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<v Speaker 1>All right, Windsor is where we're going. Yeah, my hometown.

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<v Speaker 2>Jake is on the line, got ghosted after a first

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<v Speaker 2>date and needs answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, Jake.

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<v Speaker 3>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, welcome to the show. Tell us about this first date.

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<v Speaker 4>You went on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thanks. I'm very confused. The date went great.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>There was, I would say, like an immediate attraction that

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<v Speaker 3>we had. Aw. And, again, I took her to this winery,

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<v Speaker 3>this weird wine, and chatted for hours. Mm-hmm. And then

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<v Speaker 3>we went back to her place. We watched a movie.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it was just, like, a great time. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't really... I keep looking back and thinking, like, how

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<v Speaker 3>could it have gone any better? How.

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<v Speaker 4>So, Jake, the date.

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<v Speaker 3>It was perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're telling me the date was so good that

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<v Speaker 2>you ended the date back at her place?

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you guys hook up afterwards?

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<v Speaker 2>Stop.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually a good question.

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<v Speaker 4>Do a little dance? Do the hokey pokey?

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<v Speaker 3>Jeff. Look, look, look. A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. Yay!

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<v Speaker 4>I like that. Congratulations. When you say that, everyone knows.

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<v Speaker 3>Still, I mean, you can read between the lines if

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<v Speaker 3>you'd like, but I don't want to get into details.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's best to just leave it at that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you have a great date. You end the night

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<v Speaker 1>at her place. Did you send her a text or

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<v Speaker 1>call her after the date?

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<v Speaker 3>Right, I texted her the next morning, and... This was

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<v Speaker 3>a few days ago. She didn't respond.

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<v Speaker 1>Question. Did you go through her drawers? Because I had

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<v Speaker 1>a friend that that happened to. Which drawers? Oh, like

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<v Speaker 1>dresser drawers. Yeah, like he went through her stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>No. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Just asking.

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<v Speaker 3>Go through her drawers.

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<v Speaker 1>Just asking.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, Jake. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So you did reach out to her and you got ghosted.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly. She didn't respond and... Yeah, it was just such

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<v Speaker 3>a perfect evening. I just don't understand what happened. I

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<v Speaker 3>really can't even speculate. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>What we're going to do is put you on hold.

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<v Speaker 2>You're going to be listening in. We're going to call

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<v Speaker 2>up Hannah, and we're going to ask her how the

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<v Speaker 2>date was. At any point, if you want to jump in,

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<v Speaker 2>you can, okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do it. Keep it clean, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, you don't have to, like, oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Go into pound town, all that stuff you say. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you just said it.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't need to.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 4>What was up with that?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I know it's coming out of your mouth.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, is Hannah there?

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<v Speaker 3>This is Hannah.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Hannah. It's Courtney.

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<v Speaker 4>Hannah, it's Walmart Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Hannah. It's Savannah. How are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>That was really cute. Thanks, I try.

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<v Speaker 2>Hannah, we're calling from Kiss 95.7.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on the radio this morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're on something called Second Date Update. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>you're familiar with it. If somebody goes on a first date,

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<v Speaker 2>they get ghosted after a great first date. We try

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<v Speaker 2>to get the answers, and we just want you to

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<v Speaker 2>be honest with us. As honest as you can be.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me refresh your memory. Jake called us. You guys

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<v Speaker 2>went out to dinner. It was a fabulous date. It

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<v Speaker 2>was such a good date that he ended up back

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<v Speaker 2>at your place watching movies.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, where you guys may or may not have hooked up.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't get a straight answer.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we didn't get a straight answer as to what

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<v Speaker 2>you actually did at your house, but he says he

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<v Speaker 2>reached out to you the next day and stuff, and

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<v Speaker 2>you're totally ghosting him.

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<v Speaker 1>So how was the date for you?

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<v Speaker 5>The date was great. I... The attraction was there.

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<v Speaker 6>We had a great time. We had some wine. We

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<v Speaker 6>chatted a lot. We were really vibing. I just feel

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<v Speaker 6>like once we spent more time together, he just doesn't

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<v Speaker 6>seem like my type of guy. I'm looking for someone

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<v Speaker 6>that's a little more confident.

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<v Speaker 1>Confident.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>So the day was great wine vibing, but he wasn't confident.

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<v Speaker 2>Like when he got back to your house, he wasn't confident.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we clarify a little bit here?

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<v Speaker 5>He just isn't like a take charge kind of guy,

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<v Speaker 5>like a confident he's smooth.

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<v Speaker 3>He's got swagger.

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<v Speaker 5>He just, he, he wasn't.

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<v Speaker 6>A guy that I would normally go for.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you guys hook up? I mean, I hate to

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<v Speaker 1>ask the question, but it needs to be asked.

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<v Speaker 4>Was he not good in bed?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he cry at the movie?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, my God.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, worse.

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<v Speaker 5>He cried after we hooked up.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, wait. Wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait.

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<v Speaker 1>So he didn't cry at the movie. Savannah, so he

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<v Speaker 1>did cry. Oh, my God. So you guys were intimate,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he cried?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I couldn't shake that. It's like all I

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<v Speaker 5>kept thinking about. And I was like, I can't do this.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, who cries after? You know how that made

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<v Speaker 5>me feel?

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<v Speaker 6>Like, was it bad?

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Were they tears of joy? Yes. Why? Why did he

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<v Speaker 4>cry after sex?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>He was just really emotional, and it just made me uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, like, he wasn't manly.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It was so weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Jake, why are you crying after sex? What's up

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<v Speaker 4>with that?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, boy.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't cry, Jake.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, first of all, I'm very disappointed to hear her

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<v Speaker 3>going into details like this. Look, it was a magical

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<v Speaker 3>evening for me. It meant a lot to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So, yeah, they were tears of joy, I would say.

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<v Speaker 3>The fact that we're even talking about this is just.

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<v Speaker 1>It's embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, like a lady shouldn't kiss and tell either. This

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<v Speaker 3>is like kind of... What? This isn't someone I'm looking

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<v Speaker 3>to see anyway. I'm kind of glad this all came

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<v Speaker 3>out now because she's just not the type of person

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<v Speaker 3>I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 5>You're more of a lady than I am. What are

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<v Speaker 5>you talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>Who cries after doing it?

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>I just was he sitting like at the edge of

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<v Speaker 4>the bed on the corner of the bed?

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<v Speaker 5>Or like, I don't know, maybe I triggered some trauma

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<v Speaker 5>or something, but it was like he just saw the notebook.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Like he was just crying.

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<v Speaker 3>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>So we got to the bottom of it, Jake. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like you guys just you made a connection at

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<v Speaker 2>some point and then it went south just because he

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<v Speaker 2>shed a couple of tears.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it a couple of tears or was he bawling?

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<v Speaker 5>It was waterworks. And keep in mind, it was after

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<v Speaker 5>we did it. That was the worst time to cry.

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<v Speaker 4>You should have asked him if he wanted some cheese

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<v Speaker 4>with that wine.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop. Can we stop shaming him?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, well, listen, we usually offer to pay for

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<v Speaker 2>another date if you guys can work through things, but

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's just not a match.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>No. Jake, maybe you.

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<v Speaker 2>Want somebody a little more sensitive, and Hannah, you want

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<v Speaker 2>somebody a little.

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<v Speaker 1>Less crying during sex. Less crying.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, you got your answer. Hannah, I appreciate you being honest.

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<v Speaker 2>And I wish you guys both well in the dating world.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks.