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Speaker 2: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice,

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mix in some vodka.

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Speaker 3: Call it a podcast from the Mac of All Trade

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Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dots. Gee Bram,

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It's Billified the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Well, hello, beard lovers and lad lovers, Billy got.

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Speaker 4: A beer, Welcome to the pod. Thanks for getting it on.

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Thanks for telling a friend. That's how we spread the

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word about the bird shift. So it is me and

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you tonight.

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Speaker 2: What's going on before the show? Yeah, you and I

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were talking about your beard and said he said Jesus

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would like your beard. Yeah, so there's this woman like okay,

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So now there's there's thousands of people who as soon

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as you believe you've died and gone to heaven and

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met Jesus, yeah, you have to do a video about

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what Jesus looks like and what he said to you.

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So there's thousands of these and thousand of different stories.

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This is when black woman tells her son they're doing

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a podcast. So when I saw Jesus, he had like

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a chin strap beard, like one of those, you know,

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those really thin rail beards, and he had this big nose,

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and he had this like like dirty blond hair and

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it was long. And I'm like, so Jesus was like,

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you know, shaven, apparently in heaven, like he probably like

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I'm gonna get I'm gonna do a pencil thin beard

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right here.

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Speaker 1: I thought they recreated what Jesus would look like. And

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he walked with a limp, and he was ugly.

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Speaker 2: The Bible says he was not he he was not

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calmly or anything or something like that. He was just

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he didn't look like anybody special. He wasn't like rapping,

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he wasn't good looking or anything like that, like a

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weed out of the out of the ground.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people think Jesus had long hair.

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Speaker 1: That's not true. No, Nazareth cut it or something.

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Speaker 2: No, his section of Judaism, his sect of Judaism, they

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didn't believe in long hair. He was a Shemel like

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Jewish person. They didn't have long hair. I think you'd

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like your beard. I don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Well, so I have not shaved right, and so today

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you have.

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Speaker 2: That fully shaped. It looks like you've added some definition

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to your long I did.

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Speaker 1: I did, and I told you yesterday I went too

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high on the sides and I don't really like it.

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So I'm just letting things go.

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Speaker 2: Randscaped. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And so today I popped into a place and uh,

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there there's a bunch of women that worked there, and

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I don't really know them. I just and then they said, hey,

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letting that grow and I said, yeah, I am. And

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then one woman from the reluctant yeah, well I just said,

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yeah I am.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what to say. Yeah, I fucking child.

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Yeah yeah, I got the beard. And some people like

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make a big deal about it, like, yeah, well that'she

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I'm going I made a decision. No, yeah I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what he's.

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Speaker 2: Supposed to say. Exactly what are you supposed to right?

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Speaker 1: Women go through this all the time, right, change your

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nail polish color.

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Speaker 2: Did you huh h look at those whatever curling today?

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Speaker 1: So I got the you're letting grow on a little

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bit and I said yeah, and they said, uh from

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the back, this one goes looks good. Makes your eyes pop.

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Speaker 2: I was like, god damn, yeah, I know. Hello, I

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wouldn't use that term, but yeah, it's good. It does

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make your eyes pop. I don't know if it has

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more definition, like when I grew like a soul patch

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had soul petro what people said it brought out my eyes?

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Speaker 1: Did they?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? It's weird? Are they really? And most of these

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guys were men, Oh hey, hey fellaw, but this one

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woman go gets your face more definition, like thank you.

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I want to start you in jocks er side cleft

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in my chink. You look like you look like Danny

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I do a budgie doboy. Yeah yeah, so I would

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be the Mark Hillman.

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Speaker 1: I've had an odd day. I went to the way.

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Speaker 2: What happened your head en?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: I know, but this is kind of no. Yeah, I

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guess that's fair. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I went I if you didn't have enough, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Trying to get myself like back, I feel like I

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I'll be brutally, rawly honest as much as I can be,

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because you know, there's stuff. But I feel like probably

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the last two years or so have been a struggle.

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But but for I haven't really embraced things the right way.

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the line of delineation, I'm not really sure what would

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be the death of my day. And from there I went, Okay,

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you know I would refer to him as my great protector.

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Your great protector's gone. You got to got to get

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shipped together. You got a kid living with you, You get this,

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and and not that anything is like drastically bad. I

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don't want to say that, but I just know me

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and I know how I was.

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Speaker 2: And I'll tell you this.

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Speaker 1: Somebody on the podcast said to me, I feel like

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you've lost your edge and meaning like your your killer

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instinct this you know, win at all costs, which you know.

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Speaker 2: All right, oh yeah right? And I and I go

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watching the Cowboys documentary. You're Jimmy Johnson at this point,

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well you were Jimmy Johnson. Yeah, And I do you

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become Barry Switter?

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Speaker 1: I will say that I don't I don't know that

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that was a healthy way to be. So I want

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to do the things I need to do to set

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myself up to win and not get pissed off if

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things don't go there's a certain way. Yeah, you see

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what I'm saying. But but I took that and I

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went that person's not wrong. That's what I said to myself.

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That person's not wrong. And so I want to kind

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of get my ship together. So I've been trying to

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why keep looking over Yeah, but I don't think it

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was bad.

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Speaker 2: I didn't think it was bad. All right, we don't

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think it's bad. Okay, Well why why? I could picture

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him saying.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, all right, all right, leave it,

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go ahead, go ahead.

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Speaker 2: No nothing. You want to mimic it?

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Speaker 1: I know you do, right there.

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Speaker 2: I can't. I can't impersonate that person, I said. So

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I've been going to take work after the breath.

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Speaker 1: So I've been going to take exercise classes two days

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a week, and I've been walking a bunch, trying to run,

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but I really can't. And I went on a I

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went on a walk a walk date with my friend

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and I couldn't. I couldn't keep up.

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Speaker 2: Remember I told you it was all sweaty and all that. Right. Yeah,

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I walked in. You had a sweatshirt but no undershirt. Okay,

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that was the day. That was a Sunday. That was

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a Sunday. We went for a walk.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I mean she was cooking, so I'm like, fuck, man,

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I gotta get my ass in gear here. I used

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to run. Like I hear times that kids are running

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and I'm like, yeah, like somebody goes to me, Uh yeah,

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my kid had to to make the team. They had

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to run a seven minute mile. I'm like, I was

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twelve running a six minute mile. Yeah. I don't know

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what that means. Roger. Let me just tell you something

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to this. Let me just explain something. I couldn't run

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a six minute mile today. I couldn't run a seven

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minute mile.

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Speaker 2: Oh I've looked back at my life and gone okay,

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So I used to run a seven minute mile while

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I was like fifteen.

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Speaker 1: I got a hip issue I think.

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Speaker 2: For the New York State Physical Fitness tests. Okay, so

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one of them was how fast can you run a mile? So?

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Speaker 1: Well did you? I? You grew up in a small town. Yeah,

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I grew up in a very small town. When I

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was in eighth grade. I took the New York State

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test because I could played varsity and.

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Speaker 2: Varsity track or football both. Oh wow, okay, yeah wow.

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That's a real small town if you're in eighth grade

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playing varsity.

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Speaker 1: Right, well, there were very good kids. Were your tight

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end wide receiver you had to I was wide receiver

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then and then quarterback, but you played quarterback for a

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little bit.

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Speaker 2: No kidding for a moment, wow for a moment.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the moment in time I thought Greg.

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Speaker 2: Connors was the only player here.

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Speaker 1: I don't talk about it.

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Speaker 2: Okay. I played wide receiver too portly and free safety.

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Speaker 1: So you had to do so many sit ups in

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a minute.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and you have to do the grip where you

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have to hold it like unless you have to over

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a minute. Your chin has to be over the bar

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for a minute.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember having to run a distance. It was

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cones in a certain amount of time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So with us you had to run like a

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mile in like than seven minutes.

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Speaker 1: No, I didn't have that to make varsa.

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Speaker 2: So the grip and hang was the hardest test.

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Speaker 1: So I passed it. I made it, but they did

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I didn't get a whole lot of playing time up there.

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But my friend of mine did who made it too.

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He was really good.

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Speaker 2: You also do a standing broad jump of at least

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seven feet. I'm not remembering this stuff. Well maybe because

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I was younger than you.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, Uh, the point is, yeah, I don't know

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what the point was.

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Speaker 2: You You couldn't do a six minute now, of course,

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not fucking no, I can't. I'm not doing wind springs

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every other day.

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Speaker 1: When I was in high schools bragged for just a

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moment on my sexy Yet.

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Speaker 2: Here we go. Quarterback, wide receiver, eighth grade varsity athlete,

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double let.

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Speaker 1: Out run my senior year in high school. I did

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not play football my senior and.

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Speaker 2: I chase ladies.

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Speaker 1: No, there was a kid that I think that when professional,

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uh to the Red Sox right out of high school

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from my school, and wow, he was like two years

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younger than me and they were just gonna have him.

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a super back at the time for the since Bengals.

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So he would come into our practices and stuff. Last

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name Johnson, I think, and we're going back to you

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got to go eighty six eighty seven and he he

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had been in the USFL that folded. The Bengals picked

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him up.

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Speaker 2: I got to lock this guy up.

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Speaker 1: Now. I don't know that he played a lot, but

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he referred to him as a superback. I'm not exactly

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sure what the superback did, but that's what they called it.

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Speaker 2: Like a tailback.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, who knows. But JJ was great and they were

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going to push him. So I went and played soccer.

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Speaker 2: I get it.

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Speaker 1: And I had never played soccer. Because if I wasn't

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gonna be if I, I had another friend and I

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took it, sort of stole this from him. My friend Jeff.

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Jeff said, if I ever lose a race one hundred

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yard dash, I'm gonna quit. He won every race until

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the last one, and he just walked off and quit.

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He followed through. I thought it was the greatest thing

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I'd ever seen.

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Speaker 2: Cool.

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Speaker 1: I mean the fucking great. He lost by just a twatit,

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but the done that was it?

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Speaker 2: He did? He literally did I've done that was it?

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, great athlete too, But

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this kid was gonna So I went and played soccer

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and I ran. I didn't know how to play, so

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I would run through guys and the team from Rhinebeck

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would punch me in the face, punch me in the gut,

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and I loved it. I go, this is fucking awesome.

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it's insane. It's fucking insane. Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: I would hate that. I fucking loved it. I got

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punched in the face.

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Speaker 1: I was like, this is fucking I was like, whoa, yeah, away,

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and it's an adrenaline thing. It's a nutty thing. It's

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a nutty thing. That's why boxing was always.

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Speaker 2: Would hal up punch.

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Speaker 1: If you did sparring stuff, you got hit, right, a

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lot of people would shrink back you got hit. I

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would go, oh, okay.

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Speaker 2: Now come on. Sim Kelly was like that, come on,

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let's go. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I had somebody trying to get me into the senior

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rounds for boxing, the senior circuit, and no kidding, this

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is about four years ago, and I said.

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Speaker 2: Well, I get a two hundred how many pounds billion?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to say that. I think I'm like

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two thirty super senior heavyweight five to thirty, somewhere between

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two thirty two thirty five. I was up as high

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as two forty two forty five. So I'm down a

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little bit. But when I was boxing, it was like

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two twelve to ten. I haven't done that well anyway,

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this conversation is all over the place. I would run

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the half mile. I was two seconds off the school record,

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oh wow. And I couldn't get it. Couldn't get it.

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And then I was like if I could hang one

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in the car and my parents maybe painters like oh

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that was it. But I could move. I have wheels.

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And now I go my back hurst of a herning

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eate a disc and I think my hips are out

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of alignment.

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Speaker 2: There's exercises for that.

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Speaker 1: I know it can help me something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know it's funny. Every person I've

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sent that to I have not used it. I sent

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it to my pastor friend. I go hey, he goes,

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oh yeah, I hurt my back. We can't have lunch today.

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I go, Okay, can I send you a video? Yeah? Sure?

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And then uh, hey you watch the video. I'll work

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with a trainer right now. Do you watch the video? Well, yeah,

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well I'm working with uh the guy at the gym.

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Did you watch the video? So I went this video

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snapped my back right back at the point. Did I

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got this hip issue? Because that's the thing you're here.

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I don't want to get into it, but yes, I

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know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: I think my hips are fucked from everybody's hips, football

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and all that shit. Yeah, So I went. So I

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went to the y and I don't have all my

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keys on one thing. And the reason I don't have

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keys on one thing is I have another person in

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the house who I found out likes to take a

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car once in a while, and they can't. So I

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keep all the keys, but they're fobs, and I haven't

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put the house whatever. It's fucked up. So I have

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two key rings. So I leave this class. I grabbed

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the keys to the car, my phone, and I walk out.

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I'm driving back and I'm going it's a good distance

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back in the Fairport. I have an appointment at eleven.

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It's now ten ten. I'm gonna jump in the shower,

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go and I go, Shit, I don't have the keys

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to get in, like, wonder if I drop them. Now

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I'm panicked, So I'm looking through the car. I'm looking

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through others, not panicked. This is my point. I don't

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know what's happening. I'm not panicked. I'm like, oh, they're

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probably at the Why, and I should be like.

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Speaker 2: God, damn, it fucking ruined my whole day.

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Speaker 1: I'm sweaty, I want to get out of these clothes

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I can't get and I'm like, all right, I get

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back in the car. I drive out to the Y.

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I go back to the locker I had there are

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my keys and grab them out. Other thing. I go

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up This Why has a smoothie station. I get a smoothie,

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I have a cup of coffee. I call my kids,

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who are in New York City together, and then I

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drive out to my eleven o'clock point and I go, well,

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this is and I'm like, why this is where I go?

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Maybe I've lost my edge, I don't know, or maybe

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it's the beard.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: It just make I just feel like everything's just like there.

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I'm doing what I need to do and I don't

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care about the result. Okay, good, you know what I mean. Yeah,

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I'm hoping. I'm expecting the best.

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Speaker 2: But losing your edge, well, or your edge could change,

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your target could change, you could pivot right. Because the

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guy that I worked that had an edge, that edge

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was a double edged soul. You what yeah, no, yeah,

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come on you think what are you talking about? Think?

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What do you say? I mean, you had a competitive streak.

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But man, sometimes Bobby Knight or Mike Dipko or uh oh,

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Jimmy Johnson can come out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that wasn't good.

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Speaker 2: Right. One time, your son Jordan actually made you call

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me back and apologize on the phone. Jordan was like

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nine or ten, he was young, and he goes, he

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apparently told you, and I didn't think anything of it. Oh, thanks,

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I didn't think anything of it. It was just like

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a normal conversation with you and I, you know, like

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I need this, we gotta do this, we gotta do this,

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and how can we haven't done this? What we gotta

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do here? And do you have this lined up? And

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but and I'm like, yeah, I'm working on it, working

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on And Jordan apparently told you, hey, why are you

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yelling at Danny? And I wasn't yelling at Danny. Well

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sounds like you were yelling at him. So then you

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call me back.

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Speaker 1: Everybody says to me all the fucking time, By the way,

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that's something that annoys me. Okay, I have to say this.

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Speaker 2: I think that now I've really worked to not.

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Speaker 1: Be this guy. And we'll talk about this, and I

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want to bring up something that was brought up on

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the podcast last night that you alluded to a story

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and I never told it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that the story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I gotta tell the story.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Back when I was a varsity you had to

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have a girl who sit ups around your neck for

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at least in a minute varsity.

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Speaker 1: So this, uh, but I will often be told that

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I'm yelling, and I go, doesn't know, but I'm I'm

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talking emphatically and I'm hearing it from So I go,

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did the definition yelling of yelling?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Did it change? Did?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: Did the the DB's go down generation? Generationally speaking? I

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think it may. All it was was I got fucking

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yelled at constantly.

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Speaker 1: I got yelled up by coaches, I got yelled at

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by teachers, I got yelled up by friends, yell. I

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was yelled my entire life. All I was was fucking

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yelled at. So now I come in and it's like

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I feel like with my youngest kidd'll go, why are

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you gonna yell at me? I go, buddy, I'm not yelling. Well,

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you're talking and I'm like, okay, and then I but

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I've heard it from other people. Why are you yelling

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at me? I go, I'm not yelling at you. This

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isn't yelling.

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Speaker 2: No, have you ever seen me flip out or yell

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at anybody ever? Have you ever seen me ever yell

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or get angry?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So if I'm yelling right, like yelling and I'm angry,

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you'd know it.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: My wife goes, why are you yelling? I'm like, I'm

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not yelling. It's just the way I talk. Yeah, it's

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just I can't. Yeah, I'm loud. My ears have been.

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I had twos of my ears, a young kid so

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and my grandmother she was half deaf, so i'd have

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to talk like about the OJ trial or anything. My

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father would be at the top of the steps of

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the basement going, Man, if anybody came in this house,

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they'd hear your entire conversation. Who your grandmother was talking about,

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the gossip that came out of her, and you just

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you're just yelling back and forth. It's hilarious. It's like

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watching my own sitcom. It's uh, just loud. It is

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just loud.

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Speaker 1: I but yeah, but back in the day, well, here's

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why when when we were together, Yeah, it was I

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had this survival thing and I wanted to prove that

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I that I was as good as I believed I was.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know the feeling and still doing it.

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Speaker 1: So I figured, I'm gonna I'm gonna make this work.

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I'm gonna figure out a way to make this work.

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And by this, I mean you had brother Weez, Yes,

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who is is was an icon in Rochester radio in

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the National Radio Hall of Fame.

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Speaker 2: The guy super.

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Speaker 1: Talented, and I worked with him and had a pleasure

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of doing that. He but he didn't really business side

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of things. He didn't protect himself with the people that

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were really great for him, and he's gone through many

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iterations of a show since he left CMF and the

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people that were there. And so then it was down

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to like me and Tommy, and I knew that I

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made more than producers. And I had three kids and

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one that was on the spectrum that I needed Tod

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that I had all this in my ear, and I went, Okay,

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so I just go, I'm gonna fucking make this work

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at all costs. And you're walking around a building where

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they had a big notepad, big giant sticky notepad on

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an easel talking about all the strengths of the afternoon

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guy who was on one of their stations, clearly trying.

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You know, it was like sending a message, and I'm like,

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I go, I don't have an ally here. I don't

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have an ally. I don't have a Stan Maine in

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my life. Stan Maine hired me. Stan doesn't remember, but

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Stan hired me and I and was so fucking cool

473
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:15,480
to me and loved my audition tape and just said

474
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,319
to me, we do five hours of funny radio day.

475
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:19,599
Can you do something straight? And I said yes, And

476
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:20,920
then within like two weeks.

477
00:22:20,759 --> 00:22:21,880
Speaker 2: He was like yeah, whatever.

478
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 1: So uh, but I didn't have an ally there, So

479
00:22:26,319 --> 00:22:28,799
it was like I gotta fucking work my ass off

480
00:22:28,839 --> 00:22:33,160
and get down and focus. And you were screening phone calls.

481
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:37,759
But even to just get a phone screening room was

482
00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:41,240
like a pulling teeth with these guys because they didn't

483
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,920
want they didn't they weren't going to do anything this

484
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,200
new company that was buying the station, and I had

485
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,559
got over there and we's came for a minute and

486
00:22:48,559 --> 00:22:52,079
then he left, and so now you're in this odd

487
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:55,319
space of whatever and you're trying to. It was just

488
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:59,839
the probably the strangest time in my work life that

489
00:23:00,079 --> 00:23:02,839
I had ever experienced. And I look back now and

490
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,799
I go, how fucking awesome was that? I mean, it is.

491
00:23:06,039 --> 00:23:08,839
It is awesome. Like there's a lot of things that

492
00:23:08,839 --> 00:23:11,960
are going to come out of that. For me, I

493
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:16,240
think down the line that it was awesome. But when

494
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:21,920
when push came to shove, there was like I tried,

495
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:28,119
I knew, I could I see things developing. I can

496
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,839
see it. It's like a storm front, like you know,

497
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:32,680
and I can see things building. And I would go

498
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:36,279
to management and go hey, and one of them was

499
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,039
a certain person was going to come back and be

500
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:41,200
the GM across the street. And I told them that.

501
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:43,799
I told them, I said, this is what's going to happen.

502
00:23:43,839 --> 00:23:47,200
This person's been taking me to lunch for a couple

503
00:23:47,279 --> 00:23:50,200
months now, a really good friend was in my wedding.

504
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,000
But it's going to come back and it's going to

505
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:54,759
jack that thing up, and we're going to have a

506
00:23:54,799 --> 00:23:58,319
problem because he's going to save what was a sinking ship.

507
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:02,720
We's was around people who he didn't trust and it

508
00:24:02,759 --> 00:24:04,839
was all new, and so he's sort of.

509
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:08,160
Speaker 2: When he's scrambling.

510
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 1: Well, it wasn't that, It wasn't it wasn't management stuff.

511
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,400
It was the people in the room with him. And

512
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:17,119
I'll say, like Jamie, listen, it's not that Jamie wasn't talented.

513
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:22,200
Jamie's fucking hilarious dude. But they didn't have the years

514
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:26,319
of rapport that he had with Tommy. So therefore you

515
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:30,240
weren't going to get that instantly. And I think and

516
00:24:30,279 --> 00:24:32,920
so there was no one there, and I will say this,

517
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,599
there was no one on the management side that could

518
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:40,039
coach that talent that could come into that room, like

519
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,200
Stanley could come in and you go, hey, baby, what's happening,

520
00:24:43,279 --> 00:24:45,839
and you know, we just got and they would have

521
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,960
a conversation and we's would leave feeling comfortable. It was

522
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,119
somebody who had his back. He was sort of alone

523
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:56,079
in his own thing too. And but the whole point

524
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:59,200
was like, so the ratings come out, they don't do

525
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:02,440
as good as they think they they're gonna do. Uh.

526
00:25:02,519 --> 00:25:06,880
And I think everybody was like a little wobbly about that,

527
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,160
and we're working our ass off, and the whole thing

528
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,440
that's getting back to me as well, there's confusion in

529
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:16,640
the market, and that may be because people write things down, right,

530
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:19,240
So I go, well, fuck this, I'm we're gonna win.

531
00:25:19,599 --> 00:25:22,839
And so that was my thing. I was, fuck this,

532
00:25:23,079 --> 00:25:26,880
we're gonna win. I am gonna find a way through anything.

533
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:31,200
And you know it would be right, I'm gonna fucking win.

534
00:25:31,279 --> 00:25:33,559
I will find a way. I'm a smart guy, I

535
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,200
know how to talk. I'm gonna fucking figure this out

536
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,759
and that and that's when I would fight everybody, because

537
00:25:39,799 --> 00:25:45,480
anybody who got my way it was an obstacle. You're

538
00:25:45,519 --> 00:25:47,240
either with me or you're against me.

539
00:25:47,559 --> 00:25:48,039
Speaker 2: That was it.

540
00:25:48,519 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 1: Well, that's not how life works, edged Sword, Yeah, it's not.

541
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,559
That's not how life works. And if you live that way,

542
00:25:55,759 --> 00:25:58,240
you're gonna have a harder time either. There you can

543
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:01,279
line up with stuff and try to talk to people

544
00:26:01,319 --> 00:26:05,680
and be kind and get there maybe quicker than if

545
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,160
you go, fuck you, it's I'm doing it this way. Yes,

546
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,400
you can grind it out as much as you want.

547
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,519
You'll get there. You'll get there. You'll be miserable. And

548
00:26:13,559 --> 00:26:19,359
I was often hired. We were crumpy, right, but you know,

549
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,559
so it's it was an interesting time though in radio.

550
00:26:23,599 --> 00:26:27,559
Holy fuck, I I look back and go that that

551
00:26:27,559 --> 00:26:31,759
that was probably the most stressful time that for me

552
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,480
because in the new building you had all these people.

553
00:26:35,519 --> 00:26:38,119
Then they're talking about putting ted NuGen on as a

554
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,960
morning show and this and that, and I'm like no.

555
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,680
And then somebody listened and went, I think you got

556
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:48,799
something here, and I was like, okay, good, And then

557
00:26:48,839 --> 00:26:52,200
that person became a great ally. But I had to

558
00:26:52,279 --> 00:26:54,720
prove that there was something there. We need to find

559
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,119
a champion, and I did, and I fucking and then

560
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,359
that champion left, yes, and then that was another battle well,

561
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,000
and I wish I had handled that differently because I

562
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,720
don't know that that new guy was bad. I sat

563
00:27:06,759 --> 00:27:08,480
in meetings with him over and over and over. I

564
00:27:08,519 --> 00:27:11,000
was going to do anything I could to maintain and

565
00:27:11,039 --> 00:27:13,400
try to appear like I was a good player, because

566
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:17,920
don't forget, I had gone into like you think of this.

567
00:27:18,279 --> 00:27:22,279
You have a boss, right, everybody's got a boss, and

568
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:26,200
you walk into your boss's office and you know they're

569
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,599
gonna tell you, hey man, this is the thing, and

570
00:27:28,759 --> 00:27:33,440
you got it. The boss should be respected. I did

571
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,839
not have a lot of respect for this boss. This

572
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,720
boss no longer by the way, he is employed in

573
00:27:39,799 --> 00:27:44,319
that capacity. Uh this, So I I went into this

574
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:48,039
person and they said something to me, and I went,

575
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:55,119
I'm basically the CEO. That was the direct quote. I'm

576
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,680
basically the CEO of the show.

577
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 2: They got around too.

578
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: I'm sure it did, I said, And I didn't care.

579
00:28:01,079 --> 00:28:03,720
I was like, I don't give a fuck. There's nothing

580
00:28:03,759 --> 00:28:05,960
that happens on the air on this show that I'm

581
00:28:06,279 --> 00:28:10,440
one hundred percent aware of. There is nothing. And the

582
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,720
fact that you have your head in the sand about things,

583
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,000
fuck you. I know what we're up against. And that

584
00:28:16,079 --> 00:28:20,400
person I was talking about came back and they had

585
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:24,680
something in radio called trends. Okay, and then they take

586
00:28:24,759 --> 00:28:27,599
the trends and out of that they give you your ratings.

587
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:29,599
You didn't get your ratings for three months in a

588
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:34,359
market like this, but the trends, the trends come out,

589
00:28:34,759 --> 00:28:37,720
and I think we pulled a zero in one of

590
00:28:37,759 --> 00:28:38,119
the trends.

591
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 2: Yeah we did.

592
00:28:38,759 --> 00:28:44,079
Speaker 1: Okay, it's impossible. It's it's impossible. There's some weird thing.

593
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,279
But whoever filled out the diaries, we got nothing. So

594
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,200
they took that across the street and they fucking ran

595
00:28:51,319 --> 00:28:53,680
with it. And they're young, and it's a fucking trend.

596
00:28:53,759 --> 00:28:57,079
If anybody knows anything about radio. It means nothing, means

597
00:28:57,119 --> 00:29:01,480
fucking nothing. But that pissed me off, and I was

598
00:29:01,519 --> 00:29:04,359
all I needed. And it was one of those things like,

599
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,759
you know, I guess you talk about Michael Jordan and

600
00:29:06,839 --> 00:29:09,079
that was a personal what do you say? And I

601
00:29:09,119 --> 00:29:11,400
took that person, Yeah, I took it fucking personally, and

602
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:16,119
I just go, fuck you animal, I went, I am

603
00:29:16,279 --> 00:29:17,039
going to.

604
00:29:17,119 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 2: Find a way.

605
00:29:17,759 --> 00:29:20,319
Speaker 1: I am going to win. Not only am I gonna win,

606
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,000
I am gonna fucking ship down your neck and win.

607
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,920
And I and we did. We did in the end,

608
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:26,480
we did.

609
00:29:28,519 --> 00:29:28,559
Speaker 5: That.

610
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: Person, I don't give a fuck when anybody says we did.

611
00:29:31,039 --> 00:29:35,400
We won and and but but at what cost? At

612
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,880
what costs? And that was the part that I learned.

613
00:29:38,119 --> 00:29:40,880
I learned that I burned. I burned bridges.

614
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,519
Speaker 2: There was some collateral damn damage.

615
00:29:43,519 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 1: You're looking at some of it, Well, yeah, I guess.

616
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 2: So I owe you an apolitic anything. I do know,

617
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:51,880
but you don't owe me anything. It's radio. It's just

618
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:52,680
how it works. Yeah.

619
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: But it's like I wasn't there to do that. And

620
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,680
then I got so fed up and other fucking things

621
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:00,839
in my head and I just I don't want to

622
00:30:00,839 --> 00:30:03,079
do this anymore here. I don't want to do it here. Yeah,

623
00:30:03,119 --> 00:30:09,000
And so I left and then I went somewhere else, and.

624
00:30:07,519 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 2: Then the rumors started again. Oh yeah, you I come

625
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,519
back from my honeymoon right with my first wife. Yeah, okay,

626
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:18,920
that's like nine day vacation. I wish I could get back.

627
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,759
But anyway, and hey, can we talk? I go, yeah,

628
00:30:21,799 --> 00:30:26,200
what's up you? You call me up? Hey, so and

629
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:31,039
so former wife of a friend worked for my company.

630
00:30:31,079 --> 00:30:34,440
At this point, you'd left because hey, you're telling is

631
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:38,640
telling people that you're telling people that Bill Moran is

632
00:30:39,079 --> 00:30:43,079
miserable at iHeart and wish is he never left CMF.

633
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,279
And I said, I never said that. You and I

634
00:30:47,279 --> 00:30:49,640
didn't even like talk much after you left, because you're

635
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,599
busy doing your own thing. I was getting ready to

636
00:30:51,599 --> 00:30:54,720
get married, to make a mistake in my life. And

637
00:30:55,079 --> 00:30:57,000
I go, no, I don't know. I never said that.

638
00:30:57,279 --> 00:30:59,559
But that's what people would do. They would And by

639
00:30:59,599 --> 00:31:02,160
the way, I wasn't even employed anymore while this rumor

640
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,960
came out. That's the best part. So hey, let's take

641
00:31:06,039 --> 00:31:09,319
somebody use their name and slander somebody else.

642
00:31:09,359 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: But here's the other thing that but no, but here's

643
00:31:11,519 --> 00:31:11,880
the other thing.

644
00:31:12,319 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 2: Who cares? Right well, what other people.

645
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,319
Speaker 1: I wish I had the head I have now, what

646
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,279
other people say about me is none of my business.

647
00:31:21,279 --> 00:31:24,200
Would it hurt me if I hear some things? Maybe probably?

648
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,400
I'm a human being, but I'm not going to dwell

649
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:28,480
in it like I used to because I don't care. Yes,

650
00:31:28,759 --> 00:31:33,160
because everybody, because believe me, we're all fucking around in

651
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,960
this world and try to make it. And that's the thing. Look,

652
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:42,160
I I have known. I am going to say, right

653
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,000
up to the line. I'm going to go right up

654
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,079
to the line right now, all right, Okay, I'm coming

655
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:47,680
up right up to them like.

656
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 2: You're shaving your beard. You're just coming right up to the.

657
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,079
Speaker 1: Left, coming right up to the line. I know of

658
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:57,920
something that is in the midst of happening.

659
00:31:58,279 --> 00:31:59,519
Speaker 2: Huh.

660
00:31:59,559 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: And I've known about it since the spring wow, mhmm.

661
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,720
And in the radio, in the in the radio world.

662
00:32:11,039 --> 00:32:15,279
And I'm no, I will not and I don't care,

663
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:19,960
but I will tell you that that's the way, you know,

664
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:27,240
and I and everybody I I, I don't, I don't care.

665
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,000
It's none of my business. It's none of my business.

666
00:32:30,119 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 2: But you know, we might find out very soon what's

667
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:33,240
gonna happen?

668
00:32:33,279 --> 00:32:36,519
Speaker 1: Well, you will, but none of my business. I just

669
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,000
but I get it. And I have sat on that,

670
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,240
and I still had people go, what do you think?

671
00:32:41,279 --> 00:32:44,000
What do you think? I go, I don't, and nobody

672
00:32:44,039 --> 00:32:46,160
really knows, so I would go, I don't. I don't care.

673
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:49,799
I'm over here. I don't want to leave this. I

674
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:50,200
like this.

675
00:32:50,319 --> 00:32:52,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is fun, man, this.

676
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: Is I have other projects. There's screenplays, there's ship there's stuff,

677
00:32:55,680 --> 00:33:01,759
there's things going on. Let me guys play Kevin me,

678
00:33:02,599 --> 00:33:06,759
let me, let me bring up last night, Danny said

679
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,039
the letter he goes, wouldn't it be funny if the

680
00:33:09,039 --> 00:33:12,400
person said I'm the person from ninety six CMF that

681
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:16,240
they'd sit ups around your neck. I've never really told this.

682
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,279
I forgot about this story. I mean I would remember it,

683
00:33:19,319 --> 00:33:23,599
but it's not something that i've dwella So I used

684
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:28,640
to have strippers come up from one of the clubs.

685
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,680
And I don't know if this girl was a stripper

686
00:33:31,759 --> 00:33:34,039
or not, because she also happened to be a friend

687
00:33:34,119 --> 00:33:38,240
of somebody at the radio station, a younger guy that

688
00:33:38,319 --> 00:33:41,400
worked there, like, and she was attractive and all. But

689
00:33:42,039 --> 00:33:46,799
so she came up and it's me her, and I

690
00:33:46,839 --> 00:33:53,279
think this other guy and she I don't. I don't

691
00:33:53,279 --> 00:33:55,920
even know what happened. All I know is like she's topless,

692
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,640
she's got panties on, and she goes come over here,

693
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,240
and so I step out from around his like consoles

694
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:03,880
like a horseshoe.

695
00:34:04,039 --> 00:34:06,759
Speaker 2: Was this on the air? No? Okay no?

696
00:34:07,319 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: And she jumps up and she like climbs up on

697
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:12,920
this thing and then wraps her legs around my neck

698
00:34:13,039 --> 00:34:16,840
and then hangs upside down up. I'm standing up. Oh wow,

699
00:34:17,079 --> 00:34:18,599
and she starts doing sit ups.

700
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:23,199
Speaker 2: So you must have had incredible core strength to hold

701
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:23,599
her up.

702
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:25,280
Speaker 1: Okay, Well she wasn't that heavy.

703
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 2: She doesn't matter, dude, holding by the neck. She's not

704
00:34:28,119 --> 00:34:30,360
your neck. She's not that heavy.

705
00:34:30,599 --> 00:34:33,559
Speaker 1: And I'm standing there and all I can think is, oh,

706
00:34:33,559 --> 00:34:37,079
my fucking god. Now I'm married, and I'm already in

707
00:34:37,159 --> 00:34:41,480
trouble for things at home for the Triple XFL where

708
00:34:41,519 --> 00:34:43,679
I had strippers come up and they put on a

709
00:34:43,679 --> 00:34:46,000
strap on so that I had guys to ring pops.

710
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:49,079
Speaker 2: I just found it funny. I was never into strippers.

711
00:34:49,159 --> 00:34:49,519
I never.

712
00:34:50,039 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: It was never something that was never. It didn't appeal

713
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,440
to me. What appealed to me was getting people to

714
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,679
do stupid shit. I found it fucking fascinating and that

715
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,119
the guys would be so in to it. I go,

716
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:05,480
this is like it's ring toss. It's the State Fair,

717
00:35:06,079 --> 00:35:08,480
you know what I mean, the fucking State Fair. Only

718
00:35:08,559 --> 00:35:10,679
I just made it with tits and ask and I go.

719
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:14,440
It was the funniest thing. And that was where I

720
00:35:14,559 --> 00:35:19,360
got the most pleasure, was seeing how people could just

721
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:24,119
be reduced to a puddle of fucking hormones around a woman.

722
00:35:24,199 --> 00:35:27,280
It was amazing. But this girl does it. So now

723
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,679
she's doing sit ups and there was a big window.

724
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:31,559
It's a big giant window.

725
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 2: Anybody walking by I could see this, right.

726
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,679
Speaker 1: But it's later at night, so I gotta think. It's

727
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,400
like I must have been doing like six to nine

728
00:35:39,519 --> 00:35:44,360
or six to ten. Oh no, I must have been

729
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,840
doing four to nine. And this was after that, so

730
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,320
it's probably around eight o'clock and she's doing these sit

731
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,239
ups and her crotch is like right in my face

732
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,280
and I don't know where to look, and I'm very,

733
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:58,559
very very uncomfortable. And the program director was still there,

734
00:35:58,639 --> 00:36:02,079
and he walks by. He was a creepy motherbugger. And

735
00:36:02,119 --> 00:36:05,199
he comes in and goes, well, look it is hey

736
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,599
if it was like he went over to his office

737
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,159
and then he comes in and goes, hey, yeah, brother,

738
00:36:11,679 --> 00:36:13,079
how's a married life going there?

739
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 2: I was like, had nothing to do with that. I

740
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:16,400
didn't know what was gonna happen.

741
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: I stepped out from behind the thing that was it.

742
00:36:18,639 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 2: Is how it works? Yeah, that was radio.

743
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: That was fucking radio that whatever. Anyway, Sorry for any

744
00:36:27,639 --> 00:36:29,119
no I gave me in radio.

745
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:30,639
Speaker 2: Not at all. No, It's it's all good. But I'll

746
00:36:30,639 --> 00:36:32,719
tell you what, Like, as much as you may have

747
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:36,440
quote lost your edge, so to speak, someone saying that,

748
00:36:36,599 --> 00:36:38,960
and I can understand that at the end of the day,

749
00:36:39,519 --> 00:36:42,159
and you've got a lot going on. Your protector has gone,

750
00:36:42,199 --> 00:36:44,199
your father, You've had an interesting year, You've had an

751
00:36:44,199 --> 00:36:47,360
interesting several years. We're three years into this show, and

752
00:36:47,639 --> 00:36:49,280
you and I, you know, for the audience, you know,

753
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,800
you and I didn't talk much from like twenty fourteen

754
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:57,039
till twenty twenty two. We just didn't. And this guy

755
00:36:57,119 --> 00:36:58,920
that I'm sitting next to a cross room whatever you

756
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:02,039
want to call it right now, is a much more

757
00:37:02,559 --> 00:37:06,000
well rounded, relaxed guy than the guy you had to

758
00:37:06,039 --> 00:37:07,880
be when we worked together because you had to be

759
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,519
you are one man wrecking crew. It was you versus

760
00:37:10,519 --> 00:37:10,840
the world.

761
00:37:11,039 --> 00:37:13,039
Speaker 1: It was us versus the world.

762
00:37:13,079 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 2: But you were, you were the CEO.

763
00:37:15,199 --> 00:37:17,199
Speaker 1: But it's the it's a bad I think that's a

764
00:37:17,199 --> 00:37:20,400
bad headspace to be. It is it is.

765
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 2: You can't be like like Kevin O'Leary once said, there

766
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,119
are two men in his life that he knows, Kevin

767
00:37:25,159 --> 00:37:27,880
O'Leary from Shark Tank Business. There are two men in

768
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:31,400
his life who are absolute one hundred percent signal, zero

769
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,679
percent noise. Steve Jobs, who he said, the public will

770
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,559
like what I tell them to like you. That's a

771
00:37:37,559 --> 00:37:40,360
pretty erro good statement. But he knew and he looked

772
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,519
for the signal. He goes the other guy. I guess

773
00:37:43,559 --> 00:37:45,719
who that is. The other guy in his life, The

774
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,440
other guy. Yeah, yeah, we all know who he is.

775
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:53,760
Speaker 1: Business signal. Yeah right, Yeah.

776
00:37:54,079 --> 00:37:55,559
Speaker 2: Here's the thing. You gotta be like one of those

777
00:37:55,599 --> 00:37:57,840
two dudes to be one hundred percent signal all the time. See,

778
00:37:57,880 --> 00:37:59,880
the rest is noise. It's very hard to be a

779
00:38:00,039 --> 00:38:03,000
hundred percent signal. And even Elon's had his distractions we

780
00:38:03,039 --> 00:38:05,440
know about, okay, But at the end of the day,

781
00:38:05,559 --> 00:38:07,840
to be that guy. You got to be one hundred

782
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,519
percent signal so that you avoid all distractions. You know

783
00:38:11,559 --> 00:38:14,880
exactly what buttons to push when, and it's so impossible

784
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,000
to do unless you're one of those guys. It's so yeah,

785
00:38:17,079 --> 00:38:18,920
but you were trying to be one hundred percent signal

786
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:19,360
at that point.

787
00:38:19,679 --> 00:38:21,760
Speaker 1: And I get that, yeah, and I and I feel

788
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:24,519
like I'm I'm getting back to that now. And yeah,

789
00:38:24,519 --> 00:38:26,639
figuring out the podcast world is a little different, and

790
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:28,280
I've enjoyed the hell out of it.

791
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 2: This has been a blast, man. This has been fun,

792
00:38:31,199 --> 00:38:33,880
all right. And we've acquired so many great people along

793
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:34,400
the way too.

794
00:38:34,559 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we really have.

795
00:38:37,599 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 2: We brought somebody back to the public eye that people

796
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,840
may not have forgotten about, but forgot what's kind of

797
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,719
there for a while. And she's now got a presence.

798
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:54,000
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. And then there's Mark Himan waiting

799
00:38:54,159 --> 00:38:56,960
for that one. I love Mark. I love doing shows

800
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:57,239
of Bark.

801
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,119
Speaker 1: I know, well, maybe we'll do one this weekend. Uh,

802
00:39:00,199 --> 00:39:00,960
I don't know if you're.

803
00:39:01,559 --> 00:39:05,559
Speaker 2: You're going away. Boo's got a she's doing her Bob

804
00:39:05,599 --> 00:39:08,639
Secret tribute out in the rocks. Oh that's this weekend.

805
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:13,360
And Catman, oh, not exactly. Can I'll I'll be out

806
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:14,280
of commission. All right.

807
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,280
Speaker 1: A little football talk, okay, okay, a couple of things

808
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:18,800
before we get to the big news.

809
00:39:19,079 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 2: All right. I wrote a big column this week. You

810
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:23,840
might want to read it, saying, okay.

811
00:39:23,599 --> 00:39:29,599
Speaker 1: And then Laniel's linearl litter buck. Mike Rabel, head coach

812
00:39:29,639 --> 00:39:34,480
of the New England Patriots, Mike very Rabel, excuse me.

813
00:39:35,079 --> 00:39:40,800
The team released wide receiver Kendrick Bourne and safety Marcus Epps.

814
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,880
Not really familiar with these guys, but they were let

815
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:49,760
go and one of the reporters said they're very upset

816
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:52,199
or they're happy to be leaving or something like that.

817
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:57,920
So the newspapers were like, ah, Mike Rabel went on

818
00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:02,280
a rambling thing, good, comparing it to a girlfriend. And

819
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,480
I did not think it was rambling. I thought it

820
00:40:04,519 --> 00:40:07,599
was actually spot on. We'll let you listen to Mike

821
00:40:07,679 --> 00:40:11,159
Vrabel talking about two players who were released from the team,

822
00:40:11,679 --> 00:40:15,840
and then he's and the way he couches is they're

823
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,400
basically going, well, good, that team sucks anyway, is what

824
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,519
they're saying. Okay, that's sort of a childish response.

825
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:28,679
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's news to me. And you know what, I mean,

826
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,239
you know what I mean. I think that we just

827
00:40:34,039 --> 00:40:38,079
again try to put the roster together. Man, I guess

828
00:40:38,119 --> 00:40:43,320
when it when it doesn't work out, you know, you know,

829
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,760
you break up with somebody, your girlfriend doesn't want to

830
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,360
be with you, and then you say, well I don't

831
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,320
want to be with you either. Like I'm not going

832
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:50,920
to get into.

833
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:54,320
Speaker 2: All that, right, Yeah, that I just.

834
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:55,639
Speaker 6: Said, I'm not going to get into it. It was

835
00:40:55,679 --> 00:40:57,760
just like, you know what I mean, We're not going

836
00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:00,599
to go back and forth here. We're trying to to roster.

837
00:41:01,679 --> 00:41:05,000
Got to move on from some guys. Yet make connections

838
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:09,480
with guys. You coach them, They earn opportunities, they get

839
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:12,639
more opportunities, they take advantage of them. And that's kind

840
00:41:12,639 --> 00:41:15,480
of how these things go there.

841
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,559
Speaker 2: You want to talk about a guy who's trying to

842
00:41:17,559 --> 00:41:20,639
be one hundred percent signal, Mike Vrabel may be the

843
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:25,000
guy in the NFL trying to be one n I'm

844
00:41:25,079 --> 00:41:26,719
he is dead. He know you know what he's saying.

845
00:41:27,079 --> 00:41:30,239
Guys leave, they have sour grass. That's what it is.

846
00:41:30,639 --> 00:41:32,000
How did the media screw that up?

847
00:41:32,079 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: No, it's well they just said rambling thing about girlfriends

848
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:38,000
and I go, no, No, it's every guy gets stumped

849
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,039
and he goes, yeah she was at new bitch. Sorry

850
00:41:41,079 --> 00:41:44,159
sorry for the seaward, but the uh she was a

851
00:41:44,159 --> 00:41:44,840
bitch anyway.

852
00:41:45,119 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 2: You know what she smells like, there would be something

853
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:51,639
childish like that. Seven years I know, Yeah, I got

854
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:52,079
used to it.

855
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,280
Speaker 1: You know what, do you walk around sometimes you just

856
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:01,960
forget that's right. It's like it's guys are dumb. They

857
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:06,159
did say dumb stuff because you're hurt. Yes, you're hurts.

858
00:42:06,199 --> 00:42:09,000
You're hurt and you get from a team and you're hurt.

859
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:11,840
Speaker 2: By the way, Stefan Diggs, as I predicted, is still

860
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:14,760
on the team. Want to pro point that out for

861
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,280
the media, who's oh he can't survive this, Oh he

862
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:22,119
can't survive Just listen to me. Go on, Billy, you

863
00:42:22,159 --> 00:42:25,079
want to talk about salad grapes? Go ahead, there, it

864
00:42:25,159 --> 00:42:26,199
is all right.

865
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,079
Speaker 1: I don't know how to say this guy's name, and

866
00:42:28,119 --> 00:42:31,119
they only refer to him as defender.

867
00:42:31,639 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 2: Okay.

868
00:42:32,519 --> 00:42:37,039
Speaker 1: Kansas City Chiefs have released a veteran named Mike is

869
00:42:37,039 --> 00:42:40,199
it Panal? Could be E N N E L.

870
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never heard of him.

871
00:42:41,559 --> 00:42:47,800
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm like, what exactly the defender means? I

872
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,880
don't know what that is. I don't know. He's been

873
00:42:50,039 --> 00:42:52,039
around the league. I think he played for the Jets.

874
00:42:52,079 --> 00:42:53,360
I think he played for the Bears.

875
00:42:53,679 --> 00:42:56,760
Speaker 2: Somebody wrote a story real quick defender.

876
00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:02,639
Speaker 1: Yeah so, but he got released from the team and

877
00:43:02,679 --> 00:43:06,079
then posted this on his Instagram. I'm gonna play the audio.

878
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:09,360
It's the Joker. It's uh, what's his name?

879
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:10,800
Speaker 2: Playing er?

880
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 1: Is the Joker?

881
00:43:11,599 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 2: Dangerous Joker talking about like burning it all.

882
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:18,519
Speaker 1: Down and then we'll see how's loyal, hungry dog.

883
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:21,039
Speaker 3: It's not.

884
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 2: Everything burns.

885
00:43:31,079 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, So a weird thing for a guy to post.

886
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,320
But it almost sounds like he's coming for the team,

887
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,480
like he's pissed off. He's gonna burn it down, doesn't it.

888
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 2: It sounded like that to me. I'm like, what's wrong

889
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:43,679
with this? He's have had a history of stuff stupid

890
00:43:43,679 --> 00:43:46,639
stuff like that, So going back beyond Andy Reid, so

891
00:43:47,039 --> 00:43:49,239
you might want to beave up your security. This week's

892
00:43:49,519 --> 00:43:51,760
so weird by the way he fled. You know, he

893
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:55,360
modeled himself after to play the Joker. I think you're

894
00:43:55,400 --> 00:44:00,079
a fan of this guy. Tom Waits, Oh yeah, I

895
00:44:00,119 --> 00:44:02,639
didn't know after Tom Waits to play the Joker.

896
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:06,519
Speaker 1: Well, Tom Waits is a little I am a fan's eccentric. Yeah,

897
00:44:06,559 --> 00:44:08,679
he's a little crazy. Yeah he's crazy hair.

898
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:13,199
Speaker 2: He sings weird on a downtown trash.

899
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love Downtown trained by him.

900
00:44:17,679 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 2: I like Rod Stewart's version.

901
00:44:19,559 --> 00:44:21,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of people do. It's nicer, but yeah,

902
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,360
it's a little more tolerable. I like, I like, I

903
00:44:25,079 --> 00:44:28,199
like the different. I don't know, it's different to me.

904
00:44:29,079 --> 00:44:31,800
Speaker 2: Yeah that is a little strange that Mike Pennell or whoever.

905
00:44:32,199 --> 00:44:36,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, so, okay, So I didn't I thought, especially right.

906
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 2: After what happened yesterday, weird taste well in the shooting

907
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:42,320
and everything.

908
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I forgot about that already. That's

909
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,679
how fast me too, exactly. I just haven't spent a

910
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:49,480
lot of time thinking. I haven't forgotten about it. I

911
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:53,719
thought about it a little bit, but not much. We

912
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,480
did mention the Patriots. The Bills have new uniforms that

913
00:44:57,519 --> 00:45:01,000
they're playing against the Patriot It's I think they're called

914
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:04,920
the Rivalries Jersey levelry uniforms. I fucking love them, and

915
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,119
people are making like, somebody goes to me, how.

916
00:45:07,039 --> 00:45:09,119
Speaker 2: To fuck you love this? Most people love them. I

917
00:45:09,159 --> 00:45:11,400
thought they'd look great. Most people love them. I have

918
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,719
no opinion. They say, I seriously have no opinion on them.

919
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:17,599
Speaker 1: The team says it's more than a look. The city's

920
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:21,199
DNA stitched into the fabric. This team will also be.

921
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,320
So they're giving away helmets. They only do this for

922
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:24,920
one reason.

923
00:45:25,119 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, they want to sell jerseys come September tenth.

924
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:30,039
Speaker 1: Yes, but it looks cold, it looks cool, and the

925
00:45:30,079 --> 00:45:32,159
way they did it is presented is cold, which is

926
00:45:32,199 --> 00:45:33,079
weird cracking.

927
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 2: They're gonna be playing October, right, that's not gonna be a

928
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,880
December games. So they're gonna bring it back the red

929
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:42,159
helmets in December, but they're gonna wear the ice cold uniforms.

930
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you what. I'd rather have the red

931
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:47,960
helmet because if I'm Josh Allen and there is a snowstorm,

932
00:45:48,039 --> 00:45:50,559
I don't want a white helmet. That's fucking fucking my visions.

933
00:45:50,559 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 2: They put it in the last game of the season. I

934
00:45:52,039 --> 00:45:56,800
think for a reason. But that being said, I the

935
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,199
first thing I thought when I saw this jersey was

936
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:02,719
of three teams, Kentucky, Boise State, and you be have

937
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:06,280
similar all white uniforms, right, And then I looked at

938
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,079
the other rivalry uniforms like, oh, that that's better. That's better.

939
00:46:09,119 --> 00:46:11,679
That's better. That's really that's better. They're all better except

940
00:46:11,679 --> 00:46:13,320
for Arizonas. I don't know what the heck's going on there.

941
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:15,760
It looks like someone like, you know, like Fleck the Bowl.

942
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,400
That's what that jersey looks like. Just just just just

943
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,199
look at it. Yeah, right, exactly. But I mean, if

944
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:24,800
you like it, that's cool. I just somebody, somebody made

945
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:27,599
a comment, this looks like every brand new kitchen installed

946
00:46:27,599 --> 00:46:31,199
in the last five years, all white with a silver refrigerator.

947
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,840
Put that out there. He's from Rochester, by the way,

948
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,960
and yeah, it's a great analogy. I I don't I

949
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,119
don't have an issue with it, but I know how

950
00:46:41,199 --> 00:46:43,559
like ninety five percent of bills fail. There's awesome, and

951
00:46:43,599 --> 00:46:47,159
then the five percent the sucks and it's my brothers

952
00:46:47,159 --> 00:46:51,400
hate it. Yeah, I don't hate it. I'm just kind

953
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,480
of like, this is this is the best you could do,

954
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:56,840
and you're gonna do it in October October right not

955
00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:00,239
not not not the Zeber October. That part was weird,

956
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:00,880
but it's gonna be.

957
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:01,079
Speaker 1: Yeah.

958
00:47:01,119 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 2: Watually it's a night game, so.

959
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,199
Speaker 1: You know, maybe cold get a little nippoly up.

960
00:47:06,119 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 2: The ball's white too. That that'd be cool because it

961
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,800
looks like Joshall was throwing a snow football the pictures.

962
00:47:11,039 --> 00:47:13,039
Speaker 1: There was a lot of talk about this player.

963
00:47:13,119 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 2: He plays for America's team. Uh.

964
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:19,039
Speaker 1: Some people say he's a game bull said he's a

965
00:47:19,039 --> 00:47:21,360
game changer and a coach record he could really be

966
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:26,039
that that good on the field. His name is Michael Parsons, MICHAEH.

967
00:47:26,079 --> 00:47:26,559
Speaker 2: Parsons.

968
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,639
Speaker 1: He played for the Dallas Cowboys. He was in a

969
00:47:29,679 --> 00:47:34,320
contract dispute. I think he requested a trade and that

970
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:38,480
came through. I thought Buffalo was rumored to be in

971
00:47:38,519 --> 00:47:42,719
the mix. I would assume they probably were if they.

972
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 2: I'm sure they called.

973
00:47:44,159 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 1: I'm sure they did too.

974
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 2: If they didn't call, we got another issue. Now, well,

975
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:49,920
we won't know right Well, we'll never find out, or

976
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:51,920
we may find out down the road. Somebody writes a

977
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,320
biography about the or a book about the Bills. Has

978
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,840
Sean mcderm may have screwed up the franchise. The Bills

979
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,480
had an offer on the table for Michael. These things

980
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:00,480
come out, yeah.

981
00:48:00,599 --> 00:48:05,079
Speaker 1: Do so he's going to the Green Bay Packers. And

982
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:10,119
I'm surprised because the Packers and the Cowboys have met

983
00:48:10,679 --> 00:48:13,159
Was it the NFC Championship a couple of years ago,

984
00:48:14,199 --> 00:48:15,320
Aaron was still playing.

985
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 2: No, no, no. They went in the divisional round. That was

986
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,719
the game. Is where Dallas should have won the game.

987
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:27,400
Romo hit Bryant, does Bryant for a touchdown and Brian

988
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,280
goes to put the ball of the goal line, ball

989
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,000
bounces out of his hand. They said, oh, it's an

990
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,639
incomplete pass because he didn't survive the ground, but it

991
00:48:33,679 --> 00:48:36,519
was clearly a touchdown and that changed the entire game.

992
00:48:36,639 --> 00:48:39,239
Dallas would have gone on to the conference championship game

993
00:48:39,679 --> 00:48:46,039
had they won that one. Okay lost no Green Bell Okay,

994
00:48:46,039 --> 00:48:49,400
Green Bay lost championship games. Dallas never played hasn' played

995
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,400
in the championship game since they won the Super.

996
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 1: Bowl, saying I thought that they beat Dallas almost two

997
00:48:55,519 --> 00:48:57,239
years in a row, or they may have beaten.

998
00:48:57,039 --> 00:48:59,280
Speaker 2: Dallas two years Oh yeah, yeah they did, because then

999
00:48:59,519 --> 00:49:01,400
that's when Rogers like drove him down the field. They

1000
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,159
kicked the field and won the game and the Yeah.

1001
00:49:03,199 --> 00:49:06,119
So yeah, well Rogers was the quarterback he got They

1002
00:49:06,159 --> 00:49:07,599
got the best of Dallas twice.

1003
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:11,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, so uh, it's just interesting to me that that

1004
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:14,559
would be the team you trade with and they're not

1005
00:49:14,599 --> 00:49:17,119
in the its within the conference, just within the conference,

1006
00:49:17,159 --> 00:49:18,840
and I thought that would be odd.

1007
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:21,079
Speaker 2: And you know, you try to try to go outside

1008
00:49:21,119 --> 00:49:23,280
the conference. You try to go to the most important

1009
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,920
thing is you try to get the best deal for

1010
00:49:26,119 --> 00:49:29,880
your team. And in this instance, we know what, you know,

1011
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:31,239
I know what the terms of deal with.

1012
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what.

1013
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:33,320
Speaker 2: Let me let me get it out for you, billy,

1014
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:36,639
because he was uh so Michah Parson. Let's just talk

1015
00:49:36,639 --> 00:49:39,400
about Parsons real quick. He wasn't gonna get a trade

1016
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,559
without getting a deal. So that that's what part of

1017
00:49:41,559 --> 00:49:43,719
the hold up was. He was gonna go to a

1018
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:45,199
team where he was gonna be able to negotiate his

1019
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,639
own contract. I mean, because that's the point they were at.

1020
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:50,440
No one's gonna take on Micah Parsons going into the

1021
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:52,639
final year of his contract to let him walk. They're

1022
00:49:52,639 --> 00:49:54,719
not gonna let him. They're not gonna just give something up.

1023
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:56,719
And then all of a sudden he takes off. This

1024
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,880
isn't baseball where the Inkes like you know, took a

1025
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:01,159
flyer on Wan Soda for a year and then lost

1026
00:50:01,199 --> 00:50:04,719
in the free agency. So he's gonna get one hundred

1027
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:09,159
eighty eight million dollars forty seven million dollars per Parsons

1028
00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:12,920
is the highest paid non quarterback in history. That's for Parsons. Now,

1029
00:50:13,039 --> 00:50:14,719
you know there's there's guarantees in that, but there's a

1030
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:16,400
lot of guarantees. But that's like, if he plays out

1031
00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:18,440
the contract, we get one hundred eighty eight million dollars. Okay,

1032
00:50:18,639 --> 00:50:22,199
So the Cowboys just save themselves a lot of money. Yeah,

1033
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:23,719
they didn't want to pay him that money. The Packers

1034
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,400
at the space, they're able to pay him. This guy

1035
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:29,199
now is going to be a game changer on their defense,

1036
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:31,320
which they needed, okay, because they had they believe they

1037
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:32,079
have the quarterback.

1038
00:50:32,199 --> 00:50:34,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, they do, okay, and I think they made Sordan

1039
00:50:34,199 --> 00:50:35,320
Love was inspired.

1040
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,039
Speaker 2: By Josh Allen. The people want to realize it or not.

1041
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:40,079
He was an okay quarterback coming out of college. But

1042
00:50:40,159 --> 00:50:43,719
he had the arm and the athleticism. And he's the

1043
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,760
reason why Aaron Rodgers like had was pouting in their

1044
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,400
in Green Bay because they were sick of his mouth.

1045
00:50:50,119 --> 00:50:52,719
Rogers so they said, okay, we'll trade back into the

1046
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:54,039
first round. You want to talk about a slap of

1047
00:50:54,039 --> 00:50:56,639
the face, We'll trade back into the first round and

1048
00:50:56,679 --> 00:50:58,559
get this kid and put him out a three year

1049
00:50:58,599 --> 00:51:02,199
project and so let him take the reins. And halfway

1050
00:51:02,199 --> 00:51:04,119
through his third year he figured out the light one on.

1051
00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:06,400
They gave an extension and so now they think they're

1052
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,880
quarterbacks in The offense is set, but they need somebody

1053
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:12,039
in the defense. So this is like they're trying to

1054
00:51:12,119 --> 00:51:16,119
replicate Farve on offense, Rochie White on defense. When they

1055
00:51:16,159 --> 00:51:19,400
won their Super Bowl and Dallas, I think this is

1056
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:21,159
a win win. This is a win for the Packers.

1057
00:51:21,199 --> 00:51:23,320
Now they got an edge rusher, a real edge rusher.

1058
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:25,760
Dallas is gonna get two first round picks in this

1059
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:28,840
and Kenny Clark. Now here's the thing. Those two first

1060
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,119
round picks, you're gonna have team control for at least

1061
00:51:31,199 --> 00:51:33,920
four years if Jerry doesn't screw it up, which Jerry's

1062
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:35,920
actually a pretty good drafter, or whoever is in the

1063
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:38,519
room that lets Jerry take the credit for drafting, he's

1064
00:51:38,519 --> 00:51:40,599
a pretty good drafter. So they're gonna get two first

1065
00:51:40,679 --> 00:51:43,880
round picks. Very rarely does a player turn into one

1066
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:46,719
first round pick, let alone two first round picks. They're

1067
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:48,639
gonna get two first round picks. They're gonna save all

1068
00:51:48,679 --> 00:51:52,039
that money. They're gonna get a guy named Kenny Clark

1069
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:54,519
to play on the on the defensive line who's solid

1070
00:51:54,519 --> 00:51:57,599
and stable, and they're also But here's the thing, they

1071
00:51:57,639 --> 00:51:59,639
were never going to go anywhere no matter how much

1072
00:51:59,639 --> 00:52:02,400
money they paid market Parsons. As long as Dak Prescott

1073
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:05,480
is their quarterback, he's either always hurt or he has

1074
00:52:05,519 --> 00:52:07,599
a ceiling. He's never gonna take you where you need

1075
00:52:07,639 --> 00:52:09,119
to go. And I think he's on the back nine

1076
00:52:09,119 --> 00:52:11,440
of his career. I really believe that with the injuries

1077
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,639
and everything else. So why pay this dude all that

1078
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:18,159
money after you paid everybody else? Or you could just say, okay,

1079
00:52:18,159 --> 00:52:21,039
I'll take two firsts and I'll save myself that money. Okay,

1080
00:52:21,039 --> 00:52:23,400
because Michael Parsons is not gonna get the Dallas Cowboys

1081
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:26,039
close to a super Bowl, but he can get Green

1082
00:52:26,079 --> 00:52:28,360
Bay close to a super Bowl because they have their quarterback.

1083
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:30,360
Not that Dallas does it, but I think he's hit

1084
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,559
his seiling. I think Dak is taking the Cowboys as

1085
00:52:32,559 --> 00:52:34,599
far as he can take them, and he's always hurt.

1086
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:38,320
He's always hurt. So I think that, you know, good

1087
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,920
for Jerry and good for green Bay. This is a win. Wink.

1088
00:52:42,159 --> 00:52:44,000
I remember once upon a time a guy named Bill

1089
00:52:44,039 --> 00:52:46,159
Moran called me up one day we weren't working together,

1090
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:48,880
and there was a local guy on a sports station

1091
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,440
who was going off about how the Bills had just

1092
00:52:51,519 --> 00:52:56,000
completely screwed up by trading this guy named Sammy Watkins.

1093
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,039
Speaker 1: Oh that was so stupid.

1094
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:01,280
Speaker 2: How could you do that? And Brandon Peter, are you

1095
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,039
an idiot? And you called me up? And you go

1096
00:53:04,199 --> 00:53:05,840
this guy at the Raiders, you know what he's talking about,

1097
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:10,360
Go respectfully, No, I'm with you. They trained Sammy Watchett,

1098
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,360
I think it was a trade, and they trained Ronald

1099
00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:17,039
Darby and they got they got, They got a bunch

1100
00:53:17,079 --> 00:53:19,679
of picks, and guess what those picks help eventually lead to.

1101
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,559
Speaker 1: Josh Josh Allyeah, all right, why don't we take a

1102
00:53:23,559 --> 00:53:27,199
moment here and then we'll come back. There's something that

1103
00:53:27,199 --> 00:53:31,639
I think a lot of men are about my age

1104
00:53:31,639 --> 00:53:36,960
probably are dealing with, and it's causing a divorce rate

1105
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:40,599
to go up for people in their late forties, fifties,

1106
00:53:40,679 --> 00:53:41,400
early fifties.

1107
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:41,679
Speaker 7: Oh wow.

1108
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 1: OK, Yeah, divorce is down down overall, but in that cell,

1109
00:53:48,639 --> 00:53:52,119
it's up. And there's a reason why. And I'll play

1110
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:57,320
audio from a good Morning America piece and we can

1111
00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:59,400
comment on it. I don't I don't know that there's

1112
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,880
a lot. I don't know that we're justified just say

1113
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:06,079
anything about it. But we'll have a let's see what

1114
00:54:06,119 --> 00:54:07,840
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00:57:13,519 --> 00:57:17,679
out Sheila Tillick dot com. That's s H E I

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00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:22,480
L A T I L L I C H dot com.

1171
00:57:22,639 --> 00:57:31,719
Trust me your future self, Well, thank you.

1172
00:57:31,719 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 2: You know the song is this chim No. We were

1173
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:50,559
born before the wind, also younger than the Sun.

1174
00:57:54,639 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: The bonny boat was one. You got me sail into

1175
00:57:58,519 --> 00:57:59,119
the mystic.

1176
00:58:00,119 --> 00:58:08,239
Speaker 8: Morrison, Yeah, he and Doors used to share the same

1177
00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:11,719
bill at the Whiskey Go Go in Los Angeles.

1178
00:58:12,159 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 2: They used to play together a lot.

1179
00:58:14,039 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: Really Yeah, I did not know that.

1180
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,559
Speaker 2: Van Morrison and Jim Morrison. Yeah, not related, No, but

1181
00:58:18,559 --> 00:58:20,400
they would they would play. They would twin bill quite

1182
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:23,239
a bit. People always loved the song.

1183
00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:26,199
Speaker 1: I found it to be somewhat a centual song. People

1184
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:28,320
told me I was crazy, but were that.

1185
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:35,800
Speaker 2: He's still alive. Yeah, I will be coming home. He's

1186
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:36,400
in the Hall of Fame.

1187
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:41,239
Speaker 1: Uh don't know the answer to I don't know the

1188
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:43,960
answer to that. Uh, you know, but I always liked.

1189
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:46,159
I always like Van Morrison A little bit of stuff there.

1190
00:58:46,199 --> 00:58:48,639
Speaker 2: I know people use Van Morrison as their wedding songs.

1191
00:58:49,119 --> 00:58:51,880
Really yeah, like what I think Norm Keefer. I think

1192
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:53,360
moon Dance they did.

1193
00:58:53,199 --> 00:58:57,159
Speaker 1: Oh moon Dance. Yeah, that's that's that may be one

1194
00:58:57,159 --> 00:59:00,360
of the sexiest songs of all time. Actually, let me

1195
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:06,000
see dance. There's a song that I always loved that

1196
00:59:06,119 --> 00:59:10,000
I think would be a great wedding song if I were.

1197
00:59:10,159 --> 00:59:14,159
I don't know that I'll ever do whatever. I don't

1198
00:59:14,199 --> 00:59:15,719
think I'll ever take that terrific.

1199
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:20,599
Speaker 2: Uh, you never never say it ever, Danny, never say never.

1200
00:59:21,079 --> 00:59:26,079
But this is their wedding song, I think so.

1201
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:31,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well that's some marful the snag for remote dance

1202
00:59:31,239 --> 00:59:32,800
with the start.

1203
00:59:32,639 --> 00:59:39,199
Speaker 2: Up and your eyes I can text him. I think

1204
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:42,360
cover were you there? I got.

1205
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 1: Trees up boling, that sound of the breeze of that.

1206
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 2: You know, I'm trying to please to the calling of

1207
00:59:53,239 --> 00:59:57,119
your hots, trying to play off and you know the

1208
00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,719
next magics.

1209
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:00,559
Speaker 1: I am too.

1210
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:05,559
Speaker 2: Somebody once told me, Yeah, I think his name was

1211
01:00:05,599 --> 01:00:09,480
Bill Moran. What I tell you then, a wedding invitation? Yeah,

1212
01:00:10,079 --> 01:00:18,320
there's nothing more than an invoice, so fucking true. It

1213
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,199
was the day I announced my engagement. It was Yeah,

1214
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:23,760
you know what what a invitation is. It's an invoice,

1215
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:24,320
an invoice.

1216
01:00:24,559 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 1: I think I did say that I had funny things

1217
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:31,639
I said, I didn't know. Uh, but I think for

1218
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:35,440
a second wedding, I don't think it wouldn't be an invoice.

1219
01:00:36,039 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 2: I think you come and have a great time.

1220
01:00:37,679 --> 01:00:40,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, hang out, you know what I mean. Like I

1221
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:41,280
could see my.

1222
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:44,239
Speaker 2: Second wedding, like some people sent gifts and some people didn't.

1223
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: Apparently I didn't.

1224
01:00:46,599 --> 01:00:48,719
Speaker 2: Well no, no, I'm talking about the people that you

1225
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,559
expect for a second wedding. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I

1226
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:52,519
could see not.

1227
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:57,079
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know.

1228
01:00:57,239 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 2: Second wedding.

1229
01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: I think you may have found love when maybe you

1230
01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:07,480
didn't think he could, or it was a little more.

1231
01:01:07,559 --> 01:01:08,840
It means a little.

1232
01:01:08,679 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 2: More to you. You're older, you're wiser. Hopefully I tell

1233
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:15,400
my wife, you got the lottery ticket right here, baby,

1234
01:01:19,039 --> 01:01:23,360
and maybe assured baby, says trophy husband. And I think

1235
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:24,719
so there.

1236
01:01:24,719 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 1: Wouldn't you want to be surrounded by the by love,

1237
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:31,079
just pure love, and by that I mean like your children,

1238
01:01:31,159 --> 01:01:32,960
if you have children and their children.

1239
01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:35,559
Speaker 2: In our case, we were surrounded by just a couple

1240
01:01:35,639 --> 01:01:37,559
of friends. And the reason was because, like when I

1241
01:01:37,599 --> 01:01:39,679
started doing the math of if we started inviting people,

1242
01:01:39,679 --> 01:01:41,679
how much it was going to cost, and I would

1243
01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:43,360
end up paying for all. You know what, let's get

1244
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:43,719
the lope.

1245
01:01:44,679 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I could see doing like a destination

1246
01:01:47,639 --> 01:01:50,360
if you could make it a vacation with family, stand

1247
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:51,719
it family. I mean, I don't want to have a

1248
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,519
bang hunt for the wedding night. This is a song

1249
01:01:54,599 --> 01:01:56,639
I love absolutely our wedding.

1250
01:01:56,639 --> 01:02:01,039
Speaker 2: I was at the Woodcliffe there you go, yeah, Harbus

1251
01:02:01,119 --> 01:02:03,920
move Neil. Yeah you knew it right? I love, I love,

1252
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:04,639
I used to love Neil.

1253
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:08,079
Speaker 1: I think this song is absolutely beautiful.

1254
01:02:08,199 --> 01:02:12,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love. He ended up divorcing this woman to Beggy.

1255
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:13,960
That happens.

1256
01:02:14,039 --> 01:02:15,239
Speaker 1: Neil's a cranky mother.

1257
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:19,639
Speaker 2: He's a weird guy. It's those fucking cyberns.

1258
01:02:20,559 --> 01:02:22,480
Speaker 1: I used to. This will always remind me this summer

1259
01:02:22,559 --> 01:02:27,559
of ninety three, are working in Park City, Utah. This

1260
01:02:27,719 --> 01:02:30,599
and fields a goal by Sting. I was playing all

1261
01:02:30,639 --> 01:02:33,079
the time in the restaurant. But I love this song.

1262
01:02:33,639 --> 01:02:34,639
I love the words to it.

1263
01:02:35,159 --> 01:02:35,599
Speaker 3: Just like.

1264
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:44,119
Speaker 1: Weak Dreams time. I could see this as being the

1265
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:45,719
really wedding.

1266
01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 2: It's one of his best songs. Yeah, it really is. Yeah,

1267
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:50,440
I love it because a lot of his songs are

1268
01:02:50,519 --> 01:02:53,880
very straightforward and the leads are very choppy and just

1269
01:02:54,039 --> 01:02:56,599
not great. He's not a great guitarist, that's good, but

1270
01:02:56,719 --> 01:03:00,599
he's written like a thousand songs. Yeah, but this was

1271
01:03:00,639 --> 01:03:03,039
like a really well orchestrated song. Yeah.

1272
01:03:03,119 --> 01:03:06,599
Speaker 1: These backup singers are pretty high in this video.

1273
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 2: I don't know, we know where the music. Yeah.

1274
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:14,239
Speaker 1: I like this song anyway, not that I have any

1275
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:16,320
reason to play it anytime soon. I wonder what how

1276
01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:18,440
do we get off? Every time you're here? It just goes,

1277
01:03:19,519 --> 01:03:22,599
I've lost my You haven't. You haven't lost your edge.

1278
01:03:22,679 --> 01:03:23,320
You've got your.

1279
01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:24,079
Speaker 2: Edge, all right.

1280
01:03:24,159 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 1: So there's something that I was kind of surprised. Divorce

1281
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:33,320
rates overall down, but for people in their fifties is

1282
01:03:33,400 --> 01:03:36,480
what they say. I'm going to go late forties to fifties.

1283
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:39,960
It seems to be on the rise. And the reason

1284
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:46,199
is they're calling it the meno divorce, meaning menopause is

1285
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:49,840
causing the divorce. I have this piece from Good Morning America.

1286
01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:53,400
We can listen to it a little bit and hear

1287
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:57,760
what they have to you know, well, whether we agree disagree, certainly,

1288
01:03:58,079 --> 01:04:02,679
I think you come from more of a I think

1289
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:06,519
you would even have seen your first marriage through if

1290
01:04:06,559 --> 01:04:08,840
there wasn't something that had happened.

1291
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:13,599
Speaker 2: Yes, I was gonna say something terrible menopause, so flat,

1292
01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:16,480
Say what you're gonna say, No, we're friends. Say what

1293
01:04:16,519 --> 01:04:18,559
you're gonna say is something hit what we're on our

1294
01:04:18,599 --> 01:04:20,440
way out? No matter what, it's just because they had

1295
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:24,480
another penis go interrupted by.

1296
01:04:29,480 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 5: Sleeplessness.

1297
01:04:30,559 --> 01:04:34,280
Speaker 7: But divorce, I think meno divorce is this idea that

1298
01:04:34,599 --> 01:04:37,800
a lot of divorces are happening because of menopause.

1299
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:40,719
Speaker 5: Melissa McClure was with her husband for fourteen years.

1300
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 9: I was so angry. I felt like I wanted to

1301
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:45,760
burn the world down. They didn't recognize myself anymore, and

1302
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:48,440
therefore my husband didn't know how to handle me as well.

1303
01:04:48,599 --> 01:04:50,679
Speaker 5: They've been separated for a year now.

1304
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:56,679
Speaker 1: Now, why are we not talking to him? I want

1305
01:04:56,719 --> 01:04:58,159
to hear his side of it, right.

1306
01:04:58,280 --> 01:05:02,960
Speaker 2: Holy fuck responsible journalism. Yeah you get one side. I

1307
01:05:03,079 --> 01:05:04,079
want both sides.

1308
01:05:04,159 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 1: I want to hear how bad it was, right, Yeah, yeah,

1309
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:13,880
but I've heard that it's terrible, like menopause. Yeah no, no,

1310
01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:19,320
like hot flashes and can't get comfortable and irritable, and

1311
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:22,400
it sounds like you're not getting laid during that time, fellas.

1312
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:26,360
But if you love the person you know, you make

1313
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:29,079
it work. You try to anyway, but both people have

1314
01:05:29,159 --> 01:05:29,719
to try well.

1315
01:05:30,079 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 9: Having more clarity now impopause that I am no longer

1316
01:05:34,559 --> 01:05:37,079
willing to be a people pleaser, I'm no longer willing

1317
01:05:37,519 --> 01:05:38,639
to be a nurturer.

1318
01:05:39,639 --> 01:05:42,000
Speaker 2: Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa? What what did she say?

1319
01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:45,199
Speaker 9: Really gave me that clarity.

1320
01:05:46,079 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 2: I'm no longer willing to be a people pleaser. Okay,

1321
01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:51,159
that part I could see. I'm no longer willing to

1322
01:05:51,199 --> 01:05:54,360
be a nurturer. Okay, but that's your role in life.

1323
01:05:55,559 --> 01:05:55,920
One of you.

1324
01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:59,719
Speaker 1: There are guys, one of you. I'm always surprised because

1325
01:06:00,719 --> 01:06:04,159
there's a term that people will use and it's partner

1326
01:06:05,039 --> 01:06:07,599
or partners. And I think if you're going to be

1327
01:06:07,639 --> 01:06:10,519
a partner, you gotta be pulling your weight. Yes, And

1328
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:14,719
there are sometimes with guys and maybe I don't know,

1329
01:06:16,599 --> 01:06:19,559
but they don't or maybe they do. And the wife

1330
01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:21,800
it's never I guess it's.

1331
01:06:21,719 --> 01:06:23,519
Speaker 2: Never going to be completely equal.

1332
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:26,559
Speaker 1: But when you've got kids, and I will say this,

1333
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:32,480
if you have a job and you're the primary cooker

1334
01:06:32,559 --> 01:06:34,360
in your family, or you gotta get home, you gotta

1335
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:36,320
get dinner going. You got it, Like, there's a lot

1336
01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:41,280
of shit that seems to fall at least old school thinking.

1337
01:06:41,559 --> 01:06:45,039
Speaker 2: Right to the woman, like where's the dinner? Woman? You

1338
01:06:45,159 --> 01:06:47,239
know what I mean? A woman wears my dinner every

1339
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:48,000
working all day.

1340
01:06:48,639 --> 01:06:53,639
Speaker 1: I want to know, but I I just so I can't.

1341
01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 2: I can't say.

1342
01:06:54,559 --> 01:06:56,159
Speaker 1: I wish I could back this up to hear what

1343
01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:59,280
she said. I think sometimes though, when it comes to nurturing,

1344
01:07:00,199 --> 01:07:03,800
there are women who it's like having another child in

1345
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:05,840
the house. I used to get mad at the commercial

1346
01:07:06,519 --> 01:07:10,599
that mom got got a cold and dad dad had.

1347
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:14,039
I used to get so fucking pissed of this because

1348
01:07:14,079 --> 01:07:16,559
it made every guy look like a dumb, fucking dope.

1349
01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:20,480
Because when I was married, not that my wife couldn't,

1350
01:07:20,639 --> 01:07:22,760
she just didn't like to do the ironing. And I

1351
01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:26,440
ironed everything. I would iron my fucking jeans. I ironed everything.

1352
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:28,000
I didn't want to wrinkle in anything.

1353
01:07:28,079 --> 01:07:28,559
Speaker 2: I was weird.

1354
01:07:29,239 --> 01:07:33,000
Speaker 1: And this guy comes in and he's got an iron

1355
01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:35,480
burn in the back of his shirt, and the kid's

1356
01:07:35,719 --> 01:07:38,079
clothes are all pink because he washed the fucking lunger.

1357
01:07:38,199 --> 01:07:43,000
I go, Okay, maybe that's true in some instance, but

1358
01:07:43,119 --> 01:07:45,519
not every fucking guy is a morn like that, right,

1359
01:07:45,719 --> 01:07:48,679
you know, it's it's twenty whatever it was at the

1360
01:07:48,719 --> 01:07:49,599
time that this commercial was.

1361
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:52,440
Speaker 2: This was in the nineties. I remember this commercial.

1362
01:07:54,039 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 1: I thought they reran it.

1363
01:07:55,199 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 2: Maybe they did. It was in the nineties.

1364
01:07:57,400 --> 01:08:00,599
Speaker 1: It bothered me, It bothered me. I remember I was

1365
01:08:00,719 --> 01:08:02,960
married when I saw it too, so I was I

1366
01:08:03,000 --> 01:08:04,519
think it may have been a day quill commercial, so

1367
01:08:04,639 --> 01:08:07,000
I can say, like, I get it, if you're if

1368
01:08:07,159 --> 01:08:09,199
the guy's not pulling his weight and shit like that,

1369
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:11,800
and then who wants to deal with a cranky person?

1370
01:08:11,880 --> 01:08:13,960
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck what gender they are. I

1371
01:08:14,039 --> 01:08:17,399
don't care. You're an asshole. No one wants to deal

1372
01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:18,119
with you. How many times?

1373
01:08:18,199 --> 01:08:19,640
Speaker 1: Like you know, your wife just wants to kick you

1374
01:08:19,640 --> 01:08:21,119
out to the fucking garage because you're just.

1375
01:08:21,159 --> 01:08:21,840
Speaker 2: Being a dick.

1376
01:08:22,319 --> 01:08:26,399
Speaker 1: And then vice versa. Right, you know, give me your

1377
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:28,000
fucking mano pause.

1378
01:08:28,359 --> 01:08:33,000
Speaker 2: I'll give you a meno pause. You know, it's it's

1379
01:08:33,199 --> 01:08:36,720
never the menopause, manopause, whatever it is. That's that's that's

1380
01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:39,600
the final straw. I think it starts way before that.

1381
01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:41,920
Maybe I don't know. I have no idea. I can't

1382
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:44,439
pay that. But this woman says, you got somebody puts

1383
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:48,039
the kids in front of the husband or wife. That's

1384
01:08:48,079 --> 01:08:52,880
the first step towards a disaster. I've I was listening

1385
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:55,720
to a pastor talk about this. He goes, I'm at

1386
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:58,640
the receiving line at the end of church, he said,

1387
01:08:59,279 --> 01:09:02,279
and the couples will come up with their kids, and

1388
01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:03,920
all of a sudden, one of the kids need something

1389
01:09:04,359 --> 01:09:05,840
and the wife will look to me. And this happened

1390
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:09,840
more than one time. My husband knows his place, and

1391
01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:12,359
he goes, no, no, no, no, no no. Your husband

1392
01:09:12,399 --> 01:09:14,960
needs to come first, and you need to come first,

1393
01:09:15,319 --> 01:09:19,039
well after Jesus in his life, or it's never gonna

1394
01:09:19,079 --> 01:09:21,000
work if the kids all of a sudden, Now the

1395
01:09:21,079 --> 01:09:22,880
kids are growing up and you got nothing in comic

1396
01:09:23,039 --> 01:09:24,239
is what happened? You put all your time to the

1397
01:09:24,319 --> 01:09:27,840
kids and not into each other. That happens. No, the

1398
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:30,399
menopause part is just like the final art.

1399
01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:31,039
Speaker 1: This is why.

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01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:34,119
Speaker 2: No, it is the It is the final straw because

1401
01:09:34,159 --> 01:09:37,439
all the idiosyncrasies over the past ten, fifteen, twenty years

1402
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:39,279
are now adding up. And now when you start acting

1403
01:09:39,279 --> 01:09:41,640
cranky for no reason and it could be either person.

1404
01:09:42,319 --> 01:09:43,640
That's usually like, well, that is it.

1405
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:44,800
Speaker 1: That's a fair point.

1406
01:09:46,279 --> 01:09:48,600
Speaker 9: I can't say I've turned my whole life down and

1407
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:50,920
I started again and then I just like, I'm so

1408
01:09:51,079 --> 01:09:51,880
much happier now.

1409
01:09:52,279 --> 01:09:55,439
Speaker 2: Well for now, Well maybe she is happy. Maybe she is.

1410
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:58,000
I know a woman who basically left her kids and

1411
01:09:58,119 --> 01:10:01,319
her husband just like you know, all right, I'm going

1412
01:10:01,359 --> 01:10:03,119
to serve myself. And she was great for the first

1413
01:10:03,159 --> 01:10:07,239
five six years. Now she's miserable and those kids ain't

1414
01:10:07,279 --> 01:10:10,079
coming back. How do you know, because I know them,

1415
01:10:10,079 --> 01:10:10,960
I'm related to them.

1416
01:10:11,079 --> 01:10:11,239
Speaker 1: Ah.

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01:10:13,359 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 5: The straights overall are dropping. Divorce among adults fifty and

1418
01:10:17,119 --> 01:10:19,920
older are on the rise and account for almost one

1419
01:10:20,079 --> 01:10:21,239
in three breakups.

1420
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:24,279
Speaker 9: What can happen early on in marriages is seen as

1421
01:10:24,359 --> 01:10:28,199
maybe a ruffle, and after the shift in hormones, it

1422
01:10:28,359 --> 01:10:29,560
now becomes an avalanche.

1423
01:10:30,359 --> 01:10:30,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1424
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:34,800
Speaker 2: In other words, your fault, the final straw, it's your fault, beach.

1425
01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:38,760
Speaker 1: Final straw, hormones. I think there was a lead up.

1426
01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:40,920
I think it's tough. I think it's very tough, and

1427
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:43,239
I think you're right. I think you have to keep

1428
01:10:43,279 --> 01:10:45,520
the communication. I want to get to this one point.

1429
01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:47,560
Speaker 7: A part in the story That's probably one of the

1430
01:10:48,279 --> 01:10:51,560
biggest things that I hear about is the irritation they

1431
01:10:51,640 --> 01:10:53,960
may feel with the person that they've been with for

1432
01:10:54,039 --> 01:10:56,560
the longest period of time. Sometimes it's the way they

1433
01:10:56,680 --> 01:10:59,239
chew or you know, it's funny.

1434
01:10:59,000 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 2: As that is idiosincret.

1435
01:11:00,399 --> 01:11:03,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, I started like everything starts to bother you. Yes,

1436
01:11:03,279 --> 01:11:06,039
the other person, right, It can can really really get

1437
01:11:06,079 --> 01:11:09,319
that way. That's why you need to keep it fresh fellas.

1438
01:11:09,399 --> 01:11:11,680
And I mean, yeah, it's got a fall a little

1439
01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:13,760
bit on you. I'm gonna give you a tip, a

1440
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:19,199
tip that I think works. Listen, really listen to what's

1441
01:11:19,279 --> 01:11:24,479
being said, because in those conversations, little hints are dropped

1442
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:28,239
about things, maybe not intentionally but like I'm not not

1443
01:11:28,359 --> 01:11:31,319
planning to see but so that way, all of a sudden,

1444
01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:35,600
you can surprise the person with you know, like let's

1445
01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:39,199
say this, UH was telling you, Oh God, I talked

1446
01:11:39,279 --> 01:11:41,279
to uh talk to Lisa today.

1447
01:11:41,920 --> 01:11:43,640
Speaker 2: Oh how's Lisa doing? It's great?

1448
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:45,840
Speaker 1: Gee, you know, I was so happy. And so she

1449
01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:48,439
found that they went to this restaurant and they loved it.

1450
01:11:48,520 --> 01:11:50,720
It was blah blah blah restaurant and this and that

1451
01:11:51,279 --> 01:11:53,760
sounds so great, and that of the kids come storming in,

1452
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:57,600
and the conversation goes, go fucking make reservations at that

1453
01:11:57,840 --> 01:12:02,079
restaurant a month later. Don't do it tomorrow, because.

1454
01:12:01,840 --> 01:12:03,800
Speaker 2: Then then they'll be like, yeah, give it.

1455
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:06,000
Speaker 1: Give it a give it a little breathing room, give

1456
01:12:06,039 --> 01:12:08,680
it a breathing room, and then do that. And I'm

1457
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:12,439
telling you that kind of ship I think, I think works.

1458
01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:16,199
Take it from a guy who fail several me too,

1459
01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:17,199
several times.

1460
01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:19,479
Speaker 7: Here we go a little more the way they, you know,

1461
01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:21,079
look at them in certain ways.

1462
01:12:21,439 --> 01:12:24,560
Speaker 5: Something that was true for Pennsylvania. Wife and mom done

1463
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:28,600
a Hoffmeister just little things what said Hoffmeister Me Often

1464
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:32,960
I'd be in a bad mood and respond poorly.

1465
01:12:33,359 --> 01:12:35,039
Speaker 9: They weren't doing anything majorly wrong.

1466
01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:36,560
Speaker 2: I know they were.

1467
01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:39,479
Speaker 1: Just it's her. He's's got two sons and a husband.

1468
01:12:40,199 --> 01:12:42,640
It's all dudes, All dudes, it's all dudes. They weren't

1469
01:12:42,640 --> 01:12:44,840
doing anything majorly wrong. But there was probably a puddle

1470
01:12:45,039 --> 01:12:47,279
on the floor and he stepped in it in the bathroom, and.

1471
01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:50,000
Speaker 2: You don't Tilly's press state was acting up at two

1472
01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:52,159
o'clock in the morning. They didn't want to like turn

1473
01:12:52,239 --> 01:12:54,600
the light on. They went to take a leak they missed.

1474
01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:56,840
Speaker 7: Yeah, you know what I mean, it's like anything just

1475
01:12:57,880 --> 01:13:00,840
didn't have the tolerance to put up with any of

1476
01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:01,520
their crap.

1477
01:13:02,399 --> 01:13:04,800
Speaker 1: So I don't know what that crap is, but we

1478
01:13:04,960 --> 01:13:07,960
all do things like you get. You know, let's say

1479
01:13:07,960 --> 01:13:09,880
it's the kids come home and they just throw their

1480
01:13:09,920 --> 01:13:13,399
shit around or the pile shit in the sink, and

1481
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:18,439
those things can can become the little irritance about somebody

1482
01:13:18,560 --> 01:13:20,079
that could break things up.

1483
01:13:20,239 --> 01:13:22,359
Speaker 5: She found help from an obg y N who got

1484
01:13:22,399 --> 01:13:25,880
her on hormone therapy. When Donna says her husband worked

1485
01:13:25,960 --> 01:13:27,680
hard to understand.

1486
01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:29,720
Speaker 7: He's one that he just starts to do and take

1487
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,600
care of things because he's trying to lighten my load.

1488
01:13:32,279 --> 01:13:36,279
Speaker 5: That's how he responded. Just swallow his what the pair

1489
01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:40,159
working on their communication and still together. I'm one of

1490
01:13:40,199 --> 01:13:40,840
the lucky ones.

1491
01:13:41,119 --> 01:13:41,680
Speaker 7: He definitely.

1492
01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:43,279
Speaker 9: Just even talking about I started to well up a

1493
01:13:43,279 --> 01:13:43,600
little bit.

1494
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:44,680
Speaker 5: I've got a good one.

1495
01:13:45,199 --> 01:13:47,680
Speaker 7: We can give you the hormones, the HRT, but we

1496
01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:50,720
can't do a husband replacement therapy, right, That's something you

1497
01:13:50,840 --> 01:13:51,720
might have to do on your O.

1498
01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:57,399
Speaker 2: I thought that was cute. I thought it was She chuckled.

1499
01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:04,239
Speaker 5: Husband placement therapy out listen for some some guys.

1500
01:14:04,119 --> 01:14:05,319
Speaker 2: You're going fuck yeah.

1501
01:14:06,119 --> 01:14:08,319
Speaker 1: Bobby Slaton used to do a whole bit about how

1502
01:14:08,399 --> 01:14:09,640
jealousy was of gay guys.

1503
01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:13,479
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll hear this.

1504
01:14:14,119 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 1: No, the bit was I'm gonna do it wrong, but

1505
01:14:16,119 --> 01:14:17,600
I'll just talking Bobby.

1506
01:14:17,640 --> 01:14:20,600
Speaker 2: Would you know my wife tried to be plugging. Let

1507
01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:22,279
me tell you what. I look at gay guys like

1508
01:14:22,319 --> 01:14:22,760
get jealous.

1509
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:23,439
Speaker 1: You know what they get to do?

1510
01:14:24,039 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 2: They have second one and they watch the game.

1511
01:14:28,520 --> 01:14:29,199
Speaker 1: I gotta cuddle.

1512
01:14:30,039 --> 01:14:32,840
Speaker 2: There's no cuddling of these gay guys. Hey, what a beer,

1513
01:14:33,439 --> 01:14:34,159
Let's watch the game.

1514
01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:39,079
Speaker 1: I don't think that's exactly true, but yeah, who was it?

1515
01:14:39,239 --> 01:14:40,880
Speaker 2: Maybe with somebody at this show or somewhere. I heard

1516
01:14:41,279 --> 01:14:43,239
like a friend of mine said, like, what's the highest

1517
01:14:43,239 --> 01:14:45,439
divorce rate lesbian? It's why it's two women. They'll never

1518
01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:47,159
get along. Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

1519
01:14:47,119 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 5: If that's The couples had a good run and then

1520
01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:53,039
they're clear it's time to call it quits. But for

1521
01:14:53,199 --> 01:14:56,000
those who want to stay in their relationships, these folks

1522
01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:59,279
all had some good advice. First, recognize the mood disrupting

1523
01:14:59,319 --> 01:15:02,159
impacts of menopause. Try and get in front of that.

1524
01:15:02,960 --> 01:15:05,000
Seek help be it from an obgyn.

1525
01:15:05,159 --> 01:15:08,479
Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell you this, this is counselor this.

1526
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:13,960
Speaker 1: Is stuff, and I mean this in all seriousness. I

1527
01:15:14,159 --> 01:15:15,960
need to just let the hang for a second because

1528
01:15:16,159 --> 01:15:18,439
they're so right. There's so many sexist jokes you give me.

1529
01:15:18,840 --> 01:15:22,920
But I think it's so im important that these things

1530
01:15:22,960 --> 01:15:26,720
get talked about, because I don't think they were when

1531
01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:29,680
my mom was going through this, which would have been

1532
01:15:30,319 --> 01:15:34,600
probably in the early nineties. And I certainly wasn't talked

1533
01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:37,239
about when my grandmother went through it, you know what

1534
01:15:37,279 --> 01:15:40,640
I mean, And so you were just labeled a bitch

1535
01:15:41,159 --> 01:15:44,359
or whatever, or here we go again. It's her being her,

1536
01:15:44,960 --> 01:15:47,560
and maybe she had some legitimate gripes. It just had,

1537
01:15:47,840 --> 01:15:50,600
you know, with everything else, and there was no appreciation

1538
01:15:50,840 --> 01:15:53,479
for it. There was no explanation behind it. It was

1539
01:15:53,600 --> 01:15:57,359
just irrational behavior and not treated. And I think that

1540
01:15:57,680 --> 01:16:00,199
when you talk about these things, like I said to

1541
01:16:00,239 --> 01:16:03,760
somebody today, something came up and I go, yeah, well,

1542
01:16:03,920 --> 01:16:07,840
you know, being molested. I think talking about that helps

1543
01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:11,319
other people makes them not feel alone. I'm sure there's

1544
01:16:11,319 --> 01:16:13,279
a woman somewhere who goes, I don't know why I'm

1545
01:16:13,319 --> 01:16:15,920
such a fucking raaching bitch. You know, you get a

1546
01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:19,000
moment of clarity and I'm treating him like shit and

1547
01:16:19,159 --> 01:16:20,840
he's getting mad at me, and all we do is

1548
01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:22,960
fight anymore, and I feel like it's my fault, but

1549
01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:27,800
I can't figure. Yeah, well, good these this is from

1550
01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:30,520
Good Morning America. I think it's a great piece. At

1551
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:35,079
the end, there's no reason really play it. They go

1552
01:16:35,199 --> 01:16:39,039
back to the studio. Stephanopoulos is there. He's not saying shit. Okay,

1553
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:44,239
But Sam Champion, who's the weather guy and I think

1554
01:16:44,359 --> 01:16:44,760
is gay.

1555
01:16:45,560 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 2: There were rumors about him and a certain baseball player.

1556
01:16:48,319 --> 01:16:49,560
Now nobody could prove it.

1557
01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:51,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean Sam Champions a handsome guy.

1558
01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:53,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so Sam.

1559
01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:57,720
Speaker 5: Uh And then some specific ideas for guys. They suggested,

1560
01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:01,359
try not to take things personally, be willing to change,

1561
01:17:01,760 --> 01:17:03,560
acknowledge your own pick.

1562
01:17:03,399 --> 01:17:06,319
Speaker 1: Your fucking socks up off the floor when everything calm.

1563
01:17:06,399 --> 01:17:07,520
Speaker 5: Maybe good advice for.

1564
01:17:09,439 --> 01:17:12,239
Speaker 2: When the iron is a little easier said than done.

1565
01:17:12,279 --> 01:17:17,159
Speaker 1: That made me sad.

1566
01:17:17,359 --> 01:17:18,359
Speaker 4: That made me sad.

1567
01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:20,840
Speaker 2: Come on, folks, try a little harder. That's your best

1568
01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:23,159
friend in the life part Yeah that was Sam.

1569
01:17:23,279 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 1: That's your best friend in your life, partner, And it

1570
01:17:25,039 --> 01:17:27,640
made me sad. And I can understand that because at

1571
01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:29,840
some point it was good. When did it When did

1572
01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:30,439
it go bad?

1573
01:17:30,720 --> 01:17:30,920
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1574
01:17:31,279 --> 01:17:33,520
Speaker 1: At some point you liked each other that.

1575
01:17:33,840 --> 01:17:36,920
Speaker 2: I remember that show Blackish. Yeah okay, I never watched

1576
01:17:36,920 --> 01:17:38,760
the show, but there was one episode that caught my eye.

1577
01:17:38,960 --> 01:17:41,399
The couple was about to get divorced. I think they

1578
01:17:41,439 --> 01:17:44,399
ended up fixing things and they flat and they go,

1579
01:17:44,479 --> 01:17:46,039
how do we get here? She goes, I don't know,

1580
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:50,159
and they flashed back to when they first moved into

1581
01:17:50,199 --> 01:17:52,039
the house. How do we get here? I don't know,

1582
01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:54,800
Like they were so happy and blessed, young and opera

1583
01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:58,560
and optimistic, and then there he's moving out. How do

1584
01:17:58,640 --> 01:18:02,920
we get here? I don't know. It's these little things

1585
01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:06,079
here or there. And in a lot of cases, guys,

1586
01:18:06,079 --> 01:18:07,800
you got to pick up after yourself. You gotta put

1587
01:18:07,840 --> 01:18:11,760
the dishes in the sink, don't just anything. Okay. So

1588
01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:15,119
that's the other side I wanted to get to. Sometimes

1589
01:18:15,159 --> 01:18:18,479
you can do everything right, but it's not there's a video.

1590
01:18:18,600 --> 01:18:20,880
You're not doing it right. There's a video from where

1591
01:18:21,039 --> 01:18:24,600
your there's a video. You gotta look this up. I'm

1592
01:18:24,640 --> 01:18:28,560
sure guys have seen this, right. It's it's a couple

1593
01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:32,880
and someone's holding the camera the phone. It's couples going

1594
01:18:33,079 --> 01:18:36,520
to get fruit at the supermarket, right and the.

1595
01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:39,359
Speaker 1: Guy so she starts.

1596
01:18:39,479 --> 01:18:42,640
Speaker 2: So he lets his wife pick two or three lemons

1597
01:18:42,880 --> 01:18:46,960
or oranges or whatever, tomatoes and avocados, puts them in

1598
01:18:47,079 --> 01:18:49,439
the bag. Once she gets a few in there, she'll

1599
01:18:49,479 --> 01:18:52,079
start looking for more. He'll pull one out and hand

1600
01:18:52,119 --> 01:18:54,159
it to her, go, hey, I got one. She looks

1601
01:18:54,199 --> 01:18:57,199
at it, puts it back. It's the same one she

1602
01:18:57,439 --> 01:18:59,399
picked out. And it's three or four times. Then they

1603
01:18:59,399 --> 01:19:01,439
go to the next cup, same thing. I think they

1604
01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:04,880
do another couple, same thing. Sure you got You have

1605
01:19:05,119 --> 01:19:07,000
to be able to it's it's it's like my older

1606
01:19:07,039 --> 01:19:09,960
sister said at my younger sister's wedding, when you give

1607
01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:12,760
a tot, it's both people giving one hundred percent. It's

1608
01:19:12,840 --> 01:19:13,720
not fifty to fifty.

1609
01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:16,319
Speaker 1: It's not sixty forty. Some days and you do sixty forty.

1610
01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:17,399
There's days when.

1611
01:19:17,760 --> 01:19:19,239
Speaker 2: You're gonna be up. She's gonna be down, she's gonna

1612
01:19:19,239 --> 01:19:20,920
be up. You're gonna be down as long as you're

1613
01:19:20,960 --> 01:19:24,359
always giving one hundred percent with whatevery, whatever state you're in.

1614
01:19:24,720 --> 01:19:28,239
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna say something different. Okay, make

1615
01:19:28,279 --> 01:19:29,520
sure you like the person.

1616
01:19:30,439 --> 01:19:31,520
Speaker 2: I think you can.

1617
01:19:32,199 --> 01:19:35,800
Speaker 1: And I also think at any age it is very

1618
01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:39,640
easy to confuse sex and love mm hmm. I think

1619
01:19:39,680 --> 01:19:43,239
sometimes physical stuff not that that's not important. You're not

1620
01:19:43,399 --> 01:19:45,479
you know, you can have a great relationship with somebody else,

1621
01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:49,159
but you're not having sex. Therefore it's not good. And

1622
01:19:49,600 --> 01:19:52,199
I do think passion in the marriage is very important

1623
01:19:52,720 --> 01:19:56,000
and in any you know, relationship that you're gonna have,

1624
01:19:56,399 --> 01:20:00,159
you gotta have that. But I think that the uh uh,

1625
01:20:00,560 --> 01:20:03,960
you gotta like the person, right. You gotta like their jokes,

1626
01:20:04,039 --> 01:20:06,920
you gotta like their laugh You gotta like things because

1627
01:20:07,680 --> 01:20:10,039
if you don't, if you're sort of on the edge.

1628
01:20:10,079 --> 01:20:12,640
I hate when she does that, and then I hate

1629
01:20:12,640 --> 01:20:15,239
when she does it, then you're gonna be off in

1630
01:20:15,319 --> 01:20:18,079
the weeds. So you gotta find it and you have

1631
01:20:18,239 --> 01:20:23,039
to be able to communicate. I I did couple's therapy

1632
01:20:23,159 --> 01:20:28,439
and it hated it for my own reasons, but I

1633
01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:31,159
just hated it. And then when I said I hated it,

1634
01:20:31,279 --> 01:20:32,920
then we wound up back at it and I had

1635
01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:34,000
to explain why I hated it.

1636
01:20:38,119 --> 01:20:43,840
Speaker 2: It's a worse. Well, it's relationships take work. But as

1637
01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:48,800
long as you like the person simple yeah, no, no,

1638
01:20:48,920 --> 01:20:51,680
you nailed it. You nailed it. You need to like

1639
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:54,560
the other person. Well, I'm saying like, yeah, you could

1640
01:20:54,600 --> 01:20:56,039
love each other, but not necessarily.

1641
01:20:56,399 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 1: You can love in a physical sense and that and this,

1642
01:21:00,960 --> 01:21:02,399
but at the bottom core.

1643
01:21:02,279 --> 01:21:04,239
Speaker 2: Of it all, you gotta like really like her your

1644
01:21:04,279 --> 01:21:05,319
best friend or not, well, you.

1645
01:21:05,359 --> 01:21:08,640
Speaker 1: Gotta be and and the best friend thing. I always go, Okay,

1646
01:21:09,279 --> 01:21:12,039
is that really true? But yeah, you gotta have you

1647
01:21:12,199 --> 01:21:16,159
gotta love talking to that person. You gotta get excited

1648
01:21:16,199 --> 01:21:16,920
when you see him.

1649
01:21:16,960 --> 01:21:20,199
Speaker 2: You gotta those right. I am always when I'm not here,

1650
01:21:20,319 --> 01:21:22,960
I'm always with my wife. If we're not working, We're

1651
01:21:23,079 --> 01:21:27,039
always together everywhere. For her, I know, right, yeah, she's

1652
01:21:27,079 --> 01:21:29,039
gonna get dan bus. When we were in New York

1653
01:21:29,079 --> 01:21:32,000
this week, I she was, She's like seeing I duc No, No,

1654
01:21:32,119 --> 01:21:37,279
we're gonna cross here across across. I saved her life

1655
01:21:37,319 --> 01:21:40,600
a couple of times. No, I found the train station too,

1656
01:21:41,159 --> 01:21:43,720
but no, but the but yeah, I mean, but we're

1657
01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:47,720
always together. The price. Oh we had cracker checks too.

1658
01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:50,760
But Lou Holtz, yeah, you know Lou Holt.

1659
01:21:51,600 --> 01:21:51,680
Speaker 1: Uh.

1660
01:21:52,119 --> 01:21:55,560
Speaker 2: He said something very very profile when he went to ESPN,

1661
01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:57,720
Like Lou Holtz became like a life coach after his

1662
01:21:58,000 --> 01:22:02,640
coaching career, and Mike Greenberg tells this great story where

1663
01:22:02,840 --> 01:22:06,960
coach Holt starts sprinking. Greenberg, by the way, I don't

1664
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:10,439
know it surprised. I'm looking at the hair lately and

1665
01:22:10,880 --> 01:22:13,399
somebody pointed out to me. I went, and he's very

1666
01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:15,880
particular in a lot of things, and he likes to

1667
01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:17,039
talk about himself a lot.

1668
01:22:17,239 --> 01:22:18,319
Speaker 1: I think he does a great job.

1669
01:22:18,399 --> 01:22:20,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he calls himself a poor man's Bob Costas,

1670
01:22:20,840 --> 01:22:22,880
and Bob Costas said, no, no, no, you're you're you're

1671
01:22:22,960 --> 01:22:25,199
damn good and what you do, and he is. But

1672
01:22:25,279 --> 01:22:28,279
Greenberg on the ESPN said, one time he's walking down

1673
01:22:28,319 --> 01:22:30,159
the hallways in Bristol and they have a huge campus

1674
01:22:30,239 --> 01:22:33,359
and lou Hole starts sprinting after him because coach, coach,

1675
01:22:33,399 --> 01:22:36,199
it's matter. He goes, do you have kids, Yeah, coach,

1676
01:22:36,279 --> 01:22:39,880
I do make sure every day of their lives they

1677
01:22:40,039 --> 01:22:45,560
know how much you love their mother. Yeah, And he goes, wow, okay, thanks,

1678
01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:49,760
thanks coached. Give you one.

1679
01:22:49,880 --> 01:22:53,520
Speaker 1: Guess guy got a compliment.

1680
01:22:54,319 --> 01:22:57,079
Speaker 2: So I know a couple whom I was at their wedding.

1681
01:22:57,680 --> 01:22:59,840
I thought they I didn't even know they had issues

1682
01:23:00,079 --> 01:23:02,880
until one day I get the call that they're getting divorced. Wait, wait,

1683
01:23:02,920 --> 01:23:06,359
time out, what when did this happen? She had breast cancer. Yeah,

1684
01:23:07,319 --> 01:23:10,319
and they get rid of it all, but then some

1685
01:23:10,399 --> 01:23:12,439
of it starts to come back in little cells, and like, okay,

1686
01:23:12,479 --> 01:23:14,000
we got to put you on this drug. It's a

1687
01:23:14,079 --> 01:23:17,359
very common canti cancer drug. It's called tamoxifin. They call

1688
01:23:17,399 --> 01:23:19,920
it the divorced drug for a reason, because all of

1689
01:23:19,960 --> 01:23:23,960
a sudden people get psychotic, and she had to take this.

1690
01:23:24,680 --> 01:23:27,640
Couple end up getting divorced, and it got to a

1691
01:23:27,680 --> 01:23:29,319
point where even like he didn't want to fight for

1692
01:23:29,399 --> 01:23:32,479
it anymore. I mean it's like, you know, so be

1693
01:23:32,520 --> 01:23:34,840
careful with the hormone therapy too. I mean that could

1694
01:23:34,840 --> 01:23:37,720
be like it's absolutely necessary. Okay, fine, I don't know.

1695
01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:40,319
Just be careful with medication because that plays a part too.

1696
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:43,960
Let's not like always say the medications is the cure.

1697
01:23:44,279 --> 01:23:45,920
Sometimes it could be the cause.

1698
01:23:47,119 --> 01:23:50,279
Speaker 1: Possibly smart enough to know all that stuff, But I

1699
01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:57,000
would be to say that if you really care on

1700
01:23:57,239 --> 01:23:59,960
both sides, you can find some common ground.

1701
01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:06,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to want it, you have to want it, Yeah, seriously, Yeah,

1702
01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:09,039
I want that By that, you know, I get it,

1703
01:24:09,279 --> 01:24:11,680
you know. I mean I I had a doctor once

1704
01:24:11,760 --> 01:24:13,760
tell me I go, hey, I'm hearing more and more

1705
01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:16,359
I'm seeing more testosterone ads. Doc, just out of curiosity.

1706
01:24:16,720 --> 01:24:18,840
You just don't even think about it. And he goes

1707
01:24:18,920 --> 01:24:21,960
about in the nineties estrogen became a thing for women

1708
01:24:22,680 --> 01:24:24,279
and they loved it. They were all on it, they

1709
01:24:24,279 --> 01:24:27,880
all wanted it. And then the two thousands andrometrial cancers

1710
01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:30,279
became a thing more and we'll pronounced than ever before

1711
01:24:30,760 --> 01:24:33,880
he goes Your body has its natural way of doing things.

1712
01:24:34,239 --> 01:24:35,640
Try not to like mess with it.

1713
01:24:36,359 --> 01:24:39,600
Speaker 1: Work out, yeah, or just work Yeah, the workout. You'll

1714
01:24:39,640 --> 01:24:42,359
be fine, all right. Danny covered a lot of grounds today.

1715
01:24:42,399 --> 01:24:46,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, from all radio stories. Football seasons covered football, college

1716
01:24:46,479 --> 01:24:49,560
football season this weekend, Yes, Miami and Notre Dame.

1717
01:24:49,760 --> 01:24:53,439
Speaker 1: Back at it, Miami and Notre Dame. That's uh, that's

1718
01:24:53,439 --> 01:24:54,039
a good kick off.

1719
01:24:54,399 --> 01:24:57,159
Speaker 2: Yeah. Then two weeks say Jeff Fisher starts, there's a season,

1720
01:24:57,239 --> 01:25:00,039
U of R starts theirs, Blackports starts theirs, and of

1721
01:25:00,079 --> 01:25:01,920
course the Buffalo Bills start there.

1722
01:25:02,800 --> 01:25:06,760
Speaker 1: That's right on a Thursday night where I'm not sure that.

1723
01:25:06,840 --> 01:25:08,960
Speaker 2: I think they're not playing Thursday.

1724
01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:12,920
Speaker 1: They're playing Sunday. Excuse me, I think that I'm I

1725
01:25:13,000 --> 01:25:16,880
think I'm going to let me let me pause this

1726
01:25:16,960 --> 01:25:19,760
for a second day. Sorry, I don't like when I

1727
01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:22,439
do that, but I gotta do this. I'm not sure.

1728
01:25:24,960 --> 01:25:29,479
I think the Ravens have been game planning all year

1729
01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:34,079
since the end of the season to beat the Buffalo Bills.

1730
01:25:34,119 --> 01:25:36,720
And I wouldn't be surprised if the Bills lose that game.

1731
01:25:36,840 --> 01:25:37,479
Speaker 2: I wouldn't either.

1732
01:25:37,800 --> 01:25:41,319
Speaker 1: And if they go fourteen and one or does it

1733
01:25:41,439 --> 01:25:44,560
sixteen and a seven, sixteen, sixteen and one, If they

1734
01:25:44,600 --> 01:25:47,439
went that, I could see it. Let them lose the

1735
01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:49,960
first game, it's fine. I don't want them losing them

1736
01:25:50,079 --> 01:25:54,920
week nineteen or whatever we get to. But I wouldn't

1737
01:25:54,920 --> 01:25:59,159
be surprised. No, I don't think anybody would. It feels

1738
01:25:59,319 --> 01:26:03,199
like they and this is their super Bowl. They need

1739
01:26:03,359 --> 01:26:08,159
to prove that they're better. And Josh Allen won the

1740
01:26:08,279 --> 01:26:11,560
m v P. There was talk that Lamar would win

1741
01:26:11,640 --> 01:26:12,000
it again.

1742
01:26:12,159 --> 01:26:15,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, he won the he won All Pro Quarterback. He

1743
01:26:15,279 --> 01:26:16,520
split the baby basically right.

1744
01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:19,920
Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is like, I just I feel

1745
01:26:20,039 --> 01:26:23,760
like they're fired up for this, although the game's at home,

1746
01:26:24,359 --> 01:26:25,239
and who knows.

1747
01:26:25,359 --> 01:26:28,199
Speaker 2: If they lose. If they lose a close game to Baltimore,

1748
01:26:28,439 --> 01:26:30,239
you can't. You can't put it in a vacuum. So

1749
01:26:30,279 --> 01:26:33,600
if they lose a close game to Baltimore, and Baltimore

1750
01:26:33,680 --> 01:26:36,079
just outplay just happens to beat them, and it's very close,

1751
01:26:36,479 --> 01:26:39,520
and it's like something here or there, okay, like a fumble,

1752
01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:41,399
and Inner said, okay, fine, I can live with that.

1753
01:26:41,840 --> 01:26:44,520
I can't live with a Bills blowout loss. And I

1754
01:26:44,560 --> 01:26:47,239
can't live with a head coaching, head scratching decision that

1755
01:26:47,359 --> 01:26:49,920
leads to them losing. Right, I can lose, but I

1756
01:26:50,000 --> 01:26:52,640
can because let's be honest, if Mark Andrews doesn't drop

1757
01:26:52,720 --> 01:26:56,760
that two point conversion in the playoff game about the

1758
01:26:56,840 --> 01:27:00,760
Bills looking for revenge this week, they beat themselves Baltimore people,

1759
01:27:01,119 --> 01:27:03,039
yet well Marlake had a couple of head.

1760
01:27:02,880 --> 01:27:06,079
Speaker 1: Scratchers did and hopefully again right, hopefully again.

1761
01:27:06,119 --> 01:27:08,319
Speaker 2: I would not be surprised if Buffalo lost this game.

1762
01:27:08,520 --> 01:27:10,279
But I will tell you this, give can I give

1763
01:27:10,279 --> 01:27:12,920
you a preview of my columnists coming up Saturday in

1764
01:27:12,920 --> 01:27:15,359
the Tisway County. It's about the dependency cycle.

1765
01:27:15,560 --> 01:27:17,279
Speaker 1: Oh oh, what are we depending on?

1766
01:27:18,000 --> 01:27:22,039
Speaker 2: Well, Josh Allen needs somebody else to base or else.

1767
01:27:22,159 --> 01:27:26,279
Eventually everyone's going to resent his boss. So that's in

1768
01:27:26,359 --> 01:27:28,199
a nutshell all right.

1769
01:27:28,359 --> 01:27:33,279
Speaker 1: Now for Dan Burrella on Bill Moran, have a wonderful

1770
01:27:33,560 --> 01:27:34,479
holiday weekend.

1771
01:27:35,399 --> 01:27:49,399
Speaker 2: We will see you on Tuesday. Cold to you.

1772
01:27:49,640 --> 01:27:53,239
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