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Speaker 1: Hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on, Thanks

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for telling a friend, Thanks for spreading the word. Thanks

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to Laura for coming in today, Matt for coming in

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from BTV bringing the pickle pizza, which we love.

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Speaker 3: What's the spice on there.

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Speaker 1: Cajun ranch. Oh man, that really is so I don't

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remember that in the last one. I'm sure. Oh it's different. Yeah,

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Oh I like this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Yeah, we had the bacon and the Cajun

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ranch really good.

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Speaker 5: I may have to try by the vet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a piece.

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Speaker 5: Boy, you got my salad.

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Speaker 1: You'll eat like half of that. Bring it home. It

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don't be there tomorrow. The soldier is here as well.

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Speaker 3: Welcome back. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I know I feel bad because I don't know how

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to talk about it with everybody here, but I figured

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I kind of have to. My dad passed away last Friday.

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So from the end of June to the beginning of

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July I had gone up there to help move him

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to a higher level of care. He was calling everybody

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saying I'm dying tomorrow or I'm dying in the next

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two days, which I poked fun at, and I think

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maybe he did know. I don't know, but then he

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fell and it was a gosh, just a couple of days.

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I think my brother had just dropped his kids off,

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so I think my brother and sister in law were

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looking forward to two weeks no kids because they were

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going to sleep away camp for two weeks straight, and

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I think they were like, you know what I mean,

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Dad settled that my brother has been amazing in all

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this and really throughout my dad's life, it was kind

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of the guy who tried to help him and save

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him from time to time, and so I thought they

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were probably he is static to have the two weeks.

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And then my dad falls breaks his hip badly and

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his femur, and we were saying, well, maybe we don't

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do surgery, and they're like, he'll never even sit up again,

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so you gotta do surgery. So they did the surgery,

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and then he got aspiration aneumonia where you kind of

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asperate your own spitting stuff into your lungs, your own fluids,

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and then he he had a UTI, which was kind

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of fox up your brain, right, Yeah, So from there

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they were gonna put him in ICU, and I think

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he was ripping stuff out. My brother said to me,

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he goes, I've never walked into a hospital and just

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seeing someone laying completely naked on the bed with nothing

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on them. You're like, no, no, no sheet, no anything.

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he's picking that stuff. So then they're like, they call

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my sister in law one morning and said, we're pretty

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sure he's dying. You better get o over here. So

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my sister in law did. My brother calls me and goes,

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you may want to get up here. So I made

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arrangements to fly out and my sister again, everybody's dropping

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him and we had just been there, you know what

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I mean. So now so now you're there and you

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go up and and by this point they said, we're

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going to move him to hospice and all we're going

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to do is make him comfortable. So that means no food,

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no water. Okay, so this is Friday, and he lasted

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to the following Friday, full week with no food, no water,

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just morphine and a little oxygen tube tubes in his

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in his No, it's just the tiniest little thing that

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was prying. So no, he was unconscious the entire time.

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but there's still more shit to be done, you know

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what I'm saying. Now, All the stuff that we moved

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in before we got to get the fuck out of there,

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all his clothes, all his everything, and there's you know, trying

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to figure out his bank accounts and what's happening there,

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and he, my brother was pissed because he's the power

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of attorney and kept saying, Dad, we've got to get

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to the bank physically because of elder scams. You gotta

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have someone with you. Yep, right, I can't. So he

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never did that. So everything would go to pro It'll

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all work out, it's no big deal. But so we

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went up there. Well, I guess the last gift my

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dad gave us was the three of us together, me,

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my brother, and sister. No kids around, right. My brother's

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kids are gone just to sleep way Camp. My sister's

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kids are down in the DC ERA. One's out of

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sleep away camp once with her father, and I sent

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Jamison to his mom in Alabama, And so there was

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no worry about any of that shit. Your home farm

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is saying. There was a night where we sat up

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till three in the morning on the dock, just drinking

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and laughing our asses off, laughing so much so that

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I'm not proud of this. But the next day we

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were going to hospice and there's a little one of those,

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a brewery right right near them, and it also has food,

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really good food. So we went in there for lunch

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and lady goes, what do you want a drink? I go,

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I really can't.

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Speaker 3: I can't have not a.

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Speaker 1: Thing, so I don't. My sister then drives us to

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hospice and we get up to the entrance of the hospice,

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which is in a neighborhood. It's like you wouldn't even

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know it's step down. That's beautiful, right, it's all come,

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I got, I gotta, I go out, and I freaking

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ruffed all that eyway over hospice and then I'm going

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if anybody says anything to me, gonna be like, I

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am so upset about my dad. Yeah. No, I'm so

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sad about that. I puked like under trees. And my

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sister's doing like another circle. She goes, got you, okay, go,

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I'll meet you in there. It's gone. Man.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's heavy drinking right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh it was. I probably had it could have had

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eighteen beers twenty beers by the time it was done.

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But it was just steady, just steady.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no shots, no anything, and just beer. But that's

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heavy after a while, you know what I mean. Yeah,

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from the West coast, and then I think we went

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to cancer that and then like a summer there. Now

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they're making these summer beers which are lighter right to

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compete with probably cores light whateverbody else would go to naturally,

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I don't even know. I just know that I was

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drinking and at one point I went, oh boy, I

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think I got this. I think I gotta stop, because

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it was just sitting right about here. You know, I

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just sat there. So I did.

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Speaker 3: I wind up? I wind up puking.

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Speaker 1: But all I can say about this whole experience, and

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I and I will get into a little bit of

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detail with it, it it was. And as my sister said,

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there are things in life that are the most ordinary

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and extraordinary. And by that, she's like, everybody has children,

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it's ordinary, She's like, but when you have the kid,

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it's extraordinary to be in there to watch that happen.

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And the same thing. Everybody's gonna die, everybody has lost

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somebody you're not. This isn't new, and it's you know,

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you know what I mean. It's like, yeah, everybody's gone

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through it, but it was extraordinary in your own way.

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So we weren't sure what to do. We thought that

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he would pass by Tuesday or Wednesday. So the plan

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was the three of us would be there, my mom

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would probably come up, maybe some a few friends, and

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we would have my dad wanted a church service, and

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he wanted a big party, so that the church service

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we were gonna do. He had a priest up there

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that he had become friendly with. He wanted to have

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that guy. I think, I think it's episcopalia. So the

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guy's married, but they still refer to him as a

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priest or whatever it is. And he had met with

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my dad. My dad had gone to his church when

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he lived up there before.

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Speaker 3: He met with him.

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Speaker 1: When we were there, originally made all his plans, came

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to see him before the surgery when he first fell,

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came and spent some time with him in the hospital.

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the plan was we would have him, not embomb him.

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church service. We'd have people there and that would happen. Well,

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he had to be embombed, and now all the grandkids

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are home from camp, so everybody's going to try to descend.

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I'm not even sure if my sister can actually make

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it back, but that doesn't mean anything. But you wonder,

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like what are they hanging on to and can they

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hear you? And can you do all this? And we

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went in there and we were you know, throughout the

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week in hospice. They were wonderful. But we would talk

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to him, Hey, Dad, I'm here, I love you. Hey,

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remember this. We would tell stories, Remember when he did this,

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Remember when I did this? But we actually sang silly songs.

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He would sing to us at kids one day, right,

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and then we're wondering what's going on. So we tried,

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were trying to convince and not that he needed to

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be convinced, but he's eighty one years old himself, my

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uncle who lives in Park City to come. And my

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uncle was I think a little bit hesitant in that

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he thought, oh, if I get there and it's already happy,

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I can't see it, you know. So I think there

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was that he did come. He and his wife came.

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They spend time with him, talking to him and all

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this this whole thing, by the way, this whole experience,

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I want to do like a serious podcast about youth

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in Asia because I think at some point it's it's like,

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you know, because my uncle, Yeah, my uncle's going this

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is this is nice? Yeah, right, it's just morphine and

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air for right, and they keep going, Well, your dad

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had to be one strong guy. Yeah, he had a

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he was a runner for eight years ago and then

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he had some here's a little bat blue period and

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then came out of that and never drank again and

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was riding his bike and do so. We always exercised,

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So he had a strong heart. But I don't know,

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I don't know if he was hanging on for his brother.

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He hardly made any real noises. And when my uncle

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Joe came in, he's like, all of a sudden, he's like,

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and my Uncle's like, I don't think his wife had

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been a nurse, And I'm like, I'm not sure. We

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haven't seen that the entire time. They were gonna leave

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on Friday. Of course, again we get to have nice

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dinners together and hanging out, you know, in the pond

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doing drinking, going over to where my brother runs the hotel,

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which is absolutely gorgeous, the Cliffhouse, and and then my

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uncle sends the thing saying, you know, we're heading out.

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looks okay, and we're all looking at each other, going

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we can't go much longer. They're like, what the fuck

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are we going to do? So at this point, my

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sister and my sister in law, because I don't really

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do anything, looked online and saw that, you know, maybe

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remove the oxygen and that hospice would be willing to

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do that. It's not cruel and it's not bad, it's

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just you know, and then maybe things were still down.

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here's something that's weird. If you have a loved one

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who's in an assisted living center and you want to

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donate through furniture, there are companies that'll come pick it up,

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but they can't go win the room. So yeah, so

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we had to get it all out to the atrium

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or in front of the place and off to the side.

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Don't forget they still have people, a lot of walkers

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coming through you know what I mean this and that,

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a gurney. The first time it was a funeral home,

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come and pick up a body, same piece of fucking furniture, Matt.

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be taken.

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Speaker 3: To an ambulance.

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Speaker 4: What the waiting a minute for your ambulance is not

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gonna get my shit out of here?

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Speaker 5: Who were like in the door, it's like the facility

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that he had been living in. They want to take

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it as a donation.

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Speaker 1: I mean they know they haven't even his books and stuff.

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They're like, like, our library is full. And he had

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weird He had weird books. He had a lot of

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a lot of dictionaries and Dictionary of the probably dictionaries

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he didn't even know existed. And I don't mean that

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in any snobby, intellectually weaponizing way, but who has ever

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heard of the Oxford Regional Dictionary of Slang?

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Speaker 5: You should have brought up to.

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Speaker 1: Like who would?

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't?

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Speaker 1: He had it and he used to tell us give

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us words like the pizza cross with the delicious Pizza

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from BTV, the crust if you left it there is

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called an ort o r T and my father used

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always go, you guys gonna eat your orts like it

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just you sounded nuts, but that that was my dad.

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So we get everything out. I had stopped for lunch,

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so I'm one beer in for the day, and then

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my brother's gonna meet us at their house after work,

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and you know we're gonna change. We have a couple

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more beers. We pack up the cooler and we go

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up the hospice and on the way we're all saying,

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we're all good to take the oxygen down. Ever, do

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you agree? Everybody says yes, get in there, and the

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nurse comes walking in behind us and she says, we're

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gonna flip them, so if you want to step out,

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meaning that they kind of wash them down. What they

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do is they rotator, right, so they're gonna rotate them.

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And that's part of the reason he had pins and

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rods put in and serve him anything other than but

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he would have been in. I don't think they could

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have done that right, to just move them. So they

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say that, and then she comes back. She goes, oh,

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we're all set, Do you have any questions? And my

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brother and I look at my sister and she goes,

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oh great, like none of us wanted those. So she said,

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what do you think and the nurse said, oh, well, yeah,

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my brother goes not not the question you were expecting,

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And she said no, she said, it can be a

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rapid decline if we take it out. And again, it's

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just two little things. It's not a mask, it's not

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it's not a ventilator. It's just and she said, the

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medicine he's on, it's helping him breathe, it's opening up

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his lungs a little bit, and the morphine is helping

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with pain. So yes, so I guess there was a

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couple of medications within five minutes. He was kinde yeah.

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Speaker 5: So you were all there though, all three of.

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Speaker 1: Us and my sister in law stood there. Well, he

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got quite emotional, as you can imagine, and we uh,

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and then it got kind of quiet, and you're just

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staring at him and you're watching like you're just watching

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this and this is the extraordinary part, ordinary happiness everything.

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I just never seen anybody like literally leave. So we're

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sitting there and you can see kind of the pulse

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in his neck, and my sister said, we should do something,

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we should sing something, and she started singing amazing grace,

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and my brother and I joined in. And then my

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brother goes, I don't know the second verse.

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Speaker 3: I don't know the words.

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Speaker 1: I don't know the second verse. So we sang it

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and then I swear to God. By the time we

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were done, it was gone. And I said, there, I go,

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he's gone. And we stood there for a second. I

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waited like what I thought was approbably amount of time,

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and I go, I'll go get the nurse. And my

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brother goes, let's give it a couple of minutes. What's

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that everything? And it was amazing to watch as the

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color like your lips are no longer read. The color

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is gone, like it's just gone. And then slowly I go,

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oh my god, that happens so fat. It was like

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somebody just turned you off. It was really strange. And

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uh so we went and got the nurse and she said, okay,

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give us a minute. We're going to put him on

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his back. And then and and kind of problem. They

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had to declare him dead. Right they can't because I

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can come away he's dead, maybe not, And then they

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call the funeral home. Funeral home is going to be

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forty minutes to come out to get him. So and

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then of course they're going to do one more time

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with the body, and we're looking like no a week

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with it, And we all talked and we went over

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even then and you know, kind of gave him a

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kiss and said and then they kind of put him

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in the bag and come out, and then the funeral.

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This poor girl, she's on call on a Friday night,

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you know. And my dad wasn't a small he was

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not overweight at all or anything at this point. It

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hasn't been for probably the last fifteen years. But he's

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taller than me by an end. She's six two, and

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he's about one hundred and ninety five pounds one hundred

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and ninety one hundred ninety five. It's a lot of

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dead weight, you know what I mean. And it's not

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evenly distributed. So I was wondering how, and she's this

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little girl. So then she comes and she says, because

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my brother is in Maine, he's the contact, and he

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gets like this plastic rose and we're so sorry for

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your loss. It's like this rose and this other thing.

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So meanwhile, while we were waiting for them, it was

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while we're waiting for them.

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Speaker 3: Whatever real one bin better.

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Speaker 1: You think I have no idea. I just think nothing,

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like what am I gonna know? Nothing? But it was

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I guess that's what they I don't know. So we're

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sitting there and they called. We had called my mother

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and my mother without trying to reveal too much. I

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was a ten pound baby. She had an episiotomy ovulating

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and things would call problems and be painful. So it

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was five years till my sister and then my brother

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came after that. And my mother said, my biggest fear

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was that my poor I think she texted on my

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poor Billy would be the this you would have nobody

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by the deathbed. I'm so glad you were all there.

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So my brother puts the rose in his mouth, steps

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his self, he goes. Billy wasn't alone, and I got

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the rose. So there was still a sense of humor.

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It was still nice. Problem is that you know now

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we were all going back. It just it's almost like

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my father used to make this joke. I would never

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want to be a pain to my family or whatever.

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I'm getting the phrase wrong, But so that that was it.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that it's really hit me necessarily. I

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think that I know Matt has lost a parent. I

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know that you've lost both your parents, and like I said,

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I mean, I don't know what it's like.

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Speaker 6: Well to me, like I was telling you when I

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came in, it was kind of like a you're said,

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but there's a relief to it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, you know what I mean. Well, they're never

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going to be able to like that was the thing

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where I'm going at this point. You wish you could

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almost be the doctor to up the morphine a little

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bit and.

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Speaker 3: Just let them go and in the answer your thing.

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Speaker 6: When my mother passed, I was an old I was

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an old forge with Matt, and so she waited until

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I got She died probably a few hours later after

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I got home.

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, agree that.

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Speaker 5: They do that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's true.

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Speaker 5: I know someone who's a death doula. Actually, yeah, and

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I've talked to her because I she's in the Women's

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Business Owner group with me. But I haven't lost a parent.

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But I lost my stepdad last year. And yeah, he

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had gotten approved for in home hospice that day. My

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mom had been his caretaker. My mom was leaving that night.

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She was just going to go out with her friends

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to go see a show at like RBTL, and my

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stepsister was staying with her, And as soon as she

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walked out the front door, my stepdad passed and they

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were like he did not want to die in front

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of my mom, like he had like loved her too much,

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too much dignity to pass in front of my mom

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that as soon as she left he passed away.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it was there was something somewhat alk. Not

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all death is the same. I think Malcolm's wall worn

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or drowned? Was that how he died in Costa Rica.

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I think he got caught up in a rip current

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or something. And I don't know, Uh sad, beautiful spot

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to go, but but uh so that that sounds horrible.

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This was like almost beautiful, you know, I forgive me,

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but it was like almost beautiful that we were all

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the three kids were there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know you got to hug.

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Speaker 5: Each other and that's yeah, you do get to like

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like when my mom called that my papa had passed,

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like the whole family showed up. We all had a

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drink like in his honor. My stepbrother poured a Captain

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and coke and put it in Papa's hands and like

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because he's he passed sitting in his spot and everything

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and it was just it was nice, so all sit there.

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I mean it was It's strange when you're.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your person.

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Speaker 5: Like a dead body. It was a Saturday night that

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he passed. Took them hours to get them.

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Speaker 1: Irish used to prop you up in the corner next

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to the keg and that was the wake. I think,

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maybe I want to be I've never heard that before,

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many many many years ago. I think there were pictures

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that I saw and they and they were Irelanders and

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what they would do. Yeah, I don't that's yeah, you could, I.

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Speaker 6: Guess, but you know, just look after losing people at

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start at a young age.

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Speaker 3: When my mom went to pass, it wasn't is devastating.

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Speaker 1: Is you know, because she's supposed to do. Yes, she's

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supposed to do. That's what I mean. Like, that's where

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this is. It's ordinary like nothings. Nothing's out of alignment here.

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It's not a child dying before a parent. It's it's

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the order of life that I want to happen. But yeah,

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that's the order of life. And uh, you were young

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when your dad passed.

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Speaker 3: No, I was it was two thousand and nine, so.

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Speaker 1: I was in my thirties, okay, and how about you?

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Speaker 4: I was twenty four.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. See, it's like, here's what I'm waiting for. Oh god,

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I gotta tell dad that, and then realizing that he's

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not there, that that's what.

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Speaker 3: I'm that's the worst.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm waiting for. And I think it'll happen.

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Speaker 5: And I think it's hard when you get the ashes too.

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If he's getting cremated.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna get cremated, but.

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Speaker 5: The ashes, like, yeah, that's sort of just that's a

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gut punch.

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00:24:27,279 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: Yeah. And he said to us, I want a big party,

474
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:33,000
but give everybody time to really mourn me. Really really.

475
00:24:33,839 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 3: He was going to be eighty in.

476
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,880
Speaker 1: October, so we think we're going to do young. That's

477
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,640
still it is by today's standards. And you're not the

478
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:44,680
only I was out to like a I don't know,

479
00:24:44,799 --> 00:24:48,240
tequiling snacks. I guess we'll call it uh over on

480
00:24:48,319 --> 00:24:52,000
winting or merchants. Everybody been over tavos. Everybody been there?

481
00:24:52,079 --> 00:24:52,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, get there.

482
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 1: Yeah it's pretty nice. Yeah, yeah, how did I know it?

483
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:57,920
It must have been something that was sitting here, but

484
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,160
a person who it was a funeral director was there

485
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:04,000
and said, you know, that's still pretty young. Yeah, And

486
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,920
I went, good, maybe maybe I'm gonna last more than

487
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:08,359
twenty four.

488
00:25:10,599 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 6: Want it is only six years older than you know.

489
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know what you're not saying anything.

490
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:21,599
Speaker 3: I'm not sayingthing wrong.

491
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 6: I'm just saying I don't think the eighty is an

492
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:24,759
older age.

493
00:25:24,799 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 4: I guess, well, we know you don't think it's old.

494
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:29,440
Speaker 3: I guess that's what I'm trying to say.

495
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,160
Speaker 1: You're still on the app.

496
00:25:33,279 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 5: Was amazing.

497
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 4: I didn't think Mark would be the one to bring

498
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,119
up the age of anybody.

499
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 5: I do feel like though, it can put a lot

500
00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:46,440
of life into perspective, like since my stepdad passed, I'm

501
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,640
trying to do more with my mom, like I invited

502
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,160
her on a summer vacation in a couple of weeks

503
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:55,759
with us, you know, because it can happen unexpectedly too.

504
00:25:56,559 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 1: I think that that's I agree. I agree. I think

505
00:26:00,599 --> 00:26:02,480
I don't know if you live this way, Map, but

506
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:06,759
all the things you and Natalie do together, the places

507
00:26:06,799 --> 00:26:08,799
you go, it looks like you have fun. Why you

508
00:26:08,839 --> 00:26:10,759
can I've learned that.

509
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, I really believe now from losing a wife that

510
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,559
was twenty seven, but also losing so many classmates over

511
00:26:16,559 --> 00:26:19,000
the last twenty years. Yeah, yeah, I think we lost

512
00:26:19,079 --> 00:26:21,440
one of our client well, one got killed in school,

513
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,440
you know, you get hit by a car. But we've

514
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,160
had a couple from cancer in the thirties, and so

515
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,680
it was just like, you know what, I'm obviously gonna

516
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,200
say for tomorrow, but you're also gonna enjoy it today.

517
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,799
Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, right, because you can't take it with you.

518
00:26:33,039 --> 00:26:35,680
Because that's when my dad died. The only thing on

519
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,880
was a hospital gown. That was it, Like there was

520
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,559
nothing else there. The big leather chair don't mean shit,

521
00:26:41,799 --> 00:26:44,160
you know what I mean? Well, all the the books,

522
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,400
the memories of this, I mean, you know, and my

523
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,559
poor brother's got a lot of stuff in his garage.

524
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 5: Still should hire an organizer, travel all the time like

525
00:26:57,759 --> 00:27:00,759
I'm in the assessed living. That's why I'm asking because

526
00:27:00,759 --> 00:27:03,519
a lot of the places around here, when someone passes

527
00:27:03,559 --> 00:27:07,119
their moves to a higher level of care, they will

528
00:27:08,279 --> 00:27:12,880
use their bookshelves, desks, beds for the next resident.

529
00:27:13,079 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, so I don't know. I think everybody

530
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,359
here was bringing their ome, but I'm not. I don't

531
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,319
know how it works. Yeah, you know that's the thing,

532
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,640
all right, B T B Wood Fire Pizza and grill.

533
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:24,960
I will say, no.

534
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 3: Kill you.

535
00:27:31,759 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: You can cater your after funeral party, right, which which

536
00:27:35,599 --> 00:27:36,240
which we have?

537
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 3: Yes, we've done that.

538
00:27:37,759 --> 00:27:38,759
Speaker 4: We're doing one tomorrow.

539
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: You're doing are you?

540
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 4: We have one of these at the party.

541
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that and really good just to

542
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:48,960
die for.

543
00:27:51,279 --> 00:27:51,799
Speaker 4: Celebrated.

544
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,319
Speaker 1: But the uh but that back room is perfect. We've

545
00:27:56,319 --> 00:27:57,359
done a lot of those things.

546
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, And unfortunately a couple of my friends have had

547
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,440
their moms and we've done those there too. So that's

548
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,599
always nice because you give back to somebody. Yeah, but

549
00:28:05,039 --> 00:28:07,720
it's nice. It's it's tough. It's the toughest time in

550
00:28:07,759 --> 00:28:10,240
somebody's life, I feel like for the most part. And

551
00:28:10,279 --> 00:28:13,119
if you can give them a little comfort, a little happiness, ye,

552
00:28:13,279 --> 00:28:13,440
you know.

553
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,079
Speaker 1: Well, you're you're very good at doing that. I the

554
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:22,000
pickle pizza has been upgraded. It is so good. It

555
00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:23,960
was really good before, but I bit into it this

556
00:28:24,039 --> 00:28:26,240
time and I go man Cajun rants just enough kick

557
00:28:26,559 --> 00:28:27,960
Cajun rant, little bacon.

558
00:28:28,079 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 4: One of the best dressings we make too, is on

559
00:28:30,559 --> 00:28:31,400
the Southwest Side.

560
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:32,400
Speaker 3: It's so freaking good.

561
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,880
Speaker 1: What made your son? It was your son who goes ahead,

562
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:35,480
let me try this.

563
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 4: He comes up all kinds of ship there before we

564
00:28:38,279 --> 00:28:40,519
went away. He came up and he can figure out

565
00:28:40,519 --> 00:28:42,119
how to do stuff for bread, which is kind of

566
00:28:42,119 --> 00:28:43,720
cool in a wood fired oven.

567
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: Wow.

568
00:28:44,359 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, just from just from playing around. Kid's pretty talented.

569
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:48,720
I think you realized that.

570
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:50,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, keep them?

571
00:28:52,839 --> 00:28:53,319
Speaker 3: What about?

572
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:53,519
Speaker 4: Uh?

573
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: And then Wednesday the concerts coming up.

574
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 4: The sixteenth, August sixteenth, Okay, so we.

575
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,039
Speaker 1: Got just a couple of weeks and it's the Zach

576
00:29:01,119 --> 00:29:05,480
Bryan tribute band, and then that is gonna be It's.

577
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 4: Gonna be huge, enormous. As the weather holds up, I

578
00:29:08,759 --> 00:29:12,559
think it will should fairly. Yeah, that means it will

579
00:29:12,559 --> 00:29:15,440
definitely ring. That way sold your boat, so yeah it

580
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:15,920
should be good.

581
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: Right, you did sell it.

582
00:29:18,359 --> 00:29:20,359
Speaker 3: If you've noticed, it has not rained.

583
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 4: So I should buy a Snowbill would never snowy. You know,

584
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,039
two years ago, I purposely my my buddy wanted me

585
00:29:28,079 --> 00:29:30,079
to go out with Snowvale and he goes, you'll love it.

586
00:29:30,119 --> 00:29:31,880
I said, I hate the cold. I'll hate it. I

587
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:36,000
bought the snowball, the boots, everything, gloves, didn't never buy

588
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,200
the helmet. Never got out once. There was never enough snow.

589
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,640
Friend about once you sell your stuff, you're never.

590
00:29:45,839 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: That's funny. That's very funny. All right, we'll take a

591
00:29:48,279 --> 00:29:52,400
moment only because it was everywhere and I have some

592
00:29:52,519 --> 00:29:53,640
connection to the story.

593
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,319
Speaker 4: But I know what you're talking about.

594
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 5: Inst it is my personnellity cam.

595
00:30:01,279 --> 00:30:03,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, the kiss cam. Oh, we'll get you.

596
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, that happened. That happened to me once in Buffalo.

597
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,079
Speaker 1: Well, we'll hear all about it right after this. Oh,

598
00:30:10,319 --> 00:30:13,680
I see you have random, rusty, ridiculous scrap metal all

599
00:30:13,799 --> 00:30:16,640
throughout your garage. I know that scene holding on to

600
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,559
that extra siding from two thousand and eight. Come on,

601
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,039
pack up that garage mess and roll it down to

602
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:27,480
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603
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Speaker 4: Busted flat and Ben Rouge waiting for train on a spear, the.

618
00:31:25,319 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 5: News faded as margin.

619
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 3: Bob a thumed a diesel down just afar.

620
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:35,799
Speaker 1: The road.

621
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,039
Speaker 5: A sooent new.

622
00:31:40,279 --> 00:31:43,599
Speaker 1: This is a Dannis Chaplin. My dad at one point,

623
00:31:44,119 --> 00:31:48,599
a married man with three kids, bought a Fierro.

624
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 5: Why do I not know what that is?

625
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:55,759
Speaker 3: Well, because you're a small ass car.

626
00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: Two Yeah, it's a two seater, sporty looking car. Are

627
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,599
not really built for anything. From Pontiac. It was the

628
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,920
Pontiac Veria, and I think I think I'd never even

629
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,960
looked into this, just from the name and the styling.

630
00:32:11,039 --> 00:32:14,359
It was based on the Ferrari Okay, okay, so he

631
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:18,440
would crank Janis Joplin. No matter who was in the car,

632
00:32:18,519 --> 00:32:20,480
it would be Meme. And I think all of us

633
00:32:20,559 --> 00:32:23,799
loved this. And my sister when we were having our

634
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:27,960
late night drinking night, she sang it very well on

635
00:32:28,079 --> 00:32:32,079
the dock. But while I'm up there, all of a

636
00:32:32,119 --> 00:32:36,359
sudden it explodes with the CEO of Astronomer being caught

637
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,720
on the kiss cam and the cold Play show. I

638
00:32:38,799 --> 00:32:42,559
believe it Jillette Stadium, pretty sure. Yeah, I'm pretty sure

639
00:32:42,559 --> 00:32:46,559
it was in Boston. And then I find out that

640
00:32:46,759 --> 00:32:52,400
they spend their summers in Kennybunk. And then I find

641
00:32:52,480 --> 00:33:00,920
out someone who dropped off blueberry cheesecake to the house.

642
00:33:01,799 --> 00:33:07,079
This woman had golfed with. That guy's the CEO's wife earlier.

643
00:33:07,839 --> 00:33:13,119
The kids are camp counselors at some day camp up

644
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:16,680
on the beach, right, so they're like entrench in there,

645
00:33:17,279 --> 00:33:21,839
and I was I thought, that's the ripple effect. If

646
00:33:22,039 --> 00:33:26,400
I saw my dad's my buddy's dad with his arms

647
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,279
wrapped around you, I couldn't not say anything. I would

648
00:33:29,319 --> 00:33:33,000
feel bad. Yeah, but that would last five minutes and

649
00:33:33,079 --> 00:33:37,799
then then you gotta start going, Amen, Hey, where's your dad?

650
00:33:37,839 --> 00:33:41,079
And put my mom, lock my mom in the basement,

651
00:33:41,119 --> 00:33:41,519
you know what I mean?

652
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:43,039
Speaker 3: Like that, I don't know.

653
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: And somebody else in Rochester said they know someone who

654
00:33:49,319 --> 00:33:51,599
he banged before that worked for the company.

655
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 5: Really, yeah, so here's my question, Like, a verified source

656
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,000
told you this, Okay, A.

657
00:33:58,039 --> 00:34:00,559
Speaker 1: Verified source told me that there was an other woman.

658
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 5: Yea, that here was a man who sleep around. I

659
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,159
bet the wife knows and just turn here, you.

660
00:34:12,599 --> 00:34:15,559
Speaker 1: There's no way this brought this woman didn't know. She

661
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:16,760
had to know that he was.

662
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 5: I bet she posted family photos on Facebook a lot too.

663
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: Oh maybe probably it was sort of like to cover

664
00:34:25,159 --> 00:34:28,480
up to like overcompensate. Yeah, well, look, it's a nice

665
00:34:28,519 --> 00:34:30,480
life when you're making half a million dollars a year,

666
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,440
that's a nice life style. And I'm sure that she probably,

667
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,119
you know, worked or something too. She I don't know

668
00:34:36,199 --> 00:34:36,599
what she did.

669
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:38,119
Speaker 4: I forgot she had a decent job.

670
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, so there could be that could be a house

671
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:45,679
that made seven hundred to a million dollars a year. Now,

672
00:34:45,679 --> 00:34:50,119
all of a sudden, I don't And Matt pointed this out.

673
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,639
It was the greatest observation I thought as I thought

674
00:34:53,679 --> 00:34:57,239
of it too. But later on he didn't need to

675
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:01,239
do anything. Yeah, he just needed stay cool, calmon.

676
00:35:01,039 --> 00:35:02,519
Speaker 4: Collect don't act like it's a big deal.

677
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: Hide in plain sight, right, hide and plain tight.

678
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 4: I mean, there's a chance that one of your wife's

679
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,280
friends are going to see you, or you know, vice versa,

680
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,840
that her you know, her husband's friend. But to do that,

681
00:35:15,119 --> 00:35:16,039
you just went viral.

682
00:35:16,199 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 3: He threw his arms off of her.

683
00:35:18,159 --> 00:35:20,800
Speaker 4: They turned around and hid. He ducked down, He ducked.

684
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,159
Speaker 5: I mean he was like like a grenade fucking came

685
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:24,719
at him.

686
00:35:25,159 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 3: It did.

687
00:35:27,079 --> 00:35:30,599
Speaker 4: Yeah, imagine amount of lawyers have called her I can.

688
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 1: I mean, this went everywhere to the point where the

689
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,400
Philly fanatic, oh yeah he did great.

690
00:35:37,639 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 4: Oh my god, leave it to fucking Philadelphia. Probably the

691
00:35:41,039 --> 00:35:41,920
best thing they've ever done.

692
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:46,760
Speaker 1: But I thought that's really.

693
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:50,320
Speaker 5: I mean, celebrities are talking about it, like. The memes

694
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,360
have been amazing. It is what me and my sister

695
00:35:53,519 --> 00:35:55,920
or some of my friends, all we're doing all day

696
00:35:56,079 --> 00:35:58,360
is sending the memes about it back and forth. My

697
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,239
sister sent me this one that I thought that was

698
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:00,559
the best.

699
00:36:00,599 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 4: It was like lego.

700
00:36:01,519 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 5: It was like my first affair, and it was like

701
00:36:05,119 --> 00:36:06,039
to Patrick.

702
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 4: For Holmes in the referee one, No, oh yeah, oh

703
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:11,360
did they do it with AI or something?

704
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,360
Speaker 1: And they must oh that's amazing, I got I know,

705
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,159
I haven't seen that. I haven't seen that. But if

706
00:36:16,199 --> 00:36:19,840
that guy stayed calm, that's the thing, is like your

707
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,880
knee jerk reaction to anything in life.

708
00:36:22,039 --> 00:36:24,320
Speaker 3: Fucking way to beat, just way to beat.

709
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 5: And they could have just waved.

710
00:36:26,039 --> 00:36:27,519
Speaker 4: They could have They didn't have to do anything. The

711
00:36:27,599 --> 00:36:29,519
camera would not if you're boring, the camera goes off

712
00:36:29,559 --> 00:36:29,719
of you.

713
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:32,599
Speaker 1: She didn't even move. It was him that was like yeah,

714
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:33,679
and then she's like, oh god.

715
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,559
Speaker 4: Then she just turned around. Her face was great though,

716
00:36:36,639 --> 00:36:38,960
you own her jaw drop, But what did you think

717
00:36:39,159 --> 00:36:40,599
it was a possibility of happening?

718
00:36:41,519 --> 00:36:44,039
Speaker 5: Well, and then his statement but they said that right

719
00:36:44,119 --> 00:36:46,760
before cold Play did say like all right, we're gonna

720
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,280
do the kiss cam now you.

721
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:49,280
Speaker 4: Know oh they did.

722
00:36:49,559 --> 00:36:54,119
Speaker 5: Yeah. So like he's like saying, you see the private moment.

723
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:58,039
Speaker 4: Yeah, but no, there's no private moment in account, not sure.

724
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,039
Speaker 3: Not in social media. The other stand.

725
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:03,119
Speaker 4: Man.

726
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: I mean, it's there's something like I feel bad for

727
00:37:08,119 --> 00:37:11,920
the kids, the wife. It's embarrassing that how this all

728
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,480
came out, especially for the kids to find out that

729
00:37:14,599 --> 00:37:15,920
your parents had an affair.

730
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 4: That way, it's gonna suck for the kids because they're

731
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,360
gonna get so much fun made of them. I think

732
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:22,920
the oldest one is only like eight, right.

733
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:27,280
Speaker 1: Oh no, I think ones in college and one Yeah,

734
00:37:27,599 --> 00:37:29,400
there were two boys, and I think there are college

735
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:34,360
about younger or probably younger. His kids are college, so

736
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,960
they should be okay, okay, yeah, I think or ones like.

737
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:38,800
Speaker 4: My dad's a slut.

738
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, man, dad pulling through the tail?

739
00:37:42,519 --> 00:37:43,119
Speaker 3: Yeah? True?

740
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: Can I talk to your head about what goes on

741
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,519
with the CEO? I just you know, it sounds great.

742
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:51,039
Speaker 4: I want to enter.

743
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:51,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

744
00:37:54,639 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 5: I also asked my friend who's head of HR at

745
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,639
her company. I was like, how many memes have you gotten?

746
00:37:59,679 --> 00:38:01,920
She's like, oh, the HR memes are great?

747
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, because that woman was HR.

748
00:38:04,199 --> 00:38:05,199
Speaker 5: Yeah.

749
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:08,199
Speaker 1: Man, when HR is doing that, you got to anything

750
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:12,639
in that company. That's amazing. But has anybody ever found

751
00:38:12,679 --> 00:38:16,519
out because I do know someone who found out that

752
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:21,719
their parent was having an affair by being over at

753
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,840
a like a high school party, walking into the bedroom

754
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,599
and there's a frame picture of her mom. The dad

755
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:29,599
was divorced, but her mom was still married.

756
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:34,280
Speaker 5: And that's slowly Yeah, wait, I'm confused.

757
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 1: So I know somebody whose mother was having an affair

758
00:38:37,559 --> 00:38:42,639
married with a divorced man. The divorced man had a

759
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:46,039
frame picture. The party was at his his kid was

760
00:38:46,119 --> 00:38:48,239
throwing the party because he was out of town, and

761
00:38:48,599 --> 00:38:50,000
there was a frame picture.

762
00:38:50,159 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 4: So divorced during during an affair, though hast thing I've

763
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,280
ever heard in my home entire fure.

764
00:38:59,119 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 3: Oh he's still married. But here's the freak.

765
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: He's not. He's the voice. He was single. He's single,

766
00:39:04,119 --> 00:39:04,679
and he's living.

767
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:05,760
Speaker 4: She was.

768
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 3: Why would you have a picture of somebody I don't

769
00:39:08,119 --> 00:39:08,719
still married?

770
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 1: It was in his bedroom probably just like looking at it.

771
00:39:12,079 --> 00:39:16,719
I don't know, you know what I'm saying, Like you

772
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,199
would think no one's going to see this, and then

773
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:23,159
she saw it and shouldn't exist. I think the kid knew,

774
00:39:23,679 --> 00:39:25,880
but they never said anything. And then it kind of

775
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,159
came out and the mother, you know, father split. But

776
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,400
I just what a way to find out, right you'd want?

777
00:39:33,119 --> 00:39:35,719
I guess the best thing to do is to admit it.

778
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,440
If your car I don't know, I don't know what

779
00:39:37,559 --> 00:39:38,440
the best thing to do is.

780
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:44,280
Speaker 4: No, No, some guy was just poundering from behind. Now

781
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,239
since she looks up and there's her mom, sure with

782
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,719
the guy, and what the fuck this can't happen.

783
00:39:50,599 --> 00:39:53,559
Speaker 1: I don't know that that was exactly like that. I

784
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:55,559
think that it was one of these Yeah, you wound

785
00:39:55,599 --> 00:39:57,360
up in the bedroom. Maybe we're going to the bathroom

786
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,880
off there. I'm not sure, but yeah, you know, what

787
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,559
does some questions, It does race some questions.

788
00:40:04,599 --> 00:40:06,320
Speaker 4: But you're doing in that bedroom, that's it means it

789
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:07,519
was the father's bedroom as well.

790
00:40:07,599 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 1: It was the father's bedroom.

791
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 5: Yes, I mean, I'm sure that people have been people

792
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,599
get caught in public at events, but I just think

793
00:40:16,639 --> 00:40:19,920
it's the whole jumbo tron, you know, that's making that's

794
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,119
the whole media circus.

795
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I knew people who would go out

796
00:40:25,639 --> 00:40:29,239
of town, like when I say out of town Buffalo, Yeah,

797
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,800
instead of hanging around here for restaurants and things like that.

798
00:40:32,519 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 4: But maybe that's what they did. Maybe they were out

799
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,079
of hound sort of at least like that.

800
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 1: Maybe it wasn't like well, his wife said, Kenny Bunk,

801
00:40:39,639 --> 00:40:43,800
that's a good I think two hours from Boston, and

802
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,960
so he and I think they were a Boston based company, was.

803
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:48,079
Speaker 5: A Boston company. I know that.

804
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 1: His wife and I.

805
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 5: Had a couple of friends who went to Cold Play

806
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:56,559
up in Toronto, and I asked one of them the

807
00:40:56,639 --> 00:40:58,480
other day. I was like, did you wish that that

808
00:40:58,679 --> 00:41:01,679
whole scenario happen and death the concert that you were

809
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:02,400
Ah was like.

810
00:41:02,679 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: Yes, did he reference it at all?

811
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:09,599
Speaker 7: Because he's killed before Toronto was before the next one

812
00:41:09,679 --> 00:41:13,119
with Yeah, I want to know my son is in

813
00:41:13,199 --> 00:41:15,559
Nashville right now because his buddy.

814
00:41:17,199 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 4: So they're going I don't know if it's tilling or not,

815
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:20,599
but I want to I'm gonna ask him.

816
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:22,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, final if they make any reference to him.

817
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 5: They tweeted like there's going to be a camera free

818
00:41:28,079 --> 00:41:29,880
section for all those in their side.

819
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 4: Luke Bryan sat down the air night before. He played

820
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:36,039
a slow song and he says, hey, before you think

821
00:41:36,039 --> 00:41:38,880
about it, there's gonna be cameras and videos and the

822
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:40,960
kiss cam is going to show. So if you got

823
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,360
your side piece here, make sure you separate yourselves right

824
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:45,880
now before you get caught. It's not my fault if

825
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:46,519
you do well.

826
00:41:46,599 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 5: I know it's funny, is right before this all came

827
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,239
out last Saturday, not like two days ago, but the

828
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:55,800
week before. I went to Brad Paisley and they had

829
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:59,079
the kiss cam there and there's this couple making out

830
00:41:59,119 --> 00:42:01,760
on it and it's my fucking neighbors. And I text Lonnie.

831
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:05,320
I was like, guys, can you chill out? And she

832
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:06,880
was like, oh my god, we were on it for

833
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:09,440
so long. I'm like, yeah, because you and Madge doing

834
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:13,679
something hung down each other's throat, Like wow. I thought

835
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:16,440
it was funny because then that happened right before this

836
00:42:16,599 --> 00:42:17,159
all came out.

837
00:42:17,599 --> 00:42:21,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, this was I've never seen anything go that quickly,

838
00:42:21,559 --> 00:42:24,639
like blow up everywhere. And I get it. We don't

839
00:42:24,679 --> 00:42:27,039
have a lot of other news happen in summer, she kindas,

840
00:42:27,199 --> 00:42:32,199
but still, man, I'm fucking the worst, the worst. I

841
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:36,159
found a book that you may want to read. It

842
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:40,480
is about a woman and her brother. Her brother's a

843
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,719
writer and he convinced her to write a book about

844
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:49,159
her time as a flight attendant on private jets. It's

845
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:52,440
called The Mile High Club Confessions of a Private Jet

846
00:42:52,519 --> 00:42:57,519
Flight Attendant and she opened it says here that I

847
00:42:57,559 --> 00:43:01,960
guess they make six figure salaries. I don't know. She said.

848
00:43:03,679 --> 00:43:05,440
She was thirty two years old. She was offered her

849
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:07,960
dream job as a private jet flight attendant and promised

850
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:12,000
a six figure salary. Trips to luxury resorts and full benefits.

851
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:16,320
It seemed too good to be true. That makes sense, yeah, right,

852
00:43:16,599 --> 00:43:18,639
and so you would be on call when they want right.

853
00:43:19,679 --> 00:43:22,719
Over the course of two phone interviews, the pilot continually

854
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:28,000
hinted at the quote unquote alternative lifestyle laura of the

855
00:43:28,039 --> 00:43:32,280
plane's owner, a religious man who split his time flying

856
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,960
with his family half the month and with his girlfriends

857
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:39,079
the other religious guy.

858
00:43:40,079 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 5: That's what it sounds like, the makings of a porno.

859
00:43:44,519 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 1: As as the conversation went on, it became clear the

860
00:43:48,159 --> 00:43:52,719
role involved participating in orgies with the girlfriends on board

861
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:57,079
while the owner watched. And the pilot said, to this woman,

862
00:43:57,119 --> 00:43:59,519
and she has it in quotes for the book, we

863
00:43:59,679 --> 00:44:01,840
only fly them once a month, so it's not like

864
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,199
you have to be a lesbian. You would just need

865
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:05,159
to have fun with them.

866
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:09,280
Speaker 5: And you're only getting six figures for this. I guess

867
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:15,480
so figure person has a private jet though you all

868
00:44:15,559 --> 00:44:16,239
private jets.

869
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:20,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, you would think, well, the private jet alone is

870
00:44:20,119 --> 00:44:21,719
going to cost you someone stuff. Then you got to

871
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:22,559
pay the pilots.

872
00:44:22,639 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 5: You needed a co pilot if you're if you're hiring

873
00:44:25,639 --> 00:44:29,440
a full time like flight attendant, flight attendant sex life

874
00:44:29,559 --> 00:44:34,280
and as a prostitute. Yes, like, I mean, that's probably

875
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:38,760
worth more than six figures. I'll have to read the.

876
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 1: Book to forty I think it's almost twelve years ago.

877
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:46,639
She's forty five. Now she was thirty two, and hap.

878
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 4: I'm thirty two years old and somebody's offered me one

879
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,000
hundred thousand dollars and I can go on these all

880
00:44:50,039 --> 00:44:51,960
these vacations and I don't really have to work a

881
00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:52,679
hard job, and I.

882
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:53,039
Speaker 1: Just have to.

883
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:57,800
Speaker 4: I don't see the problem, but you don't have to

884
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:02,000
look that it would be you sucking dick well a woman.

885
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 1: No, No, what she's saying is if she's trying to

886
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:11,360
make it. No one said anything about balls on my chin.

887
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:17,320
And she didn't take that job, No she did. I

888
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:19,360
guess she didn't want to be part of that. I

889
00:45:19,679 --> 00:45:23,280
was wondering. But she did talk about, you know, other people,

890
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,920
and some people being assholes, and they hit turbulence and

891
00:45:27,079 --> 00:45:31,360
some lady's dog jumped, and she said she actually pushed

892
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:36,320
me into another seat, yelling at her. Dogs are delicate

893
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,119
and like the turbulence is my fall, Like you mean

894
00:45:39,159 --> 00:45:41,280
to the assholes, And then she said most of the

895
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:45,920
people were miserable, but she goes, this is their you know,

896
00:45:46,079 --> 00:45:48,400
private planes are like a flying living room. She goes,

897
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:51,000
it's their house. So she's like a lot of times,

898
00:45:51,039 --> 00:45:53,320
if they would start to have sex, you just step

899
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,239
up to the front of the plane, they'd be banging

900
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,519
on the couch, they'd be banging in they can we

901
00:45:57,639 --> 00:45:58,159
step back?

902
00:45:58,280 --> 00:45:59,519
Speaker 3: Can you step back a second?

903
00:46:01,039 --> 00:46:04,159
Speaker 6: Who do you mean to tell me you wouldn't go

904
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:07,199
on a private jet for six figures to blow a guy?

905
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: No?

906
00:46:08,119 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 2: No, no, but.

907
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:14,599
Speaker 5: That's your annual salary. And I'm saying that you have

908
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,920
to that same job, but then you also have to

909
00:46:18,039 --> 00:46:25,199
participate in orgies once a month. But like, no, I'm just.

910
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 1: Saying that that for six figures.

911
00:46:27,039 --> 00:46:27,840
Speaker 5: No, I'm just saying that.

912
00:46:28,039 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 3: I think you.

913
00:46:31,679 --> 00:46:33,119
Speaker 4: Can watch That's definitely.

914
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:35,800
Speaker 5: No, I would. But what I'm saying is if that

915
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:39,880
was your career and somebody offered you that, but it

916
00:46:40,039 --> 00:46:43,400
was like, it seems like they should offer you another money.

917
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 1: It's another Yeah, yeah, it's under Yeah, get down to

918
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:48,159
paragraph D.

919
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, what what is a what do they

920
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,880
start at? But now it's a lot different attendant.

921
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, for an airline, you know.

922
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 5: You get paid. It's sucks because you only get paid

923
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,760
wheels up to wheels down, Like because I have a

924
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,119
couple of friends who have been flight attendance and they've

925
00:47:07,199 --> 00:47:11,039
talked about like those layovers, you don't get paid like

926
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:14,679
you know, and then they have the rules that if

927
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:18,880
you get timed out, like for you know, your flight

928
00:47:19,039 --> 00:47:21,199
is delayed, then you can't go on the next flight

929
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:25,519
because you have to have your rest hours and everything.

930
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:27,559
Speaker 3: So have they ever blown a pilot before?

931
00:47:28,679 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 5: Have I ever blown?

932
00:47:29,599 --> 00:47:33,079
Speaker 3: Have they ever? Your friends are stewards have pilot?

933
00:47:33,639 --> 00:47:36,159
Speaker 5: I have no idea. I did a pilot for a

934
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:36,639
little bit.

935
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,679
Speaker 1: So wings I did? You're in your wings?

936
00:47:41,159 --> 00:47:41,320
Speaker 6: Man?

937
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,639
Speaker 3: Those wings? Key, those those wings keep coming up for

938
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:46,039
every conversation, don't they that.

939
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:47,079
Speaker 5: I was in college?

940
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:51,159
Speaker 1: Well in college you did them? Did you join the club?

941
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:51,800
Speaker 7: No?

942
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:54,280
Speaker 1: No, no, no. What kind of pilot was he?

943
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:58,039
Speaker 5: Though he was training? He was at very riddle and

944
00:47:58,119 --> 00:47:59,920
he let me fly the plane. So that was really

945
00:48:00,079 --> 00:48:00,599
fucking cool.

946
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 4: Wow, intelligent, real intelligent that guy is. You never flow

947
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,880
a plane for just try it out, nothing can happen.

948
00:48:12,199 --> 00:48:14,079
Speaker 1: Anyone could do it, Laura, you try.

949
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,280
Speaker 5: I actually flew a plane again like a year and

950
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,639
a half ago, when I went down to Dallas. My

951
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:23,480
friend's husband is a pilot, Yeah, the small aircrafts, and

952
00:48:23,559 --> 00:48:26,239
he let me take over for a little bit in DA.

953
00:48:26,599 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 6: My ten year old, well, just got back from floor

954
00:48:29,519 --> 00:48:31,960
and he claims he flew the plane. I think that's

955
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:33,119
more safe than you flying.

956
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I get, I understand.

957
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 3: I don't know.

958
00:48:38,599 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 4: I think between like putting your kid on your lap

959
00:48:41,079 --> 00:48:43,519
when you're driving, you know, ten miles per hour and

960
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:46,800
let the kids steer. Oh thanks dad, Yeah, yeah, that's

961
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:47,280
what she did.

962
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:49,519
Speaker 1: Now it makes sense.

963
00:48:51,199 --> 00:48:55,119
Speaker 4: I'm surprised you didn't gain your high.

964
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 5: It was a small prop plane, you know.

965
00:48:56,679 --> 00:49:02,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's hired a small problem.

966
00:49:05,639 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 1: So anyway, if you're looking for summer reading myle Hot Club,

967
00:49:09,199 --> 00:49:13,440
My High Club, Confessions of a Private Jet Flight Attendant,

968
00:49:14,599 --> 00:49:17,039
if there is something intriguing about, don't you like knowing about,

969
00:49:17,159 --> 00:49:19,239
because that's a whole different world. I don't know about.

970
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:21,519
I've never been in a private plane, but.

971
00:49:21,599 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 4: She started off with that, and like that's all downhill

972
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:24,679
from that.

973
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:26,639
Speaker 1: I would think so too. I don't know that that's

974
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:28,159
where that is in the book.

975
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,519
Speaker 4: I'm not sure, because that's what people are looking to reading.

976
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,400
Of course, I hear about the lady because there's stupid

977
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,039
little dog, you know, turbulence.

978
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:35,559
Speaker 3: I don't.

979
00:49:35,559 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 1: I don't care about that, about that. I want to

980
00:49:37,519 --> 00:49:43,360
hear about. You know, the orgy my father once rented.

981
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:47,960
He thought it was Flash Gordon, Flash Gordon, and instead

982
00:49:48,599 --> 00:49:51,079
it was flesh Flush Gordon is the best movie ever?

983
00:49:51,119 --> 00:49:53,920
A you kidding me? How the fuck do you know.

984
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:56,199
Speaker 4: It is?

985
00:49:56,519 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 1: It's a.

986
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,760
Speaker 3: It's it's a soft, it's a tough, it's.

987
00:50:00,599 --> 00:50:03,760
Speaker 1: Pretty, I guess. So somehow it wound up in the

988
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,880
I was homesick and he got Flash Gordon and it

989
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:10,159
wasn't Flash Gordon. It was flesh Gordon. So I'm watching

990
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,559
this and all of a sudden he comes. But they're

991
00:50:13,639 --> 00:50:15,719
flying in a plane and the plane gets hit by

992
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:21,800
some like some weird sex ray entire plane and now everybody,

993
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,920
Matt is standing up, they're taking off their claws, they're off,

994
00:50:25,199 --> 00:50:26,239
they're fucking.

995
00:50:26,039 --> 00:50:27,199
Speaker 3: Licking, sucking.

996
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 4: Seventies. I swear it was.

997
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:32,199
Speaker 1: It was flesh Gordon.

998
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,199
Speaker 3: It's so funny that you knew that Gordon.

999
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, he got flesh Gordon by accident.

1000
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,320
Speaker 4: I'm not sure why that surprises you. Why would Mark

1001
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:39,920
not know about it?

1002
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't watch that. Only thing I

1003
00:50:42,519 --> 00:50:44,320
don't watch is Flesh Gordon.

1004
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 3: Flesh Gordon. You know.

1005
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:47,639
Speaker 6: I had a guy who worked with I worked with

1006
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:49,800
it was a big fan in the movie, and I

1007
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:51,599
saw it because he let me borrow it.

1008
00:50:51,639 --> 00:50:54,519
Speaker 3: And this is only like twenty years ago, because.

1009
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was right, am I right there? Don't They

1010
00:50:56,639 --> 00:50:58,519
hit it with a ray and you see, Yeah, it's

1011
00:50:58,519 --> 00:51:00,760
supposed to be just like Flash Gordon and everybody gets

1012
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:02,440
a They're all banging.

1013
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:02,800
Speaker 3: That's all.

1014
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 1: That's all I got to see because he gave and

1015
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:07,519
he took it out and he went back to.

1016
00:51:07,559 --> 00:51:08,119
Speaker 3: The place goes.

1017
00:51:08,159 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 1: You really need to be careful with your titles because

1018
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,559
it was in the Flash Gordon box, but it's the

1019
00:51:13,639 --> 00:51:14,480
Flesh Gordon movie.

1020
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:17,199
Speaker 3: Of course they did.

1021
00:51:18,119 --> 00:51:18,760
Speaker 4: That's awesome.

1022
00:51:19,679 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 3: How funny is that? I had to be like ten

1023
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:26,239
I think, I think, oh.

1024
00:51:26,159 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 5: My god, I'm like imagining Lucas Wap something like that.

1025
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, now, right, ship man, these kids got it so easy.

1026
00:51:33,679 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 1: This is why I always sort of joke like, we're

1027
00:51:35,519 --> 00:51:38,239
never gonna have another great guitars. There's not gonna be

1028
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:40,000
that kid that just sits in the room and plays

1029
00:51:40,039 --> 00:51:42,119
and plays and plays until he figures it out. And

1030
00:51:42,199 --> 00:51:46,079
the reason is you got porn anywhere you want porn,

1031
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:49,119
because they'll be up there just jerking off. I didn't

1032
00:51:49,159 --> 00:51:52,559
have that access to porn, even when there was more

1033
00:51:52,639 --> 00:51:54,719
access than was available.

1034
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:56,519
Speaker 3: For my dad. It was the squiggly lines.

1035
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 1: You remember, you'd be watching every once in a while

1036
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:03,280
you'd see it and avery ariola, maybe see a kneecap.

1037
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 3: You're like, oh, yes, that's what it was.

1038
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 1: You had to really earn it.

1039
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:09,639
Speaker 5: The basement that I was working in today, the guy

1040
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:11,760
was like, oh, this is my sentimental bin, and I

1041
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:14,039
like went to move it to a different size bind

1042
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,519
and it was all like playboys from two thousand and four,

1043
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:18,679
two thousand.

1044
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:23,679
Speaker 1: And six, that's a sentimental bin. That's funny, I was laughing.

1045
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:26,840
I think that if you went through there, you could

1046
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:33,880
start to see like the progression of pubicare progression in

1047
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:36,199
terms of the lack of you know what I mean.

1048
00:52:36,559 --> 00:52:38,519
Speaker 3: I swear that was.

1049
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 4: Said two thousand and four, not nineteen eighty four or

1050
00:52:40,519 --> 00:52:41,239
nineteen ninety four.

1051
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:44,360
Speaker 1: No, what I'm saying like, yes, true, but out of it.

1052
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:47,039
I think that porn, it was a dictator of this,

1053
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:51,159
and the Two Fit Chicks did a podcast before us,

1054
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,079
and this came up with.

1055
00:52:56,559 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 3: That just what I say.

1056
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:00,760
Speaker 1: I did not say that this came This came up

1057
00:53:01,519 --> 00:53:05,440
right and I said something about seeing people in the

1058
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:08,079
gym in the locker room and how bad and I said,

1059
00:53:08,119 --> 00:53:10,119
I think, oh they oh, I know what it was.

1060
00:53:10,599 --> 00:53:13,920
These are older women and one was forty nine and

1061
00:53:14,039 --> 00:53:18,000
she went on a dating app and she kept getting

1062
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,079
hits from like twenty four year old guys and she goes,

1063
00:53:22,159 --> 00:53:24,360
I don't get it. She's like, there was nobody really

1064
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,239
my age that it was all younger guys, younger guys.

1065
00:53:27,679 --> 00:53:29,400
And she's looking around and she goes, why do you

1066
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:30,760
think that is? What do you think this is? And

1067
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:34,519
they're anstering. I go porn and they go what. I go,

1068
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:38,039
app so fucking Lily stepmom, porn was one of the biggest.

1069
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:39,639
I don't think it is anymore, but it was one

1070
00:53:39,679 --> 00:53:41,719
of the biggest. She's like, yeah, well I thought the

1071
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:42,480
guy said fantasy.

1072
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:43,639
Speaker 3: I go, yes, they do.

1073
00:53:44,159 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: And I said, it's still a compliment. Now there are

1074
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:48,880
some moms you just go that's a mom and you

1075
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:49,440
keep walking.

1076
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 4: It's a serious I even think that's a serious compliment. Yeah,

1077
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,440
and a twenty four year old kid is looking at

1078
00:53:55,519 --> 00:53:57,840
you at forty nine to fifty years old. That's yes,

1079
00:53:58,119 --> 00:53:58,880
that's a high form.

1080
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 5: Also that means that she has her range. Yeah, that

1081
00:54:02,639 --> 00:54:04,559
she would date that young too.

1082
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:08,880
Speaker 4: Oh well, oh, or maybe she just doesn't have it set.

1083
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:09,320
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1084
00:54:09,599 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 5: Oh you have you have to choose a range.

1085
00:54:13,519 --> 00:54:14,760
Speaker 3: She has twenty four.

1086
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:17,760
Speaker 1: All right. See now I don't know. It's about the

1087
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:21,119
dating ass. But then I said something about I go, yeah,

1088
00:54:21,159 --> 00:54:24,000
I said that porn even pubic hair styles. And then

1089
00:54:24,079 --> 00:54:27,400
she said, you know what when I saw Pam Anderson,

1090
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:31,519
I go on the boat that was a porno. She goes, yeah,

1091
00:54:31,639 --> 00:54:33,639
she goes she had no hair, and I went, oh,

1092
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:38,199
I should try that, and I went there, you go

1093
00:54:38,880 --> 00:54:41,480
there it is. So maybe with Pam Anderson that changed it.

1094
00:54:41,599 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 3: I don't even know.

1095
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,440
Speaker 1: I don't even know. All right, we'll take a moment.

1096
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,880
I just have to do one tiny, tiny political thing,

1097
00:54:50,039 --> 00:54:54,760
just tiny, just tiny, nothing big. I promise, just be quick.

1098
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:58,079
Speaker 5: Nothing list no, oka, not at all.

1099
00:54:58,119 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 1: We'll get to that right after this. Got a home

1100
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1101
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1102
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1103
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1104
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1110
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1112
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1113
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1115
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1116
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1117
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1121
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1122
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Speaker 6: Want put on addressing off a Ben Bulls like, I

1123
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,639
know you daddy ain't homes a ride with me to nine.

1124
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 1: You always want to look in at Zach Bryant home, smokes.

1125
00:56:53,199 --> 00:56:55,920
Speaker 4: Around and they're angry and they're looking.

1126
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:59,519
Speaker 1: For blood in the back of a blue pick. What's

1127
00:56:59,559 --> 00:57:04,840
this song on oranges? I thought there was an orange

1128
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:09,320
in the title? No, I know, Zack Bryan. Is there

1129
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:13,079
a song orange something? Or okay? Because he played just

1130
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:15,480
down at a matt Life stadium. I know someone who

1131
00:57:15,559 --> 00:57:18,599
went and there. There was a little disappointment he didn't

1132
00:57:18,599 --> 00:57:21,599
play that song. But I like this.

1133
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 4: I think if I remember right, maybe maybe I've.

1134
00:57:24,639 --> 00:57:26,920
Speaker 5: Drunk this or something in the orange.

1135
00:57:27,159 --> 00:57:27,679
Speaker 1: Zach Bryan.

1136
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:29,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, he says, you know, I've done enough. I've made

1137
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,000
enough money that he's going to stop touring and everything.

1138
00:57:33,199 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 1: It's probably a lot and and a lot oh ship,

1139
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:41,039
and then offered twelve million dollars to not say anything.

1140
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:45,039
Speaker 3: What was she doing singing somebody else's song?

1141
00:57:45,119 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 1: And he got pissed off. I read that.

1142
00:57:47,239 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 3: Remember she's coming up the stairs singing someone so.

1143
00:57:51,599 --> 00:57:52,159
Speaker 1: Oh whatever.

1144
00:57:52,599 --> 00:57:54,079
Speaker 3: That was saved by the bell episode.

1145
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,679
Speaker 1: Well, this is real life. I think I think it

1146
00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:58,440
really did happen. Not kidding it was.

1147
00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:01,599
Speaker 3: Maybe it was, you know, that's for the pace.

1148
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 1: Here's the little political thing I want to say. CBS

1149
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:13,880
has is ending the Stephen Colbert Show. This has nothing

1150
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:17,840
nothing to do with fascism and it has nothing to

1151
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:20,639
do with the government. It just doesn't because they wouldn't

1152
00:58:20,719 --> 00:58:22,400
let him stay on May. If that were the case,

1153
00:58:22,679 --> 00:58:25,079
He's stay in May to finish out the contract. They

1154
00:58:25,199 --> 00:58:27,800
just don't do that. And Late Night is not making

1155
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:30,800
the money it used to period, because so many people

1156
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:33,920
watch the clips online that they're not getting the revenue.

1157
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,599
And you may see that more and more. And as

1158
00:58:36,639 --> 00:58:38,679
you know, I have a little insight to some not

1159
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,519
a lot, but there's been some fear of that, and

1160
00:58:41,719 --> 00:58:43,320
so when I see all this stuff, it had nothing

1161
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:46,000
to do with that. Unfortunate, you know, I think it

1162
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:47,880
would be a great story, but it has nothing to

1163
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:50,760
do with that. I will tell you this. I think

1164
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:56,320
we're taping this on on Monday. They brought back John

1165
00:58:56,440 --> 00:59:00,840
Stewart on The Daily Show does it once a week

1166
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,719
now and they have different hosts throughout the week. Since

1167
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:10,519
Trevor Noah left and it's his company that owns the

1168
00:59:10,639 --> 00:59:11,119
Late Show.

1169
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 5: It's John Stewart. Yeah, okay, so.

1170
00:59:15,719 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 1: And CBS owns Viacom or they're the same which owns

1171
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:22,920
Comedy Central. The only reason I bring this up is

1172
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,239
maybe he'll quit on air. He's got enough money, he's rich.

1173
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:28,480
Maybe he'll stand up for his boy and go this

1174
00:59:28,599 --> 00:59:30,559
is bullshit or whatever and quit on air. It might

1175
00:59:30,599 --> 00:59:34,239
be compelling. The last time Late Night had some drama

1176
00:59:34,719 --> 00:59:39,000
was when David Letterman admitted to having an affair and said,

1177
00:59:39,199 --> 00:59:41,239
I'm getting out in front of this. So you can't

1178
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:44,360
basically bend me over and do all this shit and

1179
00:59:45,039 --> 00:59:50,239
look no politics aside in terms of Colbert whatever. It

1180
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:53,440
just that's not the case. We're not there. We're not

1181
00:59:53,559 --> 00:59:56,880
there in this country. I know people get worried, but

1182
00:59:57,000 --> 00:59:59,320
we're not there. And I just feel like I don't

1183
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:01,000
know why it was hanging on my head. I'm like,

1184
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,760
I feel like I got to say this because there's

1185
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,800
so many No, we're not it's not It has it

1186
01:00:06,920 --> 01:00:07,719
comes down to revenue.

1187
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:09,039
Speaker 3: By the way, what what did you?

1188
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:10,920
Speaker 1: And I don't mean this is you in the room,

1189
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:15,079
you anybody? What have you watched last probably something on

1190
01:00:15,159 --> 01:00:18,239
the streaming service, not something on a network, and that's

1191
01:00:18,559 --> 01:00:20,000
part of the reason this is all happened.

1192
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:22,480
Speaker 5: But reality TV takes over.

1193
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jesus Christ, I watched Love Island two episodes.

1194
01:00:27,519 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 3: Has anybody watched Love Island?

1195
01:00:32,119 --> 01:00:36,480
Speaker 4: I did two episodes that it's the fucking worst, It's

1196
01:00:36,719 --> 01:00:37,079
so bad.

1197
01:00:37,159 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: But have you watched any of it? Oh? I would

1198
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:44,199
love to have you watched the first episode when they

1199
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:47,320
have to like, okay, so it would be me, Matt Mark,

1200
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:49,800
We're over here, you and a couple of your girlfriends

1201
01:00:50,199 --> 01:00:52,840
and they get to go up and pick. So we're

1202
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:56,159
standing on these like podiums, platforms, and you get to

1203
01:00:56,199 --> 01:00:59,400
pick two guys that you wouldn't mind being with, and

1204
01:00:59,519 --> 01:01:04,159
you get to kissed them both and just just madame,

1205
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:04,880
but not not.

1206
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:07,519
Speaker 4: Two separate times. You kiss one and then the.

1207
01:01:07,559 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 1: Other one and then the other one right away.

1208
01:01:10,239 --> 01:01:12,079
Speaker 4: I like, the hell, you're gonna kiss that guy and

1209
01:01:12,119 --> 01:01:13,920
then come kiss me? Sorry not having.

1210
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:18,360
Speaker 1: One dude, gave the cheek. Gave the cheek. But some

1211
01:01:18,559 --> 01:01:20,079
of these people, I mean, they went.

1212
01:01:20,079 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 5: All everyone gets to choose everyone, so wait.

1213
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 1: And then if you pick let's say, Matt, right, and

1214
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:28,119
then here comes another chicken. She goes you know what,

1215
01:01:29,760 --> 01:01:32,079
that bitch and goes over she can steal Matt and

1216
01:01:32,199 --> 01:01:34,920
make out with Matt in front of you, or kiss Matt.

1217
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:37,440
I think that's where somebody was sort of a gentleman.

1218
01:01:37,599 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 3: Get you on the show.

1219
01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 1: But I was like wow, and I go, it's not

1220
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:44,800
a streaming service.

1221
01:01:45,519 --> 01:01:48,599
Speaker 3: It's getting tons of talk. What do you think's happening?

1222
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 5: People like going crazy about it. I even saw people

1223
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:56,639
at CEMAC last week. I forget what concert. It was

1224
01:01:56,719 --> 01:02:01,000
either Brad Paisley or Hosier that they were watching the

1225
01:02:01,159 --> 01:02:04,199
finale while the concert was going on.

1226
01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:06,199
Speaker 3: You can show.

1227
01:02:07,719 --> 01:02:11,559
Speaker 5: Yes, it's like, I stop you here someone on radio

1228
01:02:11,719 --> 01:02:14,719
that I know. I ran into her in like one

1229
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:21,039
of the tents and she like stayed under the one

1230
01:02:21,159 --> 01:02:26,199
vi P tent and was watching it while at the concert.

1231
01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 3: At the show.

1232
01:02:28,079 --> 01:02:29,519
Speaker 5: Yeah, and she like posted it.

1233
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:32,519
Speaker 1: That's fucking wild. Okay, that's all I'm saying.

1234
01:02:32,519 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 4: I only watched, but I don't. I don't know it.

1235
01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:36,239
Speaker 3: I don't.

1236
01:02:37,199 --> 01:02:38,599
Speaker 5: I've just heard it's a dating show.

1237
01:02:38,719 --> 01:02:41,199
Speaker 1: It's a dating show, but I think it's on Peacock.

1238
01:02:41,559 --> 01:02:42,400
Speaker 4: I think it's Peacock.

1239
01:02:42,519 --> 01:02:45,199
Speaker 1: I think it is on Peacock. Which would you know

1240
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:47,760
even the networks are starting at smart and go. Whoa,

1241
01:02:49,159 --> 01:02:50,760
there's no way that could be on tape. And I

1242
01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:51,920
think they swear in it too.

1243
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:53,719
Speaker 4: Yeah they do. And there's drinking something.

1244
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 5: And I also heard that there's like sex on like camera.

1245
01:03:00,519 --> 01:03:02,119
Speaker 1: I haven't seen that yet.

1246
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 4: Is the dark rooms, and you know they got the

1247
01:03:04,599 --> 01:03:05,960
like cameras. You can see a little bit, but not

1248
01:03:06,119 --> 01:03:08,519
much so the ones. I've other shows not in Love.

1249
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:11,079
Speaker 1: Island, but Love Island I haven't. I haven't have you

1250
01:03:11,119 --> 01:03:13,920
watched any of this Mark? No, I think you should.

1251
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:16,440
Speaker 3: Nah, I got enough shit going all right. I don't know.

1252
01:03:16,559 --> 01:03:17,920
I just maybe you might like it.

1253
01:03:18,039 --> 01:03:19,599
Speaker 1: It's not my ali, but it's just they got so

1254
01:03:19,679 --> 01:03:22,639
much other stuff. So once everybody's coupled up, then they

1255
01:03:22,719 --> 01:03:27,599
have to sleep in the same bed right right right away.

1256
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:28,719
Speaker 5: But that night.

1257
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:32,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like a nineteen thirties hospital ward, where

1258
01:03:32,199 --> 01:03:35,519
all the beds are in the same room up against

1259
01:03:35,559 --> 01:03:35,840
the wall.

1260
01:03:36,119 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 3: Maybe I know, maybe I should watch it.

1261
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 5: It doesn't sound like fun.

1262
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:42,280
Speaker 1: I here's something.

1263
01:03:42,519 --> 01:03:44,960
Speaker 5: Do they date each other? Or it's like okay, I

1264
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:47,760
so say, I mean, you guys are on a platform

1265
01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:50,880
I choose Mark. Yeah, it's like, am I then in

1266
01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:54,039
a relationship with Mark. He's a bad kisser.

1267
01:03:55,119 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 1: Well, you already knew, you already knew. That's why you

1268
01:03:57,360 --> 01:04:02,360
made yeah okay, yeah, and you chose him. You you

1269
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:04,599
get to make out with him or just kiss him

1270
01:04:04,679 --> 01:04:08,159
or whatever. One girl who says she's a Christian and

1271
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:11,840
all this stuff, I mean, Jesus Christ, she was wearing

1272
01:04:12,440 --> 01:04:13,360
the birthday suits.

1273
01:04:15,079 --> 01:04:17,320
Speaker 6: When you start out with I'm a Christian, that means

1274
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:19,960
you're a fucking horrn. You stuck more dick than anybody,

1275
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:22,360
says the person who went to a Catholic.

1276
01:04:22,079 --> 01:04:25,199
Speaker 4: School, especially the Catholics. Right.

1277
01:04:25,599 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 1: Well, I watched the first episode of the two part

1278
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:35,039
Billy Joel Oh yeah, docu series. It's on HBO Max. Yeah.

1279
01:04:35,039 --> 01:04:37,280
I think you'll really like it, really good, and it

1280
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:40,079
talks about the school. The song where he goes Catholic

1281
01:04:40,119 --> 01:04:43,480
girls start much too late, and we were they were

1282
01:04:43,639 --> 01:04:47,000
banned from like all these Catholic universities and never can.

1283
01:04:47,119 --> 01:04:50,119
Speaker 6: Play that song at mothers. That song was we were,

1284
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:53,239
you know, we bring our little boomboxes. That song could

1285
01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:56,199
not be played, of course, So but everything.

1286
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 3: In the song's true.

1287
01:04:57,199 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 1: Well, this is what I mean. He was right. He

1288
01:04:59,079 --> 01:05:01,320
said it was the greatest thing to happen because every

1289
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:04,079
kid then was like, Oh, what's this? I gotta go

1290
01:05:04,199 --> 01:05:05,239
find it and buy it.

1291
01:05:05,719 --> 01:05:06,480
Speaker 3: So that worked out.

1292
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,440
Speaker 1: But yeah, that girl said she's a Christian on the show,

1293
01:05:09,519 --> 01:05:13,599
and she she she was only kissing the guys on

1294
01:05:13,679 --> 01:05:15,559
the cheek, remember her, yes attractive?

1295
01:05:15,559 --> 01:05:16,760
Speaker 4: Is that the one to get kicked off?

1296
01:05:17,079 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 3: Yeah? Probably, she's twenty two.

1297
01:05:19,079 --> 01:05:22,480
Speaker 4: Was one to get kicked off for using the yeah

1298
01:05:22,599 --> 01:05:25,480
racial slur. I hear that in the show years ago,

1299
01:05:25,639 --> 01:05:26,400
and it came out.

1300
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:28,159
Speaker 1: He you can't use the racial three years ago.

1301
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:29,320
Speaker 4: That's not.

1302
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:35,519
Speaker 1: Not that I have, but still I understand it. But

1303
01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:38,599
here's why I always cringe at that this sort of

1304
01:05:38,639 --> 01:05:41,280
stuff is that if we're trying to make a better

1305
01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:44,039
society and you no longer do it, and you see

1306
01:05:44,079 --> 01:05:46,119
the error of your ways, and you're human, right and

1307
01:05:46,159 --> 01:05:48,239
you've corrected it, why are we punishing you?

1308
01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:50,239
Speaker 3: It is true, I'm getting it.

1309
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 1: Is It's like it's like rubbing your nose. A dog,

1310
01:05:53,679 --> 01:05:55,559
you know, like the dog ship on the rug last

1311
01:05:55,599 --> 01:05:58,320
week hasn't done it since or two months ago, but

1312
01:05:58,400 --> 01:05:59,880
let me just rub his notes where the spot.

1313
01:06:00,039 --> 01:06:02,599
Speaker 4: A political campaign has got it happening.

1314
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:03,320
Speaker 3: I hate it.

1315
01:06:03,519 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 4: Everything brought up from twenty years ago. You did?

1316
01:06:05,559 --> 01:06:06,440
Speaker 3: You fucking hate it?

1317
01:06:06,559 --> 01:06:08,559
Speaker 4: You headn't a fair twenty years ago? You're still an

1318
01:06:08,559 --> 01:06:12,480
asshole cheater. You know you said some stupid thing. That's

1319
01:06:12,519 --> 01:06:13,400
what you really believe?

1320
01:06:13,559 --> 01:06:14,400
Speaker 1: What wouldn't change?

1321
01:06:14,599 --> 01:06:17,679
Speaker 4: Say if the CEO wound up staying with his wife

1322
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:20,000
and there's nothing saying that she's gonna leave him?

1323
01:06:20,039 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 1: No, what what's to say that they don't, you know,

1324
01:06:23,079 --> 01:06:26,320
somehow go through therapy and work it out. But that's

1325
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:28,360
what I'm saying, Like, I don't know. The whole thing

1326
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:32,559
is we have too much information now we just do

1327
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:33,320
It's true.

1328
01:06:33,559 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 3: So I mean there's people my job don't like me

1329
01:06:36,519 --> 01:06:38,840
because of what I've done in my past, you know

1330
01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:39,280
what I mean?

1331
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:39,599
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1332
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:42,519
Speaker 6: Not no, no, no, no, what I've done like when

1333
01:06:42,639 --> 01:06:45,079
you know, when I was in you know, yeah, I

1334
01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:48,119
maybe dated one of their aunts and I didn't realize.

1335
01:06:54,119 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 1: Hitting more. Do you want to give more to that story?

1336
01:06:58,119 --> 01:06:58,159
Speaker 7: No?

1337
01:06:58,719 --> 01:06:59,079
Speaker 3: Better than not?

1338
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 5: Come on?

1339
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:05,199
Speaker 1: But yes, it's all over social media that show. You

1340
01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:07,559
can't get away from it, And that's where I'm going. Yeah,

1341
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:10,159
and that's what everybody's talking about. Wants to watch. Why

1342
01:07:10,239 --> 01:07:12,519
don't you think these late shows are. They're not gonna last,

1343
01:07:13,079 --> 01:07:13,559
none of them.

1344
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 6: I don't think I've watched anything except for sports. But

1345
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:23,239
on regular TV, everything I watch is even when I watch.

1346
01:07:23,679 --> 01:07:27,360
When I watch the soaps, it's on Paramount like a moment,

1347
01:07:27,440 --> 01:07:29,679
I'll throw it on when it's on on Paramount.

1348
01:07:29,679 --> 01:07:32,000
Speaker 3: I don't even watch that on. We don't even have

1349
01:07:32,679 --> 01:07:34,639
keyboard I live anymore. To get rid of it.

1350
01:07:34,679 --> 01:07:37,039
Speaker 4: I think most people have a lot of people don't know.

1351
01:07:37,239 --> 01:07:39,519
Speaker 1: So I couldn't say I love the fact that you

1352
01:07:39,599 --> 01:07:42,920
were Now, I just you don't have to answer this.

1353
01:07:43,039 --> 01:07:46,639
But Natalie does she like the show? Yeah, she's into it.

1354
01:07:46,719 --> 01:07:46,920
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1355
01:07:47,559 --> 01:07:48,239
Speaker 3: The fuck is that?

1356
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:50,559
Speaker 4: No, we've watched Love is Blind. That one's not as bad.

1357
01:07:50,679 --> 01:07:51,800
Speaker 5: Oh, I watched Love is Blind.

1358
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 4: Here's the problem. This is what I want them to do,

1359
01:07:54,039 --> 01:07:56,760
and this is this would make it be huge, right, Yeah?

1360
01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:59,679
All these people, ninety nine percent of them are beautiful

1361
01:07:59,679 --> 01:08:03,239
and good looking guys. Girls put some fat, ugly people.

1362
01:08:04,199 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 1: Can you imagine reality?

1363
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:07,119
Speaker 4: It's match and all of a sudden you come out

1364
01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:10,159
and there's a guy staying there four hundred pounds. Does

1365
01:08:10,199 --> 01:08:11,159
the girls still love them?

1366
01:08:11,559 --> 01:08:11,719
Speaker 1: Oh?

1367
01:08:12,920 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 4: Yes, right, that would be somebody you'd make billions by

1368
01:08:17,039 --> 01:08:17,359
doing this.

1369
01:08:18,279 --> 01:08:20,119
Speaker 3: The real world should have done that.

1370
01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:24,600
Speaker 6: You put seven people in the house, put someone who's handicapped,

1371
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:27,159
somebody who's beautiful, somebody who's retarded.

1372
01:08:27,199 --> 01:08:27,640
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

1373
01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:30,439
Speaker 3: No, No, you mix them up. No, I'm just saying,

1374
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:32,680
if you mix.

1375
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:34,880
Speaker 1: Them up, your ring from jobs.

1376
01:08:35,079 --> 01:08:36,319
Speaker 3: Hey buddy, we want to.

1377
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,000
Speaker 1: On a date with No. But I understand what. I

1378
01:08:42,119 --> 01:08:43,840
understand what you're saying. You know what I'm saying, Well,

1379
01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:45,960
I think I like match idea. But if you took it,

1380
01:08:46,039 --> 01:08:46,439
what if you.

1381
01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 4: Took the problem is if you put them people in

1382
01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:51,119
the in the house together, they see each other up front,

1383
01:08:51,159 --> 01:08:53,640
so they can decide this is But love is blind.

1384
01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:56,720
They're selling, they're telling each other they love each other,

1385
01:08:56,840 --> 01:09:00,279
and they're gonna they're getting engaged. Can you imagine opening

1386
01:09:00,359 --> 01:09:03,079
that door and seeing something you totally didn't expect to see.

1387
01:09:03,399 --> 01:09:07,720
Speaker 5: Well, and there has been some where like then they're like, oh,

1388
01:09:08,359 --> 01:09:10,279
like immediate, you can tell.

1389
01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:12,399
Speaker 4: I think I always member seeing one or two.

1390
01:09:13,319 --> 01:09:16,279
Speaker 5: A couple of seasons ago, there was that I want

1391
01:09:16,319 --> 01:09:18,199
to say it was DC. There was that guy Leo.

1392
01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:22,880
He was an art dealer, tall, Jewish, not great looking.

1393
01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:26,239
And then there was the girl Brittany, who was literally

1394
01:09:26,399 --> 01:09:32,880
like I'm supposed to be a a gold digger whatever

1395
01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:35,760
it's talled. Yeah, Like, and he was talking about his

1396
01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:38,720
rolixes and how he owns an art dealership and every

1397
01:09:39,319 --> 01:09:43,439
art dealer gallery and she was eating it up, eating

1398
01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:46,039
it up. And then she met him and immediately, like

1399
01:09:46,319 --> 01:09:48,960
when they get engaged, he's trying to kiss her and

1400
01:09:49,079 --> 01:09:51,000
she's wow.

1401
01:09:51,800 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 4: I mean that's what you get when you're a gold digger, right,

1402
01:09:53,600 --> 01:09:55,439
Sometimes you don't get a good looking one. That's right,

1403
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:56,479
you want the money, right.

1404
01:09:56,840 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 5: There's definitely been. There was another one that this is

1405
01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:04,359
the one like reality show. I watched that with Seattle.

1406
01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:08,680
It was Zach got engaged to this girl, Irena, and

1407
01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:11,239
then they were on like the honeymoon and Irena I

1408
01:10:11,319 --> 01:10:15,319
hadn't even kissed him yet, and then she like admitted,

1409
01:10:15,399 --> 01:10:17,359
like I'm not sexually attracted to you.

1410
01:10:17,439 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 3: Oh.

1411
01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:21,279
Speaker 5: He left. He got aged to his second runner up

1412
01:10:21,319 --> 01:10:21,800
and they got.

1413
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 4: Married, second choice, but the person didn't work out.

1414
01:10:26,079 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 5: Blind it's not blind.

1415
01:10:28,359 --> 01:10:31,079
Speaker 4: No, I mean, okay, And I'm telling you just put

1416
01:10:31,159 --> 01:10:32,680
that spin in there to be the best.

1417
01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:35,760
Speaker 1: Well for that show. I'm saying, take it even into

1418
01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:39,399
where you can see people. So you get one really

1419
01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:41,920
good looking guy, average looking, don't you have to go

1420
01:10:42,039 --> 01:10:45,399
ugly just right this? And then it comes down to

1421
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:48,840
how many guys to have a great personality and people

1422
01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:52,000
just love being around him? And would that would that

1423
01:10:52,159 --> 01:10:52,520
win out?

1424
01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:54,239
Speaker 5: What if the other guys they need to be funny,

1425
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:57,359
like to me that like the top well needs to

1426
01:10:57,399 --> 01:10:57,880
make me laugh.

1427
01:10:57,960 --> 01:11:00,159
Speaker 1: I know somebody who said, yeah I dated somebody had

1428
01:11:00,159 --> 01:11:02,359
a ton of money, boring a ship.

1429
01:11:02,479 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, then they've done that, or like really good

1430
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:08,800
looking guys that have no fucking personality. It's like pulling teeth.

1431
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:10,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, but there's a type for everybody, right, I mean

1432
01:11:11,520 --> 01:11:13,479
you walk into Walmart and you say, holy shit, how

1433
01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:17,239
did that woman have kids? But somebody did, right, somebody

1434
01:11:17,439 --> 01:11:19,720
liked it, somebody hit it, somebody got her pregnant.

1435
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:20,039
Speaker 3: Huh.

1436
01:11:20,399 --> 01:11:22,560
Speaker 4: So somebody could probably match up with people like that.

1437
01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:24,079
Speaker 3: Probably that's true.

1438
01:11:24,199 --> 01:11:25,800
Speaker 1: I just think I just wonder if you could see

1439
01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:28,840
I'd love to have a contest where they leave and

1440
01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:31,720
all of a sudden it's the guy with the great personality,

1441
01:11:31,920 --> 01:11:32,560
fucking funny.

1442
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:34,279
Speaker 4: They should just do this at BTV.

1443
01:11:34,359 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 3: That'd be great. Yeah, that would be Love is blind.

1444
01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:38,680
Love is blind.

1445
01:11:39,199 --> 01:11:42,760
Speaker 4: Different sections. Then that you choose who you're gonna talk

1446
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:44,479
to after that, Ye walk.

1447
01:11:44,359 --> 01:11:49,279
Speaker 5: On this O man, great, like it should be like

1448
01:11:49,439 --> 01:11:52,960
if you think you're between a four and a six, yeah,

1449
01:11:53,119 --> 01:11:53,800
come try out.

1450
01:11:54,279 --> 01:11:57,359
Speaker 1: Oh okay, you know how many people are gonna admit

1451
01:11:57,760 --> 01:11:57,960
there are?

1452
01:11:58,680 --> 01:11:58,880
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1453
01:12:00,720 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 4: I don't think you have to tell them that. I

1454
01:12:02,039 --> 01:12:04,159
just you just you can pick out the contestants. So

1455
01:12:04,199 --> 01:12:06,039
you do an interview process and you can pick out

1456
01:12:06,039 --> 01:12:08,119
the ones that are fours and sixes, and yeah, you

1457
01:12:08,199 --> 01:12:08,960
throw them in the mix.

1458
01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:10,520
Speaker 3: Oh I like this.

1459
01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 4: Sam would make so much money.

1460
01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:16,239
Speaker 1: I want to produce a reality show Love is Blind Rochester.

1461
01:12:17,119 --> 01:12:21,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean Rocher's a lot of drama anyway, So yeah,

1462
01:12:21,399 --> 01:12:22,039
it's imperfect.

1463
01:12:22,199 --> 01:12:22,479
Speaker 1: It does.

1464
01:12:23,119 --> 01:12:23,720
Speaker 4: It's even worse.

1465
01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:25,560
Speaker 3: I have no drama in my life at all right now.

1466
01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:26,840
It would be kind of nice to kind.

1467
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 1: Of yeah, but it's not your drama.

1468
01:12:28,279 --> 01:12:30,640
Speaker 3: But you can watch stand Back and watch watch dum.

1469
01:12:31,359 --> 01:12:33,600
Speaker 4: It's great watching it, being part of it, being part

1470
01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:33,720
of it.

1471
01:12:34,239 --> 01:12:35,800
Speaker 3: I don't even get to watch. I don't get to

1472
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:36,680
watch anything anymore.

1473
01:12:37,039 --> 01:12:45,239
Speaker 1: Just sorry, I don't know what's going on with me.

1474
01:12:45,359 --> 01:12:47,680
You guys are we're killing it. I know you gotta

1475
01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:50,159
get home to the uh, the kids. I don't want

1476
01:12:50,159 --> 01:12:53,439
to keep everybody too long. I greatly appreciate you coming out.

1477
01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:56,119
Speaker 5: I was, uh do I'd be here as soon as

1478
01:12:56,199 --> 01:12:56,600
you called.

1479
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:59,479
Speaker 1: No, but I will admit that I was. I was

1480
01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:03,000
nervous about I felt like I had to say something.

1481
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:06,680
Why we went dark? And I had already mentioned that

1482
01:13:07,319 --> 01:13:10,239
this is what's happening, but what actually concluded of And

1483
01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:13,000
somebody's like, you think you'll cry, and I'm like, no,

1484
01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:15,119
it's kind of cold if you don't.

1485
01:13:15,199 --> 01:13:17,079
Speaker 3: I go I cried.

1486
01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:19,960
Speaker 5: I'm gonna say, yeah, you've had a month to cry,

1487
01:13:20,039 --> 01:13:24,159
this is been going on. Well yeah, I mean quite

1488
01:13:24,159 --> 01:13:25,039
a few weeks.

1489
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:25,520
Speaker 1: Had a few weeks.

1490
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:28,279
Speaker 3: Are crying. I'll just well start making funny.

1491
01:13:29,159 --> 01:13:30,800
Speaker 1: And that's what I would have liked anyway. Hey, your

1492
01:13:30,840 --> 01:13:35,680
big pussy, Yeah, what happened your dad died? Dad?

1493
01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 4: Tell you not to cry a little bit.

1494
01:13:38,319 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 3: You're so disappointed in you.

1495
01:13:41,640 --> 01:13:42,760
Speaker 1: You're letting your dad down.

1496
01:13:44,039 --> 01:13:48,279
Speaker 4: Childhood trauma, hair, yeah, all that stuff, don't you ask?

1497
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:48,600
Speaker 1: Right?

1498
01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:52,079
Speaker 4: Come on, the family.

1499
01:13:56,159 --> 01:13:57,520
Speaker 1: He did used to sing when he would help me

1500
01:13:57,600 --> 01:13:59,960
with my homework. You are so stupid and I am

1501
01:14:00,119 --> 01:14:05,159
so smart. When I he did do that, it's just

1502
01:14:05,279 --> 01:14:09,319
a fun thing. For Laura from Matt BTV Baby get

1503
01:14:09,359 --> 01:14:12,079
out there. August sixteenth is a big concert. It's gonna

1504
01:14:12,079 --> 01:14:13,560
be a whole lot of fun with the m eights

1505
01:14:13,600 --> 01:14:14,600
and the Zach Bryant trivia.

1506
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:17,119
Speaker 4: That we are postponing the brunch cast off.

1507
01:14:17,239 --> 01:14:19,960
Speaker 1: Oh thank you. You hold on one second and I'll

1508
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:22,600
start this over. We are postponing the brunch cast because

1509
01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:25,279
I do have to go back to Mean for the

1510
01:14:25,359 --> 01:14:28,279
services on Saturday, and I wouldn't be coming back until

1511
01:14:28,319 --> 01:14:28,960
Sunday later.

1512
01:14:29,159 --> 01:14:31,439
Speaker 5: Good to know, because it was in my calendar.

1513
01:14:31,560 --> 01:14:32,880
Speaker 4: I'll probably still show up.

1514
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:35,279
Speaker 1: No good, still show up because there's always a story

1515
01:14:35,319 --> 01:14:38,800
when you're around. And uh, well, and we will do it.

1516
01:14:39,920 --> 01:14:42,479
We will do it in August, for sure. I think

1517
01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:45,399
we just sort of make it a regular thing. I'm

1518
01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:45,840
open to that.

1519
01:14:46,439 --> 01:14:46,560
Speaker 4: Uh.

1520
01:14:47,239 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 1: And for Mark who always had an eye for talent,

1521
01:14:53,359 --> 01:14:56,920
an eye for talent, music, everything, I'm Bill Moran. We'll

1522
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:58,399
see you tomorrow.

1523
01:15:00,119 --> 01:15:01,319
Speaker 3: Tell didn't know what to do.

1524
01:15:01,800 --> 01:15:04,159
Speaker 6: I turn a TV on rule a letter to you

1525
01:15:04,439 --> 01:15:07,279
and to stop didn't buy the Dagenet upon the unter

1526
01:15:07,319 --> 01:15:10,640
statem