WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.160 --> 00:00:02.799 The views and opinions expressed by individuals on the following 2 00:00:02.839 --> 00:00:06.160 program do not necessarily reflect those of the network, Guys 3 00:00:06.240 --> 00:00:17.519 Guy Radio and its platforms. It's Guys Guy Radio. Here's 4 00:00:17.559 --> 00:00:19.359 your host, Robert Manny. 5 00:00:21.239 --> 00:00:24.920 Welcome to Guys Guys Radio. This is your host, Robert Manny, 6 00:00:25.039 --> 00:00:28.399 welcoming you to the show where men and women can 7 00:00:28.440 --> 00:00:31.600 be at their best and everyone wins. Guys Guys Radio, 8 00:00:32.280 --> 00:00:36.359 We're here to inform you, inspire you, empower you, and 9 00:00:36.560 --> 00:00:40.399 get you to think, feel, and who knows, maybe even 10 00:00:40.479 --> 00:00:45.719 act by virtue of the journeys, stories, experiences and insights 11 00:00:45.759 --> 00:00:47.640 of the guests I bring you each and every week 12 00:00:47.640 --> 00:00:51.039 to the show. And guess what This week is no exception. 13 00:00:51.560 --> 00:00:55.600 Today we're going to talk about being a psychic medium 14 00:00:56.159 --> 00:01:01.039 and mentor with special guest, world renowned psychic Karen Dockery, 15 00:01:01.359 --> 00:01:06.159 who's coming to us all the way from Scotland, British Isles. 16 00:01:06.719 --> 00:01:11.879 So what happens when intuition, spirit, communication and healing intersect. Well, 17 00:01:11.920 --> 00:01:15.640 this week on our show, we welcome psychic medium Karen 18 00:01:15.680 --> 00:01:19.120 Doherty and we're going to have a fascinating conversation about 19 00:01:19.120 --> 00:01:23.840 connecting with the other side, developing intuition, getting signs from 20 00:01:23.840 --> 00:01:29.040 loved ones, spiritual awakenings, and how mediumship can help people heal, 21 00:01:29.760 --> 00:01:34.200 grow and live more consciously. All here on this week's 22 00:01:34.480 --> 00:01:36.560 Guys Guys Radio, and I think you're really going to 23 00:01:36.840 --> 00:01:40.680 like Karen. During the show, we're going to talk about 24 00:01:40.959 --> 00:01:44.000 the difference between being a psychic and a medium. We're 25 00:01:44.040 --> 00:01:46.480 going to talk about how to choose a psychic or 26 00:01:46.519 --> 00:01:48.200 a medium if you want to do that type of 27 00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:50.719 work or go for a session, and kind of what 28 00:01:50.760 --> 00:01:54.359 to look for and what the expectations are. The other 29 00:01:54.400 --> 00:01:58.359 thing is I had recently had a reading with Karen 30 00:01:58.439 --> 00:02:00.239 that I will tell you about at the close of 31 00:02:00.280 --> 00:02:04.280 the show after the interview, and it was absolutely amazing. 32 00:02:04.319 --> 00:02:07.599 She was one hundred percent accurate and very very nice 33 00:02:07.599 --> 00:02:11.479 to deal with and I highly endorse her. So I 34 00:02:11.479 --> 00:02:14.599 think you're really going to enjoy our show today. Karen 35 00:02:14.639 --> 00:02:19.639 Dockery coming from Scotland right here to Guys Guys Radio 36 00:02:19.719 --> 00:02:22.719 to talk about being a psychic, working with the medium 37 00:02:23.120 --> 00:02:25.840 and the mentorship that they can provide if you want 38 00:02:25.840 --> 00:02:27.840 to choose that path for yourself. 39 00:02:28.400 --> 00:02:30.000 It's Guys Guy Radio. 40 00:02:31.639 --> 00:02:35.039 Okay, it's Guys Guys Radio. It is the interview portion 41 00:02:35.120 --> 00:02:39.360 of our show. So what happens when intuition, spirit, communication 42 00:02:39.439 --> 00:02:43.439 and healing intersect. Well, this week's on Guy's Guys Radio, 43 00:02:43.639 --> 00:02:46.919 I'm going to welcome psychic medium Karen Dockery for a 44 00:02:46.919 --> 00:02:51.400 fascinating conversation about connecting with the other side, developing intuition, 45 00:02:52.000 --> 00:02:55.759 getting signs from loved ones who may have passed spiritual awakenings, 46 00:02:55.759 --> 00:02:59.719 and how mediumship can help people heal, grow and live 47 00:02:59.759 --> 00:03:03.159 more consciously. So this is going to be a great episode. 48 00:03:03.159 --> 00:03:06.520 My special guest again, Karen Dockerty. She's an intuitive healer 49 00:03:07.159 --> 00:03:09.840 and a spiritual guide who has helped many people connect 50 00:03:09.879 --> 00:03:13.039 with loved ones in spirit, helped them develop their own 51 00:03:13.080 --> 00:03:17.599 intuitive abilities and better understand the unseen energies that shape 52 00:03:17.639 --> 00:03:21.240 our lives. So welcome the Guys Guys Radio from Scotland. 53 00:03:21.680 --> 00:03:26.199 Karen Dockerty, thank you, it's a pleasure to be here today. 54 00:03:26.879 --> 00:03:29.759 Okay, let's start right at the beginning. For you know, 55 00:03:29.800 --> 00:03:32.719 for most people that I've interviewed who have had the 56 00:03:32.919 --> 00:03:35.840 similar gifts as you have, they had there was a 57 00:03:35.840 --> 00:03:38.520 pattern in terms of when they picked up their gift 58 00:03:38.599 --> 00:03:41.400 and then when they start to actually use it. So 59 00:03:41.560 --> 00:03:44.879 when did you first realize you had intuitive or psychic abilities. 60 00:03:44.960 --> 00:03:49.919 Karen Oh, I think it was probably around the teenage 61 00:03:49.960 --> 00:03:53.439 years for me, even though I had failed spirit around 62 00:03:53.439 --> 00:03:55.479 me from a young age and I was away of 63 00:03:55.599 --> 00:03:58.159 other people from another police I used to call the 64 00:03:58.199 --> 00:04:00.560 other police, and so I was so where there was 65 00:04:00.599 --> 00:04:03.199 something going on. But I didn't actually realize I was 66 00:04:03.240 --> 00:04:06.879 a medium until late into my teens, maybe even early twenties. 67 00:04:07.280 --> 00:04:09.960 And I think that that's because it felt so natural 68 00:04:10.039 --> 00:04:13.080 and normal for me that I didn't really question that, 69 00:04:14.039 --> 00:04:16.360 and maybe when I noticed, oh, this is a little 70 00:04:16.399 --> 00:04:19.000 bit different. You know, my friends aren't doing this, or 71 00:04:19.360 --> 00:04:21.959 other people are maybe pointing out to me that this 72 00:04:22.079 --> 00:04:24.279 is a bit strange or whatever. So that's when I 73 00:04:24.319 --> 00:04:28.279 started to really look at it and kind of discover 74 00:04:28.360 --> 00:04:29.000 where it was. 75 00:04:29.759 --> 00:04:31.920 So what were some of the first things that happened 76 00:04:31.920 --> 00:04:34.199 to you and you said, oh, this is different, and 77 00:04:34.319 --> 00:04:36.800 why am I getting this information? Or what did you 78 00:04:36.879 --> 00:04:37.720 say if anything. 79 00:04:39.360 --> 00:04:41.800 So when I was really young, like maybe the age 80 00:04:41.839 --> 00:04:44.319 of three or four, I remember being on a bus 81 00:04:44.360 --> 00:04:47.040 with my mum one day and we were traveling along 82 00:04:47.160 --> 00:04:50.240 past a graveyard and I remember looking out of the 83 00:04:50.279 --> 00:04:53.160 window and thinking, oh, wow, there's lots of people there. 84 00:04:53.240 --> 00:04:55.480 Why are they all there? And I asked my mother 85 00:04:55.560 --> 00:04:57.319 at the time and said, why are all of these 86 00:04:57.360 --> 00:04:59.839 people walking? And she just kind of looked at me 87 00:04:59.879 --> 00:05:02.759 as if you know, there's nobody there, And it's my imagination. 88 00:05:03.240 --> 00:05:06.680 But I do remember thinking right at that point, I 89 00:05:06.759 --> 00:05:09.360 wonder if I'm buried in there, And it was a 90 00:05:09.399 --> 00:05:12.199 thought that came in and for a four year old, 91 00:05:12.240 --> 00:05:15.240 that's not like a natural thought. And I never ever 92 00:05:15.319 --> 00:05:18.199 forgot that. And even when I went through school, maybe 93 00:05:18.199 --> 00:05:21.480 the age of seven eight nine, I used to just 94 00:05:21.879 --> 00:05:25.079 feel things differently. We would always say the Lord's Prayer, 95 00:05:25.120 --> 00:05:28.319 for instance, it was a Christian school, and I would 96 00:05:28.360 --> 00:05:30.079 say the Lord's Prayer and then we would be getting 97 00:05:30.120 --> 00:05:32.800 asked about God and what does God look like and 98 00:05:32.839 --> 00:05:35.000 all of the rest of it, and my answers were 99 00:05:35.040 --> 00:05:39.120 completely different than other people's. So then taking that forward 100 00:05:39.120 --> 00:05:41.439 to teenage yeers and I was picking up things for friends, 101 00:05:41.519 --> 00:05:43.519 you know, I would say, oh, I've got your grandmother. 102 00:05:43.600 --> 00:05:46.079 She's standing beside you and she's telling me this and 103 00:05:46.120 --> 00:05:49.439 telling me that. And then at that age, of course, 104 00:05:49.600 --> 00:05:52.959 my friends were saying that's strange, like what you know, 105 00:05:53.000 --> 00:05:55.160 where are you getting that from? And That's when it 106 00:05:55.240 --> 00:05:57.920 really started to kind of make me feel like, this 107 00:05:58.079 --> 00:06:00.600 is something else that I need to look at. Because 108 00:06:00.639 --> 00:06:04.480 my grandmother, my father's mother, she used to say, oh, 109 00:06:04.560 --> 00:06:07.240 can't bring spirit with her. She could see it and 110 00:06:07.279 --> 00:06:09.600 I would tell her, oh, there's a man in the kitchen, 111 00:06:10.759 --> 00:06:13.000 and she would say, Oh, the dead don't harm you. 112 00:06:13.279 --> 00:06:15.480 So she had made it completely normal for me, so 113 00:06:15.600 --> 00:06:18.399 much so that I don't think I questioned it until 114 00:06:18.480 --> 00:06:20.040 other people started questioning it. 115 00:06:20.519 --> 00:06:22.680 So this was something that ran in the family. Then 116 00:06:22.759 --> 00:06:25.800 your grandmother and it was there's somebody before her who 117 00:06:26.040 --> 00:06:27.079 also had this gift. 118 00:06:28.040 --> 00:06:30.759 So I know my grandmother was mediumistic, although she didn't 119 00:06:30.879 --> 00:06:33.319 use it. Although she was she was kind of locally 120 00:06:33.399 --> 00:06:35.079 known as a bit of a healer, but she didn't 121 00:06:35.120 --> 00:06:38.199 really say she was a medium. But her sister was 122 00:06:38.759 --> 00:06:42.240 a medium. She did altered state mediumship and she worked 123 00:06:42.959 --> 00:06:46.120 as a medium. So it definitely is in that side 124 00:06:46.120 --> 00:06:46.720 of the family. 125 00:06:47.600 --> 00:06:52.480 Okay, did you have you been had visitations on your own? 126 00:06:53.079 --> 00:06:55.279 It seems like the core of what you do, a 127 00:06:55.360 --> 00:06:58.399 lot of it is about connecting people with others who 128 00:06:58.399 --> 00:07:02.759 have crossed over. Do you have you been given a 129 00:07:02.800 --> 00:07:06.120 message from spirit if you will that you have this gift, 130 00:07:06.120 --> 00:07:07.759 and here's how to use it or any or did 131 00:07:07.800 --> 00:07:09.560 you just got to sort that out for yourself. 132 00:07:11.639 --> 00:07:13.160 I just kind of had to sort that out for 133 00:07:13.240 --> 00:07:16.759 myself initially, and I remembered feeling, you know, I was 134 00:07:16.759 --> 00:07:19.639 speaking to a medium at from our local spiritualist church. 135 00:07:19.680 --> 00:07:21.959 I used to visit the churches quite often because I 136 00:07:22.040 --> 00:07:25.439 was very drawn to mediumship all through my younger life. 137 00:07:25.480 --> 00:07:28.079 I read mediumship books, I watched mediums if I got 138 00:07:28.120 --> 00:07:30.279 a chance to, and I would go to these churches. 139 00:07:30.720 --> 00:07:33.639 And I was speaking to one of the mediums afterwards, 140 00:07:33.680 --> 00:07:35.079 and I said to her, you know, I got all 141 00:07:35.160 --> 00:07:38.680 of these like noises and voices at nighttime, like a 142 00:07:38.800 --> 00:07:43.360 hundred different voices, almost like a radio station being tuned in, 143 00:07:43.439 --> 00:07:45.519 and you could just hear lots of different people all 144 00:07:45.560 --> 00:07:48.240 at once. And she said to me, well, that's because 145 00:07:48.240 --> 00:07:50.839 you have to develop this. And I said, well, develop 146 00:07:51.360 --> 00:07:53.439 what do you mean And she said, well, you're a medium. 147 00:07:53.800 --> 00:07:55.839 And when she pointed it out to me, I was like, 148 00:07:55.959 --> 00:07:58.720 no way in my medium because for me, straight away 149 00:07:59.240 --> 00:08:01.319 I could see what me done and it was a 150 00:08:01.360 --> 00:08:04.920 massive responsibility and I thought it was the most amazing gift. 151 00:08:05.399 --> 00:08:07.519 So for me, I was like, oh, no, no, no, no, 152 00:08:07.560 --> 00:08:10.720 that's not for me. But then she invited me along 153 00:08:10.759 --> 00:08:13.759 to a development group and I went, and the minute 154 00:08:13.800 --> 00:08:16.759 I sat down, it just all fell into place. It 155 00:08:16.800 --> 00:08:19.319 felt like I was home, and it just made me 156 00:08:19.360 --> 00:08:22.759 feel like I made sense of myself at that point. 157 00:08:23.079 --> 00:08:25.439 So from then on it was just about developing that 158 00:08:25.519 --> 00:08:29.560 and developing a relationship with my spirit guides and spirit team, 159 00:08:29.879 --> 00:08:31.279 and then just figuring it out. 160 00:08:31.360 --> 00:08:37.320 Really, so, when you had a lot of experience dealing 161 00:08:37.360 --> 00:08:41.120 with people who have passed over, I always wonder why 162 00:08:41.159 --> 00:08:45.000 are they available? Why do they want to? Are they 163 00:08:45.039 --> 00:08:48.159 tying up blues ends sometimes that they make themselves available 164 00:08:48.200 --> 00:08:51.639 to people who are still a quote unquote alive so 165 00:08:51.720 --> 00:08:54.759 they can get through to them to sew things up. 166 00:08:54.919 --> 00:08:57.679 Or are they just there to be guides for us 167 00:08:57.720 --> 00:09:01.200 and sometimes take the role of guarding angels or whatever. 168 00:09:02.159 --> 00:09:04.320 Why are the people who crossed over why they kind 169 00:09:04.320 --> 00:09:06.399 of come back and make themselves available. 170 00:09:07.399 --> 00:09:11.080 Yeah, it's an interesting question, and I feel like like 171 00:09:11.159 --> 00:09:13.480 all the answers you gave are correct. So on one hand, 172 00:09:13.559 --> 00:09:17.639 sometimes if someone's passed quickly, for instance, or traumatically, maybe 173 00:09:17.639 --> 00:09:20.720 didn't get their goodbyes with their family, or maybe felt 174 00:09:20.720 --> 00:09:23.320 like they had more to say, then yes, absolutely in 175 00:09:23.360 --> 00:09:26.399 that instance, you know, you'll find that they want to 176 00:09:26.440 --> 00:09:29.399 make that communication happen just so that they can put 177 00:09:29.440 --> 00:09:32.919 the person here at peace, really because they know where 178 00:09:32.960 --> 00:09:35.120 they are by that time. So the minute we cross over, 179 00:09:35.200 --> 00:09:37.039 we know that we are back home because that's where 180 00:09:37.039 --> 00:09:39.679 we come from. We are all spirit in human form. 181 00:09:40.240 --> 00:09:42.759 So we go home and we know that we're home, 182 00:09:42.799 --> 00:09:45.639 but there might still be that need to let our 183 00:09:45.679 --> 00:09:49.639 family know, our person know I'm all right, and you 184 00:09:49.639 --> 00:09:51.080 know even though I didn't get to see you at 185 00:09:51.080 --> 00:09:53.320 that last moment, or maybe there had been like a 186 00:09:53.399 --> 00:09:57.279 conflict or a fallout and it's just unsettled waters and 187 00:09:57.320 --> 00:09:59.759 they want to come back and try and somehow heal 188 00:09:59.840 --> 00:10:02.960 that wound. So that can happen quite often. And then 189 00:10:02.960 --> 00:10:05.879 if it's not about that, it usually is just literally 190 00:10:05.919 --> 00:10:09.600 about telling people I'm still here, I live on you 191 00:10:09.639 --> 00:10:12.600 will see me again, because in the spirit world there 192 00:10:12.639 --> 00:10:15.679 is no time. There's no time over there, So there's 193 00:10:15.679 --> 00:10:17.879 only time in our world because the sun comes up, 194 00:10:17.919 --> 00:10:20.840 it goes down, it's twenty four hours. That's human. That's 195 00:10:20.879 --> 00:10:23.519 a human construct. So when we go to the spirit world, 196 00:10:23.559 --> 00:10:25.879 there is no time. So of course the people in 197 00:10:25.919 --> 00:10:28.960 the spirit world don't grieve the same as us because 198 00:10:29.000 --> 00:10:30.679 they know that we're going to see each other again 199 00:10:30.799 --> 00:10:34.080 very very soon in their eyes because of the time thing. 200 00:10:35.039 --> 00:10:37.080 And then the other part that you mentioned about guides 201 00:10:37.080 --> 00:10:39.960 and guardians, well, they never become our guides. We have 202 00:10:40.039 --> 00:10:41.960 guides that are kind of assigned to us, you know, 203 00:10:42.000 --> 00:10:44.679 when we come here. But they do become our guardians. 204 00:10:44.720 --> 00:10:47.200 They will want to watch over us, and they will 205 00:10:47.279 --> 00:10:50.679 want to influence things if they can influence maybe what 206 00:10:50.720 --> 00:10:53.200 we think sometimes in the sense of if we're looking 207 00:10:53.240 --> 00:10:55.360 for answers, they might want to help with that. But 208 00:10:55.639 --> 00:10:58.120 they can't intervene in our life. You know. Our life 209 00:10:58.200 --> 00:11:00.279 is our free will, and. 210 00:11:00.159 --> 00:11:02.000 They intervene if you ask them for help. 211 00:11:03.080 --> 00:11:06.120 They don't intervene. They don't take decisions for us. They 212 00:11:06.159 --> 00:11:11.360 won't make decisions for us. They're there to perhaps guide us, okay, 213 00:11:11.399 --> 00:11:13.919 but they will guide in a very soft and subtle way. 214 00:11:14.320 --> 00:11:18.360 Got it, Okay, So what's from your experience, what do 215 00:11:18.399 --> 00:11:21.559 you think, Karen is going on on the other side 216 00:11:21.759 --> 00:11:25.240 when people pass kind of a multiple question here, which 217 00:11:25.240 --> 00:11:28.200 I sometimes do. What happens when they cross over and 218 00:11:28.240 --> 00:11:31.360 what's going on over there? And if there's no time, 219 00:11:32.840 --> 00:11:37.519 could they already be on to their next incarnation while 220 00:11:37.600 --> 00:11:39.679 they are dealing with us. 221 00:11:41.480 --> 00:11:46.000 So reincarnation is a big subject as well. So the 222 00:11:46.039 --> 00:11:48.840 easiest way I can say is, if you have let's say, 223 00:11:48.840 --> 00:11:51.600 a mom that goes to the spirit side, even if 224 00:11:51.639 --> 00:11:54.240 you're not in the spirit side for another sixty years 225 00:11:54.279 --> 00:11:56.840 after that mother, she's still going to be there. You're 226 00:11:56.879 --> 00:12:00.519 still going to make that connection. Because what happened is 227 00:12:00.639 --> 00:12:05.159 when we incarnate, we come and have this experiences us. 228 00:12:05.200 --> 00:12:07.960 So right now I'm Karen, this is my incarnation, this 229 00:12:08.000 --> 00:12:09.639 is what I'll do, and then when I go back 230 00:12:09.679 --> 00:12:12.600 home to the spirit world, I will return to Source, 231 00:12:13.080 --> 00:12:16.879 which is my spirit. Right, So the incarnation of Karen 232 00:12:16.960 --> 00:12:20.240 is the soul, but the spirit of Karen is in 233 00:12:20.279 --> 00:12:22.679 the spirit world, which is my higher self. So I 234 00:12:22.679 --> 00:12:26.000 will go back home, I will be reconnected to Source. 235 00:12:26.639 --> 00:12:31.080 Then another incarnation can happen from the same spirit. So 236 00:12:31.159 --> 00:12:35.039 another part of my spirit can incarnate, but it wouldn't 237 00:12:35.039 --> 00:12:37.799 be Karen because Karen has already had her life here, 238 00:12:38.039 --> 00:12:40.320 so Karen would always be there. Does that make sense? 239 00:12:40.519 --> 00:12:43.960 Yeah? So are you then as Karen? Are you what's 240 00:12:44.000 --> 00:12:46.840 your connection to the other versions of your spirit that 241 00:12:46.919 --> 00:12:50.320 have been incarnated, either in the past or in the future. 242 00:12:50.679 --> 00:12:51.960 How are they all you? 243 00:12:53.320 --> 00:12:56.000 Yeah, they're all part of the whole of the spirit. 244 00:12:56.399 --> 00:12:58.679 So if you can think about it like if you 245 00:12:58.720 --> 00:13:01.000 look at it like maybe the facts of a diamond. 246 00:13:01.360 --> 00:13:03.799 So the diamond is there, and the facets of the 247 00:13:03.840 --> 00:13:07.679 diamond emanate different parts, right, so that would be the 248 00:13:07.759 --> 00:13:11.159 soul's incarnations. But you're all part of the same diamond. 249 00:13:11.519 --> 00:13:13.960 So that's why I think people talk about past lives 250 00:13:14.000 --> 00:13:16.879 and the feel things from a past life. Well, it's 251 00:13:16.960 --> 00:13:20.000 not actually them that's walk that life. It's maybe part 252 00:13:20.039 --> 00:13:23.279 of their spirit that's walk that life, but not then 253 00:13:23.399 --> 00:13:25.000 because they've incarnated as them. 254 00:13:25.759 --> 00:13:29.000 So are on the other side than in the spirit world? 255 00:13:29.720 --> 00:13:32.320 Is there a group of some people say that there's 256 00:13:32.399 --> 00:13:35.039 like you have like a soul family, or they follow you, 257 00:13:35.080 --> 00:13:38.960 they kind of with you incarnation to incarnation, and then 258 00:13:39.440 --> 00:13:42.279 that's part of a bigger oversoul of everything. I guess. 259 00:13:42.360 --> 00:13:44.000 So's it's this all layered. 260 00:13:45.360 --> 00:13:47.480 Yeah, that's the best way you can describe it. I 261 00:13:47.519 --> 00:13:49.919 really do feel that. I feel there's many different layers 262 00:13:49.919 --> 00:13:54.120 and levels and different incarnations at different times, and you know, 263 00:13:54.639 --> 00:13:56.720 I can't I'm not an expert on this, but I 264 00:13:56.759 --> 00:13:59.519 can only say what I've learned through my mediumship and 265 00:13:59.519 --> 00:14:04.000 my develop and how it feels because there's an intelligence 266 00:14:04.039 --> 00:14:07.279 to spirit, and I think sometimes in this world things 267 00:14:07.320 --> 00:14:10.159 get turned into entertainment and they get turned into big, 268 00:14:10.320 --> 00:14:13.879 you know, huge stories of fantasy and things like that, 269 00:14:13.919 --> 00:14:15.960 and I just like keeping it quite grounded, as if 270 00:14:16.000 --> 00:14:18.559 you know, we are spirit, we are all here. But 271 00:14:18.639 --> 00:14:21.759 the biggest thing about reincarnation or past lights, I think 272 00:14:21.759 --> 00:14:23.759 that we get quite obsessed with it or there is 273 00:14:23.799 --> 00:14:26.279 a lot of obsession about it, and I think, you know, 274 00:14:26.399 --> 00:14:29.039 what we're here to do in this moment is be 275 00:14:29.240 --> 00:14:33.600 us like, really, we're not shouldn't be concerned about past 276 00:14:33.679 --> 00:14:36.279 because if we were supposed to remember it, we would. 277 00:14:36.639 --> 00:14:39.879 So it's about being present within this journey because it's 278 00:14:39.960 --> 00:14:40.720 very temporary. 279 00:14:41.480 --> 00:14:45.120 Now when we're on the other side, maybe between lives 280 00:14:45.159 --> 00:14:48.159 and with spirit, do we then Some people say that 281 00:14:48.200 --> 00:14:51.080 we make agreements and we choose kind of our what's 282 00:14:51.080 --> 00:14:53.679 going to happen in our next incarnation based on lessons 283 00:14:53.720 --> 00:14:55.720 we may want to learn, need to learn. And there 284 00:14:55.759 --> 00:14:59.240 might be some people who play different roles and maybe 285 00:14:59.279 --> 00:15:02.279 even we choose our parents and other people who have 286 00:15:02.679 --> 00:15:05.240 influence in our lives. Is that How would you kind 287 00:15:05.240 --> 00:15:06.080 of unpack that? 288 00:15:07.960 --> 00:15:09.919 Yeah, I do think there's something in that. I do 289 00:15:09.960 --> 00:15:13.879 feel that we do choose our parents or do incarnate 290 00:15:13.919 --> 00:15:18.039 with with certain not agreements, but maybe pre determined you know, 291 00:15:18.159 --> 00:15:21.720 parts of the life. But I don't necessarily feel that 292 00:15:21.879 --> 00:15:25.399 it's all mapped out and we are meant to follow 293 00:15:25.440 --> 00:15:28.000 the map. I think that really we come here to 294 00:15:28.159 --> 00:15:31.720 navigate through life with our intuition, which is like an 295 00:15:31.720 --> 00:15:34.519 inner sat nav I call it, which is your higher self, 296 00:15:34.879 --> 00:15:37.840 that part that's connected to spirit, and then we just 297 00:15:37.879 --> 00:15:40.840 do our best. And then yes, we make mistakes. Yes 298 00:15:40.879 --> 00:15:42.840 we might go on the wrong path or come back 299 00:15:42.879 --> 00:15:45.399 on to the right path and such like. And we 300 00:15:45.480 --> 00:15:47.679 might have people in our lives that we're not supposed 301 00:15:47.720 --> 00:15:50.039 to have in our lives, and stay in relationships we're 302 00:15:50.039 --> 00:15:53.039 not supposed to stay in sometimes, but there's always lessons 303 00:15:53.080 --> 00:15:55.879 that come out of that, which you know as a 304 00:15:55.879 --> 00:16:00.000 whole will develop the person and you'll learn things about yourself. 305 00:16:00.639 --> 00:16:02.559 So I feel like this journey is meant to be 306 00:16:02.639 --> 00:16:06.159 about us. It's meant to be about taking care of yourself. 307 00:16:06.200 --> 00:16:08.559 And kind of giving yourself the best chance in life. 308 00:16:08.559 --> 00:16:12.399 But yes, there are some predetermined factors people that are 309 00:16:12.440 --> 00:16:14.759 meant to be in your life, for instance, and maybe 310 00:16:14.759 --> 00:16:17.519 certain situations that might pop up that you just feel 311 00:16:17.519 --> 00:16:20.919 like that was meant to happen. But everything else aside 312 00:16:20.960 --> 00:16:22.480 of that is us as free will. 313 00:16:22.759 --> 00:16:28.000 Okay, Karen Doctory, amazing psychic medium from Scotland with us 314 00:16:28.000 --> 00:16:31.600 today on Guys Guys Radio. Some people also say, Karen 315 00:16:31.639 --> 00:16:36.159 that we have potential exit points throughout our lives where 316 00:16:36.480 --> 00:16:38.399 we could kind of go off the road, if you will, 317 00:16:38.399 --> 00:16:42.639 and into the next world, or maybe not do that. 318 00:16:42.840 --> 00:16:45.519 I personally feel that I've seen a couple of these 319 00:16:45.559 --> 00:16:47.559 where that could have been bye bye, but it didn't 320 00:16:47.600 --> 00:16:49.799 turn out that way, and I think there were reasons 321 00:16:49.840 --> 00:16:52.080 for that, and I think part of it was my 322 00:16:52.159 --> 00:16:57.559 own will and decisions. What's your take on the potential 323 00:16:57.600 --> 00:17:01.159 exit points that people have? Are they predetermined? And when 324 00:17:01.159 --> 00:17:03.799 you have a life kind of contracts and stuff like that, 325 00:17:03.840 --> 00:17:06.559 can you change your contract as you go along if 326 00:17:06.559 --> 00:17:09.160 you have free will? 327 00:17:09.240 --> 00:17:12.599 I personally don't ever really talk about contract I hear 328 00:17:12.680 --> 00:17:14.519 that a lot, and I'm not saying it's right or 329 00:17:14.519 --> 00:17:17.000 wrong because I really don't know. But what I would 330 00:17:17.079 --> 00:17:20.720 say is I do feel that we're just here to 331 00:17:20.759 --> 00:17:22.599 be here as long as we can be here, which 332 00:17:22.640 --> 00:17:26.079 means if there's like an accident and someone passes, for instance, 333 00:17:26.319 --> 00:17:28.720 I don't believe that's meant to happen. Right. You'll get 334 00:17:28.720 --> 00:17:30.319 people that say it is meant to happen it was 335 00:17:30.359 --> 00:17:34.119 their time. I believe that accidents happen because we human beings, 336 00:17:34.160 --> 00:17:38.200 and things happen. I believe that the human side of us, 337 00:17:38.240 --> 00:17:40.920 you know, some of us maybe live in a certain way, 338 00:17:41.000 --> 00:17:44.279 do things to maybe that can be harmful to our 339 00:17:44.319 --> 00:17:48.200 bodies that might create that time of us going earlier, 340 00:17:48.359 --> 00:17:50.559 you know. So I think that we do a lot 341 00:17:50.559 --> 00:17:54.920 of it is free will. And yet I know that 342 00:17:54.920 --> 00:17:58.759 there's examples of times, and I've been in one myself 343 00:17:59.200 --> 00:18:02.880 where it seems like someone should pass and they don't. 344 00:18:03.480 --> 00:18:07.920 So so I'm really on the fence about it, Robert, 345 00:18:07.920 --> 00:18:10.319 But I feel, you know, most of the time, I 346 00:18:10.359 --> 00:18:12.880 think we're supposed to just be here as long as 347 00:18:12.920 --> 00:18:14.720 we can be here. And when it happened to me, 348 00:18:14.759 --> 00:18:18.480 I was in a terrible car crash and it was 349 00:18:18.720 --> 00:18:22.079 so that my car was like you couldn't recognize the car, 350 00:18:22.519 --> 00:18:25.599 and I just I managed to get out of that 351 00:18:25.880 --> 00:18:28.599 with one tiny scratch on me. And I felt when 352 00:18:28.640 --> 00:18:31.599 that was happening that I was in this bubble where 353 00:18:31.720 --> 00:18:33.720 I was being guided and told it was going to 354 00:18:33.759 --> 00:18:35.920 be okay. And I don't feel that was because I'm 355 00:18:35.920 --> 00:18:39.000 a medium. I feel that that was just you know, 356 00:18:39.160 --> 00:18:41.000 you can call it angels, you can call it guide, 357 00:18:41.000 --> 00:18:43.359 you can call it higher beings, but I just feel 358 00:18:43.400 --> 00:18:47.079 that I was being protected. And so in that kind 359 00:18:47.119 --> 00:18:49.960 of example, then I would say, Okay, well that was 360 00:18:50.200 --> 00:18:52.119 you know that I was lucky to still be alive. 361 00:18:52.200 --> 00:18:54.759 So yeah, there's a bit of protection in there at times. 362 00:18:55.119 --> 00:18:58.039 But if you think about how many accidents happen every 363 00:18:58.039 --> 00:19:01.799 single day all over the world or traumatic things, you know, 364 00:19:02.039 --> 00:19:04.039 that wouldn't stand to reason that they could just jump 365 00:19:04.039 --> 00:19:05.400 in and save everyone. You know. 366 00:19:06.480 --> 00:19:10.759 Now, when you're communicating with the spirit in general, do 367 00:19:10.880 --> 00:19:14.799 you have a group of collective that works with you, 368 00:19:15.000 --> 00:19:17.160 or do you have specific guides that work with you, 369 00:19:17.279 --> 00:19:20.400 or is it just strictly spirit in total. 370 00:19:21.599 --> 00:19:23.720 So I always call them my spirit team, and I 371 00:19:23.759 --> 00:19:26.480 believe that there are different guides in helpers that come 372 00:19:26.519 --> 00:19:29.400 in and out at different times. So when I am, 373 00:19:29.519 --> 00:19:32.599 for instance, sitting for the altered states in my mediumship, 374 00:19:32.599 --> 00:19:35.599 which is a different kind of mediumship. It's trans mediumship, 375 00:19:35.839 --> 00:19:38.599 so you're going into a deeper kind of altered state 376 00:19:39.319 --> 00:19:43.519 that spirit can come closer to the medium. I know 377 00:19:43.599 --> 00:19:45.319 I have a certain guide that helps me with that. 378 00:19:45.359 --> 00:19:47.119 I know I have another guide that will help me 379 00:19:47.279 --> 00:19:50.799 when I'm on platform or stage doing you know, events 380 00:19:50.839 --> 00:19:54.640 and demonstrating. So yeah, I think that we get different 381 00:19:54.680 --> 00:19:57.160 guides at different parts, and that's what it feels like 382 00:19:57.200 --> 00:20:01.000 for me, and I often kind of say it's similar 383 00:20:01.039 --> 00:20:02.720 to being at school. You know, in the year one 384 00:20:02.759 --> 00:20:04.440 you're going to get a year one teacher, but in 385 00:20:04.519 --> 00:20:06.440 year five you're going to get a year five teacher. 386 00:20:06.759 --> 00:20:09.000 And I just feel like the all come in dependent 387 00:20:09.079 --> 00:20:11.319 on what you need for your development at that time. 388 00:20:12.119 --> 00:20:15.400 Now, you've had more experience with working with your guys 389 00:20:15.440 --> 00:20:17.200 on the other side than a lot of people, because 390 00:20:17.440 --> 00:20:21.599 even though they should have the ability, it's just not developed. 391 00:20:21.920 --> 00:20:24.400 What would be your recommendation to people who really want 392 00:20:24.440 --> 00:20:27.960 to work with their helpers or guys on the other side. 393 00:20:29.680 --> 00:20:32.039 Well, I think the first thing is building a relationship 394 00:20:32.079 --> 00:20:35.559 with them, and that seems like impossible sometimes you think, 395 00:20:35.599 --> 00:20:38.319 how do I begin to do that? You know, So 396 00:20:38.359 --> 00:20:42.480 the best advice I could give is to do meditation. Now, 397 00:20:42.640 --> 00:20:47.119 when I talk about meditation, people automatically sometimes think, oh, 398 00:20:47.160 --> 00:20:50.200 I can't meditate, my mind's too busy, or you know, 399 00:20:50.240 --> 00:20:52.599 I can't shut my mind off. But you don't have 400 00:20:52.680 --> 00:20:55.559 to when you meditate. When you meditate, thoughts will still 401 00:20:55.599 --> 00:20:58.799 come in. Your brain is still active. So you just 402 00:20:58.839 --> 00:21:01.599 have to then learn how to observe those thoughts instead 403 00:21:01.640 --> 00:21:04.640 of being you know, into them or invested in them, 404 00:21:04.920 --> 00:21:06.920 just observe them and let them kind of flow through 405 00:21:06.960 --> 00:21:10.160 your mind and just find that quiet place to go to. 406 00:21:10.279 --> 00:21:13.839 The minute you can start to learn to center yourself 407 00:21:13.880 --> 00:21:17.079 and go into a quiet place, you can ask your 408 00:21:17.079 --> 00:21:19.279 guides and helpers to meet you there. You can ask 409 00:21:19.319 --> 00:21:21.880 them to help let you know that they're there. And 410 00:21:21.920 --> 00:21:25.319 I just think if you practice that like once a 411 00:21:25.319 --> 00:21:27.519 week or once a month or whatever it might be, 412 00:21:27.640 --> 00:21:30.400 that you can fit into your life. The more you 413 00:21:30.480 --> 00:21:33.000 practice that, the more that that will develop and you'll 414 00:21:33.039 --> 00:21:35.319 get your signs. And it's not like guides are just 415 00:21:35.359 --> 00:21:37.359 going to step forward and give you their full name 416 00:21:37.400 --> 00:21:39.880 and their history and who they are. It's going to 417 00:21:39.880 --> 00:21:43.400 come in little subtle ways and little hints, and you know, 418 00:21:43.480 --> 00:21:48.039 that's how communication works. But I do think partly is 419 00:21:48.400 --> 00:21:50.599 when we're talking about guides, it's because they want you 420 00:21:50.640 --> 00:21:52.279 to trust. You know, they want you to have the 421 00:21:52.279 --> 00:21:54.319 faith that they are there, and they will give you 422 00:21:54.359 --> 00:21:57.319 the information when they feel that you're ready to receive that. 423 00:21:58.640 --> 00:22:01.720 So, Karen, then what happens with people when they since 424 00:22:01.720 --> 00:22:03.720 you work with a lot of people who have crossed over? 425 00:22:04.359 --> 00:22:08.759 What from your experience, what happens when people die if 426 00:22:08.759 --> 00:22:10.880 you will quote unquote even though they never die, but 427 00:22:11.000 --> 00:22:13.960 when they pass from the physical realm as whoever they 428 00:22:14.000 --> 00:22:15.240 are in the three day? 429 00:22:16.960 --> 00:22:20.079 So making the transition, you have heard yourself, I'm quite 430 00:22:20.119 --> 00:22:24.400 sure from people that you know or stories that you've heard, 431 00:22:24.839 --> 00:22:27.039 that a lot of people talk about the spirit world 432 00:22:27.119 --> 00:22:29.759 before they even go, like they'll maybe on their last 433 00:22:29.880 --> 00:22:32.039 days if they've let's say they've been you know, in 434 00:22:32.119 --> 00:22:35.400 hospice or something like that, they will talk about seeing 435 00:22:35.440 --> 00:22:39.160 someone that's already crossed over, like they're really seeing them. 436 00:22:39.279 --> 00:22:42.599 And a lot of times it's blamed on medication or disorientation. 437 00:22:43.000 --> 00:22:45.759 Actually that is what's happening. So as we make our 438 00:22:45.839 --> 00:22:50.039 transition to the spirit side. We are looking towards the 439 00:22:50.039 --> 00:22:53.240 spirit side. We are not really looking back here. So 440 00:22:53.440 --> 00:22:56.160 again that helps people to know that when maybe they've 441 00:22:56.200 --> 00:22:58.440 missed a passing, like they didn't get there on time, 442 00:22:58.559 --> 00:23:01.440 or someone passed before they got and I always say, well, 443 00:23:01.480 --> 00:23:04.839 there weren't really paying attention to this world by that time. 444 00:23:04.880 --> 00:23:08.160 They were already transitioning. So we are met by our 445 00:23:08.240 --> 00:23:10.240 loved ones. We are met by the ones that we 446 00:23:10.279 --> 00:23:13.279 know and recognize and love, and we know instantly that 447 00:23:13.319 --> 00:23:15.720 we are in the spirit world because we come from there. 448 00:23:15.759 --> 00:23:20.759 It feels like home. So it's always a peaceful transition, 449 00:23:21.000 --> 00:23:24.079 even in I would say in a traumatic circumstance or 450 00:23:24.119 --> 00:23:28.200 an unexpected or sudden death here in this world, that 451 00:23:28.240 --> 00:23:31.960 can take time emotionally for the spirit to come to 452 00:23:32.119 --> 00:23:34.880 terms with. It's not that they are stuck, it's not 453 00:23:34.960 --> 00:23:37.480 that they're in a limbo or that they're grounded here. 454 00:23:37.720 --> 00:23:39.920 It's just that they will know they're in the spirit world, 455 00:23:39.920 --> 00:23:42.960 but they still might feel that shock or feel like 456 00:23:44.279 --> 00:23:48.079 that grief that they didn't get to really say goodbye, 457 00:23:48.200 --> 00:23:51.240 or you know, they will have to process the emotion 458 00:23:51.359 --> 00:23:51.720 of that. 459 00:23:52.519 --> 00:23:57.279 Okay, now, so there's no then do they go through 460 00:23:57.279 --> 00:23:59.319 a live reaview. A lot of people talk about you 461 00:23:59.359 --> 00:24:01.039 go to the other and then you go through a 462 00:24:01.119 --> 00:24:04.160 life review and then you make a determination as to 463 00:24:04.240 --> 00:24:08.400 kind of what's next, and does that actually occur from 464 00:24:08.440 --> 00:24:10.160 your experience what you've heard. 465 00:24:11.599 --> 00:24:15.119 Yeah, definitely, life reviews happen, and it's more about looking 466 00:24:15.160 --> 00:24:17.559 at your life and seeing how you were in this 467 00:24:17.640 --> 00:24:20.319 life and what your impact was in this life. So 468 00:24:20.359 --> 00:24:23.359 maybe your impact on other people or situations or the 469 00:24:23.440 --> 00:24:26.519 lessons that you've learned. But it's not a review like 470 00:24:26.599 --> 00:24:29.359 someone's going to stand in judgment of it. The only 471 00:24:29.400 --> 00:24:32.160 person that can judge that life's review is you. So 472 00:24:32.240 --> 00:24:34.240 if I go over and I look at my life, 473 00:24:34.599 --> 00:24:37.240 I can then look at my life and say, well, 474 00:24:37.319 --> 00:24:39.319 how do I feel about that? You know, what should 475 00:24:39.319 --> 00:24:41.119 I have done or what could I have done different? 476 00:24:41.480 --> 00:24:45.160 It's more about me learning from it rather than the 477 00:24:45.599 --> 00:24:49.079 old kind of ways that people say, well you'll go 478 00:24:49.160 --> 00:24:50.720 to heaven or you'll go to the other place, or 479 00:24:50.759 --> 00:24:52.839 you'll do this, or you'll do that. It doesn't really 480 00:24:52.920 --> 00:24:56.000 happen like that. It's more about us looking at our 481 00:24:56.039 --> 00:24:58.000 lives and coming to terms with what we did in 482 00:24:58.000 --> 00:25:00.680 this lifetime and could we have done something different and 483 00:25:00.720 --> 00:25:02.400 should we have learned other lessons. 484 00:25:03.680 --> 00:25:06.000 A lot of people are now talking these days about 485 00:25:06.000 --> 00:25:10.839 the Kashak records where everything is kind of recorded, that 486 00:25:11.039 --> 00:25:14.920 every thought, every action is that true? 487 00:25:16.400 --> 00:25:18.799 You know? I will say that I feel definitely there's 488 00:25:18.880 --> 00:25:22.039 something in that. I've not had again much experience of it, 489 00:25:22.519 --> 00:25:26.559 but one of my teachers, Mavis Patilla, who was, you know, 490 00:25:26.640 --> 00:25:29.880 an amazing medium, she used to talk about the Kashak 491 00:25:29.960 --> 00:25:33.519 records a lot, you know, being able to kind of 492 00:25:33.559 --> 00:25:36.279 go into those records. So I do think things are 493 00:25:36.319 --> 00:25:40.359 recorded in senses, but I don't know the dynamics of 494 00:25:40.400 --> 00:25:43.599 that or how those work. But I actually do feel 495 00:25:43.920 --> 00:25:47.519 like everything that we do is recorded in the energy anyway. 496 00:25:47.799 --> 00:25:50.480 So it's like if you go to let's say, like 497 00:25:50.519 --> 00:25:53.200 in Scotland, there's lots of castles, which is where thing, 498 00:25:53.359 --> 00:25:55.720 you know, the battles used to happen. If you go 499 00:25:55.759 --> 00:25:59.359 into a castle or any old building, you will feel 500 00:25:59.400 --> 00:26:02.599 the energy that you can it's residual energy. It's like 501 00:26:02.680 --> 00:26:05.839 it's recorded in the ether. So if you think about 502 00:26:05.880 --> 00:26:08.039 it like that, then it has to be the same 503 00:26:08.079 --> 00:26:11.279 with our thoughts and feelings and things. They're recorded somewhere 504 00:26:11.599 --> 00:26:13.559 so I do believe in them, yes, but I'm not 505 00:26:13.599 --> 00:26:14.640 an expert on them. 506 00:26:14.920 --> 00:26:18.680 Okay, So when somebody goes across and then they kind 507 00:26:18.680 --> 00:26:20.720 of have a live review and they're like, Okay, I 508 00:26:20.759 --> 00:26:22.720 got it, I know what I did wrong. Now do 509 00:26:22.799 --> 00:26:25.359 they have to go back into the three D and 510 00:26:25.440 --> 00:26:30.119 to another person if you will, to kind of make 511 00:26:30.200 --> 00:26:33.960 good on what they've learned and have other challenges that 512 00:26:34.079 --> 00:26:37.200 come in front of them that will help them demonstrate 513 00:26:37.240 --> 00:26:40.359 that they know how to handle situations and make better decisions. 514 00:26:42.039 --> 00:26:44.880 Not that I believe, No, I think again, that's like 515 00:26:44.960 --> 00:26:46.920 you hear people saying that you know, well you just 516 00:26:46.960 --> 00:26:48.240 have to come back and do it all over again, 517 00:26:48.319 --> 00:26:49.960 or you just have to do this, and that I 518 00:26:49.960 --> 00:26:52.640 don't believe that because if you think about the reincarnation 519 00:26:52.839 --> 00:26:55.519 aspect of things, where it's a different part of your 520 00:26:55.559 --> 00:26:59.079 spirit that's incarnating, it's not you. You've lived your life, you've 521 00:26:59.119 --> 00:27:02.039 done your life, You've had that chance. So then I 522 00:27:02.079 --> 00:27:04.319 think you just develop in the spirit world after that, 523 00:27:04.359 --> 00:27:05.839 you just kind of go through what you go through 524 00:27:05.880 --> 00:27:09.160 in spirit, So a different emanation of you can come in, 525 00:27:09.240 --> 00:27:11.000 but they wouldn't have to learn the lessons that you 526 00:27:11.039 --> 00:27:14.559 didn't learn, If that makes sense. I think that I 527 00:27:14.559 --> 00:27:16.759 don't think any of us know until we get there, really, 528 00:27:17.000 --> 00:27:19.480 But I think from what I know from spirit and 529 00:27:19.519 --> 00:27:22.799 some communicators that have you know, told me that they've 530 00:27:22.799 --> 00:27:25.799 had their life review or shared things with me, I 531 00:27:25.839 --> 00:27:29.079 do believe that actually happens. But I don't necessarily believe 532 00:27:29.079 --> 00:27:30.640 you have to deliver it all again to try and 533 00:27:30.680 --> 00:27:31.759 make amends at something. 534 00:27:32.680 --> 00:27:35.920 Now, why would kind of in the same vein the 535 00:27:35.960 --> 00:27:39.839 same topic, why would somebody between lives choose to come 536 00:27:39.880 --> 00:27:43.359 into this life and be a quadriplegic for instance, or 537 00:27:43.400 --> 00:27:46.279 somebody who really has, you know, a really tough road 538 00:27:46.519 --> 00:27:49.400 in this life. Is that on purpose that they've chosen that, 539 00:27:49.559 --> 00:27:52.279 or is it random or combination or what. 540 00:27:53.759 --> 00:27:56.599 I don't this one that I do have trouble with. 541 00:27:56.640 --> 00:28:00.480 I've got to be honest, because in my and soul 542 00:28:00.519 --> 00:28:02.400 and in my spirit, I don't believe that someone would 543 00:28:02.480 --> 00:28:06.440 choose that. I believe that biology can go wrong. I 544 00:28:06.480 --> 00:28:09.880 believe that things can happen where I don't necessarily believe 545 00:28:09.920 --> 00:28:12.119 that that's anything to do with spirit. I think that's more 546 00:28:12.119 --> 00:28:15.000 to do with the human form. So I don't feel 547 00:28:15.039 --> 00:28:17.720 like there's somebody in the spirit world kind of saying well, 548 00:28:17.920 --> 00:28:20.160 that's the you're going to be born into this, and 549 00:28:20.200 --> 00:28:22.920 that's what you're going to me. That doesn't make sense. 550 00:28:22.960 --> 00:28:23.119 Now. 551 00:28:23.160 --> 00:28:25.839 I know that a lot of other mediums might say 552 00:28:25.839 --> 00:28:28.240 the opposite, and they might say, you know, yes, it's 553 00:28:28.279 --> 00:28:31.359 about their challenges and that It just doesn't sit with me. 554 00:28:31.519 --> 00:28:34.559 I just think that it's terrible when someone has to 555 00:28:34.599 --> 00:28:37.279 be going through such a hard situation. It's like when 556 00:28:37.359 --> 00:28:39.440 you look at people's lives. For instance, now I do 557 00:28:39.640 --> 00:28:43.160 thousands of readings and some people that I some clients 558 00:28:43.480 --> 00:28:45.599 when I've read for them, they've just had the most 559 00:28:46.240 --> 00:28:50.640 traumatic life and there's just no rhyme or reason for it. 560 00:28:50.720 --> 00:28:52.960 And I don't I can't sit there and say, well, 561 00:28:52.960 --> 00:28:55.599 they must have chose that, because that just does not 562 00:28:55.640 --> 00:28:58.039 make any sense. When we're coming from a place of love, 563 00:28:58.400 --> 00:29:01.279 we're coming from source. So I don't believe that that 564 00:29:01.319 --> 00:29:04.160 would be inflicted on someone on purpose to see how 565 00:29:04.200 --> 00:29:06.359 they handled it. It just doesn't make sense for me. 566 00:29:06.519 --> 00:29:10.880 So I think these situations are just unfortunately life situations, 567 00:29:10.880 --> 00:29:13.039 things that can happen in the human world and the 568 00:29:13.079 --> 00:29:15.079 spit it has today and learn to cope with it. 569 00:29:16.359 --> 00:29:20.440 So my special guests on Guys Guys Radio psychic medium 570 00:29:20.720 --> 00:29:24.759 Karen Dockery from Scotland. Now, usually on the show, people 571 00:29:24.799 --> 00:29:28.359 are expecting sometimes they want you to either look into 572 00:29:28.400 --> 00:29:31.160 something or predict something. And I know we talked about 573 00:29:31.200 --> 00:29:33.000 this and we're going to do it separately. Karen's going 574 00:29:33.039 --> 00:29:35.960 to read me separately. But is there anything that you 575 00:29:36.000 --> 00:29:38.440 can share just from our in terms of I think 576 00:29:38.440 --> 00:29:40.799 it would be good to for people to understand how 577 00:29:41.079 --> 00:29:44.599 people like you work, so being that you're not totally 578 00:29:44.599 --> 00:29:47.240 in the zone to read me, and you will be, 579 00:29:47.359 --> 00:29:49.680 but not right now. But do you just pick up 580 00:29:49.720 --> 00:29:52.079 on vibes with people in your day to day life 581 00:29:52.079 --> 00:29:54.559 and like our conversation here, can you get anything out 582 00:29:54.599 --> 00:29:56.839 of that or do you have to completely turn on 583 00:29:57.000 --> 00:29:59.039 and you know, wax on wax off type of thing. 584 00:29:59.720 --> 00:30:02.680 Yeah, it depends. Sometimes when I'm speaking to someone suddenly 585 00:30:02.720 --> 00:30:04.599 I'll have a little feeling about something or I'll be 586 00:30:04.680 --> 00:30:06.519 like that's strange, you know, and I'll get a little 587 00:30:06.599 --> 00:30:09.319 nudge I would call it. Other times, Yeah, you just 588 00:30:09.400 --> 00:30:11.559 kind of have to be in the right frame of 589 00:30:11.599 --> 00:30:14.240 mind to do it. And I think again with mediumship, 590 00:30:14.279 --> 00:30:17.039 I think this is a or psychic work. I think 591 00:30:17.079 --> 00:30:20.799 that it's a myth that we're switched on all the time. 592 00:30:21.319 --> 00:30:23.480 You hear people say and you hear mediums saying, oh, 593 00:30:23.519 --> 00:30:26.279 I can do it anytime, and yes, maybe so you 594 00:30:26.279 --> 00:30:28.359 can switch your awareness on. But if you're what in 595 00:30:28.400 --> 00:30:32.119 a true connection, if you want to know a developed connection, 596 00:30:32.279 --> 00:30:33.880 then you have to be in the right frame of 597 00:30:33.920 --> 00:30:38.039 mind for that. Psychically, when you're reading for someone psychically, 598 00:30:38.400 --> 00:30:41.240 you are going into their energy. So if I was 599 00:30:41.240 --> 00:30:43.480 reading for you psychically, I'm going to go into your energy. 600 00:30:43.519 --> 00:30:45.480 It's nothing to do with the spirit world. There's nothing 601 00:30:45.480 --> 00:30:47.359 to do with spirit people in that kind of reading. 602 00:30:47.640 --> 00:30:51.119 It's more about your energy. And then mediumship is more 603 00:30:51.160 --> 00:30:52.079 about the spirit world. 604 00:30:52.759 --> 00:30:56.200 Okay, now what do most people come to you for, Karen. 605 00:30:57.480 --> 00:31:01.359 You know, I would say it's probably seventy percent psychic, 606 00:31:01.440 --> 00:31:04.200 their two percent mediumship. So I would say that a 607 00:31:04.200 --> 00:31:06.279 lot of people need you to help them with their lives, 608 00:31:06.279 --> 00:31:09.400 their guidance, you know, things that they're going through. They 609 00:31:09.440 --> 00:31:12.640 want to know the potential for things to come. And 610 00:31:12.680 --> 00:31:16.039 then obviously when people lose someone, they're desperate to feel 611 00:31:16.079 --> 00:31:20.200 that person or you know, get communication. So I'd say 612 00:31:20.880 --> 00:31:24.240 in today's dynamic, in the way the world is right now, especially, 613 00:31:24.640 --> 00:31:26.519 I feel like a lot of people are asking about 614 00:31:26.519 --> 00:31:28.720 their life and need to know more about them and 615 00:31:28.759 --> 00:31:29.519 their guidance. 616 00:31:30.079 --> 00:31:34.079 Well, things are as you know, it's very complicated right now. 617 00:31:34.119 --> 00:31:38.240 There's so much going on, whether it be wars or disclosure, 618 00:31:38.559 --> 00:31:42.839 and you know, the economies and is so much. It 619 00:31:42.839 --> 00:31:46.880 seems like there's never been more pressure on people on 620 00:31:46.920 --> 00:31:49.240 a day to day basis, and it seems like it's 621 00:31:49.240 --> 00:31:52.200 to me, it feels like there's something behind that the 622 00:31:52.240 --> 00:31:55.200 screws are being tightened all the time. What is your 623 00:31:55.240 --> 00:31:58.400 sense as to what's going on in the world now 624 00:31:58.440 --> 00:32:02.440 and that we need to go through more chaos to 625 00:32:02.480 --> 00:32:06.359 get to a better place as a race, you know. 626 00:32:06.359 --> 00:32:08.759 That is what I feel. I just feel like you've 627 00:32:08.799 --> 00:32:10.279 hit it on the head there. I think that I 628 00:32:10.279 --> 00:32:14.680 get asked this question quite a lot, and really I 629 00:32:14.880 --> 00:32:18.039 just honestly feel like we're going through some transitional phase 630 00:32:18.079 --> 00:32:22.240 where it feels like everything's crashing down and it feels chaotic, 631 00:32:22.359 --> 00:32:24.680 and it feels like there's so much disarray around the 632 00:32:24.720 --> 00:32:28.519 world right now. I mean, we've always had war torn conditions, 633 00:32:28.519 --> 00:32:31.759 We've all you know, going back years and decades. I mean, 634 00:32:31.839 --> 00:32:34.039 that's always been going on, but for some reason, just 635 00:32:34.079 --> 00:32:36.440 now it just feels like the whole world's imploding. That's 636 00:32:36.440 --> 00:32:39.319 how it feels for people. And it's a heavy energy, 637 00:32:39.440 --> 00:32:41.720 you know, Like I honestly speak to people all the 638 00:32:41.720 --> 00:32:44.720 time and it's like they're all carrying the weight of 639 00:32:44.839 --> 00:32:47.839 the world. You know, That's how it feels. But I 640 00:32:47.880 --> 00:32:50.799 honestly do feel like it's almost like it's getting to 641 00:32:50.839 --> 00:32:54.279 a crescendo. If it feels to me like there's going 642 00:32:54.319 --> 00:32:55.839 to be good that comes out of this. I was 643 00:32:56.000 --> 00:32:58.279 talking to my nineteen year old son the other week 644 00:32:58.319 --> 00:33:01.240 and I said to him, good is coming out of this. 645 00:33:01.440 --> 00:33:03.599 I know, it doesn't seem like it. I know that, 646 00:33:03.960 --> 00:33:07.279 how can it be because there's so much, you know, 647 00:33:07.319 --> 00:33:10.440 there's so much going on, and people are dying, and 648 00:33:10.480 --> 00:33:13.359 there's lots going on in war conditions. But there is 649 00:33:13.400 --> 00:33:16.400 there's something that's coming at the back of this for humanity, 650 00:33:16.440 --> 00:33:20.319 there is. I can feel that. So time wise, I 651 00:33:20.359 --> 00:33:23.640 don't know, but I just feel like this has been 652 00:33:23.680 --> 00:33:26.480 a it's almost like an evolution, do you know. I 653 00:33:26.559 --> 00:33:28.599 feel like we're going through something that was going to 654 00:33:28.680 --> 00:33:31.119 happen because of the way the world was going and 655 00:33:31.160 --> 00:33:33.960 the way that society is now and how fast paced 656 00:33:33.960 --> 00:33:37.559 the world is and everything's technology. It's quite frightening because 657 00:33:37.599 --> 00:33:39.799 what we do is we forget to connect with source, 658 00:33:40.519 --> 00:33:43.440 like we just forget that there's source there. It's all 659 00:33:43.480 --> 00:33:47.039 about computers and AI and it's quite a scary place. 660 00:33:47.279 --> 00:33:50.839 But I do think good will outweigh bad eventually. 661 00:33:51.880 --> 00:33:55.920 What's your take, Karen on all what's going on with disclosure? 662 00:33:56.680 --> 00:33:59.720 Like ten years ago, people were thinking like, oh flying 663 00:33:59.759 --> 00:34:03.079 so so sure, you're crazy. Now it's you turn on 664 00:34:03.119 --> 00:34:07.400 the news and it's basically, here's based on the declassification 665 00:34:07.519 --> 00:34:11.679 of documents government documents. They're saying, Okay, here's four et 666 00:34:11.960 --> 00:34:14.960 races that have been around and are around right now. 667 00:34:15.000 --> 00:34:17.880 And who knows, I would assume if they're saying there's four, 668 00:34:18.119 --> 00:34:22.159 there's probably four thousand. But the bottom line is it's 669 00:34:22.280 --> 00:34:24.000 things are coming out now and there's been a lot 670 00:34:24.000 --> 00:34:29.440 of different discussion about what are humans really? Were we manipulated? 671 00:34:29.599 --> 00:34:32.840 Was our DNA manipulated by others who came to the planet? 672 00:34:33.079 --> 00:34:36.199 Do we have, you know, reptilians living inside of the Earth. 673 00:34:36.280 --> 00:34:39.400 What's your sense what information do you get as to 674 00:34:39.800 --> 00:34:42.800 what's going on with this whole disclosure thing and what's true, 675 00:34:42.920 --> 00:34:45.920 what isn't What do we still need to know? And 676 00:34:46.480 --> 00:34:48.000 I would think it's going to turn out to be 677 00:34:48.039 --> 00:34:51.360 a good thing after the sticker shock, because I think 678 00:34:51.400 --> 00:34:53.880 people are going to be really surprised when they learn 679 00:34:53.960 --> 00:34:56.199 some of the things that are going to be outed, 680 00:34:56.280 --> 00:34:56.760 if you will. 681 00:34:57.760 --> 00:34:59.519 Yeah, you know, I think for lots of years that 682 00:34:59.760 --> 00:35:02.360 have people that have been talking about this for many years, 683 00:35:02.519 --> 00:35:04.880 and I think that they were kind of you know, 684 00:35:04.960 --> 00:35:07.480 conspiracy theorists that we're called, or you know, David Dike 685 00:35:07.519 --> 00:35:09.440 being one of them. David Dike's been talking about this 686 00:35:09.559 --> 00:35:13.079 for many years. So and some of it feels very 687 00:35:13.119 --> 00:35:15.519 far fetched, you know, to the human mind. But you 688 00:35:15.559 --> 00:35:18.880 have to remember that we are very controlled as humans. 689 00:35:18.960 --> 00:35:24.159 You know, governments do control things and religion and like 690 00:35:24.440 --> 00:35:27.000 all we're all sheep, we all kind of follow what 691 00:35:27.039 --> 00:35:30.280 we're told should be best. And so when these far 692 00:35:30.400 --> 00:35:33.400 fetched things come out that people are like, that's crazy, 693 00:35:33.440 --> 00:35:36.679 And now that are coming out and it is real. Yeah, 694 00:35:36.719 --> 00:35:40.440 you can only sit back and realize that, you know, 695 00:35:40.559 --> 00:35:44.239 our human mind is so limited in the way that 696 00:35:44.280 --> 00:35:46.960 it thinks and the way it's been controlled. And by that, 697 00:35:47.039 --> 00:35:49.800 I don't mean there's one specific person control that. I mean, 698 00:35:49.920 --> 00:35:53.159 like TV shows and films. When we watch all of 699 00:35:53.199 --> 00:35:56.119 these things, that is us conditioning our mind to what 700 00:35:56.320 --> 00:35:59.119 is real, and half of that is not real, you know, 701 00:35:59.239 --> 00:36:02.800 the real stuff we're going to be in shock about. 702 00:36:02.840 --> 00:36:06.719 So I think that in future times and time to come, 703 00:36:06.719 --> 00:36:08.960 we're going to find out a lot more. And I think, again, 704 00:36:09.599 --> 00:36:11.880 you know it's coming at that It's coming because it 705 00:36:11.920 --> 00:36:15.760 has to. I think that people are saying now we 706 00:36:15.800 --> 00:36:18.119 want truth. As long as we get truth and as 707 00:36:18.159 --> 00:36:20.679 long as we don't want things to be hidden anymore. 708 00:36:20.719 --> 00:36:23.519 We need to know what is and I think that 709 00:36:23.599 --> 00:36:27.239 the more people shout about that there, the more it 710 00:36:27.280 --> 00:36:30.800 will come out. And my teacher from many years ago 711 00:36:30.840 --> 00:36:35.119 when I first started, she said to me, then, oh, 712 00:36:35.119 --> 00:36:38.360 there's going to be a revolution at some point where 713 00:36:39.079 --> 00:36:43.840 society is going to demand they're going to take over, 714 00:36:43.960 --> 00:36:45.599 they're going to be the power, and they're going to 715 00:36:45.639 --> 00:36:48.280 demand the answers. And you know, to this day, I 716 00:36:48.280 --> 00:36:50.840 think about that and think she's right. You know, that's 717 00:36:50.960 --> 00:36:52.679 going to be a long time coming from when she 718 00:36:52.800 --> 00:36:55.159 said it, but it is going to happen because people 719 00:36:55.159 --> 00:36:59.199 are switching on now and saying, well, that's not the truth. 720 00:36:59.280 --> 00:37:01.480 This is the truth. So I think there's the more 721 00:37:01.960 --> 00:37:03.920 people are seeking the truth now and I think that 722 00:37:03.920 --> 00:37:05.840 that will happen now. 723 00:37:05.880 --> 00:37:09.360 You mentioned something about your teacher and neglected to ask 724 00:37:09.400 --> 00:37:11.840 you earlier, and that is when you learned you had 725 00:37:11.880 --> 00:37:15.440 this gift and you talked about the spiritual Spiritualist church. 726 00:37:17.360 --> 00:37:19.760 How what was the teaching? Like, I guess you had 727 00:37:19.760 --> 00:37:22.800 to develop your skill to develop your gift, you had 728 00:37:22.840 --> 00:37:25.920 to have some training by people who've already been there. 729 00:37:26.400 --> 00:37:28.119 Is that true? And if so, what was that like? 730 00:37:28.880 --> 00:37:31.960 Yeah? So, I mean you don't have to go for chaining, 731 00:37:32.079 --> 00:37:34.159 you know, it could be quite natural medium and just 732 00:37:34.199 --> 00:37:38.280 sit within that for yourself. But I always wanted more knowledge, 733 00:37:38.320 --> 00:37:41.800 so I went into development group initially, which was just 734 00:37:41.880 --> 00:37:44.920 in a woman's house in my local town and we 735 00:37:45.000 --> 00:37:47.440 all sat together every Wednesday night and we just would 736 00:37:47.719 --> 00:37:50.559 like share what we got so it would get It's 737 00:37:50.599 --> 00:37:52.440 like working a muscle at the gym. The more you 738 00:37:52.480 --> 00:37:54.199 do it, the more you're going to be in tune 739 00:37:54.239 --> 00:37:57.320 with it. But after that, I attended the Arthur Finlay 740 00:37:57.360 --> 00:38:02.559 College in Stansted in London, which is a big Spiritualist college. 741 00:38:02.599 --> 00:38:05.199 People come from all over the world all year round. 742 00:38:05.920 --> 00:38:09.880 It's an amazing place with some amazing tutors, and so 743 00:38:10.000 --> 00:38:13.239 I started to go there and two of my tutors, 744 00:38:13.280 --> 00:38:16.239 my main tutors, I would say, we're from Canada, and 745 00:38:16.280 --> 00:38:18.599 I still to this day I'm in touch with them 746 00:38:18.719 --> 00:38:21.400 and go and hear them work and hear them talk 747 00:38:22.079 --> 00:38:25.159 because their level of knowledge is just so profound. So 748 00:38:25.280 --> 00:38:28.400 I decided to go down that route of development and 749 00:38:28.440 --> 00:38:31.519 always trying to better my knowledge or drink more knowledge 750 00:38:31.519 --> 00:38:35.360 in just to make me feel whole as a medium, 751 00:38:35.400 --> 00:38:36.960 Like if I'm going to talk to people about this, 752 00:38:37.039 --> 00:38:39.960 I need to know the information. Plus, at the same time, 753 00:38:40.000 --> 00:38:43.119 you develop your own uniqueness in your mediumship. So my 754 00:38:43.159 --> 00:38:44.679 mediumship is not going to be the same as the 755 00:38:44.719 --> 00:38:47.000 next person, or the next person won't be the same 756 00:38:47.039 --> 00:38:49.719 as me. We are all very unique in how we 757 00:38:49.760 --> 00:38:52.159 work with our mediumship. So you need to develop it 758 00:38:52.239 --> 00:38:53.280 so you know yourself. 759 00:38:53.960 --> 00:38:57.480 Now, what should people know if they're going to seek 760 00:38:57.519 --> 00:39:02.320 the seek the information for somebody like yourself, a spiritual 761 00:39:02.360 --> 00:39:07.559 medium and psychic, what should they do? Because there's a 762 00:39:07.559 --> 00:39:10.039 lot of people who are really good and really sincere, 763 00:39:10.079 --> 00:39:12.599 and I can tell you are because you've set kind 764 00:39:12.639 --> 00:39:14.760 of the ground level. You didn't say I'll just read 765 00:39:14.800 --> 00:39:16.639 you right now, snap. You said, no, we're going to 766 00:39:16.679 --> 00:39:18.760 do this the right way. We're going to do this separately. 767 00:39:18.800 --> 00:39:21.800 I thought that was great, But what should people know 768 00:39:21.840 --> 00:39:23.840 when they're looking around saying, hey, i'd like to talk 769 00:39:23.880 --> 00:39:26.920 to a medium, but I'm not sure what I'm looking for, 770 00:39:26.960 --> 00:39:29.400 and I'm not sure the questions that should ask to 771 00:39:29.480 --> 00:39:32.039 ferret out if they're for real or how good they 772 00:39:32.039 --> 00:39:33.719 are not because a lot of people are saying they're 773 00:39:33.760 --> 00:39:35.599 really great at this and they're not. And a lot 774 00:39:35.599 --> 00:39:38.119 of people are great at this, and it gives the 775 00:39:38.239 --> 00:39:40.159 good ones a bad name when you have people who 776 00:39:40.239 --> 00:39:42.880 aren't that good and saying, yeah, I'm really great. 777 00:39:43.679 --> 00:39:45.960 Yeah, I agree, And I think it's hard for people 778 00:39:46.000 --> 00:39:49.039 that maybe, like if you've not heard of a medium 779 00:39:49.119 --> 00:39:52.079 or someone's not being recommended to you, it's sometimes difficult. 780 00:39:52.400 --> 00:39:54.639 But even saying that though, Robert, you know, I've heard 781 00:39:54.679 --> 00:39:59.559 people recommend certain people, certain mediums to people, and I 782 00:39:59.599 --> 00:40:02.880 think like the standard was not good, you know, And 783 00:40:02.920 --> 00:40:06.039 it's not me judging someone else because mediumship's hard. It's 784 00:40:06.079 --> 00:40:08.719 not easy. But I think if you are going to 785 00:40:08.760 --> 00:40:10.679 see a medium the way that you will know they're 786 00:40:10.800 --> 00:40:14.039 authentic and genuine as if they explain this to you, 787 00:40:14.079 --> 00:40:17.079 like I will say to every client, you know, I'm 788 00:40:17.079 --> 00:40:18.679 going to try my best for you and we're going 789 00:40:18.679 --> 00:40:21.400 to share this experience together. But if I feel it's 790 00:40:21.440 --> 00:40:23.239 not working, I'll be the first to tell you it's 791 00:40:23.280 --> 00:40:25.760 not working. I'm not just going to pad out your 792 00:40:25.840 --> 00:40:29.000 time or make things generic just to fill your time. 793 00:40:29.320 --> 00:40:31.920 I need to feel the connection. And I think when 794 00:40:31.960 --> 00:40:34.840 mediums say things like that, it allows that client to 795 00:40:34.880 --> 00:40:38.320 trust them to say, right, okay, you know this is 796 00:40:38.320 --> 00:40:40.480 going to be fine, because a lot of people come in. 797 00:40:40.719 --> 00:40:43.360 They're spending money for a start, right, and they're coming 798 00:40:43.400 --> 00:40:46.440 in and they're trusting you with their vulnerabilities, because when 799 00:40:46.480 --> 00:40:50.719 people come they're very vulnerable and they're handing themselves over 800 00:40:50.760 --> 00:40:54.440 to you basically. And mediums can and they shouldn't influence 801 00:40:54.440 --> 00:40:57.239 people's decisions. But sometimes I hear about things where the 802 00:40:57.280 --> 00:41:00.599 medium's telling them what to do, and that should happen. 803 00:41:00.880 --> 00:41:03.880 A medium should only be giving you what they've got 804 00:41:04.000 --> 00:41:06.199 and given you so that then you could go away 805 00:41:06.199 --> 00:41:08.519 and make your decisions about your life or you know 806 00:41:08.559 --> 00:41:11.519 your connection or what you feel. But if you're with 807 00:41:11.599 --> 00:41:14.639 someone and you go away feeling not sure or a 808 00:41:14.679 --> 00:41:17.480 little bit worse or don't know. Then you have to 809 00:41:17.519 --> 00:41:21.320 trust your own intuition on it. A genuine, authentic medium 810 00:41:21.400 --> 00:41:24.079 will make you feel at ease. You will feel the 811 00:41:24.159 --> 00:41:27.840 experience was a great experience. Even if the medium didn't 812 00:41:27.840 --> 00:41:30.360 connect with the person you wanted, or even if the 813 00:41:30.400 --> 00:41:33.039 medium said, well I don't have a strong connection, you 814 00:41:33.079 --> 00:41:35.119 will still feel better for it because you'll know that 815 00:41:35.199 --> 00:41:37.880 medium is honest. So I think that you've got to 816 00:41:37.960 --> 00:41:39.880 use your own discernment with that as well. 817 00:41:40.400 --> 00:41:43.800 So as a medium, do you without giving away your secrets? 818 00:41:44.079 --> 00:41:46.480 Do you do a little checklist when you meet with somebody, 819 00:41:46.559 --> 00:41:48.280 or you just get into their energy and you just 820 00:41:48.360 --> 00:41:49.119 it goes from there. 821 00:41:50.119 --> 00:41:52.679 I always make them comfortable, tell them what I do, 822 00:41:53.000 --> 00:41:55.559 how I'm going to work. I'll often say there's two 823 00:41:55.559 --> 00:41:58.800 ways I can work, psychic or mediumistic. Is there a 824 00:41:58.840 --> 00:42:01.199 preference or is it a mix? Sure, just to see 825 00:42:01.199 --> 00:42:03.599 because some people come and haven't really lost anyone, so 826 00:42:03.599 --> 00:42:06.960 they just want psychic. So it depends what they need. 827 00:42:07.119 --> 00:42:10.480 But their needs should be met within the reading. That's 828 00:42:10.519 --> 00:42:12.599 what I would say, And I'll always give them the 829 00:42:12.639 --> 00:42:14.440 opportunity to ask questions as well. 830 00:42:14.760 --> 00:42:17.400 It's fantastic. You know, when I was thinking about all 831 00:42:17.440 --> 00:42:19.199 these people talk to people on the other side and 832 00:42:19.239 --> 00:42:21.760 I have. You know, my parents both passed. I know, 833 00:42:22.960 --> 00:42:25.800 I feel their presence. I know they love me. I don't. 834 00:42:25.880 --> 00:42:29.320 I don't, I don't, and they support me and I 835 00:42:29.400 --> 00:42:32.079 forgive them for any you know, if they you know, 836 00:42:32.159 --> 00:42:36.239 everybody's human, and they forgive me. And so it's like, 837 00:42:36.320 --> 00:42:38.440 I'd like to communicate with them, but I feel like 838 00:42:38.519 --> 00:42:41.119 I am. I don't need a medium to be in 839 00:42:41.159 --> 00:42:43.480 touch with my mom or dad. I just feel like 840 00:42:43.559 --> 00:42:46.719 that they it's all. It's all good. Does that happen oftener? 841 00:42:46.760 --> 00:42:48.079 Am I being strange? 842 00:42:48.800 --> 00:42:52.519 You're definitely not being strange. You're actually bang on because 843 00:42:52.559 --> 00:42:55.280 we all can communicate with our own loved ones. Now, 844 00:42:55.639 --> 00:42:58.559 we're not going to hear their voices sometimes obviously, we're 845 00:42:58.559 --> 00:43:00.079 not going to hear them in the way that we 846 00:43:00.119 --> 00:43:03.320 would expect to hear another human being. But by feeling 847 00:43:03.360 --> 00:43:06.280 the presence or just trusting that we are connected to them, 848 00:43:06.360 --> 00:43:09.199 it holds them close. So I always say to people, 849 00:43:09.239 --> 00:43:12.000 you know, validate your loved ones. Validate your mom and dad, 850 00:43:12.039 --> 00:43:14.199 talk to them on a daily basis. If you want to. 851 00:43:14.800 --> 00:43:17.159 They will be there listening. You might not hear them 852 00:43:17.320 --> 00:43:19.360 or feel them right in that moment, but they will 853 00:43:19.400 --> 00:43:22.239 make their presence fail in other ways, and that's what 854 00:43:22.280 --> 00:43:23.719 they try to do. Yeah. 855 00:43:23.800 --> 00:43:27.280 Okay, My special guest today a great discussion with psychic 856 00:43:27.360 --> 00:43:32.360 medium Karen Dockery all away from Scotland to Guys Guys Radio. 857 00:43:32.440 --> 00:43:35.119 So tell everybody Karen where they can learn more about 858 00:43:35.159 --> 00:43:38.480 you and maybe book a session with you, so they. 859 00:43:38.360 --> 00:43:42.000 Can come to Karendockerty dot com. That's my website and 860 00:43:42.039 --> 00:43:45.280 everything's on there, all my informations on there, my media 861 00:43:45.360 --> 00:43:47.480 is on there, and they can book sessions on their too. 862 00:43:47.760 --> 00:43:51.679 Now you spell your last name dc h e r 863 00:43:51.760 --> 00:43:54.599 t y Yep, that's correct, okay, because some people in 864 00:43:54.639 --> 00:43:57.559 America might think it's dck so it's d oc h 865 00:43:57.960 --> 00:44:01.280 e r t y. Fantastic. Well, thank you so much, Karen. 866 00:44:01.360 --> 00:44:04.840 I look forward to our separate conversation. I'm going to 867 00:44:04.880 --> 00:44:06.760 be talking about that in the open and close of 868 00:44:06.800 --> 00:44:08.960 this show and I can't wait to do it. And 869 00:44:09.039 --> 00:44:11.000 I thank you for being on Guys Guys Radio. 870 00:44:11.760 --> 00:44:15.000 Thank you so much. Robert, it's Guys Guy Radio. 871 00:44:16.800 --> 00:44:21.079 Okay, what a fascinating and interesting conversation with psychic medium 872 00:44:21.400 --> 00:44:24.800 Karen Doctory on today's Guys Guys Radio. So what did 873 00:44:24.840 --> 00:44:27.599 we learn well? I think number one good takeaway is 874 00:44:27.639 --> 00:44:30.920 there's a difference between a psychic and a medium and 875 00:44:31.000 --> 00:44:34.760 a mentor. So psychics deal with your current situation and 876 00:44:34.840 --> 00:44:38.719 kind of the future. They help you out, educating you 877 00:44:38.760 --> 00:44:42.679 about what's your current situation, some possibilities, and then the 878 00:44:42.760 --> 00:44:45.559 mediumship part of it is working with folks who have 879 00:44:45.639 --> 00:44:48.559 crossed over. So today, as I mentioned, I was going 880 00:44:48.599 --> 00:44:50.559 to have Karen do a reading, she did a reading 881 00:44:50.599 --> 00:44:52.480 with me. I said, let's just keep it open, see 882 00:44:52.519 --> 00:44:55.559 if anybody shows up, and sure enough, my folks showed up. 883 00:44:55.599 --> 00:44:57.960 And it was very emotional because I could feel their 884 00:44:57.960 --> 00:45:02.480 presence and she really nailed my family dynamic and that 885 00:45:02.639 --> 00:45:05.960 was great. And you know, I didn't need any closure 886 00:45:06.000 --> 00:45:08.840 with my with my with my parents, but it was 887 00:45:08.920 --> 00:45:11.599 really nice to feel a connection with them, so that 888 00:45:11.760 --> 00:45:15.480 was great. We also talked about my current situation of 889 00:45:15.559 --> 00:45:18.480 things coming up, and she was spot on and all 890 00:45:18.480 --> 00:45:21.239 of those and when she talks about things coming up, 891 00:45:21.280 --> 00:45:24.400 these are possibilities. I have the free will, as we 892 00:45:24.440 --> 00:45:26.360 all have the free will to make decisions to make 893 00:45:26.400 --> 00:45:28.360 things happen. So if you work with a psychic, they're 894 00:45:28.360 --> 00:45:31.360 going to tell you about possibilities. But we have free 895 00:45:31.400 --> 00:45:33.960 will as we experience every moment of every day, so 896 00:45:34.000 --> 00:45:39.159 it's ultimately it's up to us and hopefully, oh yeah, 897 00:45:39.199 --> 00:45:42.760 one last thing, the mentoring. Karen as well as some 898 00:45:42.840 --> 00:45:45.679 other psychic meanings work from mentoring. So if you think 899 00:45:45.760 --> 00:45:49.280 you have the gift of meeting of ship or psychic abilities, 900 00:45:49.280 --> 00:45:51.800 you can work with somebody who helped coach you in that. 901 00:45:52.000 --> 00:45:55.199 So Karen's available for that also, So it's Karen docer 902 00:45:55.280 --> 00:45:58.039 y d O C H E R T Y dot com. 903 00:45:58.440 --> 00:46:00.440 Check her out if you're interested in the reading. I 904 00:46:00.519 --> 00:46:03.480 had a wonderful experience. I can't speak for the experience 905 00:46:03.480 --> 00:46:05.800 you're gonna have. That's up to you. But what I 906 00:46:05.840 --> 00:46:08.079 do here, as you know on Guys Guys Radio, I 907 00:46:08.239 --> 00:46:10.280 qualify all my guests, I bring them on and then 908 00:46:10.280 --> 00:46:11.800 I leave it up to you what do you want 909 00:46:11.840 --> 00:46:14.559 to take away from them? And today was a wonderful 910 00:46:14.639 --> 00:46:19.840 conversation with Karen Doherty from Scotland. Thank you for listening 911 00:46:19.880 --> 00:46:22.960 to Guys Guys Radio. We'll be back next week with 912 00:46:23.039 --> 00:46:27.760 a brand new episode and until then like I always say, guys, 913 00:46:27.840 --> 00:46:30.039 guys finish first.