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<v Speaker 2>only ever dreamed of. A survivor's first hand account of

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<v Speaker 2>attempted murder in Saint Francisville, Louisiana, a former warden of

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<v Speaker 2>Angola Prison shoots his wife five times with a pistol,

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<v Speaker 2>then sits down to watch her die on her plantation

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<v Speaker 2>home porch. The victim, author Anne Butler, survives to tell

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<v Speaker 2>this true crime story, detailing the unraveling of her seven

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<v Speaker 2>year marriage and how it led to her near murder,

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<v Speaker 2>interspersed with simple black and white snapshots. This stranger then

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<v Speaker 2>story of murder, survival and forgiveness offers keen insights into

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<v Speaker 2>the mind of both victim and criminal.

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<v Speaker 4>The book that we.

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<v Speaker 2>Are featuring this evening is Weep for the Living with

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<v Speaker 2>my special guest author and Butler. Welcome to the program,

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<v Speaker 2>and thank you for a green to this interview.

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<v Speaker 10>And Butler, my pleasure, Dane, nice to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 2>Now let's get right to as you do so masterfully

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<v Speaker 2>in your book. Set get you, set the mood, and

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<v Speaker 2>take us right into the Butler Greenwood Plantation in Louisiana.

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<v Speaker 2>You talk about this being eight generations of family in

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<v Speaker 2>this home. So tell us about the Butler Greenwood Plantation.

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<v Speaker 10>This is in Saint Francis Belle, Louisiana, and San francis

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<v Speaker 10>Ville is not French Louisiana or Cajun Louisiana or Creole Louisiana.

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<v Speaker 10>It's English Louisiana. And the early settlers here came down

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<v Speaker 10>from the East Coast right after the Revolutionary War, and

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<v Speaker 10>they brought with them very English traditions. And culture. My

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<v Speaker 10>family came in the seventeen seventies and got Spanish land grants,

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<v Speaker 10>and first they grew indigo as their cash crop, and

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<v Speaker 10>then cotton and sugar cane. This plantation has never been

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<v Speaker 10>sold out of the family, and so it's a little unusual.

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<v Speaker 10>We operated it as a tour house for twenty three

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<v Speaker 10>years and then finally have closed it. But we do

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<v Speaker 10>bet and breakfast on the plantation. So it's a family home.

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<v Speaker 10>A lot of history here, and it is typical of

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<v Speaker 10>the plantation the English plantation country, a lot of Bavoks,

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<v Speaker 10>formal gardens, beautiful historic home, very beautiful furnishings, and so

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<v Speaker 10>visitors really enjoy seeing something that has never been sold

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<v Speaker 10>out of the family or owned by the state or

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<v Speaker 10>anything like that. It's a real, real piece of living

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<v Speaker 10>history here.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>You talk about in the book too, that you said

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<v Speaker 2>in the mid eighteen hundreds, two thirds of known millionaires

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<v Speaker 2>lived in this area before the devastation of the Civil War.

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<v Speaker 10>Absolutely all along the Mississippi River corridor from New Orleans

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<v Speaker 10>to Natchez. You did have most of the most of

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<v Speaker 10>the country's millionaires living near huge sugar plantations. A lot

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<v Speaker 10>of wealth and then after the Civil War, of course

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<v Speaker 10>that way of life was over, but some of the families,

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<v Speaker 10>like this one, we're still able to hold onto the land.

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<v Speaker 10>The lifestyle would never be elegant, but it was still

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<v Speaker 10>a wonderful life on these old places.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you also talk about because of the Civil War,

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<v Speaker 2>many of the men were killed, so it left an

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<v Speaker 2>opportunity in a old boys kind of world, for women

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<v Speaker 2>to take over these plantations.

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<v Speaker 4>Afterwards.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, you know, during the Civil War and after the

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<v Speaker 10>Civil War, the men were either dead or gone during

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<v Speaker 10>the Civil War, and the ones who came home from

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<v Speaker 10>the war were either so disabled or so demoralized that

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<v Speaker 10>they were not able to resume the roles that they

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<v Speaker 10>had played during the war. The women, some very strong women,

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<v Speaker 10>stepped up and ran the plantations, and they had to

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<v Speaker 10>continue to do that after the Civil War. So you

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<v Speaker 10>had some very strong women all across the South, and

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<v Speaker 10>particularly in this house. It was usually the women who

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<v Speaker 10>not only were the strong ones, but outlived the men

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<v Speaker 10>by many years. So it was a real matriarchy here.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, tell us about your writing career and the kinds

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<v Speaker 2>of books that you have written and had written up

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<v Speaker 2>to this date.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, of course, as a mother. I wrote children's books

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<v Speaker 10>when my children were small, and then I wrote travel

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<v Speaker 10>books and very much involved in historic preservation. And as

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<v Speaker 10>Louisiana has such a vulnerable, fragile environment here and culture,

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<v Speaker 10>I had written a lot about preserving the culture. So

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<v Speaker 10>I've written I guess twenty two books, some more substantial

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<v Speaker 10>than others. But I also had written two crime books

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<v Speaker 10>on true stories from Angola Plantations, which is now the

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<v Speaker 10>Louisiana State Penitentiary very near here, and had been plantations,

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<v Speaker 10>and they put them all together and started this eighteenthou

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<v Speaker 10>an Acre Penitentiary there and behind every door there there

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<v Speaker 10>was a very interesting story and a lesson to learn.

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<v Speaker 10>And so the crime books that I wrote were extremely interesting.

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<v Speaker 10>As a crime writer, I had certainly never intended to

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<v Speaker 10>be more than an objective observer. But when I became

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<v Speaker 10>a victim, it really was a golden opportunity for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Now tell us about your to describe. I mean it

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<v Speaker 2>must be hard for you, but to a certain extent,

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<v Speaker 2>tell us about the kind of character that you have been.

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<v Speaker 2>You'd said before that you met Murray. You had three

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<v Speaker 2>previous marriages, So tell us about your marriages, and if

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<v Speaker 2>you could a little bit about your character.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, I went to college in Virginia, and then I

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<v Speaker 10>worked in Washington, d C. For a couple of years,

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<v Speaker 10>and I went to the West Coast and worked writing

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<v Speaker 10>for magazines out there and went to graduate school out there.

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<v Speaker 10>So it's not as if I have stayed here continually.

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<v Speaker 10>And really it was very helpful to me to be away,

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<v Speaker 10>because when you're in a small town, it's easy to

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<v Speaker 10>succumb to the small town mentality, Whereas when you come

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<v Speaker 10>back from other areas, you realize that you're not missing

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<v Speaker 10>anything anywhere else. You can be satisfied with the small

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<v Speaker 10>town life and not intimidated by the small town mentality.

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<v Speaker 10>I started writing books when my children were small. My

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<v Speaker 10>first husband was from Virginia, and we had a wonderful

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<v Speaker 10>footloose life right after college and did a lot of

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<v Speaker 10>traveling and everything. And then when it was time to

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<v Speaker 10>settle down, it was pretty well me who who assumed

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<v Speaker 10>they were responsibility of earning a living and taking care

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<v Speaker 10>of children. And so that marriage ended in divorce. And

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<v Speaker 10>then I married two more times and was here was

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<v Speaker 10>here in Saint Francis, bill from that point on, and

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<v Speaker 10>my last husband was someone who to whom I was

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<v Speaker 10>attracted by his intelligengensen, his access to stories that I

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<v Speaker 10>really wanted to write about. And so that was my

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<v Speaker 10>fourth marriage, and he had also been married before, and

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<v Speaker 10>so we were married for seven years. I would have

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<v Speaker 10>to say that as a wife, I don't like to

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<v Speaker 10>be told what to do, and as a person, I

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<v Speaker 10>don't like to be told of to do, and so

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<v Speaker 10>I probably am not the ideal servant wife for sure,

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<v Speaker 10>But I am an independent, independent person. And my fourth

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<v Speaker 10>husband was someone who had been in corrections as his

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<v Speaker 10>lifetime career and had to exercise absolute control over the

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<v Speaker 10>every situation, and that did not translate well into our marriage.

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<v Speaker 10>I think that was the main issue there.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let's go back here because we've got to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about your business and your family. You have a daughter

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<v Speaker 2>named Chase and a son, so tell us about their ages,

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<v Speaker 2>and let's go back in time in terms of before

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<v Speaker 2>you met Murray. You alluded to what attracted you to

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<v Speaker 2>Murray Henderson, but let's talk about what the age difference

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<v Speaker 2>was and what your particular familiar situation was in terms

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<v Speaker 2>of your daughter and your son, and then talk about

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<v Speaker 2>how you met Murray Henderson.

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<v Speaker 10>With my daughter at the time of this book, my

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<v Speaker 10>daughter was in college and was going to Emory for

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<v Speaker 10>her senior year. My son was twelve years old and

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<v Speaker 10>lived in the house with me and Murray. I knew

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<v Speaker 10>him through the Episcopal Church, and we had had been,

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<v Speaker 10>you know, socially acquainted, but not close. And he was

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<v Speaker 10>considerably older than I was twenty four years but he

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<v Speaker 10>was very entertaining and very bright, as I said, and

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<v Speaker 10>I had a great deal of respect for him as

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<v Speaker 10>a as a progressive corrections administrator, and also very attracted

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<v Speaker 10>to him because of the access to criminal records and

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<v Speaker 10>story like that. And so my son lived in the

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<v Speaker 10>house with us when we married, and my daughter had

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<v Speaker 10>gone off to Emory in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 2>Now this is we're talking about nineteen ninety correct when

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<v Speaker 2>you got married.

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<v Speaker 10>Ninety seven, Well, nineteen ninety we married. Nineteen ninety seven

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, tell us about Murray Henderson. And again you

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<v Speaker 2>talked about him being a real reformer in terms of corrections,

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<v Speaker 2>and that was part of the attraction you had to

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<v Speaker 2>him as well. So tell us about before we go

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<v Speaker 2>into the books that you've written about Angola.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell us about Angola.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, his career in correction started in Tennessee. Then he

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<v Speaker 10>went to Iowa as the warden Mayor, went back to

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<v Speaker 10>Tennessee as the warden of the Tennessee State Attention Tree,

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<v Speaker 10>and then came to Angola at a time when the

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<v Speaker 1>UH.

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<v Speaker 10>There were huge abuses. It was a very dangerous place

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<v Speaker 10>for inmates as well as as corrections officers. UH. It's

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<v Speaker 10>very isolated, and it's it's purposely isolated. It's surrounded on

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<v Speaker 10>to make it difficult for escapes to take place. It's

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<v Speaker 10>it's so isolated that it was extremely difficult to attract

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<v Speaker 10>competent employees there. There were certainly a number of good,

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<v Speaker 10>dedicated employees, but there were also a number who had

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<v Speaker 10>issues with control and violence, and it was just a terrible,

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<v Speaker 10>terrible place the inmates innate. Guards were given guns to

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<v Speaker 10>to because there was very little staff there and it

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<v Speaker 10>just was rife with abuses, and inmates would sleep with

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<v Speaker 10>sears catalogs taped to their chests to ward off the

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<v Speaker 10>knives in the night. They brought in some progressive corrections administrators,

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<v Speaker 10>and Murray came in at that point as the warden

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<v Speaker 10>and was very much resented by the entrenched hierarchy at Angola,

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<v Speaker 10>and so he had issues not only with with the

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<v Speaker 10>inmates but with the staff and tried very hard to

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<v Speaker 10>implement some good reforms that were very much needed. Also,

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<v Speaker 10>the government had to step in uh and oversee a

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<v Speaker 10>lot of the reforms there.

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<v Speaker 4>Now in his tenure. There was also the first correctional

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<v Speaker 4>officer to be killed was an Angola, wasn't it.

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<v Speaker 10>That's correct, And that is a case that is still

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<v Speaker 10>in the system today. One of the killers, just this

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<v Speaker 10>week has been ordered released after forty years in isolation.

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<v Speaker 10>It's a very interesting case that involved not only Murray,

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<v Speaker 10>but actually involved me as well because it was one

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<v Speaker 10>of the cases that I had included in my book

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<v Speaker 10>Dying to Tell, And when they threw out the indictment

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<v Speaker 10>and had to reindict him, I was on the grand

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<v Speaker 10>urse call for the grand jury and kept asking that

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<v Speaker 10>I be dismissed because I had written about it, but

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<v Speaker 10>they kept me on the grand jury, which of course

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<v Speaker 10>was grounds for appel although it was denied and it's

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<v Speaker 10>still going on. Today.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you also include a story of I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>an author of Peter Maas in the nineteen seventy five

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<v Speaker 2>to nineteen eighty in Tennessee the influence peddling scandals. So

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<v Speaker 2>tell us a little bit about that and the Marie

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<v Speaker 2>a true story by Peter maz Well.

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<v Speaker 10>Marie Riganni, who was was there at the time when

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<v Speaker 10>Governor Blanton and a couple of other high officials were

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<v Speaker 10>sent to prison for for influence peddling, and Murray was

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<v Speaker 10>the warden of the penitentiary and then became commissioner of

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<v Speaker 10>correction in Tennessee. Uh, he was never charged with anything,

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<v Speaker 10>but at that point he left and came to Angola.

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<v Speaker 10>That was that was what sent him out of Tennessee.

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<v Speaker 10>I think he left a number of high positions under

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<v Speaker 10>a little cloud, shall we say. And Marie I actually

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<v Speaker 10>spoke with her, and she she did say that she

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<v Speaker 10>did not think that he was guilty of any criminal activity,

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<v Speaker 10>but just being one of the good old boys and

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<v Speaker 10>not trying to make ways, although there were certainly some

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<v Speaker 10>criminal activity in the in the corrections department.

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<v Speaker 4>Now this is very important to the story that he

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<v Speaker 4>was heading.

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<v Speaker 2>A hospital or prison for the criminally insane with and

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<v Speaker 2>and so he was at the head of this forensic

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<v Speaker 2>hospital so which would have him meet and establish relationships

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<v Speaker 2>with psychologists and psychiatrists.

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<v Speaker 4>So tell us a little bit about this.

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<v Speaker 10>They call it Policiana forensic. And he was the head

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<v Speaker 10>of the facility where they would send criminals who were

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<v Speaker 10>having their their sas asked, you know, for criminal trials.

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<v Speaker 10>And so he knew all of the psychiatrists. He knew

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<v Speaker 10>all the psychologists. He was very familiar year with how

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<v Speaker 10>the insanity defense works. And this I think really gave

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<v Speaker 10>him some good ideas on how to commit the perfect crime.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, you talk about that in the course of the

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<v Speaker 2>research for these two books, and the idea for these

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<v Speaker 2>two books was basically your idea, and really you did

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<v Speaker 2>the research and the writing. But it also brought you

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<v Speaker 2>together on the road in motel rooms, and your romance

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<v Speaker 2>was sparked. Despite this twenty four to twenty five year difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell us just a little bit about how and because

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<v Speaker 2>you were married and he was married as well, so

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<v Speaker 2>tell us about how this romance developed and what you

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<v Speaker 2>have to do as a result of this.

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<v Speaker 4>Budding romance.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, didn't go into it with the idea of having

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<v Speaker 10>any involvement with him other than professional, and I called

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<v Speaker 10>him mister Henderson, and his ideas were very different. And

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<v Speaker 10>he had been trying to get involved with me for

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<v Speaker 10>a number of years, which I did not even realize.

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<v Speaker 10>He would invite me to come to his retirement program

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<v Speaker 10>and have designs to go out for lunch and all this,

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<v Speaker 10>and I would show up with my husband, you know,

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<v Speaker 10>and several instances like that. After a while, you know,

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<v Speaker 10>He had been married for a number of years, but

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<v Speaker 10>somewhat unhappily.

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<v Speaker 10>Details and I was looking for a little more than

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<v Speaker 10>what I was having in my marriage. All I had

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<v Speaker 10>a very good husband at the time, and so we

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<v Speaker 10>both divorced and married in nineteen ninety and were married

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<v Speaker 10>for seven years. We did two books together starting in

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<v Speaker 10>nineteen ninety, and had had a had a contentious relationship

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<v Speaker 10>from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 2>So what might have cemented this somewhat is that he

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<v Speaker 2>had said that he was very impressed with your writing

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<v Speaker 2>again as well, and so very flattering for you as

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<v Speaker 2>a writer also, and you said you were enthralled with

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<v Speaker 2>you know, his marvelous mind when you do meet and

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<v Speaker 2>with this twenty four year old difference in age, and

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<v Speaker 2>just coming from a marriage where you have to divorce

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<v Speaker 2>your husband and he has divorce his wife. What was

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<v Speaker 2>the response from your children and your family to Murray

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<v Speaker 2>Henderson coming into your life.

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<v Speaker 10>Oh, I think they were all horribed. My daughter never

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<v Speaker 10>did like him, could barely tolerate him, and got out

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<v Speaker 10>of the house as soon as she could. My son

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<v Speaker 10>was only twelve years old, you know, and Murray made

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<v Speaker 10>an effort with him. They went fishing once or twice,

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<v Speaker 10>and then of course mari age, you know, his idea

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<v Speaker 10>of spending quality time was to watch the MacNeil Lear

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<v Speaker 10>report on TV, you know, and a twelve year old

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<v Speaker 10>is not going to be that impressed. But Stuart was

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<v Speaker 10>a sweet little boy, and he you know, he tried

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<v Speaker 10>to get along with him. My daughter never did care

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<v Speaker 10>for him at all.

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<v Speaker 2>What was your relationship characterized by in terms of his disposition?

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<v Speaker 4>What was his nature like? Especially in the beginning.

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<v Speaker 10>He was very very good to me. I never heard

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<v Speaker 10>him raise his voice. I never saw any violence at all.

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<v Speaker 10>He had had a drinking problem while he was at Angola,

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<v Speaker 10>but I never saw him take a drink. He did

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<v Speaker 10>not drink at all while we were married. We had

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<v Speaker 10>a very cordial relationship, but underneath to serve was always

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<v Speaker 10>a struggle for control.

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<v Speaker 2>Always was he did he exhibit some jealousy. You talk

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<v Speaker 2>about your longtime carpenter and partner restorer of your plantation,

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<v Speaker 2>the Butler Plantation. His name is Burnett, and you were

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<v Speaker 2>friends with him and his wife. So was he jealous

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<v Speaker 2>of that relationship that you had with Burnette?

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<v Speaker 10>He was jealous of every relationship I had, even with

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<v Speaker 10>the cleaning staff. He was very demanding that he get

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<v Speaker 10>all the attention and always be the center of everything.

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<v Speaker 10>A wonderful writer. Abigail Paget from San Diego would come

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<v Speaker 10>and stay here and we would all go out to dinner,

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<v Speaker 10>and she's the one who wrote the introduction to the book,

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<v Speaker 10>and she comments on him. She and I would always

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<v Speaker 10>talk all through dinner, and he would just sit there

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<v Speaker 10>and wait for the conversation to center around him, you know,

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<v Speaker 10>and then he would participate.

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<v Speaker 1>But he just.

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<v Speaker 10>He always needed to be the center of everything. He

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<v Speaker 10>resented any time that I spent with anyone else, and

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<v Speaker 10>he resented any decision that I made without talking to him.

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<v Speaker 10>And of course the business was mine and I didn't

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<v Speaker 10>feel I needed to consult him on anything, although I

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<v Speaker 10>would try to include him anything, but he always had

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<v Speaker 10>to be the center of everything.

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<v Speaker 2>This might seem like I'm prying, but I think this

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<v Speaker 2>is I know this is important to the story. What

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<v Speaker 2>was You just mentioned that you didn't need him for

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<v Speaker 2>the business. Now I'll mention that you were forty six,

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<v Speaker 2>he was seventy. He was basically not retired. But you

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<v Speaker 2>say he wasn't involved with your business. So tell us

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<v Speaker 2>exactly what the relationship was often in terms of him

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<v Speaker 2>moving in, but what was his role in terms of

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<v Speaker 2>when you talked about expenses, when you talked about your money,

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<v Speaker 4>How did that work.

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<v Speaker 10>We had no community property at all. The business was

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<v Speaker 10>on my inherited property, which was not community property. The

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<v Speaker 10>money that went into it was mine, either inherited or

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<v Speaker 10>borrowed from the bank. And he had very little role

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<v Speaker 10>in the property here. He had a little part time

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<v Speaker 10>job that he did with some health agency, going around

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<v Speaker 10>visiting doctors and things. We never had a joint bank account,

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<v Speaker 10>We never had any community anything. All of our accounts

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<v Speaker 10>were totally separate.

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<v Speaker 2>You also retained your name Butler, and you said in

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<v Speaker 2>the book that he resented that somewhat, didn't he Well.

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<v Speaker 10>The writer, you know, I never should have changed my

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<v Speaker 10>name because I've had so many books published, and so

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<v Speaker 10>I did keep my last name. And I relate in

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<v Speaker 10>the book one instance where I was giving a book

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<v Speaker 10>review and he was introduced as mister Butler, and he

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<v Speaker 10>got up and said, well, she has very graciously allowed

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<v Speaker 10>me to keep my own name. But he really did

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<v Speaker 10>not appreciate that at all.

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<v Speaker 4>No.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Now, according to witnesses again written in your book,

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<v Speaker 2>that your relationship was marred by separations. Will say for

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<v Speaker 2>a few days for several days for different periods of time,

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<v Speaker 2>for various reasons. Like you say, you didn't really have

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00:28:54.400 --> 00:28:59.279
<v Speaker 2>any major He wasn't a violent person by nature. But

429
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<v Speaker 2>tell us how your relationship in that seven years was

430
00:29:03.039 --> 00:29:07.799
<v Speaker 2>characterized in terms of these often separations.

431
00:29:09.720 --> 00:29:12.440
<v Speaker 10>Well, we just would feel the need to be a part,

432
00:29:13.359 --> 00:29:16.599
<v Speaker 10>and he would leave, and then he would come back.

433
00:29:16.720 --> 00:29:20.200
<v Speaker 10>And finally, the last time that he left, I was

434
00:29:20.279 --> 00:29:25.079
<v Speaker 10>just delighted that he was gone and did not allow

435
00:29:25.160 --> 00:29:28.400
<v Speaker 10>him to come back. But it was off and on

436
00:29:28.839 --> 00:29:35.359
<v Speaker 10>for years, hopefully just the irritation of struggle over control.

437
00:29:37.480 --> 00:29:40.440
<v Speaker 4>And where would he go when he went?

438
00:29:40.799 --> 00:29:44.160
<v Speaker 2>Which is interesting? Where would he go when you were

439
00:29:44.319 --> 00:29:45.759
<v Speaker 2>involved in these separations?

440
00:29:46.680 --> 00:29:49.640
<v Speaker 10>Well, his ex wife there graciously allowed him to have

441
00:29:49.720 --> 00:29:52.920
<v Speaker 10>a room in their house, and so you would go

442
00:29:52.960 --> 00:29:55.279
<v Speaker 10>over there, and then he would come back. And why

443
00:29:55.359 --> 00:29:57.480
<v Speaker 10>she allowed him to do that, I'll never know. But

444
00:29:57.519 --> 00:30:01.680
<v Speaker 10>then why allowed him to come back here, I'll never

445
00:30:01.759 --> 00:30:04.839
<v Speaker 10>know either, But the last time I did not.

446
00:30:07.200 --> 00:30:11.599
<v Speaker 2>Now what's very very interesting and again important is Murray

447
00:30:11.640 --> 00:30:14.240
<v Speaker 2>Henderson's son and his occupation.

448
00:30:14.359 --> 00:30:15.960
<v Speaker 4>So tell us about Mary Henderson's son.

449
00:30:17.799 --> 00:30:21.279
<v Speaker 10>He was an assistant district attorney at a nearby parish

450
00:30:21.880 --> 00:30:26.319
<v Speaker 10>and actually very nice person. He would come here a

451
00:30:26.359 --> 00:30:32.039
<v Speaker 10>lot and spend weekends with his second wife, and he

452
00:30:32.119 --> 00:30:34.519
<v Speaker 10>had a son a little bit older than my son,

453
00:30:34.599 --> 00:30:39.240
<v Speaker 10>and so he would come and spend summers and swim

454
00:30:39.319 --> 00:30:44.279
<v Speaker 10>and play with Stuart. So we had a good relationship.

455
00:30:46.920 --> 00:30:47.799
<v Speaker 4>Now, what would you.

456
00:30:47.680 --> 00:30:50.880
<v Speaker 2>In the seven years And you say that this again

457
00:30:50.920 --> 00:30:54.640
<v Speaker 2>you mentioned the last separation, which was different. So tell

458
00:30:54.720 --> 00:30:58.880
<v Speaker 2>us before you tell us about the last separation and

459
00:30:58.960 --> 00:31:05.359
<v Speaker 2>how it was particularly different, markedly different. Tell us about

460
00:31:05.960 --> 00:31:08.160
<v Speaker 2>what had led up to this. Say, we'll talk about

461
00:31:08.200 --> 00:31:10.559
<v Speaker 2>the last six months for the last year. How had

462
00:31:10.599 --> 00:31:16.319
<v Speaker 2>the relationship changed, and what was your reaction and what

463
00:31:16.480 --> 00:31:22.200
<v Speaker 2>was his reaction in that say last year of the marriage.

464
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<v Speaker 10>I think for one thing, it was because we did

465
00:31:25.480 --> 00:31:30.640
<v Speaker 10>not have a writing project going. And the other thing

466
00:31:31.000 --> 00:31:34.480
<v Speaker 10>was that we just really got very tired of trying

467
00:31:34.519 --> 00:31:41.079
<v Speaker 10>to live together and to get along together. And it

468
00:31:41.119 --> 00:31:46.400
<v Speaker 10>was not something that started off slowly and escalated. It

469
00:31:46.440 --> 00:31:51.319
<v Speaker 10>was something that just was zero two one hundred overnight

470
00:31:53.000 --> 00:31:58.680
<v Speaker 10>and started. It was something just really stupid. He would

471
00:31:58.759 --> 00:32:02.640
<v Speaker 10>sit on air back porch and somebody would have to

472
00:32:02.680 --> 00:32:05.799
<v Speaker 10>walk past him to get to the to the laundry

473
00:32:05.839 --> 00:32:09.079
<v Speaker 10>room to do bed and breakfast, laundry and he had

474
00:32:09.160 --> 00:32:11.119
<v Speaker 10>he was very tall, and he would stretch out his

475
00:32:11.240 --> 00:32:14.079
<v Speaker 10>legs and you'd have to step over his legs to

476
00:32:14.119 --> 00:32:17.319
<v Speaker 10>get to the laundry room. And so one of the

477
00:32:17.559 --> 00:32:22.359
<v Speaker 10>cleaning ladies came in and he was looking at times

478
00:32:22.400 --> 00:32:25.480
<v Speaker 10>he was very very much of a fashion plate, you know,

479
00:32:25.799 --> 00:32:29.200
<v Speaker 10>very well dressed all the time and have a million clothes.

480
00:32:29.240 --> 00:32:31.960
<v Speaker 10>And we had to build a whole new closet room

481
00:32:32.240 --> 00:32:37.319
<v Speaker 10>to accommodate all of his clothes. And so the one

482
00:32:37.359 --> 00:32:40.079
<v Speaker 10>of the cleaning staff came in and he kept trying

483
00:32:40.119 --> 00:32:42.960
<v Speaker 10>to show her this tie and a catalog and she

484
00:32:43.720 --> 00:32:46.440
<v Speaker 10>sort of cursory look at it and walked on bine.

485
00:32:46.400 --> 00:32:48.880
<v Speaker 10>And I came by to get to the laundry room,

486
00:32:48.920 --> 00:32:54.079
<v Speaker 10>and he tried to show me the tie, and I said, listen,

487
00:32:54.160 --> 00:32:57.559
<v Speaker 10>I need some space here, you know. And that's what

488
00:32:57.799 --> 00:33:01.720
<v Speaker 10>set it off. And the next saying you he was

489
00:33:01.759 --> 00:33:05.839
<v Speaker 10>hauling out all of his clothes, and that was when

490
00:33:05.839 --> 00:33:06.960
<v Speaker 10>it really started.

491
00:33:09.279 --> 00:33:11.480
<v Speaker 4>When did he what did he?

492
00:33:11.680 --> 00:33:15.079
<v Speaker 2>When did he utter the you'll be sorry you ever

493
00:33:15.119 --> 00:33:15.920
<v Speaker 2>heard my name?

494
00:33:16.240 --> 00:33:17.960
<v Speaker 4>Was that that at that time?

495
00:33:20.519 --> 00:33:24.319
<v Speaker 10>That was when he was That was that was the

496
00:33:24.599 --> 00:33:27.000
<v Speaker 10>day of the of the book starting.

497
00:33:27.559 --> 00:33:33.480
<v Speaker 11>Okay, Okay, So now with this this heated argument and

498
00:33:33.519 --> 00:33:37.039
<v Speaker 11>you said you needed some space, that spurned him to

499
00:33:37.079 --> 00:33:38.319
<v Speaker 11>start packing up his stuff.

500
00:33:38.359 --> 00:33:42.119
<v Speaker 2>Tell us a little bit more about what this conversation

501
00:33:42.960 --> 00:33:47.119
<v Speaker 2>led to in terms of him and your living situation.

502
00:33:49.119 --> 00:33:52.039
<v Speaker 10>Well, he was packing up his clothes. I was helping

503
00:33:52.119 --> 00:33:56.319
<v Speaker 10>him pack his clothes. I happened to open a box

504
00:33:56.359 --> 00:33:58.279
<v Speaker 10>that I didn't know whether it was mine or his,

505
00:33:58.519 --> 00:34:01.799
<v Speaker 10>that was in an arm and there was a pistol

506
00:34:01.839 --> 00:34:04.279
<v Speaker 10>in there, which I had never seen before. Now, I

507
00:34:04.400 --> 00:34:06.160
<v Speaker 10>just put it back in the box and put it

508
00:34:06.200 --> 00:34:09.280
<v Speaker 10>with his pile stuff to go out to the car

509
00:34:09.920 --> 00:34:12.880
<v Speaker 10>and down Dallas. The first time I had seen a pistol,

510
00:34:12.880 --> 00:34:14.400
<v Speaker 10>but it would not be the last time.

511
00:34:16.440 --> 00:34:19.320
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512
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<v Speaker 2>when we last last left off, and we were just

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538
00:36:15.000 --> 00:36:18.639
<v Speaker 2>after the heated conversation that you had, and he packed

539
00:36:18.719 --> 00:36:21.039
<v Speaker 2>up his stuff and you saw the little pistol that

540
00:36:21.119 --> 00:36:24.119
<v Speaker 2>you didn't think too much of at that time. Tell

541
00:36:24.199 --> 00:36:28.920
<v Speaker 2>us about the days leading up to the actual event

542
00:36:29.400 --> 00:36:30.000
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<v Speaker 10>Well, I didn't see him during the week, but some

544
00:36:36.320 --> 00:36:40.440
<v Speaker 10>friends saw him going out to dinner and celebrating his

545
00:36:40.519 --> 00:36:45.920
<v Speaker 10>seventy seventh birthday. And he had gone to the employment

546
00:36:46.039 --> 00:36:50.320
<v Speaker 10>place of one of my cleaning ladies and told her

547
00:36:50.440 --> 00:36:54.760
<v Speaker 10>that he was so happy, but they said that he

548
00:36:54.920 --> 00:37:00.480
<v Speaker 10>was very subdued at the celebration dinner. I didn't really

549
00:37:00.679 --> 00:37:03.559
<v Speaker 10>think anything about it. And then on a Sunday morning,

550
00:37:05.159 --> 00:37:09.039
<v Speaker 10>as I got up and went to church and was

551
00:37:09.079 --> 00:37:13.679
<v Speaker 10>doing a little tour early that morning, he came driving

552
00:37:13.760 --> 00:37:17.599
<v Speaker 10>in and I didn't see, but the people that were

553
00:37:17.639 --> 00:37:19.559
<v Speaker 10>here on the tour told me that he had driven

554
00:37:19.599 --> 00:37:22.480
<v Speaker 10>in and when he saw there were other cars here,

555
00:37:22.559 --> 00:37:26.920
<v Speaker 10>he left, and then after they left, he came driving

556
00:37:26.920 --> 00:37:30.639
<v Speaker 10>in again. He had a very carefully planned because my

557
00:37:30.840 --> 00:37:33.519
<v Speaker 10>daughter and son had left her at land of the

558
00:37:33.599 --> 00:37:37.039
<v Speaker 10>day before. My son was driving up what was riding

559
00:37:37.159 --> 00:37:40.840
<v Speaker 10>up with my daughter to help her unpack for her

560
00:37:41.159 --> 00:37:45.760
<v Speaker 10>last semester at Emory, and then he was flying back

561
00:37:46.719 --> 00:37:49.760
<v Speaker 10>the Sunday morning of all this is happening, and I

562
00:37:49.880 --> 00:37:52.440
<v Speaker 10>was to pick him up at the airport at noon,

563
00:37:53.480 --> 00:37:57.159
<v Speaker 10>but normally on Sunday morning we were not open. I

564
00:37:57.199 --> 00:38:00.320
<v Speaker 10>didn't do house tours until after lunch, and the cleaning

565
00:38:00.360 --> 00:38:03.440
<v Speaker 10>staff came in late, and so he thought that I

566
00:38:03.440 --> 00:38:07.000
<v Speaker 10>would be completely alone in the house. What he didn't

567
00:38:07.039 --> 00:38:10.519
<v Speaker 10>know is that because I had this tour, a couple

568
00:38:10.559 --> 00:38:13.679
<v Speaker 10>of the cleaning staff had been dropped off, so there

569
00:38:13.679 --> 00:38:18.559
<v Speaker 10>were no cars out there. But he didn't know that

570
00:38:18.639 --> 00:38:21.280
<v Speaker 10>anybody was here but me, And so when he appeared

571
00:38:21.320 --> 00:38:24.599
<v Speaker 10>at the door after I had done the tour, I

572
00:38:24.719 --> 00:38:29.119
<v Speaker 10>invited him in rather stupidly, and we sat on the

573
00:38:29.159 --> 00:38:33.840
<v Speaker 10>back porch and had a little chad and, you know,

574
00:38:34.079 --> 00:38:38.880
<v Speaker 10>very civil and low key. And then the next thing

575
00:38:38.920 --> 00:38:41.920
<v Speaker 10>I knew, he was standing over me with a gun,

576
00:38:43.119 --> 00:38:48.000
<v Speaker 10>and so he he was holding it out. You know,

577
00:38:48.039 --> 00:38:55.840
<v Speaker 10>he's a very accomplished shooter, had taken FBI shooting classes

578
00:38:55.920 --> 00:38:59.519
<v Speaker 10>and was a hunter in his earlier years, and so

579
00:38:59.679 --> 00:39:04.119
<v Speaker 10>for me eighteen inches away, he proceeded to shoot me

580
00:39:04.840 --> 00:39:07.159
<v Speaker 10>at least five times. They're never quite sure whether it

581
00:39:07.199 --> 00:39:10.440
<v Speaker 10>was five or six, because he had reloaded the gun

582
00:39:12.039 --> 00:39:17.280
<v Speaker 10>and very carefully aimed at my right arm, which I'm

583
00:39:17.320 --> 00:39:23.440
<v Speaker 10>that's my dominant arm, and all through the torso he

584
00:39:25.840 --> 00:39:32.679
<v Speaker 10>shot and severed the intestines, then took out part of

585
00:39:32.679 --> 00:39:37.679
<v Speaker 10>the kidney and just barely missed the He missed the

586
00:39:38.639 --> 00:39:42.480
<v Speaker 10>spine because I sat up and I said, stop, what

587
00:39:42.559 --> 00:39:45.159
<v Speaker 10>are you doing? You know I have children to raise,

588
00:39:45.880 --> 00:39:49.639
<v Speaker 10>at which point he blew my right elbow to pieces

589
00:39:49.760 --> 00:39:54.840
<v Speaker 10>and then the right shoulder. And so I was sitting

590
00:39:54.880 --> 00:39:59.039
<v Speaker 10>there and I figured, you know, I would just do

591
00:39:59.199 --> 00:40:03.400
<v Speaker 10>well to play, because he reloaded the gun. And so

592
00:40:04.480 --> 00:40:12.159
<v Speaker 10>I sat there for about an hour, bleeding profusely. And

593
00:40:12.239 --> 00:40:15.239
<v Speaker 10>this is how it gets sort of funny, because one

594
00:40:15.280 --> 00:40:19.000
<v Speaker 10>of my cleaning staff came to the back door, and

595
00:40:19.000 --> 00:40:21.039
<v Speaker 10>I was sitting right in front of the back door

596
00:40:21.079 --> 00:40:23.519
<v Speaker 10>on the back porch, and she opened the door. And

597
00:40:23.559 --> 00:40:27.119
<v Speaker 10>this is how you get punished for speaking ill of somebody.

598
00:40:27.199 --> 00:40:31.920
<v Speaker 10>Because she's got a wonderful heart, but she doesn't quite

599
00:40:32.079 --> 00:40:35.960
<v Speaker 10>make the connection between seeing something and doing something. And

600
00:40:36.000 --> 00:40:39.840
<v Speaker 10>I had said a million times that if she went

601
00:40:39.880 --> 00:40:41.800
<v Speaker 10>out to one of the cottages and there was a

602
00:40:41.840 --> 00:40:44.079
<v Speaker 10>dead body on the floor, she would sleep around it

603
00:40:44.119 --> 00:40:47.320
<v Speaker 10>and not even think anything about it. And so she

604
00:40:47.519 --> 00:40:50.000
<v Speaker 10>came in the door and looked at me and went

605
00:40:50.199 --> 00:40:55.599
<v Speaker 10>and started laundry and went back out, And later when

606
00:40:55.639 --> 00:41:00.400
<v Speaker 10>the state police interviewed her, she said, do you know,

607
00:41:00.519 --> 00:41:04.440
<v Speaker 10>she says, I never saw her take a nap before,

608
00:41:04.480 --> 00:41:06.920
<v Speaker 10>and I wondered when she had changed from a yellow

609
00:41:06.920 --> 00:41:10.559
<v Speaker 10>blouse to a red one. And so that added quite

610
00:41:10.559 --> 00:41:13.360
<v Speaker 10>a lot of time to when I had to sit there.

611
00:41:13.400 --> 00:41:18.519
<v Speaker 10>And then another member of the staff came in and

612
00:41:18.880 --> 00:41:21.920
<v Speaker 10>saw what was going on, and he was sitting there

613
00:41:22.079 --> 00:41:25.039
<v Speaker 10>with his gun, and she said, well, she needs to

614
00:41:25.079 --> 00:41:27.199
<v Speaker 10>get to the hospital right away, and he said, oh, no,

615
00:41:27.320 --> 00:41:30.960
<v Speaker 10>she's gone. You go back out there. I won't hurt you.

616
00:41:31.199 --> 00:41:35.400
<v Speaker 10>So she kind of backed away and went to the

617
00:41:35.440 --> 00:41:40.960
<v Speaker 10>phone and outside phone and called, of all things, the

618
00:41:41.079 --> 00:41:45.320
<v Speaker 10>third member of the cleaning staff, who was older and

619
00:41:45.400 --> 00:41:50.119
<v Speaker 10>more sensible, who lived twenty miles away and was at

620
00:41:50.119 --> 00:41:53.440
<v Speaker 10>home getting ready to go to church. And so she,

621
00:41:54.079 --> 00:41:57.960
<v Speaker 10>instead of calling nine one one, jumps in her truck

622
00:41:58.079 --> 00:42:01.639
<v Speaker 10>and rushes down. And when she comes in here, she

623
00:42:01.760 --> 00:42:05.159
<v Speaker 10>sees that his car is still here, and so she

624
00:42:05.320 --> 00:42:09.039
<v Speaker 10>goes over next door to where I have a cousin

625
00:42:09.079 --> 00:42:13.199
<v Speaker 10>who's an attorney. And finally, finally, you know, the nine

626
00:42:13.280 --> 00:42:18.039
<v Speaker 10>one one gets called and and he's still sitting there

627
00:42:18.239 --> 00:42:21.360
<v Speaker 10>watching me believe to death. And I could see out

628
00:42:21.360 --> 00:42:26.599
<v Speaker 10>of the back back glass in porch. I could see

629
00:42:26.599 --> 00:42:31.639
<v Speaker 10>two little deputy sheriffs come creeping up the walkway, and

630
00:42:31.719 --> 00:42:33.960
<v Speaker 10>one of them opened the door and grabbed me by

631
00:42:34.039 --> 00:42:36.000
<v Speaker 10>the legs to try to pull me out. They thought

632
00:42:36.000 --> 00:42:38.519
<v Speaker 10>I was dead, and he said when he touched my

633
00:42:38.599 --> 00:42:40.880
<v Speaker 10>legs there was just like marble. There was no blood

634
00:42:40.880 --> 00:42:44.199
<v Speaker 10>in them at all. And when he did, I opened

635
00:42:44.199 --> 00:42:46.960
<v Speaker 10>my eyes, and so they knew that they had to

636
00:42:47.159 --> 00:42:51.159
<v Speaker 10>go in and get him. And he was in the

637
00:42:51.239 --> 00:42:54.920
<v Speaker 10>room right behind me and had his pistol in his pocket,

638
00:42:54.960 --> 00:42:57.199
<v Speaker 10>but he was trying to pull it out, and he

639
00:42:57.239 --> 00:42:59.280
<v Speaker 10>had his finger on the trigger, and these two little

640
00:42:59.320 --> 00:43:04.559
<v Speaker 10>deputies had no blood through vests on it all. One

641
00:43:04.559 --> 00:43:07.719
<v Speaker 10>of them grabbed him through the grab through the pocket

642
00:43:08.440 --> 00:43:10.599
<v Speaker 10>and held the cylinder of the epistol so that he

643
00:43:10.639 --> 00:43:17.000
<v Speaker 10>couldn't shoot, and they took him out. So while I

644
00:43:17.119 --> 00:43:22.960
<v Speaker 10>was sitting there, I just would say that I never struggled.

645
00:43:23.239 --> 00:43:27.519
<v Speaker 10>I never thought. I don't think I could have moved

646
00:43:28.440 --> 00:43:31.239
<v Speaker 10>at all. Of the pain was just excruciating, But I

647
00:43:31.320 --> 00:43:35.039
<v Speaker 10>never saw the least bit of blood. I never looked down,

648
00:43:35.119 --> 00:43:38.280
<v Speaker 10>I never looked at my injuries. I just sat there

649
00:43:38.400 --> 00:43:42.360
<v Speaker 10>and they said that the doctor said that it probably

650
00:43:42.440 --> 00:43:46.119
<v Speaker 10>is what saved my life because by being so still

651
00:43:46.400 --> 00:43:48.800
<v Speaker 10>and trying not to let him see that I was

652
00:43:48.840 --> 00:43:52.960
<v Speaker 10>even breathing, it slowed down my metabolism enough, you know

653
00:43:53.079 --> 00:43:56.719
<v Speaker 10>that I didn't bleed completely out, but pretty close to it.

654
00:43:58.639 --> 00:44:02.679
<v Speaker 10>So the deputy came back in once they had removed

655
00:44:02.760 --> 00:44:06.159
<v Speaker 10>him from the scene, and as soon as he came in,

656
00:44:06.280 --> 00:44:09.079
<v Speaker 10>I said, Randy, you've got to get somebody to go

657
00:44:09.119 --> 00:44:11.719
<v Speaker 10>to the airport and pick up Stewart. And he said, oh,

658
00:44:11.760 --> 00:44:14.280
<v Speaker 10>I can't believe you're still alive. You know also, and

659
00:44:14.360 --> 00:44:19.320
<v Speaker 10>we've got an ambulance come in. So the ambulance came,

660
00:44:19.519 --> 00:44:23.360
<v Speaker 10>and it was wonderful that I knew. I knew the

661
00:44:23.360 --> 00:44:29.440
<v Speaker 10>two deputies, I knew the ambulance people. The poor emt

662
00:44:29.679 --> 00:44:32.559
<v Speaker 10>who was in the ambulance started a couple of ivs

663
00:44:32.639 --> 00:44:35.559
<v Speaker 10>and wrapped his belt around them so they would would

664
00:44:35.679 --> 00:44:39.679
<v Speaker 10>would go fast. And when we got in the ambulance,

665
00:44:41.280 --> 00:44:43.840
<v Speaker 10>he thought I was not going to make it to

666
00:44:43.880 --> 00:44:47.679
<v Speaker 10>the hospital. And they were telling my family to start

667
00:44:47.719 --> 00:44:51.639
<v Speaker 10>funeral arrangements and make arrangements for my children, and in

668
00:44:51.719 --> 00:44:54.119
<v Speaker 10>the ambulance as we're going one hundred miles an hour

669
00:44:54.199 --> 00:44:58.280
<v Speaker 10>to the hospital that's like twenty miles away. I'm telling

670
00:44:58.320 --> 00:45:01.880
<v Speaker 10>this the EMT. This is to make such a wonderful story.

671
00:45:01.920 --> 00:45:03.639
<v Speaker 10>And I know how I'm going to write this book,

672
00:45:03.639 --> 00:45:06.079
<v Speaker 10>and I head it all outlined completely in my head.

673
00:45:06.800 --> 00:45:09.119
<v Speaker 10>Of course, I forgot it all, you know, in six

674
00:45:09.199 --> 00:45:14.719
<v Speaker 10>weeks in the hospital under morphine. But I knew at

675
00:45:14.719 --> 00:45:18.480
<v Speaker 10>that time as a writer, I was going to make

676
00:45:18.519 --> 00:45:21.519
<v Speaker 10>a book out of it and it was going to

677
00:45:21.559 --> 00:45:21.880
<v Speaker 10>be good.

678
00:45:23.079 --> 00:45:23.639
<v Speaker 4>Absolutely.

679
00:45:25.079 --> 00:45:29.639
<v Speaker 2>Now what's interesting, too is what was when when you

680
00:45:29.840 --> 00:45:33.960
<v Speaker 2>talk about the last conversation that precipitated this incident, this

681
00:45:35.079 --> 00:45:39.239
<v Speaker 2>attempted murder. Is that you talked about space, that you said,

682
00:45:39.400 --> 00:45:41.480
<v Speaker 2>I need some space. What was the quote that he

683
00:45:41.559 --> 00:45:46.280
<v Speaker 2>gave you? And you also talked about Stewart and being

684
00:45:46.440 --> 00:45:49.480
<v Speaker 2>very very concerned about who would pick Stuart up at

685
00:45:49.480 --> 00:45:53.199
<v Speaker 2>the airport, and so there was talk that the one

686
00:45:53.280 --> 00:45:58.000
<v Speaker 2>thing that Murray did do was make a call for

687
00:45:58.079 --> 00:46:00.199
<v Speaker 2>someone to pick up Stuart. So tell us about the

688
00:46:00.239 --> 00:46:02.639
<v Speaker 2>actual quote that he does say to you, which is

689
00:46:02.760 --> 00:46:04.400
<v Speaker 2>just fantastic about you.

690
00:46:04.559 --> 00:46:08.039
<v Speaker 10>The only thing he said to me as he started shooting,

691
00:46:08.280 --> 00:46:12.079
<v Speaker 10>was space? Has this for space? Space? You wanted space?

692
00:46:12.159 --> 00:46:18.079
<v Speaker 10>Has this for space? And then after the shooting I

693
00:46:18.320 --> 00:46:21.000
<v Speaker 10>asked him to make sure that Stuart would not come

694
00:46:21.000 --> 00:46:24.280
<v Speaker 10>into the airport alone, and he did go out and

695
00:46:24.480 --> 00:46:28.199
<v Speaker 10>telephone and arrange for someone to pick up Stuart at

696
00:46:28.199 --> 00:46:33.360
<v Speaker 10>the airport. Now he was he had promised to pay

697
00:46:33.400 --> 00:46:37.880
<v Speaker 10>them twenty five dollars, and when the deputies took him

698
00:46:37.920 --> 00:46:41.320
<v Speaker 10>out of the house, he had twenty five dollars loose

699
00:46:41.360 --> 00:46:45.320
<v Speaker 10>in his pocket. And my horror was, you know, if

700
00:46:45.760 --> 00:46:49.440
<v Speaker 10>he was going to be there when Stuart arrived and

701
00:46:49.519 --> 00:46:52.519
<v Speaker 10>he paid off this person who picked up Stuart, what

702
00:46:52.760 --> 00:46:56.280
<v Speaker 10>was he going to do with Stuart. I'd like to

703
00:46:56.320 --> 00:47:00.760
<v Speaker 10>think he wouldn't have harmed him, but I don't know.

704
00:47:03.119 --> 00:47:05.320
<v Speaker 2>One of the most fascinating aspects of this is that

705
00:47:05.840 --> 00:47:08.760
<v Speaker 2>you are so cognizant of what's going on your surroundings

706
00:47:08.840 --> 00:47:16.000
<v Speaker 2>during this ordeal, and you talk about you're hearing something

707
00:47:16.039 --> 00:47:18.920
<v Speaker 2>that in your mind because you got your eyes closed

708
00:47:18.960 --> 00:47:22.599
<v Speaker 2>and you can't see, is that you think it's him

709
00:47:22.639 --> 00:47:26.119
<v Speaker 2>pouring out gasoline to light the entire plantation on fire

710
00:47:26.159 --> 00:47:30.079
<v Speaker 2>and you with it. But instead it's a glugging glug

711
00:47:30.119 --> 00:47:32.960
<v Speaker 2>glug sound that you hear, What is it that you

712
00:47:33.000 --> 00:47:33.440
<v Speaker 2>do here?

713
00:47:34.880 --> 00:47:38.719
<v Speaker 10>Well, you know, I wasn't completely conscious all the time,

714
00:47:38.760 --> 00:47:42.000
<v Speaker 10>but I was conscious most of the time and very

715
00:47:42.079 --> 00:47:44.159
<v Speaker 10>much aware of what he was doing and what was

716
00:47:44.239 --> 00:47:47.360
<v Speaker 10>going on. And behind me in the dining room, I

717
00:47:47.400 --> 00:47:50.960
<v Speaker 10>could hear a glood glug glug, and I really thought

718
00:47:51.480 --> 00:47:55.119
<v Speaker 10>that he was pouring gasoline on the floor and would

719
00:47:55.159 --> 00:47:58.599
<v Speaker 10>burn down the house, because he never really sit here

720
00:47:58.679 --> 00:48:03.440
<v Speaker 10>and never really liked it. However, what he was doing

721
00:48:03.679 --> 00:48:07.360
<v Speaker 10>was pouring a sixth of vermouth down his throat so

722
00:48:07.440 --> 00:48:11.159
<v Speaker 10>that when they arrested him, he would be legally jump drunk.

723
00:48:11.960 --> 00:48:15.159
<v Speaker 10>He had not had any of it when he arrived

724
00:48:15.480 --> 00:48:18.519
<v Speaker 10>and when he did the shooting, so it was just

725
00:48:18.599 --> 00:48:26.360
<v Speaker 10>one more defense strategy that he was applying. He had

726
00:48:26.400 --> 00:48:30.719
<v Speaker 10>gone and bought the vermouse that morning after he had

727
00:48:30.760 --> 00:48:34.960
<v Speaker 10>been target shooting down at the Mississippi River with the pistol,

728
00:48:35.679 --> 00:48:39.559
<v Speaker 10>and people saw him there, and then he went to

729
00:48:40.960 --> 00:48:43.960
<v Speaker 10>a little inn in town that's run by some of

730
00:48:44.000 --> 00:48:48.119
<v Speaker 10>my friends and bought the vermouse there, and he made

731
00:48:48.159 --> 00:48:50.440
<v Speaker 10>sure that they knew that he was there and was

732
00:48:50.519 --> 00:48:53.760
<v Speaker 10>buying it. If he'd just gone to the grocery store

733
00:48:53.800 --> 00:48:55.840
<v Speaker 10>to buy it. Nobody would have noticed, and so he

734
00:48:55.880 --> 00:49:00.599
<v Speaker 10>wouldn't have had the witness to his purchase of of

735
00:49:00.639 --> 00:49:04.159
<v Speaker 10>the liquor at that point. So I was all pretty

736
00:49:04.159 --> 00:49:08.119
<v Speaker 10>well planned. He thought that he had the perfect crime.

737
00:49:10.400 --> 00:49:16.800
<v Speaker 2>Now he is arrested immediately, and of course he's got

738
00:49:16.840 --> 00:49:20.679
<v Speaker 2>connections with law enforcement for all the years he's been

739
00:49:20.719 --> 00:49:25.320
<v Speaker 2>involved in corrections. But typically with a case like this,

740
00:49:25.480 --> 00:49:28.719
<v Speaker 2>there would be a bail and he would be held

741
00:49:28.719 --> 00:49:34.519
<v Speaker 2>without bond usually, So tell us what happens in this case.

742
00:49:36.599 --> 00:49:41.039
<v Speaker 10>Well, as I go to the hospital in critical condition

743
00:49:41.280 --> 00:49:44.360
<v Speaker 10>and will be there for six weeks, he goes to

744
00:49:44.480 --> 00:49:48.239
<v Speaker 10>jail and is out in twenty four hours. His best

745
00:49:48.239 --> 00:49:51.400
<v Speaker 10>friend was the mayor who was best friends with the judge.

746
00:49:52.440 --> 00:49:57.599
<v Speaker 10>The sheriff was not his friend and really did not

747
00:49:57.719 --> 00:50:00.519
<v Speaker 10>want to let him out, but he had to, and

748
00:50:00.639 --> 00:50:04.000
<v Speaker 10>so twenty four hours he's out with his guns, with

749
00:50:04.119 --> 00:50:10.159
<v Speaker 10>his car. I'm in the hospital in intensive care for

750
00:50:10.239 --> 00:50:13.960
<v Speaker 10>a couple of weeks, and then in the hospital for

751
00:50:14.840 --> 00:50:17.480
<v Speaker 10>quite a while. Went in in augustin came out in

752
00:50:17.519 --> 00:50:21.239
<v Speaker 10>the middle of the ball and they were terrified that

753
00:50:21.519 --> 00:50:25.880
<v Speaker 10>he would come back to the hospital. So every nurses

754
00:50:25.960 --> 00:50:29.639
<v Speaker 10>station had his photographs, and they had me under an

755
00:50:29.639 --> 00:50:35.199
<v Speaker 10>assumed name. I couldn't go out anywhere in the hallway

756
00:50:35.440 --> 00:50:38.519
<v Speaker 10>during visiting hours, and they would take me down the

757
00:50:38.559 --> 00:50:46.360
<v Speaker 10>service elevators to go to therapy, and it was very disorienting.

758
00:50:46.599 --> 00:50:49.199
<v Speaker 10>The nurses would come in and know, how are you,

759
00:50:49.280 --> 00:50:52.840
<v Speaker 10>missus Jones. I'm thinking I'm not, Missus Jones. I don't think,

760
00:50:52.880 --> 00:50:56.639
<v Speaker 10>you know. But I was taking so much pain medicine

761
00:50:56.719 --> 00:51:00.559
<v Speaker 10>and just really sort of out of it for a while.

762
00:51:00.639 --> 00:51:04.960
<v Speaker 10>The day that I went in they were able to

763
00:51:05.960 --> 00:51:09.920
<v Speaker 10>do some of the stomach surgery, but they had to

764
00:51:09.960 --> 00:51:13.039
<v Speaker 10>just pack my arm in ice for about a week

765
00:51:13.119 --> 00:51:18.199
<v Speaker 10>before they could deal with that, And so it was

766
00:51:19.719 --> 00:51:22.400
<v Speaker 10>you know, I had a lot of morphine over those

767
00:51:22.480 --> 00:51:26.239
<v Speaker 10>couple of weeks and really was not that much aware

768
00:51:26.280 --> 00:51:30.119
<v Speaker 10>of what was going on. But it was very scary

769
00:51:30.400 --> 00:51:34.480
<v Speaker 10>to know that not only was he out there, but

770
00:51:34.519 --> 00:51:39.599
<v Speaker 10>that since he had been ahead of a forensic and angola,

771
00:51:39.719 --> 00:51:42.920
<v Speaker 10>that a number of the medical personnel might have worked

772
00:51:42.960 --> 00:51:46.440
<v Speaker 10>for him or might be working with him, you know,

773
00:51:46.639 --> 00:51:50.400
<v Speaker 10>And so I've got a little paranoid there for a while.

774
00:51:53.159 --> 00:51:56.559
<v Speaker 2>What you do talk about, too, is that the he's

775
00:51:56.679 --> 00:51:58.840
<v Speaker 2>charged for a second to be murder, and he has

776
00:51:58.920 --> 00:52:01.440
<v Speaker 2>some conditions to not to go into your parish. But

777
00:52:02.000 --> 00:52:06.840
<v Speaker 2>despite that, he is contacting big rows, and he's asking

778
00:52:06.960 --> 00:52:12.599
<v Speaker 2>questions about who's questions that could be perceived as very

779
00:52:12.679 --> 00:52:13.079
<v Speaker 2>much like.

780
00:52:13.039 --> 00:52:16.320
<v Speaker 4>Somebody's monitoring you and stalking you in terms.

781
00:52:16.119 --> 00:52:19.239
<v Speaker 2>Of who's home, who's there, who's not there, and just

782
00:52:19.280 --> 00:52:22.960
<v Speaker 2>adding to your paranoia. So tell us about this effort

783
00:52:23.039 --> 00:52:27.000
<v Speaker 2>and what happens as a result of his I guess cockiness.

784
00:52:28.239 --> 00:52:32.880
<v Speaker 10>Well, when I was finally released from the hospital, I

785
00:52:32.519 --> 00:52:35.880
<v Speaker 10>had a colosphomy. I had to have help because I

786
00:52:35.960 --> 00:52:39.519
<v Speaker 10>had an arm and a cast and stitches and staples everywhere.

787
00:52:39.519 --> 00:52:44.559
<v Speaker 10>I ended up having eight separate, really major surgeries. So

788
00:52:44.599 --> 00:52:47.960
<v Speaker 10>it went on for about two years. But when I

789
00:52:48.039 --> 00:52:52.119
<v Speaker 10>was finally released from the hospital, he had a restraining

790
00:52:52.239 --> 00:52:55.840
<v Speaker 10>order not to contact me or my children or my staff.

791
00:52:57.679 --> 00:53:02.800
<v Speaker 10>And so as they mounted to sense, they would stake

792
00:53:02.840 --> 00:53:07.119
<v Speaker 10>out the place and follow the cleaning staff home and

793
00:53:07.360 --> 00:53:10.880
<v Speaker 10>try to send people. You know, when you're open to

794
00:53:10.960 --> 00:53:16.760
<v Speaker 10>the public for overnight accommodations, you can't interrogate people as

795
00:53:16.840 --> 00:53:20.880
<v Speaker 10>to what their motives are, you know, So they actually

796
00:53:20.920 --> 00:53:27.159
<v Speaker 10>would send investigators pretending to be guests who would take photographs,

797
00:53:27.239 --> 00:53:33.760
<v Speaker 10>and he would contact some of my staff to find out,

798
00:53:34.199 --> 00:53:36.800
<v Speaker 10>you know, ostensibly how I was, but he would be

799
00:53:36.840 --> 00:53:39.599
<v Speaker 10>asking did anybody stay with her at night as there

800
00:53:39.639 --> 00:53:44.639
<v Speaker 10>a guard on the grounds, you know, very worrisome questions.

801
00:53:45.239 --> 00:53:50.480
<v Speaker 10>And finally he started calling me, and they had made

802
00:53:50.519 --> 00:53:53.000
<v Speaker 10>me get caller ID on the phone, and so it

803
00:53:53.079 --> 00:53:57.039
<v Speaker 10>was pretty obvious, and at one point he actually spoke

804
00:53:57.360 --> 00:54:01.159
<v Speaker 10>and said, oh, I'm sorry, I have the wrong number,

805
00:54:01.760 --> 00:54:06.440
<v Speaker 10>you know. And at that point the defense of the

806
00:54:07.199 --> 00:54:10.519
<v Speaker 10>prosecutor for the state decided it was time for him

807
00:54:10.559 --> 00:54:14.679
<v Speaker 10>to go to jail. And that that was so interesting

808
00:54:14.800 --> 00:54:20.519
<v Speaker 10>because every every legal person in this area accused himself,

809
00:54:20.559 --> 00:54:24.800
<v Speaker 10>you know. The district attorney said that he had had

810
00:54:24.880 --> 00:54:29.159
<v Speaker 10>connections looking so he couldn't get involved in the case,

811
00:54:29.199 --> 00:54:31.599
<v Speaker 10>and that kind of bumped around and finally ended up

812
00:54:32.320 --> 00:54:35.280
<v Speaker 10>in another parish down on the on the was on

813
00:54:35.360 --> 00:54:39.079
<v Speaker 10>the coast, and so that was like a two hour

814
00:54:39.239 --> 00:54:42.280
<v Speaker 10>drive for the assistant district attorney to come up here

815
00:54:42.320 --> 00:54:49.639
<v Speaker 10>and only Sawing once or twice before the trial. And

816
00:54:49.639 --> 00:54:51.920
<v Speaker 10>my heart really sank when I saw him, because he

817
00:54:52.039 --> 00:54:55.559
<v Speaker 10>was this tony little fellow, just he had freckles and

818
00:54:55.679 --> 00:54:57.719
<v Speaker 10>little blonde hair, and he looked like he had on

819
00:54:57.800 --> 00:55:01.960
<v Speaker 10>his father's suit and your very soft open and you know,

820
00:55:02.079 --> 00:55:05.280
<v Speaker 10>I just really worried. But it turned out that he

821
00:55:05.519 --> 00:55:09.639
<v Speaker 10>had he had trained with Harry Connick in New Orleans

822
00:55:09.679 --> 00:55:12.920
<v Speaker 10>for ten years, and he just tore them up in court.

823
00:55:12.679 --> 00:55:18.880
<v Speaker 10>But anyway, he decided that we really needed to get

824
00:55:18.960 --> 00:55:22.000
<v Speaker 10>him put in jail. He had not wanted me to

825
00:55:22.159 --> 00:55:25.840
<v Speaker 10>go to any of the hearings before that because he

826
00:55:25.960 --> 00:55:28.360
<v Speaker 10>did not want the defense to see what kind of

827
00:55:28.360 --> 00:55:30.880
<v Speaker 10>a witness I would make, you know, and how I

828
00:55:30.960 --> 00:55:33.920
<v Speaker 10>probably would not be too easily intimidated on the stand.

829
00:55:34.480 --> 00:55:39.000
<v Speaker 10>And so he decided, you know, this was it and

830
00:55:39.079 --> 00:55:41.480
<v Speaker 10>I would just have to go and testify. And so

831
00:55:42.719 --> 00:55:46.480
<v Speaker 10>we did go, and there was a judge who had

832
00:55:46.519 --> 00:55:50.559
<v Speaker 10>let him out twenty four hours after after the crime,

833
00:55:51.239 --> 00:55:53.320
<v Speaker 10>and so I really didn't think we were going to

834
00:55:53.360 --> 00:55:57.880
<v Speaker 10>get anywhere. And they made up tom Cock and bull

835
00:55:58.000 --> 00:56:01.960
<v Speaker 10>story about how well he was just to order books.

836
00:56:02.159 --> 00:56:04.400
<v Speaker 10>You know, you don't order books from an offer, you

837
00:56:04.559 --> 00:56:07.679
<v Speaker 10>order them from the publisher, and you know, just a

838
00:56:07.719 --> 00:56:12.119
<v Speaker 10>really stupid thing. And sat up in the chair and

839
00:56:12.159 --> 00:56:15.239
<v Speaker 10>he said, he says, you know, whatever you say when

840
00:56:15.239 --> 00:56:19.119
<v Speaker 10>you call there, even if you say that you're sorry

841
00:56:19.159 --> 00:56:21.960
<v Speaker 10>you have the wrong number. What you're really saying is

842
00:56:22.000 --> 00:56:23.639
<v Speaker 10>I'm out here and I'm going to get you again.

843
00:56:23.719 --> 00:56:25.880
<v Speaker 10>He says, you're going to jail, which was a big

844
00:56:25.920 --> 00:56:31.719
<v Speaker 10>shock to everybody, including me, and so he did get

845
00:56:32.119 --> 00:56:38.320
<v Speaker 10>incarcerated until the trial, which the crime happened in August

846
00:56:38.440 --> 00:56:41.280
<v Speaker 10>of ninety seven, and the trial was in the late

847
00:56:41.360 --> 00:56:43.960
<v Speaker 10>fall of ninety eight.

848
00:56:44.920 --> 00:56:49.119
<v Speaker 2>In the interim, what is the strategy for he and

849
00:56:49.199 --> 00:56:51.920
<v Speaker 2>his defense in terms of defense.

850
00:56:53.800 --> 00:56:57.440
<v Speaker 10>Well, you know, it was just a typical domestic violence

851
00:56:57.760 --> 00:57:04.280
<v Speaker 10>defense and you see it in the paper every day.

852
00:57:02.679 --> 00:57:10.440
<v Speaker 10>It's really shameful how we have lost their communication skills

853
00:57:10.599 --> 00:57:13.159
<v Speaker 10>to the extent that we have to resort to violence.

854
00:57:13.280 --> 00:57:20.159
<v Speaker 10>But he would say, you know, when the police come

855
00:57:20.519 --> 00:57:24.039
<v Speaker 10>in as domestic violence case, usually the perpetrator is still there,

856
00:57:24.079 --> 00:57:28.000
<v Speaker 10>are easily found and probably proud of what he's done,

857
00:57:28.039 --> 00:57:30.440
<v Speaker 10>and he's standing there with his gun or his knife

858
00:57:30.559 --> 00:57:34.079
<v Speaker 10>or his baseball bat, and so he can't say he

859
00:57:34.119 --> 00:57:37.880
<v Speaker 10>didn't do it. So the defense becomes, he did it,

860
00:57:37.920 --> 00:57:40.639
<v Speaker 10>but it's her fault, or he did it but he's crazy,

861
00:57:41.239 --> 00:57:44.920
<v Speaker 10>And they tried both of those. In my case, they

862
00:57:44.960 --> 00:57:47.400
<v Speaker 10>tried to blame it on me. They tried to blame

863
00:57:47.440 --> 00:57:51.679
<v Speaker 10>it on insanity, and neither one of them went over

864
00:57:51.960 --> 00:57:58.039
<v Speaker 10>really well. But it was a typical, typical domestic violence defense.

865
00:58:00.079 --> 00:58:03.440
<v Speaker 4>He had a really good lawyer. Of course you pay

866
00:58:03.519 --> 00:58:05.280
<v Speaker 4>for that, really good lawyer. He had a good lawyer.

867
00:58:05.639 --> 00:58:09.760
<v Speaker 2>And what it was is he pled insanity, and what

868
00:58:09.840 --> 00:58:15.280
<v Speaker 2>the insanity was. He tried to explain through psychiatric expert

869
00:58:15.320 --> 00:58:19.239
<v Speaker 2>witnesses that you had said something to the effect of

870
00:58:19.480 --> 00:58:22.039
<v Speaker 2>called him a Well, we won't go into it because

871
00:58:22.039 --> 00:58:25.000
<v Speaker 2>I know you're sensitive this, but the MF words. So

872
00:58:25.239 --> 00:58:30.519
<v Speaker 2>the MF phrase that we all know of which you

873
00:58:30.559 --> 00:58:33.039
<v Speaker 2>know you claimed later to never have said to him.

874
00:58:33.079 --> 00:58:37.159
<v Speaker 2>But his lawyers claimed that your utterance of this word

875
00:58:37.440 --> 00:58:41.760
<v Speaker 2>was the trigger that taken this normally his whole life

876
00:58:42.000 --> 00:58:46.800
<v Speaker 2>uncharacteristically or characteristically non violent, and there was a trigger.

877
00:58:47.000 --> 00:58:49.880
<v Speaker 2>So explain a little bit more about what he tried

878
00:58:49.920 --> 00:58:52.639
<v Speaker 2>to explain to the jury.

879
00:58:54.199 --> 00:58:57.960
<v Speaker 10>Well, first of all, he had three decent attorneys, extremely

880
00:58:58.000 --> 00:59:02.719
<v Speaker 10>well paid. He had a jury consultant who has had

881
00:59:02.440 --> 00:59:06.599
<v Speaker 10>the O. J. Simpson, you know, so his defense was

882
00:59:06.599 --> 00:59:11.760
<v Speaker 10>was very, very costly, and part of it was that

883
00:59:11.800 --> 00:59:18.000
<v Speaker 10>they were claiming that he was having a dissociative disorder, Uh,

884
00:59:18.159 --> 00:59:25.519
<v Speaker 10>dissociative disorder is something that it's a legitimate psychiatric defense.

885
00:59:26.440 --> 00:59:30.199
<v Speaker 10>You see it in child of these cases or in

886
00:59:30.400 --> 00:59:33.880
<v Speaker 10>war atrocities, you know, where your mind just does not

887
00:59:34.679 --> 00:59:38.480
<v Speaker 10>uh just blanks it out and you don't remember it

888
00:59:38.559 --> 00:59:42.719
<v Speaker 10>and you you're not even sure that it's ever happened. Well,

889
00:59:43.199 --> 00:59:49.159
<v Speaker 10>for one thing, you know, the the state, the court

890
00:59:49.320 --> 00:59:55.239
<v Speaker 10>had hired some sanity sanity, It had a had a

891
00:59:55.280 --> 01:00:00.559
<v Speaker 10>sanity hearing, and both the psychiatrists and the psychologist examined

892
01:00:00.599 --> 01:00:03.840
<v Speaker 10>him for the court non biased and not for the

893
01:00:03.880 --> 01:00:08.480
<v Speaker 10>defense or the prosecution. I found him legally saying and

894
01:00:08.559 --> 01:00:11.159
<v Speaker 10>able to assist in his defense and knowing right from

895
01:00:11.199 --> 01:00:16.360
<v Speaker 10>wrong at the time of the crime. The dissociative disorder,

896
01:00:17.159 --> 01:00:19.400
<v Speaker 10>you could walk in front of a car and not

897
01:00:19.599 --> 01:00:26.880
<v Speaker 10>know it, you'd run into a wall. His defense psychiatrists

898
01:00:26.880 --> 01:00:30.880
<v Speaker 10>and psychologists both were saying that that's what he was having,

899
01:00:30.880 --> 01:00:35.480
<v Speaker 10>and that it was precipitated by my calling him an MS. Well,

900
01:00:35.559 --> 01:00:40.800
<v Speaker 10>I never used that word toward him at all. Plus

901
01:00:40.840 --> 01:00:46.559
<v Speaker 10>the prosecutor would pretty well blow that out of the

902
01:00:46.559 --> 01:00:51.559
<v Speaker 10>water when he would ask these professionals, now, you know,

903
01:00:51.840 --> 01:00:55.400
<v Speaker 10>do you have a dissociative response to abuse?

904
01:00:55.599 --> 01:00:55.840
<v Speaker 11>Yes.

905
01:00:56.039 --> 01:01:00.840
<v Speaker 10>Do you have a dissociative response to wartime cars? Yet,

906
01:01:01.519 --> 01:01:05.039
<v Speaker 10>do you have a dissociative response to being called a

907
01:01:05.079 --> 01:01:11.199
<v Speaker 10>bad name? Well? Maybe not. You know, so that that

908
01:01:11.440 --> 01:01:16.320
<v Speaker 10>didn't really go over very well. The prosecutor just really

909
01:01:17.039 --> 01:01:20.639
<v Speaker 10>made them look like fool. The other thing they did

910
01:01:20.679 --> 01:01:24.079
<v Speaker 10>in the defense was to make it my fault, and

911
01:01:25.039 --> 01:01:27.239
<v Speaker 10>they said that I had spent all his money, which

912
01:01:27.320 --> 01:01:30.679
<v Speaker 10>was a lie, and I had my bookkeeper there, the

913
01:01:30.800 --> 01:01:34.880
<v Speaker 10>bed and breakfast bookkeeper, who was ready to testify to

914
01:01:34.960 --> 01:01:38.000
<v Speaker 10>that fact that it was my money and I was

915
01:01:38.119 --> 01:01:43.360
<v Speaker 10>essentially supporting him. Said that I had been running around

916
01:01:43.519 --> 01:01:47.039
<v Speaker 10>that was not true. I had people there ready to

917
01:01:47.159 --> 01:01:51.519
<v Speaker 10>testify to that. But the prosecutor decided that all these

918
01:01:51.719 --> 01:01:57.000
<v Speaker 10>tangential things were not they were going to really distract

919
01:01:57.000 --> 01:02:01.719
<v Speaker 10>a jury from from the main shoot, and so he

920
01:02:01.760 --> 01:02:04.320
<v Speaker 10>didn't want to bring those up, and so he didn't.

921
01:02:05.079 --> 01:02:08.559
<v Speaker 10>But what happened was, and this is this is typical

922
01:02:08.559 --> 01:02:13.280
<v Speaker 10>of domestic violence. You get victimized once in the in

923
01:02:13.320 --> 01:02:16.079
<v Speaker 10>the crime, and then you get victimized in court where

924
01:02:16.119 --> 01:02:18.400
<v Speaker 10>they try to make it your fault, and then you

925
01:02:18.440 --> 01:02:21.079
<v Speaker 10>get victimized a third time when the media picks it

926
01:02:21.199 --> 01:02:25.079
<v Speaker 10>up and reports it, you know, so it's very aggravating

927
01:02:25.159 --> 01:02:25.960
<v Speaker 10>to sit through.

928
01:02:28.320 --> 01:02:31.880
<v Speaker 2>Really what it comes down despite I know it seems

929
01:02:31.920 --> 01:02:35.360
<v Speaker 2>like revictimization, and it certainly is. And I was involved

930
01:02:35.360 --> 01:02:39.679
<v Speaker 2>myself in a trial, so I know how harmful some

931
01:02:39.719 --> 01:02:42.119
<v Speaker 2>of these things can be said, especially when you expect,

932
01:02:42.320 --> 01:02:44.599
<v Speaker 2>very much like watching a Law and Order episode, where

933
01:02:45.159 --> 01:02:48.039
<v Speaker 2>the district attorney will stand up and object to some

934
01:02:48.079 --> 01:02:51.280
<v Speaker 2>of these things, whereas in actuality, some of these things

935
01:02:51.280 --> 01:02:53.960
<v Speaker 2>are let go because, like you say, it can confuse

936
01:02:54.000 --> 01:02:58.280
<v Speaker 2>the jury. Let the defense lawyer say the lies that

937
01:02:58.320 --> 01:03:00.880
<v Speaker 2>he's going to say, the ball flies that he is

938
01:03:00.920 --> 01:03:05.119
<v Speaker 2>going to say, because the jury has heard the essential elements,

939
01:03:05.440 --> 01:03:10.559
<v Speaker 2>they've heard your testimony and everyone else is so so

940
01:03:10.719 --> 01:03:14.039
<v Speaker 2>despite that, what I think he zeroed in very very

941
01:03:14.079 --> 01:03:18.480
<v Speaker 2>masterfully was is that if it was a dissociative state,

942
01:03:18.679 --> 01:03:25.639
<v Speaker 2>then he wouldn't have said to your cleaning person that listen, no,

943
01:03:25.760 --> 01:03:27.280
<v Speaker 2>she doesn't need to go to the hospital.

944
01:03:27.440 --> 01:03:28.599
<v Speaker 4>She's already gone.

945
01:03:29.239 --> 01:03:31.920
<v Speaker 10>And he wouldn't have been able to reload the gun.

946
01:03:32.079 --> 01:03:34.519
<v Speaker 10>He wouldn't have been able to turn his car around,

947
01:03:34.679 --> 01:03:37.199
<v Speaker 10>he wouldn't have been able to do all you know,

948
01:03:37.480 --> 01:03:41.280
<v Speaker 10>her plan a haad you know, to do the target

949
01:03:41.320 --> 01:03:44.639
<v Speaker 10>shooting and the buying of the liquor. You know, it's

950
01:03:44.719 --> 01:03:50.800
<v Speaker 10>just just really terrible. But I'm just wanting to say

951
01:03:50.920 --> 01:03:55.880
<v Speaker 10>that I'm so fortunate that my scars are more physical

952
01:03:55.960 --> 01:03:59.880
<v Speaker 10>than mental. And I think writing the book was what

953
01:04:00.119 --> 01:04:02.679
<v Speaker 10>really helped me the most. Not only was it good

954
01:04:02.719 --> 01:04:07.360
<v Speaker 10>physical therapy doing the typing and trying to get my

955
01:04:07.679 --> 01:04:13.960
<v Speaker 10>hand functional again, but it was tremendously therapeutic mentally. I

956
01:04:14.079 --> 01:04:17.119
<v Speaker 10>knew that I would be able to get my story

957
01:04:17.199 --> 01:04:20.559
<v Speaker 10>out there. I hoped that it would have some social

958
01:04:20.679 --> 01:04:24.880
<v Speaker 10>relevance and would reach people, and it does. It's still

959
01:04:25.480 --> 01:04:30.320
<v Speaker 10>selling eighteen years later, and I get letters and phone

960
01:04:30.320 --> 01:04:33.599
<v Speaker 10>calls all the time from people saying, you know, you

961
01:04:33.679 --> 01:04:37.280
<v Speaker 10>have helped me to understand. You've been so honest in

962
01:04:37.320 --> 01:04:41.599
<v Speaker 10>your writing, and you're not telling just your story, You're

963
01:04:41.639 --> 01:04:46.159
<v Speaker 10>telling our stories. So it gives the voice to what

964
01:04:46.400 --> 01:04:52.559
<v Speaker 10>had essentially been a silent crime before. The women who

965
01:04:52.599 --> 01:04:57.559
<v Speaker 10>were victimized were either too afraid the scout, or they

966
01:04:57.639 --> 01:05:01.199
<v Speaker 10>were too inarticulate to speak out, or they had no

967
01:05:01.960 --> 01:05:07.039
<v Speaker 10>medium to give them a place to speak out. So

968
01:05:08.639 --> 01:05:13.360
<v Speaker 10>I really feel good about giving a voice to all

969
01:05:13.400 --> 01:05:16.599
<v Speaker 10>of those people. And then, you know, I would just

970
01:05:16.719 --> 01:05:19.599
<v Speaker 10>have to say, if you're going to shoot somebody, don't

971
01:05:19.599 --> 01:05:22.280
<v Speaker 10>shoot a writer, because you're going to get the last words.

972
01:05:24.440 --> 01:05:24.599
<v Speaker 5>You know.

973
01:05:24.639 --> 01:05:27.119
<v Speaker 2>It's incredible too that we really didn't have enough time

974
01:05:27.159 --> 01:05:29.920
<v Speaker 2>to go to really touch on some of the more

975
01:05:29.960 --> 01:05:34.559
<v Speaker 2>heartfelt elements of this, where your friends and your family

976
01:05:35.199 --> 01:05:40.400
<v Speaker 2>and supporters, that well wishers from people you'd never met before.

977
01:05:40.960 --> 01:05:43.599
<v Speaker 2>All this support from the people that you knew as

978
01:05:43.639 --> 01:05:48.000
<v Speaker 2>your friends and new friends that arose out of this tragedy.

979
01:05:48.119 --> 01:05:51.920
<v Speaker 2>The therapist, everybody was involved, and we don't even mention

980
01:05:52.360 --> 01:05:55.760
<v Speaker 2>how stressful this was to have, you know, the specter

981
01:05:55.880 --> 01:06:00.679
<v Speaker 2>of maybe Murray coming and finishing the job, but also

982
01:06:00.800 --> 01:06:03.599
<v Speaker 2>of the incredible burden of trying to run this business,

983
01:06:03.639 --> 01:06:06.679
<v Speaker 2>sustain this business while you're injured, trying to rehab from

984
01:06:06.719 --> 01:06:10.880
<v Speaker 2>these incredible injuries, and also the financial burden of this.

985
01:06:11.280 --> 01:06:15.559
<v Speaker 2>So again, this is we've talked about in the introduction.

986
01:06:15.639 --> 01:06:19.679
<v Speaker 2>This is a tale of survival, and for a true

987
01:06:19.679 --> 01:06:23.199
<v Speaker 2>crime book, it is very you know, it's a happy ending,

988
01:06:23.679 --> 01:06:26.320
<v Speaker 2>if there is such a thing in true crime books.

989
01:06:27.719 --> 01:06:29.719
<v Speaker 10>Yes, it is. And it's a real tribute to a

990
01:06:29.760 --> 01:06:33.440
<v Speaker 10>small town because there were times when I was sixteen

991
01:06:33.480 --> 01:06:36.639
<v Speaker 10>thousand dollars overdrawn, and in a big city they'd have

992
01:06:36.679 --> 01:06:39.920
<v Speaker 10>been hauling off the furniture. And the banker's here just said,

993
01:06:40.400 --> 01:06:44.400
<v Speaker 10>keep writing the checks. We know you'll catch up. So

994
01:06:45.400 --> 01:06:48.360
<v Speaker 10>the whole town pretty well turned out and supported me

995
01:06:48.679 --> 01:06:51.440
<v Speaker 10>and helped in my recovery.

996
01:06:53.960 --> 01:06:59.599
<v Speaker 2>We also, I want to ask what Murray Henderson received

997
01:06:59.599 --> 01:07:03.320
<v Speaker 2>in Core at the trial in terms of the sentence,

998
01:07:04.239 --> 01:07:07.760
<v Speaker 2>and then to talk about again, we just mentioned about survival,

999
01:07:07.800 --> 01:07:13.360
<v Speaker 2>but the forgiveness. So unbelievably, you spoke with Murray Henderson

1000
01:07:13.840 --> 01:07:18.719
<v Speaker 2>after this whole ordeal, after the sentencing, So tell us

1001
01:07:18.880 --> 01:07:21.840
<v Speaker 2>what he did receive, and tell us a little bit

1002
01:07:21.840 --> 01:07:24.360
<v Speaker 2>about how on earth you could have spoke to him,

1003
01:07:24.360 --> 01:07:24.679
<v Speaker 2>and what.

1004
01:07:24.800 --> 01:07:25.400
<v Speaker 4>Did you say.

1005
01:07:26.840 --> 01:07:30.440
<v Speaker 10>Well, he got a sentence of fifty years, which was

1006
01:07:30.599 --> 01:07:35.119
<v Speaker 10>amazing because it was the same judge, and he was

1007
01:07:35.199 --> 01:07:39.920
<v Speaker 10>sent to one of the penitentiaries in North Louigiana, which

1008
01:07:40.000 --> 01:07:42.400
<v Speaker 10>was about as far as they could get him from here.

1009
01:07:43.199 --> 01:07:47.599
<v Speaker 10>And so he spent his time playing the stock market

1010
01:07:47.800 --> 01:07:52.639
<v Speaker 10>and reading books and started writing me and calling me.

1011
01:07:53.199 --> 01:07:57.599
<v Speaker 10>And I did go to see him one time when

1012
01:07:57.639 --> 01:08:01.280
<v Speaker 10>I was trying to get divorced from him and he

1013
01:08:01.679 --> 01:08:05.000
<v Speaker 10>was trying to claim part of my business here and

1014
01:08:05.079 --> 01:08:08.760
<v Speaker 10>would not settle the community, of which there was none.

1015
01:08:09.400 --> 01:08:13.480
<v Speaker 10>And I really wanted to see what he had to

1016
01:08:13.519 --> 01:08:17.680
<v Speaker 10>say to me, which was just a bunch of bull

1017
01:08:19.319 --> 01:08:23.279
<v Speaker 10>I also wanted to see the evidence that I had

1018
01:08:23.319 --> 01:08:26.239
<v Speaker 10>not seen in court. I was sequestered at the time

1019
01:08:26.399 --> 01:08:30.000
<v Speaker 10>that they were presenting the real physical evidence, and so

1020
01:08:30.720 --> 01:08:35.520
<v Speaker 10>I wanted to see the clothes and the gun and everything.

1021
01:08:35.680 --> 01:08:38.720
<v Speaker 10>And everybody kept telling me, no, no, you don't want

1022
01:08:38.760 --> 01:08:43.520
<v Speaker 10>to see that, and I did because the way that

1023
01:08:43.600 --> 01:08:46.159
<v Speaker 10>I cope with things is to deal with them and

1024
01:08:46.279 --> 01:08:49.159
<v Speaker 10>move on. And so I went to the courthouse here

1025
01:08:49.159 --> 01:08:52.000
<v Speaker 10>and they were all in a cardboard box, and all

1026
01:08:52.000 --> 01:08:55.920
<v Speaker 10>these bloody clothes and everything. I wanted to see what

1027
01:08:56.079 --> 01:09:00.920
<v Speaker 10>he was looking at, you know, when he was shooting me.

1028
01:09:01.640 --> 01:09:04.600
<v Speaker 10>And by looking at the clothes, I got a pretty

1029
01:09:04.600 --> 01:09:07.000
<v Speaker 10>good idea, you know, of how they were all covered

1030
01:09:07.039 --> 01:09:11.960
<v Speaker 10>in blood and soaked with blood cloths and everything. And

1031
01:09:12.720 --> 01:09:15.880
<v Speaker 10>I had a conversation with the EMT who had been

1032
01:09:15.920 --> 01:09:18.960
<v Speaker 10>in the in the ambulance with me, and he said,

1033
01:09:19.399 --> 01:09:22.600
<v Speaker 10>he said, don't look at this as a crime of passion.

1034
01:09:23.319 --> 01:09:26.000
<v Speaker 10>He said, this is a crime of hate, you know.

1035
01:09:26.039 --> 01:09:30.199
<v Speaker 10>And I really came to the understanding that he was

1036
01:09:31.079 --> 01:09:35.520
<v Speaker 10>a very mean person underneath all that control. It was

1037
01:09:35.640 --> 01:09:38.720
<v Speaker 10>very tightly controlled, but he had a real mean streak

1038
01:09:39.239 --> 01:09:45.960
<v Speaker 10>and that I bore the brunt of that. But what

1039
01:09:46.119 --> 01:09:47.600
<v Speaker 10>else do I need to say here?

1040
01:09:50.560 --> 01:09:53.359
<v Speaker 4>What was this official? What was this official? Sorry?

1041
01:09:53.479 --> 01:09:56.960
<v Speaker 2>What was this official reasoning? Did he ever say, listen,

1042
01:09:58.600 --> 01:10:02.319
<v Speaker 2>this is why I did this? Tell us he.

1043
01:10:02.399 --> 01:10:05.760
<v Speaker 10>Had no reason, He could not tell He took no

1044
01:10:05.880 --> 01:10:10.479
<v Speaker 10>responsibility for it. He didn't feel sorry for anything other

1045
01:10:10.560 --> 01:10:14.359
<v Speaker 10>than the impact on his life. He felt very sorry

1046
01:10:14.399 --> 01:10:19.520
<v Speaker 10>for himself. He never felt sorry for me or anybody

1047
01:10:19.600 --> 01:10:24.840
<v Speaker 10>that was going through the trauma with me. And people

1048
01:10:24.920 --> 01:10:30.319
<v Speaker 10>would ask me, what about forgiveness? Have you forgiven him?

1049
01:10:30.439 --> 01:10:35.239
<v Speaker 10>Do you don't you see that you have to forgive him? Well,

1050
01:10:35.399 --> 01:10:42.319
<v Speaker 10>yes and no. And what I did was not necessarily

1051
01:10:43.359 --> 01:10:48.399
<v Speaker 10>loving forgiveness, but more in not allowing him to have

1052
01:10:48.439 --> 01:10:54.640
<v Speaker 10>any control over my emotions anymore and just totally erased

1053
01:10:54.720 --> 01:10:59.439
<v Speaker 10>him from my life. And you know, if I had

1054
01:10:59.520 --> 01:11:06.880
<v Speaker 10>remained bitter or angry or hating, he would have still

1055
01:11:06.880 --> 01:11:10.000
<v Speaker 10>been in control. And so I was not willing to

1056
01:11:10.119 --> 01:11:12.840
<v Speaker 10>allow that and just moved on.

1057
01:11:15.279 --> 01:11:18.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's interesting that when you talk about not taking

1058
01:11:18.800 --> 01:11:22.680
<v Speaker 2>responsibility right to the end, he claims to not remember,

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01:11:23.279 --> 01:11:25.279
<v Speaker 2>but of course he wouldn't have done anything because he

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01:11:25.319 --> 01:11:30.359
<v Speaker 2>loved you so much. But again not taking responsibility whatsoever.

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<v Speaker 10>Now, he did try to get out of prison, and

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01:11:37.600 --> 01:11:41.960
<v Speaker 10>he applied for a pardon and went before the pardon board,

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01:11:42.760 --> 01:11:45.199
<v Speaker 10>and again it was all just a big setup deal.

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01:11:45.319 --> 01:11:50.640
<v Speaker 10>He had so many connections in the corrections of administration.

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01:11:51.560 --> 01:11:55.479
<v Speaker 10>And I really was not going to even attend the

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01:11:55.600 --> 01:11:59.399
<v Speaker 10>pardon hearing, but the head of the pardon board called

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01:11:59.439 --> 01:12:01.600
<v Speaker 10>me and said, you really need to be there. You've

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01:12:01.640 --> 01:12:05.079
<v Speaker 10>got to go. My children wanted to go. I did

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01:12:05.159 --> 01:12:08.720
<v Speaker 10>not want them to. I did not want them exploited

1070
01:12:08.800 --> 01:12:12.359
<v Speaker 10>during the trial, and I did not allow them to

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01:12:13.159 --> 01:12:16.680
<v Speaker 10>have anything much to say other than my daughter right

1072
01:12:16.720 --> 01:12:20.640
<v Speaker 10>at the end of the trial did talk about how

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01:12:20.680 --> 01:12:24.800
<v Speaker 10>she had not seen any deterioration in him and know

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01:12:24.960 --> 01:12:30.279
<v Speaker 10>that she just didn't like him. But when we went

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01:12:30.319 --> 01:12:33.239
<v Speaker 10>to the pardon board hearing, I asked to be the

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01:12:33.279 --> 01:12:38.520
<v Speaker 10>only one who would speak, and asked to speak last.

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01:12:38.640 --> 01:12:43.600
<v Speaker 10>And so they presented his wanting to get out, and

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01:12:43.640 --> 01:12:47.720
<v Speaker 10>he had several witnesses on how wonderfull he was and

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01:12:47.800 --> 01:12:51.359
<v Speaker 10>what a marvelous career he had had, and what a

1080
01:12:51.479 --> 01:12:55.479
<v Speaker 10>nice old man he was, and that the sheriff did

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01:12:55.520 --> 01:12:59.039
<v Speaker 10>not not object to his coming back to the Saint

1082
01:12:59.039 --> 01:13:03.359
<v Speaker 10>francis Ville out and I just happened to have seen

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01:13:03.399 --> 01:13:07.840
<v Speaker 10>the chief deputy from from this area. Had we had

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01:13:07.840 --> 01:13:11.039
<v Speaker 10>gone to a pardon hearing out of the parish somewhere else,

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01:13:11.600 --> 01:13:14.720
<v Speaker 10>and I just happened to see the chief deputy from

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01:13:14.720 --> 01:13:17.840
<v Speaker 10>this parish standing there, and I asked him what he

1087
01:13:17.920 --> 01:13:19.640
<v Speaker 10>was doing here, and he said, well, the sheriff sent

1088
01:13:20.159 --> 01:13:22.640
<v Speaker 10>sent me to make sure that they understood that what

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01:13:22.800 --> 01:13:27.239
<v Speaker 10>he wants is what you want. And so I was

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01:13:27.279 --> 01:13:30.359
<v Speaker 10>able to get him to get up and say say

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01:13:30.560 --> 01:13:34.359
<v Speaker 10>what the sheriff actually said. Rather than supporting his release,

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01:13:34.439 --> 01:13:38.880
<v Speaker 10>he did not want him release, and they denied his pardon,

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01:13:38.920 --> 01:13:43.199
<v Speaker 10>and then he died in jail. Oh, I actually got

1094
01:13:43.239 --> 01:13:47.560
<v Speaker 10>in a nursing home or hospital, and so that was

1095
01:13:47.600 --> 01:13:51.079
<v Speaker 10>the end of that, and he served maybe five years altogether.

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01:13:53.399 --> 01:13:57.039
<v Speaker 4>Right, What was it like? Hearing about his passing?

1097
01:14:00.359 --> 01:14:02.960
<v Speaker 10>A radio station called me and asked if I would

1098
01:14:03.000 --> 01:14:05.000
<v Speaker 10>like to make a come in, and I said I

1099
01:14:05.159 --> 01:14:07.560
<v Speaker 10>certainly would not. You need to get a comment from

1100
01:14:07.600 --> 01:14:09.840
<v Speaker 10>his family that WO might be positive. And I have

1101
01:14:09.960 --> 01:14:14.439
<v Speaker 10>nothing to say about it. I felt sorry that he

1102
01:14:14.479 --> 01:14:20.439
<v Speaker 10>had died, but then I, you know, felt much greatly

1103
01:14:20.479 --> 01:14:23.319
<v Speaker 10>relieved and my children would finally be able to sleep

1104
01:14:23.359 --> 01:14:27.680
<v Speaker 10>through tonight. My little daughter, her bedroom was right above

1105
01:14:27.720 --> 01:14:30.880
<v Speaker 10>mine and the second floor, and I would hear her

1106
01:14:30.960 --> 01:14:34.359
<v Speaker 10>feet hit the floor every night when a car backfired

1107
01:14:34.479 --> 01:14:38.720
<v Speaker 10>or somebody shot at a mailbox or something. My little son,

1108
01:14:38.800 --> 01:14:43.840
<v Speaker 10>who was twelve years old at the time, had had

1109
01:14:44.279 --> 01:14:48.000
<v Speaker 10>real issues, anger issues. He really would have would have

1110
01:14:48.560 --> 01:14:51.880
<v Speaker 10>liked to shooting and would come down and get into

1111
01:14:51.960 --> 01:14:55.560
<v Speaker 10>bed with me at night to protect me, you know,

1112
01:14:55.840 --> 01:14:58.640
<v Speaker 10>And it just was really sad. I was in the

1113
01:14:58.680 --> 01:15:02.439
<v Speaker 10>hospital for two years, years during which time he went

1114
01:15:02.479 --> 01:15:05.880
<v Speaker 10>from a child to a teenager. And I feel like

1115
01:15:06.000 --> 01:15:09.840
<v Speaker 10>I really missed the important years of his transition there

1116
01:15:10.279 --> 01:15:14.199
<v Speaker 10>and was not there to help him. But they both

1117
01:15:14.239 --> 01:15:17.920
<v Speaker 10>are good now, and she's married and lived in Mississippi

1118
01:15:18.000 --> 01:15:22.520
<v Speaker 10>and would never live here again. Just totally ruins it

1119
01:15:22.560 --> 01:15:25.680
<v Speaker 10>for her. My son is married and his two little

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01:15:25.720 --> 01:15:28.840
<v Speaker 10>children and lives right here on the place with me.

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01:15:30.680 --> 01:15:34.279
<v Speaker 4>And how is the business presently today.

1122
01:15:35.960 --> 01:15:38.880
<v Speaker 10>Oh it's great. For a while, it was pretty hard

1123
01:15:38.920 --> 01:15:41.800
<v Speaker 10>to get it started again, because you know, who wants

1124
01:15:41.800 --> 01:15:43.760
<v Speaker 10>to go spend the night in some place where there's

1125
01:15:43.800 --> 01:15:47.359
<v Speaker 10>been a very violent attempt at murder. We had to

1126
01:15:47.399 --> 01:15:51.399
<v Speaker 10>have security on the ground at night. And so we've

1127
01:15:51.439 --> 01:15:54.279
<v Speaker 10>got some very loyal customers who have been staying with

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01:15:54.359 --> 01:15:59.359
<v Speaker 10>us for twenty five years now, and they love the

1129
01:15:59.399 --> 01:16:03.319
<v Speaker 10>peace and that we offer, and so the Bed and

1130
01:16:03.359 --> 01:16:04.560
<v Speaker 10>Breakfast does very well.

1131
01:16:07.520 --> 01:16:08.760
<v Speaker 4>It's an amazing.

1132
01:16:10.840 --> 01:16:14.600
<v Speaker 10>Continue to write. I continue to write and have done

1133
01:16:14.600 --> 01:16:19.319
<v Speaker 10>some wonderful books. I feel like I have been given

1134
01:16:19.560 --> 01:16:23.279
<v Speaker 10>eighteen years as a real blessing that I almost did

1135
01:16:23.319 --> 01:16:28.760
<v Speaker 10>not have, and have seen my children grow up and

1136
01:16:28.840 --> 01:16:33.399
<v Speaker 10>my son have children and make lives for themselves. And

1137
01:16:33.439 --> 01:16:37.439
<v Speaker 10>I have also written some pretty good books in that

1138
01:16:37.720 --> 01:16:40.079
<v Speaker 10>ensuing time that I wouldn't have had a chance to

1139
01:16:40.119 --> 01:16:43.640
<v Speaker 10>write at all. So I really feel very fortunate.

1140
01:16:45.199 --> 01:16:50.079
<v Speaker 2>Yes, tell us about the titles that you have, the

1141
01:16:50.520 --> 01:16:53.840
<v Speaker 2>nonfiction true crime titles will say that you have written,

1142
01:16:54.319 --> 01:16:57.279
<v Speaker 2>and also the fictional books of the other books that

1143
01:16:57.319 --> 01:16:59.520
<v Speaker 2>you have written as well, nonfiction or part of me

1144
01:17:00.159 --> 01:17:01.319
<v Speaker 2>fiction titles.

1145
01:17:02.159 --> 01:17:05.800
<v Speaker 10>Mostly I write nonfiction, and I'll tell you that Weep

1146
01:17:05.880 --> 01:17:09.720
<v Speaker 10>for the Living. The title came from a little cemetery

1147
01:17:09.920 --> 01:17:13.239
<v Speaker 10>right up the road from my house where Jefferson Davis's

1148
01:17:13.279 --> 01:17:16.239
<v Speaker 10>first wife actually buried. It's the Locust Growth Cemetery and

1149
01:17:16.239 --> 01:17:19.680
<v Speaker 10>there's a little baby book that was buried there. She

1150
01:17:19.920 --> 01:17:23.720
<v Speaker 10>was buried in the eighteen thirties at just one year old,

1151
01:17:24.319 --> 01:17:29.239
<v Speaker 10>and her epitaph says stranger there these lines be read

1152
01:17:29.399 --> 01:17:32.319
<v Speaker 10>weep for the living, not the dead, you know, And

1153
01:17:32.359 --> 01:17:36.800
<v Speaker 10>that's such an apt quotation and good for this book.

1154
01:17:37.640 --> 01:17:42.000
<v Speaker 10>Weep for the Living is a Pelican Publishing book. It

1155
01:17:42.239 --> 01:17:47.119
<v Speaker 10>has solved extremely well the whole time since I wrote it,

1156
01:17:47.680 --> 01:17:53.880
<v Speaker 10>and I have five six other Pelican books, mostly on

1157
01:17:54.199 --> 01:18:01.000
<v Speaker 10>regional preservation and history I write about. My two crime

1158
01:18:01.039 --> 01:18:05.720
<v Speaker 10>books were published by the University of Lafayette Press at

1159
01:18:05.760 --> 01:18:10.520
<v Speaker 10>louis University of Louisiana at Lafayette Press, and one is

1160
01:18:10.600 --> 01:18:16.600
<v Speaker 10>called Angola, Louisiana State Penitentiary, and the other is called

1161
01:18:16.680 --> 01:18:21.199
<v Speaker 10>Dying to Tell, which is mostly death penalty cases, very

1162
01:18:21.279 --> 01:18:26.600
<v Speaker 10>very interesting stories from Angola because, as I said before,

1163
01:18:26.720 --> 01:18:30.600
<v Speaker 10>or behind every door there there's a very very interesting

1164
01:18:30.800 --> 01:18:33.640
<v Speaker 10>story as well as a lesson that if we don't learn,

1165
01:18:35.239 --> 01:18:43.319
<v Speaker 10>keeps repeating itself. So they're very interesting true crime books.

1166
01:18:43.359 --> 01:18:46.640
<v Speaker 10>And I've had some other little humor books and children's

1167
01:18:46.640 --> 01:18:51.920
<v Speaker 10>books and travel books and swamp tour books and books

1168
01:18:51.680 --> 01:18:54.479
<v Speaker 10>on Louisiana history mostly.

1169
01:18:56.279 --> 01:18:56.439
<v Speaker 4>Now.

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01:18:56.520 --> 01:18:58.720
<v Speaker 2>Tell us for those people that we might want to

1171
01:18:58.760 --> 01:19:01.880
<v Speaker 2>contact you about the Bed and Breakfast and the plantation

1172
01:19:02.039 --> 01:19:05.479
<v Speaker 2>and also to maybe find out about your books. Do

1173
01:19:05.520 --> 01:19:08.199
<v Speaker 2>you have a website or do you are you interested

1174
01:19:08.239 --> 01:19:08.880
<v Speaker 2>in Facebook?

1175
01:19:08.920 --> 01:19:09.319
<v Speaker 4>Friends?

1176
01:19:09.439 --> 01:19:12.640
<v Speaker 2>Tell us how people might contact you and where if

1177
01:19:12.640 --> 01:19:13.680
<v Speaker 2>you have a website, where.

1178
01:19:13.560 --> 01:19:15.239
<v Speaker 4>They might go more information.

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01:19:15.239 --> 01:19:21.920
<v Speaker 10>Okay, it's doubww dot Butler Greenwood come a very comprehensive

1180
01:19:22.119 --> 01:19:24.439
<v Speaker 10>website on the history of the place and the Bed

1181
01:19:24.520 --> 01:19:27.520
<v Speaker 10>and Breakfast. There's also a list of all my books

1182
01:19:27.520 --> 01:19:31.600
<v Speaker 10>on there. They can be ordered through the publisher of

1183
01:19:31.680 --> 01:19:37.479
<v Speaker 10>Pelican Publishing in New Orleans or ul Press in Lafayette, Louisiana,

1184
01:19:38.119 --> 01:19:41.119
<v Speaker 10>or on Amazon or Barnes and Noble or any the

1185
01:19:41.279 --> 01:19:48.239
<v Speaker 10>bookseller site. And then I also have a Facebook presence,

1186
01:19:49.479 --> 01:19:52.159
<v Speaker 10>actually I have three different sites, Anne Butler and Anne

1187
01:19:52.199 --> 01:19:57.039
<v Speaker 10>Butler Author and Butler Greenwood Plantation B and B and

1188
01:19:57.199 --> 01:20:01.399
<v Speaker 10>so welcome anybody to get in touch with me and

1189
01:20:01.520 --> 01:20:05.840
<v Speaker 10>to to get a copy of the book if they're interested.

1190
01:20:05.960 --> 01:20:09.239
<v Speaker 10>I think I think that it's a book that has

1191
01:20:09.760 --> 01:20:14.960
<v Speaker 10>some social relevance and hopefully it helps people. I have

1192
01:20:15.039 --> 01:20:18.840
<v Speaker 10>done a lot of speaking on domestic violence. I've spoken

1193
01:20:18.880 --> 01:20:24.319
<v Speaker 10>to sheriffs in training and to first responder training and

1194
01:20:25.199 --> 01:20:32.920
<v Speaker 10>victims rights organizations, as well as such opposite places as

1195
01:20:33.000 --> 01:20:38.840
<v Speaker 10>the New York State Supreme Court and then anger management

1196
01:20:39.119 --> 01:20:44.159
<v Speaker 10>in prisons, anger management graduating classes, where you've got five

1197
01:20:44.239 --> 01:20:48.159
<v Speaker 10>hundred faces looking at you have seen worse and done worse,

1198
01:20:48.199 --> 01:20:51.000
<v Speaker 10>and heard worse, and you're not going to impress them

1199
01:20:51.039 --> 01:20:54.439
<v Speaker 10>by getting up there and crying. But I can get

1200
01:20:54.520 --> 01:20:58.199
<v Speaker 10>up there and compare how many times we've been shot,

1201
01:20:58.399 --> 01:21:03.319
<v Speaker 10>and that kind of get their attention, and so maybe

1202
01:21:03.319 --> 01:21:05.279
<v Speaker 10>they listened to me a little bit more than some

1203
01:21:05.880 --> 01:21:09.199
<v Speaker 10>pathetic victim who is really a victim. I don't see

1204
01:21:09.199 --> 01:21:11.960
<v Speaker 10>myself as a victim. I see myself as a survivor,

1205
01:21:12.720 --> 01:21:18.039
<v Speaker 10>and hopefully a lot of other women do too.

1206
01:21:20.319 --> 01:21:22.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's an incredible journey that you have to to

1207
01:21:22.680 --> 01:21:25.560
<v Speaker 2>get this man convicted. It looks like for a time

1208
01:21:25.600 --> 01:21:29.079
<v Speaker 2>that he made skate from justice based on his connections

1209
01:21:29.079 --> 01:21:33.319
<v Speaker 2>and his reputation, and certainly it didn't look good for

1210
01:21:33.359 --> 01:21:38.199
<v Speaker 2>you with your recovery and looming bills. And so it's

1211
01:21:38.239 --> 01:21:41.720
<v Speaker 2>a fascinating story about how the tables were turned and

1212
01:21:41.760 --> 01:21:45.279
<v Speaker 2>finally justice was served. And also how you survived all

1213
01:21:45.319 --> 01:21:48.640
<v Speaker 2>this with the help of family and friends and just

1214
01:21:48.720 --> 01:21:51.279
<v Speaker 2>people around the world that have been well wishers since

1215
01:21:51.319 --> 01:21:54.319
<v Speaker 2>you've gone through this ordeal and written this fine book,

1216
01:21:54.479 --> 01:21:56.199
<v Speaker 2>Weep for the Living. So I want to thank you

1217
01:21:56.279 --> 01:21:59.119
<v Speaker 2>very much and Butler for coming on and talking about

1218
01:21:59.119 --> 01:21:59.960
<v Speaker 2>Weep for the Living.

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01:22:00.479 --> 01:22:02.960
<v Speaker 4>I want to thank you very much, and you have

1220
01:22:03.039 --> 01:22:03.720
<v Speaker 4>a great evening.

1221
01:22:04.840 --> 01:22:06.760
<v Speaker 10>Thanks Dan, it's been nice to talk to you.

1222
01:22:07.840 --> 01:22:10.560
<v Speaker 4>Thank you, good night, good night.
