Speaker 1: Hi everyone, and welcome back to another episode of Between
Speaker 1: Us Girlies.
Speaker 2: I'm Lindsay, I'm Bailey, I'm Casey, and I'm brand.
Speaker 3: And here comes the bride. God boy, didn't we have
Speaker 3: a weekend? I cannot believe it. Holy fuck, I am engaged.
Speaker 4: Wait hold your camera up to your rank to the camera,
Speaker 4: can you it's way too far?
Speaker 3: But oh wait this camera.
Speaker 2: I am fucking engaged. And that is the most insane
Speaker 2: sentence that has ever.
Speaker 3: Left my mouth. That is really weird to hear.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was talking about Jake today and I was like,
Speaker 2: my book, my fiance and I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 3: Ill between us fiances.
Speaker 5: That's crazy. I like low Ki.
Speaker 2: When I was talking to one of my other coworkers,
Speaker 2: she said when she was in the fiance stage, she
Speaker 2: kind of just wanted to get married because she hated
Speaker 2: saying fiance.
Speaker 3: She was like, I feel like it's either boyfriend or husband.
Speaker 2: And granted I've only been in this fiance stage for
Speaker 2: seventy two hours, but I'm like, damn, I kind of
Speaker 2: just want to call him husband already, Like fiance feels you.
Speaker 5: Can, I feel like you are like your husband and wife.
Speaker 2: Guys, this has been the like most insane Today's Monday.
Speaker 3: This happened on Saturday.
Speaker 2: It has been an absolute, like whirlwind of emotions, feelings
Speaker 2: like I feel like I haven't even lived in the
Speaker 2: past seventy two hours.
Speaker 3: It is insane.
Speaker 4: So I guess, like kick it off, yeah yesterday, Yeah,
Speaker 4: it just happened Saturday.
Speaker 2: So I thought, I feel like we should tell the
Speaker 2: story from my perspective and then we'll have the girlies
Speaker 2: chime in because they helped plan this. And so looking
Speaker 2: back now, I was cracking up. I can't sleep the
Speaker 2: past two nights because I've just been so excited. So
Speaker 2: I've been going through our text messages and like cracking
Speaker 2: up at just how much I believed you guys, Like
Speaker 2: how I didn't question a single fucking thing. I was
Speaker 2: just like so anyway, so I'll tell it from my
Speaker 2: perspective and then you guys can kind of chime in.
Speaker 2: So a few months ago, Bailey sent a screenshot in
Speaker 2: our podcast group chat for an event at the Bellevue
Speaker 2: on Saturday, September thirteenth from three to seven. And this
Speaker 2: was just like a very generic email, but honestly like
Speaker 2: looking like a lot of emails are pretty generic and
Speaker 2: like I kind of skim invites and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: I'll like piece together the information that I find necessary.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, oh, cool an event at the Bellevue.
Speaker 2: I distinctly remember one of you being like, I think
Speaker 2: we should go to this, So I was like, oh, perfect,
Speaker 2: We'll go to this now. A key part of this
Speaker 2: story is that I thought this was a complete influencer
Speaker 2: event and it was sent to the podcast email and
Speaker 2: it said we all get plus ones.
Speaker 3: I did not think that that meant me.
Speaker 2: So for the past two months, I've been telling Jake
Speaker 2: that he can't come to this influence event at the Bellevue.
Speaker 3: So I have the most normal day of my life.
Speaker 2: On Saturday, I wake up well, me and Bailey were
Speaker 2: supposed to go to pilates together, but she had a
Speaker 2: little incident with her car getting toed so pause that
Speaker 2: I had the most normal morning of my life. I
Speaker 2: went to pilates, I took a walk, I like, came home,
Speaker 2: Jake made lunch. We're just sitting at the table eating
Speaker 2: lunch and I'm like, oh, I guess I'll start getting ready,
Speaker 2: and Jake was so normal, so calm. We start talking
Speaker 2: about how said we were for the day because earlier
Speaker 2: in the week, on Thursday, Bailey texted in a group
Speaker 2: chat and was like, are you bringing Jake to this event?
Speaker 2: Like I think I want to bring my man to
Speaker 2: his first influencer evant and I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 3: I didn't know we have plus ones. That's so exciting.
Speaker 3: I'll bring Jake. And I'm like telling you, I'm like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, not your man in his influencer era.
Speaker 3: And You're like, yup.
Speaker 2: I've been trying to find a perfect event for him
Speaker 2: to come to and this was the perfect one. So insane,
Speaker 2: So I'm fully convinced that we're that this has hit
Speaker 2: your man's first influencer evant.
Speaker 3: This is Jake's influencer event.
Speaker 2: We get ready and I'll go back and say some
Speaker 2: things that stand out to me now, but like normal,
Speaker 2: We get ready and I wanted to look really pretty
Speaker 2: because I wanted to take an Instagram, so I texted
Speaker 2: you guys, which I don't typically do text you for
Speaker 2: outfit advice.
Speaker 3: But I really wanted an Instagram.
Speaker 2: So I was like, oh, I want to like kind
Speaker 2: of fit the vibe, and I wanted us to get
Speaker 2: an updated Curly's pick. So I weirdly sent a picture
Speaker 2: so asked you, guys, what should I wear? And then
Speaker 2: all of you were like very helpful helping me find
Speaker 2: an outfit and like it stuck out to me, but
Speaker 2: in no way did it.
Speaker 3: Stick out to me in a proposal type of way.
Speaker 2: I was just like, Oh, they're being very nice and
Speaker 2: invested in what I'm wearing.
Speaker 3: I felt like we sounded weird.
Speaker 5: No I thought it was.
Speaker 2: Once Bailey sent her picture back, I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: this is kind of normal, Like we all will just
Speaker 2: like send an outfit by so like I didn't think
Speaker 2: it was like, again, weird. But you have to understand
Speaker 2: that I had zero idea that this was coming. So
Speaker 2: anything that stood out to me didn't stand out to
Speaker 2: me in a proposal way. So we get to the
Speaker 2: Bellevue and Zach, who's the director of marketing at the
Speaker 2: Bellevue we worked with him before. He's at the front
Speaker 2: and he greets us and I'm like, oh my god, hi,
Speaker 2: and he's like, oh, I'll take you up to Brandon's room.
Speaker 3: I guess I'm skipping a little part.
Speaker 2: Friday night, I was hanging out with Brandon and he
Speaker 2: so fucking casually goes, Oh, by the way, I have
Speaker 2: a room at the Bellevue this weekend. We can pre
Speaker 2: game before the event. And you said it in such
Speaker 2: a way that was so natural that I I didn't
Speaker 2: even have anything to question, even if I wanted to.
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, that's so weird he has a room,
Speaker 2: but like, you're a huge influencer, like you get free
Speaker 2: stuff all the time. Like who am I to question
Speaker 2: what he gets. So we get to the event. I
Speaker 2: think we're going up to Brandon's room to pregame, and
Speaker 2: I walk up to our rooms, acts like, oh, he's
Speaker 2: in this room. I walk over and I knock on
Speaker 2: the door, expecting fully to hear your voice come in.
Speaker 2: I knock on the door and Jake just comes out
Speaker 2: from behind me with a room key and he opens
Speaker 2: the door. And I was like, how the fuck do
Speaker 2: you have a room key? And in that moment he
Speaker 2: opened the door and I just opened it to a
Speaker 2: completely dark room, just entirely lit up with candles and
Speaker 2: roses everywhere. I have cried, literally NonStop.
Speaker 3: I cried all day at work. I cried. I can't
Speaker 3: even so.
Speaker 2: In that moment, it obviously processed to me what was happening,
Speaker 2: but I still didn't really realize what was happening.
Speaker 3: I was barely sobbing.
Speaker 5: I can't stop crying. Okay, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 2: And I had another ring on my finger, and like
Speaker 2: all I remember is just throwing the other ring off
Speaker 2: my finger because I was like, holy fuck, he's about
Speaker 2: to like put a different one on, and I threw
Speaker 2: my purse down and I kind of don't even remember
Speaker 2: what he said. All I know is he said, do
Speaker 2: you want to spend the rest of your life with me?
Speaker 2: And I was like, didn't say anything because I was
Speaker 2: in such shock. And then I was like, wait, I
Speaker 2: have to answer. I was like, of course, and then
Speaker 2: he put the ring on my finger and I just
Speaker 2: started like a bawling, but I didn't want to mess
Speaker 2: up my makeup because I like wanted to get good pictures,
Speaker 2: so I was trying to cry like strategically, so I
Speaker 2: was like trying to catch my tears, and he goes, well,
Speaker 2: once you stop crying, let's go celebrate, and I was like,
Speaker 2: what do you mean?
Speaker 3: And he just walked.
Speaker 2: We walked out of the balcony of our room and
Speaker 2: we walked right into a party. Of all of my
Speaker 2: friends and family in the most gorgeous space, Like that
Speaker 2: place was fucking beautiful. And the first people I see
Speaker 2: are you three and my mom, and I just started
Speaker 2: fucking balling. I didn't even see anyone else. You could
Speaker 2: have been the only people there, and I was just like,
Speaker 2: holy fuck. He did exactly what I wanted. I wanted
Speaker 2: a private proposal and to walk into all of my
Speaker 2: friends and family, and it was the most insane experience
Speaker 2: of my entire life.
Speaker 3: I've never been that shocked.
Speaker 2: I've never had that much like adrenaline pumping through me
Speaker 2: every time someone asked to see my hand, like my
Speaker 2: whole hand was shaking it. And then I spent the
Speaker 2: rest of the day figuring out how the fuck he
Speaker 2: pulled this off with me having zero fucking idea, Wow,
Speaker 2: zero clue, no het up.
Speaker 3: And that's everyone said.
Speaker 2: You guys helped a lot with like the small details,
Speaker 2: but a lot of the big planning, Like he was
Speaker 2: telling me that, like he did a lot of it himself,
Speaker 2: and I was very impressed by that because I was
Speaker 2: kind of like this whole time just thinking about when
Speaker 2: the proposal would be. I was always a little worried
Speaker 2: because I was like, I just don't know if he
Speaker 2: knows all the avenues he has at his disposal, Like
Speaker 2: obviously he can use Brandon for some kind of influencer event.
Speaker 2: He could have used my manager for some kind of
Speaker 2: brand deal. Like I didn't know if he kind of
Speaker 2: knew all the different things because Jake doesn't have social media.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so he doesn't.
Speaker 2: Have a ton of like point of references. But he
Speaker 2: fucking killed it. No, he really, Oh god, Oh it
Speaker 2: was so insane.
Speaker 5: Me and Bailey.
Speaker 3: I think we had a crying competition. I'm not sure
Speaker 3: you might have been me like.
Speaker 4: Ba honestly when we got so we got to well,
Speaker 4: I like, I won't jump out of the story. But
Speaker 4: when I got to Brandon Lindsay's before the Bellevue, and
Speaker 4: as soon as I walked in, I started crying. Right,
Speaker 4: They're like everyone, you guys are like Bailey, no, like
Speaker 4: please stop, Like I couldn't stop. I mean I didn't
Speaker 4: get ready with me and I couldn't like get out
Speaker 4: the word like say it because I was like fucking
Speaker 4: hysterically crying. But everyone was surprised, Like I wasn't I
Speaker 4: know You're gonna cry that much I'm like I did. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm like I daydream about this moment. I always cried.
Speaker 4: It's crazy cause I haven't like over the past few months,
Speaker 4: like I've been like I didn't said anything like, oh,
Speaker 4: like I imagine doing this because I quite literally have
Speaker 4: been doing that.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I'm.
Speaker 3: Gonna start crying now.
Speaker 2: I also just feel like you were like I was
Speaker 2: like because Jake was she was like, damn, Bailey cried
Speaker 2: a lot, and I was really trying to explain him obviously,
Speaker 2: despite the fact that we're best friends and all these things.
Speaker 2: Like one of the big things, I was like me
Speaker 2: and Bailey like quarantine together during COVID and like being
Speaker 2: in our little apartment just the two of us when.
Speaker 3: The world was shut off before we could go.
Speaker 2: See our families do anything, like it was genuinely just
Speaker 2: you and I. And I was like, we became so close,
Speaker 2: and you've been there through every one of my exes,
Speaker 2: and you saw me fall in love with Jake from
Speaker 2: the beginning, like when I lived with you.
Speaker 3: So I was just like, it's just me and Bailey have.
Speaker 2: That a weird bond, Like I devote a lot of
Speaker 2: it to COVID because most people were like quarantining with
Speaker 2: their families or quarantining, like we were stuck in.
Speaker 3: A room this fucking big together, Like I know, it's
Speaker 3: so I was promised.
Speaker 4: Still falling, No, I absolutely are like that's fungeo meaning
Speaker 4: where they're like attached to the hip. I'm like, I like,
Speaker 4: like I got proposed to. I was like I had
Speaker 4: to go smuck a cigarettes. I was like, I need
Speaker 4: like a beta blocker because I was crying.
Speaker 3: Jake told me that he woke. He walked up to
Speaker 3: you and was like, Casey's so lucky to have you,
Speaker 3: and you were like, Jake, shut up.
Speaker 5: Almost I have to go home. Oh that one got me.
Speaker 2: So, like, what when did did you guys first find out?
Speaker 2: Like I'm asking you guys this for the first time too.
Speaker 3: I think he sent us rings a while ago. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: I say, I think he said he bought in May.
Speaker 6: Yeah, he sent us rings in May and then like
Speaker 6: said that they were secured. And then we were giving
Speaker 6: him ideas of where he could do it, and I
Speaker 6: was like, you should do it at the Bellevue, like
Speaker 6: we have a connect there. They'll totally like make it,
Speaker 6: you know, as perfect as possible.
Speaker 2: That was the best venue really the way that it
Speaker 2: was that we could have because I know that he
Speaker 2: wanted at first to do a public proposal.
Speaker 5: I'll get into that so before.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so the way it ended up working out the
Speaker 2: private proposal and walking right out like immediately. It's not
Speaker 2: like we had to walk through a hallway or an elevator.
Speaker 2: Like I literally opened the door of our hotel room
Speaker 2: and I saw everyone, so.
Speaker 3: Like the space itself was beautiful.
Speaker 2: It felt like we were outside but inside at the
Speaker 2: same time, like genuinely my dream, Like I would not
Speaker 2: change a single thing, and I'm not even just saying that.
Speaker 6: Like, yeah, he texted us. We gave him Zach from
Speaker 6: the Belvey's number. We gave him Rachel the photographer's number,
Speaker 6: because we knew that you would want Rachel. And from
Speaker 6: there it's just like kind of like blossomed. And in
Speaker 6: August is when the infamous invite went out crazy, which
Speaker 6: was so.
Speaker 3: Funny, which shows that he did this by himself.
Speaker 1: There is tea behind this because so Brandon had a
Speaker 1: really bad crash out like when he when he sent that,
Speaker 1: So Jake was actually really sweet and he just texted
Speaker 1: me and Bailey and he was like, Hey, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: write up this invite. Can you guys send me some
Speaker 1: like mock up invites that you have gotten in the past.
Speaker 1: So Bailey and I are like, yeah, we like send
Speaker 1: him some emails of like invites blah blah blah. And
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm going to write you out an
Speaker 1: entire invite and you customize it to your liking. I
Speaker 1: put a few tags like this invite is for you
Speaker 1: and a guest, it's non transferable. Bailey's like, make sure
Speaker 1: you add that part blah blah blah. I used half Lindsay,
Speaker 1: half chat GBT. And when I used that and I
Speaker 1: said adjust to your liking, I meant that He left
Speaker 1: a few lines within that where it was so confusing.
Speaker 3: For example, he put there was a line in there.
Speaker 1: I was like, join us in a place surrounded by
Speaker 1: lush greenery.
Speaker 3: He writes me back and he's like, I changed so
Speaker 3: much of it, but I left.
Speaker 1: And if you know Jake, like you know, he's kind
Speaker 1: of like he's like always chomping' and he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: invite was fire, but what was really fire was the
Speaker 1: line about the lush greenery. And I'm thinking of my head,
Speaker 1: like the bellevue has no lush greenery.
Speaker 3: I don't really know. There was like two big plans
Speaker 3: and I was like, okay, sure, so it's safe to
Speaker 3: say the invite wasn't really.
Speaker 1: He didn't necessarily listen to Bailey and I, but he
Speaker 1: tried his best.
Speaker 4: I was afraid that I just keep I forgot, like
Speaker 4: I just knew. I had like like screenshot send it,
Speaker 4: but I did it too fast.
Speaker 5: I honestly shouldn't let it wait like like five or
Speaker 5: like six days.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, we got an email. Shit.
Speaker 5: I was like there she knows, but yeah no.
Speaker 4: So Jake texts like back in May and he's like,
Speaker 4: if you guys can just help figure out her ring size.
Speaker 5: I was like, yes, I can do that for you.
Speaker 4: And so me in Casey were going to New York
Speaker 4: for like the Sunny Angel's case the five pop up.
Speaker 4: You were invited, and so we It's funny because we
Speaker 4: went ring shop and we stopped in this ring place.
Speaker 5: I'm like perfect, like yes, got it. And as soon
Speaker 5: as we walk in, I was like, oh, do you
Speaker 5: know your ring size?
Speaker 4: She's like, oh no, Jake's been asked me that, Like
Speaker 4: I told him to figure that out. And I was like,
Speaker 4: girl like in that moment, my face, my heart sunk.
Speaker 4: I was like, well that's what I'm doing, mabes, and
Speaker 4: like the whole time, I was.
Speaker 5: Like I think I'm like, I'm like, I think I'm
Speaker 5: like a seven.
Speaker 4: I really don't know, Like I really don't know either,
Speaker 4: Like she wasn't like I.
Speaker 2: Were so obviously not on purpose, but I was being
Speaker 2: so difficult because I was just like Jake had been
Speaker 2: asking me my ring size and I'm like, I don't know.
Speaker 3: That's your job to figure out.
Speaker 5: And the woman had like a ring measure.
Speaker 2: I heard that most guys just take one of the
Speaker 2: girlfriend's rings that she's not wearing and they'll take that
Speaker 2: to the jeweler. But he didn't do it that way.
Speaker 2: But that's I heard that like one time, and I
Speaker 2: stuck with it. I was like, the house, he supposed
Speaker 2: to know you wear a hundred rings, but I have
Speaker 2: like in our bedroom, I have like a tray with
Speaker 2: a thousand rings I never wear. So like I'm telling you,
Speaker 2: I heard this information one time and just put that
Speaker 2: in my brain and was like, oh, that's how he
Speaker 2: does it.
Speaker 3: Obviously not true.
Speaker 2: Girls who you might think you're gonna engage if your
Speaker 2: friend's asking, you don't be fucking stupid like me.
Speaker 3: But I was like, oh yeah, that's for him to
Speaker 3: figure out.
Speaker 4: I was like, I was like, listen, I tried. I'm like,
Speaker 4: she got a ring. It's a little too big, so
Speaker 4: take that and rock with it. But then the one
Speaker 4: night we were all out, we were at what's that
Speaker 4: gay bar where it's a.
Speaker 3: Dance little gay pub?
Speaker 5: No no, no, when we go upstairs like the dance floor.
Speaker 3: Tavern on coms.
Speaker 5: Yes, we were all out.
Speaker 4: I remember us. We were in the dance floor section.
Speaker 4: We'd just gotten those rings, and like I.
Speaker 5: Thought, I fucked. I was like so obvious. I was like,
Speaker 5: Casey tried this on real quick, and like you tried on.
Speaker 5: I was like mm hmm. I was like it's like
Speaker 5: a seven and a half, but you didn't see that.
Speaker 5: I was like, whoo if we got it, But I
Speaker 5: think he already bought the ring, so it was kind
Speaker 5: of pointless.
Speaker 2: I will say, like, if you for me, my biggest thing.
Speaker 2: I did not want to figure this out. I didn't
Speaker 2: want to know because I'm the type of person, like
Speaker 2: my toxic trait is like if I know, I will subconsciously.
Speaker 3: Try to like ruin it or something, so like not
Speaker 3: ruin it.
Speaker 2: That's a bad word, but I'll like sabotage it in
Speaker 2: a way, or like I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't I didn't want to know.
Speaker 2: So there were a few moments where I noticed something
Speaker 2: weird and I genuinely just put it in the back
Speaker 2: of my mind and tried to forget it, because I
Speaker 2: feel like if I focused on it, I would have
Speaker 2: figured it out.
Speaker 3: This was I mean, this was incredible. I didn't figure
Speaker 3: it out.
Speaker 2: But there were a few moments like I saw my
Speaker 2: sister text him a few months ago and say I
Speaker 2: can't wait, And like I saw he got drunk when night.
Speaker 3: This was his fault.
Speaker 2: He got drunk one night and told me he's proposing,
Speaker 2: but he quickly tried to cover his mouth and like,
Speaker 2: forget that he said it.
Speaker 3: But there were other things that like I just noticed.
Speaker 2: Now that I know what happened looking back, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: that was kind of weird.
Speaker 3: So if you want to get proposed to and.
Speaker 2: You don't want to know, even if you kept something,
Speaker 2: do your best not look into it.
Speaker 3: Do you rest not think about it in any way?
Speaker 2: Shape or form, because I was completely surprised, and I
Speaker 2: think it's because of that.
Speaker 4: The sister texting we're in mom talk, I mean Brandon Nipules,
Speaker 4: Oh my god, am I like because we were about
Speaker 4: to go on that hike and you said something and
Speaker 4: you looked directly at me, and I was like, what
Speaker 4: do you think it could be?
Speaker 5: I remember I was at the fuck.
Speaker 2: Up like you played it off really well because I
Speaker 2: didn't pick up anything from that, But the context of
Speaker 2: the other story was me and Jake were drunk. Jake
Speaker 2: was drunk, I was sober, and we were play fighting
Speaker 2: and I was like, you don't even like me, and
Speaker 2: he was like, I'm about to propose. And as soon
Speaker 2: as he said that, he like shut his mouth and
Speaker 2: his face went white. And I never told you guys
Speaker 2: that story because I didn't know if your reactions would
Speaker 2: tell me that he was proposing soon, because I was
Speaker 2: afraid that if I told you guys and you all
Speaker 2: looked panicked, I would know that he fucked up. So
Speaker 2: I only told my work friends because they don't know
Speaker 2: Jake like that, and I'm like, I have to tell someone,
Speaker 2: and it can't be anyone that.
Speaker 3: Knows that I'm getting proposed to no.
Speaker 1: The sheer panic like the entire time, like I just
Speaker 1: Brandon and I had laughed at this because I said
Speaker 1: to him, I was like, on the way to the Bellvue,
Speaker 1: I go, we could just ruin this whole thing, ye.
Speaker 3: Like we could genuinely just ruined the tired day. And
Speaker 3: I started cracking up about it.
Speaker 1: But prior to us leaving for the bellevue, I watched
Speaker 1: our group chack go off, so we have a girlies
Speaker 1: group chat, and I watched it go off, and Brandon
Speaker 1: was talking about the bellevue and I like, in my brain,
Speaker 1: I guess I thought, like Casey doesn't know about the bellevue.
Speaker 1: Granted we were all going to this quote influencer event,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, oh my god, she doesn't know, Like Brandon,
Speaker 1: you wrote in the wrong chat. And I actually wanted
Speaker 1: to projectile vomit, like I felt like nauseousness, like I
Speaker 1: was in the elevator, like shake you think you were
Speaker 1: shaking if your hands were shaking.
Speaker 3: I was like, Brinda just ruined it all for Casey.
Speaker 4: I thought I triggered too fast because someone asked I
Speaker 4: was gonna send my autphit picture when I was already
Speaker 4: at your guys's place. But and I was like, oh
Speaker 4: my god, she's doomed in on that picture. So I'm
Speaker 4: already in full glam. She knows I'm going there early
Speaker 4: set up.
Speaker 3: I did notice. It's so funny.
Speaker 2: I did notice you were in full glam, but I
Speaker 2: kind of thought you were just getting ready early, like
Speaker 2: I did clock it.
Speaker 3: But I again like and.
Speaker 5: I was like, oh, make that damn bag's in the background.
Speaker 2: While we were getting ready, Like Jake asked if I
Speaker 2: wanted to drink at three pm before an.
Speaker 3: Influencer Evan, and I was like, no, why, Like do
Speaker 3: you want to drink? And he was like, yeah, I
Speaker 3: want to have a fun day.
Speaker 2: Now, looking back, he was nervous and like needed something
Speaker 2: to calm his nerves. But there were so many things,
Speaker 2: and like he was very adamant on me wearing.
Speaker 3: He wasn't not the yellow dress. No, the white dress.
Speaker 2: He wasn't too adamant on it, but he was pushing
Speaker 2: very like closely. He was like, oh, I really like
Speaker 2: the white dress, and like he couldn't figure out what
Speaker 2: to wear. And he was like, maybe I'll just call
Speaker 2: Brandon and see what he's wearing and like that was
Speaker 2: so natural and normal. I was like, yeah, that's a
Speaker 2: good idea, Like it's Brandon's event, like he's the influencer.
Speaker 3: It's a great idea to call him. Meanwhile, it's my event, like.
Speaker 5: That.
Speaker 1: There's a lure behind your outfit because Casey has this
Speaker 1: yellow dress and you.
Speaker 3: Look really really pretty in it. But we know you
Speaker 3: and you've instagrammed in.
Speaker 1: In fact, I looked back the photo and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: like this picture, like she is the dress, like and
Speaker 1: Jake mentioned us. He's like case has been talking about
Speaker 1: her she wants to wear this yellow dress again, and
Speaker 1: how she hasn't like like he pays attention to you,
Speaker 1: like he was like, she has been mentioning this.
Speaker 3: Do you think I should like push for the yellow dress?
Speaker 1: And Brandon and Bailey are like, this is why I'm
Speaker 1: not a good person to ask this because I was like,
Speaker 1: I just think you look so pretty in the yellow dress.
Speaker 1: So I was like, yeah, like the yellow dress, and
Speaker 1: Billy and Brandon were like, girl, don't you convince.
Speaker 5: Her to wear that dress.
Speaker 4: She's already posted in that and we pull up your
Speaker 4: po father there was already two Like I think cover photos.
Speaker 3: I use all those for my rope.
Speaker 5: We can't do that.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I also didn't know what that dress since
Speaker 6: it had such a low back, if like it would
Speaker 6: be good for photos because on your side a lot,
Speaker 6: And I was like, let's do something different.
Speaker 2: I'm obviously eternally fucking grateful that you guys convinced me
Speaker 2: to wear the other one because it was genuinely perfect.
Speaker 2: Everyone has been dming me and they're like, how the
Speaker 2: fuck did you wear the perfect dress for your own proposal?
Speaker 2: But I I was convincing myself because I wanted to
Speaker 2: wear the yellow and I was like, damn. I was like,
Speaker 2: I kind of feel like this event is going to
Speaker 2: be a lot of older, sophisticated people, and this yellow
Speaker 2: dress shows a lot of skin, So like, I'm a
Speaker 2: little bit nervous to show a lot of skin. And
Speaker 2: my friends think I should wear the white one. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna wear the white one. Like I was really close
Speaker 2: on wearing the yellow, even though you guys like the white.
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, but the yellow, I've been wanting
Speaker 2: to wear it. And then I thought, oh, this event,
Speaker 2: which thank god, because it does have an open back
Speaker 2: and it's a it's a high like skirt. Like my
Speaker 2: family was there, Jake's family was there, Like I would
Speaker 2: have been so embarrassed if I'm like hugging his grandfather
Speaker 2: in like a backless mini dress.
Speaker 4: Like you send a white top as an option, and
Speaker 4: I did love the white top, but then we were like.
Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know what she's gonna wear
Speaker 3: his bottom.
Speaker 5: Because I'm like, what she wears those black boots.
Speaker 4: I'm like, not like that, or like like like her
Speaker 4: bloomer like the bloomer sorts.
Speaker 3: No, I had on my white bloomer skirt.
Speaker 2: But it looks it looked like a vallery and it
Speaker 2: looked like it to too, So yeah, it immediately.
Speaker 3: Just for receipts.
Speaker 6: So Jake texaus April ninth with ring options and I
Speaker 6: remember that because I was in Mexico with Halle and
Speaker 6: Jazz and I.
Speaker 5: Was like, oh my god. I was like, I have
Speaker 5: to tell you something.
Speaker 6: And then he texted May twenty ninth that he got
Speaker 6: the ring and then he said, now I need a
Speaker 6: venue and a plan.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, wait, do you want to hear what it
Speaker 3: could have been? Is it the double knot? No, he said,
Speaker 3: I reached out to the.
Speaker 6: Anna and Bell Hotel, and then we were like, love that,
Speaker 6: but maybe the Bellevue because they might give a discount
Speaker 6: and it could be like easy because I get people there.
Speaker 3: So then he was like, perfect, send the numbers all
Speaker 3: he texted me.
Speaker 2: I was reading through my sister's messages with him, and
Speaker 2: he was like, she loves Double Knot's food and the
Speaker 2: only thing she cares about his candle. So I was
Speaker 2: thinking about renting the bottom of Double Knot, which is
Speaker 2: really cute, but like couldn't like the plan that ended
Speaker 2: up happening was exactly what I wanted, so like, I
Speaker 2: can't even imagine if it was a Double Knot.
Speaker 3: Like the Bellevue was just beyond perfect.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And then on July twenty eighth, he confirmed that
Speaker 6: he signed the contract with the Bellevue.
Speaker 3: We were just like and then he said dout evite.
Speaker 6: And one of our friends, one of our guy friends,
Speaker 6: he's not the brightest.
Speaker 3: Was like, wait, is Casey engaged?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: He texted me and he goes, no, he calls me.
Speaker 1: Sorry, He calls me and he goes, hey, is a
Speaker 1: oh my god, case is engaged? I said, no, she's
Speaker 1: getting engaged. She was like, oh, like so she doesn't know.
Speaker 1: I go, no, she doesn't know, and he was like, oh,
Speaker 1: thanks for telling me. I was about a text in
Speaker 1: say congrats. I said, insert name here. If you ruin
Speaker 1: this for her, it will be your last day on earth.
Speaker 2: When I heard that, I was cracking up because it's like,
Speaker 2: if for all fucking people to have ruined different to
Speaker 2: be him, I would have died. But that was when
Speaker 2: I was saying earlier the invite, that invite that he
Speaker 2: sent out to invite everyone to the event. I realized
Speaker 2: he did by himself because somebody showed it to me yesterday,
Speaker 2: and it's so fucking cute, like the flowers and the writing.
Speaker 3: But on the card it says Jake and Casey's like
Speaker 3: it does.
Speaker 2: It is worded in a little bit of a way
Speaker 2: where you think it's like an engagement party, that is,
Speaker 2: we are already engaged, like the card should have said
Speaker 2: like I'm proposing.
Speaker 3: But it was like super cute.
Speaker 2: I heard he was being very strict to people, being like,
Speaker 2: if you are not here at exactly three o'clock, wait outside.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I trained him so well, Like, yeah, God,
Speaker 2: I was worried.
Speaker 5: I'm like, I hope no one like runs like inter.
Speaker 1: I know, God, let me ask you this, which elevator
Speaker 1: did you get off of?
Speaker 2: He took us the back elevator because he was like, oh,
Speaker 2: here's the easier way to get to Brandon's room.
Speaker 4: Okay, interesting because there was like another view of elevators
Speaker 4: in there too, and I'm like, she's gonna see someone
Speaker 4: was standing right there.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the ones that Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, he took us the back elevator because he was like, Oh,
Speaker 2: it's quicker to get to Brandon's room. And like, when
Speaker 2: I tell you the whole elevator ride, we're talking about
Speaker 2: this event, some what the chefs that are gonna be there,
Speaker 2: talking about the food that's gonna be there, Like I'm
Speaker 2: fully talking about food, and like him and Jake dapped
Speaker 2: each other up like they haven't seen each other in
Speaker 2: three years. Jacobs, I've talked to that man every day
Speaker 2: for the last three months.
Speaker 5: I'm like, news to fucking me.
Speaker 3: You guys acted like you haven't seen each other in forever.
Speaker 3: It was so funny.
Speaker 6: On Monday, August twenty fifth, he texts us and it's like,
Speaker 6: can you guys bring up the event today? Be like
Speaker 6: it sounds so much fun. We were all going, we
Speaker 6: should all go thank you. I go, I don't think
Speaker 6: we should push that too hard. She's gonna get because
Speaker 6: that was like three weeks before. It would not seem like.
Speaker 5: Like sense to like bring it up again. So that's
Speaker 5: like I just randomly said, I'm like, hey, I r
Speaker 5: s VP for this, Brandon.
Speaker 4: I know you're gonna be like busy or whatever. I'm like,
Speaker 4: no one else canna pay attention to this.
Speaker 3: It's funny that I like did.
Speaker 2: I did pay a lot of attention to it, like
Speaker 2: but in a good way, Like I like was.
Speaker 3: Excited for this event.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, this will be cute, like I
Speaker 2: didn't and like the thing when you were saying like, oh,
Speaker 2: like Jake's writing was crazy, Like I kind of think
Speaker 2: all invites are a little crazy. So like I've been
Speaker 2: rereading that email for the past week to figure.
Speaker 3: Out what to wear.
Speaker 6: And we were doing investigating, like Lindsay circled all your
Speaker 6: pictures to like figure out what good side you would
Speaker 6: be on.
Speaker 3: Like yeah, Bailly and I scrapped like.
Speaker 5: We have the same good side. It's the left side
Speaker 5: of her face.
Speaker 1: But when you're looking spot on, I just flipped my
Speaker 1: lefty and my righting.
Speaker 5: It's her right side. I'm like, yeah it is.
Speaker 3: And I only knew that.
Speaker 1: No, I literally thought of like a kid, I'm like, wait,
Speaker 1: your birthwork's on the left side of your head, and
Speaker 1: I hate when I'm on that side. So I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm on this. I was like, oh, okay, and then
Speaker 1: I like had it was crazy.
Speaker 2: I always, honestly, whenever I forget my good side, I
Speaker 2: just think about how we sit here because I sit
Speaker 2: on my good side to whatever camera films all four.
Speaker 3: Of us, and I would rather face you guys like that.
Speaker 2: So like whenever I'm like with someone, I'm like, fuck,
Speaker 2: what's my good side? I picture how we sit in
Speaker 2: the podcast.
Speaker 6: So as amazed as everything went, we did get a
Speaker 6: little stressed out the week of because Jake texted us
Speaker 6: on Monday, last Monday before you got proposed to and
Speaker 6: was just like talking about the plan, and then I
Speaker 6: wanted to specify. I said, Jake, are you proposing to
Speaker 6: her at the Bellevue or are you doing it somewhere else?
Speaker 6: And then bringing her there for a surprise party. He said,
Speaker 6: my plan is to get to Bellevue. The sign will
Speaker 6: say private event twelve floor.
Speaker 3: We go up there. She thinks we're walking into an
Speaker 3: influencer event. We walk in.
Speaker 6: Everyone's waiting for us, smiling with their phones out, waving.
Speaker 6: Whatever I say, this whole day is alive. Will you
Speaker 6: marry me? Get down on one knee? She says yes hopefully,
Speaker 6: and then we drink in mean golf. I said, are
Speaker 6: you fully committed to that? He goes, I'm open, but
Speaker 6: we need any other ideas quick. I said, I just
Speaker 6: know Casey and her anxiety, and I'm worried that might
Speaker 6: really overwhelm her and make her uncomfortable.
Speaker 3: And he said, yeah, I thought about that.
Speaker 6: I said, I almost feel like you get there ten
Speaker 6: to fifteen minutes before us and ask the question in
Speaker 6: private so that you have your moment and then we
Speaker 6: will come up and celebrate. So we were like trying
Speaker 6: to like reorganize us like the day because it's.
Speaker 3: Just such true friendship.
Speaker 2: Like I it would have been a great day, but
Speaker 2: that's just not what I wanted, Like I wanted the
Speaker 2: proposal to be private, and the way you rode for
Speaker 2: me I really appreciate.
Speaker 6: And we were also nervous too, because when he told
Speaker 6: us his idea of the room with the candles, and
Speaker 6: we knew what room it was because we've.
Speaker 3: Been in it.
Speaker 6: I said, I don't know, Casey's gonna want pictures. I said,
Speaker 6: there's no windows in that room. But then he showed
Speaker 6: us his vision. We're like, oh wait, now that's really yeah,
Speaker 6: and he really executed because this was the inspo pick
Speaker 6: and it looks like incredible compared to what it was.
Speaker 3: And I it's so funny.
Speaker 2: You posted a TikTok and a bunch of girls commented
Speaker 2: and they're like, oh, she has Rachel as her photographer,
Speaker 2: Like her pictures are going to be great. And I
Speaker 2: love Rachel and I could talk about her forever. And
Speaker 2: the reason I love her is because the proposal itself
Speaker 2: was really dark, Like the photos from the moment are darker.
Speaker 3: I still think they're beautiful.
Speaker 2: But she took us for like ten minutes during the
Speaker 2: party to go back and like sort of recreate the
Speaker 2: proposal in the room with the lights on, so then
Speaker 2: we could take like actually well lit photos, which I
Speaker 2: love because then I have like the real moment and
Speaker 2: then I have like the faith, like yeah, like cute
Speaker 2: intimate moments.
Speaker 4: But Rachel also did a j Brown's Oh my gosh,
Speaker 4: it was in the what's.
Speaker 5: That sky high?
Speaker 3: Oh? Yes, yeah she did, she did.
Speaker 5: I mean she's a great photographer.
Speaker 3: She may be the best.
Speaker 2: And I shot a boudoir shoot like the lingerie shoot
Speaker 2: with her when literally like three days after Jake and
Speaker 2: I said we were boyfriend and girlfriend, like we started
Speaker 2: dating February tenth, and I think like February thirteenth, I
Speaker 2: did a boudoir shoot with her and she was like, Oh,
Speaker 2: are you gonna She had reached out to me on Instagram.
Speaker 2: She was like, I want to build my portfolio. I'd
Speaker 2: love to like shoot you for practice.
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, I've never done something like this. Sure,
Speaker 3: And when we were taking the photo, she was like, oh,
Speaker 3: are you going to give these to anyone?
Speaker 2: And I was like, I guess, like I started dating
Speaker 2: this guy and like it's really soon, but I feel
Speaker 2: like he'd like these photos. And she brought that up
Speaker 2: and she was just like I literally like remember when
Speaker 2: you were talking about him, and so it was just
Speaker 2: like really full circle to have us.
Speaker 3: She shot our live show.
Speaker 5: Like.
Speaker 3: I adore her. I think she's incredible photographer.
Speaker 5: She's so good.
Speaker 3: She makes everyone feel comfortable she made Jake feel comfortable.
Speaker 1: I literally said to her like, I was like, the
Speaker 1: last thing I want to do is is I made
Speaker 1: it about me. I was like, I don't want feel uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: I went up to her and I was like, listen,
Speaker 1: this dress is dummy tight. I was like, when you
Speaker 1: see my baby start to pop out, just tell me, like,
Speaker 1: suck it in his sister, and she told me multiple times.
Speaker 3: She goes lindsay, other leg move your back this way.
Speaker 2: Turns and I was like, oh, and she like knows
Speaker 2: she's just a girl, like she's a girl's girl.
Speaker 3: She like kept moving my hair. She's like, you're not
Speaker 3: gonna like your weight, like the way your hair looks
Speaker 3: in that photo.
Speaker 2: And I love the way my hair looks in every
Speaker 2: single picture that's everyone keeps of the day.
Speaker 3: Kept being like, are you sure you didn't know?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, if I fucking knew that I was
Speaker 2: getting proposed to, I'd have a spray tan and my
Speaker 2: hair would be blonde. Those two things did not happen.
Speaker 2: I'm not getting my hair done till this week. I
Speaker 2: promise you. No, no, I mean I that is how
Speaker 2: I feel like people know that I was genuinely, the
Speaker 2: happiest I've ever been is I didn't give a fuck
Speaker 2: what I looked. Like all I cared about was makeup stains,
Speaker 2: but like in terms of my hair or like anything else,
Speaker 2: I literally did not give a fuck.
Speaker 1: I think.
Speaker 2: I think there's like the prettiest pictures of me I've
Speaker 2: ever seen. Like I don't care at all, so it
Speaker 2: does not bother me. But I promise if I had known,
Speaker 2: I would have gotten a spray tan. Oh my god,
Speaker 2: but I told you guys, I texted you privately, but
Speaker 2: just like you guys meant the world to me to
Speaker 2: like help all those details, and like Jake did a
Speaker 2: great job by himself, but you guys definitely did the
Speaker 2: little finishing touches. Because if he would have proposed in public,
Speaker 2: I definitely would have had a panic attack and been
Speaker 2: so sweaty and freaking out.
Speaker 4: Wait, I do want to say he he's a little
Speaker 4: FBI agent.
Speaker 5: I'm going to take some of his classes.
Speaker 4: I was like helping him with some of the invites,
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, I'm like I don't have
Speaker 4: any cases like your delaware.
Speaker 5: Like Kie and all them.
Speaker 4: I was like, I can probably go on like Instagram.
Speaker 4: He's like, actually I went on LinkedIn. I said, oh,
Speaker 4: he said, but I'm like, you shouldn't have told me that,
Speaker 4: because I was like, I guess you can go on LinkedIn.
Speaker 5: I think you got there. Oh he LinkedIn premium or something.
Speaker 5: He got their phone numbers.
Speaker 3: I don't know how he messaged them on LinkedIn.
Speaker 2: He messaged my best friend Katie and she was telling
Speaker 2: me yesterday and she was.
Speaker 3: Like, I was so excited. I thought Jake professionally wanted
Speaker 3: to be my friend. And she's like and then I
Speaker 3: saw the message and it was.
Speaker 2: Like, as much as I appreciate you professionally, I'm messaging
Speaker 2: you because I'm proposing to Kasey and I don't have
Speaker 2: your phone number. But yeah, Jake didn't have any social media,
Speaker 2: so he had to message people on LinkedIn period. But
Speaker 2: some girl did comment and she was like, this is
Speaker 2: a This is almost as.
Speaker 3: Important to me as Taylor Swift getting engaged.
Speaker 2: She was a listener, like a girly fan, and I
Speaker 2: was like, you have no idea what that means to me.
Speaker 2: I was like that I might frame this comment and
Speaker 2: hang it above my bed.
Speaker 5: One Taylor Swift, I saw that I was like this
Speaker 5: is such a year for me.
Speaker 3: Like, and I got engaged on the thirteen.
Speaker 5: It sounds like, oh my god, what's it the thirteenth.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh man, it's just so weird.
Speaker 2: Everyone's like, oh, you're in your bride era now, and
Speaker 2: like that word doesn't feel even real to me. My
Speaker 2: friends got me a pair of socks that say bride
Speaker 2: on them, and I like wore them all day yesterday
Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm not a bride what, Like,
Speaker 2: it's just this era it's so weird and different. I
Speaker 2: feel like I'm so used to seeing everyone else in
Speaker 2: it that I'm like having identity crisis.
Speaker 1: I think like it's gonna be a really special time
Speaker 1: when we go to Nashville for your bachelorette and we
Speaker 1: all wear matching T shirt and say like bride squad
Speaker 1: and you're wearing like a bride outfit and we get
Speaker 1: those blow ups that say like same dick forever.
Speaker 5: She's in white. We're all in paink right, Right.
Speaker 3: It's gonna be great. We'll do theme nights. It's gonna be.
Speaker 2: I like know that you will torture me with that,
Speaker 2: Like I like know that there will be like a
Speaker 2: sash and like a penis head would never do that
Speaker 2: to you.
Speaker 1: You guys, Casey, we all think that we all feel
Speaker 1: this way about bachelorettes, like we all hate a corny bachelorette.
Speaker 3: We hate a corny bacheloret box. We've talked about on
Speaker 3: our wedding episode, but I feel like you really hated
Speaker 3: the most.
Speaker 2: So I just it's really like the Bride Tribe t
Speaker 2: shirts and kill me horrid. I like, really the Disney ones.
Speaker 2: Have you seen them where it's all different? Say yes,
Speaker 2: like Disney, We're in there.
Speaker 5: Wow, this is such a great time for a world.
Speaker 2: The influencer I don't know why, introduced her like that
Speaker 2: Peyton who we had on our podcast. She was saying
Speaker 2: that she was doing like a bachelor at dinner, like
Speaker 2: one really nice dinner, and I like loved that idea,
Speaker 2: Like to just do one really fancy dinner.
Speaker 3: HM, copy it.
Speaker 2: I will take very exact idea, No, but I hand
Speaker 2: it out on. It was so fun to do like
Speaker 2: a really nice dinner but you can cook it.
Speaker 3: Yeah it's period. Yeah true.
Speaker 4: Speaking of wedding, So, my best friend Holly from uh
Speaker 4: like I grew up with her. Her wedding was also
Speaker 4: on nine thirteen, but stop and so it.
Speaker 5: Was really cool.
Speaker 4: Just got married in Denver, that's where she lives. And
Speaker 4: I've never seen this before, but they did a raffle,
Speaker 4: so no one knew, like in the audience that people
Speaker 4: are attending. They did like one of those old school
Speaker 4: things and they picked out of like people's names, and
Speaker 4: then the audience like, all right, this person's gonna be
Speaker 4: the ring bear, this person's gonna be the flower girl.
Speaker 5: Because I was wondering, I was looking at the pictures,
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, how did.
Speaker 4: She choose her like bridesmaids and like groomsmen, And it's
Speaker 4: because like they were all random SARTs, like the random pick.
Speaker 3: Even like her bridesmaids.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I see, like my friend Carly and I
Speaker 4: I saw like two men on her side. I'm like,
Speaker 4: those aren't her husbands. I'm like, who are they? And
Speaker 4: I guess she just did a random pick. So like
Speaker 4: a backyard wedding. It was a really small wedding.
Speaker 3: It was kind of camp.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna send you guys, it's so cool. It's so cute.
Speaker 4: I loved it, Like she's like, Holly's the type of
Speaker 4: girl like that. Yeah, make sense that there's such an
Speaker 4: interesting thing.
Speaker 3: I will I mean, I'm not gonna act like I'm
Speaker 3: any but an expert in this. It's been seventy two hours,
Speaker 3: but I will say that like a lot of like
Speaker 3: at the Asian.
Speaker 2: Party, was all the same questions and like everybody's asking
Speaker 2: the same thing, So like I do have like a
Speaker 2: level of respect for people who.
Speaker 3: Do something like so different. Like everyone commented on.
Speaker 2: My black ring, Like I think it's just cool when
Speaker 2: it's like, really, you like that's such a different idea.
Speaker 2: What are so easy to be all the same and
Speaker 2: if you like things that are basically the same, that's fine.
Speaker 2: There's no shade in that, but like little elements like that,
Speaker 2: like that's I could never do that, but that is
Speaker 2: so cool that she I know, I want to have
Speaker 2: Like a imagine if you were like your boyfriend's plus
Speaker 2: one at the wedding and like you get called to
Speaker 2: be like her bridesman.
Speaker 3: You're like, I don't even know the bride.
Speaker 5: Like, right, that's so cute. Be in my wedding. We've
Speaker 5: got her husband, other husband.
Speaker 3: No, I'm Brandon's best man. I wear a suit, a
Speaker 3: pants suit type one.
Speaker 4: I was gonna wear a power suit too, but I
Speaker 4: thought that was too much On Saturday, was tros.
Speaker 3: I feel like that would have been cute with like
Speaker 3: a crop top underneath. No, I was gonna do Yeah,
Speaker 3: Hillary Clinton power she's not picturing. She does a pixie
Speaker 3: cut like a ritz.
Speaker 5: Cor there for work. Okay.
Speaker 2: When Taylor Swift got engaged, everyone was just like, I
Speaker 2: don't know, I don't of use people shitting on her
Speaker 2: for like, oh, it's not that nice, Like it's just
Speaker 2: like a flower in his backyard, like all this stuff.
Speaker 2: And then I was really trying to think, like I
Speaker 2: can't even think of any celebrity engagements, Like I feel
Speaker 2: like you you find out if celebrities engaged afterwards, But
Speaker 2: have there ever been like semi public celebrity engagements or
Speaker 2: like situations that you've seen Kanye and.
Speaker 4: Kim Remember he did the flowers or is that the
Speaker 4: wedding wedding or something might have been a holiday. Remember
Speaker 4: he it was a Dodger stadium and he had like
Speaker 4: a full string quartet runted off the Dadger Stadium.
Speaker 3: It was like.
Speaker 5: Fireworks and all the damn Okay, that's I remember. It
Speaker 5: was like televised. Yeah, like yeah, I'm trying to think.
Speaker 5: I don't think. I know.
Speaker 3: I feel like I like, I feel like thank God
Speaker 3: to burnt Into. I agree proposals themselves should be private.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's like, yeah, the intimate part between
Speaker 2: you and your partner. I don't even remember what Jake said,
Speaker 2: but it is the moment where you like.
Speaker 3: Have a private moment with your partner.
Speaker 1: Wait, I have a really good public the only public
Speaker 1: proposal I've ever seen where I've been like, oh my goodness.
Speaker 3: And it was that one of that couple at that
Speaker 3: Adele concert.
Speaker 5: Oh I'm talking about?
Speaker 3: Yeah, picture this.
Speaker 1: You get tickets to go see Adele at her residency
Speaker 1: in Las Vegas. So it's a real intimate concert space
Speaker 1: that they have, Like people are seated during that concert
Speaker 1: like it's it's really special. And Adele starts singing like
Speaker 1: that one song that she has that's like really sappy
Speaker 1: and like beautiful, and they just get engaged like she's
Speaker 1: part of it, like he planned this with the Dell,
Speaker 1: like she knows about it.
Speaker 3: It's crazy and it's a beautiful display at the concert
Speaker 3: front rope. I feel like that my like, what would
Speaker 3: your nightmare proposal be? My nightmare proposal.
Speaker 2: And this is no shade to anyone who has been
Speaker 2: proposed this way. Me personally, who I am as a person,
Speaker 2: would be at a baseball game.
Speaker 3: I think I would pass out and die.
Speaker 6: I might agree with any like event that was supposed
Speaker 6: to be for me, like if I was my birthday
Speaker 6: party or a graduation or something like, don't propose to
Speaker 6: me on that.
Speaker 3: Day, yeah, like make it a separate day.
Speaker 4: Or if it was someone else's event, like if it
Speaker 4: was like yeah, like people they propose at weddings's so weird,
Speaker 4: don't do that.
Speaker 5: Random.
Speaker 4: But like if I was somewhere where I would drop,
Speaker 4: like I'd be too shaky, if I was on a
Speaker 4: boardwalk and it would fall right through the crack something
Speaker 4: like that, Like it'd be like just like a oh,
Speaker 4: this isn't funny.
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: You know, I think around random people, like people who
Speaker 1: get engaged in a restaurant and everybody was like yay,
Speaker 1: it's like.
Speaker 2: Oh, and then you always see that like one middle
Speaker 2: aged woman who has her phone in their.
Speaker 3: Face, Oh my god, he's proposing that.
Speaker 1: Birthday party that it wasn't a birthday party, it was
Speaker 1: COVID And I remember we went to Attiko for my birthday.
Speaker 3: It was the year of the Hell and Keller romper.
Speaker 1: If you if the real listeners who listened to this
Speaker 1: podcast remember that. Anyways, the table behind us, the guy
Speaker 1: proposed to his girlfriend, and I was like, yeah, first.
Speaker 3: Off, it's my birthday. Very sy no, I'm kidding, but
Speaker 3: I was just like this is really sweet. But even
Speaker 3: I was like, Yaya, why did I do that?
Speaker 2: I feel like Christmas or like another holiday, like pick
Speaker 2: a different dy. That's why Jake, because he's known about
Speaker 2: this forever, he's like ready to get married today. He's like,
Speaker 2: we should go, and I was like, we have the
Speaker 2: luxury of picking our date. I want a pretty wedding date,
Speaker 2: like I want a date that I enjoy saying, and
Speaker 2: he suggested March.
Speaker 3: I don't particularly love the month of March, Like what
Speaker 3: is what like categorizes a pretty date?
Speaker 2: Like like to me, I love I love October, like
Speaker 2: I love writing October. I think October written cursive is
Speaker 2: really pretty. Like I just like the month of October.
Speaker 2: But I also like April, like I March is just
Speaker 2: weirdly like kind of a month I don't fuck with.
Speaker 3: So he wants to get married.
Speaker 4: I think numbers to like ten for some like ten
Speaker 4: twenty six popping my mind, Like it's just like such
Speaker 4: a pretty.
Speaker 2: Yeah for me to write down. I'll keep that noted,
Speaker 2: write that down, but yeah, I don't know. March is
Speaker 2: just it's like chunky in my mouth. So April he
Speaker 2: was like, what about this March? And he was like,
Speaker 2: because we want to do like a whole thing, a
Speaker 2: whole trip, so we need to like vary in the weather.
Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm not rushing our date that
Speaker 2: we have to celebrate for the rest of our fucking
Speaker 2: lives because you want nice weather. So I'm like, we
Speaker 2: won't pick a date that's nice to say, and does
Speaker 2: nice weather weird?
Speaker 3: January the way I thought you were gonna get married
Speaker 3: like next week, Yeah, I like would m hm.
Speaker 2: But I also like, now that it's happened, like I
Speaker 2: think before I really wanted to just get married right
Speaker 2: away and like I low key would, But now that
Speaker 2: I have the ability to like breathe, because that was
Speaker 2: such a shock, I feel like I want to like
Speaker 2: enjoy it a little longer, like I really thought I
Speaker 2: would know, and the fact that I didn't, I feel
Speaker 2: like changes everything I thought about before. I thought I
Speaker 2: would have like a little idea and then i'd be
Speaker 2: like ready to mentally prepare myself.
Speaker 5: Bitch.
Speaker 3: I felt so stupid, stupid in a good way, but like, no.
Speaker 4: That's why he was like, I'm thinking about August and
Speaker 4: said hell no, because I'm like, I was under the
Speaker 4: impression that you guys were just gonna do it.
Speaker 5: I'm like, if you guys go to Vegas in August, yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 5: she's gonna sweat. She hates that.
Speaker 2: And you said that you were like, I didn't want
Speaker 2: to do it in a hot month because then you'll
Speaker 2: be steady and gross.
Speaker 5: True, Remy's out.
Speaker 3: In the pictures.
Speaker 6: That was so funny too, because I said I was like,
Speaker 6: I was like, the better friend of you are, the
Speaker 6: better you are aligned to them, And wow, I was
Speaker 6: just like I knew exactly how to lie to Casey.
Speaker 6: I know what she'll believe, what she won't believe. Like
Speaker 6: it sounds twisted, but I was just like, Yep, this
Speaker 6: is how it's gonna go.
Speaker 5: I was thinking this day and age.
Speaker 4: She like overtext, she can't read our emotions or anything,
Speaker 4: which is like after I sent in the group chat
Speaker 4: about I was like, I'm bringing so and so almost
Speaker 4: fucked up. I'm bringing uh redacted. I texted Brad sept
Speaker 4: Fel like got her.
Speaker 5: How is this? So I'm like, oh, like I put
Speaker 5: an alarm too. I was like, send text you case.
Speaker 2: I feel like it's also probably helpful that I'm on
Speaker 2: anxiety meds now too, because I don't overthink things that
Speaker 2: much anymore. Like I still overthink, but not in the
Speaker 2: way that I used to where I did used to
Speaker 2: think about like every text message that comes through in
Speaker 2: every interaction, and like now I'm just so much more
Speaker 2: calm that, like I know, I take things so much
Speaker 2: more for face value.
Speaker 3: So Brandon's like, I have a room with the Bellvue.
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, cool, And then you texted about
Speaker 2: it the next morning and like you're like, oh, if
Speaker 2: anyone wants to come pre game and Lindsay you responded
Speaker 2: like you didn't know about it, and I was like
Speaker 2: that was so good.
Speaker 3: So I didn't know about them. I was like, wait,
Speaker 3: we have a room at the Bellevue.
Speaker 1: I felt so dumb because the only thing on my
Speaker 1: brain was do not ruin this for Casey, because you
Speaker 1: know me, I'm mean, I don't think before I speak
Speaker 1: sometimes so like it just blurts out, come out, like
Speaker 1: I just I just told Jason a story the other
Speaker 1: day about the girl Scout troupe that I said a
Speaker 1: horrible thing to where I crashed out because my brain
Speaker 1: was not working that day.
Speaker 3: It was really bad, It really really bad. It was
Speaker 3: really bad.
Speaker 1: So like I I didn't want to ruin it for you.
Speaker 5: I want to.
Speaker 1: I think we should play two truths in a line
Speaker 1: next time, because I really just thought about that, and
Speaker 1: it's like we really can to each other.
Speaker 4: I was gonna say when you said like I don't
Speaker 4: question things, I'm start question everything you guys, I don't either,
Speaker 4: and I really question.
Speaker 5: Mark, go into this, explain what this is. Hell, No,
Speaker 5: we did lie to you.
Speaker 3: That's what everyone kept saying. They're like, yeah, you want
Speaker 3: to marry him now after he lied to you three months?
Speaker 2: Like you're right, No, actually right, I'm gonna clock every
Speaker 2: single lie he told me.
Speaker 5: So what was true the last few months? Wow?
Speaker 2: And like again now looking back, like he has been
Speaker 2: so fucking lovey recently, like the past like three weeks
Speaker 2: he has been like I love you so much. He
Speaker 2: says it all the time to the point where, again
Speaker 2: I did not know this was happening, but on my
Speaker 2: to do list in my phone, I was going to
Speaker 2: secretly buy an engagement dress and send it to my
Speaker 2: mom's house and be like, let me get proposed to
Speaker 2: in whatever I'm wearing, but if there's a party, bring
Speaker 2: this dress to the party and I'll change into it.
Speaker 2: Because my coworker did that, I thought that was so smart,
Speaker 2: because like she was like, I don't know when it's
Speaker 2: going to happen, but I want to know that I
Speaker 2: like my dress, and I was like, wait, that's such
Speaker 2: a good idea. So still in my phone is a
Speaker 2: to do list of finding an engagement dress to send
Speaker 2: to my mom to like secretly bring to the party.
Speaker 3: Wow, it's like you'll never know. Yeah, I mean my
Speaker 3: dress was perfect, Pepper mao Urian.
Speaker 5: My chest is tight again, I think with a cry.
Speaker 2: In a completely unrelated topic, I have a really funny
Speaker 2: would you rather I saw on.
Speaker 3: TikTok stealing my thunder again?
Speaker 2: Did you guys see any Have you seen any recently?
Speaker 2: Because this one went viral, so I'm like, was curious
Speaker 2: if anyone else saw it. I don't on TikTok anymore bailly,
Speaker 2: we send more than anyway. Would you rather be woken
Speaker 2: up every single night at three am and you have
Speaker 2: to eat three fresh corn dogs start to finish three
Speaker 2: am and you can go back to sleep, and you
Speaker 2: have to do that every single night for an extended.
Speaker 3: Period of time the rest of your life. Oh every night.
Speaker 2: Let's say you don't like, you know, get like heart
Speaker 2: failure from all the whatever, but you're eating three corn
Speaker 2: dogs every night at three am or the second you
Speaker 2: wake up, you have to drink two baja blasts before
Speaker 2: you can do anything. You can't get, you can't go
Speaker 2: to the bathroom, you can't like you are laying in
Speaker 2: bed and you are immediately handed.
Speaker 3: To baja blasts like some small meeting real.
Speaker 1: And is it a baja blast freeze or is it
Speaker 1: a baja blast just the soda.
Speaker 2: Let's say ones freeze one soda and let's just say
Speaker 2: medium to make it in the middle manium.
Speaker 5: I'll do that.
Speaker 3: I'll do the baja blasts.
Speaker 4: I'd rather have that liquid in meat than like the
Speaker 4: I mean, I could I could do either every time.
Speaker 4: I know I could do either with the BaHaB when
Speaker 4: you wake up, so like thirsty and like, imagine wake
Speaker 4: up like five am after a night of drinking, Like I'm.
Speaker 5: So thirsty, and you retoord to Baja blasts.
Speaker 3: Yeah, hydrate in.
Speaker 2: I think I have to go corn dog because like
Speaker 2: when I wake up, I want to start my day fresh,
Speaker 2: and it's like whatever I did the night before doesn't
Speaker 2: matter to me the next morning. So like if I
Speaker 2: eat three corn dogs at three am, that's yesterday's problem.
Speaker 3: Today.
Speaker 2: I get to wake up and feel whatever, and then
Speaker 2: at night I have to do it again. But I
Speaker 2: feel like if I started my day with three Baha
Speaker 2: or two Baja blasts, like I kind of don't know.
Speaker 3: If I could ever recover my day again.
Speaker 4: Like yeah, but yesterday's problem could be a tomorrow's problem
Speaker 4: when you have to wake up and sit on that
Speaker 4: toilet with three corn dogs, very true, was going to
Speaker 4: be in miserable pain, Very true.
Speaker 1: I would pick the bah blah blast, but ah man,
Speaker 1: my stomach kind of hurts thinking about it.
Speaker 3: Every morning.
Speaker 1: We used to every Sunday morning, And I know this
Speaker 1: happened seven days a week, but I only noticed it
Speaker 1: on Sundays because that's when I would go to church
Speaker 1: with my family, My dad would stop at wah Wah
Speaker 1: and he would go in and I went to church early.
Speaker 1: I went to Sunday school, so I was at work
Speaker 1: at work. Oh god, I'm traumatized. I was at Sunday
Speaker 1: school by nine am. My dad would pull into wa Wah,
Speaker 1: I can picture it.
Speaker 3: He would go back.
Speaker 1: He would get a large bottle of coke and a
Speaker 1: king sized Snickers and he would put that away and.
Speaker 3: He ate that for breakfast every single day.
Speaker 1: Granted my dad was in his prime, so it was fine,
Speaker 1: but he ate every single day. And then he was like, man,
Speaker 1: I should probably give up sodies, and I was like,
Speaker 1: you think. Then he started switching to coffee. He would
Speaker 1: go to Dunkin Donuts and he would order this. He
Speaker 1: would go, I'll have an extra large coffee with extra
Speaker 1: extra cream and the regular amount of sugar. Not too much,
Speaker 1: my family, and now watch your mouth. And he just
Speaker 1: drinks a coffee black with probably probably the same amount
Speaker 1: of sugar that's in a coke.
Speaker 3: So you will live if you do.
Speaker 1: I'm living proof of like someone I knows. I've seen
Speaker 1: it firsthand. You will live from the Baja blast.
Speaker 4: But then I look at your coffee's when you have
Speaker 4: that mound of sugar at the bottom of those rocks,
Speaker 4: you're fucking storing.
Speaker 3: Around and see here's my unsolicited rat.
Speaker 5: Girls.
Speaker 3: I'm a black coffee drinker. However, I'm a black coffee
Speaker 3: drinker with sugar.
Speaker 1: I prefer the raw sugar, like the brown crystals, and
Speaker 1: those don't evaporate in coffee, whether it's iced or hot,
Speaker 1: You're not tasting it until you get to the very
Speaker 1: bottom of the cup.
Speaker 3: The reason why I like that is because.
Speaker 1: I like a little a little crunch I have, like
Speaker 1: a little sandstorm at the bottom of a cup.
Speaker 3: Do you like the packet or do you strap it?
Speaker 2: I'll do whatever I'm like so particular, I like the packet,
Speaker 2: And one time I accidentally bought the big box of it,
Speaker 2: and then I just went back to the store and
Speaker 2: still bought a packet, like so now I have a
Speaker 2: full box. Like I could have easily just used the
Speaker 2: box of sugar and used a little teaspoon. But there
Speaker 2: is something about ripping open a packet of sugar every
Speaker 2: morning and shaking it pouring into my coffee that like
Speaker 2: invigorates me.
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm old, Like do my equal package
Speaker 5: had a long day.
Speaker 1: Also another thing just like a weird little piggyback on
Speaker 1: that I was watching a TikTok and I saw this
Speaker 1: thing about these bugs that live in your grains and sugars.
Speaker 3: I don't remember what they're called.
Speaker 1: They're completely harmless if you eat them, but like they
Speaker 1: crawl around in unopened boxes of like or open boxes
Speaker 1: of like cereals, grains, sugar. And you literally open a
Speaker 1: box like this one with the scooper and you can
Speaker 1: see all these little bugs and it like mites or something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like the type of like rice mite or something.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, I haven't seen that too. Like I
Speaker 6: watched this one of like them putting like ramen noodles
Speaker 6: under a magnifying glass.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you can see these little bugs.
Speaker 5: We can't take anything anymore.
Speaker 2: See, I just don't want to know that. I'd rather
Speaker 2: eat it and live.
Speaker 3: Like then I went to the commet system was like
Speaker 3: these all go away once you boil it.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, true, yeah, and it's harmless. So like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to eat bugs.
Speaker 2: But sometimes I like, I can't think about washing my
Speaker 2: fruit too deeply because I'll like, if I think about.
Speaker 3: It, then I feel like I never washed it enough.
Speaker 3: Usually i'll wash it if I think about it. I
Speaker 3: could wash it for two hours. I could scrub every
Speaker 3: individual speck off.
Speaker 2: But I have to just do it, like at a glance,
Speaker 2: because I could get real OCD about it.
Speaker 3: Maybe you already have that.
Speaker 4: Oh I don't want to be the bear of bad No. No,
Speaker 4: I do with stone fruit. I'm like, there's really nothing
Speaker 4: on this skin. I just have to I mean, I
Speaker 4: wash it. Yeah, I don't get too crazy about I
Speaker 4: had like plumbs the other day and I was like, whatever,
Speaker 4: it gets me, it gets me.
Speaker 5: I do have an unsolicited wreck. I usually don't come
Speaker 5: on here.
Speaker 4: It's kind of like a meating necklace slash unslicted wreck.
Speaker 4: And it's gonna sound crazy. It's because it is. But
Speaker 4: I just wanna say, like, don't compete where you don't compare.
Speaker 5: That's all I have to say for that.
Speaker 3: Oh, you want to speak on that.
Speaker 5: No, it's an off camera situation. I don't say that.
Speaker 2: I do agree with that. And I also think it's
Speaker 2: like it works as a threat.
Speaker 3: And as like an affirmation. It gets a threat to
Speaker 3: people below.
Speaker 2: You don't compete where you don't compare, and it's an
Speaker 2: affirmation to yourself to not compare yourself to someone who
Speaker 2: is in a totally different brackets life than you are, Like,
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be like, Wow, I'm not getting the
Speaker 2: same views as Alex arl Okay, babe, Well that's because
Speaker 2: you're not Alex.
Speaker 4: Are all like, don't like I can't have honey blonde
Speaker 4: hair like right now like Beyonce, because that's just.
Speaker 5: How the world works.
Speaker 3: You really could, though.
Speaker 5: I know I want to.
Speaker 3: You would look so.
Speaker 1: Incredible, a full closure in a six thirteen color What
Speaker 1: are you doing?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 2: It would it would be I would change the camera
Speaker 2: of this podcast to just your view.
Speaker 5: Oh I have finger in a minute. Wow, go into
Speaker 5: the chat gonnicka man.
Speaker 3: That was the only thing missing for my proposal was
Speaker 3: you guys didn't sing to me.
Speaker 5: I said, I said, just dead what I say?
Speaker 4: We were setting up and I said, Brandon, you should
Speaker 4: be seeing love by Kisha Cole, which Walks said that meantful.
Speaker 5: God, every oh, oh my god.
Speaker 3: I love you guys so much.
Speaker 5: I love you.
Speaker 3: Keep it between us fiances, guys,