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Speaker 1: I made a decision pay sunny sound. I had a vision.

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It's nice. What's happening? Everybody? Welcome to for crying out loud.

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I'm your host.

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Speaker 2: It I'm Stephanie. Hey, Stephanie, I'm so glad to be

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here today.

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Speaker 3: Me too. Even though I was feeling.

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Speaker 2: Just to just just to be honest, full transparency, I

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was like, God, nothing's happened to me this week. But

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then something did kind of happen this morning, and I

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was like, oh, I need to open the show with this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Then I was like, oh, yeah, I need to get

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to work as soon as possible to talk about this.

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But then when we started talking before I hit record,

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it turns out we have some we have some stuff always. Yeah,

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I've always a little parallel, very pair parallel.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we have the same kind of thing going on.

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Speaker 2: So I'm gonna start with mine because yours is so

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much crazier kind of to Yeah, but it's that it

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makes it seem almost funny, almost quaint that I'm having this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: So the other so Xander the other day says to me,

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like a week ago, he's like, Hey, I got invited

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to go camping with my friends. So he has this

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we have this neighbor and they go camping like every summer.

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Speaker 3: It seems like, yeah. So the neighbor.

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Speaker 2: Has a daughter who Xander's pretty good friends with. They're

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pretty close, okay, and she's a year older than Xander.

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Speaker 3: They were close.

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Speaker 2: Then there's a middle son and he's about like a

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year younger than Xander. Really nice kids, Xander and that

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could have spent a bunch of time together too.

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Speaker 3: Then there's a younger brother.

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Speaker 2: So Xander gets invited to go on this trip and

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it's sort of like all the kids get to bring

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a friend. So Xander's going as the friend for the

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older daughter, even though he's good friends with the younger.

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The middle son, and then the younger sons are like

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younger got okay. So of course immediately I'm like, damn,

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like this mom is taking six kids camping. Also, Xander's

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never been camping, not even close to it. He's he's

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barely done sleepovers at people's houses. Although I brought that

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up to him. I was I was talking to him

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about that, and he was like, that's not true. I

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slept at this person's house, in this person's house. It

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was like not the same way that some kids like

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Elbe like rarely is home right anyway, it doesn't really matter.

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The point is he never went to Sleepway camp. Elbe's

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old hat at that, and this is they're going to

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be kind of roughing.

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Speaker 3: It apparently, right, like with tents and things.

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Speaker 1: I guess.

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Speaker 2: So he when he first brings it up to me,

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this is my point, He's like, I just need a

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I was like, what do you need? And he goes,

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I just need a sleeping bag and that's pretty much it.

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And I'm like great, And of course, because you know

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how we are immediately, I'm like, well, I'll give the

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mom money of course for like groceries and gas, and like,

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this has got to be an expensive trip with all

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of our kids.

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Speaker 3: They don't have a camper or anything.

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Speaker 2: They just know they as far as I know, no,

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she drives a little subaru like outback. It looks like, so,

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I don't know how there's seven people in there plus

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dollar shit, maybe they're okay.

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Speaker 3: Let me get to that. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's not like the most crazy story. It's

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just kind of funny. Right. So it's coming up and

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I'm like, well, what do you need? You must need

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some stuff like we I don't know camping gear.

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Speaker 3: We don't have camping gear.

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Speaker 2: I borrowed a sleeping bag from our friend, from my

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friend Cecily, whose daughter went to like Sleepway camp for

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years and had like a nice like a Coleman sleeping bag.

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Speaker 3: Okay, there you go, done and done.

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Speaker 2: Then he then I go, do you have a list

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of things like do we need to bring food? Like

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we need to bring like what do we need to bring?

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need to That were me and the other boy that

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he's friends with are in charge of breakfast for like

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three days.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and I go what right?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, what the fuck does that mean? Right,

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we're in charge of breakfast? Okay, does that mean like

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here's a granola bar?

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Speaker 3: Right? What what do they eat? What are they for breakfast?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Right?

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Speaker 2: So I go, well, what does that mean? Can you

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get I need more information? So he texts them, doesn't

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get any response. Oh so that right before that, the

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mom sends a list of stuff they need. I can't

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tell if it's just for Xander, if it's for everybody.

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Some of the things on there are like a cooler firewood.

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Speaker 3: What, Okay, you.

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Speaker 2: Don't have a cool Like, hold on a minute, are

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we starting from scratch? Are we like you also, like bring.

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Speaker 1: Your own everything for the trip? Right?

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Speaker 2: So I was like, well, we don't have a full

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size cooler.

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Speaker 3: I mean we I don't.

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Speaker 2: We don't have one, right because we converted our garage

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so all anything that was like unnecessary for us to

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store we got rid of, right, so we did have

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a Anyway.

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Speaker 3: I was like, well, they have to have a cooler.

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Speaker 2: They go camping all the time, right, and they bring

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multiple people. This isn't the first time they're bringing people. Okay,

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firewood what I'm like, I mean, and where they buy some?

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Speaker 1: So what if you guys buy the firewood and the

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other kid buys the fight?

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Speaker 3: Where are they going to put all that?

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Speaker 2: Like? That was my question? So I said, I go,

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I need more information. Can you find out like what

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you actually need?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So he writes them back, he doesn't get it, and

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nobody texts back. I'm like, Okay, well I don't know

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what to tell you, but oh he needed a headlamp,

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good hiking boots. Yeah, took him to Big five, got

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him some hiking boots on sale. Can't go wrong. Having

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a pair of hiking boots. Got him a couple of headlamps.

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I don't know if they're the right kind.

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Speaker 3: Oh. One of the things is a lantern. I'm like,

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so everybody needs their own lantern? Oh my god. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So now I'm starting the doubts are creeping in. Right,

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I'm like, is this like a good environment? I don't know, right,

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I've never I met this woman one time and I

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don't remember it. It was many years ago.

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Speaker 3: The mom, So you don't know her, right, so you

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can't text her or anything? Nope, did not have her phone.

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Speaker 2: Nu he texting the mom or he's just texting that.

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He's just texting the kids. Yeah, but the daughter is

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older than Xander. She's like nineteen, maybe she's maybe she's eighteen, But.

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Speaker 3: That doesn't matter. The point is like, heck's back. Okay,

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what time do.

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Speaker 2: We have to be there? Well, we have to we

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have to be there. We have to meet there at

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seven am. I'm like, Okay, then that's fine because I'm

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a senior citizen and I get every I wake up

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at five point fifty nine every day. Okay, but now

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it's the night before, it's last night I'm like, we

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need to go. I need to go to Ralph's. I

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have to know if you need some stuff. I have

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to know if they need food.

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Speaker 3: What's the breakfast thing?

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Speaker 2: So then he texts his friend what do we need

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for breakfast? And he goes, well, we're going to do

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I feel like it's like eggs and sausage, but they

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have eggs and sausage. Somehow he gets them to respond

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with like a very minor list of things for us

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to pick up since we're going to the store.

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Speaker 3: They want nutter butter.

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Speaker 2: Cookies okay, hot cocoa okay, not specified, like do you

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want individual packets because that's how I buy it?

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Speaker 3: Do you just want a thing of like about right?

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Speaker 2: So I guess that was on our own ice cream,

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which I thought you don't have a cooler, but okay,

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ice cream, then it's gonna melt. Yeah, and then I

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feel it, Oh, a roll of paper towels and something

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else and then whatever you want to eat, like whatever

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snacks you want snacks.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, okay, okay, we can do that. We

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can handle that. But of course, how many days is there?

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Are they going going for a week?

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Speaker 1: A week?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Where you want to.

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Speaker 2: They're going too close by. It's not a secret. No,

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they're going to Big Sir. Okay, it's like six hours away. Yeah,

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and apparently now I love Big Sir. So as soon

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as John and I heard Big Sir, we were like.

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Speaker 3: Oh, have fun. I love you, love it, I love it.

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We wanted to get married there.

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Speaker 2: Our dream was to a lope in Big Sir, but

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his parents were older and we didn't and couldn't really

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manage the dry driving part. So and it's going to

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be like a Kushaw like finding somebody, like a justice

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of that somebody to marry us. And then the hotels

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are like a thousand dollars a night there anyway. Yeah,

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but they're not gonna Big Sir. Apparently they're like an

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hour from the nearest grocery store.

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Speaker 3: No internet connection.

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Speaker 2: Internet right, no internet, and like no way to get

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more supplies. And she wants, you know, like a copy

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of our health insurance, like our medical insurance card. I'm like, okay,

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so you're organized enough to want a copy of his

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medical insurance card, but you don't know if you need

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a cooler or not, like like you can't send me. Hey,

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here's what I would appreciate. Okay, so they finally did

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or whatever. Okay, so we get the stuff. By the way,

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we bring the ice cream home. So last night, I

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swear to god, I thought it.

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Speaker 3: Was a joke.

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Speaker 2: I walk into the kitchen. It's like ten o'clock at night.

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John's I'm like, what are you doing in the kitchen?

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: John just went open the ice cream eat it had

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eaten like a lot of ice cream, gallon of ice cream.

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John z I was like, oh no, and he goes, what,

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I can't have some ice cream in my own house.

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And I was like, that's not your ice cream. That

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was Xander's first camping trip.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: And then John got all got defensive and he was like, well,

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how was I supposed to know that it wasn't labeled.

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Speaker 3: I'm not labeling the ice cream, and just said, does

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anybody need this?

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Speaker 2: It was like and he goes, fine, I'll go back

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to the store and replace it. So Xander, of course,

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had really been indecisive about what kind of ice cream

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to bring, Like what's a goodop, What's what's.

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Speaker 3: Pleasing to every ground pleaser?

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Speaker 2: So he had decided after some consternation on cookies and cream,

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like the Boreo cookies and cream ice cream. Okay, so

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that's what John broke into. So he goes to leave

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to go to the store or a place that I go,

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do you know which kind of ice cream?

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Speaker 3: And he goes, yeah, I just ate it?

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Speaker 2: And I go, okay, do you think he came back

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with cookies and cream?

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Speaker 3: No he did not, He didn't.

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Speaker 2: No, he came back with cookie dough. And I was like, okay,

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that's not the same ice cream the under but not

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that it's a huge deal. I'm not trying to be

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a bitch, but it was just like only you went

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to the store for one thing, you couldn't get the

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same thing that you just ate. It's not like he

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had a huge list. And then he goes same thing,

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cookie dough, cookies and cream, and I go, it's really

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not whatever. I'm not gonna die on this, and my

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cookie does better. Actually, I'm sure it's totally fine.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: It was just the fact that every everything was feeling

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like a problem.

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Speaker 2: Right every five minutes, Xander's like, oh, do I need

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like sunscreen? I'm like, yeah, you need fucking sunscreen, so

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we get that at the store. Then I'm like, do

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you need bugspray? And then I made then executive decision

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that he's just gonna have to use other people's bugspray.

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How many freaking people need to bring bugs.

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Speaker 3: Bay right, I'm sure they have. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean when I send LB to camp for two weeks, Yeah,

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you have to pack all that stuff. But I was like,

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you're not going to camp and there's seven people in

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seven people's stuff. You don't want to be taking up

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more room in the car, right right, right, Okay, anyway,

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oh my god, get everything together this morning. He's like, oh,

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do I have a sleeping bag Matt. No, we don't

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have a sleeping bag mat. And then I'm like, okay, here,

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let's yoga mat. Yoga mat.

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Speaker 3: Find a yoga mat, a yoga mat. See you see

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what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Here, I see exactly what you're saying.

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Speaker 3: I have to tell you. Get up in the morning.

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Speaker 2: I get up at five point fifty eight, you know,

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make sure that I wake Oh, so I don't hear

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anything from Xander. I don't hear anything from Xander. At

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like five to seven, I go, I wake him up,

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and I said hey, are you still supposed to be

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there at seven? And he goes, yeah, what time is it?

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And I go, well, it's like five to seven and

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he's like, oh no, you know. So he hurries up,

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he gets ready, He's like, well, I don't have any

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text from those guys. They're not like looking for me. Yeah,

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I go okay. Then it's like seven point fifteen, you

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know whatever. He's eating a muffin, having a little coffee.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Then it's like seven seven twenty maybe we get over there,

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uh huh, seven twenty five even I want to say,

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pull up.

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Speaker 3: Nobody's there.

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Speaker 2: Nobody, nobody's there, the car's in the driveway, nobody's loading

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it up. Nothing is happening at all. Right, So he

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calls his friend, no answer, call the other friend, no answer.

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I'm like, these people are way too fucking relaxed.

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Speaker 1: For my text.

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Speaker 2: Hell, how is your Your list is so lucy goosey right,

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firewood or not?

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Speaker 3: I don't cooler?

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Speaker 2: Not like breakfast but we got it, Like, yeah, what

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is happening?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I don't feel safe, Like I don't feel good

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about this.

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Speaker 1: How did they not text you?

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Speaker 2: First of all two of the kids, no, all three

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of their kids are bringing a friend. So does everybody

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did everybody else get the communication that we're not do

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at seven amay and just not Xander.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is bizarre. No one answers the phone, he

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texts them, He texts his friend. No answer. So I'm like, okay,

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well are you.

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Speaker 2: Just sitting out front? We're sitting out front. But remember

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their neighbors, so they're like six blocks away.

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Speaker 3: So I go, well, we'll go back home. But now

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I'm like, I got to get my date. I got

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to walk the dog.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I wake, I make sure John's up, and

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I'm like, hey, he might need a ride over there, yeah,

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at any time. So I'm walking the dog literally like

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an hour later. Yeah, it was like eight fifteen when

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I saw that John had left with Xander. Then they're

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just there forever, Like you know, I'm checking on life

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threes sixty.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, now it's like.

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Speaker 2: Ten thirty and he's still still there, still at their house,

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still at the house. I'm like, what kind of camping

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trip is this? Yes, the camp early in the morning, Yeah,

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six hour drive. Yeah, you don't want to get there

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at night and set up your tent at night?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you would think.

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Speaker 2: But but then I have to go, like, when the

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fuck have I gone camping?

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Speaker 3: Who am I to dictate that that's true? She knows

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what she's doing. They go and this is this is my.

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Speaker 2: Final point about this, which I just think will make

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you laugh. So of course I can't stop life through

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sixty in him as sorry he is, and I'm going

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to do it again right now. I hope he never

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listens to this because I'm crazy.

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Speaker 3: So he left today, so yes, this was this morning.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So then they're in a parking lot. They're still there. Okay,

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he's been at a parking lot since eleven. It's one thirty,

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so for the last two and a half hours he's

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been this. They're not at like a camp any kind

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of camping area. He's like Ventura in a parking lot. Yeah,

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you know, I'm telling you there's a Did you ask

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him what's in a parking lot? There's like a credit

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union next to him and he's there for two and

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a half hours. No, I don't want to. I don't

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know what they're doing. It's Ventura. So maybe they had

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a pit stop at like the beach. Did they have

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to the beach? Did they Ventura?

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Speaker 1: But did they have to like maybe charge a car

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their car.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think so. No, I don't think it's

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them in the parking lot right now. I don't know,

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but no, I'm not that's over the top crazy.

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good deli. All right, so I'm almost done with this. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So last night Xander was I don't know what his

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deal was, but he went. He just decided, oh, he

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was going to leave for the gym, and I had

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to be the party pooper and say, well, the gym's closed, right,

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and he was like, no, it's not. It's open till eleven,

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and I go, no, it closed at seven, And then

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he got mad at me, and I don't know why.

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He was just like, no, it's open till eleven, and

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I go, honey, it's open until seven, Like do it

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you If you want to go there and see for yourself.

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Speaker 3: You can.

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Speaker 2: But it's a good long skateboard ride to the gym.

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So then he looks it up all like and he goes, oh, yeah,

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it's open till eleven, and he goes, but you said

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it like he told me. I said it too bossy

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or something, and I was like, you're you're in a

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bad mood. But I didn't go, you're in a bad mood.

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I just said, okay, I'm sorry. I was just like,

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didn't want you to waste a trip there. Yeah, when

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it's closed, So he goes. So he just leaves to go.

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Speaker 3: For a walk, and he took a freaking sunny walk.

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He took a two.

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Speaker 2: Hour walk linette around the neighborhood till it was eleven

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o'clock at night. I started texting him. I was going,

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what are you doing right? You've been walking around our

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neighborhood for hours.

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Speaker 3: That's so I leave you a living.

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Speaker 1: Were living parallel.

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Speaker 2: Lives, and this morning I didn't want to like totally

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bother him about it. But this morning, when I was

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driving him over to the non existent landing point to

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leave for the camping trip, right, I was like, are

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you okay? Like you were gone for a couple of hours,

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and he goes, I'm fine. He goes, I was on

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the phone. Yeah, I was like chatting on the phone,

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and I go, okay, yeah, yeah, he seemed fine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, listen, sunny does it all the time.

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Speaker 2: These kids in their solo endeavors, they they're getting old, right,

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tell me about so?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So last week during the week, I think it

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was like Tuesday. He was like, because Natalia was gone

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with her friends for a couple of days. And he

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was like, do you think I can take Natalia's car?

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Speaker 3: Your car? And I was like where?

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Speaker 1: And he goes to the Sequoia National Campsite.

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Speaker 3: Why, I said what.

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Speaker 1: He goes, yeah, I'm gonna I want to go camping

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and I go with who and he goes just me myself,

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And I was like, well, what. First of all, they

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went camping, I think with their school because I still

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have their sleeping bags with their names on it. I

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think they went like one trip or something like that.

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Speaker 3: That was it.

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Speaker 1: Like he's never been camping, especially alone, you know. And

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he's like, no, it's like it's up into Sequoia's It's

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about a five hour drive up by the like the

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Red by the big you know where the Big He

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wanted to go to Big Sur, he said, but the

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campgrounds were all full. So he found the campground in

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like King's Canyon in the Sequoias, five hours away.

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Speaker 3: I don't like it, That's what I said.

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Speaker 1: I was like, no, no, Sonny, no, He's like, listen,

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he goes, I already he goes the campsite, you can

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reserve it, and he said, look, I can show you

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on the map. There's all these other people that are

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camping near me. There's probably tons of families. And I go,

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but there's no, there's not going to be any Why

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so then I immediately like google the camp site's name

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and there's like, of course there's no Wi Fi. This

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is like a gateway to fan life, right, I know,

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isn't that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? What is it called van life? Is that?

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Speaker 1: What? What's the Gabby Potito? Yes, yeah, vamthing.

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Speaker 2: You know, he's got a vlog and he's just like

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cramsing around in like a van, in a van with

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his like circa carpeting on the bottom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean I was like, I said, he said, well,

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my friends are all out of town with their families

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right now the summer, you know, fourth of July. And

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he's like, I just think it would be fun, you know,

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I just want to go. And I was like okay,

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but you know, like and he's like, yeah, I'm gonna

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download stuff, so I I you know, I said, but

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00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,599
then I'm not gonna be able to see you on

467
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,519
my app, you know, and he's like.

468
00:23:12,559 --> 00:23:15,640
Speaker 3: Well, that's my issue too. I didn't like that.

469
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 1: So he's like, I'm just going one night. I'm just

470
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,119
going to drive up there. And I go, okay, well,

471
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,079
do you have a list of things? Like what are

472
00:23:23,079 --> 00:23:25,160
you going to eat? What are you gonna bring? How

473
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:26,519
are you going to charge your phone?

474
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 2: Right?

475
00:23:27,319 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 1: So he has he had brought two backup chargers. He

476
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,960
had us in the car to charge all his stuff.

477
00:23:33,519 --> 00:23:36,799
And he's like, it's fun. And we have lanterns because

478
00:23:36,799 --> 00:23:39,440
of our power goes out all the time. True, so

479
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,519
we have lanterns in the house. So I get he

480
00:23:41,599 --> 00:23:43,200
got the lanterns, got the flashlight.

481
00:23:43,279 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 3: Feel like you're gonna forget stuff though they think of

482
00:23:46,279 --> 00:23:48,960
and then you're gonna get there and be like, oh shit, yeah,

483
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,000
I don't have this.

484
00:23:50,039 --> 00:23:52,200
Speaker 2: Major thing that you need to be camping and then

485
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:53,359
you've driven five hours.

486
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 1: So I looked it up, like what what do you

487
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:56,640
need when you go camp? And it's like, you know,

488
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,599
toilet paper, I didn't even think of that, picker towels,

489
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,160
didn't they of that, you know? But he's got his

490
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:03,960
list and he went to the grocery store. He got

491
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,640
hot dogs and hot dog buns and like ketchup and mustard,

492
00:24:08,079 --> 00:24:09,759
and I'm like, is that all you're gonna eat? And

493
00:24:09,759 --> 00:24:11,759
he goes, we I'm gonna have a big meal and

494
00:24:11,799 --> 00:24:15,640
then like I'll eat you know. So then okay, So

495
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,920
so he makes his list, he gets he gets this

496
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,640
little cooler we had in the garage, and we have

497
00:24:20,759 --> 00:24:23,319
ice packs that were in the freezer that he could use.

498
00:24:23,799 --> 00:24:26,160
So he had his list of things. He had like

499
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,960
a long fork to roast the hot dogs on.

500
00:24:29,599 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 2: And I'm like, he's just gonna be by himself, by himself,

501
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:33,920
a little sad.

502
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 3: Well he's probably not sad.

503
00:24:35,799 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 2: No, he loves it, but i'd be sad, like just

504
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,000
next to the fire with the big fork, dog.

505
00:24:42,039 --> 00:24:47,319
Speaker 3: Right listening to his porn. Hey what she listened to? Oh? Nothing,

506
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,799
just some youborn some audio porn.

507
00:24:52,759 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 2: Is he going to try to like make friends with

508
00:24:54,519 --> 00:24:57,119
other camper? No, he just he said. So he gets

509
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,240
till he left at like ten in the morning.

510
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 3: So when was this week?

511
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:06,039
Speaker 1: This was last Thursday night, okay, Thursday night, coming home Friday.

512
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:10,319
So he left Thursday morning at like ten. I helped

513
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:14,960
him and then I got him a yoga mat. Oh,

514
00:25:15,039 --> 00:25:18,079
he got a tent and before he left, he put

515
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,200
the tent up in the backyard, so he knew how

516
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,680
to put the tent together. Okay, Yeah, so he got

517
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,119
this little tent. He could barely fit in it. Like

518
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:30,119
he had this sleep side like diagonal and.

519
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 3: So small tent. It was a small, like a pup

520
00:25:32,319 --> 00:25:33,119
top tent. Yeah.

521
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,799
Speaker 1: So he got that, put the cover over it so

522
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,400
it's like, you know, you can so people don't see

523
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,279
it or whatever. And then he like laid in there

524
00:25:41,319 --> 00:25:43,759
for a little bit and I'm like, well, you're you're

525
00:25:43,799 --> 00:25:45,480
just gonna have a sleeping bag, and I go, no,

526
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,359
I go let me. Let me go get you like

527
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,759
the yoga mats. I got him a yoga mat. He

528
00:25:49,839 --> 00:25:52,759
took that, got him a bunch of blankets, and I'm like,

529
00:25:52,839 --> 00:25:54,880
just take this. He goes, I don't need all these blankets,

530
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,799
and I go, just you're just you could be gets

531
00:25:56,799 --> 00:25:57,599
gonna get cold.

532
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:58,079
Speaker 2: Yeah.

533
00:25:58,160 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 1: He looked up the weather and it was gonna be

534
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,720
like in the forties at night. I'm like, that's kind

535
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,160
of cold. He's like, I'm gonna be fine. He's like,

536
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,039
I don't need all these blankets. But I gave him

537
00:26:07,039 --> 00:26:08,279
like two big blankets.

538
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 3: Did you have any concerns that he could get eaten

539
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:11,559
by a bear.

540
00:26:11,759 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: Well, that's what that. Yes, So he got like spray

541
00:26:14,799 --> 00:26:16,720
he got he I made him go get this because

542
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,039
he went and he was like, I'm gonna go get

543
00:26:18,079 --> 00:26:21,039
my list of stuff and he went to like Big

544
00:26:21,079 --> 00:26:23,599
five and he got like the spray and he got

545
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:24,759
a really good flashlight.

546
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 3: So, yeah, God, I.

547
00:26:28,799 --> 00:26:32,519
Speaker 2: Just unlocked a new fear level of for me. Bears bears.

548
00:26:32,519 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 1: Well, if the standard gets eaten by a bear, Linda,

549
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,720
there's bears, yes, And he said, I don't want to

550
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,759
freak you out. But he said, well, first of all,

551
00:26:40,759 --> 00:26:42,640
when he said, I go, well, what's gonna what am

552
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,599
I going to do when I when you're driving down

553
00:26:44,599 --> 00:26:47,880
that highway to the campsite and then you're just stuck

554
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,640
on that highway. I know that you lost the Wi

555
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,720
Fi and I'm just staring at you on the and

556
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,920
he goes, well, just think if I don't, he said,

557
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,519
I will. He said, there's a lodge really close to

558
00:26:57,079 --> 00:27:00,240
the campsite. And he said and they're open and like

559
00:27:00,319 --> 00:27:02,480
during the day until like ten o'clock at night. And

560
00:27:02,519 --> 00:27:04,799
he's like, so, if I can, I'll call you. If

561
00:27:04,799 --> 00:27:06,240
I can, I'll call you. And I go, what if

562
00:27:06,279 --> 00:27:07,599
you don't call me, and he goes, well, then I

563
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:08,480
got eaten by a bear.

564
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,039
Speaker 3: Oh no, he said, he said. But no, here's the

565
00:27:12,079 --> 00:27:13,599
other thing he told me when he got back.

566
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,319
Speaker 1: He said, on his hikes, because he was going on hikes,

567
00:27:16,759 --> 00:27:21,759
that there was sat like warning warning bear territory, bear territory,

568
00:27:22,279 --> 00:27:26,880
yeah wow, and signs everywhere, yeah for bears. But they're

569
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:31,839
the kind of bears. They're the the black bears. They're

570
00:27:31,839 --> 00:27:34,279
the kind of bears that are in Lakanyata that wander

571
00:27:34,319 --> 00:27:34,920
our streets.

572
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 3: They're just looking for food.

573
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 1: And they said to him, you can't have any food

574
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,799
in your car because the bears will go to your

575
00:27:41,799 --> 00:27:44,359
car and like cause damage. So you got to like

576
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:46,400
have a there's a thing where you have to lock

577
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:47,400
up all your food.

578
00:27:47,839 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 3: So you like got okay.

579
00:27:49,279 --> 00:27:53,079
Speaker 1: So then so he drives up there and I'm like

580
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:54,680
a nervous I'm like, I'm not gonna be able to

581
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:55,359
sleep tonight.

582
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:56,519
Speaker 3: I don't know what's going on.

583
00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,160
Speaker 2: I know, I thought like the skydiving was bad, right, right,

584
00:28:00,319 --> 00:28:01,319
what's with my kids?

585
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, So he's like it's gonna be fine.

586
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: He goes, I'm gonna go I know, he's gonna go

587
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,160
hiking on those trails, and I'm like, by himself.

588
00:28:09,279 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 2: I hear too many stories on like Citizen and the

589
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:16,680
news about lost hikers, right, buddy, at least, yes, I know.

590
00:28:16,799 --> 00:28:20,759
But he goes to find one fucking friend to go with. No,

591
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:22,279
he wanted to go by himself.

592
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,319
Speaker 1: When he's in Eugene, he goes on these long hikes,

593
00:28:25,319 --> 00:28:28,319
sometimes with his friend, sometimes by himself up until like

594
00:28:28,319 --> 00:28:30,759
and then he'll take a picture of like up and huge,

595
00:28:31,799 --> 00:28:33,640
all the way up on top of some big mountain,

596
00:28:33,799 --> 00:28:36,319
you know, like and it's like a three hour hike

597
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,599
kind of thing. So he goes on these kind of

598
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:42,079
hikes in Oregon. So I'm like, okay, Kinder likes that

599
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,200
kind of thing too. Yeah, it's weird.

600
00:28:44,279 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 3: Korean Xander really should be fun.

601
00:28:45,799 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: They really should. There's so much alike. Yeah, and so okay.

602
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,160
So then so okay. So now it's like, so I

603
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,160
see him on the map and he's now he's lost

604
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,160
wi Fi. So I'm like, okay, I'm hope and it's

605
00:28:57,319 --> 00:29:00,680
said near the camp he was like almost there, Like okay,

606
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,279
so he's probably okay. So around nine o'clock at night,

607
00:29:04,759 --> 00:29:07,119
I get a text from him. Oh and it says

608
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,279
Sonny's texting through satellite and it has like a picture

609
00:29:10,279 --> 00:29:12,839
of a It was weird. Oh and I was like, okay,

610
00:29:13,599 --> 00:29:16,000
I go, what's what's going on? Oh? The other thing

611
00:29:16,119 --> 00:29:18,279
is my friend Mike Gerstein was to tell him to

612
00:29:18,279 --> 00:29:23,319
get he should get those they're these those little disks

613
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:26,480
where remember it's too late now, and it was too

614
00:29:26,559 --> 00:29:28,079
late for him. He didn't have time to get it.

615
00:29:28,119 --> 00:29:31,000
But there's those what there's all these like air tags

616
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,640
so like you know, you get lost or whatever.

617
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,079
Speaker 3: But he didn't. He didn't.

618
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:37,839
Speaker 1: I was like, please stop and get one of those.

619
00:29:37,839 --> 00:29:40,079
He's like, I went. They didn't have him at Target,

620
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,640
so I didn't get one. And I was like, oh great, okay. Anyway,

621
00:29:43,039 --> 00:29:44,680
so around nine o'clock at night, I get a text

622
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:48,480
from him and he's like excuse me. He goes, can

623
00:29:48,519 --> 00:29:50,319
you look up and see how to make a camp?

624
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:51,440
How to make a fire?

625
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:56,599
Speaker 2: No? I was like, what something you The one thing

626
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,680
that is bad about not having Wi Fi is no

627
00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:01,920
U tube videos, no YouTube videos.

628
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: And also I thought to myself, he must know how

629
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,480
to make a fire since there's going to be a

630
00:30:07,519 --> 00:30:09,480
fire pit. So I didn't, you know, and he was

631
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,720
saying he was gonna make the hot dogs. So he's like,

632
00:30:12,119 --> 00:30:14,000
can you just know I kind of know the gist

633
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,079
of it, but like, can you just tell me, like what.

634
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:17,559
Speaker 3: Kind of sticks to stuff something?

635
00:30:17,599 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: I got to start it, So I go to chat

636
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,599
ebt and I take a screenshot. It won't send the

637
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:25,039
screenshot to him, and then I try and send him

638
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,559
the actual chat beat won't send. Nothing will send it.

639
00:30:27,839 --> 00:30:30,519
So I had to type it all out and it's gone.

640
00:30:30,559 --> 00:30:33,200
I'm typing step by step by step, and at one

641
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,279
point he goes, I know all this, just give me

642
00:30:35,359 --> 00:30:37,480
the just give me the gist or something, and I'm like,

643
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,119
I'm just giving you everything it's saying, and it's just

644
00:30:40,279 --> 00:30:42,160
it's step by step by step. And then I don't

645
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,279
hear back from him, and I'm like, did it work?

646
00:30:44,319 --> 00:30:45,200
Did nothing?

647
00:30:45,559 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 3: Don't hear? Don't hear from him again.

648
00:30:47,519 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 1: That was that.

649
00:30:48,839 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 3: So then the night goes on.

650
00:30:52,319 --> 00:30:54,839
Speaker 1: Then it's the next day into Friday, and I know

651
00:30:55,039 --> 00:30:56,839
he's going to go on. I know that he's got

652
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,000
to be out of the campsite by noon, right.

653
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:07,559
Speaker 2: I wrote it prop against all all common wisdom, common sense.

654
00:31:07,799 --> 00:31:10,160
I would have probably watched some one of those movies

655
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:11,880
about the guy who got like eaten by a bear,

656
00:31:12,079 --> 00:31:16,319
the guy who photographed bears now and then he got

657
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,799
eaten by a bear I think with his wife, right, yeah.

658
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:20,079
Speaker 3: He was a grizzly bear.

659
00:31:21,319 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 2: Yes. And then the other one about the guy who

660
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,039
like pulled over and was like going to go eat

661
00:31:26,119 --> 00:31:28,880
berries and he went and lived in the wilderness and

662
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,559
then he died of like he got malled. I don't

663
00:31:31,559 --> 00:31:33,799
know he ate No, he ate some like poison berries.

664
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,039
Oh oh yeah, remember that guy?

665
00:31:36,319 --> 00:31:38,079
Speaker 1: No, I got it, Okay, I got to look up

666
00:31:38,119 --> 00:31:41,880
that story. Yeah, go ahead, Okay. So so the next day, Okay,

667
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:43,319
I know he's got to be out of the campsite

668
00:31:43,319 --> 00:31:45,200
by noon, but I know he's probably going to go

669
00:31:45,759 --> 00:31:48,279
hiking because he got there late the first night, right,

670
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,680
and I don't think he went hiking at night. So

671
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,359
the next day, so I'm giving him a few hours. Now,

672
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:58,960
it's like four o'clock, five o'clock. He hasn't moved from

673
00:31:59,119 --> 00:32:02,480
the last time on my map, like where he is

674
00:32:02,759 --> 00:32:05,480
because there's no Wi Fi. Right, So I'm thinking, okay,

675
00:32:05,559 --> 00:32:07,279
but eventually he's got to get on the road and

676
00:32:07,319 --> 00:32:13,279
he's gonna Okay, four o'clock, five o'clock, six o'clock. I'm

677
00:32:13,319 --> 00:32:16,200
calling him, no no answer, He hasn't moved on the map,

678
00:32:16,599 --> 00:32:19,200
still says he's in the same spot, says it says

679
00:32:19,559 --> 00:32:22,000
twenty four hours late, you know, like where he was

680
00:32:22,079 --> 00:32:24,319
like at the same spot. And I'm like, okay, what

681
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,920
so I even though I know this is like watching

682
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,720
a movie, because I'm telling you, my heart is literally

683
00:32:30,799 --> 00:32:33,519
like a pitter pat, like I'm stressed for you, and

684
00:32:33,559 --> 00:32:35,839
I know it all worked out. I know it did

685
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:36,240
work out.

686
00:32:36,279 --> 00:32:38,599
Speaker 2: Imagine if we're recording right now and you're like and

687
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:39,839
I'm like and then what happened?

688
00:32:39,839 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 3: And you're like, I don't know he's still.

689
00:32:43,599 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 1: When that I don't call my one why you know?

690
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 3: Right?

691
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 1: So it's still okay, it's six now.

692
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 3: I'm thinking it's gonna start getting dark. Where why is

693
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:52,200
anty on the road?

694
00:32:52,799 --> 00:32:56,039
Speaker 1: So I'm like, uh so I call like that like

695
00:32:56,079 --> 00:32:58,039
that lot, like the campsite.

696
00:32:58,759 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 2: If you did, And I was just like, my son

697
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,480
was camping and spot twenty five.

698
00:33:06,119 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: Can you go check that? You know, I haven't heard

699
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,680
from him? And then she's like she was really nice.

700
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,319
She's like, Okay, well I'll just send somebody to see

701
00:33:13,519 --> 00:33:14,880
what kind of car does he have? And he gave

702
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,519
him the car and everything, and they're like, okay, so

703
00:33:18,079 --> 00:33:22,000
we'll call you back. And then they called me back

704
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,920
a few minutes later and they're like, yeah, he's not

705
00:33:24,119 --> 00:33:27,440
there anymore. We don't see his car. So I'm like, okay,

706
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:28,599
all right, thanks.

707
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,039
Speaker 3: You're like, can you probably an investigator?

708
00:33:31,079 --> 00:33:35,759
Speaker 2: Can you just start checking the surveillance camera, call the helicopter?

709
00:33:38,039 --> 00:33:39,359
Speaker 3: Oh my god, so what happened?

710
00:33:39,839 --> 00:33:42,119
Speaker 1: So now I'm like, okay, I have to trust him,

711
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,720
and I'm going to give it some more time. And

712
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:51,079
around seven o'clock he called me and I was like, oh,

713
00:33:51,119 --> 00:33:53,640
you gotta give me that phone answered it. So I'm

714
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,440
like I had the phone next to me all day,

715
00:33:55,559 --> 00:33:58,119
ring her on high right, and also in my house.

716
00:33:58,359 --> 00:34:00,880
Sometimes when people call me, he goes to my voicemail

717
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:01,920
same and I.

718
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 3: Can't stand that. I'm like, well, I will do see.

719
00:34:04,279 --> 00:34:05,160
I'll do the same thing.

720
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,079
Speaker 2: If I'm waiting for a phone call and I'm just

721
00:34:07,079 --> 00:34:08,800
like looking at my phone. I don't want it to

722
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:09,760
missake right.

723
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: Right, because I sometimes people are like, yeah, I called

724
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,960
you yesterday. I'm like, I didn't see that you called anyway,

725
00:34:15,559 --> 00:34:18,280
So I'm like, oh my god. Where So He's like,

726
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,360
I had to stop at a hotel to get Wi Fi.

727
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,199
I met some hotel lobby to get Wi Fi. But

728
00:34:23,199 --> 00:34:25,039
I'm on my way home. He's like, I should be

729
00:34:25,119 --> 00:34:27,639
home by eleven. And I was like, okay, everything good,

730
00:34:27,679 --> 00:34:29,239
and he goes, yeah, it was great. I'll tell you

731
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:31,400
what I'm all about it when I get back. And

732
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:34,199
he came home and unloaded the car and he was

733
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:39,239
showing me pictures and he went on a fourteen mile hike.

734
00:34:41,119 --> 00:34:45,800
Yeah yeah, And I was like, what what the He's like,

735
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,960
I downloaded all these like you know, UFC fights and

736
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,639
sports stuff and like had all that stuff. I had

737
00:34:51,679 --> 00:34:53,519
to go to the hotel and like reach our like

738
00:34:53,599 --> 00:34:54,920
redownload more stuff.

739
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 3: And he was like, yeah, it was great. I had

740
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:57,559
a great time.

741
00:34:57,920 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 1: So yeah, there's a lot of people on the trails,

742
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,760
you know, and there's trails that are marked easy you know,

743
00:35:03,159 --> 00:35:05,760
moderate like horror like experience. He's like, you know, I

744
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,639
just went on like the kind of the easy trails

745
00:35:07,679 --> 00:35:10,559
and just kept going. He showed me all these waterfalls

746
00:35:10,599 --> 00:35:13,000
that he came upon and like yeah, he was like,

747
00:35:13,039 --> 00:35:14,239
isn't it It's beautiful.

748
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 3: It's so beautiful. I'm like, okay, I don't have that.

749
00:35:17,559 --> 00:35:20,039
Speaker 2: I'm kind of jealous though, I feel like, oh, if

750
00:35:20,079 --> 00:35:24,400
I could just you know, what do you call it?

751
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:26,039
Speaker 3: Like being myself too?

752
00:35:26,199 --> 00:35:27,559
Speaker 2: Like I don't want any of it, and you and

753
00:35:27,639 --> 00:35:29,440
I have talked about this for years, because same with

754
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:29,840
the beach.

755
00:35:30,039 --> 00:35:31,679
Speaker 3: I don't want any of the prep work.

756
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:33,639
Speaker 2: Right, if I could, just if you could just put

757
00:35:33,639 --> 00:35:35,960
me at the beach at last meet at the I

758
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:37,519
don't want to drive and I don't want to do

759
00:35:37,559 --> 00:35:39,840
a five hour drive. Just put me on a hiking

760
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,039
trail that's like an easy hiking trail at a campsite.

761
00:35:43,519 --> 00:35:49,880
It's nice and it has bathrooms. Yes, great, great, right yeah, yeah.

762
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,519
He was totally fine, like he loved it. And I'm like, okay,

763
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,079
they're not going to do that again? Are you anytime soon?

764
00:35:55,119 --> 00:35:57,000
And he's like, I don't know. Like his friends want

765
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,039
to go camping. He goes, but my friends and I

766
00:35:59,039 --> 00:36:01,280
can never get on the statee. They're not like Natalian

767
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:03,920
her friends Like one's like, oh, I can't do it

768
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:04,440
this weekend.

769
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 1: How about we don't want to go to this one

770
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,400
how a But they all just end up arguing, he says,

771
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,239
and we can never make a plan. He's like, but

772
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,679
they do want to go camping. I'm like, okay, that's

773
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:14,880
like good, like go camping with your friends. But like

774
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:17,039
he's like no, He's like, I'm glad I did it.

775
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:17,599
Speaker 3: It was fun.

776
00:36:18,079 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 1: He's like I made the fire. He was like it

777
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,880
came out good. And he was like it actually got

778
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,599
kind of big, and I got a little worried.

779
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 3: For a second.

780
00:36:25,039 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: It's like I made my hot dogs and had my

781
00:36:27,519 --> 00:36:29,519
hot dog and then went to bed and he's like,

782
00:36:29,559 --> 00:36:33,239
I slept fine, got up early, packed up. I was

783
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,480
like okay, and then like ate another hot dog I

784
00:36:36,519 --> 00:36:39,119
think for breakfast, and then he had all these snacks

785
00:36:39,159 --> 00:36:39,760
and stuff like.

786
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 3: So he went on the fourteen mile hike the next day.

787
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:46,800
Speaker 1: The next day yeah yeah, and then got in and

788
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:51,679
out on the way home. Yeah, And he like loved

789
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,679
it and he was really happy. He was like, yeah,

790
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:54,599
it's glad he did it.

791
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:59,599
Speaker 3: He's so brave. I know, I don't. I know, that's

792
00:36:59,599 --> 00:37:02,559
really cool cool. Yeah yeah, yeah.

793
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 1: And you know, and then he said, towards the end

794
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,960
of his long hike, he did oh, his battery was

795
00:37:08,039 --> 00:37:10,519
dying on his phone, so he didn't have anything to

796
00:37:10,559 --> 00:37:13,880
listen to for like the last hour and I said,

797
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:14,360
was that tough?

798
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,760
Speaker 3: And he goes, Eah, it was okay. I didn't love it,

799
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:17,800
but and I.

800
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,239
Speaker 1: Was thinking, I told him, I go, you know, when

801
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,239
you were younger, Sonny, Now that I think about it,

802
00:37:21,599 --> 00:37:23,800
he used to like when we would go swimming and stuff.

803
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,679
After we get out of the pool, like we'd go inside,

804
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:29,480
he always would sit outside in his towel and just

805
00:37:29,519 --> 00:37:31,480
like we would say, like he'd just sit there and

806
00:37:31,519 --> 00:37:34,960
like ponder, you know, just sit there and like look around,

807
00:37:35,039 --> 00:37:38,639
like sip his little uh juice box. And I'm like,

808
00:37:38,679 --> 00:37:39,960
son you want to come and say. He's like, nah,

809
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,519
I'm okay. Like he would be cool by himself. He

810
00:37:42,639 --> 00:37:45,760
was always that way, you know, not like Natalia that

811
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:47,440
has to have friends around twenty four seven.

812
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 3: So he's always been that way, and he loved it.

813
00:37:53,559 --> 00:37:57,079
Speaker 2: Xander is kind of a mix though, because I mean,

814
00:37:57,159 --> 00:37:57,800
I don't I don't.

815
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 3: I can't see Xander going camping by himself.

816
00:38:00,119 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 2: But maybe he'll have the greatest time doing this, but

817
00:38:03,079 --> 00:38:04,760
he likes to be around friends.

818
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

819
00:38:05,599 --> 00:38:10,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, but can you imagine because it wasn't that long ago,

820
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,480
it seems like when we wouldn't have had the option

821
00:38:12,559 --> 00:38:15,480
of downloading some podcasts to listen to on a hike.

822
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 3: Right, and go on a hike, you look at nature.

823
00:38:18,119 --> 00:38:21,559
Speaker 2: Yeah that tree, right, read a little placard thing that

824
00:38:21,639 --> 00:38:23,719
tells you about the tree and like what you're going

825
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,199
to see, And that was your It was like when

826
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,719
you were really little and you'd only have reading the

827
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:30,079
side of.

828
00:38:30,079 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 1: The cereal box exactly in the morning. I would just

829
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,239
sit there and stare at the cereal box, right, yeah,

830
00:38:36,639 --> 00:38:37,760
so so funny.

831
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 2: Read it like a shampoo bottle while you're pumping, you

832
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:43,559
know what I mean, Like like you're desperate.

833
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 3: Yes, so imagine like when you.

834
00:38:46,159 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 2: Go for a hike, you have no Our brains probably

835
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,519
did a lot better back then because you either talk

836
00:38:52,599 --> 00:38:57,119
to your sibling or read about the wildlife that you're seeing.

837
00:38:57,199 --> 00:38:59,559
Even though to me that was always the most boring

838
00:38:59,599 --> 00:39:01,559
part of the Yes, I don't care what kind of

839
00:39:01,599 --> 00:39:03,960
tree it is, but if you're desperate and that's.

840
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 3: The only thing you have to entertain you, right and learn?

841
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 1: Yeah you will yeah yeah, so yeah, and yeah it

842
00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,239
was an experience, so it wasn't really exciting for me.

843
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:17,880
I was very like nerve wracking the whole time. I

844
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,400
had anxiety and was like okay, but I had to trust.

845
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,760
I'm like, even with the fire thing that night.

846
00:39:22,679 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 3: And I didn't hear back.

847
00:39:23,519 --> 00:39:26,679
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'm yeah, I'm sure he's okay kind of,

848
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:28,320
I'm sure he figured it out.

849
00:39:28,639 --> 00:39:31,559
Speaker 3: So I get nervous.

850
00:39:31,679 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 2: I'm already like that, See what am I going to do?

851
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,360
First of all, at least Xander is with other people,

852
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,840
thank god, thank god. Yeah, but when I went camping

853
00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,760
when I was a kid, Well, I'm doing another yea

854
00:39:44,159 --> 00:39:44,519
three six.

855
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,639
Speaker 1: I don't know why they're why they're stuck in Ventura.

856
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 2: He's still there? Why still there? So it's almost two

857
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:54,159
o'clock in the afternoon. When are they going to? But

858
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,760
this is the It is funny that that's how controlling

859
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:58,920
I am. Well, are you going to Big Surr or not?

860
00:39:59,039 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 3: Like what's going on?

861
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,760
Speaker 1: He like these people are?

862
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,840
Speaker 2: I would like, we're gonna make some stops, like, you know,

863
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:06,280
I don't know what's the I.

864
00:40:06,199 --> 00:40:08,119
Speaker 1: Would have texted him and asked him what's going on?

865
00:40:08,559 --> 00:40:11,199
By now, I just don't want you don't want to.

866
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:15,119
I don't because why do I care? Like they're on

867
00:40:15,159 --> 00:40:18,000
a camping trip yet I don't go. Yeah, maybe they

868
00:40:18,079 --> 00:40:19,639
stopped at some state park.

869
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 2: To like. But I don't know why the parking would

870
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,840
be next to a credit union, right, it seemed like

871
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,880
a state park. But I don't know. Maybe she's like

872
00:40:28,679 --> 00:40:34,480
starting a bank account at a credit aware if they just

873
00:40:34,519 --> 00:40:37,760
get into some weird illegal like they're there to actually

874
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,599
like smuggle drum. I don't know, and she's like, all

875
00:40:40,599 --> 00:40:44,280
these kids are a smoke screen for some crazy they're.

876
00:40:44,039 --> 00:40:45,559
Speaker 3: Going to go make bombs. I don't know.

877
00:40:46,159 --> 00:40:49,519
Speaker 1: I don't know. He's listening to this, but so are

878
00:40:49,559 --> 00:40:52,079
you can't Are you going to be able to communicate

879
00:40:52,079 --> 00:40:53,679
with him for the next week while he's there.

880
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:57,320
Speaker 2: Well, here's one of the problems. You think Sonny had

881
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,400
a back, Like he's bringing back up chargers. Xander's phone

882
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:04,039
has the worst battery. Yeah, there's seven people that are

883
00:41:04,039 --> 00:41:05,960
going to need a charger in the car. And also

884
00:41:06,079 --> 00:41:09,519
Xander's phone is a slightly older model, so he uses

885
00:41:10,519 --> 00:41:11,360
he's not on the.

886
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,199
Speaker 3: Same but yeah, we'll plug the plug.

887
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I sent him with a backup charge and

888
00:41:17,639 --> 00:41:21,239
then a two backup chargers. Yeah, but that's gonna last

889
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:22,039
like a couple of days.

890
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,639
Speaker 1: But then he can can he charge that charger in

891
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:29,400
the car to get it charged up? Again, so he

892
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,599
could charge his maybe, but even then he doesn't have

893
00:41:31,639 --> 00:41:35,519
Wi Fi though, right, so, how is he ever gonna cloud?

894
00:41:35,599 --> 00:41:37,559
Speaker 3: Is he gonna? Did you talk to him? Asked him.

895
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:39,239
I don't freaking know.

896
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 2: I'm scared. Yeah, you're making me nervous. I'm sorry, But

897
00:41:42,079 --> 00:41:44,079
saying that, no, it's not great.

898
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:46,039
Speaker 3: It's not a great situation for me.

899
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,119
Speaker 2: I have to just feel like when I was a kid,

900
00:41:50,679 --> 00:41:55,960
we went camping all the time. I mean, nothing bad happened, right,

901
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,880
These people go camping. This is their thing they love

902
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,840
to do. They go camping every year. Yeah, so they

903
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,039
must I should. I'm grateful they asked him to go.

904
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,280
It's something new for him to do, right, I think

905
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:12,679
he'll have fun. I do remember very visceral memory of

906
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:14,920
being on a camping trip as a kid and there

907
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:18,800
was a tarantula and it was I my kid brain

908
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:23,400
remembers it as being the biggest spider, like in my brain,

909
00:42:23,679 --> 00:42:25,559
like it looked like the size of that globe.

910
00:42:26,119 --> 00:42:28,599
Speaker 3: My god, in my brain it was super big and

911
00:42:28,679 --> 00:42:29,440
it was big.

912
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:33,119
Speaker 2: And I do remember that my stepfather had to catch

913
00:42:33,159 --> 00:42:36,840
it in like a plastic container and put it over

914
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,360
the top of it. And then I don't know what

915
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,800
they did with it. Do you ever see tarantulas that

916
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:44,239
people keep as a pet and they're really big? Yeah,

917
00:42:44,679 --> 00:42:45,599
Black and Harry.

918
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, my friend Jen has one in.

919
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:52,559
Speaker 2: The middle of our campsite and I never really forgot that.

920
00:42:52,679 --> 00:42:54,639
I was like, so that thing could have just crawled

921
00:42:54,679 --> 00:42:59,199
on us and like bitten us. Right, Although the tulas

922
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,679
are not me, No, they don't like they're not out.

923
00:43:01,519 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 1: To No, that's what I hear. Yeah, on the Transla streets.

924
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 2: So maybe sliding doors. Maybe in another world we could

925
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:10,119
have like become best friends.

926
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:10,800
Speaker 3: Yeah we could.

927
00:43:12,519 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 1: Well, I have a story for you that you might

928
00:43:14,559 --> 00:43:16,239
it'll get your mind off of this. And I want

929
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,400
to know what you think, Okay about this story that

930
00:43:19,559 --> 00:43:24,039
just happened. There's video of it of parents that are

931
00:43:24,039 --> 00:43:29,239
on vacation from Texas in Florida on some like beach

932
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,599
of a hotel like the mehor May Hotel, like a

933
00:43:32,679 --> 00:43:37,519
nice hotel. They have like four kids, so they left

934
00:43:37,679 --> 00:43:42,880
their six month old baby sleeping in the tent and

935
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,159
they took the other kids and they went on a

936
00:43:45,159 --> 00:43:48,639
long walk and they were gone for like over an hour,

937
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,599
and they got a call. So people surround the kids

938
00:43:52,599 --> 00:43:57,480
started crying and like they do like they do, and

939
00:43:57,519 --> 00:44:00,519
the people from the hotel so that people around were like,

940
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,719
you know, they called the police. So the police came

941
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,400
out and they were like some woman was like holding

942
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:09,639
the baby and she's like the baby was crying, and

943
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:13,119
I just I didn't there's nobody around. And they then

944
00:44:13,199 --> 00:44:17,320
somebody else said to the police the dad was really

945
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:21,360
like mean and yelling at the kids. Yeah, and he's

946
00:44:21,599 --> 00:44:24,440
and so they said. The people around the tent said like, yeah,

947
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,159
they've been gone. We don't know where they are. Here's

948
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:29,159
the baby's crying. This is their baby and the cops

949
00:44:29,199 --> 00:44:32,639
and so even then, like they're gone for so long,

950
00:44:33,199 --> 00:44:36,119
like if you're walking back and you see cops around

951
00:44:36,199 --> 00:44:39,360
your shit, you'd be like running like what the fuck?

952
00:44:39,559 --> 00:44:42,880
Right like they were, they were still like so far away,

953
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:45,719
and they kind of like just casually walk up and

954
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,280
it's all on police camp and they're like they're like,

955
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,119
are you the parents of the of this child? And

956
00:44:50,119 --> 00:44:52,440
they go, oh yeah, it's so sorry. They go, well,

957
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,000
you know, this is considered child abuse and this is

958
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,119
a big deal. Yeah, And they're telling the dad and

959
00:44:59,159 --> 00:45:02,880
the dad was like the dad was like, oh, I

960
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,000
understand you just have you do your job. He goes,

961
00:45:06,039 --> 00:45:08,719
but we're really sorry, like we just lost track of

962
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:12,360
time and wall track of time. Yeah, lost track of time,

963
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:12,840
but it's.

964
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:14,760
Speaker 3: Going you can't go for a walk.

965
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:18,639
Speaker 1: Left the baby in the tent. What I'm saying like, we.

966
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:21,599
Speaker 3: Lost track of time. Anybody could have stolen your baby, right,

967
00:45:22,079 --> 00:45:23,559
I know. And it was so hot.

968
00:45:23,639 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 1: The baby was crying, baby was sweating inside that tent,

969
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,599
and they were so the dad was like, yeah, I know,

970
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,239
I know you're doing your big up, but we lost

971
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:33,960
track of time, and you know, we're really really sorry.

972
00:45:34,119 --> 00:45:35,599
Speaker 3: We you know, blah blah blah.

973
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 1: And and that's when the other lady was like to

974
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,280
the other cop like, hey, this this dad's kind of

975
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:41,840
a dick. He was like yelling at the kids too.

976
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:43,960
Just want to throw that out there, and they were

977
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:47,119
like okay, uh and then they said oh. Then the

978
00:45:47,159 --> 00:45:50,039
mom comes up and she's like, she's like, can we

979
00:45:50,119 --> 00:45:52,280
can we go somewhere where it's not so hot and talk?

980
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:53,280
Speaker 3: Can we go upstairs?

981
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:55,599
Speaker 2: We were like, oh wait, talk about this where we

982
00:45:55,679 --> 00:46:00,320
left our baby right right, We just were somewhere more chill, right.

983
00:46:00,519 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 1: So they go somewhere like where it's covered and they're

984
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:04,880
still talking to the dad and and they're like, you know,

985
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,599
this is we're going to have to call child Protective Services.

986
00:46:07,639 --> 00:46:10,480
And they're like, oh my god, really like you know,

987
00:46:10,679 --> 00:46:12,639
like this is can we go talk about it?

988
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:14,719
Speaker 3: So then they go, okay, let's go up stairs for

989
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,119
an out. You can't leave your six month old child

990
00:46:17,159 --> 00:46:19,480
for like an hour? Yeah, what kind of what is this?

991
00:46:19,639 --> 00:46:21,079
Not America exactly?

992
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 1: So we're like they're like, okay, well we can take

993
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:27,039
every Let's go upstairs to your room. The mom goes like, well,

994
00:46:27,039 --> 00:46:29,800
wait a minute, I don't want to when we pack up,

995
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:31,920
I don't want all the sand to come with us.

996
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 3: So we got to get the sand.

997
00:46:33,079 --> 00:46:36,800
Speaker 1: Like she's like like, oh my god. To the cop,

998
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,320
she's like, wait, we got before. I gotta I gotta

999
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:41,880
shake the sand out. So then they go up. Then

1000
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:44,039
they go to the room and then they're they're like, okay,

1001
00:46:44,079 --> 00:46:46,599
we're you know, what do you mean the room? So

1002
00:46:46,639 --> 00:46:48,760
they I guess they went up to their room to

1003
00:46:49,559 --> 00:46:52,840
go They weren't camping, No, they were in this hotel,

1004
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:56,039
this really nice hotel, and you know, like the hotels

1005
00:46:56,039 --> 00:46:58,440
have the beach out there, you know, with the chairs

1006
00:46:58,519 --> 00:47:00,280
and stuff. So they were on the beach each and

1007
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:04,679
their hotel room was upstairs, so they wanted to go upstairs.

1008
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:06,760
Speaker 3: So they left their baby. That's almost worse.

1009
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: They left their baby. They left their baby. Yes, So

1010
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,119
they went to the beach, they parked their shit, they

1011
00:47:11,159 --> 00:47:14,000
put the ptent up, the baby, took a nap. They

1012
00:47:14,119 --> 00:47:16,199
left with the other three kids to go on a

1013
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:17,239
walk down the beach.

1014
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,920
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, you left your baby on the beach, right right.

1015
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:23,079
So they're like, okay. So the cops are like, got no,

1016
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:26,559
like the Madeline McCain's story, the like have they never

1017
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,079
watched a dateline And they're a lot.

1018
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 1: Right, what if like the tide got big and came up,

1019
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:36,719
like anything could have happened? Yeah, anything, shark, I don't know,

1020
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,719
you know. So they go upstairs to their room and

1021
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,400
because the cops are like we're taking the kids, you know,

1022
00:47:43,559 --> 00:47:46,159
and they wouldn't even let her like hold the baby.

1023
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:48,519
Speaker 3: The baby. They're like, these kids are now going.

1024
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 1: To be in Child Protective Service custody and you guys

1025
00:47:51,519 --> 00:47:55,079
are getting arrested. And they're like the mom was like

1026
00:47:55,519 --> 00:47:57,960
wait what She's like I have to pump, Like I

1027
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,559
have to feed my baby. Can I and they're like, well, man,

1028
00:48:00,599 --> 00:48:03,840
we're too bad. Like and then the dad goes. They said,

1029
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:05,920
unless you have family nearby that we can give the

1030
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:07,760
kids too. And the dad goes, well, my dad lives

1031
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:11,000
like nine hours away, but he can come out. So

1032
00:48:11,639 --> 00:48:14,360
they're like okay, and he goes. But then in the meantime, Mike,

1033
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:16,239
where when my kids are going to do? And they're like, well,

1034
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:17,960
they're going to be in child protective services.

1035
00:48:18,079 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 3: Okay, well your dad is getting a little crazy.

1036
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and your dad can come pick them up, and

1037
00:48:23,679 --> 00:48:24,880
so he calls the dad.

1038
00:48:25,039 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 3: I guess I love separating the baby from the breastfeeding mom.

1039
00:48:28,559 --> 00:48:30,119
That's what they're doing. They are not.

1040
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: They're getting arrested, both parents for child abuse.

1041
00:48:34,199 --> 00:48:36,800
Speaker 2: I can't decide. I know right now, I'm not for

1042
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,639
leaving your baby for an hour. They left the baby

1043
00:48:39,639 --> 00:48:41,880
for an hour and it was just crying on the

1044
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:42,840
beach by itself.

1045
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:48,400
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, so the abusive right for sure? Right, But

1046
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:52,039
is the answer to that to like take the to

1047
00:48:52,159 --> 00:48:54,320
be more abusive and take a baby away.

1048
00:48:54,519 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 3: Well that's what the dad was saying.

1049
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: The dad was like, my kids are going to be traumatized,

1050
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:02,199
Like we're on vacation and now parents are getting taken

1051
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,079
away and now they're going to be with strangers for

1052
00:49:04,119 --> 00:49:07,119
the next nine hours till my dad gets here and

1053
00:49:07,159 --> 00:49:08,079
the baby.

1054
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 3: And she's like, can I pump?

1055
00:49:09,519 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 2: You know?

1056
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 1: And they were like, I guess they let her pump,

1057
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,639
and she wanted to bring the pump with her to jail.

1058
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:16,679
She asked that. I don't know if they said yes

1059
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:18,599
or no. Then she said, can I take a shower

1060
00:49:18,679 --> 00:49:22,519
before we go? They're like, no, you're going to jail

1061
00:49:23,159 --> 00:49:24,280
like you were arresting you.

1062
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 2: Oh.

1063
00:49:25,639 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 3: Then they show them like.

1064
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,079
Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about they show them

1065
00:49:29,119 --> 00:49:32,159
like putting them in handcuffs and putting them in the

1066
00:49:32,159 --> 00:49:33,880
back of this like you.

1067
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:38,840
Speaker 2: Know, okay, No, No, I think they lost me on that. No,

1068
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:43,280
you can't do that, right, that's way worse for the kids. Yeah, well,

1069
00:49:43,679 --> 00:49:44,360
what do you do?

1070
00:49:45,679 --> 00:49:47,519
Speaker 3: I mean, they're not going to be like, here's a ticket,

1071
00:49:47,559 --> 00:49:49,440
see you in court. Well, I was going to say

1072
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:50,920
that's probably the better.

1073
00:49:50,679 --> 00:49:53,960
Speaker 1: Option, though I don't think that that's the I don't

1074
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,880
think they can do that if they left their baby

1075
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,960
alone for over an hour in the tent and the

1076
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,599
baby's crying, and you know.

1077
00:50:01,599 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 3: I'm sure that they'll probably.

1078
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: I think they posted bail and got out, but I

1079
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:10,280
think the dad's father, the grandfather, came took nine hours,

1080
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:13,440
so the kids were in custody for like, I don't know,

1081
00:50:13,519 --> 00:50:16,880
ten twelve hours till the granddad got there. And then

1082
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:18,920
I think they went to jail and got arraigned or

1083
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:20,440
whatever and then got bailed out.

1084
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:22,800
Speaker 3: And I wonder if they got their kids back right away.

1085
00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 1: Yeah that I don't know. They'll look it up. Maybe

1086
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:30,840
it's out there. I'm not crazy, so yeah, like, what

1087
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:31,360
do you do?

1088
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 3: What do you think?

1089
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 1: I don't like the fact that they like did separated,

1090
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:40,440
that they had to arrest them right there on the

1091
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:43,199
spot with the kids and stuff. The kids were like upset.

1092
00:50:43,519 --> 00:50:47,280
They're little kids. They don't understand where's mom and dad going?

1093
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,039
Like we're on a vacation and all of a sudden,

1094
00:50:49,039 --> 00:50:51,440
mom and dad are gone, and then the baby is

1095
00:50:51,559 --> 00:50:53,159
breastfeet begetting breastfed.

1096
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:54,320
Speaker 3: Yeah that's not okay.

1097
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:58,320
Speaker 1: So but I guess I guess that's if it's the

1098
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:02,960
law that if that happens, yeah, you get arrested, you know.

1099
00:51:03,519 --> 00:51:09,159
Speaker 2: So my friend, her mom is going through well, she's

1100
00:51:09,199 --> 00:51:12,719
on hospice right now, and she told me that the

1101
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:15,599
thing that she's doing to distract herself because it's just

1102
00:51:15,639 --> 00:51:17,840
a very sad time for her right now, is she's

1103
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:22,400
been watching a lot of like dui arrest videos. Now

1104
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:26,440
this is John's jam. John is always sending me he

1105
00:51:26,519 --> 00:51:29,360
loves like entitled white women. Yeah when they get arrest

1106
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:32,199
getting pulled over for drug driving or getting pulled over

1107
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:33,840
for whatever, but they're mostly drunk.

1108
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, so fun.

1109
00:51:36,079 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 2: It is like all these Karens, you know, but the

1110
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:41,719
best are just they're so entitled and crazy. And it

1111
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,079
happens that we've got We just watched one because so

1112
00:51:45,079 --> 00:51:47,239
so John is like, I've been sending him to Laura

1113
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:50,360
and my friend I sent her. I made a whole

1114
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:53,519
document with all these links, and I the top are

1115
00:51:53,559 --> 00:51:55,920
the best ones. So we started watching a few of them.

1116
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,199
And there is a point to this, which is that

1117
00:51:59,679 --> 00:52:03,920
some of these people are outrageously behaved and the police

1118
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,000
are so nice to them. And I'm always watching it

1119
00:52:06,039 --> 00:52:08,800
and going yeah, because they're white, Like, imagine if this

1120
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:10,800
was a black person, they would have just taken them

1121
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,960
to jail right away. And these freaking white women always

1122
00:52:14,039 --> 00:52:15,840
let loose the N word at some point.

1123
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 3: Lots of black Cop.

1124
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:18,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1125
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 2: So often once they get really riled up, they use

1126
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,199
the N word and they're like this one we were

1127
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,679
watching was she It took her a while to get there,

1128
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:27,840
but when she got there, she.

1129
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:29,679
Speaker 3: Was like, yeah, now I said it.

1130
00:52:30,119 --> 00:52:33,159
Speaker 2: Oh my, And then black Cop was just like, all right,

1131
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,480
feel good about that, Like I don't care, right, You're

1132
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,679
not hurting my feelings. Yeah, you just look like an

1133
00:52:38,679 --> 00:52:41,679
idiot yourself, you know whatever. And she was like, well,

1134
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:46,360
blah blah blah, George Floyd, you're treating me like what

1135
00:52:47,079 --> 00:52:51,920
I mean? It was really crazy, But I'm like, how

1136
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,000
did this family Like I don't know what the circumstance was,

1137
00:52:55,039 --> 00:52:57,719
but how does some of these people get treated so

1138
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:01,280
well and end up not going to like they de

1139
00:53:01,599 --> 00:53:05,440
escalate with them, and yet this family like nope, never

1140
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:07,559
not going to see your kids, right, Like, I'm not

1141
00:53:07,599 --> 00:53:08,599
sure how I feel.

1142
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 1: I know.

1143
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1144
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:12,599
Speaker 1: There is this show I told you I texted to

1145
00:53:12,639 --> 00:53:14,679
you a while ago. I can't it's called like jail

1146
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:18,639
Time or something on Peacock. Oh yeah, and it's the same.

1147
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:20,719
It's kind of the same. It's just like they're just

1148
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:23,719
like in there in some jail and then people get

1149
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,800
brought in. Most of them are drunk and out of

1150
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,920
their mind, and like there's like a guy getting arrested

1151
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:33,000
and he's he's like wasted, and like the female cop

1152
00:53:33,119 --> 00:53:35,239
is like shaking, do you have anything in your pockets?

1153
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:37,039
And she's like okay, and she's being very nice to him,

1154
00:53:37,079 --> 00:53:40,280
and he's like fuck off, hunt, like fuck you, like

1155
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,079
just yelling at her, just like go get fuck bitch,

1156
00:53:43,199 --> 00:53:46,840
like like just she's like okay, whatever, you're going in

1157
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:47,760
the tank, going.

1158
00:53:47,679 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 3: In the drunk tank.

1159
00:53:48,679 --> 00:53:50,760
Speaker 1: And then like then they go back and they go, okay,

1160
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,920
let's go check on Hank like hours later, and he's

1161
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:55,599
like all sobered up and he's like, I'm sorry if

1162
00:53:55,599 --> 00:53:57,280
I was like rude to you, I don't know what

1163
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:03,159
comes over me, like tequila, Yeah exactly for you, yeah exactly.

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It's pretty funny. Yeah, so it's kind of like those videos,

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right right, Yeah, crazy story like other people's input. Yeah,

1166
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let's hear it, all right, all right.

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Speaker 2: Well you guys, thank you to everybody. Let's do our

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let's do our business shout outs. Adam Adam is helping

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me this week.

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Speaker 1: I have to get Sonny a car because he keeps

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borrowing all mine and Natalia. So Adam is helping me

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look for a car as we speak. For Sonny, it

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was super easy. I just saw him yesterday. He was like, yeah,

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I'm working on a car for Lenette. Yeah, for some

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yeah yeah, yeah, he's already found. I mean he's so

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quick too. It's just like, you tell him what you want,

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the budget, what you want, He's like done and done,

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find something. He's like, what do you think of this?

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Like okay, now I got to pull the trigger, I guess, but.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, this is how he does it.

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Speaker 2: He'll say like, okay, well in your budget right now,

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here are the car makes that are having specials. So

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like when we were looking for a car, he was like,

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do you guys, would you do it electric? Because it

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was right when they were getting to the end of

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the rebates. He's like, I can get you. I can

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get you in an electric car, electric Mercedes or the

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ID four for in the threes yes, and we were like.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes please.

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Speaker 2: So then he was like, okay, go to a dealership

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and go drive it and see if you like it,

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and don't worry about what they tell you is the price,

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because I'm going to get you. This is the price.

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I'm going to get you. What color do you want?

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Here's what's available, and then he does the deal. You

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go to the dealership, you don't you say like, oh,

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we're just looking, you know. And then you test drive

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the car and then you go thank you, and then

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you leave and then you tell him, yeah, we like

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the ID four better and he goes, okay, great, you

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got it. And then a couple of days later, the

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car literally shows up in your driveway. Ye give me

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your information. He does all the paperwork, pre does it. Yeah,

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here's your car sign on the dotted line.

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Speaker 3: That's it. It's perfect love Adam Lerner.

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Speaker 1: Love Jacob seal you baby, thank you, Jacob.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Thanks, thanks y body, love you guys. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And also if you're interested in taking I have a

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There's Thursday the twenty third. If you want to jump

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for the first time, I'd love to have you.

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Speaker 3: It's really fun.

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Speaker 2: It sounds fun meet a group of women, write about

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your life. You don't have to have any training. I'll

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teach you. You're a good teacher too, Thank you. I

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can hell all.

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Speaker 3: Right, you're a parent now, don't f it up. It's

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good

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Speaker 2: Letting good