WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.760 --> 00:00:04.240 Hello, and welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. Tina. 2 00:00:04.519 --> 00:00:06.240 We'd mention it like a little teas at the end 3 00:00:06.280 --> 00:00:08.679 of last week, but in just in case, for some 4 00:00:08.759 --> 00:00:12.439 weird reason, you're like, who is Tina? Tina used to 5 00:00:12.439 --> 00:00:14.080 work with the Jenny and I at the radio station. 6 00:00:14.720 --> 00:00:16.320 Do you want to tell every one what you did? Oh, 7 00:00:16.399 --> 00:00:18.839 it's like your history of work at iHeartMedia. 8 00:00:19.480 --> 00:00:21.879 Sure, I would love too, so much like so many 9 00:00:21.920 --> 00:00:27.079 other people, I started as an intern back in twenty thirteen. Yeah, wow, mems. 10 00:00:27.320 --> 00:00:30.280 And then I was a promotion assistant for like two 11 00:00:30.359 --> 00:00:32.439 and a half years, and then I was in digital. 12 00:00:32.479 --> 00:00:33.840 And when I was in digital, I was also part 13 00:00:33.880 --> 00:00:34.840 of the day brand the Murray Show. 14 00:00:34.880 --> 00:00:38.240 And you love lay people, Yes, And we became very 15 00:00:38.240 --> 00:00:41.439 close throughout the years, Abby, because a lot of time 16 00:00:41.479 --> 00:00:43.600 you're really close to a co worker, and then when 17 00:00:43.640 --> 00:00:45.960 they leave and you don't see them as often, the 18 00:00:46.000 --> 00:00:48.520 friendship kind of falls apart a little bit. 19 00:00:48.560 --> 00:00:49.920 I think we talked about this last week. 20 00:00:50.200 --> 00:00:54.159 I've remained probably the closest to Steve and Tina from 21 00:00:54.280 --> 00:00:58.520 people who have been on the show. And so obviously 22 00:00:59.240 --> 00:01:02.200 Tina had a big thing and her life happened recently 23 00:01:02.679 --> 00:01:03.840 and we're like, teeny should come in. 24 00:01:03.799 --> 00:01:06.640 And talk about it, because while you were here. 25 00:01:06.439 --> 00:01:09.879 And on the Dave Ryan Show, you were very single 26 00:01:09.959 --> 00:01:12.359 and like you weren't looking. You were like, I don't 27 00:01:12.519 --> 00:01:14.159 quit trying to like set me up people, I have 28 00:01:14.239 --> 00:01:14.840 no interest. 29 00:01:15.040 --> 00:01:18.120 No, it wasn't I didn't care at all. No, No, 30 00:01:18.359 --> 00:01:20.480 dating was gross. I think we all can remember. 31 00:01:20.560 --> 00:01:24.120 Oh, I agreed, Dame was gross. I hated it just 32 00:01:24.159 --> 00:01:24.959 as much as you did. 33 00:01:25.000 --> 00:01:27.519 But if you're doing it, you've got this. Okay, yeah, 34 00:01:27.560 --> 00:01:33.280 you can do it, but you shortly after you left, 35 00:01:33.400 --> 00:01:35.040 or actually before you it was before. 36 00:01:35.280 --> 00:01:38.200 Yeah. So Trevor and I started dating in February of 37 00:01:38.239 --> 00:01:41.079 twenty twenty two and I left in June, but I 38 00:01:41.120 --> 00:01:45.560 had only told everybody in like end of April. Yeah, 39 00:01:45.599 --> 00:01:48.480 so you guys only knew for like a month before, 40 00:01:48.560 --> 00:01:50.120 a month and a half ish before I left. 41 00:01:51.159 --> 00:01:53.480 And he slid into your DMS. 42 00:01:53.560 --> 00:01:55.879 Correct, Sure it did in slid right on in there, 43 00:01:56.120 --> 00:01:57.879 so and a half years apart, But you know. 44 00:01:58.079 --> 00:01:59.879 Well, how did you find you again? 45 00:02:00.040 --> 00:02:03.319 We matched on bumble, but you never really No, I 46 00:02:03.319 --> 00:02:05.239 think I deleted it, like I think I matched with him, 47 00:02:05.239 --> 00:02:07.239 and I deleted it, but he saw our match, and 48 00:02:07.280 --> 00:02:09.439 then he just went and found me on social media. 49 00:02:09.520 --> 00:02:12.599 My god, he was my last name on there. I 50 00:02:12.599 --> 00:02:15.319 don't know. It's terrifying, but he fell on bumble. 51 00:02:15.360 --> 00:02:17.039 Yeah, I don't know. I don't think usually you put 52 00:02:17.039 --> 00:02:17.560 your last name. 53 00:02:17.560 --> 00:02:20.599 I don't know, but he found me. Even if you 54 00:02:20.599 --> 00:02:22.840 searched like Tina r like, even if you're just starting 55 00:02:22.879 --> 00:02:24.759 to type that, I'm sure I probably came up. 56 00:02:24.960 --> 00:02:28.680 But also it was crazy because you guys lived like 57 00:02:28.800 --> 00:02:30.439 across the street from each other, three. 58 00:02:30.280 --> 00:02:34.960 Houses away out here, you do you know? I have 59 00:02:35.080 --> 00:02:38.960 one memory that's like so small of seeing like going 60 00:02:38.960 --> 00:02:41.960 for a walk one day and along where I used 61 00:02:41.960 --> 00:02:44.639 to live. I remember seeing like an attractive guy with 62 00:02:44.680 --> 00:02:47.520 a golden doodle. But there's also like a lot of 63 00:02:47.520 --> 00:02:50.479 golden doodles, So I can't say if it was Trevor. 64 00:02:51.080 --> 00:02:56.919 I don't know any No, I don't think so. I'm 65 00:02:56.960 --> 00:02:59.120 sure we did, but I just like neither of us 66 00:02:59.159 --> 00:03:02.039 have of it. You think he would, since you know 67 00:03:02.080 --> 00:03:02.919 he was obsessed with me. 68 00:03:03.120 --> 00:03:08.439 Yeah, obviously enough, But you guys have been together since 69 00:03:08.479 --> 00:03:10.719 and then like what was like a year and you 70 00:03:10.759 --> 00:03:11.840 guys moved in together. 71 00:03:12.120 --> 00:03:14.319 We were a little before a year. I guess we 72 00:03:14.400 --> 00:03:17.360 just moved in at Christmas of that first year, because 73 00:03:17.439 --> 00:03:21.919 I was essentially living there. I had been since June. 74 00:03:22.000 --> 00:03:24.360 I was like really fast and so I eventually was like, 75 00:03:24.479 --> 00:03:26.520 can we make a choice here? What are we doing? 76 00:03:26.840 --> 00:03:29.479 So I just moved in for Christmas. I've been there 77 00:03:29.520 --> 00:03:30.039 ever since. 78 00:03:30.400 --> 00:03:33.599 So how long has it been total that you've been together? 79 00:03:34.319 --> 00:03:37.000 That'd be rare of twenty two so two and a 80 00:03:37.039 --> 00:03:39.000 half years, okay, a little over that. 81 00:03:39.120 --> 00:03:40.639 I thought it was like three and a half for 82 00:03:40.680 --> 00:03:42.680 some reason. I can't keep track of years anymore. 83 00:03:42.759 --> 00:03:44.639 Feels like gu into. 84 00:03:44.759 --> 00:03:48.439 Ural's relationship, Did you feel like I could marry this person? 85 00:03:48.439 --> 00:03:49.199 Do you think. 86 00:03:50.879 --> 00:03:54.400 By by like that the time I told you guys 87 00:03:54.400 --> 00:03:56.159 like that end of April May when we went to Europe, 88 00:03:56.960 --> 00:03:57.719 I know. 89 00:03:58.520 --> 00:04:02.199 You knew you were going to meet or you could I. 90 00:04:02.120 --> 00:04:05.240 Think I knew we were going to unless something went 91 00:04:05.319 --> 00:04:07.560 like horribly wrong. I guess they didn't have a lot 92 00:04:07.599 --> 00:04:11.800 of context for if like it was like my first 93 00:04:11.840 --> 00:04:16.399 like long term serious relationship other than just random little situationships. 94 00:04:15.719 --> 00:04:16.839 Yeah that I had over the years. 95 00:04:17.079 --> 00:04:18.800 So it was the first time that I was like, oh, 96 00:04:18.839 --> 00:04:23.279 this makes sense and like he's good and like logistically, 97 00:04:23.360 --> 00:04:26.639 I don't see any weird barriers to overcome here. They 98 00:04:26.680 --> 00:04:28.399 don't live in different states or you know, any of 99 00:04:28.399 --> 00:04:28.959 those other. 100 00:04:28.800 --> 00:04:31.959 Things that are My favorite was back in the day, 101 00:04:32.160 --> 00:04:36.800 it was how close do you live to If you 102 00:04:36.800 --> 00:04:39.240 could live across the country, that would be more convenient 103 00:04:39.279 --> 00:04:39.519 for me. 104 00:04:39.639 --> 00:04:42.759 That was that was a couple of back to backers. 105 00:04:42.800 --> 00:04:46.279 Back to backers, Sure, yeah, unfortunately, but uh yeah, So 106 00:04:46.519 --> 00:04:49.839 I think I knew pretty quickly. He did too. I 107 00:04:49.879 --> 00:04:52.399 think that was like three months in for both of us. Yeah, 108 00:04:52.439 --> 00:04:55.160 we're sort of like, yeah, this feels unless one of 109 00:04:55.199 --> 00:04:57.879 us fucks it up a lot, right, pretty sure this 110 00:04:58.040 --> 00:04:58.279 is it. 111 00:04:59.560 --> 00:05:04.279 And but you didn't did you have like a you 112 00:05:04.319 --> 00:05:07.079 were like a hope in this year we get married 113 00:05:07.160 --> 00:05:07.959 or any of that stuff. 114 00:05:07.959 --> 00:05:10.879 No. I was kind of like, I'd like to get engaged, 115 00:05:11.600 --> 00:05:15.279 you know, will I have children? Who knows? 116 00:05:15.519 --> 00:05:15.639 Right? 117 00:05:15.839 --> 00:05:19.920 But you know, as ladies speaking of our feminineness, there 118 00:05:20.000 --> 00:05:24.839 is a small biological situation just ticking down there, So 119 00:05:25.319 --> 00:05:26.439 I don't know. I was just sort of like, I'd 120 00:05:26.519 --> 00:05:29.040 rather get married first, not that it matters, you can 121 00:05:29.079 --> 00:05:32.040 have however you want, but I was like, I think 122 00:05:32.079 --> 00:05:33.399 I'd like to get married, so that was kind of 123 00:05:33.399 --> 00:05:36.560 my only thing is do I want kids? Yes or no? 124 00:05:36.879 --> 00:05:39.160 If so got to have it by you know, sort 125 00:05:39.199 --> 00:05:41.240 of a certain period of time, and should probably get 126 00:05:41.279 --> 00:05:43.959 married before that, but I didn't actually really care other 127 00:05:44.040 --> 00:05:44.319 than that. 128 00:05:44.680 --> 00:05:47.319 So sorry, I was gonna say. I remember talking to you, 129 00:05:47.399 --> 00:05:50.000 and I don't know the exact timeline, but I remember 130 00:05:50.120 --> 00:05:52.600 maybe like a year and a half into you guys dating, 131 00:05:53.480 --> 00:05:56.120 you were like kind of thinking like, yeah, I feel 132 00:05:56.120 --> 00:05:59.079 like Trevor and I maybe you'll get engaged soon. And 133 00:05:59.120 --> 00:06:01.000 then I think I saw you a handful months later 134 00:06:01.040 --> 00:06:03.240 and you're like, yeah, there's just like other things in life. 135 00:06:03.240 --> 00:06:06.360 We probably should like work out first. And it wasn't 136 00:06:06.399 --> 00:06:09.120 issues you guys were having, just like life like career 137 00:06:09.160 --> 00:06:11.279 stuff and whatever, and you're like, so that's kind of 138 00:06:11.279 --> 00:06:12.720 the main focus now. Because I asked you, I was like, 139 00:06:12.759 --> 00:06:14.439 do you think you're gonna get engaged and you're like yeah, 140 00:06:14.680 --> 00:06:17.920 just like I'm focusing on other stuff. And so then 141 00:06:18.519 --> 00:06:20.839 the last time I saw you was if what two 142 00:06:20.879 --> 00:06:23.079 months ago, three months ago, we got coffee the three 143 00:06:23.079 --> 00:06:25.399 of us, Oh yeah, yeah, and you guys were talking 144 00:06:25.439 --> 00:06:27.720 about engagement. I was like, okay, this makes sense because 145 00:06:27.720 --> 00:06:29.600 that was like a year ago that you were kind 146 00:06:29.600 --> 00:06:32.879 of thinking I need to get like, I don't know, 147 00:06:32.920 --> 00:06:34.879 you're talking about career stuff, and then you were like, 148 00:06:35.000 --> 00:06:36.920 but yes, engagement is in. 149 00:06:37.439 --> 00:06:39.519 We did the thing where we like for a long 150 00:06:39.519 --> 00:06:43.160 time always said we talked about marriage and like being 151 00:06:43.199 --> 00:06:46.519 together long term, but we never talked about engagement. So 152 00:06:46.560 --> 00:06:49.800 I probably was like, yeah, like we're gonna get married, 153 00:06:49.800 --> 00:06:51.600 but I don't know. And then I think, yeah, when 154 00:06:51.600 --> 00:06:53.920 we hit like a year and a halfy ish time, 155 00:06:54.000 --> 00:06:55.839 I was like, we're kind of at a good enough 156 00:06:55.839 --> 00:06:59.399 place now where I feel like any time, yeah, could happen. 157 00:07:00.160 --> 00:07:03.000 But yeah, I think it was probably like the job 158 00:07:03.000 --> 00:07:04.680 I Matt currently I started a year ago, so I 159 00:07:04.680 --> 00:07:06.680 bet that was kind of around that time that I 160 00:07:06.720 --> 00:07:07.680 was like, I don't know, I just want to be 161 00:07:07.759 --> 00:07:11.000 a little bit more stable in my own life before 162 00:07:11.160 --> 00:07:12.560 we mash Well. 163 00:07:12.800 --> 00:07:16.279 I got a FaceTime out of nowhere from Trevor a 164 00:07:16.319 --> 00:07:18.800 few months ago. I'm like, okay, he does not First 165 00:07:18.800 --> 00:07:22.279 of all, he doesn't call me much less face timing, 166 00:07:22.800 --> 00:07:24.600 so I immediately was like this is sketchy, and I 167 00:07:24.680 --> 00:07:25.680 was like, what's going on? 168 00:07:25.759 --> 00:07:27.439 And he was like, I need your help, and I 169 00:07:27.480 --> 00:07:29.160 was like okay, well, I don't know if I'm gonna 170 00:07:29.160 --> 00:07:29.800 be able to help you. 171 00:07:29.920 --> 00:07:32.360 But he was like, I want to propose to Tina, 172 00:07:32.480 --> 00:07:34.319 and I was like, oh my god. 173 00:07:34.839 --> 00:07:36.920 And then Jake and Oli were screeching in the background. 174 00:07:37.079 --> 00:07:40.040 They came into here, and I was like, well, when 175 00:07:40.319 --> 00:07:43.040 he was like, well, we're going to on a trip 176 00:07:43.079 --> 00:07:45.079 to London and that's like her favorite place, so I 177 00:07:45.120 --> 00:07:46.759 want to do it there. I was like, that'll be perfect, 178 00:07:47.240 --> 00:07:50.319 and he was like, I don't know what to like. 179 00:07:50.399 --> 00:07:52.079 I don't even know where to start. He's like, I 180 00:07:52.079 --> 00:07:53.720 don't know what she wants, and I go, I actually 181 00:07:53.759 --> 00:07:55.720 don't know what she wants. I was like, I she's 182 00:07:55.759 --> 00:07:59.240 never really been someone that's like this is my dream 183 00:07:59.360 --> 00:08:01.879 ring or something like that. And honestly, I started thinking 184 00:08:01.879 --> 00:08:05.399 about it, and I don't know any friends like I 185 00:08:05.399 --> 00:08:08.680 feel like that's like an old, outdated stereotype. I'm I 186 00:08:08.680 --> 00:08:11.160 don't know many girls that sit around and say, if 187 00:08:11.160 --> 00:08:13.079 he cut I guess maybe if they know when it's 188 00:08:13.120 --> 00:08:15.800 coming up soon, yeah, they might be like, don't let 189 00:08:15.879 --> 00:08:17.399 him get this cut, or this is the kind of 190 00:08:17.399 --> 00:08:19.839 cut I want, FYI if he asks. But I don't 191 00:08:19.879 --> 00:08:22.279 have any friends that do that, so anyway, I go, 192 00:08:22.639 --> 00:08:25.680 let me look at her Pinterest. So I finding his 193 00:08:25.759 --> 00:08:28.319 Pinterest and then I could find where like there are pins, 194 00:08:28.639 --> 00:08:30.959 and I was like, okay, here are Christmas ones, which 195 00:08:31.000 --> 00:08:33.919 means the ones above that are from this year. And 196 00:08:33.960 --> 00:08:36.200 he was like, oh my god, this is like detective work. 197 00:08:36.200 --> 00:08:38.360 And I was like, I go and I found a 198 00:08:38.399 --> 00:08:41.480 couple and I was like, you have three pins of 199 00:08:41.519 --> 00:08:43.080 like the same kind of ring or maybe it was 200 00:08:43.080 --> 00:08:44.679 the same ring, and I sent them to him and 201 00:08:44.679 --> 00:08:47.320 I was like, I do not know that this is 202 00:08:47.360 --> 00:08:48.360 what she wants, but she. 203 00:08:48.360 --> 00:08:50.440 Has like three of this, so this feels like the 204 00:08:50.519 --> 00:08:52.759 right direction. I was like, but Tina. 205 00:08:53.519 --> 00:08:56.519 Is like a lot of people, you're particular on what 206 00:08:56.559 --> 00:08:58.360 you like, and especially if you're wearing it for life. 207 00:08:58.360 --> 00:09:00.440 So I was like, I worry about you making out 208 00:09:00.480 --> 00:09:04.200 something that she's like not gonna like. And I was like, 209 00:09:04.240 --> 00:09:06.960 I can connect you with a jeweler, but also there 210 00:09:06.960 --> 00:09:09.240 are a million other jewelers, so okay, and that was 211 00:09:09.320 --> 00:09:10.960 kind of I connected him with a jeweler. 212 00:09:11.399 --> 00:09:12.039 Left it at that. 213 00:09:13.240 --> 00:09:15.080 So when you were going on your trip, I was 214 00:09:15.360 --> 00:09:18.919 anticipating this was going to happen, but plans changed clearly 215 00:09:18.960 --> 00:09:20.519 because he did not propose to you in London. 216 00:09:20.639 --> 00:09:22.919 No, he proposed in Venice. We were on like a 217 00:09:22.919 --> 00:09:25.440 three part trip, so we started in Munich. We did 218 00:09:25.440 --> 00:09:29.200 Octoberfest and we were with his little sister and her roommates, 219 00:09:29.639 --> 00:09:32.600 and then they went to Austria. Trevor and I went 220 00:09:32.639 --> 00:09:38.120 to Venice alone before everybody, including like his parents, my 221 00:09:38.200 --> 00:09:40.240 friend Tom, like a bunch of other people all met 222 00:09:40.320 --> 00:09:41.840 up in London. So it was the only part of 223 00:09:41.879 --> 00:09:46.480 our trip where we were by ourselves. Switched it. Maybe 224 00:09:46.519 --> 00:09:47.639 I guess to that part, but. 225 00:09:48.080 --> 00:09:50.159 So tell us everything. 226 00:09:50.279 --> 00:09:53.320 Yeah, now there was where we get the whole story 227 00:09:53.360 --> 00:09:54.360 on what happened. 228 00:09:55.159 --> 00:09:59.759 Okay, I saw Venice obviously, Well I should say too, 229 00:09:59.799 --> 00:10:03.080 P Well, obviously everybody. The first question you get is 230 00:10:03.360 --> 00:10:05.879 were you actually surprised? I think a lot of people 231 00:10:05.919 --> 00:10:09.799 know it's probably coming. I was shocked because from everything 232 00:10:09.840 --> 00:10:13.559 that I knew, we were still looking for rings, Like 233 00:10:13.679 --> 00:10:16.639 he had even said he told me to like try 234 00:10:16.639 --> 00:10:18.799 and like find a jewelry store in London I really liked, 235 00:10:18.840 --> 00:10:20.799 and we could look for rings there. Yeah, And I 236 00:10:20.840 --> 00:10:22.799 was like, oh, that'd be really special, Like we love London, 237 00:10:22.840 --> 00:10:24.960 so I thought we might even be looking for rings 238 00:10:25.000 --> 00:10:27.320 on our trip. I don't think there was a possibility 239 00:10:27.840 --> 00:10:30.840 that he had already purchased one, right, because I found 240 00:10:30.879 --> 00:10:32.639 that in very particular, and I thought he was waiting 241 00:10:32.720 --> 00:10:34.480 for me to give him a go ahead, like, oh, 242 00:10:34.519 --> 00:10:37.639 I found it, it's over here, go get it. He 243 00:10:37.720 --> 00:10:39.919 kind of did that, but also he just did what 244 00:10:40.240 --> 00:10:44.759 he wanted to do. Yeah, So we got to There's 245 00:10:44.799 --> 00:10:47.399 a lot of things that happened before we got to 246 00:10:47.440 --> 00:10:50.559 Venice that in hindsight, I was like, that was sketchy. Yeah, 247 00:10:50.559 --> 00:10:52.480 but I didn't really notice any of them, and he 248 00:10:52.519 --> 00:10:58.960 played everything very cool. We got to Venice on Monday 249 00:10:59.240 --> 00:11:01.639 afternoon and so we got to see We like took 250 00:11:01.639 --> 00:11:05.559 a nice water taxi through the main canals of Venice sunset. 251 00:11:05.600 --> 00:11:08.159 It was really nice. And as we were going through 252 00:11:08.159 --> 00:11:11.360 the Grand Canal through the most touristy parts, you see 253 00:11:11.399 --> 00:11:14.799 a lot of gondolas. They're everywhere in Venice. Everyone's on 254 00:11:14.840 --> 00:11:17.480 a gondola. It's not like there's one that they're everywhere, right, 255 00:11:17.639 --> 00:11:22.159 And I was like, that looks awful. We should not 256 00:11:22.399 --> 00:11:27.519 do that, Okay. His little sister, when we had been 257 00:11:27.519 --> 00:11:29.080 talking about the trip, was like they had been to 258 00:11:29.200 --> 00:11:31.240 Italy a year ago and she was like, you guys know, 259 00:11:31.240 --> 00:11:34.039 those gondolas are like ninety euro which is about one 260 00:11:34.120 --> 00:11:37.600 hundred dollars. You're like, what for thirty minutes? So when 261 00:11:37.639 --> 00:11:43.200 we're seeing these gondolas, and it seems we saw multiple 262 00:11:43.200 --> 00:11:46.519 gondolas of single females sitting in the gondola with like 263 00:11:46.519 --> 00:11:49.519 a tripod and their phone on it recording them like 264 00:11:49.559 --> 00:11:53.000 the whole time, influencers, influencers of Venice, which you know, 265 00:11:53.559 --> 00:11:56.039 get it, yeah, you know whatever, And then we saw 266 00:11:56.159 --> 00:11:59.639 lots of couples, but like it did not look the 267 00:11:59.720 --> 00:12:02.159 one that we saw did not look romantic. And I 268 00:12:02.240 --> 00:12:04.200 was sort of like, well, that's easy. I guess when 269 00:12:04.200 --> 00:12:08.960 you spend night. Yeah, yeah, yeah easy. So I I 270 00:12:09.000 --> 00:12:13.240 think Trevor was puoping his pants at that point. And 271 00:12:13.279 --> 00:12:16.399 Trevor Trevor for weeks had been like I want to 272 00:12:16.440 --> 00:12:19.120 take gondolas, like I want to write a gondola, which 273 00:12:19.159 --> 00:12:21.679 is not suspicious at all because he gets hyper fixated 274 00:12:21.720 --> 00:12:24.639 on things sometimes. So I was like, sure, that's your 275 00:12:24.720 --> 00:12:27.360 thing that you're like real jazz bay. I think he 276 00:12:27.440 --> 00:12:29.519 had something and probably in every place we were going to, 277 00:12:29.600 --> 00:12:32.000 so that wasn't a red flag. So the next morning 278 00:12:32.039 --> 00:12:35.399 we wake up and we're like getting ready for the day, 279 00:12:35.519 --> 00:12:40.320 and he two things. The first was we were I 280 00:12:40.360 --> 00:12:42.759 was making a little breakfast. Our nice airbnb lady left 281 00:12:42.799 --> 00:12:45.840 us like croissants, and we had taken some tea bags 282 00:12:45.840 --> 00:12:48.240 from like a really nice hotel we stayed at in Germany, 283 00:12:48.360 --> 00:12:50.440 and I was like, oh, make us that tea and 284 00:12:50.440 --> 00:12:52.480 he's like that'd be great, And I was like where, 285 00:12:52.559 --> 00:12:53.879 all right, where'd you put those tea bags? 286 00:12:53.879 --> 00:12:54.000 Are? 287 00:12:54.039 --> 00:12:56.399 Then in your your backpack? So I was like going 288 00:12:56.440 --> 00:12:58.279 into our room and he like came out of the 289 00:12:58.279 --> 00:13:00.840 bathroom real fast in a towel and was like, I'll 290 00:13:00.879 --> 00:13:02.600 get him. They're like way in the back, which I 291 00:13:02.679 --> 00:13:05.279 also didn't think was He was very casual about it, 292 00:13:05.360 --> 00:13:08.039 but I didn't think anything of it. And then he 293 00:13:08.159 --> 00:13:11.360 asked me to help him pick out his outfit, which 294 00:13:11.360 --> 00:13:13.480 I also didn't think was fishy because we had kind 295 00:13:13.480 --> 00:13:15.279 of been talking about how Venice is like a little 296 00:13:15.279 --> 00:13:17.519 bit nicer and maybe you want to dress a little 297 00:13:17.519 --> 00:13:19.879 bit better. So and we were excited we were finally 298 00:13:19.879 --> 00:13:22.840 by ourselves and he was like, hey, pick on my outfit, 299 00:13:22.960 --> 00:13:25.279 like you always want to dress me anyways, like go 300 00:13:25.399 --> 00:13:29.399 for it. I was like, Lit, you're wearing that, and 301 00:13:29.440 --> 00:13:31.559 then I changed out. It's like forty two times because 302 00:13:31.559 --> 00:13:33.759 I hated everything I was putting on. But then we went. 303 00:13:34.320 --> 00:13:37.720 We went to San Marco the Square, which is like 304 00:13:37.720 --> 00:13:40.240 the big famous part, and the whole time I was 305 00:13:40.240 --> 00:13:41.960 telling Truvor like, I asked him to give me his 306 00:13:42.039 --> 00:13:45.440 phone and his wallet because it is a big pickpocket 307 00:13:45.919 --> 00:13:49.120 part of Italy. He'd give me his wallet, but he's like, 308 00:13:49.120 --> 00:13:50.519 I'm going to keep my phone. I'll just keep my 309 00:13:50.519 --> 00:13:53.240 hands in my pocket. And then every like five feet 310 00:13:53.279 --> 00:13:57.200 you're passing signs that say like a tensione pickpocket, like 311 00:13:57.960 --> 00:14:01.600 watch out. So he's also opooping his pants because he 312 00:14:01.759 --> 00:14:04.000 has not only the ring but the payment for the 313 00:14:04.000 --> 00:14:09.320 little gondola people. Poor guy was really just going through it. 314 00:14:10.039 --> 00:14:11.879 So we did all the touristy stuff. We went to 315 00:14:11.960 --> 00:14:13.879 a cafe. The only thing I wanted to do in 316 00:14:13.960 --> 00:14:16.360 Venice was sit at cafes and drink spritzes. I was like, 317 00:14:16.480 --> 00:14:17.960 I don't want to do anything else. I just want 318 00:14:18.000 --> 00:14:19.720 to sit. I just want to drink and eat some 319 00:14:19.759 --> 00:14:21.919 food and have a great day. So we did that, 320 00:14:22.759 --> 00:14:24.279 and then we were trying to decide what we wanted 321 00:14:24.279 --> 00:14:25.639 to do with the rest of our day. It was 322 00:14:25.679 --> 00:14:29.399 like three and I was looking at my phone, things 323 00:14:29.399 --> 00:14:31.200 to do, whatever, and I don't know where he's just 324 00:14:31.320 --> 00:14:33.440 he's on his phone too, and he was like, I 325 00:14:33.480 --> 00:14:37.720 booked us a gondola ride. And I was like, you know, 326 00:14:37.919 --> 00:14:39.240 like you did not, and he was like I did. 327 00:14:39.279 --> 00:14:41.799 I found like a really good one, like they're not 328 00:14:42.159 --> 00:14:44.519 like scammy, it's a good price whatever. And I was 329 00:14:44.559 --> 00:14:46.879 like sure, like this is the thing like you've been 330 00:14:46.919 --> 00:14:50.240 talking about for forever, like let's go ride that gondola. 331 00:14:50.840 --> 00:14:52.399 And he's like, okay, we just need to go to 332 00:14:52.480 --> 00:14:55.000 this area. And we're finding some lady named Irena and 333 00:14:55.080 --> 00:14:56.960 she's gonna like bring us to the gondola and I 334 00:14:57.000 --> 00:14:59.960 was like cool beans. So we found Irena. The only 335 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:03.440 only thing I thought was weird about her was Trevor 336 00:15:03.519 --> 00:15:04.960 was like, are you Irena? And she's like, yeah, you 337 00:15:05.000 --> 00:15:07.039 must be Trevor and I was like yeah. And then 338 00:15:07.039 --> 00:15:09.080 she was like and what's your name? I'm like, why 339 00:15:09.120 --> 00:15:11.360 do you care what my name is? Like, I don't 340 00:15:11.360 --> 00:15:13.000 know you. I didn't pay for the service. Yeah, but 341 00:15:13.080 --> 00:15:15.840 that's nice, I guess. So she brought us to our gondola. 342 00:15:16.759 --> 00:15:18.879 We get on the gondola didn't see Trevor behind me 343 00:15:18.919 --> 00:15:20.919 handing her cash, but that happened. 344 00:15:21.679 --> 00:15:22.799 We were not observant. 345 00:15:23.000 --> 00:15:25.799 No, it was also seriously, there was a gondola man 346 00:15:26.279 --> 00:15:30.039 holding my hand as I'm stepping down. It was supposed 347 00:15:30.039 --> 00:15:34.039 to be bad me, like, I'm also not because I 348 00:15:34.120 --> 00:15:37.000 really I've had so many friends like hide their pregnancies. 349 00:15:37.039 --> 00:15:41.240 I don't notice anything. It's fine. I just go through 350 00:15:41.279 --> 00:15:41.919 life that way. 351 00:15:42.039 --> 00:15:46.440 Yeah, it's for me because I go through life wondering 352 00:15:46.639 --> 00:15:48.840 at every corner, like what does that mean? 353 00:15:48.840 --> 00:15:49.080 What is that? 354 00:15:49.240 --> 00:15:51.639 I knowing that the person was like, I was just 355 00:15:51.639 --> 00:15:53.919 scratching my head psych I'm like, why'd you do it 356 00:15:53.919 --> 00:15:54.720 with your left hands? 357 00:15:54.879 --> 00:15:57.720 Like why? I probably if I thought that a ring 358 00:15:57.879 --> 00:16:00.919 was in play, I probably would have been weird the 359 00:16:00.919 --> 00:16:01.559 whole trip. 360 00:16:01.600 --> 00:16:04.440 Did he really throw you off with the London ring shopping? 361 00:16:04.519 --> 00:16:05.480 Was that the main piece? 362 00:16:05.759 --> 00:16:07.559 Yeah? I mean I think there were other pieces, but 363 00:16:07.600 --> 00:16:10.559 I think that was the piece. I mean, regardless, I 364 00:16:10.639 --> 00:16:13.200 didn't tell him I had found a ring yet. I 365 00:16:13.279 --> 00:16:15.519 was like, I'm like ninety percent on this ring, but 366 00:16:15.600 --> 00:16:17.679 I don't know. I'm still kind of looking at stuff. 367 00:16:17.759 --> 00:16:20.240 So I truly thought he was waiting for me yeah, 368 00:16:20.240 --> 00:16:22.200 and then yeah, when the London thing happened, all my 369 00:16:22.240 --> 00:16:25.480 coworkers were like, it's gonna happen. I'm like, no, there's 370 00:16:25.480 --> 00:16:28.440 no ring no ring shopping like no. But anyway, so 371 00:16:28.440 --> 00:16:30.720 we get on the gondola. We go for our thirty 372 00:16:30.759 --> 00:16:33.039 minute gondola tour. It was actually quite nice. We didn't 373 00:16:33.159 --> 00:16:37.080 we went through like the bag yes, and we had 374 00:16:37.080 --> 00:16:40.279 a really nice gondolier man and he was kind of 375 00:16:40.480 --> 00:16:43.480 telling us stuff. It was like, oh, it's like a history. Yeah, 376 00:16:43.120 --> 00:16:45.399 there were a gondola a few up from us had 377 00:16:45.399 --> 00:16:49.840 paid for music. There was like an accordion and singer Yeah, 378 00:16:49.919 --> 00:16:52.519 yeah exactly, which I guess wasn't up charge for Trevor. 379 00:16:52.519 --> 00:16:54.639 And he said no, so good thing we didn't do it, 380 00:16:54.960 --> 00:16:58.279 suing out to him. We do the whole thing and 381 00:16:58.320 --> 00:17:01.240 we're getting back because I saw the hotel and I 382 00:17:01.320 --> 00:17:02.759 like said to Trevor. I was like, oh wow, like 383 00:17:02.799 --> 00:17:05.759 there's the hotel. We must be done and he was 384 00:17:05.799 --> 00:17:08.880 like oh yeah, like yeah, I guess we are. And 385 00:17:08.920 --> 00:17:13.000 then I saw Irena, the girl who put us on, 386 00:17:13.039 --> 00:17:14.640 and she was like up ahead on a bridge and 387 00:17:14.680 --> 00:17:16.440 I was like, oh and there's Irena, Like I bet 388 00:17:16.480 --> 00:17:18.799 She's just here to greet us. Greet us and be like, 389 00:17:18.799 --> 00:17:20.680 how is your ry? Give me five stars. I don't 390 00:17:20.720 --> 00:17:23.839 know what they do there, but and then there was 391 00:17:23.880 --> 00:17:26.920 a man with like a long lens camera on my 392 00:17:27.200 --> 00:17:30.640 left taking photos and Trevor was like, aren't you gonna 393 00:17:30.640 --> 00:17:37.160 smile at him? And I said nur, like no, thank you. 394 00:17:37.400 --> 00:17:39.839 Like people had been taking pictures of us the whole time, 395 00:17:39.920 --> 00:17:43.680 like tourists with nice cameras, like they're yeah. So I 396 00:17:43.759 --> 00:17:45.400 was like, I didn't smile for any of the other 397 00:17:45.480 --> 00:17:47.799 random people taking photos of us, Like I'm not smiling 398 00:17:47.799 --> 00:17:51.400 at this man, Like yeah, so weird. So all these 399 00:17:51.440 --> 00:17:54.359 things happened boom boom boom, and right after I was like, no, 400 00:17:54.400 --> 00:17:57.559 I'm not smiling at that man. Thank you, Irena up 401 00:17:57.599 --> 00:18:00.200