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Speaker 1: Hello, Welcome back to Vanity Farah. My name is Chris Farah,

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and today I'm talking ninety Day Fiance, Season twelve, episode twelve,

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So help me god. It's a you know, very fun

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probably two part recap because I have a lot to say.

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Thank you guys so much for being here. What's been happening,

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How are you everything good? I know that I've been

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a little behind on my love after lock up and

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my this is Polly is coming and I'm so sorry.

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I just you know, ebbs and flows of life. However,

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I hope all is well with you. It's hot everywhere

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mostly and so if you're hot, you know, like be

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drinking water. That's what I'm going to say. As your

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doctor and also friend, I have some fun things coming up.

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I'll be traveling in the end of July and August,

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but episodes will still be coming, so don't even worry

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about it. But I am excited to get out of

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La for a second and see this beautiful country. Anyway, exactly,

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I have a lot to say about this episode, and

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there are some looks and there's some fashional and so

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your things, think about them, and then we'll get in.

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I sincerely hope that you're doing well and I'm excited

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to talk about these crazy as people. Okay, so and

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all my love to Hannah, Armando and Kenny. So I

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there's kind of from where I record this. From what

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we know, there's like been daily updates and supposedly, right,

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I mean hopefully right now she's out of the hospital

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and everything is good, not everything, you know. I'm sorry.

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My heart is with them, is what I'm trying to say. Okay,

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let's get someone just like out of the way, you

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know what I'm saying just like get them, let them

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get them done. That's Paala and Thomas. Okay, so let

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me just say this. I love Pala a lot, like

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I think she has a very great personality, and she's

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sort of like someone had asked her if she was

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like trans on her social media and she answered in

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a way that was like really classy. It's almost like

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she I think she almost said she is, and or

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she doesn't even or she didn't even answer in a

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way that is clear, in a way that like lets

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people think that she doesn't want to be late trans.

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Does that make sense? So I think it's like weird

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to ask someone, you know that, So she doesn't have

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to owe anyone an answer or not. But the way

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she did answer was I thought, great, So we think

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she's great. Do we do we love? Do we think

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this storyline is just so interesting? No? No, I mean

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maybe you know God bless so because it's like do

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we care about his weird smell allergy? And for some reason,

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they had really set up the fact that she was

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vegan and that he only eat meat. He only eats meat,

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and it's like come up not that much. You would

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think it would come up more, but like suddenly there

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was this monkey wrench of like his family's situation, his

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family dynamic, and then there was also like a turn

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that happens in this episode. First of all, let's start

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Paula gets you know, Thomas's stepmom, Reeni, re re could

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you if she was like Rihanna Renie to invite her

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to a beautiful day of planting seeds, plant the seeds

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of the friendship and listen. I paid attention because I

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feel like Renee probably knows how to keep a plant

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alive because she kept Thomas alive and Thomas had a

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bad mom. And you know, I kill plants. I desperately

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need just like a normal houseplant to exist in my

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apartment because A it's like good functui, but also b

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because I have corners that could really use, you know,

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just a beautiful, high level, you know, piece of decor

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that takes up space vertically. That's why I said high

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level that it makes sense, but like you know, sitting

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in a corner that's like vertical. So I would love

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a plant, but I will kill it, like I there's

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like every basil plant that comes home with me like shivers,

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Like it's like the opposite of taking a child home

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from an orphanage, like they know what's coming, you know,

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I feel bad. So anyway, having said that, we can

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learn from Renie. Renie. Also, I spent the first like

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episode just staring at her face, being like, who do

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you look like? To me? Like what is your face?

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To me? And to me, Renie looks like Amelda Staunton.

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Now you're like, who's Amelda Stonton? Now some people are like, oh,

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I definitely know who she is, Chris, and I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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she's a British actress. Who you know who you absolutely know,

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like you've seen her a billion times. In fact, it's

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kind of hard to pick pictures of her from the

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internet because she looks so wildly different in all of

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her characters. She is a brilliant actress. She's a brilliant actress,

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English actress. Uh you know, just look her up. They'll

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be like, oh my god, it's Rene's face. It's so

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interesting because like, you know, one person is from the

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UK and is a dame. She's a dame, and one

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person is Reenie. Okay, so anyway, this is weird. So

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here we are. Now we know the crux of what

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happened in the past, which is that Paula had met

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Reenie met Thomas's dad, they had informed Paula or Paula

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maybe got informed from Thomas. How shitt he Thomas's mom

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was in the fact that they were abandoned by her

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or whatnot. Reenie raised Thomas and is like sibling. So

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then after they meet Greenie Thomas's dad, then Paula and

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Thomas go and meet with Thomas's mom and for whatever reason,

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Thomas's relationship and vibe with his mom isn't so awkward

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or cold that Paula just didn't take some pictures and

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then just decide to post them and then Thomas's stepmom

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saw it and then got mad at her, like social

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media drama and this kind of way is so dumb. Okay,

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So this is That's one thing. Also, it's like, well, Thomas,

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if why isn't Thomas at all talked about in this situation,

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because I guess my question is and this is why

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I was confusing until this episode. Was Thomas also having

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fun with his mom at that time, like the time

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of all three of them hanging out. Was Thomas having

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a good time with his mom? Was he upset that

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Paula was taking pictures or was he okay with it?

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Was he upset that she was posting the pictures or

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was he okay with it? If he was okay with it,

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I would like to know, so okay. So there are

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dual conversations, Like I said, there's going to be a

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Pala Amelda just kidding Reeny conversation, and there's gonna be

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a Thomas and Thomas's dad conversation. Now when Thomas is

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talking to Thomas's dad and I don't know why, I

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don't know his name, obviously I don't. There are two

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parts of that conversation. One is like, so sorry about

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the drama with my mom coming to the wedding. It's

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palace choice. Pala did that. Pala just doesn't understand that

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other families are different from hers and not everyone's super

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happy and wants to be around each other, and you know,

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can tolerate that. You know, her family is super close.

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There's all these people and they dance every weekend. We're like, oh,

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is that how you feel? Because up until this point, Thomas,

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I thought you were feeling you know what my mom,

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you know, was going through it during my childhood. But

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now we're trying to reconnect. I thought like that was

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what you were coming with energetic wise, Arge was so

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to put this all on her now, being like I

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don't really want this, but she's pushing it is quite

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a change. And then Thomas is like, but you know what, Dad,

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I'll never forget who really took care of me. It

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was you. Whenever I had a problem, I knew I

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could call you and you would fix it. You're very secure, man,

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and you know what, I felt that from my own

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life as well, so I resonated with that. My dad

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also is someone who I know I could count on

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and not you know, and it really made a big

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difference in me feeling secure as a child. Okay, He's like, yeah,

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my dad is always my first call. I always felt safe.

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And then you know Thomas's Dad's like, that's what being

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a dad is. The highest calling is being able to

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know that you're gonna be trusted. You're like, oh, that's sweet,

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that's lovely. That's a lovely thing. That's like positive masculinity,

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non toxic, organic masculinity. It's natural masculine. You know, I'm

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trying to make a joke based upon like or you know, toxic. Okay,

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we got us. I'm gonna move on, and you know

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what we are from them, not a lot to say

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because you know, this is a Shay Annabelle free episode,

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no shame, no Hanna about So we'll do with that

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what you will, which is, you know, maybe take some

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time off and enjoy it, because I think that as

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this season moves on, surely they have given us a

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lot of crazy, fun couples, but for some reason, as

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it marches forward, I can see some of the strings

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or some of the producer pushed storylines that makes it

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not as fun. And that's going to come up in

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a couple of ways, but you know, not necessarily with

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our next couple, Marissa and Edward or maybe so I'm

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not quite sure, but I'm going to talk about it

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a little bit with Mallory and Rashet. So but let's

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talk about Marissa and Edward. Okay, So, as we know,

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they've been having some problems, and mostly it's based upon

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the following things. Marissa has always been preoccupied with the

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fact that there is cultural differences and lifestyle differences between

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her and Edward, and she was also somewhat fixated on

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the financial aspect of that, and like even to the

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point where her kids were kind of cognizant of it

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in a way till you know, till now, once he

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came she's been trying to almost in her mind, fill

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the gap of how she perceives their relationship to be

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with ways in which he can make her feel like

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they're equal. Like in her mind, she's like, well, he

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doesn't have a lot of experience. I'm going to be

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paying for everything, so when he gets here, he better

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do the He better do the following things really well.

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A anything I ask of him, manual labor, taking care

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of the boys, like jumping in like a pseudo parent

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that knows the entire schedule and are specific and I

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mean very particular ways of doing things, the absolute methodology

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without any sort of handbook given to him, and to

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like never embarrass me, but instead further my mental agenda

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at all times. Like if he can do all that,

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he can make up for the perceived, my perceived lack

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of what he has. Like it feels like he came in.

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This is what I guess I'm trying to say in

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a lot of words. In her mind, he came in

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with a debt that he had to repay in all

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of these weird micro ways better obviously not just like

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giving someone money, and obviously does not like other stuff

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like sex. Like she's like, I want you to be

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able to fix things around my house, and I want

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you to make my life just easy, and I want

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to feel good around you at all times. And I

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haven't seen a way in which Edward hasn't done that.

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Besides like something very obviously did he fix the gate? Right?

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No he didn't, did she though, like give him the

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materials to do so, or tell him what she wanted

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or and also I guess in my mind, like if

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you want him to do handiwork around your home, I

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would assume that you would hire a professional handyman at

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first and be like, hey, Edward, watch how he does things,

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or get to know him so that like, if you

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know we need something, I can just ask you to

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do it. But like she had great expectations in certain

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situation suations like her expectations of him knowing their morning

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routine with her sons, or that she would want him

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to wear matching outfits to her, or that he would

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be expected to powerwalk at a middle aged suburban mom

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power walk pace that wears the weights around her ankles,

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all that stuff. You know what I'm saying, Like, I

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wouldn't expect someone to know those things she does, and

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she wants him to not just know it, perform it

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perfectly because he should understand. He's at a debt and

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he just thought that he was going to come be

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with someone who he's like, enjoyed, who makes him feel like,

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you know, probably very sexual and very successful sexual, and

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she doesn't. And she's mad at herself and like mad

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at him, but also like mostly mad at herself. But

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instead of wanting to change anything about herself, she wants

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him to change or for him to understand her better,

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or for him to leave one of those things truly.

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But until then, here we are. This is the episode

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of people trying on dresses. Maybe we'll get more episodes

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of that, Like, yeah, I'm assuming that at some point

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Annabelle's gonna have to try on a dress in you know,

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Paducah with her best friends Angie and Alison and Nicole.

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But you know, here we are, So Marissa is trying

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on her dress at guess what place, Kleinfeldt where she

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no longer works. So I'm like, is that awkward. Anyway,

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we have to get Dorothy on the tell, all right,

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because Dorothy makes an appearance. Dorothy's obviously her work wife.

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You know, we know her, we know what she looks like,

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you know, we know her defining feature. I'm not going

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to say it. She has her final fitting for her dress,

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and besides Dorothy, she has her other friend there. And

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both friends aren't like super calm and super you know,

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secure in this, and you know neither is Marissa. Marissa

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Shirley is and Marissa just is hot on the heels.

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I'm telling all of her Pennsylvania friends how she's over

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it and she's made a mistake, and she's embarrassed that

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she made a mistake. And now she has to tell

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her New York friends that she guess what is seventy

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five percent sure, twenty five percenture, She's made a mistake.

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I'm say I'm a quitcher, mathis Hart. They're like, we

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don't know if she's gonna want to do it. Now.

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When we see her dress, she says it's sexy and sophisticated.

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It's surely very Panina Tourney looking unlined body con kind

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of like pillar. I mean, yeah, like you know it

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does look unlined. It's just the kind of unlined, kind

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of lacey dress that looks like lingerie, but specifically like

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two thousand and ten, twenty eleven. It's so funny. There's

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a couple of dress styles right that like have taken

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us over in the past, like twenty five years, and

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we'll talk about Malory's dress style too, and why that

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had a resurgence. You know, don't worry, but it's interesting. So,

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I mean, her dress wasn't bad Marissa's, but you know,

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she just really is like a big fan. She's like,

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it's just like me, sexy and sophisticated or like, okay, yeah,

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she really has an idea of herself and so when

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things don't further that idea in that image in her mind,

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she's upset about it. And she liked the idea of

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just having someone who fucks her really well, who makes

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her feel super sexy and it's hot and you know,

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hot younger than her like be around. But at the

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same time, she can't manage what feels like herringsnxiety day

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by day in his presence, nor does she like appreciate

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whatever he's doing in his life, nor is he you know,

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like given the space to do something I guess productive enough.

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She doesn't find him a productive and I need to

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know what his idea of productive or productivity is or

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what they had talked about. It feels like she wishes

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she could just give him a list of chores around

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the house. I wonder if she has. I wonder if

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it's on a whiteboard. Anyway, So back to her friends

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at clin Fel's, They're like, listen, we know why you're

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in him. It's for the sex. And she's like, yep,

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you're like I know, we get it. So basically she

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starts to have a conversation where she wants them to

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validate something, which is this, she's working in New York

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for a long time. She decided not to bring him,

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so there is obviously some space between them, and she's

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happy about it. She's happy about a little bak. Meanwhile,

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we're like, he's just stuck in Pennsylvania with her kids?

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Are the kids with her ex? Is he just in

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that big ass holm by himself? Also, can we see

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what that looks like? Is he having the time of

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his life? Is he power walking? Anyway? So, but in

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you know, New York, where we are with her she's like, yeah,

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he's just so demanding, so needy. It's like, he knows

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I'm working, so I've been busy, so I haven't been

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like texting him a thousand times a day. We're like, okay,

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but have you texted him at all? And she's like,

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and he's mad that I haven't called him at night. So,

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you know, like I just was about to go to

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bed and then I get this text being like, well,

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hope you had a good day, And I know what

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it means with the tone. I'm like, but the way

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you're sounding, it makes it seem like you straight up

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just didn't come unicate at all with your fiance all

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day or that if you did, it was like once

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in the very beginning and it was very short and

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you didn't ask any questions about them. It was just like, yeah,

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I'm going to work, and then you just didn't text

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them later. So yeah, at the end of the day,

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they're like, oh, I hope you had it, because that

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person knows you're laying in bed, like we're you know,

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at some points you're laying in bed or you're just chilling,

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you're just you know, waiting for something, you're just putting

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on teeth, like you do have some downtime. You can't

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just be always like working out. You're not just in

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your one bedroom Upper West Side doing keegels maniacally into

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the night until you pass out, like without any moment

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to just text this man back. I don't know. I'm

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just like not on her side obviously, and not about

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you know completely. I just think that you didn't use

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she was digmatized. I think she wanted her cake to

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and eat it too. Okay, So basically next scene is

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that she's dressed up super fancy and she is by

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the bay. You know, I'm not quite side of the

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She's on one of the sides of Manhattan. I'm not

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quite sure. And he is coming to that place to

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meet her, and we're like, wait, that's goa say, like

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it sounds like she sent for him and he's just

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going to come by himself. But then we realized that

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he had asked her if they could meet up and

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he got himself to New York. That part was interesting

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because remember how like last time, he didn't know anything,

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he even have his walle and she drove him there.

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So what he just took the train and by himself,

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and now he knows how to use like the turnstiles

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and all that stuff. Or did the producers drive him.

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I mean he came from the metro, so at some point,

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I don't know if the producers like, we'll drive you there.

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Just run to that metro, come back out, come up

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the steps like you did it yourself, buddy. I don't know,

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I need to know. But he comes out, he comes

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with coffee. She's like, you get this for me. He's

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like yeah, because he you know, his like defining feature

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so far is that he thinks of her and loves

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her constantly, just not to the exact way she wants

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it all the time. So then it's like, yeah, he

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wanted to meet with her, and you know, she obviously

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had let it be known that she was second guessing

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this situation, and she obviously has let it known, let

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it be known to two sets of friends and two

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separate states that she's kind of over it. And he

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probably has heard that come back to him in some

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way or something, or by the producers. To imagine to

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having the conversation with all those women at a party

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that you are at, how you have made a mistake

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on stuff, and like now it's like weeks. A week later,

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she's gone. So anyway, He's like, yeah, you know, how

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do I don't feel good with you? Not at all,

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not at all. You certainly haven't helped. She's like yeah, yeah.

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He's like, you're really cold all the time, and you've

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changed so much. You know me, I love love, I

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love affection, and I can't be begging for love and affection,

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especially because I know you and you've been in a

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place where you've freely given it to me. There's been

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parts of our relationship where you've been very touchy feely.

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Now she likes sort of a is like, and that's

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just you, that's not me, which is interesting because he

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just got done saying that he knew that she had

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that in her. Now, relationships go with the you know,

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have a flow to them, surely, but it is hard

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when you have like one person who loves physical attention,

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physical touch, affection, intimacy and a person who doesn't. But

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I I can see a world in which she really

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like turns off. At the same time, you can't be

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into someone and be attracted to someone if you aren't

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feeling those vibes, you know, and it's like hard to fake.

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And I think that's basically what he's feeling. I think

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that he's I think that she has unfortunately slowly gotten

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the ick if you you know, let me use that phrase,

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and he feels it, and so she can't do all

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the things she used to do when she didn't have

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the ick, like fuck him, like touch him, like kiss him,

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like hug him, like play with his penie, you know,

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like all the things. You know what they are, but

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you do, like me smelling them out for you. Okay.

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So he's like, I fell in love with you because

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you were loving So how about this Now I'm getting

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the eke ick from you for having the inch from me,

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I guess, and not giving me you know what I love,

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which is love. And she really can't say anything because

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she's right. He's right, like you know, he's right. And

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at the same time she can be like, well, I

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wanted to be more productive, and it's like, well, okay,

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but what was like You would have to really show

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us what that looked like. The producers haven't showed us

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like him just laying around on the couch all day

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playing video games like I would. I would like to

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think that he does some stuff around the house like

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you know, maybe not fix the gait perfectly, but I'm

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assuming that he changes the laundry and like you know,

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loads the dishwasher and unloads it, and like he says

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that she cooks. I'm actually surprised that he doesn't cook

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more because I don't think. I don't believe that she's

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a great cook. I've seen them hardboiled eggs. Maybe he's

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just I don't know, I don't know what. Maybe he

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is just doing nothing then when I would need to

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know why we haven't seen more of that. Also, I

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totally blacked out when he did say that he had

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been married before to an American woman for some reason.

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I don't know why perimenopause really comes for you. So

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just you know, just what, That's what life is like,

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really crazy. Okay, my babes, let's move on. Okay, let's

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get Meto and Debbie done. Meto and Debbie, this is

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I mean, this is like a horror film. This is

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a horror film like back Doors or Obsession has nothing

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on this Meto Debbie situation. For me, I also feel

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like I don't know top from bottom and it's giving

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me unco like it's giving me peril. Okay, So Obviously,

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she's outside losing her mind because she has brought the

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love of her life, Meto shakespeare An actor old Globe

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touring actor Meadow Keneth Bronna could only direct someone as

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talented as Medo in a production of any Shakespeare play,

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any play, to a chapel that she's found on Google

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for them to get married, because they have to get

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married for him to stay. And the one thing that

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she has wanted besides you know, I guess she's wanted

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him to say I love you and for him to

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propose slash to get married to her. And the entire

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thing that's happened instead is we've seen him disrespect her

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entirely and for her to keep groveling and crawling back

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to him, much to the dismay of us. And we

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would love and can't wait to hear what her friends think.

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The comments of her fun friends that know this world

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but Noah Beignet when they see one, they know how

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yummy Beignet works, and there's lots so we like them. Okay,

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She's obviously very upset because after she brought him to

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this chapel where she thought that he would be like, Wow,

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what a great green mom I can't wait to get

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married here. You know, we get the way. Thank you

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for bringing me here. You know. He was like, I

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think it's time for me to go back to Egypt.

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And then she ran outside, and what I can only

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describe now is gave us like a Tennessee Williams style

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Southern mellow drama performance of like the kind of crying

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where it turns into coughing. Like it's like so like

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she is performing in a way where I'm like, mito,

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are you taking notes? Are you taking this? No? What

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I think Debbie is an amazing actor. If this is real,

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and if like, if this is okay, if okay, sorry,

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if this isn't real, if this is real, this is

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like emotional abuse in the craziest way, watching like this

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is crazy okay. So basically having said that, let me

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get to the point. I'm sorry, I'm like talking around it.

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She's upset, she's crying, she's really going outside, She's screaming.

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She can't believe this is happening. She's like, I thought

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his tone changed quick, and we're like his tone he

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barely talked the whole time. She's like, I have to

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get out. I can't breathe. He's coming out and he's like,

469
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:42,160
de dy dd baby looked at me, and we're like, nedy, baby,

470
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,160
look at you. And then he like tries to get

471
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,279
her to look at him. She won't. She's like stop it. No.

472
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:52,279
He then gets on one fucking knee one knee, takes

473
00:29:52,319 --> 00:29:53,920
out a box. There's a ring in it, and we're like,

474
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,880
oh my god, this and then he won't. She still

475
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,720
won't look at him because she's so so upset. So

476
00:29:59,759 --> 00:30:01,839
then he has to put the ring down on the

477
00:30:01,839 --> 00:30:06,559
ground and then walk over to her, and then we

478
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:12,759
see affection between him and her, the kind of affection

479
00:30:12,839 --> 00:30:18,680
that Edward could only dream of. Anyway, Mito like goes

480
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,839
behind her starts kissing her neck. We're like, what are

481
00:30:20,839 --> 00:30:25,440
you doing? She's so confused. She's like, no, is stumba

482
00:30:27,759 --> 00:30:29,920
or not? You know, You're just like, oh my god.

483
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:40,960
She says, don't do this. She cries. Then he gets

484
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:46,920
back on his knee. He says, I got you. She collapses.

485
00:30:48,559 --> 00:30:51,640
She cough cries again. She can't believe that he has

486
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:56,960
done one of his classic Egyptian pranks again, the old

487
00:30:57,119 --> 00:31:01,920
It's over JK, will you be my life? That thing?

488
00:31:03,559 --> 00:31:07,400
How unsecure? How unstable could you? I can I cannot

489
00:31:07,599 --> 00:31:11,759
imagine a world in which I've been waiting for a

490
00:31:11,799 --> 00:31:15,279
man to propose to me. A that world Pete alone,

491
00:31:15,559 --> 00:31:21,319
b this man is like, it's over, I gotta leave you,

492
00:31:22,599 --> 00:31:25,839
and I like, obviously didn't see it coming for some reason,

493
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,920
this is not in the same situation because Debbie should

494
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:31,000
have seen this coming. But anyway, God bless Then I'm like, okay,

495
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,559
trying to get over that, and then he's like just kidding.

496
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:35,759
I want to be an asshole and I want to

497
00:31:35,799 --> 00:31:39,400
marry you. I can't imagine being like good, Oh, I

498
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,119
can't wait for you to be my husband, my emotionally

499
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:47,440
abusive will turn on a dime don like sorry dime

500
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,839
psycho abusive, crazy husband who doesn't care about me or

501
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,599
my feelings at all? What a life? What a future

502
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,960
that is like for us? I can't wait for this

503
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,720
to be it? I mean I cannot what is why?

504
00:32:00,079 --> 00:32:03,000
What world would you say yes to this? But she does?

505
00:32:03,079 --> 00:32:05,559
So that is like why. I'm like, is this real?

506
00:32:05,799 --> 00:32:09,880
And if this isn't real, then is she not? I

507
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:16,440
think a very good actress. I think a good actress.

508
00:32:19,079 --> 00:32:24,400
How could I mean? Is what please? Just find me whatever,

509
00:32:24,559 --> 00:32:26,680
shoot me an email where you're like, I also don't

510
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,480
think this is an email, or like a comment where

511
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,359
you're like, I can't believe this is real. This is

512
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:33,960
so hard to fathom. I just I know people make

513
00:32:34,319 --> 00:32:36,200
decisions like this is what I think. This is hard

514
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:42,039
for me to decipher. Okay, I understand that I overly

515
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:46,440
protect myself from the world, from relationships, from my heart

516
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:50,559
getting broken. All of that I know I do. So

517
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:55,519
is the opposite so wildly confusing to me that I

518
00:32:55,559 --> 00:32:59,279
can't think it to be real, Like that someone would

519
00:32:59,279 --> 00:33:03,119
put themselves in this kind of peril, that someone would

520
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:11,440
ignore such grave red flags to experience what could be

521
00:33:12,799 --> 00:33:17,400
astronomical pain from someone who seemingly doesn't care about your

522
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:22,359
emotional wellbeing. Are you just going to throw up throw

523
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,680
caution into the wind and like give all that up

524
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:29,599
for that? Like I just it's that's what I know

525
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,200
that I do well too much, but and I know

526
00:33:32,279 --> 00:33:35,000
sometin people don't do enough. But like, what is it?

527
00:33:34,799 --> 00:33:38,079
Is it just somewhere in the middle that the balance lies.

528
00:33:39,319 --> 00:33:40,519
I do need you to tell me or do you

529
00:33:40,559 --> 00:33:47,400
think this is fake? Okay? So when he gets the ring,

530
00:33:49,319 --> 00:33:51,319
he tries to put it on her, and he's like, oh,

531
00:33:51,359 --> 00:33:55,000
I didn't know what size, but it's okay because well, yeah,

532
00:33:55,079 --> 00:33:57,119
because she can, you know, get whatever resize. He's like,

533
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:04,359
because you lose weight. His reaction and solution to this

534
00:34:04,599 --> 00:34:07,200
is for her to change herself to fit into whatever

535
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:14,119
fucking ring size he bought. You know who probably knows

536
00:34:14,119 --> 00:34:17,400
her ring size, her daughter. I wonder if he's ever

537
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:22,159
had a conversation, like a good conversation with Devin, Devin

538
00:34:22,159 --> 00:34:23,519
would have been. It would have been really easy for

539
00:34:23,559 --> 00:34:27,400
Devin to give him her mom's ring size. Just get

540
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,239
one of her many rings. She's been on God's greener

541
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,519
for a long enough time. She has rings on her size.

542
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:33,239
She has like a you know, some sort of like

543
00:34:34,119 --> 00:34:39,639
jewelry plate slash holder she keeps in her top drawer.

544
00:34:39,639 --> 00:34:41,280
You could have just gone in there and get it,

545
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,960
but it goes back to something else interesting. So yeah,

546
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:50,719
obviously this is you know, wildly egotistical for him, like, oh,

547
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:55,079
she lose weight. Everyone knows when you lose weight, usually

548
00:34:55,119 --> 00:34:57,199
you lose enough weight to lose weight in your fingers.

549
00:34:57,199 --> 00:34:58,679
You know how much weight you have to lose to

550
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,239
lose weight in your fingers? I mean she'd have to

551
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:05,599
lose like twenty five pounds and she doesn't have twenty

552
00:35:05,599 --> 00:35:09,280
five pounds to lose. She's like, you know, a slender lady.

553
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,760
I don't know how weight actually works. I mean I actually, yeah,

554
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,280
I really don't know how weight works. I know that

555
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:18,719
when I gain weight, it's a lot in my stomach

556
00:35:20,039 --> 00:35:24,320
and my arms and face, and then when I lose weight,

557
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,880
I get arms and face first, and then I takes

558
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:30,679
a long time for me to lose weight in my stomach.

559
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:36,760
But yeah, but like fingers, no, okay. He then says

560
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:43,800
something nice. He's like I complete her, and we're like, well, yeah,

561
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:45,800
we know that you would feel that way. And then

562
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:51,039
he says, and she completes me. And for a moment

563
00:35:51,079 --> 00:35:54,320
where like that's probably the most humble and the most

564
00:35:54,400 --> 00:36:00,599
vulnerable you've ever been to ever even consider that you

565
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,719
might not be whole, although you might not need something,

566
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:09,599
or that she might do something profound or divine for you,

567
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,000
Like I just it felt like a different person, or

568
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:20,320
like who's this? It would be annoying. It's annoying for

569
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:24,679
me to not get the full spectrum of human behavior

570
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,159
when there's like a docu series, so I don't want

571
00:36:27,199 --> 00:36:29,440
to have like an archetype of a villain if there's

572
00:36:29,519 --> 00:36:32,960
like cutting room floor footage of someone being a normal,

573
00:36:33,079 --> 00:36:37,000
nice person. I also don't want contrived moments of drama

574
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:41,639
when you know, specifically there could just have been more

575
00:36:41,679 --> 00:36:44,800
money in the production to have more hours of them

576
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:48,880
filming and then just catch which is like natural that

577
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,639
happens because often on the show we get while the

578
00:36:52,679 --> 00:36:55,400
cameras were not filming, or the other night or last

579
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,280
night kind of situations where then we get drama that

580
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:00,599
unfolded that we weren't privy to, and it's like, well,

581
00:37:00,639 --> 00:37:02,639
then why are we watching the show or whatever. It's like,

582
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,320
just this show is doing well enough, is successful enough

583
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,519
that I would rather have less seasons and just enough

584
00:37:09,559 --> 00:37:15,360
production to get real drama and real people doing real shit.

585
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,920
So that's why I'm like for him. If he's not

586
00:37:18,199 --> 00:37:24,519
a villainous villain that is wildly self serving, and if

587
00:37:24,559 --> 00:37:28,840
there's been moments of him being nice or kind or

588
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,519
gracious or in love with her or affectionate towards her,

589
00:37:33,079 --> 00:37:39,400
it feels like we would be stupid to continue to

590
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:45,519
watch if we found out that existed the whole time

591
00:37:45,559 --> 00:37:50,039
and was kept from us, because it does feel like

592
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,880
we deserve the full picture, and by we, I mean

593
00:37:54,159 --> 00:38:10,360
the audience. I'm just like, what is the plan? It

594
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:15,480
feels like there are two options to this. We now

595
00:38:15,599 --> 00:38:17,840
take at face value that this man has a loving

596
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:21,079
heart that has loved her, that feels like very thankful

597
00:38:21,079 --> 00:38:24,000
and appreciative that Debbie is in his life and you know,

598
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:29,400
like cares about her and wants to get married, that

599
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:34,039
life began with her kind of coming into his life,

600
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:40,199
which is what that whole completes me kind of means.

601
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:44,880
Or he decides in a fraction of a second what

602
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:52,480
his next move's going to be, or he does yeah,

603
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,760
it just it's so interesting, or he yeah, it's like

604
00:38:55,559 --> 00:39:03,280
what is his end goal? When they're kissing, she's like,

605
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,599
oh my god, baby, say it to me, say what

606
00:39:07,639 --> 00:39:10,320
I want to hear he's And then we thought it's

607
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:14,599
like the I love you thing because he was like,

608
00:39:15,159 --> 00:39:17,400
will you marry me? But he never really was like

609
00:39:17,639 --> 00:39:21,360
I love you. He's like, will you marry me? She's

610
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,719
like in Arabic and he's like, whatever had I on

611
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,159
how to say will you marry me? In Arabic? But

612
00:39:26,639 --> 00:39:29,679
he didn't say on a Behebic, which is how you

613
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:39,119
say I love you, and Arabid is such a flowery language.

614
00:39:39,119 --> 00:39:40,679
I think I've said this before. I feel like it's

615
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:45,719
crazy to not have someone like be constantly saying on

616
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:51,719
a behebic and or a bibie to someone that is

617
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:55,920
your fiance, and you feel like, I don't say that.

618
00:39:57,199 --> 00:40:00,639
Everyone says it. You don't say no, one says it.

619
00:40:03,559 --> 00:40:07,760
That's like being like, yeah, I don't like this is

620
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:11,440
to be someone who speaks Arabic and not say those

621
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:15,519
words to me feels like an American or English person

622
00:40:15,639 --> 00:40:18,599
English speaking person being like I don't I don't use

623
00:40:18,599 --> 00:40:23,679
that word, the word the that's how much you hear it.

624
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:26,480
You're like, you don't use the word the. I don't

625
00:40:26,599 --> 00:40:32,559
use it. I step around it. I need a apple

626
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:37,199
and apple please pass a remote that's around you. To me,

627
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:41,679
you're like, what you side step the word the in

628
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:44,800
the English language. That's how much you avoid that word

629
00:40:45,559 --> 00:40:49,320
everyone else says all the time. Makes no sense, Like

630
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,639
that's why like mitosole, like, I don't think that Egyptian

631
00:40:52,679 --> 00:40:54,679
people play that many pranks. You would have to tell

632
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:58,000
me I'm not Egyptian. Tell me if you are Egyptian.

633
00:40:58,639 --> 00:41:01,199
Besides the fact that you know, a lot of Egyptian

634
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,039
people have been on my social media, it's being like,

635
00:41:04,159 --> 00:41:07,760
we don't know him. We go to the movies a lot.

636
00:41:09,119 --> 00:41:11,920
You know what we're doing. We're seeing Odyssey and Imax

637
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:16,559
this weekend. You know what, we didn't see Meto in imax, Honey,

638
00:41:16,599 --> 00:41:21,039
not Meto and thirty five millimeter not Meto in any millimeter.

639
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,480
I gotta know film more. Isn't it interesting that like

640
00:41:29,559 --> 00:41:38,800
seventy millimeter is twice thirty five? So does that you know? Okay,

641
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,079
you're okay, you know what I mean? Thirty five millimeter

642
00:41:41,159 --> 00:41:45,119
and then seventy millimeter. Okay, so IMAX means seventy millimeter?

643
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:49,000
Is that what it means? Or just no? Two different things.

644
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:55,000
But Odyssey's both both captured in Imax format and also

645
00:41:55,559 --> 00:42:00,119
a big screen format. Alison, I'm not quite your but

646
00:42:00,199 --> 00:42:02,000
I'm going to find out before when you're hearing this.

647
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,239
I've already already found out at least what looks like

648
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:11,159
in that format. But still, God bless Okay, Anyway, that's

649
00:42:11,199 --> 00:42:14,639
really what happens for them in this episode, and we

650
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:18,639
know again because we've seen it, that they get married,

651
00:42:19,559 --> 00:42:22,760
but they have a marriage license in these streets. So

652
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:28,679
this is how this went down. And I wonder why

653
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:33,119
Meto allowed himself to be the villain. I think it

654
00:42:33,119 --> 00:42:36,400
would have been much better for Meadow's career if he

655
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:40,599
had cast himself as the victim. If Debbie had been

656
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:46,119
like a very controlling and she could have been wildly

657
00:42:46,199 --> 00:42:50,480
crazy white lady that like you know, is just passport

658
00:42:51,119 --> 00:42:53,679
brawing her way I don't know, around and got like

659
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:57,440
a young tour guy to come to America. Like, if

660
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:01,559
he had painted himself as the victim, surely I would

661
00:43:01,599 --> 00:43:06,119
think would have a better chance at parlaying that into superstardom.

662
00:43:07,079 --> 00:43:12,880
We like to be on someone's side. I just don't

663
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,039
really see that like anyone, you know, this is Peace

664
00:43:15,079 --> 00:43:19,960
really turned people off. It's funny because him and Katie

665
00:43:20,039 --> 00:43:25,119
are the absolute villains of the season, which is much

666
00:43:25,119 --> 00:43:31,599
to Allison's dismay. Alison of Shane Annabel but no, but

667
00:43:31,679 --> 00:43:35,760
she's really up there though. Okay, So that ends part

668
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:39,440
one of this mega recap, and part two will be

669
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,440
coming your way at the same time. It doesn't have

670
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,400
to end here, it never does. Make sure that you

671
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:49,039
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672
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673
00:43:52,559 --> 00:43:54,960
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674
00:43:55,039 --> 00:43:57,920
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675
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,519
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676
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