Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. Tina.
Speaker 2: We'd mention it like a little teas at the end
Speaker 2: of last week, but in just in case, for some
Speaker 2: weird reason, you're like, who is Tina? Tina used to
Speaker 2: work with the Jenny and I at the radio station.
Speaker 2: Do you want to tell every one what you did? Oh,
Speaker 2: it's like your history of work at iHeartMedia.
Speaker 3: Sure, I would love too, so much like so many
Speaker 3: other people, I started as an intern back in twenty thirteen. Yeah, wow, mems.
Speaker 3: And then I was a promotion assistant for like two
Speaker 3: and a half years, and then I was in digital.
Speaker 3: And when I was in digital, I was also part
Speaker 3: of the day brand the Murray Show.
Speaker 2: And you love lay people, Yes, And we became very
Speaker 2: close throughout the years, Abby, because a lot of time
Speaker 2: you're really close to a co worker, and then when
Speaker 2: they leave and you don't see them as often, the
Speaker 2: friendship kind of falls apart a little bit.
Speaker 1: I think we talked about this last week.
Speaker 2: I've remained probably the closest to Steve and Tina from
Speaker 2: people who have been on the show. And so obviously
Speaker 2: Tina had a big thing and her life happened recently
Speaker 2: and we're like, teeny should come in.
Speaker 1: And talk about it, because while you were here.
Speaker 2: And on the Dave Ryan Show, you were very single
Speaker 2: and like you weren't looking. You were like, I don't
Speaker 2: quit trying to like set me up people, I have
Speaker 2: no interest.
Speaker 3: No, it wasn't I didn't care at all. No, No,
Speaker 3: dating was gross. I think we all can remember.
Speaker 4: Oh, I agreed, Dame was gross. I hated it just
Speaker 4: as much as you did.
Speaker 2: But if you're doing it, you've got this. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: you can do it, but you shortly after you left,
Speaker 2: or actually before you it was before.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So Trevor and I started dating in February of
Speaker 3: twenty twenty two and I left in June, but I
Speaker 3: had only told everybody in like end of April. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so you guys only knew for like a month before,
Speaker 3: a month and a half ish before I left.
Speaker 1: And he slid into your DMS.
Speaker 3: Correct, Sure it did in slid right on in there,
Speaker 3: so and a half years apart, But you know.
Speaker 4: Well, how did you find you again?
Speaker 3: We matched on bumble, but you never really No, I
Speaker 3: think I deleted it, like I think I matched with him,
Speaker 3: and I deleted it, but he saw our match, and
Speaker 3: then he just went and found me on social media.
Speaker 3: My god, he was my last name on there. I
Speaker 3: don't know. It's terrifying, but he fell on bumble.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. I don't think usually you put
Speaker 4: your last name.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but he found me. Even if you
Speaker 3: searched like Tina r like, even if you're just starting
Speaker 3: to type that, I'm sure I probably came up.
Speaker 2: But also it was crazy because you guys lived like
Speaker 2: across the street from each other, three.
Speaker 3: Houses away out here, you do you know? I have
Speaker 3: one memory that's like so small of seeing like going
Speaker 3: for a walk one day and along where I used
Speaker 3: to live. I remember seeing like an attractive guy with
Speaker 3: a golden doodle. But there's also like a lot of
Speaker 3: golden doodles, So I can't say if it was Trevor.
Speaker 3: I don't know any No, I don't think so. I'm
Speaker 3: sure we did, but I just like neither of us
Speaker 3: have of it. You think he would, since you know
Speaker 3: he was obsessed with me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, obviously enough, But you guys have been together since
Speaker 2: and then like what was like a year and you
Speaker 2: guys moved in together.
Speaker 3: We were a little before a year. I guess we
Speaker 3: just moved in at Christmas of that first year, because
Speaker 3: I was essentially living there. I had been since June.
Speaker 3: I was like really fast and so I eventually was like,
Speaker 3: can we make a choice here? What are we doing?
Speaker 3: So I just moved in for Christmas. I've been there
Speaker 3: ever since.
Speaker 4: So how long has it been total that you've been together?
Speaker 3: That'd be rare of twenty two so two and a
Speaker 3: half years, okay, a little over that.
Speaker 4: I thought it was like three and a half for
Speaker 4: some reason. I can't keep track of years anymore.
Speaker 3: Feels like gu into.
Speaker 2: Ural's relationship, Did you feel like I could marry this person?
Speaker 1: Do you think.
Speaker 3: By by like that the time I told you guys
Speaker 3: like that end of April May when we went to Europe,
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 1: You knew you were going to meet or you could I.
Speaker 3: Think I knew we were going to unless something went
Speaker 3: like horribly wrong. I guess they didn't have a lot
Speaker 3: of context for if like it was like my first
Speaker 3: like long term serious relationship other than just random little situationships.
Speaker 1: Yeah that I had over the years.
Speaker 3: So it was the first time that I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: this makes sense and like he's good and like logistically,
Speaker 3: I don't see any weird barriers to overcome here. They
Speaker 3: don't live in different states or you know, any of
Speaker 3: those other.
Speaker 5: Things that are My favorite was back in the day,
Speaker 5: it was how close do you live to If you
Speaker 5: could live across the country, that would be more convenient
Speaker 5: for me.
Speaker 1: That was that was a couple of back to backers.
Speaker 3: Back to backers, Sure, yeah, unfortunately, but uh yeah, So
Speaker 3: I think I knew pretty quickly. He did too. I
Speaker 3: think that was like three months in for both of us. Yeah,
Speaker 3: we're sort of like, yeah, this feels unless one of
Speaker 3: us fucks it up a lot, right, pretty sure this
Speaker 3: is it.
Speaker 2: And but you didn't did you have like a you
Speaker 2: were like a hope in this year we get married
Speaker 2: or any of that stuff.
Speaker 3: No. I was kind of like, I'd like to get engaged,
Speaker 3: you know, will I have children? Who knows?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 3: But you know, as ladies speaking of our feminineness, there
Speaker 3: is a small biological situation just ticking down there, So
Speaker 3: I don't know. I was just sort of like, I'd
Speaker 3: rather get married first, not that it matters, you can
Speaker 3: have however you want, but I was like, I think
Speaker 3: I'd like to get married, so that was kind of
Speaker 3: my only thing is do I want kids? Yes or no?
Speaker 3: If so got to have it by you know, sort
Speaker 3: of a certain period of time, and should probably get
Speaker 3: married before that, but I didn't actually really care other
Speaker 3: than that.
Speaker 4: So sorry, I was gonna say. I remember talking to you,
Speaker 4: and I don't know the exact timeline, but I remember
Speaker 4: maybe like a year and a half into you guys dating,
Speaker 4: you were like kind of thinking like, yeah, I feel
Speaker 4: like Trevor and I maybe you'll get engaged soon. And
Speaker 4: then I think I saw you a handful months later
Speaker 4: and you're like, yeah, there's just like other things in life.
Speaker 4: We probably should like work out first. And it wasn't
Speaker 4: issues you guys were having, just like life like career
Speaker 4: stuff and whatever, and you're like, so that's kind of
Speaker 4: the main focus now. Because I asked you, I was like,
Speaker 4: do you think you're gonna get engaged and you're like yeah,
Speaker 4: just like I'm focusing on other stuff. And so then
Speaker 4: the last time I saw you was if what two
Speaker 4: months ago, three months ago, we got coffee the three
Speaker 4: of us, Oh yeah, yeah, and you guys were talking
Speaker 4: about engagement. I was like, okay, this makes sense because
Speaker 4: that was like a year ago that you were kind
Speaker 4: of thinking I need to get like, I don't know,
Speaker 4: you're talking about career stuff, and then you were like,
Speaker 4: but yes, engagement is in.
Speaker 3: We did the thing where we like for a long
Speaker 3: time always said we talked about marriage and like being
Speaker 3: together long term, but we never talked about engagement. So
Speaker 3: I probably was like, yeah, like we're gonna get married,
Speaker 3: but I don't know. And then I think, yeah, when
Speaker 3: we hit like a year and a halfy ish time,
Speaker 3: I was like, we're kind of at a good enough
Speaker 3: place now where I feel like any time, yeah, could happen.
Speaker 3: But yeah, I think it was probably like the job
Speaker 3: I Matt currently I started a year ago, so I
Speaker 3: bet that was kind of around that time that I
Speaker 3: was like, I don't know, I just want to be
Speaker 3: a little bit more stable in my own life before
Speaker 3: we mash Well.
Speaker 2: I got a FaceTime out of nowhere from Trevor a
Speaker 2: few months ago. I'm like, okay, he does not First
Speaker 2: of all, he doesn't call me much less face timing,
Speaker 2: so I immediately was like this is sketchy, and I
Speaker 2: was like, what's going on?
Speaker 1: And he was like, I need your help, and I
Speaker 1: was like okay, well, I don't know if I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be able to help you.
Speaker 2: But he was like, I want to propose to Tina,
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: And then Jake and Oli were screeching in the background.
Speaker 2: They came into here, and I was like, well, when
Speaker 2: he was like, well, we're going to on a trip
Speaker 2: to London and that's like her favorite place, so I
Speaker 2: want to do it there. I was like, that'll be perfect,
Speaker 2: and he was like, I don't know what to like.
Speaker 2: I don't even know where to start. He's like, I
Speaker 2: don't know what she wants, and I go, I actually
Speaker 2: don't know what she wants. I was like, I she's
Speaker 2: never really been someone that's like this is my dream
Speaker 2: ring or something like that. And honestly, I started thinking
Speaker 2: about it, and I don't know any friends like I
Speaker 2: feel like that's like an old, outdated stereotype. I'm I
Speaker 2: don't know many girls that sit around and say, if
Speaker 2: he cut I guess maybe if they know when it's
Speaker 2: coming up soon, yeah, they might be like, don't let
Speaker 2: him get this cut, or this is the kind of
Speaker 2: cut I want, FYI if he asks. But I don't
Speaker 2: have any friends that do that, so anyway, I go,
Speaker 2: let me look at her Pinterest. So I finding his
Speaker 2: Pinterest and then I could find where like there are pins,
Speaker 2: and I was like, okay, here are Christmas ones, which
Speaker 2: means the ones above that are from this year. And
Speaker 2: he was like, oh my god, this is like detective work.
Speaker 2: And I was like, I go and I found a
Speaker 2: couple and I was like, you have three pins of
Speaker 2: like the same kind of ring or maybe it was
Speaker 2: the same ring, and I sent them to him and
Speaker 2: I was like, I do not know that this is
Speaker 2: what she wants, but she.
Speaker 1: Has like three of this, so this feels like the
Speaker 1: right direction. I was like, but Tina.
Speaker 2: Is like a lot of people, you're particular on what
Speaker 2: you like, and especially if you're wearing it for life.
Speaker 2: So I was like, I worry about you making out
Speaker 2: something that she's like not gonna like. And I was like,
Speaker 2: I can connect you with a jeweler, but also there
Speaker 2: are a million other jewelers, so okay, and that was
Speaker 2: kind of I connected him with a jeweler.
Speaker 1: Left it at that.
Speaker 2: So when you were going on your trip, I was
Speaker 2: anticipating this was going to happen, but plans changed clearly
Speaker 2: because he did not propose to you in London.
Speaker 3: No, he proposed in Venice. We were on like a
Speaker 3: three part trip, so we started in Munich. We did
Speaker 3: Octoberfest and we were with his little sister and her roommates,
Speaker 3: and then they went to Austria. Trevor and I went
Speaker 3: to Venice alone before everybody, including like his parents, my
Speaker 3: friend Tom, like a bunch of other people all met
Speaker 3: up in London. So it was the only part of
Speaker 3: our trip where we were by ourselves. Switched it. Maybe
Speaker 3: I guess to that part, but.
Speaker 1: So tell us everything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, now there was where we get the whole story
Speaker 2: on what happened.
Speaker 3: Okay, I saw Venice obviously, Well I should say too,
Speaker 3: P Well, obviously everybody. The first question you get is
Speaker 3: were you actually surprised? I think a lot of people
Speaker 3: know it's probably coming. I was shocked because from everything
Speaker 3: that I knew, we were still looking for rings, Like
Speaker 3: he had even said he told me to like try
Speaker 3: and like find a jewelry store in London I really liked,
Speaker 3: and we could look for rings there. Yeah, And I
Speaker 3: was like, oh, that'd be really special, Like we love London,
Speaker 3: so I thought we might even be looking for rings
Speaker 3: on our trip. I don't think there was a possibility
Speaker 3: that he had already purchased one, right, because I found
Speaker 3: that in very particular, and I thought he was waiting
Speaker 3: for me to give him a go ahead, like, oh,
Speaker 3: I found it, it's over here, go get it. He
Speaker 3: kind of did that, but also he just did what
Speaker 3: he wanted to do. Yeah, So we got to There's
Speaker 3: a lot of things that happened before we got to
Speaker 3: Venice that in hindsight, I was like, that was sketchy. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but I didn't really notice any of them, and he
Speaker 3: played everything very cool. We got to Venice on Monday
Speaker 3: afternoon and so we got to see We like took
Speaker 3: a nice water taxi through the main canals of Venice sunset.
Speaker 3: It was really nice. And as we were going through
Speaker 3: the Grand Canal through the most touristy parts, you see
Speaker 3: a lot of gondolas. They're everywhere in Venice. Everyone's on
Speaker 3: a gondola. It's not like there's one that they're everywhere, right,
Speaker 3: And I was like, that looks awful. We should not
Speaker 3: do that, Okay. His little sister, when we had been
Speaker 3: talking about the trip, was like they had been to
Speaker 3: Italy a year ago and she was like, you guys know,
Speaker 3: those gondolas are like ninety euro which is about one
Speaker 3: hundred dollars. You're like, what for thirty minutes? So when
Speaker 3: we're seeing these gondolas, and it seems we saw multiple
Speaker 3: gondolas of single females sitting in the gondola with like
Speaker 3: a tripod and their phone on it recording them like
Speaker 3: the whole time, influencers, influencers of Venice, which you know,
Speaker 3: get it, yeah, you know whatever, And then we saw
Speaker 3: lots of couples, but like it did not look the
Speaker 3: one that we saw did not look romantic. And I
Speaker 3: was sort of like, well, that's easy. I guess when
Speaker 3: you spend night. Yeah, yeah, yeah easy. So I I
Speaker 3: think Trevor was puoping his pants at that point. And
Speaker 3: Trevor Trevor for weeks had been like I want to
Speaker 3: take gondolas, like I want to write a gondola, which
Speaker 3: is not suspicious at all because he gets hyper fixated
Speaker 3: on things sometimes. So I was like, sure, that's your
Speaker 3: thing that you're like real jazz bay. I think he
Speaker 3: had something and probably in every place we were going to,
Speaker 3: so that wasn't a red flag. So the next morning
Speaker 3: we wake up and we're like getting ready for the day,
Speaker 3: and he two things. The first was we were I
Speaker 3: was making a little breakfast. Our nice airbnb lady left
Speaker 3: us like croissants, and we had taken some tea bags
Speaker 3: from like a really nice hotel we stayed at in Germany,
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, make us that tea and
Speaker 3: he's like that'd be great, And I was like where,
Speaker 3: all right, where'd you put those tea bags?
Speaker 4: Are?
Speaker 3: Then in your your backpack? So I was like going
Speaker 3: into our room and he like came out of the
Speaker 3: bathroom real fast in a towel and was like, I'll
Speaker 3: get him. They're like way in the back, which I
Speaker 3: also didn't think was He was very casual about it,
Speaker 3: but I didn't think anything of it. And then he
Speaker 3: asked me to help him pick out his outfit, which
Speaker 3: I also didn't think was fishy because we had kind
Speaker 3: of been talking about how Venice is like a little
Speaker 3: bit nicer and maybe you want to dress a little
Speaker 3: bit better. So and we were excited we were finally
Speaker 3: by ourselves and he was like, hey, pick on my outfit,
Speaker 3: like you always want to dress me anyways, like go
Speaker 3: for it. I was like, Lit, you're wearing that, and
Speaker 3: then I changed out. It's like forty two times because
Speaker 3: I hated everything I was putting on. But then we went.
Speaker 3: We went to San Marco the Square, which is like
Speaker 3: the big famous part, and the whole time I was
Speaker 3: telling Truvor like, I asked him to give me his
Speaker 3: phone and his wallet because it is a big pickpocket
Speaker 3: part of Italy. He'd give me his wallet, but he's like,
Speaker 3: I'm going to keep my phone. I'll just keep my
Speaker 3: hands in my pocket. And then every like five feet
Speaker 3: you're passing signs that say like a tensione pickpocket, like
Speaker 3: watch out. So he's also opooping his pants because he
Speaker 3: has not only the ring but the payment for the
Speaker 3: little gondola people. Poor guy was really just going through it.
Speaker 3: So we did all the touristy stuff. We went to
Speaker 3: a cafe. The only thing I wanted to do in
Speaker 3: Venice was sit at cafes and drink spritzes. I was like,
Speaker 3: I don't want to do anything else. I just want
Speaker 3: to sit. I just want to drink and eat some
Speaker 3: food and have a great day. So we did that,
Speaker 3: and then we were trying to decide what we wanted
Speaker 3: to do with the rest of our day. It was
Speaker 3: like three and I was looking at my phone, things
Speaker 3: to do, whatever, and I don't know where he's just
Speaker 3: he's on his phone too, and he was like, I
Speaker 3: booked us a gondola ride. And I was like, you know,
Speaker 3: like you did not, and he was like I did.
Speaker 3: I found like a really good one, like they're not
Speaker 3: like scammy, it's a good price whatever. And I was
Speaker 3: like sure, like this is the thing like you've been
Speaker 3: talking about for forever, like let's go ride that gondola.
Speaker 3: And he's like, okay, we just need to go to
Speaker 3: this area. And we're finding some lady named Irena and
Speaker 3: she's gonna like bring us to the gondola and I
Speaker 3: was like cool beans. So we found Irena. The only
Speaker 3: only thing I thought was weird about her was Trevor
Speaker 3: was like, are you Irena? And she's like, yeah, you
Speaker 3: must be Trevor and I was like yeah. And then
Speaker 3: she was like and what's your name? I'm like, why
Speaker 3: do you care what my name is? Like, I don't
Speaker 3: know you. I didn't pay for the service. Yeah, but
Speaker 3: that's nice, I guess. So she brought us to our gondola.
Speaker 3: We get on the gondola didn't see Trevor behind me
Speaker 3: handing her cash, but that happened.
Speaker 1: We were not observant.
Speaker 3: No, it was also seriously, there was a gondola man
Speaker 3: holding my hand as I'm stepping down. It was supposed
Speaker 3: to be bad me, like, I'm also not because I
Speaker 3: really I've had so many friends like hide their pregnancies.
Speaker 3: I don't notice anything. It's fine. I just go through
Speaker 3: life that way.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's for me because I go through life wondering
Speaker 4: at every corner, like what does that mean?
Speaker 3: What is that?
Speaker 2: I knowing that the person was like, I was just
Speaker 2: scratching my head psych I'm like, why'd you do it
Speaker 2: with your left hands?
Speaker 3: Like why? I probably if I thought that a ring
Speaker 3: was in play, I probably would have been weird the
Speaker 3: whole trip.
Speaker 4: Did he really throw you off with the London ring shopping?
Speaker 4: Was that the main piece?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean I think there were other pieces, but
Speaker 3: I think that was the piece. I mean, regardless, I
Speaker 3: didn't tell him I had found a ring yet. I
Speaker 3: was like, I'm like ninety percent on this ring, but
Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm still kind of looking at stuff.
Speaker 3: So I truly thought he was waiting for me yeah,
Speaker 3: and then yeah, when the London thing happened, all my
Speaker 3: coworkers were like, it's gonna happen. I'm like, no, there's
Speaker 3: no ring no ring shopping like no. But anyway, so
Speaker 3: we get on the gondola. We go for our thirty
Speaker 3: minute gondola tour. It was actually quite nice. We didn't
Speaker 3: we went through like the bag yes, and we had
Speaker 3: a really nice gondolier man and he was kind of
Speaker 3: telling us stuff. It was like, oh, it's like a history. Yeah,
Speaker 3: there were a gondola a few up from us had
Speaker 3: paid for music. There was like an accordion and singer Yeah,
Speaker 3: yeah exactly, which I guess wasn't up charge for Trevor.
Speaker 3: And he said no, so good thing we didn't do it,
Speaker 3: suing out to him. We do the whole thing and
Speaker 3: we're getting back because I saw the hotel and I
Speaker 3: like said to Trevor. I was like, oh wow, like
Speaker 3: there's the hotel. We must be done and he was
Speaker 3: like oh yeah, like yeah, I guess we are. And
Speaker 3: then I saw Irena, the girl who put us on,
Speaker 3: and she was like up ahead on a bridge and
Speaker 3: I was like, oh and there's Irena, Like I bet
Speaker 3: She's just here to greet us. Greet us and be like,
Speaker 3: how is your ry? Give me five stars. I don't
Speaker 3: know what they do there, but and then there was
Speaker 3: a man with like a long lens camera on my
Speaker 3: left taking photos and Trevor was like, aren't you gonna
Speaker 3: smile at him? And I said nur, like no, thank you.
Speaker 3: Like people had been taking pictures of us the whole time,
Speaker 3: like tourists with nice cameras, like they're yeah. So I
Speaker 3: was like, I didn't smile for any of the other
Speaker 3: random people taking photos of us, Like I'm not smiling
Speaker 3: at this man, Like yeah, so weird. So all these
Speaker 3: things happened boom boom boom, and right after I was like, no,
Speaker 3: I'm not smiling at that man. Thank you, Irena up
Speaker 3: on the bridge yelled my name. I look up. She
Speaker 3: grabbed the little rip chord thingy and the banner unrolled
Speaker 3: and that so I'm like, I read the banner. And
Speaker 3: then I just become acutely aware of the fact that
Speaker 3: there's like thirty to forty other people standing around. Now
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, all of these people are here to
Speaker 3: watch this happen. And Trevor's pivoting and I blackout. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: you don't really remember. I don't think anything that happens.
Speaker 4: Okay, So you were going you were gonna be going
Speaker 4: under a bridge at that point. So did the gondolier
Speaker 4: whatever they're called stop?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, yeah, Like I don't think the Venice canals
Speaker 3: like I don't know how deep they are, but they're
Speaker 3: not that deep. Like their little rower thing is like
Speaker 3: just pull you. Yeah, so he kind of like slowed
Speaker 3: it to basically a stop. Yeah, for it to happen
Speaker 3: there and for the peoples to get their photos and whatever,
Speaker 3: because we did, like right after I said yes, we
Speaker 3: did go under it. Because then that's when Irena threw
Speaker 3: rose pedals on us. What a lady.
Speaker 4: You're never gonna forget that woman.
Speaker 1: She's a lady.
Speaker 3: She runs a service like this is like a whole thing.
Speaker 3: You google it, you can find it. So if you're
Speaker 3: thinking of proposing in Venice with Irena is a great lady.
Speaker 3: She organizes all.
Speaker 1: Did he say anything special or he just kind of
Speaker 1: go will you marry me?
Speaker 3: Yeah? He I know we had not been sleeping very
Speaker 3: well in Europe, but I thought it was because of
Speaker 3: the time change. He was having anxiety. Yeah, and he
Speaker 3: said that he would like lay awake, like thinking of
Speaker 3: all the things he wanted to say. But in that moment,
Speaker 3: there's like so much going on. I'm pretty sure all
Speaker 3: he said was like I love you, will you marry me? Yeah,
Speaker 3: there's just there's a I don't know. I think that's
Speaker 3: what he said, but there's no way to know. My
Speaker 3: thing was only.
Speaker 2: You'd had a selfie stick recording you guys.
Speaker 4: Yea out of nowhere started setting up a tripods, she
Speaker 4: would have known something weird. I think we need to
Speaker 4: remember this moment, like all the other.
Speaker 3: Influencers setting up an influencer. No, so yeah, that'll happen.
Speaker 3: And then we get off the boat and that man
Speaker 3: is there for a photo shoot. So now I can't
Speaker 3: feel my legs and I'm confused, and I have so
Speaker 3: many questions, and they're like time for a photo shoot,
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh okay. So then we did
Speaker 3: that for like fifteen minutes.
Speaker 1: That's nice.
Speaker 3: And then I was like I need alcohol. Can we
Speaker 3: go somewhere please? Celebra Yeah, So we went and we
Speaker 3: got drinks and then I just asked like a million questions.
Speaker 3: It's like when, how, where, did you why what? And
Speaker 3: we called people and then and then I was like,
Speaker 3: no more people, Yeah, can we just like let's yeah,
Speaker 3: let's just do us.
Speaker 1: So did you like your ring?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I loved Okay, it is what I picked out.
Speaker 1: Okay, how did you figure that out?
Speaker 3: Then? So I went to look with two of our friends,
Speaker 3: Lauren and Justine, and he had also talked to them.
Speaker 3: And I came home from that being like, yep, I
Speaker 3: know what I like. I know the cut, I know
Speaker 3: like the general setting. Like I was like ninety percent
Speaker 3: figure it out. I was like, there's a few questions
Speaker 3: I have, like I might want to go back again.
Speaker 2: By the way, the pin on her Pinterest was pretty similar.
Speaker 2: It just wasn't an emerald cut, but it was like
Speaker 2: the like setting was pretty much I said.
Speaker 3: Other pins, but they were private, So well, that.
Speaker 1: Doesn't help anyone when they need it.
Speaker 3: I think I needed to show people.
Speaker 4: If you guys start seeing me pinning any kind of ring,
Speaker 4: just know that that's probably what I want because I
Speaker 4: have never.
Speaker 2: You would ever pin, by the way, would be a
Speaker 2: ring for your toilet.
Speaker 1: That does something to watch out your ass. There's no
Speaker 1: I would never know. There never going to a.
Speaker 2: Pinterest A look at it's like, oh there's another B
Speaker 2: day she can.
Speaker 4: Okay, sorry, keep going on teens.
Speaker 5: So I don't even know where we were, well do you?
Speaker 2: So the next question always comes up when you get engaged.
Speaker 1: Do you know when? Do you know where? Do you know?
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 3: No, we're in the phase of like what do we Honestly,
Speaker 3: if it didn't matter at all, we'd probably just go
Speaker 3: to the courthouse tomorrow. Literally, we were talking about benefits
Speaker 3: of work the other day and he has great benefits
Speaker 3: at his job, and I just go get this done
Speaker 3: so I can be on near benefits. How do I
Speaker 3: want to do this? But we that's probably not great
Speaker 3: for like our families and my parents, who I am
Speaker 3: their only child getting married. Trivor's parents probably wouldn't care.
Speaker 3: They'd be like, we already know one big wedding. We're good,
Speaker 3: So I don't know. It might be like a mix
Speaker 3: of courthouse slash destination at something, but we're not sure.
Speaker 3: Some of our good friends are getting married to Mexico
Speaker 3: in January, so we're gonna use that as sort of
Speaker 3: a test run of do we like this this. I
Speaker 3: really like destination weddings. It's fun to be with people
Speaker 3: for you know, three to five whatever how many days
Speaker 3: it is, like, that's been really nice to me.
Speaker 4: So, but if you're doing a destination wedding, there's like
Speaker 4: such an in between of like people who keep it
Speaker 4: small and intimate and then like people who invite like
Speaker 4: a one hundred and fifty people and only think and
Speaker 4: usually half those people right that coming. So if you
Speaker 4: do a destination are you on the side of small
Speaker 4: intimate or are you going to invite a lot of
Speaker 4: people just kind of assume a lot of people won't come.
Speaker 3: We're just gonna invite everybody.
Speaker 4: Okay, because I really hope I'm invited. You're invited, Okay,
Speaker 4: thank god, because I got a little sad for a
Speaker 4: second destination.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 3: So though, that's the point of that, like the courthouse
Speaker 3: thing is we can do that here. We can have
Speaker 3: like intimate just family. Yeah, you know, we both have
Speaker 3: family that either can't or maybe wouldn't want to travel
Speaker 3: to a Mexico. So that way those people who've been
Speaker 3: with us our whole entire lives can have kind of
Speaker 3: that like special moment. Yeah, and then you know, Mexico
Speaker 3: or wherever would just be just be a party. You know,
Speaker 3: what's kind of addressed?
Speaker 2: Do you think some people like shifted if they do Mexico?
Speaker 2: But what what kind of style fitting.
Speaker 1: Have you liked on yourself? You feel like.
Speaker 3: None, I don't know anything. I don't I know nothing.
Speaker 4: Would you do florally? No more like a sheer self?
Speaker 3: I really don't. I really don't know. I have like
Speaker 3: hated ninety percent of every wedding dress I've ever seen,
Speaker 3: and so ouch.
Speaker 4: What about balance?
Speaker 3: Well, the first one was like it's just not me,
Speaker 3: Like bridal styles have just never not that people's dresses
Speaker 3: were like ugly, just I'm thinking about them like when
Speaker 3: I wear it, and like they've just never felt like me.
Speaker 3: There's so much more like modern styles now. But you're right, like,
Speaker 3: if you're getting married on a beach, I don't want
Speaker 3: to get stains. Yeah, gotta think about the swass.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't think a long sleeve neck high neck
Speaker 2: one would be great, but that showed up.
Speaker 3: Beach wedding is the most like formal wedding dress.
Speaker 1: Remember when like Olivia Culpo got married.
Speaker 2: I don't even follow her, but people were like hate
Speaker 2: even though she looked stunning.
Speaker 1: Hated her dress. It was because it was so it
Speaker 1: covered her up so.
Speaker 2: Much, and they're like, you're known for like being hot
Speaker 2: and showing your body, and I felt like, shut up,
Speaker 2: it's her.
Speaker 3: I just didn't like it because it was so boring.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I hate what kind of fucking over
Speaker 2: the top embellishments are you gonna do? I think most
Speaker 2: wedding dresses are moderately boring because they're all just white.
Speaker 3: And that's fair. I'm pretty sure Lyvia Copple's dressed. Yes,
Speaker 3: I don't care if your dresses modest. Oh live your dreams.
Speaker 3: But like the entire the whole thing was just the
Speaker 3: same fabric without like any anything different. It was just
Speaker 3: the same. Yeah, and I found that boring. That's personal opinion.
Speaker 3: She can do whatever she wants, and she does she does.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't much better.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm so far away from that stuff.
Speaker 4: Yeah, can I go back just to the engagement because
Speaker 4: I just have a couple of quick questions? Of course,
Speaker 4: when the sign unravel over the bridge, were there a
Speaker 4: lot of people there witnessing this because they knew or
Speaker 4: they like realize in that moment.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, this is a great question. You will
Speaker 3: not see them in the photo if you go to
Speaker 3: my Instagram because I photoshop them out. That's so I
Speaker 3: that was like one of my main things after with Trevor.
Speaker 3: I was like, I just like, there are so many
Speaker 3: people like that sucked and they cleared out pretty fast. Afterwards,
Speaker 3: I was like, what was that about? And then when
Speaker 3: I googled Irena services because I was nosy and I
Speaker 3: wanted to know more. In the description, it literally says
Speaker 3: like after your thirty minute ride, you will be met
Speaker 3: with like a sign hanging from a bridge and like
Speaker 3: ten to twenty people to congratulate you.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: No, I think they just like stop anyone passing and
Speaker 3: they're like, there's about to be an engagement, like stay.
Speaker 3: I'm assuming that's what happens because they cleared out pretty quick,
Speaker 3: but I think everyone in Venice is like I probably
Speaker 3: would have if somebody was like an engagements about to happen,
Speaker 3: I would have been.
Speaker 4: Like, ooh fun, yeah, okay, because I think I noticed
Speaker 4: that on your Instagram and you sent Pal and I
Speaker 4: pictures and I remember there being people there. Yeah, and
Speaker 4: I know you, like we both know you so well
Speaker 4: that I can imagine you were like, oh, I don't
Speaker 4: want these people here.
Speaker 3: Trevor was like when I read that to him afterwards,
Speaker 3: he's like, ooh, I did not read that part of it.
Speaker 3: I probably would have said something like no, thank you, yeah,
Speaker 3: because I would say it was like so pretty and
Speaker 3: perfect and romantic. Just would have been great if there
Speaker 3: were not random tourists everywhere. But whatever, the Venice is like,
Speaker 3: you can't go two feet in Venice without there being people.
Speaker 1: So even if she.
Speaker 3: Hadn't have said stay and watch or whatever, there still
Speaker 3: would have been people. Yeah, there was no getting away
Speaker 3: from that. So it is what it is.
Speaker 4: And my last question is, so, I know you said
Speaker 4: you're going to base kind of like destination wedding and
Speaker 4: whatever off of the one you're going to in January
Speaker 4: and just kind of do some field research. So are
Speaker 4: you thinking like a longer engagement, like one over one
Speaker 4: year or like, well, probably planning wise, you need like
Speaker 4: a year.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So for the like destination part of it, like
Speaker 3: the earliest we could do is January of twenty six, yeah,
Speaker 3: because you can't do it this time of year and
Speaker 3: you need to go in the colder months. So yeah,
Speaker 3: but I would say the actual like marriage part of
Speaker 3: it would be like this time next year.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, ish, I don't know how much save.
Speaker 3: The dail however, I become a domestic partner to get
Speaker 3: on that insurance dab. Yeah. So that's the story of
Speaker 3: our love.
Speaker 2: That's beautiful and that's our time. Okay, thank you for
Speaker 2: joining us this fine day. Congratulations. I see you're not
Speaker 2: wearing your ring today, so that's great.
Speaker 3: It's just Sunday for anyone listening, and.
Speaker 1: Usually take your ring off on Sundayay? Is that the day?
Speaker 1: Carrying my home?
Speaker 3: How dare you? I was? I was literally like doing laundry,
Speaker 3: cleaning this, and then I like changed really fast to
Speaker 3: come here. And then I was in the lobby waiting
Speaker 3: for you two be itches because I was on time
Speaker 3: and nobody else.
Speaker 4: Was, and I was like, oh.
Speaker 3: I didn't wear it, which has been I've been doing
Speaker 3: it a lot lately, and was very mad at me.
Speaker 1: Sorry, It's like I spent a lot from literally where
Speaker 1: is it?
Speaker 3: I wear that too? It's pretty sparkle you put it on.
Speaker 3: I do love it. It's very beautiful. See it on
Speaker 3: my Instagram at Teina Range. Thanks Bye, okay, love you, Bye,