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Speaker 1: All right, dear Doctor Wendy, My girlfriend gets really flirty
Speaker 1: when we go out. She says she's just being friendly.
Speaker 1: But I feel comfortable. Should I speak up or let
Speaker 1: it go? Where are you gonna let it go to?
Speaker 1: I just want to say that it's still gonna be there.
Speaker 1: You're gonna observe it, You're gonna have feelings with it. Yes,
Speaker 1: you should speak up. Here's the problem. People are afraid
Speaker 1: to speak up about when they see somebody being flirty
Speaker 1: because they think it's gonna make them look weak and insecure, Like, baby,
Speaker 1: why are you always flirting with the other guys? I
Speaker 1: don't like that. Uh, But there are other ways to
Speaker 1: say it, like, hey, so you're in a committed a
Speaker 1: relationship with me, and oh, by the way, you have
Speaker 1: to comment on something actual, concrete. You can't do a
Speaker 1: general I think you're flirty. Whenever we go out, should
Speaker 1: be like, I'm not flirty. When do you mean I'm flirty?
Speaker 1: You have to literally say. The other night, when we
Speaker 1: were at that restaurant and you were chatting for a
Speaker 1: long time with Chad, I noticed that you were very
Speaker 1: close in his personal space, and when you would comment
Speaker 1: and laugh, you would touch him. This looked kind of flirtatious,
Speaker 1: and I think he could have gotten the wrong idea
Speaker 1: from you because we're in a committed relationship. I also
Speaker 1: feel it was a little disrespectful to me, So let's
Speaker 1: talk about your behavior in public. If you don't want
Speaker 1: to be in this relationship in public, then we need
Speaker 1: to talk about that. Right, that's the conversation that needs
Speaker 1: to have there. Okay, it doesn't look weak to say
Speaker 1: I felt a little disrespected. That's not okay, And I
Speaker 1: think you're misleading people around you, right, all right, moving
Speaker 1: along into the dms. Oh, here's one I like this one.
Speaker 1: Dear doctor Wendy, My partner's best friend. Partner's best friend
Speaker 1: is someone, Oh he used to hook up with. Uh huh,
Speaker 1: he says it's in the past. Am I wrong for
Speaker 1: feeling uneasy about that? This is like the question I
Speaker 1: answered earlier? Is this person still their emotional I mean,
Speaker 1: there's so much research to show that usually a physical
Speaker 1: affair affair causes less damage to a relationship than an
Speaker 1: emotional affair.
Speaker 2: So that's really the question.
Speaker 1: Do you worry that he's betraying secrecies, intimacies about your
Speaker 1: relationship with that person? Right, that's what you have to
Speaker 1: ask yourself. Where is his emotional lifeline? And this question
Speaker 1: so many people ask us, am I wrong for feeling
Speaker 1: just that sentence shouldn't exist in English language. No feelings
Speaker 1: are right or wrong, No feelings are good or bad.
Speaker 1: They're just messengers telling you something. They're telling you that
Speaker 1: this isn't right for you. It doesn't sit well with you,
Speaker 1: So you need to bring it up.
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 1: Moving along, Dear doctor Wendy. I feel like I'm always
Speaker 1: giving in this relationship. I'm giving emotionally, I'm giving, financially,
Speaker 1: I'm giving everything. How do I bring it up without
Speaker 1: starting a fight?
Speaker 2: Oh? Oh, this is a can of worms.
Speaker 1: Everything I needed to know about you I learned in
Speaker 1: this last sentence. How do I bring it up without
Speaker 1: starting a fight? Your fear of conflict, which ultimately could
Speaker 1: lead to abandonment. Your fear of abandonment is bigger than
Speaker 1: your fear of stating your needs. Right. You are so
Speaker 1: afraid that there's going to be an explosive fight and
Speaker 1: it'll all be over, that you're just going to give
Speaker 1: and give and give and what Just be in love
Speaker 1: with hope. Just be in love with hope. Like we
Speaker 1: talked about earlier, the witness named Jane from the p
Speaker 1: Didty trial. She gave and gave and gave to the
Speaker 1: point where she was a broken, broken person because she
Speaker 1: didn't want to lose Sean P.
Speaker 2: Diddy.
Speaker 1: So how much are you going to give? When are
Speaker 1: you going to grow backbone? When you're going to grow boundary?
Speaker 1: When are you going to be able to know that
Speaker 1: it's okay if takers leave right, it's okay, It's okay
Speaker 1: to fight.
Speaker 2: You know what.
Speaker 1: There's healthy fighting too, and healthy conflict. Once you learn
Speaker 1: that and set up some boundaries, then you'll be able
Speaker 1: to have a healthy relationship. But sitting around waiting and
Speaker 1: being in love with hope, hope that they'll change, hope
Speaker 1: that they'll start giving, is going to do nothing. So okay,
Speaker 1: I will answer one question, how do I bring it up?
Speaker 1: I'm going to eliminate the second part of that question
Speaker 1: without starting a fight because you have no idea what
Speaker 1: the reaction is going to be, So just how do
Speaker 1: I bring it up? Will you bring it up? When
Speaker 1: both of you are calm, well rested, not hungry and hungry, angry,
Speaker 1: lonely or tired, and you sit down as a good
Speaker 1: moment and you say, it feels like I give a
Speaker 1: lot in this relationship emotionally and financially and name some
Speaker 1: other things, and I'm wondering when you're going to reciprocate
Speaker 1: that's all you do? Will there be a fight? Maybe
Speaker 1: because takers are trying to make you feel bad about
Speaker 1: having feelings, just say it.
Speaker 2: Good luck to you. You should bring it up.
Speaker 1: And if you have to move along to somebody who's
Speaker 1: not such a taker, that's a great idea. All right,
Speaker 1: I think we have time for one more. Dear doctor Wendy.
Speaker 1: Every time I succeed at something, my boyfriend seems weirdly
Speaker 1: distant and called, Oh, is that jealousy or am I
Speaker 1: reading into it? No?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's his own insecurity. That's what it is. He
Speaker 2: is insecure. So yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: You've got to bring it up in that way, Like say,
Speaker 1: I noticed that when I accomplished this or I did that,
Speaker 1: it felt like you really, you know, uh didn't really
Speaker 1: praise me for it, or you felt intimidated or something.
Speaker 2: Can you tell me what your feelings were around that? Right?
Speaker 1: I remember one time I had a boyfriend. He was
Speaker 1: in the restaurant business, and I literally said I was
Speaker 1: driving my bike on the bike path in La and
Speaker 1: there was this restaurant that was going out of business,
Speaker 1: and I literally said to him, oh my god, that.
Speaker 2: Is such a pretty location.
Speaker 1: And I had just gotten through culinary school and I said, ah,
Speaker 1: I dream of opening a little restaurant like that.
Speaker 2: He got so mad.
Speaker 1: He goes, I'm a professional restauranteur and you're telling me.
Speaker 1: He goes like me saying, I'm going to go be
Speaker 1: a news anchor. And I said, well, if you wanted
Speaker 1: to and that was your passion, I would hear you
Speaker 1: on for that. So weird, he felt so insecure. I
Speaker 1: guess he was afraid I was going to open up
Speaker 1: a restaurant that would do better than him his Who knows. Hey,
Speaker 1: when we come back, let us talk about the most
Speaker 1: joyful and hard work on the planet, and that is
Speaker 1: the hard work of love. Listening to the Doctor Wendy
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Speaker 1: You know, one time I was going through a you know,
Speaker 1: at Gelson's, the cashier, and it was just before Thanksgiving,
Speaker 1: and there was an older lady in front of me.
Speaker 1: I was like a young single mom, and I was
Speaker 1: feeling overwhelmed with all the turkey and the side dishes
Speaker 1: and whatever, and she had all her stuff for Thanksgiving
Speaker 1: and I just made a comment to create commonality what
Speaker 1: you do as strangers in public. And I said, oh,
Speaker 1: it's so much work for Thanksgiving and she said, oh, dear,
Speaker 1: but it's joyful work, isn't it. And I thought, wow,
Speaker 1: there's some work that can be joyful this week. Well,
Speaker 1: And actually I did it over the course of a
Speaker 1: weeks because it took so long. I dug out all
Speaker 1: the poop in my goat pen and power washed it
Speaker 1: and put fresh shavings down. I'm going to do it
Speaker 1: every month from now on because it's so great that
Speaker 1: it's so clean. And I was sweating just taking the
Speaker 1: wheelbarrow full of you know what to.
Speaker 2: The compost pile.
Speaker 1: It was so much physical labor, but it was joyful work, right.
Speaker 1: I was taking care of my kids, literally kids on
Speaker 1: baby goats. So sometimes hard work can be joyful, and
Speaker 1: probably no better kind of joyful hard work than the
Speaker 1: work of love. People will say about their relationships, you know, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, relationships are work. Yeah, they do take work.
Speaker 1: So let's talk about what kind of work we're talking about,
Speaker 1: you know, the biggest work.
Speaker 2: And I hear people when I say, oh, why did
Speaker 2: you break up? Over? Why did you divorce? What happened?
Speaker 1: They throw this blanket word out that is supposed to
Speaker 1: explain their entire marriage and the downfall. And that blanket
Speaker 1: word is communication. We just have bad communication. Well, nearly
Speaker 1: half of all adults and relationships say that they really
Speaker 1: do struggle to express their emotional needs. And the research
Speaker 1: is clear silence can sap connection over time.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: I've had women say to me, you know what, I
Speaker 1: just stopped trying because I was so exhausted because my
Speaker 1: partner just kept tuning out. Right, So let's talk about
Speaker 1: some of the mindsets that you may have that may
Speaker 1: hurt your love life. And then let's talk about a
Speaker 1: prescription of what I think the good work, the joyful
Speaker 1: work of love is. So the first bad mindset is
Speaker 1: this idea about destiny.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: According to research from the University of Baselos who believe
Speaker 1: in soulmates are actually more satisfied wait for it, wait
Speaker 1: for it at the beginning of their relationship. But for
Speaker 1: people who treat their relationships as a work in progress,
Speaker 1: they're more content in the long run.
Speaker 2: Ooh, I like this all right?
Speaker 1: Here's another thing that can another thought mindset that can
Speaker 1: hurt your love life. Thinking that the emotional labor imbalance
Speaker 1: is okay, right, this idea that women hold all the
Speaker 1: emotional keys, that women should bear the emotional load alone.
Speaker 2: Believe it or not, it.
Speaker 1: Wasn't until recent decades that we started going, oh, so
Speaker 1: dudes have feelings. Oh so dudes can express their feelings. Wow,
Speaker 1: they just need to learn the words. Now, I will say,
Speaker 1: if you're one of those feeling dudes who's always been
Speaker 1: a good communicator, you My husband, I think has always
Speaker 1: been that way. He says he hasn't. He said, it's
Speaker 1: something he learned in recent years.
Speaker 2: So there you go.
Speaker 1: You can't teach an old dog nutrix. So there's also
Speaker 1: this emotional labor imbalance. But there's also the equality trap,
Speaker 1: and that's the physical labor imbalance. If you believe in
Speaker 1: this day and age that one gender should I'll just
Speaker 1: stop right there at the words should one gender should
Speaker 1: and the other gender should do anything, You're gonna have
Speaker 1: problems in your relationship and the work is going to
Speaker 1: be very difficult.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: The final thing is people believe they need to sacrifice
Speaker 1: for love. Now, compromise for love, sure, but sacrifice. You're
Speaker 1: suddenly romanticizing being a martyr.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 1: You need to learn how to get your how to
Speaker 1: express your needs. First of all, how to believe that
Speaker 1: your needs are worthy and be able to express them.
Speaker 1: All Right, So let's talk about a bullet prove prescription
Speaker 1: for what you can do to do the healthy work
Speaker 1: of love. First of all, shift your mindset. Cupid didn't
Speaker 1: come down with his bow. You weren't anointed by a
Speaker 1: fairy glitter. It didn't just happen. Your partnership is like
Speaker 1: a garden. It's not a fairy tale. You got to
Speaker 1: plant importancy. You gotta water, You got to fertilize it.
Speaker 1: And don't only water the weeds because then they grow bigger. Also,
Speaker 1: I know you think it sounds unromantic, but you have
Speaker 1: to schedule your connection. Research shows that you need to
Speaker 1: spend Are you sitting down. It's not a big number
Speaker 1: to me, It might sound like a big number to you.
Speaker 1: About six hours a week, six hours a week just
Speaker 1: focusing on your relationship. That doesn't mean going to a
Speaker 1: movie together and counting those two hours in the theater
Speaker 1: as your relationship. I mean talking to each other one
Speaker 1: on one that's a little less than an hour a day,
Speaker 1: okay for emotional check ins, planning time together, and during
Speaker 1: this scheduling of connections, hopefully there's some physical touch going on.
Speaker 1: And when you are communicating, you want to be using
Speaker 1: those feel words. I feel you know when X happens,
Speaker 1: I feel this, don't say you make me feel no,
Speaker 1: because nobody can make you have a feeling. You have
Speaker 1: your own honest feelings that came you deserve to have them. Great,
Speaker 1: somebody made you have a feeling. So when X happens,
Speaker 1: I feel this, how could we find a solution or
Speaker 1: would you be willing to change this so that I
Speaker 1: wouldn't feel so bad? That's how healthy people communicate right. Also,
Speaker 1: check your tone, Be calm, be respectful. Remember how much
Speaker 1: you loved this person when you first began to date.
Speaker 1: Remember how special they were to you, So stop blaming
Speaker 1: them and calling them names. Be gentle. They are somebody's child.
Speaker 1: Their heart is in your hands. Also, don't demand you
Speaker 1: need to I want you to do more of No no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: How about asking would you consider doing this or how
Speaker 1: would you feel if we did this? Right?
Speaker 2: Try to get them in touch with their feelings. Right.
Speaker 1: Also, I say this all the time. Acknowledge them, Acknowledge them,
Speaker 1: Acknowledge them, their efforts, their efforts, their efter Thank you
Speaker 1: for texting, thank you for letting me know, thank you
Speaker 1: for doing that. Oh I so respect that you did that.
Speaker 1: That is amazing. I feel like I thank Julio for
Speaker 1: things all day long. Let me tell you something. Relationships
Speaker 1: don't thrive on magic, fairy dust, Cupid's bow, the planets aligning,
Speaker 1: soulmates finding each other. They are an exchange of care
Speaker 1: and they thrive on consistent care, honest communication. Oh and
Speaker 1: that big one empathy. So it's not about those big
Speaker 1: grand gestures. It's just about showing up for about an
Speaker 1: hour a day and focusing on your relationship. That is
Speaker 1: the joyful work of love. So if you're looking for
Speaker 1: ideas of how to invest in your relationship, when we
Speaker 1: come back, let's talk about a new trend that is
Speaker 1: happening with.
Speaker 2: Lots of couples called the arbitrary versary.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about it when we come back, and remember,
Speaker 1: we will continue to keep you informed about the Los
Speaker 1: Angeles protest in their third day now, where the National
Speaker 1: Guard troops have had tense standoffs with protesters. The governor
Speaker 1: and Mayor Bass have been involved calling for order. We
Speaker 1: are going to continue to cover this. You're listening to
Speaker 1: the Doctor Ndywall Show on KFI AM six forty.
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Speaker 1: let's talk about something that's important to all of us.
Speaker 1: Do you know what an arbitrary is? An arbitrary versary? Well,
Speaker 1: it's a mouthful, That's what it is. An arbitrary versary.
Speaker 1: It's like an anniversary arbitrarily like for any old reason.
Speaker 2: So it's a trend. Love these trends.
Speaker 1: Some couples are ditching the idea of celebrating traditional milestones. Now,
Speaker 1: if you've been listening to me for a while, you
Speaker 1: know that I do not like Hallmark holidays. I don't
Speaker 1: like forced anything, forced grieving awakes, I don't like forced
Speaker 1: celebration for no reason. Well, the calendar turned to a
Speaker 1: new year?
Speaker 2: Who invented that?
Speaker 1: When?
Speaker 2: Why are we drinking? What's happening?
Speaker 1: And I definitely don't love Valentine's Day because it's just
Speaker 1: pressure and it's designed to sell us things. So plenty
Speaker 1: of couples are now ditching some of these traditional milestones.
Speaker 2: For something.
Speaker 1: Well, I would say a little more playful, but if
Speaker 1: you think about it, it's actually more meaningful. And they're
Speaker 1: calling them arbitrary reversaries, so they could actually be good
Speaker 1: for your relationship. Let's talk about it. So examples might
Speaker 1: be like, I know that Julio and I do celebrate
Speaker 1: a lot of arbitrary versaries for no reason because he
Speaker 1: uses the word novelty. We need novelty, We need novelty
Speaker 1: because apparently he's been listening to the Doctor Wendy Walsh
Speaker 1: radio show and he knows that the research on long term, happy,
Speaker 1: relatively happy couples is that they never get stuck in routine, right,
Speaker 1: there's always this novelty that shows up. I've often said this,
Speaker 1: and I'm not talking about your sex life. Well, it
Speaker 1: could apply to your sex life. I mean, sometimes you
Speaker 1: just put your partner in a new room, in a
Speaker 1: new outfit and things get, you know.
Speaker 2: A little more spicy.
Speaker 1: But that also applies to emotionally doing something completely different
Speaker 1: with your partner. So one of the things that Julio
Speaker 1: and I have done, because we met during the COVID
Speaker 1: pandemic and we were on lockdown, is I made a
Speaker 1: lot of picnics. So we love to choose places we've
Speaker 1: never been before to just go picnic. And I can't
Speaker 1: pack surprising food.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: He's got food anxiety. He's one of those that over
Speaker 1: my shoulder when I'm cooking, what's in that? What is
Speaker 1: that thing?
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can eat that.
Speaker 1: Literally, I have fed him things that he found delicious,
Speaker 1: but once I told him what was in it, he goes,
Speaker 1: why did you tell me? Now I can't eat it
Speaker 1: because I know it has mayonnaise in it. I'm like,
Speaker 1: for real, you tasted it, you liked it, and now
Speaker 1: you've decided you don't like it. Crazy, right, So but
Speaker 1: we do do picnics, no surprise food. One time we
Speaker 1: wanted to see Tina Fay and Amy Poehler and they
Speaker 1: were like four hundred dollars in Los Angeles, and then
Speaker 1: we saw that they were playing in Portland, which is
Speaker 1: about a four hour drive from my farm in Oregon,
Speaker 1: and he goes, let's just be up at your farm
Speaker 1: in organ Unlet's drive four hours to show where the
Speaker 1: kind of people would do that. We did sleep over
Speaker 1: at an airbnb, you know, but we made it a
Speaker 1: field trip.
Speaker 2: We made it an event.
Speaker 1: We love to do hikes to nowhere, like we just
Speaker 1: don't know where we're going, which is always fun and.
Speaker 2: Scary because you could get lost.
Speaker 1: And I make anniversary dinners out of a boring Tuesday night.
Speaker 1: I am one of those people. My mom raised me
Speaker 1: this way where I pull out the fine china, silver everything,
Speaker 1: the crystal, the table claws, I decorate with fresh flowers,
Speaker 1: I light a candle, I put quiet jazz or New
Speaker 1: York piano music on, and I make a fancy dinner
Speaker 1: at a meat loaf. I mean, I just like to
Speaker 1: create the whole ambience. That's my thing, and he likes
Speaker 1: it too. So how do these silly moments help our relationships?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 1: According to one survey done by love Sense, they found
Speaker 1: that one in four couples say that most often they
Speaker 1: feel stuck in routine. Right, So if you take this
Speaker 1: arbitrary versary and make it a mini celebration, you can
Speaker 1: break monotony in your relationship and celebrating these tiny moments
Speaker 1: can actually help couples build connection and honoring everyday kindness.
Speaker 1: As I said, I've said this many many times. If
Speaker 1: you missed it, I'm gonna.
Speaker 2: Say it again.
Speaker 1: We need to express gratitude and appreciate our partners as
Speaker 1: much as possible. So there's also real scientific research. You know.
Speaker 1: My favorite research is the Marriage Lab up the University
Speaker 1: of Washington, John Gottman and his crew. They tell us
Speaker 1: that long term satisfaction doesn't come from those big grand gestures,
Speaker 1: certainly not from Valentine's Day. It comes from those consistent,
Speaker 1: small acts of emotional connection. John Gottman, the famous relationship researcher,
Speaker 1: calls them positive sentiment override. Well, that's some psychobabble. Positive
Speaker 1: sentiment override. He has this idea that our relationships have
Speaker 1: sort of a ratio of positive and negative. Right, it's
Speaker 1: not all perfect, and if you have a little more
Speaker 1: positive overriding the negative, you will do better. So on
Speaker 1: social media, couples are starting to share their arbitrary versaries.
Speaker 1: Oh that's so cute, So you can you can google that,
Speaker 1: you can look for it.
Speaker 2: So here's a little bit advice.
Speaker 1: Choose something small, funny, meaningful. Call it your first taco
Speaker 1: night together, the first time you laughed at two am together,
Speaker 1: and re celebrate it in some way. Mark the celebration
Speaker 1: with a joyful toast, A funny, mean, a silly little
Speaker 1: five minute dance party.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Take a photo, leave a note, record a voice memo
Speaker 1: so that you can look back on that time later.
Speaker 2: Like literally.
Speaker 1: Our first date was around a fire on August twentieth
Speaker 1: of twenty twenty, and it at a certain restaurant, and
Speaker 1: every time we go there, I go, that's our place, honey.
Speaker 1: That was the very first place we met on that
Speaker 1: bumble matchup right, and do it regularly.
Speaker 2: Now we have sentiment. We were really sad to hear
Speaker 2: that Will.
Speaker 1: Rogers historic home burned in the Palises fires, because that
Speaker 1: was our main place that we would go and have
Speaker 1: our picnics.
Speaker 2: That was very sad, all right.
Speaker 1: I just want to say life isn't just about the
Speaker 1: big moments, although we do need those rituals, those big graduations,
Speaker 1: but we also need to have many moments where we
Speaker 1: just show appreciation, we just care about somebody. So I
Speaker 1: want you to put your thinking hat on and this
Speaker 1: week I want you to think of an arbitrary versary
Speaker 1: that you can do with the person you love. It
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