Speaker 1: I made a decision Pace Sunny Sound on Ahead Vision.
It's nice. Let's have everybody. We love you guys, thanks
for joining us, for crying out loud. Yeah, we don't
have Kaylin anymore. We don't. Where'd he go?
Speaker 2: Well, he still exists, and that's what I wanted to
bring up. He's doing really well with his I'm just
fooling about podcasts, is he?
Speaker 1: Yeah? And do you know that they just had James
Cameron on last Wow. Yeah. I shot it it at
James Cameron's really place or studio or you know, a space. Yeah,
and uh yeah.
Speaker 2: I watched some of the interview and it's like doing
really well. These people were like, that's the best interview
with James Cameron I've ever seen.
Speaker 1: Oh, I gotta watch it. Go check out Kaylen's podcast.
It gets like good get it's just a good vibe.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to get you know, my friend, I've
told you this before, but a good friend of mine's
husband is named Shay Wigham and he's an actor Broadway, Boardwalk, Empire.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's been in like a ton of movies.
Speaker 2: He's a character actor and they he knows Michael Bean
and Michael Bean knows him, and I'm trying to get
him on the show.
Speaker 1: Oh nice, okay for Kaylin, Yeah, yeah, that's great. Yeah
with him the other day, Well, good for him. I'm happy.
I hope the kids are doing good. I think they are.
I think I asked him recently how they're doing. They
seem to be doing fine. Yeah. I mean, listen, it
was his choice to live in Long Beach. Nobody told
him to do that. I you know, he lives t far.
I had to drive to Long Beach yesterday. Oh no,
you did not, Yes, Well, I don't know my daughter
these these you know, I don't know what. She went
on a trip that her dad paid for for part
of her Christmas present, and she so she flew out
of John Wayne Airport in Long Beach, Okay, and then
she flew back into lax. I don't know how that happened.
I didn't book it. I think she did. But and
then she's like, well, I gotta go get my car.
I was like, how did I get hurt?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I have to take you to go get your car.
It's it's an hour plus one way, so I'm gonna
be sitting in the car for two plus hours on
a Sunday, great, so I had to drive her out.
But we did have a really nice day yesterday actually,
because then we got back and then she wanted me
to make chicken cutlets, which I made for her and
I taught her how to make them, which was nice.
So she helped me in the kitchen and she made
a salad. Because Sonny's out of town too, I'm just
a travel agent nowadays. What's going on?
Speaker 2: Tell me where the kids are, because so either if
them are back at school.
Speaker 1: No, Sonny's going tomorrow back to school to Oregon. Okay,
tomorrow morning, he's coming home as we speak right now.
He was in Denver for the weekend with his dad.
Dad invited him to go to Denver for the weekend,
which I booked this trip. Then I had to book
his trip going back to Oregon tomorrow.
Speaker 2: Well, why did you book his trip? Didn't Adam just
book him with himself.
Speaker 1: No, No, he invited him and he said, Dad invited
me to Oregon or to Denver. Can you look at flights?
And I was like why, I said, I'm I'm not
booking your flight, and he was like, okay, I'll tell him.
And then he went and watched football with him last Sunday,
came back and said, yeah, Dad said no, he's paying
for the hotel and everything. So and what am I
gonna say, Well, tough luck, Stunny. You can't go.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm sorry, and I really don't want
to start up internet chatter.
Speaker 1: But what the actual fuck? I know?
Speaker 2: What the what the fuck is that he invites him
and then goes, but pay your own way with what
job I know? So basically says, fuck you, I'm paying
for I'm paying for.
Speaker 1: The hotel for holf Yeah, tell you right. Wait, so
he's paying for a hotel. He's going I'm sure to perform. Yeah,
So he's getting a hotel paid for, right, and probably
Sonny would sleep in his hotel room. I'm sure he's not, right,
I don't know how what the setup. So he invites
him but won't fly him, yeah, because he said he
was paying for the hotels. So and then at one
point am I going to say, like, oh, too bad, Sonny.
Speaker 2: Of course you have to pay for it. But then
also then he's not flying without him because you can't.
Speaker 1: Know you well, because I think Adam was out there early,
like early in the week. I don't know. So he
was gone from Friday to today, comes back and then
tomorrow morning goes back to Oregon. Itali's school doesn't start
until the twenty third or something like that. Wow. Yeah, yeah,
she has a long time so yeah, so she left
her card, you know, John Wayne Airport. And where did
she go? She went to Hawaii? Oh wow, Yeah, she
got invited, but she had to pay for her plane ticket.
So what a life we was? Was he in Hawaii too? No? No, no,
was with her friends? She went with friends. But I
thought you said he paid for her trip, was for
her Christmas present, but he wouldn't pay for her flight. No,
he paid for her flight. Oh okay, yeah, okay, yeah,
but that's the thing. I didn't book it, so I
didn't realize she was flying out of one airport and
coming home different airport. So but then I had to
pay the price of driving her out there to go
get her car. But it ended up being a nice
day because we made dinner and stuff. And then I
forgot the Golden Globes was on. But then I did
go online and watch the opening of Nicki Glazer. I
fucking thought she was great. Yeah, she's great. She had
like good spicy jokes but not too over like basically
kind of the obvious stuff, but in a way like
it was really smart, Like I love the stuff she
was saying to Leonardo DiCaprio and Sean Penn. I mean
she kind of went there. I mean she roasted him
a little bit, saying he looked like an old leather purse. Yeah,
a sexy a sexy leather purse. What did you think?
Did you watch the show too? I will remember that
I'd already seen her run the monologue.
Speaker 2: Yeah, some of the jokes were the same. I knew
what her delivery was going to be. Like, yeah, I
already knew some of the jokes, but then some of
them I didn't. I didn't really care for the rock paper.
Speaker 1: I was just like, oh, right, do better? Right? Yeah?
Speaker 2: And also like overall, I thought she did really great
and her timing is amazing. She's just a good performer. Yes,
I love when she says a joke and then kind
of throws it away. Yeah, But like the thing about
George Clooney and then espresso maker, I was like I.
Speaker 1: Didn't get that well that, yeah, does he goes? He
was like, what does he do?
Speaker 2: Commercials? Mus espresso. I was like, I guess, yeah, yeah,
but like most people don't watch commercials anymore. I know,
I would imagine a lot.
Speaker 1: Of us don't.
Speaker 2: Didn't get it, so the delivery was funny, like when
she was like, is it the pods?
Speaker 1: Is it the whatever? But it like I don't think
they should have used that joke. Yeah, yeah, she have
like a team of writers or is it just yeah,
my friend was on the team of writers. It's a
huge team of writers. Yeah.
Speaker 2: It were going that wrote the monologue and then went
around with her to the clubs every night and she
ran like the set like two or three times, and
then they changed jokes and they changed tags, and you.
Speaker 1: Know, yeah, I liked her. A list and when I
say a list, I mean a list of redact that's
been heavily redacted. That was really good and the.
Speaker 2: Word for best editing goes to the Justice Department.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was really fun. That was good. Yeah, she did.
I think she did great. She seems like such a
natural too, Like she doesn't seem tense or uncomfortable. She
seems pretty natural up there, you know, like it feels
seems really relaxed as.
Speaker 2: A performer, as a former stand up comedian. I can
tell you that is.
Speaker 1: So hard to do. Oh, I can't imagine a lot
of it is faking it.
Speaker 2: There's just no possible way that she didn't feel a
lot of pressure and nervousness because it was her second
year going back, so she has to do as well
as year one. Got that pressure. If you ever want
to be asked back again, you better like kill it.
You got the pressure of like all these celebrities that
you just.
Speaker 1: Don't know, they're all for con temperamental.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't want to have a joke that you
don't want bad feedback? Y.
Speaker 1: Yeah, our poor, our poor friend Joe Cooy had on.
Why do they got to bring him up in articles like.
Speaker 2: He just listen from what I heard, this was behind
the scenes stuff. Now, look, we like Joe Cooy. He's
been nothing but gracious in our show. We did notice
both of us. He's never he's never going to be
listening to old episodes of for Crying Out Lost, right,
But I will say that the last time he was on,
which was years ago, he was pretty braggy, like he's
pretty much knows he's great, and because he has a
huge audience, he's broken to the top.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, stadiums.
Speaker 2: Yep, you know, great, that's great, But that can go
to your head too, and then when you get a
job that you're like, oh yeah, yeah, okay, no, gad.
He didn't want writers. He didn't, Oh no, didn't.
Speaker 1: He blame a joke on a bad joke on the writers.
Speaker 2: Yes, but which was very like, uh, kind of victimy
because he didn't want writers, so he had his own,
like his friends. He just thought he's going to sit
and like, you know, sit with some of his friends.
And then he also didn't understand the dynamics of that
kind of hosting. So one of the things that makes
Nikki look so good is she does a really good
job of like looking at the crowd but also keeping
it with on the camera, right, so she's talking to
the audience at home, yes, but also bringing people in.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 2: Joe got nervous from the beginning because he didn't wasn't
getting laughs right at the beginning, if you recall, and
he started acting like he was working a comedy club, right,
and he was like leaning over and like not looking
at the camera. He wasn't presenting anymore. He seemed desperate
and he was like trying to get laughs. He was
commenting on his own not doing well.
Speaker 1: Right, No, No, you can't wing it when you're hosting
an award show like that. I mean, he thought he
was going to like Jimmy has a whole bunch of
writers when he does it, you know, professional. Yeah. Yeah,
and that's what Nicki.
Speaker 2: And Nicki and the crew analyzed every joke because she
was very careful of like, I want to be hard,
but not like actually pick on celebrity. I don't want to,
she said publicly somewhere like I don't want to not
be able to like make eye contact with these people,
right exactly. Yeah, you know, so she found a way
to make some political jobs and make some you know,
and and save the jobs for people personally knows like
Kevin Hart.
Speaker 1: Yet you're right, right, yeah, she knows it's gonna laugh. Yeah.
Now I didn't see, and you probably Okay, So I saw,
like the mid break, she did another sort of mini
monologue in the middle. It was not good. It wasn't No,
And I don't remember my friend telling me that they
wrote that for her. I don't never heard about that. Well,
I wasn't it good? Was it just?
Speaker 2: It just wasn't really that funny, and I didn't really
even get what she was talking about that much. And
then I looked at the comments on YouTube and they're
all like, well, this sucked, but her opening was.
Speaker 1: Great, right, Yeah. I mean some of the articles I
read today, they it was like basically saying that it
came out after the first ten minutes after her monologue,
it just went into a snooze fast after that, it
was like, Okay, you know the pit one again. You
know Timothy Shaloning, you know, big surprise there, you know,
just like predictable, same same winners from last year. Did
you see one battle after another? No, that's the Leonardo DiCaprio.
Is that the Paul Thomas Anderson yet direct? Did it?
I think? Is it on HBO Max or something? I
don't know I have I think I've seen previews for
it and it didn't look but it's supposed to be
a comedy or so. I don't know.
Speaker 2: My friend who saw it, who has very similar taste
to me, was like, I didn't really get it.
Speaker 1: I mean I watched it and it.
Speaker 2: Was like seemed fine while I was watching it, but
I wasn't really understanding what was going on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how it looked to me in the previews.
You know that's going to be me. I can't like rite, right,
I can't have that for like two and a half hours.
No way now, because I've gotten to an age where
running time of a movie is a yes, thank you.
If I see like two and a half hours, I'm like,
oh hell, hey, I don't care if it's the best movie,
even something important. And I saw that Nuremberg Got movie,
which I would watch, is like two hours and thirty
seven minutes, and I was like, I can't. No, I'm out, well,
definitely not go to the theater, right, you know, yes,
and then if it's at home, it's gonna take me
three days to watch it, right, because you know, get
tagged by the you know, darted like a darted bear.
Speaker 2: Yes, and then have to constantly rewind even if you're right. Okay,
here's the thing, even if you're not darted bear, sometimes
you can be like, you know what, I know myself
well enough to feel that I'm getting tired. I'm going
to be a big girl, and I'm going to turn
this off and start it back up tomorrow. Yeah, okay,
but but by the time it's the next day you're like,
what was I forget? What's happening in that front. It's
like a book. If I can't read it quickly, I
gotta go back like twenty pages. Yes, and honestly, and
I know you're gonna all be like maybe you do
have like some early onset dementia or just short attention span.
But when I go go back to something that I
know I've already listened to, if it's a podcaster.
Speaker 1: It's new to me. Me too, next day, me too.
Speaker 2: Like of course six months later, I can listen to
a podcast and have it feel brand new, rand new,
But sadly, the day after I've watched something, I have
to be like, oh shit, I forgot that that happened.
Speaker 1: It's a good thing I went back. Yes, I have
the same issue. And by the way, this running time,
is there ever gonna be a movie that's a you know,
ninety minute movie anymore, or even an hour and fifty minutes.
Is it ever going to be under two hours? Every
movie is over two hours now.
Speaker 2: It's like all of these directors have just gotten so
proud of themselves that like, oh, I couldn't leave out
any It's all it's all gems.
Speaker 1: Right and every scene, especially Tarantino's movies. Yeah, yeah, I know,
they just I don't know, like there's I don't. I
don't there's no movies under two hours anymore. It's too
long for me.
Speaker 2: It is so funny because I was on a website.
I was looking up the Lemley Theater because I want
to see this movie. Okay, this is It's called Rosemead
and it's with Lucy lou and she plays a mom
who thinks her son is dangerous and has to figure
out what to do about it. I and she has cancer.
It looks really good. It looks super sad independent, you know,
and I want to see it and I kind of
want to see it in the theater. And none of
my friends are interested. They're all like that sounds really sad,
like what's going on in the world, like thank you,
And I'm like, I know, but I kind of I'm interested.
So I keep looking up like when it's playing and
all the other movies that are playing with it, I'm
like the running time, That's.
Speaker 1: What I was catching my eye.
Speaker 2: That's where I saw Nuremberg and I was like, God,
this movie is kind of short the way I want
to see that's that's that's fine.
Speaker 1: Then you know John won't go see it with you.
Speaker 2: He's not gonna want to see that with me. We
don't bother watching all the movies we could watch at home. Yeah,
us every night you want to watch a.
Speaker 1: Movie tonight, I'm like okay.
Speaker 2: And then by the time were we wrapped up whatever
we're doing, it's you know, it's late, it's ten. Yeah,
I'm not starting a movie at ten now, even though
I'm always up past midnight.
Speaker 1: But like not to actually sit in bed and write
a movie and focus to like now, I would be out. Yeah, yeah,
I I was just listening to Alan Jackson, the attorney
on the way in for the first time, talk about
after he had to quit the case. He was on
a podcast this morning and did he huh did he?
Or Karen Reid? Oh case it was the Nick Reiner case.
Oh yeah, did you see last week? How they he
had heard that. I heard the attorney quit, but I forgot.
I didn't put it together. Yeah yeah, And people were wondering,
like why because he said something about it being a conflict.
But he's such a good lawyer. If there was some
kind of conflict, of interest. He would have known about
it early on, right and not taken it and not
taken it. I think it's because the money that the
you know, he can't say right now why, you know,
he's just very tight lipped about it, but it's I
think it's probably because the money. The family, I don't know,
like because they went from Alan Jackson, the most expensive
criminal defense attorney, to a public defender. So I don't
I think, you know, I don't know. I don't know
if you were interested in that. But there's a slayer
law they call it, which is weird slay law, slay law,
slayer law, which is if you inherit your your parent's fortune,
if you kill your parents, it's null and void. You
don't get their inheritance. Okay, So I think maybe the
family jumped the gun at first, but now it's like
they can't. They don't want to pay for him, I guess,
but I don't know. It was really interesting. I love
Alan Jackson, He's I like him. I'm a crush on him.
Did he did he do? Karen read?
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him then too, Yeah, And I was like, you know,
he's good but yeah, still think she's guilty.
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Speaker 2: It's really cute. Okay, it did not hurt. The story
is kind of funny. You know, I've been wanting it
for a really long time. I didn't know that you
didn't know that. Oh. I wanted to show my California
pride for a really long time. And when I took
Sadie to get her tattoo, the tattoo artist Adrian at
the Honorable Society who We Love.
Speaker 1: So he had drawn I had told him that I
So I found him based on a friend of mine
who has a California I told this friend of mine,
I want to get a California tattoo.
Speaker 2: And she goes, oh, I have one, shout it to
me and I loved it and I was like, oh
my god, that's what I want. And then she told
me where she went. So when Sadie was going to
get a tattoo, I was like, let's check this guy.
The first guy we checked out was somebody she found. Yeah,
and that guy was so expensive, I remember. So I
was like, well, let me check with this guy and
see what and his price was lower and I was like,
and we know he does good work. So we went
with him. So he had done me a little sketch
of California. But I chickened out and I was I
made it seem like I just wanted it to be
her day. Yeah, but truthfully, if I was feeling I
just it caught me off guard and I wasn't ready
to do it. And he was like, it'll only take
like forty minutes, you know, And I was like, oh,
next time, let's make.
Speaker 1: This about Sadie as a good mother would, right. So
I finally made the appointment. I was like, screw it,
I'm gonna I'm.
Speaker 2: Gonna do this Sadie came with me because she's still
on vacation. I did it last Wednesday. Today's Monday, so
I've only had it for like six days days anyway,
So we go in and I show him the drawing.
I still have the drawing you made me, and I said,
I want the smallest one, but like a little bit
smaller than that.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 2: Sadie was like, mom, like the smallest one that he
showed you is not big, Like you should go with
that one. Then there's like two other girls in the
tattoo shop there's they're like looking at their designs. So
I workshopped it with them. I was like, what do
you guys think you know? And they're like, oh my gosh,
well it's such a personal decision because they're like, I
like the bigger one because you have so.
Speaker 1: Much real estate on your forearm. It's on my forearm
that you want it to be a little bigger so
it takes up more space in there. And I was like, no, no,
I Don't's not what I'm trying to do. I'm trying
to like I'm trying to be a little bit subtle, yes,
like I want you to have to look and then
look again to be like, oh, there's a big California
on our arm, right, Okay?
Speaker 2: And I and John had been I think I told you, like, going,
what are you get on your shoulder? How about on
your shoulder?
Speaker 1: And it's like, because bitch, I can't see it on
my should feel a bit of that. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So John was already like very in favor of smaller
and less visible right, you know, because it's a wasp
from Connecticut with no tattoos who only wears Lucky jeans
his entirely life.
Speaker 1: Okay, So.
Speaker 2: I was like, I want it a little bit smaller.
So the guy he's like okay. So he goes and
he shows me a couple that are smaller, and one
of them was like too small and the other ones
were kind of still kind of anyway. I was like,
then I find then I'm like, okay, I don't want
to be a people pleaser. I instructed, Sadie, whatever you do,
don't be a people pleaser.
Speaker 1: This is ink. It's on your body, it's forever, it's
literally forever. I was like, so please, if there's something
you're not feeling, just go like no, no, no, oh
my god. It's so much easier set telling her to
do it. You know, I'm taking your own advice. I
could feel him getting a little bit like, oh boy,
she's gonna be high maintenance. I'm like, but I had
a thing in my head what I wanted, you know,
And I was like, this just isn't quite it. Like
the design is fine, but the size is like so
then I'm like, can you okay? And then he brings
me one and I'm like, well, this is the same
size as the other one, and Sadie goes, no, it's not, mom,
it's different. It's smaller.
Speaker 2: And I was like, no, it's the exact same size.
I put him next to each other. Uh huh, and
she's like oh. And then he goes, oh, actually, my bad,
Like I just printed out the same one right.
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, yeah you did. Like come on now,
that dude right focus.
Speaker 2: Sidney shows me one that's a little smaller. Then I
literally go back and forth. I'm like, oh, is it
too small?
Speaker 1: Is it?
Speaker 2: And Sadie is just getting like having none of me
and this one. I was like, mom, it's fine, it's
what you want. And I'm like, I know, but I
still want it to be noticeable. And she's like it'll
still be noticeable. Then she thought this was too small
though this she yeah, so I went with this. I
was like, I'm going with my gut and I'm going
with the smaller one, and I don't care what any
any of.
Speaker 1: You assholes say about it. Right, chicks in the lobby, well,
they were like, whatever you want to do. Yeah, it's
cute too. There they were very agreeable.
Speaker 2: So then he a stencil on right, and he puts
it on and it's like a little bit he said.
He tells me it's centered, but in my mind it's
too far to one side. And then it and then
I'm like what I kind of wanted it like more
like in the middle, and he goes, oh, it is
the part where the California because it bends right, so
this part was here right, so the.
Speaker 1: Bottom of California. Oh, it was more in the center
of my arm and the top of California started off
to the site a little bit. And I was like, okay,
cow no. At first, I'm right okay. Sadie's like, yeah,
that looks good. And I was like, are you sure
it's like centered? And he goes, yeah, it's totally centered.
And I was like okay.
Speaker 2: Then I'm sitting there in the chair and he's got
the he's got the ink, he's locked and loaded, he's
ready to go.
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm.
Speaker 2: Gonna be mad at myself if I don't. Yeah, in
my mind, I was like, Stephanie, are you just impossible
to please?
Speaker 1: Are you annoying him now? When it comes to this?
But then I was like I want what I fucking want.
I was like, hold on and he goes, okay, what's up?
And I go, I just can you move it over
a little bit. It's just not quite how I pictured
it in my mind.
Speaker 2: And he goes okay, and he has to wipe it off,
wipes the ink.
Speaker 1: Oh, oh my god, this poor guy. It wasn't a
huge deal.
Speaker 2: They have this stuff that you just you just wipe
the like it's temporary, you know, just like and then
he does it again and I'm like, eh.
Speaker 1: Not quite me really. He goes okay, and then he
does this what I have?
Speaker 2: But I was like yes, and he goes, okay, get
up and go look at it in the mirror though,
so you're sure. I get up and I go look
in the mirror, and I was like, that's what I
want once.
Speaker 1: I sure.
Speaker 2: Then he does the tattoo and then I was like,
I fucking love it. Yeah, it's exactly exactly how what
I pictured.
Speaker 1: It is what I pictured too. I think it's a
perfect size for your arm, Yeah, perfect size. I think
it accomplishes what you want where you have to look
at it kind of twice to see what it is. Yeah,
it's like subtle, but you get it when you really
look at it. And to me, it looks center. I
don't know when he.
Speaker 2: Was the center that I wanted. Yeah, it's in the middle. Yeah, right,
But so anyway, but.
Speaker 1: The here's where I don't understand. When you get a
tattoo and it's on your arm like that, do you
make it look like whenever you look down on it
it's the right way, or do you face it the
other way so when people look at it it's the
right way.
Speaker 2: So I'm glad you asked because I had the exact
same question. Yeah, like and I asked Sadie and Sadie
was like, oh, I don't know.
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, what good are you?
Speaker 2: Why are you coming with me? What do you think?
I'm asking you what you think? And she was like,
I think you want it so that other.
Speaker 1: People see what it is right way, because you know
what it is. Right.
Speaker 2: So then I was like, okay, well I'm going to
ask Adrian because obviously you're no expert. So I asked
him and he was like, oh, one hundred percent, so
that other people you position a tattoo. Otherwise people are
going to look at it and not have.
Speaker 1: Any idea what it is exactly.
Speaker 2: And I was like, he's like, you you will adjust.
You know what it is, so your brain will adjust
right away and see it it's California and sure enough. Yeah,
and then he said normally I let clients whatever you want,
but if you're asking me, I'm.
Speaker 1: Gonna yeah, that's wrong. The other way is wrong. Right,
this is clearly how you should do it. And I
was like thank you, Yeah, all right, okay.
Speaker 2: So then Sadie goes I was like, okay, I should
take a picture and send it to Dad, and Sadie goes, no,
you should wait, and like just so he can see
it on your arm when you get home. So, uh
so we're we're getting the car and then John texts
and he goes, well, well, I don't get a picture
of the tattoo. So I was like, he really wants
a picture. And then Sadie goes, oh my god, we
should rank him. We should send him a picture of
a really big one I photoshop. And I was like,
oh my god, that is so funny. So she finds
a pretty big one. It's got all the counties. It's like,
oh my god.
Speaker 1: So she photoshops it under my arm.
Speaker 2: It was so funny, and I'm going to see if
I can get the screen grab from her phone yeah
and post it for us.
Speaker 1: I love the kids can do that, like slip yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: So we're at Trader we decided to stop at Trader Joe's.
And that's when he was like, oh you're at Trader Joe's.
Can you get me a sandwich? And why no picture?
Speaker 1: So she does it while we're in Trader joe. She
makes this thing.
Speaker 2: So then we send it to him and I was
cracking up, and then nothing like he doesn't write back
right away, and I was like.
Speaker 1: What's he saying?
Speaker 2: And she's like, he's not answering, and she goes, he's
got to know because he's the master at photoshop. He
shops jokes to people all the time and I was like,
I don't. I think he's nervous and I don't think
he's going to know it's a joke right away.
Speaker 1: Right. So then he.
Speaker 2: Writes back, oh, she decided to go with the counties too,
and Sadie goes, he totally knows.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, he doesn't.
Speaker 2: I was like, no, he doesn't know, because if he did,
he would have said something dry, like he would have
been like, oh, I thought she wanted like a bigger touch,
like he would have said, like she didn't want to
go bigger than that, right, a little small or something. Yes,
if he knew, yeah, I was like, he agreed with you,
He's I go, he's freaking out right now. So then
I said, just tell him some just tell him something
and she goes, oh, well, Adrian just thought it needed
it was too plain and it needed a little bit
of like design.
Speaker 1: Uh huh, that's a good one. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So then I was like, maybe you should say and
then we didn't do this, but I was like, maybe
you should say, like, hey.
Speaker 1: Like be kind when you see to mom.
Speaker 2: Because she's feeling self conscious about how it's bigger than
she thought it was going to be.
Speaker 1: I mean, this thing was giant. It was like, half
my r Oh my god, with all the counties, that's hilarry.
All the counties it looked so stupid.
Speaker 2: She purposely was like, let me find the most ridiculous one.
So it was so funny because I was like, he
doesn't know, he does not know, and then we walk
in and he's like, oh, let.
Speaker 1: Me, let me see. And then he sees it.
Speaker 2: You can literally see relief and oh wait, there's no
counties in there. And I was like, no, we were
fucking with you, stupid, and he was like, oh my god,
He's like, I you didn't notice how giant the one
in the picture wasn't here.
Speaker 1: I wasn't worried about that. I was worried about the
fact that you had all these lines in it, right
that just looked like veins because I didn't want to
say anything, Oh my god, that's hilarious. That's a perfect
We let him sit with that for like twenty minutes.
Oh my god, your guy. Yeah yeah, I can't believe
he fell for it. Yeah yeah wow.
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Speaker 1: Yes, it was good, it was very good. I loved
the comment from our listeners. It was really insightful. Yeah,
so we did a follow up on that. Yeah. Yeah,
so tell me what.
Speaker 2: We We kind of brushed on this on the Patreon.
But so right now, where you are with Sonny and Natalia?
Where are they with their post plans because they were changing.
Speaker 1: Well, other of them applied for now, but Sonny is
applying for Oregon University. I think it's the by the
end of this month. Okay. I was going to do
that because he had to get the all the credits,
and I think he's now got all the credits he needs.
I think I just have to check with him. And
then Natalia is still on her course of wanting to uh,
she wants to go abroad next year in her you
know junior, no, sophomore, yeah, junior, junior year around my god.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is her second year of school. Yeah yeah, yeah,
because she moved into a different apartment. Yeah, so she
wants to do that next year. And then she because she.
Speaker 1: Doesn't want to go abroad like with U see Santa Barbara.
That's what I don't know. She said it. When you
come back, then you can transfer to UC Santa Barbara.
They do have this program from the college she's in now. Oh,
I have it because her roommate did that the exact
same thing. She just got back from being abroad and
she transferred. So she's following basically like what she did. So,
but you don't have to apply now and then I
don't know. I don't know. I think, you know, they
know they know better that they know better than I do. Like, yeah,
she's got it all on your But whenever the application is,
that's what she's doing. I know she did fill out
some stuff and I know she attended something about it
at school to get all the information. She want to
be abroad. She wants to go to Italy. Oh yeah,
you told me that. Yeah that's so cool. Yeah yeah. So,
I mean I have a friends, I have friends that
kids went abroad. I wasn't I was like, really, can
you just stay in one spot? Why do you got
to travel? But uh, talking to some of my friends
whose kids studied abroad, like they were like, it's one
of the best things they ever did. It was so
great for them, Like they really learned, you know, outside
of their little bubble the world and culture and just
being you know, responsible for your own shit and you know,
and it was really it was really some of the
best things that their kids did. So I'm going with that.
Speaker 2: I'm hoping I could totally see Sunny going to Japan.
Speaker 1: I know, I think he's done with Asian country. He
gets a stomach ache with their food every time he
comes back. Oh yeah, but no, he is so into
the University Oregon. He's like, that's where he wants to be.
The sports. I mean, we just they're the Ducks. The
Oregon Ducks went really far in the Bowls this year.
I even watched the game when he was out of
town with you this weekend. Yeah, they played Friday night.
I was texting with him. He was watching it. Yeah,
I got sucked into it. It was like exciting. They lost,
but but they went pretty far. So anyway, like, yeah,
they got the sports program and stuff like that. He's
that's what he wants to do. So who's his a
NFL team? Rams? Okay, wait, well did you watch the game.
I didn't see that game yesterday. I was busy driving.
It was pretty exciting. They came back. They were way
way way behind.
Speaker 2: H I don't know exact numbers, but then they had
a huge comeback and.
Speaker 1: One that's what I heard, Yeah go Rams. Yeah. Yeah,
he's always since he was a little boy, loves the Rams.
That's his team. That's so cute. And now they're a Rams.
Yeah all the better? Right, yeah right, because that hasn't
been for that I think not that long, but I
think since he was probably like I don't know ten
I think yeah, because they went to the Super Bowl.
I remember he was like ten or twelve a video
of it, and there they were in the Super Bowls
the first time they were in the super Bowl in
his little lifetime. And after the game was over, they lost,
and he was like sitting in a corner like distraught,
like to tears, like tears coming, and I remember the
song was playing in the background, like it was like,
I want to know what love is? This was playing
because we had like a super Bowl party and he's
just sitting in the corner and like a little heap
of tears. What you to show me? I want to know.
I kinda find that video. It's hilarious. I'm like, Sonny,
are you okay? And he's like you guy's wearing his
Ram's hat and his RAM shirt and he's just like
in the corner by himself, like he was so upset.
And I think the next is when they all went to, uh, Pennsylvania,
took a class trip to Pennsylvania. Oh yeah, they lost
to the New England Patriots. I remember, Yeah, So.
Speaker 2: This is like the opposite of my nephew who was
is way too into the Chiefs for my taste. And
then you know they went to the Super Bowl like
three years running. Yeah, it's just like enough.
Speaker 1: I think she'd be taken down a peg again.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I told you about my sister in law
saying she wasn't going to have a Super Bowl party
last year because they were just too into the.
Speaker 1: Oh that's right. Yeah, I wanted to watch.
Speaker 2: Chiefs and they just didn't want anybody distracting them and
it would just be too hard for them.
Speaker 1: And I was like, shut the fuck up. Is she
from kat Is she from Kansas City? No? Why the Chiefs?
I don't know. I don't just because they were hot,
I don't know. I like to give her shit about
it though. That's pretty funny with you. But he but yeah,
well of course he's going to be into them because
they're pay his parents are or his mom not really
doesn't care about, right, he only is.
Speaker 2: It's like, listen, mom and son found a thing to
bond over. They picked a team that's cute, probably liked homes,
and you know they're like, yeah, good day, that's our
team now as far as I can tell.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Chiefs. I don't think are doing very well. No, no,
they didn't even make it to the playoffs. No Ah, John.
Speaker 2: Hates the forty nine ers strictly because somebody that he
used to know loves him is like one of those
really just ridiculous rude fans.
Speaker 1: Yeah them, yeah, and just is not great.
Speaker 2: So he's like, fuck that guy, now, I really want
his team to lose.
Speaker 1: Oh, that's so funny. So then he just moved again,
just for fun. You gotta have some reasons, of course
for rude against Yeah, my dad would because we're from
Cleveland and the Browns always suck. And my dad had
a sister that he didn't get a along with and
she married a guy's last name was Brown, and he
so anytime the Browns played, he goes, fuck the Browns
because they're from Cleveland too. Oh my god, I do
not picture your dad swear. Oh my god, my dad
swear it all the time. I remember him sneezing and
he goes, oh shit, like when he'd sneeze. Oh my god. Yeah,
he cussed, but he'd go fuck the Browns, fuck the Browns,
and fuck my sister. You know what the color of
shit is brown? He would say that kind of stuff.
And Linna, what's the color of shit? I go brown,
he goes fuck the browns. Oh my god. Yeah, yeah,
he did not like. I don't think it was his sister.
I don't think he liked the husband. I don't know.
And then he hated Cleveland. That's why he got out
of Cleveland, Wan and moved to California. And so he
hated the Cleveland everything anything, called it the mistake on
the lake, a fucking piece of shit city. It's the
mistake on the lake. Cleveland is what this brown? What's
the color of shit? Oh my god? I did not
picture him that way. Really. Yeah. To see a picture
of your dad, oh, I should find I'll find a picture.
He looks like he's Sonny a little bit.
Speaker 2: Because I've seen pictures of your mom. Yeah, from videos
and stuff and pictures.
Speaker 1: He looks like Sonny yeah a little yeah, they yeah
he does. He has my dad's look, definitely. And your
dad is fully Italian, too, right, full blooded Italian? Yeah? Okay, yeah,
And but he was he had a stepdad that was
a Hungarian Jew.
Speaker 2: Oh really yeah okay, and not biological but not biological culture.
Speaker 1: But that's why my dad was always telling me, you know,
you respect the Jews and you know they have a
great community. Like that's why my dad like taught me that,
you know. So he got along with his stepfather. Yeah,
he loved him. He had a great sense of humor.
He said that was the most thing that bonded them.
He loved sense of humor. His mom had a good
sense of humor too, my grandma. Yeah, he loved comedy.
He loved to, you know, make people laugh and stuff.
Speaker 2: So this was how long was your step grandpa, your
dad's stepfather.
Speaker 1: I think for most of his life. I think at
an early age. I don't think he knew his real dad.
They got divorced early and he was I think, kind
of abusive, and so his mom left and then she
married Grandpa Al and then I only met him once,
I think when I was a kid, and then he died.
They lived in Cleveland. So yeah, but your mom's parents,
did you know them? I knew them because they would
come to California for the summer and stay with us.
They not one lick at English, but I got along
great with them. My grandfather, my no, no, would like
you know, broken English. Like they'd come for Easter and
you go happy East, the happy West to marry Christmas,
like just saying like, but got along so well with them,
loved them. And my grandmother had she was in some
kind of chemical accident, so she was blind. You know,
grandparents all kind of fucked up shit, you know, like
back the old school grandparents, like chemical accidents or missing
a limb. She had her eye was like bleach like
she got bleaching her eye. But her eye was like
bright white. And then she had a green eye her
regular color eyes. Wow. So she had a bright green
eye and it always kind of scared me. But then
could she see out of that eye? No, she was blind.
She was blind in one eye. But she was built
like me. She had big boobs, skinny body, and then
you know she was in her aid nineties she had
a big belly. But and then my grand her husband,
my grandfather, he was little skinny guy. And then my
dad's side had skinny grandparents. I don't know about her
his dad, but my grandmother was tiny and petite. So
you know, it's in the jeans my grandmother. So, did
your grandmother have big boobs? Yeah, she had been your mom,
did it? No?
Speaker 2: My moms were like medium set my moms were like
a seed. Yeah, mine too, my mom, But then I
got like double d yes. Really, but it was kind
of in my family definitely. Grandmother had big bosoms. Yes,
me too, big bazookahs.
Speaker 1: Isn't that interesting bazooas how it skips a generation? Yeah,
it really is true in my family. Yeah, because my
mom just had like seas and then I got these
big yeah zoo.
Speaker 2: I've never experienced any grandparents that were like nice, spoiling
kind of grandparents. Like my grandmother was mean, and then
my step grandma Paw was sweet. I only I didn't
meet him that many times, but then he kind of
My grandmother turned on me because you remember that whole story.
It doesn't really matter why, but I told my mom
something my grandmother said and then she denied it and
was like, you're a devil child, and the grands step
grandfather was like, who had been asleep? My grandmother did
not like my stepfather right for good reason, and told
me that they're going to get that she really wants
to divorce him my mom, but they're staying together for
the kids.
Speaker 1: Which was very trouble.
Speaker 2: It was a weird thing to say, and I repeated
it to my mom, and my mom was like, how
dare you? She would never say something like that, and
I was like, why would I possibly make night right?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: And then so then she made me sit on the
phone while she called her mom and said, so, did
you say that? And then my grandmother was like, no,
I would never say that. And then my step grandfather
was listening on the other line and he was.
Speaker 1: Like, she's a double child. And then after that I
was like, oh, like that guy too, y'all yeah, fuck, oh, y'all.
All of you suck and what kind of grandparents are like,
you know, you don't expect your grandparents to turn on.
Years later, my grandmother acknowledged it, but at the time
I got thrown out of the house for it. My
mom said I was a liar. This was that story
where she kicked me out of the house. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: We were staying with people in when we had first
moved to Springfield. This is part of my chaotic yeah,
And my mom was like, how dare you?
Speaker 1: You're a liar? You've always been a lot. It was
crazy wow, crying.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I didn't I didn't lie. So for years
after that I would go like, do you believe me.
I don't know why. It really bothered me becoor. My
mom felt so betrayed by me. She felt like I
was making up this story.
Speaker 1: Somehow to hurt her, and I was.
Speaker 2: I would always ask her, do you believe me? And
she would always say, like, you know, I don't know
what the truth is. I might from either of you.
I don't I've thought about it a lot. I don't
know why you would make it up, but I don't
know why she would say.
Speaker 1: It years later, and she didn't bother to tell me.
Speaker 2: She never straightened it out and said like, hey, by
the way, my mother acknowledged that she did say that.
Speaker 1: Years later, like fast forward, I said something. I was like,
you know, it still bothers me. I don't know if
I was talking about therapy or something, and she was like, oh, well,
by the way, she did she did tell me that
she did say it, and she was just trying to
make you feel better because you were apparently so upset
or something, so she just she didn't mean it, but
she said it to like make it make you feel better.
And I was like, okay, but she said it, and
why didn't she say why didn't you tell me like,
I have to bring it up years at that and
she said, well, I didn't know it was still bothering you.
Oh my gosh. Whatever, what about your grandfather, your grandparents
on your dad's side, did you ever know them?
Speaker 2: So on my stepfather's side, they abandoned him when he
was little and he grew up in an orphanage, the
boy's home.
Speaker 1: And then on my.
Speaker 2: Biological father's side, the one crazy grandma who was like
I wasn't He wasn't really in my life and he
didn't get along with his parents. And I think my
paternal grandfather, his name was Charlie. He must have died
either before I was I think he died before I
was ever born. And then the the woman his mom,
her name is like Leona. It isn't like Leona, it's Leona. Yeah,
And I met her like a few times and.
Speaker 1: She was weird, really yeah, do you think? I don't
know if that's because my biological father was weird and
they had a contentious sort of relationship, so she didn't
know what her plan. Also, I didn't have really a
relationship with so it wasn't really conducive to me having
a relationship to her, right, h I'm just wondering if
there's like some like he got your dad got something
from her, like Well.
Speaker 2: My father's father was bipolar, which they called manic depressive
those days. I'm pretty sure that my father is too,
not anymore, but I think he was too.
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