Speaker 1: And this episode is cool Butterflies.
Speaker 2: What's up, guys, Welcome to Dinner with the Healers. My
Speaker 2: name is Eric, and with me as always are my
Speaker 2: lovely wife Amanda Hi, guys, my beautiful daughter Stella Hi,
Speaker 2: and my super handsome son Henry.
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Speaker 2: teen Butterflies and talking about how we feel about it
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Speaker 2: Speaking of things that are awesome, we just got done
Speaker 2: rewatching butterflies.
Speaker 4: My butterflies.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Stella, could you tell us what was going on?
Speaker 2: At the beginning of this.
Speaker 4: Episode, Bandit is hanging up a fabric swing on the
Speaker 4: tree in their backyard and Bingo was just watching him
Speaker 4: hang it up, and Blue is playing with a snap bracelet,
Speaker 4: which he eventually snaps on the Bandit's tail, and while
Speaker 4: he is still hanging up a swing, Judo peeks over
Speaker 4: the fence and asks what he's doing, and Bingo explains
Speaker 4: to her that he's hanging up with fabric swing for them,
Speaker 4: and she also says that they have them at Bluie's school,
Speaker 4: and Judo says, yeah, I know that Blue's my best
Speaker 4: friend and she's just being pretty mean to Bingo.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Judo is telling Bingo that Bluey's my friend, not yours,
Speaker 2: is implied, and of course I know what's going on.
Speaker 2: She also, I thought it was funny, refers to Bandit
Speaker 2: as Bluey's dad, right like the Lucky's dad, which that
Speaker 2: is such a thing when you're a parent. I remember
Speaker 2: when I stopped being Eric and became Stella's dad and
Speaker 2: Henry's dad. But you know what, I'll take it. Bennett
Speaker 2: says he's going to take the wash in, and the
Speaker 2: girls decide they're going to play a game. Amanda, what
Speaker 2: are they going to play?
Speaker 3: They're going to play a game called Butterflies, and it's
Speaker 3: where one of them pretends to be a caterpillar crawling
Speaker 3: along on the ground, and then they're going to come
Speaker 3: out of the cocoon as a beautiful butterfly, and they're
Speaker 3: going to use the fabric swing as the cocoon, and
Speaker 3: then whoever is the caterpillar the other two kids they
Speaker 3: will play the butterfly catcher, so once the butterfly emerges
Speaker 3: from the cocoon, the catchers have a chance to catch it.
Speaker 2: Somebody says they're going to go first, but Judo has
Speaker 2: other plans.
Speaker 3: Yes, Bingo said she was going to go first, and
Speaker 3: then Judo cut in and said, no, I'm going to
Speaker 3: go first.
Speaker 2: Blue tries to make Bingo feel included, and they go
Speaker 2: hide to be the catchers, and Bingo calls it like
Speaker 2: she sees it.
Speaker 1: Judo is so bossy.
Speaker 4: Yeah she is.
Speaker 1: He sayn't have anyone else to play with.
Speaker 2: Hearing Blue say that last part about Judo not having
Speaker 2: anyone to play with made me feel bad for Judo,
Speaker 2: but it still doesn't excuse her behavior, Henry, what did
Speaker 2: you think when Blue said that Judo didn't have anyone
Speaker 2: else to play with?
Speaker 4: I think what Blue meant by this that Judo doesn't
Speaker 4: have any shiblings and doesn't have that many friends.
Speaker 2: Probably, so maybe she's used to get in her way
Speaker 2: all the time because she's the only kid at her house. Yeah,
Speaker 2: before Judo says she's ready, Henry, Bingo sees something. What
Speaker 2: is it?
Speaker 4: She sees a ladybug and then she starts singing a
Speaker 4: song about a poor little bug on the wall.
Speaker 2: I thought that was so cute. Have you ever heard
Speaker 2: that song before?
Speaker 3: I have never heard that song, have you, guys?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: No, I haven't, just on this show when we watched
Speaker 2: it for the very first time. But yeah, it's super
Speaker 2: cute and Bingo's singing about it, and I love the
Speaker 2: perspective they show when she's looking at the bug and
Speaker 2: doing her thing. She's such a cute kid.
Speaker 3: She has such a cute little singing voice.
Speaker 2: She does, and she's got just such a good spirit
Speaker 2: about her too. Judo comes out of her cocoon, Henry,
Speaker 2: what happens?
Speaker 4: Bluey and Bingo run up and they catch her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they got her pretty quick, wouldn't you say?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: It looked like they were having fun though, Yeah it did.
Speaker 2: I was wondering if Judo was going to be mad
Speaker 2: at that point and say no, they didn't catch her,
Speaker 2: but no, she played along and then Bingo said she
Speaker 2: wanted to turn Stella. What happens?
Speaker 4: Bingo says that she is going to be the caterpillar now,
Speaker 4: and Judo tells her that she is too small to
Speaker 4: be the caterpillar.
Speaker 2: You can tell that bums Bingo out, and you can
Speaker 2: tell it Bum's Bluey out. But blue is doing a
Speaker 2: good job. I think of trying to control the situation
Speaker 2: and keep things moving forward in a fairly amicable fashion.
Speaker 2: Would you agree, Stella? Yeah? I agree, Amanda. What happens
Speaker 2: when Bingo's being the caterpillar?
Speaker 3: Bingo's scooting around on the ground like a caterpillar does,
Speaker 3: and then she goes over to the fabric swing, which
Speaker 3: is a cocoon, and she is having a hard time
Speaker 3: getting up into the swing because her legs are shorter
Speaker 3: than the other girls, and you can see Judo is
Speaker 3: getting a little impatient.
Speaker 1: Little kids take so long to do everything.
Speaker 4: He's only go little legs.
Speaker 2: I thought it was really cute that Blue was sticking
Speaker 2: up for Bingo.
Speaker 3: Yes, she was being a good big sister.
Speaker 2: Bingo finally makes it in there and what happens after that?
Speaker 3: Amanda Bingo is in the cocoon and she starts seeing
Speaker 3: the Little Ladybug song, but Judo thinks she is taking
Speaker 3: way too long, and she convinces Blue to run away
Speaker 3: with her. Blue is skeptical about doing it, but Judo
Speaker 3: runs off, and then Blue says, hey, wait for me,
Speaker 3: and she runs off with her.
Speaker 2: Henry, did that make you feel bad for Bingo? Yeah?
Speaker 4: I felt really bad for Bingo there.
Speaker 2: I'm sure that happened to me when I was younger,
Speaker 2: and I would think that I would feel terrible if
Speaker 2: somebody did that to me. Bingo finally comes out and
Speaker 2: is ready to be a butterfly, but she realizes that
Speaker 2: something is a miss. Henry, what's happening here?
Speaker 4: There are no captures at all. Bingo searches the whole backyard.
Speaker 4: She looks where Blue and her were hiding last round,
Speaker 4: and then she's looking around everywhere. So since she can't
Speaker 4: find them, she walks past Dad and goes up to
Speaker 4: the front of the house and she sees Blue and
Speaker 4: Judo playing together.
Speaker 2: They're doing this hand thing that kind of reminded me
Speaker 2: of like Miss Mary Mack when we were kids. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it went something like not because you're dirty, not because
Speaker 2: you're clean or something. I've never heard that before, Stella,
Speaker 2: Are you familiar with it?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: I'm not well. Right. When Bingo sees them doing that,
Speaker 2: Judo says, let's split, and she takes off and Blue
Speaker 2: was trying to decide what to do. Stella, what happens?
Speaker 4: Blue runs off with Judo and we can see Bingo
Speaker 4: getting really upset, so she runs back to the swing
Speaker 4: and gets in it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's devastated. That poor kid. She's got such a
Speaker 2: sweetheart and to see somebody do that to her, it
Speaker 2: really bummed me out. When we cut to Bluie, we
Speaker 2: see that she feels really bad and wants to go
Speaker 2: get Bingo. Amanda, what does Judo decide they're going to do?
Speaker 3: Judo decides that they're going to play phones, so Judo
Speaker 3: calls Blue on her Breton phone and Blue answers, and
Speaker 3: I think the only word that Blue got out was hello,
Speaker 3: because after that, Judo is just talking and talking and
Speaker 3: talking and talking some more, and I think Blue might
Speaker 3: have said, oh really, and that's about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she couldn't get a word in edgewise. And I
Speaker 2: noticed that not only was Judo monopolizing the entire conversation,
Speaker 2: everything she was saying was a complaint about something, yes,
Speaker 2: about going to the shop and how dare they and
Speaker 2: do you even know what you're doing? Or you're trying
Speaker 2: to run a shop here? It was all very negative
Speaker 2: and very mean.
Speaker 3: It was she was definitely complaining a lot.
Speaker 2: I suspect that she's probably mirroring someone's behavior that.
Speaker 3: She's seen, maybe probably.
Speaker 2: Blue tries to tell Judo that she wants to go
Speaker 2: and find Bingo, and Judo doesn't even notice. So Bluie
Speaker 2: makes a decision, Henry, what does she do?
Speaker 4: Blue decides to leave Judo's house, and then she goes
Speaker 4: over to her house to look for Bingo. She's calling
Speaker 4: for Bingo and then she finally finds her in the
Speaker 4: fabric swing and she tells her how sorry.
Speaker 2: She is.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Bingle, I didn't mean to run away from you.
Speaker 1: You don't make me do it. Well, she didn't make.
Speaker 4: Me do it.
Speaker 1: I did it a bit myself. I'll not do it again,
Speaker 1: bingn I promise, please, can me play together?
Speaker 2: Bingo didn't say anything to that, and Bluie didn't know
Speaker 2: what to do with it, so she went and sat
Speaker 2: down in the grass, and then she got an idea, Henry,
Speaker 2: what did she do?
Speaker 4: She starts singing the Little Bug on the Wall song
Speaker 4: and as she kept singing, Bingo joined in. Then they
Speaker 4: start singing the song together.
Speaker 2: And then they hugged. It was so sweet.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. It was really nice to see them
Speaker 3: make up.
Speaker 2: Now we hear Judo stella, what is she doing?
Speaker 4: Judo starts screaming ring ring at the top of her
Speaker 4: lungs because no one's answering her, and so she starts
Speaker 4: going around and looking for Bluie and Bingo, and they
Speaker 4: decide that they had to hide from her, so they
Speaker 4: get into the fabric swing and start hiding.
Speaker 2: I love that. Bingo goes all in on the game
Speaker 2: they're playing, ring ring, got your phone on silence?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, good idea, Hey you are.
Speaker 2: I thought it was cute that Bingo thought of that.
Speaker 2: What did you think, Stella?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought that was cute too.
Speaker 2: Once Judo finds them, she is mad, Amanda. How does
Speaker 2: that conversation go?
Speaker 3: She was mad at Bluie for leaving her, but then
Speaker 3: Bingo pointed out, yeah, well you left me earlier, and
Speaker 3: Bluie said, and you were ignoring me, And Judo says, yeah,
Speaker 3: I guess you guys are right. And then they get
Speaker 3: out of the cocoon and they all say sorry and
Speaker 3: apologize to each other and decide to play together again.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they hugged it out, which I thought was great.
Speaker 2: I also thought it was great that Judo admitted, yeah,
Speaker 2: you're right, I won't do it again. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I thought so too. That was pretty big of her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, based on the way she had been acting during
Speaker 2: the games, I didn't know that she had a dinner
Speaker 2: to do that. They want to play butterflies, but this
Speaker 2: time there's a twist, Henry. What happens?
Speaker 4: All of them are playing as catchers. This time in
Speaker 4: the butterfly they have to catch is bandit. I'm gonna
Speaker 4: put these clean close away, cut these clean close away,
Speaker 4: these clean close away.
Speaker 2: Poor panted, and that was the episode. Henry, did we
Speaker 2: forget anything?
Speaker 4: Nope? I don't think so.
Speaker 2: Well, you know what it's time for.
Speaker 3: Did we learn anything today?
Speaker 2: Could anyone tell us? What did you learn today?
Speaker 4: I learned that even if you don't particularly like someone
Speaker 4: or want to hang out with them, you just still
Speaker 4: try to make them feel included. Because Judo, she didn't
Speaker 4: really want to hang out with Bingo, but she shouldn't
Speaker 4: have acted that way towards her, and she still should
Speaker 4: have at least tried to make her feel included even
Speaker 4: if she didn't want to.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's really good. Anybody else, Yeah, I agree with
Speaker 2: still on this one.
Speaker 4: You should always include people in something.
Speaker 3: Yes, I agree try to include people, but most of all,
Speaker 3: just try to be nice. Nice goes so far and
Speaker 3: it can make somebody's day so much. We don't have
Speaker 3: to be mean if we don't want to hang out
Speaker 3: or play with somebody.
Speaker 2: Yeah, when there's other people involved, you can't just automatically
Speaker 2: have your way. And I didn't realize this until we
Speaker 2: rewatched it. Judo just invited herself over. Blue and Bingo
Speaker 2: were there playing in their yard and Judo came over.
Speaker 2: It wasn't like Bluie had invited her to come and
Speaker 2: have a playdate with just her and Bingo was the
Speaker 2: bonus that Judo wasn't expecting she came in and interrupted
Speaker 2: them playing and then expected to have her way no
Speaker 2: matter what, and her coming to the realization that that
Speaker 2: wasn't cool, like you said before, Amanda was really big
Speaker 2: of her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't realize that either. What you said about
Speaker 3: Judo just kind of invited herself over, And especially if
Speaker 3: you just invite yourself over to that person's house and
Speaker 3: then be route to them, that's just not cool right
Speaker 3: in their own yard, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Does anybody have any parting thoughts about the episode?
Speaker 4: I thought it was really cute how Bingo was seeing
Speaker 4: a little song about the book on the wall throughout
Speaker 4: the episode. I thought that was cute.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's got such a gentle and kind soul. Yeah,
Speaker 2: she does. For her to notice such a little thing
Speaker 2: and marvel at its beauty and notice it where everybody
Speaker 2: else is loud and doing their things, she is seeing
Speaker 2: things and has like a quieter spirit about her. I guess.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've seen this several other times with her throughout
Speaker 3: the series, being kind to the little little animals or
Speaker 3: little bugs.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's very sweet. What a good kid.
Speaker 4: I wonder if the ladybug made it all the way
Speaker 4: up the wall.
Speaker 2: That's a great question. I don't know. You're going to
Speaker 2: have to rewatch this frame by frame and see if
Speaker 2: you can find out. Because the level of detail the
Speaker 2: show goes into, I could see them having that in
Speaker 2: the background, even though they weren't interacting with it anymore,
Speaker 2: just to see. I really like this episode. One of
Speaker 2: the things I wonder As the show goes on, we
Speaker 2: realize that Judo must not be at her mom's house
Speaker 2: all the time, so when she is there, she's alone
Speaker 2: and doesn't know nearly as many people, it seems like
Speaker 2: because she is only at her mom's part of the time.
Speaker 2: I think when we see them have playdates later, you
Speaker 2: haven't seen Judo in forever, even though she lives right
Speaker 2: next door.
Speaker 3: That's true. I never thought about that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I wonder if her parents aren't together and
Speaker 2: she spends part of the time at her dad's and
Speaker 2: part of the time at her mom's. So, yeah, that
Speaker 2: would be tough for her if she isn't there all
Speaker 2: the time. And the thing with her being super negative
Speaker 2: when she was on the phone. I feel like I've
Speaker 2: known people like that here and there. But I wonder
Speaker 2: if Judo is surrounded by that sort of negativity quite
Speaker 2: a bit, and her attitude during them playing is sort
Speaker 2: of a reflection of that.
Speaker 3: It might be.
Speaker 2: Because the things you hear her saying are from the
Speaker 2: perspective very much of somebody expecting their way all the time.
Speaker 2: The grown up she's emulating. All the things that she
Speaker 2: was saying all point to, I expect you to do
Speaker 2: what I want right now. But from a grownup's perspective,
Speaker 2: it wasn't about playing, It was about all this other stuff.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So she's around somebody like that, and I'm not
Speaker 3: going to say that her mom, but if she is
Speaker 3: around somebody like that all the time, it's easy to
Speaker 3: kind of pick up their habits and talk the same way.
Speaker 2: Right, Because kids, that's how you learn. You imitate what
Speaker 2: you see, and whatever you're around all the time is
Speaker 2: your normal. So maybe she doesn't realize that her behavior,
Speaker 2: she's kind of like a bulldozer, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's definitely a tiny, little controlling person.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh goodness, Well, guys, we think Bluie is awesome.
Speaker 2: And speaking of things we think are awesome. Henry, what
Speaker 2: should we do next?
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