Speaker 1: Creativity is an addiction, unplugged because we will always say
yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes,
so turn it into a tool. This is arrow unplugged.
We have become this generation where the beginning of a
new week can actually be somebody's into the week. Your
Monday is my Saturday? What triggers you might have no
reaction to my emotions. This is why it is so
important to break out in physical, face to face conversation
versus Oh, let's just send me a text. Tapping words
onto that tiny screen actually started in the late nineteen eighties.
It's good and bad, especially when it comes to dealing
with subjects that we don't really want to talk about.
Research continues to show that we talk more today because
of texting and because of video conferencing than any other
time in history. Yet we barely know each other or
anything about each other. That's one of my triggers. Seeing
you on a Thursday isn't a brand new beginning, but
it's a blank. You have to fill it in, and
that's where the emotional connection takes place or totally disappears.
It's as if the days of the week are less
important because how we communicate, which is anytime, any place
is barely even there, but we make it there because
it's so easy to just send a text or jump
on Facebook and have some face to face time. Hey, Sarah,
this is the daily mess, a chronological walk through in
everyday world. I am a daily writer, the silent wolf.
I watch and I observe everything because life is worth studying.
I said it last week. You aren't living life unless
you're understanding your life, taking the time to get to
know you more than just showing up being there. This
is the daily mess. Staying visible inside an invisible universe impossible, right,
Staying visible inside an invisible universe, being pressed in a
moment of now can be the only thing that we
get for the entire day because so much of what
we do changes on the fly, only to hear. But
we were going to do this, yeah, right, change of plans,
new direction now. This is not a complaint, but rather
an observation. No two business leaders are the same. Expectation
consistently changes at the chime of the time clock. No
wonder the blank stare has become the new pin up poster.
It's all we've got when face to face with a
but you said, trouble begins when the reply is it
wasn't me. Whoa a brain stumble? Was it a dream?
Did it happen in just a thought? Did it even
happen at all? Why would we want to be visible
inside an invisible universe? Nobody wants to be at the
tip of the finger being pointed. Should we forget that
we even had this kind of conversation staying visible inside
an invisible universe? How often have you found yourself at
a mall, a restaurant, or even at home. Things happen,
somebody brings it up, and you're going, I was sitting
right here, I didn't see anything. I didn't even hear it.
You're right there in a world that is taking place,
yet all of these invisible things are taking place. How
do we deal with those moments when you are confronted
by decision makers and other coworkers and even friends, They say,
I didn't say that. I said this, but what you
heard was totally different. That's one of the reasons why
I carry a digital device with me where I can
record messages on the spot, the reason being it's not
that I want to get somebody in trouble. I want
to be able to say, but this is what you
physically said, because I've got it, this is how you
did say it, because I've got it. I don't want
to put anybody on the spot. I just want to
make sure that I am receiving it. I want to
be visible inside this invisible universe because we are saying things,
we are doing things, and then when we get to
a different part of the plan, things have changed. And
then we come back and say, hey, it wasn't me. No, No,
we're not going that direction because things have changed, and
that in itself changes the emotional roller coaster. Get used
to taking notes. If you need to grab a digital device,
I go to Speaker. Speaker has a recorder that you
can put in your smartphone, and all you have to
do is you say, can you please say that right here?
I want to have a documentation of how you put
yourself in the moment of now. Listen, this isn't being
a snoop or somebody who doesn't believe in things that
do or don't take place. It's making yourself available to
keep the calm in order. Because when people do have
those sudden changes, oh we're going a different direction. That
affects you emotionally, and the person that has made that
change really doesn't care about how you're going to change
yourself and what you're going to do when you get
home or when you're going to sit in that car,
because they're at the helm. Their rule is their rule.
Get it on your recorder so that you have something
that will stand right there with you. I'm Eryl, and
that's the daily mess.