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Speaker 2: What's up? Positive bitches?
Speaker 3: How are we doing today? If you're hearing this episode,
Speaker 3: then you are meant to be here, So keep listening
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Speaker 3: Baby Girl, we're gonna cry, but we will always walk
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Speaker 3: unbecome who we are not so we can fully step
Speaker 3: into exactly who we came here to be.
Speaker 2: Today, we're going to.
Speaker 3: Talk about how to hold ourselves in a high vibration
Speaker 3: regardless of what may be falling down around us. Energy's
Speaker 3: natural state is movement. Your life is gonna keep moving
Speaker 3: and grooving regardless of the cadence you wish to go at.
Speaker 3: Life is always evolving. You are always evolving. We're always
Speaker 3: in a constant state of transition, whether it's at work, career, friends, relationships, dating,
Speaker 3: figuring out what we want to do next with our life.
Speaker 3: We are always moving towards something.
Speaker 2: I want us to really dig deep in.
Speaker 3: Our self so that we can be our own master
Speaker 3: and we don't have to become the slave to the
Speaker 3: things that are going on around us, because there's gonna
Speaker 3: be moments in time. There's gonna be moments in life
Speaker 3: where things are not going according to the.
Speaker 2: Plan we had Originally.
Speaker 3: Things are going to look in our current perception as
Speaker 3: not going well.
Speaker 2: We don't know that's that's true, but it might look
Speaker 2: like that, and we.
Speaker 3: Have to learn, well, even if I think things are
Speaker 3: falling apart, even if I think things are not going
Speaker 3: according to my plan, how can I hold myself in
Speaker 3: a higher vibration so I don't have to get sucked
Speaker 3: into the external experience Because that external circumstance is not final.
Speaker 3: Your feelings are not final. What can be final for
Speaker 3: us is trusting God and putting faith that we are
Speaker 3: at the right place at the right time, so we
Speaker 3: can hold on to a good vibration, ultimately choosing happiness
Speaker 3: instead of choosing to get sucked into the vacuum of
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Speaker 3: let's get into today's episode. Yesterday I went to a
Speaker 3: class on how to clear your functioning and governing channels,
Speaker 3: how to clear your energy, and something that the practitioner
Speaker 3: Gina said was you never lose anything, You only shed
Speaker 3: what's not yours.
Speaker 2: And I want to.
Speaker 3: Talk about the theme of loss first because I think
Speaker 3: that so often is what knocks us off our own
Speaker 3: pedestal and really disrupts our vibration. We will look at
Speaker 3: a person leaving our life and we'll assume, well, I'm
Speaker 3: losing them. We'll look at getting fired as I lost
Speaker 3: my job. We literally say those words, I lost this person,
Speaker 3: I lost this job. We might look at a missed
Speaker 3: quote unquote opportunity and we'll say, oh, I was too late.
Speaker 3: I miss that opportunity. We have the word lose as
Speaker 3: a really big part of our vocabulary, and our vocabulary
Speaker 3: is really important that we pay attention to because the
Speaker 3: words we speak create images in our head, and then
Speaker 3: those images creates a biochemical reaction in our body, which
Speaker 3: produces a feeling. When we're telling ourselves I lost this,
Speaker 3: I lost that, we're creating an image of loss in
Speaker 3: our mind, and then we're creating a feeling in reaction
Speaker 3: to those words, and we're feeling lack. We're feeling like
Speaker 3: we are knocking ourselves out of our happiness and feeling
Speaker 3: deprived of something. But what if that meaning is just
Speaker 3: incorrect or not the full story, or we're mislabeling what's
Speaker 3: going on in our extra reality.
Speaker 2: What if we dropped the.
Speaker 3: Belief that I'm losing this or I'm losing that, and
Speaker 3: instead realize, actually, I'm releasing this thing so I can
Speaker 3: allow something in that's better, that is in vibrational alignment
Speaker 3: with me, that does feel more resonant with my true being.
Speaker 3: There are going to be people, places, opportunities that come
Speaker 3: in and out of our life, and we cannot just
Speaker 3: attach ourselves to everything and then say, well, now I
Speaker 3: lost this thing. You can't lose what's yours. You never
Speaker 3: lose anything, You only shed what's never been yours in
Speaker 3: the first place. If people were a part of your past,
Speaker 3: let them rest in peace there. Having a history with
Speaker 3: someone is just not a good enough reason to have
Speaker 3: a future with them. As you're evolving, other people may
Speaker 3: not be evolving at your cadence or at all. In fact,
Speaker 3: some people are choosing to de evolve. They're choosing lower
Speaker 3: vibrational behaviors. They're falling into addiction. They're not thinking or
Speaker 3: feeling consciously. They're letting the world tell them how to feel.
Speaker 3: They're letting the world tell them what to do. Some
Speaker 3: people are de evolving, and if you're evolving in a
Speaker 3: different direction, it's physically impossible to stay in the same
Speaker 3: reality unless you lower your vibration. And when you choose
Speaker 3: to allow the familiar people or places to control you,
Speaker 3: you're choosing to block your blessings. You're choosing to also
Speaker 3: de evolve, which is putting you more into your ego
Speaker 3: rather than your intuition.
Speaker 2: You're going more into the.
Speaker 3: Human part of you, the denser part of you, than
Speaker 3: your soul and your higher self. Sometimes we stay in relationships,
Speaker 3: and I'm definitely not reverring the mass itself right now.
Speaker 3: Sometimes we stay in relationships because we choose to stay comfortable.
Speaker 3: But choosing to stay comfortable because something is familiar is
Speaker 3: simultaneously choosing to stay in the same vibration, therefore blocking
Speaker 3: other opportunities or choosing to evolve. When your soul is
Speaker 3: calling you to read the spiritual textbooks, it's calling you
Speaker 3: to maybe not binge drink every single weekend, It's calling
Speaker 3: you to do something different with your life. So I'm
Speaker 3: inviting you to create a new meaning instead of saying
Speaker 3: I lost that person.
Speaker 2: What if you released it?
Speaker 3: What if losing people places opportunities actually is not possible.
Speaker 3: Something else Gina was talking about was how we are
Speaker 3: one with everything. And this is something called the law
Speaker 3: of one and it states that let's assume that the
Speaker 3: Big Bang theory is in actuality real, and if we do,
Speaker 3: we are one with everything. I mean, this also goes
Speaker 3: in hand with the Bible. Adam was made from the earth.
Speaker 3: So whether you read the Bible or you believe the
Speaker 3: Big Bang, either way, both of these narratives say we
Speaker 3: are one with everything. We're one with the animals, the trees.
Speaker 2: The earth all is one thing.
Speaker 3: Even though physically we look separate, energetically and spiritually we're
Speaker 3: all connected. Therefore, again it's physically impossible to actually lose
Speaker 3: something because you're always connected to everything. You may want
Speaker 3: to clear that cord. You might want to call your
Speaker 3: power back to you, and how do you do that?
Speaker 3: You just say, I lovingly and peacefully call all of
Speaker 3: my power back to me now and see your white
Speaker 3: light energy going back into your body. I have a
Speaker 3: whole entire workbook on this, and if you want to
Speaker 3: get the meditation and more information, you can get my
Speaker 3: book Show Up as Her that goes in depth on
Speaker 3: this process. But you can always clear the cord, you
Speaker 3: can always call your power back. But to tell yourself
Speaker 3: that you're losing something when energetically that's not possible, and
Speaker 3: also you're releasing and also it's not really part of you.
Speaker 2: You're just shedding what's not yours.
Speaker 3: Well, you're lying to yourself, and when you lie to yourself,
Speaker 3: you're making yourself feel worse. You're putting yourself into a
Speaker 3: lower vibration, one that's of lack, one that's deprived, one
Speaker 3: that is grieving and you're grieving over a lie, you
Speaker 3: are lying to yourself. What's the point of doing this?
Speaker 3: There really is no point now. Maybe you're emotionally addicted
Speaker 3: to being in a lower vibration. Maybe you're emotionally addicted
Speaker 3: to feeling grief and sadness and hopelessness. If that's the case,
Speaker 3: you have to interrupt that and say, I'm gonna choose
Speaker 3: to feel better today. I'm gonna choose to consciously think different,
Speaker 3: to have different beliefs, to shift up my schedule. One
Speaker 3: of the easiest ways to up how you feel is
Speaker 3: to shift what you're.
Speaker 2: Doing during the day.
Speaker 3: You can just make a decision and say, I'm not
Speaker 3: going to claim this sadness anymore. I'm not going to
Speaker 3: choose to repeatedly think about my past. I'm going to
Speaker 3: choose to think new thoughts and have new beliefs. But
Speaker 3: a physical way to shake up your energy is to
Speaker 3: just change your schedule. Instead of waking up and going
Speaker 3: on your phone, go to yoga.
Speaker 2: Instead of.
Speaker 3: Working for three hours at night, maybe work those three
Speaker 3: hours in the afternoon. Maybe you have a different energy
Speaker 3: in the afternoon. It's actually going to help you do
Speaker 3: that work better. We have to see ourselves moving through
Speaker 3: life as graduating from one experience to the next, getting better,
Speaker 3: not as losing, losing, losing. Any time I release something
Speaker 3: from my life, I don't think it's a moment to
Speaker 3: mourn anymore. And if you want to cry it out,
Speaker 3: scream it out, write it out, go off. I don't
Speaker 3: see this as a moment to mourn anymore. I truly
Speaker 3: see it as a graduation towards something better. Oh, this
Speaker 3: is reflecting back to me that my vibration is up
Speaker 3: leveling once again. I'm not going to go back to
Speaker 3: old CC and start telling myself it's because I'm not
Speaker 3: good enough. It's we lie to ourselves all the damn time.
Speaker 3: I can't I can't even lie right now. We lie
Speaker 3: to ourselves all the time, and we make the worst meanings.
Speaker 3: Our mind is truly wired to look for threats and
Speaker 3: look for, well, what's going to go wrong, because when
Speaker 3: we were in tribes, we had to be hyper focused
Speaker 3: on what can go wrong, because a lot of things
Speaker 3: were going wrong. There's a tiger there, there's a poison,
Speaker 3: this berry over there. We had to be on the
Speaker 3: lookout for what could go wrong in order to survive.
Speaker 3: But baby girl. You know we're living in a modern world.
Speaker 2: Now, you don't have.
Speaker 3: To constantly be looking for threats. What if you looked
Speaker 3: for evidence that your life is actually just getting better.
Speaker 3: What if we look for evidence that we're graduating to
Speaker 3: a higher vibration, more love, more light, and if you
Speaker 3: have to go and create that light within, go internally
Speaker 3: and create the light within. I've really been focusing on
Speaker 3: learning new information. I'm always committed to energetic excellence, you
Speaker 3: know me, but I've been signing up for more classes,
Speaker 3: going deeper into these topics for my own self and
Speaker 3: to of course share with you. And this has been
Speaker 3: my constant reminder that I'm continuously evolving and I'm learning
Speaker 3: more and I'm understanding more. How could I be going backwards?
Speaker 3: How could I be getting worse? No, I'm graduating better.
Speaker 3: So when someone does release from my life, when someone
Speaker 3: does move away from me, when something is.
Speaker 2: Not in alignment with.
Speaker 3: Me anymore, I can't even say to myself it's because
Speaker 3: I'm not good enough.
Speaker 2: When I'm actively doing.
Speaker 3: Things that makes me stronger and wiser and better. If
Speaker 3: I'm going to yoga and I am working out my
Speaker 3: mind and I'm eating high vibrational foods. How could it
Speaker 3: be me going backwards?
Speaker 2: It must be them. And maybe that sounds.
Speaker 3: A little bit funny, but that is my truth and
Speaker 3: it's it is vibrationally true, and it's what I've been
Speaker 3: telling myself, and it really allows me to feel so
Speaker 3: much better. So instead of the external circumstance knocking me
Speaker 3: off my pedestal making me feel terrible, I realize, well,
Speaker 3: obviously I'm moving up, so maybe they're just moving down.
Speaker 3: I also think it's really important that we measure these
Speaker 3: relationships and these experiences not by the duration of them,
Speaker 3: but the depth the lesson we get from them. There's
Speaker 3: also that other saying of you don't lose, you either
Speaker 3: learn or you win, and I agree with that. There's
Speaker 3: nothing to lose if you ask yourself, well, what is
Speaker 3: this experience trying to teach me? What is this experience
Speaker 3: trying to show me? I have adopted the belief that
Speaker 3: everything is working in my favor. Maybe I don't understand
Speaker 3: just yet how this thing is working in my favor,
Speaker 3: but I don't need to understand all of the information
Speaker 3: from my current point of view to have the belief
Speaker 3: that somehow, some way, this is gonna work out for me.
Speaker 3: There is this meme and it says the feminine urge
Speaker 3: to know why. And I do find myself in this
Speaker 3: sometimes where I'm like.
Speaker 2: Well, why why why?
Speaker 3: Why why?
Speaker 2: And then I got to remind myself cci you're not
Speaker 2: meant to know why.
Speaker 3: You're meant to have the experience, and that's just it
Speaker 3: is what it is. You know, no one ever promised
Speaker 3: us you're gonna understand why everything is happening all of
Speaker 3: the time. That would really take away from the human
Speaker 3: experience because then there would be nothing thing to learn
Speaker 3: if we already knew all of the answers. I think
Speaker 3: also having faith in a higher power for me, this
Speaker 3: is God has saved me so many times because when
Speaker 3: I'm freaking out about my three D external reality and
Speaker 3: I'm saying it's going wrong, I'm losing this or that,
Speaker 3: then I have to remind myself, well, wait a damn minute,
Speaker 3: there's someone who is curating my reality with me. Because
Speaker 3: I'm in co creation with God. There is someone something
Speaker 3: huge beyond my understanding that is unfolding events and opportunities
Speaker 3: and situations in my life. Why am I gonna believe
Speaker 3: my limited perspective and literally today I looked up Isaiah.
Speaker 3: I believe it's fifty five nine in the Bible, it
Speaker 3: says for as the heavens are higher than the earth,
Speaker 3: so are my ways higher than your ways, and my
Speaker 3: thoughts than your thoughts. So this helps us understand that
Speaker 3: God has a broader perspective of things than we do.
Speaker 3: And there were so many instances in my own life
Speaker 3: and in the Bible, of course, where it looks like
Speaker 3: everything is going wrong, but actually it's the building blocks
Speaker 3: to create a structure that can hold the big dream.
Speaker 3: So we want to rest in the knowledge that God
Speaker 3: creates goodness, and even if we don't understand what's happening
Speaker 3: right now, it's still good. I always think of the
Speaker 3: Genesis story where God created the earth and he said,
Speaker 3: you know, I created the earth whatever, and it was good.
Speaker 3: And I created the animals and it was good. And
Speaker 3: I created you know, the sun and the moon and.
Speaker 4: It was good.
Speaker 3: And literally last night I was thinking to myself, even
Speaker 3: though I don't understand my current situation all the way,
Speaker 3: it must be good because God doesn't create things that
Speaker 3: aren't good, and he doesn't allow things that don't allow
Speaker 3: us to grow.
Speaker 2: For the greater good.
Speaker 3: So if everything is working out for me, which it is,
Speaker 3: this must be working out for me. I have a
Speaker 3: conscious conversation with myself every single day of my life,
Speaker 3: because if I don't, my brain will just say horrifying things.
Speaker 3: Our brain does this to all of us because that's
Speaker 3: what our brain is meant to do. But you're not
Speaker 3: just a brain. You're not just your programs, You're not
Speaker 3: just your past. You also have access to infinite knowledge.
Speaker 3: So you have to consciously choose to say, you know what,
Speaker 3: fear brain, I'm gonna take a step back here, and
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put my trust in the Lord, my God.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put my trust in Jesus. Or I'm just
Speaker 3: gonna put my trust in my angels into a greater
Speaker 3: perspective that you know, maybe I can't see just yet.
Speaker 3: The mistake I've made in my past is I've put
Speaker 3: my faith in a boyfriend. I've put my faith in
Speaker 3: a circumstance, in a job opportunity. I put my faith
Speaker 3: in to something in the three D. That's misplaced faith.
Speaker 3: Because our three D reality, what we experience in this world,
Speaker 3: first of all, it's delayed. Secondly, it's always changing, and
Speaker 3: evolving to match our vibrational standpoint.
Speaker 2: Our frequency changes.
Speaker 3: And then our three D reality will match up with it,
Speaker 3: but it is behind it. This is why we must
Speaker 3: choose to make the internal changes before we're going to
Speaker 3: see them in our external reality. We have to change
Speaker 3: the belief or the story, or the narrative, or our
Speaker 3: feelings about ourselves, and then the three D reality will
Speaker 3: catch up. It's sort of like a remote and a television.
Speaker 3: You have to take the remote and turn on. You
Speaker 3: have to put in channel thirty three, and then the
Speaker 3: TV will match what you're broadcasting from the remote. Our
Speaker 3: life works the same way. In the energetic universe. You
Speaker 3: are the remote. You have to shift what channel you're
Speaker 3: putting into the universe, and then the universe will create
Speaker 3: a change.
Speaker 2: To match your vibration.
Speaker 3: I want to read you this post from the High
Speaker 3: Priestess eleven. Many of us are at a very special
Speaker 3: point in our soul's growth. But this is nothing new.
Speaker 3: We've experienced this space before and we will experience it again.
Speaker 3: We are at the point where we have grown so
Speaker 3: much that our surroundings don't match with what we want
Speaker 3: and who we are. Remember, three D is delayed You
Speaker 3: can think of it as a dark knight of the soul,
Speaker 3: a death and a rebirth. When we grow and evolve
Speaker 3: so quickly, what we do and how we do it
Speaker 3: will call for change because what aligned with us three
Speaker 3: months ago doesn't feel quite right anymore. So before you
Speaker 3: ask what's wrong with you and why you're feeling lost,
Speaker 3: understand that you're growing and changing at a very fast rate,
Speaker 3: and that means a just periods will come more often
Speaker 3: than they did before. We are at a point where
Speaker 3: it's time to break the metaphorical egg. The egg cannot
Speaker 3: be cracked from the outside. It must be cracked from within,
Speaker 3: because our growth is so immense that the egg can
Speaker 3: no longer hold us. This point can feel uncomfortable or
Speaker 3: even scary. We aren't comfortable in a cramped egg of
Speaker 3: our old identity, but we aren't sure exactly what's outside
Speaker 3: of it. If you think back, you can easily recall
Speaker 3: a time where you felt just like this. You probably
Speaker 3: think of that time in your life with love because
Speaker 3: it was a moment that you became the real you.
Speaker 3: For me, this is when I went through that breakup
Speaker 3: during twenty twenty and I found myself and God and
Speaker 3: my purpose. I look back on that time with such
Speaker 3: love because even though I felt so lonely a lot
Speaker 3: of the time, I was discovering all that I was
Speaker 3: not and it allowed me to meet who I actually am.
Speaker 3: And I'm in that phase again because I'm letting go
Speaker 3: of a lot of things that are no longer resonant
Speaker 3: with me. And it's very uncomfortable, and it's a transition.
Speaker 3: And if you're listening to this, you're probably at that
Speaker 3: phase two. And I know it's uncomfortable, but uncomfortable waters
Speaker 3: breeds change and if we want more, we have to
Speaker 3: let go of less. You left behind what wasn't working
Speaker 3: and walked on the path of growth, no matter how
Speaker 3: scary it was. You're being asked to do this again.
Speaker 3: You're being asked to shed your old self. I mean
Speaker 3: we literally said the word shed and break the shell
Speaker 3: of the egg you've outgrown to create a new home
Speaker 3: within yourself. You did it once and you can do
Speaker 3: it again. Sink deeply in your feelings of discomfort, pain
Speaker 3: and fear, feel them all lovingly, welcome those feelings and
Speaker 3: understand that this is just the pain of birthing a
Speaker 3: new self. I want you to understand that even when
Speaker 3: you're scared or in fear, you have to choose the
Speaker 3: path of evolvement anyway, because when in doubt, we're gonna
Speaker 3: do it anyway. You don't have to feel like everything
Speaker 3: is perfect and everything is great for you to choose
Speaker 3: to evolve, you have to make a conscious decision that
Speaker 3: even though everything doesn't feel great and everything doesn't feel
Speaker 3: aligned right now, I'm going to choose what's going to
Speaker 3: make my future self the most proud of me.
Speaker 2: I'm going to.
Speaker 3: Choose to do the hard work now so I can
Speaker 3: get what is truly going to fulfill me later. To
Speaker 3: be obsessed about what's happening in your three D reality
Speaker 3: is becoming a slave to it, because, first of all,
Speaker 3: that three D reality is not final, that circumstance is
Speaker 3: not final. But if you're telling yourself that it is,
Speaker 3: you're gonna wreck yourself emotionally. Let's think about this in
Speaker 3: an example. Let's say that you are dating someone and
Speaker 3: you feel like you can't read them and you're not
Speaker 3: sure what they're feeling, You're not sure what they're thinking,
Speaker 3: but you really like them, so you start telling yourself, well,
Speaker 3: you know they're not into me. Everyone I like always leaves.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be abandoned. This always happens to me.
Speaker 2: All men are trash. When you go back to.
Speaker 3: Those older stories for fault, that's what will start to manifest.
Speaker 3: But secondly, you are becoming a slave to a three
Speaker 3: D reality that has not finished unfolding. You have become
Speaker 3: a slave to one point in time without knowing the
Speaker 3: full story.
Speaker 2: And you're also assuming and.
Speaker 3: Lying to yourself in the worst way possible, which is
Speaker 3: the fear brain. Maybe that person is doing something, or
Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe.
Speaker 2: The person has an actual life. Who knows. You will
Speaker 2: get your answer.
Speaker 3: You will have to lean on your intuition and all
Speaker 3: will be fine. But if you start allowing your three
Speaker 3: D circumstance to dictate how you feel because you're making
Speaker 3: meaning from it, this is not going to be easy
Speaker 3: because that is you becoming the surfer and riding every
Speaker 3: single wave, going up and down and up and down
Speaker 3: and up and down because of what you're perceiving. What
Speaker 3: you want to do is observe instead of absorbed. You
Speaker 3: want to be the person lounging on the beach watching
Speaker 3: the waves and just observing. Okay, they're doing this or
Speaker 3: that's unfolding there. That's fine, this is happening. That's happening.
Speaker 2: I can't notice.
Speaker 3: I can have awareness, I can see without allowing that
Speaker 3: thing to dictate me. We have to raise our perspective
Speaker 3: here to a higher perspective. We have to remind ourselves, well,
Speaker 3: this might be happening now, but this is for now
Speaker 3: and not forever.
Speaker 2: You know what it really is.
Speaker 3: I kind of want us to create space between what's
Speaker 3: happening and our emotional response, because if we don't have
Speaker 3: any space between the circumstance and our emotional response, we're
Speaker 3: just gonna constantly be.
Speaker 2: Spewing what is going on.
Speaker 3: I'm so concerned, I'm so worried, I'm so blah blah
Speaker 3: blah blah. It's not gonna work out well for us.
Speaker 3: What if we created space and maybe you're thinking, well, Cecie,
Speaker 3: what do I do in that space? I'm gonna tell
Speaker 3: you you're gonna reeve focus on you. Yeah, baby girl,
Speaker 3: You're gonna become your own mus because at the end
Speaker 3: of the day, you came into the world alone and
Speaker 3: you're gonna leave the world alone. I want you to
Speaker 3: refocus on you. You need to remind yourself that as
Speaker 3: the world is changing around you, you can't lose you.
Speaker 3: There's gonna be shiny things out there, there's gonna be
Speaker 3: great connections out there. It doesn't matter, None of it
Speaker 3: matters if you lose yourself in it.
Speaker 2: Because then it's not fun anymore.
Speaker 3: It's not joys anymore, it's not enjoyable anymore. You have
Speaker 3: to become your own muse, and in doing that, you
Speaker 3: elevate your own vibration. You attract the best of the best,
Speaker 3: and ultimately you feel better. You feel better about yourself,
Speaker 3: you raise your confidence. How can you become your own.
Speaker 2: Mus What do you want to learn?
Speaker 3: What do you want to do in life? And maybe
Speaker 3: you have to take out a piece of paper because
Speaker 3: you're like Ceci, I never even asked myself, I want
Speaker 3: to do it with my life. Okay, great, let's start
Speaker 3: asking those questions.
Speaker 2: What do you want to do?
Speaker 3: Is it yoga?
Speaker 2: Is it dance? Is it writing? Is it singing?
Speaker 3: Sign up for a class, go to a new cooking class,
Speaker 3: you know, do anything, but you have to start cultivating yourself.
Speaker 3: By the way, interesting people like interesting people. So if
Speaker 3: you want to attract interesting people, become an interesting person.
Speaker 2: Yourself.
Speaker 3: Becoming your amuse means you're taking.
Speaker 2: Time with learning who you are. And a lot of
Speaker 2: what learning.
Speaker 3: Who you are is is also acknowledging all the parts
Speaker 3: of you that are not actually you, but you're still
Speaker 3: holding on to. So those limiting beliefs of I'm not
Speaker 3: good enough, I can't have this, whatever they may be,
Speaker 3: those limiting beliefs, even though you're thinking them, that's a
Speaker 3: learned behavior. It's not who you actually are when you
Speaker 3: were born. When I was born, we were born confident, loving, happy,
Speaker 3: magnetic babies. Anything that deviates from self love and confidence
Speaker 3: is a learned behavior that we picked up from parents,
Speaker 3: or siblings or our peers. We have to go into
Speaker 3: this space where we're not rushing ourselves. An evolution process
Speaker 3: cannot be rushed, and we want to choose to evolve,
Speaker 3: so we don't evolve to lower vibrational behaviors. In becoming
Speaker 3: our own muse, we're focused here where focus goes, energy flows.
Speaker 3: So if I'm focused on that person that I'm dating,
Speaker 3: or that circumstance that's annoying me, you know, whatever it
Speaker 3: may be. If I'm focused on things that are just
Speaker 3: stressing me out, I'm just feeding it my energy, and
Speaker 3: I'm getting a terrible return on investment. You have to
Speaker 3: feed yourself your own energy, and the way to do
Speaker 3: that is to stay focused on your own vessel. Am
Speaker 3: I doing things that are making me healthy, hotter, and
Speaker 3: feeling wholer Okay, that's a great start.
Speaker 2: I find it really ironic.
Speaker 3: Because I don't think we can lose anything out there.
Speaker 3: But you know who we can lose sometimes.
Speaker 2: Is our self. Yeah.
Speaker 3: The only person it's imperative for you not to lose,
Speaker 3: which is someone you can lose, is yourself because the
Speaker 3: other people, if they leave your life, you're not losing
Speaker 3: your releasing and you can't lose what's not yours, you're
Speaker 3: shedding it. But when we get sucked into what's going
Speaker 3: on around us, we want to be validated, seen and
Speaker 3: connected to we can lose ourself. That's a problem. That's
Speaker 3: something we have to be aware of over time. If
Speaker 3: we continuously allow mistreatment from others, we just further betray
Speaker 3: ourselves time and time again, and then we end up
Speaker 3: hating ourselves for allowing that treatment. If you can not
Speaker 3: let someone go for you, let them go for your
Speaker 3: younger self. Sometimes it's easier to stand up for our
Speaker 3: younger self or inner child than it is to just
Speaker 3: stand up for our selfs. You didn't come here to
Speaker 3: be mistreated by Brad and Brittany, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: That's only distracting you from your purpose. And I really
Speaker 3: think if the devil can't get you down, he'll get
Speaker 3: you down by sending negative people into your life. That
Speaker 3: will just distract you. I mean, what is the devil
Speaker 3: but distraction. My mom used to always say that idle
Speaker 3: time is a devil's playground.
Speaker 2: I really do believe this.
Speaker 3: If you're not consciously plugging into what you want to grow,
Speaker 3: into the vision you have for your life, what you
Speaker 3: want to create, you're gonna be easily manipulated, easily distracted,
Speaker 3: and then you're gonna allow other people to choose circumstance
Speaker 3: for you. And this is truly how we lose ourself.
Speaker 3: You have a commitment not only to your current self,
Speaker 3: but you're inner child and your future self too. You
Speaker 3: also have a commitment to God. Like you and God,
Speaker 3: I truly believe this, have a plan for your mission
Speaker 3: and your purpose and your life. When I meet God,
Speaker 3: I want to be able to say to God, God,
Speaker 3: I I tried my best. I really did. I gave
Speaker 3: my sole mission everything I could give it. I spent
Speaker 3: time in solitude, I learned the lessons. I shared what
Speaker 3: I learned with other people. I led with love. When
Speaker 3: I meet God, I want to say, I'm a rung
Speaker 3: out towel. I used everything. You gave me everything. And
Speaker 3: the funny thing is, the more of your gifts that
Speaker 3: you use, the more gifts that will be bestowed upon you.
Speaker 3: The more that you lean into your talents, the more
Speaker 3: talents you will open and evoke. Use this time to
Speaker 3: focus on your self, regardless if you're in a relationship
Speaker 3: or not. Again, the one person it's possible to lose
Speaker 3: and who you cannot lose because I don't want you
Speaker 3: to lose.
Speaker 4: This person is you.
Speaker 3: That's the person we tend to abandon and most of
Speaker 3: the time for other people. And no one can fulfill
Speaker 3: us like we can fulfill ourselves, especially in union with God.
Speaker 3: I mean that is the true fulfillment. Connecting and praying
Speaker 3: and having awareness of God. Nothing nothing, nothing, nothing I
Speaker 3: tell you will ever make you feel as good as
Speaker 3: being connected to God. And that's why I don't care
Speaker 3: if I sound preachy. I know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 3: And if someone had the cure to some illness, I
Speaker 3: would want them to tell me if I know the
Speaker 3: cure to loneliness is connecting with God, I'm gonna tell you.
Speaker 3: And that's what this is about. How can you become
Speaker 3: your own muse. You're not gonna rush yourself. You're gonna
Speaker 3: allow yourself to release the behaviors that are no longer
Speaker 3: serving you. And how do you do that by a
Speaker 3: conscious conversation? Well, I'm not gonna react to this external circumstance.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna give.
Speaker 3: Myself some space. I'm gonna elet external circumstance to unfold
Speaker 3: because I don't have all of the dots connected just yet,
Speaker 3: which brings us to number three. I'm gonna have faith
Speaker 3: in God. I'm gonna trust that there is a divine
Speaker 3: plan for me. And I'm not going to devolve. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna consciously continuously choose to evolve. I'm gonna pick the
Speaker 3: vibrational behavior that's for my highest good. And by the way,
Speaker 3: how do you know a behavior or a thought form
Speaker 3: is for your highest good? It's healthy and it makes
Speaker 3: you feel good. Because there are some things that are
Speaker 3: gonna make you feel good, but they're not healthy for you.
Speaker 3: So it's healthy and it makes you feel good. And
Speaker 3: also your future self won't hate you for choosing it.
Speaker 3: Maybe that is just the number one way to know.
Speaker 3: Your future self will not hate you for doing this.
Speaker 3: If you choose to do your meditation, if you choose
Speaker 3: to go to the energy class, if you choose to pray,
Speaker 3: your future self won't hate you for that. If you
Speaker 3: choose something or someone, I should say that's not good
Speaker 3: for you. It might feel good in the moment because
Speaker 3: you're feeding your ego, but is your future self gonna
Speaker 3: want you to do that.
Speaker 2: That's a question I really want you to ask yourself.
Speaker 3: I am sending you so much love, positive bitches. Thank
Speaker 3: you for being here with me today and sharing this time.
Speaker 3: It's been amazing, per usual. The sparkle in me honors
Speaker 3: the sparkle and you. I'm sending you all the love
Speaker 3: in the world, and I will see you in the
Speaker 3: next one.
Speaker 4: W canceae, non canceae, make cancae.