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<v Speaker 1>Helping leaders motivate their people to a higher level of

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<v Speaker 1>performance through strong human relations, team building, and goala giving.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the seven Minute Leadership Podcast with your host

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<v Speaker 1>Paul Fellavledo.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everyone, and welcome to the seven Minute Leadership Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>It's episode seven seventy. Today's episode is called Comfort versus

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<v Speaker 2>Performance at Work. Here's a question every leader should ask themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Have I accidentally built a workplace where people are more

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<v Speaker 2>committed to being comfortable than being great. Comfort is attractive.

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<v Speaker 2>Every employee wants it, every leader wants to provide it.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing wrong with creating an environment where people feel respected,

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<v Speaker 2>supported and psychologically safe. The problem begins when comfort becomes

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<v Speaker 2>the destination instead of the foundation. High performing organizations are

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<v Speaker 2>rarely uncomfortable all the time. They are also rarely comfortable

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. They live somewhere in the middle. Think

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<v Speaker 2>about your own career, when did you grow the most.

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<v Speaker 2>It probably wasn't during a period when everything was easy.

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<v Speaker 2>It was when you were challenged, when expectations increased, when

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<v Speaker 2>someone believed you could do more than you believed about yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Growth has always required a little discomfort. I see this

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<v Speaker 2>in ems all the time. A new emt is nervous

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<v Speaker 2>on their first difficult call. A new paramedic questions every decision.

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<v Speaker 2>A new lieutenant feels uncomfortable supervising people who used to

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<v Speaker 2>be coworkers. That's exactly where growth begins. Leadership isn't a

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<v Speaker 2>about removing every uncomfortable moment. Leadership is helping people move

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<v Speaker 2>through those moments. Some workplaces slowly drift toward comfort. Standards

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<v Speaker 2>get relaxed, Deadlines become suggestions, performance reviews become softer. People

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<v Speaker 2>stop challenging ideas because nobody wants difficult conversations. Meetings become predictable,

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<v Speaker 2>Innovation slows down, and eventually everyone feels comfortable. The organization

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<v Speaker 2>quietly becomes average. Average is comfortable. Excellence usually isn't. One

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<v Speaker 2>of the biggest myths in leadership is believing employee happiness

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<v Speaker 2>and employee performance are the same thing. They're connected, they're

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<v Speaker 2>not identical. Your job isn't to keep everyone happy every

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<v Speaker 2>minute of the day. Your job is to help people

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<v Speaker 2>become better than they wor yesterday. Sometimes that requires uncomfortable feedback,

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it requires accountability. Sometimes it requires telling someone they're

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<v Speaker 2>capable of much more than they're currently delivering. Those conversations

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<v Speaker 2>may feel uncomfortable for both people. There often the conversations

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<v Speaker 2>employees remember years later. Think about sports, The best coaches

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<v Speaker 2>don't spend practice making athletes comfortable, They make them better.

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<v Speaker 2>The athletes may leave practice exhausted, they also leave stronger.

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<v Speaker 2>The same principle applies to business. Comfort can become addictive

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<v Speaker 2>when employees begin protecting their comfort more than the organization's mission.

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<v Speaker 2>Performance starts slipping. You hear phrases like that's not my job,

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<v Speaker 2>We've always done it this way, nobody else has to

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<v Speaker 2>do that, or I'll get it. I'll get to it tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Those aren't performance statements. Those are comfort statements. Leaders must

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<v Speaker 2>recognize the difference. Now, let me say something equally important.

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<v Speaker 2>Performance without humanity eventually burns people out. Nobody wants to

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<v Speaker 2>work in an organization where every day feels like a crisis.

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<v Speaker 2>High standards should never mean constant pressure. The best organizations

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<v Speaker 2>know when to push and when to recover. Elite athletes

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<v Speaker 2>don't train at maximum intensity every day. Neither should organizations.

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<v Speaker 2>Great leaders understand rhythm, push, recover, learn, improve, repeat. So

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<v Speaker 2>here's a practical exercise. Walk through your workplace this week

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<v Speaker 2>and ask yourself four questions. Where have we become too comfortable?

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<v Speaker 2>Where have we become unnecessarily stressful? What standard have we

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<v Speaker 2>quietly stopped and forcing? And where could one small improvement

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<v Speaker 2>create a much higher level of performance? Those four questions

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<v Speaker 2>can reveal more than any employee survey that you send out.

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<v Speaker 2>One of my favorite leadership observations is this, Employees don't

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<v Speaker 2>always need easier work. Sometimes they need bigger challenges. People

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<v Speaker 2>are often far more capable than they realize. Many simply

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<v Speaker 2>need someone to believe in them before they believe in themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>That's leadership. Leadership is seeing tomorrow's employee inside today's employee.

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<v Speaker 2>Your role isn't to protect people from every challenge. It's

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<v Speaker 2>to prepare them for challenges they'll eventually face without you

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<v Speaker 2>standing beside them. That's how organizations become resilient, That's how

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<v Speaker 2>future leaders are created, and that's how cultures outperform their

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<v Speaker 2>competitors year after year. Comfort has its place, respect has

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<v Speaker 2>its place, Psychological safety absolutely has its place. Performance deserves

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<v Speaker 2>a seat at the same table. When leaders balance both.

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<v Speaker 2>Employees don't merely enjoy coming to work, They leave work

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<v Speaker 2>knowing they accomplish something meaningful. That feeling lasts much longer

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<v Speaker 2>than comfort ever will. So as you go into your

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<v Speaker 2>workplace this week, ask yourself another simple question. Am I

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<v Speaker 2>creating comfort that supports performance? Or comfort that quietly replaces it?

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<v Speaker 2>Your answer may reveal the next opportunity to strengthen your leadership.

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<v Speaker 2>using today. This has been the seven Minute Leadership podcast

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<v Speaker 2>and I thank you for listening.

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