Speaker 1: I made a discusion pays sunny sound on ahead a vision.
It's nice, Hey everybody, what's up? Fuckers? So funny. You know,
my friend Glenn loves our show. Shout out to Glenn
and his pal Phil. But he always sends me a
video and he like starts playing it. He plays our
show and the theme song comes out, and then he
goes and we'll go hey fuckers, and he goes. And
then last week I said something else and he was like,
oh good one like and he'll talk back at the
computer and like, it's just so funny. I don't realize
that I do that every every week I do. I
guess that's how I start the show Fuckers. Yeah, no,
always it's funny to me.
Speaker 2: I guess, being the age that I am, that I
will have completely forgotten, Like by Friday, I have zero
idea what we talked about Tuesdays.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: From people that are like, oh my god, answering something
that I said, and I'm like, I literally have no
idea what you're talking about. And they'll be like on
the podcast, like you said that you were talking about
this thing, and I'm like, right, I know, my memory erased.
Speaker 1: When we go home. Sometimes once in a while they'll
text me and go, what did we talk about? Like
two hours later, and I'm like, getting the show. Yeah,
I'm I gotta put a description. I don't know what
did we talk about? I don't know, Thank god, Oh girl,
we're getting old, I know. Oh my god, let me
just tell you this so fast, that fast.
Speaker 2: Well, So I was listening to this podcast called, you know,
the podcast over My Dead Body or something. Yeah, it's
had four seasons. One of the seasons is called fox
Lake and it's about these It's about a cop getting
killed in like this like swamp area kind of thing.
And it's discovered that this cop is killed, and then
there's a whole investigation and it turns out that this cop,
who everybody was like, oh my god, this poor cop
you know, was actually kind of a dirty cop, turns
out right spoiler alert, but there's there's more twists and turns.
But anyway, I'm listening. I'm literally on like episode like
almost done with episode three. I start I I'm doing
the dishes, and I play it and I'm like listening
and listening, and I'm like, god, I don't remember who
this person is. Like I was just listened like I
had just been listening to it at the gym. Now
it's only a couple hours later, and I'm like, when
did they introduce this? And I'm like, this sounds like
a different podcast, Like but I listened for like twenty
five minutes, right, but for a long time, like doing
the dishes, And I'm like, you know what, I'm probably
gonna have to scroll back a little bit to because
they probably were talking about some side characters that I.
Speaker 1: Don't know, but I'm only zoned now listening. I guess
I zoned out. Yeah, so I scroll back.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I don't know, and then I finally
realize I'm listening to a different season, this episode different season.
Do you understand that it took me all of washing
the because that's how crappy my brain is.
Speaker 1: Now, Oh my gosh, well, I.
Speaker 2: Guess this is there's just some new characters. How would
you not be like, this is a totally different story?
Speaker 1: You know?
Speaker 2: What it started playing was that story about with where
the guy gets lost on a boat. It's it's they
made they made a documentary out of it, and we
both watched it, and it was where the woman turned out.
Speaker 1: That she killed her.
Speaker 2: She and her boyfriend had the husband killed, but he
was supposed to be out fishing.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, mister and missus murder, yes, yes, yes, yes,
and Hulu. Yeah.
Speaker 2: The woman's name was like Denise. The guys rightly different people.
And it was only when they were like yeah and
then he was missing that I was like, was he missing?
Speaker 1: Like I'm pretty sure they found.
Speaker 2: His body, So that right started to just go this
must be a different character, like are these like some
tangentially right? It took It's embarrassing now how long it
took me. I feel like a younger person would have
just been like, oh, I must have. I must have accidently.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well no, I know it does. It happens to
me while I'm watching TV shows. I'll be watching a
seat like streaming a show like right now, I'm watching
Mayor's Mayor of Kingstown, and I'm like on episode three,
but then I fall asleep and then I wake up
later I'm on episode six, so then I have to
rewind and go back and I forget, and it's like,
you know, it's just a it's a shit show. But
when you get older, you just like you forget, forget
you there's times when my kids are like, I told you, mom,
I told you this before, and I'm like, I don't know.
You think I listened to everything you say? You know,
I mean, it's just that happens.
Speaker 2: It gets really hard to argue with John sometimes because
we're both like this. So there's times where I'm like, no,
I one hundred percent told you this, and he'll be
like no, I'm one hundred percent sure you didn't. And
then it becomes whose memory is right, you know? I'm like, no, no, no,
But the difference is I absolutely I remember where I
was standing telling you this, I remember what you said.
And then I'm like, no, I'm right right. But his
memory sucks too, So then he's like, no, I know
I would have I would know.
Speaker 1: If you told me that, And I'm like, honestly, neither
of us would. I know exactly. But my kids still too, though,
And then what's their excuse? They're young? Because I'll tell
them like, I remember where I was when I told
you this, and I'll be like, no, you did not,
and I'm like, but I did tell you what? And
then I'm then now I'm like, well, maybe they're because
they're young, Maybe they do know better I don't know
who's right you're questioning exactly.
Speaker 2: That's how they get away, that's how they get they
deal they do. They're praying on us getting older.
Speaker 1: Yes. So Natalia was home a couple of days ago
and I text you because she was going to one
of those DJing shows in Hollywood Sun Subtronics. Yeah, And
I asked you, it's like that, is Elbe going to
be there tonight? But it was. It was the same artist.
It was like a Wednesday, I think right, It was
on a Wednesday, Thursday. It was Wednesday night, Okay, Yeah,
her and her friends drove down, went to the show,
and drove back the next morning.
Speaker 2: So I texted Elbe and I was like, you were like,
is LB working And I said no, but I know
she's going to a show on Friday, and it I
was like, it sounds like the same thing because you
were like sub sub.
Speaker 1: Yes, subtract yeah. Something. I don't think like I also
had it wrong, a little bit wrong.
Speaker 2: But I texted Elbe and I was like, Hey, are
you going to Subtronic on whatever? And she was like yes,
I can't wait. And I was like, well guess what
right now? Yeah, and she was like yeah, he's playing
all week. Okay, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: So her and her a bunch of her friends came
down and it was funny. When they got there. I
was like, so, what's the show you're seeing in their
sub Subtract Subtronics And then they go, we'll play it
for you, and I was like, no, you don't have
to take your word for it. No, no, no, listen,
just listen to a second of it. And I was like,
all right, got it. Don't need to hear anymore. It's
all noise to me.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Elbe's music. I really do feel like
they get off my lawn kids in their music.
Speaker 1: But it is not for me, not for me either.
I just don't And but then you know they have
good taste and other stuff you know they're playing. They
played hit Him Up by Tupac because I was telling them,
you guys got to watch the Diddy doc. Oh, I
can't wait till we talk. I know, I know they
Hit Him Up thing. I love that. I love that.
There was so much insight that I did not know. Yes,
I mean we could maybe talk about it on this
show we see, but I so, okay, So there was that.
Then I went wait, so she came home that day. Yeah,
she came home like that afternoon. They got they all
sleep at your house that night. Yeah, they spent the night.
They took an uber blah blah blah. Yeah, spent the
night and then got up early. Left the next day. Oh,
I went back to school. Yeah, back to school. Yeah,
and now I don't think she comes home until next week.
Not this week, but next week. Yeah yeah yeah, and
then Sunny's got finals this week. I think he might
be able to come home. I think next Monday. So
they're both coming home next week, so they'll be okay,
that's not bad. Yeah, home for a month because my twins,
the twins, the twins, sorry triple B. They have two
more weeks of school.
Speaker 2: So today's Monday, so they have all this week and
all next week, so they don't really get out of
school till the nineteen. But LB is kind of done.
She's taken two out of three finals. She was writing
a paper last night.
Speaker 1: Was home.
Speaker 2: She Yeah, she basically slept at home the last couple.
She slept at home Friday night, Saturday night, Sunday night.
She goes back to school today, then she comes back home.
Then she goes back to school and takes like one
more final and then she and then.
Speaker 1: She's done and that's nice, and then they'll all be home, right, Yeah,
they'll be And then Natalia doesn't want to go to
Chicago for Christmas. Oh she doesn't, No, because her roommate
really is going to be with her pretty much the
whole time for the Christmas break, So she's not very
from her her family lives close by us. Oh, but
she's not very close with her family. Okay, so you
so she's going to be like sometimes at your house.
She's going to be at my house probably most of
the whole time. Oh, okay, probably, yeah, and that's why.
So Natalia is you know, she was saying, you know,
I didn't really see Dad for Thanksgiving, so maybe I'll
just go to Dad for Christmas. So then I think
Sonny and I will go to Chicago for Christmas. He
wants to go. Okay, so we'll do something like that.
I don't know. Still got to figure it out, even
though it's coming up quick. Well, then couldn't Italia watch Phil? Yeah,
that would be nice, or take Phil with her? Yeah,
maybe that would be That's what I'm hoping. That would
be perfect. So we'll find out. She just was telling
me this over the weekend. So yeah, so we'll see
what happens with Phil.
Speaker 2: So, but Sunny is like gung ho. He wants to Yeah,
he wants to go. Yeah, will still be fun. Yeah,
it'll be fun. It'll be fine.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean as long as you know she goes
by her dad, that's good. I don't under staying home
by herself. Well, she'll have a roommate, but you know
what I mean, I don't she'll be at her dad's
so and hopefully she can take Phil just for the holidays. Yeah,
we're just gonna go for yeah. Oh yeah, We're just
gonna go Sunny And I'll probably just go for like
actual Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, then a couple of days
and then come home and we'll be back. So I'm
not going to go for too long. Just be there
for the Christmas time, you know, to be around the
little kids. It's always fun to be around the kids.
Do the white Elephant gift exchange? Yeah, do the white Elephant. Yeah.
They did an app this year. There's an app now
that one of the daughter in law is set up.
So you just go on the app. You put in
your name and then it pulls the name for you.
So now I have a name, so I don't know
if that's white elephant, and so now you just think
you have a name. That's just a gift exchange. Yeah,
we'll just do where that's what we're doing. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that means that you're not opening a present and
then someone could steal now, and then.
Speaker 1: You're buying a specific present for a specific person.
Speaker 2: I mean, I know that that's it's the gift giving season,
and I get it. But when you're given an amount
like okay, let's say you can and one hundred dollars, Yeah, okay,
on this person, why wouldn't you just buy yourself a
gift and just call gifting you know what I.
Speaker 1: Mean, it's the same thing. You're just buying yourself. Yeah, yeah,
I don't know. I don't know. Then you can give
it's like, you know, then somebody has a gift to
open because instead of instead of buying everybody gifts, you know,
because there's too many of us adults, we just buy
for the kids and then one adult. So and I
like I got my my my nephew's wife. She's easy
to buy for. Oh okay, yeah. Yeah, young woman in
her you know, thirties, that's always easy. Yeah, yeah, just
go on TikTok. Yeah, women are easy. Right. Isn't there
a TikTok shop or something? Yes? Have you been on it?
I don't know. I have a friend who buys all
her stuff off TikTok. She's like, look at this. She
opens her purse and there's a little chain.
Speaker 2: Thing that lights up that she squeeze this heart and
you and it lights.
Speaker 1: You can see everything in your purse. She's like, look
at this, you can see your whole person. I'm like yeah,
and she goes TikTok. Really yeah. I need good ideas
for Sonny. Like, I know he likes sports and stuff,
but he's always so tough to buy for. You know,
Natali is easy. Girls are easy, but Sonny doesn't ask
for much, you know, So anybody has any gift ideas?
Speaker 2: Xander is like really specific, right, he told I was
asking him yesterday. I'm like, what, give me some ideas
of what you want for Christmas? And he's like I
don't know. I mean like, okay, So I gave him
some money with his The thing I told you was
called a scarlet that you can record music into your
computer from your guitar, but he needs a microphone. So
I had given him money to get another guitar pedal.
They're called I don't really understand what they do, but
from Guitar Center.
Speaker 1: I'd given him cash a lot. Okay, so he said, I.
Speaker 2: Was thinking of using the money that you gave me
for the guitar pedal to buy a microphone. Well, meanwhile,
John and I were already planning to get him a microphone.
He's so specific. Oh, and he goes, yeah, I kind
of picked one out and I was like, well, just
can you send me the link?
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we.
Speaker 2: Can have something to buy you. Right then he was
like yeah, I also I want jewelry. He goes, but
I need to pick it out. Yeah, And I was like,
I get I get it. It's just makes it hard.
He's super specific about clothes. Yeah, you can't really surprise
him with clothes.
Speaker 1: Is he still like the brand or like he likes
all these different brands? Yes, yes and no.
Speaker 2: He likes like urban outfitter kind of look. And he yeah,
I mean not like a specific it's not like he's
wearing like he doesn't like brands on his stuff anymore
like he did when he was eight, right and needed
the supreme. Yes, but now he's just more like he's
just very he likes nice clothes, right, you know what
I mean. Yeah, I can't just go to like, yeah
over twenty one and yeah a T shirt.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he needs to buy it, well, gift certificate to
one of those stores. I mean, I may.
Speaker 2: Have to just to have it be a little less personal.
Speaker 1: And you know, I know I hate that too. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, Sadie, shockingly is a little bit easier to buy for.
And yeah, yeah I know. I got ILB her DJ speakers.
They're coming tomorrow. Sadie lost her headphones, the second pair
of headphones she lost, right, and I was just like, dude,
I don't know what to tell you. Yeah, so I
went and got her new headphones because whatever, I was
gonna have to buy her something anyway.
Speaker 1: Right, of course, her headphones.
Speaker 2: I'll be the speakers, and I'm going to get Xander
the microphone, and then like a couple of other.
Speaker 1: Little things like yeah, yeah, I know, I know, yeah,
this is Christmas. I went to a Christmas party on
Saturday night. Bill Simmons. Bill Simmons is Christmas party the ringer,
Can I wait to hear? So I didn't. Yeah, so
his wife, I love Carrie Simmons, and we see each
other every like once in a great moon, and but
you know sometimes we were on a group text together
or whatever. But she texted me and she was like,
you know, and you asked me last week was Adam
invited or and he wasn't going? And then no, he
wasn't invited, and I didn't really find that soos. Yeah.
So when I got to the Christmas party, Salam Melissa
were there, and Melissa's like one of my closest friends,
and she's like, yeah, they didn't invite Adam because Bill
was disgusted by what Adam was doing on X and
I was like, oh, I was like, oh my god,
I was so touched and she and Melissa was like yeah,
a lot of people saw that and were not happy.
And I was like, oh, that's so nice, you know,
and then I so yeah, So then I talked to
Bill for a little while and it was really oh
you did. Yeah, oh yeah, I talked to him for
a while. He was hanging it up. Yeah, I don't
know how it got brought up, and he was just
like yeah, you know, it's like you don't like to
take I don't like people don't want to take sides
in the divorce. But it's like this was just just
kind of just such a turn off. It just you know,
just I just didn't agree with it.
Speaker 2: I told you, I told you that people were going
to be like that's just fucking gross.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it was really nice to see some of
his friends there that like told me that, which was nice. So, yeah,
he was hanging out with Nathan for you. Have you
ever seen that shut up? Nathan Fielding was there. Yes,
Oh my god, I'm so jealous. I was talking with
him for like a while, him and Bill. Yeah, I know,
I know I'm off the way he does on the
show or is he more in Okay, it's very like normal, Yeah,
just total down to earth.
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on Everybody Knows from boord af and from She Loves
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can get something one of those for a sunny.
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Speaker 2: So my friend loves this comedian and his name is
dox Flame and he's very like kind of deadpan and
like absurd.
Speaker 1: But I met him when I went to the Comedy Store.
Speaker 2: I was telling I was like, oh my god, Cecily,
Dax's flame is here, and she's like, she it's hard
to tell if he's doing if he's.
Speaker 1: In on it.
Speaker 2: It's a little Andy Kaufman, okay, right, yeah, similar to
Nathan Fielder r Right, Nathan Fielder Fielding, Nathan Fielding.
Speaker 1: I say, I don't know, I just know Nathan for you.
So I was talking.
Speaker 2: I was with my friend Bonnie and we went backstage
at the Comedy Store and Dak's flame was back there.
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh my god, I'm going to
talk to him. He was so strange. Okay, clear, I was.
I was trying to explain to Cecily.
Speaker 2: I was like, he's one hundred percent autistic, like right right,
definitely autistic, like, but obviously he is not that people
with autism can't be totally in on jokes, like obviously
is very funny and no, but he's very very earnest
when you talk to him, right, Like that's the personality
that he's doing on stage is not like what he's doing. Yeah, okay,
he's a little more childlike when you're talking to him,
you know.
Speaker 1: So that's why I was like, oh my god, is Nathan.
He's doing a character. But is it a character? So
you're saying, yes, it is, Yes, it is a character. Yeah.
He was just like if if I didn't, if I
didn't know who he was, I would have just thought
he was just some you know, normal Jewish guy that
was just hanging out at the party talking to Bill,
you know, like just like very sweet, very nice, friendly,
you know, joined in on the conversation.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I talked to him for a while. So funny, he
is very funny. My nephews turned me on to him
so much. I know, I know, I remember watching his stuff,
like when we go to Chicago, Like my nephews introduced
me to him. I couldn't I couldn't wait to tell them, like,
oh my god, I just met Nathan. It was great.
And and Larry David was there, but I didn't. I
didn't talk to him. Yeah, oh my god. Yeah. Yeah.
And he wasn't there very long. Oh but yeah, or
maybe he was. I didn't, I didn't I saw him. No,
I didn't talk to him.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: No. Was it a really big party. It was pretty big.
There was a lot of people. Yeah, yeah, big beautiful
house and you know, the food was great and drinks
were great, and everybody was really nice. It was nice
to see, like some of my old friends haven't seen
in a while. You know, I'm friends with their wives.
Speaker 2: But you and those girls, including Carrie, would go with
what's her name, Jimmy Kimmel's wife. Didn't you guys all
take a trip together. Wasn't Carrie part of that group?
Was she when you guys went to like Costa Rica?
Speaker 1: Yeah, she did well. Yeah, we went to Mexico when
every when that drowning happened. Yeah, when there was a
woman like she was she drowned in the ocean. It
was really Yeah, we were in Mexico and this was
like years ago, like I think it was right after
Jimmy's wife had her first child. Yeah, and it was
like a getaway and she invited all these different groups
of her friends throughout her life to stay at this
big house in Mexico. Yeah. And then at one point,
like some of the girls went down to the beach
and there was a guy. The husband and wife tried
to save his wife. An ambulance was on the way,
and then she was like floating in the ocean. It
was really sad. And then like there was a couple
of the girls that went into the ocean to try
and help and they got sucked in under the undercurrent.
In fact, like Jimmy's cousin Sally, was in the hospital
that night. She had stand in her lungs from like
inhaling like in the water for so long. A fishing
boat came and like picked her out of the way.
It was awful, awful. Yeah, yeah, it was a rogue wave, yeah,
off the beach. But yes, so yeah, I mean yeah,
I mean I was been friends with them since since
Bill and Carrie moved out from Boston. Jimmy like hired
Bill early on when he started Jimmy Kimme Alive to
write to do to write for sports for Jimmy kim Alive.
And so he just married Carrie I think at the time,
and they moved out from Boston and then they had kids,
and then we went on vacations together and stuff. Yeah,
like went to Italy with them and yeah, and so we,
you know, the wives like stay in touch and stuff.
But then the guys are you know, friends with Adam
and stuff. But it was nice to see his friends,
you know, giving me a big hug and like so
good to see you, and you know, it was really sweet.
It was really touched. It was really touched. Any other
famous people there not that I saw. There could have
been like sports people like I wouldn't have known, right, Yeah,
but but yeah it was there was a lot there's
like people outside inside, you know. I just hung out
with my little group and we were caught got caught up.
But it was nice. Yeah did you dress up? Yeah?
I got dressed up and we're like black slacks and
like a shimmery top. Yeah. It was nice. Funny.
Speaker 2: Whenever I when I go shopping now, I don't know,
I'm always like, well, like I look at like sparkly,
like nice clothes and I'm like, where am I?
Speaker 1: Where are you gonna wear it? I know I've had
this stuff in my class. Like Suzanne's like you should
go out and get a new dress or buyes. I'm like, no,
I don't know. I got things to wear and a
need too. Yeah, so I just yeah, I have like
a lot of sparkly stuff that I never wear.
Speaker 2: I went on a jumpsuit binge a while ago because
I needed. I feel like it was when my book was,
when Drunkish was coming out, and I was like, I
need something to wear, and I think I was at
Nordstrom Rack and they had this this like one piece
you know, yes, in that jumpsuit life. So I got one.
Then my sister in law, oh I know. My sister
in law was wearing a pink one one time and
I was like, that is so cute, and I borrowed
it to wear to a wedding, okay, a daytime wedding.
I was like, oh my god, a one piece you
look cute and jumpsuit would be perfect. Right then she
wanted it back, so I was like, I really want
this jumpsuit, but I could not.
Speaker 1: They it was like discontinued.
Speaker 2: But I went to Nordstrom Rack, which is where she'd
gotten it, and I got the same one, but in
a different black.
Speaker 1: And then I was like, well, while I'm at it,
I should get one in red.
Speaker 2: Right, literally have never worn I wore the black one
on drew Berrymore.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I have an outfit for drew
Berrymore and the red one like just.
Speaker 1: Never came never. Okay again, where am I going? I
overbought jumpsuits, right, It's so funny jumpsuits. Whendy and I
were when we were in Florida. We were at the
mall and Tree People has this jumpsuit. It's like the
it's like the material of my jogging pants. It's just
like soft cotton and it's pretty casual. But it's a jumpsuit.
And we were traveling the next day. We bought them
in a bunch of different colors. They were like nothing
like twelve bucks each, and she wore her like gray
one and I wore my brown one and were wearing
them as we were traveling because they were because they
had deep pockets. They're perfect for comfy. And we're at
the airport thinking like we're hot shit, and this lady
walks by and she goes nice jumpsuit ladies, I mean
look at her and she's wearing like a green one,
the same exact one. Tree People you mean free People,
Free People. Yeah, yeah, yeah, treat People is not a
new brand now about Yeah, that's how long it's been
since I've been in the mall. That is so funny. Yeah,
we women, we do. So.
Speaker 2: You know what's like in style right now is those
like it looks like pajamas. It's like a silky pop
and then silky pants. Yes, everybody's wearing them and they're they.
Speaker 1: Match, right, I've noticed that.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I was with my friend and I go,
but it looks like pajamas, and she goes, yeah, that's
the point.
Speaker 1: Didn't Erica Caine wear something like that? Jane, Erica Jane,
Erica Kaine when she was on Treat People.
Speaker 2: Yeah, when she was on Treating People, Yes, Erica, she
was wearing I know, yes, that's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was like looking at her, going she looks
like she's in her pajamas, right, Yeah, And but it
is the style. Slit into like, no, that's the style.
It is the style dressed up. No, you're not. You
look like you're wearing pajama. Yeah. And another housewife on Salt,
like Lisa Barlow, wears those outfits too, And I'm like,
she's going to a party and everybody's dressed in like dresses.
She looks like she just rolled out of bed. Yes,
but I guess that's the point. I guess so.
Speaker 2: But like you said, on The Real Housewives, Erica Jane,
who I will now call eric k Jane.
Speaker 1: Was wearing that.
Speaker 2: But everybody else was wearing dresses. Yeah, right, like now
you do look like you're the only one in pajama yeah,
even though I get like in another scene Kyle was
wearing one too.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it is the style, but I
think it's going to be gone quick like and then
you're going to look back on it in five years ago.
What was I thinking looking like that? Like I look
like I'm in my pajamas at a nice dress up party. Yeah,
but that you would think that would be up our alley,
you would. But you know what it is.
Speaker 2: I think our boobs are too big for that, right,
because there's something about when stuff is too flowy and
then the pants are flowing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it gives makes you look shapeless. I hate boobs
are big.
Speaker 2: Then it just then the top hangs over, right, I mean,
oh yeah, it's nothing.
Speaker 1: No, it just looks sloppy. It does look sloppy for us. Yeah,
I agree, that's I don't like wearing big tops like
that because it makes you look pregnant. Yeah, yes, and
dresses and stuff too.
Speaker 2: So I do want to tell you this thing because
our patreon is loosely related. Okay, So I went to
a birthday dinner with my my ladies, my mom's, my
long long, long time friends. So every person's birthday who's
in this group, the extended group is probably like let's
see eight, nine, ten, there's probably like ten or eleven
of us all together, Like, let's just say ten.
Speaker 1: It's pretty big. It's a big group of women.
Speaker 2: I'm not like, I'm I know them all and would
feel free to text all of them. But they're not
all my close close friends. Okay, my close girlies are
the ones that I mention all the time. But anyway,
it doesn't really matter. Two of the ones that I'm
fairly close to, it was their birthday and they decided
to do a joint birthday.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: Two of those were people I'd just gone to yachtlie
Krue with, okay and had a bad time. Yeah, too loud,
so you're splittingly loud. Right, And so my friend Laura,
who was sitting next to me her watch, I think
I told you this when I was telling you about
yachtli Crue. Her watch kept warning her like that it's
too loud. This this umble thing's hearing damage. That's crazy. Okay, Yeah,
like thirty minutes of this and you could damage your hearing.
And Laura told me that when she was young, like
a like young, like a teenager, she had got permanent
hearing damage from a Simple Minds concert because she was
standing like in front of the speakers. Wow, and she
lost her hearing for like three days, she could barely hear.
And then she had gone to the audiologist or whatever,
and he said, you've lost permanently your high frequency, part
of your high frequency. And he's like, it won't affect
you now, you're not going to notice it. But when
you get older, wow, and you start actually like changing
your hearing changes, it's going to affect you then. And
sure enough she's my age, a little bit younger than me,
and she wears hearing aids.
Speaker 1: Wow, my gosh.
Speaker 2: And a lot of people, I think our age are,
you know, younger and younger people are starting to wear
hearing aids because as we I think we've talked about this,
like no shame in your game, a lot of us
are realizing we got hearing damage when we were young.
And you're like, oh, I'm having trouble hearing. Oh yeah,
I got guy friends that are wearing them. Yeah, So
we talked about that. Anyway, I feel like very much
want to be careful of my hearing, like I don't
need to be Yeah, And like I said last week,
ain't nobody need Yachtley Crue.
Speaker 1: Ajescibles above me?
Speaker 2: No? I know, her watch kept telling her that it
was above ninety. Okay, So we go to that weird
We're doing one of our birthday dinners, which are normally
at very normal restaurants, but my friend decides she wants
to try something new. I don't know if you've ever
been to this restaurant, I'll just tell you what it's called.
Speaker 1: It's called a nahou a n e j o, right, and.
Speaker 2: It's in Triman Oaks, and she's like, it's a Mexican
Mexican food.
Speaker 1: We're all like cool, cool.
Speaker 2: Upstairs, it's like very beautiful from the outside, seems seems
like it'll be fun, right, go up there.
Speaker 1: This was Saturday night, it's anyway.
Speaker 2: We get seated and right away I'm like, oh, this
is a red flag. It's like kind of banquet table
almost seeming like it's but these long tables. So you know,
there's just a lot of big parties. If you've ever
been to a Buka to Beppo, yes and been offended
by the noise level there, just the clattering and because
you know why, too many big parties in like an enclosed.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, okay, can't hear each other.
Speaker 2: I can't hear each other. Okay, can't hear each other.
So we sit down at this long table and there's
a long table literally like right behind us, like dominoes, right,
like yeah, two tables, and it's all of these women
that clearly like work at an office together, right right,
you know the type. They're dressed like they work at
an office. They look the right age to be like
office workers, and they are so happy to be out together.
Speaker 1: And there is so much woo cackling.
Speaker 2: Oh god, oh no, because I'm sitting like the back
of my chair is backing up to the back of the.
Speaker 1: Other office lady's chair right close. Yeah, they're super loud.
Speaker 2: So my friend, who also is the one who damaged
her hearing it simple minds, She's immediately like with me,
we're same page. She's just like, uh oh, it's loud
in here, right, And I was like, yeah, this is
going to be a lot, and she goes, well, they
wanted to seat us over at this other table, and
she points and there's like this divider behind the table,
and she goes, but there's like a job party and
she goes, and I walked over there and she goes,
and it was so loud that I said, absolutely not
right now, That's how we got this table. So these
women were like looking at the menu.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And I forgot to tell you this part. Okay.
Speaker 2: So Sadie was out for the day with her friend
and had had the car. We have two cars, and
then Albie has a car, so Sadie's out with one
of our cars for the whole day. I say, I
was going to drive all my friends to this restaurant
because I don't drink.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I ever mentioned it. So then John.
Speaker 2: Says, you know what, Actually I have to drive Xander
to a party at seven and I was this dinner
was at six thirty. So he's like, I said, okay,
don't worry about it.
Speaker 1: I'm going to ask my friend to drive. And she
was fine driving. So I go to the dinner.
Speaker 2: We get there, we're ordering, my phone starts blowing up
and John's like, hey, are you there?
Speaker 1: Are you there? Where's the car keys?
Speaker 2: Because I finally look at my phone I've got a
text from Xander going, hey, Mom, where are the car keys?
Dad can't find the car keys. And then I got
John going, I don't know where the car keys are.
Speaker 1: Well, I took the car.
Speaker 2: Keys with because it's just not a normal thing that
I would think about.
Speaker 1: It almost never happens. Did I leave the car and
get picked up?
Speaker 2: And if I do, I would really have to think
it through and go, okay, I have the keys.
Speaker 1: Does any you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: I just didn't think about it, so I'm like, oh, no, shit,
I have the car keys. And John was very sweet
about it, but he's like, okay, what do you want
to do? Yeah, So then I had this idea. I
was like, oh my god, I've got it. Uber to
the restaurant. I'll give you the keys and then you
can like take it from there. I'll get a ride home,
like with what with what car?
Speaker 1: Though?
Speaker 2: The car is in the driveway. Oh shit, good point.
He's like, then I got to uber home, yeah, which
I was like, well, yeah, I guess that's a lot. Yeah,
we're there with Xander, get the keys. Then you both
have to uber home. It's going to take a while.
Speaker 1: Right then, my friend was like, you can.
Speaker 2: Take my car, but we were literally like ordering our food,
I'm gonna have to go.
Speaker 1: We parked kind of far at the car drive all
the way home. I was like, just send them in
an uber, but it was far right right.
Speaker 2: So he's like, okay, it's like a sixty five dollars
uber ride including tip, and I was like, well, it's
better than just being like you can't go to the party, right, Okay.
Speaker 1: So he sends them to the party.
Speaker 2: When I get home, and I'm thinking, okay, when I
get home, I'll go pick him up. It's going to
be like eleven or something. No, just by the way.
When I was like, in my name, it's like nine
forty five, I start getting text from John going are
you almost home? Because his part he needs to be
picked up at ten. Oh no, oh my gosh. I'm like,
oh god, it all worked out and I picked him up.
I got home and I picked him up and everything
was fine. But so back to the restaurant, Yeah, that
I fucked up. Cost sixty five dollars to send Xander
in an uber. Because I was at this dinner, right,
these people are being so loud. We almost wanted to
tell the waiter, like, can you tell them?
Speaker 1: Yeah, fuck up? They just kept going the worst. It
is the worst. I know, I know, and it's but
when it's always loud, or it's all loud all the
way around, then that makes them be louder, right, And
then I don't know about you, but I can't hear
when I'm in those kind of situations. If we're in
a loud restaurant and somebody's talking, I could barely hear
what they're saying, Like I can't, it's too loud.
Speaker 2: That was pretty bad and pretty loud, and it was
hard to hear each other. And then this must have
been at seven point thirty to say, by the time
we all got in there and got settled and had
it was let's say seven. Then we're ordering our food
now it's like, I mean, couldn't have been more than
like seven twenty. All of a sudden, for no reason,
out of nowhere, this really loud music starts.
Speaker 1: Oh no, and we all look at each other like
what is happening?
Speaker 2: And it's like thunder on the head when it's raining,
and we're like, is there karaoke?
Speaker 1: You gotta be fucked now.
Speaker 2: If this is a karaoke restaurant at night and it's
not late, it's oh there's old people around us. Yeah,
nobody needs this. Turns out not karaoke.
Speaker 1: It's a band. And it was so loud. That's ridiculous.
Speaker 2: There was no reason to have a band in restaurant, right,
there was nowhere was it atised that it's five entertainment. Yeah, screaming,
screaming loud, Like let's say there's eight people in this band,
just super super loud music. And then the person was
having to like scream sing over the music. We're all
looking at each other now. The people that had been.
Speaker 1: To Yachtli Crew, yeah, were all traumatized.
Speaker 2: Like I have fucking PTSD right, Like this can't be
happening again.
Speaker 1: I put napkin.
Speaker 2: I rolled up pieces of napkin, put it in my ears,
and then I just sat there. I couldn't hear the
person next to me. Yeah, I just sat there and
I was like, and this is going to sound like
a small bitch, but if you're me and you don't drink,
so everybody's ordering like margarite and having a great time,
and I'm like, what just water?
Speaker 1: I guess I don't. I just didn't even want to
diet coke. I was like, let's just suck it. Then
I order. There was nothing I even really want.
Speaker 2: I can't explain the menu, but I ordered a salad
and it came with these I guess this is maybe
a popular and a Mexican restauant, but I'd never heard
of it on a caesar salad. They're they're like these seeds.
They're kind of nuts. Are they called them compitos or something?
Maybe they look like pumpkin seeds, but they're kind of
like gray. My salad was full of these like nuts
that didn't But I wasn't going to be like, can
I return my.
Speaker 1: Solid into the pedos on it?
Speaker 2: So if you can imagine, I can't to be a
party pooper.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I got this lames and you can't
even have the food with some chips and a little
chips and salsa.
Speaker 2: There was some guaca moley, but when the guacamole came,
I was dealing with the Xander with oh my god,
I have the car keys.
Speaker 1: By the time I was done with that, they don't
like walks gone.
Speaker 3: Now like sitting there with my stupid salads, I can't
hear anything.
Speaker 1: My friend was looking at me like, I know, this
is so bad, or Lara is just like she felt.
She was like, I am.
Speaker 2: And then my friend who'd been at Yachtlee Cruise at
the other end of the table, she starts texting me.
Speaker 1: She's like, oh my god, I'm in hell. Yes, because
that's the only way you can communicate is just texting
each other. Yes, I'm trying to find h Yes, it's
the worst.
Speaker 2: She wrote, I need hearing aids, and she wrote or
toilet paper, and then I just wrote I'm in hell.
Speaker 1: And then we all just kept looking at each other.
And then I wish we all would have.
Speaker 2: Just left after we ate. Yeah, but they were like, no,
we're going to do presents. I'm like, what can't hear me?
I was just sitting there.
Speaker 1: Please God, I'm having the worst time. Why you should
have just been like, my kids are calling me, I
gotta go. I couldn't because I didn't drive, So you
didn't drive. That's right. Wow, I was stuck. You were stuck.
Oh my god, that sounds so fricking miserable.
Speaker 2: Haven't been that miserable in a really long time. And
you know, I normally really like these birthday diners.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we look forward to them.
Speaker 2: My friend called me this morning, though, and she was
just like, I am so sorry I chose that restaurant.
Speaker 1: It's not your fault. No, I know, how could we
have known.
Speaker 2: I feel like they should have given you a heads up,
like just by the way, like we have a really
a band is gonna play something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not like the band didn't start at ten
pm when like people dropped. That's ridiculous, and it becomes
a nightclub. It was nightclub level noise. So I did
a thing. I looked on my phone and I.
Speaker 2: There's like an app, well thing you just google it
to see what the decibel is.
Speaker 1: In the room.
Speaker 2: Oh really, So I ran a little program you did
not really and it was it was fluctuating between ninety
and it was going over one hundred.
Speaker 1: Oh god.
Speaker 2: Set at this level you can get hearing damage in
seven minutes.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yes, you know what.
Speaker 2: I don't know if this is going to come across,
but I took a voice memo of the noise level.
Speaker 1: Do you want to see it?
Speaker 2: Yes, if it'll play, yeah, you know, it might not
play as loud as it really felt, but.
Speaker 3: Hello, oh god, Okay, no, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you've taken voice memos on your phone,
but I really want you to think about this. When
you do do a voice memo on your phone, it
comes out much quieter than the actual volume. Is I
see because it's a microphone. You're not like, it's not
a good sensitive. Yes, it's really picking up what you're hearing.
Speaker 1: It's going to be.
Speaker 2: So that was muffled compared to, Oh my god, but
in your ears?
Speaker 1: Where your ears ringing the next day?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, my ears, my ears physically hurt like
you did after a yacht cruise.
Speaker 1: That's horrible. My god, Stepan, you're going deaf, is it?
I don't know. No, it's not your age. I would
have hated that too well, but I am your age.
I don't know, it's all. I never liked going out
to dinner at loud restaurants because you can't hear anybody
when they're talking. And also you're trying to enjoy your
meal and people are talking so loud they're like spitting
into your food and stuff. It's so unpleasant. It's like
either you're a restaurant or you're a karaoke bar. One
of the other. Pick a lane, yeah, pick a lane,
pick a quiet lane, a lane? Oh my god. But
I was like, is this the rest of my life?
I can always be like, how loud is it? I'm
gonna have to look it up.
Speaker 2: We're planning a girls trip for February where are like
a little faction of our bigger group is going to
go see air supply and I'm like, okay, I feel
like air supply seems safe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna scream lie in.
Speaker 2: Alone, right, that's got to be quieter.
Speaker 1: I would bring ear plugs going to you have to
for sure, I'm going.
Speaker 2: To Yeah, I think, by the way really quick. But
before we go, Elbe, a bunch of our listeners were
giving me advice on on reusable air plugs. Yes for
LB so I found a pair. They're called Loop and
okay to be a good, very well rated brand, and
they're perfect for music, kaves and stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh good.
Speaker 2: You can still hear the music. But it helps to
protect your Thank god. Yeah, you need to protect Alby's here.
Speaker 1: You need to, I know. But like, is she gonna
wear them? Yes?
Speaker 2: She will because because after Yachtlee Crew, I was telling
her that story and I was like, do you protect
your ears? And she was like, no, I need to though,
like looking into getting some that's good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, air plug yeah good. Wow, my god, it's horrible.
Speaker 2: Yeah, say, I never bring you any stories.
Speaker 1: As a good story. I love that.
Speaker 2: All of our stories now somehow involved meeting with your sixties.
Speaker 1: By hearing memory my double vision show. Are weazies? I know,
I know when we started, I was in my forties.
Speaker 2: I know only forties right right, anyway, let's say hi
to our people. We got Dick is a frolicker, Nikki,
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