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Speaker 1: I made a DISSI.

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Speaker 2: Pace sunny sun yet on ahead a vision like it's nice.

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Speaker 3: What's happening everybody? Welcome to for crying out loud. We

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love you guys. We're happy you're here.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even turn the lights on.

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Speaker 3: I realized, I know we're in us in the dark. Yeah,

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it's fine out in the dark. It's fine.

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Speaker 1: Oh my Godnette, I have so much to do. What's

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going on. I'm dying to here. Okay, I'm gonna open it.

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I have other funny little tidbits. I feel happy for

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you that your kids are out in the world, but

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also alms so not. I'm so not where you are

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right now. My kids are very active, there's friends coming

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in and out. Yet like so I'm still in that

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and I am grateful for it. Yes, but it is

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going to be a big change next year, and I'm

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not looking forward to well.

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Speaker 3: I was just telling you off the air, like, wait

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till your kids are all like out of the house

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doing their own thing.

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Speaker 1: No, thank you, it's yeah. I mean.

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Speaker 3: Sonny left last week, went back to Oregon. By the way,

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this a little prick. I text him, like, you know,

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the Rams won yesterday and I was like yay rams

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go ramp, no answer, quiet, chirp, chirp. I look to

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see where he is. He's with his boys, you know.

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And then like some nights I'll text him like help

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you out a good day or you know, good night,

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howse school whatever, like thumbs up, maybe I know, like

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barely talk to him, I know. And then I got Natalia,

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who was gone for a few days and now she's back.

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She got back last night. She's here for just a

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couple more days and now going back to Santa Barbara.

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And I'm trying to get she's the girl is blind.

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Her context are fucked up, and I'm trying. She has

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the doctor in our neighborhood. He's like useless, Like, oh

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he's not available till March. I'm like, she can't barely

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like see when she's driving at night. It's bad.

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Speaker 1: Costco really take her to Costco. Literally, you can walk in.

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Oh my god, ostical center, great doctors in there. I

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had a feeling you and Costco. It's they have a doctor,

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they have eye doctors, right, but it is cheap because

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we don't have vision insurance. We just have to, you know,

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get our eyes checked.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 1: But it's cheap and it's really easy and the doctors

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are really good.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I gotta take her because she does

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have some kind of like rare issue with her eyes.

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Oh it's called like corn corncopia or something like that.

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Speaker 1: Oh, then maybe you need to go to an opt I.

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Speaker 3: Think I do need that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so uh but if you just trying to get

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her to her contact or glasses prescription, you could just

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go to Costco.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I could just do I have to get the

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prescription from her. I have to get that prescription from

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her other doctor. Right.

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Speaker 1: Well, if you just need her eyes looked out for

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like medical reasons, then go to the ophthalmologist. But if

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you need her to update her prescriptions so she can

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see you.

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Speaker 3: To drive, OK, go to all right, we'll try that.

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Speaker 1: Let's go.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I only got a couple of days to

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get her in.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm literally having the same thing. Elbe's almost out

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of contact, I guess, and she says that she can't

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see as well. She needs it updated. When you're younger,

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I think you can do it every two years. So

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Elbe's is coming up though, So I was like, as

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soon as you're come home and I'll take you to cost.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm going to take her to Costco first. It's

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because how am I going to find a doctor in

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the next like two of three days. And she just

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tells me this recently, you know, over the weekend. By

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the way my contacts, I can't so then you know

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it's it's impossible. So anyway, now then she's going to

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be gone again. So then I'm going to be in

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an empty house, but just Phil and I.

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Speaker 1: Now, how was her trip to Hawaii?

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Speaker 3: Oh that was a nice She had a great time.

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Speaker 1: She did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she had a really great time. And then she

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came back and then she went with her couple of

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her friends, uh to like Palm Springs for a couple

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Speaker 1: I knew you were going to say Palm Spring I

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know really yeah, I don't know why. I feel like

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it's like kind of a hip thing for young are

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the young kids kids to do?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, her friend.

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Speaker 1: Has a Palm Springs. They got an airbnb. Her friend

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was like, you got to pay me the like I

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you know, one girl was in charge of it, put

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all the money down and was like, everybody owes me

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one hundred and eighty dollars or whatever. And then but

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it's not. I think that's in March.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she had a like friend that has like a

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house parents have a house there. So she was gone.

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Now she's back and then she's like, I'm gonna be

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helping her with her laundry and all that shit, trying

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to get her eyes fixed. So that's what I've been

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dealing with.

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Speaker 1: It's like everything's calm, and then all of a sudden,

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you're everything is all it was. They're like, but I

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need blah blah blah, and You're like, well, what you

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couldn't have given me heads up on right?

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Speaker 3: I know I know that that's how they and you know,

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I try and teach you, like she needs a refill

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for prescription, this is what you do. You call the

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blah blah blah. But then sometimes she's in Santa Barbaras

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so he's got to get it transferred to Santa Barbara.

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So I'm teaching her how to get her prescriptions refilled.

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Same with Sonny. He's taking care of that. But then

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you know, it's like like I was saying last week,

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but with the travel and stuff, like I got to

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step in. You know, when she books a trip leaving

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out of one airport, and arriving into a different airport.

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Speaker 1: Right you know? Now, did Sunny have fun with his dad?

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When I thought he he went on a trip? He

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you see Adam in Denver? You had to fly him there? Yes, yeah, yeah,

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he already did that. Yeah he did that. Yeah, last weekend,

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had a great time. Okay, Yeah, they stayed in an

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airbnb or something, right, yeah, with him and Mike August.

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Speaker 3: This dad and Mike. He loves Mike though, he gets

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a kick out of him. He does. Yeah, because Adam

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and Mike August like bicker a lot. And they got

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into some kind of argument where Mike August said one

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thing and Adam was like, but you meant something else.

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were like, well, Sonny, what did he say? Didn't he

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say that? And he was like, I had to side

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with dad because Dad was right. Mike did say he

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did fuck up and say something I don't know. So

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he's like, I love it. I get a kick out

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of it.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So you had a good time.

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Speaker 1: And so oh this is the annoying speaking of the kids,

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and they're getting their shit taken care of. So I

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had taken two out of the three of my kids,

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Xander and Elbe to the dermatologist. All the skin's been

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breaking out, and I was like, okay, this was over

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the winter break. I made the appointment for them because

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they're not capable of making my appointments for stuff, even

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though she's twenty one and they're eighteen, right, So I

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make the appointment. I take them to the appointment. God forbid,

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I just go, okay, you guys have it a point, right,

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here's the place. Yeah. No, I took them literally when

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I at least Elbie went in on her own. You

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don't need me in there, right right. He could look

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at your skin and she was like, yeah, I'm fine.

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I went in there with Sander anyway. He prescribed her

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like two different topicals and a medication that is you

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ever heard of that medication?

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Speaker 3: Statie was on it for a while spur relactin. Yes, yes,

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I just went through this with Natalia. She was breaking

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out a couple of months ago in Santa Barbara. So

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I found some skin place for her to go dermatologists.

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I made the appointment. She went on her own, filled

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out all the paper. I sent her her information, her

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medical information, and yeah, they put her on that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so they put LB on that. But they also

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gave her something called I think it's called clint to

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my sin. It's a uh huh antibacterial, yeah thing. Okay,

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So both those prescriptions I went and picked up for her. Remember,

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she's home, it's winter break. Both prescriptions still in the

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CBS bag, staple shut in her bathroom.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, are you fucking kidding me?

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Speaker 3: Wow? Didn't she want to take it? Like, because she's

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breaking out?

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Speaker 1: A Help's the one I wanted. Made it get her to.

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Speaker 3: The right, right, So then maybe her pimples went away

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and she was fine.

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Speaker 1: No, I've seen her kind of recently. They're still there, like,

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but I don't know. And then I feel like, okay,

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I could text her and be like, hey, bitch, here's

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a picture of your prescription that you never even opened, right,

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didn't even take them one time when you got them.

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But then I'm like, yeah, she's twenty, Like it's got

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to occur to her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, she's.

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Speaker 1: The one who needs to look in the mirror and

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go oh, I'm still breaking out. Like maybe I guess

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but it's not cheap to go to the dermatologist, that's

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the thing, like I know. And with insurance it's still

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ninety dollars yeapy, yeah, each kid.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. I just went through that.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 3: And here's the problem I have. We had Right Haight Pharmacy.

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They went out of business, so everything got transferred to

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CVS Pharmacy. Now CVS Pharmacy wants to do everything on

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an app. Okay, So I have two kids the same birthdate.

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I'm in right right, yeah, and so I can't on

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the app. It's like Hello Santino. I'm like, no, not Santino.

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like and they're like, well, which you know I got?

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I have twins, So what am I supposed to do

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on the app? Like they both have the same birthdate?

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And so when you call, then what's your birthday? You

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put the birthdate in Hello Santino. No, I'm not talking

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about him, I'm talking about the other one that's the

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same birthday.

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Speaker 1: Call them anymore? No, because you can leave them, leave

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a message, should wait for them to call you back.

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Speaker 3: Exactly. That's how I've been doing it. It sucks customer services.

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I'm gonna find it different downhill. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It is crazy that you have to leave a

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message right with all the information, and then they don't

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listen to the message. By the way, they call you

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back and they're like, hello, it's CVS, right, yeah, and

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you're like and you're like, well, yeah, did you hear

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the message? Exactly what they do is phill this nope yet,

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And now I got to the city or over and

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go date of birth right, I'm okay, Sadie. I'm like, no,

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it's for example, right, I know, I go through this

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week going through the same thing.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Luckily, my CVS is kind of close to me. I

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will literally just drive it. I'll get frustrated and.

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Speaker 3: Sho, just go over there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, mine trying to call about this prescription.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. Mine's a little further. And now I'm

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on like my neighborhood Facebook page and everybody's frustrated with

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CVS because they all got kicked out of write aid.

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and then you know, so I don't know, I think

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I'm gonna switch.

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Speaker 1: There's all there's always like those mom and pop ones.

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Speaker 3: But then I have to I worry about those.

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Speaker 1: Well, there is a problem, yes, because the one that

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from this? Yeah? It's getting stuffy. Yeah, here, for sure,

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the producer, but you're controlling the.

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Speaker 3: I got them on the sea.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I have a whole story for you about where

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I'm at dogwise. Okay, So last week I think I

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had posted did this all start this week?

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about Clyde? Okay, and you talked about like trying to

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get like Xander on board, and.

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how had I told you about how they said in

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the New Year? And then I started looking at him again,

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and then John said, well, what about Clyde? Because I

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had shown him Clyde around Christmas time and then Xander

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had had a freak out. And then then when I

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was showing John some other dogs, he goes, but what

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about Clyde? And I said, well, he's still available, and

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I got excited. Okay, oh last.

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Speaker 3: Week you had a zoom call with them?

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Speaker 1: I okay, okay, But did I tell you Okay, so

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I had filled out the application. Then they said, then

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I had to last week. I told you. Now it's

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all coming back. I told you that I had to

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take a video and it's all screened up. And then

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then they sent me an email and said, let's have

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a zoom call. Okay, So I have the zoom call

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and they while I'm on the zoom call, I'm on

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with two people. It's me and John and the woman

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who I think runs the rescue, and then an associate

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of hers, and they're super into us, like there's and

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then they're like, oh my god, Clyde is going to

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be perfect for you. And they're sending me all these

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videos and something happened. This is a this is a

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me thing. It felt like when you go on a

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date and you really really really liked the guy, but

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then you wake up, and then you wake up the

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next morning they've already texted you, and then all of

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a sudden you're like, oh no, I don't like him anymore.

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over obligation, Like.

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Speaker 3: I think that's natural a little bit.

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Speaker 1: So I had a full on panic and I was like,

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oh no, I lost all feelings for like, this is

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too much. And all of a sudden, I was like

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and this dog is too big. Dog is too big.

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I was like, the dog needs space to run around.

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around with a couple of other dogs, like with all

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this peace right, and I got so nervous in my head.

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I'm like, John only wants a big dog, though, and

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this is like a big, strong dog, and I don't know.

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And now I'm freaked out.

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Speaker 3: Like what happens if you walk him? Is he gonna

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pull you?

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Speaker 1: I just started having all these like I don't I

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don't think this is the right dog for.

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Speaker 3: Us, But don't you want to meet him? Like, can't

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you go meet him?

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Speaker 2: On?

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Speaker 1: I did? Okay, Okay, I did. Okay, It's there's also

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first you have this great hang on because there's this

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is me and my bad personality. Okay, there was some

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to go, okay, what are you doing? Like you're you're

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freaking yourself out? Yeah, but I so, I said, I

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don't know, John, I think this dog is too big.

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And John's like, really, I mean I don't think so,

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and like, looks like you really need space to run around.

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And John, the reason I've been married to him for

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so long is because he's just he is like just

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a rock. It's like whatever you want, Like, okay, right,

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we don't have to we don't have to get quide.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, do you want to meet him?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't think I want to

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meet him. No, I don't think so. H. So then

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the rescue is now just like okay, so when can

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we set up the meeting? Do you guys want to

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do a meet and greet?

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Speaker 3: It's it's in Hasty Heights, oh boy, which is really

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far right now, I'm like Casciana Heights, Like yeah, But

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when I was on the call with them, they told

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me Hacienda Heights and I was like, sure, okay, you know.

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Speaker 1: So then I write to them and they're like, I said,

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I'm having h I said, oh, I said, I think

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I'm worried that Clyde is like too big. I said,

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I saw these videos and now I'm just being honest,

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I'm a little bit freaked out. I think this might

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be too much dog for us, and I really feel

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like he Then I started doing my thing. I don't know.

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I think he needs space to run around, and he

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seems really happy at his foster and you know, and

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they write back and they're like no, no, no, no,

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Like I think you got the wrong idea. That was

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just a playdate. He was on. He's not being the

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foster where he is doesn't have like that much space.

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Speaker 3: Right and you told you told me before that they

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said he was a pretty chill dog. Oh.

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Speaker 1: They were like, he's super chill. Yeah, he just like

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laying around such a good boy. And they're like, he's

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gonna love you guys. But I hadn't had the virtual

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meeting yet last time, right, so when I had the

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virtual meeting, they were like also, like yeah, and he

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really wants to be like they said, oh, the foster

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would love to keep him, really loves him. But they

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think he needs a home with like kids, And I

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was like, but we don't have kids. We don't have kids.

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We have like young adults in our house are not

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going to be bothered that much. They're out and about

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school and having friends.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So they're like yeah, yeah, yeah, but still it's like

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activity in the house and there's other people. And I

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was like, now I feel like I'm a little bit

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getting the hard cell, but like okay, So then I

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get even more panicked because they're like, you should just

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meet him, just meet him and like then you can

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make an assess and if you think then I got

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really freaked out and was like, now I don't even

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I don't I don't want to.

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Speaker 3: Mean, oh my god. It's like being on a day

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where he's like, when can I see you again, poor Clyde?

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Speaker 1: Yes, and then you're like, you know, it's so crazy,

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this is crazy. But I got back together with my

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ex boyfriend, right, and like, I don't know things are

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I just want to see where that goes. Yes, yeah,

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that's how I felt. I almost wanted to be like,

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I don't know, Penelope came back to life, and I think, like,

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we're going to try to make that work, right, I'm

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going to swipe left on Clyde. Then I literally was

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feeling so panicked. So then I said to John, I

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was like, I don't know what's happening, but I'm like,

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I'm panicking and I don't.

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Speaker 3: Was it because of them asking like really like when

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they started to get excited, was that when you got yep?

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Speaker 1: See, I started feeling obligated, and then I just started

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feeling like I don't know. I've been without a dog

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now for a couple of months and it's been I

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think because they'll end with Penelope was very intense, and

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it was every day there was a lot of animal care,

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right and every night was like I couldn't. I felt

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bad leading the house and I think I felt like,

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oh my gosh, like I'm having some freedom and now

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I'm gonna have this dog. And I just freaked myself out, right,

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deal with like a really big dog. And he was like, Honey, like,

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was like, cause you want a mas stuff. He's like, no,

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don't even have room for like a huge dog. He's like,

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to be a big dog. I'm fine, it just has

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to be the right dog for us.

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Speaker 1: Then I felt let off the hook and then I

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was like okay, and then I wrote to the rescue

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I'm over ca nolopee yet, and I'm just not sure

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this dog is right for us. So I just so

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they wrote me back and they're like, it's totally fine,

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Clyde is safe right now, like let's just hold for

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a little while. So as soon as I got that email,

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meet Clyde because like, yes, right now that the pressure

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was off. It's like when you want a date, you

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have a great time, then you get like freaked out

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no problem, and then you're like, well wait a minute.

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00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,079
Totally I get it.

469
00:23:05,279 --> 00:23:06,640
Speaker 3: I totally understand.

470
00:23:06,799 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: I went through every I mean, this might as well

471
00:23:09,519 --> 00:23:13,440
have been freaking Tinder right because I went through all

472
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,240
the emotions. I remember the relationships.

473
00:23:16,279 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember feeling like that when I was younger

474
00:23:18,519 --> 00:23:20,759
and dating guys, Like all of a sudden, they get

475
00:23:20,799 --> 00:23:23,519
I get the ick, and then I dumped them and

476
00:23:23,559 --> 00:23:26,079
then I'm like, well wait a minute, then they.

477
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 1: Go to somebody else. I'm like, oh hold on, hold on.

478
00:23:29,559 --> 00:23:32,240
So many bad reasons I had for doing that too,

479
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:36,720
Like one guy, I remember having a really nice date

480
00:23:36,759 --> 00:23:40,240
with him and he was very smart, and he was

481
00:23:40,279 --> 00:23:42,039
like funny and he was I think he was like

482
00:23:42,079 --> 00:23:45,119
a composer. This was many years ago. But he had

483
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,400
like too much hair on his chest and it was

484
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,119
peeking out from his shirt was unbuttoned a little bit,

485
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:54,119
and I was like, oh not. And then I told

486
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,319
him like it just wasn't gonna work. I kind of

487
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,400
broke it off before it started. And then I do

488
00:23:59,519 --> 00:24:02,559
remember very shortly after that he must have been a

489
00:24:02,559 --> 00:24:04,799
friend of a friend. He totally had a girlfriend. And

490
00:24:04,799 --> 00:24:06,880
I'm now, what was I do.

491
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 3: Right, right right? If she can overlook the hair on

492
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:13,799
the chest, why couldn't I have?

493
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: You know? So, I don't even think I had a

494
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,160
problem with a hairy chest. I think I just wanted

495
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,640
to like talk myself out of like, oh god, I'm

496
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:22,720
not ready for a relationship.

497
00:24:22,799 --> 00:24:25,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, I totally get it. It's a big, you know,

498
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:27,680
commitment to adopt a dog.

499
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,839
Speaker 1: Okay. So I write back and I was like, listen,

500
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:37,599
I I know I'm being crazy. I think I just

501
00:24:37,759 --> 00:24:40,759
like panicked, but I do I do want we all

502
00:24:40,799 --> 00:24:44,319
want to meet Clyde. After all, You're like, great, no problem, okay,

503
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:49,200
can you do nine thirty A m Hacienda Heights and

504
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:53,839
I was like, now that's a bridge too far. I mean,

505
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:58,160
come on, yeah, Hacid Heights. By the way, it was

506
00:24:58,599 --> 00:25:01,640
almost an hour away, right right, And I was like really, yeah,

507
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,400
that's actually now I felt a little bit more like

508
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,759
I win the driver's seat. Yes, And I was like, no,

509
00:25:07,039 --> 00:25:08,680
I go. We would have to leave our house at

510
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,400
eight thirty and it's you know, Sunday.

511
00:25:11,839 --> 00:25:14,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, this just happened. This was yesterday. I was like,

512
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:15,200
it's a Sunday.

513
00:25:15,599 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 1: I was like, I want to take the kids with me,

514
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,519
So no, that's not going to work. And she was like, okay,

515
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:24,759
well the mom is not going to be home the

516
00:25:24,799 --> 00:25:27,240
dog mom. She has to go to work, but the

517
00:25:27,319 --> 00:25:29,640
dad will, so that it's fine. What time is good

518
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,319
for you? And I was like noon and she goes great, okay, okay,

519
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:38,039
so yesterday. So then I was much calmer about everything.

520
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:39,839
I felt better. I was excited.

521
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:40,519
Speaker 3: Yeah.

522
00:25:40,559 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 1: I went to sleep the night before and I was

523
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,799
like very excited and I was like, oh my god,

524
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,319
this could be our dog. Yeah. Yeah, Like now I'm

525
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,599
kind of over my panic and like I want to

526
00:25:49,599 --> 00:25:53,880
smooch on that. That's say, that's so the big chills.

527
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:57,839
Stupid dogs ready for them, right, I'm ready, right, bring

528
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:02,680
me to the Clyde. Yeah. So we get there and

529
00:26:03,759 --> 00:26:05,200
he he was.

530
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 3: Who goes with you?

531
00:26:06,279 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: So you're already bit albie. Okay, So me and John

532
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,119
and Sadie Xander all pile in the car, go to Starbucks,

533
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,839
set out on our road trip, fight over the music,

534
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,799
it's all good. And we get there and they're like,

535
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,200
we ring the bell. There's like a gate and we

536
00:26:24,319 --> 00:26:26,880
ring the bell and then the guy starts to the

537
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:30,119
gate starts to open and there's like a garage and

538
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,839
then the guy we hear a dog barking, like ferociously,

539
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:39,119
like really barking, and like, okay, like like who's talking.

540
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,559
I don't know how many dogs they have? They're masters,

541
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,279
you know, yeah, I don't know. So he opens the

542
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:48,160
door and comes out with Clyde and he's like, here's Clyde. Now,

543
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:51,519
by the way, Clyde was not that huge. He was

544
00:26:51,559 --> 00:26:54,759
a total cute, normal size, kind of more pepo size.

545
00:26:54,920 --> 00:27:00,319
Speaker 3: Okay, he's just he's just muscular, muscles, muscle with my

546
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:01,599
palm muscle strong.

547
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 1: So he comes out and this dog is not happy

548
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:10,319
to see us, like he's barking, and then as we

549
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:15,480
get closer, starts growling, Yeah, I'm a little let me

550
00:27:15,519 --> 00:27:19,240
do let me do it for you. He's like, oh god,

551
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:25,000
like not happy. But I'm like, you know, some dogs

552
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,079
get kind of territorial. Yes, they want to make sure

553
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,559
who are you? Sense it out and he's like he's

554
00:27:30,599 --> 00:27:34,279
like he's fine. The guy's like he's fine. He's flying,

555
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:41,119
he's really flying, Like he's good, don't worry. But now

556
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:41,759
I'm worried.

557
00:27:42,079 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 3: Yeah.

558
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,839
Speaker 1: Now I'm a little mama bear, like I got my

559
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:49,160
kids with me, Like okay, I'm not sure, you know.

560
00:27:49,319 --> 00:27:52,240
And then he's like you you can pet him, you know,

561
00:27:52,559 --> 00:27:54,720
But he was not looking like he wanted to be

562
00:27:54,839 --> 00:27:59,279
pet that way. He looked very suspicious of us. But

563
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,279
then he kind of calmed down and he was like,

564
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,039
you know, just just go slow with him. I put

565
00:28:04,079 --> 00:28:08,160
my hand out. Yeah, he kind of sniffed me. He

566
00:28:08,319 --> 00:28:10,839
didn't really let me pet him, but he let me

567
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:14,599
like kind of pet him like underneath, so you don't

568
00:28:14,599 --> 00:28:16,599
go like over the top of the dog's head and

569
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,720
like because that can freak them out. But it was

570
00:28:18,759 --> 00:28:21,880
like underneath. Gave him a little bit of a little

571
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:25,039
pat but then he like walked away from me. Then

572
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:26,880
he then he kind of went over to the kids

573
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,319
and let them do it too. He was like it's okay,

574
00:28:30,799 --> 00:28:34,640
but he wasn't happy about it. Then then he kind

575
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,599
of walked away from us and went like laid down.

576
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 3: Oh, And I'm like, well, come on, Clyde, this is

577
00:28:40,759 --> 00:28:41,599
not the.

578
00:28:41,319 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 1: Best sign clide like loved affection, but I'm really honestly

579
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,680
giving it, trying to give it the benefit of the doubt. Okay.

580
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,680
So just then the woman from the rescue showed up.

581
00:28:53,119 --> 00:28:55,559
He's going to come facilitate like the visit. So she

582
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,519
shows up and I was She's like, oh, how's it going?

583
00:28:59,599 --> 00:29:02,759
And I was like, well, he did growl at us?

584
00:29:03,359 --> 00:29:08,400
And then she was like what, No, I've never seen

585
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,119
that behavior before. And then then she asked the guy

586
00:29:11,359 --> 00:29:14,240
like like as if I don't know what a grous

587
00:29:14,759 --> 00:29:17,720
like is that? Did he growl with them? And he's

588
00:29:17,759 --> 00:29:21,599
like well yeah, but like and she's like, well, was

589
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,640
it a growl or was he just vocalizing what the

590
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:30,000
hell does that mean? Communicating? Like I was like, yeah,

591
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,960
he was vocalizing that he was not happy right what

592
00:29:33,039 --> 00:29:39,880
he was doing. So then basically he chilled. We took

593
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,759
him for a walk we all walked with him. He

594
00:29:41,839 --> 00:29:47,079
was he was pretty good. He's very strong leash, and

595
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:52,680
he just he The more we talked about it, she

596
00:29:52,839 --> 00:29:58,039
was like, look, he's probably territorial because he's on his turf.

597
00:29:58,559 --> 00:30:01,279
Then the guy was like, yeah, also, we have to

598
00:30:01,359 --> 00:30:04,160
kind of keep him separated from our other dog. So

599
00:30:04,279 --> 00:30:07,720
that's why he's he's only got one spot in the

600
00:30:07,759 --> 00:30:11,000
house where he is, so when someone comes over, when

601
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,839
he hears stuff, he can't go out and see what's

602
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,720
going on because he has to be in this one

603
00:30:15,759 --> 00:30:18,119
side of the house. And then I'm like, why does

604
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,559
he have to be only on one side of the house. Yeah,

605
00:30:20,599 --> 00:30:23,680
well he's territorial with our other dog that's our dog

606
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,000
and so and they've kind of gotten into it, so

607
00:30:27,039 --> 00:30:31,200
they can't have supervised you. Yeah, And I'm like, why

608
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:32,240
didn't they better? And better?

609
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, but why didn't they tell you? You know, why

610
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,519
didn't they tell you this on the phone on your

611
00:30:37,599 --> 00:30:38,440
zoom or whatever?

612
00:30:39,039 --> 00:30:42,599
Speaker 1: I don't know. And then the woman was like the

613
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:46,960
rescue lady was like, I've just never seen this behavior,

614
00:30:47,039 --> 00:30:51,480
Like he's perfect when he's he was the shelter favorite,

615
00:30:51,519 --> 00:30:53,759
like they loved him and people would take him out

616
00:30:53,839 --> 00:30:56,160
and he was allowed to go on special trips because

617
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:59,480
he was so great with everybody. And I was like, well,

618
00:31:00,119 --> 00:31:04,279
maybe that's because at the shelter he was in neutral territory.

619
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,960
And I said, I was like, she's like, yeah, but

620
00:31:08,079 --> 00:31:11,839
when he's at your house, then that'll be his territory.

621
00:31:12,279 --> 00:31:15,960
And I said, very honestly, I was like, yeah, but

622
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:21,240
that's not great because because Penelope was territorial, it wasn't great.

623
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,319
Like she was very difficult, as you might remember me

624
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,000
saying I couldn't bring her to someone's house if they

625
00:31:28,039 --> 00:31:31,359
had a dog, she would get territorial at someone else's house, right,

626
00:31:32,279 --> 00:31:35,279
nobody could bring their dog into our house. She would not.

627
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,000
She would have none of it. Now, she wasn't territorial

628
00:31:39,079 --> 00:31:41,839
with people like she loved, Like you could just walk in,

629
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,759
but this dog is territorial over people.

630
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:46,559
Speaker 3: And problem.

631
00:31:46,839 --> 00:31:49,519
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not sure I go because the

632
00:31:49,599 --> 00:31:53,000
kids bring friends over exactly, Its just people just walk

633
00:31:53,039 --> 00:31:58,240
in the house. Six kids walk in, and then she's like, well,

634
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,119
you know, for his safety and for theirs, Like what

635
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,000
you would probably do is you'd have the kids text

636
00:32:04,079 --> 00:32:06,319
you before they come home, and then you put them

637
00:32:06,359 --> 00:32:10,920
in his crate. And then you slowly like make sure

638
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,359
he sees what's going on, and like the kids can

639
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,759
come over. And I'm like, no, no, that's not happening now.

640
00:32:17,519 --> 00:32:20,720
You know, we're not doing all that right, And so

641
00:32:21,079 --> 00:32:24,279
I was like yeah, okay, and then she was like, listen,

642
00:32:24,319 --> 00:32:27,039
don't make a decision right now, like you know, I

643
00:32:27,279 --> 00:32:30,400
promise you. He's so good, like he's been nothing but

644
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:34,319
a charmer at adoption events and this is just like

645
00:32:35,359 --> 00:32:37,640
maybe he just shouldn't live with another dog, but you

646
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:41,039
got you know, there's all this, and I was like okay, okay,

647
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:45,000
and then we go finally go to leave. I oh,

648
00:32:45,079 --> 00:32:48,160
and also she gave us treats. The guy gave us

649
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,880
treats yea to give him, and he was very intense

650
00:32:53,359 --> 00:32:57,759
about like taking the treats, super gentle. And then he

651
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,480
just hes, he this is John Go's. He's a very

652
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:05,599
transactional dog, not interested in like pats or attention. He

653
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:07,839
was like, he just wants to give me that fucking

654
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,000
food and gives me right now, right now. Then we

655
00:33:11,079 --> 00:33:13,480
get in the car and then Sadie was like, I

656
00:33:13,559 --> 00:33:18,200
love him. And the reason for that is because when

657
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:20,480
we were just all chilling out and like not paying

658
00:33:20,519 --> 00:33:23,880
attention to him. He walked over and like sat.

659
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 3: Oh really, Sadie. Oh, and she.

660
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 1: Was like, well, there you go, that's my dog right right.

661
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:32,799
I was like, I kind of feel like it's gonna

662
00:33:32,839 --> 00:33:34,359
make me nervous to have a dog.

663
00:33:34,519 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 3: Yes, and yeah, I totally don't I get exactly what

664
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:42,319
you're saying. You can't have that kind of dog if

665
00:33:42,359 --> 00:33:44,839
that's what I mean. At my house, he was, the

666
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,319
vibes were off. Kids come and go all the time.

667
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,279
No way, I do not want a dog barking and

668
00:33:50,319 --> 00:33:52,039
growling when somebody walks into the door.

669
00:33:52,279 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a pain in the ass. And I'm gonna

670
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:59,400
be totally honest. His energy was scared me a little bit. Yeah,

671
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,480
and then she he told me like, well, maybe he

672
00:34:01,519 --> 00:34:04,359
was reacting to your energy, maybe like you're nervous. You

673
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,759
were nervous, And I was like, then where are never

674
00:34:06,759 --> 00:34:09,119
going to get cause because he growled at me, Like

675
00:34:09,639 --> 00:34:12,079
anybody's energy is going to be nervous if a dog

676
00:34:12,119 --> 00:34:16,559
greets them by grumling exactly. And then the guy was like,

677
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,880
well it's because like listen, oh. And then she kept

678
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:24,599
saying like is this his behavior? Like have you seen this? Before,

679
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,840
and the guy was like, well, it's because like before

680
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,800
the holidays, there are a lot of people around all

681
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,199
the time, and he was totally fine. But ever since

682
00:34:32,199 --> 00:34:34,239
the holidays has just been really calm, so he's not

683
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:38,400
used to people. It's like oh. And then he also

684
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,679
told me that when he takes him on walks, he

685
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,280
has to be careful of other dogs, because I could

686
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,719
see that very picky about other dogs and like he

687
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:49,480
doesn't want he doesn't want to like go say hi

688
00:34:49,639 --> 00:34:51,800
to other things. And I was like, well, my neighborhood

689
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:52,280
is full of.

690
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 3: Full of DoD dogs no way that just interact with

691
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,760
each other. I want to walk my dog and be

692
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,840
like scared exactly, I don't come close.

693
00:35:01,119 --> 00:35:01,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

694
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,679
Speaker 3: I don't like those kind of dogs. They freak me out.

695
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:06,559
Oh poor Clyde.

696
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: Okay, so here's the good news. The good news is

697
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,159
that I did it. I was brave, and I have

698
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,360
to meet the dog. And the good news is that

699
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,519
I'm like, oh, I'm totally ready for a dog. Oh good.

700
00:35:18,599 --> 00:35:22,199
I scared myself, but now and I'm just like okay,

701
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,679
now I can be picky. Yeah, and I know what

702
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,039
I want. We want a super friendly dog. And it

703
00:35:27,079 --> 00:35:32,639
doesn't need to be a big boxer any smaller, scruffy dog.

704
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,440
It just needs to be the right dog, and it

705
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,639
needs to be very friendly. And I understand for all

706
00:35:37,679 --> 00:35:41,079
the dog lovers out there that work and rescue, I

707
00:35:41,119 --> 00:35:45,320
totally get that these dogs come from unpredictable homes and

708
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,159
they're gonna have quirks and we'll probably have to get it.

709
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:51,079
I get all that. Yeah, but like, you don't want

710
00:35:51,119 --> 00:35:55,679
to go into it with a dog that you feel unpredictable, right,

711
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,280
You don't want to make a gamble, right?

712
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 3: I agree, And I think give the dog back? No now, no,

713
00:36:00,559 --> 00:36:02,960
and asshole no? And I agree, and I think that

714
00:36:03,599 --> 00:36:06,920
you're right. You can be picky and now maybe you go.

715
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:09,679
You can't just go and take the first dog you meet.

716
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,239
I think you got to go meet other dogs. Yes,

717
00:36:12,599 --> 00:36:14,760
just like I would tell my single friends that are

718
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:16,239
going on dates.

719
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 1: Right, you don't just look on Tinder and go, well,

720
00:36:18,519 --> 00:36:21,960
there's my guy, marry him right now, I'll have one

721
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,960
meet and great decision and go, I get I guess

722
00:36:25,039 --> 00:36:27,760
that's the guy I'm bringing home? Right, No, you got

723
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:28,440
to bed every night.

724
00:36:28,519 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 3: You gotta keep going. You gotta go on dates, right, Yeah,

725
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,559
you gotta find out, like what's their politics right now?

726
00:36:35,599 --> 00:36:40,079
I don't I wonder about this this particular place, because I.

727
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:43,599
Speaker 1: Think they're great and I think they want what's best

728
00:36:43,639 --> 00:36:47,559
for the dogs. Yeah, I think she it's called it

729
00:36:47,599 --> 00:36:51,840
a real good rescue. I really think this woman is amazing.

730
00:36:52,079 --> 00:36:55,960
Her name was Kelly. I don't think she was trying

731
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,599
to like pressure me into it. She really believes that

732
00:36:58,679 --> 00:37:02,039
this is and I bet you her all her interactions

733
00:37:02,039 --> 00:37:06,559
with this dog have been amazing, right, And I think that,

734
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:09,519
like you drive out, she also drove out an hour

735
00:37:09,639 --> 00:37:13,039
to make it happen, and I think she just wanted

736
00:37:13,039 --> 00:37:15,400
it to work. But she was She's in no way

737
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,719
pressured me. I've not heard from her since. She was like,

738
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,880
sleep on it, think about it, and whatever you decide. Yeah,

739
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,880
So I don't think she was at all like lying

740
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,199
about it. I just think that dogs are unpredictable.

741
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:26,519
Speaker 3: Right.

742
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 1: Of course, I see him and she was like, listen,

743
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,199
the next step. We would never just like give you

744
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,400
the dog and like have a good day. She's like,

745
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,519
we would bring him to you. He'd be on your territory.

746
00:37:37,559 --> 00:37:40,599
We see how he acts there. But you didn't want

747
00:37:40,599 --> 00:37:41,239
to do that enough.

748
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:42,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know.

749
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that because.

750
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, well especially it sounds like you don't want to

751
00:37:46,599 --> 00:37:49,159
have that dog walk your dog in a neighborhood where

752
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,559
the dog is going to be growling and like don't

753
00:37:51,559 --> 00:37:54,400
get too close. You know that's that's a pain in

754
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,519
the ass. And also with the kids coming and going,

755
00:37:56,599 --> 00:37:58,119
like that's not going to work.

756
00:37:58,159 --> 00:38:00,119
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to create a dog and

757
00:38:00,199 --> 00:38:03,679
like make sure that you know he's not barking ferociously

758
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,679
at my kids' friends coming. Yeah, I don't. I just

759
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:06,320
don't want that.

760
00:38:06,599 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 3: No, And there's plenty of other dogs out there that

761
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,159
are so sweet, and I've.

762
00:38:11,039 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 1: Already seen a bunch online that I literally filled out

763
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:18,679
an application at a different rescue, not because I one

764
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,760
hundred percent want to adopt one, but just because I

765
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:23,800
want to go to their adoption event. And there's one.

766
00:38:24,039 --> 00:38:25,760
It's the other one I put up on our site,

767
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:29,559
Yeah dog named Bunny that it looks so sweet, and

768
00:38:29,599 --> 00:38:32,280
I'm like, Okay, I'm going to take it slow though, right,

769
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,800
So meet the dog. I've already filled out an app

770
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:36,960
You can't even talk to them about it until you

771
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:37,880
fill out an.

772
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:40,039
Speaker 3: Applic so you can't even meet the dog. First. You

773
00:38:40,079 --> 00:38:41,360
have to do all that.

774
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:45,639
Speaker 1: You can at an adoption event, but you can't set

775
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,679
up any kind of meet and greet if you haven't applied.

776
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 3: Okay, all right.

777
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:53,159
Speaker 1: I know it is weird because it's like it's like

778
00:38:53,159 --> 00:38:55,320
you're applying and then they're going to be like, okay,

779
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:58,239
so how soon people, right, yeah, and you're like, well no,

780
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I just want to Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Bim, Wow, now I want to go get another dog?

803
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:15,639
Speaker 1: You want it? His friend? I think, Phil.

804
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 3: I know I've been talking about it, but you know,

805
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,800
with the kids gone, it just is another dog.

806
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 1: I know, getquide. No, I'm just kidding. I don't know.

807
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:29,639
Speaker 3: I gotta you know, he's he gets a lot of

808
00:40:29,679 --> 00:40:33,000
walks and he gets his exercise, but he's also slowing down.

809
00:40:33,599 --> 00:40:36,039
He's very like even he's a pain in the ass

810
00:40:36,079 --> 00:40:39,960
to walk, you know, he always stops a couple blocks

811
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,119
and likes to lay on the grass and just hang out,

812
00:40:42,599 --> 00:40:44,599
you know, and like we're not hanging out, let's go

813
00:40:45,039 --> 00:40:47,480
come on. But he's always been like that's before he

814
00:40:47,559 --> 00:40:51,239
was slow exactly, but even now, like I try to

815
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,719
take him out, like you know, in the morning and

816
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,000
then in the evening for just like a little like

817
00:40:56,119 --> 00:40:58,880
walk up and down the street. And that walk now

818
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,320
is like he's just kind of like, you know, like

819
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,559
he knows and he's like, I don't need to go.

820
00:41:03,679 --> 00:41:06,760
I'm good. I mean he'll go, but like he doesn't

821
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,320
go very far in the evenings.

822
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,159
Speaker 1: Now, how old is he? Exactly?

823
00:41:10,199 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 3: Again, he's ten?

824
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: Okay, Like when will he be eleven?

825
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:19,039
Speaker 3: September? Oh so he just turned ten? Yeah, yeah, I

826
00:41:19,079 --> 00:41:21,880
mean ten is a senior dog. Yeah, he's a senior.

827
00:41:22,039 --> 00:41:23,960
He's got a lot of gray around his face now.

828
00:41:24,119 --> 00:41:26,599
And he's a big boy and he's a big boy

829
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,320
and he's pain in the ass and he thinks he,

830
00:41:29,679 --> 00:41:32,760
you know, can push me around. You know, like he

831
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:34,880
gets up in the morning and he gets when he's ready,

832
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,360
he just comes to the side of my bed and

833
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:37,480
kicks my night stand.

834
00:41:38,199 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: He literally kicks the night stand.

835
00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:42,679
Speaker 3: He just hits it, kicks it and keeps kicking it.

836
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,280
I go, Phil just la with his with his foot,

837
00:41:46,519 --> 00:41:48,360
with his he stands in front of me, takes the

838
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:50,920
right foot and goes to the left like the bam

839
00:41:51,159 --> 00:41:54,719
and kicks it. And I'm like, Phil, just sometimes he'll

840
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,559
go just lay down, lay down, and then he'll lay

841
00:41:56,559 --> 00:41:59,559
down and then he's like, no, not having, I'm not having.

842
00:41:59,599 --> 00:42:02,079
Its time to get up for me to go outside.

843
00:42:02,159 --> 00:42:05,639
I want my breakfast, let's go, let's go for a walk.

844
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:10,840
I'm like, all right, but I like it, you know. Yeah,

845
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,159
it's my little companion.

846
00:42:13,119 --> 00:42:15,519
Speaker 1: I wonder if you had another dog, if it would

847
00:42:15,599 --> 00:42:19,159
just help like keep him company, right, do you feel?

848
00:42:19,199 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, because sometimes I leave for long periods of time.

849
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,159
I always put the TV on when I leave, and

850
00:42:25,559 --> 00:42:27,480
I put the lights on if it's going to get dark,

851
00:42:28,039 --> 00:42:31,119
you know. And I mean it's not that often, but

852
00:42:31,159 --> 00:42:33,760
there's times during the week where I leave, I'm gone,

853
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:35,920
and he's just you know, by himself.

854
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 1: Where are you going? I got places to go this Yeah,

855
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:45,599
to the gym.

856
00:42:45,679 --> 00:42:49,679
Speaker 3: I go to the gym, the grocery stores. Yeah. No,

857
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,239
not six hours, but like you know, the other day

858
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,320
to drive Natalia, it took me three hours, you know,

859
00:42:56,039 --> 00:42:58,480
and I was gone, you know, for that was a

860
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,519
long period of time. But you know, I don't know,

861
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:03,280
and like if I go visit in a tie to

862
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,400
Santa Barba. I took him once, but you know, he

863
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:09,760
was okay in the car for two hours. But I

864
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,840
don't know, you know, And then also he is so

865
00:43:13,159 --> 00:43:16,960
dirty his I try and brush him out, but he

866
00:43:17,079 --> 00:43:19,039
goes out and he sits in the sun and he

867
00:43:19,079 --> 00:43:20,880
bakes in the sun. And then he's got that doggie

868
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:22,840
bio and then he goes in the grass and he

869
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:24,920
rolls around in the grass. And then I brush him

870
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,360
out and he sleeps on my bed and I got

871
00:43:27,519 --> 00:43:29,960
dog hair all over one half the side of my bed.

872
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,079
I put blankets down, I do put towels down. But

873
00:43:33,119 --> 00:43:36,599
what he does is he slides off the bed at night,

874
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,400
like he'll go off to the side. He slides off

875
00:43:39,559 --> 00:43:41,039
and you look on that side of the bed there's

876
00:43:41,119 --> 00:43:45,840
hair everywhere. Oh yeah, I'm constantly vacuuming. I mean, like

877
00:43:46,199 --> 00:43:48,159
I'm trying to keep my bed clean on that side

878
00:43:48,199 --> 00:43:48,519
of the bed.

879
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:49,519
Speaker 1: It's impossible.

880
00:43:49,559 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 3: Like I have to vacuum my bed like every night

881
00:43:52,199 --> 00:43:53,039
before I go to bed.

882
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 1: Well that's not going to change, it's not.

883
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 3: But like then I'm gonna get another dog, and when

884
00:43:58,440 --> 00:43:59,960
they're a mess, and then what if they want to

885
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,880
Like I'm not good at being like, hey, you got

886
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:06,880
to sleep on your bed, right. I tried that with

887
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:12,920
Phil so many times and he's like yeah, right, I know.

888
00:44:13,079 --> 00:44:14,960
He gets on my little stool and then he gets

889
00:44:15,039 --> 00:44:16,559
up on my bed. Before he used to be able

890
00:44:16,599 --> 00:44:18,599
to jump up, and he gets on the stool and

891
00:44:18,639 --> 00:44:19,480
then gets on my bed.

892
00:44:20,519 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: So we we what kind of Now it's too late

893
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:25,039
for Penelope, But what kind of.

894
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 3: Stool is it?

895
00:44:26,039 --> 00:44:26,159
Speaker 1: Like?

896
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,880
Speaker 3: I have a little ottoman that I've had for a

897
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,039
long period of time to picture that, and it was

898
00:44:31,119 --> 00:44:33,679
like in my closet, but now I just put it

899
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,760
at the at the end of my bed. So he

900
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:39,000
just like steps up, gets on and gets up and

901
00:44:39,039 --> 00:44:39,480
he's fine.

902
00:44:39,559 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: That's what we needed for Penelope, because she couldn't get

903
00:44:42,519 --> 00:44:44,679
on the bed. Yeah, and then she would just go

904
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:46,920
stand at the bed and then she'd put her paws

905
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,280
yeah up and then I'd boost her butt.

906
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 3: But she was smaller. Yeah, Phil's bigger.

907
00:44:52,079 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: She could jump on the bed until like the last

908
00:44:55,199 --> 00:44:57,920
like nine months of her life. Yeah.

909
00:44:58,559 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 3: And then and then Phil gets on my bed. And

910
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:05,280
the way he sleeps, his butt is right next to me,

911
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:06,400
like right next.

912
00:45:06,599 --> 00:45:08,119
Speaker 1: He likes to sleep up against the.

913
00:45:08,079 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 3: Headboard, but he doesn't sleep with his head Sometimes he

914
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,559
does like towards me. When he starts to get to

915
00:45:14,559 --> 00:45:16,079
go to bed, he'll get on the bed and he

916
00:45:16,119 --> 00:45:18,480
put his head towards me, and then he'll fall asleep,

917
00:45:18,519 --> 00:45:22,800
starts snoring in my ear, and then eventually he gets up,

918
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,360
turns around and then faces the other way, so his

919
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,039
ass is right next to my head.

920
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: But don't you kind of love that? It's kind of cute.

921
00:45:30,599 --> 00:45:34,920
It is. But then he passes gas and shit, m yeah,

922
00:45:35,039 --> 00:45:37,440
but isn't it kind of comforting like it is?

923
00:45:38,159 --> 00:45:42,079
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I do enjoy it, trust me, I do

924
00:45:42,159 --> 00:45:42,519
love it.

925
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 1: He's like a big dog.

926
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:47,519
Speaker 3: He's just a big goofy, lovey goofy. He loves to

927
00:45:47,559 --> 00:45:48,599
be with people.

928
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:52,679
Speaker 1: And they're breathing. Yes, he's so comforting about a dog's breathing. Oh,

929
00:45:52,679 --> 00:45:53,079
it's the.

930
00:45:53,079 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 3: Best I know. And he breathes and then he dreams

931
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,760
and he starts twitching and you know, doing all his thing,

932
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,880
and you know, and he loves to be around people

933
00:46:02,039 --> 00:46:04,559
like he doesn't. He follows me everywhere. If I get

934
00:46:04,639 --> 00:46:05,880
up in the middle of the night to go out

935
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:07,880
to the kitchen, he gets up and comes out to

936
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:12,000
the kitchen. Sometimes he wants a treat because sometimes when

937
00:46:12,039 --> 00:46:14,400
I'm getting ready to go to bed, you know, he'll

938
00:46:14,519 --> 00:46:17,119
like come on, like he doesn't want to settle down.

939
00:46:17,159 --> 00:46:19,239
He's like, stands at the doorway, like, don't you want to,

940
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,639
like get me a treat? And I get him a treat,

941
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:23,880
and then sometimes I don't and I go to bed

942
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,599
and I fall asleep, and then he comes in the

943
00:46:25,639 --> 00:46:27,480
middle of the night he like kicks the stand and

944
00:46:27,519 --> 00:46:29,239
I think he has to go to the bathroom. So

945
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:30,840
I get up and I go, okay, let's go outside

946
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,239
and go peepees. And he's like no, he goes. He

947
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:34,800
stands by his treat corner.

948
00:46:35,039 --> 00:46:39,039
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's very he can get the late night munchies.

949
00:46:39,199 --> 00:46:43,760
Speaker 3: He does, he does, he does. He definitely, he definitely

950
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:47,280
has character. He definitely knows how to communicate to me

951
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:51,519
when he wants something. You know, he's very cute. It

952
00:46:51,679 --> 00:46:53,800
is cute. He's a really he's a great He would

953
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,679
have been a great dog for your family.

954
00:46:56,119 --> 00:46:59,119
Speaker 1: See now you're making me even more like all the

955
00:46:59,159 --> 00:47:01,400
things that you said that you think would dissuade me.

956
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,679
I'm all like, I want a dog to make a

957
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:10,000
mess on my bed, I guess in my face, dirt

958
00:47:10,039 --> 00:47:13,159
all over my covers. He does. He's dirty, you know,

959
00:47:13,559 --> 00:47:15,280
like Penelope was filthy.

960
00:47:15,599 --> 00:47:18,519
Speaker 3: Yes, And I tried, like I brush him. I got

961
00:47:18,559 --> 00:47:20,480
like this. You know, well he gets it. He gets

962
00:47:20,519 --> 00:47:23,840
a bath every couple of weeks. But I get this

963
00:47:24,039 --> 00:47:28,000
like a dry shampoo for the dog. Spray it on him.

964
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,079
I brush it down. But then what he does. He

965
00:47:30,079 --> 00:47:32,719
goes and lays in the grass and twirls around the glass,

966
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,239
and he lays on the concrete. It's all dusty and dirty.

967
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:37,239
And then he gets in my bed, and then my

968
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:41,559
bed is all dusty and dirty and grassy and hair everywhere.

969
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 1: It's it's just the deal we make with the devil.

970
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:49,880
It is for the love. Yeah, but then you've got

971
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:52,679
this big dog in your house that loves you again.

972
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:54,079
I'm so happy to see you.

973
00:47:54,119 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 3: And oh yeah yeah. When I come home, he's right there.

974
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,320
I go Mommy's home, and he all comes running, and

975
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,000
Ragon is standing by his tree cabinet.

976
00:48:03,119 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: Even the things that I annoyed me about Canalope are

977
00:48:07,599 --> 00:48:11,840
things I fully miss now, Like how I could never

978
00:48:12,119 --> 00:48:14,000
make myself something to eat and bring it in the

979
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:16,760
bedroom because or I just had to know that I

980
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:22,800
had to share it. She was hardcore beggar. I know

981
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:27,119
people are gonna whatever, fuck off judging judging me. Don't

982
00:48:27,119 --> 00:48:29,920
give your dog any tables craps. Well that didn't happen. Yeah,

983
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:33,880
you did give her tables off people that are gonna

984
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:37,159
judge whatever, But yes, we did teach a bad habit,

985
00:48:37,199 --> 00:48:39,039
which is like we'd want to share our food with

986
00:48:39,079 --> 00:48:41,920
her sometimes so then she would fully expect it. So

987
00:48:42,039 --> 00:48:45,320
you couldn't eat something without her face being next to

988
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:49,400
your face, just going like hopefully you'll offer me. Listen,

989
00:48:49,519 --> 00:48:52,280
she had a day honor. She wouldn't like, she would

990
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:55,639
never like eat like if you're holding a sandwich, she

991
00:48:55,639 --> 00:48:58,159
wouldn't try to eat it, but she would wait there

992
00:48:58,199 --> 00:49:03,280
for you, like right, pees, yeah, I have this same ye,

993
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:07,239
I now have some mold. No, those big puppy dog

994
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,960
eyes said. It became like bite for me, bite for you, Oh,

995
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,320
bite got me? And then I just did this the

996
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:12,840
other night.

997
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:15,519
Speaker 3: I got in bed and I got cheese its and

998
00:49:15,559 --> 00:49:17,840
Phil gets on the bed and he's just sitting there

999
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,320
looking right at me and he's like.

1000
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,360
Speaker 1: In the way of the TV, and I can you move?

1001
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 3: Move And then he sits there and just stares at me,

1002
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,480
and I just have one cheese, one for me, one

1003
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:28,639
for you, one for me, one for you. So then

1004
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:31,599
he now he knows like then if I'm eating. You know,

1005
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:35,840
he always is right there. He's always been that way.

1006
00:49:36,199 --> 00:49:38,280
He loves he's so motivated by food.

1007
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Well when we got Penelope, Annie, the woman

1008
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:47,440
who was fostering her, was like, oh what. The one

1009
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,159
thing you really have to watch out for is she's

1010
00:49:49,199 --> 00:49:52,760
like a counter surfer. Like she said, if there's any

1011
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,079
food anywhere on a counter, she will try to jump

1012
00:49:55,159 --> 00:49:57,079
up on the counter and get the food. Yeah, and

1013
00:49:57,119 --> 00:49:59,320
I have to say she did not ever do that

1014
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:05,599
with us, but she definitely wanted anything you're eating. Right,

1015
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,400
She looked like she was starving to death. That you

1016
00:50:08,559 --> 00:50:11,320
never ever feed her, Yes, she would give you. Those

1017
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:14,199
The reason we loved her for her soulful eyes. Right,

1018
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:18,639
soulful eyes could turn against you. Yes, they're like why

1019
00:50:18,639 --> 00:50:20,039
are you so mean? Right?

1020
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:20,679
Speaker 3: Right?

1021
00:50:21,039 --> 00:50:21,280
Speaker 1: Yes?

1022
00:50:21,639 --> 00:50:24,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I can't tell you how many times

1023
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,840
Phil has snatched the bagel out of like Sonny, not

1024
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,039
out of the hand, but like if he sits it

1025
00:50:30,119 --> 00:50:33,480
down somewhere, it's gone. I mean the other day I

1026
00:50:33,519 --> 00:50:36,599
had like half a sandwich and I accidentally like put

1027
00:50:36,599 --> 00:50:39,199
it down on a side table and went around to

1028
00:50:39,199 --> 00:50:39,679
the kitchen.

1029
00:50:40,079 --> 00:50:40,440
Speaker 1: Gone.

1030
00:50:41,119 --> 00:50:43,599
Speaker 3: I was like, what was I thinking? Like you can't

1031
00:50:43,679 --> 00:50:46,920
leave like anything, He'll jump up and get it. Yeah,

1032
00:50:47,079 --> 00:50:48,400
won't take it out of your hand. But if you

1033
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:49,519
walk away, it's gone.

1034
00:50:49,599 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: Wait yet, I totally missed that. Like if I just go,

1035
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:56,360
you know, walking into my bedroom with a bagel, it's like,

1036
00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:00,519
ohrog to try to like, yeah, I know that I'm

1037
00:51:00,519 --> 00:51:03,239
going to have to share it with just like huh,

1038
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,559
I know, and so I'll just eat my bagel.

1039
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 3: Right.

1040
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:13,599
Speaker 1: So anyway, as you can see, I'm ready for a dog.

1041
00:51:15,639 --> 00:51:17,360
I think I just wanted to tell you one more

1042
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:21,280
thing on this episode, which is not a huge deal,

1043
00:51:21,599 --> 00:51:28,360
but oh, a couple things. Well okay, so I'll save

1044
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:31,239
that for Friday's episode. So remember last week I was

1045
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:33,679
telling you I wanted to go see this movie called

1046
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:38,840
Rosemead Yes with Lucy Lou about a mom of a

1047
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:45,199
troubled kid, and then one of our listeners offered to

1048
00:51:45,199 --> 00:51:47,519
go with me, which was very sweet. It turned out

1049
00:51:47,559 --> 00:51:51,840
the movie was going leaving on Thursday, last Thursday, and

1050
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:53,519
it was playing right up the street from my house.

1051
00:51:53,559 --> 00:51:56,679
So I was like, you know what, I haven't, first

1052
00:51:56,679 --> 00:51:59,400
of all, been to a movie in forever. I can't

1053
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:02,440
remember the time in life I went to a movie

1054
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:05,079
by myself. Yeah, but like I really want to see

1055
00:52:05,079 --> 00:52:08,119
this movie. Yeah, so I just went and saw it

1056
00:52:08,159 --> 00:52:11,159
all by myself. Really, and I will tell you this

1057
00:52:12,519 --> 00:52:17,320
very fucking depressing uh huh interesting, don't really?

1058
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 3: I mean, what if it comes on TV, would you

1059
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:20,519
recommend it?

1060
00:52:21,639 --> 00:52:25,679
Speaker 1: I don't think. So here's what I would recommend. Look

1061
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:29,559
up the story and there's an LA Times article that's

1062
00:52:30,159 --> 00:52:33,480
that will tell you what the story is, okay, And

1063
00:52:33,519 --> 00:52:37,239
then if you if that story sounds like something you

1064
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:40,679
want to see, then sure, I feel like you should

1065
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,840
know how it ends before you see it, which I can't.

1066
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:47,920
I sensed that I knew how it was going to end.

1067
00:52:48,039 --> 00:52:52,360
It's it's very much a downer, okay, okay, And I

1068
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:55,960
was like, what, Like, I know, we loved like true

1069
00:52:55,960 --> 00:53:00,639
crime and stuff like, but sometimes you're like, why would

1070
00:53:00,639 --> 00:53:04,079
I Why would I purposely want to see a depressing

1071
00:53:04,119 --> 00:53:06,639
story that I could just read the story about and go, oh,

1072
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,599
that's that's so sad. Why do I just want to

1073
00:53:09,599 --> 00:53:09,880
see me?

1074
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:14,119
Speaker 3: Yeah? Get played out right, And I mean I get

1075
00:53:14,159 --> 00:53:16,320
you with that, you know, but.

1076
00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:19,679
Speaker 1: You get my attention. And one thing that's good about

1077
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:23,000
seeing a movie in the movie theater is uh, you're

1078
00:53:23,039 --> 00:53:26,119
not on your phone, right, It's true, be tempted. Yeah,

1079
00:53:26,119 --> 00:53:27,519
it's not going to be on your phone. You're just

1080
00:53:27,519 --> 00:53:30,480
going to watch the movie. And it definitely kept my attention.

1081
00:53:30,679 --> 00:53:33,280
And as I told you last week when we had

1082
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:35,760
the whole convo about running times, it was only like

1083
00:53:36,039 --> 00:53:39,239
a little over an hour and a half. So it

1084
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:42,280
was But you know what was good was kind of

1085
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,440
the experience of I was like, yeah, that was so

1086
00:53:44,599 --> 00:53:46,719
that was like kind of cool, Like just took myself

1087
00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:47,559
to the movie. You know.

1088
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:50,079
Speaker 3: I went to the movie one time by myself and

1089
00:53:50,119 --> 00:53:55,920
it was the movie with Jody Foster accused. Oh yeah,

1090
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:58,559
bad movie for a girl like as in my twenties.

1091
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:00,760
Speaker 1: I don't know why I was think.

1092
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 3: I was dating Mike at the time, and I was

1093
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:03,920
like he didn't want to go see it, and I

1094
00:54:04,039 --> 00:54:06,400
really wanted to see it, and he was like, well

1095
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:10,480
just go, so I went. I mean it was traumatizing

1096
00:54:10,679 --> 00:54:12,400
at to say, right, that is the only time I

1097
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:15,039
went to the movie by myself. Yeah, not the movie

1098
00:54:15,079 --> 00:54:17,679
you want to see alone, No, not for a girl

1099
00:54:17,679 --> 00:54:19,639
in the movie theater to sit there and watch.

1100
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:20,519
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1101
00:54:20,559 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 3: I didn't know it was going to be that bad, but.

1102
00:54:23,159 --> 00:54:26,559
Speaker 1: I remember and this is this is totally different, but

1103
00:54:26,639 --> 00:54:29,800
you're going to see the connection. I used to go

1104
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:33,000
in my twenties and see Sam Kennison at the comedy store.

1105
00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:36,320
He would play on Sunday nights, and I remember one

1106
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:42,760
time I went by myself and Sam Kinnison was I

1107
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,679
really liked him when I was younger, when I was

1108
00:54:44,679 --> 00:54:46,559
like in high school, and I would see his specials.

1109
00:54:46,599 --> 00:54:50,480
But the actual person Sam Kinnison in his comedy was

1110
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:54,159
pretty fucking dark and anti women, and he would he

1111
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:58,079
was very angry person. Yeah, and he would start these

1112
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:01,760
chants about like fun that bitch, and like fuck your

1113
00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,480
ex girlfriend, and he would he would call people's like

1114
00:55:04,599 --> 00:55:08,079
ex girlfriends. Wowance he would get to take take the

1115
00:55:08,119 --> 00:55:09,760
person's phone and call them and then to.

1116
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 3: Go fuck yeah, oh my god.

1117
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:17,039
Speaker 1: Then people would start chanting like poor, oh my god,

1118
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:18,760
and then I'd have to leave and walk to my car.

1119
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:19,519
Speaker 3: But I'm wow.

1120
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: And I remember thet when that happened, and I was like,

1121
00:55:23,519 --> 00:55:26,960
this was a bad choice, yeah, because now I'm scared.

1122
00:55:27,079 --> 00:55:31,880
All these men are riled up against women. Right, you're

1123
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:34,559
out there at night in Hollywood, walk in your car

1124
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:37,079
Sunset Boulevard. Yeah, that's bad my car.

1125
00:55:37,599 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's no plano. I'd like to go see sing

1126
00:55:41,599 --> 00:55:44,599
Song Blue Song Song Sung Blue.

1127
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:50,000
Speaker 1: Okay, literally, who was I talking to? Oh? My friend Cecily.

1128
00:55:50,639 --> 00:55:55,079
She just watched it last night. She was like, heads up,

1129
00:55:55,199 --> 00:55:56,239
it's really sad.

1130
00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:59,519
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I've heard that, Suzanne sad.

1131
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:04,400
Speaker 1: I didn't know anything about it except like the subject, right,

1132
00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:06,719
I didn't. I don't know too much about it.

1133
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 3: But Suzanne did see it, and she it was not

1134
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:12,960
kind of what she was expecting, but it was interesting.

1135
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:15,760
And I was like, was there a lot of Neil Diamonds?

1136
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:18,360
So she's like, oh yeah, and I love Neil Diamond.

1137
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:23,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. So I don't know, like I'm going.

1138
00:56:23,199 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 3: To too wait for it to come on TV though, Yeah.

1139
00:56:27,639 --> 00:56:32,320
Speaker 1: It's I think you can rent it, oh really yeah yeah,

1140
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,639
because my friend watched it streaming. But I think they

1141
00:56:34,679 --> 00:56:35,920
had to pay like twenty bucks.

1142
00:56:36,199 --> 00:56:39,400
Speaker 3: Oh okay, well still all right, let me I'll watch

1143
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:39,800
it so.

1144
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:44,039
Speaker 1: You pay at the movies. Yeah, okay, listen, I've got

1145
00:56:44,039 --> 00:56:48,320
that more stuff for Friday's show. We watched, Oh, Let's

1146
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:49,599
give people a homework assignment?

1147
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:54,400
Speaker 3: Yes, okay. So there's a documentary called Buried and it

1148
00:56:54,519 --> 00:56:57,079
was on Showtime for a long time, but now it's

1149
00:56:57,159 --> 00:57:00,800
on Paramount Plus. But it's also on Amazon, and I

1150
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:02,960
think on Hulu and it's just called Buried.

1151
00:57:03,039 --> 00:57:04,559
Speaker 1: It's not on my Hulu.

1152
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 3: It's not How did you did you watch it? I

1153
00:57:07,280 --> 00:57:11,719
watched it on Amazon? Okay, all right, so hey for it? Yeah, yeah,

1154
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:15,400
seven ninety nine. But it's four episodes. It's four episodes,

1155
00:57:15,639 --> 00:57:17,159
and it's a true story.

1156
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:20,920
Speaker 1: But I never heard of it, had you? And no,

1157
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,440
I've never heard of it either. Yet it was a

1158
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:26,679
big story, and frickin' I thought of you. I almost

1159
00:57:26,719 --> 00:57:30,719
texted you about this because it took place in Canoga Park,

1160
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:33,360
how much more in your backyard exactly.

1161
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:35,679
Speaker 3: I was hoping you catch that because I was like,

1162
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:37,920
I even looked up her address, like she lived a

1163
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:40,280
couple of blocks from me from in Canoga Park. Yeah,

1164
00:57:40,679 --> 00:57:44,039
it takes place in the eighties, but I mean it

1165
00:57:44,079 --> 00:57:47,480
goes way back. The crime was in the sixty nine,

1166
00:57:47,679 --> 00:57:50,239
but then shit started coming out in the late in

1167
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the eighties and then into the nineties and then into

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the nineties. And you think, you think something in the

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first episode, but then as it goes on, you're like, wait,

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what was in a different direction? And then it ends

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with like, wait, what like it just zigs and zags.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we we would prefer if you guys watch

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it so we can really talk about it. Yeah, and

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out worrying about the main girl.

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Speaker 3: She was on Oprah, she was on Larry King, she

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was all over the news when it was a lot.

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I guess it was on the news a lot back

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in the eighties.

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Speaker 1: Apparently so huge news story, but I did not. It

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did not seem familiar to me. Yeah, yeah, okay, so

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do that and let's say hello to our friends. We

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got Dick frolicking and dial frolicking. Call your girl, Nikki.

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Elizabeth Williamson is still She's just had another baby, which

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is crazy because last week she had one too. Really.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's papping those babies.

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Speaker 1: And Rita Bassiat's helping her out, you know how. In

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her best if you Love your Pancakes, Valerie hits it

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out of the park.

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Speaker 3: Katerina, girl, check it before you wreck it. Yeah, Gabby

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and Missy does get still in trouble.

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Speaker 1: Yep, you one flip flop. Rebecca Kelly Brandt, she's your aunt.

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Speaker 3: She'll take you to play.

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Speaker 1: Parent Alicias go on to from the City.

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Speaker 3: And Leslie is it covid. I don't know why she's

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still coughing. Maybe it's the flu. She's like me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Aaron is a dirty Sanchaz Santra. It's not easy

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being green. Stephanie's a sticker rinker. Christas Strap and our

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friends well Adam every week, Adam Lerner. Adam's got a car,

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super to do, super nice to talk to, very easy.

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Jacob Crowley is super Growley and he's love out a

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c l U. Yes, you have any money to spare,

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they'll check them out. You they We could use them

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right now. Everything that's going on in this country craziness.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Jacob.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Fern Candle. That's our friend Kelsey. She runs the

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business out of her home. She makes yummy, smelling soy

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candles and great gifts. You can find her on Instagram

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at fern Candle. Also, I will do that one. Well,

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you know what. Our friend Christine is Christine Concierge, travel planner,

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Christine at Waves and Wonder Travel. We love her. Kelly

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Woman Frida, We love Womanfreeda Springs and Palm Desert. Check

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them out. Basic Becky Her website is just basic Beecky

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dot com peruse that pick out anything you like that

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she's already made. If you're on the island of Kawhi,

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check out Sugar Skull. That's a bakery and gift shop

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and they do wedding cakes and or you can follow

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their Instagram page at Sugar Skull eight oh eight.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, save a couple for next week. I love

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you guys, you're a parent.

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Speaker 1: Now go and F and up's let