Speaker 1: Is not bad. And in fact, I didn't even realize
that Billy Reid was like fitting bond in specter. I think,
so when you saw the Daniel Craig, some of Daniel
Craig's outfit was Billy Reid. I didn't even know that.
But I literally have like like a closet full of
Billy Reid's stuff. And it's a funny story how that's
the case, but it is the case. And I'm not
telling you have to do this. I'm just giving you
some examples. So if you're like, here's a good here's
a good look right here, This dude's gotta got it
going on. That's nice. See that right there, that's cool. Again,
I don't do the vests, but that's good. That kind
of even looks like what I wore at my wedding,
and my wedding outfit was Billy Reid. And I think
the advantage of this style is like it's not yeah
here we go, yeah there we go. It's not it's masculine,
but it's not like Skittles trendy, and you're not concerned
with you know, weird stuff, bizarre stuff in terms of
like the look. But it's also like fashionable, you know
what I mean, without being super gay. So I think
that's what I would say is a positive here. Now
let's compare. Just think aesthetically here from the Bansia's point
of a female, right, how were those guys dress versus this?
I mean, I know it's kind of obvious, but let
me give an example. Yesterday when I was out at
a bunch of different places grocery stores, shopping centers, etc.
I was watching and paying attention to all of the
dudes and all the females that I saw, and noting
their interactions and checking out the style. Now, I've done
this many many times where I kind of do a survey,
and this is in the South, so keep that in mind.
How many of the guys do you think I saw
who were overweight or the ladies were overweight? In say,
out of twenty people, just randomly twenty people, how many
do you think we're overweight? What you got out of twenty?
I want you guys to give me your best guesses
in the chat. And this is not a fluke. I
wasn't at the carnival funnel cake line, Okay, this is
kind of everywhere. What is your best guesses out of twenty,
we got eighteen, we got half, we got a fifteen,
we got a nineteen, about a twelve or fifteen, so
turns out over half, Okay, so about sixty percent were
significantly overweight, right, so I'd say, yeah, thirteen fourteen. Most
of the guys I see, they look like this Riddler
over here, okay, with his comic book store or the
Diddler whatever.
Speaker 2: He is.
Speaker 1: The Vittler for the Vitlin the Vittlins is that is
that a Southern fried food sounds like it would be
the Vittler over here. I mean, we got like this
is the norm, chunky dudes with Batman, spider Man, marble shirts.
This is what I see out in the world on
a daily basis, Okay, and just compare that with, for example,
the look that you see if you saw this guy.
And Jamie, by the way, we don't there's no promo
co this is not but Jamie recommends this website for
like blazers and men's polos and whatnot because they have
all cotton stuff, right, so they're material over at Quint's
another thing too. Yeah, I've meant to mention like it's
it's sometimes it's difficult, but you want to try to
avoid a lot of like synthetic weird like not cotton
stuff like polyester and this kind of stuff. But I mean,
look at this guy right versus and the same principle
applies to these damn sports bros right versus guys with
comic book shirts on, Like why are you wearing a
comic book shirt as a guy. There's really no excuse.
I noticed too. It's kind of hard to like they
don't actually pull up right, Like this guy's perfect the
fiddler over here, the diddler, this guy, he's a perfect example.
But I mean most of the time what I see
is just these absolutely just they look like a Dani
reck right, looking like a dang it looks like a
game stop threw up right. I mean, this is the
type of dude that we're making fun of with our
funko pop stuff, right, And what is even is this
the riddler? I even know what this is? This cosplay?
I mean, look, soy mouth right just is looking like
a nang idiot cargo pants, cargo shorts. Are you serious?
Look at these guys. This is every dude I see
out in public. They look like this. So number one
simple fix, as we said, fix your looks. Try to
fix whatever you can easily do. Not dress like you're
a thirteen year old boy who loves and just saw
a spider man next up. You know, I have intense
hatred for the sports bro Okay, this is the most
pathetic thing next to the soymen. And the sportsmen are
soymen too, and everybody that you're sort of living out
your masculinity secondhand through black dudes running in circles, okay,
And these guys live their life in sports for beer
and jerseys, And ironically this is actually something that also
you should grow out of. Did you know that, like
one hundred and fifty years ago, sports was seen as
something for children. It was for young guys, young boys
to learn kind of basic life principles about discipline, you know,
hard work, training, commitment, teamwork, loyalty, being a leader on
a team. That's what sports were supposed to teach children.
And through social engineering, and this is absolutely verified, there
was a plan to make sports the obsession of the
culture to the extent that the first test tube for
this experimentation the UK. They're so far gone down this
rabbit hole, down this drain that women in the UK
complain that all the men do, and I believe this
is watch the Manchester football whatever and drink. So the
whole country is being taken over by Muslims because all
of the men checked out and are drunk sports idiots.
And they were decades ahead of us in the US, who,
thank god, are not obsessed with stupid s soccer, but
something just as fake and gray and just as packed
with social engineering, which we talked about for fifteen twenty years.
And I used to get made fun of by masculine
chad dudes. They would actually get mad at me over
me constantly dissing sports and their worship of sports. I
got a lot of heat over the years for this.
And what have we seen in the last five years.
It's one propaganda, all the BLM, all the skittles, all
the nonsense, totally wrapped up in sports. Sports is a
massive idol, especially for dudes. And you have to think
about all these things as fake synthetic masculinity that takes
and SAPs your time and attention and makes you an
absolutely ridiculous, dumb, dull normy. And unless you are playing
the sport, it's ridiculous. In my view, it's immature and
this country will never be fixed until we stop worshiping sports.
I mean, here's all y'all slow boys right here out
there on the sports field with your giant boobs, and
this nish of weirdos is part and parcel with their
bff nish who overlaps with them as you know, the
IPA beer bro. I'm not telling you that it's wrong
for a guy to make a good beer. In fact,
somebody had some interesting podcasts I think it was a
bitcoin podcast, and they were actually talking about the entire
rise of IPAs was actually a reaction to American crappy beers,
believed or not so. Because American beer was so just
pure garbage in the early two thousands, a lot of
dudes and it was a lot of hipsters had the
idea to start actually making you know, micro brew craft
quality beer. Okay, I get that right, that makes sense.
But after twenty years of this and more, like every
beer bro looks like this and acts like a complete idiot.
And I've done rants on this that have gotten a
lot of views. You know, my thoughts. I'm not going
to repeat all this, but they all look like this,
and they all worship sports, and they all do anything
and they're all just complete arrogant idiots. Every IPA beer
bro is just like this, and we all know it.
And every time you look up these people, they all
look the same, like, who the heck is this dude?
He looks just like all the other dudes in this domain.
Look at these dudes the same thing. They all have
shitty beards, they all wear shitty glasses, and they're fat.
And why is everyone fat? Like literally, this whole freaking
country are a bunch of damn tards, large tards? Why
is everyone fat? It's not that hard to not be fat,
and yet everyone is so fat? Why And guess what,
It's not all their fault. It is actually the crappy
quality products. So thank god for RFK Junior and at
least moving in that direction. This is every beer brough
right there. And I get it from a standpoint of
doing a business or whatever. You're gonna learn about brewing
and you're gonna talk about this shit or whatever, And
I get it. It's at your business, that's fine, But
like these types of dudes, they will talk your ear
off about all the different brews. Is it more of
a logger in the IPI? It's got a really happy
field to it and no, no, no, no no, the
dea shut up dude. Every time I do this too.
Like even the people who love I Pas and all
this kind of stuff, like they actually get this. Here's
an actual beer that's just flannel because all the beer
bros were Why do they all have this style? This
is like a weird I don't mind. It's like MK
like beer mk ulture or something. I don't know what's
going on, but this dude, in my opinion, it's just
not as it's another like a simulated masculinity, right, like
guards are into sported beer. Maybe when you're ten and
you're you know, thirteen or whatever, you're trying your first beer.
But like, you know, because you know, every fat beer
dude is not actually out chopping down trees, right, Like
the beer dude is trying to go for this. Paul
Bunyan logger shit right, I'm into logging and logger. I'm
a logger, logger. He's logging with his Like, here's here's
one standing on a log So I drink loggers while
I stand on logs. It's masculine anyway, Look, this stuff
gives you boobies your bitch TETs and kills your masculine drives,
shall we say, uh, and makes you sleepy and makes
you dumb. So I P I P a beer, Bros,
get out of here, dude. Now, I don't think girls.
Maybe there's some women that are. I mean, there's girls
love to drink. So you gotta be careful here because
you can't be a teetotaler. But if you're out on
a date and you know somebody wants to have a drink, okay,
go for it, but do not. I would just say,
don't get drunk. Just avoid getting drunk. Next up, worst
type of man dude, gamers, gamers again, cut down on
this stuff. If you want to do this every now
and then, okay, But like a lot of dudes are
this dude, right, A lot of dudes are this dude?
Gamer dudes, chunky gamer dudes. I mean, look at this dude.
Here's the eight hundred pound gamer dude. What the heck?
Or this what's his name boogie that everybody talked about
forever who basically went insane.
Speaker 3: I think.
Speaker 1: This dude, right, I'm getting tired of the AI stuff too,
But that's like all that comes up when you type
this stuff. I mean, remember the euphoria atheist memes. This
guy's like this right, So right away, this guy, the
long hair is not working for you. You need to
lose eighty pounds. Stop. Your diet is what's giving you
all the acne. Like immediately, we can tell this guy
right away what to do, right anyway, So that's what
I have to say on that these are the archetypes,
loosely speaking, that we want to avoid. Right. We don't
want any of these things to be anywhere near us.
These are the toxic archetypes that we want to get
rid of. And now Jamie is a big fan of
facial hair. I know all Orthodox people want beards. Again
my opinion, and Jamie agreed. As a female, if you're
a dude and you are not clergy or a monk,
it doesn't make sense to try to row some massive
church father beard. It almost just looks like you're LARPing, right,
And her assessment was that, you know, that's about the
maximum length that a guy should have if he wants
to be attractive to a woman. Right, So we're talking
about guys that are you know, we're not talking about
seventy year old men that are widowed. You know that
are hanging out in their garden all day and nobody's
gonna care. We're talking about if you're a young guy
and you're trying to attract the mates. What we're talking about, Okay,
so trying so looking like you are not homeless basically, right,
I've got orthodox bro friends and it's fine if they
want to do it, that's their choice. But you know
they've got homeless man beards and well Jamie's laughing, being serious,
and in their mind they're like, oh, bro, I'm like
super spiritual with this beard, and look how asedek I am.
And it's like, look at this beard. So Ceta. It's like,
but you're not, dude. You work at Krispy Kreme. You're
not You're not an asthetic. What are you talking about?
And work at Krispy Kream? Yeah, but nobody wants to
get your donuts when you've got hair like dangling and
touching the donut though, bro Tammy's laughing, so point being like,
just be kemped. Even if you have long hair, you
can look okay and uh kemped versus unkempt with beard
or with hair. Also, I was just gonna add, like,
if you're a dude, and you want to vary the
styles right by what's appropriate. Obviously, Yes, in warmer situations
and climates, you don't have to always wear pants for
some reason. This is like I think you know in
places like Italy, like men are never supposed to wear shorts. Okay,
Well those people have never been to Florida. Okay, so
you cannot wear pants all year round in some sort
of like ridiculously humid locale. Right. So I am a
fan of beach aesthetic, as you guys know. I like
the Miami vibe, the Miami vice vibe. I like the
sunny Crockett vibe. I like beach guy vibe. That to
me resonates because whether you think about it or not,
like your style is going to project things to the
woman in question or to who we're talking about, and
she's gonna be whether again, it doesn't matter whether you
think it's fair or it makes sense. Throw all that out, Okay,
We're we're looking at pure pragmatic, objective facts here. We
don't care about whether you think it's fair or not. Okay.
I like this vibe. I like this style, and I
like it because I'm a child of the eighties. I
was a child in the eighties, and it suggests something
very laid back but smooth. Right in the eighties, everybody
thought Sonny Crockett was cool and that look, that Miami
dude look, it has never gotten old. I mean, that
could be something that a guy wears right now, like
the Ralph Lauren stuff that we saw. So my point though,
in this is not telling you that you have to
adopt that style. My point is that it would be
good for you to maybe kind of adopt a trademark
style like this is what some guys call peacocking, and
that's a good thing. You can go crazy with it.
But I remember one time I was at a bar.
This is probably around twenty eleven, and I was there
with my buddy Ben. This was in Cincinnati. I forget
the name of that area where there's like all these
bars and since, but they had gentrified this area and
we were at this big kind of open like plaza
area out back behind a bar where there was just
tons of people back there, right, So there's like, I
don't know, maybe fifty people mingling back there, and my
buddy and I were there with some other friends. So
I wasn't like it wasn't like we were doing cold
approach because we didn't know anybody. Like, we had some
friends with us, and I think we were dancing with
a couple of girls that one of which was a
friend of my buddy's girlfriend. And I mean it was
it was innocent fun. There was no you know, it
was just we were out hanging out dancing just like
normal types of stuff, not like torquing. Okay, like normal
white people out at the bar dancing. Does this still exist?
I guess it's I don't know. Does this stillicist? I
don't know. But one thing that was interesting was like
these two dudes who thought it would be fun. They
dressed in like some absolutely outrageous outfits. Right, So one
of them had on like a total weird like sparkly sequin.
They weren't gay, like, they were just being funny, uh
like a John Travolta from Saturday Night Fever weird outfit. Right.
And then another dude came in something equally kind of outlandish,
and they ended up being the talk of this entire
bar party because of their ridiculous outfits and they didn't care.
And yeah, there was dudes. We look at him, dudes
like a bunch of gay gaze look at him gay gays,
but they didn't care. They were having fun and girls
liked it. The girls started talking to these guys, and
I mean, they were decent looking dudes from what I remember.
They weren't like hideously ugly dudes that couldn't pull it off.
They pulled it off because they didn't care. So in
that example that comes to mind, peacock can work when
you kind of have your own kind of unique style.
So and just ties into I think one of the
points that a lot of young dudes need to know,
which is you're eventually going to have to become your
own man. And a lot of young dudes like they'll
just try to like literally copy or copy paste some
dude like who is that nerdy potato boy that we
were talking about the other day, Tyler Hockley or whatever.
He wants to be Tate and he thinks that if
he just like literally tries to mimic everything Tate does,
like this, like fifteen year old, sixteen year old idiot
kid like he'll be Tate. Okay, you're not going to
be Tate, and Tit is not somebody who want to
be anyway, right, So it's a sign of immaturity. I
think a sign of youth. I guess that you you're
trying to be something that you're not. Now, this is
a little complicated, though, because guys do the kind of
archetypes and images to shoot for. Right. And the only
reason we're not talking about Jesus tonight is because most
people in the world, they don't think of Jesus the
way he actually is and the scriptures as actually very masculine.
They think of Jesus as like hippie Jesus. Okay, so
we're not talking about that just because there's so much
misconception about what Jesus or who Jesus actually is. Right,
So we're gonna be using pop culture images and references
and archetypes and so you know, Sonny Crockett is an
interesting male hero archetype because he is a law enforcement guy.
He deals with mob criminal activities, he has a gun, right,
these kinds of things that are masculine activities. These are
all positive qualities. And he dresses well, and all the
eighties ladies thought that Sonny Crockett was a cool guy.
So those are the positive qualities here. And he was
as a man, he projected this sort of you know,
very independent, very swab, not not bothered by minutia type
of guy, and that those are all positive masculine qualities
and in ways very similar to perhaps what we would
see with you know, James Bond. Right, So the next
next we're going to move into talking about male archetypes
good and bad. I think I covered this, let's see. Oh,
the one other thing I want to say about young
guys too, was when you're young, you're going to be
somewhat insecure, and insecure dudes get very emotional. They have
not yet mastered their emotional their emotions, and so they
can get kind of out of whack and upset very easily,
get riled up, very easily. This is something that you're
going to have to overcome, and it's hard, especially when
you're really young. And that can be by you know,
your friends that maybe they make fun of you and
you get your feelings hurt, or you know somebody's provoking
you intentionally on This happens, for example, in sports where
people try to get into your head. If you're the
opposing team, you start talking smack to get into the
guy's head, right, So you have to kind of get
past that and get to the point where your emotions
don't rule you, because those are more feminine characteristics and qualities.
Guys should be governed by reason, by logic, by self
control and self discipline. But don't get too hard on
yourself or too down if you don't immediately have that,
because those are qualities and characteristics that take many years
to develop. The things that used to make me mad,
you know, when I was eighteen nineteen, twenty twenty one,
they don't make me mad anymore, and it really does.
I think also relates to the age that you're at,
Like once you hit age thirty and then into age
thirty five, you will less and less care what other
people think and say, and there will be a kind
of an internal change in you where it just won't
It won't affect you, won't bother you. That doesn't mean
it never will. But generally speaking, somebody can still get
on your nerves. Somebody can still rall you up. You're
never gonna be some sort of perfectly functioning machine. You're
still going to always be human. You're gonna be susceptible
to whatever vices and weaknesses you're susceptible to. So don't
have these outrageous, outlandish expectations on yourself. Next, we're gonna
talk about Envy is another one that young guys fall
into because you're insecure, you're unsure of yourself, you don't
know about the world, you haven't really done a lot yet,
not a lot of accomplishments, and so you're insecure, and
then you naturally will immediately want to be envious, and
then you want to be a hater. I think every
guy at some point has been an envious hater at
some point, right, Because nobody is born super Chad sigma.
I don't think maybe somebody is. But a lot of
these qualities are qualities that are learned or are gained
over time and through adversity. For example, one guy was
saying in the comments on yesterday's video about top ten
advice for Guys topics, he said that he thought that
a lot of young men, especially like younger younger men,
had never engaged in hard work. I thought that was
actually a really good assessment too. I'm not saying that
the ideal is that all men should be working on
oil rigs or be coal miners. In fact, no, you
should actually try to avoid that kind of of a
lifestylear job unless you just have some you know, intense
and some dudes do. Some dudes really like like like
super intensive manual labor. If that's you, that's you. But
those kinds of seasons where you have really intense hard
work to do, they do build character. They are really important.
And it didn't even occur to me that. Man, I
bet a lot of guys aren't even experiencing that. And
I'll give you an example that I went through. This
is one of the worst experiences ever. But do you
know one thing it taught me. It was kind of
laying the groundwork for me not wanting to work in
that kind of wage environment. I remember one summer when
it was my first job at a paint store and
before I was the paint mixer manager. I had to
do all the crappy positions. So I had to be
the dude that would scrape up the old flooring because
we also did flooring there, and I had to be
the guy that was great old wallpaper. These are like
the worst jobs, okay, but I did that for an
entire summer, okay, And the worst job that we ever
had was an old folks home that was having the
entire wings floor replaced. Now, this was decades of old
people urine that had seeped into underneath the tiles, and
I had, in a wing with no air conditioning, an
entire summer to scrape up all the floor. This was hell.
This was the closest that I've been to hell. Okay,
And sometimes you would walk into the rooms and the
old people were fully unclothed, and it literally was decades
of pea underneath the tiles and the flooring. It was awful.
And after that summer, I decided, I will never ever
have a job like this again, and I will do
anything my power to not do this kind of So
that taught me a lot. It taught me how bad
those kinds of jobs can be. But it was a
learning It was a massive learning experience and it was
super hard work. But there was actually positive to that,
believe it or not. That horrible, horrible scenario when I
was finished in the evenings, right because I think it
was nine to five, we might've quit at four, I
don't remember, But like I was like so relieved when
the day was over, right, And it was just an
extremely intense experience I'll never forget and it's weird to
me to think of never having had that kind of experience,
you know what I mean, that was a season of adversity,
because I mean, if you're like fourteen fifteen, I don't
remember how it was, you don't want to be doing that.
It was just it was as bad as it sounds.
But an entire summer of that. I think it was
worth the bad experience. I guess I should say it
was an intense season of adversity, and so guys are
gonna have to figure out ways to challenge themselves, to
take on types of adversities and to persevere through. I'm
not telling you to go to boot camp. By the way,
this ship was probably worse than boot camp. That was
like my own personal boot camp. Hey, Jamie, could you
make me an expresso? Jamie? And you might be an espresso.
Let's see we come, We got all that, We got
all that. Oh, you're gonna get homework tonight too, y'all
gonna give you some homework. Uh, let's talk about the
archetypes and then we're gonna talk about the ultimate awful archetype.
I don't I mean, we don't have to go to
like images of these people we can talk about everybody's
familiar with James Bond, but I mean, you know some
of the positives of James Bond without getting all puritanical
and bitching about. I know that he's a spy for
the government, he's a complete psycho, and he's a killer.
But there's certain things that James Bond has as qualities
that are attractive to women, whether we like that or not,
or whether we think it makes sense or whatever. And
some of those are that he in the situations that
I know. He's a fictional character, but in the in
the situations that he's in, he's not actually very rattled
by whatever's going on. Now, again, most dudes are not
going to be that calm in a situation, but he's
calm enough in the situations that they don't rattle him.
He's not easily rattled, So he's able to control his emotions, right,
So that's something that is a positive quality to James Bond.
James Bond also dress as well, right, he doesn't ever
look like a slob. And even though James Bond is
middle to low class, you wouldn't know that in the
presence of James Bond. You would think this is some
kind of you know, dude that's got stuff going for him.
I'm not saying you gotta wear a tuxedo, right, But
James Bond is not afraid of walking up to people
and talking to them. He's not afraid of, even to
a degree, dying. And if he's not afraid of dying,
and if you if you've overcome some of these, you know,
classic human fears. Why would you be afraid of approaching
and talking to a woman? Right? And women are very,
very hyper sensitive to minutia or body language, or mic
aggressions or micro expressions. And so if you betray nervousness
and fear and you're trying to talk to a girl
in your hand, your hands and your voice is shaking,
like she's gonna know that. Right, So that's a fear
that you've not yet overcome. He's overcome this. He's talked
to countless women. He's not afraid of talking to a woman.
And why does the young guy feel that fear? Well,
he's afraid of rejection. He's afraid of her not liking him,
not finding him attractive. What if he says something dorky,
what if he stumbles over his words? Well, guess what
who cares In the end, it doesn't matter. I've seen,
for example, in my past dudes that were not very bright,
not very suave, kind of idiots, but they were still
able to do okay with women just because they weren't
afraid of them. So a lot of guys, especially young
smart guys, totally overthink this kind of stuff. And there's
all the red pillig grifty people like trying to sell
you a course and all this stuff. Like all you
got to know is to figure out, like don't be fat,
like fix your hygiene, try to be personal, make normal conversations,
be yourself, stop trying to act like you're some Romanian weirdo.
And if yourself is super nerdy, work on yourself. For example,
James Bond's gait, his gate, the way he walks, he
walks like a normal, confident man. He does not walk
like a nerd who speeds across. If you have noticed
how nerds walk, they walk stiff and click like they've
got something in their butt, like they're scared, like they're
little nerd mice running around. It's like, why why are
you walking like that? You're walking like a mouse, Like
do relax, Like why are you walking like that, you
look like an idiot. Like James Bond walks into a
room and he looks like a normal guy. And he
goes and he stands over at the bar and he
he leans back and he has conversations. He does not
walk in and like speed across the room like a
crow boin. If you've watched Malcolm in the Middle, then
you know who the Crowlboins are, Right, No crowboying is
ever getting a girlfriend. And in fact, if you've not
watched Malcolm in the Middle, it's almost worth watching just
for that kind of stuff. Right, Nerds have this spurgy
like do what why do you like something's wrong with
your body? Dude? Why are you walking like something's stuck
in your butt? It's weird. They look they walk like
they're like on some little invisible motorcycling. Right, And that's
how the crow boys are in the show, right, crowboyn
and Malcolm in the Middle. They're the challenges children. And
one of them like runs everywhere like he's like, oh,
he does everything on a motorcycle. That's how nerdy dudes,
spurgy dudes act and walk. Okay, That type of body
language signals to a woman that you're a freaking dork. Dude.
It's immediate, like turn off. No girl is going to
find that truck. Okay, So there are archetypes that you
should shoot for. I'm not telling you to go sleep
with all the women. I'm just saying that, think about
the positive qualities that James Bond exudes that are worth
bringing into your psyche, that archetype, so to speak, because
I guarantee you if you're a like who do you
think a woman would prefer Sean Connery or the chunky
gamer dude? I mean, it's this is not it's like
kind of a lot of this is really obvious. It's not
rocket science. Okay, But for some reason, I guess a
lot of people do need to hear this kind of stuff.
If you've never asked out a girl. Look, if you're
a ninth if you're above ninth grade, tenth grade, and
you've never asked a girl out, Okay, something's wrong. Something's wrong,
Like you should have done this by now. And I
don't need to hear a million excuses. Oh but the.
Speaker 4: Girls are mean, Oh the girls that they're all whores now,
Oh they're all trash, now, all the girls around only fans.
All the girls are stop whining. Dudes need to stop.
Speaker 1: Whining, whine whining? Why why bitching on Twitter? Ugh, that's pathetic. Okay,
all your pathetic qualities, which we're gonna talk about the
pathetic dude in a minute, the archetype of the worst dude.
All that shit's got to stop. None of that. Get
it out of here no more. Every time you're attempted
to whine and complain about women, this and.
Speaker 3: When women women are liars because they wear makeup? Makeup
is a lie?
Speaker 1: What? This is the stupidest shit I've ever heard. Dude,
that is so dumb. There's actually dudes actually say this.
Can you believe that I don't know what's going like?
This is like the migtaiel in Selli type stuff, which
is just I can't stand that stuff. Never have cared
for that stuff. At least something like Neil Strauss's book
would teach you how to dress nice, how to engage
in conversation. Right, I'm not advocating for everything that the book
tells you to do, because any positive trait or quality
can be misused. Right, So you can learn social dynamics,
social skills, and you can misuse those, but you can
also use them properly to your advantage. And these are
skills that are kind of universal in other areas as well.
For example, you want to be a teacher, Okay, can
you dress nice and communicate effectively? Or do you have
weird speech impediments and you talk like a retort and
you're you're sold up? Like the Idiocracy line goes, that's
a quote from a movie. I mean, it's just again.
So if you're a young dude and you let's say
you've never approached a girl or asked a girl out, okay,
well I would say, first of all, let's work on
the physical appearance. Okay, I'm gonna be your I'm gonna
be I'm gonna be your Will Smith Hitch right here, right,
you're Kevin James and I'm waltzed him off. I'm joking, actually, though,
maybe you should. I mean it sounds stupid, but like
maybe you should watch Hitch because Kevin Jane is like
a fat and nerdy dude and it's a stupid movie.
But I mean, at least like Will Smith kind of
like shapes him up a little bit, right and helps
him out. And no, that's a footpart. Somebody said they
wanted to see my calves, by the way, and I
do have on shorts because I'm at home. So I'm
going to show you my calves. Because they said you
do not have a game winning basketball calves, And I said,
are you sure about that? So there you go look
at them things. Those are a game basketball calves right there. Anyway,
So if you've never asked a girl out, you've never
put the girl, you've never done this, You're gonna need
to go through this experience or you're never gonna get
a girlfriend. In fact, I was even talking to so much.
This is not appropriate for church people. I was talking
to a cleric the other day and he had said
to me, I won't say who, but that he was
talking to a bunch of this hot of tale and
he was talking a bunch of the young dudes. And
many of the young dudes have never talked to a
girl or asked them out in person. I'm sure they've
slid into DMS on something. But okay, none of this
is It's not the real world, right. So if you've
begun to fix your appearance, and you've begun to lose
some weight, you begun to clean up. Okay. The best
thing for that kind of a dude to meet a girl,
or to at least get over this fear of asking
a girl out and getting rejected, is to try something
that's day related, like a coffee shop. So take a
book and when you're doing your reading time, depending upon
what you kind of think the crowd in this coffee
shop might or may not be, you're gonna take your
book and you're gonna sit in there for an hour
every few days, and you're gonna read in there, and
you're gonna watch and wait and see if you think
a cute girl comes in and maybe the first time
you don't immediately just hit on her. Maybe you strike
up a conversation something like that. That could be very
easily done and it's very effective for rather than like
trying to go to bars and pick up people. Okay,
that's really annoying. Bars are loud, they're drunk people. It's
just a mess. It's not really worth it. The only
time that kind of a setting, I would argue, can
be okay is if you have a group of friends
that are already going out, say to dance, and maybe
you have you know, a date set up through that
or you know, your friends are arranging you to meet
their friends, that kind of that. That can work, right,
But the you know, just you and your bro going
to the bars out, I mean that, that's just it's
just a It doesn't it's not the best. It's just
a shitty situation. It usually never works out. Very few
people have I ever even heard of who had significant
lasting relationships that met at a bar like I've never
heard of this. Maybe it does most of the time.
People meet through other people, but not always. Sometimes you
may not be in that situation. Maybe you move to
some city for a job, you don't know anybody. Guess
what time to grow up? Time to meet new people.
When I was young, I didn't like moving all the time.
My dad was in the military and we moved a lot,
and as soon as I I would make friends, we'd
have to move again. I went through that experience many
many times in my youth, and it sucked. I didn't
like it. It would have been nice to stay in
one place and have the same friends all my life,
and there are advantages to that. But one good thing
that happened was that I got used to meeting people,
meeting new people, being social et cetera. And not being
afraid of people in crowds. That was another big one.
So if you can get if you can gain these skills,
these are skills that will help you. For example, when
I was in high school, I took public speaking classes,
I took theater classes. I was able to act and
do things in front of a camera, never been afraid
of it. There were times in my life where I
got out of practice. Throughout a lot of my twenties,
I didn't do a lot of public speaking and that
kind of stuff. I was kind of lost in a
world of books. And that was a season that worked
out okay for me. There was positive to that season
in my life. This season of my life is much
more enjoyed then the ten years in my twenties that
I spent in books. But there are positive pros and
cons either way. But I would say again, it is
advantageous to try to learn these skills right, to try
to learn to walk like a normal dude and not
like a spurgy stick. To figure out how to make
small talk. And this is a difficult one for high
IQ people because they.
Speaker 3: There's a waste of time to engauge at small talk
that do not find it to be positive for me,
and it is who cares.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're gonna need to be able to have small
talk conversations with people to get along in this world.
So it doesn't matter like what you like and what
you don't like. Okay, we're doing like our boot camp
training course for dorks tonight, and you can do it
over the internet. No one has to know you're a dork.
You could be a secret dork. We're gonna fix you.
I'm gonna be your wall small You're wal smoth, Will Smith.
I'm gonna come slap you because you got a lapecia.
I'm just kidding. Thank you, guys, Welcome everybody. Appreciate those
superchest You guys are being very generous tonight. You can
also superchat through stream labs. Let's catch up on some
of those before we look at some more of the archetypes.
I got a little more archetype information that I want
you guys to search or to contemplate, to meditate upon
as we learn rizonomics tonight. We have it's a category
five riz tonight exactly. A great comment there at Marnie.
Small talk is necessary to be able to suss out
whether the person that you're talking to is somebody that
you would like to progress to further level of intimacy with.
You see, So a lot of nerdy people want to
bypass the things that they think are a waste of
time or whatever. Okay, nerdy dudes, you got to understand.
The way a female thinks and acts and works is
not the way you think it acting work. It's very different.
So a woman, for example, is going to be much
more attuned to the way that you look, your composure,
your communication skills, your body language, your smell, your hygiene all.
She's going to read all that first, right, the same
way that a dude looks at a girl's face, boobs,
and butt. A girl is going to gauge you. She's
going to run that terminator scan right to check all
those things. And so the way that you start a
conversation and have fun with a conversation is way more
important from the get go than all this other stuff.
For example, some jamie was talking about a tweet that
she saw from some dude saying that he went on
it no as a girl complaining about a date that
she had with a guy, and she said that the
guy was acting really weird and like some of the
first stuff that was said was I want you to
know right away that I am intending to marry, and
I would like you to be open to having at
least ten children and blah blah blah blah blah blahlah.
So it's like totally wrong. Okay, the first date, the
first time you're meeting somebody, this is not a legal contract,
this is not a transaction art of the deal Donald
Trump thing. Okay, that's business world. Okay. I know spergs
think everything's mathematics, but in this domain, it's not. Okay,
this is more like biology. You would actually learn more
from EV bio and EV psych than you would from
like math and those kinds of abstract disciplines. For example,
as we're going to see from one of the videos,
from a girl who actually talks about what women find
interesting and attractive in men. And I watched this video
earlier and I thought, actually, she's really good. I read
an entire book just on the topic that she's gonna
talk about, in terms of indicators and signs that women
are interested in. It's not even necessarily just about sexual stuff,
but even like engaging in a conversation with you, right,
And I know a lot of you in the audience
think why was he talking about this? I'm telling you, man,
you guys don't understand. There's like gaggles of dudes eighteen
to twenty two who don't know this stuff. They've never
talked to a girl in person. Now, I know, the
boomers are like, oh, you gotta dudes go to dance
and walk up to and n ask her to dance.
It doesn't work like this anymore. People are like goblins
now they're retorted. Now, okay, so boomers don't even understand
how crazy it is. Okay, but here's my thesis. We're
still men and women. No matter how much propaganda is
pushed and all the inversion that's pushed, people are still
going to revert back to their normal biological functioning as
male and females, and all the propaganda saying there's no
such thing as male and female, it's just that propaganda
intended to destroy human pair bonding and to make sure
that men and women don't produce more people. That's what
it's all ultimately about. So let me give you another
example of something that I realized when I was in
high school that okay, ninth grade. I dressed like a slob.
Then I realized that the guys that dressed nice and preppy,
all the girls like those guys. So guess what I did?
Did I whine and complain about girls? Girls just like
to the top two percent. Now the problem was in me.
The problem wasn't the dudes that I was envious of
or the girls I was mad at because they didn't
like me. He dressed like a n am slob. I
changed my wardrobe entirely, and I started dressing like a
nicely dressed dude. And guess what all that changed? That's simple.
I mean it wasn't just that. Obviously there's other things
involved as well, but like just the appearance was like
a huge one. And then all the other nerdy dudes
and slobby dressed dudes they never I had a friend,
for example, who was a good friend of mine for
a long time. One of them never had a girlfriend
until out around towards the end of college. And why
didn't he never have a girlfriend? He would never ever
change the way he dressed. And we had a lot
of arguments over this, and I would be like, why
don't you dress this the way? This is? This He's like,
screw it. If they don't like me for who I am,
then they don't like me. I'm sorry, but that's just
not true. Now, eventually he met a person, they got
married and so forth. I'm not dissing that, but like,
I have other friends who had the same attitude where
they were unwilling to do anything on their part, unwilling
to make any changes, and they still think they deserve
like a nine or a ten, or they're gonna get
a nine or a ten with absolutely no changes on
their part. No, it's not gonna happen. So a lot
of people are delusional, men and women. I've seen the
clips of where forget that black dude but he died
or whatever, but he used to ask the black woman, like,
what you think you deserve?
Speaker 5: I deserve a man a six y six and make
six hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: And she's like five hundred pounds and got like six
illegitimate children. Okay, that's famous clips of I don't remember
the guy's name. But and then you've got the same
thing going on with nerdy dudes.
Speaker 3: I deserve like I would like Argo Robbie or whatever,
like she's super hot, like likes say like like with
it should like be they should have liked like like
like like sports guys, like they shouldn't liked rich guys,
like they should like beer.
Speaker 1: Whatever. Why don't they like beer? Whatever? Well why would they? Right?
What do you bring to the table? Now? Most dudes
at this stage get butt hurt and they want to complain.
That is lazy, that is weak. That is oppression narrative.
All the right wing nerdy dudes that bitch about all
this stuff all the time.
Speaker 3: LIVI, it shouldn't be very bakeup because it's a lie.
It's a lie. Dude.
Speaker 1: Look at you. You're in a basement, You're eating hot pockets,
you're eating chicken tends in a microwave and chalky milk.
You're you. You're not in that game. You're not in
that tier. And I know this might sound like Wes
Watson or whatever. You ain't at my level. I'm just
making fun of West Watson, But I mean that part
is true though, right, Like, dudes and girls can be
super delusional, right, fat dudes, gamer dudes and fat checks,
they could be super delusional.
Speaker 5: I deserve a man with an escalate and six million
dollars and a six pack and he's six foot six
because I got six kids. I'm not about a sid
sax six.
Speaker 1: No. So everything, let's put it this way, everything manchild,
get rid of what are some other manchild characteristics beyond
whining and complaining all the time and bitching on Twitter
this and that and just stupid stuff like women shouldn't
wear makeup, but that's to me, it's just weird, man,
It's bizarre. Who can of women wear makeup? I mean,
if you're like crazy looking like clown or something, I
guess that's weird. But this crusade of weirdos, and it
starts to get Muslim, okay, it starts turning into like Salafi,
like women need to wear a bark Like that's just crazy, man.
Some kind of weird cult is bizarre. So I'm getting
off off, I'm getting off track. Let's get back to
our archetypes. I apologize. I'm trying to remember there's any
there was another characteristic that Bond had. I think we
covered most of that. Let's look at another archetype, which, uh,
you might think this one is funny, but there are
some elements that this type of an archetype. We're gonna use.
The Jackson Sparrow archetype here is worth looking at because
now Jack Sparrow is the wild pirate, crazy bro, right,
who doesn't care. He's sort of the trickster fool archetype.
If we were talking about archetypes again, right, he's carefree, right,
he is goofy, he's funny, he loves life, he jokes around.
That type of a guy, That type of an archetype
is much more attractive than a nerdy gamer. No it
all okay, So again we're thinking out the good elements
of James Bond, the good elements of Jack Sparrow. Okay,
not that he's a pirate or whatever, but the good elements,
all right, the care free aloofness. Right in the storyline,
the women all like Jack Sparrow because he's again fun goofy,
and he's aloof I told you guys that I had
a friend in high school that around this ninth tenth
grade era, I started realizing all the girls like so
and so what does he have? What's his characteristics that
he's got? And he was much more of this kind
of an archetype than a James Bond archetype. Right, So
you have like the super you know, preppy dudes that
a lot of the girls liked. That's the James Bondish
archetype vibe. And then you kind of have the wild
party guy, Dyonissian, carefree type of dude, and a lot
of the girls like that guy from different circles, but
maybe more of the alternative hippie type chicks, right, they
resonated with this guy. But even some of the preppy
girls would like these kinds of guys, right, because it's
a bad boyish, edgy kind of vibe going on. Those
are characteristics that you could ingratiate from this archetype if
you are imbalanced, so to speak. So let's say you're
a super nerdy, uptight, you know type of dude and
you're on a date and it's your first date or something,
and the discussion comes up of paying for the meal.
I don't know how or why this ever became some
kind of huge debate all over podcasts and Twitter and
gender sphere. To me, this is utterly ridiculous. First of all,
it's not a big deal like paying for somebody's dinner.
Speaker 3: So what, well, you don't know, I don't make that
much money, and so I don't want to pay.
Speaker 1: For a lot of So what are you signifying right away?
You're a loser. You're bitching over paying for a thirty
dollars meal for somebody, like what you don't even know
meals are like fifty dollars now, okay, whatever, fifty dollars.
Like immediately you're signifying that you're petty, you're annoying, you're
whining and bitching.
Speaker 3: Well, it's the first day it has to be going Dutch.
Speaker 1: Why no, it doesn't like it's not a big deal.
In in my vast time of many dates, I don't
ever remember an argument over who would pay. I would buy.
It's not even a big deal. And then guys will
be like, but with a lot of these girls, they
are actually boucie off of you, and so you're like,
you're just give it away, buddy, for free to the butches. Okay,
well guess what. That's immediately a disqualifier, right, Like, if
I've identified red flags with this chick that she's so
weird and bizarre and messed up that she's mooching a
meal off of me and not even really into the date,
there's not going to be another date, like cross her off, right,
So like lesson learned, not a big deal. It's just
bizarre that, like on Twitter and in the domain, people
will argue over anything and everything, the most idiotic things.
Should a guy pay for the meal? Yeah? Who cares?
So the Jack sparrow archetype would just throw the gold
coins down. He doesn't give a shit. It's not a
big deal. And to a woman that exudes the confidence
that like, you're not hung up on little things, how
are you going to be a good mate or a
good partner If you can't handle and you get hung
up on and lose your shit over something innocuous, it
signifies a weak man and a weak character. And also
like you ought to be able to make enough money
that even if some girl was mooching a meal out
of you, it's not a big deal. So what So
you took one girl out and it didn't go well
and you don't have another day, he don't call her again.
It's like, why is it's not a fight? It's not
even worth having a fight over. I mean, in my lifetime,
I probably have paid for one hundred meals for dates,
So what none of them even like I don't it
doesn't even register as a problem, Like so why would
you even argue with something It's just bizarre, like people
are like almost not people anymore. It's like people humans
aren't even humans anymore, they don't have normal human experiences.
Or it's just some kind of weird Mandela affect alternate universe.
I'm joking, but halfway. Okay. So aloofness, care free fun. Okay,
if you're blackpilled and miserable and whining and bitching, you
cannot be aloof care free and fun. And every girl
likes dudes that are aloof care free and fun. Pretty simple,
so try to ingratiate that archetype other archetypes. Now, this
is a funny one, and this one is gonna be
very relevant for theology bros and conspiracy bros. Okay, Now,
in the movie Conspiracy Theory, I want to recommend you
guys watch It's a great conspiracy classic movie. If you've
never watched Mel Gibson's Conspiracy Theory, I recommend watching it.
And the reason I want you to watch it is
that we're going to contrast some of the characters and
their psyche and their modus operandi with others to see
the good and the bad. So here is a bad
character archetype. Right, Jerry is a highly intelligent person. But
Jerry has had, as we know from the movie m
Culture things happened to him, and that's unfortunate, right it is.
But the way that Jerry interacts almost entirely through the
first three fourthsome of the movie with Julia Roberts is
utterly spurgy, idiotic, creepy, weird and wrong. Okay, so you
don't want Jerry game the way that he interacts. And
Mel Gibson plays this perfectly right, Like he shows up
one day at her office at some place and he's
all spurgy and like all talking about conspiracies and acting
like a lune. Right. And I'm applying this to theology
guys too, because apparently young guys don't know that you
should not strike up a conversation with a girl at
church and take her out on a date and start
talking to her about the essence energy distinction. Okay, that
is not what you should do because girls are not boys.
Girls are not into the things that boys are into.
And that's okay. So a lot of young guys, instead
of bitching and whining and moaning and complaining, just accept
biological reality as it is. You are never going to
get girls interested in metaphysics, interested in your figurines, interested
in war history, interested in male things. It's not going
to happen. And that's okay. Women can be interested in
women things and being women. That's the way it should be.
You don't need a wife or a partner who is
reading Thomas Aquinas. Okay. If you watched the Maya Ethan
Hawke flannering O'Connor movie Wildcat, you'll notice that flannering O'Connor
was cursed with being a woman who was kind of
a tomboy who loved reading theology. Now she's a great writer,
she's amazing as a writer. Some of her short stories
are some of the best. But her life was miserable,
not just because of her physical illnesses, but because she
wasn't feminine and she wasn't able to really ever have
a good connection between her and a man. I mean,
obviously she wasn't the most physically attractive either, but she's
an example of what I'm talking about from the girl
side of how she just wasn't able to resonate with
a guy because of all of her masculine characteristics. And
I'm not saying. I mean, I'm glad that we have
the Flannery O'Connor writings that we have. We wouldn't have
those had she not been through that. But likewise, everybody's
probably heard this. It's going on, you know, like the
story of the spiders, and somebody got their feelings hurt
over this. This is so just like mind blowingly minute
and preposterous. When I think Jamie had a tweet talking
about the story of a guy who liked a girl
at church and I don't even know who it is,
and I'm gonna tell a story because like it should
you should be able to laugh at these things. And
like the way that he approached the girl and spit
game was to ask her what her favorite spider was,
So the spider riz did not go well. However, actually
looking back, that might actually work nowadays, Like that's actually
probably not a bad idea for spinning case. Like if
you if you could actually play this right in a
certain setting where you actually probably could ask a girl, hey,
what's up, what's your favorite spider? If you could play
it off as like a funny thing, that might actually
kind of work. But I guarantee you in this poor
kids situation. It was not that, and it came off
as like literally the most spurgy thing ever. And Jamie's
tweet talking about this story, which is a hilarious story,
went viral, and all these people were in that right.
They were like bitching at you, there's nothing mean, Well
are you being me and making fun of this poor Okay, look,
you got to be able to be made fun of.
You got to be able to be I remember the
first time we did blood Sports, and it was the
first time I'd ever been like in a livestream debate
with five thousand people watching live. And I saw the
comments and like almost all the comments within the JF debate,
they were making fun of me and they said everything
imaginable about me, and that was the first time I'd
ever seen it, like thousands of people are dissing me
right now, and guess what, I'm okay. It didn't hurt me.
I literally didn't even feel anything. I was a little
nervous the first time you see thousands of people calling
you everything. Of course, I ended up winning the debate,
but still it was a weird, novel experience for me
to have five thousand people largely making fun of me
and calling me names. Now I'm okay, like I made
it through that. And if your psyche is so fragile
that you can't laugh at yourself and laugh at like
your ridiculous spider game that you tried to spit like,
you've got problems. Man. The problem is not all the people,
The problem is in you. Another great example of like
an ultimate beta male. Remember the Star Wars Kid. The
Star Wars Kid was that chunky dude who was acting
like an idiot with a broom that he cgi had
a lightsaber onto and he was like dancing around with
the lightsaber and he fell. It was like the first
big viral video. Well, this guy could have actually ridden
that been famous and success, but from day one all
the way until now, he has been traumatized by the event,
has always tried to get people to take the video down.
Like basically twenty plus years of whining, bitching and complaining
and crying claims he's like some traumatized victim from a
viral video that he made and put up and got
mad because people laughed at it. That's the ultimate beta move.
That is a pre eminently weak man, pathetic, pitiful, And
this is why instinctively I think jocks don't like nerds,
and jocks make fun of nerds. Is it's a filtering
system actually to help the nerd. Now, women worked this
way because making fun of a woman is not going
to inspire her to do better. It's gonna hurt her feelings, right,
unless it's playful jabs. Right, we're going to listen to
this woman in a minute. She's going to talk about
if a woman is flirting with you and she's playfully
making fun of you or making jokes, that's a different thing.
That's not what we're talking about. Right. When guys want
to spur another guy on to be better or to
toughen up, we make fun of each other. Guys love
to riff on each other. We love to make fun
of each other. And it's a sign of can this
guy mentally take it or is he mentally weak? I
remember in high school I had a friend who for
a long time made fun of me, and we were
pretty good friends, and I kind of put up with it,
but sometimes it would really get on my nerves because
he did it all the time. And I'm not saying
that that's a good thing, but one day I realized,
wait a minute, rather than me getting annoyed and bitching
about that. Why don't I use this in like mental
judo as a way for me to think about getting better? Right? Like,
I remember we played basketball and he said something about
I don't know something that I sucked that in basketball.
I don't know, right, but he would always make the
joke about I don't know, maybe it was my defense
sucked or something I don't know. Let's say let's say
that every time we played basketball, you know, Let's say
he said, you know, jayd I who plays no defense. Right,
Let's say he said this like every day, all right,
getting it's getting annoying, get annoying.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: Well, finally I was like, all right, I'm gonna just
I'm going to play defense, and then there will be
no cause for this, you see. So rather than getting
mad and bitching and trying to have some you know
what's fight or something, use that as a way to
better yourself. Think about when people are dissing you, instead
of being a woos and being weak about it, use
it as a way to better yourself. Or again, this
is a big one with young dudes and nerdy dudes
is envy. They're eaten up with envy. Instead of giving
into envy, think about how you can be better and
more like the guy that you're envius of. And I remember,
I mean, I think all of us have had temptations,
and we've all at some point in our lives been
envious or thought, hey, I should have that. Why does
he get that? That's something I should have. I remember
one time, let me think it, so nineteen maybe twenty.
I remember this dude that was involved in a campus ministry.
I think his name was Mason, not a Freemason, his
name was Mason, and I remember Mason had he was
dating this really good looking blonde girl that everybody in
the campus ministry stuff liked, right, and Mason was a
nice guy, but I didn't I think there's anything super
special about Mason. But Mason ended up marrying I think
her name was Cindy or something, and uh, you know,
I remember thinking to it. Man, I was like, you know,
I should have had Cindy. Why why does Mason get her?
He's freaking nervous. So I had this temptation and this
envious attitude because in that case, Mason actually possessed qualities
that I didn't have. He wasn't like super alpha but
Mason was probably good with better with people. Uh, Mason
was probably more financially stable. He had a good, high
paying job.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 1: You know, Mason had qualities I didn't have. But at
that time, my initial immediate reaction was envy. And so
what did I want to do. Well, I wanted to
tear him down. Well, Mason doesn't blah blah blah blah blah,
and Mason blah blah blah, bah blah blah, bah bah
bah blah blah. All of it was coming from envy.
And one day I actually realized. I think it was
when I was reinscripture. I was like, oh, I've been envious.
It's not Mason's not the problem on the problem, and
I I got to cut the envy out. And all
of us. I think when we see somebody doing better
than us, or having more success or this or that,
we're all tempted to be envious because we're all falling, right,
We're all susceptible, some of us to some vices over others.
But I think every human being has the potentiality to
be envious just as much as they have the potentiality
to be magnanimous. Right, So, as you know, the way
to combat a lot of the vices in our spiritual
tradition is to fight it with the competing virtue. So
if you're if your sin in this case is being envious,
I should have that Lord, all right, what's the solution
to that? The solution is the complementary virtue of magnanimity,
generosity instead of wanting and to trying to take your giving.
And many of the spiritual writers talk about the way
to defeat those passions is the opposite virtue. And that's
one example that I can recall where I was like, yeah, no,
actually it wasn't Mason that was a problem. It was
me that was a problem. And I mean, I'm not
saying though I've never been envious, I'm sure that there's
other times there's other people. I'm sure I've been envious.
Sub But that's the thing, is, like you overcomment with
the opposing virtue. So young guys, don't be envious, don't
be haters. There's nothing more pathetic than people constantly complaining
and hating on and whining about other people all the time.
When I see Twitter, the reason that I have to
try to discipline myself not to respond, it's because so
many people and all these threads whining, complaining, and uh,
it's just a total waste of time. And does anyone
actually think that whining on Twitter is gonna do anything?
Is it gonna change anything? So, not only is it
wasting your time, is wasting everyone else's time. All right,
back to the archetypes. Thank you, guys. We've gotta read
a few super checks. You guys being really generous, so
we've got quite a few here. Let me read some
of these now. Haiti's undead. He gets it. He sends
twenty bucks. He says, should I preset my girlfriend on
a first date? Is that riz? And that is not riz?
That is the wrong action. A first date should be lighthearted,
casual and fun. Okay, In fact, don't even go into
talking about vast dramatic histories if you can, right, don't
voluntarily bring up all the things of your past dating
and your past problems. It's supposed to be casual fun.
You want to get to know this person and try
to You can figure out, usually pretty quickly, whether or
not this is somebody that you want to have another
date with and try to progress to the next phase too. Right,
So if this is not somebody that you want to
have a connection with. You're gonna know that pretty quick.
And you don't want to volunteer or get into a
bunch of deep stuff that's not appropriate for a first
date impropriety. It's not wise. So but great question there,
Hades Riley GVP six four two nine. These are great tips.
I shared them with my twenty two year old son,
and that's referring to the previous video, Thank you so
much without lies Aslam Dies five dollars. I feel riz
then you are getting what I'm You're catching what I'm throwing.
Old Man Jenkins three dollars. Well, dressing like the Joker,
bring me a lot of hose twenty nineteen. Joker Actually
dressing like the Joker in the days of the Adam
West Batman is what will get you the girls. Schmieven
Schmirk twenty bucks. I only wear Brooks Brothers buttoned ups
and long sleeve shirts and slacks. Is that cool? I
have a relative who was. Maybe he's not anymore, but
at one point he was like a super duper Brooks
Brothers guy. I don't I mean, I think if you're
looking for like some kind of upity up aty city girl.
Maybe I don't, but only wearing Brooks Brothers to me
sounds a little boring. But maybe you're joking. One shot
a seventeen five bucks. Thank you for reminding me how
cringe I used to be when I dressed in my teens.
Those were dark cringe days that I managed to forget
about until tonight. I think a lot of us go
through cringe days, so it's okay. In back in the nineties,
when I started high school, I had a bunch of
slobby clothes, and then I realized I gotta go deck
myself in Tommy Hill, Figure, Nautica and Polo if I
wanted to have any chance talking to girls. And that
was correct. Steve Grady ten dollars. The worst guys are
the guys that bear, that wear all of these, buy
all these official jerseys. I couldn't agree more. I mean, oh, great,
great reminder. Worst example. Okay, who is the literal worst
paragon of style, worst famous person ever for style? Can
anyone guess who it is? You got it? Kevin Smith?
And I blamed Kevin Smith for making jorts and jerseys
some sort of like perennial thing wide world of jorts. Okay,
here's Kevin Smith in the nineties when he was fat,
Kevin Smith, right, and he's got giant Jinko jorts on.
And then here's present day Kevin Smith, still with jorts on.
This is the worst, okay, but he's known for always
wearing the jersey with the jorts. This is the worst
possible style ever of all time. Here's him in twenty
twenty four, again with jeorts and jersey. Okay, Kevin Smith
should never be forgiven for popularizing this look. And I
would say, to this day, a sizeable portion of the
male population still dresses and looks like Kevin Smith. So,
Kevin Smith, fart upon you for all of the horror
that you've given to this world. For the last fricking
thirty years. The jersey guys go around with another man's
name on their back like their high school girlfriends and boyfriends,
wearing his jersey exactly. Julio Marita twenty five dollars, Jay.
Have you heard of the channel the aria Appa Fasis. Yes,
I'm familiar with him from many years ago. I've never
interacted with him, but I've seen his channel over the years.
He is involved in neoplatonism and rational field theory with
proper explanations of the reality of magnetism, water, holography, electricity,
and the potential for free energy. Okay, by yes, And
over the years I have watched some of his videos.
They are pretty fascinating. A lot of it is stuff
that I just don't know much about. So I don't
know a lot about magnetism and electricity and holography, but
I'm sure he's got a lot of cool insights. Emperor
Palpatine three bucks. I noticed that when the fat acceptance
movie movement came along, they were saying physical exercise is
minimal in weight loss. Yeah, this is kind of well. Actually,
their whole thing was to not care about weight loss.
I fear that there is a push by social liberals
to actually keep people fat, unmotivated, and unable to exercise. Oh. Absolutely,
Now you're talking to legit conspiracy Chad bro right here,
you bet. Okay, we're not nerd conspiracy theorists, we're Chad nerds.
And what that means is like, yes, we know that
absolutely it is a plan to keep people lazy, fat, dull,
domb stupid. Absolutely undred percent. In fact, the movie Branded
is actually about the conspiracy to do that mkge five Canadian.
It's not what you say, it's how you say it.
It actually works both ways. That was something that we
were talking about an hour ago, so I'm not sure
which thing. Maybe when you're talking to girls. I can't
unrose rep. I can't read that ten dollars. This is
a random one. But my two years of community college
for construction management is going to be hard in the field,
but eventually I want to join a union and manage
the building and movie show sets. Well, more power to you,
good luck with that. I mean, I'm not I'm being serious.
I'm not dissing you. I don't I don't know anything
about construction. I don't know anything about unions. So I
hope that works out. Probably would be better off than
a lot of the people getting college degrees, like the
four year degrees. Chris fifty bucks. One of the best
things that my mom did was telling me at age
eighteen that she was going to start charging me rent
and I had to help pay for college. Now I
am almost thirty, I have a house, many assets, and
I have money to send you for super chats. Well,
thank you, Chris, to your mom, because without your mom,
we would not have you sending the super chats? Prophetic
seven seven, seven ten dollars? Jay? Do you have kids?
Why not? What are you waiting for? I've addressed this
many times. Thank you for your superchat MKG Canadian five dollars.
I think of a lot of guys now think that
women act the way that they do on say, the
Whatever podcasts or Fresh and Fit. However, most women out
there are normal and looking for someone who is not abnormal.
I would say that that's probably true. I mean again,
I've not interacted in the dating sphere in several years,
so I don't know a lot about today's dating market
from direct experience, obviously, but I would imagine that this
is a little overblown. I don't I can't imagine that
all of the girls out there are exactly like the
Whatever podcast. I would imagine that it's difficult. But the
world is a big place. There's a lot of people
out there, and not everybody is evil, not everybody is bad,
and not all things are bad. Not everything is a
giant conspiracy, not everything is black pilling. And to get
that attitude is I think, only going to hurt you
in the long run. CHD two dollars. Ha ha, all right,
this is my kind of topic, he says Ronald, five dollars.
I presuck my grandmother and she will not bake chocolate
chip cookies from anymore. Do you have any advice pre
supper even harder? I'm pros rep. Two dollars. Small talk
is my problem, to be honest with you, Well, that
is a challenge when you may not be in scenarios
where you are meeting a lot of people, you know
what I mean. Like let's say you work a nine
to five or a forty hour you know, and you're
not spending a lot of time interacting with people, and
maybe your only interactions are in the evenings going to
the grocery or I don't know, going to wal Mart
or something. Well, if that's the case, what I would
say is set aside time then to go out and
find situations where you can meet people and interact. Like
I said, the coffee shop, or the next time you
go out to eat, pay attention and see if there's
a cute waitress next time you come in there to eat,
maybe try to get her to be your waitress. Maybe
you strike up a conversation with a waitress I don't know,
Like do people not do this. I know that when
I was single back in my twenties and thirties, I
probably had throughout those decades ten dates with waitresses. I mean,
if you are out in look and you have a
cute waitress, start talking to her. Don't do this. However,
if you if you're trying to spit game at a waitress,
don't be a dork and crazy tip her because that
looks weird and needy. Tip her in a normal way. Okay, uh.
And because the reason I say that is, like, let's
say you're a dude who's not asked out a girl before,
you're scared or whatever you're The next time you're at
a restaurant, you have a cute waitress. You and your
buddy are out eating. You tell your buddy, as she's
kind of cute. Your buddy says, talk to her.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 1: So you strike up a conversation and you're gonna ask
her out, and she says, I don't know, I'll think
about it, and then she goes back to wring up
your tab and then I'm gonna leave her fifty dollars
to show her that I like her. No, no, no,
don't do that. Leave her just a normal tip, all right,
and yes, you should follow the standard device of something
like the movie Swingers. Do not call her the day
that you get the number, dummy. I know this sounds
kind of common sense, but if you just met your
waitress and you're talking about going out on a date,
do not text her that day or call her that day.
You wait a while. And dudes, do not text walls
of text. Okay. When I get dudes that text at
me walls of text, number one, I don't read it.
Number two, it's feminine. Dudes text dude ways. Okay. Dudes,
don't use a bunch of emojis. Sometimes you can do
it if you're in a hurry or something and that's
your friend or your mom. Okay, like I reply to
him my mom with a thumbs up emoji or something. Okay,
that's fine. But like, if you're trying to meet a
girl and set up a date or something, don't text
her a bunch of emojis and weird shit. It's just no,
don't do that. These are like number one, no nos,
storm the cat five dollars. I saw coyote yesterday. Oh damn,
I thought he was talking about coyote. Ugly Vane five dollars.
So I cannot prece up my grandmother's epistemic assumptions or
my girlfriend or excuse me, I misheard that I cannot
prece up the epistemic assumptions of my first date. If
you want to ensure that there's not a second date,
then yes, Gabeka five dollars. What is a good horror
movie to watch for, say, a second or third date?
My wife and I watched The Possession and it was bad.
We are married, though, Uh, a horror movie for second
or third date? What not? Yet? There's quite a few
super chats. I haven't gotten to them all yet, so
Jamie's trying to tell me to not forget super There's
a bunch of them. I have not forgetting them. Let
me think, let's see horror movies. Let's see a good,
uh scary movie for a second or third date. I
did not like Oddity Substance was gross. Uh, Apartment seven
A was not bad. That could be a decent date movie.
Nos Ferrati was gross, Misery the Menu was a little
too weird. Hereditary is a pretty good horror movie, but
it might also be a little too much for second
or third date. MM there haven't been very many good
Cabin in the Woods would be a good one. Cavin
the Woods is pretty good movie. I liked Y two K,
so if you're interested in nineties culture, two thousands of culture,
I thought Y two K was funny. Kyle Mooney is
like the best last thing from Saturday Night Live. That's
still funny, and most of Kyle skits are pretty funny.
I think he's really good comedic writer. Jamie and I
laughed at it. We thought it was pretty like horror comedy.
The Hunt was actually better than I thought. That's a
decent horror movie. Cavin in the Woods. Nick Cage's Arcadian
was a decent horror movie. Long Legs there you go
watch Long Legs. There's a great horror movie for second
or third date. So interesting, interesting question, Lumbago five bucks.
I think a lot of guys overthink how to start improving.
I think you're right. I don't think you have to
overthink this, right, Like a lot of the basics that
we're talking about, they're kind of common sense, right, Like
fixed your fucked up teeth, Uh, don't be fat, don't stank,
don't stank, like I ass be fun and care free,
and aloof like, these are some basics. Don't dress like
an am slob or a kid, and we're gonna look
at the worst elements of the worst archetype here. In
a second, I got a whole list of all the
stuff to avoid, and we're almost done with the archetypes.
We'll see that I have any more archetypes. I don't
think so. Now we got a huge super chat every
day I'm struggling in. Every day I'm struggling in. He
sends a four hundred dollars super chat. Jay, I'm going
in for a callback audition to be a lead in
a movie opposite John turturo Ah. Yeah, this this man
right here, he's he's rolling Big Baby. I hope you
get a dog. I've been an actor for eight years,
but I am becoming orthodox this pasca. Hey man, that's amazing.
That's great to hear. This would be my first job
post conversion. Do you have any advice on how to
spiritually prepare? Quote all of John Tarturoau's lines from Big
Lebowski right back at him. I'm saying, that's kind of
weird shit. I would do. How to spiritually prepare for
a callback audition for a big lead role. I'll tell
you what my favorite thing is for all those types
of spiritual preparations. And I'm not your spiritual father, so
I can't give you a spiritual rights. But my favorite thing,
bar none, for any kind of spiritual prep is just
simply to pray the psalms. That's it. And if it's
something big and heavy, I would pray a lot of psalms.
That's it. This is sort of in line with your
comment of corresponding virtues to vices. Yeah, yeah, man, fall
in love with praying the psalms, Crypto Crusader, But thank
you so much for that massive fat super Jeby the way,
Crypto Crusader, two dollars. How many dates do I wait
until I presup her? Never? I'm just kidding. It depends
like you could do this theoretically in a playful way.
Let me give an example where you could do this.
So previously, way before I ever knew Jamie or anything
like this, I dated a girl who was Catholic but
was interested in becoming an evangelical. When we met, right so,
she had been attending an evangelical church, and we went
on several dates, and I met her at a coffee shop. Okay,
so again, this is just a memory that I have
of one way that guys could meet girls, not in
a bar setting, but in a more innocent day setting. Right.
I remember walking into a Starbucks one day with no
intention other than to just get a coffee and read
my Bible. And I met her that day through striking
up a conversation because I was reading my Bible in
the coffee shop, and so we were not right for
each other. That was not who I was supposed to
be with. And thank god, we didn't get married, but
we did have a four year relationship after that. And
what happened in that case was I was able to
get her eventually interested in Orthodoxy. So even though I
didn't become Orthodox at that time, ended up being Orthodox,
and that ended up being perfect for her. She found
the right Orthodox man for her later on down the road,
and that all happened perfectly into buying providence. But in
that case, I was able to gradually sort of move
her in the direction of the theological position that I believed,
loosely speaking right or was moving towards. So I think
what can happen in these scenarios is, let's say you're
a young guy and you meet a girl who's a Baptist. Okay,
a lot of these young nerdys.
Speaker 3: I will do hear she's a Baptist, she's a heretic, dude.
Speaker 1: Come on, all you got to do is think about
if you're a strong, reasoned, masculine leader, you can bring
her towards orthodoxy and if over a span of time
she refuses, well then you can move on. But like
to throw everything out from the get go. I've heard
a lot of dudes in the last say two years,
younger dudes, right. I hear them saying stuff like, oh,
I can't go out to the gym because the girls
are wearing tight clothes, and then I can't go there,
and I don't go there because the girls there are
this and that. So there's all these excuses, and in
their mind it's just kind of like a way to
check out. And well everywhere is evil and all the
places are bad and all the girls are evil, and
so I am I am excused, and there's no I
don't have to I'm just there's no good girls. It's like, okay,
but this can't be the case, right, I mean, it
just can't. Like there have to be cute waitresses, cute
Baptist girls, cute baristas, cute check out people. Okay, that
has to still exist, right, We're not in the total
Fema dystopia yet, Right, it's not that bad yet. Maybe
we're not far from that, but come on, seriously, I
just I find it hard to believe that it's that
bad to where and a lot of these guys are
just making up excuses because they want to be you know,
lazy or whatever. Like somebody was saying, Oh, I can't
go to the gym to meet a girl or talk
to a girl because I'm at the gym girls wear
tight clothes. And it's like, well, dude, I mean, we're
in this weird culture where you're not going to find
a Bay's trad wife at the gym to begin with. Okay,
you're probably not going to find a Bays trad wife,
especially not out there in the wild. Okay, So the
best bet for young dudes is to find a somewhat
pious Baptist or Evangelical girl, or even a Catholic girl
and convert her. And if you're a decent enough dude
who knows this stuff, you can do that. I don't
mean through debating with her. That's not how parents and
girlfriends convert. What have we been telling you guys forever?
Don't debate your parents? Well, guess what rule number two?
Don't debate your girlfriend or your perspective date. Do not
talk about theology on your first date. Do not talk
about conspiracies on your first date unless you want to
not have a second date. And I'm like, I'm halfway
being tongue in cheek, like, if you don't like this
girl and you want out of it, then maybe you
should talk about conspiracies and theology because most likely then
it's an easy out. You won't have to talk about
you won't have to have a second date or planet
you will not be interested easily. Okay, But I'm saying
this because I'm telling you, guys, I've talked to a
lot of young dudes in the last two years, and
I know how they're thinking, and I know all the
excuses that they're making and all the stuff they're saying.
There's no movie gruels. Well, I know in the Bible
Belt there's a ton of Baptist evangelical girls, so well,
Ken Vernon, dude, what are you talking about Okay, I
think we've got our archetypes. I had one more archetype. Yeah,
one more archetype, and then we're going to go to
this thing. So we do not want to be Jerry.
Oh the other thing with Jerry from Conspiracy Theory, this
is a super spurggy beta, although ironically Jerry is actually
kind of an alpha, but he's like traumatized and so
he's beta. I think by the end of the movie
we think, you know, he kind of gets healed. But
don't be mel Gibson from Conspiracy Theory. Be Mel Gibson
from Braveheart. Right again, these are kind of obvious characteristics
of a masculine hero archetype right back when Hollywood made
somewhat masculine type hero movies, right Obviously, mel Gibson made
probably the best one with Braveheart, one of the best movies.
They don't really make movies like this anymore, obviously, But yeah,
he's a noble, heroic masculine fighting stands up to corruption.
Pretty much all the classic masculine archetypes.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: I can't think of a better movie dude archetype to
shoot for. Right, and remember, in the case of our
examples of James Bond. There was just certain characteristics that
we wanted to pull from Bond, not every characteristic.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: We don't want Bond in the sense of the completely empty,
nihilistic psychopath. Okay, that's not ultimately going to serve you
in the long run, all right. We don't want the
lackadaisical drunkenness, say of Jack Sparrow. Right, So there's bad
sides to these characters. In the case of Mel Gibson's
portrayal of William Wallace, there's not really many bad qualities.
He's pretty much the ultimate sort of hero. The men
look up to him. I can't remember does he sleep
with the French chick I'm trying to think of he
even has any Maybe he's a little too much of
a hero, right, Maybe that's the only criticism is like
I can't remember if he sleeps with Sophie mare.
Speaker 2: So or not.
Speaker 1: But we'll give him a pass because you know, he's
like the ultimate sort of alpha dude. And then, oh,
last archetype. We got a couple comparisons here, right, So
Lloyd Dobbler and Lloyd is a good one because if
you've never seen say anything, you should say it's number one,
Cameron Crow classic eighties movie. And what's interesting, as I've
thought about this for a long time, is that John
Cusac's character is actually totally Sigma if you think about it. Right.
First of all, he doesn't care at all about what
anyone else in high school thinks. He's totally himself. He's
not interested in the stuff that the rest of the
high school people are into. He's not a jock. However,
he's super fit and he's into MMA before anyone else.
This is way before MMA, and you know Brazilian jiu
jitsu and fighting, and Lloyd wants to be a kickboxer,
which is very out of the norm for the eighties, right.
But there's one problem with Lloyd, and Lloyd's one mistake.
Even though he's a natural Sigma dude, he's confident, he's
fun he's funny, he's carefree. But when he meets Iona
Sky and falls for her, right, she becomes everything to him,
to the extent that he's then willing to change all
of his future plans to follow her to England. That
is Lloyd's major, massive mistake, right, He changes his career
plans for her, his whole future for her. So although
he's been super And by the way, the other thing,
as you guys know, is that he, in order to
try to get her back, does the infamous, famous, one
of the most famous movie scenes of all time, right
standing outside her window with a giant boombox playing in
your eyes by Peter Gabriel. Okay, this is only in Hollywood. Okay,
if you are outside of a girl's window with a
boombox trying to get her back, you've already lost. No,
this is only in movie world. Does this exist? Okay?
And so Lloyd is actually a great archetypal Sigma character
who loses all of his sigma is by completely changing
from being the guy that Iona Skuy originally likes. Right
because she's this preppy valedictorian chick who is supposed to like,
you know, the jock or the valedictorian dude or whatever.
She's going to some fancy private prep school or whatever.
You know, she's not supposed to like Lloyd Dobbler. But
all the traits that Lloyd has that she likes, he
eventually sacrifices and loses them all. And I think at
the end of the film, when you see Lloyd on
the plane with her we kind of get the impression
that this is not going to work out because he's
basically surrendered and given away all the things that she
liked about him. Do not be the Sigma who loses
his riz and becomes some sort of It's almost like
he's worshiping It's like an idolatry. It's like he's worshiping
the Sigma to simp pipeline exactly, it's exactly what is
the tragedy of Lloyd Dobbler. Okay, last archetype we did? No,
we got? I think we got all those? No? Oh,
last one. Yes. If you've not seen this movie, I
do recommend it for dudes. It is not an easy movie.
It is hard to watch movie, but it is worth watching.
And it is Blue Valentine. Maybe some of you have
seen it or heard of it. And we're going to
contrast two different versions of Ryan Gosling. Okay, blue Velvet. Now,
the Ryan Gosling Blue Velvet is not a you don't
hate the guy, right, He's this sort of super kind, generous,
hipster guy who actually has some talents. He's kind of
a fun, funny guy, and he has this crush on
Michelle Williams and you know, he does this thing here
where he stands outside the shop she works at, and
he's come up with this little ditty where he's flirting
with her and trying to get her to go out
because he's written this little serenade on a ukulele. Right,
And I mean, okay, maybe in the two thousands this
would have worked on some kind of like city hipster girl,
but like, don't do anything like this nowadays. This would
never work. So guys, don't treat this like some kind
of sperg So experiment where you're gonna go sing some
gay song in a ukulele to a chick. She'll just
think you're crazy and call the police. So only in
the twenty ten's in a hipster city setting would this
maybe work anyway, So this sends up. I'm not gonna
spoil the movie because they end up being together and
they have a long relationship. But like, let me put
this in a way more extreme version of Lloyd Dobbler,
and I wouldn't. I would not class Ryan Gosling's character
in this movie as alpha or Sigma at all. He's
a decent enough hipster dude, but the problem is that
he becomes ultimate beta cent and that's what the movie
is about. Hence it's a blue Valentine and not a Valentine.
It's a sad Valentine. And I'm gonna tell you to
watch it because as a dude, everything that he does
is the wrong move. That's why this movie is instructive.
And I remember watching it when it came out, and
I was like, I'll never forget this movie. This is
a very instructive movie, even if they didn't intend it
to be instructive, Like, this movie ends up being very instructive.
And like, I'm not gonna say what happens because you
need to watch it. But like, although you feel for
Ryan Gosling as he's making every one of these mistakes,
and although what Michelle Williams does is not right, it's
kind of like, bro, yes she did. You're wrong, but
you did everything possible to make it worse. You see
what I'm saying. Did I cry? No? I didn't cry
about Ryan Gosling losing his girlfriend, But uh, that's funny.
Blue Valentine is the common trope for guys. What does
that mean? You mean that's the experience that guys have
of losing girlfriends. I don't know about that. Yeah, that's
a good way to put it. AM my Life, Texas.
That's a good way to put it. It's not a romance,
So people are missing. This is not a rom com.
It's not a romance. This is a dark drama. Okay,
so you guys are misunderstanding. This is not a hipster
love story. This is a tragedy in like a Shakespearean
tragedy sense. Okay, Okay, Now we're gonna contrast that with
a different Ryan Gosling, and this is the Ryan Gosling
in Drive. Okay, the literal absolute opposite. Drive is a
great movie. This is what helped to kick off the
entire synth wave trend, if you remember in the early
to twenty tens. I'm not a huge fan of Nicholas
Reffin because he tends to make these nihilistic movies. I
know a lot of the audience over here is split
on only God forgives, But I think everybody has to
agree that Nicholas Refins Drive is a really good movie.
It's an excellent, excellent movie and probably one of the
last eras of movies where there was a kind of
an alpha trend still going on. I mean, I know
there's John Wick. But John Wick is so almost fantastical
and fictional that it's not even real, you know what
I mean. At least, I mean, James Bond is Hollywoodish
and fantastical, but at least there's a little more reality
with Bond than there is with Like John john Wick
is just completely not real. But I mean, I think
Ryan Gosney's character in Drive is just the exact opposite
of the character in Blue Valentine. Right, I'm not telling
you to go be a vigilante, but I'm just saying, like,
like that dude is just doesn't give a damn right,
he's he's in Uh. It's funny because who is this
chicken that's always forget her name? She's like I always
get her mixed up with Michelle Williams. Who's that girl, Jamie,
the one that I always get mixed up with Michelle Williams.
She's actually in Drive. Michelle Williams is in Blue Valentine
and she's in Drive. But I always forget her name.
She looks just kind of like her, you know what
I'm talking about. Anyway, it doesn't matter. It's just funny
to me that, like in Blue Valentine, he's losing the
chick that kind of looks exactly like the chick that
he helping in Drive. Yes, Kerry Mulligan and Michelle Williams,
I was get that mixed up anyway. Yes, thank you
guys appreciate that. Yeah, isn't John Wick like a comic
bookie thing anyway? I mean I'm just saying that, like,
at least the only action movies I can think of,
like so you Got, you Got, Jason Statham, The Expendables
and John Wick, Like that's the last of male action
hero movies that like, that's it, that's gone, but it
still existed in twenty tens, and maybe Drive was kind
of the last of that and kind of in the
same vein two of the I remember this scene. There's
a scene in The Recruit which is pretty funny where
if you never watched, it's worth watching just because it's
one of the first movies that the CIA openly talked
about consulting on. And in the movie, when they bring
the recruits to Langley or into the farm or whatever,
they have all these training missions and things they have
to go through. When one of them is that Colin
Ferrell has to go and learn game and learn to
interact with and meet women at a bar. And so
the this is when they're all still in training. This
is it right here, right, al Pacino says, Okay, your
mission that they think they're going into some fight or something.
It's like, oh, your mission is you have to come
out with a girl's phone number, and they're like what.
And so again, I know that we're not spies, but
I'm trying to tell dudes, like, maybe try to think
of having this kind of a mindset, right, like the
way that Colin Ferrell's mindset and attitude is in movies
like The Recruit. Okay, and it's kind of a stupid movie.
It's worth watching from a geopolitical perspective, but I've always
just thought it was funny because, by the way I've
actually read, this is a real thing. Right, So, if
you actually were recruited into CIA British Intelligence for field operations,
you do actually have to learn how to go out
and get a person's phone number, a crazy pimp on
a propeller one dollar. Do you have thoughts on Mormon
maxing or Muslim maxing going to Mormon temples and mosques
to meet women? That does again, why you want to
do that, go Baptist Max, an Evangelical Max, and if
you have to, maybe Catholic Max. I would do that
before going to some damn crazy Mormon Muslim stuff. Vain one,
women like you if they think you don't give an
f about them. That's the earlier discussion that we had
about the archetype of the aloof Captain Jack Sparrow. Right,
So remember when we were talking about maybe you weren't
here yet, Vain, but earlier we mentioned some of the
archetypes from movies that can help us, and one of
those was some of the characteristics of Jack Sparrow. Obviously,
not like being a drunk, but the sort of lackadaisical,
carefree fun aloofness of Jack Sparrow. And your homework, guys
is to watch Blue Valentine and then contrast that with
either Ryan Gosling and Drive or Mel Gibson's Brave Heart. Right.
Contrast these two guys, and it's not rocket science, right. Obviously,
the Drive or the Mel Gibson is what we want
to shoot for as a loose guy versus being like
damn Ryan Gosling and Blue Valentine or even Lloyd Dobbler
in or Lloyd Dobbler and say anything that's another good one.
So that's your homework. Now, last thing we're going to
look at here before we call it a night. This
went on way longer than I thought it was gonna
go on. I know we already, so we already talked
to Dick at the beginning about looks and diet and health. Right,
So obviously you want to be in the gym. Obviously
you want to be fixing if you got messed up
facial features, right, not going crazy with like weird botox
and whatever crazy stuff, but minimal types of things. If
you've got something really wrong with you, right, like if
you got jacked up, messed up teeth or something you
get you got to get that fixed, hands down. Absolutely.
And then obviously those are the other things we already covered, right,
Like we already talked about diet, We talked about you
got to get fit all that stuff for sure. If
you're fat, like you don't, you don't you don't have
to be a bodybuilder. As this chick's gonna point out,
I remember, if it's this video or some other video,
like girls are not actually expecting every dude to be
a super jacked like massive arnold dude. I mean this
Jamie says it. This chick says it too, and with
her videos. That's for dudes. I mean, I don't get it.
Like I think it's nice. It's good to be you know, muscle,
have muscles and be fit, but like dudes that are
into being like super jacked, to me, it's weird. I'm
not into it. Maybe there's some chicks that like that,
Uh to me, it's like dudes trying to it's like
a dude, it's dudes and other dudes like that's I
don't I don't know. That's like like women with shoes.
Dudes don't care about that. Okay, women are wearing shoes
so that other women see and shoes talk about shoes,
like women have a shoe language and universe that guys
are not in. Okay, we don't know this for dudes
shoes or shoes and like, but women are like have
this cryptocurrency language about shoes that just is totally foreign
to dudes. Likewise, dudes that are like super into being
megabuff dudes. I don't get it. It's not me, but whatever,
some dudes and maybe some chicks like that. I don't know,
I've always found that, as I think she says in
some of her other videos, I don't even know who
this woman is. I just happened across our video today
and I thought this was a good one for the
young dudes who are wanting to go out on a date.
They've never asked their girl out. You want to experiment
with this, You've got to do it. You got to
get over your fears. Well, one thing that's going to
help you is, as we mentioned, women are really good
at knowing and seeing micro expressions, right, And we're not
gonna be spurgs about this, Okay. The point of this
is not to get you over analyzing and obsessing on
like how the girl is moving her hands and where
did she place herself? Where did she? Is she leaning
in or is she leaning away from me? Is she like?
Don't spurg about this, but there are going to be
indicators that girls naturally do as part of their biology
as females, where they will indicate to you that they
are interested in you. And guys don't really think this way.
So a lot of guys don't know about this, and
that's why it's helpful to actually understand this. This is
actually something I've actually read quite a bit about. I
do know about this topic, and there are actual studies
on this. This has actually been studied at a biological
level universally that females, whether human or even other species,
they will actually do certain bodily movements and actions to
indicate interest and approval for the opposite sex. Now, I
know that for women, you're like, uh, guys don't know this.
Guys don't know this. Girls, you inhabit a different world
from dudes, and a lot of guys don't know this.
For example, an easy one, Let's say you're on a
date with a girl and it's the first date and
you guys are talking. If she's laughing and smiling and
playing with her hair, that is a universal immediate signal
that she's interested in you. Does that mean that like
your soulmates? Okay, we're not some kind of weird internet
cult twin flames crap, No we're not. We're not talking
about that. They're just indicators that there is a bodily
expression of what's internal and going on, that she does
find you interesting, find you track, and she likes having
the conversation with you. Right if her body posture was
like removed and cold and static, right, that might indicate
that she's not interested in you. If you are telling
a story and you rest your hands and she intentionally
reaches out and touches your hand, those are signs that
she perhaps is interested in you. Now, some people are
just very friendly, so it might not necessarily mean.
Speaker 3: Okay, that she likes you or a little The first
date with a girl and she touched my head, we're
going together.
Speaker 1: No, don't be a spurg. Okay, don't be like that.
That's the worst. But the hair flip, this is like,
you know, biological beings, like trying to attract them. Mate,
It's very simple. So this girl's deal. We're gonna comment
on some of this and then I think we'll call
it a night. Hopefully you guys enjoyed. There's something out
of the pale of what we usually do. But so
many uh nerdy dudes out there that need some some serious,
some serious help out there. We gotta we gotta get
more wall smaths out there for the Kevin James hitch
boys out there. Caleb ten dollars. I'm going to attend
my first liturgy tomorrow. I'm a little nervous. Any advice
on what I should do. Nope, just go and uh
follow the instructions. That's it. Don't be nervous. Look, guys,
we got to get over being nervous. Think about the
men of your men that went into battle with swords
and got their arms chopped off, and dudes that rode
horses into a joust. Do you think those dudes were nervous.
I'm sure they were, but they were courageous. And you're
nervous about going to church. I'm not dissing you, I'm
challenging you. Guys, we got to get over these pitiful fears.
Not you, Caleb. What I'm saying in general, I'm scared
to talk to the girl. Dude, come on, come on.
This is why I was talking to the other stream about,
Like guys that have never been in a fist fight.
How have you never been in a fight like did in?
Every dude in high school run into some butthole that
they couldn't stand, and you end up in a fight
because you talk ship for a whole semester and then
you just go fight, and then dudes get over it.
They usually end up being friends. Like every guy should
go through middle school, high school fist fighting somebody. I
mentioned this the other day and slow Boy was like, oh, well,
they'll call the cops on you. Well, I know that
they call the cops on us in high school too.
But what you do is you would have the fist
fight at Arbi's or behind the Walmart later that night, right,
and then if the guy didn't show up, everybody knew
he was a wors and then he gets made fun
of for the next three weeks in school because it
didn't show up for the fight. My mom would let
me go to Walmore. Uh yeah, sure, you just didn't
want to fight. You got scared right anyway. All right,
So let's listen to some of these and then we'll
call them at night.
Speaker 2: We're gonna be talking about subtle things women do to
see if men are interested. Understanding whether a woman is
interested in you can sometimes feel like trying to read
between the lines. Women aren't always bold or direct when
it comes to expressing their feelings. Often they rely more
on subtle actions, hints, and nonverbal cues to communicate their
interest in you.
Speaker 1: Now, guys, nerdy guys, young guys, you are gonna have
to accept this. I know a lot of you guys
think what does it make sense. Why wouldn't she just
say what she's feeling. It doesn't matter if it makes sense,
It doesn't matter if you don't understand it. This is
how it is. Women like the subtlety, the flirting, the
stages to things. Thus your logical approach of on the
first date, I'm going to ask her my questionnaire.
Speaker 4: She is going to be interrogated to see if she
is a fitting wife for me.
Speaker 1: No, you got it all wrong. There has to be
stages in build up. You can't go from zero to
one hundred unless you just immediately want to strike out right.
So again, well, I don't like this. This isn't there.
It doesn't matter what you think it's fair. This is
how it is. And this is the biology and the
nature of women. So you either have to reconcile with
that and adapt accordingly, or you check out. And a
lot of dudes do check out.
Speaker 2: These behaviors are often intentional, offering her a way to
gauge your response without putting herself in a vulnerable position.
So in today's video, we're breaking down some of the
most common and often overlooked ways that women show interest
in a man. By recognizing these subtle signals, you'll avoid
missing opportunities. So let's get right into it, Okay. The
first subtle thing that women do is create opportunities to
be together. A woman who is interested in a man
will often take the initiative to create opportunities to spend
time together. This might include suggesting something casual like grabbing coffee,
inviting him to join her and her friends for a
group outing, or even asking for his help with something
like fixing a minor problem teaching her.
Speaker 1: So guys, be aware that if you are noticing that
type of a signal, that was kind of an obvious one, right. Like, again,
here's the key thing to remember that with this kind
of stuff, a lot of nerdy dudes and spurgy dudes,
they will immediately assume too much. Okay, So not in
every case is she necessarily doing that because she likes you.
She might be setting up a situation to be around
you to see if she likes you. Right, So, sometimes
guys will jump the gun and assume way too much
and assume that the girl is really into them when
she may not be at that level or that stage.
She may just be feeling it out and seeing if
she's interested in or wants to progress to the next
level of knowing you. So if you begin to see
these indicators, do not jump into thinking that, oh, she
likes me, he has a crash, the you don't know.
Speaker 2: That yet to do something, or even giving her advice.
These moments might seem small or coincidental, but they're often intentional.
Women do this because they want to gauge how much
effort a man is willing to make to connect with them.
It's not just about testing interest, but also about building
comfort and familiarity. By creating these low pressure opportunities, she's
signaling that she values his company and wants to see
if he feels it the same way.
Speaker 1: You want a deeper level. Now this is really important too,
because a lot of guys want to rush things and
they want to get like again, to level one hundred
from immediate. All of that signifies desperation, social awkwardness, and
just weird creepiness right like immediately saying on at the
beginning of the day like this guy did in this
example of I'm interested in ten children and i'd like
to know if that's where you are, Like, that's not
appropriate for the first time you're meeting somebody. It's just weird, right,
Even if that is your long term goal, you want
ten kids, that's fine, but it's not appropriate when you're
a first talking to somebody. It's just freaking weird.
Speaker 2: Well here, creating these opportunities is also a way for
women to minimize vulnerability. Rather than directly asking about his feelings,
which can feel a little bit risky and bold, setting
up time together allows her to observe his actions and
behaviors more organically for her. It's a safer, less confrontational Yeah.
Speaker 1: And also like, it's okay to be in situations where
you're around people for a few times even before you
moved to asking them out or you know, progressing, right,
that's okay. A lot of times successful relationships are people
who met in friend groups and they met and lasted
because they hung out enough times before they went to
the date stage. Right. It can happen both ways. There's
no rule, ironclad laws here, like you can't ask a
girl out and it produced a relationship. But a lot
of times it's that you've been around this person for
a while at work or in a friend setting or whatever,
and then it progresses and that's okay. Just point being guys,
you don't have to like rush and make it like
something super quick and a lot of the stuff I'm
telling you, like, I've made these mistakes before. I've like said,
you know, I've laid down all my cards, you know,
after too many too soon in dating people and stuff
like that. I'm telling you when I was younger, right,
I've made these kinds of mistakes too. So if you
are a young guy and you are beginning to go
out on dates and let's say you make some big
mistake and you spurg out or whatever, it's okay, right,
don't be too hard on yourself. There will be another
one way.
Speaker 2: To get clarity about where she stands to him, And
for all of you guys watching, I think it's helpful
to recognize these gestures for what they are, a sign
that she's interested in looking to build a connection with you. Now,
if you're interested in her too, accepting these opportunities and
showing enthusiasm about it is key to letting her know
that you were on the same page. Okay, My next
point here is she teases or lightly jokes. When a
woman teases or lightly jokes with a man, it's often
her way of testing the waters. Playful banter really helps her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that one's kind of obvious. I think we
mentioned earlier like this is not where you dis a
girl in order to teach her a lesson in the
sense of life, like really degrading someone. That's not gonna
work with a girl, right. So the way bros work
where you, you know, constantly make fun of a bro
to get the bro to be more of a bro
like that doesn't work in the domain of females. But
that's not the same thing as playful banter and mild
nags that are joking and playful like that stuff is fun.
Jamie and I make jokes about each other all the time.
We have fun. That's what she's talking about. And that
kind of stuff is a sign or a signal of
interest or indicating that she likes you. This one is
important here.
Speaker 2: My unbody language to gage a man as true feelings,
as it can reveal more than just words. She'll watch
for cues like leaning in, maintaining eye contact, or mirroring
her movements. These signs show interest, comfort, and engagement, while
more closed off posture or avoidance might signal disinterest. What
men may not realize is that women also look for
signs of nervousness. A little fidgeting can actually be in deering,
showing her that you care, but excessive avoidance might suggest insecurity.
Speaker 1: There you go, and this applies to all the other
signs of spurgy, nerdiness, walking like you have something in
your butt, like you're on some sort of crowboying motorcycle,
acting weird, talking about inappropriate things at the first date. Right,
just don't do that stuff.
Speaker 2: It's also checking for attraction. Lingering, eye contact or leaning
in closer can signal a genuine interest. Body language is
also going to help her feel safe and build trust
with you.
Speaker 1: Oh, this is another one that just that just came
to mind. Looking a person in the eye. A lot
of weird spurgy. Young people cannot look people in the eye.
And I don't know if that's like the tism or
what's going on, but you're going to have to overcome that, right,
And so, especially if you're on a date and or
you're going to walk up to some wanted to ask
them out, like, you need to be able to make
eye contact. It shows that you're confident that you're a
normal person. You can communicate you're not a weirdo who's like,
you know, can't look people in the ice. That's just weird. Right,
So we want to eliminate all of the things that
are spurgy and weird. And I'm telling you, man, there's
a giant section of the audience of dorky Christians and
Spurgs and ortho nerds and conspiracy tards who really need
to hear this stuff because they are unsuffer insufferable.
Speaker 2: I think open, respectful cues reassure her that you're engaged.
And for all of you guys watching, I think small
adjustments in posture, body language and the attention that you're
giving her can communicate in.
Speaker 1: I forgot. Posture is a big one, right, So like
you're not going to be like sitting there like some
kind of slumped over weirdo. Right, you sit up. You
have the gait that we talked about, like Bond has
when he walks in a room. He does not walk
into a room like a spurg. You see, that's the
same type of thing that we're talking about.
Speaker 2: Tris more clearly than even words can sometimes, So just
something to remember. Okay, the next thing women do is
they will subtly mention future plans when a woman casually
brings up future plans, it's often a way to test
your level of interest and initiative. For example, she might
mention wanting to try a new restaurant, attend a concert,
or check out some local event. While it might seem
like small talk, she's watching to see if you take
the hint and express interest in joining her or suggests
making it happen together. Women do this because it's a subtle,
low pressure way of gauging your willingness to make an effort.
If you respond enthusiastically or take the opportunity to plan something,
it's going to signal to her that you are interested
and you're paying attention. What misses how you respond?
Speaker 1: Now, this is another one that's kind of obvious, right,
But also don't jump to conclusions. Just because you get
a compliment does not necessarily mean some chicks after you.
She may just be being friendly, but you can also
read that as a possibility, a doorway that's opening up
to something next, something beyond. Right, These are indicators, not proofs. Right,
So these are signs or indicators. But I know how
dudes think, and I know a lot of nerdy dudes
are gonna think. I have a checklist, and I've checked
off three of the ten. That means she is in
love with me. No, it doesn't mean that.
Speaker 2: When a woman compliments you, whether it's about your style,
your sense of humor, or something unique that she's noticed,
it's rarely just a casual comment. Compliments are often a
way of creating a connection, engaging your interest. In return,
she's paying attention not just to your words, but how
you respond to her. Do you smile and accept it confidently?
Do you downplay or deflect it? Or do you recipe
with a compliment of your own? Women do this because
how you handle a compliment reveals a lot about your
personality and your confidence. A genuine thank you, paired with
a smile shows self assurance.
Speaker 1: And again this is actually good advice because to act
weird about compliments is also can be a sign of
weirdness or off something off with you. Right, So the
best way to handle that is be all thanks, appreciate
that right, not to act weird about it, and not
to necessarily say the exact I like your brains too.
You think I'm smart. I like you too because you
also think that that you are smart. That means we're
both smart together, like don't know, uh huh right. In
other words, it needs to be something natural and not forced.
So if someone compliments you, it's just awkward to immediately
compliment them back, right, Maybe wait till later on in
the conversation if you say something nice, but also don't
overly compliment people that you don't know much about or
that you just met. That would also be weird, right,
Like first time you're on a date, right.
Speaker 3: I just think I just think you're really beautiful.
Speaker 1: No, that's not appropriate, it's it's impropriety. It signifies a
weird kind of simply desperate energy. If it's the first
time that you met somebody and you know, the the
better that you can sort of play it off like
you're having a good time and you're you're interested in
you know, we'll see a lot of will sees this,
you know, you know. In other words, like she says
I'd love to go out again, and be like, okay,
I mean, yeah, we'll see what's going on this week.
Don't immediately give the impression that everything.
Speaker 3: That I hope for all of my dreams capture today
because you said you wanted a second date.
Speaker 1: That's just crazy.
Speaker 2: Right, While brushing it off or making a self deprecating
comment might suggest insecurity, she's probably going to The.
Speaker 1: Reason for that, by the way, is that would indicate
to her that you don't have other things going on. Right.
You don't want to give the impression that you have
nothing going on in your life and you are eager
for the possibility of a second date. Right. That's so
in her mind, she's thinking, Okay, wait a minute, this
is a guy who we had a good time on
the first date, and he doesn't have anything else going
on to the extent that he can immediately plan a
second date when I haven't even told him when. Right.
So let's say she's giving you the indication that there's
going to be a second date, she wouldn't mind doing
another thing, and you immediately jump to it because you're
so excited and you're so nerdy and spurgy and happy
to have somebody somebody likes me, someone likes Right, it
comes off pitiful, Well, do you have other things going
on in your life? She wants to think, Yes, what
girl would want to marry a guy who has nothing
going on in his life or want to even have
a second at No, Right, So don't lay down all
of your cards, even within the first few days. Let
things flow naturally. Man, don't be a spurd.
Speaker 2: Be looking for a relation that feels warm and engaging,
as this is going to give her insight into how
comfortable you are with yourself as well. What men might
not know is that compliments are also a subtle way
for a woman to express interest without being overly forward.
It's her way of showing admiration while giving you an
opening to reciprocate if you're interested too. If she notices
your receptive it encourages her to continue building the connection
with you. And pretty obviously here, a woman's compliment is
also a way to to make you feel special and
stand out. This is a sign that she's invested enough
to notice these little things and wants to see if
you value her.
Speaker 1: I said, what if I actually have nothing going on
in my life? Well, you're not gonna let her know that, right,
So that's rule number one here at this point. Uh,
California prepper five dollars. Have you seen the foot relic
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idea what that is. No foot relic water clip. Maybe
on the next theology stream we can talk about that
Intel Wild five dollars, Andrew Wilson, Rob, Jim bob Our
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Speaker 2: In return for men, I think the key here is
to accept compliments with gratitude and confidence. If you're also
interested in her, use this as an opportunity to reciprocate
and build a stronger connection. It's a small gesture that
can completely open the door to something much deeper. And lastly,
here she introduces subtle physical touches. When a woman introduces
light physical touches, such as a casual hand on your arm,
a playful tap on your shoulder, or brushing against you
all talking, it's often a way of testing boundaries and
gauging your interest.
Speaker 1: Yes, so there you go, some easy indicators that a
girl is interested in you, or you might want to
if she's sending these signs, for example, she's wanting you
to ask her out right and guess what. Let's say
you misread the signs and she's not actually wanting that,
and maybe you misread and you jumped the gun and
you asked her out and she said no, Well, guess what.
Now you've had the experience of getting turned down. And
guess what, You're still alive and you're still okay, and
you're not gonna cry because you're a dude. Right, You've
had a normal human man experience of getting turned down.
So what okay? Uh? As we close it up tonight,
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Many people in our domain, as we said, are dorky,
they're nerdy, they're they're debbie downers, they're super self righteous,
just annoying and sufferable people. And they're not fun. They're
not they're not funny, they're not interesting, and they're black pilled.
And that's all the stuff we want to avoid. But
what's the ultimate bad archetype for a dude. It is
the manchild, and that's what I came up with, and
Jamie and I together came up with as the ultimate
archetypes to avoid. So let's see, Uh, what are those characteristics? Well,
the manchild is no fun. He is black pilled. He
constantly winds in complains about all the things that are
wrong out there that are oppressing him. So he's involved
in the exact same social justice warrior oppression olympics that
he's always bitching about. He blames all his problems on
everyone else. It's the JQ, it's the Illuminati, it's the women, it's.
Speaker 3: This, it's the dad, it's the blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: All the problems are everywhere else and nothing to do
with him. Remember how we talked about what is fat acceptance.
It's this stupid conspiracy, which is a real conspiracy, but
it's also a bunch of lazy people who want society
to change rather than them changing, And they actually want
to alter reality because they're unhappy and they're miserable and
they're unhealthy, and they think that the reason they feel
the way they do is because society is oppressing them
by saying that it's unhealthy to be overweight, when in
fact it is objectively a fact that it's unhealthy to
be overweight. And so a lot of times this is
like pangs of conscience. Right, they know that gluttony is wrong,
but they would rather try to alter all of society
to fit their vice than they themselves change. And that
is also something that the manchild and the insults and
the migtiles and all these guys engage in two where
it's all the women's fault because women are the way
that women are. So they're actually mad at biology and
reality and acting, just like the social justice warriors are,
but in their own weird way. So man child men
whine and complain in our victims and pray. They play
the oppression Olympics just like the social justice warriors man children.
Manchild is lazy, he's a cousumer, marvel all this. There's
no self discipline, there's no self control. A lot of
men in this domain are gamers ipa bros. They're super selfish,
they're super emotional, they're easily provoked, they have temper tantrums,
they have rages, roid rages, as well, and they're super insecure.
A lot of these guys also who do end up
with a woman they think of or they treat a
woman as if she's a new mom, and so they
want a woman to be a mom to them rather
than the wife or the girlfriend. You see. Okay, I
think that's most of what I wanted to get to
in my notes for how to rismax, how to have
some game, how to have some mystery about you, how
to be a bit aloof, how to be a cool guy,
how do not be a manchild? Dorksburg, California Prepper says,
this sounds good. I tagged you on Twitter for that
clip until wild Rob NOA is his name? Okay, well
they see that libertarian guy. I think I've heard of
his name, Crypto Crusader. One Night and nine, did you
watch Father Moses' video? It was it on point. I
did not see it, no, from what I can tell
from what I heard Father Deacon and other people saying,
wasn't really that controversial. So I do know the background
as to why he took it down, but I did
not actually ever see the original video. A lot of
the drama that goes on, I don't ever actually see it.
So people are always asking me about did you see
what somebody said on Twitter?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: I don't. And you know why that is. I never
ever look at the for you. I don't. For one,
don't have time for it. And I also know that
the for you is there to rile me up. And
I am not a person who is worth my time,
is not worth being riled up on Twitter. Now, sometimes
people do rob me up on Twitter. But that's a
thing that I'm trying to not let happen, you see. So,
like when I go to Twitter, for example, I view
Twitter as something that's only about what we do. I
am not there to try to change people's minds. I'm
not there to read the comments. In fact, ninety nine
percent of the time I don't read the comments. Sometimes
I see the comments that reply to me. But like,
let's say I put up a tweet that got a
lot of views. Okay, Like, let me see the last
one that got quite a few views. Okay, here's one
with twenty thousand views or impressions and forty comments. Haven't
read the comments, don't know what anyone said, don't care.
Let's see here's one with twenty two comments, didn't read
any of the comments. Sometimes I do see people's comments,
so I'm not saying that I never do. But I
am not over here on this for you, because this
is one huge reason people waste all their time and
they get agitated. As we pointed out, because the for
you is intentionally there to agitate you. They will show
you things that they know are the opposite of you,
or that people are saying to roll you up. And
that's literally one percent in the algorithm and it's admitted.
So I am not going to waste my time on that.
Theosis five will you put your words in Brazilian famous
soccer players via lip sync? The Orthodoxic Gospel will be
preached in Portuguese. I don't know what that means. I
guess you're talking about some kind of app that makes
you speak over people. I mean, I guess that could
be kind of funny. I just haven't looked into that.
And for palpitating five dollars. A lot of gen Z
are reductionistic pessimists. They love to appeal to all this
negative data to then define their own worth by statistics
and some sort of vulgar determinism. There is no room
in their mind for any meritocracy or willpower. It all
boils down to quote faith, I don't know what you
mean by it all boils down to faith. You mean
the Ortho dox Christian faith, or it all boils down
to having faith in willpower. I don't know what that means,
but yeah, I mean one of the reasons I'm doing
tonight's discussion is precisely because of all this weird pessimism
that people have blackpill all this kind of stuff. To me,
I don't, I just it's it's a it's a lot
of times a cloak for laziness.