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Speaker 1: This is j Amanda and j Rod's second date update on.

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Speaker 2: kJ one three Brady and Okay, see welcome to the

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second aid updates.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Hey, how's it going?

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Speaker 2: We need the whole story because you kind of said

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I kind of flaked out of our second date, and

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now what exactly happened?

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Speaker 3: Grabbed drinks a couple of weeks back.

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Speaker 4: I had a really good time.

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Speaker 3: And she even kissed me good night, good sign.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but then a few days later she tectically asking

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if I want to be a movie that weekend, but

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then I had to cancel or.

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Speaker 1: As I said, flaked out.

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Speaker 2: You flaked out on her, because that's when you lost her, right,

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I mean.

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Speaker 3: She she basically stopped talking to me at that point. Yeah.

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I've tried texting her a few times and she won't reply,

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So I don't know if she's really that mad that

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I canceled, or if something else is going on.

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Speaker 2: We'll get her on the phone and we'll see if

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that's what happened, or if there's something Nelson.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully we can get you a rain check on that movie.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I agree, Yeah, all right, we'll uh take away you.

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Speaker 1: We'll play a couple songs about seven forty. We'll see

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what's going on with Alyssa for.

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Speaker 2: The Second Date up date, kJ went all three, tj Amanda,

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Jay Rod in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the Second Date Update with tj Amanda and.

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Speaker 2: J Rod on kJ one O three Alyssa, Welcome to

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the Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: Hey Lisa, Hey, Brady.

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Speaker 2: Kind of knows that he canceled your movie Second Date,

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and you haven't really been answering his text afterwards.

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Speaker 1: So is that just in are you mad he canceled?

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Speaker 5: Or no? No, No, he didn't cancel. He disappeared for

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like literally three days, and then he texted me after

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he ditched the movie like nothing even happened, So like,

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why would I text him back? No?

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Speaker 2: No, he kind of stood up for the movie, is

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what you're saying, No explanation, and then afterwards like hey,

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what's up.

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Speaker 5: Exactly like it was like nothing ever happened, And I

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was like, excuse me, Brady, you left.

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Speaker 1: All that part of it?

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Speaker 3: Can sorry? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So, uh I don't do scary movies.

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Speaker 1: Wait, I'm sorry what man? You're like, I don't either.

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You canceled because it was a scary movie.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, so, c like, why would you have agreed

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to go in the first place.

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Speaker 3: Then, I mean you said you wanted to go to

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a movie, but I didn't know you wanted to go

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see horror movie.

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Speaker 1: Specifically, which movie were you guys gonna go see?

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Speaker 5: I mean Obsession, which like really honestly, isn't like a

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horror movie.

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Speaker 3: I don't know it's pretty.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Okay, Brady, So you're like legit, Like, listen,

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I know I got this beautiful, amazing girl that I kiss,

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I had a great first date, but.

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Speaker 1: Ain't no way, hell, I'm going to scary movie. Right?

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Are you that scared?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I mean before I've had to cover my eyes.

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Speaker 4: I got it.

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Speaker 3: I got nightmares, like this is my entire life.

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Speaker 1: Wow, really I get it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't want to get all those images up

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in my brain. Why wouldn't you just have told me? Yeah,

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Like it's so like it just makes no sense to me,

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Like why we didn't have that conversation before I went

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and got tickets.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want you to think I was some kind

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of whimp or something.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but like the alternative was that you goost with

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me for three days like over a movie selection.

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Speaker 3: Be honest, if I told you I was scared to

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go to a movie? Would you don't want to go

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out with me?

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Speaker 5: But being honest, I don't think so. Honestly, really, it's

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not because of the scary movie thing. That's like whatever,

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you know, that's that there's a lot of people that

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don't like scary movies. It's the ghosting part. It's because

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you ignored me.

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Speaker 3: But would you still want to date me if I

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told you I don't want movie?

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Speaker 1: I don't know?

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Speaker 5: No, no talking about like two totally different things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that, you know. Yeah, Okay, can we

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just all move over the get move on and go on?

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Speaker 3: I apologize, I'm not Yeah, I'm not.

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Speaker 5: I'm not feeling it.

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: No, that's all righty, that's okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean dude. Also, it's just again, I don't want to, like,

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you know, make you feel bad, but like it's just

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a movie, you know, like it really like again, it's.

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Speaker 1: Pretty not that scary of the movie.

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Speaker 5: It's just a movie, man, Like you gotta get over.

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Speaker 1: All, right, Alyssa. It's it sounds too Amanda, it sounds

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too okay, So thank thanks for coming on the second

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date update. We're gonna let you go. Okay, okay, thank you.

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I mean I'm you know, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Know Alyssa very well, but sounds to me she was

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judging you for not wanting to go to the scary

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movie more than the ghost age.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I I knew it. I mean I didn't want

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to date someone who doesn't like scary movies, so that's

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why I didn't tell her.

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Speaker 5: Maybe she really likes scary movies and like it's a

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big part of her personality, so you're just not compatible.

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Speaker 2: There is a chance so that now that she knows

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both you're a ghoster and a horror movie when well

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they're kind of in the same thing, then if you

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think about it, I know.

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Speaker 1: There's a ghost involved.

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Speaker 3: My gosh, no, it'd be the scary movies.

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Speaker 1: Could you have just gone in the movie?

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Speaker 2: Could you have just like just just sucked it up

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and just gone No.

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Speaker 3: I can't watch those things then, right, like a little

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scared child when I see them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, get nightmares too, man, I mean, you know it's.

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Speaker 5: Not worth it.

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Speaker 1: Rest all right, that's the idea a good time. Maybe

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she's not your idea of a good time, you know

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what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Brady, thanks for coming on the second

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date update.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: All Right, I want to throw out there, yes, that

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a girl I would want to date, sure, a girl

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that I would want to marry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would love that.

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Speaker 2: I'm so secure with myself that I say, no, I

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don't do scary movies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, like I want to. You don't have to

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like all the same things I like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, but to say I'm scared of something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I don't. Okay, I would say I want to know.

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Speaker 2: Ladies, you get triggered and traumatized. Do you give a

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man credit for not liking something that you obviously are

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brave enough to want to go do or do you

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kind of think that's not that's not respect, that's not

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a man to me, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Four oh five, four six one or two seven.

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Speaker 6: I have a.

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Speaker 5: Couple of things of the Okay.

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Speaker 3: First of all, I too, am.

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Speaker 6: Very afraid of scary movies because my imagination and the

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simple fact that.

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Speaker 2: She said for him to get over it let me

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know that.

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Speaker 6: She had no intense Even if he did tell.

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Speaker 4: Her that, she still was going to.

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Speaker 5: Tell him to get over it.

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Speaker 6: She told her to get over something that she liked

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or did it like she would have felt some type

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of way.

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Speaker 5: Okay, right, exactly, we'll have their things, you.

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Speaker 6: Know, Yes, so she can't have that double staying it

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and tell him, oh, just get over your scary movie.

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Speaker 4: You're a man.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, I'll give you that.

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Speaker 1: I have a vivid imagination too. I don't want to

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see nobody get hacked up.

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Speaker 3: Let's go do it, correct.

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Speaker 6: I've seen the sixth sense boy, and all I picture

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for the next three weeks after that was this guy

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saying he saw dead people and some lady crossing the bathroom, and.

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Speaker 2: If forever from now on, every shadow you get you done.

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Speaker 1: Every single shadow gets you from here on. Oh it's

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so good. Every little draft, every cold breeze, Yeah, every

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child's noise going mommy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, now you're creeping me out too, all right, thank you,