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<v Speaker 1>This is a noncore performance of Always in Fashion.

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<v Speaker 2>This show is produced and hosted by Mark Webber.

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<v Speaker 1>The show is sponsored by G three Aparo. The views

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<v Speaker 1>expressed in.

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<v Speaker 2>The following program are those of the sponsor and not

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily the opinion of seven Tenor or iHeartMedia. Who is

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<v Speaker 2>Mark Webber. He's a self made business executive here to

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<v Speaker 2>help you find your success from the New York City

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<v Speaker 2>projects to the Avenue Montaigne in Paris. His global success

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<v Speaker 2>story in the luxury world of fashion is inspirational.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gone from clerk to CEO twice.

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<v Speaker 2>Mark his classic proof that the American dream is alive.

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<v Speaker 2>And well, here's your host of Always in Fashion, Mark Weber.

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<v Speaker 1>Mark Weber.

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<v Speaker 3>This is Mark Weber, This is business, and this is

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<v Speaker 3>a night to talk and Always in Fashion a knight

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<v Speaker 3>that talk seriously, face to face. In this world, the complexity,

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<v Speaker 3>the differences, the diversity make our ability to communicate so

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<v Speaker 3>much more easily and instantaneously than ever before. Yet the

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<v Speaker 3>simpler has become to talk, the more difficulty has become

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<v Speaker 3>to communicate. Phones. The top priority is no longer the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>We pay the least attention to the phone feature for

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<v Speaker 3>communicating there's been virtually no effort put forth to improve

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<v Speaker 3>the phone listening quality, the speakers, etc. And Apple and

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<v Speaker 3>the other makers will admit that because we're not asking

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<v Speaker 3>for it. And why because smartphones, when it comes to talking,

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<v Speaker 3>are not so smart. We don't seem to care about

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<v Speaker 3>the sound quality of the telephone. The consumer is not

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<v Speaker 3>demanding better. Yes they're perfect for email, Yes they're perfect

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<v Speaker 3>for texting, and yes for accessing any of the social mediums.

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<v Speaker 3>It's perfect your phone for finding vast amount of information

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<v Speaker 3>on the Internet, and now perfectly convenient for buying and

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<v Speaker 3>purchasing just about anything. But as a phone, it's not developing.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't realize. I guess how incredible it is to

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<v Speaker 3>talk to anyone in the world, anywhere in the world,

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<v Speaker 3>from anywhere that you are. We're taking a cell phone

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<v Speaker 3>for granted, I drove my car from the onset without

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<v Speaker 3>a phone anywhere I would go. I've drived to Pennsylvania

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<v Speaker 3>to Flora without a phone, never giving it a moment's thought.

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<v Speaker 3>But today I'm uncomfortable. I freak out if I forget

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<v Speaker 3>my phone to go to the clean ears. You want

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<v Speaker 3>that phone in the car, it's part of you let's

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<v Speaker 3>take a moment to think about it. The future's here.

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<v Speaker 3>We can talk to anyone any time you want. Yet

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<v Speaker 3>we're talking less and less. Texts and emails are growing,

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<v Speaker 3>talking not so much. We can't blame the phone. It's

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<v Speaker 3>there for us. It's not the phone, it's us, it's you. Really.

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<v Speaker 3>Talking is becoming a lost art, and face to face

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<v Speaker 3>to discussions are disappearing. Talking face to face seems to

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<v Speaker 3>be avoided at all costs. When did you stop talking

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<v Speaker 3>and started avoiding? I know it's easy to avoid dialogue

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<v Speaker 3>today it's email and texting impersonal to say the least, easy,

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<v Speaker 3>non confrontational, and easily avoidable for anything. You're at the

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<v Speaker 3>point dating is online. Relationships are vera text. I remember

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<v Speaker 3>how difficult it was for me to work up the

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<v Speaker 3>courage prepare myself to tell a young lady that I

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<v Speaker 3>was dating, that we would be no more. But face

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<v Speaker 3>to face was the right way, face to face to communication.

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<v Speaker 3>It was uncomfortable, but that's what I did. That's what

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<v Speaker 3>I want to talk to you about tonight, face to

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<v Speaker 3>face communication in business and in life, and maybe some politics.

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<v Speaker 3>Face to face with me tonight. Jesse Weber, my son,

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<v Speaker 3>my attorney here and always in fashion. I can't help

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<v Speaker 3>but stay current on your relationships. Then I raised this point.

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<v Speaker 4>We talk about that a lot my relationships. Apparently, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it's interesting. I went out with somebody recently and she's

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<v Speaker 4>a younger girl, and she said to me, I said,

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<v Speaker 4>you don't go out to meet people anymore, and she goes,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, ever since the online dating and there's so

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<v Speaker 4>many different apps. I go out with my friends, my

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<v Speaker 4>girlfriend's just to go out to dance. I don't really

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<v Speaker 4>look for anybody. If I want to look for somebody,

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<v Speaker 4>I use the apps. If I go out, maybe i'll

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<v Speaker 4>see somebody. But I really wait for the apps. It's

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<v Speaker 4>become a different world. In fact, i'll tell you I

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<v Speaker 4>would say it was a couple of years ago. I

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<v Speaker 4>met a girl at one of an event. You and

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<v Speaker 4>I went to an event. She was working the event.

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<v Speaker 1>We went out.

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<v Speaker 3>Later on that night.

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<v Speaker 4>I met one of her friends, and her friend says

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<v Speaker 4>to me, while my date went to the bathroom, she shas,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I heard how you went out. You went

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<v Speaker 4>out of your way to get her number. I think

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<v Speaker 4>that's really weird. I said, what do you mean she

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<v Speaker 4>goes who goes up to somebody? Who gets their number?

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<v Speaker 4>I said, how should I have met her? You use

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<v Speaker 4>an app like everybody else. Oh geez, that's today's day

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<v Speaker 4>and age. I'm telling you things have just changed. And

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<v Speaker 4>the worst part about it. You ready for this? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>when you break up with somebody, they cut you off

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<v Speaker 4>of all social media Facebook, Instagram for not just cut

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<v Speaker 4>you off. I've been blocked. I can't even search for

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm glad it's your world. What can I say?

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<v Speaker 3>But tonight I want to talk about talking in business

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<v Speaker 3>and in life. If you master the oral word, you

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<v Speaker 3>will be successful. There's no question your writing skills will

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<v Speaker 3>play an important part in your career. But you need

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<v Speaker 3>to know how to talk. So much of what is

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<v Speaker 3>done via the Internet and writing, and yes, you need

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<v Speaker 3>to be capable of organizing your thoughts and articulating them

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<v Speaker 3>via the written word. You got to be careful where

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<v Speaker 3>you put your exclamation marks. I'm told that's a big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>Putting things in capitals is a big deal. But the

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<v Speaker 3>decisions in your career will be about FaceTime.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, I'm sorry I have to terrupt you. Coming from here.

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<v Speaker 4>Your emails need a lot of work.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, I care about talking.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even know what it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>Morse code.

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<v Speaker 3>What's the thing called that changes your words around?

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<v Speaker 4>If you don't, don't blame it on the Apple Typeoh,

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<v Speaker 4>that's not what it is. You structure your emails like

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<v Speaker 4>three three words. Then the next sentence it's like.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, spell check, don't blame it on spellcheck? What spell check?

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<v Speaker 3>Listen to me, I'm on the radio. I'm master at

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<v Speaker 3>communicating the oral word writing. Yeah, I do it when

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<v Speaker 3>I have to do, and it's certainly part of our culture.

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<v Speaker 3>But tonight I want to talk about FaceTime, not Apple time,

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<v Speaker 3>not Apple FaceTime, real FaceTime, face to face communication. You're

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<v Speaker 3>expressing of ideas, your relationships with your boss, your important

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<v Speaker 3>communications with your subordinates, the people working for you, will

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<v Speaker 3>be face to face. Your ideas, your follow through direction,

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<v Speaker 3>execution may take place through email, but think about it

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<v Speaker 3>and trust me, it's the FaceTime that leaves the impressions.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the face time that can make or break you.

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<v Speaker 3>Your ability to communicate and talk is the key. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>if you're a listener to the show, you know I

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<v Speaker 3>don't like humans I don't have much faith in them.

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<v Speaker 3>I just don't like them. If I were to work

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<v Speaker 3>with only people i'd like, I'd be in a room

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<v Speaker 3>by myself.

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<v Speaker 4>What does that say about me?

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<v Speaker 3>Ah, you're not included. Don't be ridiculous. I don't but

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<v Speaker 3>I really don't like humans. And everyone I know knows

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<v Speaker 3>that I don't like humans. But in business, you have

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<v Speaker 3>a responsibility to communicate with them. And in spite of Twitter, Instagram,

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<v Speaker 3>emails and texts, talking sets the stage that is the

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<v Speaker 3>best vehicle to get your ideas and thoughts across directly

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<v Speaker 3>to all the people you interact with. The political world

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<v Speaker 3>is all about FaceTime, you know. I want to talk

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<v Speaker 3>about Gina Haspell, the woman who was interviewing this week

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<v Speaker 3>to be the head of the CIA. She was amazing

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<v Speaker 3>if you listened to her interview, and I'll tell you why.

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<v Speaker 3>Running the CIA, it's got to be an incredibly difficult job.

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<v Speaker 3>And if you listen to this woman, she began in

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<v Speaker 3>the field, making clandestine meetings with spies and people in

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<v Speaker 3>the middle of nowhere in foreign countries. The courage she

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<v Speaker 3>displayed throughout her career to get where she got, and

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<v Speaker 3>when you listen to her talk. I was so impressed

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<v Speaker 3>with the degree of information she had at her figuretips.

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<v Speaker 3>She had done it all, and now she's interviewing for

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<v Speaker 3>the top spot in spite of all the scandals. I

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<v Speaker 3>respect our congressmen and senators. Yet when you heard the

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<v Speaker 3>questions they were asking her, trying to get personal information

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<v Speaker 3>from one of America's most important covert operatives. When they

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<v Speaker 3>started to talk about America is behind the scenes investigating principles,

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<v Speaker 3>Why are they asking those questions? It makes no sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Why don't we just tell the whole world how we

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<v Speaker 3>do everything. Now. I know they're smart. I know they

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<v Speaker 3>have very learned their lawyers, their attorneys, they're very smart people.

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<v Speaker 3>But yet they kept probing, probing, probing. But what I

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<v Speaker 3>took away is the more they asked her, the better

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<v Speaker 3>she was. The more I was excited about her because

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<v Speaker 3>she had done every single job there was to be done.

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<v Speaker 3>She knew how to run the CIA. This should have

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<v Speaker 3>been simple, but it wasn't. I will tell you that

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<v Speaker 3>the theme of tonight's show, face to face, was remarkable,

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<v Speaker 3>watching her testify face to face in front of the committee,

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<v Speaker 3>and with that in mind, you could never do that

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<v Speaker 3>via text. The eye contact, the face to face questioning

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<v Speaker 3>whether I like the questions or not. I don't even

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<v Speaker 3>know why the whole thing wasn't done in closed session.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we're talking about the CIA here, We're not

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<v Speaker 3>talking about your favorite food. But it was interesting to

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<v Speaker 3>watch the face to face while I'm on the subject

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<v Speaker 3>of politics. You know who else I want to talk about,

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<v Speaker 3>Jesse Donald Trump. Absolutely, he is perhaps one of the

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<v Speaker 3>most effective communicators ever to occupy the Oval Office. Before

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<v Speaker 3>you run a revolt on me, I know there's a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of you out there that doesn't like the President.

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<v Speaker 3>I happen to think he's an effective communicator, and I'll

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<v Speaker 3>dissuade you for the moment, and I give you a

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<v Speaker 3>point of view on whether I like Donald Trump or not.

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<v Speaker 3>In fact, I know Donald Trump. I actually devoted a

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<v Speaker 3>chapter in my book Always in Fashion to Donald Trump,

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<v Speaker 3>Chapter seventeen, and I entitled it Negotiating with the Master.

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<v Speaker 3>Donald Trump has a licensing business. He is a brand.

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<v Speaker 3>He believes in the Trump brand, and with that brand,

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<v Speaker 3>he likes to put his name on various different products,

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<v Speaker 3>products ranging from vodka to buildings, to hotels to golf courses.

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<v Speaker 3>And when I met him, he wanted to be in

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<v Speaker 3>the men's apparel business. He believed during his period in

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<v Speaker 3>the Apprentice that he was creating a demand for shirts, ties, suits, clothing,

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<v Speaker 3>and he wanted my company, at the time, the van

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<v Speaker 3>using company, to be his licensee. And my guys came

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<v Speaker 3>to me one day and said, Donald Trump wants to

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<v Speaker 3>be our partner in shirts and ties and suits. I said,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what, what do I need that for? Forget it,

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<v Speaker 3>go back and tell him we don't need it. We

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<v Speaker 3>got enough good things going on. The following morning, the

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<v Speaker 3>president of our licensing business came into me and said,

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<v Speaker 3>Donald Trump wants to come up here. I said, come on.

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<v Speaker 3>He said, no, Donald Trump wants to come up here. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>this was way before he was going to run for office.

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<v Speaker 3>This is when he was running his business. I said,

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<v Speaker 3>Two days later, Donald Trump and his entourage, which weren't

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<v Speaker 3>very many, came up to see me in my conference room. Hi, Mark,

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<v Speaker 3>I've heard so much about you. I love your company.

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<v Speaker 3>be involved to make money. I was absolutely not interested.

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<v Speaker 3>I had no interest in whatsoever. I didn't need it.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, mister Trump, we have all a good business

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<v Speaker 3>going on. Why do I need this? He said? You know,

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<v Speaker 3>face to face he was so articulate, so clever, so

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<v Speaker 3>interested in building a brand with our company. He was flattering,

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<v Speaker 3>he was tough. I was tougher and made him crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>He said, listen to me, you're very tough. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>if you trust me, we could build this brand together.

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<v Speaker 3>And I please, I'd like you to think about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Make a long story short. Our people were enthused. We

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<v Speaker 3>he ran for office. The point is, face to face

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<v Speaker 3>makes a difference. On the phone, I would have never

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<v Speaker 3>agreed to anything but face to face communicating. Looking in

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<v Speaker 3>when I watch him communicate as president in his town

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<v Speaker 3>halls or in his pep rallies from city to city.

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<v Speaker 3>ever seen in the Oval office. Now, does he get

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<v Speaker 3>himself in trouble, yes, Do some people dislike him, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>But those people there listening to him talk to them

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<v Speaker 3>face to face hearing him tell you what's important to him,

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<v Speaker 3>whether it's a border wall, whether it's peace in Korea,

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<v Speaker 3>putting America first. How come we all know all of

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<v Speaker 3>that these things as second nature? Because he wants to

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<v Speaker 3>make America great again? And how is he doing it

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<v Speaker 3>face to face? I'm gonna take a break. When we

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<v Speaker 1>Always in fashion, spent.

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<v Speaker 3>A lifetime of my career building the van Usen brand,

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<v Speaker 3>and I am so pleased that they're back with us

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<v Speaker 3>now talking about suits. Men were dressing up again, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's become cool to wear a suit. Suits can be

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<v Speaker 3>won on multiple occasions in multiple ways. You could wear

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<v Speaker 3>a suit formally to go out at night or to

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<v Speaker 3>an event. You wear a suit to the office with

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<v Speaker 3>or without a tie. If you look closely. Now fashion

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<v Speaker 3>trends suits are being worn with turtlenecks or mark next.

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<v Speaker 3>The choices are endless and every one of them looks right.

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<v Speaker 3>You could really really look the part. I believe that

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<v Speaker 3>packaging yourself is as important does the products you package,

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<v Speaker 3>and wearing a suit is one of those things that

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<v Speaker 3>make man and look their best. Venusing invented a new idea.

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<v Speaker 3>It's called the cool Flex suit. It's been engineered with

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<v Speaker 3>stretch technology, giving you the most comfortable fit and mobility.

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<v Speaker 3>It's wrinkle resistant fabric, it's cool moisture wiki. It makes

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<v Speaker 3>this new style of looking sharp while feeling cool and

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<v Speaker 3>comfortable is amazing, and I'm so excited that the van

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<v Speaker 3>Using company is involved in this new technology and is

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<v Speaker 3>embracing the whole idea of dressing up. Let's not forget

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<v Speaker 3>Venuesen made it's name with dress shirts. It's only proper

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<v Speaker 3>can find van Ues in cool Flex Men's stretch suits

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<v Speaker 3>at jcpenny are online at jcpenny dot com. Guys, they're great,

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<v Speaker 3>you should go look at them. Dona Karen began her

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<v Speaker 3>career as one of the finest, most successful, powerful women

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<v Speaker 3>luxury market for women on the go, women who were

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<v Speaker 3>powerful in their workplace, women who had lives that extended

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<v Speaker 3>beyond the workplace. And her clothes went from day and

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<v Speaker 3>tonight an extraordinary collection. But the interesting thing Donna Karen

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<v Speaker 3>couldn't afford to buy the Donna Karen collection. And Donna

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<v Speaker 3>invented dk NY Donna Aaren, New York. It's an offshoot

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<v Speaker 3>of the Donna Karen collection. The same concept a lifestyle brand.

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<v Speaker 3>Then we talk about lifestyle brands, What does that really mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Simply what they say, there are brands that follow you

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<v Speaker 3>throughout your lifestyle. You get up in the morning, you

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<v Speaker 3>start to get dressed Donna Karen decan why as intimate apparel,

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<v Speaker 3>as hosiery, as all those products. You're getting dressed for work.

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<v Speaker 3>they work into the evening. The dresses, the suits, the pants,

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<v Speaker 3>the sweaters, the blouses, extraordinary clothes at affordable prices that

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<v Speaker 3>go from day in tonight. Part of your lifestyle is active.

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<v Speaker 3>You have weekends, you have events, you participate in sports.

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<v Speaker 3>Donna Karen's casual Clothes did that under the DK and

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to soccer games for your children, or whether

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<v Speaker 3>DK and Y jeens, DK and Y Sportswear is there

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<v Speaker 3>for you. That's what a lifestyle brand is. And I

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<v Speaker 3>need to mention DKY active Wear, which is extraordinary, the leggings,

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<v Speaker 3>Wear certainly in the gym, certainly when you're working out

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<v Speaker 3>because it's that well done. The quality of DK why

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<v Speaker 3>because it was born from the idea of luck made

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<v Speaker 3>affordable for women of America. Dkay and Why a true

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<v Speaker 3>lifestyle brand that takes you from day and tonight, from

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<v Speaker 3>the week into the weekend. DCN Why you can find

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<v Speaker 5>Welcome back to Always in Fashion. Here's your host, Mark webber.

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<v Speaker 3>Tonight, I'm Always in Fashion. I'm talking face to face.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm talking about the importance of talking face to face.

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<v Speaker 3>I think speeches are incredibly important. I've spent a career

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<v Speaker 3>out front of the companies that I work for From

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<v Speaker 3>as early as I can remember, you needed to be smart.

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<v Speaker 3>I needed to be smart. I needed to be able

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<v Speaker 3>to communicate. I needed to do all those things that

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<v Speaker 3>I needed to do. But what I realized early on

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<v Speaker 3>that my oral skills mattered my ability to communicate orally

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<v Speaker 3>with people. Nothing is as clear as talking to someone

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<v Speaker 3>face to face. You see their whites of their eyes,

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<v Speaker 3>you see their expressions, the psychology of you, your ability

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<v Speaker 3>to read people, comes into play. It's so important face

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<v Speaker 3>to face. Otherwise people are talking for you. You're being misrepresented.

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<v Speaker 3>Perhaps you're not getting your points across as well. There

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<v Speaker 3>is a game that we all know. It's called telephone.

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<v Speaker 3>I whisper something in Jesse's ear, Jesse, and it comes

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<v Speaker 3>out something completely different exactly, and that's telephone. And you

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<v Speaker 3>pass it along, and you pass it along and you

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<v Speaker 3>end up your message is misconstrued. It happens every day

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<v Speaker 3>in politics, it happens every day everywhere. But when you

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<v Speaker 3>do it face to face and it's clear from you.

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<v Speaker 3>First of all, you have no one else to blame

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<v Speaker 3>but yourself. You're the one doing the talking. See you

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<v Speaker 3>better know what you're talking about. But at least it's

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<v Speaker 3>coming from you. You're making the points that you want

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<v Speaker 3>to make. I like to communicate in speeches. I've done

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<v Speaker 3>it my whole career, as I said, starting out till

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<v Speaker 3>the days I became senior VP, executive VP, president, CEO,

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<v Speaker 3>board member, I've had to make my own speeches, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's really important to communicate directly with the

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<v Speaker 3>people I work with, face to face, ensuring that you

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<v Speaker 3>hear it direct from the horse's mouth. In this case,

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<v Speaker 3>me my ideas, my vision, my view of the company,

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm doing, no interpretations. I'm leaving you with what

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<v Speaker 4>I love your speeches, Ah do you love your speeches?

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<v Speaker 4>Five hundred people knew at the end of your speech

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<v Speaker 4>what you wanted them to know, and I think that's

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<v Speaker 4>the key. That's the key to giving a good speech.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Jesse. That's what I'm trying to do and

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<v Speaker 3>thanks for the nice words. I always try to set

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<v Speaker 3>an example for you and for the people that were

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<v Speaker 3>standing there. I have an idea. Why don't we do

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<v Speaker 3>the following? Why don't I make a speech right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Just to make the point first, of course, welcoming the

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<v Speaker 3>audience to the speech. I think, although I am a

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<v Speaker 3>CEO and a big shot, I want to be a

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<v Speaker 3>man of the people. I want to come across like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm one of them, that I'm not above them. I

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<v Speaker 3>want to make sure I have a clear message, make

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<v Speaker 3>sure they understand that this is a great company, that

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<v Speaker 3>there are reasons that they're at this company. We're going

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<v Speaker 3>to talk about right now. Why don't you take the

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<v Speaker 3>anchor position and introduce me. Let's see take one of

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<v Speaker 3>my titles. Which title would you like to use?

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<v Speaker 4>Let's do CEO of LVMH Inc. Louis Vuitton Moet Hennessy, Inc.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the US subsidiary Oppressive.

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<v Speaker 3>That was me, that was you. Let's go, let's do

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<v Speaker 3>that speech. So Jesse, why don't we do this? Why

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<v Speaker 3>don't you introduce me and I will give a speech

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<v Speaker 3>to the audience.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, here, everybody, I'm Jesse Weber. I'm Mark Weber's son. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>I've known Mark Webber for a long time. I remember

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<v Speaker 4>being born looking at him in the face and saying, huh,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a good looking guy. I hope I get some

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<v Speaker 4>of that one day. Now I've watched his career, I've

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<v Speaker 4>watched his life, and it is my pleasure right now

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<v Speaker 4>to introduce you to the CEO of lvmh Inc.

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<v Speaker 3>Mark Webber. Thank you, Jesse, thank you. It's my pleasure

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<v Speaker 3>to be here. Thank you, And what a nice welcome

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<v Speaker 3>for my son of old people, ladies and gentlemen. It's

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<v Speaker 3>a pleasure to be here with you. Look at you

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<v Speaker 3>out there, Oh, five hundred of you dressed well, you're

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<v Speaker 3>really beautiful and handsome. Hold on one second, let me

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<v Speaker 3>get my phone. Here we go. I'm going to take

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<v Speaker 3>a picture of all of you. Hold on, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 3>take panorama. Give me a break. Here we go. Wow,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys look great. I'm going to share that with

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<v Speaker 3>all of you later. Yes, my name is Mark Webber.

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<v Speaker 3>I know most of you. I've been with this company

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<v Speaker 3>now for nine years. Prior to that, I've been with

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<v Speaker 3>many companies where I've been I have to admit a

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<v Speaker 3>in nineteen eighty six, and since then I've really had

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<v Speaker 3>a spectacular time working for a number of companies, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm pleased to be here with you tonight. I'm really

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<v Speaker 3>thrilled to be part of Louis Vitano at Hennessy because

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<v Speaker 3>it's one of the world's great companies, and we're going

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<v Speaker 3>to touch on that in a minute. But I also

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<v Speaker 3>have to tell you I didn't start at the top

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<v Speaker 3>like you. I had to start somewhere, and I began

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<v Speaker 3>as a clerk. I will tell you I began as

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<v Speaker 3>I remember my boss being very proud when he hired me,

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<v Speaker 3>hiring me for salary less than anyone else. So when

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<v Speaker 3>you see me up here talking and standing in front

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<v Speaker 3>of you as the CEO of a company, I want

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<v Speaker 3>you to know that you too could be up here,

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<v Speaker 3>and nobody handed this to me. I began as a

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<v Speaker 3>clerk and I work my way up. Having said that,

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<v Speaker 3>why is this a great company? First of all, it

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<v Speaker 3>has an accumulation of some of the world's great brands,

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<v Speaker 3>Louis Vuitton, Dior, Cavanci, Sephora Berludi, Laura Piana, on and on.

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<v Speaker 3>An amazing, amazing company, and it's a place for you

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<v Speaker 3>because this company recognizes that the people that work in

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<v Speaker 3>it are more important than even the brands we run,

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<v Speaker 3>because you are the people that will make the brands great.

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<v Speaker 3>You are the people that we need to take the

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<v Speaker 3>company to the next level. You are the people, and

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<v Speaker 3>that's what makes this company special. We understand that we

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<v Speaker 3>need people. As a group here and around the world

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<v Speaker 3>is over one hundred thousand employees. So just keep in

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<v Speaker 3>mind one of these great jobs standing here before you.

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<v Speaker 3>You could be the CEO. There's no reason you can be.

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<v Speaker 3>And those of you who really really want to strive

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<v Speaker 3>for the top, I'll tell you two things. One, be

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<v Speaker 3>very very curious. Always look to learn as much as

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<v Speaker 3>you can. And two, any of you that can speak

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<v Speaker 3>foreign languages, you are our hero. This is a company

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<v Speaker 3>that operates in every market, in every country and almost

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<v Speaker 3>every city around the world. Those of you who speak

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<v Speaker 3>multiple languages, you have a great opportunity with this company,

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<v Speaker 3>and those of you who don't it's never too late

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<v Speaker 3>to learn. What a great place for you. Talk about learning,

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<v Speaker 3>think about a company that owns brands and shipbuilding, fashion, communications, hotels, jewelry, apparel, footwear, handbags.

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<v Speaker 3>Amazing company and like the United States of America the

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<v Speaker 3>land of opportunity, this company can be the and of

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<v Speaker 3>opportunity for you here in the United States and around

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<v Speaker 3>the world. I know for sure here in the United States. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>having said this, I want to leave you with a

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<v Speaker 3>short message that any one of you can be successful.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not easy. You need a whole lot of different

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<v Speaker 3>skills to get to the top. If that's what you want,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to be able to write, You have to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to communicate. It shouldn't matter how you look,

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<v Speaker 3>but it does. Yet. We all can't be tall, we

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<v Speaker 3>all can't be thin, we all can't be beautiful. It

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<v Speaker 3>takes a lot of different types, but you can look

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<v Speaker 3>your best. You should care about the way you look.

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<v Speaker 3>This is business. You're competing and while you should like,

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<v Speaker 3>admire and respect everyone sitting next to you, you are

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<v Speaker 3>competing with them. So it's your obligation to do everything

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<v Speaker 3>you can to make yourself look presentable and present properly.

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<v Speaker 3>Perhaps there's nothing more important in communicating than your oral word,

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<v Speaker 3>your ability to speak, your ability to get your ideas across,

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<v Speaker 3>your ability to explain your vision, your ability to explain

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<v Speaker 3>to people what you're doing, why you took the direction

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<v Speaker 3>you took, and how pleased you are when you start

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<v Speaker 3>to become a manager, telling the people that work for

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<v Speaker 3>you how well they're doing and how much you appreciate

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<v Speaker 3>what they're doing. With that in mind, I'm glad you

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<v Speaker 3>came tonight. I look forward to seeing you soon. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so thrilled to be here with you tonight, and I

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<v Speaker 3>look forward to you growing and prospering in this company.

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<v Speaker 3>Good night. Now, that is face to face communication. And

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<v Speaker 3>as I said before, the reason I like making speeches

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<v Speaker 3>is because people now know what I'm thinking, not what

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<v Speaker 3>someone that works with me thinks I'm thinking or saying

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thinking face to face. Jesse'd you like that you

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<v Speaker 3>heard the applause? Did you take anything away from it?

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<v Speaker 4>All the points that we hit before the speech you

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<v Speaker 4>noled So you got your goals and you're able to

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<v Speaker 4>deliver them.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Well, that is the power of face to face.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to take a break. When we come back,

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<v Speaker 3>we'll continue talking. You and I, Jesse and me and

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<v Speaker 3>the three of us together.

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<v Speaker 1>Always in fashion.

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<v Speaker 3>I spent a lifetime of my career building the Van

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<v Speaker 3>Usten brand, and I am so pleased that they're back

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<v Speaker 3>with us now talking about suits, Men were dressing up

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<v Speaker 3>again and it's become cool to wear a suit. Suits

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<v Speaker 3>can be won on multip occasions in multiple ways. You

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<v Speaker 3>could wear a suit formally to go out at night

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<v Speaker 3>or to an event, wear a suit to the office

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<v Speaker 3>with or without a tie. If you look closely, now

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<v Speaker 3>fashion trends, suits are being worn with turtlenecks or mark next.

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<v Speaker 3>The choices are endless and every one of them looks right.

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<v Speaker 3>You could really really look the part. I believe that

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<v Speaker 3>packaging yourself is as important does the products you package,

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<v Speaker 3>and wearing a suit is one of those things that

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<v Speaker 3>make men look their best. Venues In invented a new idea.

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<v Speaker 3>It's called the cool Flex suit. It's been engineered with

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<v Speaker 3>stretch technology, giving you the most comfortable fit and mobility.

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<v Speaker 3>Its wrinkle resistant fabric, it's cool moisture wicki it makes

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<v Speaker 3>it perfect for all occasions. As we discussed just now,

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<v Speaker 3>this new style of looking sharp while feeling cool and

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<v Speaker 3>comfortable is amazing, and I'm so excited that the ven

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<v Speaker 3>using company is involved in this new technology and is

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<v Speaker 3>embracing the whole idea of dressing up. Let's not forget

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<v Speaker 3>venues and made its name with dress shirts. It's only

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<v Speaker 3>proper that the suit business follows strongly in its way.

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<v Speaker 3>You can find vanues in cool flex men's stretch suits

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<v Speaker 3>at JC penny are online jpenny dot com. Guys, they're great.

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<v Speaker 3>You should go look at them. DK and Why. Donna Karen,

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<v Speaker 3>New York. Donna Karen began her career as one of

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<v Speaker 3>the finest, most successful, powerful women in the fashion industry.

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<v Speaker 3>She developed a collection aimed at the luxury market for

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<v Speaker 3>women on the go, women who were powerful in their workplace,

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<v Speaker 3>women who had lives that extended beyond the workplace, and

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<v Speaker 3>her clothes went from day and tonight. An extraordinary collection.

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<v Speaker 3>But the interesting thing, Donna Karen had a young daughter,

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<v Speaker 3>and she had friends and they couldn't afford to buy

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<v Speaker 3>the Donna Aaron collection. And Donna invented DK Andy Donna Aaron,

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<v Speaker 3>New York. It's an offshoot of the Donna Karen collection.

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<v Speaker 3>The same concept a lifestyle brand. Now we talk about

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<v Speaker 3>lifestyle brands, what does that really mean? Simply what they

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<v Speaker 3>say there are brands that follow you throughout your lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 3>You get up in the morning, you start to get

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<v Speaker 3>dressed Donna Karen dcan why as intimate apparel, as hosiery,

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<v Speaker 3>as all those products. You're getting dressed for work. You

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<v Speaker 3>get accessorized shoes, handbags, and it takes you through the day.

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<v Speaker 3>The remarkable thing about DK and Y clothes for work,

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<v Speaker 3>they work into the evening. The dresses, the suits, the pants,

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<v Speaker 3>the sweaters, the blouses, extraordinary clothes at affordable prices that

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<v Speaker 3>go from day in tonight. Part of your lifestyle is active.

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<v Speaker 3>You have weekends, you have events, you participate in sports.

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<v Speaker 3>Donna Karen's casual clothes did that under the DK and

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<v Speaker 3>Y label. A vast array of casual sportswear that make

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<v Speaker 3>women look great as they navigate their busy lives. Whether

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to soccer games for your children, or whether

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<v Speaker 3>you're going out to the movies, whatever you want to do,

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<v Speaker 3>dkn Y Jeans, dc HY sportswear is there for you.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what a lifestyle brand is. And I need to

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<v Speaker 3>mention DKY active wear, which is extraordinary, the leggings, the

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<v Speaker 3>sports bras, the sweats. You can wear DKY Activewear, certainly

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<v Speaker 3>in the gym, certainly when you're working out at home,

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<v Speaker 3>and certainly if you want on the street, because it's

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<v Speaker 3>that well done. The quality of DK why is nothing

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<v Speaker 3>short of exceptional. And why shouldn't it be because it

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<v Speaker 3>was born from the idea of luxury made affordable for

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<v Speaker 3>women of America. DK and Why a true lifestyle brand

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<v Speaker 3>that takes you from day and tonight, from the week

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<v Speaker 3>into the weekend. DCN Why. You can find DCN Why

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<v Speaker 3>and Macy's DKY dot com.

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<v Speaker 5>Welcome back to Always in Fashion. Here's your host, Mark Webber.

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<v Speaker 3>This is Mark Webber, and this is Always in Fashion

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<v Speaker 3>and tonight it's face to face and the subject I

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<v Speaker 3>want to talk about right now is a little off,

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<v Speaker 3>a little different. Let's talk about what it's like to

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<v Speaker 3>talk behind someone's back. Then business, if you talk behind

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<v Speaker 3>the coworkers back, all it is sending a signal that

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<v Speaker 3>your character isn't just that right. Frankly, I've talked to people,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've seen people talk about everyone behind their back,

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<v Speaker 3>and only two things come to mind. One I don't

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<v Speaker 3>like them, and two they'll do it to me. They'll

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<v Speaker 3>talk behind my back. Here's a story I want to tell.

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<v Speaker 3>It's one of my favorite stories in business. It's about

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<v Speaker 3>talking behind my back. It was so flagrant and so

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<v Speaker 3>obnoxious and so ego driven that the person doing the

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<v Speaker 3>talking didn't realize that I was sitting there listening. I

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<v Speaker 3>was at a company dinner I had recently become the

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<v Speaker 3>president of this time was of the Phillips fan Using Corporation,

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<v Speaker 3>the president of the whole place. I was sitting there

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<v Speaker 3>having a corporate dinner. Two seats down from me, there

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<v Speaker 3>was a fella I'll call them Steve, started talking. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>talk about how smart he was and how stupid the

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<v Speaker 3>company was. And he talked about how his four to

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<v Speaker 3>oh one K dived in the last year, that it

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<v Speaker 3>was worth about hundred thousand dollars, now it was only

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<v Speaker 3>worth forty thousand dollars. And he talked about how stupid

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<v Speaker 3>the management of the company was and how they he

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<v Speaker 3>can't believe that the company made these decisions and now

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<v Speaker 3>that's the four to one K and the stock is

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<v Speaker 3>all bad, et cetera. And I'm sitting there listening with

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<v Speaker 3>one ear to the person right next to me. But

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<v Speaker 3>really my ear is trained on what this guy's.

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<v Speaker 4>Saying yeah, I've done that till yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I paid attention, and I'm listening and he's talking. It's

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<v Speaker 3>getting worse and worse. Now, here's the problem. I'm the

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<v Speaker 3>president of the company. The CEO of the company is

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<v Speaker 3>my great ally, my greatest friend. And this guy is

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<v Speaker 3>talking about us. Where the management? Who is he talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>And he's too stupid and too arrogant to realize that

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<v Speaker 3>he was talking about me two seats down. And I'm

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<v Speaker 3>listening to this. Now, That's not the only reason that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm upset about this and his stupidity. He's an officer

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<v Speaker 3>of the company. He's a vice president of the company.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's an obligation to take the company line. Here's an

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<v Speaker 3>obligation to speak well of the company. So if somebody

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<v Speaker 3>would ask him what happened to the four oh one K,

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<v Speaker 3>what happened to the stock? Listen, listen. This happens in business.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes companies run into a difficult spot. We didn't do

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<v Speaker 3>this quickly. Now for our competition got there before us.

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<v Speaker 3>But this is not an issue. Don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I have faith in the company, have faith in the brands.

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<v Speaker 3>I know the management. They're going to do the right thing,

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<v Speaker 3>and you watch in the next six months to a year,

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to really blow out of the doldrum. That's

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<v Speaker 3>what I expect him to say. But the real part

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<v Speaker 3>that really really bothered me, even if the other two

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<v Speaker 3>issues didn't. This is a guy that we took under

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<v Speaker 3>our wing. This is a guy who came to the company.

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<v Speaker 3>He was introduced to us by a friend of the company,

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<v Speaker 3>told us that he would appreciate us hiring him. And

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<v Speaker 3>over the course of his short career with the company,

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<v Speaker 3>let's say three years, he went from clerk to vice president,

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<v Speaker 3>from No. One to someone because we were looking out

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<v Speaker 3>for him. Now, granted he was a very, very capable guy.

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<v Speaker 3>I expected more. Now, as it turns out, he was

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<v Speaker 3>a protected guy. What do I mean by that? He

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<v Speaker 3>came in a friend of the company. We did everything

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<v Speaker 3>we could to train him. We made sure he was

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<v Speaker 3>taken care of. We made sure he was given every

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<v Speaker 3>benefit the company could give him, including every special opportunity

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<v Speaker 3>the company had to offer. During the course of this tenure,

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<v Speaker 3>we looked out for him. No one could touch him.

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<v Speaker 3>He was protected. I'll never forget his arrogance and his

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<v Speaker 3>ego came in front of the president of the shirt company,

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<v Speaker 3>and she came to me one time and said, I

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<v Speaker 3>can't take this guy Mark. He thinks he's so smart.

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<v Speaker 3>He's a troublemaker. He says bad things. He's not as

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<v Speaker 3>smart as he thinks. I really don't think he belongs here.

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<v Speaker 3>I'd like to move him, if it's okay with you.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought about it, as I said. We were watching

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<v Speaker 3>out for him, and I said, look, do your best

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<v Speaker 3>to make it right with him. We care about this guy.

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<v Speaker 3>We want him to do well, and I wouldn't let

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<v Speaker 3>anything happen. Fast forward a year later, I'm at this

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<v Speaker 3>dinner table. I'm listening to this arrogant guy who's not

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<v Speaker 3>only arrogant, he's stupid because he doesn't know I'm listening.

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<v Speaker 3>And here who is he talking about the management of

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<v Speaker 3>the company being stupid? And yours truly was one of

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<v Speaker 3>the management of the company. Following day, I walked down

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<v Speaker 3>to the office of the president of the shirt company

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<v Speaker 3>and I said, how is my friend here doing? He says, look,

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<v Speaker 3>I tried very hard to turn him around. He's still

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<v Speaker 3>not very good. He's not as good as he thinks

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<v Speaker 3>he is. I don't particularly like him, and left to

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<v Speaker 3>my own devices. I would sever him from the company.

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<v Speaker 3>I listened, I smirked, I smiled, and I said, he's

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<v Speaker 3>no longer protected. You could sever them, And that week

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<v Speaker 3>he no longer was with the company. So the moral

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<v Speaker 3>to the story here. So you're going to be face

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<v Speaker 3>to face in this case, you better be smart. What

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<v Speaker 3>you say matters, and when you're communicating, you got to

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<v Speaker 3>know what you're doing face to face. Be back in

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<v Speaker 3>a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Always in fashions.

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<v Speaker 3>As one of the world's most celebrated fashion designers, Carl

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<v Speaker 3>Lagafeld was renowned for his aspirational and cutting edge approach

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<v Speaker 3>to style. His unique vision of Parisian shit comes to

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<v Speaker 3>America through Carlagofeld Paris. He has women's collections, men's collections,

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<v Speaker 3>ready to wear, accessory, shoes and bags. The fashion house

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<v Speaker 3>Carlagofeld also offers a range of watches, I wear and

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<v Speaker 3>premium fragrances. You can explore the car Lagofil collection of

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<v Speaker 3>car Lagofelparis dot com. But it's more than that. I

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<v Speaker 3>have for one, love to shop. I love going around

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<v Speaker 3>and seeing what's happening and what catches my attention, what

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<v Speaker 3>would make me feel good to wear. Now. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>wear the women's wear obviously, but I can appreciate it

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<v Speaker 3>and they look amazing. If you want to look right,

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<v Speaker 3>you want to have clothes that fits you well. You

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<v Speaker 3>want to look like you're wearing something that's very expensive,

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<v Speaker 3>that's exclusive for you and yours. You can find it

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<v Speaker 3>at very affordable prices at Macy's, Orcarlagofel dot Comparis dot com.

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<v Speaker 3>The women's ready to wear fashion is extraordinary, as well

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<v Speaker 3>as the handbigs and the shoes. I for one wear

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<v Speaker 3>men's clothes, unlike my appreciation of women's clothes. I'm a

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<v Speaker 3>modern guy. I want to look current. I want to

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<v Speaker 3>look the way I want to feel. I go out

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<v Speaker 3>at night, I'm in black and Carlagofel is my buddy.

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<v Speaker 3>Calls are great. They fit great, and they have little

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<v Speaker 3>tweaks and touches, whether it's a stripe on the sleeve

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<v Speaker 3>or button at the neck or on the shoulder. There's

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of details that go into Carlagothel because he's

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<v Speaker 3>always been, he always had been one of the world's

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<v Speaker 3>great designers, and this legacy and goes on and on.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't speak enough about it, except to say to you.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to feel about yourself. You want to know

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<v Speaker 3>that you're dressing properly. You want clothes that fits you well.

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<v Speaker 3>Carl Lagafeld, Paris, Carl Lagafeldparis dot com. I love polar fleece.

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<v Speaker 3>It's lightweight, takes colors beautifully, It's comfortable, keeps you warm

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<v Speaker 3>and even if it's warm out, it doesn't hamper you.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't make you perspire. I love Polar fleas. I

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<v Speaker 3>also love sweatshirts and sweatpants, love them, love them, love them.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a big fan of khaki pants and a big

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<v Speaker 3>fan of a golf clothes, and I'm a big fan

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<v Speaker 3>of Izid. I used to be the head of Iside.

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<v Speaker 3>In fact, my company bought it and out of bankruptcy,

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<v Speaker 3>and the CEO of the company asked me to come

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<v Speaker 3>in and fix it. And he said to me, Mark,

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<v Speaker 3>the future of the company's in your hands. Can you

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<v Speaker 3>do this? And I said, I will do it. I

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<v Speaker 3>put everything, my heart and soul into making Eyeside the

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<v Speaker 3>powerhouse that it is today.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>I left a long time ago, and the company just

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<v Speaker 3>continues to thrive. Iseside is one of the great sweater makers.

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<v Speaker 3>Pant make his Shirt makes, shirt makers, Polar shirt Makers.

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<v Speaker 3>They're incredible company. The colors are great, the fabrics are great. Guys,

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<v Speaker 3>you ever wonder what you should wear, I'll make it

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<v Speaker 3>easy for you. If you're gonna be casual, go in

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<v Speaker 3>and look at Isaart. Now that doesn't say that they

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<v Speaker 3>don't have dress shirts and they don't have suits. You

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<v Speaker 3>go find them. ISAOD is a collective brand that offers

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<v Speaker 3>lifestyle apparel to everyone in America. And it's true, it's

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<v Speaker 3>a fun brand, but it's also priced at fun prices

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<v Speaker 3>everyone can afford it. I love this brand. Of all

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<v Speaker 3>the brands that I'm involved with, and you can name them,

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<v Speaker 3>think about PVH and LVMH and all the brands, ISAOD

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<v Speaker 3>is the one that's most personal to me because I

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<v Speaker 3>was involved in crafting the future of this brand. The

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<v Speaker 3>clothes are great, fall is great. They're doing well. Isad

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<v Speaker 3>dot com, isaadat jcpenny. Go look for it. I think

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<v Speaker 3>you're going to be very happy. And ladies, those of

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<v Speaker 3>you the shopping for the guys in your lives, take

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<v Speaker 3>a look. I think they'll be very happy with your choices.

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<v Speaker 5>Isaad for men, Welcome back to Always in Fashion. Here's

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<v Speaker 5>your host, Mark Weber.

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<v Speaker 3>This is Mark Weber. This is always in fashion. This

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<v Speaker 3>is talk tonight on our show. In particular, I'm talking

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<v Speaker 3>face to face. I've been negotiating my whole career, as

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<v Speaker 3>many of you have been. I'm convinced of one thing.

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<v Speaker 3>You cannot negotiate via email, text, what have you. You've got

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<v Speaker 3>to do it face to face. You do it over

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<v Speaker 3>the mail. You think you're gaining something, but you're really not.

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<v Speaker 3>You need to be looking at your opponent across the

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<v Speaker 3>table and don't ever forget it. That's what they are,

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<v Speaker 3>your opponent. The smartest negotiators are the ones that can

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<v Speaker 3>figure out how to get what they want and give

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<v Speaker 3>something to that other person across the table so they

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<v Speaker 3>have what they want. You'll always should get a little more.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you're trying to do. But two people walk

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<v Speaker 3>away from a negotiation happy. I think that's what you're

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<v Speaker 3>looking for. You know, actually I don't think I know

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<v Speaker 3>that's what you're looking for. With that in mind, I

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<v Speaker 3>want to talk about negotiating around the world. I've traveled

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<v Speaker 3>around the world ten times over and I've negotiated around

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<v Speaker 3>the world. I've had some fun times and interesting times

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<v Speaker 3>careers in the news. They were the most interesting people

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<v Speaker 3>I ever met to negotiate with. The Koreans were tough, tough,

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<v Speaker 3>tough people. It's no surprised when you're living ten miles

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<v Speaker 3>from the demilitarized zone where the Korean War was fought.

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<v Speaker 3>Whenever I negotiated with the Koreans, I'd walk in be

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<v Speaker 3>prepared to negotiate. And I realized early on that you

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<v Speaker 3>never negotiate with them. Oh, you could talk, you can

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<v Speaker 3>go back and forth, but they're going to guide you

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<v Speaker 3>exactly where they're going to go, where they want to go,

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<v Speaker 3>and you're going to agree if you want to buy

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<v Speaker 3>product in that country, you want to get the benefit

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<v Speaker 3>of their price to labor, the workmanshift, and their ingenuity.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever their case may be, automobiles, textiles, it's going to

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<v Speaker 3>be their rules. That's what I liked about them. It

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<v Speaker 3>was never a guess, it's just we're going to try

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<v Speaker 3>and figure out how close you'd come to where you

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<v Speaker 3>want to be. In China and Hong Kong, it was

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<v Speaker 3>very different than negotiating here in the United States. Every

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<v Speaker 3>company you're doing business with pretty much is the founding

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<v Speaker 3>family managing it you're talking to the founder, you're talking

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<v Speaker 3>to the daughters, their heirs, people who kept the business alive.

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<v Speaker 3>And what was amazing about negotiating with those people is

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<v Speaker 3>the long term thinking. When you negotiate and you're a

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<v Speaker 3>public company in the United States, you're worried about the

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<v Speaker 3>next quarter, you're certainly worried about the next half, and

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<v Speaker 3>you're certainly worried about the year. When you're dealing with

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<v Speaker 3>Chinese families, they're worrying about perpetuity. They're worrying about and

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<v Speaker 3>they're interested in making sure that they and their children

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<v Speaker 3>and their children's children and the children's children's children have

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<v Speaker 3>a business that they can run and they can prosper

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<v Speaker 3>form that family businesses forever. And therefore they're very interesting

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<v Speaker 3>to negotiate with. When I would go to Japan, was

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<v Speaker 3>also very fascinating the japan The people are very very polite.

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<v Speaker 3>Half the time, I wonder what they were talking about

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<v Speaker 3>behind my back. Can't imagine they all liked me. I

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<v Speaker 3>was such a brass American. But nonetheless they were always polite,

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<v Speaker 3>partially because do you know, when you ask for Japan

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<v Speaker 3>for something, there is no word no, There is no

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<v Speaker 3>Japanese word that translates to know. Maybe that explains the politeness.

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<v Speaker 3>Very efficient. They get what's done. You can negotiate with them,

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<v Speaker 3>but it was always very pleasant. Took a lot to

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<v Speaker 3>get someone mad. I don't think I ever saw anyone

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<v Speaker 3>get mad in Japan. But one of my favorite stories

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<v Speaker 3>has to do with the New York Yankees. Go Yankees.

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<v Speaker 3>They're doing incredibly well right now, winning, winning and winning.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so exciting, young team, powerful team, amazing to watch.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll never forget. I was in Europe, in Sweden, and

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<v Speaker 3>I was negotiating with a brand with the owners of

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<v Speaker 3>a brand. There were three partners. We owned the brand

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<v Speaker 3>in the United States and we had rented the name

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<v Speaker 3>to them for around the world usage. During the course

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<v Speaker 3>of the negotiations, the CEO of the partners, the three

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<v Speaker 3>guys that are owned this company in Europe distributing the

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<v Speaker 3>product throughout Europe, got very angry at me because I

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<v Speaker 3>owned a brand and I was giving him direction on

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<v Speaker 3>how I wanted it to be managed. And he finally

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<v Speaker 3>lost his cool and he said, you Americans, you think

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<v Speaker 3>the World Series is a baseball game played in Yankee

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<v Speaker 3>Stadium once a year when everyone else in the world

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<v Speaker 3>knows that the world series is called the World Cup,

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<v Speaker 3>played every two years around the world in every city

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<v Speaker 3>and country of the world. We know that is soaga.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought that was a great lesson about life and learning.

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<v Speaker 3>My favorite favorite story though of all time, about negotiating

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<v Speaker 3>took place in the south of France. And yes, I

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<v Speaker 3>used to go to the south of France a lot,

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<v Speaker 3>because I work for a French company Louis the talk

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<v Speaker 3>about Tennessee, and because we had us strategic planned meetings

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<v Speaker 3>every June. Right after those strategic plan meetings, I get

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<v Speaker 3>on a plane and fly from Paris Toise with either

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<v Speaker 3>see Er his brother depending who was free, and Jesse

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<v Speaker 3>and I did it very often, and I would go

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<v Speaker 3>to the south of France. And I wanted to go

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<v Speaker 3>to can Can is the scene where the movie To

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<v Speaker 3>Catch a Thief took place Carrie Grant Grace Kelly, one

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<v Speaker 3>of my favorite movies of all time. The hotel that

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<v Speaker 3>the entirety of the movie or a big part of

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<v Speaker 3>the movie took place was at the Carlton Hotel right

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<v Speaker 3>in the water and Can. I had to stay there,

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<v Speaker 3>and the first time I stayed there, it was magical

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<v Speaker 3>for me because I knew that movie from when I

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<v Speaker 3>was a little boy. I watched it. So I was

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<v Speaker 3>at the Carlton Hotel with Jesse on this one particular trip.

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<v Speaker 3>Get in there, Get in the door. You can't imagine

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<v Speaker 3>what it was like negotiating for a decent room. I

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<v Speaker 3>must have been in five different rooms till we finally

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<v Speaker 3>got one that they were willing to rent to us

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<v Speaker 3>at some excruciatingly expensive price. There were competing with Arab sheikhs,

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<v Speaker 3>Russian oligarchs, and some of the witchest people in the world.

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<v Speaker 3>But somehow or another, my title am my willing to

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<v Speaker 3>pay little more and maybe tip the front of the

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<v Speaker 3>person at the front got me a decent room overlooking

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<v Speaker 3>the water. But that's not the purpose of the story.

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<v Speaker 3>Where in Conage beautiful, every day is sunny. Every meal

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<v Speaker 3>you eat outdoors. The breakfast buffet to this day is

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<v Speaker 3>probably my favorite meal of all time. Remember the breakfast

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<v Speaker 3>jest and ah so good, and the weather and the

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<v Speaker 3>palm trees and looking out at the riviera, paradizing paradise.

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<v Speaker 3>But the Carlton dinner restaurant outside was part of my

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<v Speaker 3>French the coup d'etar. It was amazing now I've stayed

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<v Speaker 3>at the hotel and this is one of the first trips.

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<v Speaker 3>I get there and I realize there's a pecking order

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<v Speaker 3>for where you sit in the restaurant, and we would

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<v Speaker 3>get there face to face, which is our theme of tonight,

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<v Speaker 3>talking face to face. I started chatting it up with

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<v Speaker 3>the matre d and started pointing to the tables that

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to sit in on the first nine. He so,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, sir, that's already reserved. I said, how about

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<v Speaker 3>for the next night. He said, well, you come down

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<v Speaker 3>tomorrow we'll see, which really meant take care of me

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<v Speaker 3>and I'll do it for you. Didn't realize it at first.

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<v Speaker 3>The next night we went down there, tried to get

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<v Speaker 3>that table or the table in that area, didn't get

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<v Speaker 3>it again. So finally I asked one of the waiters,

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<v Speaker 3>how do you get to sit there? And he said,

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<v Speaker 3>in his French accents, you have to have had a

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<v Speaker 3>relationship face to face with the matre d ah A.

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<v Speaker 3>That night, after dinner, I went to the matre d

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<v Speaker 3>and I said I'd like to have that table tomorrow

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<v Speaker 3>and he said, okay, I have to think about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I gave him one hundred euros and lo and behold.

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<v Speaker 3>The next night we came down, we got the table,

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<v Speaker 3>and now we're being looked at, We're being seen. Jesse

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<v Speaker 3>and I dressed properly for the South of France and

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<v Speaker 3>June looking great, and now we're where we want to be,

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<v Speaker 3>sitting in the restaurant. I want to be sitting. Jesse

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<v Speaker 3>and I went shopping that day, having a great time,

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<v Speaker 3>talk about you need to know culture and you need

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<v Speaker 3>to know what's going on face to face. Jesse and

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<v Speaker 3>I were in a store and we found what would

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<v Speaker 3>be most beautiful sweat top, but not sweatop, the most

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful what kind of jacket would take?

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<v Speaker 4>A zip up top, like a zipp zip up jacket.

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<v Speaker 3>Top made out of fleece. Yeah, in beautiful riding it

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<v Speaker 3>said Italy, Italia, Italia. Yeah. White. It was beautiful, white

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<v Speaker 3>white top zip jacket and he wore it with white

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<v Speaker 3>pants and sneakers. When we came down and we got

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<v Speaker 3>to the Matre Dame and we said we'd like to

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<v Speaker 3>sit at a table and he said no.

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<v Speaker 4>And why I was wearing the Italia jacket in France?

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<v Speaker 4>And what was going on at that time the World Cup?

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<v Speaker 4>And who is fighting who was up against each other,

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<v Speaker 4>France and Italy, and who won Italy?

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<v Speaker 3>And he looked at me, he said, monsieur, there's not

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<v Speaker 3>enough money in the world for me to give you

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<v Speaker 3>the seat you want tonight, wearing that shirt. Lesson learned

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<v Speaker 3>talk about face to face. Listen, guys, we're talking less

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<v Speaker 3>and less. Texts and emails are growing, talking not so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Talking is becoming a lost art, and face to face

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<v Speaker 3>discussions are disappearing. Talking face to face seems to be

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<v Speaker 3>avoided at all costs. When did you stop talking and

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<v Speaker 3>started avoiding? Good Night,
