Speaker 1: Hello, Welcome back to Vanity Farah. My name is Chris Farah,
and today I'm talking ninety Day Fiance, Season twelve, episode twelve,
So help me god. It's a you know, very fun
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I sincerely hope that you're doing well and I'm excited
to talk about these crazy as people. Okay, so and
all my love to Hannah, Armando and Kenny. So I
there's kind of from where I record this. From what
we know, there's like been daily updates and supposedly, right,
I mean hopefully right now she's out of the hospital
and everything is good, not everything, you know. I'm sorry.
My heart is with them, is what I'm trying to say. Okay,
let's get someone just like out of the way, you
know what I'm saying just like get them, let them
get them done. That's Paala and Thomas. Okay, so let
me just say this. I love Pala a lot, like
I think she has a very great personality, and she's
sort of like someone had asked her if she was
like trans on her social media and she answered in
a way that was like really classy. It's almost like
she I think she almost said she is, and or
she doesn't even or she didn't even answer in a
way that is clear, in a way that like lets
people think that she doesn't want to be late trans.
Does that make sense? So I think it's like weird
to ask someone, you know that, So she doesn't have
to owe anyone an answer or not. But the way
she did answer was I thought, great, So we think
she's great. Do we do we love? Do we think
this storyline is just so interesting? No? No, I mean
maybe you know God bless so because it's like do
we care about his weird smell allergy? And for some reason,
they had really set up the fact that she was
vegan and that he only eat meat. He only eats meat,
and it's like come up not that much. You would
think it would come up more, but like suddenly there
was this monkey wrench of like his family's situation, his
family dynamic, and then there was also like a turn
that happens in this episode. First of all, let's start
Paula gets you know, Thomas's stepmom, Reeni, re re could
you if she was like Rihanna Renie to invite her
to a beautiful day of planting seeds, plant the seeds
of the friendship and listen. I paid attention because I
feel like Renee probably knows how to keep a plant
alive because she kept Thomas alive and Thomas had a
bad mom. And you know, I kill plants. I desperately
need just like a normal houseplant to exist in my
apartment because A it's like good functui, but also b
because I have corners that could really use, you know,
just a beautiful, high level, you know, piece of decor
that takes up space vertically. That's why I said high
level that it makes sense, but like you know, sitting
in a corner that's like vertical. So I would love
a plant, but I will kill it, like I there's
like every basil plant that comes home with me like shivers,
Like it's like the opposite of taking a child home
from an orphanage, like they know what's coming, you know,
I feel bad. So anyway, having said that, we can
learn from Renie. Renie. Also, I spent the first like
episode just staring at her face, being like, who do
you look like? To me? Like what is your face?
To me? And to me, Renie looks like Amelda Staunton.
Now you're like, who's Amelda Stonton? Now some people are like, oh,
I definitely know who she is, Chris, and I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah,
she's a British actress. Who you know who you absolutely know,
like you've seen her a billion times. In fact, it's
kind of hard to pick pictures of her from the
internet because she looks so wildly different in all of
her characters. She is a brilliant actress. She's a brilliant actress,
English actress. Uh you know, just look her up. They'll
be like, oh my god, it's Rene's face. It's so
interesting because like, you know, one person is from the
UK and is a dame. She's a dame, and one
person is Reenie. Okay, so anyway, this is weird. So
here we are. Now we know the crux of what
happened in the past, which is that Paula had met
Reenie met Thomas's dad, they had informed Paula or Paula
maybe got informed from Thomas. How shitt he Thomas's mom
was in the fact that they were abandoned by her
or whatnot. Reenie raised Thomas and is like sibling. So
then after they meet Greenie Thomas's dad, then Paula and
Thomas go and meet with Thomas's mom and for whatever reason,
Thomas's relationship and vibe with his mom isn't so awkward
or cold that Paula just didn't take some pictures and
then just decide to post them and then Thomas's stepmom
saw it and then got mad at her, like social
media drama and this kind of way is so dumb. Okay,
So this is That's one thing. Also, it's like, well, Thomas,
if why isn't Thomas at all talked about in this situation,
because I guess my question is and this is why
I was confusing until this episode. Was Thomas also having
fun with his mom at that time, like the time
of all three of them hanging out. Was Thomas having
a good time with his mom? Was he upset that
Paula was taking pictures or was he okay with it?
Was he upset that she was posting the pictures or
was he okay with it? If he was okay with it,
I would like to know, so okay. So there are
dual conversations, Like I said, there's going to be a
Pala Amelda just kidding Reeny conversation, and there's gonna be
a Thomas and Thomas's dad conversation. Now when Thomas is
talking to Thomas's dad and I don't know why, I
don't know his name, obviously I don't. There are two
parts of that conversation. One is like, so sorry about
the drama with my mom coming to the wedding. It's
palace choice. Pala did that. Pala just doesn't understand that
other families are different from hers and not everyone's super
happy and wants to be around each other, and you know,
can tolerate that. You know, her family is super close.
There's all these people and they dance every weekend. We're like, oh,
is that how you feel? Because up until this point, Thomas,
I thought you were feeling you know what my mom,
you know, was going through it during my childhood. But
now we're trying to reconnect. I thought like that was
what you were coming with energetic wise, Arge was so
to put this all on her now, being like I
don't really want this, but she's pushing it is quite
a change. And then Thomas is like, but you know what, Dad,
I'll never forget who really took care of me. It
was you. Whenever I had a problem, I knew I
could call you and you would fix it. You're very secure, man,
and you know what, I felt that from my own
life as well, so I resonated with that. My dad
also is someone who I know I could count on
and not you know, and it really made a big
difference in me feeling secure as a child. Okay, He's like, yeah,
my dad is always my first call. I always felt safe.
And then you know Thomas's Dad's like, that's what being
a dad is. The highest calling is being able to
know that you're gonna be trusted. You're like, oh, that's sweet,
that's lovely. That's a lovely thing. That's like positive masculinity,
non toxic, organic masculinity. It's natural masculine. You know, I'm
trying to make a joke based upon like or you know, toxic. Okay,
we got us. I'm gonna move on, and you know
what we are from them, not a lot to say
because you know, this is a Shay Annabelle free episode,
no shame, no Hanna about So we'll do with that
what you will, which is, you know, maybe take some
time off and enjoy it, because I think that as
this season moves on, surely they have given us a
lot of crazy, fun couples, but for some reason, as
it marches forward, I can see some of the strings
or some of the producer pushed storylines that makes it
not as fun. And that's going to come up in
a couple of ways, but you know, not necessarily with
our next couple, Marissa and Edward or maybe so I'm
not quite sure, but I'm going to talk about it
a little bit with Mallory and Rashet. So but let's
talk about Marissa and Edward. Okay, So, as we know,
they've been having some problems, and mostly it's based upon
the following things. Marissa has always been preoccupied with the
fact that there is cultural differences and lifestyle differences between
her and Edward, and she was also somewhat fixated on
the financial aspect of that, and like even to the
point where her kids were kind of cognizant of it
in a way till you know, till now, once he
came she's been trying to almost in her mind, fill
the gap of how she perceives their relationship to be
with ways in which he can make her feel like
they're equal. Like in her mind, she's like, well, he
doesn't have a lot of experience. I'm going to be
paying for everything, so when he gets here, he better
do the He better do the following things really well.
A anything I ask of him, manual labor, taking care
of the boys, like jumping in like a pseudo parent
that knows the entire schedule and are specific and I
mean very particular ways of doing things, the absolute methodology
without any sort of handbook given to him, and to
like never embarrass me, but instead further my mental agenda
at all times. Like if he can do all that,
he can make up for the perceived, my perceived lack
of what he has. Like it feels like he came in.
This is what I guess I'm trying to say in
a lot of words. In her mind, he came in
with a debt that he had to repay in all
of these weird micro ways better obviously not just like
giving someone money, and obviously does not like other stuff
like sex. Like she's like, I want you to be
able to fix things around my house, and I want
you to make my life just easy, and I want
to feel good around you at all times. And I
haven't seen a way in which Edward hasn't done that.
Besides like something very obviously did he fix the gate? Right?
No he didn't, did she though, like give him the
materials to do so, or tell him what she wanted
or and also I guess in my mind, like if
you want him to do handiwork around your home, I
would assume that you would hire a professional handyman at
first and be like, hey, Edward, watch how he does things,
or get to know him so that like, if you
know we need something, I can just ask you to
do it. But like she had great expectations in certain
situation suations like her expectations of him knowing their morning
routine with her sons, or that she would want him
to wear matching outfits to her, or that he would
be expected to powerwalk at a middle aged suburban mom
power walk pace that wears the weights around her ankles,
all that stuff. You know what I'm saying, Like, I
wouldn't expect someone to know those things she does, and
she wants him to not just know it, perform it
perfectly because he should understand. He's at a debt and
he just thought that he was going to come be
with someone who he's like, enjoyed, who makes him feel like,
you know, probably very sexual and very successful sexual, and
she doesn't. And she's mad at herself and like mad
at him, but also like mostly mad at herself. But
instead of wanting to change anything about herself, she wants
him to change or for him to understand her better,
or for him to leave one of those things truly.
But until then, here we are. This is the episode
of people trying on dresses. Maybe we'll get more episodes
of that, Like, yeah, I'm assuming that at some point
Annabelle's gonna have to try on a dress in you know,
Paducah with her best friends Angie and Alison and Nicole.
But you know, here we are, So Marissa is trying
on her dress at guess what place, Kleinfeldt where she
no longer works. So I'm like, is that awkward. Anyway,
we have to get Dorothy on the tell, all right,
because Dorothy makes an appearance. Dorothy's obviously her work wife.
You know, we know her, we know what she looks like,
you know, we know her defining feature. I'm not going
to say it. She has her final fitting for her dress,
and besides Dorothy, she has her other friend there. And
both friends aren't like super calm and super you know,
secure in this, and you know neither is Marissa. Marissa
Shirley is and Marissa just is hot on the heels.
I'm telling all of her Pennsylvania friends how she's over
it and she's made a mistake, and she's embarrassed that
she made a mistake. And now she has to tell
her New York friends that she guess what is seventy
five percent sure, twenty five percenture, She's made a mistake.
I'm say I'm a quitcher, mathis Hart. They're like, we
don't know if she's gonna want to do it. Now.
When we see her dress, she says it's sexy and sophisticated.
It's surely very Panina Tourney looking unlined body con kind
of like pillar. I mean, yeah, like you know it
does look unlined. It's just the kind of unlined, kind
of lacey dress that looks like lingerie, but specifically like
two thousand and ten, twenty eleven. It's so funny. There's
a couple of dress styles right that like have taken
us over in the past, like twenty five years, and
we'll talk about Malory's dress style too, and why that
had a resurgence. You know, don't worry, but it's interesting. So,
I mean, her dress wasn't bad Marissa's, but you know,
she just really is like a big fan. She's like,
it's just like me, sexy and sophisticated or like, okay, yeah,
she really has an idea of herself and so when
things don't further that idea in that image in her mind,
she's upset about it. And she liked the idea of
just having someone who fucks her really well, who makes
her feel super sexy and it's hot and you know,
hot younger than her like be around. But at the
same time, she can't manage what feels like herringsnxiety day
by day in his presence, nor does she like appreciate
whatever he's doing in his life, nor is he you know,
like given the space to do something I guess productive enough.
She doesn't find him a productive and I need to
know what his idea of productive or productivity is or
what they had talked about. It feels like she wishes
she could just give him a list of chores around
the house. I wonder if she has. I wonder if
it's on a whiteboard. Anyway, So back to her friends
at clin Fel's, They're like, listen, we know why you're
in him. It's for the sex. And she's like, yep,
you're like I know, we get it. So basically she
starts to have a conversation where she wants them to
validate something, which is this, she's working in New York
for a long time. She decided not to bring him,
so there is obviously some space between them, and she's
happy about it. She's happy about a little bak. Meanwhile,
we're like, he's just stuck in Pennsylvania with her kids?
Are the kids with her ex? Is he just in
that big ass holm by himself? Also, can we see
what that looks like? Is he having the time of
his life? Is he power walking? Anyway? So, but in
you know, New York, where we are with her she's like, yeah,
he's just so demanding, so needy. It's like, he knows
I'm working, so I've been busy, so I haven't been
like texting him a thousand times a day. We're like, okay,
but have you texted him at all? And she's like,
and he's mad that I haven't called him at night. So,
you know, like I just was about to go to
bed and then I get this text being like, well,
hope you had a good day, And I know what
it means with the tone. I'm like, but the way
you're sounding, it makes it seem like you straight up
just didn't come unicate at all with your fiance all
day or that if you did, it was like once
in the very beginning and it was very short and
you didn't ask any questions about them. It was just like, yeah,
I'm going to work, and then you just didn't text
them later. So yeah, at the end of the day,
they're like, oh, I hope you had it, because that
person knows you're laying in bed, like we're you know,
at some points you're laying in bed or you're just chilling,
you're just you know, waiting for something, you're just putting
on teeth, like you do have some downtime. You can't
just be always like working out. You're not just in
your one bedroom Upper West Side doing keegels maniacally into
the night until you pass out, like without any moment
to just text this man back. I don't know. I'm
just like not on her side obviously, and not about
you know completely. I just think that you didn't use
she was digmatized. I think she wanted her cake to
and eat it too. Okay, So basically next scene is
that she's dressed up super fancy and she is by
the bay. You know, I'm not quite side of the
She's on one of the sides of Manhattan. I'm not
quite sure. And he is coming to that place to
meet her, and we're like, wait, that's goa say, like
it sounds like she sent for him and he's just
going to come by himself. But then we realized that
he had asked her if they could meet up and
he got himself to New York. That part was interesting
because remember how like last time, he didn't know anything,
he even have his walle and she drove him there.
So what he just took the train and by himself,
and now he knows how to use like the turnstiles
and all that stuff. Or did the producers drive him.
I mean he came from the metro, so at some point,
I don't know if the producers like, we'll drive you there.
Just run to that metro, come back out, come up
the steps like you did it yourself, buddy. I don't know,
I need to know. But he comes out, he comes
with coffee. She's like, you get this for me. He's
like yeah, because he you know, his like defining feature
so far is that he thinks of her and loves
her constantly, just not to the exact way she wants
it all the time. So then it's like, yeah, he
wanted to meet with her, and you know, she obviously
had let it be known that she was second guessing
this situation, and she obviously has let it known, let
it be known to two sets of friends and two
separate states that she's kind of over it. And he
probably has heard that come back to him in some
way or something, or by the producers. To imagine to
having the conversation with all those women at a party
that you are at, how you have made a mistake
on stuff, and like now it's like weeks. A week later,
she's gone. So anyway, He's like, yeah, you know, how
do I don't feel good with you? Not at all,
not at all. You certainly haven't helped. She's like yeah, yeah.
He's like, you're really cold all the time, and you've
changed so much. You know me, I love love, I
love affection, and I can't be begging for love and affection,
especially because I know you and you've been in a
place where you've freely given it to me. There's been
parts of our relationship where you've been very touchy feely.
Now she likes sort of a is like, and that's
just you, that's not me, which is interesting because he
just got done saying that he knew that she had
that in her. Now, relationships go with the you know,
have a flow to them, surely, but it is hard
when you have like one person who loves physical attention,
physical touch, affection, intimacy and a person who doesn't. But
I I can see a world in which she really
like turns off. At the same time, you can't be
into someone and be attracted to someone if you aren't
feeling those vibes, you know, and it's like hard to fake.
And I think that's basically what he's feeling. I think
that he's I think that she has unfortunately slowly gotten
the ick if you you know, let me use that phrase,
and he feels it, and so she can't do all
the things she used to do when she didn't have
the ick, like fuck him, like touch him, like kiss him,
like hug him, like play with his penie, you know,
like all the things. You know what they are, but
you do, like me smelling them out for you. Okay.
So he's like, I fell in love with you because
you were loving So how about this Now I'm getting
the eke ick from you for having the inch from me,
I guess, and not giving me you know what I love,
which is love. And she really can't say anything because
she's right. He's right, like you know, he's right. And
at the same time she can be like, well, I
wanted to be more productive, and it's like, well, okay,
but what was like You would have to really show
us what that looked like. The producers haven't showed us
like him just laying around on the couch all day
playing video games like I would. I would like to
think that he does some stuff around the house like
you know, maybe not fix the gait perfectly, but I'm
assuming that he changes the laundry and like you know,
loads the dishwasher and unloads it, and like he says
that she cooks. I'm actually surprised that he doesn't cook
more because I don't think. I don't believe that she's
a great cook. I've seen them hardboiled eggs. Maybe he's
just I don't know, I don't know what. Maybe he
is just doing nothing then when I would need to
know why we haven't seen more of that. Also, I
totally blacked out when he did say that he had
been married before to an American woman for some reason.
I don't know why perimenopause really comes for you. So
just you know, just what, That's what life is like,
really crazy. Okay, my babes, let's move on. Okay, let's
get Meto and Debbie done. Meto and Debbie, this is
I mean, this is like a horror film. This is
a horror film like back Doors or Obsession has nothing
on this Meto Debbie situation. For me, I also feel
like I don't know top from bottom and it's giving
me unco like it's giving me peril. Okay, So Obviously,
she's outside losing her mind because she has brought the
love of her life, Meto shakespeare An actor old Globe
touring actor Meadow Keneth Bronna could only direct someone as
talented as Medo in a production of any Shakespeare play,
any play, to a chapel that she's found on Google
for them to get married, because they have to get
married for him to stay. And the one thing that
she has wanted besides you know, I guess she's wanted
him to say I love you and for him to
propose slash to get married to her. And the entire
thing that's happened instead is we've seen him disrespect her
entirely and for her to keep groveling and crawling back
to him, much to the dismay of us. And we
would love and can't wait to hear what her friends think.
The comments of her fun friends that know this world
but Noah Beignet when they see one, they know how
yummy Beignet works, and there's lots so we like them. Okay,
She's obviously very upset because after she brought him to
this chapel where she thought that he would be like, Wow,
what a great green mom I can't wait to get
married here. You know, we get the way. Thank you
for bringing me here. You know. He was like, I
think it's time for me to go back to Egypt.
And then she ran outside, and what I can only
describe now is gave us like a Tennessee Williams style
Southern mellow drama performance of like the kind of crying
where it turns into coughing. Like it's like so like
she is performing in a way where I'm like, mito,
are you taking notes? Are you taking this? No? What
I think Debbie is an amazing actor. If this is real,
and if like, if this is okay, if okay, sorry,
if this isn't real, if this is real, this is
like emotional abuse in the craziest way, watching like this
is crazy okay. So basically having said that, let me
get to the point. I'm sorry, I'm like talking around it.
She's upset, she's crying, she's really going outside, She's screaming.
She can't believe this is happening. She's like, I thought
his tone changed quick, and we're like his tone he
barely talked the whole time. She's like, I have to
get out. I can't breathe. He's coming out and he's like,
de dy dd baby looked at me, and we're like, nedy, baby,
look at you. And then he like tries to get
her to look at him. She won't. She's like stop it. No.
He then gets on one fucking knee one knee, takes
out a box. There's a ring in it, and we're like,
oh my god, this and then he won't. She still
won't look at him because she's so so upset. So
then he has to put the ring down on the
ground and then walk over to her, and then we
see affection between him and her, the kind of affection
that Edward could only dream of. Anyway, Mito like goes
behind her starts kissing her neck. We're like, what are
you doing? She's so confused. She's like, no, is stumba
or not? You know, You're just like, oh my god.
She says, don't do this. She cries. Then he gets
back on his knee. He says, I got you. She collapses.
She cough cries again. She can't believe that he has
done one of his classic Egyptian pranks again, the old
It's over JK, will you be my life? That thing?
How unsecure? How unstable could you? I can I cannot
imagine a world in which I've been waiting for a
man to propose to me. A that world Pete alone,
b this man is like, it's over, I gotta leave you,
and I like, obviously didn't see it coming for some reason,
this is not in the same situation because Debbie should
have seen this coming. But anyway, God bless Then I'm like, okay,
trying to get over that, and then he's like just kidding.
I want to be an asshole and I want to
marry you. I can't imagine being like good, Oh, I
can't wait for you to be my husband, my emotionally
abusive will turn on a dime don like sorry dime
psycho abusive, crazy husband who doesn't care about me or
my feelings at all? What a life? What a future
that is like for us? I can't wait for this
to be it? I mean I cannot what is why?
What world would you say yes to this? But she does?
So that is like why. I'm like, is this real?
And if this isn't real, then is she not? I
think a very good actress. I think a good actress.
How could I mean? Is what please? Just find me whatever,
shoot me an email where you're like, I also don't
think this is an email, or like a comment where
you're like, I can't believe this is real. This is
so hard to fathom. I just I know people make
decisions like this is what I think. This is hard
for me to decipher. Okay, I understand that I overly
protect myself from the world, from relationships, from my heart
getting broken. All of that I know I do. So
is the opposite so wildly confusing to me that I
can't think it to be real, Like that someone would
put themselves in this kind of peril, that someone would
ignore such grave red flags to experience what could be
astronomical pain from someone who seemingly doesn't care about your
emotional wellbeing. Are you just going to throw up throw
caution into the wind and like give all that up
for that? Like I just it's that's what I know
that I do well too much, but and I know
sometin people don't do enough. But like, what is it?
Is it just somewhere in the middle that the balance lies.
I do need you to tell me or do you
think this is fake? Okay? So when he gets the ring,
he tries to put it on her, and he's like, oh,
I didn't know what size, but it's okay because well, yeah,
because she can, you know, get whatever resize. He's like,
because you lose weight. His reaction and solution to this
is for her to change herself to fit into whatever
fucking ring size he bought. You know who probably knows
her ring size, her daughter. I wonder if he's ever
had a conversation, like a good conversation with Devin, Devin
would have been. It would have been really easy for
Devin to give him her mom's ring size. Just get
one of her many rings. She's been on God's greener
for a long enough time. She has rings on her size.
She has like a you know, some sort of like
jewelry plate slash holder she keeps in her top drawer.
You could have just gone in there and get it,
but it goes back to something else interesting. So yeah,
obviously this is you know, wildly egotistical for him, like, oh,
she lose weight. Everyone knows when you lose weight, usually
you lose enough weight to lose weight in your fingers.
You know how much weight you have to lose to
lose weight in your fingers? I mean she'd have to
lose like twenty five pounds and she doesn't have twenty
five pounds to lose. She's like, you know, a slender lady.
I don't know how weight actually works. I mean I actually, yeah,
I really don't know how weight works. I know that
when I gain weight, it's a lot in my stomach
and my arms and face, and then when I lose weight,
I get arms and face first, and then I takes
a long time for me to lose weight in my stomach.
But yeah, but like fingers, no, okay. He then says
something nice. He's like I complete her, and we're like, well, yeah,
we know that you would feel that way. And then
he says, and she completes me. And for a moment
where like that's probably the most humble and the most
vulnerable you've ever been to ever even consider that you
might not be whole, although you might not need something,
or that she might do something profound or divine for you,
Like I just it felt like a different person, or
like who's this? It would be annoying. It's annoying for
me to not get the full spectrum of human behavior
when there's like a docu series, so I don't want
to have like an archetype of a villain if there's
like cutting room floor footage of someone being a normal,
nice person. I also don't want contrived moments of drama
when you know, specifically there could just have been more
money in the production to have more hours of them
filming and then just catch which is like natural that
happens because often on the show we get while the
cameras were not filming, or the other night or last
night kind of situations where then we get drama that
unfolded that we weren't privy to, and it's like, well,
then why are we watching the show or whatever. It's like,
just this show is doing well enough, is successful enough
that I would rather have less seasons and just enough
production to get real drama and real people doing real shit.
So that's why I'm like for him. If he's not
a villainous villain that is wildly self serving, and if
there's been moments of him being nice or kind or
gracious or in love with her or affectionate towards her,
it feels like we would be stupid to continue to
watch if we found out that existed the whole time
and was kept from us, because it does feel like
we deserve the full picture, and by we, I mean
the audience. I'm just like, what is the plan? It
feels like there are two options to this. We now
take at face value that this man has a loving
heart that has loved her, that feels like very thankful
and appreciative that Debbie is in his life and you know,
like cares about her and wants to get married, that
life began with her kind of coming into his life,
which is what that whole completes me kind of means.
Or he decides in a fraction of a second what
his next move's going to be, or he does yeah,
it just it's so interesting, or he yeah, it's like
what is his end goal? When they're kissing, she's like,
oh my god, baby, say it to me, say what
I want to hear he's And then we thought it's
like the I love you thing because he was like,
will you marry me? But he never really was like
I love you. He's like, will you marry me? She's
like in Arabic and he's like, whatever had I on
how to say will you marry me? In Arabic? But
he didn't say on a Behebic, which is how you
say I love you, and Arabid is such a flowery language.
I think I've said this before. I feel like it's
crazy to not have someone like be constantly saying on
a behebic and or a bibie to someone that is
your fiance, and you feel like, I don't say that.
Everyone says it. You don't say no, one says it.
That's like being like, yeah, I don't like this is
to be someone who speaks Arabic and not say those
words to me feels like an American or English person
English speaking person being like I don't I don't use
that word, the word the that's how much you hear it.
You're like, you don't use the word the. I don't
use it. I step around it. I need a apple
and apple please pass a remote that's around you. To me,
you're like, what you side step the word the in
the English language. That's how much you avoid that word
everyone else says all the time. Makes no sense, Like
that's why like mitosole, like, I don't think that Egyptian
people play that many pranks. You would have to tell
me I'm not Egyptian. Tell me if you are Egyptian.
Besides the fact that you know, a lot of Egyptian
people have been on my social media, it's being like,
we don't know him. We go to the movies a lot.
You know what we're doing. We're seeing Odyssey and Imax
this weekend. You know what, we didn't see Meto in imax, Honey,
not Meto and thirty five millimeter not Meto in any millimeter.
I gotta know film more. Isn't it interesting that like
seventy millimeter is twice thirty five? So does that you know? Okay,
you're okay, you know what I mean? Thirty five millimeter
and then seventy millimeter. Okay, so IMAX means seventy millimeter?
Is that what it means? Or just no? Two different things.
But Odyssey's both both captured in Imax format and also
a big screen format. Alison, I'm not quite your but
I'm going to find out before when you're hearing this.
I've already already found out at least what looks like
in that format. But still, God bless Okay, Anyway, that's
really what happens for them in this episode, and we
know again because we've seen it, that they get married,
but they have a marriage license in these streets. So
this is how this went down. And I wonder why
Meto allowed himself to be the villain. I think it
would have been much better for Meadow's career if he
had cast himself as the victim. If Debbie had been
like a very controlling and she could have been wildly
crazy white lady that like you know, is just passport
brawing her way I don't know, around and got like
a young tour guy to come to America. Like, if
he had painted himself as the victim, surely I would
think would have a better chance at parlaying that into superstardom.
We like to be on someone's side. I just don't
really see that like anyone, you know, this is Peace
really turned people off. It's funny because him and Katie
are the absolute villains of the season, which is much
to Allison's dismay. Alison of Shane Annabel but no, but
she's really up there though. Okay, So that ends part
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