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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, I'm back.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen. I have a good one for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I've talked about this so many times, but I've never

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<v Speaker 1>done an actual podcast on it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do it today. Who are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I paused for a reason. It was intentional.

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<v Speaker 2>Who are you Now?

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<v Speaker 3>I know without a doubt, irrefutably, that many of you out.

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<v Speaker 2>There are pretending and faking.

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<v Speaker 1>Many of you out there could easily get an Emmy,

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<v Speaker 1>a Grammy, some award because you are so good at

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<v Speaker 1>faking and pretending. But let me ask you this question, also,

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<v Speaker 1>where has it gotten you? Where has it gotten you? Seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>where has it gotten you.

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<v Speaker 2>Nowhere?

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<v Speaker 1>You may have accomplished things, you may have done very

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<v Speaker 1>nefarious things, But bottom line is what I'm trying to say,

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<v Speaker 1>is it has gotten you nowhere, but in the same

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<v Speaker 1>state of mind. That's where it's gotten you, in the

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<v Speaker 1>same state of mind, stagnant.

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<v Speaker 2>Many of you.

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<v Speaker 1>You smile and you pretend everything is okay when you're

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<v Speaker 1>crying oceans of tears inside. Where does that get you nowhere?

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<v Speaker 1>But in the same state of mind. Some of you

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<v Speaker 1>are pretending to like people, pretending to be friends when

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<v Speaker 1>you know you can't stay in that person. Where has

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<v Speaker 1>it gotten you? Where has it benefit fitted you in

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<v Speaker 1>your life? See, a lot of people have agendas, but

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<v Speaker 1>the real culprit, the real reason why people do all

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<v Speaker 1>of the things that they do, whether they're acting in

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<v Speaker 1>a good manner or bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Because there are many people.

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<v Speaker 1>Who do great things, good things from very evil, wicked hearts.

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<v Speaker 1>But the things they do appear good, but they're from

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<v Speaker 1>a wicked heart. When you go through life faking and pretending,

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<v Speaker 1>you do not give yourself the opportunity to grow and

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<v Speaker 1>to mature into that person that you really could be.

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<v Speaker 2>You deny yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>That you neglect yourself when you do not give yourself

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to be the best that you can be. It

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<v Speaker 1>is because people are so unhealed, unhealed hearts and minds.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I talk about it all the time. Most

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<v Speaker 1>people go through life the very same way. And I've

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<v Speaker 1>said many times.

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<v Speaker 2>People may accomplish things in life.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they may reach their goals and things like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but their mindsets and their hearts have not changed.

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<v Speaker 2>Faking and pretending to get through.

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<v Speaker 1>The day or get through life keeps you right in

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<v Speaker 1>the same mental space, the same state of mind.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's no benefit to that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've kind of talked about this before where people think, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's helping me to cope from day to day.

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<v Speaker 2>It may be.

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<v Speaker 1>In your mindset, but it's holding you back as an

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<v Speaker 1>individual mentally, because see, we can function all day long,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're dysfunctional people. We just we're just able to

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<v Speaker 1>manage day to day and look functional, but we're really dysfunctional.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not talking about myself, but I'm just speaking in

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<v Speaker 1>those terms. People spend more time invested in other people

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<v Speaker 1>than in themselves. The investing that people do in themselves

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<v Speaker 1>is trying to become famous, rich, wealthy, notoriety, you know, recognized, validated.

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<v Speaker 2>Those are the things people invest in.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't invest into themselves to become the best they

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<v Speaker 1>can be, to become a better mental status, to come to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be people of better hearts and minds.

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<v Speaker 1>Because what people don't understand is they found themselves because truly, truly, truly,

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<v Speaker 1>when you are not at your best mentally, it affects

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<v Speaker 1>everything else. Because the mind, the body, and the spirit

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<v Speaker 1>all go together. It all goes together. Let me rephrase that,

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<v Speaker 1>the mind, the body, and the soul all goes together.

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<v Speaker 2>The spirit is a total different thing.

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<v Speaker 1>The mind, the body, and the soul all goes together.

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<v Speaker 1>The spirit is housed within us, but that's a different thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a different entity. Your mind and your body and

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<v Speaker 1>your soul is what make you who you are as

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<v Speaker 1>a person. People think it's your soul that comes out

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<v Speaker 1>of you when you die. No, it's your spirit. There

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<v Speaker 1>are two total different things. The soul can be manipulated,

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<v Speaker 1>the spirit can't because God has to control over the spirit.

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<v Speaker 1>We can manipulate the soul. That's why people minds are

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<v Speaker 1>so messed up because they allow others to manipulate them.

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<v Speaker 1>They allow themselves to manipulate self because the mindset, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the worst enemy. It's the worst enemy. People have been

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<v Speaker 1>taught the enemy is outside. The enemy is outside. No,

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<v Speaker 1>the enemy is inside. You are your worst enemy. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why you're easily manipulated. You're easily brainwashed, You're easily conditioned,

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<v Speaker 1>you're easily.

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<v Speaker 2>Coherst you're easily influenced.

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<v Speaker 1>You can watch something on TV and you have not

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<v Speaker 1>thought about doing something or eating something. You see that

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<v Speaker 1>commercial or that advertisement, You want it, and you will

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<v Speaker 1>keep thinking about it until you get it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's because your mindset.

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<v Speaker 1>You have no self control, none, so you're easily persuaded

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<v Speaker 1>and influenced. So people go through life pretending that they're

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<v Speaker 1>one way when they know they are another. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>so many people are so shocked when.

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<v Speaker 2>They find out.

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<v Speaker 1>High ranking officers are doing drugs, high ranking officers.

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<v Speaker 4>Are in child porn rings, child sex rings, These high

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<v Speaker 4>ranking officers are sexual assaulting people, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Or you hear these celebrities doing certain things. And you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I'm not just picking on people of how stature.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all people. It's all people. Because brokenness does not discriminate.

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<v Speaker 1>You are not exempt from brokenness. The only people who

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<v Speaker 1>are exempt from brokenness is those who have allowed healing

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<v Speaker 1>of their hearts and minds.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it. That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>We all change because as we age, we like things

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<v Speaker 1>that we didn't used to like, or we don't like

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<v Speaker 1>things that we really really.

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<v Speaker 2>Used to like. So we change in certain ways.

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<v Speaker 1>We change in certain areas, but not mentally, not in

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<v Speaker 1>a mental mature way. But we do change our views

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<v Speaker 1>and opinions on things as we age because we it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a natural process.

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<v Speaker 2>But we don't mature mentally, is what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You're still that same person trapped in that same mindset,

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<v Speaker 1>because that type of change is just natural. It's natural.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like us breathing that type of change. To some degree.

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<v Speaker 1>We all change because we get older and through experiences

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<v Speaker 1>and things like that. But I'm talking about that mental

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<v Speaker 1>change to make you into the best you possible, to

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<v Speaker 1>make you be that person who make better choices and decisions,

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<v Speaker 1>that person that does not allow and accept any and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>In their lives.

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<v Speaker 1>That person who chooses better for himself or herself, that

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<v Speaker 1>person who see beyond superficial, that person who is no

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<v Speaker 1>longer infatuating and mess merize and fixated on looks, things,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, possessions, money.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the change I'm talking about. But most people never

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<v Speaker 2>get there.

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<v Speaker 1>They die and go into their grades the same way mentally,

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<v Speaker 1>because they spend most of their lives pretending. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you are a person who hate people based on the

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<v Speaker 1>color of their skin, but you're smiling their face every day,

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<v Speaker 1>pretending you like them. But you will do very nefarious

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<v Speaker 1>things undercover.

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<v Speaker 2>That don't betterfit you.

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<v Speaker 1>All that does is causes you to each closer and

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<v Speaker 1>closer to hell because you're gonna die someday.

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<v Speaker 2>And everything you do, you will reap what you soul.

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<v Speaker 1>So pretending that you're not racist when you know you're racist,

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<v Speaker 1>you might as well do it out only like many people,

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<v Speaker 1>just be who you really are, because you're not hiding

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<v Speaker 1>it from God.

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<v Speaker 2>He knows and sense at all, and he is the judge.

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<v Speaker 2>He is gonna place you where you've chosen to go.

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<v Speaker 2>People spend their whole lives sacred and pretending.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you are struggling every day to stay alive

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<v Speaker 1>because every day you're thinking about killing yourself. People get

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<v Speaker 1>to that point in life because they carry so much

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<v Speaker 1>unhealed inside of them, and then as they go through life,

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<v Speaker 1>they're picking up the unhealed of everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Else, just powdering on themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>They're trying to love, they're trying to be parents, they're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to, you know, get something in life. All of

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff powering, powering, powering, until they feel that they

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<v Speaker 1>can't take it anymore. They can't take it, and people

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<v Speaker 1>want to give in, give up, because you spend all

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<v Speaker 1>of your time faking and pretending instead of allowing healing

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<v Speaker 1>in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>You kept looking outside for healing when you should have

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<v Speaker 2>been looking inside.

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<v Speaker 1>You know it goes the same for people who they

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<v Speaker 1>look good, they speak well and everything, but they're so

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<v Speaker 1>broken inside. They're so broken inside they cry every day.

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<v Speaker 1>They hate being alone. They be with anyone than to

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<v Speaker 1>be by themselves. Instead of allowing healing to take place,

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<v Speaker 1>they spend all of their time pretending they drain themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make everybody else happy when they're miserable inside.

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<v Speaker 2>It don't benefit you.

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<v Speaker 1>You may gain people who say they care about you,

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<v Speaker 1>most of the time people don't. They just care about

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<v Speaker 1>what you can do for them. But you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>the difference. You have.

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<v Speaker 2>Many people who are in the workplace just carry.

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<v Speaker 1>All of their unhealed to the workplace bosses on down.

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<v Speaker 1>You have bosses doing inappropriate things, saying inappropriate things, sexually assaulting,

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<v Speaker 1>sexually harassing, bosses, supervisors, leaders doing these things, workplace spewing hate.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because of unheal hearts and minds.

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<v Speaker 2>Unhealed hearts and minds, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then when their heads are on the chopping block, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not true.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't do it. That is not me. I'm the

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<v Speaker 2>most loving and caring person.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not true until somebody have recorded them. You have

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<v Speaker 1>people with all of these weird sexual fantasies and fetishes,

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<v Speaker 1>just creeps, creeps, creeps creeps.

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<v Speaker 2>But they pretend that they are normal people.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can never heal by pretending that you're normal

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<v Speaker 1>when you know you are doing things you cannot heal

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<v Speaker 1>when you are holding on.

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<v Speaker 2>To all of this mess.

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<v Speaker 1>You have people who I said earlier, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>listed high ranking officers. But let me tell you, it's

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<v Speaker 1>all ranks, and it's all people from all walks of life.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's into child porn. You know that's wrong. That is

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<v Speaker 1>six six sick. But instead of you receiving help for

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<v Speaker 1>the way you are, you go through life the same way,

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<v Speaker 1>doing things undercover.

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<v Speaker 2>That does nothing to heal you from that.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe anybody can be healed from anything if they choose.

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<v Speaker 1>You must choose it. I truly believe that a person

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<v Speaker 1>can be here from anything. I've heard people say a

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<v Speaker 1>pedophiles can't be healed, and you know that was my

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<v Speaker 1>major in one of my majors in college counseling, dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with sexual counseling and all of that. I believe anybody

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<v Speaker 1>can be healed from anything if they choose, but you.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to want it, and it takes a changed art and.

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<v Speaker 1>Mind, you know, like the r Kelles and the Weinstein

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<v Speaker 1>and the Epstein's. These people did what they did because

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<v Speaker 1>they were allowed to.

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<v Speaker 2>And instead of.

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<v Speaker 2>Many people every day struggling between.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people suicidal, some people homicidal, some people are both.

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<v Speaker 1>and pain, and they just projected, projected, projected people talk

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<v Speaker 1>That is a learned behavior from your pains. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>who they say you are. You're worthy, You're worthy of

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<v Speaker 2>For yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Most of the world, the people you see every day

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<v Speaker 1>You know you're a person that's better than others because

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<v Speaker 1>there is. You can gain the whole world and be

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<v Speaker 2>So who are you? The real you? You can fake

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<v Speaker 1>You know you're in pain, you know you're hurting, you

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<v Speaker 1>Because you know what you went through some of you

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<v Speaker 1>gained all of that from childhood and carry it in

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<v Speaker 2>You gained it as adults.

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<v Speaker 1>Because the path that you chose, you want to be successful,

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<v Speaker 1>you want a family, you want this, you want that.

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<v Speaker 2>So the path you chose is why you are where

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<v Speaker 2>you are mentally.

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<v Speaker 1>You let people in your life because you thought they

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna help you get somewhere. You open yourself up

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<v Speaker 1>to the wrong people and the wrong things. You took

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<v Speaker 1>because you thought you were gonna get something from them,

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<v Speaker 1>or you got something from them, but you bet out.

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<v Speaker 2>More than you can choose.

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<v Speaker 1>So now you have all of these mental illnesses because

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<v Speaker 1>of the mental stress that you went.

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<v Speaker 2>Through to get to where you are.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, people don't understand their mindsets are their worst enemy.

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<v Speaker 1>It leads you into dark places that you shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>ever been in. You didn't have to go there, but

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<v Speaker 1>you did because you was trying to obtain something. Whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's career, school, a title, a position, it don't matter.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Love yourself enough to walk away from anything or anyone

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<v Speaker 1>that is no good for you. I don't care who

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<v Speaker 1>they are or what it is. You have to know

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and love yourself enough to say hell, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>will not do that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, broken people.

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<v Speaker 1>They look at TV and they see all of the

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Social media is packed with all kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of information that's disinformation that people gravitate to.

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<v Speaker 2>Or you can do this spell for this, this spell

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<v Speaker 2>for that.

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<v Speaker 1>People get on there and they talk like they really

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<v Speaker 1>know for a fact what they're talking about, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>all opinions.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all opinions.

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<v Speaker 1>But so many people fall for things because they are

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<v Speaker 1>just that gullible. Look at the world we're in today,

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<v Speaker 1>Look at the state of mind of the people.

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<v Speaker 2>It is crazy because people.

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<v Speaker 1>Are so easily influenced and condition and indoctrinated into things

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<v Speaker 1>so easily they eat things that they should never eat.

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<v Speaker 2>Dot even mention those things and thinking they're gonna live longer.

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<v Speaker 2>No boo bo you're going to die.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not gonna live no longer than God intending you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna die.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care what you eat, I don't care what

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<v Speaker 2>you injecting you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to die and guess what, more than likely

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<v Speaker 1>go to hell because of the things that you've done.

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<v Speaker 1>People worried about prolonging life and looking youthful. You better

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<v Speaker 1>be worrying about where your spirit is gonna go when

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<v Speaker 1>you leave this world, because when we live here, we

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<v Speaker 1>live forever.

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<v Speaker 2>We are those beings that do not die.

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<v Speaker 1>You die from this natural body, but when you leave

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<v Speaker 1>this natural body, when your spirit rides about you, you're eternal.

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<v Speaker 1>What you chose while you were living is what you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get over there. And I'm going by the word

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<v Speaker 1>of God, and I believe the word of God. People

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<v Speaker 1>can say what they want to say about the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sticking in staying I'd rather die and be wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Than to die.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's the truth. And you chose the other way

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<v Speaker 1>because you you won't lose anything if you believed and

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<v Speaker 1>it's nothing, but if you believe, if you disbelieve, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's something, My God, My God, stop wasting your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people are just existing. They're unhappy and miserable inside.

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<v Speaker 1>They're putting on these fake smiles. Some people they've gotten

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<v Speaker 1>to the point they can't even fake it anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>They just can't fake it. It's too much. So they

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<v Speaker 2>are miserable, miserable, miserable.

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<v Speaker 1>They look sad, they look depressed, they look lonely, But

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<v Speaker 1>that's because of the mindsets in your hearts. You have

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<v Speaker 1>succumbed to the negativity, to the negative thoughts, the negative

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<v Speaker 1>ways of thinking. You have succumbed to that. The more

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<v Speaker 1>you give power to anything, it is able to control you,

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<v Speaker 1>to consume you. And that's what most people have done.

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<v Speaker 1>People not even trying to be better.

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<v Speaker 2>They're not even trying at all.

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<v Speaker 1>When you choose to do nothing about your situation, you

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<v Speaker 1>remain the same. You go through life, you experience similar things,

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<v Speaker 1>you get the same or similar results because you haven't changed.

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<v Speaker 1>Your surroundings may change, your situations may change, but you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't changed mentally. That's why you can go to the

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<v Speaker 1>ends of the world to start over. But because you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't changed, you're gonna start experiencing similar things. And one

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<v Speaker 1>of the biggest downfalls of people is they always think

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<v Speaker 1>it's the next person. They put the blame on everyone

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<v Speaker 1>else but themselves. You do the monkey do monkey see

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<v Speaker 1>monkey doo, but you blame other people because you've done

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<v Speaker 1>the monkey see monkey doo. You blame other people because

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<v Speaker 1>you went alone to get along. You blame other people

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<v Speaker 1>because you went alone to be long, but you blame

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<v Speaker 1>you blame other people because other people are blaming other.

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<v Speaker 2>People, but you don't get it. You don't get it because.

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<v Speaker 1>You're easily brainwashed and indoctrinated into things. You're easily persuaded

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<v Speaker 1>and influenced bamboozle.

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<v Speaker 2>So you can't see any.

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<v Speaker 1>Of this because you don't have eyes to see because

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<v Speaker 1>of your unhealed hearts and minds. So faking it and

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<v Speaker 1>pretending does nothing to benefit you. So who are you?

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<v Speaker 2>You know who you are.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you're sneaky, you know you're devilish, you know

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<v Speaker 1>you're wicked. You know that you're hurting, you know that

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<v Speaker 1>you're full of strife, you know that you're angry. You

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<v Speaker 1>know all of the things that you need to know

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<v Speaker 1>about you, but you're doing nothing to become a better person.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why you see many, many rich people who are

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<v Speaker 1>filthy rich, but it's not enough.

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<v Speaker 2>They still seek more and more and more filthy rich.

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<v Speaker 1>These people doing concerts filthy rich, but they're still charging

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<v Speaker 1>one thousand, fifteen hundred, ten thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>For people to come to that concerts.

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<v Speaker 1>When they're filthy rich, never will spend all of that money.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because that's because of what's going on inside of them.

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<v Speaker 1>When you choose the devil. You gotta always give homage

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<v Speaker 1>to the devil, and he will not let you stop.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta keep going, keep going, keep going. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>you see people in their eighties and stuff and things

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<v Speaker 1>like that who just keep going, keep going, keep going, keep.

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<v Speaker 2>Going, keep going, because they can't sit down.

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<v Speaker 1>When the devil gets tired of using him, then he boom,

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<v Speaker 1>take them out.

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<v Speaker 2>And let them die. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds far fetched, but it's the truth. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be rich to give in to the devil.

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<v Speaker 1>Many people have. Many people have. They're in the New

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<v Speaker 1>Age worship, believing in alchemy, believing and that they're God's

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean so much because of unhealed hearts and minds.

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<v Speaker 1>When you allow healing in your life, it changes you.

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<v Speaker 1>It changes you. You don't think the same, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel the same, you don't act the same. You become

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<v Speaker 1>a person who is mentally mature, who act mentally mature,

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<v Speaker 1>who make mentally mature decisions and choices. You're not led

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<v Speaker 1>by others. You're not led by the superficial. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>led by what your eyes see.

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<v Speaker 2>People need to wake up.

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<v Speaker 1>No one can change you, but you you can look

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<v Speaker 1>higher and low. No one can change you but you.

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<v Speaker 1>They can influence you and motivate you to change, to

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<v Speaker 1>want to change, but you have to do the change.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to want it. Me wanting it for you,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not gonna make you do it. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>want it for yourself. And unfortunately a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>are just led. They're just led because, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>they go along, don't know nothing from nothing, but they

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<v Speaker 1>still go along, they still get on board just because

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<v Speaker 1>they're so easily manipulating and things like that. There are

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<v Speaker 1>people out there who are weaker and broker than you,

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<v Speaker 1>but you have given power to them because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe in yourself. You don't love yourself. Most people don't

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<v Speaker 1>love themselves, but they think that they do. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I always throw out the challenge, look at what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on in your life, look at what you're doing, Look

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<v Speaker 1>at what you're faking and pretending. Look at the secrets

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<v Speaker 1>you think you have. Look at what you allow an

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<v Speaker 1>accept from other people. Look at who you allow into

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<v Speaker 1>your life and why Got'll tell you about yourself. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't love yourself when you're willing to do any and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't love yourself when you just want someone.

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<v Speaker 2>To be with you don't care who.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't love yourself when you're trying to build gold digger,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're greedy and lustful, you don't love yourself. When

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<v Speaker 1>money is making you and you're not making money, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't love yourself. Let me say that again. The goal

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<v Speaker 1>is to make money, but most people money is making them.

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<v Speaker 2>Make money. Don't let it make you.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people let it make them, and they turn into

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<v Speaker 1>these horrible individuals who have no care or love for.

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<v Speaker 2>Others because they don't love themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>There is no way you love yourself when you're doing

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<v Speaker 1>everybody else wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>There is no possible way. You just think you do.

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<v Speaker 1>Looking cute, it's not gonna fix you. Having plastic surgery

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<v Speaker 1>is not gonna fix you. Lying and conniving it's not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna fix you. Faking and pretending it's not gonna fix you.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to allow inner healing.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to do the inside work in order for

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<v Speaker 1>the outside to work properly for you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's just it. That's the bottom line.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want change to occur, you have to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with your inner issues and allow healing. I don't care

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<v Speaker 1>what happened, who did it, how long you went through it,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to forgive, and most of all, forgive yourself

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<v Speaker 1>for living such a long many years holding on to

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<v Speaker 1>that negativity. It does not matter where it came from,

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<v Speaker 1>who did it, because when you're an adult, it's self

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<v Speaker 1>inflicted because you're no longer going through it. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you are as an adult, shame on you. Shame on you,

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<v Speaker 1>because that tells you you don't love yourself if you're

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<v Speaker 1>allowing anyone to misuse or mistreat you as an adult.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand there are adult children who are not mentally

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<v Speaker 1>capable to take care of themselves because they were never taught.

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<v Speaker 2>I for sure know there are people like that that exist.

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<v Speaker 1>Because their parents, even as old as they are now,

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<v Speaker 1>they are mentally affected themselves, so they have projected that

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<v Speaker 1>onto their children, who have lived their entire lives mentally incapacitated.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not talking about them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about grown folks who know better, who have

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<v Speaker 1>the mindset to know better, but just don't do better.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what it's up to you to change.

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<v Speaker 1>I know some of you you so comfortable in your negativity,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's awful. Change starts with you, no one else

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<v Speaker 1>but you Faking and pretending has gotten you nowhere Mentally.

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<v Speaker 1>It may have physically or you know where, you could

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<v Speaker 1>see things tangible, but mentally you're still that hurting person.

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<v Speaker 1>So the benefit is none. That's all I'm saying. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>leaving it right there.

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<v Speaker 2>Change is up to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Please share this episode. Thank you so much for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>You much love to each and every one of you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I in every episode the same, and I

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<v Speaker 1>pray to God, amiscind Jesus that you do it, be

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<v Speaker 1>caught it
