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Speaker 1: Made Dess.

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Speaker 2: Face sunny subord on head vision. It's nice.

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Speaker 3: Too, chy every.

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Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, don't joke, and welcome to for crying out loud.

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How's it going. How's everybody doing out there? Hi, Caylin, Hello,

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Good morning Vietnam. No, my I was drinking water because

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my throat is still dry and you're hydrating. I'm hydrating

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from Vegas and like the smoke and stuff, and I'm

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all stuffed up because of the allergies. My eyes are anyway,

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I'm I'm a mess. Howard Stern talked about what a

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mess he is, but I'm no Howard Stern, but I

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am falling apart.

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Speaker 3: I like Howard Stern these days, so does not give

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a fuck, no fucks to give.

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Speaker 1: He's not apologetic. He's just like.

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Speaker 3: And also I like the fact that Howard Stern has

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gotten much more progressive in his thinking, yeah, and his politics.

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Speaker 1: He says that and he doesn't apologize for it. He's

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just like.

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Speaker 3: And he used to be like, I'm never getting married,

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and then he was like, I don't fuck care I'm

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getting married. You guys think, yeah, I know, and he's married.

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He's like, I love all the cats and I love

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Beth and I love my wife and he doesn't even

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care that he's whooped.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he got an argument with one of the whack

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packs that wanted to, uh don't wanted to adopt a dog,

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and they all say the other whack packers are like,

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don't let him. I don't remember, I don't know all

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their names, but don't let And then he was like, listen,

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I don't know Henry, I can't remember who was. You're

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not gonna I'm not going to allow you back on

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the show. Like you could hear it in his voice.

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You are not equipped to own a dog. It's it's

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it's selfish. The dog is going to suffer anyway. I

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love him. I know I love him too. I listen

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to every Day I Love Him show.

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Speaker 3: That's a good example of like he's not trying to

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be super politically correct, but it's also not part of

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like outrage culture that like he's like he's not going

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to say something that's really mean and fucked up because he.

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Speaker 1: Like has a heart, he's had a ton of therapy.

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And he even said it when Jimmy was on, because

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he was talking about how much he loves Jimmy, and

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he was like I love this guy. He goes, Jimmy,

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I love and then they were like kind of making

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fun of him, and he goes, listen, I've gone to therapy.

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It's taken me a long time to get to this point.

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Now leave me alone and let me talk about much

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I love him. Oh, I really I wish I could

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meet him. Yeah. I went to his wedding. You did,

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You went to his wedding to Beth? Yeah? Yeah, Oh

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was that?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: I know, Billy Joel, I mean yeah, it was a

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lot of fun. It was a long time ago. It's

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like the kids were just born. Oh my gosh. Yeah.

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Did you talk to celebrities there? Kelly Rippa was very nice. Yeah,

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everybody was very nice. Billy Joel saying, I can't. I mean,

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you know, it was a lot of fun. Jimmy and

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Sarah went with us. Sarah's so sweet. She was on

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the show recently. I heard the interview. Great. I love Sarah.

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I miss her. I mean very honest. I like her.

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She's very honest. Yeah, yeah, you check out her show.

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I want to check out her show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I LOLU America Yeah yeah, okay, okay, so listen,

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I have an update for you.

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Speaker 1: It's really good. Yeah. First of all, I have two like.

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Speaker 3: School things to tell you that are really good. Okay,

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So remember on a week ago last Friday show, I

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went on a very I was complaining about Sadie and

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the reading thing.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we got a big response to that. Okay.

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Speaker 3: First of all, a couple of people got confused the

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recess being taken away. Yet well, actually you weren't confused.

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So the thing was that if Sadie didn't finish her

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reading goals, they were going to.

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Speaker 1: Take recess away. And yes, I was freaking out.

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Speaker 3: And yes what I said last week was true that

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she had been reading Wonder for like two weeks. It's

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four hundred page book and she wasn't done yet, and

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the teacher had said if they're she was, Okay, it's

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so dumb at her reading levels. And I know I

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talked about this last week, but she was supposed to

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be reading like three to four.

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Speaker 1: Books a week a week the fun and.

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Speaker 3: Her reading level is only one behind Xander's and Xander

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only has to read one to two books a week.

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is all crazy. I think it's like, oh, well, Sadie's

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reading level is easier than Xander's, so she could read

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more books. But it doesn't matter because really they rate

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the books when you're up in the higher levels, and

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they're in the fifth grade, so they're in upper levels.

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that gets a little bit more challenging.

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Speaker 1: It's not that the.

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Speaker 3: Words are harder or that there's more pages or fewer pages. Okay,

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So anyway, here's what happened. I made an appointment to

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go talk to the teacher good good, and I was like, okay.

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I was like, I have so many issues because all

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the kids are in trouble for okay, so this.

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Speaker 1: Area is okay. And the boiler alert it's Wilder Tailor's

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back boiler alert. This this has a happy ending.

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Speaker 3: But so I if you recall, they had said that

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the kids weren't allowed to pick their people. They were

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going to be within their cabin and they were all

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having assigned tables at the lunch tables because they'd all

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been bad. But Sadie and Xander had no idea what

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they'd done wrong. Everything happened right, Something happened right, and

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then on top of that, and but remember that I

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told you that Xander had a sub and Xander had

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to skip recess and read his book every day because

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he hadn't turned in his reading log.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, what are my kids in like

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a re education campaign? Like what is happening?

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Speaker 3: I know school, I know it's that's supposed to be

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like this, so so okay, so I make it a

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So I'm like, okay, I got to put out fires

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one at a time, the right like I can't come

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Speaker 1: And then another thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I was like, first I need to just

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go talk about the reading thing.

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Speaker 1: For Sadie.

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Speaker 3: I got to put up that fire because I can't

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have her missing starting to miss recess. I was upset

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about Xander having missed recess all last week, but he said, Mom,

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don't don't bring it up, like just leave it alone.

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Recess for a week, just the first recess and he

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Speaker 1: And guess what.

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Speaker 3: I told him he could read less time at home

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at night because he got that. I don't like it either,

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but it happened, and that's over. I had bigger fish

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to fry with Sadie.

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Speaker 1: So I make an appointment.

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Speaker 3: I go in the first day, which I believe was

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like the evening after we recorded, I had said to

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the teacher, Hey, could I talk to you and she

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was like, oh, I have a cold, Like yeah, we

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do it, so maybe I had Okay happened.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I made an appointment.

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Speaker 3: So I went in and like in my car, I

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was doing a little like Okay, you're going to keep

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it friendly, like you can't go in there. You can't

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be confrontational like that shit does not fly with my teachers.

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So so you have to come from a and you

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can't just fake it either, like you have to be

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feeling like open and because.

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Speaker 1: Are you talking to the rear view mirror at this

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point now, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Like just I'm like just like being Then I'm like

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eyes closed, sitting in my car doing some deep breathing, going,

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don't come off like a cunt.

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Speaker 1: Don't be a cunt. Just don't be a cunt. Oh

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my god, curb the cuntiness.

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Speaker 3: So it's like, go in and I'm like, hi, you know,

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start light, you know. So I'm like, okay, here's the thing.

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You look nice, so pretty. Oh my god, are you

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wearing wonder beauty makeup? So I'm like, okay, Now, this

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teacher had Sadie in the second grade.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, here. I was like, so,

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as you know, Sadie is like not the greatest reader

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in the entire world like you you remember. And she

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was like, I know, but she's gotten so much better.

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but she's still is her reading is still.

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Speaker 3: On the slow side. I go, believe me, I know,

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we both know she's come a long way. And she

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was like yeah, and her fluency is like way up.

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And I was like, absolutely, she's doing so great. I go.

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Here's the thing, now, Sadie, you know, I said, she

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has this she's supposed to be reading like this her

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reading goal, and it's just too high for her.

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Speaker 1: I go, just given who she is.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not saying like it doesn't work for every kid.

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I said, you know, it's just that Xander is reading

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at this level and he only has to read one

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to two books. I go, And Sadie has to read

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like four to four books. I said, And she's only

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one level behind him. And I said, in the bottom

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line is she can't do it. And I said, and

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so last year, her teacher adjusted her reading goals, and

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I said, and I was just hoping, I said, because

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she told me if she doesn't reach her goals every week,

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she's going to lose recess for the day and have

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to read. And she was like, okay, first of all,

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oh boy, you're a cunt. No she Oh my god, sorry,

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I've said the C word so many times in this episode.

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She said, First of all, she's not gonna lose her recess,

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she goes. But second of all, yes, we can reduce her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, well it's okay, okay, okay, okay. I knew

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she was going to say that. Can I ask a question, then,

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why the fuck are you saying that to them in

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the first place? Why are you scaring them? They always

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do that shit. No, they're not going to read this

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is what she said.

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Speaker 3: Well okay, but I still don't agree with her, because

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what she said was that it was never going to

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be the whole all of the like the days of recess,

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but it was their snack recess. Okay. That is like

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twenty minutes, I guess at the beginning of the day,

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and then they're all going to sit together and like

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read there they can have a snack and read and

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I was like, in my mind, I'm like, still not happening. No,

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she's not missing recess to Rea when she already hates reading. Yes,

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but that's okay because I said, look, she's like here.

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She said, here's the thing. Here's the thing that Sadie's

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not doing. She's not writing in her reading log anything

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like she's skipping turning them in.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, that's not good.

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Speaker 3: And she goes, let me show you, like here, all

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they have to do is write I read this book

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or I read this many pages of this book and

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who the author is.

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Speaker 1: Ye, she's just not turning it in. And I said that.

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Speaker 3: I said, the reason I think she's not turning it

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in is because she's not reading the books and it's

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so many books that she's like, well, might as well

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just not turn it in, Yeah, because I didn't read.

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And she said, well, she needs to at least turn

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it show me something like She's like, she's not going

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to get penalized if she just just showed me what

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you were doing during the week. And I was like, okay,

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that is no problem. I will talk to her, especially

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if she only has to read one to two books.

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That's not a problem because she can do that. And also,

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in my mind, I was like, and the books that

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she's going to read, we're not even going to talk

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about the levels, Like if she wants to read Dork

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Diaries Diary, I'm not going to I'm just going to

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have to write it down that she read it. And

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if you don't want to accept it because it wasn't

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on her level, then fine. It's not like she's trying

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to read like Crime and Punishment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, you know.

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Speaker 3: It's not like she's reading that or Harry the Dirty Dog.

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Like she's not reading something that's way too hard or

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way too easy. She's reading right around her level, books

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that are interesting to her. So I don't think there's

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anything for them to be so concerned about, like, well,

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if she's not reading right on her level, those levels

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are arbitrary. I agree. I nobody's there is no science

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to it. It's like, listen, this book is about a

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can't read in middle school. You want to make that

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for a higher level. Fine, But the Dork Diaries, even

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though they're about a girl in middle school, they're easy.

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Speaker 1: I know, they're very simple.

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Speaker 3: Lbie, can I mean Sadie can read one of those

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in a day, so they don't. She doesn't need anyway.

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The point is the teacher couldn't have been nicer. And

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I was like, thank you so so much, love being

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have a good day, and I just kept it.

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Speaker 1: That was easy because she'd agreed. Nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she was like, just have her turn in a

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reading log, whatever she's done, have her just write down

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if she's if she's still working on a book, if

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she's reading Wonder and it's the second week, just say, wonder,

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here's the pages I read this one?

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Speaker 5: Nice?

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Speaker 1: A question? Why didn't they put that in their memo

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or tell the kids that in the first place, Just

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you need to put you need to turn in your

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reading log. That's what we need. Whatever it is. Why

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threaten with the recess shit, I don't know. I don't

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like that. And then and then Xanner missus a.

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Speaker 3: Week of no recess for that was for not turning.

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That was for turning in his reading log late, like

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five he said, it was like five minutes late.

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Speaker 1: Insane. Sonny was, so, I think they're.

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Speaker 3: Trying to teach them responsibility, yeah, because middle school's coming,

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and like, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't really, I don't know. I don't think that.

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I don't think it might work in short term. I

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don't think it works long term.

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Speaker 3: The funny thing is in sixth grade, LB, do you

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remember when Elbe started getting infractions in the sixth grade

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and she was freaking out.

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Speaker 1: She got an infraction one day for forgetting her.

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Speaker 3: Planner, which is a big, huge, fucking who cares because

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the teachers write the stuff on the board. All she

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has to do is like text a friend and go

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what was the homework or whatever?

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Speaker 1: So she forgot her planner, It doesn't really matter.

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Speaker 3: But they gave her an infraction for forgetting her planner,

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I guess because they're teaching the sixth grader's responsibility. But

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the thing is, once they're out of sixth grade, they

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really stop giving them distractions for stupid shit. And you

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can better believe that Elbie still forgets her planner because

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that's just.

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Speaker 1: Who she is. She's just never been cited for it,

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right exactly.

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Speaker 3: And oh and if they forget their water bottle for

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pe like they're trying to train them to be, but

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that stuff doesn't really work.

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Speaker 1: They are who they are. They are who they are,

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They have a default setting. Yes, you can mold them

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and teach them things, but I don't. And you can

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also you can also discipline them. But taking away a

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free time like that, it just for me, it seems

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like it's a punishment, and then it makes it they

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don't want to read to me. If that happened to

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me or Natalia who doesn't like to really read, or Sonny,

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they don't, They wouldn't. It would be a punishment like reading.

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If I said let's read on the weekend, they'd say,

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forget it. You know what I mean. It's a it's

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a I just think it's it's not right. I don't know.

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I agree.

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Speaker 3: I think you have to keep it as something that's

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like fun and enjoyable. If you put a negative pressure

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on putting.

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Speaker 1: Too much pressure on them. I have a situation. Please

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bring it well. So Sonny's school's basketball teams seventh grade.

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They Natalia's got her bet, she's trying out for her basketball.

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But he's trying out for basketball tomorrow. And only like

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thirteen or fourteen people make the team out of his grade,

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out of his whole grade. Any how many kids in

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this grade?

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Speaker 3: I asked him, I have no idea how many kids

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in the whole school nine hundred maybe eight hundred, okay,

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and that's between three grades. No, no, it's seventh and eighth,

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and then it's high school. They're with the high school campus. Okay,

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but you're talking about just the seventh seventh graders. Okay,

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So there's nine hundred kids in two grades.

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Speaker 1: I think no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

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I don't know. I think in the two grades there's

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probably I would say I would say the two hundred

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two fifty. Okay, that makes sense because.

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Speaker 3: There's three schools that feed in there. Okay, Okay, how

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many classrooms per grade?

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Speaker 1: Do you know?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I stay away from that, all right.

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Speaker 3: So if there's like two hundred and fifty kids per

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grade basically in the two grades, so there's at least

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he's competing with probably like forty kids, or I'm always.

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Speaker 1: Competing with pretty much. I can get an approximant because

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these are the same kids that are on his other

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leagues because they're in the area. So I would say

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there's probably forty of them. And he's a really good

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basketball player. He is, but he's it's competitive, and I'm

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worried that his all his little buddies are gonna make

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it because his two of us, you know, his one

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best friend is is like one of the top. He's

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gonna make it. I know that, But like his other friend,

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I don't know. And what if they make it again?

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Like the football team. You know they made the football team.

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He didn't. That's still made me mad a lot of it.

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I know they go on a bus. I know.

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Speaker 3: It's so sad he doesn't make his basketball team. That

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is just sad, I know, and I'm worried about that.

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I don't know what to do. Tomorrow's the Tomorrow's the thing.

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And yesterday I said, Sonny in the afternoon, I said,

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let's go outside and practice, or let's go to the YMCA.

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And he's like, can we go to the park and

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throw the football because that's his favorite thing to do.

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Speaker 1: I was like, but you're you got to warm up

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for that. Anyway. He has practice tonight with the hardcore coach.

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So but they all do so saying kids, So, I

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don't know, it's gonna be. It's gonna break my heart. Well,

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let's assume that he's gonna make it. Let's assume he

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doesn't make it.

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Speaker 3: No, let's assume he makes it, and then if he

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doesn't make it, then we deal with the fallout. Because

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he's going to He's going to try out, so that's

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for sure. He's going to try out. So let's assume

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that he's gonna make it.

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Speaker 1: He does. I've seen videos of him playing basketball. He's

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got everything. He's got. He's got the ball handling skills,

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Like he goes around the black they're all chasing him

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and he goes around the backside and front side under

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his leg. He does all that. Yeah, he's got it.

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He passes, he assists, he does all that stuff. He's

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not he doesn't drive. He doesn't have that that when

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I say he doesn't have that drive meaning physically, he

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doesn't do the act of driving the ball down the

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court and making it into the basket. His friends who

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got worked on a team while he was not well

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he got his injury. They during that time, I think

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that's when they kind of came to life and really

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got they because they got they started working with kids

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that are older than him. So in practices, they you know,

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they learned how to do that and they're doing that

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still now. But there you know how to do it now.

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He doesn't, so now he's doubly intimidated, if that's makes sense.

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So while he when he was in the hospital and

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he got sick or whatever the bike accident, that's when

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his team, his buddies, got to work with the other kids,

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the older kids, and it was a challenge for them,

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and they made it. You know, I think they got

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they got their confidence. Then now they're still working on it,

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but now they have the confidence those kids have. His

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friends have those that confidence, but he doesn't. So now

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he's even he's intimidated.

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Speaker 3: He's but there's thirteen spots. Yeah, I think he'll make it, Okay.

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I don't think there's twelve other people that are better

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than he is.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: He's this he's I wish they just let everybody on

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the team and then just split him up into different teams.

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Speaker 1: Have a varsity and a JV. That's what I said,

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And son, he was like, there's too many kids for that, Mom,

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there's too many kids. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: That's what they do. That's what Elbe School does. They

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have three separate tip basketball teams. She played on girls basketball.

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There's a sixth grade team, a JV in a varsity

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and she's team captain of her varsity team?

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Speaker 1: How many kids are on saying that much? Guys, the

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kids aren't they're not good. But how many how many

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kids are on her team?

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Speaker 3: Well, there's only six on her team because only six

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girls were good enough to be varsity.

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Speaker 1: What about the other teams?

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Speaker 3: The the JV team has like I'm going to say,

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like at least thirteen or fourteen. And then the sixth

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grade team has, however many sixth graders. There were probably

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twelve of those, so they know, maybe sixth grade or

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so make the team. Yeah, everybody makes the team. All

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the sixth graders who wanted to be on the team, well,

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there weren't that many that wanted to be on it.

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But let's just say there's twelve. There weren't that many.

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That's but but and then the rest of them are.

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Speaker 1: On the JV. Right, I don't know, we'll see the

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seventh and eighth grade girls that weren't good enough. But

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to the adversity, he's been on a regiment, like since

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October first till October thirty first, he said he was

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going to eat scrambled eggs in the morning. He wasn't

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gonna have he was gonna have one soda during the

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day if he like, if he had a soda, he

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would only keep it to one, no junk. He was

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gonna have fruit when he got home, not chips. So

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I was like, why are you doing He's like, I'm

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getting ready for the tryouts. But also I just want

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to do it. Just I just want to discipline, just

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want my because Adam talks about discipline, discipline, discipline not

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to him, but like when he was growing he talks

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about himself. Shocker spoiler alert. Adam talks about himself at

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home a lot, like how he was growing up and

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how he was doing the football and this is what

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he was just he wanted to eat this, but he didn't.

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So Sonny, he was like, I want to do I'm

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going to do it. And he did it before. And

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it was so sad because the other day I forgot

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their lunches. I was like, oh my god, I forgot

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to make you guys lunch on the way to school.

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And then I was like, okay, what do you guys want?

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And then of course they both want something different. He

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wants to bout lay. He wants the healthy, like just

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the chicken and the whatever from and she wants Blaze

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pizza and and so okay. So then I came here

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and then I started working. Happened and the good old

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days of just getting subway, I know what the so anyway,

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so I was here working and I completely forgot it

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was I had to go get their lunches. Natalia calls

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and she's like, mom, where's our lunches because you leave

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them on the thing. And I go, oh my god.

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So I only could go to one place, and I

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went to Blaze was the easiest, and I went there.

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And so anyway, I go, tell Sonny you and Sonny,

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I'm on my I mean, it was like it was

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like like I felt like kojak or So I was

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like driving my car like move out of the way,

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like you know what I mean, like no time for backup.

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I had the two pizzas in my car. And then

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I was like, ohh, I forgot drinks that they can

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00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,920
get the water at school they can drink them drinking

470
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,400
found I don't care, So I pull I caught. Natali

471
00:22:16,519 --> 00:22:18,119
is the one that's like doing all the well I

472
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:19,079
go where Sunny she goes.

473
00:22:19,079 --> 00:22:21,640
Speaker 3: He's starving. He's here too. I Okay, meet me in

474
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,519
the front of the school. They don't not caut lunch

475
00:22:23,559 --> 00:22:24,119
at your school.

476
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:27,640
Speaker 1: They do, but they didn't have money that day, and

477
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,839
I don't know, I don't know whatever they were serving

478
00:22:30,880 --> 00:22:33,559
that day, I know, I said, I trust me. I

479
00:22:33,559 --> 00:22:37,200
asked her, and she's like, we're starving so cause our school.

480
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 3: By the way, just to interject, has to be you

481
00:22:39,759 --> 00:22:43,240
can't just there's no cafeteria. They order from a service

482
00:22:43,759 --> 00:22:45,960
and you have to order like two weeks ahead of time,

483
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,960
and then if you didn't order, like there's no food

484
00:22:49,079 --> 00:22:52,480
that I don't love it because there's no way to

485
00:22:52,559 --> 00:22:55,039
just have an emergency, Like if you forget the kids lunch, you.

486
00:22:55,079 --> 00:22:57,039
Speaker 1: Just go, we'll just buy hot lunch today. Yeah. Well,

487
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,960
usually you can for the most part because they'll eat

488
00:23:00,039 --> 00:23:02,880
pretty much everything. But like there's some days there's I

489
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,480
don't know, like fish, tacos, I don't know, and whatever

490
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,720
they don't want. Of course, it happened to be that day.

491
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,240
So I'm poll I go, go, okay, this is he's doing.

492
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,640
This is while this month, while he's on his diet.

493
00:23:14,839 --> 00:23:17,720
I forgot about his diet, right and I got so

494
00:23:17,799 --> 00:23:19,960
I pull up and I got him his Blaze pizza

495
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,640
that he usually likes with like sausage and memboroni. Put

496
00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,319
the look on his face.

497
00:23:24,839 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 3: I go, here you go and he goes, what happened

498
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,480
to Chipole? And I go, I'm sorry, Sonny, I forgot and.

499
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 1: He goes his eyes teared up. You could tell like

500
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:36,160
he had that like agrav you know when you're starving

501
00:23:36,599 --> 00:23:38,039
and then you pull up and you get food that

502
00:23:38,079 --> 00:23:41,079
you don't want. You know, he's just that that that

503
00:23:41,079 --> 00:23:43,119
that feeling like he had. I could see it, and

504
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,000
it's like his ear. His eyes teared up and he goes, thanks,

505
00:23:46,319 --> 00:23:48,599
thanks Ma, and he just like walked away, and I

506
00:23:48,599 --> 00:23:50,680
could tell him he's like and then I go, oh,

507
00:23:50,759 --> 00:23:53,599
I got your doctor pepper. Oh no, and he goes, no,

508
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,480
it fell out of my car and it rolled and

509
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,480
and he went and grabbed it and he goes, no, thanks,

510
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,559
and he threw it back in the car. I'm sorry, Sonny.

511
00:24:01,559 --> 00:24:04,759
He goes, he walked off with his pizza. Did he

512
00:24:04,799 --> 00:24:08,119
eat it? Yeah, he was starving, but he was trying

513
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,200
to stay at his time, he's.

514
00:24:10,079 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 3: Twelve, What the hell you gotta have pizza? I wonder

515
00:24:12,799 --> 00:24:16,079
he's doing it to himself. I know that's what I'm says,

516
00:24:16,079 --> 00:24:17,119
he's doing that to himself.

517
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:17,680
Speaker 1: I don't know.

518
00:24:18,519 --> 00:24:22,279
Speaker 3: He's like, he's gotta he's twelve. He's got a fast metabolism,

519
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:23,960
have you, Yeah, he does. He's not gonna hurt, he's

520
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:25,440
not gonna affect anything. I know.

521
00:24:25,519 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 1: He's he's not overweight by all. And he's not training

522
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,839
for the Olympics. I know. I think he's doing it

523
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:33,960
just to see if he's got the discipline to do it.

524
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 3: That's what he says. That's why he's doing it. See,

525
00:24:37,039 --> 00:24:37,920
I won't tell Dad.

526
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 1: I won't tell I know Dad. Dad's let that fucking

527
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,599
ship say a long time and he can't win that argument.

528
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,519
Once in a while he'll say, you know whatever, he complains,

529
00:24:48,519 --> 00:24:51,359
but he keeps it for the podcast and complains about

530
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:57,640
it on Drew Show. You know, But anyway, that's h Adam,

531
00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:01,920
by the way, loves the Lackey's here now. Yeah, okay,

532
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,680
it's perked up. We have. We went to dinner the

533
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:08,279
other night with the kids and Adam and I were

534
00:25:08,279 --> 00:25:10,960
talking about work stuff and he said, and I said

535
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,720
something about the ads that Dylan did for the Corolla

536
00:25:13,759 --> 00:25:15,759
drink stuff, and I go and they were they were

537
00:25:15,799 --> 00:25:17,640
really funny, he did, you know, and he goes, I

538
00:25:17,799 --> 00:25:20,200
know those guys are coming to life. I go, what

539
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,559
like they were like in sleep mode? He goes, yeah,

540
00:25:22,599 --> 00:25:24,960
you know they're coming alive. Now they're coming to life.

541
00:25:25,039 --> 00:25:25,599
I like it.

542
00:25:26,079 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 3: They could do better, they could, you know, they know

543
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,240
what's funny. They always pitch stuff to me and I go,

544
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,160
just whatever, you think it's funny, do it?

545
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: What do I you know? I go, but you're Adam

546
00:25:35,279 --> 00:25:37,960
and your at your show and you know, and they don't,

547
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,640
you know, they don't want to hear it afterwards and

548
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,079
go that was dumb or why do we do that? So,

549
00:25:42,319 --> 00:25:44,400
you know, he he gets irritated that they pitch him

550
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,200
stuff and he goes, just do whatever it is, just

551
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:47,839
do it. Just pick the better one or pick the

552
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,960
funnier one. I'll let you decide.

553
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:52,759
Speaker 6: Yeah, that sounds about right.

554
00:25:52,839 --> 00:25:55,599
Speaker 5: Yeah, we still like to check with him, though, you know,

555
00:25:56,039 --> 00:25:57,079
we don't want to just go right.

556
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,599
Speaker 1: They can't win with him. I know, you can't go wrong. No,

557
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,400
you can't pine pain in the ass. I hope he's listening.

558
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:10,319
No rogue. So what's going on? Well?

559
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:15,519
Speaker 3: Over last weekend, I just want to report that I

560
00:26:15,599 --> 00:26:18,839
went to see Robin's son.

561
00:26:18,799 --> 00:26:22,279
Speaker 1: In a play. No, and he was so cute. I

562
00:26:22,319 --> 00:26:27,839
really say, how he is turning sixteen? Oh it's fifteen.

563
00:26:28,559 --> 00:26:31,440
Speaker 3: He has I don't think Robin would mind me saying

564
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,960
that he's very high functioning but he has autism.

565
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 1: Oh wow, but it's so interesting, like you wouldn't know it.

566
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:40,279
I mean, he's.

567
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 3: Quirky, but he's so cool and he's really really kind,

568
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:49,480
like sweet kid. Yeah, he's like like when you talk

569
00:26:49,559 --> 00:26:52,960
to him, you're like, okay, does like And then if

570
00:26:53,039 --> 00:26:55,039
if she was to say, like, oh, he has autism,

571
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:56,720
then you'd be like, oh, okay.

572
00:26:57,039 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 1: But it's more like a quirkiness.

573
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 3: But I know she went through a lot with him

574
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,200
when he was younger, and like there was a ton

575
00:27:03,279 --> 00:27:07,359
of therapy and stuff. But he's such such a cool kid.

576
00:27:07,759 --> 00:27:11,599
And here's the main thing. So he got the lead.

577
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:15,759
He's in this like children's playhouse, Ah, which is awesome. Yeah,

578
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:17,880
kind of near you. I'll tell you what it is later.

579
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,519
But and so they were doing Beauty and the Beast

580
00:27:20,599 --> 00:27:23,480
and he was the Beast. Oh, and I brought Xander

581
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,039
and we've hung out with them before but one time.

582
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,599
But so we went to see the play and Xander

583
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:31,920
loved it and he was so good in it, and

584
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,480
it like made me cry. These kids were so talented.

585
00:27:34,559 --> 00:27:37,599
Doesn't that always like a little theater company always cry

586
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:38,799
when I watched those plays.

587
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like.

588
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 3: Fun because it's Robin's kid, and like, you know, just

589
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,480
seeing him perform. And then so afterwards he came out

590
00:27:45,519 --> 00:27:49,680
and then we all went to dinner at Caro's and

591
00:27:50,799 --> 00:27:54,519
Jack hung out with Xander and Robin and I were

592
00:27:54,559 --> 00:27:57,359
like sitting and talking and you know when like a

593
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,680
kid is like a little bit older and they're they're

594
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,759
talking near kid, but you're like, are.

595
00:28:01,599 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 1: They just humoring Mike? Are they babysittings?

596
00:28:05,079 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 3: Or are they Like I was feeling kind of bad. Yeah,

597
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:11,839
but we kept looking over and Jack was being so

598
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,519
funny with Xander, like they were talking about how cringey

599
00:28:15,559 --> 00:28:17,279
it is when people do Fortnite dances.

600
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:22,759
Speaker 1: That's me, and they were and.

601
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 3: Xander was getting like you could just see he was

602
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,519
so lit up telling Jack and Jack was really like

603
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:29,960
acting like hanging.

604
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:31,799
Speaker 1: On every word that Xander was saying, and he.

605
00:28:31,799 --> 00:28:34,519
Speaker 3: Was like yeah, And then at one point Jack was like,

606
00:28:34,559 --> 00:28:37,160
you know, this is so cool, Like here you are,

607
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,599
you know, in the fifth grade and here I am

608
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,240
like in the junior and yet we have some of

609
00:28:42,279 --> 00:28:45,240
the same issues with our friends. And it was the

610
00:28:45,519 --> 00:28:47,000
sweetest sweet thing.

611
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: And then when we went home, I mean.

612
00:28:50,039 --> 00:28:53,279
Speaker 3: They talked for like over an hour. We were there

613
00:28:53,279 --> 00:28:55,000
for like an hour and a half. I love that

614
00:28:55,039 --> 00:28:58,599
they talked the whole time, and Jack acted so interested

615
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,799
in what Xander was saying, and.

616
00:29:01,039 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: Just I'm sure he was inty. I mean, you know,

617
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,720
I love when I see bigger kids like that.

618
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,079
Speaker 3: It's so sweet and so like, oh really, and then

619
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,640
oh that guy said, what h that is so annoying,

620
00:29:11,839 --> 00:29:12,759
Like I can't believe it.

621
00:29:12,799 --> 00:29:14,839
Speaker 1: Oh, I've had that happen to me. He was just

622
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:15,200
like that.

623
00:29:15,319 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 3: And then when I went to leave with Xander in

624
00:29:18,279 --> 00:29:21,079
our car, he was just like I had such a

625
00:29:21,079 --> 00:29:22,440
good time, like he was.

626
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: High from it. Mm hmm. Yeah, when can we see

627
00:29:26,039 --> 00:29:29,200
Chack again? Like, yeah, It's just so sweet, isn't it sweet.

628
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:33,799
I love when kids at our young age, you know

629
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,279
the age of our kids, and then they meet an

630
00:29:37,359 --> 00:29:41,319
older kid they do that gives them attention. They want

631
00:29:41,359 --> 00:29:44,440
to be with that kid, you know, that genuinely gives

632
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:48,440
them attention, you know, like at Christmas time. If we

633
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,480
go to our friend's house, they have niece. They see

634
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,119
these girls once a year at Christmas. Like we don't

635
00:29:54,119 --> 00:29:56,920
know them very well, right, but these girls they're they're sisters,

636
00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:00,880
they're they're you know, sixteen, seventeen years old. But there's

637
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:02,759
so and then there's a kid table, so they go

638
00:30:02,839 --> 00:30:03,519
sit with them.

639
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,839
Speaker 3: Hey, how's it going Italia, Sonny, you know it's been

640
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,720
a year, Like, oh my god, I love your dress.

641
00:30:09,519 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: You know, you know what I mean, They're they're into it.

642
00:30:11,519 --> 00:30:13,200
And then they leave and then the kids are like,

643
00:30:13,559 --> 00:30:15,960
oh my god, I love those girls. When do we

644
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,519
How can we never get to see them? We only

645
00:30:17,559 --> 00:30:19,440
see that, you know what I mean? Yes, it is.

646
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:20,880
It is a very sweet thing.

647
00:30:20,799 --> 00:30:24,079
Speaker 3: To And also Xander doesn't really have any male figures

648
00:30:24,079 --> 00:30:27,400
in his life. Yeah, I mean John's not a no,

649
00:30:27,559 --> 00:30:30,319
just kidding, no, but I mean besides dad, he has

650
00:30:30,359 --> 00:30:34,359
a dad, but he has two sisters and me strong personality.

651
00:30:34,559 --> 00:30:36,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, even even our dog is a girl.

652
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,519
Speaker 3: So like there's just a lot of female energy in

653
00:30:39,559 --> 00:30:43,160
the house. And you know, so John does try to,

654
00:30:43,319 --> 00:30:45,880
of course do stuff one on one with Xander, like

655
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,079
guy stuff, and they have their you know.

656
00:30:48,119 --> 00:30:49,839
Speaker 1: But it was so nice to see them. Like.

657
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,599
Speaker 3: Also, and this is going to sound ridict crazy, but

658
00:30:55,319 --> 00:31:00,000
Robin and her husband, Wade, went with John and Zay

659
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:06,160
to a football game. Really yes, and Robin's husband and

660
00:31:06,519 --> 00:31:07,839
Xander totally bonded.

661
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,079
Speaker 1: So I know her husband is so nice.

662
00:31:11,119 --> 00:31:14,119
Speaker 3: He's really really nice, fun guy, and he was you

663
00:31:14,119 --> 00:31:16,480
would have loved him because he was giving Xander all this,

664
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:21,599
all these self parks to watch self park recommendations. So

665
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:24,519
Xander came home all, oh, Wade says, I have to

666
00:31:24,519 --> 00:31:26,759
watch this self park and you know what he's going

667
00:31:26,799 --> 00:31:27,440
for Halloween?

668
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:28,839
Speaker 1: What he because?

669
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 3: So we're recording in Halloween for you guys, it happened

670
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,599
two days ago. For us, it's coming up. It's tomorrow.

671
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:39,680
But he's going as Cartman's as a cart robot cartman?

672
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:43,279
Oh really with the boxes it's like a really have

673
00:31:43,319 --> 00:31:46,920
you ever seen this character? No self park robot? Really

674
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:47,839
out of boxes?

675
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,759
Speaker 1: That's cute. Yeah, And what's what are what's Sadie going?

676
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:57,359
Speaker 3: Okay, so this is funny. So I'm like, Sadie, what

677
00:31:57,359 --> 00:31:59,839
do you want to be for Halloween? Sadie is such

678
00:31:59,839 --> 00:32:03,799
a teenager. She's like, I don't know, I want to

679
00:32:03,799 --> 00:32:05,480
be something funny. I was trying to get her to

680
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:06,400
be Kim Kardashian.

681
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:11,079
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah. We were like, well, what's Xander

682
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:11,519
going to be?

683
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:13,799
Speaker 3: We're like, well, I thought it'd be funny if he

684
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,279
was a Kardashian, a girl Kardashian, but he was like, no,

685
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,279
I'm not, Mom, come on, I'm not going in drag.

686
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:25,400
So then I thought of Kanye and they my entire

687
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:28,839
family looked at me like, seriously, what he's going to

688
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,839
be blackface? Mom, come on, get woke. So I was like, okay,

689
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:37,519
of course, not that. Okay, So anyway, Rob Kardashian, No,

690
00:32:37,839 --> 00:32:41,480
we suggested that. What it was like, Mom, no, what

691
00:32:41,519 --> 00:32:48,680
about Robert Kardashian, a dead Robert Kardashian. So the lawyer, Yeah,

692
00:32:49,319 --> 00:32:51,759
well okay. So so then Xander picked something else. So

693
00:32:51,839 --> 00:32:55,400
Sadie was like I had suggested. I was like just

694
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,279
grabbing at anything. I was like, well, what about like

695
00:32:57,319 --> 00:32:59,599
you could be like a ninja and she was like

696
00:33:00,039 --> 00:33:03,759
hmm okay, okay, so you're just gonna love this. So

697
00:33:04,119 --> 00:33:06,519
I'm like I want it to be easy, right, No

698
00:33:06,599 --> 00:33:08,359
get her. I'm like, can we go to party city

699
00:33:08,359 --> 00:33:12,680
and just get a ninja costume? She's like, no, I

700
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:17,519
don't want to wear like a costume. Lina, exactly, what.

701
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,119
Speaker 1: What do you mean? Why why can't you just been

702
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,079
fucking Halloween? Why do you have to be difficult? I'm

703
00:33:24,119 --> 00:33:27,119
not well, I'm not going to sew you anything about

704
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:27,440
from me.

705
00:33:27,839 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 3: So she's like, here's the thing. Though, she's a She's like,

706
00:33:30,799 --> 00:33:32,119
doesn't want to look like tryhard.

707
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't.

708
00:33:34,319 --> 00:33:36,519
Speaker 3: She doesn't want to be all like she thinks a

709
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:38,599
ninja costume that that's really babyish.

710
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: She just wants to wear. She was like, I'm just

711
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:44,119
gonna do like a hood and like something over her mouth,

712
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,400
like a bandana, and then but all the things she

713
00:33:47,559 --> 00:33:51,799
describes sounds really ghetto, like just put together from an

714
00:33:51,799 --> 00:33:56,000
old drawer, right, And I was like, well, okay, but

715
00:33:56,319 --> 00:33:56,960
let's just go to.

716
00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,279
Speaker 3: Party City and just see what like accoutrements we can yeah,

717
00:34:00,359 --> 00:34:02,119
you know, yeah, So we go to we go to

718
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:05,119
party City, and of course I'm still trying to be like,

719
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,400
look at this already made ninja.

720
00:34:07,039 --> 00:34:10,559
Speaker 1: Costume, right right, done and done, forty bucks, let's go.

721
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:14,239
You know, No, I'm not wearing that. So I was like, okay.

722
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 3: So she was like, I'm just gonna wear like black

723
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,159
leggings from home, and then she wants to wear like

724
00:34:19,159 --> 00:34:19,800
a black shirt.

725
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 1: Then we found a ninja hood.

726
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 3: Basically, I was like, can we just get the hood?

727
00:34:25,079 --> 00:34:27,840
She was like, okay, this is what she was interested in.

728
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,559
She didn't to tell you what could be for. I

729
00:34:30,639 --> 00:34:33,199
just want to do like really cool makeup on my face.

730
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,400
It's like, your face is going to be covered up

731
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:38,800
by a ninja hood. She's like, but they'll be able

732
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,719
to see my eyes. Let's get some lashes. So yeah,

733
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:43,360
where do you think We spent most of the money

734
00:34:43,599 --> 00:34:48,519
on like red foil lashes, like beads those like stick

735
00:34:48,559 --> 00:34:51,320
on the adhesive like like looks like a BINDI with

736
00:34:51,599 --> 00:34:54,559
like on your forehead, decoration on your forehead and under

737
00:34:54,599 --> 00:34:57,719
a little under the eyes, and then glittery makeup. And

738
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,519
then she's just gonna wear the ninja hood and like

739
00:35:00,599 --> 00:35:02,800
black leggings and like a black shirt that we went

740
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:07,480
and bought at Q And I was like, okay, like

741
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,159
you don't want to wear like a sash?

742
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:09,679
Speaker 1: Right?

743
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:10,199
Speaker 7: Oh yeah?

744
00:35:10,199 --> 00:35:12,599
Speaker 1: Did she have a sword? Okay?

745
00:35:12,639 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 3: Things, so I tried to buy her a sword. I'm

746
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:16,800
like trying to spend money, and I'm like let's get

747
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,920
you a ninja sword so that people know you're a

748
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:23,559
fucking ninja. She's like, Mom, I'm already going to be

749
00:35:23,599 --> 00:35:25,480
carrying around a bag of candy. I can't be like

750
00:35:25,519 --> 00:35:26,440
weighed down by a sword.

751
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,159
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god.

752
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 3: She's like, Mom, they're going to know I'm a ninja

753
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,519
because of the hood, right, And I was like, okay,

754
00:35:34,559 --> 00:35:35,960
either that or an executioner.

755
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 1: Like. I was like, I think we need a little

756
00:35:38,599 --> 00:35:42,360
little something to like tip people off. Yeah.

757
00:35:42,519 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 3: I was like what what? Kid is like, No, don't

758
00:35:45,519 --> 00:35:48,480
buy me a sword. She I said, what's the real

759
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:48,840
reason you.

760
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 1: Don't want a sword?

761
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 3: She's like, Mom, it's just kind of like I don't

762
00:35:51,519 --> 00:35:55,199
need a sword, like I just don't want it. And

763
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,880
I was like okay, I go okay.

764
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,559
Speaker 1: And then I go about some ninja gloves.

765
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,599
Speaker 3: Now, they made these gloves that have like Chinese or

766
00:36:05,599 --> 00:36:08,719
whatever Japanese whatever Japanese.

767
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 1: Like letters and whatever. It looks Asian.

768
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 3: She's like no, but then picks up these fishnet gloves

769
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,039
that I'm sure really for like a Madonna costume or whatever.

770
00:36:20,119 --> 00:36:22,519
She's like, how about these? I was like, now she'd

771
00:36:22,519 --> 00:36:25,760
warn me down. I was like, all right, then sure,

772
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,360
and then you're like, I give up ninety nine, adam

773
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:29,440
On put them in the bag.

774
00:36:29,519 --> 00:36:33,159
Speaker 1: You want a cheese string out, fine, let's go. You

775
00:36:33,159 --> 00:36:35,719
want some loose sight heels, Yeah, that will work. They

776
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,880
go at the costume Natalia already with the short shorts.

777
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:40,760
What are you for Halloween? Me and my friends are

778
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:46,079
gonna be lifeguards, right fucking NiFe guards? Oh my god? Really,

779
00:36:46,199 --> 00:36:47,760
you man me? Lifeguards?

780
00:36:48,599 --> 00:36:48,840
Speaker 7: Why?

781
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 1: Because they have the short shorts it says lifeguard on

782
00:36:51,559 --> 00:36:54,679
the bag and the red like cute red like leotard

783
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,199
and the jacket that goes, oh fuck that, like, are

784
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:00,679
you kidding me? That's you're gonna be. All her friends

785
00:37:00,679 --> 00:37:02,800
have it too. She took a picture of all of them.

786
00:37:03,199 --> 00:37:06,440
I was like, can't you be somebody from Fortnite? That

787
00:37:06,559 --> 00:37:07,360
is so funny.

788
00:37:07,599 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 3: One of my friends, who's whose daughter is one of

789
00:37:10,039 --> 00:37:12,920
Elvis' already in Elvi's group, told me.

790
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:17,519
Speaker 1: That her daughter wants to be is it six eighties?

791
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,559
Speaker 3: But the reason she rarely wants to be eighties is

792
00:37:20,639 --> 00:37:23,039
because she wants to wear short booty shorts and like

793
00:37:23,079 --> 00:37:27,119
tuobed tube sox and like a taint, like a She

794
00:37:27,159 --> 00:37:29,159
wants to wear like what do you call it tube

795
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:34,239
tube top tube sox and like, you know, short shorts, dolphins,

796
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,320
you know, like booty shorts, Yeah, really short shorts.

797
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 1: And she was like, well, you know, you can't wear.

798
00:37:39,679 --> 00:37:41,639
Speaker 3: That at school, but she wanted to wear it, you know,

799
00:37:41,679 --> 00:37:43,880
because it's like any She was like, no, that's.

800
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:47,199
Speaker 1: Not to dress code. They're not wearing booty shorts to school.

801
00:37:47,519 --> 00:37:48,480
And she was like oh.

802
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,679
Speaker 3: And then she was trying to find her other stuff

803
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:52,840
for the trick or treating and she really wasn't interested.

804
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 1: She was like, I just need some tube sox.

805
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:58,320
Speaker 3: I just want the candy and an excuse to dress

806
00:37:58,440 --> 00:37:59,360
like I think she is.

807
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 1: I know what's already the slug costumes already. Can I

808
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,920
have another year of you, like wearing a princess costume

809
00:38:08,039 --> 00:38:11,360
like something? You're already with the aerial for one more year?

810
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:11,679
Speaker 3: I know.

811
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:15,559
Speaker 1: Now you gotta be Pam in Ice.

812
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh, oh my god, that is too funny. Yeah, okay,

813
00:38:22,119 --> 00:38:25,440
I think I had one more thing. I was like,

814
00:38:25,519 --> 00:38:27,480
I have this whole list of things to tell you.

815
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:29,719
I have one more thing to tell you, and this

816
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:31,519
one's a little bit sad, but it'll be quick.

817
00:38:31,559 --> 00:38:33,159
Speaker 1: But okay. So Sadie.

818
00:38:33,199 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 3: So they got to pick their cabin mates for their

819
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:37,599
trip that they're going to.

820
00:38:39,079 --> 00:38:41,199
Speaker 1: Where are they They're going to Catalina, Catalina.

821
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:45,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, So Sadie came home yesterday and her feelings were very,

822
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,880
very hurt. She was really sad, and she said that

823
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:52,320
they had they all got to pick three people, and

824
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:55,199
she basically was at the on the verge of tears.

825
00:38:55,199 --> 00:38:57,280
She was like, only two people out of the whole

826
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,840
class picked me, and all the people she picked, they

827
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:02,920
had all kind of planned to pick each other. This

828
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:04,800
group sod there'd be four people in the cabin.

829
00:39:05,159 --> 00:39:05,559
Speaker 1: She said.

830
00:39:05,599 --> 00:39:07,599
Speaker 3: None of the people that she picked picked her back.

831
00:39:08,559 --> 00:39:13,239
They all picked each other plus one other girl. And

832
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,000
she was and this is what she said to me.

833
00:39:15,039 --> 00:39:18,840
She was like, I just don't understand. She was like,

834
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:22,480
I'm not like I'm not crazy, Like I'm not like

835
00:39:22,599 --> 00:39:26,880
really loud or obnoxious. She goes, I'm pretty nice, Like

836
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,920
I'm not mean. She's like, I'm fun. She goes, why

837
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:35,119
don't they like me? And I said, I just don't know.

838
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:37,559
I was like, cause I think you're so awesome and

839
00:39:37,599 --> 00:39:42,679
you're fun and you're adorable, and you're hip and you're creative,

840
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,039
and you like to do lots of stuff. I was like,

841
00:39:45,159 --> 00:39:49,079
I don't know, I said, all I mean, I think

842
00:39:49,119 --> 00:39:50,559
she was like, she goes.

843
00:39:50,599 --> 00:39:53,639
Speaker 1: People like me. She goes, but they don't pick me.

844
00:39:54,159 --> 00:39:56,880
They don't they like me. They're around me.

845
00:39:57,039 --> 00:40:01,119
Speaker 3: Nobody's mean to me, right, but they don't like None

846
00:40:01,119 --> 00:40:04,559
of them picked me. And I said, so they like you,

847
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,079
but you're nobody's favorite. Is that how you feel? And

848
00:40:07,119 --> 00:40:10,840
she started crying and she was like, yes, I'm nobody's favorite.

849
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 1: That makes me sad. I think I know. I mean,

850
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,360
I have an idea of why, just because I've seen

851
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,599
it with Natalia and her friends. I think you have

852
00:40:21,679 --> 00:40:25,559
to be assertive and assert yourself in to them. You

853
00:40:25,599 --> 00:40:30,239
have to like insert yourself, like as what she did.

854
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 3: She said, she has. She said, Mom, I have put

855
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,320
myself out there so much. I hang out with them

856
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,760
even when they're not coming to get me. She goes,

857
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:43,159
I include myself. I we all agreed to pick each

858
00:40:43,199 --> 00:40:46,320
other and then they just didn't.

859
00:40:47,159 --> 00:40:47,679
Speaker 1: How is that?

860
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:48,039
Speaker 5: So?

861
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: What happens? I don't know. Well, so they'll put her

862
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,559
in a group, I mean, they'll put her with can

863
00:40:53,679 --> 00:40:56,559
she can't they put her with them? I mean they

864
00:40:56,559 --> 00:40:58,239
may not have picked her, but they I'm sure that

865
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:03,199
the cabins only fit for kids, is there may?

866
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,280
Speaker 3: I mean, maybe she doesn't want to be forced, like

867
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:06,920
have them be forced to ignore.

868
00:41:07,079 --> 00:41:07,639
Speaker 1: I don't think.

869
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:08,199
Speaker 2: I think.

870
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,679
Speaker 1: I mean, they'll put her with some people she likes.

871
00:41:11,079 --> 00:41:12,000
It'll be fine.

872
00:41:12,559 --> 00:41:16,280
Speaker 3: It was more the overriding like that she'll be with it,

873
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,519
She'll be with kids that everybody likes each other. But

874
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,079
I told her, I said, you know what, And I

875
00:41:22,119 --> 00:41:24,639
pulled up a picture of myself in sixth grade, which

876
00:41:24,679 --> 00:41:28,679
was still elementary school for me, and I showed her.

877
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,480
I was like, look at this picture. I said, I

878
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,000
look how sad I look. And it was so true.

879
00:41:34,119 --> 00:41:35,679
There's this picture of me in sixth grade and I

880
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:37,000
just look defeated.

881
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:40,119
Speaker 1: I said, you should post it? Can you post it?

882
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:40,639
I can?

883
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, I said, the girl sitting next to me. So

884
00:41:43,679 --> 00:41:45,840
I'm sitting next to this girl. Her name's Jill Hoffman.

885
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:47,840
She was like my best friend in the sixth grade.

886
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,679
But I wasn't her best friend, right, I've had that

887
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:54,760
she was my best friend and she was super nice

888
00:41:55,079 --> 00:41:58,519
and she's still to this day is like the nicest person.

889
00:41:59,119 --> 00:42:01,840
We're still friends on face Facebook. We got together a

890
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:08,039
while ago. She really liked me, but I wasn't her

891
00:42:08,079 --> 00:42:10,320
best friend. She really liked a lot of people, and

892
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,639
she was popular. I use air quotes. So there was

893
00:42:13,679 --> 00:42:17,239
this group of girls and they were all friends with

894
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,639
each other, and they were not friends with me. It

895
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,760
was very similar to Sadie. I was like, Sadie, look

896
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:23,960
at this. This was who I thought of as my

897
00:42:24,039 --> 00:42:26,679
best friend. She did not think of me as her

898
00:42:26,679 --> 00:42:30,199
best friend. I was her friend for sure, not her

899
00:42:30,199 --> 00:42:33,599
best friend. They all loved her, and she loved all

900
00:42:33,639 --> 00:42:35,719
of them, and they all went to each other's houses.

901
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:37,679
And I said, and I remember having a party in

902
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:40,039
the sixth grade and inviting them all and they came,

903
00:42:41,159 --> 00:42:43,239
but none of them were my friend. I never spoke

904
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:46,199
to any of them after like elementary school, and did

905
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,920
none of them really remember me. I'm friends with some

906
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,280
of those girls on Facebook. They know they went to

907
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,320
sixth elementary school with me. They don't remember me. None

908
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:58,199
of them ever talk to me, I said, And honestly,

909
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,599
it was kind of like that in middle school for me.

910
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:05,360
Junior high had one friend, and even kind of into

911
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,760
high school. I said that now I have lots of friends,

912
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,119
right that I've been friends with for years. It just

913
00:43:11,159 --> 00:43:14,320
took me an extra long time to like find my tribe. Yeah,

914
00:43:15,679 --> 00:43:19,840
everybody finds their people, absolutely, and it's just going to

915
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,599
take you a little bit longer. Yeah, and don't change

916
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,239
oh you are, and try harder to fit in.

917
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 1: No, No, I know, I've been there. It's happened to

918
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,480
me before, the same thing. I remember middle school and

919
00:43:33,559 --> 00:43:36,000
I kind of see it with Sonny and Natalia with

920
00:43:36,079 --> 00:43:39,320
their friends. Now they were friends and they're tight in

921
00:43:40,119 --> 00:43:43,280
elementary school, but now with middle school, it's like, well,

922
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,079
what happened to so and so? What happened so? So

923
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:48,679
they're hanging out with this. They don't get upset or anything,

924
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:52,559
but I can see that they're not as close as

925
00:43:52,599 --> 00:43:53,199
they used to be.

926
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 3: Really, which one both of them? Italia's starting to happen Sunny.

927
00:43:59,199 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, like his little his guys that he was friends with,

928
00:44:03,519 --> 00:44:06,280
he's still friends with them. They asked actually text me

929
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:08,440
and said they want to go trick or treating because

930
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,119
Sonny and go with them. So he is friends with them,

931
00:44:11,119 --> 00:44:13,440
and he see but I see like on a weekend

932
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,679
or if he's playing on Fortnite, he's I like who

933
00:44:16,679 --> 00:44:19,800
you're playing with? It's it's sometimes them, but not all

934
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,280
the time. It's usually Now it's these new group of

935
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:25,719
guys who now in Italia is tight with right, but

936
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:30,239
those those boys are still tight. But Sonny's kind of

937
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:33,199
out and now he's with other guy I don't know.

938
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,639
And Natalia there's one friend that's kind of like not

939
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:40,079
around as much, and now she's with these other girls.

940
00:44:40,159 --> 00:44:44,079
She's with this one girl that I really not a

941
00:44:44,079 --> 00:44:49,320
big fan. Really yeah, uh, it's only I don't know,

942
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,280
the jury's still out. But she's been over a house

943
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,280
a couple of times. She doesn't say hi. I walk

944
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:57,800
and I go Hi. Girls, she's just she looks down.

945
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:00,840
She doesn't she goes hi, but she looks down on

946
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:04,280
her phone or whatever she's doing. Then I ordered pizza. Oh.

947
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,079
Then we were going out one night and those two

948
00:45:07,159 --> 00:45:09,199
were staying home. It was Adam and I were going

949
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:12,440
to the stupid El El Royal, and I said, what

950
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,880
do you guys want for dinner? And then Natalia was like,

951
00:45:15,039 --> 00:45:18,480
can we get I don't know. She wanted like a

952
00:45:18,559 --> 00:45:22,599
steak shack shack state with hamburgershock shake shack. Can we

953
00:45:22,639 --> 00:45:25,320
get that? I don't really like hamburgers, right in front

954
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:29,119
of me, I go, okay, well, and then I threw

955
00:45:29,119 --> 00:45:32,239
out some other blaze pizza or not. I said, like

956
00:45:32,559 --> 00:45:37,119
some subway or someplace like that. She goes and then

957
00:45:37,199 --> 00:45:39,360
Natalia was like all right and right in front of me.

958
00:45:39,679 --> 00:45:42,320
And then I said, well, what do you guys, what

959
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,920
do you want? And she's like, cheese pizza. I was like,

960
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:49,000
all right, so I sund like that yeah, And so

961
00:45:49,079 --> 00:45:52,079
I got the cheese pizza Adam and berserk. We got

962
00:45:52,119 --> 00:45:56,840
home the leftover pieces. Natalia ate the leftover pieces that

963
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,679
she didn't eat. She took the cheese off and just

964
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:03,360
ate the crust. And the first of all, you gave

965
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,320
us a hard time with what you wanted. We're buying

966
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:09,599
you dinner. A little grunt and then sorry, but then

967
00:46:09,679 --> 00:46:12,599
you like scrape all the cheese. You said, what did

968
00:46:12,599 --> 00:46:14,599
you want? We said, what did you want? Cheese pizza? Okay,

969
00:46:14,639 --> 00:46:17,800
so she said cheeseless pizza. She should have said cheeseless

970
00:46:19,639 --> 00:46:23,280
fucking send her home, I don't know. And then she's

971
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:27,039
been oh. And then then the other day I had

972
00:46:27,039 --> 00:46:29,679
to clean the house because the real estate shit going on.

973
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,960
The house was sold her house. No, the house is

974
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:37,199
because the colors. I think the house is spotless. Okay,

975
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:42,320
the floor is spotless. That girl was I walked down.

976
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:46,320
I go, hey, girls after school. She's eating a muffin.

977
00:46:47,199 --> 00:46:50,199
She's biting into it while she's walking around. Oh so

978
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:54,320
everybody knows when you bite into a muffin fucking flying do.

979
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:58,280
Speaker 3: Not eat muffins mobile, No, you do not with no napkins,

980
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:01,280
just walking around eating a like going to pet pit

981
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:01,960
Phil And.

982
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:05,679
Speaker 1: She's just like eating. I go, we just cleaned the house.

983
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,079
Natalia didn't need it. I go, we just cleaned the house.

984
00:47:08,119 --> 00:47:10,079
Can you get a napkin? Get a paper plate for

985
00:47:10,119 --> 00:47:13,000
your friend, please? And finally I just was like, she

986
00:47:13,039 --> 00:47:15,840
doesn't say hi, She's just kind of like, I don't know.

987
00:47:16,199 --> 00:47:17,360
Something's up with that kid.

988
00:47:17,639 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 3: Well, the eating the muffin thing is a deal breaker, right,

989
00:47:21,199 --> 00:47:23,400
You don't just walk around someone's house eating a muffin.

990
00:47:23,559 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: She wouldn't do that at her house, No I would.

991
00:47:26,519 --> 00:47:28,440
I don't. I don't think, so I don't know. I

992
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,679
don't know what goes on in her house, you know.

993
00:47:31,039 --> 00:47:33,880
And then I don't know I could go, And then

994
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:35,320
I was like then it was like one night in

995
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:37,480
Talia invited all these girls over in the middle of

996
00:47:37,559 --> 00:47:38,920
the not. I mean in the middle of the week.

997
00:47:39,199 --> 00:47:42,639
I go Natalia, it's a week night, and she she

998
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,159
was at someplace, at a volleyball whatever, and she goes,

999
00:47:45,199 --> 00:47:47,199
can my friends come over for a little bit? Sure,

1000
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,679
I'm thinking it's like Olivia and one other girl. She

1001
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,320
writes four girls over And then these other two girls

1002
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,599
come walking up to me and Olga and we're like,

1003
00:47:55,079 --> 00:47:57,079
why are we having a party now? I go no,

1004
00:47:57,199 --> 00:47:59,119
and I said to all the girls, everybody's got to

1005
00:47:59,159 --> 00:48:02,639
go home six thirty at the latest, at six thirty

1006
00:48:02,639 --> 00:48:05,760
seven o'clock. This is four o'clock. Okay, Natalia's got homework,

1007
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:07,159
Sonny's got home, So you don't want to have a

1008
00:48:07,199 --> 00:48:09,639
bunch of chicks in the house anyway, Right, And then

1009
00:48:10,039 --> 00:48:13,000
of course the one girl she can't be picked up

1010
00:48:13,079 --> 00:48:16,639
until seven, seven thirty. What was she going to do

1011
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:20,239
if she didn't get invited over? What was the plan?

1012
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,400
What was the plan between her and her parents? Right?

1013
00:48:22,559 --> 00:48:23,880
Can't she go back to that plan?

1014
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 4: Right?

1015
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,320
Speaker 1: Because why you know, we were invited her over, but

1016
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,440
now she can't be picked up till seven, like, right,

1017
00:48:28,639 --> 00:48:30,719
I don't know, and just she doesn't say, oh, and

1018
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,079
of course that's dinner time.

1019
00:48:32,159 --> 00:48:32,280
Speaker 5: Too.

1020
00:48:32,519 --> 00:48:35,079
Speaker 3: Yeah, like you got to feed your dinner like you

1021
00:48:35,079 --> 00:48:36,880
could at seven thirty. You're going to be like, I

1022
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:38,760
don't know what you guys probably had your own plan

1023
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:40,440
for dinner, so I didn't.

1024
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,639
Speaker 1: I didn't vat and we didn't. I didn't. We had

1025
00:48:42,679 --> 00:48:44,679
leftovers for dinner, and Italia and her were in the

1026
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,000
room and I didn't offer them dinner. I waited for

1027
00:48:47,039 --> 00:48:49,800
her to leave because she was already on my last nerve.

1028
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:53,079
Oh my god, that's me ar. She wasn't mean, but no,

1029
00:48:53,159 --> 00:48:57,320
I guess respectful. Yeah, totally. You don't fucking look down,

1030
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,480
you say when the wan mom walks in. Oh, I

1031
00:48:59,519 --> 00:49:02,679
know these kids in all of them like a little Asian. Hi,

1032
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:05,880
Missus Corolla. Everything is mister or missus Corolla. Like she

1033
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:11,280
didn't say anything. I don't know. Maybe I'm expecting too much.

1034
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,519
Speaker 3: You know what you need to keep all these people away? Yeah,

1035
00:49:14,639 --> 00:49:18,559
tell me simply safe, simply Yes, here comes our timer.

1036
00:49:19,039 --> 00:49:22,440
Simply safe is home security. I'm a huge fan of

1037
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:25,840
home security in general, just as a concept.

1038
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: Well especially now when I'm leaving the one that doesn't

1039
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:32,000
eat cheese on my pizza home at night. When you

1040
00:49:32,159 --> 00:49:34,519
when you got your kids at home and you go

1041
00:49:34,559 --> 00:49:36,159
out on date night to see a movie you don't

1042
00:49:36,159 --> 00:49:36,719
want to see.

1043
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:40,559
Speaker 3: If you're leaving the kids home, have simply Safe. Simply

1044
00:49:40,639 --> 00:49:44,280
Safe is like a babysitter, you know, Yes, well I

1045
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:44,519
have it.

1046
00:49:44,599 --> 00:49:47,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have it and I it's easy to install.

1047
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:51,039
It's simple, that's why it's called simply safe. And if

1048
00:49:51,079 --> 00:49:53,880
an intruder comes and cuts the phone line, it's fine.

1049
00:49:54,039 --> 00:49:56,960
If the power goes out, thank god, which happens in

1050
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:59,599
our neighborhood at the time, you're fine worth They cover

1051
00:49:59,639 --> 00:50:03,880
all the first case scenarios. It's simple, and it doesn't

1052
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,320
cost an arm and a leg. It's it's it's very

1053
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,960
fair in their price. It's fourteen ninety nine a month.

1054
00:50:09,039 --> 00:50:12,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's very inexpensive if you've shopped around, which I have.

1055
00:50:12,679 --> 00:50:16,280
Speaker 1: And no contracts in hidden fees, no contracts. That's a

1056
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:17,880
big one. That's a big advantage.

1057
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, So you're gonna want to go to simply

1058
00:50:20,559 --> 00:50:24,679
Safe SI m p L I safe dot com slash

1059
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:28,360
f co l that's simplysafe dot com slash f col

1060
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:32,159
all right. Last, but not least, you're gonna want to

1061
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:34,559
join Patreon. A lot of good stuff is going on

1062
00:50:34,639 --> 00:50:38,119
over there. Lynette told a story that is just going

1063
00:50:38,159 --> 00:50:44,320
to blow your songs off and involves strippers. Yes, Lynette

1064
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:46,599
on the Patreon last couple of weeks. So that's good

1065
00:50:46,599 --> 00:50:49,039
for you guys. You get some Lynette stories that she

1066
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:53,199
that are not safe for all ears.

1067
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:53,880
Speaker 1: Just payingeers.

1068
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,320
Speaker 3: So it's only five dollars a month, get on it.

1069
00:50:56,679 --> 00:50:59,519
And if you pay fifty dollars a month to Patreon,

1070
00:50:59,639 --> 00:51:00,480
you get your business.

1071
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,719
Speaker 1: Shout outed shouted out. Yeah all right, all right, you're

1072
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:08,239
parent now, thank you, Caitlyn. Yeah, thanks, all right, your PARENTO.

1073
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,039
Don't have it up.

1074
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 8: They're playing bassca. We have that best ball. They're playing baca.

1075
00:51:23,519 --> 00:51:30,239
We have that best they're playing bad.

1076
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 2: We love that best.

1077
00:51:37,679 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 9: Playing they're playing.

1078
00:51:48,360 --> 00:52:04,679
Speaker 7: Yes, a basketball number one hurts from wall.

1079
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 6: Basketball is my faith.

1080
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 5: I like the way the people looking down the court

1081
00:52:10,199 --> 00:52:12,320
just like out the the microphone.

1082
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:16,280
Speaker 6: So the Jake and Moses Malone. I like slams taking

1083
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:19,400
the tude faith to play. He's the alley. I like

1084
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:20,239
to picking role.

1085
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 5: I like to give ing because it's the basketball. Mister

1086
00:52:23,039 --> 00:52:43,960
Curtis Flow, I used to go to dinner to take

1087
00:52:44,039 --> 00:52:47,400
the girls some tiny pa against her pearl and roll,

1088
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:50,119
you know, and Jerry West play basketball.

1089
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 6: It's very best. Basketball has always been my thing.

1090
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 5: I like magic birds, and Bernard came and number thirty

1091
00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,840
three A man Kirk Bring is the center of master

1092
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:19,599
seams here.

1093
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:23,360
Speaker 6: Married and just two feet now these players couldn't the bet.

1094
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:27,119
Speaker 5: I said that man to just himim the ball, and

1095
00:53:27,159 --> 00:53:30,440
then you took up to that being bins own scene

1096
00:53:30,599 --> 00:53:32,719
and no, Simpson is really mean.

1097
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:36,559
Speaker 6: Bill Richl didn't take me jump And the Donkin's got

1098
00:53:36,559 --> 00:53:46,360
a master don't to the hook, y'all, Yes here I go.

1099
00:53:49,559 --> 00:54:00,840
Speaker 4: Deals can't man, let you know down?

1100
00:54:01,039 --> 00:54:04,760
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I like this basketball. Yeah, go in your.

1101
00:54:04,559 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 7: Fager swish, oh yeah.

1102
00:54:11,159 --> 00:54:14,119
Speaker 6: To the hoop, y'all, it's fastball.

1103
00:54:14,559 --> 00:54:17,039
Speaker 5: Tell me when are you in the join the night

1104
00:54:17,159 --> 00:54:19,920
will start one hundred point a win. Sol ticks one

1105
00:54:20,039 --> 00:54:22,960
tackles back the fact that didn't give nobody no kind

1106
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:23,320
of fact.

1107
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 6: My winning Doctor James show the whole damn team with

1108
00:54:26,119 --> 00:54:28,719
Bo's that team right out of the dream, the wind with.

1109
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 5: The streams too so tall, playing.

1110
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,559
Speaker 6: Deep with designs basketball.

1111
00:54:36,119 --> 00:54:50,800
Speaker 10: To the hoop, Yo, yeah, year girl, to the y'all

1112
00:54:54,760 --> 00:55:05,360
shoot based my slam dog man.

1113
00:55:08,119 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 11: Yeah, I get the ball, and then I don't play

1114
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:14,840
let the superstar in the n B gig, the forest,

1115
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,320
the sentence and oh the gods, the ones you see

1116
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:19,000
on the bubble gum cards.

1117
00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:21,599
Speaker 5: Being home boy would go one and one thoughts playing

1118
00:55:21,639 --> 00:55:24,440
the game. It's a lot of fun. Survive the TV

1119
00:55:24,599 --> 00:55:28,079
and watch tomorrow. Of course, currents blows repping in basketball.

1120
00:55:29,159 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 6: Did you see that boy girl the other night? Take

1121
00:55:31,079 --> 00:55:33,039
that thing up in you and face man.

1122
00:55:33,199 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 5: I like Michael Jordan, you don't remember the old days,

1123
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:39,079
the old days of the record with Doctor James.

1124
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 7: Take the whole team.

1125
00:55:43,159 --> 00:55:45,599
Speaker 6: Burn burning my song, burntas you use for one night.

1126
00:55:45,679 --> 00:55:47,000
Man was as.

1127
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 7: Man I like.

1128
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:54,840
Speaker 6: Waiting for the Bill Russell.

1129
00:55:54,719 --> 00:56:01,760
Speaker 10: Was the man you take the man chick the point never.

1130
00:56:01,639 --> 00:56:08,679
Speaker 6: Had the boy.

1131
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:10,760
Speaker 2: You have that speak.

1132
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:19,039
Speaker 7: And that.

1133
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 2: Playing, that best that we have that beast pay and

1134
00:56:54,800 --> 00:57:18,480
we have that and that play in that play in

1135
00:57:18,679 --> 00:57:32,519
that spater hey, and that stress, that