WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.279 --> 00:00:09.119 Welcome again the Horrible Cult Nation with a Shadows Secrets 2 00:00:09.279 --> 00:00:13.400 U and the True Little Weapon showing us on cold 3 00:00:13.519 --> 00:00:17.800 conspiracy as we dive deep to the underbelly of the 4 00:00:17.920 --> 00:00:23.280 unknown and challenge the narrative spinning around us. Buckles up 5 00:00:24.079 --> 00:00:30.519 because we're gearing up for a wild ride through the madness, 6 00:00:33.359 --> 00:00:40.119 Madam the unseen world. This is not just a podcast, 7 00:00:40.880 --> 00:00:42.799 it's all. 8 00:00:42.119 --> 00:01:07.560 If you, let's lease the chaos, Hi, and welcome back 9 00:01:07.599 --> 00:01:11.879 to another episode of Deplorable Nation. I'm your host, Deplorable Jana, 10 00:01:12.079 --> 00:01:17.519 and today I have my beautiful, lovely, intelligent new returning guest, 11 00:01:18.120 --> 00:01:23.159 mister John Lintenheart from flowsess dot com and mister Edmaybrey 12 00:01:23.599 --> 00:01:27.000 from Faith Byreason dot net. And we are gonna dive 13 00:01:27.079 --> 00:01:31.840 into part four in our little series, and today we're 14 00:01:31.879 --> 00:01:37.680 gonna be talking about brain, bible and electricity, and this 15 00:01:37.959 --> 00:01:42.519 may come into multiple parts of the show because as 16 00:01:42.560 --> 00:01:46.439 you all know, I love nerding out on brain stuff. 17 00:01:46.439 --> 00:01:49.200 So I'm super excited about this show today. So I'm 18 00:01:49.200 --> 00:01:55.000 gonna be fangirling while you guys are listening. So, mister John, 19 00:01:55.040 --> 00:01:57.359 would you like to lead us off today? 20 00:01:58.439 --> 00:02:02.959 So I I've got a degree in chemistry, and agree 21 00:02:03.040 --> 00:02:06.319 in chemical engineering, and the chemistry is what kind of 22 00:02:06.319 --> 00:02:11.159 makes me the more philosophical and theoretical, and the engineering 23 00:02:11.240 --> 00:02:15.199 is what makes me do applications. And a chemical engineer 24 00:02:15.240 --> 00:02:18.039 is really known for they call it figuring out what's 25 00:02:18.039 --> 00:02:20.280 in the black box. You draw a box around the 26 00:02:20.319 --> 00:02:23.800 situation and you say, here's what's going into it, here's 27 00:02:23.840 --> 00:02:26.759 what's coming out, and we're trained to try to figure 28 00:02:26.759 --> 00:02:30.599 out what's going on in there. And I ended up 29 00:02:30.639 --> 00:02:33.759 doing that with the brain. I ended up trying to 30 00:02:33.800 --> 00:02:36.680 go what is going on in there? Knowing this comes 31 00:02:36.680 --> 00:02:40.039 in and this goes out. And what started me on 32 00:02:40.120 --> 00:02:44.840 this path was I had a project where they had plugins, 33 00:02:44.919 --> 00:02:48.800 these air fresheners that you plug into the wall and 34 00:02:48.840 --> 00:02:51.319 they're supposed to work for forty five days, but people 35 00:02:51.319 --> 00:02:54.520 say they can no longer smell them after twenty one days, 36 00:02:56.080 --> 00:02:58.599 but they are still working, and I was tasked with 37 00:02:58.719 --> 00:03:01.240 coming up with the reason why people could no longer 38 00:03:01.280 --> 00:03:06.159 smell them. And the issue is what's called habituation. So 39 00:03:06.199 --> 00:03:10.680 there's adaptation and there's habituation. Adaptation is twenty one minutes 40 00:03:10.719 --> 00:03:13.280 after you walk into a room, you can no longer 41 00:03:13.319 --> 00:03:15.960 smell a smell in the room. You probably notice that 42 00:03:16.000 --> 00:03:18.919 you walk in a room there's roses in the room. 43 00:03:19.199 --> 00:03:23.759 After twenty one minutes, you can't smell anymore. Habituation is 44 00:03:23.840 --> 00:03:26.639 walking into the same room twenty one days in a row. 45 00:03:26.759 --> 00:03:30.800 You can no longer smell the room. It's your brain 46 00:03:31.120 --> 00:03:35.800 that's working against you doing that. So when I figured 47 00:03:35.840 --> 00:03:40.039 out what the brain was doing, I realized everybody's model 48 00:03:40.080 --> 00:03:43.639 for the brain was wrong. So what I want to 49 00:03:43.680 --> 00:03:48.840 talk about today is really how does the brain actually work? 50 00:03:48.879 --> 00:03:52.000 And I'll start off by saying I have this model 51 00:03:52.560 --> 00:03:56.120 that I try to explain so that everybody can understand 52 00:03:56.159 --> 00:04:00.560 it and have a starting point. So you are a 53 00:04:00.680 --> 00:04:05.439 driver in a car. You are a mind or a soul. 54 00:04:05.759 --> 00:04:09.319 That's the driver, it's intangible, and the car is your 55 00:04:09.360 --> 00:04:13.759 brain that's the physical organ. Now, just like in a car, 56 00:04:13.919 --> 00:04:17.279 you are only in direct control of ten percent of 57 00:04:17.319 --> 00:04:19.639 the car. The gas pedal is steering, will to break 58 00:04:19.839 --> 00:04:24.319 winshoe wipers. You the mind soul are only in control 59 00:04:24.480 --> 00:04:27.160 of ten percent of your brain. That's your conscious brain. 60 00:04:28.399 --> 00:04:31.160 Ninety percent of that car is where the behavior is, 61 00:04:31.439 --> 00:04:34.680 that's where all the energy is. Ninety percent of your 62 00:04:34.680 --> 00:04:38.480 brain is your unconscious brain. That's where all your energy is, 63 00:04:38.680 --> 00:04:42.319 that's where your behavior is. What people do is they 64 00:04:42.360 --> 00:04:47.000 think we are a conscious brain, and so everything they 65 00:04:47.000 --> 00:04:49.040 explain about the brain, they try to say it's like 66 00:04:49.079 --> 00:04:53.480 a computer and your computer, the conscious brain is based 67 00:04:53.519 --> 00:04:55.879 off of I mean, the computer is based off your 68 00:04:55.879 --> 00:04:58.639 conscious brain. Our design of a computer is basically how 69 00:04:58.639 --> 00:05:01.959 a conscious brain works. Ninety percent of your brains are 70 00:05:02.040 --> 00:05:05.959 unconscious brain, and that's actually how your brain works. We 71 00:05:06.040 --> 00:05:09.480 are making people sick because we get them to do 72 00:05:09.519 --> 00:05:12.759 stuff in the short term through their conscious brain. The 73 00:05:12.839 --> 00:05:16.759 long term, their unconscious brain wears them out. So that's 74 00:05:16.759 --> 00:05:20.079 why I want to start is that really your brain 75 00:05:20.199 --> 00:05:23.439 is ninety percent unconscious, and you're supposed to use the 76 00:05:23.600 --> 00:05:27.000 conscious to lead the unconscious. You're not supposed to use 77 00:05:27.040 --> 00:05:29.439 the conscious to get things done. And we've already covered 78 00:05:29.439 --> 00:05:33.720 intangible drivers. So the intangible drivers is your uniqueness, your mind, 79 00:05:33.879 --> 00:05:36.480 or your soul. That's what's driving the car. 80 00:05:37.839 --> 00:05:42.519 So how about you ed, I find hold on a second. 81 00:05:43.879 --> 00:05:48.160 Yeah, this was really fascinating to me when when I 82 00:05:48.240 --> 00:05:50.920 first learned about this from John and about the origins 83 00:05:50.920 --> 00:05:52.639 of it. I'm sure you'll get into that, but what 84 00:05:52.759 --> 00:05:57.199 I find really interesting about the modelism is as John said, 85 00:05:57.920 --> 00:06:00.920 you know, we only ten percent of our conscious brain. 86 00:06:01.079 --> 00:06:03.040 You will hear a lot in pop psychology. And you know, 87 00:06:03.120 --> 00:06:06.519 John gavis background in chemical engineering and my background is 88 00:06:06.519 --> 00:06:09.920 in psychologists where I have my degree and some postgraduate 89 00:06:09.959 --> 00:06:11.839 work there as well. So because I was always fascinated 90 00:06:11.879 --> 00:06:14.600 and yet understanding why we behave the way we do 91 00:06:14.959 --> 00:06:16.399 and why we think the way we do it, of course, 92 00:06:16.439 --> 00:06:19.920 so I went through a classical education on psychology and 93 00:06:20.639 --> 00:06:22.920 as has it turned out, and I'm just the job's model. 94 00:06:22.959 --> 00:06:25.279 I realized I was just being taught effects. I wasn't 95 00:06:25.279 --> 00:06:28.480 being taught about what was causing the issue. Psychology is 96 00:06:28.480 --> 00:06:31.959 all about treating effects. And you know, and that's because 97 00:06:31.959 --> 00:06:34.480 that's just where it's not because there is any type 98 00:06:34.480 --> 00:06:37.199 of you know, conspiracy against the truth. I think that's 99 00:06:37.240 --> 00:06:40.040 just what we're taught. We see an effect. We you know, 100 00:06:40.079 --> 00:06:41.600 if you look at it from the medical standpoint, if 101 00:06:41.600 --> 00:06:43.439 you see someone with a broken arm, when you want 102 00:06:43.439 --> 00:06:44.959 to fix the arm, you don't ask, well, how did 103 00:06:45.000 --> 00:06:46.680 you how did your arm break? And what can we 104 00:06:46.759 --> 00:06:48.000 do in the future to make sure you don't break 105 00:06:48.000 --> 00:06:49.759 your arm again? It's like, no, no, there's a broken arm. 106 00:06:49.800 --> 00:06:51.439 Let's treat the arm. Then you come back in the 107 00:06:51.439 --> 00:06:53.959 next day with a few weeks later with with your 108 00:06:54.040 --> 00:06:54.600 arm broken again. 109 00:06:54.639 --> 00:06:55.240 They just treat it. 110 00:06:55.279 --> 00:06:58.319 They won't say, well, you're doing something that keeps causing 111 00:06:58.360 --> 00:07:00.920 your arm to be broken, why don't we treat that. 112 00:07:01.560 --> 00:07:03.600 So in pop psychology they will tell us, well, you 113 00:07:03.720 --> 00:07:05.360 only we only use ten percent of our brain. You 114 00:07:05.720 --> 00:07:09.240 hear that all the time and no one really questions it. 115 00:07:09.240 --> 00:07:10.879 Will say, well, guess there's just this hidden part of 116 00:07:10.920 --> 00:07:13.199 our brain that we need to find out a way 117 00:07:13.199 --> 00:07:14.800 to use. But as John said, we use one hundred 118 00:07:14.800 --> 00:07:17.439 percent of our brain. We're only in the conscious control 119 00:07:17.720 --> 00:07:18.959 of that ten percent. 120 00:07:18.800 --> 00:07:21.240 And one thing's undesting. 121 00:07:21.279 --> 00:07:23.199 I know John's going to get more into this with 122 00:07:23.240 --> 00:07:26.839 how your unconscious mind communicates with you, and so I'm 123 00:07:26.839 --> 00:07:28.839 going to say what I want to say to that, 124 00:07:28.839 --> 00:07:31.480 but I would just preface it. I'll plan a seed 125 00:07:31.600 --> 00:07:35.959 by saying, if you are having an issue where you 126 00:07:36.639 --> 00:07:39.480 continue to do the same thing over and over again 127 00:07:39.920 --> 00:07:42.639 and it's not satisfying you and you're not getting the 128 00:07:42.680 --> 00:07:46.439 results you're looking for and you're getting angry about it, 129 00:07:46.759 --> 00:07:49.079 you might want to look at the idea of whether 130 00:07:49.199 --> 00:07:53.319 or not what you're angry about is external or because 131 00:07:53.319 --> 00:07:56.319 if it's if it's internal, and you keep having external 132 00:07:56.319 --> 00:07:57.519 fights to try to solve. 133 00:07:57.279 --> 00:07:59.959 It, you are never ever going to resolve it. 134 00:08:00.120 --> 00:08:02.319 And again I'm going to come back to that with 135 00:08:02.519 --> 00:08:05.079 my more Bible focused stuff in a bit, but I 136 00:08:05.120 --> 00:08:07.279 want to let John continue to explain about the mind 137 00:08:07.319 --> 00:08:07.560 and brain. 138 00:08:07.639 --> 00:08:10.319 I want to say, real quick, I'm glad ed that 139 00:08:10.439 --> 00:08:14.160 you've brought up that point, because coming at things from 140 00:08:14.879 --> 00:08:19.560 a medical standpoint or even a therapeutic standpoint, a lot 141 00:08:19.600 --> 00:08:25.000 of times it's the habitual practices and the habitual response 142 00:08:25.160 --> 00:08:30.600 to certain stimuli, certain situations that they hone in and 143 00:08:30.680 --> 00:08:35.799 focus in on, but not the root cause of said 144 00:08:35.840 --> 00:08:40.440 behavior or or said you know, emotional response or whatever 145 00:08:40.559 --> 00:08:46.039 to a situation. So it's like they're not not addressing 146 00:08:46.159 --> 00:08:51.879 the underlying issue of why that habitual behavior. Well we're 147 00:08:51.960 --> 00:08:53.440 numping up repeatedly. 148 00:08:53.919 --> 00:08:56.200 Yeah, well, really quick, this goes back to what we 149 00:08:56.240 --> 00:08:58.279 talked about maybe like two episodes ago. 150 00:08:58.360 --> 00:08:59.159 Will be wrong on. 151 00:08:59.080 --> 00:09:02.080 Your show, and I gave you like a little scenario 152 00:09:02.080 --> 00:09:05.039 about this, and we'll obviously we'll explain this, will expounder 153 00:09:05.039 --> 00:09:07.039 in it deeper, like when you are attracted to the 154 00:09:07.080 --> 00:09:09.799 wrong person. You know, you're attracted to someone who is 155 00:09:10.000 --> 00:09:14.360 abusive physically or verbally, and your unconscious brain. John will 156 00:09:14.360 --> 00:09:16.200 tell you that your unconscious brain is your friend, it's 157 00:09:16.240 --> 00:09:18.919 your ally. It is trying to do the patterns that 158 00:09:18.919 --> 00:09:20.639 you set for it. As John said, your conscious brain 159 00:09:20.720 --> 00:09:23.559 should drive your unconscious but we have it reverse. 160 00:09:23.879 --> 00:09:24.799 So we're talking. 161 00:09:24.879 --> 00:09:26.480 Yeah, we talked about this during a bully session, like 162 00:09:26.519 --> 00:09:29.720 why you know, ladies women seem to team to be 163 00:09:29.720 --> 00:09:32.519 attracted to the bully because well, the bully growing up 164 00:09:32.639 --> 00:09:35.320 is the tough guy. Generally, he's gonna be one of 165 00:09:35.600 --> 00:09:38.320 feel safe. So you go out with the bully because 166 00:09:38.600 --> 00:09:41.320 he satisfies this this you know, this primal need to 167 00:09:41.320 --> 00:09:46.360 feel safe. But he's still a bully, and your unconscious says, okay, 168 00:09:46.480 --> 00:09:50.519 that's what you like. And then you your your friends 169 00:09:50.519 --> 00:09:52.600 and family they tell you, you know this guy's wrong for you, 170 00:09:52.919 --> 00:09:53.679 and what do you say? 171 00:09:53.960 --> 00:09:55.039 You just don't know him. 172 00:09:54.919 --> 00:09:59.919 Like I do, and that's oh, you really like this. 173 00:10:00.120 --> 00:10:03.799 You're defending it. Okay, From now on, every time I 174 00:10:03.840 --> 00:10:06.480 see a person with these characteristics, I'm going to attract 175 00:10:06.480 --> 00:10:09.480 you towards them using the communication aspect that your unconscious 176 00:10:09.559 --> 00:10:11.759 uses that general talk more about it's going to give 177 00:10:11.799 --> 00:10:14.759 you energy and stimulate you towards that guy, and then 178 00:10:14.759 --> 00:10:16.840 you ask yourself, why am I always attracted to the 179 00:10:16.879 --> 00:10:18.759 same kind of guy? Why I'm I always attracted to 180 00:10:18.879 --> 00:10:22.360 these abusers or whatever? Because your unconscious brain is just 181 00:10:22.399 --> 00:10:23.600 doing what you told it to do. 182 00:10:24.639 --> 00:10:28.480 And good point in that, because I talk about this 183 00:10:28.600 --> 00:10:32.519 a lot. For people who are dating trying to find, 184 00:10:32.799 --> 00:10:36.519 you know, their their soulmate or whatever, and they're so 185 00:10:36.919 --> 00:10:40.919 limited in their vision of what it is that they 186 00:10:40.960 --> 00:10:45.279 truly want that it's like, well, he has to be, uh, 187 00:10:45.879 --> 00:10:48.799 six foot five, and he has to have dark features, 188 00:10:48.840 --> 00:10:53.399 and he has to have whatever. But it's like shallow characteristics. 189 00:10:53.600 --> 00:10:59.399 It's never like people never respond with you know, intelligence, 190 00:10:59.519 --> 00:11:04.799 moral character things like that deep stuff. It's always very 191 00:11:04.840 --> 00:11:05.679 surface level. 192 00:11:06.039 --> 00:11:08.799 But drunk conscious sees everything, so they don't just you're unconscious. 193 00:11:08.960 --> 00:11:11.480 Isn't just going to see six foot five and this 194 00:11:11.840 --> 00:11:14.879 skin or our skin tone or whatever. It's also going 195 00:11:14.919 --> 00:11:17.799 to say, well, yeah, that's right. You also like someone 196 00:11:17.840 --> 00:11:21.879 who treats you this way as this level of intelligence 197 00:11:21.960 --> 00:11:23.679 or lack of mentaligence. So even if you aren't saying 198 00:11:23.679 --> 00:11:26.559 it consciously, you're unconscious sees all of it, and it's 199 00:11:26.559 --> 00:11:29.399 going to track you towards what you what the pattern 200 00:11:29.559 --> 00:11:33.519 that that you've been following in your dating life. 201 00:11:34.639 --> 00:11:37.240 All right, mister John, let's get into it. 202 00:11:37.519 --> 00:11:40.919 Wow, we could go way off track here out of 203 00:11:40.919 --> 00:11:44.679 philosophical conversation just with you, you just said. But I'm 204 00:11:44.679 --> 00:11:47.919 going to try to keep it in, Okay. So one 205 00:11:47.960 --> 00:11:49.279 of the things I just want to get off my 206 00:11:49.399 --> 00:11:53.360 chest before I just want to start taking questions from you, Janet. 207 00:11:53.399 --> 00:11:55.120 So I know what direction to go, but I want 208 00:11:55.120 --> 00:11:59.200 to get to sort off off my chest because I 209 00:11:59.240 --> 00:12:01.360 watch a lot of podcasts listening to a lot of 210 00:12:01.399 --> 00:12:07.080 podcasts of people talking about neuroscience. And here's the way 211 00:12:07.120 --> 00:12:12.320 I would explain neuroscience. So if you imagine four brand 212 00:12:12.399 --> 00:12:18.799 new corvettes or brand new twenty twenty five corvettes, a 213 00:12:18.879 --> 00:12:22.080 neuroscientist is a person who looks at those brand new 214 00:12:22.120 --> 00:12:26.039 corvettes and can explain everything about those brand new corvettes 215 00:12:26.440 --> 00:12:31.240 and why they're just perfect the way they are. Right. 216 00:12:33.120 --> 00:12:35.559 The thing is is each of those corvettes is going 217 00:12:35.600 --> 00:12:39.200 to go to four different owners, and after they each 218 00:12:39.320 --> 00:12:43.759 drive their corvette seventy thousand miles, those four corvettes aren't 219 00:12:43.759 --> 00:12:44.120 going to be. 220 00:12:44.120 --> 00:12:48.639 The same, right, not at all, nor their perception of it. 221 00:12:49.399 --> 00:12:53.039 Well, look, the neuroscientist is going to try to tell 222 00:12:53.120 --> 00:12:56.639 you how the corvette ought to be, not going to 223 00:12:56.679 --> 00:12:59.879 be able to tell you anything about who would drive 224 00:13:00.080 --> 00:13:03.039 in this corvette, not going to be able to tell 225 00:13:03.039 --> 00:13:05.759 you if they're driving it right for what their use. 226 00:13:05.879 --> 00:13:08.679 Is not going to be able to tell you how 227 00:13:08.840 --> 00:13:12.480 to help them drive it better for their use. There's 228 00:13:12.559 --> 00:13:17.159 no uniqueness, there's no driver. When a neuroscientist talks, they're 229 00:13:17.200 --> 00:13:19.919 talking about a brain without a mind or a soul, 230 00:13:20.639 --> 00:13:23.840 because the minute you have a minder a soul, that 231 00:13:23.960 --> 00:13:27.960 brain's going to get driven differently. And to do my 232 00:13:28.039 --> 00:13:34.120 little rant here, so I'm attracted to this person, why 233 00:13:35.120 --> 00:13:40.440 for their external features? Then what's the difference between me 234 00:13:40.519 --> 00:13:42.919 having sex with two women who have the same external 235 00:13:42.960 --> 00:13:48.559 features to my unconscious brain? Nothing right, the two people 236 00:13:48.600 --> 00:13:55.200 the way they think their abilities. Well, there's still really 237 00:13:55.240 --> 00:14:00.399 no difference there. But aren't we really bonding to us soul? 238 00:14:00.759 --> 00:14:04.879 Aren't we really bonding to that intangible person inside there, 239 00:14:05.240 --> 00:14:08.720 the driver of that vehicle, Because that's what brings the 240 00:14:08.799 --> 00:14:11.919 greatest fulfillment, and that's where I think the real danger 241 00:14:11.960 --> 00:14:15.879 with psychology and neuroscience is is that they are looking 242 00:14:15.919 --> 00:14:19.639 at a car without a driver, and they're keeping us 243 00:14:19.679 --> 00:14:23.960 at a very superficial and unfulfilling level, when in reality 244 00:14:24.559 --> 00:14:30.159 we are with another soul. That's really where the connection happens, 245 00:14:30.200 --> 00:14:32.919 and that's really where your unconscious brain kind of rewards you. 246 00:14:33.279 --> 00:14:35.840 Because if you're just being with this person because of 247 00:14:35.879 --> 00:14:40.039 how they think or what they look like, you're unconscious 248 00:14:40.039 --> 00:14:44.440 will start looking for other people like that. But if 249 00:14:44.440 --> 00:14:47.440 you're attracted this person for who they are and you 250 00:14:47.519 --> 00:14:51.039 understand who they are, you're unconscious will drive you and 251 00:14:51.159 --> 00:14:54.679 juice you, energize you to that. So Ed talked about 252 00:14:54.720 --> 00:14:59.919 the difference your conscious brain works in words and in emotion. 253 00:15:00.919 --> 00:15:03.200 An emotion is a feeling that you know the cause 254 00:15:03.279 --> 00:15:05.720 for I'm happy. Why are you happy? You know that. 255 00:15:06.200 --> 00:15:08.399 You don't go, I'm happy. I don't know why, No, 256 00:15:08.480 --> 00:15:13.200 you're happy. Your unconscious works through feelings. Your unconscious cannot 257 00:15:13.240 --> 00:15:16.279 communicate words to you, so it uses feelings. There's like 258 00:15:16.360 --> 00:15:19.240 thirty six feelings, and that's where you're like, I'm anxious 259 00:15:19.279 --> 00:15:20.919 why I don't know? 260 00:15:21.919 --> 00:15:24.559 And that's the response everyone always has. 261 00:15:25.799 --> 00:15:28.639 And so that's it. There's nine times more feelings than 262 00:15:28.679 --> 00:15:34.320 there are emotions. There's happy, sad, mad, fear. Those are 263 00:15:34.360 --> 00:15:38.240 the four emotions. There's thirty six feelings. And so when 264 00:15:38.279 --> 00:15:41.639 you try to learn your unconscious, your unconscious is always 265 00:15:41.639 --> 00:15:45.200 trying to communicate to you through feelings. People call it somatic. 266 00:15:45.480 --> 00:15:47.679 And one of the things I do is the way 267 00:15:47.759 --> 00:15:50.519 your unconscious talks to you, Janet is different than mine. 268 00:15:50.759 --> 00:15:53.720 So my unconscious might give me cause my eye to 269 00:15:53.799 --> 00:15:56.279 twitch when it's trying to tell me something, versus it 270 00:15:56.360 --> 00:15:59.399 might cause you to feel a tightness in your shoulder. 271 00:16:00.600 --> 00:16:04.799 When you learn how your unconscious is talking to you, 272 00:16:04.799 --> 00:16:07.039 you get more in sync with it, and then you 273 00:16:07.120 --> 00:16:10.320 start being ahead of everybody in what's going on. Some 274 00:16:10.320 --> 00:16:12.799 people call it intuitive, but it's really more than that. 275 00:16:13.360 --> 00:16:16.159 And so that's what we're doing, is your conscious works 276 00:16:16.200 --> 00:16:19.200 one way, your unconscious works the other. You're unconscious actually 277 00:16:19.240 --> 00:16:22.879 more powerful and sees things way ahead of you, way 278 00:16:22.879 --> 00:16:26.360 ahead of you than you do consciously. And so whatever 279 00:16:26.399 --> 00:16:29.919 we're doing, like Ed said, we're telling our unconscious what 280 00:16:29.960 --> 00:16:33.679 we want to be energized towards or drained. Ultimately, your 281 00:16:33.720 --> 00:16:36.519 unconscious has two ways to motivate you, it gives you 282 00:16:36.639 --> 00:16:40.960 energy or it takes your energy away. And that's really 283 00:16:41.120 --> 00:16:44.360 what everybody When anybody complains about their energy, that's an 284 00:16:44.399 --> 00:16:46.679 unconscious issue. That's not a conscious issue. 285 00:16:47.360 --> 00:16:51.240 See, and what you said is perfect, and it made 286 00:16:51.240 --> 00:16:56.000 me immediately think about the downfalls that we have in 287 00:16:56.080 --> 00:17:03.200 our society towards therapy or counseling things of that nature, 288 00:17:03.320 --> 00:17:10.640 because not understanding who somebody is, what their communication style is, 289 00:17:11.640 --> 00:17:15.319 and things of that nature. They use like this giant umbrella, 290 00:17:15.880 --> 00:17:18.880 and you know, like one size fits all should should 291 00:17:19.000 --> 00:17:23.960 cure everyone and work for everyone. And I can't understand 292 00:17:24.079 --> 00:17:27.000 why all of our therapy sessions you're not getting better. 293 00:17:27.799 --> 00:17:30.720 It's because they don't know how to communicate with you 294 00:17:32.039 --> 00:17:34.759 on a human being level, with. 295 00:17:34.799 --> 00:17:38.000 Your according to your uniqueness. Absolutely they're not reaching it 296 00:17:38.119 --> 00:17:41.200 past everything to your mind and soul, your uniqueness. And 297 00:17:41.240 --> 00:17:43.759 then you know again, if you got in a corvette 298 00:17:44.079 --> 00:17:46.400 and drove through the parking lot and ED watched you, 299 00:17:47.440 --> 00:17:48.920 and then I got in a corvette, drove through the 300 00:17:48.960 --> 00:17:51.880 parking lot and ED watched same corvette, But I bet 301 00:17:51.880 --> 00:17:55.559 you I would go those were two different drivers. Same 302 00:17:55.599 --> 00:17:58.759 thing with people, as I watch people and I'm looking 303 00:17:58.880 --> 00:18:02.599 past them to the dry for exactly. Counseling just says, 304 00:18:02.640 --> 00:18:04.319 look at you, I don't care who the driver of 305 00:18:04.319 --> 00:18:06.759 your car is, this is what here's the steps you 306 00:18:06.799 --> 00:18:09.759 need to do because they are doing everything consciously. Whenever 307 00:18:09.880 --> 00:18:13.480 somebody talks to me about an approach, it usually takes 308 00:18:13.519 --> 00:18:17.039 me three or less questions to show them they really 309 00:18:17.119 --> 00:18:19.920 think that the issue is conscious, and they really think 310 00:18:19.960 --> 00:18:22.359 the approach is conscious, and that's why they can't seem 311 00:18:22.400 --> 00:18:23.920 to help people Walt term. 312 00:18:24.960 --> 00:18:28.759 Yeah, And I think it also lends itself to the 313 00:18:28.759 --> 00:18:33.880 fact that therapy as a whole basically deals with the shell, 314 00:18:34.119 --> 00:18:38.559 the outer shell of stuff. So again it's like dating 315 00:18:38.599 --> 00:18:43.279 gets the surface level, you know, the way things look 316 00:18:43.440 --> 00:18:47.359 or the way things should look, without checking under the 317 00:18:47.400 --> 00:18:48.160 hood of that. 318 00:18:48.279 --> 00:18:48.599 Right right. 319 00:18:48.880 --> 00:18:50.920 I can tell you someone who again was being formally 320 00:18:50.960 --> 00:18:54.640 trained to be a clinical psychologist, that we are taught 321 00:18:54.960 --> 00:18:58.160 I was being taught to immediately put someone into a category. 322 00:18:58.279 --> 00:18:58.960 It is mostly. 323 00:19:00.359 --> 00:19:03.440 Believe, but there was no malicious and ten behind it. It 324 00:19:03.400 --> 00:19:06.119 was really about expediency because one of the things you 325 00:19:06.200 --> 00:19:09.519 learn if you're a counselor, you have fifty minutes and 326 00:19:09.559 --> 00:19:12.400 you and if someone has insurance, then you may have 327 00:19:12.599 --> 00:19:15.160 X number of sessions, ten or maybe a few more, 328 00:19:15.160 --> 00:19:17.240 depending on your level of insurance. So you've got to 329 00:19:17.839 --> 00:19:19.279 So the idea is they want to get to the 330 00:19:19.359 --> 00:19:21.720 root cause as quickly as possible, to help that person 331 00:19:21.720 --> 00:19:24.079 as quickly as possible before they run out of money 332 00:19:24.160 --> 00:19:26.880 or run out of sessions. So we're told to put 333 00:19:26.920 --> 00:19:29.240 them into categories. And as you just said, jet labels 334 00:19:29.400 --> 00:19:33.480 you're a schizophrenic, you're depressed, you are bipolar. So if 335 00:19:33.519 --> 00:19:36.640 I talk to you for about here's all how i'd 336 00:19:36.640 --> 00:19:40.119 be thinking. As your psychologist. I'm talking to you fifteen minutes. 337 00:19:40.319 --> 00:19:43.680 She's bipolar. And as you're talking, all I'm thinking is, okay, 338 00:19:43.799 --> 00:19:46.079 she fits into this bipolar box. That means that all 339 00:19:46.079 --> 00:19:49.319 of these other things that I've associated with bipolar, she 340 00:19:49.440 --> 00:19:51.000 has them. So now I know how to treat her. 341 00:19:51.119 --> 00:19:52.960 So now the next ten sessions are going to be 342 00:19:52.960 --> 00:19:55.960 about treating her bipolar. The problem is, I'm not looking 343 00:19:56.000 --> 00:19:58.759 at her unique cause, like John just said, bipolar, maybe 344 00:19:58.799 --> 00:20:01.160 maybe the car the core bet she's driving. You're driving 345 00:20:01.160 --> 00:20:04.160 the bipolar car, and I'm just going to treat her 346 00:20:04.240 --> 00:20:08.359 like everyone else who drives the bipolar car. But she's unique, 347 00:20:08.359 --> 00:20:11.400 which is why with you know, with flow SSS and 348 00:20:11.799 --> 00:20:14.200 with what the white psychology should be, and I know there's 349 00:20:14.319 --> 00:20:16.599 there are lots of psychologists that John's working with. The 350 00:20:16.640 --> 00:20:19.759 first step is finding the person's uniqueness. Once you know 351 00:20:19.799 --> 00:20:22.400 who the person is uniquely, then you can actually get 352 00:20:22.440 --> 00:20:24.799 to the dissolve level of the problem because now you 353 00:20:24.839 --> 00:20:27.319 know how to communicate with them, how they're conscious and 354 00:20:27.599 --> 00:20:32.559 their eye conscious works. But so basically psychology has it backwards. 355 00:20:33.200 --> 00:20:34.920 You put people in a category. No, you take the 356 00:20:34.960 --> 00:20:38.880 people first, then you point, then you find out, you 357 00:20:38.920 --> 00:20:41.000 find out what category and why they are in that 358 00:20:41.039 --> 00:20:45.039 category and their unique way of the unique way they 359 00:20:45.079 --> 00:20:47.400 got to that category, and then you treat it that way. 360 00:20:47.880 --> 00:20:50.559 Now, the thing is is that you want to understand 361 00:20:50.559 --> 00:20:53.319 the uniqueness so you know how to communicate with them 362 00:20:53.720 --> 00:20:56.519 in a way that energizes them rather than pushes them 363 00:20:56.559 --> 00:20:59.160 away because you are trying to get the right information. 364 00:20:59.359 --> 00:21:03.160 I was this problem solver working as a chemical engineer 365 00:21:03.160 --> 00:21:08.240 and solving these chemical and mechanical and manufacturing problems. And 366 00:21:08.920 --> 00:21:12.079 I solved a million and one problem. I saw the 367 00:21:12.079 --> 00:21:14.880 there were seven million products sold in seven of malfunction. 368 00:21:15.519 --> 00:21:18.039 And I have a process for doing that and then 369 00:21:18.119 --> 00:21:21.200 I became a vice president of this company where now 370 00:21:21.400 --> 00:21:26.480 I'm not managing technical problems, I'm managing people and those 371 00:21:26.559 --> 00:21:31.559 same right, right. And the thing is is that what 372 00:21:31.720 --> 00:21:36.799 I realized is my approach to solving people problem problems 373 00:21:36.880 --> 00:21:40.119 was the same approach as psychology. Psychology is trying to 374 00:21:40.160 --> 00:21:43.680 solve a problem, like we're all equipment. And then when 375 00:21:43.720 --> 00:21:47.960 I started learning all this other information and then looking 376 00:21:48.000 --> 00:21:51.720 at the Bible, I saw what Ed said and I said, 377 00:21:51.759 --> 00:21:55.359 wait a minute, there's a uniqueness and you reached that 378 00:21:55.640 --> 00:21:58.440 because that's a part of the individual. And now all 379 00:21:58.480 --> 00:22:01.200 of a sudden, I was creating this team, I was 380 00:22:01.200 --> 00:22:04.160 creating this community. And then everything took off. And so 381 00:22:04.240 --> 00:22:08.359 I realized, when you solve a problem that doesn't involve people, 382 00:22:08.640 --> 00:22:11.640 you can use these problems solving techniques when you get 383 00:22:11.680 --> 00:22:14.119 to people, if you solve a problem, you actually make 384 00:22:14.160 --> 00:22:17.000 it worse. You have to dissolve the problem. So that's 385 00:22:17.000 --> 00:22:19.880 where I learned all of that that really what we're 386 00:22:19.880 --> 00:22:22.599 talking about, you can't solve it. And so there's a 387 00:22:22.680 --> 00:22:26.720 passage in the Bible and Tessalonians that says, basically it 388 00:22:26.799 --> 00:22:29.960 talks about us having a mind. I say slash soul. 389 00:22:30.119 --> 00:22:34.039 Mind soul, that's uniqueness, a body that includes your brain 390 00:22:34.359 --> 00:22:38.599 and a spirit. So a person actually has three parts. 391 00:22:38.640 --> 00:22:41.079 If you think of what a person is, there's a 392 00:22:41.119 --> 00:22:45.480 system consisting of three parts. Mind soul, that's your uniqueness. 393 00:22:45.559 --> 00:22:49.160 If you're looking towards in the Bible, when God is 394 00:22:49.240 --> 00:22:53.359 looking at earth, he's a mind. When he's looking in 395 00:22:53.440 --> 00:22:56.720 the spiritual realm, he's a soul. When we are looking 396 00:22:56.720 --> 00:22:58.759 at the spiritual realm, we're a soul when we look 397 00:22:58.759 --> 00:23:02.759 at the physical realm where in mind. So mind soul 398 00:23:02.839 --> 00:23:05.440 is the same word actually in the Bible. And then 399 00:23:05.599 --> 00:23:09.000 body is everything tangible that includes your brain and the spirit. 400 00:23:09.079 --> 00:23:14.240 So if you notice this, the big revelation is, according 401 00:23:14.279 --> 00:23:20.000