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Speaker 1: I made a decision Pace Sunny Sound on Ahead Vision.

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It's nice. Let's have everybody. We love you guys, thanks

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for joining us, for crying out loud. Yeah, we don't

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have Kaylin anymore. We don't. Where'd he go?

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Speaker 2: Well, he still exists, and that's what I wanted to

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bring up. He's doing really well with his I'm just

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fooling about podcasts, is he?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? And do you know that they just had James

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Cameron on last Wow. Yeah. I shot it it at

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James Cameron's really place or studio or you know, a space. Yeah,

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and uh yeah.

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Speaker 2: I watched some of the interview and it's like doing

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really well. These people were like, that's the best interview

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with James Cameron I've ever seen.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I gotta watch it. Go check out Kaylen's podcast.

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It gets like good get it's just a good vibe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to get you know, my friend, I've

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told you this before, but a good friend of mine's

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husband is named Shay Wigham and he's an actor Broadway, Boardwalk, Empire.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's been in like a ton of movies.

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Speaker 2: He's a character actor and they he knows Michael Bean

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and Michael Bean knows him, and I'm trying to get

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him on the show.

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Speaker 1: Oh nice, okay for Kaylin, Yeah, yeah, that's great. Yeah

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with him the other day, Well, good for him. I'm happy.

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I hope the kids are doing good. I think they are.

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I think I asked him recently how they're doing. They

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seem to be doing fine. Yeah. I mean, listen, it

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was his choice to live in Long Beach. Nobody told

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him to do that. I you know, he lives t far.

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I had to drive to Long Beach yesterday. Oh no,

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you did not, Yes, Well, I don't know my daughter

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these these you know, I don't know what. She went

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on a trip that her dad paid for for part

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of her Christmas present, and she so she flew out

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of John Wayne Airport in Long Beach, Okay, and then

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she flew back into lax. I don't know how that happened.

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I didn't book it. I think she did. But and

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then she's like, well, I gotta go get my car.

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I was like, how did I get hurt?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I have to take you to go get your car.

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It's it's an hour plus one way, so I'm gonna

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be sitting in the car for two plus hours on

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a Sunday, great, so I had to drive her out.

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But we did have a really nice day yesterday actually,

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because then we got back and then she wanted me

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to make chicken cutlets, which I made for her and

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I taught her how to make them, which was nice.

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So she helped me in the kitchen and she made

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a salad. Because Sonny's out of town too, I'm just

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a travel agent nowadays. What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Tell me where the kids are, because so either if

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them are back at school.

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Speaker 1: No, Sonny's going tomorrow back to school to Oregon. Okay,

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tomorrow morning, he's coming home as we speak right now.

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He was in Denver for the weekend with his dad.

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Dad invited him to go to Denver for the weekend,

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which I booked this trip. Then I had to book

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his trip going back to Oregon tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Well, why did you book his trip? Didn't Adam just

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book him with himself.

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Speaker 1: No, No, he invited him and he said, Dad invited

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me to Oregon or to Denver. Can you look at flights?

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And I was like why, I said, I'm I'm not

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booking your flight, and he was like, okay, I'll tell him.

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And then he went and watched football with him last Sunday,

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came back and said, yeah, Dad said no, he's paying

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for the hotel and everything. So and what am I

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gonna say, Well, tough luck, Stunny. You can't go.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm sorry, and I really don't want

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to start up internet chatter.

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Speaker 1: But what the actual fuck? I know?

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Speaker 2: What the what the fuck is that he invites him

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and then goes, but pay your own way with what

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job I know? So basically says, fuck you, I'm paying

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for I'm paying for.

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Speaker 1: The hotel for holf Yeah, tell you right. Wait, so

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he's paying for a hotel. He's going I'm sure to perform. Yeah,

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So he's getting a hotel paid for, right, and probably

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Sonny would sleep in his hotel room. I'm sure he's not, right,

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I don't know how what the setup. So he invites

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him but won't fly him, yeah, because he said he

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was paying for the hotels. So and then at one

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point am I going to say, like, oh, too bad, Sonny.

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Speaker 2: Of course you have to pay for it. But then

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also then he's not flying without him because you can't.

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Speaker 1: Know you well, because I think Adam was out there early,

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like early in the week. I don't know. So he

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was gone from Friday to today, comes back and then

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tomorrow morning goes back to Oregon. Itali's school doesn't start

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until the twenty third or something like that. Wow. Yeah, yeah,

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she has a long time so yeah, so she left

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her card, you know, John Wayne Airport. And where did

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she go? She went to Hawaii? Oh wow, Yeah, she

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got invited, but she had to pay for her plane ticket.

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So what a life we was? Was he in Hawaii too? No? No, no,

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was with her friends? She went with friends. But I

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thought you said he paid for her trip, was for

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her Christmas present, but he wouldn't pay for her flight. No,

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he paid for her flight. Oh okay, yeah, okay, yeah,

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but that's the thing. I didn't book it, so I

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didn't realize she was flying out of one airport and

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coming home different airport. So but then I had to

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pay the price of driving her out there to go

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get her car. But it ended up being a nice

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day because we made dinner and stuff. And then I

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forgot the Golden Globes was on. But then I did

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go online and watch the opening of Nicki Glazer. I

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fucking thought she was great. Yeah, she's great. She had

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like good spicy jokes but not too over like basically

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kind of the obvious stuff, but in a way like

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it was really smart, Like I love the stuff she

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was saying to Leonardo DiCaprio and Sean Penn. I mean

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she kind of went there. I mean she roasted him

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a little bit, saying he looked like an old leather purse. Yeah,

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a sexy a sexy leather purse. What did you think?

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Did you watch the show too? I will remember that

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I'd already seen her run the monologue.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, some of the jokes were the same. I knew

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what her delivery was going to be. Like, yeah, I

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already knew some of the jokes, but then some of

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them I didn't. I didn't really care for the rock paper.

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Speaker 1: I was just like, oh, right, do better? Right? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And also like overall, I thought she did really great

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and her timing is amazing. She's just a good performer. Yes,

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of throws it away. Yeah, But like the thing about

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George Clooney and then espresso maker, I was like I.

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Speaker 1: Didn't get that well that, yeah, does he goes? He

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was like, what does he do?

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Speaker 2: Commercials? Mus espresso. I was like, I guess, yeah, yeah,

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but like most people don't watch commercials anymore. I know,

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Speaker 1: Of us don't.

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Speaker 2: Didn't get it, so the delivery was funny, like when

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she was like, is it the pods?

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Speaker 1: Is it the whatever? But it like I don't think

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they should have used that joke. Yeah, yeah, she have

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like a team of writers or is it just yeah,

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my friend was on the team of writers. It's a

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huge team of writers. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It were going that wrote the monologue and then went

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around with her to the clubs every night and she

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then they changed jokes and they changed tags, and you.

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Speaker 1: Know, yeah, I liked her. A list and when I

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say a list, I mean a list of redact that's

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been heavily redacted. That was really good and the.

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Speaker 2: Word for best editing goes to the Justice Department.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was really fun. That was good. Yeah, she did.

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I think she did great. She seems like such a

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natural too, Like she doesn't seem tense or uncomfortable. She

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seems pretty natural up there, you know, like it feels

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seems really relaxed as.

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Speaker 2: A performer, as a former stand up comedian. I can

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tell you that is.

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Speaker 1: So hard to do. Oh, I can't imagine a lot

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of it is faking it.

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Speaker 2: There's just no possible way that she didn't feel a

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lot of pressure and nervousness because it was her second

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year going back, so she has to do as well

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as year one. Got that pressure. If you ever want

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to be asked back again, you better like kill it.

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you just.

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Speaker 1: Don't know, they're all for con temperamental.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't want to have a joke that you

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don't want bad feedback? Y.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, our poor, our poor friend Joe Cooy had on.

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Why do they got to bring him up in articles like.

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Speaker 2: He just listen from what I heard, this was behind

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the scenes stuff. Now, look, we like Joe Cooy. He's

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been nothing but gracious in our show. We did notice

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both of us. He's never he's never going to be

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listening to old episodes of for Crying Out Lost, right,

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which was years ago, he was pretty braggy, like he's

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pretty much knows he's great, and because he has a

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huge audience, he's broken to the top.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, stadiums.

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Speaker 2: Yep, you know, great, that's great, But that can go

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to your head too, and then when you get a

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job that you're like, oh yeah, yeah, okay, no, gad.

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He didn't want writers. He didn't, Oh no, didn't.

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Speaker 1: He blame a joke on a bad joke on the writers.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but which was very like, uh, kind of victimy

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because he didn't want writers, so he had his own,

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like his friends. He just thought he's going to sit

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and like, you know, sit with some of his friends.

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kind of hosting. So one of the things that makes

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job of like looking at the crowd but also keeping

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the audience at home, yes, but also bringing people in.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 2: Joe got nervous from the beginning because he didn't wasn't

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getting laughs right at the beginning, if you recall, and

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he started acting like he was working a comedy club, right,

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and he was like leaning over and like not looking

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at the camera. He wasn't presenting anymore. He seemed desperate

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and he was like trying to get laughs. He was

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commenting on his own not doing well.

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Speaker 1: Right, No, No, you can't wing it when you're hosting

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an award show like that. I mean, he thought he

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was going to like Jimmy has a whole bunch of

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writers when he does it, you know, professional. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And Nicki and the crew analyzed every joke because she

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was very careful of like, I want to be hard,

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but not like actually pick on celebrity. I don't want to,

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she said publicly somewhere like I don't want to not

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be able to like make eye contact with these people,

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right exactly. Yeah, you know, so she found a way

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to make some political jobs and make some you know,

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and and save the jobs for people personally knows like

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Speaker 1: Yet you're right, right, yeah, she knows it's gonna laugh. Yeah.

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like the mid break, she did another sort of mini

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monologue in the middle. It was not good. It wasn't No,

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And I don't remember my friend telling me that they

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wrote that for her. I don't never heard about that. Well,

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I wasn't it good? Was it just?

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Speaker 2: It just wasn't really that funny, and I didn't really

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even get what she was talking about that much. And

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then I looked at the comments on YouTube and they're

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Speaker 1: Great, right, Yeah. I mean some of the articles I

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it just went into a snooze fast after that, it

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was like, Okay, you know the pit one again. You

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just like predictable, same same winners from last year. Did

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you see one battle after another? No, that's the Leonardo DiCaprio.

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don't know I have I think I've seen previews for

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it and it didn't look but it's supposed to be

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a comedy or so. I don't know.

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to me, was like, I didn't really get it.

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Speaker 2: Was like seemed fine while I was watching it, but

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I wasn't really understanding what was going on.

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You know that's going to be me. I can't like rite, right,

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I can't have that for like two and a half hours.

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No way now, because I've gotten to an age where

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running time of a movie is a yes, thank you.

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oh hell, hey, I don't care if it's the best movie,

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even something important. And I saw that Nuremberg Got movie,

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which I would watch, is like two hours and thirty

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seven minutes, and I was like, I can't. No, I'm out, well,

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definitely not go to the theater, right, you know, yes,

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and then if it's at home, it's gonna take me

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three days to watch it, right, because you know, get

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tagged by the you know, darted like a darted bear.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and then have to constantly rewind even if you're right. Okay,

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here's the thing, even if you're not darted bear, sometimes

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you can be like, you know what, I know myself

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well enough to feel that I'm getting tired. I'm going

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to be a big girl, and I'm going to turn

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this off and start it back up tomorrow. Yeah, okay,

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but but by the time it's the next day you're like,

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what was I forget? What's happening in that front. It's

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like a book. If I can't read it quickly, I

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gotta go back like twenty pages. Yes, and honestly, and

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I know you're gonna all be like maybe you do

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have like some early onset dementia or just short attention span.

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But when I go go back to something that I

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know I've already listened to, if it's a podcaster.

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Speaker 1: It's new to me. Me too, next day, me too.

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Speaker 2: Like of course six months later, I can listen to

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a podcast and have it feel brand new, rand new,

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to be like, oh shit, I forgot that that happened.

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Speaker 1: It's a good thing I went back. Yes, I have

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the same issue. And by the way, this running time,

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is there ever gonna be a movie that's a you know,

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ninety minute movie anymore, or even an hour and fifty minutes.

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Is it ever going to be under two hours? Every

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movie is over two hours now.

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Speaker 2: It's like all of these directors have just gotten so

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proud of themselves that like, oh, I couldn't leave out

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any It's all it's all gems.

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Speaker 1: Right and every scene, especially Tarantino's movies. Yeah, yeah, I know,

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they just I don't know, like there's I don't. I

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don't there's no movies under two hours anymore. It's too

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long for me.

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Speaker 2: It is so funny because I was on a website.

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I was looking up the Lemley Theater because I want

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to see this movie. Okay, this is It's called Rosemead

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and it's with Lucy lou and she plays a mom

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who thinks her son is dangerous and has to figure

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out what to do about it. I and she has cancer.

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It looks really good. It looks super sad independent, you know,

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and I want to see it and I kind of

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want to see it in the theater. And none of

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my friends are interested. They're all like that sounds really sad,

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like what's going on in the world, like thank you,

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And I'm like, I know, but I kind of I'm interested.

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So I keep looking up like when it's playing and

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all the other movies that are playing with it, I'm

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like the running time, That's.

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Speaker 1: What I was catching my eye.

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Speaker 2: That's where I saw Nuremberg and I was like, God,

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this movie is kind of short the way I want

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to see that's that's that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Then you know John won't go see it with you.

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Speaker 2: He's not gonna want to see that with me. We

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don't bother watching all the movies we could watch at home. Yeah,

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us every night you want to watch a.

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Speaker 1: Movie tonight, I'm like okay.

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Speaker 2: And then by the time were we wrapped up whatever

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we're doing, it's you know, it's late, it's ten. Yeah,

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I'm not starting a movie at ten now, even though

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I'm always up past midnight.

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Speaker 1: But like not to actually sit in bed and write

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a movie and focus to like now, I would be out. Yeah, yeah,

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I I was just listening to Alan Jackson, the attorney

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on the way in for the first time, talk about

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after he had to quit the case. He was on

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a podcast this morning and did he huh did he?

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Or Karen Reid? Oh case it was the Nick Reiner case.

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Oh yeah, did you see last week? How they he

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had heard that. I heard the attorney quit, but I forgot.

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I didn't put it together. Yeah yeah, And people were wondering,

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like why because he said something about it being a conflict.

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But he's such a good lawyer. If there was some

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kind of conflict, of interest. He would have known about

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it early on, right and not taken it and not

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taken it. I think it's because the money that the

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you know, he can't say right now why, you know,

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he's just very tight lipped about it, but it's I

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think it's probably because the money. The family, I don't know,

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like because they went from Alan Jackson, the most expensive

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criminal defense attorney, to a public defender. So I don't

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I think, you know, I don't know. I don't know

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if you were interested in that. But there's a slayer

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law they call it, which is weird slay law, slay law,

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slayer law, which is if you inherit your your parent's fortune,

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if you kill your parents, it's null and void. You

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don't get their inheritance. Okay, So I think maybe the

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family jumped the gun at first, but now it's like

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they can't. They don't want to pay for him, I guess,

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but I don't know. It was really interesting. I love

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Alan Jackson, He's I like him. I'm a crush on him.

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Did he did he do? Karen read?

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Speaker 2: Yeah he did care and okay, yeah, and you liked

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him then too, Yeah, And I was like, you know,

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he's good but yeah, still think she's guilty.

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got a tattoo? Yes, and was it it hurt?

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Speaker 2: It's really cute. Okay, it did not hurt. The story

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is kind of funny. You know, I've been wanting it

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didn't know that. Oh. I wanted to show my California

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pride for a really long time. And when I took

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Sadie to get her tattoo, the tattoo artist Adrian at

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the Honorable Society who We Love.

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Speaker 1: So he had drawn I had told him that I

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So I found him based on a friend of mine

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who has a California I told this friend of mine,

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I want to get a California tattoo.

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Speaker 2: And she goes, oh, I have one, shout it to

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me and I loved it and I was like, oh

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my god, that's what I want. And then she told

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me where she went. So when Sadie was going to

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get a tattoo, I was like, let's check this guy.

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The first guy we checked out was somebody she found. Yeah,

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and that guy was so expensive, I remember. So I

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was like, well, let me check with this guy and

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see what and his price was lower and I was like,

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and we know he does good work. So we went

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with him. So he had done me a little sketch

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of California. But I chickened out and I was I

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made it seem like I just wanted it to be

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her day. Yeah, but truthfully, if I was feeling I

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just it caught me off guard and I wasn't ready

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to do it. And he was like, it'll only take

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like forty minutes, you know, And I was like, oh,

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next time, let's make.

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Speaker 1: This about Sadie as a good mother would, right. So

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I finally made the appointment. I was like, screw it,

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I'm gonna I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna do this Sadie came with me because she's still

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on vacation. I did it last Wednesday. Today's Monday, so

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I've only had it for like six days days anyway,

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I still have the drawing you made me, and I said,

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I want the smallest one, but like a little bit

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smaller than that.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: Sadie was like, mom, like the smallest one that he

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showed you is not big, Like you should go with

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that one. Then there's like two other girls in the

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tattoo shop there's they're like looking at their designs. So

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I workshopped it with them. I was like, what do

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you guys think you know? And they're like, oh my gosh,

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well it's such a personal decision because they're like, I

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like the bigger one because you have so.

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Speaker 1: Much real estate on your forearm. It's on my forearm

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that you want it to be a little bigger so

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it takes up more space in there. And I was like, no, no,

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I Don't's not what I'm trying to do. I'm trying

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to like I'm trying to be a little bit subtle, yes,

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like I want you to have to look and then

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look again to be like, oh, there's a big California

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on our arm, right, Okay?

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Speaker 2: And I and John had been I think I told you, like, going,

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00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,000
what are you get on your shoulder? How about on

468
00:25:50,039 --> 00:25:50,519
your shoulder?

469
00:25:50,519 --> 00:25:52,279
Speaker 1: And it's like, because bitch, I can't see it on

470
00:25:52,279 --> 00:25:55,039
my should feel a bit of that. Yeah.

471
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:59,039
Speaker 2: So John was already like very in favor of smaller

472
00:25:59,319 --> 00:26:02,400
and less visible right, you know, because it's a wasp

473
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,480
from Connecticut with no tattoos who only wears Lucky jeans

474
00:26:05,519 --> 00:26:06,240
his entirely life.

475
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 1: Okay, So.

476
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,319
Speaker 2: I was like, I want it a little bit smaller.

477
00:26:12,599 --> 00:26:14,680
So the guy he's like okay. So he goes and

478
00:26:14,799 --> 00:26:17,119
he shows me a couple that are smaller, and one

479
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:21,240
of them was like too small and the other ones

480
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:23,799
were kind of still kind of anyway. I was like,

481
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:28,519
then I find then I'm like, okay, I don't want

482
00:26:28,519 --> 00:26:32,480
to be a people pleaser. I instructed, Sadie, whatever you do,

483
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:33,599
don't be a people pleaser.

484
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,920
Speaker 1: This is ink. It's on your body, it's forever, it's

485
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:41,359
literally forever. I was like, so please, if there's something

486
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:45,400
you're not feeling, just go like no, no, no, oh

487
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,839
my god. It's so much easier set telling her to

488
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:51,759
do it. You know, I'm taking your own advice. I

489
00:26:51,759 --> 00:26:54,319
could feel him getting a little bit like, oh boy,

490
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,200
she's gonna be high maintenance. I'm like, but I had

491
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,599
a thing in my head what I wanted, you know,

492
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,319
And I was like, this just isn't quite it. Like

493
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,359
the design is fine, but the size is like so

494
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:09,160
then I'm like, can you okay? And then he brings

495
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,079
me one and I'm like, well, this is the same

496
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,759
size as the other one, and Sadie goes, no, it's not, mom,

497
00:27:13,799 --> 00:27:14,839
it's different. It's smaller.

498
00:27:15,039 --> 00:27:17,279
Speaker 2: And I was like, no, it's the exact same size.

499
00:27:17,319 --> 00:27:19,559
I put him next to each other. Uh huh, and

500
00:27:19,599 --> 00:27:22,720
she's like oh. And then he goes, oh, actually, my bad,

501
00:27:23,039 --> 00:27:24,960
Like I just printed out the same one right.

502
00:27:25,039 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, yeah you did. Like come on now,

503
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,519
that dude right focus.

504
00:27:30,599 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 2: Sidney shows me one that's a little smaller. Then I

505
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,720
literally go back and forth. I'm like, oh, is it

506
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:36,359
too small?

507
00:27:36,519 --> 00:27:36,759
Speaker 1: Is it?

508
00:27:37,279 --> 00:27:39,759
Speaker 2: And Sadie is just getting like having none of me

509
00:27:39,799 --> 00:27:41,839
and this one. I was like, mom, it's fine, it's

510
00:27:41,839 --> 00:27:44,359
what you want. And I'm like, I know, but I

511
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:46,440
still want it to be noticeable. And she's like it'll

512
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,839
still be noticeable. Then she thought this was too small

513
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:53,039
though this she yeah, so I went with this. I

514
00:27:53,079 --> 00:27:55,640
was like, I'm going with my gut and I'm going

515
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,759
with the smaller one, and I don't care what any

516
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:58,359
any of.

517
00:27:58,319 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: You assholes say about it. Right, chicks in the lobby, well,

518
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,559
they were like, whatever you want to do. Yeah, it's

519
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,799
cute too. There they were very agreeable.

520
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 2: So then he a stencil on right, and he puts

521
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:17,000
it on and it's like a little bit he said.

522
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:21,000
He tells me it's centered, but in my mind it's

523
00:28:21,039 --> 00:28:23,319
too far to one side. And then it and then

524
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,880
I'm like what I kind of wanted it like more

525
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,119
like in the middle, and he goes, oh, it is

526
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:33,359
the part where the California because it bends right, so

527
00:28:33,519 --> 00:28:37,119
this part was here right, so the.

528
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:41,279
Speaker 1: Bottom of California. Oh, it was more in the center

529
00:28:41,319 --> 00:28:43,960
of my arm and the top of California started off

530
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,559
to the site a little bit. And I was like, okay,

531
00:28:48,079 --> 00:28:52,839
cow no. At first, I'm right okay. Sadie's like, yeah,

532
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,240
that looks good. And I was like, are you sure

533
00:28:55,279 --> 00:28:58,799
it's like centered? And he goes, yeah, it's totally centered.

534
00:28:58,799 --> 00:29:00,160
And I was like okay.

535
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 2: Then I'm sitting there in the chair and he's got

536
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,960
the he's got the ink, he's locked and loaded, he's

537
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:06,519
ready to go.

538
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm.

539
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 2: Gonna be mad at myself if I don't. Yeah, in

540
00:29:10,279 --> 00:29:14,000
my mind, I was like, Stephanie, are you just impossible

541
00:29:14,039 --> 00:29:14,480
to please?

542
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:17,039
Speaker 1: Are you annoying him now? When it comes to this?

543
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,839
But then I was like I want what I fucking want.

544
00:29:20,319 --> 00:29:23,799
I was like, hold on and he goes, okay, what's up?

545
00:29:23,839 --> 00:29:26,160
And I go, I just can you move it over

546
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,240
a little bit. It's just not quite how I pictured

547
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:28,880
it in my mind.

548
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,319
Speaker 2: And he goes okay, and he has to wipe it off,

549
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:33,119
wipes the ink.

550
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,559
Speaker 1: Oh, oh my god, this poor guy. It wasn't a

551
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:36,279
huge deal.

552
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,119
Speaker 2: They have this stuff that you just you just wipe

553
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:43,160
the like it's temporary, you know, just like and then

554
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,920
he does it again and I'm like, eh.

555
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: Not quite me really. He goes okay, and then he

556
00:29:49,039 --> 00:29:50,279
does this what I have?

557
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,519
Speaker 2: But I was like yes, and he goes, okay, get

558
00:29:53,599 --> 00:29:55,079
up and go look at it in the mirror though,

559
00:29:55,119 --> 00:29:57,119
so you're sure. I get up and I go look

560
00:29:57,119 --> 00:29:58,599
in the mirror, and I was like, that's what I

561
00:29:58,640 --> 00:29:59,759
want once.

562
00:29:59,799 --> 00:30:00,559
Speaker 1: I sure.

563
00:30:01,039 --> 00:30:03,119
Speaker 2: Then he does the tattoo and then I was like,

564
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:07,440
I fucking love it. Yeah, it's exactly exactly how what

565
00:30:07,519 --> 00:30:08,079
I pictured.

566
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: It is what I pictured too. I think it's a

567
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:14,519
perfect size for your arm, Yeah, perfect size. I think

568
00:30:14,559 --> 00:30:17,000
it accomplishes what you want where you have to look

569
00:30:17,039 --> 00:30:20,119
at it kind of twice to see what it is. Yeah,

570
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,960
it's like subtle, but you get it when you really

571
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,880
look at it. And to me, it looks center. I

572
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:27,599
don't know when he.

573
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:31,519
Speaker 2: Was the center that I wanted. Yeah, it's in the middle. Yeah, right,

574
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,519
But so anyway, but.

575
00:30:34,519 --> 00:30:37,519
Speaker 1: The here's where I don't understand. When you get a

576
00:30:37,559 --> 00:30:40,559
tattoo and it's on your arm like that, do you

577
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,799
make it look like whenever you look down on it

578
00:30:43,799 --> 00:30:46,400
it's the right way, or do you face it the

579
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,039
other way so when people look at it it's the

580
00:30:49,119 --> 00:30:49,480
right way.

581
00:30:49,559 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 2: So I'm glad you asked because I had the exact

582
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,759
same question. Yeah, like and I asked Sadie and Sadie

583
00:30:54,799 --> 00:30:56,799
was like, oh, I don't know.

584
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,079
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, what good are you?

585
00:30:59,119 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 2: Why are you coming with me? What do you think?

586
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,119
I'm asking you what you think? And she was like,

587
00:31:02,759 --> 00:31:04,920
I think you want it so that other.

588
00:31:04,799 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 1: People see what it is right way, because you know

589
00:31:08,319 --> 00:31:09,359
what it is. Right.

590
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 2: So then I was like, okay, well I'm going to

591
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:17,319
ask Adrian because obviously you're no expert. So I asked

592
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:20,480
him and he was like, oh, one hundred percent, so

593
00:31:20,519 --> 00:31:24,359
that other people you position a tattoo. Otherwise people are

594
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:25,440
going to look at it and not have.

595
00:31:25,359 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 1: Any idea what it is exactly.

596
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 2: And I was like, he's like, you you will adjust.

597
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,319
You know what it is, so your brain will adjust

598
00:31:32,359 --> 00:31:35,839
right away and see it it's California and sure enough. Yeah,

599
00:31:36,119 --> 00:31:40,559
and then he said normally I let clients whatever you want,

600
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,160
but if you're asking me, I'm.

601
00:31:42,119 --> 00:31:44,839
Speaker 1: Gonna yeah, that's wrong. The other way is wrong. Right,

602
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,640
this is clearly how you should do it. And I

603
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,680
was like thank you, Yeah, all right, okay.

604
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:53,119
Speaker 2: So then Sadie goes I was like, okay, I should

605
00:31:53,119 --> 00:31:55,400
take a picture and send it to Dad, and Sadie goes, no,

606
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,079
you should wait, and like just so he can see

607
00:31:58,079 --> 00:32:03,839
it on your arm when you get home. So, uh

608
00:32:04,039 --> 00:32:07,000
so we're we're getting the car and then John texts

609
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,400
and he goes, well, well, I don't get a picture

610
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:13,000
of the tattoo. So I was like, he really wants

611
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,000
a picture. And then Sadie goes, oh my god, we

612
00:32:15,039 --> 00:32:18,519
should rank him. We should send him a picture of

613
00:32:18,559 --> 00:32:24,960
a really big one I photoshop. And I was like,

614
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:29,200
oh my god, that is so funny. So she finds

615
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:33,640
a pretty big one. It's got all the counties. It's like,

616
00:32:33,759 --> 00:32:34,960
oh my god.

617
00:32:35,799 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 1: So she photoshops it under my arm.

618
00:32:37,759 --> 00:32:39,799
Speaker 2: It was so funny, and I'm going to see if

619
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,759
I can get the screen grab from her phone yeah

620
00:32:42,799 --> 00:32:44,039
and post it for us.

621
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:49,079
Speaker 1: I love the kids can do that, like slip yeah, okay.

622
00:32:49,119 --> 00:32:51,839
Speaker 2: So we're at Trader we decided to stop at Trader Joe's.

623
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,200
And that's when he was like, oh you're at Trader Joe's.

624
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,799
Can you get me a sandwich? And why no picture?

625
00:32:57,359 --> 00:32:59,279
Speaker 1: So she does it while we're in Trader joe. She

626
00:32:59,359 --> 00:33:00,160
makes this thing.

627
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,079
Speaker 2: So then we send it to him and I was

628
00:33:04,079 --> 00:33:07,359
cracking up, and then nothing like he doesn't write back

629
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,440
right away, and I was like.

630
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:10,119
Speaker 1: What's he saying?

631
00:33:10,119 --> 00:33:13,119
Speaker 2: And she's like, he's not answering, and she goes, he's

632
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:17,279
got to know because he's the master at photoshop. He

633
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,519
shops jokes to people all the time and I was like,

634
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,759
I don't. I think he's nervous and I don't think

635
00:33:22,759 --> 00:33:24,680
he's going to know it's a joke right away.

636
00:33:24,839 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: Right. So then he.

637
00:33:26,839 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 2: Writes back, oh, she decided to go with the counties too,

638
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:35,880
and Sadie goes, he totally knows.

639
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: I was like, no, he doesn't.

640
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 2: I was like, no, he doesn't know, because if he did,

641
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,480
he would have said something dry, like he would have

642
00:33:44,519 --> 00:33:47,039
been like, oh, I thought she wanted like a bigger touch,

643
00:33:47,279 --> 00:33:49,119
like he would have said, like she didn't want to

644
00:33:49,119 --> 00:33:52,200
go bigger than that, right, a little small or something. Yes,

645
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,240
if he knew, yeah, I was like, he agreed with you,

646
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:59,000
He's I go, he's freaking out right now. So then

647
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,440
I said, just tell him some just tell him something

648
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,160
and she goes, oh, well, Adrian just thought it needed

649
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,440
it was too plain and it needed a little bit

650
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:08,320
of like design.

651
00:34:08,519 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: Uh huh, that's a good one. Yeah.

652
00:34:11,199 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 2: So then I was like, maybe you should say and

653
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,400
then we didn't do this, but I was like, maybe

654
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,079
you should say, like, hey.

655
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 1: Like be kind when you see to mom.

656
00:34:19,639 --> 00:34:22,679
Speaker 2: Because she's feeling self conscious about how it's bigger than

657
00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:23,639
she thought it was going to be.

658
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 1: I mean, this thing was giant. It was like, half

659
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:30,039
my r Oh my god, with all the counties, that's hilarry.

660
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,760
All the counties it looked so stupid.

661
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 2: She purposely was like, let me find the most ridiculous one.

662
00:34:37,199 --> 00:34:39,800
So it was so funny because I was like, he

663
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:43,039
doesn't know, he does not know, and then we walk

664
00:34:43,199 --> 00:34:45,039
in and he's like, oh, let.

665
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,199
Speaker 1: Me, let me see. And then he sees it.

666
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 2: You can literally see relief and oh wait, there's no

667
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,599
counties in there. And I was like, no, we were

668
00:34:54,679 --> 00:34:58,639
fucking with you, stupid, and he was like, oh my god,

669
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,480
He's like, I you didn't notice how giant the one

670
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:03,400
in the picture wasn't here.

671
00:35:03,639 --> 00:35:05,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't worried about that. I was worried about the

672
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,639
fact that you had all these lines in it, right

673
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,719
that just looked like veins because I didn't want to

674
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:16,519
say anything, Oh my god, that's hilarious. That's a perfect

675
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,920
We let him sit with that for like twenty minutes.

676
00:35:19,039 --> 00:35:24,199
Oh my god, your guy. Yeah yeah, I can't believe

677
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:26,920
he fell for it. Yeah yeah wow.

678
00:35:28,519 --> 00:35:34,199
Speaker 2: Speaking of him feeling relief, Yeah, you know what, this

679
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,599
is so true for you, It's so true for me,

680
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:40,280
it's so true for our kids. Everybody needs therapy. Yes,

681
00:35:41,119 --> 00:35:43,760
how helpful was therapy to you when you were going

682
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:44,760
through a breakup?

683
00:35:45,039 --> 00:35:48,079
Speaker 1: Well, when I was going through the divorce, I needed it.

684
00:35:48,199 --> 00:35:51,920
And also my kids have both been still to this

685
00:35:52,079 --> 00:35:56,360
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686
00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:00,400
people that they jive with. Well, here's the thing.

687
00:36:01,679 --> 00:36:04,239
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706
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707
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708
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709
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710
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711
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712
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713
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714
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715
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, speaking of anxiety. We did a follow up

716
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on our patreon.

717
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Speaker 1: Yes, this week.

718
00:37:45,639 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 2: We had a follow up to last week, including some

719
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:52,199
really good advice from a listener. Plus we have some

720
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721
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Speaker 1: Yes, it was good, it was very good. I loved

722
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:02,519
the comment from our listeners. It was really insightful. Yeah,

723
00:38:02,599 --> 00:38:05,159
so we did a follow up on that. Yeah. Yeah,

724
00:38:05,199 --> 00:38:07,639
so tell me what.

725
00:38:08,039 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 2: We We kind of brushed on this on the Patreon.

726
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:16,280
But so right now, where you are with Sonny and Natalia?

727
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:22,599
Where are they with their post plans because they were changing.

728
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:26,679
Speaker 1: Well, other of them applied for now, but Sonny is

729
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:32,159
applying for Oregon University. I think it's the by the

730
00:38:32,199 --> 00:38:34,199
end of this month. Okay. I was going to do

731
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:36,719
that because he had to get the all the credits,

732
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,639
and I think he's now got all the credits he needs.

733
00:38:39,679 --> 00:38:43,400
I think I just have to check with him. And

734
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:48,079
then Natalia is still on her course of wanting to uh,

735
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:52,280
she wants to go abroad next year in her you

736
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:58,239
know junior, no, sophomore, yeah, junior, junior year around my god.

737
00:38:58,199 --> 00:39:01,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is her second year of school. Yeah yeah, yeah,

738
00:39:01,559 --> 00:39:04,039
because she moved into a different apartment. Yeah, so she

739
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:07,360
wants to do that next year. And then she because she.

740
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: Doesn't want to go abroad like with U see Santa Barbara.

741
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,760
That's what I don't know. She said it. When you

742
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:18,559
come back, then you can transfer to UC Santa Barbara.

743
00:39:18,599 --> 00:39:23,719
They do have this program from the college she's in now. Oh,

744
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:27,119
I have it because her roommate did that the exact

745
00:39:27,119 --> 00:39:30,519
same thing. She just got back from being abroad and

746
00:39:30,599 --> 00:39:36,239
she transferred. So she's following basically like what she did. So,

747
00:39:36,639 --> 00:39:40,880
but you don't have to apply now and then I

748
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,039
don't know. I don't know. I think, you know, they

749
00:39:44,079 --> 00:39:46,760
know they know better that they know better than I do. Like, yeah,

750
00:39:47,119 --> 00:39:51,840
she's got it all on your But whenever the application is,

751
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,199
that's what she's doing. I know she did fill out

752
00:39:54,199 --> 00:39:57,159
some stuff and I know she attended something about it

753
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,480
at school to get all the information. She want to

754
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,559
be abroad. She wants to go to Italy. Oh yeah,

755
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,480
you told me that. Yeah that's so cool. Yeah yeah. So,

756
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,360
I mean I have a friends, I have friends that

757
00:40:09,679 --> 00:40:13,119
kids went abroad. I wasn't I was like, really, can

758
00:40:13,199 --> 00:40:15,000
you just stay in one spot? Why do you got

759
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,280
to travel? But uh, talking to some of my friends

760
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:21,000
whose kids studied abroad, like they were like, it's one

761
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,239
of the best things they ever did. It was so

762
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:28,239
great for them, Like they really learned, you know, outside

763
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:32,320
of their little bubble the world and culture and just

764
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:36,360
being you know, responsible for your own shit and you know,

765
00:40:37,079 --> 00:40:39,599
and it was really it was really some of the

766
00:40:39,639 --> 00:40:43,119
best things that their kids did. So I'm going with that.

767
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 2: I'm hoping I could totally see Sunny going to Japan.

768
00:40:47,519 --> 00:40:52,280
Speaker 1: I know, I think he's done with Asian country. He

769
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,480
gets a stomach ache with their food every time he

770
00:40:54,519 --> 00:40:59,280
comes back. Oh yeah, but no, he is so into

771
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,199
the University Oregon. He's like, that's where he wants to be.

772
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,440
The sports. I mean, we just they're the Ducks. The

773
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:09,199
Oregon Ducks went really far in the Bowls this year.

774
00:41:10,119 --> 00:41:11,800
I even watched the game when he was out of

775
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:15,360
town with you this weekend. Yeah, they played Friday night.

776
00:41:15,559 --> 00:41:18,280
I was texting with him. He was watching it. Yeah,

777
00:41:18,519 --> 00:41:21,960
I got sucked into it. It was like exciting. They lost,

778
00:41:22,039 --> 00:41:25,119
but but they went pretty far. So anyway, like, yeah,

779
00:41:25,159 --> 00:41:28,360
they got the sports program and stuff like that. He's

780
00:41:28,639 --> 00:41:32,519
that's what he wants to do. So who's his a

781
00:41:32,639 --> 00:41:38,480
NFL team? Rams? Okay, wait, well did you watch the game.

782
00:41:38,599 --> 00:41:41,199
I didn't see that game yesterday. I was busy driving.

783
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:45,079
It was pretty exciting. They came back. They were way

784
00:41:45,119 --> 00:41:46,000
way way behind.

785
00:41:46,519 --> 00:41:49,760
Speaker 2: H I don't know exact numbers, but then they had

786
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:50,920
a huge comeback and.

787
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 1: One that's what I heard, Yeah go Rams. Yeah. Yeah,

788
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:57,320
he's always since he was a little boy, loves the Rams.

789
00:41:57,679 --> 00:42:00,920
That's his team. That's so cute. And now they're a Rams.

790
00:42:01,039 --> 00:42:04,559
Yeah all the better? Right, yeah right, because that hasn't

791
00:42:04,599 --> 00:42:07,039
been for that I think not that long, but I

792
00:42:07,079 --> 00:42:09,840
think since he was probably like I don't know ten

793
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,119
I think yeah, because they went to the Super Bowl.

794
00:42:13,159 --> 00:42:15,400
I remember he was like ten or twelve a video

795
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,599
of it, and there they were in the Super Bowls

796
00:42:17,639 --> 00:42:19,039
the first time they were in the super Bowl in

797
00:42:19,039 --> 00:42:22,559
his little lifetime. And after the game was over, they lost,

798
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,519
and he was like sitting in a corner like distraught,

799
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,840
like to tears, like tears coming, and I remember the

800
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,239
song was playing in the background, like it was like,

801
00:42:32,679 --> 00:42:35,320
I want to know what love is? This was playing

802
00:42:35,519 --> 00:42:38,000
because we had like a super Bowl party and he's

803
00:42:38,079 --> 00:42:39,760
just sitting in the corner and like a little heap

804
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:45,480
of tears. What you to show me? I want to know.

805
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:50,400
I kinda find that video. It's hilarious. I'm like, Sonny,

806
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,159
are you okay? And he's like you guy's wearing his

807
00:42:52,599 --> 00:42:55,000
Ram's hat and his RAM shirt and he's just like

808
00:42:55,039 --> 00:42:58,599
in the corner by himself, like he was so upset.

809
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:02,639
And I think the next is when they all went to, uh, Pennsylvania,

810
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:06,920
took a class trip to Pennsylvania. Oh yeah, they lost

811
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,719
to the New England Patriots. I remember, Yeah, So.

812
00:43:10,679 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 2: This is like the opposite of my nephew who was

813
00:43:14,519 --> 00:43:17,239
is way too into the Chiefs for my taste. And

814
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:18,880
then you know they went to the Super Bowl like

815
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:22,119
three years running. Yeah, it's just like enough.

816
00:43:22,199 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 1: I think she'd be taken down a peg again.

817
00:43:24,079 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I told you about my sister in law

818
00:43:26,519 --> 00:43:28,440
saying she wasn't going to have a Super Bowl party

819
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:32,239
last year because they were just too into the.

820
00:43:32,199 --> 00:43:34,599
Speaker 1: Oh that's right. Yeah, I wanted to watch.

821
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,159
Speaker 2: Chiefs and they just didn't want anybody distracting them and

822
00:43:37,199 --> 00:43:38,599
it would just be too hard for them.

823
00:43:38,679 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: And I was like, shut the fuck up. Is she

824
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:47,239
from kat Is she from Kansas City? No? Why the Chiefs?

825
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,360
I don't know. I don't just because they were hot,

826
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:50,920
I don't know. I like to give her shit about

827
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:54,159
it though. That's pretty funny with you. But he but yeah,

828
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,280
well of course he's going to be into them because

829
00:43:56,639 --> 00:44:00,000
they're pay his parents are or his mom not really

830
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,320
doesn't care about, right, he only is.

831
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,159
Speaker 2: It's like, listen, mom and son found a thing to

832
00:44:05,199 --> 00:44:09,519
bond over. They picked a team that's cute, probably liked homes,

833
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,840
and you know they're like, yeah, good day, that's our

834
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:13,920
team now as far as I can tell.

835
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:18,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, Chiefs. I don't think are doing very well. No, no,

836
00:44:18,599 --> 00:44:25,159
they didn't even make it to the playoffs. No Ah, John.

837
00:44:26,599 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 2: Hates the forty nine ers strictly because somebody that he

838
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,599
used to know loves him is like one of those

839
00:44:34,679 --> 00:44:36,840
really just ridiculous rude fans.

840
00:44:37,039 --> 00:44:40,199
Speaker 1: Yeah them, yeah, and just is not great.

841
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,639
Speaker 2: So he's like, fuck that guy, now, I really want

842
00:44:43,639 --> 00:44:44,400
his team to lose.

843
00:44:44,639 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: Oh, that's so funny. So then he just moved again,

844
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:50,000
just for fun. You gotta have some reasons, of course

845
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,960
for rude against Yeah, my dad would because we're from

846
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:58,639
Cleveland and the Browns always suck. And my dad had

847
00:44:58,679 --> 00:45:00,760
a sister that he didn't get a along with and

848
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,880
she married a guy's last name was Brown, and he

849
00:45:04,119 --> 00:45:07,239
so anytime the Browns played, he goes, fuck the Browns

850
00:45:07,519 --> 00:45:09,559
because they're from Cleveland too. Oh my god, I do

851
00:45:09,679 --> 00:45:12,440
not picture your dad swear. Oh my god, my dad

852
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,239
swear it all the time. I remember him sneezing and

853
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:19,320
he goes, oh shit, like when he'd sneeze. Oh my god. Yeah,

854
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:22,000
he cussed, but he'd go fuck the Browns, fuck the Browns,

855
00:45:22,039 --> 00:45:24,360
and fuck my sister. You know what the color of

856
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:28,239
shit is brown? He would say that kind of stuff.

857
00:45:28,639 --> 00:45:31,920
And Linna, what's the color of shit? I go brown,

858
00:45:32,079 --> 00:45:35,480
he goes fuck the browns. Oh my god. Yeah, yeah,

859
00:45:35,519 --> 00:45:38,239
he did not like. I don't think it was his sister.

860
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,360
I don't think he liked the husband. I don't know.

861
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,239
And then he hated Cleveland. That's why he got out

862
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:46,199
of Cleveland, Wan and moved to California. And so he

863
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,079
hated the Cleveland everything anything, called it the mistake on

864
00:45:49,119 --> 00:45:53,719
the lake, a fucking piece of shit city. It's the

865
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:58,280
mistake on the lake. Cleveland is what this brown? What's

866
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:02,039
the color of shit? Oh my god? I did not

867
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:05,599
picture him that way. Really. Yeah. To see a picture

868
00:46:05,639 --> 00:46:08,719
of your dad, oh, I should find I'll find a picture.

869
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:10,400
He looks like he's Sonny a little bit.

870
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,360
Speaker 2: Because I've seen pictures of your mom. Yeah, from videos

871
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,440
and stuff and pictures.

872
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 1: He looks like Sonny yeah a little yeah, they yeah

873
00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:22,119
he does. He has my dad's look, definitely. And your

874
00:46:22,199 --> 00:46:26,199
dad is fully Italian, too, right, full blooded Italian? Yeah? Okay, yeah,

875
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:28,960
And but he was he had a stepdad that was

876
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:30,920
a Hungarian Jew.

877
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 2: Oh really yeah okay, and not biological but not biological culture.

878
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,599
Speaker 1: But that's why my dad was always telling me, you know,

879
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,159
you respect the Jews and you know they have a

880
00:46:42,199 --> 00:46:45,679
great community. Like that's why my dad like taught me that,

881
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,599
you know. So he got along with his stepfather. Yeah,

882
00:46:48,599 --> 00:46:50,719
he loved him. He had a great sense of humor.

883
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:53,679
He said that was the most thing that bonded them.

884
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,000
He loved sense of humor. His mom had a good

885
00:46:56,039 --> 00:47:00,519
sense of humor too, my grandma. Yeah, he loved comedy.

886
00:47:01,159 --> 00:47:04,159
He loved to, you know, make people laugh and stuff.

887
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 2: So this was how long was your step grandpa, your

888
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:12,760
dad's stepfather.

889
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:16,280
Speaker 1: I think for most of his life. I think at

890
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:19,719
an early age. I don't think he knew his real dad.

891
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:23,079
They got divorced early and he was I think, kind

892
00:47:23,119 --> 00:47:28,039
of abusive, and so his mom left and then she

893
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:32,039
married Grandpa Al and then I only met him once,

894
00:47:32,119 --> 00:47:35,039
I think when I was a kid, and then he died.

895
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:42,400
They lived in Cleveland. So yeah, but your mom's parents,

896
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,440
did you know them? I knew them because they would

897
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,840
come to California for the summer and stay with us.

898
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:50,199
They not one lick at English, but I got along

899
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:53,719
great with them. My grandfather, my no, no, would like

900
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:57,239
you know, broken English. Like they'd come for Easter and

901
00:47:57,280 --> 00:48:00,880
you go happy East, the happy West to marry Christmas,

902
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:05,559
like just saying like, but got along so well with them,

903
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:10,599
loved them. And my grandmother had she was in some

904
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:13,039
kind of chemical accident, so she was blind. You know,

905
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,599
grandparents all kind of fucked up shit, you know, like

906
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:19,920
back the old school grandparents, like chemical accidents or missing

907
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:23,440
a limb. She had her eye was like bleach like

908
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:25,639
she got bleaching her eye. But her eye was like

909
00:48:26,159 --> 00:48:29,760
bright white. And then she had a green eye her

910
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:32,599
regular color eyes. Wow. So she had a bright green

911
00:48:32,639 --> 00:48:35,480
eye and it always kind of scared me. But then

912
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,440
could she see out of that eye? No, she was blind.

913
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,440
She was blind in one eye. But she was built

914
00:48:41,519 --> 00:48:45,920
like me. She had big boobs, skinny body, and then

915
00:48:46,159 --> 00:48:48,199
you know she was in her aid nineties she had

916
00:48:48,199 --> 00:48:53,000
a big belly. But and then my grand her husband,

917
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:57,239
my grandfather, he was little skinny guy. And then my

918
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,800
dad's side had skinny grandparents. I don't know about her

919
00:49:01,039 --> 00:49:05,320
his dad, but my grandmother was tiny and petite. So

920
00:49:06,559 --> 00:49:13,199
you know, it's in the jeans my grandmother. So, did

921
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:18,440
your grandmother have big boobs? Yeah, she had been your mom,

922
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:20,320
did it? No?

923
00:49:20,519 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 2: My moms were like medium set my moms were like

924
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:26,239
a seed. Yeah, mine too, my mom, But then I

925
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:29,480
got like double d yes. Really, but it was kind

926
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:33,320
of in my family definitely. Grandmother had big bosoms. Yes,

927
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:35,079
me too, big bazookahs.

928
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:40,039
Speaker 1: Isn't that interesting bazooas how it skips a generation? Yeah,

929
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,920
it really is true in my family. Yeah, because my

930
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:47,079
mom just had like seas and then I got these

931
00:49:47,119 --> 00:49:49,159
big yeah zoo.

932
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 2: I've never experienced any grandparents that were like nice, spoiling

933
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:59,000
kind of grandparents. Like my grandmother was mean, and then

934
00:49:59,039 --> 00:50:03,280
my step grandma Paw was sweet. I only I didn't

935
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meet him that many times, but then he kind of

936
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My grandmother turned on me because you remember that whole story.

937
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It doesn't really matter why, but I told my mom

938
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something my grandmother said and then she denied it and

939
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,280
was like, you're a devil child, and the grands step

940
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:25,800
grandfather was like, who had been asleep? My grandmother did

941
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:30,480
not like my stepfather right for good reason, and told

942
00:50:30,519 --> 00:50:32,599
me that they're going to get that she really wants

943
00:50:32,639 --> 00:50:35,000
to divorce him my mom, but they're staying together for

944
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the kids.

945
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Speaker 1: Which was very trouble.

946
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 2: It was a weird thing to say, and I repeated

947
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,360
it to my mom, and my mom was like, how

948
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:46,599
dare you? She would never say something like that, and

949
00:50:46,599 --> 00:50:50,480
I was like, why would I possibly make night right?

950
00:50:51,039 --> 00:50:51,199
Speaker 1: Right?

951
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,320
Speaker 2: And then so then she made me sit on the

952
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:57,920
phone while she called her mom and said, so, did

953
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,480
you say that? And then my grandmother was like, no,

954
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,599
I would never say that. And then my step grandfather

955
00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:06,719
was listening on the other line and he was.

956
00:51:06,639 --> 00:51:09,519
Speaker 1: Like, she's a double child. And then after that I

957
00:51:09,559 --> 00:51:13,360
was like, oh, like that guy too, y'all yeah, fuck, oh, y'all.

958
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:16,639
All of you suck and what kind of grandparents are like,

959
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:19,559
you know, you don't expect your grandparents to turn on.

960
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:23,719
Years later, my grandmother acknowledged it, but at the time

961
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:25,599
I got thrown out of the house for it. My

962
00:51:25,599 --> 00:51:27,960
mom said I was a liar. This was that story

963
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,760
where she kicked me out of the house. Oh my god.

964
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 2: We were staying with people in when we had first

965
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:37,360
moved to Springfield. This is part of my chaotic yeah,

966
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,079
And my mom was like, how dare you?

967
00:51:39,079 --> 00:51:41,119
Speaker 1: You're a liar? You've always been a lot. It was

968
00:51:41,159 --> 00:51:43,480
crazy wow, crying.

969
00:51:43,679 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, I didn't I didn't lie. So for years

970
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:50,800
after that I would go like, do you believe me.

971
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:54,400
I don't know why. It really bothered me becoor. My

972
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:56,880
mom felt so betrayed by me. She felt like I

973
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:58,760
was making up this story.

974
00:51:58,639 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 1: Somehow to hurt her, and I was.

975
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:02,679
Speaker 2: I would always ask her, do you believe me? And

976
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:04,760
she would always say, like, you know, I don't know

977
00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:08,960
what the truth is. I might from either of you.

978
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,079
I don't I've thought about it a lot. I don't

979
00:52:11,079 --> 00:52:13,360
know why you would make it up, but I don't

980
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:14,760
know why she would say.

981
00:52:14,599 --> 00:52:18,840
Speaker 1: It years later, and she didn't bother to tell me.

982
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,639
Speaker 2: She never straightened it out and said like, hey, by

983
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:25,119
the way, my mother acknowledged that she did say that.

984
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:30,559
Speaker 1: Years later, like fast forward, I said something. I was like,

985
00:52:30,639 --> 00:52:32,760
you know, it still bothers me. I don't know if

986
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:36,559
I was talking about therapy or something, and she was like, oh, well,

987
00:52:36,599 --> 00:52:39,199
by the way, she did she did tell me that

988
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:41,920
she did say it, and she was just trying to

989
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:45,079
make you feel better because you were apparently so upset

990
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,840
or something, so she just she didn't mean it, but

991
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:50,920
she said it to like make it make you feel better.

992
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:54,719
And I was like, okay, but she said it, and

993
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:57,440
why didn't she say why didn't you tell me like,

994
00:52:57,559 --> 00:53:00,679
I have to bring it up years at that and

995
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:02,440
she said, well, I didn't know it was still bothering you.

996
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:08,920
Oh my gosh. Whatever, what about your grandfather, your grandparents

997
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,440
on your dad's side, did you ever know them?

998
00:53:11,519 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 2: So on my stepfather's side, they abandoned him when he

999
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:17,199
was little and he grew up in an orphanage, the

1000
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:17,800
boy's home.

1001
00:53:18,519 --> 00:53:19,199
Speaker 1: And then on my.

1002
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:24,559
Speaker 2: Biological father's side, the one crazy grandma who was like

1003
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:27,320
I wasn't He wasn't really in my life and he

1004
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:30,239
didn't get along with his parents. And I think my

1005
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:36,199
paternal grandfather, his name was Charlie. He must have died

1006
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:39,440
either before I was I think he died before I

1007
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:43,320
was ever born. And then the the woman his mom,

1008
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:48,239
her name is like Leona. It isn't like Leona, it's Leona. Yeah,

1009
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:50,280
And I met her like a few times and.

1010
00:53:50,199 --> 00:53:54,800
Speaker 1: She was weird, really yeah, do you think? I don't

1011
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:59,679
know if that's because my biological father was weird and

1012
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:03,239
they had a contentious sort of relationship, so she didn't

1013
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,639
know what her plan. Also, I didn't have really a

1014
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:09,639
relationship with so it wasn't really conducive to me having

1015
00:54:09,679 --> 00:54:14,719
a relationship to her, right, h I'm just wondering if

1016
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:19,480
there's like some like he got your dad got something

1017
00:54:19,559 --> 00:54:22,159
from her, like Well.

1018
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:28,039
Speaker 2: My father's father was bipolar, which they called manic depressive

1019
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:33,320
those days. I'm pretty sure that my father is too,

1020
00:54:35,559 --> 00:54:38,360
not anymore, but I think he was too.

1021
00:54:38,679 --> 00:54:44,519
Speaker 1: Yeah. Sounds about right. Yeah, yeah, wow, nice ending for you.

1022
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:51,840
Get your therapy now, yeah, grow grow therapy. Guys. Listen,

1023
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,119
let's do some shout outs for our friends. Chris to

1024
00:54:55,159 --> 00:55:00,840
get this drop. And Stephanie's a sticker winker. It's not

1025
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:03,760
easy being green, but you could use grow. That's true,

1026
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:08,400
you get more comfortable with it. Yeah, Dick is frolicking, Nikki.

1027
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Call your girl, Elizabeth Williamson. She's got a lot of kids. Yuh.

1028
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:19,360
And Rita is rocking at Bassinette with Elizabeth Williams and

1029
00:55:19,599 --> 00:55:24,960
Sean Woo. Got that baby, Missy and Gabby. Come on, girls,

1030
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,199
they were at the They were seat fillers last night.

1031
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:29,639
Golden globes. Yeah, good for you. You guys looked Great's

1032
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not you, Katerina, check out sleep on that molar business.

1033
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It's trinky, businy Valerie, Bubba Fedoy, kids out of the park, Polly,

1034
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we love your pancakes. Kelly she's your aunt. She'll take

1035
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you where you have to go. Alicia's Golante from the

1036
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,719
city of El Monte. Less see with the coughing.

1037
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:53,360
Speaker 2: Aaron's a dirty Sanchez. Also, Adams can help you get

1038
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:53,800
a car.

1039
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 1: Yes, if you guys need a car, he's your guy,

1040
00:55:57,639 --> 00:55:59,320
and he's so easy to talk to.

1041
00:55:59,599 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 2: And he's he's my friend, so he's you can trust him. Yes,

1042
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:05,360
he's literally my personal family friend.

1043
00:56:05,159 --> 00:56:08,559
Speaker 1: And he's helped both of us plus tons of people

1044
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:12,920
in the FCL. Julie kaysem, Yeah, that's out her car.

1045
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But we'll find you the best deal and give you

1046
00:56:15,159 --> 00:56:17,559
the best information. You could even just get a hold

1047
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of them. Go, I just need information. Yeah, it's great

1048
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and care. He loves talking cars. Yea, so Adam's got

1049
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a car dot com Bern Candle she makes these really

1050
00:56:28,639 --> 00:56:32,440
good smelling candles from her home home business. What are

1051
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:35,000
we not going to support each other's Yeah, come on, cuners.

1052
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:36,480
I love her candles.

1053
00:56:36,559 --> 00:56:40,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, check her out at Ferncandle on Instagram, ferncandle dot com.

1054
00:56:42,119 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 1: I love Jacob, Love you love Jacob. Got to support

1055
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:46,960
the ACLU right now.

1056
00:56:47,039 --> 00:56:50,760
Speaker 2: The money people they're saving, they're saving our they're working

1057
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:54,559
really hard, so they need all of our money. Christine

1058
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is with Concierge Travel Planner. You could have used her

1059
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for some of the exactly. Her instagram is travel with

1060
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Christine b. Also, The Family Skeptical is a podcast about

1061
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,239
raising your kids any fucking way.

1062
00:57:09,119 --> 00:57:11,559
Speaker 1: You want to. You don't have to raise them with church,

1063
00:57:12,079 --> 00:57:14,840
with temple, whatever. Yes, this is going to make you

1064
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:16,360
feel better. The Family Skeptical.

1065
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Speaker 2: My friend has a column on medium dot com called

1066
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Unbecoming Stories. You want to check them out. She's an

1067
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amazing writer. It's juicy content. You guys willman Frida if

1068
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you want to. If you're in pump Springs or Palm Desert.

1069
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Speaker 1: Get yourself some salmon or a latte her dessert. Yes,

1070
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:41,719
so good. Our friend Basic Becky, she's not making T

1071
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shirts personalized right now because she's very busy and her

1072
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business has grown. But she has a ton of cute

1073
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stuff on her website that's already made. Funny T shirts, mousepads,

1074
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whatever you want, go peruse it. Go to just basic

1075
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Beecky dot com if you're on the Island of Kawhi.

1076
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If you're in Hawaii, go to sh Sugar Skull.

1077
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Speaker 2: It's our friend Maren's Bakery and gift shop and they

1078
00:58:04,719 --> 00:58:08,519
do cakes and cake toppers and all the fun stuff

1079
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and gifty stuff. And you can follow them on Instagram

1080
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at sugar Skull eight oh eight.

1081
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Speaker 1: And you know what, let's just do this one. Kaylee Pettis.

1082
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Speaker 2: She's a licensed marriage and family therapist in Seattle, and

1083
00:58:24,719 --> 00:58:27,639
she sees clients virtually across Washington State. So if you're

1084
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there and you want somebody who's a listener from our show,

1085
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it would be a good way feel good out of

1086
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network with insurance, but she can provide you with supervill

1087
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Just go to Emeraldbloomtherapy dot com.

1088
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Speaker 1: That's nice, all right, Thanks everybody, We love you. Guys,

1089
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:44,159
your parent now, don't f it up.

1090
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:49,719
Speaker 2: It's good. Many