Speaker 1: All right, Windsor is where we're going. Yeah, my hometown.
Speaker 2: Jake is on the line, got ghosted after a first
Speaker 2: date and needs answers.
Speaker 1: Good morning, Jake.
Speaker 3: Good morning.
Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the show. Tell us about this first date.
Speaker 4: You went on.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks. I'm very confused. The date went great.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: There was, I would say, like an immediate attraction that
Speaker 3: we had. Aw. And, again, I took her to this winery,
Speaker 3: this weird wine, and chatted for hours. Mm-hmm. And then
Speaker 3: we went back to her place. We watched a movie.
Speaker 3: You know, it was just, like, a great time. I
Speaker 3: don't really... I keep looking back and thinking, like, how
Speaker 3: could it have gone any better? How.
Speaker 4: So, Jake, the date.
Speaker 3: It was perfect.
Speaker 2: So you're telling me the date was so good that
Speaker 2: you ended the date back at her place?
Speaker 3: Exactly.
Speaker 4: Did you guys hook up afterwards?
Speaker 2: Stop.
Speaker 1: It's actually a good question.
Speaker 4: Do a little dance? Do the hokey pokey?
Speaker 3: Jeff. Look, look, look. A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. Yay!
Speaker 4: I like that. Congratulations. When you say that, everyone knows.
Speaker 3: Still, I mean, you can read between the lines if
Speaker 3: you'd like, but I don't want to get into details.
Speaker 3: I think it's best to just leave it at that.
Speaker 1: Okay, you have a great date. You end the night
Speaker 1: at her place. Did you send her a text or
Speaker 1: call her after the date?
Speaker 3: Right, I texted her the next morning, and... This was
Speaker 3: a few days ago. She didn't respond.
Speaker 1: Question. Did you go through her drawers? Because I had
Speaker 1: a friend that that happened to. Which drawers? Oh, like
Speaker 1: dresser drawers. Yeah, like he went through her stuff.
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: No. Okay.
Speaker 4: Just asking.
Speaker 3: Go through her drawers.
Speaker 1: Just asking.
Speaker 4: Sorry, Jake. Okay.
Speaker 1: So you did reach out to her and you got ghosted.
Speaker 3: Exactly. She didn't respond and... Yeah, it was just such
Speaker 3: a perfect evening. I just don't understand what happened. I
Speaker 3: really can't even speculate. Okay.
Speaker 2: What we're going to do is put you on hold.
Speaker 2: You're going to be listening in. We're going to call
Speaker 2: up Hannah, and we're going to ask her how the
Speaker 2: date was. At any point, if you want to jump in,
Speaker 2: you can, okay?
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: Let's do it. Keep it clean, Jeff.
Speaker 4: I mean, you don't have to, like, oh.
Speaker 1: Go into pound town, all that stuff you say. I mean,
Speaker 1: you just said it.
Speaker 4: He didn't need to.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 4: What was up with that?
Speaker 1: Because I know it's coming out of your mouth.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, is Hannah there?
Speaker 3: This is Hannah.
Speaker 1: Hi, Hannah. It's Courtney.
Speaker 4: Hannah, it's Walmart Jeff.
Speaker 1: Hey, Hannah. It's Savannah. How are you?
Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 1: That was really cute. Thanks, I try.
Speaker 2: Hannah, we're calling from Kiss 95.7.
Speaker 1: You're on the radio this morning.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're on something called Second Date Update. I'm sure
Speaker 2: you're familiar with it. If somebody goes on a first date,
Speaker 2: they get ghosted after a great first date. We try
Speaker 2: to get the answers, and we just want you to
Speaker 2: be honest with us. As honest as you can be.
Speaker 2: Let me refresh your memory. Jake called us. You guys
Speaker 2: went out to dinner. It was a fabulous date. It
Speaker 2: was such a good date that he ended up back
Speaker 2: at your place watching movies.
Speaker 4: Yeah, where you guys may or may not have hooked up.
Speaker 1: We didn't get a straight answer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we didn't get a straight answer as to what
Speaker 2: you actually did at your house, but he says he
Speaker 2: reached out to you the next day and stuff, and
Speaker 2: you're totally ghosting him.
Speaker 1: So how was the date for you?
Speaker 5: The date was great. I... The attraction was there.
Speaker 6: We had a great time. We had some wine. We
Speaker 6: chatted a lot. We were really vibing. I just feel
Speaker 6: like once we spent more time together, he just doesn't
Speaker 6: seem like my type of guy. I'm looking for someone
Speaker 6: that's a little more confident.
Speaker 1: Confident.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 5: All right.
Speaker 2: So the day was great wine vibing, but he wasn't confident.
Speaker 2: Like when he got back to your house, he wasn't confident.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Can we clarify a little bit here?
Speaker 5: He just isn't like a take charge kind of guy,
Speaker 5: like a confident he's smooth.
Speaker 3: He's got swagger.
Speaker 5: He just, he, he wasn't.
Speaker 6: A guy that I would normally go for.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: Did you guys hook up? I mean, I hate to
Speaker 1: ask the question, but it needs to be asked.
Speaker 4: Was he not good in bed?
Speaker 1: Did he cry at the movie?
Speaker 3: Oh, my God.
Speaker 2: Girl, worse.
Speaker 5: He cried after we hooked up.
Speaker 1: Wait, wait. Wait a minute.
Speaker 3: Wait.
Speaker 1: So he didn't cry at the movie. Savannah, so he
Speaker 1: did cry. Oh, my God. So you guys were intimate,
Speaker 1: and then he cried?
Speaker 3: Yes.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I couldn't shake that. It's like all I
Speaker 5: kept thinking about. And I was like, I can't do this.
Speaker 5: I mean, who cries after? You know how that made
Speaker 5: me feel?
Speaker 6: Like, was it bad?
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Were they tears of joy? Yes. Why? Why did he
Speaker 4: cry after sex?
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 5: He was just really emotional, and it just made me uncomfortable.
Speaker 5: You know, like, he wasn't manly.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: It was so weird.
Speaker 4: Hey, Jake, why are you crying after sex? What's up
Speaker 4: with that?
Speaker 3: Oh, boy.
Speaker 5: Don't cry, Jake.
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I'm very disappointed to hear her
Speaker 3: going into details like this. Look, it was a magical
Speaker 3: evening for me. It meant a lot to me.
Speaker 5: Oh, okay.
Speaker 3: So, yeah, they were tears of joy, I would say.
Speaker 3: The fact that we're even talking about this is just.
Speaker 1: It's embarrassing.
Speaker 3: Honestly, like a lady shouldn't kiss and tell either. This
Speaker 3: is like kind of... What? This isn't someone I'm looking
Speaker 3: to see anyway. I'm kind of glad this all came
Speaker 3: out now because she's just not the type of person
Speaker 3: I'm looking for.
Speaker 5: You're more of a lady than I am. What are
Speaker 5: you talking about?
Speaker 3: Exactly.
Speaker 5: Who cries after doing it?
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 4: I just was he sitting like at the edge of
Speaker 4: the bed on the corner of the bed?
Speaker 5: Or like, I don't know, maybe I triggered some trauma
Speaker 5: or something, but it was like he just saw the notebook.
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
Speaker 5: Like he was just crying.
Speaker 3: All right.
Speaker 2: So we got to the bottom of it, Jake. I
Speaker 2: feel like you guys just you made a connection at
Speaker 2: some point and then it went south just because he
Speaker 2: shed a couple of tears.
Speaker 3: Well, hold on.
Speaker 1: Was it a couple of tears or was he bawling?
Speaker 5: It was waterworks. And keep in mind, it was after
Speaker 5: we did it. That was the worst time to cry.
Speaker 4: You should have asked him if he wanted some cheese
Speaker 4: with that wine.
Speaker 1: Stop. Can we stop shaming him?
Speaker 2: All right, well, listen, we usually offer to pay for
Speaker 2: another date if you guys can work through things, but
Speaker 2: I feel like it's just not a match.
Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
Speaker 3: No. Jake, maybe you.
Speaker 2: Want somebody a little more sensitive, and Hannah, you want
Speaker 2: somebody a little.
Speaker 1: Less crying during sex. Less crying.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Listen, you got your answer. Hannah, I appreciate you being honest.
Speaker 2: And I wish you guys both well in the dating world.
Speaker 3: Thanks.