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Speaker 1: Creativity is an addiction, unplugged because we will always say

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yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes.

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So let's turn it into a tool. This is Arrow unplugged.

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Got a couple more observations for you. The first one,

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how far is too far? There are several different levels

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to look at this and into it. But are we

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going to go too far? Plus? Can a person truly

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prepare for change? If so, how and what's required. My

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name is Arrow. I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf.

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I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study,

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then activate. I call it the daily Mess, a chronological

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walk through an everyday world. Yes, it's my morning writing

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as a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people

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tend to throw things to the side and deal with

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it later. When a subject arrives inside of me, I

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just dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal, but

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by doing the research, the pictures become clearer. This is

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the daily Mess. Observation number eighty three, how far is

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too far? My father always accused me of pushing him

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too far. As a creative person, I always try to

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understand if I've gone far enough. Physical boundaries are real,

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and it does involve areas of someone being in control

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of what's safe and what's crossing the line going too far.

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There's a solid line between affection and arousal. Signs of

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affection can be emotional and spirited. The experts step onto

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that line when describing how the body is preparing for

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extremely close sharing. How far is too far? The moment

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of bumping can be too far? Some Christians say that

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too far is when showing affection changes to a desire

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for sin. Now, let's switch it up just a bit.

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Let's say you're a daily walker. How far is too far?

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Believe it or not? Research shows that there are no

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set numbers of miles when it comes to going too far,

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The same as tr true about your career. The borders

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are set by the beholder. Too often that vision of

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distance can be forced to change due to a decision

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maker's vision of success. Well, what happens when they've gone

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too far? The goal is to make your map known?

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How far is too far? Hey? Coming up next? Can

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a person truly prepare for change? How? Hey? Thanks for

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coming back to the daily mess? Observation number eighty four?

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Can we truly prepare? For change. I mean we hear

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about it all the time. We are either telling people

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about our personal changes or others are moving through their evolutions.

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Understanding change means preparing for change. Those who deeply study

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human behavior say step one of change is prep access

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the situation. Know where you are physically as well as mentally,

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Accept and embrace your change. Plan for even more change.

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While you are changing, never take your heart off seeking support.

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Surround yourself with a winning team that you love and trust.

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That also means taking good care of yourself. Your health

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is very important and there's nothing wrong with reviewing your changes.

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I happen to call it defragging. I take enormous amounts

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of daily notes that serve as a measuring stick. This

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helps me find other things to consider. Am I on

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the right path? Was this the best step? How far

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can we go to get back to a better understanding

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of who, what, where, why, when and how? Change is

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every day? But are you listening to how you're changing?

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I'm Marril and that's the daily mess