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So let's up very ready, I'll go powdy boy. We're

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all three doing great, aren't we. We're all just running.

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Speaker 2: On wait sorry hold on, no, see, yeah it's fine,

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Speaker 3: I had you mic muted.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we could over much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you didn't say anything, keep going.

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Speaker 1: I see I was saying. Today we're all uh, all

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three of us in our own different ways, not really

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Speaker 3: So I didn't sleep. I think at all. You ever

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have those nights? Yes, It's like I think I got

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a body as a sleep trigger. And if I don't

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fall asleep at the time, like I get tired, I

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full darted bear, I have to turn off the show

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wherever it is and.

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Speaker 1: Go to sleep.

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Speaker 3: And then I didn't fall asleep, and then John fall

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asleep snoring away. I having a great getting disease, and

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thinking about things that are bothering me, and it was like,

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thinking about things that are bothering you, like try to

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do a little like meditation, try to just like drift off.

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always the night before I got to get up and

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do something the next day. Yeah, it's never on a

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Saturday night when nothing going on Sunday morning. It's always

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things I notice that I do is my facial expression.

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on fod, like my face will tense up, like like

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like a little kid closing their eyes waiting for surprise

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for their birthday, you know, like you're squinting, like trying

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to make yourself falls. And I have to tell myself like, okay,

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relax the facial muscles doing that too. Yes, yeah, it

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Kaylin's not feeling great, no, smart, what's my general?

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was like sneezing constantly all the way over here. I

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fel kind of nauseous. Perfect, it's like a general, a

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general not great feeling.

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Speaker 1: I feel nauseous too, but it's because I'm hungover.

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Speaker 1: What happened yesterday was Labor Day and Suzanne just got

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back from taking her daughter Gracie to college. The night

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before dropping her daughter off, so she was like in

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So she got she dropped her daughter off. She was

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there like all week, and she was like, I want

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to plan Labor Day for us to get together because

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to you, and like, you know, that's her only child

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were going to go like get a there's these things

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a day, you know, a past to sit by the pool.

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on sunset or yeah, sun sunset, and I was like great, okay,

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Don my other girl Kookie girlfriend down and her husband Steve. Okay.

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good long term, not short term. So Don has always

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did I say? I told you? What did I say?

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my podcast tomorrow And she said, go ahead.

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our whole life, like it's nothing new, all right, So

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we invite her and her husband. They say they're in Okay,

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two weeks ago before Labor Day, she I bring it up, Oh,

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and I buy the pass. I go, well, if you

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guys are gonna go, I'll go online. I'll buy the passes,

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like Labor Day, Suzanne's leaving for New York and Labor

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I forgot. Oh. Then she goes her husband, Steve has

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a meeting on Labor Day. So Steve's not gonna go.

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he would just go. I don't want to go. But

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why does she have to make up some lie that

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like he's got a meeting on Labor Day. For God's sake,

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you've had a meeting on Labor day, okay whatever. I

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was like, okay, no problem. You know they already venmo me.

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refund up to twenty four hours hours before the before

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you go. So and so I tell her this and

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she's like, okay, you know, so she we forgot, we

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forget about it. Then uh then she tells me, oh,

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two days before it. While Suzanne's still in New York,

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on the phone and she says, she goes. She goes, Oh,

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so Steve's probably not gonna make it. And I don't

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say anything, and she goes because it's his annual trip

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to Delmark with the boys.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, God, just say Steve doesn't want

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to go. I was like, uh huh, okay, that's fine. No,

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but I'm still coming. I'm like, okay, all right. So

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then then the morning and then another thing comes. But

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forever to get to my house anyway, whatever. So she

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did you go to the hotel? So we did. We

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couple of beers by the pool, you know, nothing big.

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doggy uber by the way, there is no I didn't

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know that. Yes, Suzanne called it for me. She's like, yeah,

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the way down. It says for dogs transportation. It makes sense,

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right because everybody travels with their dogs.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, so we had a great day. We come

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home and she's like, I'm gonna I'm gonna come in

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because then she uber to my house. So we get

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and she's like, I'm just gonna come in and chill

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before I have to get in another uber. And I'm like, okay, like,

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you have plenty of time to get right, just go home.

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by the way, Suzanne's like, Lynette, you've changed throughout the

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years because you are a lot. You used to never

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have patients, especially for Dawned, and now you're like overly

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nice with her, you know. And I'm like and Suzanne's like,

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and she's on a ton of medication for her blood.

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a night and see. But it took forever anyway, it

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took forever to get serviced by the pool. Maybe that's

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and then opens up wants to open up my bottle

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for that I got for my birthday of wine. And

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only have one glass, and I said, and she already

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can have one glass. So she had one glass. I

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had another glass after I went to bed. Not it

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brain doesn't shut off. Yeah. Like she's like yeah to

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, I'm exhausted just hearing the story.

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now while I tell the story. I know I'm done.

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this morning. Yes, but did you have to be like, okay, no, no,

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she woke up. I think she woke up right before

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ordered bagel. We were starvings. I got bagels and then

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Speaker 1: You know.

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why I connected these two topics, but I was just

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thinking about when having sleepovers, when the kids have sleepovers,

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and how when they were young, it was always such

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a ksha. I lived in fear of the kids having

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sleepovers at our house, even though you know, I like

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Speaker 1: I like all the.

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Speaker 3: Kids to hang out at our house, but sleepovers were

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always so so much work because you're like, well, because

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She didn't like going to other people's houses as much.

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to sleep, like, because when they were really young, they

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food they like for dinner. And then a lot of

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kids in this circumstances. Just like sleepovers, I remember being

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so fun when I was a kid that I really

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wanted my kids to have that experience, like slumber parties.

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Speaker 1: Sleeper parties, that's what you used to call it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, But like if I had my friend used to

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sleepover like every other weekend, and then I would sleep

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at her house on the other weekend, and I just

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remember always being so fun and not I remember her

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mom being really hands off. This was my friend and

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I wrote about her in Drunkish who was super wealthy.

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Her father was this owned a record company. So I

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had this So I was young, like between the ages

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of six and maybe twelve. I was really good friends

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with this girl. I've never been able to find her.

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And I know I've told you this before, but she

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lived in this Hue Mongus house in the Hollywood Hills

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that it used to be the.

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Speaker 1: Jackson's used to live there.

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Speaker 3: Wow, and it had I mean, it was just a

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massive mansion and I had I just remember thinking as

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a little kid, like how fun it was because we

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would go for hikes, yeah, and doing air quotes because

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it was like a hike to go all the way around.

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our house.

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Speaker 1: With all these views.

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Speaker 3: Then they had it was like a separate house that

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was a maid's quarters.

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Speaker 3: And then there was an upstairs in a downstairs and

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downstairs there was a whole huge sauna and like a

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room that went under the swimming.

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Speaker 1: Pool that you could like look wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they had like two swimming pools.

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Speaker 3: It was crazy. But my point is her mom. It

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was the seventies, so it was super hippy dippy, you know,

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and the mom would just be like, you guys are

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on your own, like go in the kitchen and find

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yourself food or maybe a maid would like make us

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a meal and then uh, if we were being too loud.

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I just remember the mom would come marching into the

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room with no shirt on, like just boobs swinging in

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I'd just be like okay, bagdad, and then we'd be

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like oh shit.

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Speaker 1: Like then we'd be like, sorry, titties are coming down

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the hall.

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Speaker 3: Yes, wow, my stepfather. One time when I was having

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a sleepover. I remember we were camping and he came

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storming over because we were being loud to like our tent,

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and he was naked, ugh, penis swinging in the wind,

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and I just remember being very traumatized by that, like,

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that's not cool, right, Dad's I don't care. That was

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also probably like the seventies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a thing. I think, just nudity hey

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yeah yeah yeah, just or half walking around your bron underpants,

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right whatever.

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Speaker 3: But it was funny because we were very pretty poor.

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with super rich step dad. I think it was her

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mom's boyfriend and they all lived together. And then I

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lived in a duplex in like a bad part of town,

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and we would My id of fun was like we

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would walk a block to Montgomery Ward. Oh yeah, steal

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candy and then like get a bunch of wacky packs,

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you know those with the stickers with the like you

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bum coffee.

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Speaker 1: Oh do you remember those? Do you remember wacky packages?

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Because I didn't eat I didn't eat a lot of candy.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't it wasn't candy. It was it was like collectors,

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like garbage pail kid cards. It was like baseball cards,

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but they were takeoffs on ads. Oh, so it would

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be like, I don't I can't remember the only one

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that comes to mind is you bum coffee. And they

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were stickers. And then you also got these like cards

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that made a puzzle. It sounds and there was a

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it was like the nineteen seventy five series. So anyway,

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my friend Cheryl would get money, come with like a

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bunch of like fifty bucks, and then we would just

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buy a ton.

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Speaker 1: They were like ten cents each for these wacky packs.

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Speaker 3: We would buy a ton of them, bring them home,

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bring home our loute. Anyway, sleepovers were fun at that point,

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but cut to being a mom and having kids that age,

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it's so much work.

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Speaker 1: It's not like it was in those days where you

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just go, yeah, go back, Can I figure it out?

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Speaker 3: Go find some candyd eat watch team watch movies on Cinemax. No,

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you have to like make sure that they're happy and

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watching appropriate TV and make sure you ask permission from

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the other mom if their kids allowed to watch like

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this movie all that stuff. Anyway, now that my kids

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are sixteen going on seventeen, the Twins the other night

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they had, they had like there were like nine kids

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in our house if you count lb because elb was

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it was Elbie, Sadie, Xander, their friend, Izzy, Jack, Rebecca, Christo,

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lyleout Crocodile.

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Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, a huge amount.

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Speaker 3: School Well yes, well one girls it's Sadie's friend, goes

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to a different school. But it was just like a

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big pack of kids. And I was like what, I

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don't know, doesn't hurt me, Like, you know, they all

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spent the night. I mean, I woke up in the morning,

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went to go walk the dog, and there were like

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Xander and his friends like on sleeping bags on the

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floor in like our back room. There's like a sofa

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back there, another kid there, another kid on the regular sofa,

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another kid on the arrow bed, Sadie in her room,

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and body with another bodies everywhere. Body's body's bodies, and

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I just was thinking, I love this so much and

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there's no work involved. They all walked to go get food.

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They all went to like Shakeshack and got themselves dinner.

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They walked back. I didn't hear from any of them.

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They watched TV or whatever. It's so nice And I

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just want to say to all the parents that are

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feeling like and Caitlin, you're not even at sleepovers yet.

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When you get there, you're gonna want to shoot yourself

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because it's a lot of work. But just know, in

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a few years you're gonna be like it.

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Speaker 1: I know, yeah, it is. It's I remember when the

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kids were old enough. Natalian never likes spending the night

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at her friend's house either. She always wanted everybody at

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our house. And it was when they're young, you have

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to yes, you have to make sure you have to

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get the bedding, bedding, all the bedding is there, Like enough,

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did somebody need a pillow to get a pillow from

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the couch, you know, like improvised, right, And then but

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then once they hit a certain age, like at the teenage,

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the teen years, like she just just took it, took

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over and they just did their own things. I love

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in the living room. Yeah, it was maybe so happy.

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Speaker 3: I like them all being at our house. It's kind

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of a free for all and they're just all hanging

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out and everybody's happy and they can all, you know,

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And I love that Xander is starting to feel a

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little more entitled.

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Speaker 1: He's our kids.

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Speaker 3: It is always asking permission for everything.

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Speaker 1: Would it be okay if so and so spends the night?

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Speaker 3: And I'm always like, Xandra, do I ever say no

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like to that?

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Speaker 1: Of course? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: And then that night he didn't even ask, like just

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there were just just kids everywhere, and I was like,

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good for him.

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Speaker 1: Nice. Yeah, so was this sleep over their school already started, right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a Oh but you guys had Sunday night.

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We had Monday off of schools.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's nice. Yeah, I forget that school is back

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in session. Seems so ste it seems so hot in summary. Still,

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but our kids go back so early, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: They really do. I've I've seen some kids just starting

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back now. My kids have been in school. This is

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their fourth week, their fourth week have They've been in

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school three full weeks?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 3: So today is Tuesday, Yeah, this is their fourth week

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of school.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Italia started classes and she loves her classes really well,

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even the math class that she's getting out of the way.

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She likes the teacher because he was like he says,

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she tells me, he says, how many kids are here

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that need math for their major? No one raise their hand,

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And he was like, that's what I thought. So I'm

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gonna make this as easy and simple as possible. And

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I think it's a hybrid too. It's one of her

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classes that's hybrid. So she only has to go, like,

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I don't know, one day a week and then there's

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a bunch of study stuff. But he told them that

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he's going to give them a whole like any quizzes,

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it's gonna be you can use your notes and he's

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going to give you a template of the quiz which

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is basically the quiz to study and it cannot be

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easier to take his class.

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Speaker 3: That's great, which is great.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so she has that, she has journalism, she likes English,

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and she has a film which is another one time.

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Those are fun classes. Yeah, And she has a list

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of movies and I'm like, let me help you pick

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and she's like, all right, I'll she I'm like, tell me,

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can you think of one movie on the list? And

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she said, uh, there's that movie lady Bird.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that movie, Yeah, I didn't love it.

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Speaker 1: Now did you see it?

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Speaker 3: That?

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Speaker 1: Or there was also Moonlight? What's Moonstruck? Was the movie

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with Chaer right Moonlight?

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Speaker 3: Moonlight was the movie.

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Speaker 1: That was at the at the Oscars read yes, at

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the very end they got it wrong. Yes, Moonlight was

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supposed to win. Yeah, so she's gonna watch that one Moonlight. Yeah,

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I mean she might like Ladybird. I didn't that wasn't

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it isn't it like a coming of age?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's with the Yeah, it's with the director. Stephanie

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gave Kaylen the Finger, popular, very popular director. Yes, no,

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tell me, yes, Greta, I never that never.

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Speaker 1: It was she did the Barbie movie. Yeah she did.

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two movies recently that were not dominated for Oscars. Didn't

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that movie Free Ladybird win something? It did? Yeah, it

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won something. It was nominated. I remember you didn't like it. Why?

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I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just didn't love it. But I also didn't love

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00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,359
Barbie the way everybody else did either.

472
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 1: Even watch Barbie, you didn't. No, should I watch it?

473
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 2: It's a fun movie. Yeah, yeah, Ryan Gosling crack me up?

474
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,519
And that I loved it so hard at Ryan Gosling

475
00:24:26,519 --> 00:24:27,160
in that movie.

476
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Speaker 1: I love him.

477
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Speaker 3: It was listen, it's a fun movie, and I had

478
00:24:31,079 --> 00:24:32,960
a good time watching it. But I just had some

479
00:24:33,079 --> 00:24:36,160
issues with like the message. I don't know. I just

480
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:40,200
didn't feel that it was this feminist message like everybody

481
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:43,960
else did. I was like, they're still all hot, so

482
00:24:44,079 --> 00:24:46,359
I don't not really sure, and the one that's not

483
00:24:46,839 --> 00:24:51,039
is the weird Barbie. So yes, I guess we're learning

484
00:24:51,079 --> 00:24:53,599
that you can be super hot but also be a lawyer.

485
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But I don't I didn't.

486
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 1: That's just me, you know, I speaking of Ryan Gosling.

487
00:25:00,039 --> 00:25:02,359
I don't know if I watched a movie. I don't

488
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,720
think I told you. If you guys haven't seen it.

489
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:09,799
It's pretty good. Beyond the Pines, Place Beyond the Pines,

490
00:25:09,839 --> 00:25:13,519
Place beyond the Pines with him. It's really good. It's

491
00:25:13,559 --> 00:25:15,559
based on a book. Okay, that's why it was so.

492
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,039
I watched it on the plane. I did not see

493
00:25:18,039 --> 00:25:20,960
the very end because we landed, but I got the

494
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,599
gist of it. No, I I mean it was literally

495
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,599
the last ten minutes I didn't see. But it was

496
00:25:27,799 --> 00:25:31,359
really good. I enjoyed it. Okay, Yeah, it's good. Is

497
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:31,920
any bad?

498
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Speaker 2: It's a little sad. I really liked it too, though.

499
00:25:35,799 --> 00:25:38,599
I think that's where he met his wife. Even so,

500
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:40,359
they have great chemistry.

501
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, That'sley Cooper, isn't it. Yeah?

502
00:25:44,039 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 3: Okay, A Place beyond the Pines.

503
00:25:45,799 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: It's really good.

504
00:25:47,039 --> 00:25:50,279
Speaker 3: I saw, you know, if you're looking for like like

505
00:25:50,599 --> 00:25:54,160
highbrow entertainment, I saw the Gary Coleman documentary.

506
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:54,799
Speaker 1: I was.

507
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 3: I saw that, you did.

508
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,640
Speaker 1: I didn't watch it yet. I'm going to watch it

509
00:25:58,759 --> 00:26:02,400
because I was withdrawn last night. It's gonna be my

510
00:26:02,519 --> 00:26:03,839
Monday evening viewing.

511
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 3: She didn't want to watch it.

512
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 1: No, she passed out, and I was so tired I

513
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,640
went to sleep. But no, it was it good.

514
00:26:10,839 --> 00:26:14,599
Speaker 3: It's it's okay. No, it's not that good. It also

515
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,960
took me like four tries to get through it. I

516
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,920
kept we kept starting it, and it would get into

517
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:20,960
it and then I'd be like.

518
00:26:21,039 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: Was I asleep? Was I I think I missed something?

519
00:26:23,599 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 3: And then John would go, let's just turn it off

520
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,559
and we'll watch the rest tomorrow. Next day, I'd be like, oh, go,

521
00:26:28,839 --> 00:26:32,400
let's watch. Let's get this done. Gary Coleman documentary.

522
00:26:32,519 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 1: Listen what you're talking about, Willie.

523
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, it would show Bo was and then he and

524
00:26:36,559 --> 00:26:38,720
then I'd watch like I'd have to keep going back.

525
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 1: You ever do that?

526
00:26:39,519 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 3: I not remember this party. Then I'd rewind more and

527
00:26:43,039 --> 00:26:45,160
John would be like, really you were asleep for that part.

528
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,440
I'm like, I got I have no memory of that happening,

529
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,000
go back, and then it's like, oh, I guess I

530
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,839
only got through like ten minutes of the movie the

531
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:52,400
first time.

532
00:26:52,599 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: So then I'd get.

533
00:26:53,279 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 3: Through like another you know, like twenty twenty five minutes,

534
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,559
fall asleep again, get tired, go but thing.

535
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 1: That's what happens when you're a darted bear. It takes

536
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:04,640
out your memory too.

537
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 3: Yes, and see, I don't learn a lesson. John's always like,

538
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,319
don't get under the covers, don't.

539
00:27:09,079 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 1: Get under the covers, And I'm like, but I gotta

540
00:27:11,279 --> 00:27:14,559
get under the covers because it's so warm. I now,

541
00:27:16,079 --> 00:27:19,200
so you're just gonna fall asleep. I'm like, I am not.

542
00:27:19,519 --> 00:27:22,240
I'm really into this. I really want to see this.

543
00:27:22,799 --> 00:27:28,599
Speaker 3: Okay, and then I'm asleep. So so Gary Coleman.

544
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, why don't you just tell me? He had his.

545
00:27:31,839 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 3: Wife who was I remember razy pants? Yeah, like she's

546
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:37,559
out of her mind.

547
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: Didn't she try and take him for his money insteady? Yes?

548
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,279
Speaker 3: But also okay, you do end up you watch this

549
00:27:45,319 --> 00:27:47,839
thing and you feel so bad for Gary Coleman because

550
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,759
everybody just wanted to squeeze the little guy for his money.

551
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 1: Yeah.

552
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 3: So he starts out on you know, different strokes. He

553
00:27:55,559 --> 00:28:00,720
starts out on a couple shows his parents, right commercial.

554
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,920
Then he did like an episode of Good Times, and

555
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:07,799
then I think he was like maybe a regular I

556
00:28:07,799 --> 00:28:10,599
don't know, but then he got different strokes and then

557
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,920
would you talk about yeah, uh, would you talk about

558
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,000
Conrad Bain, I don't know his name by the show,

559
00:28:17,799 --> 00:28:23,839
mister Drummond, you're talking about, mister Drummond. What was that?

560
00:28:24,079 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: What was the theme song to different Different Strokes?

561
00:28:27,279 --> 00:28:31,559
Speaker 3: It takes different strokes, it takes different strokes through the world.

562
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:36,599
Speaker 1: Whatever was that it though, that's I could think of it.

563
00:28:36,599 --> 00:28:39,759
It takes uh, you take the good, you take the bad,

564
00:28:39,799 --> 00:28:40,519
you take the both.

565
00:28:40,559 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 3: And then that's the fact I know she was probably

566
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,200
also on right, would you talk about Lisa?

567
00:28:47,799 --> 00:28:48,799
Speaker 1: What you talking about? Two D.

568
00:28:49,839 --> 00:28:53,319
Speaker 3: So apparently later on in his career he was like

569
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:57,799
horrified by having to do that tagline. He was he

570
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:01,960
just felt violated by every time everybody's like, can you

571
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,000
do the line? And he'd be like, I don't want

572
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,839
to do that anymore. Also, you know, he had like

573
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:12,359
these kidney issues that I'm sure you know that, and

574
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,839
he was on dialysis and then he had a kidney transplant,

575
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,680
but then it went bad. At a certain point he

576
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,920
had no kidneys at all, so he was just getting

577
00:29:22,119 --> 00:29:25,720
dialysis and he was really sick. And that's why he

578
00:29:25,799 --> 00:29:28,759
was so small because of the kidney disease and all

579
00:29:28,799 --> 00:29:33,680
the immune immunosuppressant suppressant drugs that he was on. So,

580
00:29:34,279 --> 00:29:38,799
you know, he he was like unhappy and and he

581
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:42,240
didn't want to work. I mean, I'm kind of spoiling

582
00:29:42,279 --> 00:29:46,000
the documentary, but na, I'm later in the documentary he

583
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,799
meets he's just unhappy, and he meets this woman and

584
00:29:48,839 --> 00:29:50,920
she seems like a meth head. I don't know. She

585
00:29:51,039 --> 00:29:54,759
seems pretty fucked up. And she immediately is like, you

586
00:29:54,839 --> 00:29:56,640
need to go work, you need to make money. How

587
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,319
are we gonna supposed to pay our bills? Which, okay,

588
00:29:59,759 --> 00:30:02,960
she a bit of a point that they need money,

589
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,480
but like she could go work, I guess she'd go.

590
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,680
She's probably also seems to be not saving her money

591
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:13,880
for meth, so she's like, I don't know. But anyway,

592
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:17,680
So when Gary Coleman died, a lot of people thought

593
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,400
that she did something because it was an abusive relationship.

594
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: It was super toxic.

595
00:30:21,519 --> 00:30:24,759
Speaker 3: The police had been called, he'd almost filed a couple

596
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,680
times the restraining order but then called it off at

597
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,240
the last minute. She was violent.

598
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:30,559
Speaker 1: Wow.

599
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:35,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then they found him like with a massive

600
00:30:35,319 --> 00:30:39,720
head injury on the kitchen floor with full with blood everywhere.

601
00:30:40,279 --> 00:30:42,880
So there was they couldn't figure out the exact they

602
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,240
couldn't prove that she did it. But oh, most people

603
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,839
think that she caused his death. I thought, he Oh,

604
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:53,079
and then she called nine one one. This is the

605
00:30:53,119 --> 00:30:56,680
best slash worst part. When she called nine one one,

606
00:30:57,119 --> 00:31:00,880
she was like, not really crying. She was just like, yeah,

607
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:04,480
you know, I found you know Gary. They were she'd

608
00:31:04,519 --> 00:31:07,359
married him, but then they got divorced. But then they

609
00:31:07,359 --> 00:31:09,519
were still living together because she didn't have anywhere to go,

610
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:13,359
I guess. So anyway, the nine one one operators like, okay,

611
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,519
can you like, can you do chest compressions?

612
00:31:16,519 --> 00:31:17,559
Speaker 1: And she's like, ooh no.

613
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 3: There's so much blood. I'm not gonna that's It's like

614
00:31:20,759 --> 00:31:23,119
I don't want to be that close to all that blood.

615
00:31:24,039 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: Oh. And then nine one one.

616
00:31:25,279 --> 00:31:29,759
Speaker 3: Operators like okay, but is he breathing and she's like,

617
00:31:29,839 --> 00:31:32,519
I don't know. It's ooh, there's so much blood. It's

618
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,480
just gross. I don't I can't handle that much blood.

619
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,039
So she wouldn't. So the nine one operators like, can

620
00:31:39,079 --> 00:31:41,079
you help him? And she's like no, I can't.

621
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: Wow, Yes, what a bitch, it's crazy. What did I

622
00:31:46,359 --> 00:31:51,119
thought he passed away due to complications? No?

623
00:31:51,119 --> 00:31:57,359
Speaker 3: No, wow, they said, she thinks she her story, but

624
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,799
when you watch the documentary, you're like, oh, yeah, I

625
00:31:59,839 --> 00:32:03,200
like her for this one hundred percent. She claimed that

626
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,559
she heard a loud thud and he fell and like

627
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,000
hit his head and but there was way too much

628
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,799
blood and way too much like a head in a

629
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,599
huge head injury. And some of the people were like, look,

630
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:16,799
he didn't have that far to fall.

631
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,119
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, yeah, fall, what do you

632
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,880
mean fall? Like trip over the carpet fall? Or was

633
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,559
he standing on a stool to reach something? Yeah?

634
00:32:25,559 --> 00:32:28,079
Speaker 3: And it was kind of confusing because I thought he'd

635
00:32:28,119 --> 00:32:30,279
fallen down the stairs. It seemed like she pushed him

636
00:32:30,319 --> 00:32:33,160
down the stairs, but I don't know he was because

637
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:34,359
he was found in the kitchen.

638
00:32:35,039 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: Right, it's you.

639
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:39,559
Speaker 3: You should watch the documentary though, because there's a lot

640
00:32:39,599 --> 00:32:40,119
you don't know.

641
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:45,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah about Arnold. Right, I'm gonna watch it. Yeah,

642
00:32:45,559 --> 00:32:48,039
did you didn't watch the Scott Peterson?

643
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 3: I started to and then I was like, oh, but

644
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,799
I was like, I already know this story. I've heard

645
00:32:54,839 --> 00:32:59,079
a million podcasts about it, I've seen I've seen documentaries

646
00:32:59,119 --> 00:33:01,880
about it, So I was like, what new information are

647
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,119
they going to have? They're not changing my mind?

648
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: That's what I thought. He is innocent?

649
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I can't.

650
00:33:14,119 --> 00:33:15,839
Speaker 1: We can talk more about it, I know because what

651
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,359
people have been talking on our Facebook page about it, right,

652
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:22,440
Like somebody I saw a post about it, uh or

653
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,839
maybe was it on our page? Somebody was saying, like

654
00:33:25,279 --> 00:33:29,480
I went in knowing a fully that he is guilty. However,

655
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:33,519
after watching it, is it a possibility that he could

656
00:33:33,559 --> 00:33:35,319
just be an asshole, shitty husband?

657
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 2: No?

658
00:33:36,559 --> 00:33:37,039
Speaker 1: Innocent?

659
00:33:37,839 --> 00:33:41,599
Speaker 3: No, you can't have that many coincidences. Why is he

660
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,000
out fishing? Why did he buy a boat without anyone's knowledge?

661
00:33:45,039 --> 00:33:49,119
Why was he making those weights? Why was he fishing?

662
00:33:49,519 --> 00:33:53,279
Chris eve Well, let's and why was the body found there?

663
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:57,359
There's a lot somebody got to answer for all your questions. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm glad you asked because remember how I used to

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got progressive glasses. Though, so my eyes I still am.

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old eyes, so I need the glasses that have far

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00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,360
so I can't see anything close up. Because I didn't

704
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,639
get new progressed I have them. They're coming in like

705
00:36:17,039 --> 00:36:20,800
a week, okay, and then I will have I will

706
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,239
never have to do that anymore.

707
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: Right, my old glasses.

708
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:28,199
Speaker 3: That corrected my double vision and did far near that's

709
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:28,880
where you noticed.

710
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: I didn't have to do that anymore, I see, Okay,

711
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:32,440
all right.

712
00:36:32,599 --> 00:36:35,800
Speaker 3: Usually I bring my other glasses, you know, those pink ones, right,

713
00:36:36,039 --> 00:36:39,199
I bring those because I can see the paper. Yeah,

714
00:36:39,199 --> 00:36:42,280
but I forgot them today. Yeah, okay, why lack of

715
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:46,599
sleep exactly? And well, we didn't talk about why Kaitlin's

716
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:47,559
what's going on with you?

717
00:36:47,639 --> 00:36:50,079
Speaker 1: Oh? We did, didn't we? You weren't feeling good and

718
00:36:50,119 --> 00:36:52,800
you were tired. Everybody didn't get a good night's sleep

719
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,480
last night. I don't know your two's excuses are you

720
00:36:56,519 --> 00:36:57,760
didn't have down in your bed?

721
00:36:58,519 --> 00:37:05,079
Speaker 3: And then Tuesdays are busy for so the Bachelor finale, Yeah,

722
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:09,920
is on tonight. There's three it's three hours. So I

723
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:15,920
have to teach at five my my writing class, some

724
00:37:16,039 --> 00:37:18,480
from like five to six thirty, and then at eight

725
00:37:18,599 --> 00:37:20,800
I have to watch The Bachelor for three hours, take

726
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:24,440
all the notes, and then tomorrow morning wake up record

727
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:29,960
Wow Rose Pricks Wow, Yeah, and then go get a crown.

728
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,119
Speaker 1: Oh.

729
00:37:33,159 --> 00:37:36,760
Speaker 3: So, so I go to my dentist. I feel like

730
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,199
I was going last week.

731
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 1: Yeah you did? They canceled or something.

732
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 3: They said, oh, they're having plumber plumbing issues.

733
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so they rescheduled for later that week. I go in.

734
00:37:48,079 --> 00:37:51,559
Speaker 3: I'm all tense, you know, like this is gonna suck

735
00:37:51,679 --> 00:37:53,840
so bad, but I gotta do it. I gotta, like,

736
00:37:54,079 --> 00:37:57,920
you know, man up. So I go in and she

737
00:37:58,039 --> 00:38:00,199
comes in. The dentist comes in and she looks my

738
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,719
tooth and she goes, oh, they already filled it with,

739
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:07,239
so it's like a temporary stuff in there. They already rebuilt.

740
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,480
I don't know what she called it. Not a dentist, Lynnette.

741
00:38:09,519 --> 00:38:11,800
I did obviously, I went to dental school, but I

742
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,920
didn't fully graduate. She was like, they already did the

743
00:38:15,039 --> 00:38:17,840
rebuild or whatever. And I was like, okay, I don't

744
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:21,800
know what that means. She's like, well, normally people come

745
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,719
in and they have this like some petty in there.

746
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,400
They fill it with something that's very temporary, could come

747
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:31,840
out at any minute. But he put in like hard stuff.

748
00:38:32,039 --> 00:38:35,119
She's like, made a tooth like it can last. And

749
00:38:35,159 --> 00:38:38,199
I was like, okay, so what now it has to happen.

750
00:38:38,559 --> 00:38:41,079
She's like, well, I have to make the craw. I

751
00:38:41,079 --> 00:38:44,239
have to file down, whittle down the tooth until it's

752
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,519
just a nub. I was like, well, what is the point.

753
00:38:46,679 --> 00:38:49,679
What was the point of fixing the tooth? Like why

754
00:38:49,679 --> 00:38:51,800
can't you just, like I don't know, put some hard,

755
00:38:52,119 --> 00:38:55,320
hard stuff over it, right instead of stuff? Yeah, didn't

756
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,360
go to didn't go to dental school, but it seems

757
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:01,440
like kind of common sense, right, you know, I.

758
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:04,519
Speaker 1: Would do it porcelain on right, Yeah?

759
00:39:04,679 --> 00:39:10,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, put something there, use some kind of light beam. Yes,

760
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,639
the stuff they.

761
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:14,079
Speaker 1: It went home depot. Yeah, we could do it. I

762
00:39:14,119 --> 00:39:14,840
could bring it in.

763
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 3: I'll stop at home depot. I'll bring you this. Just

764
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,239
tell me what I need exactly, like or a picture

765
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,639
of the stuff, or the dentist store.

766
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:25,519
Speaker 1: Dentist store.

767
00:39:25,599 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 3: I'll go to the dentist store.

768
00:39:27,039 --> 00:39:28,079
Speaker 1: Is there one around us?

769
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 3: There's gotta be one.

770
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 1: Where do you get your stuff? This mirror, I'll go.

771
00:39:32,559 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 3: I'll go to that place. I'll order from Amazon. Listen,

772
00:39:35,519 --> 00:39:37,239
I got you covered. You don't have to go out

773
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,960
of your way, But like, can we just avoid this whole?

774
00:39:40,199 --> 00:39:41,760
Why do we have to undo all the work?

775
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 2: Then?

776
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:44,159
Speaker 1: I hate that.

777
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 3: Also, I was like, my dentist does not suffer fools, and.

778
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:50,599
Speaker 1: I'm a fool.

779
00:39:51,039 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 3: So I totally cop to the fact that I have

780
00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:58,800
a lot of unreasonable anxiety. But I was like, hey,

781
00:39:59,199 --> 00:40:02,559
so when I got the root canal done, they gave

782
00:40:02,599 --> 00:40:07,199
me nitrous because I was a train wreck, like very scared.

783
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:10,920
And she was like uh huh, and I said, so

784
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,360
so is it. But this isn't gonna hurt. Like now

785
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:15,280
I feel like you're undoing all the work and are

786
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:16,000
there like.

787
00:40:16,039 --> 00:40:19,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought that you were over the hump of

788
00:40:19,159 --> 00:40:20,320
all that. That's what I thought.

789
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 3: And I was like, now you're telling me what i'm

790
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:27,800
hearing all You're gonna be filing down my entire tooth,

791
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:29,559
like drilling it all the way out.

792
00:40:29,599 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 1: And she's like uh huh.

793
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:33,559
Speaker 3: And I was like, well, that's not good news to me.

794
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,480
That's bad news. And what if you hit a nerve?

795
00:40:36,599 --> 00:40:38,840
And she's like, well, there are no nerves because you

796
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,039
had a root canal, it's all. There's no nerves in

797
00:40:41,079 --> 00:40:41,519
your tooth.

798
00:40:41,559 --> 00:40:43,119
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, but you could slip and

799
00:40:43,199 --> 00:40:47,400
heard the nerve someplace out. It's just it's not like

800
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:51,199
a fucking canyon. It's like a very small real estate

801
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,599
you're dealing with. There's the tongue, there's the top part

802
00:40:54,639 --> 00:40:57,079
of the mouth, there's.

803
00:40:56,639 --> 00:40:58,760
Speaker 3: There's next door, neighbor's.

804
00:40:58,159 --> 00:41:03,119
Speaker 1: Door, neighbor teeth, the ones across the street. They could

805
00:41:03,159 --> 00:41:07,679
be hit, shrapnel could be flying exactly, yeah, exactly.

806
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,159
Speaker 3: So I was like I still, She's like, I can

807
00:41:10,199 --> 00:41:12,400
still numb you anyway. I was like, yes, I think

808
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,639
that's a fine idea. So then she's like, well, what

809
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,000
is it that makes you so anxious? And I said,

810
00:41:18,599 --> 00:41:22,400
I think at some point somebody hit a nerve. I

811
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,760
had some dental work where somebody hit a nerve. By

812
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,280
the way, I think it was her. Okay, I didn't

813
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:28,679
want to say that, but I've been going to her

814
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:30,480
for a long time, you know. I tried to go

815
00:41:30,559 --> 00:41:34,719
like probably before your time. Somebody traumatized me. It was

816
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:38,199
her and she hit a nerve and then I screamed

817
00:41:38,199 --> 00:41:42,519
and she was like, it doesn't hurt. So so then

818
00:41:42,639 --> 00:41:46,480
she's like, okay, well i'll numb you up so that

819
00:41:46,679 --> 00:41:50,679
in case, like and then she's almost rolling her eyes.

820
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:54,960
It's almost audibly annoyed that, like, obviously she's not gonna.

821
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,039
Speaker 1: Don't like doing that because they don't want to wait

822
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:00,039
and you know, wait for you to get numb. And

823
00:42:00,079 --> 00:42:02,800
I hate waiting to to be numb, I know, but

824
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:06,760
I do know the idea of just drilling out the tooth,

825
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:10,079
and I feel it. So anyway, then she's like, so,

826
00:42:10,119 --> 00:42:12,719
why don't you just like get your doctor to prescribe

827
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:15,639
you something, you know, do something to relax, get take

828
00:42:15,679 --> 00:42:18,000
a pill or something to relax. And I was like, well,

829
00:42:18,039 --> 00:42:20,800
I can't do that. Yeah.

830
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 3: It's because to me, there's a big difference between getting

831
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,639
nitrous oxide in the moment while they're doing it, and

832
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:31,519
then the second they're done, it's it's out of your system.

833
00:42:31,639 --> 00:42:35,599
As opposed to like taking something like an audavan. I'm

834
00:42:35,599 --> 00:42:37,320
gonna feel that's gonna I'm gonna be like.

835
00:42:37,199 --> 00:42:39,639
Speaker 1: Oh, I like this right now. Then I'm going to be.

836
00:42:39,599 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 3: Like how many do they give me? I doubt they're

837
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:43,599
going to prescribe just one. And then I'm going to

838
00:42:43,679 --> 00:42:46,880
be like, oh, I'm feeling really anxious, so I think

839
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,639
I might need to take an ad I have.

840
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:50,519
Speaker 1: It's not going to be good for me.

841
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 3: So anyway, that is, uh, what's today too? That's tomorrow?

842
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:02,159
Speaker 1: Really? Yeah, well good luck Sonny's having his wisdom teeth

843
00:43:02,199 --> 00:43:06,760
out tomorrow. Oh shit, it's been this long. This office

844
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:10,119
doesn't do anything. You know, they do like usually on

845
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,000
Mondays or whatever they do their oral surgeries. And I'm like,

846
00:43:13,119 --> 00:43:15,960
I can't come on a Monday. So finally they were

847
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:17,920
like two months ago, They're like, okay, we got something

848
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:20,519
on September fourth. I'm like, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, that

849
00:43:20,559 --> 00:43:23,559
sounds good. Then I get the text yesterday and don't forget.

850
00:43:24,039 --> 00:43:26,639
I was like, oh, Sonny, don't forget tomorrow. Get your

851
00:43:26,679 --> 00:43:31,079
wisdom teeth out so cause last time he got sick,

852
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:35,679
he was throwing up all right, I'm no. I think

853
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,639
that had a lot to do with some nerves made.

854
00:43:37,679 --> 00:43:38,840
I don't know. I don't know.

855
00:43:39,199 --> 00:43:41,159
Speaker 3: Well, the wisdom teeth.

856
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:41,599
Speaker 1: See.

857
00:43:41,639 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 3: The thing that's so beautiful about getting your wisdom teeth

858
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,920
out is your safe knock you out? Yeah, yeah, I don't.

859
00:43:48,119 --> 00:43:50,280
I have no fear about being knocked out.

860
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,119
Speaker 1: I like it. Yeah, like wake me up when it's over, right,

861
00:43:54,159 --> 00:43:55,599
and then I like to be like, oh.

862
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,679
Speaker 3: We're done. Like that felt like it's no time.

863
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it doesn't feel like you were asleep or anything.

864
00:44:00,599 --> 00:44:01,920
It's like, goody quick. Yeah.

865
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 3: I can handle the after pain me too, much more

866
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:06,800
easily than.

867
00:44:06,679 --> 00:44:10,519
Speaker 1: The anticipating something might. Yeah, yes, I get it. I

868
00:44:10,599 --> 00:44:13,400
get it. A lot of people feel that way. But

869
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:18,239
you know, when I took Natalia to get her wisdom teeth,

870
00:44:18,639 --> 00:44:21,480
I you know, explained to her everything and she doesn't

871
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,880
get scared or anything. She's like, yeah, whatever, okay. So

872
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:29,159
they knock her out and she was I sure I

873
00:44:29,199 --> 00:44:33,159
talked about but she was a crying mess, a crying mess,

874
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,239
and she kept saying, they didn't put me asleep. I

875
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,719
was awake. The whole time, and I'm like, no, I'm

876
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:40,840
pretty sure. And then when the dentist called the chag

877
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,360
go you guys put her to sleep, right, he goes, oh, yeah,

878
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:46,119
she was out. They said, you see Natalia, but she

879
00:44:46,199 --> 00:44:48,719
was a crying mess. So we'll see how Sunny's gonna do.

880
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,559
I keep thinking, like, they're you know, they're eighteen, they know,

881
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,440
like they're not little kids. They'll handle it. Well, she

882
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,519
didn't handle it very well. We'll see how he does.

883
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 3: I think Obi had hers And when she was eighteen,

884
00:45:01,679 --> 00:45:04,760
and I got to be honest, she was fine, Like

885
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,159
she was fine. I really woke up, was being funny,

886
00:45:07,679 --> 00:45:10,760
and then by I swear to God, like two days later,

887
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:13,320
she was at Universal Studios with her boyfriend.

888
00:45:13,519 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 1: Yeah. See, I think Sonny's gonna be like that. I

889
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,360
think he probably will. Yeah, I don't think he's gonna

890
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:22,239
So when does he leave again? At the end of

891
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:23,719
this month at twenty sixth?

892
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:28,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, so Elbe's getting moved in on the sixteenth. Really,

893
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:32,679
so we're like staggering like Natalia than Elbe than Sunny.

894
00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:37,679
Speaker 1: That's right. Are you excited? You feel like she's ready?

895
00:45:38,079 --> 00:45:39,039
Speaker 3: Yeah?

896
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure she's excited.

897
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 3: I don't like see her that much. As it is,

898
00:45:44,679 --> 00:45:47,360
she is always out doing stuff. She gets up in

899
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:52,000
the morning, she's gone, she's out at night, she's Yeah.

900
00:45:52,119 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 1: I was feeling that way too. Natalia is the same.

901
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,960
Before she left. She was working, or she was out

902
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:01,280
with her friends, and or she would go spend the night,

903
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:05,039
you know, somebody's house for a weekend. You know, I

904
00:46:05,159 --> 00:46:07,280
just got kind of got used to it. But now

905
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:11,239
with her and like Santa Barbara, not that far away,

906
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,920
it still feels like she's at college, but you know,

907
00:46:16,079 --> 00:46:18,719
but but she's still close by. But I still find

908
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:21,000
myself looking on the thing, where is she? Where is she?

909
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,039
One night, she spent the night at somebody's friends, Like

910
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,760
I know she has other friends down there, but I'm

911
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:29,840
looking at the thing, and I'm thinking to myself, where

912
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:31,840
is she? Why isn't she home? It's one o'clock in

913
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:33,480
the morning. I wake up in the middle of the night,

914
00:46:33,599 --> 00:46:35,639
two o'clock in the morning, I'm texting her. I'm like,

915
00:46:35,679 --> 00:46:37,920
where are you? And she texted me as soon as

916
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,000
she woke up, Sorry, I felt. I went to sleep

917
00:46:40,039 --> 00:46:43,320
at my friend's house, my our girlfriends whatever, and I

918
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,920
can see her roommate was there too, so I didn't

919
00:46:46,199 --> 00:46:50,639
wasn't that freaked out. But I'm still checking on them,

920
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:55,920
you know, And how often she's been pretty good. She

921
00:46:56,159 --> 00:47:00,719
mostly is texting, but I will, I'll tell her, you know,

922
00:47:01,159 --> 00:47:03,599
call me when you can. I did call her the

923
00:47:03,679 --> 00:47:06,719
other night. She was at a party and like the guy.

924
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:08,800
The guy was like, are you talking to some Are

925
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,000
you talking to chicks? Are you get inviting chicks over?

926
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,880
And she's like, I'm talking to my mom. Oh my god?

927
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:21,719
But uh yeah, I mean, uh she does. She she

928
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:24,519
stays in touch with me. Yeah, we talk. We talked well,

929
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:28,679
definitely texting a bunch of times a day, not a

930
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,400
bunch of times, but you know, more so than when

931
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,679
she lived at home. You know, she would be gone

932
00:47:33,679 --> 00:47:37,280
all day with her friend whatever. But now that she's there,

933
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I'm like, you know, just keeping in touch. But I can't,

934
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like cut that cord when he goes the same thing,

935
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don't Are you still gonna keep rod? I think I will.

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Speaker 3: Robin told me when her son Jack went away to school,

937
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he was like, we're done, Like, I'm off the like

938
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he turned it off and she was like, oh no,

939
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like but she felt it was difficult. She said it

940
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was hard, but she had to respect that he didn't

941
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want her checking on him. I have a feeling that Albie.

942
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I think Ilbie likes that I always know where she is.

943
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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: It's funny because I was asking my kids the other

945
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day if they think I was just like one of

946
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those things where we were driving home from school and

947
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I was making conversation and I was like, compared to

948
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other moms, do you think I'm like, I know, I'm lenient,

949
00:48:33,119 --> 00:48:35,320
But I was like, do you think, like, compared to

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other moms, am I strict?

951
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Speaker 1: Am I like very loose? And I whatever?

952
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Speaker 3: And they said, which I thought was kind of good.

953
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They were like, well, compared to our Mexican friends, you're

954
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very not strict because they have you know, there's been yes,

955
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are super overprotective or just protective. You know, that's the culture.

956
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They don't let them do sleepovers and stuff. So but

957
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then they told me that compared to a lot of

958
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their white friends, I'm not way more lenient, Like I'm lenient,

959
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but they said that they feel more protected by the

960
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fact that I always know where they are. They said

961
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they have a lot of friends who it's like a

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free for all, and they have friends that they feel

963
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are not being looked after at all, like that that

964
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they can just do whatever they want whenever they want.

965
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And these kids, this is according to my kids, end

966
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up getting themselves in trouble, like with drugs right right there.

967
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But they're like, so you always know where we are.

968
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You're always checking in with us to make sure we're okay,

969
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like you're on top. And I was like, oh that's nice,

970
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I'm doing something right. Yeah, I can't.

971
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Speaker 1: I have to know where my kids are, at least

972
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up until nobody said anything. Nobody's said like don't follow

973
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me on Life three six anymore or whatever. So it's

974
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fine with me, right. But when I was growing up, yeah,

975
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I read I was the kid. Well we just talked

976
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about it, but I was a kid that never got

977
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to do anything, never was allowed to have sleepovers or

978
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go to well Suzanne was the only one allowed to

979
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sleep over, but I was never allowed to spend the

980
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night over anybody else's house, even if they lived up

981
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the street. You know, they had a Doberman, so I

982
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wasn't allowed to go over there. And it's the Italian culture,

983
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you know. But but I still ended up sneaking out

984
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as I got older, you didn't really stop, but there

985
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was no app to, you know, to find where I am.

986
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Speaker 3: But oh, I can't even imagine. I remember you match

987
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out of my basement window, crawling out with my friend.

988
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We'd wait for my parents to fall asleep, crawl out

989
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the window at like midnight, go to our corner, basically

990
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wait for some guys to come by and like pick

991
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us up. Were driving around drinking beer, getting drunk, and

992
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one time the cops came knocked on the window. We

993
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were like drinking beers and it was like three o'clock

994
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in the morning, and I like lost my mind because

995
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I was like, oh my god, they're going to take

996
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me home and my parents are going to lose it.

997
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Like I was like, they'll kill me.

998
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And what happened did they take did they

999
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take cops?

1000
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Speaker 3: Just like I think I cried and was like please,

1001
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don't like tell my parents, and you know, I tried,

1002
00:51:23,199 --> 00:51:25,280
I'm not drinking, you know, and they were like, all right,

1003
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just go go home, and then they didn't. Yeah, yeah, kiddy,

1004
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I just can't even imagine back those days, not having

1005
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an app and stuff like that.

1006
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was different times. Yep.

1007
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Speaker 3: All right, Kaylen, you're pretty strict with your kids, right,

1008
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not really give them a curfew.

1009
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Speaker 1: Well we didn't. We haven't done yet.

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