible things about Marcel.
Speaker 3: Mm hm.
Speaker 2: So I'm so you really should have impulse posted your
Speaker 2: business on social media and she forgave him like within
Speaker 2: then a week. So I felt like.
Speaker 1: It was two days.
Speaker 2: It was like two days. So we had whiplash. We
Speaker 2: just like, Okay, now we're not supposed to be mad
Speaker 2: at him. We know we're still mad at him. So
Speaker 2: next time on Diaries, Courtney and Philip are planning their wedding.
Speaker 1: Yay.
Speaker 2: They're disagreeing on everything. She wants to celebrate in Florida
Speaker 2: with her friends and family. He wants a destination wedding
Speaker 2: at Turks and Caicos. She wants alcohol at the wedding.
Speaker 2: He wants a dry wedding, and she says, so I
Speaker 2: can have them with my friends, and he says, I
Speaker 2: just don't want you to embarrass yourself.
Speaker 1: Wow, Josh can use a little of that with Katie,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yep.
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe Tyrae is exercising and he's had weight loss
Speaker 2: surgery and he is getting hair transplant surgery. So he
Speaker 2: is going to the doctor and he gets to pick
Speaker 2: out his hairline.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so very excited for him. He's kind now.
Speaker 2: And then Kenny and Armando and Hannah. Kenny and Hannah
Speaker 2: are dancing to TikTok videos as they wait for Armando
Speaker 2: to have his visa interview because remember he had tuberculosis
Speaker 2: or something and crazy yeah yeah, and so he is
Speaker 2: nervous and so we don't know if he gets approved.
Speaker 1: He definitely gets approved.
Speaker 2: I'm sure he gets approved. And they're just adorable.
Speaker 1: Ah okay, Well that's it, everybody. Wow, Wow, we did it.
Speaker 1: We did it in one hundred two hours. Wow. I know.
Speaker 1: My friends that are here were asking me at lunch, like,
Speaker 1: you know, if you have an episode that's x amount
Speaker 1: of time, how many minutes of ADS are in it.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, and he goes, so if
Speaker 1: it's like an hour and a half episodes at twenty minutes,
Speaker 1: his as ago, Oh no, so that's the angry question.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. It's like, wow, what a deep
Speaker 1: question I never thought about. So yeah, because I was
Speaker 1: trying to explain to him about host roid ads versus
Speaker 1: programmatic ads, and they were fascinated, fascinating with the holes. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, thank you for being interested in my job.
Speaker 1: Nobody ever is no, I don't care. Nobody ever asked
Speaker 1: me any question what the show is called. Yes, that's interesting.
Speaker 1: They go, we watched some of your videos, like you're funny.
Speaker 3: I was like, ah, you have known me since I
Speaker 3: was eighteen, so.
Speaker 1: This is like my very best friend of college. We
Speaker 1: met like first day freshman year, like moved into the dorm.
Speaker 1: It's my friend Emily, and I never met a Yankee before.
Speaker 1: That's it's crazy Allentown, Pennsylvania. I was like, whoa saw
Speaker 1: My parents won't believe this girl's accent. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's hilarious. Also, is are we allowed to
Speaker 2: say yankee? I just saw a post on Reddit that
Speaker 2: yankee is apparently offensive, and I was I didn't know that.
Speaker 1: Well, Emily would not be offended because she knows that
Speaker 1: she was a Yankee, but now she's lived in like
Speaker 1: Mississippi in the South for a long time, so now
Speaker 1: she doesn't consider herself Yankee anymore.
Speaker 2: Gotcha, it's offensive.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I mean, come on, I don't.
Speaker 2: Think it's offensive.
Speaker 1: What can you say? Nothing? Yeah, okay, apologies to the
Speaker 1: Yankees out there.
Speaker 2: I guess no one is getting offended by it. I
Speaker 2: guarantee you that we've said so many worse things. I
Speaker 2: have said so many worse things.
Speaker 1: Kimberly. Is Taylor Swift getting married July third at Mason's
Speaker 1: Square Garden.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I lot my invitation must have gotten
Speaker 2: lost in the mail, and I'm pretty pissed about it,
Speaker 2: to be honest, I feel.
Speaker 1: Like that would be very weird that she would want
Speaker 1: to get married. Even if they made it the most gorgeous,
Speaker 1: flower filled thing and you couldn't see like the hot
Speaker 1: dog vendors, and you know what I mean, Even if
Speaker 1: they covered every single bit of grossness and carpeted the
Speaker 1: whole thing and made it beautiful, that still seems weird
Speaker 1: that she would do that.
Speaker 2: It does seem weird because she's more like a background
Speaker 2: backyard wedding person, that's right, yes, but maybe for security
Speaker 2: reasons weird.
Speaker 1: I don't know, well, it will say, We'll say. I
Speaker 1: just thought I would ask you. I thought you would
Speaker 1: know inside scoop.
Speaker 2: Now I haven't really been paying attention, but okay, yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't want that for her. Everybody make sure you're
Speaker 1: following following us on social media. As always, we always
Speaker 1: ask it's at date dateline. That's Instagram and at a
Speaker 1: date a date with K and K on YouTube. I
Speaker 1: am at Pink Shade Pod and Pink Shade Monkies on YouTube.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, my brain just froze and there was
Speaker 1: a problem. I'm all right, I'm okay. I was trying
Speaker 1: to say YouTube and my mind went.
Speaker 2: I know if this stream yard has been glitchy, but
Speaker 2: I think that's Mary Payne's brain. That's that white spot.
Speaker 1: That's that white spot coming back.
Speaker 2: Never read that.
Speaker 1: Okay, everybody, love you mean it, Bye bye, thank you,