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Speaker 1: Made a decision.

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Speaker 2: A pace sunny sun.

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Speaker 1: I had vision.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 1: So what's up everybody?

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Speaker 3: Hi, Hi Stephanie, how are you.

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Speaker 1: I've been good. It's been a long time since we.

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Speaker 3: Talked, I know, like five minutes between shows. Hey this time, let's.

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Speaker 1: What's do I say our shout outs to our peeps.

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Speaker 3: Let's say our shout outs? Why not? Let's start with

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the Oh here they are, Hi, guys. How about how

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about Atheneginshirt and her dancing, her fabulous making Yeah yes,

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and Polly and her pancakes and Valerie Bubba Fenwick hits

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it out of the park.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And Rita Rock and Elizabeth Williamson's kids and her bouse

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and nuts so sweet and Leslie accosting people and Nikki

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call Girl and Katie's rolling on e and Kelly Lattia

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Don dick is frolicking around and Gabby and Missy.

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Speaker 4: Oh they're still out in Vegas for some reason. I

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I think they lost their way home. They went the

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wrong way coming home from the Emmys last week.

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Speaker 3: Yup, they got caught in Victorville. Yeah, or they still.

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Speaker 1: Yeah even though the Emmys were in Hollywood.

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Guys, get it together. He shunned Faje Peyo.

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Speaker 1: Talk about someone that's got it.

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Speaker 3: Together, Caterina, check them, seriously, take my word for it.

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Trust Kelly Brandt, She's gonna take care of you. Alicia

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Stephanie's a stinker wrinker. Sarah Stefano, she's our Pisano. Erin

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is a dirty Sanchez, Jennifer, get up in, Sandra. It's

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not easy being green Boom. I miss Matt Fondelier.

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Speaker 1: I do too, But Caylin, you stop. You talk to him.

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Speaker 2: You do a party our podcast every week.

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Speaker 3: How's he doing?

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Speaker 2: He's doing very well. He's the episode of his true

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crime TV series I think is out now or maybe

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it's coming out soon.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he was doing a documentary.

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Speaker 2: It's a docuseries crime, yeah TV show.

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Speaker 3: And he got he's a writer on it.

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, it's a writer slash kind of production person.

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Speaker 1: The name of it. How do we find it? Do

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you know? No? I have Tory a kind of friend

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of you, Kaylin.

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Speaker 3: And is he still working for those lawyers or he

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doesn't have time for that anymore?

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Speaker 2: No, he doesn't have time for that. He gave that

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show to me, But they don't seem to be really

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doing their podcasts anymore, so I don't know. Oh, I

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did a couple episodes for them, and I haven't heard

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from them in months.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I miss Matt Fondlier. He was so upbeaten friendly

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all the time. It was just like just the sweetest

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I know, the sweetheart. Yeah, I don't know why.

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Speaker 3: That made me think, and I know we have a

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lot to get to, but it made me think of

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the fact that somebody told me. My friend brought up

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the fact that they and I've seen this too, you

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know how they do like mock trials and like focus

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group stuff. I was thinking of jobs for like our

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college students, like besides going to get a job, I

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feel like there's these things they can sign up for

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that pay like one hundred bucks, like focus group, focus groups,

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focus groups, but over zoom.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's a good idea.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they have them, and they also, like I said,

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you could do over zoom. So if anybody knows specific ones,

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especially in California.

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Speaker 1: For our kids, it's a great idea.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let us know, Yeah, because our kids need to

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Speaker 4: Yes, they do, both of them, both of them, all

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of them, all three of them, Yes, all three of them.

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Speaker 1: Took Sonny to get his haircut.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because you know, Sonny walks to like the supercuts

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or whatever, which is like a black away, and he

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always comes home with the fucked up haircuts. And I

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hair my side, his father's side, just that thick, nappy hair,

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just takes off. And just so when he goes to

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get it cut, he tells them, like, you know, cut

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it kind of short because it's gonna grow pretty quick.

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Speaker 4: So I told Sonny, I said, I'm gonna take you

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to my guy. And he's cut Sonny's hair before a

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few times. Sonny likes him, but he's all the way

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in West Hollywood, and you know, it's pain in the

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neck to get to more pricey. But so he goes

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so he's been going to the local person. But I said,

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but before you leave, I'm gonna treat you. I think

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it would be fun. And also we need to go

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to the mall because you need to freshen up your

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wardrobe because the kid wears the same you know, black sweats,

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Nike T shirt. You know, it's time to like, you know,

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get some sunglasses or also you need a jacket for

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the rain.

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Speaker 1: Whatever. So it'll be a fun day the two of us.

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Speaker 3: So I saw that somebody said umbrellas are illegal what

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did yes? Yeah, oh so you already did this. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: So I took him to get the haircut and it's

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right down the street from the grove.

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Speaker 1: So then we went to the grove.

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Speaker 4: I got him the jacket and he said, I'm just

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gonna go do a lap and walk around, you know.

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went and looked. But one T shirt?

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Speaker 1: What that was it? One T shirt?

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with guys?

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Speaker 1: I know?

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Speaker 3: And they don't like.

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Speaker 1: To know Natalia, that's for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yes, so Xander actually likes to shop.

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Speaker 1: I know he likes the name brands right, He's.

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Speaker 3: Not so much now into the name Browns. He's just

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into like style, style.

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Speaker 1: You know, I wish Sonny was.

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Speaker 4: You know, he wears the same shoes, same black Adida shoes.

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gonna go again with his friend this week and the other.

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uh and then also driving with Sonny.

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Speaker 1: It's like he's he's kind of like his dad.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's like go likes where you go, or

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get in this lane, go around this guy. You know,

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like really relax. I know I think you yes, oh yes,

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because we have to drive. There's no easy way to

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get to the hair, to the to the hairstylist. There's

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no getting off the getting on the freeway, getting off, No,

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and downtown LA and you know, and making your way

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I'm not no offend Stephanie. But I'm not like I'm

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not a scaredy day.

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Speaker 1: I'm an aggressive driver.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and Sonny, I guess has turned into one now

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even though he doesn't have a car. But he's now

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like telling me, you know, go around this guy, make

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the light like, dude, relax Jesus. Anyway, it was a

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nice day. We had a good It was very nice,

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even though he didn't buy anything for himself. But the

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other thing we're gonna do is go to the Natural

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History Museum this week.

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Speaker 1: He wants to do that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, soak it in with him because trying,

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Speaker 4: I said, is there anything you want to do this

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week other than go visit your sister in Santa Barbara?

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Natural History Museum. I said, okay, let's go.

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Speaker 3: So wait, today is the twenty third, Today the twenty second.

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Speaker 1: It's a Monday.

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Speaker 4: Today's Monday's Monday, twenty third. So he's leaving in three days, right,

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and he's leaving on we're leaving on Friday.

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Speaker 3: You guys are leaving Friday. Today's Monday. Okay, So wait,

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so maybe that's the twenty.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we're leaving on the twenty seventh, the twenty seventh.

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Speaker 3: M okay, got it? Yeah, so you have a little

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we have this week, few days, few days.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: I just got the.

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Speaker 4: Chills, I know, because you know I was picturing leaving him.

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airport and going home without him and flying home without him. Yeah,

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and uh m hmm, that's gonna be hard. So next

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Speaker 3: But he's he's flown places on his own. Bak oh yeah,

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because when you cause you're gonna there's a lot of holidays,

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too many, if you want my opinion. My friend Cecily,

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she's starting her second year at school and she's in Kansas,

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and you know, it was sad when she left too,

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Speaker 1: Like really, but.

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Speaker 3: Well, between there's always something it's like, uh, you know,

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parents' day at school or you know Mother's uh, mom's

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weekend or whatever. She's like every time you turn around,

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they're like, hey, come back, you know, or the kids

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coming home it's like right away in October. For her,

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it was like, uh, there was a break. Really. Kids

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came home for a few days in October, and then

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they come home in November for Thanksgiving, and then they

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come home for the holidays. It's like they're not.

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Speaker 1: Really good, right, I know, Well that's good.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I keep I think the next time I'll

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see him will be Thanksgiving in November, unless I go,

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you know, on a weekend or something.

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Speaker 1: But I doubt it.

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Speaker 4: Right, But he's gonna be He's gonna be fine. He's

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got you know, he loves football Sunday. He's gonna miss that,

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but he will have uh Archie, who's out there?

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Speaker 1: Whose cousin Sal's son? Who is I'm sure he said.

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Speaker 3: Big watch together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. They grew up together.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and watched football on Sunday with their dads. So

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they'll be watching football, I think, on Sundays together. And

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he's got his you know, he's got a couple of

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good friends, one of his best friends too, that are

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gonna be there.

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Speaker 3: Is he does he feel nervous?

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Speaker 1: No, he doesn't.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 4: I keep asking him and he's like, no, I'm good.

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He's he's sick of me asking Okay, what else do

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buy some clothes? Like, you know, he's over it. He's like,

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we're God, I'm good. You know, I just need to

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bring my clothes and a change of sheets.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I'm like so funny because Elbie was the opposite everything.

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I was like, well, do you think you're gonna need

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like everyone's bringing pots and pans. I'm like, well, if

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everyone's bringing pots and pans and you don't need to,

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you don't need eight sets of pots and pants. But

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she's like, yeah, but I don't want to be the

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only one that didn't bring any pots and pans.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I I know Natalia.

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one that like had her own list and went on

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Amazon and got her own all the shit she needed.

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She figured it out.

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Speaker 4: Plus, excuse me, she had her two roommates already one

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year into it, who already had pots and pans and

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that kind of stuff. You know, I had a rug

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for the living room.

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Speaker 3: Well, there were certain things that I think they hadn't

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thought of, like a dish, a dish drying rack. So

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we were in Target. We were making one more last

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run to Target. I think it was the day, Oh

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it was, I think it might have been the day

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that we moved her in. On our way back, we

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had thought it sparked some things that she thought she needed,

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so we stopped the Target and we got a dish

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drying rack and then you have to get a little

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matt that goes under it. So we got that. And

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then when I went to visit her, as I told

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you about on Tuesday's episode, there it was they'd been

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using it and everybody was like, good call on the

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dish drawing rack, and she's like, yeah, it's getting a

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lot of use. Yeah, it's like the cheapest thing. I

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feel like it was like six ninety nine or something,

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you know. Yeah, that everybody was so happy.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, good call. Yeah, I felt like the hero,

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doesn't it feel it feels good?

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Light bulbs another hot commodity that they don't think about.

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Oh yeah for their lamps, So I got extra those

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and batteries, batteries.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just things like that. We listen. It's not

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like they're going camping. They're never coming back.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 4: Stores around they can go to the store and get stuff, right,

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So yeah, I.

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they want to do. Like, yeah, they'll be like, what, well,

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how am I going to get groceries? It's like, well,

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how do you go to bars at night? You walk

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over there and you you know, yeah, yeah, figure it out. Yeah,

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or they should go with their roommates they can walk

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down there. I don't know. I think LB's already been

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ubering like five minutes, like something that would be a

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five minute walk. Oh, I'm seeing on the Life three

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sixty that she's taken, that she's driven somewhere that's like

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a two minute.

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Speaker 1: Drive, right girl, what are you doing? Right?

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Speaker 3: But I don't want to be I don't want to

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send her a text and go why'd you just uber there?

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Could you have just walked because then I feel like

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I don't want her to think that I'm doing what

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I'm doing, which is like stalking her. I don't want

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her to know.

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Speaker 1: That, right. Yeah, well don't they have vans too at

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UCLA and stuff.

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Speaker 3: They have buses, they have they have city bus and

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they have a school bus, a bruin bus that takes

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them around. But I think not for Like, so where

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Elbie lives is right up the hill from Westwood basically. Now,

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I've made the walk several times. It's a very quick walk,

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but it is kind of uphill. So I can see

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these kids being lazy and be like, let's just hop

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in an uber, right. But that's annoying because she's going

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to run out of her money very quickly yet, and

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then what's going to happen is she's going to be like, uh, mom,

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I am getting a job in the means I had

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a little money to hold me over, like I'll pay yeah.

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And it's like, well, if you wouldn't order in food

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all the time, like if you would make food at home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The problem is and Elbe's never had to be a

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starving college student, and I think in her mind she's

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not about to start now, you know, right, and like

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she doesn't understand what it's like to actually not have

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money for things. Like she might think she doesn't because

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I but so Elbe's always made her own money since seventeen,

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she's had a job and her I don't think she

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understands that most jobs don't pay what her job was

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paying because remember she was making minimum wage, but then

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she was getting tipped for these parties. Oh and she

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would sometimes make two hundred dollars in tips. Yeah, so

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she's used to rolling in money and never having to

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ask me for money, like buying her own clothes, going

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out to sushi with her friends. The reason she was

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able to live that lifestyle with her money is because

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she also didn't pay any bills. So I pay for

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her cell phone, I pay the car insurance like. So

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on the one hand, I guess I could have made

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her start paying me for things, but then it was

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hard because I was also dealing with the fact that

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she was a full time college student right and working, yes,

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a ton of hours. So it was like do I then,

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and she's sad and she's been broke, so then do

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I go, Yeah, by the way, you need to pay

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me hundreds of dollars a month for car insurance. Right

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looking back, maybe yes, yeah, to teach her responsibility. At

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the time, I felt bad. I don't think I also

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really realized how much she was hemorrhaging her money, do

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you know what I mean. I don't know that I

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realized how many ubers she was paying for and how

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many meals out and how she you know, I mean

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I saw, I saw it. Maybe I didn't want to

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see it.

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Speaker 4: Well, and you know, I think she's now gonna figure out.

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She's gonna have to figure things out on which is

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what one of the reasons why they go off to

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go to college is to figure things out on their own.

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And if they don't have money, they're gonna have to

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figure out. They got to go get jobs. You know,

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I've told that Sunny in Italia, you got to get

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a part time job. And so they're gonna and if

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you know, and also I told them too, which you

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just brought up, A good job is a job with tips.

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That's what you want to try and do, Yes, so

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that that's good. So yeah, they're gonna have to figure

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it out, you know.

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Speaker 3: I just I know we talk about this all the time.

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I don't want to like go over the same territory

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a million times. But you know, when I was so

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used to not having things that when I when I

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was a kid, that having a job wasn't just like

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a luxury. It was like if I wanted things, I

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literally had to have a job. Like to move out

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to California. Nobody paid for that. My mom didn't pay

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for that, so I had to. I mean, I remember,

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and I told you this, but waiting tables and then

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right away realizing, oh, this job, this they lunch is dead,

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like they don't have enough customers. I can't make money

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doing this. So then I would quit that job, sometimes

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with no notice. Sometimes I would leave after a shift

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and be like, well this is ridiculous, they have no business.

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Go down the street and get another job. You know,

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then that one wouldn't work because I was like, I'm

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on a time crunch. I got to make a certain

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amount of cash in a certain amount of time to

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move across the country.

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Speaker 4: M hmm.

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Speaker 3: And then when I did get here, I had no money.

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I had to get a job immediately. There was no like, oh,

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let me settle in. My mom didn't give a fuck.

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She wasn't like let me give you a little bit

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of just to get settled and relaxed. No, it was

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like I was on my own from the minute I

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got here. It was like I got a job at

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a movie theater and a job selling. I was with

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the newspaper looking at the classifieds I won and by

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the party because I needed to be somewhere, quote like

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I was going wet. And then I walked down Hollywood

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Boulevard from business to business putting applications, and I told

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you I got my One of my first job in

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LA was at the Egyptian movie Theater on Hollywood Boulevard.

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But it was like there was no.

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Speaker 1: Cushion right now.

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Speaker 3: I had no savings. I had spent money driving across

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the country, and I remember that we had to be

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really careful of even staying at a motel because that's

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how little money we had. We were like, I'm going

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to need that money for gas, right right, So we

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stayed at a motel one night, but another night we

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would sleep in the car. You know, all those adventures.

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I was so so broke living in LA living in

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Los Angeles, just feeling good and feeling bad, just feeling broke.

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But Elbe's never had to feel that yet.

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Speaker 4: I know it's such a different generation right now, but yeah,

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I mean it's that's the way it was for us

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back then, and now they have you know, they don't

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have to worry about that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 1: They feel like we got you. Yeah.

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Oswalt last night yet Largo Patten and Friends and take

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the kids. I took. I took Sadie and Xander and

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Xander's girlfriend who was also a big Patent Oswealt fan. Nice,

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went to sushi next door. I'll show you. I'll show

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you a little video. It's really cute. I'll show you

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a picture too. But then and then we went and

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saw Patton and he's so freaking funny. I love him

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so much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's great.

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Speaker 3: And then so he had a special guest. So it's

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Patton Oswalt and Friends. Usually it's Patton plus three other

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comedians that are usually really funny. But last night, apparently

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one of them didn't show up and then the other

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one he had planned to do a longer set anyway,

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so it was just the two of them, but his

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special guest was Paul Reiser.

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Speaker 1: All right, bless you. What is what you guys sneezing

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all the time? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: So so Paul Reiser did a set and I gotta

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tell you it doesn't really hold up.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, so what I don't know.

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Speaker 3: But it was a lot of like, yeah, marriage, you know,

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I've been married to my wife for thirty six years,

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and uh, you know, you gotta really watch what you say,

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like things could you know sometimes if like you're thinking

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a thought, like you got to ask yourself like do

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I really want to say that thing? Like I don't know.

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This was so basic and generic. Yeah, whereas Patten is

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like telling a story worry about Chapel Rowan and like

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you know, it's all like yeah, it's he keeps it current.

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He was like talking about politics. He was talking about

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like you know, he's like locking really like that's so funny.

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And he was killing yes, and not just because people

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were there to see him, because just because he's really funny.

472
00:23:21,839 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 4: And well that's and it's a reason why I think

473
00:23:24,599 --> 00:23:27,160
that he's so successful at doing these shows. Does he

474
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,559
do him like once a month? A yeah, the Pat

475
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:34,079
Oswell and Friends thing, that's why it's Pat Oswald and Friends,

476
00:23:34,599 --> 00:23:38,880
you know, right, So, I mean Paul Reiser, when's the

477
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:40,240
last time we've heard from him?

478
00:23:40,759 --> 00:23:41,079
Speaker 1: I know?

479
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 3: So he comes out and the kids all look at

480
00:23:43,279 --> 00:23:45,200
me like, who's that was that?

481
00:23:45,279 --> 00:23:45,759
Speaker 1: A man?

482
00:23:45,839 --> 00:23:49,400
Speaker 3: Like the last time I took them, May Martin came

483
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,640
out and they love May Martin. You know, they like

484
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,720
they want to see like some young yeah, of course,

485
00:23:53,799 --> 00:23:55,480
Like they don't want to see like a guy and

486
00:23:55,599 --> 00:24:00,440
his like who's nearly seventy talking about please? Yeah, you know,

487
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:02,880
like they would not be impressed with Seinfeld.

488
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 1: I'll tell you that, right right right.

489
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,880
Speaker 3: It's so funny because some of these guys, you know,

490
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:09,839
they get older and they don't want to change with

491
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,279
the times. But then they want to blame the audience, right,

492
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,480
like you know, Seinfeld. His whole thing is like I

493
00:24:14,519 --> 00:24:17,720
don't want to perform. These college kids are so politically correct,

494
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,079
you can't say anything, And it's like when were you

495
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,720
saying anything that was politically correct in the first place.

496
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,720
But you're talking about cotton balls. But it's not that racy.

497
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,680
Nobody is turning on you because you're making edgy jokes.

498
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:35,880
Seinfeldtaining on you because it's not relevant anymore. Like it's

499
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:39,799
not funny to college students to hear your really generic

500
00:24:40,279 --> 00:24:43,440
observational humor. It was hilarious to all of us in

501
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,480
the eighties, it's not funny anymore. And that's why it's

502
00:24:46,519 --> 00:24:49,880
not working. Not because oh they're so uptight and political

503
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:52,119
now and you can't say anything right.

504
00:24:52,319 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 4: And like I said, my son went to see John

505
00:24:55,559 --> 00:24:58,640
mulvaney with Seinfeld.

506
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 3: Right, and Sonny, I mean, when you put him up.

507
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:05,359
Speaker 4: Against John, you're like, you know, he's great, and he's hilarious,

508
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,839
and he's current, and he's young or whatever, and he's

509
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,200
with it, and then you get And then Sonny was

510
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:14,240
excited to see Seinfeld because you know, he's seen like

511
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,680
he's seen Kurby your enthusiasm, and he's you know, he's

512
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,359
seen a few episodes of Seinfeld, so he's excited.

513
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 1: He's like, what the hell's with this guy? Like he's

514
00:25:22,759 --> 00:25:23,200
so old.

515
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,079
Speaker 4: All he did was talk about his marriage and his

516
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:28,440
wife and his kids and vacationing with them, and it's like,

517
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,119
I think Sonny like is like I could listen to

518
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:34,119
my father if I wanted to hear that, you know, right,

519
00:25:34,519 --> 00:25:37,039
well yeah, right, yes, yeah.

520
00:25:36,839 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 3: I doubt Sonny was like, yeah, what's what this Seinfeld

521
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,319
guys like saying the N word every other word? Like

522
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,960
who does Seinfeld think he is? Chris Rock, Like, You're

523
00:25:46,039 --> 00:25:50,079
not being canceled, Seinfeld, You're just it's just not right relevant,

524
00:25:50,079 --> 00:25:52,359
It's not relevant yet, Oh my god. And I was

525
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:56,079
thinking that because well, Pat Oswald is older and does

526
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,880
talk about like he is married, and he does. But

527
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,839
the beautiful thing about him and I think John Mulaney

528
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:06,880
has the same thing is John mulaney is taking having

529
00:26:07,039 --> 00:26:10,759
his girlfriend and the baby, you know, and then coming

530
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:15,440
up with kind of relevant like his dad jokes aren't about.

531
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,759
Speaker 1: Like h just been married yeah forever? Yes.

532
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,519
Speaker 3: And Patten has a fifteen year old daughter, so he's

533
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,160
you know, he's talking about like cell phones and stuff,

534
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,720
being like, you know, stuff that's relevant to his daughter's life,

535
00:26:29,079 --> 00:26:32,880
but from his perspective. And then it's funny to us

536
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,480
as parents, but it's also funny to had sixteen year

537
00:26:36,519 --> 00:26:39,279
olds that are like, right, like for one of Patten's

538
00:26:39,319 --> 00:26:43,039
big bits that was so funny was talking about his

539
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,079
daughter wanting to watch certain horror movies and him being like,

540
00:26:46,599 --> 00:26:50,279
WHOA Like no, Like his daughter wanted to see Halloween.

541
00:26:50,559 --> 00:26:52,319
I think this was like a couple of years ago,

542
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,559
and he was the original one, like nineteen seventy eight

543
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,319
Jamie Lee Curtis, and he was like, no, like that

544
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,480
movie fucked me up. And I was like your age

545
00:27:01,519 --> 00:27:04,039
like and his daughter was like, mom, please, like all

546
00:27:04,079 --> 00:27:06,559
my friends have seen it, you know. So he's like, Okay,

547
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:12,000
I'm gonna watch it and then I'm gonna determine whether

548
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,200
or not, like it's appropriate for you, and if I

549
00:27:14,279 --> 00:27:17,240
decided is we'll watch it together. So he says he

550
00:27:17,319 --> 00:27:19,960
watches the movie and he's like, oh man, it's John

551
00:27:20,039 --> 00:27:23,200
Carpenter and it's like so many scary parts or whatever.

552
00:27:23,599 --> 00:27:26,160
And then he says he watched it, so he was like, Okay,

553
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,519
we're gonna watch this movie together. I think He's like,

554
00:27:28,559 --> 00:27:31,920
it's it really wouldn't even warrant a PG. Thirteen at

555
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:35,079
this point, like it's pretty tame. He's like, but it's

556
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,200
really scary, you know. So he shows it to his

557
00:27:37,279 --> 00:27:40,039
daughter and he goes, this was the funniest movie she'd

558
00:27:40,039 --> 00:27:43,480
ever seen. So the whole time she's like calling stuff

559
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:44,720
out and going, oh.

560
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:46,319
Speaker 1: My god, this is so stupid.

561
00:27:46,559 --> 00:27:49,839
Speaker 3: Like and then toward the end, like, you know, there's

562
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:53,039
a scene I guess where the Michael Myers.

563
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, Michael Myers, yeah yeah.

564
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 3: Michael is standing outside and it's like three o'clock in

565
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,160
the afternoon and he's by like the clothes line, and

566
00:28:00,839 --> 00:28:03,799
Jamie Lee Curtis sees him, and I guess his daughter

567
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,960
Alice is just like call nine one one. He's right there,

568
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:10,359
he's broad daylight whatever. So we're laughing about that, and

569
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,960
then he towards the end, she's like, that was so stupid,

570
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,240
and he goes, you know what, how dare you? How

571
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,319
dare you make fun of a movie that made me

572
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,119
shit my pants when I was your age or you know,

573
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,279
which was just so funny. Yeah, So there you go,

574
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:26,240
like my kids are laughing uproariously at that and how

575
00:28:26,279 --> 00:28:30,440
like ridiculous parents are and we're laughing at how silly

576
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,359
it is, you know, I mean, we can anyway. And

577
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,559
then Paul Reiser comes out and it's just like marriage

578
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,599
can't say anything to your wife you know, and the

579
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:43,599
kids are just like what. We're driving home and Xander's

580
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:47,680
like that guy was sucked and we're like, yeah, but

581
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,599
mad about you. That was a big show, right, which

582
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:51,440
I never wound it.

583
00:28:52,319 --> 00:28:53,319
Speaker 1: Did you ever watch it?

584
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,759
Speaker 3: No, John Goes, I've watched. I watched like a half

585
00:28:55,799 --> 00:28:59,279
an episode two times. Yeah, and like never can you

586
00:28:59,359 --> 00:29:00,759
never got into I'm mad about you?

587
00:29:00,839 --> 00:29:01,319
Speaker 1: I didn't.

588
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I never got into it just wasn't I

589
00:29:04,519 --> 00:29:04,920
don't know.

590
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,400
Speaker 3: But it's like marriage humor. Yeah, it's not like it's

591
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:12,920
not four kids, right, And I'm not saying but listen,

592
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:17,000
Paul Reiser came out, he got thunderous applause. We were

593
00:29:17,039 --> 00:29:21,000
all like, oh, cool, like a celebrity like is coming out,

594
00:29:21,319 --> 00:29:24,680
and then he just didn't like next to Patten. Patten

595
00:29:24,759 --> 00:29:28,079
came out first cold. Nobody opened for him, you know,

596
00:29:28,319 --> 00:29:30,640
they just announced him, and he came out killing, like

597
00:29:30,759 --> 00:29:33,640
right off the bat, like, and then he's like, well,

598
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,640
you guys are a great crowd. You guys are warmed up.

599
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:38,480
And then Paul came out and like yeah, polite like

600
00:29:38,759 --> 00:29:40,960
you know, he was getting laughs, but it just never

601
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:45,160
really yeah going. I was wondering how that would.

602
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:49,119
Speaker 1: Feel in his shoes being in Do you think he noticed?

603
00:29:49,839 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 2: Oh?

604
00:29:50,039 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 4: I'm sure they this comics noticed the crowd, don't they.

605
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. I hate stand up kinding.

606
00:29:59,079 --> 00:30:01,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's with you. Let's talk about P Diddy.

607
00:30:02,079 --> 00:30:06,079
Speaker 4: Oh my god, what a transition. Talk about funny No,

608
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:08,720
talking about killing it?

609
00:30:09,319 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god?

610
00:30:10,039 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 3: Did you so?

611
00:30:10,799 --> 00:30:12,319
Speaker 1: Did you read some of this indictment?

612
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:13,359
Speaker 2: No?

613
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 3: Tell me you know about freakoffs?

614
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: Yes, those parties, those parties.

615
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:18,119
Speaker 3: Yes.

616
00:30:18,359 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 4: So basically he is what he's been doing this for

617
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:27,440
about I think like ten twelve years. Uh, now it's

618
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:29,599
been it's been at least I think a decade he's

619
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,359
been doing these. It's I I think they're just scratching

620
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:36,920
the surface with P Diddy because I don't see how

621
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,240
he could have gotten away with doing these parties, these

622
00:30:39,279 --> 00:30:46,160
freakoffs alone without other music mobiles. It's he's, you know,

623
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:49,880
being accused of like racketeering the reco act, you know,

624
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,480
which is organized crime.

625
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,079
Speaker 1: It's that's that's what that is, right.

626
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 4: And he had he developed this like crime syndicate network

627
00:30:58,319 --> 00:31:01,519
of organization where a lot of people were covering for

628
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,759
each other, and he would lure these young women in

629
00:31:06,519 --> 00:31:11,039
on like on the false pretense of a romantic relationship.

630
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,119
Some of them they're thinking, like, op, did he's like

631
00:31:14,279 --> 00:31:18,000
interested in me? Or maybe it was careers promised or

632
00:31:18,119 --> 00:31:19,240
money or whatever.

633
00:31:19,799 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 1: And then had.

634
00:31:21,119 --> 00:31:24,039
Speaker 4: These women come in and then plowed them with freaking

635
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,440
you know, ketamine, coke, all the drugs under the sun,

636
00:31:27,799 --> 00:31:31,000
and then kept them there for days doing these freak

637
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,480
off parties and then giving them ivs in between to

638
00:31:34,559 --> 00:31:35,240
keep them going.

639
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,079
Speaker 1: Did you hear about that? No?

640
00:31:37,559 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 4: Yes, IV's of what like like I, you know, be

641
00:31:41,319 --> 00:31:44,200
fluids B twelve so that they can keep it going

642
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,039
because these parties last for days.

643
00:31:46,559 --> 00:31:48,599
Speaker 1: And the other thing is you remember the video that

644
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,119
came out Cassie.

645
00:31:50,079 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, and you know at the hotel, Yes, yes,

646
00:31:54,559 --> 00:31:58,279
which was awful. One of the things that came out.

647
00:31:58,559 --> 00:32:00,960
Some people are saying she was that was one of

648
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,200
the parties. She was trying to leave and he like

649
00:32:03,599 --> 00:32:05,920
kicked her down and dragged her by their hair. You know,

650
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:07,640
they're saying he's being accused of her.

651
00:32:07,759 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 3: Wasn't she in a hotel? She was in a hotel.

652
00:32:11,359 --> 00:32:11,559
Speaker 1: Yeah.

653
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,519
Speaker 3: A lot of parties were at like his compound.

654
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 4: Some of them are his compound, but a lot of

655
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,440
them were at hotels, and he would pay the staff.

656
00:32:18,839 --> 00:32:23,400
He would pay the security to wipe the uh, the surveillance,

657
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:27,640
any kind of surveillance cameras. He would have him wiped.

658
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,039
He would pay he He tried to pay off one

659
00:32:31,119 --> 00:32:34,640
security guard and didn't. It didn't work. But then somehow

660
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:37,640
I think it was this Cassie video that didn't work,

661
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,799
So then he went to somebody else at the hotel

662
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,759
and then got like that video wiped.

663
00:32:43,559 --> 00:32:46,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is obiously didn't get rid of the Cassie video.

664
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:47,839
But are you saying there's a lot more of those.

665
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 4: I I think that there's gonna be a lot a

666
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,720
lot more, But I who knows, because he's paid off

667
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,319
a lot of these people to stay quiet, and then

668
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,039
he would threaten him. Then he would he would videotape

669
00:32:59,079 --> 00:33:02,079
these things, these reekoffs, and then he would threaten them,

670
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,079
you know, if they ever spoke to ruin their not

671
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:09,799
just their lives, their families, their friends, no career they have.

672
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,480
And he's got video of them doing sex acts. So

673
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:17,880
there's the collateral right there, you know, So he's he's

674
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:22,480
just like threatening with blackmail. I mean, it's I and

675
00:33:22,519 --> 00:33:27,480
I it's just horrible, Like what a fucking son of

676
00:33:27,559 --> 00:33:28,200
a bitch.

677
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 1: This guy was. It's just the more you read it,

678
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,319
it gets worse, worse and worse.

679
00:33:34,559 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 3: Are they gonna Are they gonna arrest more people? Do

680
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:37,480
you think?

681
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: Oh? I for sure?

682
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,359
Speaker 3: What do you think of the fact that Usher erased

683
00:33:42,359 --> 00:33:43,920
his whole Twitter history.

684
00:33:44,079 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 4: That's now now that's coming out that Usher and Justin

685
00:33:47,279 --> 00:33:51,960
Bieber were hanging out with with P Diddy, Uh, you

686
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,920
know when they were young. Biber has to be a

687
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,319
victim of this, That's what some people are saying, Yes, yes,

688
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,960
and and I think because there's video of peace and

689
00:34:02,039 --> 00:34:04,519
he was interacting when he was old already, and Justin

690
00:34:04,559 --> 00:34:07,000
Bieber was a kid, right, Yeah, that he was young,

691
00:34:07,519 --> 00:34:11,000
So there's there's there's talks of that. There's talks of

692
00:34:11,079 --> 00:34:13,760
ushers as well. When he came on the scene, was

693
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:17,159
with him a lot. I guess he took him under

694
00:34:17,159 --> 00:34:20,320
their wingh or whatever, put him on his record label.

695
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:24,119
But there's just gonna be He's just had so many

696
00:34:24,199 --> 00:34:28,480
people working to keep all of this quiet. You think, like,

697
00:34:28,599 --> 00:34:31,960
why didn't anybody know about this? Because he he has

698
00:34:32,079 --> 00:34:34,440
all this money. By the way, he put up fifty

699
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:38,599
million dollar bail package of fifty million dollar bill.

700
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 3: Oh wasn't he? And then didn't he offer, I'll pay

701
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,119
you this much money in bail, and I promise I

702
00:34:44,119 --> 00:34:47,440
won't have any women around. See They were like, no.

703
00:34:47,679 --> 00:34:50,559
Speaker 4: Yeah, that he he put he was putting up one

704
00:34:50,599 --> 00:34:53,880
of his houses for collateral. They said he sold one

705
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,760
of his uh, I guess his only maybe it was

706
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:58,840
the only playing he had, but he sold one of

707
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,280
his jets, so they wasn't gonna be a flight risk.

708
00:35:02,599 --> 00:35:06,360
He flew out to New York so that they could

709
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:09,400
arrest him. You know, he kind of went there knowing,

710
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,719
I guess that they were going to arrest him. So

711
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:15,079
that he's trying to because now he's fucking kissing ass

712
00:35:15,199 --> 00:35:18,719
trying to cooperate before it was all and then there's

713
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:22,599
you know, talk about him calling up people when all

714
00:35:22,639 --> 00:35:25,000
of this started to you know, bubble to the surface,

715
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,599
calling these people saying like, hey, that you were never

716
00:35:28,679 --> 00:35:31,039
at one of my parties, or you know, you know,

717
00:35:31,079 --> 00:35:34,679
I'll give you all this, trying to bribe, basically, tampering

718
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,960
with witnesses, you know, all these things.

719
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 1: So now he's trying.

720
00:35:39,199 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 4: To get ahead of it and put up a fifty

721
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:46,239
million dollar package for bail and he got declined twice,

722
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,800
saw two lawyers in two days in a row. He's

723
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:53,920
in a shitty ass Brooklyn prison now good and yeah,

724
00:35:54,039 --> 00:35:57,559
the conditions are known to be not the very rough,

725
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:03,800
like he's shackled and by the ankles and wrists anytime

726
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:05,880
he leaves. It's a very coordinated.

727
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:06,679
Speaker 1: You know.

728
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:11,280
Speaker 4: It's on like full security, maximum lockdown. So anytime anybody

729
00:36:11,599 --> 00:36:14,719
is released from their jail cell, they're like chained up

730
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,159
until they are brought to where they're going to have

731
00:36:17,519 --> 00:36:20,880
their lunch whatever. But yeah, he's on Are you going

732
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,840
to visit him? I was thinking about it, but he

733
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:25,800
sold his jets, so I'm not going to get there, right,

734
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:31,159
that's true. Yeah, but yeah, he's not in good conditions.

735
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:35,559
Imagine this guy, P Diddy, you know, live in the

736
00:36:35,679 --> 00:36:39,159
fucking life of luxury with all this money and all

737
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:44,159
these you know anything you wanted, drugs, women, whatever, and

738
00:36:44,199 --> 00:36:48,079
now you're on fucking lockdown until next until whenever the

739
00:36:48,119 --> 00:36:48,679
trial is.

740
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,280
Speaker 3: I guess what was j Loo thinking dating him?

741
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 1: That's a good question.

742
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,119
Speaker 3: What were any of these women thinking dating him?

743
00:36:56,079 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: Well, he's pity P Diddy?

744
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:01,199
Speaker 4: First of all, he makes all these promises of careers,

745
00:37:01,639 --> 00:37:07,559
you know, and just money and whatever. But like these,

746
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,760
you know, they found thousands of bottles of baby oil, and.

747
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,159
Speaker 3: I know that's so gross, that's so so great.

748
00:37:14,159 --> 00:37:16,079
Speaker 4: By the wait, like, if you're p Diddy wire, where

749
00:37:16,159 --> 00:37:18,559
don't you have a better place to stash that stuff

750
00:37:18,639 --> 00:37:20,559
or have like your assistant take at home?

751
00:37:20,599 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 1: Why it put it in his trunk? Why is it

752
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:22,920
in your house?

753
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,199
Speaker 3: How many bottles do you need too? Can't you just

754
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,079
go back out to CVS and get some more?

755
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 2: Right?

756
00:37:27,519 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 1: Don't you got a pa to make those runs for you?

757
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 3: Go grab we're having a party. Go get some more

758
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,960
baby Ooh, I'm so grossed out. Hey we got to

759
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:36,519
take another.

760
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's take break and talk about Quints. Oh, we

761
00:37:40,039 --> 00:37:43,760
love Quints. It's you know, it's sweater weather people. We

762
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love this time of year fall. And the thing that

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we love about Quins is they have cashmere sweaters from

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items are priced fifty to eighty percent less than similar brands,

766
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Speaker 3: And the colors, Linette, I love a pink, but I

768
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,000
don't want just one pink. I want a choice of pinks.

769
00:38:07,079 --> 00:38:10,159
I want like a baby pink. I want a hot pink, yeah,

770
00:38:10,199 --> 00:38:12,679
bubblegum pink. They I love the fact that there's so

771
00:38:12,679 --> 00:38:15,119
many choices, so many choices, a lot of their items

772
00:38:16,039 --> 00:38:18,960
and they just they not only sweaters, they have cash,

773
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they have silk tops, they have pants, and they have

774
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bags too, and jewelry and home stuff. Oh my god,

775
00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:29,280
they have everything. Kaylin loves Quints, Yes, so make it's

776
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,559
his favorite. It's his favorite, one of our ads. I think.

777
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I live in Quints. During summer it's the performed shorts,

778
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:37,199
and then fall and winter it's the sweatpants.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna get Xander a bunch of workout shorts.

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Speaker 3: Hey, hey, hey, Caylin, what is going on with your

819
00:40:49,199 --> 00:40:49,920
child rearing?

820
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 2: It's you know, it's just school and soccer right now.

821
00:40:55,519 --> 00:40:57,840
Those are the big ones. School in soccer, Soccer's three

822
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:02,159
days a week, take them to and from school, different schools.

823
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 3: So each kid has it three days a week, or

824
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:04,559
just in general.

825
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 2: We have one practice and then they have games on Saturday,

826
00:41:10,119 --> 00:41:12,400
like this past Saturday. One game was at ten and

827
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,480
another one was at one. Go to one, come home,

828
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:17,440
go back again later, come home.

829
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 3: So do you like it or no? Uh?

830
00:41:21,599 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I like it.

831
00:41:23,119 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 4: It's like it's about as much as we liked it

832
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:26,280
when we were doing it.

833
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,559
Speaker 3: But I do feel like I did I like it

834
00:41:29,599 --> 00:41:31,639
at the time. I don't know. You tell me you

835
00:41:31,679 --> 00:41:33,960
were there or did I like it more in retrospect,

836
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,519
because I feel like I kind of liked like, especially basketball.

837
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:40,559
The only time it got hard is when like Xander

838
00:41:40,599 --> 00:41:42,559
and elbe were say, doing it at the same time,

839
00:41:42,559 --> 00:41:44,679
and then you'd have to choose which game to go to.

840
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah. Yeah.

841
00:41:46,559 --> 00:41:49,519
Speaker 3: Also by the time Elbie got in high school, it

842
00:41:49,639 --> 00:41:52,559
was kind of hard because you'd go to their game,

843
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:56,000
they'd take the bus, you'd have to go, and you'd

844
00:41:56,039 --> 00:41:58,280
have to be there. You'd have to sit through like

845
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,599
several games. I remember that was sort of like, okay,

846
00:42:01,639 --> 00:42:03,239
so that's your whole entire afternoon.

847
00:42:03,519 --> 00:42:09,639
Speaker 4: Yeah right, Yeah, one other thing before we end our

848
00:42:09,679 --> 00:42:12,199
show in a little bit, but we were going to

849
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:17,639
talk about Into the Fire. Oh yeah, so you told

850
00:42:17,639 --> 00:42:22,079
me about it last week. Yes, I watched it, and

851
00:42:22,079 --> 00:42:24,599
then I was texting you because I was like, you

852
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,800
undersold this.

853
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 3: This is so good.

854
00:42:28,519 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 4: I said, it was one of the best docs I've

855
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:31,239
seen in a while.

856
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,079
Speaker 3: Oh my god, really do you ever watch it, Kaitlin? Why?

857
00:42:34,639 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 1: It's really good?

858
00:42:37,679 --> 00:42:39,559
Speaker 3: You How do you know it's not your thing? It

859
00:42:39,599 --> 00:42:41,440
was so so good.

860
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 1: Very good.

861
00:42:42,159 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 4: It was, you know, it's one of those I just

862
00:42:45,639 --> 00:42:49,400
love when a doc like that comes together where you're

863
00:42:49,679 --> 00:42:51,760
thinking one thing and then all of a sudden they

864
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:55,440
introduce you some new information. You're like, wow, I wasn't

865
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:56,800
thinking that was the case.

866
00:42:58,679 --> 00:43:02,360
Speaker 3: So it's about no spoilers though, but so this mom.

867
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,519
Speaker 1: A lot of people have watched it any thing.

868
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:10,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, so when you find out like this mom though this,

869
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,639
So this mom gives her baby up for adoption, and

870
00:43:12,679 --> 00:43:16,559
then she really wants to she really but she had

871
00:43:16,559 --> 00:43:19,679
her daughter for nine months I know, which is kind

872
00:43:19,679 --> 00:43:23,280
of crazy. Her mother made her give her baby up

873
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:25,599
for adoption that was already nine months old. Yeah, she

874
00:43:25,639 --> 00:43:28,360
was already fully bonded. She was her baby right when

875
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:32,480
she Yeah, but she couldn't get any support from her house.

876
00:43:32,519 --> 00:43:34,559
So her mom was just like, I'm not helping you,

877
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:40,119
and you need Her mom convinced her you can't give

878
00:43:40,159 --> 00:43:43,320
this baby a good home. You can't provide for it.

879
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:47,159
Speaker 1: It's was back in the eighties, I think, yeah.

880
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 3: Right, and just fully convinced her maybe.

881
00:43:51,119 --> 00:43:55,599
Speaker 4: Early earlier, early eight or maybe late seventies, early eighties.

882
00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:00,039
So yes, she gives her daughter up for adoption, and

883
00:44:01,079 --> 00:44:04,800
then she wants to, like, you know, find out what

884
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:09,360
happened to her, right, right, And even though it's one

885
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:13,719
of those adoptions you're not supposed to closed adoption. So

886
00:44:14,079 --> 00:44:15,880
she wants to find out and then she finds out

887
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:20,039
that she went missing when she was fifteen years old

888
00:44:20,199 --> 00:44:24,159
or younger fourteen in the eighties, in like eighty five,

889
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:28,000
I think, or somewhere. Yeah, yeah, yes, So she finds

890
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:30,199
out she went missing, and then she.

891
00:44:30,119 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 1: Wants to get answers on what happened. Yeah.

892
00:44:33,079 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 3: So remember so the adoption had to have happened in

893
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:41,559
the early seventies, Yeah right, right, yeah, yeah, because I

894
00:44:41,639 --> 00:44:44,079
would be around the same age as the daughter that

895
00:44:44,119 --> 00:44:47,719
went because I would have been fourteen in the eighties.

896
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:48,159
Speaker 1: Yeah.

897
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, So anyway, that's not really the point. Somehow I

898
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:56,079
made it about me, but trying to figure out the timeline. Yeah,

899
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:59,639
So she finds out that her daughter went missing and

900
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:04,800
that basically the adoptive parents were like, yeah, oh, well,

901
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:08,760
like she just was kind of a rebellious kid, and

902
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,480
she just really wasn't happy at home, and like, you know,

903
00:45:11,559 --> 00:45:13,920
she's always threatening to run away. She always said she

904
00:45:14,039 --> 00:45:16,760
hated it here and people were and and that like

905
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,800
her dad was super mean to her and abusive, so

906
00:45:20,039 --> 00:45:22,960
like she just took off and like that's it couldn't

907
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:23,360
find her.

908
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,639
Speaker 4: And meanwhile, they hadn't they didn't think they could have

909
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:31,599
their own biological kids, but ended up having their own

910
00:45:31,639 --> 00:45:34,519
biological daughter after they adopted her.

911
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 1: So they already had their daughter.

912
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:41,159
Speaker 4: So the biolog So the adopted daughter went missing and

913
00:45:41,159 --> 00:45:43,000
they were like, yeah, oh well, well we got our

914
00:45:43,039 --> 00:45:46,559
other daughters, so now we have our biological daughter.

915
00:45:47,639 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 3: The mom pretended, well I don't know if she pretended,

916
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:54,000
but the mom was a little more sad than the dad. Yes,

917
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:56,360
the dad was kind of like, what are you gonna do?

918
00:45:56,559 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, she took off.

919
00:45:57,639 --> 00:46:01,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we tried. We put up some signs.

920
00:46:01,599 --> 00:46:04,039
I don't know if they did. Did they Uh, they

921
00:46:04,079 --> 00:46:05,039
went to the police.

922
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 1: They did.

923
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:08,760
Speaker 4: Now I remember what happened because I just I watched

924
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,599
that documentary like too, like it's been a couple of

925
00:46:11,639 --> 00:46:13,920
weeks now, but which really for us is like a

926
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:17,239
couple of years. Yes, right, But what happened was is

927
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:21,000
that she got the biological mom got contacted because she

928
00:46:21,119 --> 00:46:24,840
went missing and they found her, like or they thought

929
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,079
they found her remains, so she had to give her

930
00:46:27,159 --> 00:46:29,960
DNA for that, right, That's how she found out she

931
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:30,960
went missing.

932
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,320
Speaker 3: Right, And then she was like, wait a minute, what, Yes,

933
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,639
what happened? And then she was like, well, I'm gonna

934
00:46:36,639 --> 00:46:38,920
find out what happened to her, Like I'm gonna find her.

935
00:46:39,119 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

936
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,599
Speaker 3: And then the biological mom has this husband who's like

937
00:46:42,679 --> 00:46:45,400
pretty kick ass, like he's really supportive.

938
00:46:45,599 --> 00:46:48,599
Speaker 1: Yes, the husband's just like, yeah, I'll help. I found

939
00:46:48,599 --> 00:46:50,840
them so cute. So we got betrayal.

940
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,519
Speaker 4: They got in their little camper driving around the country

941
00:46:53,599 --> 00:46:55,159
trying to find get answers.

942
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 3: And by the way, this poor bio mom her life,

943
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,320
like it really messed up her life to get her

944
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,920
daughter up. She never had another kid, she never like,

945
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:06,639
I know, I.

946
00:47:06,519 --> 00:47:10,639
Speaker 4: Know it was a very sad situation. But my god,

947
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:16,400
talk about a mother's instincts because she freaking basically saw

948
00:47:16,519 --> 00:47:20,400
that story. She found out what happened, yes, and she

949
00:47:20,519 --> 00:47:21,239
was relentless.

950
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,039
Speaker 3: So okay, there's gonna be a big spoiler here. So

951
00:47:24,079 --> 00:47:29,039
if you haven't seen it yet, fast forward like three minutes. Yeah, okay,

952
00:47:29,599 --> 00:47:32,519
are you are you not listening? Hopefully you're not listening. Okay.

953
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,840
I love the fact that she when she was going

954
00:47:36,079 --> 00:47:39,039
after the adoptive dad and she was just like, oh,

955
00:47:39,079 --> 00:47:41,800
I'm gonna fuck you up. You're gonna go down for this.

956
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,239
I know you did this. I know you had something

957
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,519
to do with it. And he was like, oh my god,

958
00:47:46,679 --> 00:47:49,880
like she just won't leave me alone. This lady's crazy.

959
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:50,559
Speaker 2: Ah.

960
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:55,519
Speaker 3: Yes, And then she's she's like, yeah, I was harassing him, right,

961
00:47:55,519 --> 00:47:58,719
they're asking her, so, were you like harassing him? She's like, oh, hell, yes,

962
00:47:58,800 --> 00:47:59,239
I was.

963
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:01,039
Speaker 1: Yes, She's awesome.

964
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,079
Speaker 4: And then she like got out in front of the

965
00:48:03,079 --> 00:48:07,559
house with the with the the drone that flew over.

966
00:48:07,639 --> 00:48:10,000
Then she's like, what is that buried in the backyard?

967
00:48:10,199 --> 00:48:12,440
I think that And even the guy that she was

968
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,079
with was like, well, it seems a little far fetched

969
00:48:15,079 --> 00:48:18,000
if that's her remains are buried there. But and she's

970
00:48:18,039 --> 00:48:19,880
like no, icause.

971
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 3: The adoptive parents had moved houses, so she went missing

972
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,519
when they were at a different house. So the friend

973
00:48:26,559 --> 00:48:28,159
who was with her was like, well, why would her

974
00:48:28,199 --> 00:48:29,440
remains be at their new house?

975
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,800
Speaker 4: And gone yeah, and how about the fact where the

976
00:48:33,199 --> 00:48:35,639
where the adopted mom was like, oh, I'll give.

977
00:48:35,519 --> 00:48:36,599
Speaker 1: You half of her ashes.

978
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 4: I was floored, like who the fuck does that? But

979
00:48:42,679 --> 00:48:45,719
was She's not gonna say no, but like yeah, So if.

980
00:48:45,599 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 3: You've tuned back in, keep fast forwarding because there's more

981
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:53,920
spoiler right here. But turns out he's a freaking serial killer, oh,

982
00:48:54,039 --> 00:48:57,760
serial killer, ceial rapist. How how was he had he

983
00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:59,400
not been gotten sent to jail?

984
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:01,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. I know he got away.

985
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 3: He got caught though with a bunch of them.

986
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, And they're just got away with it, I know.

987
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,800
Speaker 3: And then they keeps getting worse and worse and worse,

988
00:49:10,119 --> 00:49:14,400
and the mom, the adoptive mom, is just like, I know,

989
00:49:14,599 --> 00:49:23,079
he means, well though, right, No, She's like, and then

990
00:49:23,079 --> 00:49:25,280
she keeps going like, well, you can tell me anything,

991
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,280
I'll still love you, and she does.

992
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:30,119
Speaker 1: I know, I know.

993
00:49:30,159 --> 00:49:32,079
Speaker 3: The only thing that makes why isn't.

994
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:32,559
Speaker 1: She get mad?

995
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,559
Speaker 3: Was that he He's like, yeah, I had to kill her,

996
00:49:35,679 --> 00:49:38,119
and the mom's like, yeah, I know, I get it.

997
00:49:38,199 --> 00:49:40,440
I just don't worry. I still love you. But then

998
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,639
she's like, but do tell me where the remains are?

999
00:49:42,639 --> 00:49:45,159
And he's like then he keeps making up stories, and

1000
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:48,559
that's when she finally gets mad, right right, Not mad

1001
00:49:48,679 --> 00:49:51,039
enough to break up with him, though, No, And.

1002
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:54,639
Speaker 4: Why isn't she arrested? Shouldn't she be accessory or some.

1003
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: Sh you're living with this guy?

1004
00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:01,039
Speaker 4: Like, I mean, maybe she really didn't not No, I

1005
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:03,559
don't know, but she should have been investigated for sure.

1006
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 1: That's ridiculous.

1007
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:11,159
Speaker 4: Maybe she was maybe, but yeah, So anyway, that's was

1008
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:14,280
what a great whoa, what a great doc.

1009
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:15,639
Speaker 3: That was a ride.

1010
00:50:15,519 --> 00:50:15,599
Speaker 2: Ye.

1011
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 3: Then John came in at the end, they're they're like

1012
00:50:19,039 --> 00:50:21,320
kind of still wrapping up stuff and it's sad. It's

1013
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,760
a sad part. And I was kind of tearing up

1014
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,480
and you but it was hard to tell because it

1015
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:30,239
almost seemed a little cartoony towards the end because you're

1016
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,239
seeing the adopt and and then John was kind of

1017
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:33,920
making fun of it, and I was like, how dare

1018
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:39,239
you get out of here? This is sad? And he's like,

1019
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:40,400
it doesn't seem that sad.

1020
00:50:40,679 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 1: It is well.

1021
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:45,679
Speaker 3: And by the way, before we wrap you last week,

1022
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:47,920
you were telling me about the menndas.

1023
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:51,800
Speaker 1: Yes movie, Yes, okay.

1024
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:56,840
Speaker 3: It was so insanely overacted though, right, like what was

1025
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:59,000
happening with the acting lyle.

1026
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,719
Speaker 4: Was way over the top. I don't think, I don't know,

1027
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:03,039
Yeah it was.

1028
00:51:03,159 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 1: It was.

1029
00:51:03,679 --> 00:51:08,639
Speaker 3: Every scene was so rot with just like I can't

1030
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:12,199
believe we killed mom and dad, Like everything was out

1031
00:51:12,199 --> 00:51:14,760
of ten. I was like, guys, yeah, I'm down a

1032
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,320
little bit. You can't be at this even the lawyer.

1033
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:21,159
The lawyer was just like you were a yes, I

1034
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:22,280
was like, stop yelling.

1035
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I know.

1036
00:51:25,159 --> 00:51:29,119
Speaker 4: I guess maybe they were trying to I did notice that,

1037
00:51:29,159 --> 00:51:32,760
and I thought, why are they so yelling constantly at

1038
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,199
each other and so hot tempered? Is it because they're

1039
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,239
trying to show like their father was that way and

1040
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:41,440
that's how they were. I guess the hot temper runs

1041
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,000
in the family. I don't know, but it was. It

1042
00:51:44,039 --> 00:51:47,679
was really over the top. But did you watch the

1043
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:48,199
whole thing?

1044
00:51:48,519 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 3: Not the whole thing yet? How do you feel about

1045
00:51:51,039 --> 00:51:54,519
the Menanda's brothers? I know you love them, love them.

1046
00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 4: I you know, it's weird because you know, in one hand,

1047
00:51:59,039 --> 00:52:02,280
only people that know the truth are those boys. You know,

1048
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:06,440
we'll never know what Kitty and Jose's story is, but

1049
00:52:06,519 --> 00:52:11,760
there's just so many Their story is so detailed on

1050
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,559
two different sides. They're they're they're telling.

1051
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 1: Their own stories. It's very detailed. There's also I went

1052
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,559
on court TV and watched some of.

1053
00:52:20,519 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 4: The Lyles on the stand, the real Lyle on the stand,

1054
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:31,000
and they had pictures in the courtroom of him taken

1055
00:52:31,159 --> 00:52:34,599
as a teenager from his chest down in the bathtub,

1056
00:52:35,079 --> 00:52:36,159
like fully naked.

1057
00:52:36,559 --> 00:52:37,280
Speaker 1: You can see it.

1058
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:40,840
Speaker 4: Like, so there there was something going on. And the

1059
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:46,920
Menudo documentary, which you listen, you watch that and you think, okay,

1060
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,920
there's got to be where there's you.

1061
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 1: Know, uh, smoke, smoke, there's fire.

1062
00:52:51,599 --> 00:52:57,039
Speaker 4: So anyway, I just think that there was definitely abuse

1063
00:52:57,119 --> 00:53:01,320
going on for sure. Now I do think that I

1064
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:05,239
do believe that they were Their dad was pretty horrible

1065
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:07,559
to them, and I don't think they deserve to be

1066
00:53:07,639 --> 00:53:09,239
in prison for the rest of their lives.

1067
00:53:09,559 --> 00:53:10,320
Speaker 1: They just don't.

1068
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:14,039
Speaker 4: I mean, they've been in prison now longer than they've

1069
00:53:14,079 --> 00:53:17,519
been in the real you know, in in the free

1070
00:53:17,519 --> 00:53:22,360
world right at this point, and it's sad that they're separated.

1071
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,320
I don't think they've seen each other in years, and

1072
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:29,639
they were all they had, you know, you'll see in

1073
00:53:29,679 --> 00:53:32,880
the in the in the in the Netflix one.

1074
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:36,559
Speaker 1: But yeah, what do you think? I mean?

1075
00:53:36,599 --> 00:53:39,559
Speaker 3: There is just so much stuff about them being just

1076
00:53:39,599 --> 00:53:42,440
wanting to spend the money though there was that too,

1077
00:53:42,559 --> 00:53:45,719
Super Entitled there's that too, and just wanting to like

1078
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:49,599
do drugs and live this lifestyle and be Hollywood. Yes, yeah,

1079
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:50,440
movie people.

1080
00:53:50,639 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's well I mean, you know, I do.

1081
00:53:53,559 --> 00:53:56,079
Speaker 3: I'm not saying that they were sociopaths.

1082
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:58,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not saying that they were. You know, they

1083
00:53:58,239 --> 00:53:59,199
were they were young.

1084
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,719
Speaker 4: I mean I think Eric was like Sonny's age at

1085
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:04,239
this when this all happened.

1086
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 1: I think he was only eighteen or nineteen.

1087
00:54:06,639 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 4: And you know, when they grow up with a silver

1088
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:14,559
spoon in their mouth, and you know, they were abused,

1089
00:54:14,599 --> 00:54:17,880
maybe the way they were abused, like, who's to say

1090
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:19,280
how they're going to act afterwards?

1091
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:19,519
Speaker 1: You know.

1092
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,039
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think they of course handled it all wrong

1093
00:54:24,199 --> 00:54:27,559
after they died. But I don't think they deserve to

1094
00:54:27,599 --> 00:54:32,119
be I know, even that like spoiled and whatever, acting entitled,

1095
00:54:32,119 --> 00:54:34,800
I don't think deserves the rest of your life in prison.

1096
00:54:35,039 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think that.

1097
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 3: They're a threat it.

1098
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 4: I don't think they're a threat to society, right point right, Yeah, yeah, no,

1099
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:45,639
I agree with that for sure.

1100
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:51,039
Speaker 3: So the movie. I wish the movie was a little calmer, though, Yeah,

1101
00:54:51,519 --> 00:54:56,119
does it stay at that level the whole time it has?

1102
00:54:58,360 --> 00:54:59,199
Has it's still a.

1103
00:54:59,079 --> 00:55:03,280
Speaker 4: Lot yeah, yeah, in the beginning, it is a lot. Yeah,

1104
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,800
I think it mailows out once the other lawyers come

1105
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:08,880
on the scene, and then there's a whole side story

1106
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:15,599
with the writer of Vanity Fair whose daughter was killed.

1107
00:55:16,559 --> 00:55:20,519
You know what I'm talking about, Dominique. Dominique.

1108
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:24,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's there's a whole storyline in that with him

1109
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:25,679
in this.

1110
00:55:26,039 --> 00:55:29,039
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, all right, Well I'm gonna I'm gonna watch

1111
00:55:29,079 --> 00:55:30,599
the rest of it. I'll let you know how I

1112
00:55:30,639 --> 00:55:34,159
feel next week. But before we go, we have a

1113
00:55:34,159 --> 00:55:38,320
few more shouts to do. Like we have, Lorie Bishop

1114
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:42,000
is helping her son's new business, the Better Test Prep

1115
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Act Guide itself paced Act Prep Guide, and her son

1116
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basically designed this and he killed it. He killed it

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on the ace act anyway, go to bit dot l

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y and then all lowercase Better Test Prep. Okay, so

1119
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check that out. Also, our friend Jacob Crowley, so Growley,

1120
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and he's giving his shout to Camp Lost Boys dot org.

1121
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It's a sleepway camp for trans boys, trans men who

1122
00:56:13,039 --> 00:56:16,679
are you know, didn't get the experience of summer camp.

1123
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Speaker 1: I love that beautiful thing.

1124
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Speaker 3: They get to do archery and go swimming and sit

1125
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:25,840
around a campfire and toast marshmallows and like you know,

1126
00:56:26,039 --> 00:56:28,119
bond with other trans men, which.

1127
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:29,639
Speaker 1: I just thank you, Jacob.

1128
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Speaker 3: I love that.

1129
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

1130
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Speaker 3: Also, our friend Carrie Kibbler is promoting just Nate k

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1133
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some of his videos. Uh, just Nate. The Family Skeptical

1134
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is a podcast about raising kids without the dogma and

1135
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the pressure of like organized religion. So if you're doing

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that and you're feeling all alone, come listen to the

1137
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1150
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1151
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it's gonna burn longer. It's better for the environment.

1152
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Speaker 4: Mine that she sent me is cinnamon chai and it

1153
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smells like the Holidays and I freaking love it.

1154
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1155
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1157
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1159
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out Mike Gerstein. Go to Phoenix Plumbingsolutions dot com and

1160
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you can get a hold of him right there.

1161
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Speaker 1: It's got his phone number.

1162
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Speaker 4: You can text him, you can do a FaceTime with him,

1163
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or if you're in the Maricopa County area or Arizona,

1164
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you can give him a call. And he's helped a

1165
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lot of our fcll ers, so check him out.

1166
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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, you guys, go follow our socials to

1167
00:58:21,719 --> 00:58:28,079
at fcol podcast, go follow our instagram for clips, or

1168
00:58:28,159 --> 00:58:30,480
if Kaylin hasn't been posting any clips, we'll post some

1169
00:58:30,519 --> 00:58:33,280
other stuff up on there. Yeah and uh yeah, and

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you can find us on YouTube. Our guest episode is

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Lbe's episode up on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: Not yet, it's.

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Speaker 3: Gonna be though. If you want to see lb in

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person on her episode, Go to YouTube. FCL podcast all right,

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thank you everybody.

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Speaker 1: You're a parent now don't fit us. It's good letting go.