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Speaker 1: I made us.

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Speaker 2: Sunny Sunny on ahead A Visions.

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Speaker 3: N what's up, everybody? Welcome to for Growing out Loud.

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We have a special guest in our studio. Her name

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is Elbe Yay.

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Speaker 1: Hello.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't need a last name. Everybody knows they're as Elbie.

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There there, that's true.

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Speaker 4: I've met another one.

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Speaker 1: Oh you have?

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Speaker 2: I have?

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Speaker 1: Wow? You see your vin Wow.

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Speaker 4: She's local.

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Speaker 5: You met her on social media?

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Speaker 2: I did, and then I met her in person at UCLA.

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Speaker 1: But she's not as great as you.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's hard to be as great as me. It's

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hard to be as great as me. But you know,

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my gosh, I'll try to stay humble today.

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Speaker 5: We've got we've got so much to get into with Elbe.

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But we're forty seconds into the show. Yeah, but you

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know what, It's Christmas week? Right, Isn't that crazy?

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Speaker 1: We have to do shows. We're still working and yeah

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we were night. Albi was nice enough to come help

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us out.

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Speaker 5: But it's not actually Christmas. It's not like we're crazy.

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We're not expecting you guys to like tune into our

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podcast on Chris Imagine. We expect everyone to gather around.

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Speaker 2: Right, It's like everybody the greatest gift of all our show.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, and it opens up like you know, Mom's

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turned on her podcasts and all the kids are gathered

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around and here, what's up?

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Speaker 1: My god?

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Speaker 4: Everybody's just shocked.

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Speaker 2: Oh right, Merry Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Do you like your robe?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: I have questions for Albie.

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Speaker 1: Also Quints, let's talk about Quints. Listen.

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Speaker 5: Hey all right, ask away LB.

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Speaker 1: Hello my name you are a hard working gal. I

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am two jobs I do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say a job and a quote job,

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but I still get paid for it.

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Speaker 1: Wow. You know, so, how are you liking the cool job?

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Speaker 2: The cool job is tours campus tours at UCLA.

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Speaker 4: I love it.

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Speaker 2: It's honestly, I say job in quotes because it doesn't

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Speaker 4: You know, it's it's obviously not that much work.

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Speaker 2: Every single week for contexts, I give campus tours at

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UCLA to people that come either with their families or

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sometimes high schools that decide to show up because you know,

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they're local and they want to see UCLA.

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Speaker 4: And I, like I said, I love it.

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Speaker 2: It honestly felt like joining a fraternity almost because a

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lot of my friends from school actually came from joining

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the organization. Everybody calls it more of like an organization

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than a job. I would say because I feel like

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we do just as much, if not more, like social

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things and hang out with each other and you know,

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just like lots of fun stuff throughout the quarters. And

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it's just like even when you go in to give

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a tour, you go in to do your little office

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hour where you sit and you answer the phone and

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answer emails, like you're not even really doing that. You're

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kind of just going in for social hour with whoever's

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in the office, which is so nice because you know, like,

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm friends with everybody in the organization.

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Speaker 2: Obviously I'm closer with some than others, but every single

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person I can go into the office, like regardless of

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who it is and be like, oh my.

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Speaker 1: God, what's up. I haven't seen you in like a

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week or two. How are you?

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Speaker 4: Would you? How was this that you did this weekend?

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Speaker 2: Everybody just kind of gets along and our little thing

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for the office right now, we have a big whiteboard

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and our kind of every single year tours comes up

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with like this thing that everybody's just obsessed with. Last

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year when I joined, it was a card game called

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Cabo that everyone just would non stop playing the office.

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Speaker 1: You would go in and.

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Speaker 2: Everybody like you wouldn't get hazed, you would it just

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immediately get taught how to play Cobo, and everybody would

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just be insanely competitive.

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Speaker 1: Like that entail.

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Speaker 2: It's it's just this like fast paced card game that

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you can play with like a lot of people, which

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is fun. And I don't even really know how to

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know it's fast paced and everybody gets really competitive. And

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so some of my first impressions of people last year

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were people just trying to like steal each other's cards,

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and like, somebody ripped a card my first day in

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the office, and people will like scream at each other

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and it was hilarious. So that was last year that

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kind of died. But this year everybody is obsessed with

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making just the most random specific graphs where everyone in

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tours is included.

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Speaker 4: So like it'll just be I think I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: To remember funny ones that we've done, but they're just

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like the Y and the X are just two completely

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random categories that somehow like everyone fits on the scale.

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the office we were doing was you know, the X

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was crypto boy and like a crystal girl, So where

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you fall in the spectrum of like would you be

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super into crypto or into crystals? And like the why

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was like whether you would wear like laces on your

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shoes or if you're like a velcrow person, and like

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could still have like a Velcrow vibe.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how to just try it, yeah.

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Speaker 2: But it's so funny because everybody will come in the

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office and like there's a new one every like two hours.

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picture and get bored and erase it and make another one.

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either like, oh, that's so accurate, or sometimes depending on

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what it is, you'll walk in.

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Speaker 4: And you're just like super offended.

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Speaker 2: You're like, oh, I was sitting in the office when

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they were making it, and they put me as like

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a Velcrow type vibe, and I was like, you know,

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I don't know how I feel about that. I first all,

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I learned how to tie my shoes pretty early. Do

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mean I don't wear Velcrow on my shoes, but then

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they were trying to convince me. They were like no,

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but like, you're the type of person that could pull

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off Velcrow's shoes if you wanted to, Like, if you

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showed up in vel Crow shoes, people would be like, no,

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that works, And I was like, you know what, I

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did wear Velcrow twinkle toes when I was younger and

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Speaker 5: So that's going a question though regarding the actual giving

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a tour, Yes, do you think it's important? Do you

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feel because because I feel this way and I'm going

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into a season of about to take Xander on school tours,

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do the people who are giving tours understand what a

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difference a good tour?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 4: People, one hundred percent.

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Speaker 2: Like, I think a lot of people that joined tours

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joined it because we came to the school because we

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loved like going on tours, Like I just I know,

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me and my mom when we went to tour Santa Barbara.

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because my tour guide was like super cool, had a

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lot of the same interests as me, was very like upbeat, talkative.

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psychology major.

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Speaker 5: Her hair, yeah, she.

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Speaker 4: Was wearing wearing these two little buns on her head. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Just remember, I think part of the reason why I

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loved the school so much is because my tour was awesome.

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I only loved Berkeley as much as I did, And

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I mean I didn't like love Berkeley as much as

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other schools. But even when I kind of got a

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sense for it, it was when I went to visit

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my friends and I got to you know, have the

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full like social.

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Speaker 4: Experience in Berkeley.

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Speaker 2: But from my tour, obviously, like a lot of things

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go into it. The weather wasn't great. I'm you know,

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definitely not a cold weather gal. If it rains in California,

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I can't function anymore.

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Speaker 4: But I think the main thing was my tour guide.

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Speaker 2: She was kind of just like boring, didn't really talk

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about everything you could tell. She like her life was

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very very very solely based on academics, with like nothing

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wrong with that, but like I wanted to hear about

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you know, like social life and like clubs and Greek

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life and kind of everything that makes school, like the

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school and not just the academics.

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Speaker 4: And I just remember going on my tour and I

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was like, okay.

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Speaker 2: Like it's so we've been talking about the business school

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for like thirty minutes and I don't even give a

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shit about business, And like, right, I think there was

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maybe one person on my tour that was interested in business,

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and we just talked about that for so long.

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Speaker 4: So I know when I went to like when I

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Speaker 2: Give tours, I think one of the biggest things is

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and what they're interested in studying, so then I know

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to kind of tailor the tour to people's interests. So

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if I don't get a lot of North Campus majors,

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if I don't have a single person interested in like theater,

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that's fine. I'll still talk about feeder a little bit

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to like explain some of the classes that we have

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to offer that you can take, like not as a

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theater major, but I'm obviously going to spend more time

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talking about you know, the engineering department or nursing or

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whatever they're they are interested in more and I think

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that makes the tour better because I feel like they're

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getting out what they want to hear from the tour.

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But then I also make jokes and I talk about

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all of our fun programs, and I think it's fun.

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I talk to a lot of my tour guides too,

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my friends. We always like to keep it one hundred

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with people. If I get a question about going out

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or like anything having to kind of relate to, like

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your social life, I answer it completely honestly. I'll I'll

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talk about you know how I mean, I'm obviously I

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was in a sorority, didn't like it. Am I gonna

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go to a girl asking me about Greek life being like,

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don't fucking join this sorority?

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Speaker 1: Like it was not fun?

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Speaker 2: Like no, I'm gonna be like, it's honestly, if you like,

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it's not for everyone. But I know so many people

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that thrive in their sorority and get so much out

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of it. And I also know people like me and

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like other people who were in or aren't in sororities

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that also have a great time.

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Speaker 4: And I'll talk about going out and I'll talk about

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all that type of stuff.

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Speaker 5: So do you stand on business, stand on business girl,

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ten toes down, ten toes down.

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Speaker 2: Eleven toes down. I don't even have an eleven toe

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and I stand on it.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, what happened with the sorority?

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Speaker 2: What what?

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Speaker 1: You just didn't you know? I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know you were there for I was in

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my sorority for a year. I think it was definitely hard.

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I want sugarcoat it. As much as I love being

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a transfer, I think coming into it so late in

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the game, when it's not really made for older girls

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was definitely like a hard part of it. Not at

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all saying that this is going to be everybody's experience,

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because I also have my transfer friends that love.

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Speaker 4: Being in their sorority.

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Speaker 2: I just think in mine in particular, it's definitely hard

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because obviously, coming in as a junior, a lot of

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the junior like the traditional junior girls. I should say,

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I was about to say, normal, that's crazy, that's crazy

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on myself. A lot of the traditional juniors were abroad,

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so I didn't really get to meet a lot of

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the older girls because the seniors everybody that rushed me.

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That was like the reason why I joined my particular sorority.

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I had no idea was like super inactive in the sorority.

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Like I talked to so many cool girls, and I

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was like, oh my god, like these girls are awesome,

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Oh my.

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Speaker 4: God, I'm so excited.

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Speaker 2: And then come to find out not a single one

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goes to any chapter meetings or events or anything. And

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because they're seniors, you know, they're oh my god, my

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voice their seniors.

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Speaker 4: They're checked out, so valid.

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Speaker 2: But I was like, oh, I don't know a lot

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of these girls and a lot of the like events

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coming into sororities, you know, going to like date parties

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and just going to little events with the fraternities. They're

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all mostly made I don't I don't know if mate

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is the right word, but you know, most of the

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people in attendance of those are freshmen, like girls in

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the new PC, and sophomores that live in the house.

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And if you don't live in the house, it's really

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hard to make friends.

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Speaker 4: Like I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I consider myself a very social person. I don't think

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that I have trouble making friends almost ever, Like when

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I joined Tours, I immediately found friends. Like I my

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friends on Tours were like, oh my god, like you

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are adjusting fantastically, you know whatever, and I just something

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didn't click.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I.

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Speaker 2: Meshed well with a lot of the girls in my storty.

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I met some lovely girls, especially the transfer girls. But

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I think another hard part was a lot of the

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transfer girls moved into the house and I love my roommates,

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and I was like, girl, hell no, I'm not dropping

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my apartment. I love my roommates and I'm super happy

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where I'm at, and I think that these are all

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going to be like my friends for life. But the

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girls that ended up moving into the house all kind

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of made their own little like right, you know, friend group,

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and I don't know, I just I felt like I

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was a bit of an outsider and I didn't love

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going into the house. I didn't really feel comfortable, and

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you know, like I knew a lot of people, and

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like I really wanted to go to events, and I

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was just like, why are we paying so much money

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for this when the only thing I really use it

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for is the occasional like party and food, Like I

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would go to the house for lunch like three times

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a week. But you know, I mean I dreaded going

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to chapter meetings every single time. It hit Monday at

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six pm. I was like with my roommate who was

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also in my sorority, and I was like, oh my god,

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Like I would be the bad sign. I would be

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so excited to get in my bed, you know, after

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a long day of classes. I'm like, I'm gonna open

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up my laptop and watch a show or I'm gonna

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know doom scroll on TikTok. And then Sydney, my roommate,

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would pop into my room and she'd be like here,

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you almost ready to go to chapter and I'd be like,

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oh fuck my life, Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: Like I mean, you know, I was pretty vocal because

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get bills every single month for like, oh yeah, five

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hundred dollars.

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Speaker 6: They're ruthless if that's if they spread it out. Otherwise

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you get a bill and it's like here's fourteen hundred dollars,

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then I'm like.

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Speaker 1: Fucking what, it's ruthless. Like it it was ruthless.

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Speaker 5: And she was giving me a little bit of I'm

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probably not going to re up for next year, and

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I was like probably, and then she's like, yeah, I

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mean the only reason I would is because possible like connections,

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and I was like, yeah, that's not worth forty dollars

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or whatever.

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Speaker 1: It crash.

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Speaker 4: It was not worth it.

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Speaker 5: And I'll just say I'll tell you even how much

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it costs.

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Speaker 1: They're very oh really about it. Oh, I were very

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like it was a bill.

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Speaker 4: It was disappointing. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: When I was rushing, they made it seem like a

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lot less than it was, and they were like, oh

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my god, you know, it's so chill, like blah blah blah,

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and then we go in and we have like I

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don't It was like a financial meeting at one of

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our first chapters for all the new members where they

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were just kind of laying out like what you're paying

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and where all of it is going.

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Speaker 4: And I was sitting there and I was like what

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the fuck.

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Speaker 2: But they were like the worst part is even in

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that they were like, oh yeah, like your new member

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fees are like a big you know part of it,

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like once you're not like once you're initiated, you're good.

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It was like maybe one hundred and seventy five dollars

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out of the like fourteen hundred dollars that they're paying,

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and I was like, that's like not that big of

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a chunk, Like I thought we were going to be

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talking like several hundreds of dollars that were just not

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going to ever have to be paid again.

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Speaker 5: Does that money go I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know.

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Speaker 4: It goes to the house.

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Speaker 2: A lot of it goes to nationals, like the national organization,

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and I'm like, but what are they doing with that?

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Speaker 1: Like what do you mean? I'm like, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand what they're saying when they're like, yeah,

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and this, you know, X amount of money goes to

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our national board, and I'm like, what the fuck is

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the national board of my sorority doing? Like they don't

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I don't understand. But a lot of it was like

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transient house fees and whatever, and I was just and

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some of it went to you know, like the chef

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and like meals that I understood, but I was like,

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if I'm not living in the house, yeah, if I'm not,

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Like a lot of it also went to like the

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social budget. But then if we would get in trouble

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and we would like get fines because somebody threw up

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on the bus, like you I didn't chill, chill.

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Speaker 4: I never got our stroorty.

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Speaker 2: Fine, but if somebody like you know, got in a

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fight or like did some crazy shit and like we

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got fined for it, which again looking at you, I

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never did that, never got a certain rules.

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of rules.

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Speaker 2: But the problem was that would be taken out of

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our budget and we would still have to pay the

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same amount of money every single quarter. But they would

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be like, oh, well, you know, because a girl like

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did this at the venue, we just got fined one

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thousand dollars, so say goodbye to your in house next week,

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Like you're not going to this place, but like surprise,

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what did you have to.

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Speaker 1: Do to get in to the sorority? Was it any

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anything crazy? Or was it I mean chill, it is Rush.

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Speaker 2: It definitely was chill compared to like southern schools that

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are like super cutthroat.

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Speaker 5: Ye.

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Speaker 2: It was definitely still an interesting process. It was a

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lot I would have like I had a couple like

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twelve hour days where like the first couple of days,

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you know, you go to every single house and you

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kind of get a little house tour and you talk

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to some of the girls. A lot of it was

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just very like surface level, superficial conversations. Rush was like

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kind of fun because you got you got to like

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get ready. But my poor roommates, there was like five

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or six of us rushing in my apartment and there

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was like two people not rushing, and we were all

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up at like the butt crack of dawn, like blow

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drying our hair and like getting ready and like, don't

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get me wrong, I think Rush was fun, but it

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was also sort of a weird process. Because I mean

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not to sound like braggy or anything, but Rush definitely

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went well for me. I got back the houses every

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single round that I wanted, and like my last two houses.

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During you know, you have open house and then you

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have quote Sisterhood, and then you have Impact and then

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you have Preference and every single excuse me, every single

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one of those rounds you start narrowing down.

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Speaker 4: What houses and it's still.

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Speaker 2: Pretty cutthroat, like if a house doesn't really like you,

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they'll drop you, even if you liked the house. And

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you know, I got back like the maximum amount of

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houses that you could get every round, Like it was

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like eight houses and then five. It was first round,

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you know, you went through all twelve, and then second

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round you got back eight, and then third round you

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got back five, and then fourth round you could get.

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Speaker 4: Back up to two.

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Speaker 2: And there were girls that were sobbing the morning of

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the second round because their friends were like, yeah, I

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got back all eight houses. And then there were girls

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that were like I got dropped by every single house

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except for three or four of them, and they only

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got back the houses that they didn't even really like.

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Speaker 5: So, but you put down what you want, Yeah, it's

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like so the even ones that you don't want might

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put you down as like.

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Speaker 2: As like we loved her, Like you could put down

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a house where you were like, oh I did not

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like that house, and like.

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Speaker 5: And then did anybody like get back no houses?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there were there were multiple girls that would

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get back. I knew of a couple girls, and mind you,

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I don't even I would not even be able to

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point out what about them got them dropped. Like I

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knew girls that were the kindest girls and like not

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to sound superficial, but like they were beautiful girls, and

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they were like, I got back three houses out of twelve,

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and two of them were the houses that I did

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not want, And I was just like I don't understand,

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Like did you say something racist?

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Speaker 4: Like what is happening? Like did you act like you

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00:23:59,079 --> 00:24:03,000
were trying to get your no, that's it, and I

482
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:04,839
just like did not understand.

483
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,559
Speaker 2: And I would feel bad because I was getting back

484
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,680
all the houses that I was putting, like my my

485
00:24:09,839 --> 00:24:12,480
preference houses were my top two houses the whole time,

486
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,279
like I was not I was getting dropped by the

487
00:24:15,319 --> 00:24:17,079
houses that I wanted to get dropped by, and I

488
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:18,960
was getting back, like, you know, the maximum of my

489
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:20,920
houses because I would just go in there and be

490
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:24,720
like hey, like upbeat, energetic, but I would have people

491
00:24:24,799 --> 00:24:27,839
asking me like, oh my god, how many houses did

492
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,279
you get? Like people would come up to me and

493
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,200
be like how many houses did you get back this round?

494
00:24:32,279 --> 00:24:34,279
Like did you get back all the houses? Like did

495
00:24:34,319 --> 00:24:36,160
you get into a fee? Like which is like the

496
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,839
top house which spoiler alert no, I got dropped by

497
00:24:38,839 --> 00:24:40,799
a fee first round because I didn't want to be.

498
00:24:40,839 --> 00:24:43,839
Speaker 4: An athe first round after open house.

499
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 5: I think I remember that the top house dropped too.

500
00:24:46,599 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 2: Oh the top house quote unquote sounds so dumb, but

501
00:24:50,839 --> 00:24:52,680
I didn't want to be in a fee. I didn't

502
00:24:52,759 --> 00:24:55,200
like my conversations that I had with the girls, so I.

503
00:24:55,319 --> 00:24:56,559
Speaker 4: Was like, no, not for me.

504
00:24:58,559 --> 00:25:00,319
Speaker 2: But I would have girls being like did you get

505
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,440
back eight houses? Did you did a fee keep you?

506
00:25:02,519 --> 00:25:05,039
And I was like, oh, my fucking god, why.

507
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:05,519
Speaker 1: Do we care?

508
00:25:06,079 --> 00:25:09,079
Speaker 3: Something where you get accepted into the house, but then

509
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,240
they decide they can drop you afterwards any or no.

510
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 2: No, Once you're like initiated, it's definitely pretty hard to

511
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,920
get dropped, Like I mean, you have to keep like

512
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,720
a certain GPA. I think you have to keep like

513
00:25:20,799 --> 00:25:25,359
a two point five five or something to like stay

514
00:25:25,519 --> 00:25:32,200
in the house. And obviously like you can't if you're

515
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:36,519
saying just like outwardly like racist or sexist or homophobic,

516
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:40,839
or you're bullying somebody, like they will drop you because.

517
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,759
Speaker 4: Sororities are crazy.

518
00:25:43,279 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 2: About like their reputations, like they don't they don't put

519
00:25:46,319 --> 00:25:47,400
up with that type of shit, right.

520
00:25:48,759 --> 00:25:50,519
Speaker 1: Was there any hazing or anything like that?

521
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,519
Speaker 4: I mean no, not really.

522
00:25:54,039 --> 00:25:58,160
Speaker 2: I on like midnight, which was like the night where

523
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,359
you kind of find out your house and you quote

524
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:04,039
run home. It was definitely very intense, like there was

525
00:26:04,079 --> 00:26:05,759
a lot of drinking. You kind of went in there

526
00:26:05,759 --> 00:26:06,599
and everybody.

527
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,079
Speaker 4: Was like, let's get fucked up like whatever.

528
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 2: And I was like, and I spoiler alert, I left

529
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,640
Midnight crying because I was like, I think I joined

530
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:16,480
the wrong story.

531
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:18,799
Speaker 1: Wow, she did.

532
00:26:19,319 --> 00:26:21,079
Speaker 2: I and I went to go hang out with my

533
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,880
other friends in a different sorority, which was hilarious. But

534
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:28,359
I did walk back to my apartment crying, slightly tipsy

535
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:32,440
with a dead phone to go charge my phone so

536
00:26:32,559 --> 00:26:34,039
I could go out with my other friends.

537
00:26:35,799 --> 00:26:37,279
Speaker 4: But like, no, there was no light.

538
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 2: There was no hazing, Like, obviously you aren't having to

539
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,119
do any crazy shit that like frats are having to do,

540
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,720
which I don't even think that many UCLA frats do

541
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:48,000
hazing either, although my friends are also secretive about it.

542
00:26:48,079 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 1: They like are they not supposed to tell?

543
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 4: They're like, not supposed to tell.

544
00:26:51,559 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 2: But it's never that deep. It's never that deep, Like

545
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,680
what am I gonna do? Go to IFC and be like,

546
00:26:57,839 --> 00:27:05,920
excuse me, you're frat pledge Master is making these brothers

547
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,839
do whatever fucking shit they get up to. I don't know,

548
00:27:09,079 --> 00:27:13,240
but you know, so the frats are worse. Frats are worse,

549
00:27:13,839 --> 00:27:17,960
but the frats are kind of whatever at UCLA. Anyways,

550
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,599
if you want to go to a fun frat party,

551
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:20,160
you go to USC.

552
00:27:21,079 --> 00:27:26,559
Speaker 5: Unfortunately, would you say, would you looking back, are you

553
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,079
glad you did join the sorority?

554
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:28,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

555
00:27:28,799 --> 00:27:32,799
Speaker 5: Totally have something to do, like while you're getting adjusted

556
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:33,359
to school.

557
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I'm I'm definitely glad I joined it.

558
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,039
Speaker 2: I made some friends through it, and like it was

559
00:27:40,279 --> 00:27:42,720
it was definitely a fun way to kind of put

560
00:27:42,799 --> 00:27:45,599
myself out there, especially being a transfer and like wanting

561
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,119
to kind of make the most and like, even though

562
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,680
I didn't have a very good experience, I don't think

563
00:27:50,839 --> 00:27:53,480
it's the sorority itself that was that. Like I know

564
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,799
a lot of people that are still in my sorority

565
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,319
that love it. I just think I just don't think

566
00:27:59,519 --> 00:28:02,319
in general being a sorority was for me. But I

567
00:28:02,559 --> 00:28:07,160
know that if I didn't rush, I would have regretted

568
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,319
it because then I wouldn't have known, Like what if

569
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:11,599
I did love it, I would have had no idea.

570
00:28:11,799 --> 00:28:14,160
And then I mean, you don't rush as a senior.

571
00:28:14,279 --> 00:28:17,440
That's like it's just like there's no reason too, right

572
00:28:17,799 --> 00:28:19,640
because you're not going to anything. All the seniors are

573
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,039
inactive Like there's I mean, you totally can, but there's

574
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,400
just no point in it. But I was like, I

575
00:28:24,559 --> 00:28:29,680
feel like I would have regretted not rushing.

576
00:28:30,079 --> 00:28:32,319
Speaker 1: You wanted to do all the stuff, Yeah, I wanted to.

577
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 2: Do college, right, I wanted to do college, So yeah,

578
00:28:36,839 --> 00:28:38,799
I'm like definitely glad I did it, and now I'm

579
00:28:38,839 --> 00:28:40,759
glad that I'm not in it. And I got to say,

580
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,640
you know, I was in it. Sometimes I lie and

581
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:44,359
say I'm still in it. Depending on who it is.

582
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 5: Are you sad that you're a senior, I'm definitely going

583
00:28:48,559 --> 00:28:49,200
to ask you that.

584
00:28:49,759 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I'm sad that I'm a senior.

585
00:28:52,039 --> 00:28:55,839
Speaker 2: It sucks because I did college so short and I

586
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:57,640
still feel like I don't really know what I want

587
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,279
to do with myself.

588
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: Everybody, Yeah, and like I don't know.

589
00:29:02,039 --> 00:29:04,599
Speaker 2: Sometimes I feel a little bit behind because I people

590
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:08,000
that had like an extra year or two years in college,

591
00:29:08,119 --> 00:29:11,400
like my senior friends that started at UCLA as freshmen,

592
00:29:11,559 --> 00:29:14,079
you know, like are so ahead of the game, and

593
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:18,279
I'm just like, like I kind of was depressed and

594
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,799
sad and in community college for a full year, like

595
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:25,119
not really doing anything, which I probably, in hindsight, could

596
00:29:25,119 --> 00:29:28,000
have been using to be more efficient, even though I

597
00:29:28,039 --> 00:29:29,599
got into UCLA and that's what mattered.

598
00:29:29,599 --> 00:29:30,279
Speaker 4: I was super happy.

599
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, but in one year I did which crazy, which.

600
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:34,319
Speaker 4: Was super cool.

601
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:39,279
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's definitely a little bit scary being a

602
00:29:39,359 --> 00:29:40,720
senior too, because I'm.

603
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:45,039
Speaker 4: Like life, life doesn't just end after college.

604
00:29:45,119 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 5: Like this is. But Lynette and I have big plans

605
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:52,480
for you, so I'm ready. We feel we feel strongly.

606
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,119
We've talked about this many times with you not here

607
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,039
obviously right and you're kind my back talking about me.

608
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:01,480
We feel like there's no reason and people your age,

609
00:30:01,599 --> 00:30:05,440
I've said this to you, there's no reason a twenty

610
00:30:05,519 --> 00:30:09,000
one year old should be going and getting some corporate

611
00:30:09,119 --> 00:30:12,319
job or some job job that you're going to have

612
00:30:12,519 --> 00:30:15,279
like and then climb the ranks. You're twenty one, We're like,

613
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:19,279
go experience life a little bit, Go travel with your friends,

614
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,839
Go get a skill like bartending or something like that

615
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,799
that you can go do that make some cash, and

616
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,599
go like and do the thing that you have to do,

617
00:30:29,799 --> 00:30:32,599
like work at the festivals. And on the next episode

618
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:34,880
we're going to split this into two parts so we

619
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:40,119
can have it for all of Christmas week. But do like,

620
00:30:40,319 --> 00:30:43,880
live some life and figure out what you want to do. Yeah, exactly,

621
00:30:44,319 --> 00:30:46,400
I know, and m couple years that's what I want

622
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:46,559
to do.

623
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,799
Speaker 2: And like the thing that sucks is TikTok is such

624
00:30:48,799 --> 00:30:51,720
a terrible place because I'll see like twenty two year

625
00:30:51,759 --> 00:30:55,720
olds being like working my job making an X amount

626
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,440
of money and like being in this and like I'm

627
00:30:57,519 --> 00:31:00,599
in finances and I'm like shit, girl, Like.

628
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 6: But who wants to do but God, who wants to

629
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,759
have a full time exactly for a job that doesn't

630
00:31:06,799 --> 00:31:09,599
give you flexibility to Like, No, I don't really figure

631
00:31:09,599 --> 00:31:12,079
out what you A lot of these people people that

632
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:13,519
think they want to be like a lawyer.

633
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,359
Speaker 5: Let's just say I know this for a fact. I

634
00:31:16,559 --> 00:31:18,720
have many friends that are like my age now that

635
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:23,200
went to law school, like graduated college, works super super hard,

636
00:31:23,559 --> 00:31:26,039
went to law school, got in started what do you

637
00:31:26,119 --> 00:31:28,400
call it when you work at a law firm. Oh,

638
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:30,440
there's a law firm term.

639
00:31:30,599 --> 00:31:31,599
Speaker 4: I know what you're talking about.

640
00:31:31,759 --> 00:31:33,559
Speaker 1: Not clerking, paralegal.

641
00:31:34,039 --> 00:31:37,079
Speaker 5: No, but like when you get a job at a

642
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:40,279
law firm but you're not really fully anyway, it's sort

643
00:31:40,279 --> 00:31:44,079
of like interning, but they take you on okay, summer.

644
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,000
Oh what's the word? People are screaming it at me. Anyway,

645
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:50,720
they go do that right, then they become then they

646
00:31:50,799 --> 00:31:52,640
get hired by the law firm, and then they work

647
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:54,759
at the law firm and then like a couple of

648
00:31:54,799 --> 00:31:56,640
years down the line, they go, oh my god, this

649
00:31:56,799 --> 00:31:59,039
sucks so bad. I don't want to be a lawyer. Yeah,

650
00:31:59,279 --> 00:32:03,160
now they're right, and then like, oh shit, what else

651
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:03,720
do I want to do?

652
00:32:03,839 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 1: Now?

653
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,759
Speaker 5: I want to be an interior decorator. Yeah, and then

654
00:32:06,799 --> 00:32:09,079
they have to either go back to school or go

655
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,200
to a program, and they've wasted a bunch of time.

656
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I think would be good for you?

657
00:32:14,359 --> 00:32:15,240
What you should?

658
00:32:15,519 --> 00:32:19,559
Speaker 3: You should go on below Deck and like those people

659
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,240
make a ton of money and tips.

660
00:32:21,599 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 5: That's what I was thinking.

661
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:24,319
Speaker 4: You have shame of self promo.

662
00:32:24,359 --> 00:32:27,799
Speaker 2: If anybody's listening to this and you need a cool, hot,

663
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,119
sexy twenty one year old bartender in La hit.

664
00:32:31,119 --> 00:32:34,119
Speaker 3: Me confidence, hit me up, Patrick and Dylan, hit me

665
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,240
just the below Deck please?

666
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: Well I do too.

667
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,839
Speaker 5: Your neighbor is a casting director for Below Deck.

668
00:32:42,759 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: Dude, LB should totally do you would be So it.

669
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 2: Is now a bad time to say I don't know

670
00:32:49,359 --> 00:32:50,480
the premise of Below Deck.

671
00:32:51,519 --> 00:32:53,799
Speaker 1: Well we'll have to tell you. We'll have to show you.

672
00:32:54,079 --> 00:32:57,039
Speaker 3: You're gonna have to watch the show. They're basically you know,

673
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:00,799
they hire these these Some of them really do have experienced.

674
00:33:00,839 --> 00:33:03,640
Some of them are just you know, there to look cute.

675
00:33:04,079 --> 00:33:07,519
They hire they go they're like you know, these luxury

676
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:11,640
yachts and like in you know, overseas, like by in

677
00:33:11,799 --> 00:33:15,799
Greece or in Spain, in Bisa, and then they have

678
00:33:16,279 --> 00:33:18,720
you know, they do like ten weeks of their season

679
00:33:19,559 --> 00:33:22,359
each they have like these people that come on and

680
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,400
you know they rent it for a few days and

681
00:33:24,519 --> 00:33:26,759
but the real story is the people that are working

682
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:27,519
on this.

683
00:33:28,319 --> 00:33:30,319
Speaker 1: It's on Bravo. It's a Bravo show. Got it?

684
00:33:30,519 --> 00:33:30,799
Speaker 4: Okay?

685
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, well let's watch a season of it and then

686
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,839
walk down to the corner. You know who it is.

687
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:38,640
It's a Rabbi Dan's old house. Oh shit, that those

688
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:39,319
are our neighbors.

689
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:45,599
Speaker 2: Oh who work on Blue Deck they cast a day would.

690
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:49,359
Speaker 3: Be I mean you're like in these tropical places on

691
00:33:49,559 --> 00:33:51,640
the luxury yacht working.

692
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,359
Speaker 1: You work hard, but I think you don't have a

693
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:55,720
pro I think you'll be great.

694
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 5: To get paid in your on TV.

695
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: And you get paid in your on TV. But these

696
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,519
people they make so much money and tips every week.

697
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:02,359
Speaker 4: That's like the dream.

698
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, the dream we get to travel. It would be

699
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:06,960
super fun. We need to find you something like that.

700
00:34:07,359 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 2: I need that type of gig that sounds great. Honestly,

701
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:11,599
it sounds like the dream. I just need to learn

702
00:34:11,639 --> 00:34:13,679
how to bartend. Like I feel like all my problems

703
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:14,000
would be.

704
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 1: Say bartending, if I knew that bartend would help for

705
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:17,559
the for the for.

706
00:34:17,599 --> 00:34:20,119
Speaker 5: Those jobs they have these Like do they still have

707
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:23,239
bartending classes where you like atending.

708
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,639
Speaker 1: School, see what the problem is?

709
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:25,320
Speaker 4: Like they don't.

710
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 2: I feel like jobs nowadays don't really care, Like they

711
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,159
don't really give a shit if you went too bartending school.

712
00:34:30,199 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 4: Like all these jobs are like you need to work

713
00:34:32,079 --> 00:34:32,599
your way up.

714
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 2: But I'm like, dang, girl, I don't have time to

715
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,239
be here for two years when I work on.

716
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:41,280
Speaker 5: Our second show. Let's talk about your current situation, yes,

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and how you got your other fun cool job. Yes,

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but before we go, let's say hi to our friends.

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We got Dick Frolicker and Nikki call your Girl, and

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Elizabeth Williamson, Merry Christmas to all of your million of children,

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and Riada Basiette's helping you by rocking them in our

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basiet and Polly, we live your pancakes, Valerie Bubba Fenwick

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hits it out of the park.

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Speaker 1: And Katerina make sure you check.

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Speaker 3: Your molar because in your vision and you're hearing hell yeah.

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And Gabby and Missy well they're at the North Pole

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right now are they making toys?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 5: Are you guys are the best? Okay? And e Shan Foshpey,

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Rebecca Lupin is so cute. And Kelly Brandt, she's your aunt.

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Alicia Escalante Leslie.

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Speaker 1: Stop with the coughing.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 5: I think she got it from Albie Aaron's and Sanchez

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Jennifer get up, Sandra saudis being green. Stephanie, you are

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a stinker wrinker. Christa get the strap. Also Adam Lerner,

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he is a car broker. He got us our car.

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Wait me my car and my car?

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Speaker 1: Yes he did, he did.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, everybody in here got a carr dot com.

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Speaker 1: Kelsey makes delicious smelling candles. They're so we use soy

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wax so they last longer they have.

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Speaker 5: They smell really good like tobacco, sage, lavender, sandal wood.

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They make great housewarming gifts.

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Speaker 6: Or you know.

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Speaker 5: Jacob Crowley, he's not Crowley anymore.

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Speaker 1: He's not just sweet.

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Speaker 5: And he's giving his shout out for the ACLU right now.

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He might change it. He's feeling cute, might change it.

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He doesn't know. He's not sure. But Aclu is God Lily.

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Speaker 1: We need him.

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Speaker 5: You need the Aclu right now. Christine Black can help

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you with travel. She works for Waves and Wonder Travel

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on Facebook. She's Christine Concierge Travel Planner.

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Speaker 1: Maren. If you're on if you're in Hawaii, which LB

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you might be on below deck?

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Speaker 5: Who knowsh how.

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Speaker 4: Wouldn't be complaining?

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Speaker 5: Our friend Maren has a has a small bakery gift

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shop called Sugar Skull. That's such a cool name.

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Speaker 1: It is a cool name.

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Speaker 5: Their instagram is at Sugar Skull eight oh eight. Go

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on their instagram, give them a follow, make it worth

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their while to pay us every month for their business

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shout out. If you want something ingraveed, not engraved embroidered,

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use Courtney Moore I e embroidery okay on Facebook, just

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look up I e embroidery. Trust me on this. She

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does really cool stuff alby Courtney Moore. Did all of

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you know Xander's merch?

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Speaker 1: Oh? And you an f col hat for me? Thouse

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are so cool?

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Speaker 5: That's her company, she gets she sent that also. Kayleie

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Pettis is a licensed marriage and family therapist out of Seattle.

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She can see clients virtually anywhere in Washington State or

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in person. If you're in Seattle, she's out of network

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with insurance, but she can provide a super bill for you.

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Here's how to get a hold of her Emerald Bloomtherapy

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dot com. Also very good friend of the show, personal

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friend of mine. I can't say her name, but she's

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got a medium column where she tells a lot of

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really personal, very well written stories, and she hurt handle

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on Medium is at unbecoming stories. The Family Skeptical is

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a podcast about raising kids without religion, secular, no religion,

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whatever you are, you're welcome to listen to Family Skeptical

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and it's a really good podcast. I've listened to it.

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Speaker 1: Kelly, Wilma and Frieda.

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Speaker 5: If you're in Palm Springs or Palm Desert, go there,

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tell them you listen to for crying out loud and

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get a latte or a mimosa. Nice and last, but

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not least basic, Becky. She can make you a T shirt.

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I have a T shirt of hers that was for

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the Christmas Spirit called There's some Hoes in this House?

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Always a classic. Yeah, she has one called Drinks Well

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with Others. Funny She makes funny shirts and does mugs

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and mouse pads and she can put your design on it.

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Go to us basic Becky dot com and look her up. Yeah,

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thank you, Elbe? Where who will find you? Do you

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want more followers on your Insta?

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Speaker 4: Do I should I plug my Insta?

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Speaker 2: It's literally just my full name, but with two why's

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instead of one after my first name because somebody decided

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to take Elbe Taylor on Instagram and.

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Speaker 4: Her name is in LB Laura Taylor.

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Speaker 2: If you're listening to this queen, please give me my user.

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Speaker 6: Name rude Okay, so follow Elbe. Thanks LVI h I

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will see you for part two on Friday.

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Speaker 1: Yep, yep hi everybody, you're don