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<v Speaker 1>Andy, cancel so high ecstasyag cancelge it not Sorry Andy?

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<v Speaker 2>What's up? Positive bitches?

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<v Speaker 3>How are we doing today? If you're hearing this episode,

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<v Speaker 3>then you are meant to be here, So keep listening

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<v Speaker 3>on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times,

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<v Speaker 3>Baby Girl, we're gonna cry, but we will always walk

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<v Speaker 3>away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self. That is

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<v Speaker 3>Babe in true connection with herself. On this podcast, we

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<v Speaker 3>unbecome who we are not so we can fully step

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<v Speaker 3>into exactly who we came here to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Today, we're going to.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk about how to hold ourselves in a high vibration

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<v Speaker 3>regardless of what may be falling down around us. Energy's

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<v Speaker 3>natural state is movement. Your life is gonna keep moving

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<v Speaker 3>and grooving regardless of the cadence you wish to go at.

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<v Speaker 3>Life is always evolving. You are always evolving. We're always

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<v Speaker 3>in a constant state of transition, whether it's at work, career, friends, relationships, dating,

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<v Speaker 3>figuring out what we want to do next with our life.

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<v Speaker 3>We are always moving towards something.

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<v Speaker 2>I want us to really dig deep in.

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<v Speaker 3>Our self so that we can be our own master

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<v Speaker 3>and we don't have to become the slave to the

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<v Speaker 3>things that are going on around us, because there's gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be moments in time. There's gonna be moments in life

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<v Speaker 3>where things are not going according to the.

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<v Speaker 2>Plan we had Originally.

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<v Speaker 3>Things are going to look in our current perception as

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<v Speaker 3>not going well.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't know that's that's true, but it might look

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<v Speaker 2>like that, and we.

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<v Speaker 3>Have to learn, well, even if I think things are

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<v Speaker 3>falling apart, even if I think things are not going

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<v Speaker 3>according to my plan, how can I hold myself in

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<v Speaker 3>a higher vibration so I don't have to get sucked

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<v Speaker 3>into the external experience Because that external circumstance is not final.

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<v Speaker 3>Your feelings are not final. What can be final for

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<v Speaker 3>us is trusting God and putting faith that we are

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<v Speaker 3>at the right place at the right time, so we

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<v Speaker 3>can hold on to a good vibration, ultimately choosing happiness

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<v Speaker 3>instead of choosing to get sucked into the vacuum of

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<v Speaker 3>whatever may be going on around us before we get

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<v Speaker 3>into it. Today, a couple of announcements. If you're not

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<v Speaker 3>yet following me on Instagram at Vibe with CC, be

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<v Speaker 3>sure to follow me there for daily tips and tricks

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<v Speaker 3>on how to activate your most magnetic self. If you've

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<v Speaker 3>not yet gotten your copy of show Up as Her

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<v Speaker 3>this book, it's my book, it's also your book. It's

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<v Speaker 3>ten laws on how to reclaim your reality, step onto

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<v Speaker 3>your most magnetic timeline and positively manifest. And if you've

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<v Speaker 3>not yet listened to my new single Pudding, be sure

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<v Speaker 3>to do that. It is a vortex to putting yourself

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<v Speaker 3>back on the pedestal and reclaiming that power. Without further ado,

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<v Speaker 3>let's get into today's episode. Yesterday I went to a

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<v Speaker 3>class on how to clear your functioning and governing channels,

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<v Speaker 3>how to clear your energy, and something that the practitioner

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<v Speaker 3>Gina said was you never lose anything, You only shed

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<v Speaker 3>what's not yours.

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<v Speaker 2>And I want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk about the theme of loss first because I think

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<v Speaker 3>that so often is what knocks us off our own

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<v Speaker 3>pedestal and really disrupts our vibration. We will look at

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<v Speaker 3>a person leaving our life and we'll assume, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>losing them. We'll look at getting fired as I lost

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<v Speaker 3>my job. We literally say those words, I lost this person,

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<v Speaker 3>I lost this job. We might look at a missed

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<v Speaker 3>quote unquote opportunity and we'll say, oh, I was too late.

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<v Speaker 3>I miss that opportunity. We have the word lose as

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<v Speaker 3>a really big part of our vocabulary, and our vocabulary

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<v Speaker 3>is really important that we pay attention to because the

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<v Speaker 3>words we speak create images in our head, and then

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<v Speaker 3>those images creates a biochemical reaction in our body, which

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<v Speaker 3>produces a feeling. When we're telling ourselves I lost this,

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<v Speaker 3>I lost that, we're creating an image of loss in

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<v Speaker 3>our mind, and then we're creating a feeling in reaction

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<v Speaker 3>to those words, and we're feeling lack. We're feeling like

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<v Speaker 3>we are knocking ourselves out of our happiness and feeling

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<v Speaker 3>deprived of something. But what if that meaning is just

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<v Speaker 3>incorrect or not the full story, or we're mislabeling what's

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<v Speaker 3>going on in our extra reality.

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<v Speaker 2>What if we dropped the.

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<v Speaker 3>Belief that I'm losing this or I'm losing that, and

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<v Speaker 3>instead realize, actually, I'm releasing this thing so I can

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<v Speaker 3>allow something in that's better, that is in vibrational alignment

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<v Speaker 3>with me, that does feel more resonant with my true being.

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<v Speaker 3>There are going to be people, places, opportunities that come

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<v Speaker 3>in and out of our life, and we cannot just

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<v Speaker 3>attach ourselves to everything and then say, well, now I

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<v Speaker 3>lost this thing. You can't lose what's yours. You never

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<v Speaker 3>lose anything, You only shed what's never been yours in

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<v Speaker 3>the first place. If people were a part of your past,

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<v Speaker 3>let them rest in peace there. Having a history with

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<v Speaker 3>someone is just not a good enough reason to have

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<v Speaker 3>a future with them. As you're evolving, other people may

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<v Speaker 3>not be evolving at your cadence or at all. In fact,

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<v Speaker 3>some people are choosing to de evolve. They're choosing lower

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<v Speaker 3>vibrational behaviors. They're falling into addiction. They're not thinking or

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<v Speaker 3>feeling consciously. They're letting the world tell them how to feel.

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<v Speaker 3>They're letting the world tell them what to do. Some

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<v Speaker 3>people are de evolving, and if you're evolving in a

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<v Speaker 3>different direction, it's physically impossible to stay in the same

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<v Speaker 3>reality unless you lower your vibration. And when you choose

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<v Speaker 3>to allow the familiar people or places to control you,

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<v Speaker 3>you're choosing to block your blessings. You're choosing to also

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<v Speaker 3>de evolve, which is putting you more into your ego

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<v Speaker 3>rather than your intuition.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going more into the.

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<v Speaker 3>Human part of you, the denser part of you, than

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<v Speaker 3>your soul and your higher self. Sometimes we stay in relationships,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm definitely not reverring the mass itself right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes we stay in relationships because we choose to stay comfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>But choosing to stay comfortable because something is familiar is

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<v Speaker 3>simultaneously choosing to stay in the same vibration, therefore blocking

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<v Speaker 3>other opportunities or choosing to evolve. When your soul is

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<v Speaker 3>calling you to read the spiritual textbooks, it's calling you

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<v Speaker 3>to maybe not binge drink every single weekend, It's calling

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<v Speaker 3>you to do something different with your life. So I'm

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<v Speaker 3>inviting you to create a new meaning instead of saying

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<v Speaker 3>I lost that person.

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<v Speaker 2>What if you released it?

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<v Speaker 3>What if losing people places opportunities actually is not possible.

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<v Speaker 3>Something else Gina was talking about was how we are

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<v Speaker 3>one with everything. And this is something called the law

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<v Speaker 3>of one and it states that let's assume that the

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<v Speaker 3>Big Bang theory is in actuality real, and if we do,

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<v Speaker 3>we are one with everything. I mean, this also goes

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<v Speaker 3>in hand with the Bible. Adam was made from the earth.

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<v Speaker 3>So whether you read the Bible or you believe the

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<v Speaker 3>Big Bang, either way, both of these narratives say we

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<v Speaker 3>are one with everything. We're one with the animals, the trees.

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<v Speaker 2>The earth all is one thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Even though physically we look separate, energetically and spiritually we're

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<v Speaker 3>all connected. Therefore, again it's physically impossible to actually lose

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<v Speaker 3>something because you're always connected to everything. You may want

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<v Speaker 3>to clear that cord. You might want to call your

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<v Speaker 3>power back to you, and how do you do that?

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<v Speaker 3>You just say, I lovingly and peacefully call all of

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<v Speaker 3>my power back to me now and see your white

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<v Speaker 3>light energy going back into your body. I have a

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<v Speaker 3>whole entire workbook on this, and if you want to

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<v Speaker 3>get the meditation and more information, you can get my

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<v Speaker 3>book Show Up as Her that goes in depth on

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<v Speaker 3>this process. But you can always clear the cord, you

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<v Speaker 3>can always call your power back. But to tell yourself

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<v Speaker 3>that you're losing something when energetically that's not possible, and

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<v Speaker 3>also you're releasing and also it's not really part of you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're just shedding what's not yours.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you're lying to yourself, and when you lie to yourself,

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<v Speaker 3>you're making yourself feel worse. You're putting yourself into a

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<v Speaker 3>lower vibration, one that's of lack, one that's deprived, one

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<v Speaker 3>that is grieving and you're grieving over a lie, you

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<v Speaker 3>are lying to yourself. What's the point of doing this?

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<v Speaker 3>There really is no point now. Maybe you're emotionally addicted

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<v Speaker 3>to being in a lower vibration. Maybe you're emotionally addicted

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<v Speaker 3>to feeling grief and sadness and hopelessness. If that's the case,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to interrupt that and say, I'm gonna choose

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<v Speaker 3>to feel better today. I'm gonna choose to consciously think different,

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<v Speaker 3>to have different beliefs, to shift up my schedule. One

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<v Speaker 3>of the easiest ways to up how you feel is

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<v Speaker 3>to shift what you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Doing during the day.

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<v Speaker 3>You can just make a decision and say, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>going to claim this sadness anymore. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 3>choose to repeatedly think about my past. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 3>choose to think new thoughts and have new beliefs. But

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<v Speaker 3>a physical way to shake up your energy is to

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<v Speaker 3>just change your schedule. Instead of waking up and going

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<v Speaker 3>on your phone, go to yoga.

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<v Speaker 2>Instead of.

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<v Speaker 3>Working for three hours at night, maybe work those three

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<v Speaker 3>hours in the afternoon. Maybe you have a different energy

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<v Speaker 3>in the afternoon. It's actually going to help you do

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<v Speaker 3>that work better. We have to see ourselves moving through

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<v Speaker 3>life as graduating from one experience to the next, getting better,

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<v Speaker 3>not as losing, losing, losing. Any time I release something

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<v Speaker 3>from my life, I don't think it's a moment to

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<v Speaker 3>mourn anymore. And if you want to cry it out,

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<v Speaker 3>scream it out, write it out, go off. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>see this as a moment to mourn anymore. I truly

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<v Speaker 3>see it as a graduation towards something better. Oh, this

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<v Speaker 3>is reflecting back to me that my vibration is up

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<v Speaker 3>leveling once again. I'm not going to go back to

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<v Speaker 3>old CC and start telling myself it's because I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>good enough. It's we lie to ourselves all the damn time.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't I can't even lie right now. We lie

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<v Speaker 3>to ourselves all the time, and we make the worst meanings.

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<v Speaker 3>Our mind is truly wired to look for threats and

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<v Speaker 3>look for, well, what's going to go wrong, because when

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<v Speaker 3>we were in tribes, we had to be hyper focused

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<v Speaker 3>on what can go wrong, because a lot of things

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<v Speaker 3>were going wrong. There's a tiger there, there's a poison,

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<v Speaker 3>this berry over there. We had to be on the

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<v Speaker 3>lookout for what could go wrong in order to survive.

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<v Speaker 3>But baby girl. You know we're living in a modern world.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, you don't have.

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<v Speaker 3>To constantly be looking for threats. What if you looked

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<v Speaker 3>for evidence that your life is actually just getting better.

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<v Speaker 3>What if we look for evidence that we're graduating to

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<v Speaker 3>a higher vibration, more love, more light, and if you

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<v Speaker 3>have to go and create that light within, go internally

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<v Speaker 3>and create the light within. I've really been focusing on

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<v Speaker 3>learning new information. I'm always committed to energetic excellence, you

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<v Speaker 3>know me, but I've been signing up for more classes,

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<v Speaker 3>going deeper into these topics for my own self and

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<v Speaker 3>to of course share with you. And this has been

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<v Speaker 3>my constant reminder that I'm continuously evolving and I'm learning

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<v Speaker 3>more and I'm understanding more. How could I be going backwards?

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<v Speaker 3>How could I be getting worse? No, I'm graduating better.

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<v Speaker 3>So when someone does release from my life, when someone

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<v Speaker 3>does move away from me, when something is.

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<v Speaker 2>Not in alignment with.

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<v Speaker 3>Me anymore, I can't even say to myself it's because

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<v Speaker 2>When I'm actively doing.

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<v Speaker 3>Things that makes me stronger and wiser and better. If

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<v Speaker 3>it's it is vibrationally true, and it's what I've been

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<v Speaker 3>off my pedestal making me feel terrible, I realize, well,

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<v Speaker 3>but I don't need to understand all of the information

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<v Speaker 3>There is this meme and it says the feminine urge

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<v Speaker 3>You're meant to have the experience, and that's just it

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<v Speaker 3>is what it is. You know, no one ever promised

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<v Speaker 3>us you're gonna understand why everything is happening all of

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<v Speaker 3>the time. That would really take away from the human

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<v Speaker 3>experience because then there would be nothing thing to learn

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<v Speaker 3>if we already knew all of the answers. I think

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<v Speaker 3>there's someone who is curating my reality with me. Because

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<v Speaker 3>huge beyond my understanding that is unfolding events and opportunities

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<v Speaker 3>and situations in my life. Why am I gonna believe

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<v Speaker 3>my limited perspective and literally today I looked up Isaiah.

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<v Speaker 3>says for as the heavens are higher than the earth,

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<v Speaker 3>so are my ways higher than your ways, and my

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<v Speaker 3>thoughts than your thoughts. So this helps us understand that

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<v Speaker 3>God has a broader perspective of things than we do.

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<v Speaker 3>And there were so many instances in my own life

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<v Speaker 3>and in the Bible, of course, where it looks like

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<v Speaker 3>everything is going wrong, but actually it's the building blocks

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<v Speaker 3>to create a structure that can hold the big dream.

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<v Speaker 3>So we want to rest in the knowledge that God

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<v Speaker 3>creates goodness, and even if we don't understand what's happening

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<v Speaker 3>right now, it's still good. I always think of the

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<v Speaker 3>Genesis story where God created the earth and he said,

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<v Speaker 3>And I created the animals and it was good. And

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<v Speaker 3>I created you know, the sun and the moon and.

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<v Speaker 4>It was good.

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<v Speaker 3>And literally last night I was thinking to myself, even

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<v Speaker 3>though I don't understand my current situation all the way,

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<v Speaker 3>it must be good because God doesn't create things that

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<v Speaker 3>aren't good, and he doesn't allow things that don't allow

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<v Speaker 3>us to grow.

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<v Speaker 2>For the greater good.

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<v Speaker 3>So if everything is working out for me, which it is,

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<v Speaker 3>this must be working out for me. I have a

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<v Speaker 3>conscious conversation with myself every single day of my life,

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<v Speaker 3>because if I don't, my brain will just say horrifying things.

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<v Speaker 3>Our brain does this to all of us because that's

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<v Speaker 3>what our brain is meant to do. But you're not

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<v Speaker 3>just a brain. You're not just your programs, You're not

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<v Speaker 3>just your past. You also have access to infinite knowledge.

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<v Speaker 3>So you have to consciously choose to say, you know what,

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<v Speaker 3>fear brain, I'm gonna take a step back here, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna put my trust in the Lord, my God.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna put my trust in Jesus. Or I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>gonna put my trust in my angels into a greater

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<v Speaker 3>perspective that you know, maybe I can't see just yet.

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<v Speaker 3>The mistake I've made in my past is I've put

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<v Speaker 3>my faith in a boyfriend. I've put my faith in

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<v Speaker 3>a circumstance, in a job opportunity. I put my faith

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<v Speaker 3>in to something in the three D. That's misplaced faith.

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<v Speaker 3>Because our three D reality, what we experience in this world,

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<v Speaker 3>first of all, it's delayed. Secondly, it's always changing, and

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<v Speaker 3>evolving to match our vibrational standpoint.

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<v Speaker 2>Our frequency changes.

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<v Speaker 3>And then our three D reality will match up with it,

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<v Speaker 3>but it is behind it. This is why we must

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<v Speaker 3>choose to make the internal changes before we're going to

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<v Speaker 3>see them in our external reality. We have to change

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<v Speaker 3>the belief or the story, or the narrative, or our

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<v Speaker 3>feelings about ourselves, and then the three D reality will

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<v Speaker 3>catch up. It's sort of like a remote and a television.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to take the remote and turn on. You

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<v Speaker 3>have to put in channel thirty three, and then the

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<v Speaker 3>TV will match what you're broadcasting from the remote. Our

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<v Speaker 3>life works the same way. In the energetic universe. You

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<v Speaker 3>are the remote. You have to shift what channel you're

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<v Speaker 3>putting into the universe, and then the universe will create

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<v Speaker 3>a change.

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<v Speaker 2>To match your vibration.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to read you this post from the High

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<v Speaker 3>Priestess eleven. Many of us are at a very special

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<v Speaker 3>point in our soul's growth. But this is nothing new.

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<v Speaker 3>We've experienced this space before and we will experience it again.

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<v Speaker 3>We are at the point where we have grown so

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<v Speaker 3>much that our surroundings don't match with what we want

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<v Speaker 3>and who we are. Remember, three D is delayed You

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<v Speaker 3>can think of it as a dark knight of the soul,

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<v Speaker 3>a death and a rebirth. When we grow and evolve

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<v Speaker 3>so quickly, what we do and how we do it

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<v Speaker 3>will call for change because what aligned with us three

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<v Speaker 3>months ago doesn't feel quite right anymore. So before you

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<v Speaker 3>ask what's wrong with you and why you're feeling lost,

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<v Speaker 3>understand that you're growing and changing at a very fast rate,

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<v Speaker 3>and that means a just periods will come more often

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<v Speaker 3>than they did before. We are at a point where

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<v Speaker 3>it's time to break the metaphorical egg. The egg cannot

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<v Speaker 3>be cracked from the outside. It must be cracked from within,

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<v Speaker 3>because our growth is so immense that the egg can

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<v Speaker 3>no longer hold us. This point can feel uncomfortable or

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<v Speaker 3>even scary. We aren't comfortable in a cramped egg of

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<v Speaker 3>our old identity, but we aren't sure exactly what's outside

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<v Speaker 3>of it. If you think back, you can easily recall

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<v Speaker 3>a time where you felt just like this. You probably

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<v Speaker 3>think of that time in your life with love because

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<v Speaker 3>it was a moment that you became the real you.

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<v Speaker 3>For me, this is when I went through that breakup

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<v Speaker 3>during twenty twenty and I found myself and God and

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<v Speaker 3>my purpose. I look back on that time with such

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<v Speaker 3>of the time, I was discovering all that I was

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<v Speaker 3>not and it allowed me to meet who I actually am.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm in that phase again because I'm letting go

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<v Speaker 3>of a lot of things that are no longer resonant

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<v Speaker 3>with me. And it's very uncomfortable, and it's a transition.

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<v Speaker 3>And if you're listening to this, you're probably at that

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<v Speaker 3>phase two. And I know it's uncomfortable, but uncomfortable waters

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<v Speaker 3>breeds change and if we want more, we have to

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<v Speaker 3>let go of less. You left behind what wasn't working

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<v Speaker 3>and walked on the path of growth, no matter how

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<v Speaker 3>scary it was. You're being asked to do this again.

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<v Speaker 3>You're being asked to shed your old self. I mean

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<v Speaker 3>we literally said the word shed and break the shell

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<v Speaker 3>of the egg you've outgrown to create a new home

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<v Speaker 3>within yourself. You did it once and you can do

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<v Speaker 3>it again. Sink deeply in your feelings of discomfort, pain

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<v Speaker 3>and fear, feel them all lovingly, welcome those feelings and

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<v Speaker 3>understand that this is just the pain of birthing a

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<v Speaker 3>new self. I want you to understand that even when

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<v Speaker 3>you're scared or in fear, you have to choose the

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<v Speaker 3>path of evolvement anyway, because when in doubt, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>do it anyway. You don't have to feel like everything

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<v Speaker 3>is perfect and everything is great for you to choose

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<v Speaker 3>to evolve, you have to make a conscious decision that

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<v Speaker 3>even though everything doesn't feel great and everything doesn't feel

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<v Speaker 3>aligned right now, I'm going to choose what's going to

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<v Speaker 3>make my future self the most proud of me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to.

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<v Speaker 3>Choose to do the hard work now so I can

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<v Speaker 3>get what is truly going to fulfill me later. To

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<v Speaker 3>be obsessed about what's happening in your three D reality

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<v Speaker 3>is becoming a slave to it, because, first of all,

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<v Speaker 3>that three D reality is not final, that circumstance is

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<v Speaker 3>not final. But if you're telling yourself that it is,

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna wreck yourself emotionally. Let's think about this in

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<v Speaker 3>an example. Let's say that you are dating someone and

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<v Speaker 3>you feel like you can't read them and you're not

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<v Speaker 3>sure what they're feeling, You're not sure what they're thinking,

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<v Speaker 3>but you really like them, so you start telling yourself, well,

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<v Speaker 3>you know they're not into me. Everyone I like always leaves.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna be abandoned. This always happens to me.

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<v Speaker 2>All men are trash. When you go back to.

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<v Speaker 3>Those older stories for fault, that's what will start to manifest.

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<v Speaker 3>But secondly, you are becoming a slave to a three

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<v Speaker 3>D reality that has not finished unfolding. You have become

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<v Speaker 3>a slave to one point in time without knowing the

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<v Speaker 3>full story.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're also assuming and.

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<v Speaker 3>Lying to yourself in the worst way possible, which is

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<v Speaker 3>the fear brain. Maybe that person is doing something, or

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>The person has an actual life. Who knows. You will

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<v Speaker 2>get your answer.

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<v Speaker 3>You will have to lean on your intuition and all

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<v Speaker 3>will be fine. But if you start allowing your three

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<v Speaker 3>D circumstance to dictate how you feel because you're making

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<v Speaker 3>meaning from it, this is not going to be easy

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<v Speaker 3>because that is you becoming the surfer and riding every

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<v Speaker 3>single wave, going up and down and up and down

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<v Speaker 3>and up and down because of what you're perceiving. What

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<v Speaker 3>you want to do is observe instead of absorbed. You

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<v Speaker 3>want to be the person lounging on the beach watching

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<v Speaker 3>the waves and just observing. Okay, they're doing this or

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<v Speaker 3>that's unfolding there. That's fine, this is happening. That's happening.

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<v Speaker 3>I can have awareness, I can see without allowing that

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<v Speaker 3>thing to dictate me. We have to raise our perspective

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<v Speaker 3>here to a higher perspective. We have to remind ourselves, well,

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<v Speaker 3>this might be happening now, but this is for now

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<v Speaker 3>and not forever.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what it really is.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of want us to create space between what's

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<v Speaker 3>any space between the circumstance and our emotional response, we're

425
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<v Speaker 3>just gonna constantly be.

426
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<v Speaker 2>Spewing what is going on.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so concerned, I'm so worried, I'm so blah blah

428
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<v Speaker 3>blah blah. It's not gonna work out well for us.

429
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<v Speaker 3>What if we created space and maybe you're thinking, well, Cecie,

430
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<v Speaker 3>what do I do in that space? I'm gonna tell

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<v Speaker 3>you you're gonna reeve focus on you. Yeah, baby girl,

432
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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna become your own mus because at the end

433
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<v Speaker 3>of the day, you came into the world alone and

434
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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna leave the world alone. I want you to

435
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<v Speaker 3>refocus on you. You need to remind yourself that as

436
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<v Speaker 3>the world is changing around you, you can't lose you.

437
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<v Speaker 3>There's gonna be shiny things out there, there's gonna be

438
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<v Speaker 3>great connections out there. It doesn't matter, None of it

439
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<v Speaker 3>matters if you lose yourself in it.

440
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<v Speaker 2>Because then it's not fun anymore.

441
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<v Speaker 3>It's not joys anymore, it's not enjoyable anymore. You have

442
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<v Speaker 3>to become your own muse, and in doing that, you

443
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<v Speaker 3>elevate your own vibration. You attract the best of the best,

444
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<v Speaker 3>and ultimately you feel better. You feel better about yourself,

445
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<v Speaker 3>you raise your confidence. How can you become your own.

446
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<v Speaker 2>Mus What do you want to learn?

447
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<v Speaker 3>What do you want to do in life? And maybe

448
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<v Speaker 3>you have to take out a piece of paper because

449
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<v Speaker 3>you're like Ceci, I never even asked myself, I want

450
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<v Speaker 3>to do it with my life. Okay, great, let's start

451
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<v Speaker 3>asking those questions.

452
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<v Speaker 2>What do you want to do?

453
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<v Speaker 3>Is it yoga?

454
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<v Speaker 2>Is it dance? Is it writing? Is it singing?

455
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<v Speaker 3>Sign up for a class, go to a new cooking class,

456
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<v Speaker 3>you know, do anything, but you have to start cultivating yourself.

457
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<v Speaker 3>By the way, interesting people like interesting people. So if

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<v Speaker 3>you want to attract interesting people, become an interesting person.

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<v Speaker 2>Yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Becoming your amuse means you're taking.

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<v Speaker 2>Time with learning who you are. And a lot of

462
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<v Speaker 2>what learning.

463
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<v Speaker 3>Who you are is is also acknowledging all the parts

464
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<v Speaker 3>of you that are not actually you, but you're still

465
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<v Speaker 3>holding on to. So those limiting beliefs of I'm not

466
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<v Speaker 3>good enough, I can't have this, whatever they may be,

467
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<v Speaker 3>those limiting beliefs, even though you're thinking them, that's a

468
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<v Speaker 3>learned behavior. It's not who you actually are when you

469
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<v Speaker 3>were born. When I was born, we were born confident, loving, happy,

470
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<v Speaker 3>magnetic babies. Anything that deviates from self love and confidence

471
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<v Speaker 3>is a learned behavior that we picked up from parents,

472
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<v Speaker 3>or siblings or our peers. We have to go into

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<v Speaker 3>this space where we're not rushing ourselves. An evolution process

474
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<v Speaker 3>cannot be rushed, and we want to choose to evolve,

475
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<v Speaker 3>so we don't evolve to lower vibrational behaviors. In becoming

476
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<v Speaker 3>our own muse, we're focused here where focus goes, energy flows.

477
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<v Speaker 3>So if I'm focused on that person that I'm dating,

478
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<v Speaker 3>or that circumstance that's annoying me, you know, whatever it

479
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<v Speaker 3>may be. If I'm focused on things that are just

480
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<v Speaker 3>stressing me out, I'm just feeding it my energy, and

481
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<v Speaker 3>I'm getting a terrible return on investment. You have to

482
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<v Speaker 3>feed yourself your own energy, and the way to do

483
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<v Speaker 3>that is to stay focused on your own vessel. Am

484
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<v Speaker 3>I doing things that are making me healthy, hotter, and

485
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<v Speaker 3>feeling wholer Okay, that's a great start.

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<v Speaker 2>I find it really ironic.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I don't think we can lose anything out there.

488
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<v Speaker 3>But you know who we can lose sometimes.

489
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<v Speaker 2>Is our self. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>The only person it's imperative for you not to lose,

491
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<v Speaker 3>which is someone you can lose, is yourself because the

492
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<v Speaker 3>other people, if they leave your life, you're not losing

493
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<v Speaker 3>your releasing and you can't lose what's not yours, you're

494
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<v Speaker 3>shedding it. But when we get sucked into what's going

495
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<v Speaker 3>on around us, we want to be validated, seen and

496
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<v Speaker 3>connected to we can lose ourself. That's a problem. That's

497
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<v Speaker 3>something we have to be aware of over time. If

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<v Speaker 3>we continuously allow mistreatment from others, we just further betray

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<v Speaker 3>ourselves time and time again, and then we end up

500
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<v Speaker 3>hating ourselves for allowing that treatment. If you can not

501
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<v Speaker 3>let someone go for you, let them go for your

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<v Speaker 3>younger self. Sometimes it's easier to stand up for our

503
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<v Speaker 3>younger self or inner child than it is to just

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<v Speaker 3>stand up for our selfs. You didn't come here to

505
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<v Speaker 3>be mistreated by Brad and Brittany, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>That's only distracting you from your purpose. And I really

507
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<v Speaker 3>think if the devil can't get you down, he'll get

508
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<v Speaker 3>you down by sending negative people into your life. That

509
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<v Speaker 3>will just distract you. I mean, what is the devil

510
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<v Speaker 3>but distraction. My mom used to always say that idle

511
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<v Speaker 3>time is a devil's playground.

512
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<v Speaker 2>I really do believe this.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're not consciously plugging into what you want to grow,

514
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<v Speaker 3>into the vision you have for your life, what you

515
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<v Speaker 3>want to create, you're gonna be easily manipulated, easily distracted,

516
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<v Speaker 3>and then you're gonna allow other people to choose circumstance

517
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<v Speaker 3>for you. And this is truly how we lose ourself.

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<v Speaker 3>You have a commitment not only to your current self,

519
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<v Speaker 3>but you're inner child and your future self too. You

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<v Speaker 3>also have a commitment to God. Like you and God,

521
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<v Speaker 3>I truly believe this, have a plan for your mission

522
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<v Speaker 3>and your purpose and your life. When I meet God,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to be able to say to God, God,

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<v Speaker 3>I I tried my best. I really did. I gave

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<v Speaker 3>my sole mission everything I could give it. I spent

526
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<v Speaker 3>time in solitude, I learned the lessons. I shared what

527
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<v Speaker 3>I learned with other people. I led with love. When

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<v Speaker 3>I meet God, I want to say, I'm a rung

529
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<v Speaker 3>out towel. I used everything. You gave me everything. And

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<v Speaker 3>the funny thing is, the more of your gifts that

531
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<v Speaker 3>you use, the more gifts that will be bestowed upon you.

532
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<v Speaker 3>The more that you lean into your talents, the more

533
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<v Speaker 3>talents you will open and evoke. Use this time to

534
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<v Speaker 3>focus on your self, regardless if you're in a relationship

535
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<v Speaker 3>or not. Again, the one person it's possible to lose

536
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<v Speaker 3>and who you cannot lose because I don't want you

537
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<v Speaker 3>to lose.

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<v Speaker 4>This person is you.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the person we tend to abandon and most of

540
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<v Speaker 3>the time for other people. And no one can fulfill

541
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<v Speaker 3>us like we can fulfill ourselves, especially in union with God.

542
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<v Speaker 3>I mean that is the true fulfillment. Connecting and praying

543
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<v Speaker 3>and having awareness of God. Nothing nothing, nothing, nothing I

544
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<v Speaker 3>tell you will ever make you feel as good as

545
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<v Speaker 3>being connected to God. And that's why I don't care

546
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<v Speaker 3>if I sound preachy. I know what I'm talking about.

547
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<v Speaker 3>And if someone had the cure to some illness, I

548
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<v Speaker 3>would want them to tell me if I know the

549
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<v Speaker 3>cure to loneliness is connecting with God, I'm gonna tell you.

550
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<v Speaker 3>And that's what this is about. How can you become

551
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<v Speaker 3>your own muse. You're not gonna rush yourself. You're gonna

552
00:31:38.799 --> 00:31:42.519
<v Speaker 3>allow yourself to release the behaviors that are no longer

553
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<v Speaker 3>serving you. And how do you do that by a

554
00:31:44.839 --> 00:31:49.119
<v Speaker 3>conscious conversation? Well, I'm not gonna react to this external circumstance.

555
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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna give.

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<v Speaker 3>Myself some space. I'm gonna elet external circumstance to unfold

557
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<v Speaker 3>because I don't have all of the dots connected just yet,

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<v Speaker 3>which brings us to number three. I'm gonna have faith

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<v Speaker 3>in God. I'm gonna trust that there is a divine

560
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<v Speaker 3>plan for me. And I'm not going to devolve. I'm

561
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<v Speaker 3>gonna consciously continuously choose to evolve. I'm gonna pick the

562
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<v Speaker 3>vibrational behavior that's for my highest good. And by the way,

563
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<v Speaker 3>how do you know a behavior or a thought form

564
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<v Speaker 3>is for your highest good? It's healthy and it makes

565
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<v Speaker 3>you feel good. Because there are some things that are

566
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<v Speaker 3>gonna make you feel good, but they're not healthy for you.

567
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<v Speaker 3>So it's healthy and it makes you feel good. And

568
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<v Speaker 3>also your future self won't hate you for choosing it.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe that is just the number one way to know.

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<v Speaker 3>Your future self will not hate you for doing this.

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<v Speaker 3>If you choose to do your meditation, if you choose

572
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<v Speaker 3>to go to the energy class, if you choose to pray,

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<v Speaker 3>your future self won't hate you for that. If you

574
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<v Speaker 3>choose something or someone, I should say that's not good

575
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<v Speaker 3>for you. It might feel good in the moment because

576
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<v Speaker 3>you're feeding your ego, but is your future self gonna

577
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<v Speaker 3>want you to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a question I really want you to ask yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I am sending you so much love, positive bitches. Thank

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<v Speaker 3>you for being here with me today and sharing this time.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been amazing, per usual. The sparkle in me honors

582
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<v Speaker 3>the sparkle and you. I'm sending you all the love

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<v Speaker 3>in the world, and I will see you in the

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<v Speaker 3>next one.

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<v Speaker 4>W canceae, non canceae, make cancae.
