Speaker 1: I made a decision pay sunny sound. I had a vision.
It's nice. What's happening? Everybody? Welcome to for crying out loud.
I'm your host.
Speaker 2: It I'm Stephanie. Hey, Stephanie, I'm so glad to be
here today.
Speaker 3: Me too. Even though I was feeling.
Speaker 2: Just to just just to be honest, full transparency, I
was like, God, nothing's happened to me this week. But
then something did kind of happen this morning, and I
was like, oh, I need to open the show with this.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Then I was like, oh, yeah, I need to get
to work as soon as possible to talk about this.
But then when we started talking before I hit record,
it turns out we have some we have some stuff always. Yeah,
I've always a little parallel, very pair parallel.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we have the same kind of thing going on.
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna start with mine because yours is so
much crazier kind of to Yeah, but it's that it
makes it seem almost funny, almost quaint that I'm having this.
Speaker 3: Okay, here's the thing.
Speaker 2: So the other so Xander the other day says to me,
like a week ago, he's like, Hey, I got invited
to go camping with my friends. So he has this
we have this neighbor and they go camping like every summer.
Speaker 3: It seems like, yeah. So the neighbor.
Speaker 2: Has a daughter who Xander's pretty good friends with. They're
pretty close, okay, and she's a year older than Xander.
Speaker 3: They were close.
Speaker 2: Then there's a middle son and he's about like a
year younger than Xander. Really nice kids, Xander and that
could have spent a bunch of time together too.
Speaker 3: Then there's a younger brother.
Speaker 2: So Xander gets invited to go on this trip and
it's sort of like all the kids get to bring
a friend. So Xander's going as the friend for the
older daughter, even though he's good friends with the younger.
The middle son, and then the younger sons are like
younger got okay. So of course immediately I'm like, damn,
like this mom is taking six kids camping. Also, Xander's
never been camping, not even close to it. He's he's
barely done sleepovers at people's houses. Although I brought that
up to him. I was I was talking to him
about that, and he was like, that's not true. I
slept at this person's house, in this person's house. It
was like not the same way that some kids like
Elbe like rarely is home right anyway, it doesn't really matter.
The point is he never went to Sleepway camp. Elbe's
old hat at that, and this is they're going to
be kind of roughing.
Speaker 3: It apparently, right, like with tents and things.
Speaker 1: I guess.
Speaker 2: So he when he first brings it up to me,
this is my point, He's like, I just need a
I was like, what do you need? And he goes,
I just need a sleeping bag and that's pretty much it.
And I'm like great, And of course, because you know
how we are immediately, I'm like, well, I'll give the
mom money of course for like groceries and gas, and like,
this has got to be an expensive trip with all
of our kids.
Speaker 3: They don't have a camper or anything.
Speaker 2: They just know they as far as I know, no,
she drives a little subaru like outback. It looks like, so,
I don't know how there's seven people in there plus
dollar shit, maybe they're okay.
Speaker 3: Let me get to that. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean it's not like the most crazy story. It's
just kind of funny. Right. So it's coming up and
I'm like, well, what do you need? You must need
some stuff like we I don't know camping gear.
Speaker 3: We don't have camping gear.
Speaker 2: I borrowed a sleeping bag from our friend, from my
friend Cecily, whose daughter went to like Sleepway camp for
years and had like a nice like a Coleman sleeping bag.
Speaker 3: Okay, there you go, done and done.
Speaker 2: Then he then I go, do you have a list
of things like do we need to bring food? Like
we need to bring like what do we need to bring?
So then he says, oh, my friends said that I
need to That were me and the other boy that
he's friends with are in charge of breakfast for like
three days.
Speaker 1: Oh, and I go what right?
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, what the fuck does that mean? Right,
we're in charge of breakfast? Okay, does that mean like
here's a granola bar?
Speaker 3: Right? What what do they eat? What are they for breakfast?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Right?
Speaker 2: So I go, well, what does that mean? Can you
get I need more information? So he texts them, doesn't
get any response. Oh so that right before that, the
mom sends a list of stuff they need. I can't
tell if it's just for Xander, if it's for everybody.
Some of the things on there are like a cooler firewood.
Speaker 3: What, Okay, you.
Speaker 2: Don't have a cool Like, hold on a minute, are
we starting from scratch? Are we like you also, like bring.
Speaker 1: Your own everything for the trip? Right?
Speaker 2: So I was like, well, we don't have a full
size cooler.
Speaker 3: I mean we I don't.
Speaker 2: We don't have one, right because we converted our garage
so all anything that was like unnecessary for us to
store we got rid of, right, so we did have
a Anyway.
Speaker 3: I was like, well, they have to have a cooler.
Speaker 2: They go camping all the time, right, and they bring
multiple people. This isn't the first time they're bringing people. Okay,
firewood what I'm like, I mean, and where they buy some?
Speaker 1: So what if you guys buy the firewood and the
other kid buys the fight?
Speaker 3: Where are they going to put all that?
Speaker 2: Like? That was my question? So I said, I go,
I need more information. Can you find out like what
you actually need?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: So he writes them back, he doesn't get it, and
nobody texts back. I'm like, Okay, well I don't know
what to tell you, but oh he needed a headlamp,
good hiking boots. Yeah, took him to Big five, got
him some hiking boots on sale. Can't go wrong. Having
a pair of hiking boots. Got him a couple of headlamps.
I don't know if they're the right kind.
Speaker 3: Oh. One of the things is a lantern. I'm like,
so everybody needs their own lantern? Oh my god. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So now I'm starting the doubts are creeping in. Right,
I'm like, is this like a good environment? I don't know, right,
I've never I met this woman one time and I
don't remember it. It was many years ago.
Speaker 3: The mom, So you don't know her, right, so you
can't text her or anything? Nope, did not have her phone.
Speaker 2: Nu he texting the mom or he's just texting that.
He's just texting the kids. Yeah, but the daughter is
older than Xander. She's like nineteen, maybe she's maybe she's eighteen, But.
Speaker 3: That doesn't matter. The point is like, heck's back. Okay,
what time do.
Speaker 2: We have to be there? Well, we have to we
have to be there. We have to meet there at
seven am. I'm like, Okay, then that's fine because I'm
a senior citizen and I get every I wake up
at five point fifty nine every day. Okay, but now
it's the night before, it's last night I'm like, we
need to go. I need to go to Ralph's. I
have to know if you need some stuff. I have
to know if they need food.
Speaker 3: What's the breakfast thing?
Speaker 2: So then he texts his friend what do we need
for breakfast? And he goes, well, we're going to do
I feel like it's like eggs and sausage, but they
have eggs and sausage. Somehow he gets them to respond
with like a very minor list of things for us
to pick up since we're going to the store.
Speaker 3: They want nutter butter.
Speaker 2: Cookies okay, hot cocoa okay, not specified, like do you
want individual packets because that's how I buy it?
Speaker 3: Do you just want a thing of like about right?
Speaker 2: So I guess that was on our own ice cream,
which I thought you don't have a cooler, but okay,
ice cream, then it's gonna melt. Yeah, and then I
feel it, Oh, a roll of paper towels and something
else and then whatever you want to eat, like whatever
snacks you want snacks.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, okay, okay, we can do that. We
can handle that. But of course, how many days is there?
Are they going going for a week?
Speaker 1: A week?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Where you want to.
Speaker 2: They're going too close by. It's not a secret. No,
they're going to Big Sir. Okay, it's like six hours away. Yeah,
and apparently now I love Big Sir. So as soon
as John and I heard Big Sir, we were like.
Speaker 3: Oh, have fun. I love you, love it, I love it.
We wanted to get married there.
Speaker 2: Our dream was to a lope in Big Sir, but
his parents were older and we didn't and couldn't really
manage the dry driving part. So and it's going to
be like a Kushaw like finding somebody, like a justice
of that somebody to marry us. And then the hotels
are like a thousand dollars a night there anyway. Yeah,
but they're not gonna Big Sir. Apparently they're like an
hour from the nearest grocery store.
Speaker 3: No internet connection.
Speaker 2: Internet right, no internet, and like no way to get
more supplies. And she wants, you know, like a copy
of our health insurance, like our medical insurance card. I'm like, okay,
so you're organized enough to want a copy of his
medical insurance card, but you don't know if you need
a cooler or not, like like you can't send me. Hey,
here's what I would appreciate. Okay, so they finally did
or whatever. Okay, so we get the stuff. By the way,
we bring the ice cream home. So last night, I
swear to god, I thought it.
Speaker 3: Was a joke.
Speaker 2: I walk into the kitchen. It's like ten o'clock at night.
John's I'm like, what are you doing in the kitchen?
And he goes, oh, I'm just having a little dessert.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 2: John just went open the ice cream eat it had
eaten like a lot of ice cream, gallon of ice cream.
John z I was like, oh no, and he goes, what,
I can't have some ice cream in my own house.
And I was like, that's not your ice cream. That
was Xander's first camping trip.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 2: And then John got all got defensive and he was like, well,
how was I supposed to know that it wasn't labeled.
Speaker 3: I'm not labeling the ice cream, and just said, does
anybody need this?
Speaker 2: It was like and he goes, fine, I'll go back
to the store and replace it. So Xander, of course,
had really been indecisive about what kind of ice cream
to bring, Like what's a goodop, What's what's.
Speaker 3: Pleasing to every ground pleaser?
Speaker 2: So he had decided after some consternation on cookies and cream,
like the Boreo cookies and cream ice cream. Okay, so
that's what John broke into. So he goes to leave
to go to the store or a place that I go,
do you know which kind of ice cream?
Speaker 3: And he goes, yeah, I just ate it?
Speaker 2: And I go, okay, do you think he came back
with cookies and cream?
Speaker 3: No he did not, He didn't.
Speaker 2: No, he came back with cookie dough. And I was like, okay,
that's not the same ice cream the under but not
that it's a huge deal. I'm not trying to be
a bitch, but it was just like only you went
to the store for one thing, you couldn't get the
same thing that you just ate. It's not like he
had a huge list. And then he goes same thing,
cookie dough, cookies and cream, and I go, it's really
not whatever. I'm not gonna die on this, and my
cookie does better. Actually, I'm sure it's totally fine.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: It was just the fact that every everything was feeling
like a problem.
Speaker 2: Right every five minutes, Xander's like, oh, do I need
like sunscreen? I'm like, yeah, you need fucking sunscreen, so
we get that at the store. Then I'm like, do
you need bugspray? And then I made then executive decision
that he's just gonna have to use other people's bugspray.
How many freaking people need to bring bugs.
Speaker 3: Bay right, I'm sure they have. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean when I send LB to camp for two weeks, Yeah,
you have to pack all that stuff. But I was like,
you're not going to camp and there's seven people in
seven people's stuff. You don't want to be taking up
more room in the car, right right, right, Okay, anyway,
oh my god, get everything together this morning. He's like, oh,
do I have a sleeping bag Matt. No, we don't
have a sleeping bag mat. And then I'm like, okay, here,
let's yoga mat. Yoga mat.
Speaker 3: Find a yoga mat, a yoga mat. See you see
what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Here, I see exactly what you're saying.
Speaker 3: I have to tell you. Get up in the morning.
Speaker 2: I get up at five point fifty eight, you know,
make sure that I wake Oh, so I don't hear
anything from Xander. I don't hear anything from Xander. At
like five to seven, I go, I wake him up,
and I said hey, are you still supposed to be
there at seven? And he goes, yeah, what time is it?
And I go, well, it's like five to seven and
he's like, oh no, you know. So he hurries up,
he gets ready, He's like, well, I don't have any
text from those guys. They're not like looking for me. Yeah,
I go okay. Then it's like seven point fifteen, you
know whatever. He's eating a muffin, having a little coffee.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Then it's like seven seven twenty maybe we get over there,
uh huh, seven twenty five even I want to say,
pull up.
Speaker 3: Nobody's there.
Speaker 2: Nobody, nobody's there, the car's in the driveway, nobody's loading
it up. Nothing is happening at all. Right, So he
calls his friend, no answer, call the other friend, no answer.
I'm like, these people are way too fucking relaxed.
Speaker 1: For my text.
Speaker 2: Hell, how is your Your list is so lucy goosey right,
firewood or not?
Speaker 3: I don't cooler?
Speaker 2: Not like breakfast but we got it, Like, yeah, what
is happening?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I don't feel safe, Like I don't feel good
about this.
Speaker 1: How did they not text you?
Speaker 2: First of all two of the kids, no, all three
of their kids are bringing a friend. So does everybody
did everybody else get the communication that we're not do
at seven amay and just not Xander.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is bizarre. No one answers the phone, he
texts them, He texts his friend. No answer. So I'm like, okay,
well are you.
Speaker 2: Just sitting out front? We're sitting out front. But remember
their neighbors, so they're like six blocks away.
Speaker 3: So I go, well, we'll go back home. But now
I'm like, I got to get my date. I got
to walk the dog.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I wake, I make sure John's up, and
I'm like, hey, he might need a ride over there, yeah,
at any time. So I'm walking the dog literally like
an hour later. Yeah, it was like eight fifteen when
I saw that John had left with Xander. Then they're
just there forever, Like you know, I'm checking on life
threes sixty.
Speaker 3: I'm like, now it's like.
Speaker 2: Ten thirty and he's still still there, still at their house,
still at the house. I'm like, what kind of camping
trip is this? Yes, the camp early in the morning, Yeah,
six hour drive. Yeah, you don't want to get there
at night and set up your tent at night?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you would think.
Speaker 2: But but then I have to go, like, when the
fuck have I gone camping?
Speaker 3: Who am I to dictate that that's true? She knows
what she's doing. They go and this is this is my.
Speaker 2: Final point about this, which I just think will make
you laugh. So of course I can't stop life through
sixty in him as sorry he is, and I'm going
to do it again right now. I hope he never
listens to this because I'm crazy.
Speaker 3: So he left today, so yes, this was this morning.
Speaker 2: Okay, So then they're in a parking lot. They're still there. Okay,
he's been at a parking lot since eleven. It's one thirty,
so for the last two and a half hours he's
been this. They're not at like a camp any kind
of camping area. He's like Ventura in a parking lot. Yeah,
you know, I'm telling you there's a Did you ask
him what's in a parking lot? There's like a credit
union next to him and he's there for two and
a half hours. No, I don't want to. I don't
know what they're doing. It's Ventura. So maybe they had
a pit stop at like the beach. Did they have
to the beach? Did they Ventura?
Speaker 1: But did they have to like maybe charge a car
their car.
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Speaker 2: So last night Xander was I don't know what his
deal was, but he went. He just decided, oh, he
was going to leave for the gym, and I had
to be the party pooper and say, well, the gym's closed, right,
and he was like, no, it's not. It's open till eleven,
and I go, no, it closed at seven, And then
he got mad at me, and I don't know why.
He was just like, no, it's open till eleven, and
I go, honey, it's open until seven, Like do it
you If you want to go there and see for yourself.
Speaker 3: You can.
Speaker 2: But it's a good long skateboard ride to the gym.
So then he looks it up all like and he goes, oh, yeah,
it's open till eleven, and he goes, but you said
it like he told me. I said it too bossy
or something, and I was like, you're you're in a
bad mood. But I didn't go, you're in a bad mood.
I just said, okay, I'm sorry. I was just like,
didn't want you to waste a trip there. Yeah, when
it's closed, So he goes. So he just leaves to go.
Speaker 3: For a walk, and he took a freaking sunny walk.
He took a two.
Speaker 2: Hour walk linette around the neighborhood till it was eleven
o'clock at night. I started texting him. I was going,
what are you doing right? You've been walking around our
neighborhood for hours.
Speaker 3: That's so I leave you a living.
Speaker 1: Were living parallel.
Speaker 2: Lives, and this morning I didn't want to like totally
bother him about it. But this morning, when I was
driving him over to the non existent landing point to
leave for the camping trip, right, I was like, are
you okay? Like you were gone for a couple of hours,
and he goes, I'm fine. He goes, I was on
the phone. Yeah, I was like chatting on the phone,
and I go, okay, yeah, yeah, he seemed fine.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, listen, sunny does it all the time.
Speaker 2: These kids in their solo endeavors, they they're getting old, right,
tell me about so?
Speaker 1: Okay, So last week during the week, I think it
was like Tuesday. He was like, because Natalia was gone
with her friends for a couple of days. And he
was like, do you think I can take Natalia's car?
Speaker 3: Your car? And I was like where?
Speaker 1: And he goes to the Sequoia National Campsite.
Speaker 3: Why, I said what.
Speaker 1: He goes, yeah, I'm gonna I want to go camping
and I go with who and he goes just me myself,
And I was like, well, what. First of all, they
went camping, I think with their school because I still
have their sleeping bags with their names on it. I
think they went like one trip or something like that.
Speaker 3: That was it.
Speaker 1: Like he's never been camping, especially alone, you know. And
he's like, no, it's like it's up into Sequoia's It's
about a five hour drive up by the like the
Red by the big you know where the Big He
wanted to go to Big Sur, he said, but the
campgrounds were all full. So he found the campground in
like King's Canyon in the Sequoias, five hours away.
Speaker 3: I don't like it, That's what I said.
Speaker 1: I was like, no, no, Sonny, no, He's like, listen,
he goes, I already he goes the campsite, you can
reserve it, and he said, look, I can show you
on the map. There's all these other people that are
camping near me. There's probably tons of families. And I go,
but there's no, there's not going to be any Why
so then I immediately like google the camp site's name
and there's like, of course there's no Wi Fi. This
is like a gateway to fan life, right, I know,
isn't that?
Speaker 3: Yeah? What is it called van life? Is that?
Speaker 1: What? What's the Gabby Potito? Yes, yeah, vamthing.
Speaker 2: You know, he's got a vlog and he's just like
cramsing around in like a van, in a van with
his like circa carpeting on the bottom.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean I was like, I said, he said, well,
my friends are all out of town with their families
right now the summer, you know, fourth of July. And
he's like, I just think it would be fun, you know,
I just want to go. And I was like okay,
but you know, like and he's like, yeah, I'm gonna
download stuff, so I I you know, I said, but
then I'm not gonna be able to see you on
my app, you know, and he's like.
Speaker 3: Well, that's my issue too. I didn't like that.
Speaker 1: So he's like, I'm just going one night. I'm just
going to drive up there. And I go, okay, well,
do you have a list of things? Like what are
you going to eat? What are you gonna bring? How
are you going to charge your phone?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 1: So he has he had brought two backup chargers. He
had us in the car to charge all his stuff.
And he's like, it's fun. And we have lanterns because
of our power goes out all the time. True, so
we have lanterns in the house. So I get he
got the lanterns, got the flashlight.
Speaker 3: Feel like you're gonna forget stuff though they think of
and then you're gonna get there and be like, oh shit, yeah,
I don't have this.
Speaker 2: Major thing that you need to be camping and then
you've driven five hours.
Speaker 1: So I looked it up, like what what do you
need when you go camp? And it's like, you know,
toilet paper, I didn't even think of that, picker towels,
didn't they of that, you know? But he's got his
list and he went to the grocery store. He got
hot dogs and hot dog buns and like ketchup and mustard,
and I'm like, is that all you're gonna eat? And
he goes, we I'm gonna have a big meal and
then like I'll eat you know. So then okay, So
so he makes his list, he gets he gets this
little cooler we had in the garage, and we have
ice packs that were in the freezer that he could use.
So he had his list of things. He had like
a long fork to roast the hot dogs on.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, he's just gonna be by himself, by himself,
a little sad.
Speaker 3: Well he's probably not sad.
Speaker 2: No, he loves it, but i'd be sad, like just
next to the fire with the big fork, dog.
Speaker 3: Right listening to his porn. Hey what she listened to? Oh? Nothing,
just some youborn some audio porn.
Speaker 2: Is he going to try to like make friends with
other camper? No, he just he said. So he gets
till he left at like ten in the morning.
Speaker 3: So when was this week?
Speaker 1: This was last Thursday night, okay, Thursday night, coming home Friday.
So he left Thursday morning at like ten. I helped
him and then I got him a yoga mat. Oh,
he got a tent and before he left, he put
the tent up in the backyard, so he knew how
to put the tent together. Okay, Yeah, so he got
this little tent. He could barely fit in it. Like
he had this sleep side like diagonal and.
Speaker 3: So small tent. It was a small, like a pup
top tent. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So he got that, put the cover over it so
it's like, you know, you can so people don't see
it or whatever. And then he like laid in there
for a little bit and I'm like, well, you're you're
just gonna have a sleeping bag, and I go, no,
I go let me. Let me go get you like
the yoga mats. I got him a yoga mat. He
took that, got him a bunch of blankets, and I'm like,
just take this. He goes, I don't need all these blankets,
and I go, just you're just you could be gets
gonna get cold.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: He looked up the weather and it was gonna be
like in the forties at night. I'm like, that's kind
of cold. He's like, I'm gonna be fine. He's like,
I don't need all these blankets. But I gave him
like two big blankets.
Speaker 3: Did you have any concerns that he could get eaten
by a bear.
Speaker 1: Well, that's what that. Yes, So he got like spray
he got he I made him go get this because
he went and he was like, I'm gonna go get
my list of stuff and he went to like Big
five and he got like the spray and he got
a really good flashlight.
Speaker 3: So, yeah, God, I.
Speaker 2: Just unlocked a new fear level of for me. Bears bears.
Speaker 1: Well, if the standard gets eaten by a bear, Linda,
there's bears, yes, And he said, I don't want to
freak you out. But he said, well, first of all,
when he said, I go, well, what's gonna what am
I going to do when I when you're driving down
that highway to the campsite and then you're just stuck
on that highway. I know that you lost the Wi
Fi and I'm just staring at you on the and
he goes, well, just think if I don't, he said,
I will. He said, there's a lodge really close to
the campsite. And he said and they're open and like
during the day until like ten o'clock at night. And
he's like, so, if I can, I'll call you. If
I can, I'll call you. And I go, what if
you don't call me, and he goes, well, then I
got eaten by a bear.
Speaker 3: Oh no, he said, he said. But no, here's the
other thing he told me when he got back.
Speaker 1: He said, on his hikes, because he was going on hikes,
that there was sat like warning warning bear territory, bear territory,
yeah wow, and signs everywhere, yeah for bears. But they're
the kind of bears. They're the the black bears. They're
the kind of bears that are in Lakanyata that wander
our streets.
Speaker 3: They're just looking for food.
Speaker 1: And they said to him, you can't have any food
in your car because the bears will go to your
car and like cause damage. So you got to like
have a there's a thing where you have to lock
up all your food.
Speaker 3: So you like got okay.
Speaker 1: So then so he drives up there and I'm like
a nervous I'm like, I'm not gonna be able to
sleep tonight.
Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 2: I know, I thought like the skydiving was bad, right, right,
what's with my kids?
Speaker 3: Yeah, So he's like it's gonna be fine.
Speaker 1: He goes, I'm gonna go I know, he's gonna go
hiking on those trails, and I'm like, by himself.
Speaker 2: I hear too many stories on like Citizen and the
news about lost hikers, right, buddy, at least, yes, I know.
But he goes to find one fucking friend to go with. No,
he wanted to go by himself.
Speaker 1: When he's in Eugene, he goes on these long hikes,
sometimes with his friend, sometimes by himself up until like
and then he'll take a picture of like up and huge,
all the way up on top of some big mountain,
you know, like and it's like a three hour hike
kind of thing. So he goes on these kind of
hikes in Oregon. So I'm like, okay, Kinder likes that
kind of thing too. Yeah, it's weird.
Speaker 3: Korean Xander really should be fun.
Speaker 1: They really should. There's so much alike. Yeah, and so okay.
So then so okay. So now it's like, so I
see him on the map and he's now he's lost
wi Fi. So I'm like, okay, I'm hope and it's
said near the camp he was like almost there, Like okay,
so he's probably okay. So around nine o'clock at night,
I get a text from him. Oh and it says
Sonny's texting through satellite and it has like a picture
of a It was weird. Oh and I was like, okay,
I go, what's what's going on? Oh? The other thing
is my friend Mike Gerstein was to tell him to
get he should get those they're these those little disks
where remember it's too late now, and it was too
late for him. He didn't have time to get it.
But there's those what there's all these like air tags
so like you know, you get lost or whatever.
Speaker 3: But he didn't. He didn't.
Speaker 1: I was like, please stop and get one of those.
He's like, I went. They didn't have him at Target,
so I didn't get one. And I was like, oh great, okay. Anyway,
so around nine o'clock at night, I get a text
from him and he's like excuse me. He goes, can
you look up and see how to make a camp?
How to make a fire?
Speaker 2: No? I was like, what something you The one thing
that is bad about not having Wi Fi is no
U tube videos, no YouTube videos.
Speaker 1: And also I thought to myself, he must know how
to make a fire since there's going to be a
fire pit. So I didn't, you know, and he was
saying he was gonna make the hot dogs. So he's like,
can you just know I kind of know the gist
of it, but like, can you just tell me, like what.
Speaker 3: Kind of sticks to stuff something?
Speaker 1: I got to start it, So I go to chat
ebt and I take a screenshot. It won't send the
screenshot to him, and then I try and send him
the actual chat beat won't send. Nothing will send it.
So I had to type it all out and it's gone.
I'm typing step by step by step, and at one
point he goes, I know all this, just give me
the just give me the gist or something, and I'm like,
I'm just giving you everything it's saying, and it's just
it's step by step by step. And then I don't
hear back from him, and I'm like, did it work?
Did nothing?
Speaker 3: Don't hear? Don't hear from him again.
Speaker 1: That was that.
Speaker 3: So then the night goes on.
Speaker 1: Then it's the next day into Friday, and I know
he's going to go on. I know that he's got
to be out of the campsite by noon, right.
Speaker 2: I wrote it prop against all all common wisdom, common sense.
I would have probably watched some one of those movies
about the guy who got like eaten by a bear,
the guy who photographed bears now and then he got
eaten by a bear I think with his wife, right, yeah.
Speaker 3: He was a grizzly bear.
Speaker 2: Yes. And then the other one about the guy who
like pulled over and was like going to go eat
berries and he went and lived in the wilderness and
then he died of like he got malled. I don't
know he ate No, he ate some like poison berries.
Oh oh yeah, remember that guy?
Speaker 1: No, I got it, Okay, I got to look up
that story. Yeah, go ahead, Okay. So so the next day, Okay,
I know he's got to be out of the campsite
by noon, but I know he's probably going to go
hiking because he got there late the first night, right,
and I don't think he went hiking at night. So
the next day, so I'm giving him a few hours. Now,
it's like four o'clock, five o'clock. He hasn't moved from
the last time on my map, like where he is
because there's no Wi Fi. Right, So I'm thinking, okay,
but eventually he's got to get on the road and
he's gonna Okay, four o'clock, five o'clock, six o'clock. I'm
calling him, no no answer, He hasn't moved on the map,
still says he's in the same spot, says it says
twenty four hours late, you know, like where he was
like at the same spot. And I'm like, okay, what
so I even though I know this is like watching
a movie, because I'm telling you, my heart is literally
like a pitter pat, like I'm stressed for you, and
I know it all worked out. I know it did
work out.
Speaker 2: Imagine if we're recording right now and you're like and
I'm like and then what happened?
Speaker 3: And you're like, I don't know he's still.
Speaker 1: When that I don't call my one why you know?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: So it's still okay, it's six now.
Speaker 3: I'm thinking it's gonna start getting dark. Where why is
anty on the road?
Speaker 1: So I'm like, uh so I call like that like
that lot, like the campsite.
Speaker 2: If you did, And I was just like, my son
was camping and spot twenty five.
Speaker 1: Can you go check that? You know, I haven't heard
from him? And then she's like she was really nice.
She's like, Okay, well I'll just send somebody to see
what kind of car does he have? And he gave
him the car and everything, and they're like, okay, so
we'll call you back. And then they called me back
a few minutes later and they're like, yeah, he's not
there anymore. We don't see his car. So I'm like, okay,
all right, thanks.
Speaker 3: You're like, can you probably an investigator?
Speaker 2: Can you just start checking the surveillance camera, call the helicopter?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, so what happened?
Speaker 1: So now I'm like, okay, I have to trust him,
and I'm going to give it some more time. And
around seven o'clock he called me and I was like, oh,
you gotta give me that phone answered it. So I'm
like I had the phone next to me all day,
ring her on high right, and also in my house.
Sometimes when people call me, he goes to my voicemail
same and I.
Speaker 3: Can't stand that. I'm like, well, I will do see.
I'll do the same thing.
Speaker 2: If I'm waiting for a phone call and I'm just
like looking at my phone. I don't want it to
missake right.
Speaker 1: Right, because I sometimes people are like, yeah, I called
you yesterday. I'm like, I didn't see that you called anyway,
So I'm like, oh my god. Where So He's like,
I had to stop at a hotel to get Wi Fi.
I met some hotel lobby to get Wi Fi. But
I'm on my way home. He's like, I should be
home by eleven. And I was like, okay, everything good,
and he goes, yeah, it was great. I'll tell you
what I'm all about it when I get back. And
he came home and unloaded the car and he was
showing me pictures and he went on a fourteen mile hike.
Yeah yeah, And I was like, what what the He's like,
I downloaded all these like you know, UFC fights and
sports stuff and like had all that stuff. I had
to go to the hotel and like reach our like
redownload more stuff.
Speaker 3: And he was like, yeah, it was great. I had
a great time.
Speaker 1: So yeah, there's a lot of people on the trails,
you know, and there's trails that are marked easy you know,
moderate like horror like experience. He's like, you know, I
just went on like the kind of the easy trails
and just kept going. He showed me all these waterfalls
that he came upon and like yeah, he was like,
isn't it It's beautiful.
Speaker 3: It's so beautiful. I'm like, okay, I don't have that.
Speaker 2: I'm kind of jealous though, I feel like, oh, if
I could just you know, what do you call it?
Speaker 3: Like being myself too?
Speaker 2: Like I don't want any of it, and you and
I have talked about this for years, because same with
the beach.
Speaker 3: I don't want any of the prep work.
Speaker 2: Right, if I could, just if you could just put
me at the beach at last meet at the I
don't want to drive and I don't want to do
a five hour drive. Just put me on a hiking
trail that's like an easy hiking trail at a campsite.
It's nice and it has bathrooms. Yes, great, great, right yeah, yeah.
He was totally fine, like he loved it. And I'm like, okay,
they're not going to do that again? Are you anytime soon?
And he's like, I don't know. Like his friends want
to go camping. He goes, but my friends and I
can never get on the statee. They're not like Natalian
her friends Like one's like, oh, I can't do it
this weekend.
Speaker 1: How about we don't want to go to this one
how a But they all just end up arguing, he says,
and we can never make a plan. He's like, but
they do want to go camping. I'm like, okay, that's
like good, like go camping with your friends. But like
he's like no, He's like, I'm glad I did it.
Speaker 3: It was fun.
Speaker 1: He's like I made the fire. He was like it
came out good. And he was like it actually got
kind of big, and I got a little worried.
Speaker 3: For a second.
Speaker 1: It's like I made my hot dogs and had my
hot dog and then went to bed and he's like,
I slept fine, got up early, packed up. I was
like okay, and then like ate another hot dog I
think for breakfast, and then he had all these snacks
and stuff like.
Speaker 3: So he went on the fourteen mile hike the next day.
Speaker 1: The next day yeah yeah, and then got in and
out on the way home. Yeah, And he like loved
it and he was really happy. He was like, yeah,
it's glad he did it.
Speaker 3: He's so brave. I know, I don't. I know, that's
really cool cool. Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: And you know, and then he said, towards the end
of his long hike, he did oh, his battery was
dying on his phone, so he didn't have anything to
listen to for like the last hour and I said,
was that tough?
Speaker 3: And he goes, Eah, it was okay. I didn't love it,
but and I.
Speaker 1: Was thinking, I told him, I go, you know, when
you were younger, Sonny, Now that I think about it,
he used to like when we would go swimming and stuff.
After we get out of the pool, like we'd go inside,
he always would sit outside in his towel and just
like we would say, like he'd just sit there and
like ponder, you know, just sit there and like look around,
like sip his little uh juice box. And I'm like,
son you want to come and say. He's like, nah,
I'm okay. Like he would be cool by himself. He
was always that way, you know, not like Natalia that
has to have friends around twenty four seven.
Speaker 3: So he's always been that way, and he loved it.
Speaker 2: Xander is kind of a mix though, because I mean,
I don't I don't.
Speaker 3: I can't see Xander going camping by himself.
Speaker 2: But maybe he'll have the greatest time doing this, but
he likes to be around friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but can you imagine because it wasn't that long ago,
it seems like when we wouldn't have had the option
of downloading some podcasts to listen to on a hike.
Speaker 3: Right, and go on a hike, you look at nature.
Speaker 2: Yeah that tree, right, read a little placard thing that
tells you about the tree and like what you're going
to see, And that was your It was like when
you were really little and you'd only have reading the
side of.
Speaker 1: The cereal box exactly in the morning. I would just
sit there and stare at the cereal box, right, yeah,
so so funny.
Speaker 2: Read it like a shampoo bottle while you're pumping, you
know what I mean, Like like you're desperate.
Speaker 3: Yes, so imagine like when you.
Speaker 2: Go for a hike, you have no Our brains probably
did a lot better back then because you either talk
to your sibling or read about the wildlife that you're seeing.
Even though to me that was always the most boring
part of the Yes, I don't care what kind of
tree it is, but if you're desperate and that's.
Speaker 3: The only thing you have to entertain you, right and learn?
Speaker 1: Yeah you will yeah yeah, so yeah, and yeah it
was an experience, so it wasn't really exciting for me.
I was very like nerve wracking the whole time. I
had anxiety and was like okay, but I had to trust.
I'm like, even with the fire thing that night.
Speaker 3: And I didn't hear back.
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'm yeah, I'm sure he's okay kind of,
I'm sure he figured it out.
Speaker 3: So I get nervous.
Speaker 2: I'm already like that, See what am I going to do?
First of all, at least Xander is with other people,
thank god, thank god. Yeah, but when I went camping
when I was a kid, Well, I'm doing another yea
three six.
Speaker 1: I don't know why they're why they're stuck in Ventura.
Speaker 2: He's still there? Why still there? So it's almost two
o'clock in the afternoon. When are they going to? But
this is the It is funny that that's how controlling
I am. Well, are you going to Big Surr or not?
Speaker 3: Like what's going on?
Speaker 1: He like these people are?
Speaker 2: I would like, we're gonna make some stops, like, you know,
I don't know what's the I.
Speaker 1: Would have texted him and asked him what's going on?
By now, I just don't want you don't want to.
I don't because why do I care? Like they're on
a camping trip yet I don't go. Yeah, maybe they
stopped at some state park.
Speaker 2: To like. But I don't know why the parking would
be next to a credit union, right, it seemed like
a state park. But I don't know. Maybe she's like
starting a bank account at a credit aware if they just
get into some weird illegal like they're there to actually
like smuggle drum. I don't know, and she's like, all
these kids are a smoke screen for some crazy they're.
Speaker 3: Going to go make bombs. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know. He's listening to this, but so are
you can't Are you going to be able to communicate
with him for the next week while he's there.
Speaker 2: Well, here's one of the problems. You think Sonny had
a back, Like he's bringing back up chargers. Xander's phone
has the worst battery. Yeah, there's seven people that are
going to need a charger in the car. And also
Xander's phone is a slightly older model, so he uses
he's not on the.
Speaker 3: Same but yeah, we'll plug the plug.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I sent him with a backup charge and
then a two backup chargers. Yeah, but that's gonna last
like a couple of days.
Speaker 1: But then he can can he charge that charger in
the car to get it charged up? Again, so he
could charge his maybe, but even then he doesn't have
Wi Fi though, right, so, how is he ever gonna cloud?
Speaker 3: Is he gonna? Did you talk to him? Asked him.
I don't freaking know.
Speaker 2: I'm scared. Yeah, you're making me nervous. I'm sorry, But
saying that, no, it's not great.
Speaker 3: It's not a great situation for me.
Speaker 2: I have to just feel like when I was a kid,
we went camping all the time. I mean, nothing bad happened, right,
These people go camping. This is their thing they love
to do. They go camping every year. Yeah, so they
must I should. I'm grateful they asked him to go.
It's something new for him to do, right, I think
he'll have fun. I do remember very visceral memory of
being on a camping trip as a kid and there
was a tarantula and it was I my kid brain
remembers it as being the biggest spider, like in my brain,
like it looked like the size of that globe.
Speaker 3: My god, in my brain it was super big and
it was big.
Speaker 2: And I do remember that my stepfather had to catch
it in like a plastic container and put it over
the top of it. And then I don't know what
they did with it. Do you ever see tarantulas that
people keep as a pet and they're really big? Yeah,
Black and Harry.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my friend Jen has one in.
Speaker 2: The middle of our campsite and I never really forgot that.
I was like, so that thing could have just crawled
on us and like bitten us. Right, Although the tulas
are not me, No, they don't like they're not out.
Speaker 1: To No, that's what I hear. Yeah, on the Transla streets.
Speaker 2: So maybe sliding doors. Maybe in another world we could
have like become best friends.
Speaker 3: Yeah we could.
Speaker 1: Well, I have a story for you that you might
it'll get your mind off of this. And I want
to know what you think, Okay about this story that
just happened. There's video of it of parents that are
on vacation from Texas in Florida on some like beach
of a hotel like the mehor May Hotel, like a
nice hotel. They have like four kids, so they left
their six month old baby sleeping in the tent and
they took the other kids and they went on a
long walk and they were gone for like over an hour,
and they got a call. So people surround the kids
started crying and like they do like they do, and
the people from the hotel so that people around were like,
you know, they called the police. So the police came
out and they were like some woman was like holding
the baby and she's like the baby was crying, and
I just I didn't there's nobody around. And they then
somebody else said to the police the dad was really
like mean and yelling at the kids. Yeah, and he's
and so they said. The people around the tent said like, yeah,
they've been gone. We don't know where they are. Here's
the baby's crying. This is their baby and the cops
and so even then, like they're gone for so long,
like if you're walking back and you see cops around
your shit, you'd be like running like what the fuck?
Right like they were, they were still like so far away,
and they kind of like just casually walk up and
it's all on police camp and they're like they're like,
are you the parents of the of this child? And
they go, oh yeah, it's so sorry. They go, well,
you know, this is considered child abuse and this is
a big deal. Yeah, And they're telling the dad and
the dad was like the dad was like, oh, I
understand you just have you do your job. He goes,
but we're really sorry, like we just lost track of
time and wall track of time. Yeah, lost track of time,
but it's.
Speaker 3: Going you can't go for a walk.
Speaker 1: Left the baby in the tent. What I'm saying like, we.
Speaker 3: Lost track of time. Anybody could have stolen your baby, right,
I know. And it was so hot.
Speaker 1: The baby was crying, baby was sweating inside that tent,
and they were so the dad was like, yeah, I know,
I know you're doing your big up, but we lost
track of time, and you know, we're really really sorry.
Speaker 3: We you know, blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: And and that's when the other lady was like to
the other cop like, hey, this this dad's kind of
a dick. He was like yelling at the kids too.
Just want to throw that out there, and they were
like okay, uh and then they said oh. Then the
mom comes up and she's like, she's like, can we
can we go somewhere where it's not so hot and talk?
Speaker 3: Can we go upstairs?
Speaker 2: We were like, oh wait, talk about this where we
left our baby right right, We just were somewhere more chill, right.
Speaker 1: So they go somewhere like where it's covered and they're
still talking to the dad and and they're like, you know,
this is we're going to have to call child Protective Services.
And they're like, oh my god, really like you know,
like this is can we go talk about it?
Speaker 3: So then they go, okay, let's go up stairs for
an out. You can't leave your six month old child
for like an hour? Yeah, what kind of what is this?
Not America exactly?
Speaker 1: So we're like they're like, okay, well we can take
every Let's go upstairs to your room. The mom goes like, well,
wait a minute, I don't want to when we pack up,
I don't want all the sand to come with us.
Speaker 3: So we got to get the sand.
Speaker 1: Like she's like like, oh my god. To the cop,
she's like, wait, we got before. I gotta I gotta
shake the sand out. So then they go up. Then
they go to the room and then they're they're like, okay,
we're you know, what do you mean the room? So
they I guess they went up to their room to
go They weren't camping, No, they were in this hotel,
this really nice hotel, and you know, like the hotels
have the beach out there, you know, with the chairs
and stuff. So they were on the beach each and
their hotel room was upstairs, so they wanted to go upstairs.
Speaker 3: So they left their baby. That's almost worse.
Speaker 1: They left their baby. They left their baby. Yes, So
they went to the beach, they parked their shit, they
put the ptent up, the baby, took a nap. They
left with the other three kids to go on a
walk down the beach.
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, you left your baby on the beach, right right.
So they're like, okay. So the cops are like, got no,
like the Madeline McCain's story, the like have they never
watched a dateline And they're a lot.
Speaker 1: Right, what if like the tide got big and came up,
like anything could have happened? Yeah, anything, shark, I don't know,
you know. So they go upstairs to their room and
because the cops are like we're taking the kids, you know,
and they wouldn't even let her like hold the baby.
Speaker 3: The baby. They're like, these kids are now going.
Speaker 1: To be in Child Protective Service custody and you guys
are getting arrested. And they're like the mom was like
wait what She's like I have to pump, Like I
have to feed my baby. Can I and they're like, well, man,
we're too bad. Like and then the dad goes. They said,
unless you have family nearby that we can give the
kids too. And the dad goes, well, my dad lives
like nine hours away, but he can come out. So
they're like okay, and he goes. But then in the meantime, Mike,
where when my kids are going to do? And they're like, well,
they're going to be in child protective services.
Speaker 3: Okay, well your dad is getting a little crazy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and your dad can come pick them up, and
so he calls the dad.
Speaker 3: I guess I love separating the baby from the breastfeeding mom.
That's what they're doing. They are not.
Speaker 1: They're getting arrested, both parents for child abuse.
Speaker 2: I can't decide. I know right now, I'm not for
leaving your baby for an hour. They left the baby
for an hour and it was just crying on the
beach by itself.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, so the abusive right for sure? Right, But
is the answer to that to like take the to
be more abusive and take a baby away.
Speaker 3: Well that's what the dad was saying.
Speaker 1: The dad was like, my kids are going to be traumatized,
Like we're on vacation and now parents are getting taken
away and now they're going to be with strangers for
the next nine hours till my dad gets here and
the baby.
Speaker 3: And she's like, can I pump?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 1: And they were like, I guess they let her pump,
and she wanted to bring the pump with her to jail.
She asked that. I don't know if they said yes
or no. Then she said, can I take a shower
before we go? They're like, no, you're going to jail
like you were arresting you.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 3: Then they show them like.
Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about they show them
like putting them in handcuffs and putting them in the
back of this like you.
Speaker 2: Know, okay, No, No, I think they lost me on that. No,
you can't do that, right, that's way worse for the kids. Yeah, well,
what do you do?
Speaker 3: I mean, they're not going to be like, here's a ticket,
see you in court. Well, I was going to say
that's probably the better.
Speaker 1: Option, though I don't think that that's the I don't
think they can do that if they left their baby
alone for over an hour in the tent and the
baby's crying, and you know.
Speaker 3: I'm sure that they'll probably.
Speaker 1: I think they posted bail and got out, but I
think the dad's father, the grandfather, came took nine hours,
so the kids were in custody for like, I don't know,
ten twelve hours till the granddad got there. And then
I think they went to jail and got arraigned or
whatever and then got bailed out.
Speaker 3: And I wonder if they got their kids back right away.
Speaker 1: Yeah that I don't know. They'll look it up. Maybe
it's out there. I'm not crazy, so yeah, like, what
do you do?
Speaker 3: What do you think?
Speaker 1: I don't like the fact that they like did separated,
that they had to arrest them right there on the
spot with the kids and stuff. The kids were like upset.
They're little kids. They don't understand where's mom and dad going?
Like we're on a vacation and all of a sudden,
mom and dad are gone, and then the baby is
breastfeet begetting breastfed.
Speaker 3: Yeah that's not okay.
Speaker 1: So but I guess I guess that's if it's the
law that if that happens, yeah, you get arrested, you know.
Speaker 2: So my friend, her mom is going through well, she's
on hospice right now, and she told me that the
thing that she's doing to distract herself because it's just
a very sad time for her right now, is she's
been watching a lot of like dui arrest videos. Now
this is John's jam. John is always sending me he
loves like entitled white women. Yeah when they get arrest
getting pulled over for drug driving or getting pulled over
for whatever, but they're mostly drunk.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so fun.
Speaker 2: It is like all these Karens, you know, but the
best are just they're so entitled and crazy. And it
happens that we've got We just watched one because so
so John is like, I've been sending him to Laura
and my friend I sent her. I made a whole
document with all these links, and I the top are
the best ones. So we started watching a few of them.
And there is a point to this, which is that
some of these people are outrageously behaved and the police
are so nice to them. And I'm always watching it
and going yeah, because they're white, Like, imagine if this
was a black person, they would have just taken them
to jail right away. And these freaking white women always
let loose the N word at some point.
Speaker 3: Lots of black Cop.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: So often once they get really riled up, they use
the N word and they're like this one we were
watching was she It took her a while to get there,
but when she got there, she.
Speaker 3: Was like, yeah, now I said it.
Speaker 2: Oh my, And then black Cop was just like, all right,
feel good about that, Like I don't care, right, You're
not hurting my feelings. Yeah, you just look like an
idiot yourself, you know whatever. And she was like, well,
blah blah blah, George Floyd, you're treating me like what
I mean? It was really crazy, But I'm like, how
did this family Like I don't know what the circumstance was,
but how does some of these people get treated so
well and end up not going to like they de
escalate with them, and yet this family like nope, never
not going to see your kids, right, Like, I'm not
sure how I feel.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: There is this show I told you I texted to
you a while ago. I can't it's called like jail
Time or something on Peacock. Oh yeah, and it's the same.
It's kind of the same. It's just like they're just
like in there in some jail and then people get
brought in. Most of them are drunk and out of
their mind, and like there's like a guy getting arrested
and he's he's like wasted, and like the female cop
is like shaking, do you have anything in your pockets?
And she's like okay, and she's being very nice to him,
and he's like fuck off, hunt, like fuck you, like
just yelling at her, just like go get fuck bitch,
like like just she's like okay, whatever, you're going in
the tank, going.
Speaker 3: In the drunk tank.
Speaker 1: And then like then they go back and they go, okay,
let's go check on Hank like hours later, and he's
like all sobered up and he's like, I'm sorry if
I was like rude to you, I don't know what
comes over me, like tequila, Yeah exactly for you, yeah exactly.
It's pretty funny. Yeah, so it's kind of like those videos,
right right, Yeah, crazy story like other people's input. Yeah,
let's hear it, all right, all right.
Speaker 2: Well you guys, thank you to everybody. Let's do our
let's do our business shout outs. Adam Adam is helping
me this week.
Speaker 1: I have to get Sonny a car because he keeps
borrowing all mine and Natalia. So Adam is helping me
look for a car as we speak. For Sonny, it
was super easy. I just saw him yesterday. He was like, yeah,
I'm working on a car for Lenette. Yeah, for some
yeah yeah, yeah, he's already found. I mean he's so
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find something. He's like, what do you think of this?
Like okay, now I got to pull the trigger, I guess, but.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, this is how he does it.
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