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Speaker 1: I made a discusion pays sunny sound on ahead a vision.

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It's nice, Hey everybody, what's up? Fuckers? So funny. You know,

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my friend Glenn loves our show. Shout out to Glenn

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and his pal Phil. But he always sends me a

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video and he like starts playing it. He plays our

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show and the theme song comes out, and then he

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goes and we'll go hey fuckers, and he goes. And

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then last week I said something else and he was like,

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oh good one like and he'll talk back at the

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computer and like, it's just so funny. I don't realize

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that I do that every every week I do. I

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guess that's how I start the show Fuckers. Yeah, no,

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always it's funny to me.

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Speaker 2: I guess, being the age that I am, that I

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will have completely forgotten, Like by Friday, I have zero

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idea what we talked about Tuesdays.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: From people that are like, oh my god, answering something

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that I said, and I'm like, I literally have no

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idea what you're talking about. And they'll be like on

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the podcast, like you said that you were talking about

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this thing, and I'm like, right, I know, my memory erased.

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Speaker 1: When we go home. Sometimes once in a while they'll

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text me and go, what did we talk about? Like

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two hours later, and I'm like, getting the show. Yeah,

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I'm I gotta put a description. I don't know what

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did we talk about? I don't know, Thank god, Oh girl,

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we're getting old, I know. Oh my god, let me

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just tell you this so fast, that fast.

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Speaker 2: Well, So I was listening to this podcast called, you know,

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the podcast over My Dead Body or something. Yeah, it's

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had four seasons. One of the seasons is called fox

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Lake and it's about these It's about a cop getting

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killed in like this like swamp area kind of thing.

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And it's discovered that this cop is killed, and then

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there's a whole investigation and it turns out that this cop,

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who everybody was like, oh my god, this poor cop

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you know, was actually kind of a dirty cop, turns

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out right spoiler alert, but there's there's more twists and turns.

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But anyway, I'm listening. I'm literally on like episode like

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almost done with episode three. I start I I'm doing

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the dishes, and I play it and I'm like listening

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and listening, and I'm like, god, I don't remember who

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this person is. Like I was just listened like I

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had just been listening to it at the gym. Now

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it's only a couple hours later, and I'm like, when

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did they introduce this? And I'm like, this sounds like

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a different podcast, Like but I listened for like twenty

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five minutes, right, but for a long time, like doing

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the dishes, And I'm like, you know what, I'm probably

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gonna have to scroll back a little bit to because

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they probably were talking about some side characters that I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know, but I'm only zoned now listening. I guess

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I zoned out. Yeah, so I scroll back.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, I don't know, and then I finally

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realize I'm listening to a different season, this episode different season.

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Do you understand that it took me all of washing

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the because that's how crappy my brain is.

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Speaker 1: Now, Oh my gosh, well, I.

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Speaker 2: Guess this is there's just some new characters. How would

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you not be like, this is a totally different story?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: What it started playing was that story about with where

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the guy gets lost on a boat. It's it's they

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made they made a documentary out of it, and we

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both watched it, and it was where the woman turned out.

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Speaker 1: That she killed her.

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Speaker 2: She and her boyfriend had the husband killed, but he

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was supposed to be out fishing.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, mister and missus murder, yes, yes, yes, yes,

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and Hulu. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The woman's name was like Denise. The guys rightly different people.

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And it was only when they were like yeah and

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then he was missing that I was like, was he missing?

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Speaker 1: Like I'm pretty sure they found.

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Speaker 2: His body, So that right started to just go this

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must be a different character, like are these like some

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tangentially right? It took It's embarrassing now how long it

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took me. I feel like a younger person would have

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just been like, oh, I must have. I must have accidently.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well no, I know it does. It happens to

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me while I'm watching TV shows. I'll be watching a

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seat like streaming a show like right now, I'm watching

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Mayor's Mayor of Kingstown, and I'm like on episode three,

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but then I fall asleep and then I wake up

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later I'm on episode six, so then I have to

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rewind and go back and I forget, and it's like,

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you know, it's just a it's a shit show. But

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when you get older, you just like you forget, forget

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you there's times when my kids are like, I told you, mom,

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I told you this before, and I'm like, I don't know.

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You think I listened to everything you say? You know,

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I mean, it's just that happens.

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Speaker 2: It gets really hard to argue with John sometimes because

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we're both like this. So there's times where I'm like, no,

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I one hundred percent told you this, and he'll be

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like no, I'm one hundred percent sure you didn't. And

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then it becomes whose memory is right, you know? I'm like, no, no, no,

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But the difference is I absolutely I remember where I

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was standing telling you this, I remember what you said.

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And then I'm like, no, I'm right right. But his

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memory sucks too, So then he's like, no, I know

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I would have I would know.

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Speaker 1: If you told me that, And I'm like, honestly, neither

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of us would. I know exactly. But my kids still too, though,

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And then what's their excuse? They're young? Because I'll tell

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them like, I remember where I was when I told

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you this, and I'll be like, no, you did not,

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and I'm like, but I did tell you what? And

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then I'm then now I'm like, well, maybe they're because

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they're young, Maybe they do know better I don't know

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who's right you're questioning exactly.

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Speaker 2: That's how they get away, that's how they get they

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deal they do. They're praying on us getting older.

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Speaker 1: Yes. So Natalia was home a couple of days ago

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and I text you because she was going to one

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of those DJing shows in Hollywood Sun Subtronics. Yeah, And

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I asked you, it's like that, is Elbe going to

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be there tonight? But it was. It was the same artist.

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It was like a Wednesday, I think right, It was

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on a Wednesday, Thursday. It was Wednesday night, Okay, Yeah,

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her and her friends drove down, went to the show,

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and drove back the next morning.

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Speaker 2: So I texted Elbe and I was like, you were like,

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is LB working And I said no, but I know

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she's going to a show on Friday, and it I

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was like, it sounds like the same thing because you

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were like sub sub.

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Speaker 1: Yes, subtract yeah. Something. I don't think like I also

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had it wrong, a little bit wrong.

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Speaker 2: But I texted Elbe and I was like, Hey, are

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you going to Subtronic on whatever? And she was like yes,

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I can't wait. And I was like, well guess what

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right now? Yeah, and she was like yeah, he's playing

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all week. Okay, yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: So her and her a bunch of her friends came

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down and it was funny. When they got there. I

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was like, so, what's the show you're seeing in their

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sub Subtract Subtronics And then they go, we'll play it

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for you, and I was like, no, you don't have

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to take your word for it. No, no, no, listen,

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just listen to a second of it. And I was like,

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all right, got it. Don't need to hear anymore. It's

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all noise to me.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Elbe's music. I really do feel like

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they get off my lawn kids in their music.

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Speaker 1: But it is not for me, not for me either.

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I just don't And but then you know they have

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good taste and other stuff you know they're playing. They

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played hit Him Up by Tupac because I was telling them,

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you guys got to watch the Diddy doc. Oh, I

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can't wait till we talk. I know, I know they

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Hit Him Up thing. I love that. I love that.

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There was so much insight that I did not know. Yes,

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I mean we could maybe talk about it on this

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show we see, but I so, okay, So there was that.

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Then I went wait, so she came home that day. Yeah,

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she came home like that afternoon. They got they all

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sleep at your house that night. Yeah, they spent the night.

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They took an uber blah blah blah. Yeah, spent the

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night and then got up early. Left the next day. Oh,

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I went back to school. Yeah, back to school. Yeah,

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and now I don't think she comes home until next week.

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Not this week, but next week. Yeah yeah yeah, and

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then Sunny's got finals this week. I think he might

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be able to come home. I think next Monday. So

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they're both coming home next week, so they'll be okay,

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that's not bad. Yeah, home for a month because my twins,

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the twins, the twins, sorry triple B. They have two

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more weeks of school.

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Speaker 2: So today's Monday, so they have all this week and

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all next week, so they don't really get out of

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school till the nineteen. But LB is kind of done.

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She's taken two out of three finals. She was writing

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a paper last night.

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Speaker 1: Was home.

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Speaker 2: She Yeah, she basically slept at home the last couple.

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She slept at home Friday night, Saturday night, Sunday night.

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She goes back to school today, then she comes back home.

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Then she goes back to school and takes like one

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more final and then she and then.

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Speaker 1: She's done and that's nice, and then they'll all be home, right, Yeah,

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they'll be And then Natalia doesn't want to go to

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Chicago for Christmas. Oh she doesn't, No, because her roommate

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really is going to be with her pretty much the

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whole time for the Christmas break, So she's not very

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from her her family lives close by us. Oh, but

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she's not very close with her family. Okay, so you

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so she's going to be like sometimes at your house.

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She's going to be at my house probably most of

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the whole time. Oh, okay, probably, yeah, and that's why.

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I didn't really see Dad for Thanksgiving, so maybe I'll

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just go to Dad for Christmas. So then I think

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Sonny and I will go to Chicago for Christmas. He

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wants to go. Okay, so we'll do something like that.

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I don't know. Still got to figure it out, even

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though it's coming up quick. Well, then couldn't Italia watch Phil? Yeah,

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that would be nice, or take Phil with her? Yeah,

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maybe that would be That's what I'm hoping. That would

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be perfect. So we'll find out. She just was telling

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me this over the weekend. So yeah, so we'll see

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what happens with Phil.

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Speaker 2: So, but Sunny is like gung ho. He wants to Yeah,

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he wants to go. Yeah, will still be fun. Yeah,

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it'll be fun. It'll be fine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean as long as you know she goes

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by her dad, that's good. I don't under staying home

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by herself. Well, she'll have a roommate, but you know

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what I mean, I don't she'll be at her dad's

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so and hopefully she can take Phil just for the holidays. Yeah,

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we're just gonna go for yeah. Oh yeah, We're just

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gonna go Sunny And I'll probably just go for like

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actual Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, then a couple of days

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and then come home and we'll be back. So I'm

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not going to go for too long. Just be there

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for the Christmas time, you know, to be around the

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little kids. It's always fun to be around the kids.

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Do the white Elephant gift exchange? Yeah, do the white Elephant. Yeah.

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They did an app this year. There's an app now

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that one of the daughter in law is set up.

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So you just go on the app. You put in

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your name and then it pulls the name for you.

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So now I have a name, so I don't know

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if that's white elephant, and so now you just think

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you have a name. That's just a gift exchange. Yeah,

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we'll just do where that's what we're doing. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that means that you're not opening a present and

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then someone could steal now, and then.

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Speaker 1: You're buying a specific present for a specific person.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I know that that's it's the gift giving season,

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and I get it. But when you're given an amount

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like okay, let's say you can and one hundred dollars, Yeah, okay,

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on this person, why wouldn't you just buy yourself a

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gift and just call gifting you know what I.

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I don't know. I don't know. Then you can give

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it's like, you know, then somebody has a gift to

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open because instead of instead of buying everybody gifts, you know,

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because there's too many of us adults, we just buy

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for the kids and then one adult. So and I

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like I got my my my nephew's wife. She's easy

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to buy for. Oh okay, yeah. Yeah, young woman in

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her you know, thirties, that's always easy. Yeah, yeah, just

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go on TikTok. Yeah, women are easy. Right. Isn't there

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a TikTok shop or something? Yes? Have you been on it?

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her stuff off TikTok. She's like, look at this. She

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opens her purse and there's a little chain.

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you and it lights.

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Speaker 1: You can see everything in your purse. She's like, look

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at this, you can see your whole person. I'm like yeah,

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and she goes TikTok. Really yeah. I need good ideas

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for Sonny. Like, I know he likes sports and stuff,

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but he's always so tough to buy for. You know,

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Natali is easy. Girls are easy, but Sonny doesn't ask

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for much, you know, So anybody has any gift ideas?

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Speaker 2: Xander is like really specific, right, he told I was

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asking him yesterday. I'm like, what, give me some ideas

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of what you want for Christmas? And he's like I

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don't know. I mean like, okay, So I gave him

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some money with his The thing I told you was

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called a scarlet that you can record music into your

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computer from your guitar, but he needs a microphone. So

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I had given him money to get another guitar pedal.

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They're called I don't really understand what they do, but

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from Guitar Center.

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Speaker 1: I'd given him cash a lot. Okay, so he said, I.

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for the guitar pedal to buy a microphone. Well, meanwhile,

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John and I were already planning to get him a microphone.

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He's so specific. Oh, and he goes, yeah, I kind

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of picked one out and I was like, well, just

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can you send me the link?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we.

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Speaker 2: Can have something to buy you. Right then he was

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like yeah, I also I want jewelry. He goes, but

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I need to pick it out. Yeah, And I was like,

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I get I get it. It's just makes it hard.

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him with clothes.

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Speaker 1: Is he still like the brand or like he likes

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all these different brands? Yes, yes and no.

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I mean not like a specific it's not like he's

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wearing like he doesn't like brands on his stuff anymore

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like he did when he was eight, right and needed

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the supreme. Yes, but now he's just more like he's

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just very he likes nice clothes, right, you know what

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I mean. Yeah, I can't just go to like, yeah

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over twenty one and yeah a T shirt.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he needs to buy it, well, gift certificate to

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one of those stores. I mean, I may.

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Speaker 2: Have to just to have it be a little less personal.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I know I hate that too. Yeah. Yeah.

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And yeah, yeah I know. I got ILB her DJ speakers.

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They're coming tomorrow. Sadie lost her headphones, the second pair

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of headphones she lost, right, and I was just like, dude,

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I don't know what to tell you. Yeah, so I

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went and got her new headphones because whatever, I was

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gonna have to buy her something anyway.

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Speaker 1: Right, of course, her headphones.

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Speaker 2: I'll be the speakers, and I'm going to get Xander

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the microphone, and then like a couple of other.

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Speaker 1: Little things like yeah, yeah, I know, I know, yeah,

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this is Christmas. I went to a Christmas party on

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Saturday night. Bill Simmons. Bill Simmons is Christmas party the ringer,

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Can I wait to hear? So I didn't. Yeah, so

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his wife, I love Carrie Simmons, and we see each

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other every like once in a great moon, and but

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you know sometimes we were on a group text together

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or whatever. But she texted me and she was like,

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you know, and you asked me last week was Adam

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invited or and he wasn't going? And then no, he

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wasn't invited, and I didn't really find that soos. Yeah.

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So when I got to the Christmas party, Salam Melissa

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were there, and Melissa's like one of my closest friends,

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and she's like, yeah, they didn't invite Adam because Bill

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was disgusted by what Adam was doing on X and

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I was like, oh, I was like, oh my god,

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I was so touched and she and Melissa was like yeah,

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a lot of people saw that and were not happy.

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and then I so yeah, So then I talked to

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Bill for a little while and it was really oh

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you did. Yeah, oh yeah, I talked to him for

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a while. He was hanging it up. Yeah, I don't

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know how it got brought up, and he was just

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like yeah, you know, it's like you don't like to

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take I don't like people don't want to take sides

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in the divorce. But it's like this was just just

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kind of just such a turn off. It just you know,

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just I just didn't agree with it.

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Speaker 2: I told you, I told you that people were going

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to be like that's just fucking gross.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it was really nice to see some of

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his friends there that like told me that, which was nice. So, yeah,

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he was hanging out with Nathan for you. Have you

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ever seen that shut up? Nathan Fielding was there. Yes,

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Oh my god, I'm so jealous. I was talking with

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him for like a while, him and Bill. Yeah, I know,

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I know I'm off the way he does on the

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show or is he more in Okay, it's very like normal, Yeah,

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just total down to earth.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you on my other podcast, my friend Cecily

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on Everybody Knows from boord af and from She Loves

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This Guy. This is like a really quick, like little

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side story. Yeah, you know what, let's really quickly talk

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about Quint's I will remember where I was going with this.

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So when it comes to holiday gifting, like we want

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to give things that people really love, as we were

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just talking about, you know, beautiful timeless pieces they'll wear

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for years, and Quints can help. They have Mongolian cashmere sweaters.

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Speaker 1: Those are nice gifts. I mean, yes, maybe that I

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can get something one of those for a sunny.

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Speaker 2: What also for your for your my gift shape, yes, yes,

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And I'm wearing my Quin's pants right now, by the way,

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my jogger pants. Yeah, they're so cute. And everything is

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reasonably priced and made with premium materials from ethical, trusted factories,

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and priced far below what other luxury brands charged.

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Speaker 1: So tell us how to get it so fine gifts

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so good you'll want to keep them with Quints. Go

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Speaker 2: So my friend loves this comedian and his name is

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dox Flame and he's very like kind of deadpan and

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like absurd.

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Speaker 1: But I met him when I went to the Comedy Store.

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Speaker 2: I was telling I was like, oh my god, Cecily,

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Dax's flame is here, and she's like, she it's hard

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to tell if he's doing if he's.

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Speaker 1: In on it.

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Speaker 2: It's a little Andy Kaufman, okay, right, yeah, similar to

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Nathan Fielder r Right, Nathan Fielder Fielding, Nathan Fielding.

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Speaker 1: I say, I don't know, I just know Nathan for you.

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So I was talking.

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Speaker 2: I was with my friend Bonnie and we went backstage

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at the Comedy Store and Dak's flame was back there.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, oh my god, I'm going to

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talk to him. He was so strange. Okay, clear, I was.

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I was trying to explain to Cecily.

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Speaker 2: I was like, he's one hundred percent autistic, like right right,

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definitely autistic, like, but obviously he is not that people

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with autism can't be totally in on jokes, like obviously

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is very funny and no, but he's very very earnest

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when you talk to him, right, Like that's the personality

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that he's doing on stage is not like what he's doing. Yeah, okay,

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he's a little more childlike when you're talking to him,

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you know.

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Speaker 1: So that's why I was like, oh my god, is Nathan.

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He's doing a character. But is it a character? So

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you're saying, yes, it is, Yes, it is a character. Yeah.

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He was just like if if I didn't, if I

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didn't know who he was, I would have just thought

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he was just some you know, normal Jewish guy that

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was just hanging out at the party talking to Bill,

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you know, like just like very sweet, very nice, friendly,

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you know, joined in on the conversation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I talked to him for a while. So funny, he

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is very funny. My nephews turned me on to him

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so much. I know, I know, I remember watching his stuff,

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like when we go to Chicago, Like my nephews introduced

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me to him. I couldn't I couldn't wait to tell them, like,

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oh my god, I just met Nathan. It was great.

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And and Larry David was there, but I didn't. I

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didn't talk to him. Yeah, oh my god. Yeah. Yeah.

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And he wasn't there very long. Oh but yeah, or

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maybe he was. I didn't, I didn't I saw him. No,

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I didn't talk to him.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: No. Was it a really big party. It was pretty big.

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There was a lot of people. Yeah, yeah, big beautiful

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house and you know, the food was great and drinks

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were great, and everybody was really nice. It was nice

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to see, like some of my old friends haven't seen

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in a while. You know, I'm friends with their wives.

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Speaker 2: But you and those girls, including Carrie, would go with

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what's her name, Jimmy Kimmel's wife. Didn't you guys all

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take a trip together. Wasn't Carrie part of that group?

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Was she when you guys went to like Costa Rica?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she did well. Yeah, we went to Mexico when

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every when that drowning happened. Yeah, when there was a

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woman like she was she drowned in the ocean. It

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was really Yeah, we were in Mexico and this was

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like years ago, like I think it was right after

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Jimmy's wife had her first child. Yeah, and it was

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like a getaway and she invited all these different groups

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of her friends throughout her life to stay at this

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big house in Mexico. Yeah. And then at one point,

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like some of the girls went down to the beach

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and there was a guy. The husband and wife tried

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to save his wife. An ambulance was on the way,

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and then she was like floating in the ocean. It

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was really sad. And then like there was a couple

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of the girls that went into the ocean to try

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and help and they got sucked in under the undercurrent.

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that night. She had stand in her lungs from like

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inhaling like in the water for so long. A fishing

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boat came and like picked her out of the way.

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It was awful, awful. Yeah, yeah, it was a rogue wave, yeah,

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off the beach. But yes, so yeah, I mean yeah,

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I mean I was been friends with them since since

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Bill and Carrie moved out from Boston. Jimmy like hired

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Bill early on when he started Jimmy Kimme Alive to

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write to do to write for sports for Jimmy kim Alive.

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and they moved out from Boston and then they had kids,

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and then we went on vacations together and stuff. Yeah,

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like went to Italy with them and yeah, and so we,

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you know, the wives like stay in touch and stuff.

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and stuff. But it was nice to see his friends,

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you know, giving me a big hug and like so

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good to see you, and you know, it was really sweet.

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It was really touched. It was really touched. Any other

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famous people there not that I saw. There could have

465
00:24:33,839 --> 00:24:38,200
been like sports people like I wouldn't have known, right, Yeah,

466
00:24:38,519 --> 00:24:40,839
but but yeah it was there was a lot there's

467
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,559
like people outside inside, you know. I just hung out

468
00:24:43,599 --> 00:24:46,640
with my little group and we were caught got caught up.

469
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,839
But it was nice. Yeah did you dress up? Yeah?

470
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:53,200
I got dressed up and we're like black slacks and

471
00:24:53,599 --> 00:24:58,599
like a shimmery top. Yeah. It was nice. Funny.

472
00:24:58,599 --> 00:25:02,319
Speaker 2: Whenever I when I go shopping now, I don't know,

473
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,880
I'm always like, well, like I look at like sparkly,

474
00:25:05,039 --> 00:25:06,559
like nice clothes and I'm like, where am I?

475
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:08,799
Speaker 1: Where are you gonna wear it? I know I've had

476
00:25:08,799 --> 00:25:11,119
this stuff in my class. Like Suzanne's like you should

477
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,279
go out and get a new dress or buyes. I'm like, no,

478
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,960
I don't know. I got things to wear and a

479
00:25:16,079 --> 00:25:19,920
need too. Yeah, so I just yeah, I have like

480
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,400
a lot of sparkly stuff that I never wear.

481
00:25:22,559 --> 00:25:26,599
Speaker 2: I went on a jumpsuit binge a while ago because

482
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,519
I needed. I feel like it was when my book was,

483
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:32,799
when Drunkish was coming out, and I was like, I

484
00:25:32,839 --> 00:25:35,920
need something to wear, and I think I was at

485
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:40,319
Nordstrom Rack and they had this this like one piece

486
00:25:40,559 --> 00:25:44,200
you know, yes, in that jumpsuit life. So I got one.

487
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,799
Then my sister in law, oh I know. My sister

488
00:25:48,839 --> 00:25:51,440
in law was wearing a pink one one time and

489
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:55,279
I was like, that is so cute, and I borrowed

490
00:25:55,319 --> 00:25:59,200
it to wear to a wedding, okay, a daytime wedding.

491
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,480
I was like, oh my god, a one piece you

492
00:26:01,519 --> 00:26:06,519
look cute and jumpsuit would be perfect. Right then she

493
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,599
wanted it back, so I was like, I really want

494
00:26:09,599 --> 00:26:10,960
this jumpsuit, but I could not.

495
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 1: They it was like discontinued.

496
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,759
Speaker 2: But I went to Nordstrom Rack, which is where she'd

497
00:26:15,799 --> 00:26:17,880
gotten it, and I got the same one, but in

498
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:18,839
a different black.

499
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:20,599
Speaker 1: And then I was like, well, while I'm at it,

500
00:26:20,599 --> 00:26:21,640
I should get one in red.

501
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,319
Speaker 2: Right, literally have never worn I wore the black one

502
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:26,240
on drew Berrymore.

503
00:26:26,599 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah.

504
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,839
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I have an outfit for drew

505
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,799
Berrymore and the red one like just.

506
00:26:32,759 --> 00:26:35,920
Speaker 1: Never came never. Okay again, where am I going? I

507
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:40,640
overbought jumpsuits, right, It's so funny jumpsuits. Whendy and I

508
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,920
were when we were in Florida. We were at the

509
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:46,640
mall and Tree People has this jumpsuit. It's like the

510
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,160
it's like the material of my jogging pants. It's just

511
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:53,680
like soft cotton and it's pretty casual. But it's a jumpsuit.

512
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,799
And we were traveling the next day. We bought them

513
00:26:56,799 --> 00:26:58,920
in a bunch of different colors. They were like nothing

514
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,079
like twelve bucks each, and she wore her like gray

515
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:05,240
one and I wore my brown one and were wearing

516
00:27:05,279 --> 00:27:07,599
them as we were traveling because they were because they

517
00:27:07,599 --> 00:27:10,680
had deep pockets. They're perfect for comfy. And we're at

518
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,319
the airport thinking like we're hot shit, and this lady

519
00:27:13,319 --> 00:27:15,640
walks by and she goes nice jumpsuit ladies, I mean

520
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,519
look at her and she's wearing like a green one,

521
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:22,119
the same exact one. Tree People you mean free People,

522
00:27:22,279 --> 00:27:25,400
Free People. Yeah, yeah, yeah, treat People is not a

523
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:28,039
new brand now about Yeah, that's how long it's been

524
00:27:28,039 --> 00:27:32,240
since I've been in the mall. That is so funny. Yeah,

525
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,400
we women, we do. So.

526
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,839
Speaker 2: You know what's like in style right now is those

527
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:40,960
like it looks like pajamas. It's like a silky pop

528
00:27:41,039 --> 00:27:45,480
and then silky pants. Yes, everybody's wearing them and they're they.

529
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: Match, right, I've noticed that.

530
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,400
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I was with my friend and I go,

531
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:51,480
but it looks like pajamas, and she goes, yeah, that's

532
00:27:51,519 --> 00:27:51,920
the point.

533
00:27:52,559 --> 00:27:55,799
Speaker 1: Didn't Erica Caine wear something like that? Jane, Erica Jane,

534
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,759
Erica Kaine when she was on Treat People.

535
00:28:00,039 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, when she was on Treating People, Yes, Erica, she

536
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:09,000
was wearing I know, yes, that's what I'm talking about.

537
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like looking at her, going she looks

538
00:28:11,039 --> 00:28:14,759
like she's in her pajamas, right, Yeah, And but it

539
00:28:14,839 --> 00:28:18,000
is the style. Slit into like, no, that's the style.

540
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,640
It is the style dressed up. No, you're not. You

541
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:24,200
look like you're wearing pajama. Yeah. And another housewife on Salt,

542
00:28:24,319 --> 00:28:26,920
like Lisa Barlow, wears those outfits too, And I'm like,

543
00:28:27,599 --> 00:28:30,759
she's going to a party and everybody's dressed in like dresses.

544
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,400
She looks like she just rolled out of bed. Yes,

545
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:35,799
but I guess that's the point. I guess so.

546
00:28:36,079 --> 00:28:40,319
Speaker 2: But like you said, on The Real Housewives, Erica Jane,

547
00:28:40,599 --> 00:28:42,440
who I will now call eric k Jane.

548
00:28:42,799 --> 00:28:43,359
Speaker 1: Was wearing that.

549
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 2: But everybody else was wearing dresses. Yeah, right, like now

550
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,480
you do look like you're the only one in pajama yeah,

551
00:28:49,519 --> 00:28:52,799
even though I get like in another scene Kyle was

552
00:28:52,839 --> 00:28:53,559
wearing one too.

553
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it is the style, but I

554
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,519
think it's going to be gone quick like and then

555
00:28:58,519 --> 00:29:00,240
you're going to look back on it in five years ago.

556
00:29:00,279 --> 00:29:02,559
What was I thinking looking like that? Like I look

557
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:06,680
like I'm in my pajamas at a nice dress up party. Yeah,

558
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,480
but that you would think that would be up our alley,

559
00:29:10,319 --> 00:29:12,119
you would. But you know what it is.

560
00:29:12,559 --> 00:29:15,079
Speaker 2: I think our boobs are too big for that, right,

561
00:29:15,319 --> 00:29:19,240
because there's something about when stuff is too flowy and

562
00:29:19,279 --> 00:29:20,359
then the pants are flowing.

563
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it gives makes you look shapeless. I hate boobs

564
00:29:23,519 --> 00:29:23,920
are big.

565
00:29:24,079 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 2: Then it just then the top hangs over, right, I mean,

566
00:29:28,079 --> 00:29:29,160
oh yeah, it's nothing.

567
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: No, it just looks sloppy. It does look sloppy for us. Yeah,

568
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,839
I agree, that's I don't like wearing big tops like

569
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:41,799
that because it makes you look pregnant. Yeah, yes, and

570
00:29:42,039 --> 00:29:43,200
dresses and stuff too.

571
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 2: So I do want to tell you this thing because

572
00:29:48,279 --> 00:29:54,519
our patreon is loosely related. Okay, So I went to

573
00:29:54,599 --> 00:29:59,640
a birthday dinner with my my ladies, my mom's, my

574
00:30:00,039 --> 00:30:05,240
long long, long time friends. So every person's birthday who's

575
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:09,799
in this group, the extended group is probably like let's

576
00:30:09,799 --> 00:30:16,319
see eight, nine, ten, there's probably like ten or eleven

577
00:30:16,359 --> 00:30:18,720
of us all together, Like, let's just say ten.

578
00:30:18,759 --> 00:30:21,279
Speaker 1: It's pretty big. It's a big group of women.

579
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:25,839
Speaker 2: I'm not like, I'm I know them all and would

580
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,759
feel free to text all of them. But they're not

581
00:30:27,839 --> 00:30:32,519
all my close close friends. Okay, my close girlies are

582
00:30:32,519 --> 00:30:34,759
the ones that I mention all the time. But anyway,

583
00:30:34,799 --> 00:30:38,079
it doesn't really matter. Two of the ones that I'm

584
00:30:38,119 --> 00:30:40,640
fairly close to, it was their birthday and they decided

585
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:42,079
to do a joint birthday.

586
00:30:42,759 --> 00:30:43,039
Speaker 1: Right.

587
00:30:44,039 --> 00:30:47,559
Speaker 2: Two of those were people I'd just gone to yachtlie

588
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:51,960
Krue with, okay and had a bad time. Yeah, too loud,

589
00:30:53,119 --> 00:30:58,279
so you're splittingly loud. Right, And so my friend Laura,

590
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,480
who was sitting next to me her watch, I think

591
00:31:01,519 --> 00:31:03,079
I told you this when I was telling you about

592
00:31:03,119 --> 00:31:07,200
yachtli Crue. Her watch kept warning her like that it's

593
00:31:07,279 --> 00:31:11,880
too loud. This this umble thing's hearing damage. That's crazy. Okay, Yeah,

594
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,640
like thirty minutes of this and you could damage your hearing.

595
00:31:16,119 --> 00:31:20,960
And Laura told me that when she was young, like

596
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:25,160
a like young, like a teenager, she had got permanent

597
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:29,680
hearing damage from a Simple Minds concert because she was

598
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:33,279
standing like in front of the speakers. Wow, and she

599
00:31:33,799 --> 00:31:36,720
lost her hearing for like three days, she could barely hear.

600
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,519
And then she had gone to the audiologist or whatever,

601
00:31:39,599 --> 00:31:45,839
and he said, you've lost permanently your high frequency, part

602
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,599
of your high frequency. And he's like, it won't affect

603
00:31:48,599 --> 00:31:50,319
you now, you're not going to notice it. But when

604
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:55,359
you get older, wow, and you start actually like changing

605
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,319
your hearing changes, it's going to affect you then. And

606
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,119
sure enough she's my age, a little bit younger than me,

607
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,240
and she wears hearing aids.

608
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 1: Wow, my gosh.

609
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:08,119
Speaker 2: And a lot of people, I think our age are,

610
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,119
you know, younger and younger people are starting to wear

611
00:32:11,119 --> 00:32:13,880
hearing aids because as we I think we've talked about this,

612
00:32:14,039 --> 00:32:16,119
like no shame in your game, a lot of us

613
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,279
are realizing we got hearing damage when we were young.

614
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:23,319
And you're like, oh, I'm having trouble hearing. Oh yeah,

615
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,759
I got guy friends that are wearing them. Yeah, So

616
00:32:25,799 --> 00:32:32,480
we talked about that. Anyway, I feel like very much

617
00:32:32,519 --> 00:32:35,079
want to be careful of my hearing, like I don't

618
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:38,880
need to be Yeah, And like I said last week,

619
00:32:39,839 --> 00:32:42,240
ain't nobody need Yachtley Crue.

620
00:32:42,079 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 1: Ajescibles above me?

621
00:32:43,599 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 2: No? I know, her watch kept telling her that it

622
00:32:46,039 --> 00:32:50,480
was above ninety. Okay, So we go to that weird

623
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,279
We're doing one of our birthday dinners, which are normally

624
00:32:53,319 --> 00:32:57,119
at very normal restaurants, but my friend decides she wants

625
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,440
to try something new. I don't know if you've ever

626
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,480
been to this restaurant, I'll just tell you what it's called.

627
00:33:02,559 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 1: It's called a nahou a n e j o, right, and.

628
00:33:07,599 --> 00:33:10,319
Speaker 2: It's in Triman Oaks, and she's like, it's a Mexican

629
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:11,359
Mexican food.

630
00:33:11,359 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: We're all like cool, cool.

631
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:21,279
Speaker 2: Upstairs, it's like very beautiful from the outside, seems seems

632
00:33:21,279 --> 00:33:23,680
like it'll be fun, right, go up there.

633
00:33:23,799 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 1: This was Saturday night, it's anyway.

634
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:30,519
Speaker 2: We get seated and right away I'm like, oh, this

635
00:33:30,559 --> 00:33:33,880
is a red flag. It's like kind of banquet table

636
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:38,559
almost seeming like it's but these long tables. So you know,

637
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,240
there's just a lot of big parties. If you've ever

638
00:33:41,279 --> 00:33:43,839
been to a Buka to Beppo, yes and been offended

639
00:33:43,839 --> 00:33:47,240
by the noise level there, just the clattering and because

640
00:33:47,279 --> 00:33:50,920
you know why, too many big parties in like an enclosed.

641
00:33:50,759 --> 00:33:53,319
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, okay, can't hear each other.

642
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 2: I can't hear each other. Okay, can't hear each other.

643
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,559
So we sit down at this long table and there's

644
00:33:58,599 --> 00:34:03,759
a long table literally like right behind us, like dominoes, right,

645
00:34:03,839 --> 00:34:06,839
like yeah, two tables, and it's all of these women

646
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:11,360
that clearly like work at an office together, right right,

647
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,599
you know the type. They're dressed like they work at

648
00:34:13,599 --> 00:34:16,400
an office. They look the right age to be like

649
00:34:16,559 --> 00:34:20,840
office workers, and they are so happy to be out together.

650
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 1: And there is so much woo cackling.

651
00:34:25,119 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 2: Oh god, oh no, because I'm sitting like the back

652
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,159
of my chair is backing up to the back of the.

653
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:36,039
Speaker 1: Other office lady's chair right close. Yeah, they're super loud.

654
00:34:37,159 --> 00:34:40,079
Speaker 2: So my friend, who also is the one who damaged

655
00:34:40,119 --> 00:34:43,800
her hearing it simple minds, She's immediately like with me,

656
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,119
we're same page. She's just like, uh oh, it's loud

657
00:34:47,159 --> 00:34:49,760
in here, right, And I was like, yeah, this is

658
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,280
going to be a lot, and she goes, well, they

659
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,519
wanted to seat us over at this other table, and

660
00:34:55,559 --> 00:34:58,440
she points and there's like this divider behind the table,

661
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,400
and she goes, but there's like a job party and

662
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:03,719
she goes, and I walked over there and she goes,

663
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,159
and it was so loud that I said, absolutely not

664
00:35:07,119 --> 00:35:10,039
right now, That's how we got this table. So these

665
00:35:10,119 --> 00:35:12,679
women were like looking at the menu.

666
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,119
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And I forgot to tell you this part. Okay.

667
00:35:16,159 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 2: So Sadie was out for the day with her friend

668
00:35:20,199 --> 00:35:22,679
and had had the car. We have two cars, and

669
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:24,960
then Albie has a car, so Sadie's out with one

670
00:35:25,039 --> 00:35:27,840
of our cars for the whole day. I say, I

671
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,519
was going to drive all my friends to this restaurant

672
00:35:30,559 --> 00:35:31,400
because I don't drink.

673
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: I don't know if I ever mentioned it. So then John.

674
00:35:37,519 --> 00:35:40,079
Speaker 2: Says, you know what, Actually I have to drive Xander

675
00:35:40,159 --> 00:35:44,119
to a party at seven and I was this dinner

676
00:35:44,199 --> 00:35:47,320
was at six thirty. So he's like, I said, okay,

677
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:48,199
don't worry about it.

678
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 1: I'm going to ask my friend to drive. And she

679
00:35:50,039 --> 00:35:54,400
was fine driving. So I go to the dinner.

680
00:35:54,679 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 2: We get there, we're ordering, my phone starts blowing up

681
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,559
and John's like, hey, are you there?

682
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 1: Are you there? Where's the car keys?

683
00:36:03,599 --> 00:36:06,039
Speaker 2: Because I finally look at my phone I've got a

684
00:36:06,039 --> 00:36:09,320
text from Xander going, hey, Mom, where are the car keys?

685
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:10,960
Dad can't find the car keys. And then I got

686
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,760
John going, I don't know where the car keys are.

687
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 1: Well, I took the car.

688
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,280
Speaker 2: Keys with because it's just not a normal thing that

689
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:19,119
I would think about.

690
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 1: It almost never happens. Did I leave the car and

691
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:23,599
get picked up?

692
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 2: And if I do, I would really have to think

693
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,639
it through and go, okay, I have the keys.

694
00:36:30,679 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: Does any you know what I mean.

695
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 2: I just didn't think about it, so I'm like, oh, no, shit,

696
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:41,440
I have the car keys. And John was very sweet

697
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,159
about it, but he's like, okay, what do you want

698
00:36:43,199 --> 00:36:45,719
to do? Yeah, So then I had this idea. I

699
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,360
was like, oh my god, I've got it. Uber to

700
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,199
the restaurant. I'll give you the keys and then you

701
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:54,039
can like take it from there. I'll get a ride home,

702
00:36:54,679 --> 00:36:56,480
like with what with what car?

703
00:36:56,519 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 1: Though?

704
00:36:57,639 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 2: The car is in the driveway. Oh shit, good point.

705
00:37:03,199 --> 00:37:06,159
He's like, then I got to uber home, yeah, which

706
00:37:06,199 --> 00:37:10,480
I was like, well, yeah, I guess that's a lot. Yeah,

707
00:37:10,519 --> 00:37:13,280
we're there with Xander, get the keys. Then you both

708
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:14,880
have to uber home. It's going to take a while.

709
00:37:15,119 --> 00:37:17,280
Speaker 1: Right then, my friend was like, you can.

710
00:37:17,159 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 2: Take my car, but we were literally like ordering our food,

711
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:22,360
I'm gonna have to go.

712
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,559
Speaker 1: We parked kind of far at the car drive all

713
00:37:25,599 --> 00:37:27,320
the way home. I was like, just send them in

714
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,039
an uber, but it was far right right.

715
00:37:30,119 --> 00:37:32,719
Speaker 2: So he's like, okay, it's like a sixty five dollars

716
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:37,320
uber ride including tip, and I was like, well, it's

717
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:42,000
better than just being like you can't go to the party, right, Okay.

718
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 1: So he sends them to the party.

719
00:37:44,559 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 2: When I get home, and I'm thinking, okay, when I

720
00:37:47,519 --> 00:37:49,360
get home, I'll go pick him up. It's going to

721
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,800
be like eleven or something. No, just by the way.

722
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,719
When I was like, in my name, it's like nine

723
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,840
forty five, I start getting text from John going are

724
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,239
you almost home? Because his part he needs to be

725
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:05,159
picked up at ten. Oh no, oh my gosh. I'm like,

726
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,719
oh god, it all worked out and I picked him up.

727
00:38:09,039 --> 00:38:10,559
I got home and I picked him up and everything

728
00:38:10,639 --> 00:38:13,119
was fine. But so back to the restaurant, Yeah, that

729
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:18,639
I fucked up. Cost sixty five dollars to send Xander

730
00:38:18,679 --> 00:38:21,400
in an uber. Because I was at this dinner, right,

731
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:25,360
these people are being so loud. We almost wanted to

732
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:26,880
tell the waiter, like, can you tell them?

733
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:31,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, fuck up? They just kept going the worst. It

734
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:35,159
is the worst. I know, I know, and it's but

735
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,280
when it's always loud, or it's all loud all the

736
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,960
way around, then that makes them be louder, right, And

737
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,599
then I don't know about you, but I can't hear

738
00:38:44,639 --> 00:38:46,719
when I'm in those kind of situations. If we're in

739
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,800
a loud restaurant and somebody's talking, I could barely hear

740
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,920
what they're saying, Like I can't, it's too loud.

741
00:38:53,119 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 2: That was pretty bad and pretty loud, and it was

742
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:58,280
hard to hear each other. And then this must have

743
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,800
been at seven point thirty to say, by the time

744
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,000
we all got in there and got settled and had

745
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:05,840
it was let's say seven. Then we're ordering our food

746
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:09,239
now it's like, I mean, couldn't have been more than

747
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:13,679
like seven twenty. All of a sudden, for no reason,

748
00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:17,280
out of nowhere, this really loud music starts.

749
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 1: Oh no, and we all look at each other like

750
00:39:20,679 --> 00:39:22,039
what is happening?

751
00:39:22,079 --> 00:39:27,760
Speaker 2: And it's like thunder on the head when it's raining,

752
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,320
and we're like, is there karaoke?

753
00:39:29,559 --> 00:39:31,599
Speaker 1: You gotta be fucked now.

754
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 2: If this is a karaoke restaurant at night and it's

755
00:39:35,119 --> 00:39:40,079
not late, it's oh there's old people around us. Yeah,

756
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:44,199
nobody needs this. Turns out not karaoke.

757
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:47,760
Speaker 1: It's a band. And it was so loud. That's ridiculous.

758
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:51,039
Speaker 2: There was no reason to have a band in restaurant, right,

759
00:39:51,519 --> 00:39:56,960
there was nowhere was it atised that it's five entertainment. Yeah, screaming,

760
00:39:57,559 --> 00:40:01,519
screaming loud, Like let's say there's eight people in this band,

761
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:05,199
just super super loud music. And then the person was

762
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:10,119
having to like scream sing over the music. We're all

763
00:40:10,119 --> 00:40:12,239
looking at each other now. The people that had been.

764
00:40:12,159 --> 00:40:16,559
Speaker 1: To Yachtli Crew, yeah, were all traumatized.

765
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:20,280
Speaker 2: Like I have fucking PTSD right, Like this can't be

766
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:21,760
happening again.

767
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:23,159
Speaker 1: I put napkin.

768
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 2: I rolled up pieces of napkin, put it in my ears,

769
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:27,719
and then I just sat there. I couldn't hear the

770
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,519
person next to me. Yeah, I just sat there and

771
00:40:30,559 --> 00:40:33,679
I was like, and this is going to sound like

772
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:37,039
a small bitch, but if you're me and you don't drink,

773
00:40:37,159 --> 00:40:40,400
so everybody's ordering like margarite and having a great time,

774
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:42,239
and I'm like, what just water?

775
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:46,559
Speaker 1: I guess I don't. I just didn't even want to

776
00:40:46,599 --> 00:40:49,800
diet coke. I was like, let's just suck it. Then

777
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,559
I order. There was nothing I even really want.

778
00:40:52,599 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 2: I can't explain the menu, but I ordered a salad

779
00:40:55,559 --> 00:40:58,719
and it came with these I guess this is maybe

780
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:01,079
a popular and a Mexican restauant, but I'd never heard

781
00:41:01,119 --> 00:41:04,400
of it on a caesar salad. They're they're like these seeds.

782
00:41:04,599 --> 00:41:08,559
They're kind of nuts. Are they called them compitos or something?

783
00:41:08,679 --> 00:41:11,480
Maybe they look like pumpkin seeds, but they're kind of

784
00:41:11,559 --> 00:41:16,039
like gray. My salad was full of these like nuts

785
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,599
that didn't But I wasn't going to be like, can

786
00:41:18,599 --> 00:41:19,239
I return my.

787
00:41:19,199 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: Solid into the pedos on it?

788
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:25,280
Speaker 2: So if you can imagine, I can't to be a

789
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:25,960
party pooper.

790
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:29,880
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I got this lames and you can't

791
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,519
even have the food with some chips and a little

792
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:33,800
chips and salsa.

793
00:41:34,079 --> 00:41:37,559
Speaker 2: There was some guaca moley, but when the guacamole came,

794
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:40,079
I was dealing with the Xander with oh my god,

795
00:41:40,079 --> 00:41:41,280
I have the car keys.

796
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: By the time I was done with that, they don't

797
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:44,280
like walks gone.

798
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 3: Now like sitting there with my stupid salads, I can't

799
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:49,639
hear anything.

800
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: My friend was looking at me like, I know, this

801
00:41:52,119 --> 00:41:56,000
is so bad, or Lara is just like she felt.

802
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,119
She was like, I am.

803
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 2: And then my friend who'd been at Yachtlee Cruise at

804
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:04,079
the other end of the table, she starts texting me.

805
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 1: She's like, oh my god, I'm in hell. Yes, because

806
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,360
that's the only way you can communicate is just texting

807
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,880
each other. Yes, I'm trying to find h Yes, it's

808
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:14,599
the worst.

809
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 2: She wrote, I need hearing aids, and she wrote or

810
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,400
toilet paper, and then I just wrote I'm in hell.

811
00:42:21,039 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 1: And then we all just kept looking at each other.

812
00:42:24,199 --> 00:42:26,599
And then I wish we all would have.

813
00:42:26,599 --> 00:42:30,599
Speaker 2: Just left after we ate. Yeah, but they were like, no,

814
00:42:30,639 --> 00:42:33,119
we're going to do presents. I'm like, what can't hear me?

815
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:34,440
I was just sitting there.

816
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 1: Please God, I'm having the worst time. Why you should

817
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:40,960
have just been like, my kids are calling me, I

818
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:44,119
gotta go. I couldn't because I didn't drive, So you

819
00:42:44,119 --> 00:42:48,360
didn't drive. That's right. Wow, I was stuck. You were stuck.

820
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:52,800
Oh my god, that sounds so fricking miserable.

821
00:42:53,039 --> 00:42:55,599
Speaker 2: Haven't been that miserable in a really long time. And

822
00:42:55,639 --> 00:42:57,880
you know, I normally really like these birthday diners.

823
00:42:58,000 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we look forward to them.

824
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:02,559
Speaker 2: My friend called me this morning, though, and she was

825
00:43:02,639 --> 00:43:05,039
just like, I am so sorry I chose that restaurant.

826
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,760
Speaker 1: It's not your fault. No, I know, how could we

827
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:08,239
have known.

828
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:10,679
Speaker 2: I feel like they should have given you a heads up,

829
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,599
like just by the way, like we have a really

830
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,000
a band is gonna play something.

831
00:43:16,159 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not like the band didn't start at ten

832
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:21,800
pm when like people dropped. That's ridiculous, and it becomes

833
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:27,320
a nightclub. It was nightclub level noise. So I did

834
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,239
a thing. I looked on my phone and I.

835
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,559
Speaker 2: There's like an app, well thing you just google it

836
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:35,880
to see what the decibel is.

837
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:36,320
Speaker 1: In the room.

838
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 2: Oh really, So I ran a little program you did

839
00:43:40,159 --> 00:43:45,039
not really and it was it was fluctuating between ninety

840
00:43:45,079 --> 00:43:46,760
and it was going over one hundred.

841
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 1: Oh god.

842
00:43:47,639 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 2: Set at this level you can get hearing damage in

843
00:43:50,599 --> 00:43:51,519
seven minutes.

844
00:43:51,679 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yes, you know what.

845
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,599
Speaker 2: I don't know if this is going to come across,

846
00:43:56,679 --> 00:43:59,119
but I took a voice memo of the noise level.

847
00:43:59,320 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 1: Do you want to see it?

848
00:44:00,079 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 2: Yes, if it'll play, yeah, you know, it might not

849
00:44:02,639 --> 00:44:04,840
play as loud as it really felt, but.

850
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:24,320
Speaker 3: Hello, oh god, Okay, no, no, no, no, no.

851
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:27,039
Speaker 2: I don't know if you've taken voice memos on your phone,

852
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,199
but I really want you to think about this. When

853
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:31,280
you do do a voice memo on your phone, it

854
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:35,599
comes out much quieter than the actual volume. Is I

855
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:39,639
see because it's a microphone. You're not like, it's not

856
00:44:39,679 --> 00:44:42,920
a good sensitive. Yes, it's really picking up what you're hearing.

857
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: It's going to be.

858
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:48,199
Speaker 2: So that was muffled compared to, Oh my god, but

859
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:49,400
in your ears?

860
00:44:50,199 --> 00:44:52,280
Speaker 1: Where your ears ringing the next day?

861
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,760
Speaker 2: Oh my god, my ears, my ears physically hurt like

862
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,239
you did after a yacht cruise.

863
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:02,199
Speaker 1: That's horrible. My god, Stepan, you're going deaf, is it?

864
00:45:02,519 --> 00:45:05,280
I don't know. No, it's not your age. I would

865
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,880
have hated that too well, but I am your age.

866
00:45:09,199 --> 00:45:12,119
I don't know, it's all. I never liked going out

867
00:45:12,119 --> 00:45:16,360
to dinner at loud restaurants because you can't hear anybody

868
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,679
when they're talking. And also you're trying to enjoy your

869
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,199
meal and people are talking so loud they're like spitting

870
00:45:22,199 --> 00:45:25,519
into your food and stuff. It's so unpleasant. It's like

871
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:28,199
either you're a restaurant or you're a karaoke bar. One

872
00:45:28,199 --> 00:45:30,679
of the other. Pick a lane, yeah, pick a lane,

873
00:45:32,559 --> 00:45:37,719
pick a quiet lane, a lane? Oh my god. But

874
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:39,639
I was like, is this the rest of my life?

875
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:45,599
I can always be like, how loud is it? I'm

876
00:45:45,639 --> 00:45:46,719
gonna have to look it up.

877
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 2: We're planning a girls trip for February where are like

878
00:45:51,559 --> 00:45:54,320
a little faction of our bigger group is going to

879
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,480
go see air supply and I'm like, okay, I feel

880
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,000
like air supply seems safe.

881
00:45:59,559 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna scream lie in.

882
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 2: Alone, right, that's got to be quieter.

883
00:46:07,159 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 1: I would bring ear plugs going to you have to

884
00:46:10,639 --> 00:46:12,159
for sure, I'm going.

885
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:15,599
Speaker 2: To Yeah, I think, by the way really quick. But

886
00:46:16,039 --> 00:46:20,039
before we go, Elbe, a bunch of our listeners were

887
00:46:20,079 --> 00:46:25,400
giving me advice on on reusable air plugs. Yes for

888
00:46:25,639 --> 00:46:29,679
LB so I found a pair. They're called Loop and

889
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:32,679
okay to be a good, very well rated brand, and

890
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,880
they're perfect for music, kaves and stuff.

891
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh good.

892
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 2: You can still hear the music. But it helps to

893
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:42,679
protect your Thank god. Yeah, you need to protect Alby's here.

894
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,800
Speaker 1: You need to, I know. But like, is she gonna

895
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:47,679
wear them? Yes?

896
00:46:48,159 --> 00:46:51,599
Speaker 2: She will because because after Yachtlee Crew, I was telling

897
00:46:51,639 --> 00:46:53,880
her that story and I was like, do you protect

898
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,159
your ears? And she was like, no, I need to though,

899
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,519
like looking into getting some that's good.

900
00:46:58,639 --> 00:47:04,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, air plug yeah good. Wow, my god, it's horrible.

901
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, say, I never bring you any stories.

902
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: As a good story. I love that.

903
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:14,320
Speaker 2: All of our stories now somehow involved meeting with your sixties.

904
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:23,480
Speaker 1: By hearing memory my double vision show. Are weazies? I know,

905
00:47:24,079 --> 00:47:26,480
I know when we started, I was in my forties.

906
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:32,159
Speaker 2: I know only forties right right, anyway, let's say hi

907
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:36,159
to our people. We got Dick is a frolicker, Nikki,

908
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:40,079
call your girls. Elizabeth Williamson has a lot of kids,

909
00:47:40,119 --> 00:47:41,920
so it's probably very loud.

910
00:47:42,119 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 1: Meal time is long, That's that's true.

911
00:47:44,559 --> 00:47:48,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, but Rita Bassiet calms everybody down by rocking them.

912
00:47:48,519 --> 00:47:51,639
Speaker 1: Holy we love your pancakes. Valerie hit it out of

913
00:47:51,679 --> 00:47:56,360
the park. Then yes she does. Katerina, checkrol don't want

914
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,800
that's enough that hearing. Check your vision.

915
00:47:59,679 --> 00:48:03,159
Speaker 2: Check your your implants, check your teeth, don't crack tea.

916
00:48:03,679 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: Oh my lord. Gabby and Missy were outside that restaurant.

917
00:48:08,119 --> 00:48:11,039
They just like with there on a week selling.

918
00:48:14,159 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 2: Sean Fashpig, Rebecca Kelly Brandt, she's not your ant, Alicia

919
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:23,559
Escalante from the city of El Monte, Leslie with still coughing.

920
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:27,079
Come on, Aaron is a dirty Sanchez, Jennifer get up,

921
00:48:27,119 --> 00:48:30,239
Sandra not easy Green, Stephanie, you're a stinker wrinker and

922
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:34,679
Christa get the strap now. Adam can help you get

923
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:37,599
a car. Is my friend who is a car broker.

924
00:48:37,639 --> 00:48:40,440
He's helped a lot of fco l people. Don't be shy.

925
00:48:40,639 --> 00:48:43,000
You can ask him questions. Go to Adam's Got a

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Car dot com. Kelsey can get you some really good

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smelling candles. She has a really cool business. At least

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go check out her insta Yeah Fern candle, Jacob, thank you.

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Speaker 1: My love, the a c l U we need you ye.

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Speaker 2: Christine Black is with Waves and Wonder Travel, so if

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you're planning a trip you can have a listener. They

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can also help nice travel Yeah Waves and Wonder Travel

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or Instagram is travel with Christine b. If you're traveling

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to Kawhi, don't forget to go to Sugar Skull. They

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are a small bakery and gift shop and they do

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wedding cakes and they have an Instagram page as well

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at Sugar Skull eighth eight.

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Speaker 1: Check them out.

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Speaker 2: Courtney Moore does embroidery. You can get stuff personalized. It

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looks really cool. You can go back on my Instagram

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and see where I posted some stuff. Yeah, it's the

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Guyliner band. She did merch for them.

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Speaker 1: So cool.

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Speaker 2: And Kayleie Pettis is a marriage and family therapist out

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of Seattle. She sees clients virtually all across Washington State

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and she can help you with whatever's going wrong in

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your life. Go to Emerald Bloomtherapy dot com. Also, my

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friend has a medium account. It's called Unbecoming Stories. Go

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back and read all of her past stories because they

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will really blow your mind. Just something fun to read. Yeah,

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check it out, will Menfrida. If you're in Palm Springs

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or Palm Desert, why would you.

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Speaker 1: Not go there? Get some good salmon? You know by now? Yeah,

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I'm Basic Becky. I think it's not too late.

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Speaker 2: If you want to order something like a personalized mug

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or a mouse pod.

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Speaker 1: Or a T shirt. Yeah, she's our girl.

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Speaker 2: Go to just Basicbecky dot com or message her on Facebook.

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She's Basic Becky. Hey, yeah, all right, thanks everybody your

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parent now, ye, don't if it up

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Speaker 1: Man Angel