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Speaker 1: Is not bad. And in fact, I didn't even realize

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that Billy Reid was like fitting bond in specter. I think,

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so when you saw the Daniel Craig, some of Daniel

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Craig's outfit was Billy Reid. I didn't even know that.

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But I literally have like like a closet full of

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Billy Reid's stuff. And it's a funny story how that's

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the case, but it is the case. And I'm not

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telling you have to do this. I'm just giving you

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some examples. So if you're like, here's a good here's

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a good look right here, This dude's gotta got it

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going on. That's nice. See that right there, that's cool. Again,

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I don't do the vests, but that's good. That kind

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of even looks like what I wore at my wedding,

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and my wedding outfit was Billy Reid. And I think

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the advantage of this style is like it's not yeah

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here we go, yeah there we go. It's not it's masculine,

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but it's not like Skittles trendy, and you're not concerned

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with you know, weird stuff, bizarre stuff in terms of

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like the look. But it's also like fashionable, you know

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what I mean, without being super gay. So I think

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that's what I would say is a positive here. Now

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let's compare. Just think aesthetically here from the Bansia's point

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of a female, right, how were those guys dress versus this?

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I mean, I know it's kind of obvious, but let

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me give an example. Yesterday when I was out at

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a bunch of different places grocery stores, shopping centers, etc.

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I was watching and paying attention to all of the

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dudes and all the females that I saw, and noting

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their interactions and checking out the style. Now, I've done

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this many many times where I kind of do a survey,

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and this is in the South, so keep that in mind.

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How many of the guys do you think I saw

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who were overweight or the ladies were overweight? In say,

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out of twenty people, just randomly twenty people, how many

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do you think we're overweight? What you got out of twenty?

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I want you guys to give me your best guesses

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in the chat. And this is not a fluke. I

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wasn't at the carnival funnel cake line, Okay, this is

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kind of everywhere. What is your best guesses out of twenty,

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we got eighteen, we got half, we got a fifteen,

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we got a nineteen, about a twelve or fifteen, so

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turns out over half, Okay, so about sixty percent were

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significantly overweight, right, so I'd say, yeah, thirteen fourteen. Most

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of the guys I see, they look like this Riddler

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over here, okay, with his comic book store or the

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Diddler whatever.

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Speaker 2: He is.

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Speaker 1: The Vittler for the Vitlin the Vittlins is that is

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that a Southern fried food sounds like it would be

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the Vittler over here. I mean, we got like this

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is the norm, chunky dudes with Batman, spider Man, marble shirts.

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This is what I see out in the world on

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a daily basis, Okay, and just compare that with, for example,

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the look that you see if you saw this guy.

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And Jamie, by the way, we don't there's no promo

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co this is not but Jamie recommends this website for

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like blazers and men's polos and whatnot because they have

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all cotton stuff, right, so they're material over at Quint's

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another thing too. Yeah, I've meant to mention like it's

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it's sometimes it's difficult, but you want to try to

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avoid a lot of like synthetic weird like not cotton

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stuff like polyester and this kind of stuff. But I mean,

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look at this guy right versus and the same principle

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applies to these damn sports bros right versus guys with

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comic book shirts on, Like why are you wearing a

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comic book shirt as a guy. There's really no excuse.

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I noticed too. It's kind of hard to like they

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don't actually pull up right, Like this guy's perfect the

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fiddler over here, the diddler, this guy, he's a perfect example.

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But I mean most of the time what I see

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is just these absolutely just they look like a Dani

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reck right, looking like a dang it looks like a

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game stop threw up right. I mean, this is the

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type of dude that we're making fun of with our

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funko pop stuff, right, And what is even is this

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the riddler? I even know what this is? This cosplay?

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I mean, look, soy mouth right just is looking like

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a nang idiot cargo pants, cargo shorts. Are you serious?

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Look at these guys. This is every dude I see

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out in public. They look like this. So number one

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simple fix, as we said, fix your looks. Try to

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fix whatever you can easily do. Not dress like you're

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a thirteen year old boy who loves and just saw

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a spider man next up. You know, I have intense

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hatred for the sports bro Okay, this is the most

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pathetic thing next to the soymen. And the sportsmen are

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soymen too, and everybody that you're sort of living out

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your masculinity secondhand through black dudes running in circles, okay,

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And these guys live their life in sports for beer

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and jerseys, And ironically this is actually something that also

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you should grow out of. Did you know that, like

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one hundred and fifty years ago, sports was seen as

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something for children. It was for young guys, young boys

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to learn kind of basic life principles about discipline, you know,

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hard work, training, commitment, teamwork, loyalty, being a leader on

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a team. That's what sports were supposed to teach children.

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And through social engineering, and this is absolutely verified, there

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was a plan to make sports the obsession of the

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culture to the extent that the first test tube for

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this experimentation the UK. They're so far gone down this

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rabbit hole, down this drain that women in the UK

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complain that all the men do, and I believe this

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is watch the Manchester football whatever and drink. So the

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whole country is being taken over by Muslims because all

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of the men checked out and are drunk sports idiots.

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And they were decades ahead of us in the US, who,

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thank god, are not obsessed with stupid s soccer, but

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something just as fake and gray and just as packed

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with social engineering, which we talked about for fifteen twenty years.

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And I used to get made fun of by masculine

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chad dudes. They would actually get mad at me over

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me constantly dissing sports and their worship of sports. I

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got a lot of heat over the years for this.

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And what have we seen in the last five years.

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It's one propaganda, all the BLM, all the skittles, all

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the nonsense, totally wrapped up in sports. Sports is a

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massive idol, especially for dudes. And you have to think

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about all these things as fake synthetic masculinity that takes

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and SAPs your time and attention and makes you an

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absolutely ridiculous, dumb, dull normy. And unless you are playing

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the sport, it's ridiculous. In my view, it's immature and

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this country will never be fixed until we stop worshiping sports.

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I mean, here's all y'all slow boys right here out

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there on the sports field with your giant boobs, and

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this nish of weirdos is part and parcel with their

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bff nish who overlaps with them as you know, the

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IPA beer bro. I'm not telling you that it's wrong

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for a guy to make a good beer. In fact,

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somebody had some interesting podcasts I think it was a

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bitcoin podcast, and they were actually talking about the entire

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rise of IPAs was actually a reaction to American crappy beers,

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believed or not so. Because American beer was so just

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pure garbage in the early two thousands, a lot of

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dudes and it was a lot of hipsters had the

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idea to start actually making you know, micro brew craft

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quality beer. Okay, I get that right, that makes sense.

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But after twenty years of this and more, like every

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beer bro looks like this and acts like a complete idiot.

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lot of views. You know, my thoughts. I'm not going

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to repeat all this, but they all look like this,

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and they all worship sports, and they all do anything

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and they're all just complete arrogant idiots. Every IPA beer

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bro is just like this, and we all know it.

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And every time you look up these people, they all

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look the same, like, who the heck is this dude?

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He looks just like all the other dudes in this domain.

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Look at these dudes the same thing. They all have

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shitty beards, they all wear shitty glasses, and they're fat.

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country are a bunch of damn tards, large tards? Why

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is everyone fat? It's not that hard to not be fat,

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and yet everyone is so fat? Why And guess what,

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It's not all their fault. It is actually the crappy

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quality products. So thank god for RFK Junior and at

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least moving in that direction. This is every beer brough

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right there. And I get it from a standpoint of

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doing a business or whatever. You're gonna learn about brewing

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and you're gonna talk about this shit or whatever, And

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I get it. It's at your business, that's fine, But

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like these types of dudes, they will talk your ear

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off about all the different brews. Is it more of

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a logger in the IPI? It's got a really happy

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field to it and no, no, no, no no, the

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dea shut up dude. Every time I do this too.

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Like even the people who love I Pas and all

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this kind of stuff, like they actually get this. Here's

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an actual beer that's just flannel because all the beer

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bros were Why do they all have this style? This

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is like a weird I don't mind. It's like MK

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like beer mk ulture or something. I don't know what's

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going on, but this dude, in my opinion, it's just

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not as it's another like a simulated masculinity, right, like

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guards are into sported beer. Maybe when you're ten and

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you're you know, thirteen or whatever, you're trying your first beer.

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But like, you know, because you know, every fat beer

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dude is not actually out chopping down trees, right, Like

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the beer dude is trying to go for this. Paul

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Bunyan logger shit right, I'm into logging and logger. I'm

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a logger, logger. He's logging with his Like, here's here's

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one standing on a log So I drink loggers while

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I stand on logs. It's masculine anyway, Look, this stuff

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gives you boobies your bitch TETs and kills your masculine drives,

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shall we say, uh, and makes you sleepy and makes

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you dumb. So I P I P a beer, Bros,

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get out of here, dude. Now, I don't think girls.

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love to drink. So you gotta be careful here because

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you can't be a teetotaler. But if you're out on

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a date and you know somebody wants to have a drink, okay,

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go for it, but do not. I would just say,

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don't get drunk. Just avoid getting drunk. Next up, worst

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type of man dude, gamers, gamers again, cut down on

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this stuff. If you want to do this every now

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and then, okay, But like a lot of dudes are

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this dude, right, A lot of dudes are this dude?

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Gamer dudes, chunky gamer dudes. I mean, look at this dude.

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Here's the eight hundred pound gamer dude. What the heck?

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Or this what's his name boogie that everybody talked about

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forever who basically went insane.

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Speaker 3: I think.

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Speaker 1: This dude, right, I'm getting tired of the AI stuff too,

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But that's like all that comes up when you type

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this stuff. I mean, remember the euphoria atheist memes. This

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guy's like this right, So right away, this guy, the

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long hair is not working for you. You need to

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lose eighty pounds. Stop. Your diet is what's giving you

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all the acne. Like immediately, we can tell this guy

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right away what to do, right anyway, So that's what

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I have to say on that these are the archetypes,

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loosely speaking, that we want to avoid. Right. We don't

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want any of these things to be anywhere near us.

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These are the toxic archetypes that we want to get

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rid of. And now Jamie is a big fan of

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facial hair. I know all Orthodox people want beards. Again

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my opinion, and Jamie agreed. As a female, if you're

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a dude and you are not clergy or a monk,

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it doesn't make sense to try to row some massive

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church father beard. It almost just looks like you're LARPing, right,

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And her assessment was that, you know, that's about the

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maximum length that a guy should have if he wants

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to be attractive to a woman. Right, So we're talking

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about guys that are you know, we're not talking about

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seventy year old men that are widowed. You know that

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are hanging out in their garden all day and nobody's

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gonna care. We're talking about if you're a young guy

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and you're trying to attract the mates. What we're talking about, Okay,

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so trying so looking like you are not homeless basically, right,

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I've got orthodox bro friends and it's fine if they

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want to do it, that's their choice. But you know

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they've got homeless man beards and well Jamie's laughing, being serious,

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and in their mind they're like, oh, bro, I'm like

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super spiritual with this beard, and look how asedek I am.

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And it's like, look at this beard. So Ceta. It's like,

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but you're not, dude. You work at Krispy Kreme. You're

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not You're not an asthetic. What are you talking about?

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And work at Krispy Kream? Yeah, but nobody wants to

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get your donuts when you've got hair like dangling and

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touching the donut though, bro Tammy's laughing, so point being like,

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just be kemped. Even if you have long hair, you

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can look okay and uh kemped versus unkempt with beard

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or with hair. Also, I was just gonna add, like,

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if you're a dude, and you want to vary the

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styles right by what's appropriate. Obviously, Yes, in warmer situations

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and climates, you don't have to always wear pants for

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some reason. This is like I think you know in

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places like Italy, like men are never supposed to wear shorts. Okay,

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Well those people have never been to Florida. Okay, so

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you cannot wear pants all year round in some sort

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of like ridiculously humid locale. Right. So I am a

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fan of beach aesthetic, as you guys know. I like

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the Miami vibe, the Miami vice vibe. I like the

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sunny Crockett vibe. I like beach guy vibe. That to

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me resonates because whether you think about it or not,

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like your style is going to project things to the

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woman in question or to who we're talking about, and

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she's gonna be whether again, it doesn't matter whether you

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think it's fair or it makes sense. Throw all that out, Okay,

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We're we're looking at pure pragmatic, objective facts here. We

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don't care about whether you think it's fair or not. Okay.

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I like this vibe. I like this style, and I

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like it because I'm a child of the eighties. I

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was a child in the eighties, and it suggests something

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very laid back but smooth. Right in the eighties, everybody

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thought Sonny Crockett was cool and that look, that Miami

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dude look, it has never gotten old. I mean, that

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could be something that a guy wears right now, like

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the Ralph Lauren stuff that we saw. So my point though,

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in this is not telling you that you have to

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adopt that style. My point is that it would be

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good for you to maybe kind of adopt a trademark

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style like this is what some guys call peacocking, and

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that's a good thing. You can go crazy with it.

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But I remember one time I was at a bar.

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This is probably around twenty eleven, and I was there

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with my buddy Ben. This was in Cincinnati. I forget

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the name of that area where there's like all these

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bars and since, but they had gentrified this area and

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we were at this big kind of open like plaza

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area out back behind a bar where there was just

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tons of people back there, right, So there's like, I

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don't know, maybe fifty people mingling back there, and my

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buddy and I were there with some other friends. So

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I wasn't like it wasn't like we were doing cold

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approach because we didn't know anybody. Like, we had some

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friends with us, and I think we were dancing with

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a couple of girls that one of which was a

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friend of my buddy's girlfriend. And I mean it was

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it was innocent fun. There was no you know, it

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was just we were out hanging out dancing just like

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normal types of stuff, not like torquing. Okay, like normal

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white people out at the bar dancing. Does this still exist?

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I guess it's I don't know. Does this stillicist? I

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don't know. But one thing that was interesting was like

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these two dudes who thought it would be fun. They

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dressed in like some absolutely outrageous outfits. Right, So one

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of them had on like a total weird like sparkly sequin.

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They weren't gay, like, they were just being funny, uh

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like a John Travolta from Saturday Night Fever weird outfit. Right.

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And then another dude came in something equally kind of outlandish,

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and they ended up being the talk of this entire

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bar party because of their ridiculous outfits and they didn't care.

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And yeah, there was dudes. We look at him, dudes

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like a bunch of gay gaze look at him gay gays,

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but they didn't care. They were having fun and girls

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liked it. The girls started talking to these guys, and

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I mean, they were decent looking dudes from what I remember.

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They weren't like hideously ugly dudes that couldn't pull it off.

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They pulled it off because they didn't care. So in

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that example that comes to mind, peacock can work when

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you kind of have your own kind of unique style.

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So and just ties into I think one of the

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points that a lot of young dudes need to know,

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which is you're eventually going to have to become your

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own man. And a lot of young dudes like they'll

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just try to like literally copy or copy paste some

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dude like who is that nerdy potato boy that we

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were talking about the other day, Tyler Hockley or whatever.

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He wants to be Tate and he thinks that if

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he just like literally tries to mimic everything Tate does,

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like this, like fifteen year old, sixteen year old idiot

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kid like he'll be Tate. Okay, you're not going to

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be Tate, and Tit is not somebody who want to

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be anyway, right, So it's a sign of immaturity. I

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think a sign of youth. I guess that you you're

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trying to be something that you're not. Now, this is

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a little complicated, though, because guys do the kind of

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archetypes and images to shoot for. Right. And the only

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reason we're not talking about Jesus tonight is because most

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people in the world, they don't think of Jesus the

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way he actually is and the scriptures as actually very masculine.

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They think of Jesus as like hippie Jesus. Okay, so

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we're not talking about that just because there's so much

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misconception about what Jesus or who Jesus actually is. Right,

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So we're gonna be using pop culture images and references

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and archetypes and so you know, Sonny Crockett is an

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interesting male hero archetype because he is a law enforcement guy.

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He deals with mob criminal activities, he has a gun, right,

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these kinds of things that are masculine activities. These are

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all positive qualities. And he dresses well, and all the

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eighties ladies thought that Sonny Crockett was a cool guy.

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So those are the positive qualities here. And he was

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as a man, he projected this sort of you know,

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very independent, very swab, not not bothered by minutia type

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of guy, and that those are all positive masculine qualities

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and in ways very similar to perhaps what we would

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see with you know, James Bond. Right, So the next

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next we're going to move into talking about male archetypes

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good and bad. I think I covered this, let's see. Oh,

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the one other thing I want to say about young

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guys too, was when you're young, you're going to be

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somewhat insecure, and insecure dudes get very emotional. They have

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not yet mastered their emotional their emotions, and so they

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can get kind of out of whack and upset very easily,

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get riled up, very easily. This is something that you're

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going to have to overcome, and it's hard, especially when

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you're really young. And that can be by you know,

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your friends that maybe they make fun of you and

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you get your feelings hurt, or you know somebody's provoking

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you intentionally on This happens, for example, in sports where

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people try to get into your head. If you're the

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opposing team, you start talking smack to get into the

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guy's head, right, So you have to kind of get

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past that and get to the point where your emotions

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don't rule you, because those are more feminine characteristics and qualities.

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Guys should be governed by reason, by logic, by self

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control and self discipline. But don't get too hard on

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yourself or too down if you don't immediately have that,

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because those are qualities and characteristics that take many years

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to develop. The things that used to make me mad,

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you know, when I was eighteen nineteen, twenty twenty one,

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they don't make me mad anymore, and it really does.

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I think also relates to the age that you're at,

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Like once you hit age thirty and then into age

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thirty five, you will less and less care what other

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people think and say, and there will be a kind

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of an internal change in you where it just won't

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It won't affect you, won't bother you. That doesn't mean

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it never will. But generally speaking, somebody can still get

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on your nerves. Somebody can still rall you up. You're

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never gonna be some sort of perfectly functioning machine. You're

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still going to always be human. You're gonna be susceptible

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to whatever vices and weaknesses you're susceptible to. So don't

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have these outrageous, outlandish expectations on yourself. Next, we're gonna

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talk about Envy is another one that young guys fall

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into because you're insecure, you're unsure of yourself, you don't

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know about the world, you haven't really done a lot yet,

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not a lot of accomplishments, and so you're insecure, and

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then you naturally will immediately want to be envious, and

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then you want to be a hater. I think every

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guy at some point has been an envious hater at

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some point, right, Because nobody is born super Chad sigma.

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I don't think maybe somebody is. But a lot of

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these qualities are qualities that are learned or are gained

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over time and through adversity. For example, one guy was

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saying in the comments on yesterday's video about top ten

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advice for Guys topics, he said that he thought that

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a lot of young men, especially like younger younger men,

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had never engaged in hard work. I thought that was

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actually a really good assessment too. I'm not saying that

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the ideal is that all men should be working on

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oil rigs or be coal miners. In fact, no, you

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should actually try to avoid that kind of of a

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lifestylear job unless you just have some you know, intense

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and some dudes do. Some dudes really like like like

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super intensive manual labor. If that's you, that's you. But

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those kinds of seasons where you have really intense hard

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work to do, they do build character. They are really important.

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And it didn't even occur to me that. Man, I

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bet a lot of guys aren't even experiencing that. And

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I'll give you an example that I went through. This

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is one of the worst experiences ever. But do you

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know one thing it taught me. It was kind of

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laying the groundwork for me not wanting to work in

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that kind of wage environment. I remember one summer when

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it was my first job at a paint store and

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before I was the paint mixer manager. I had to

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do all the crappy positions. So I had to be

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the dude that would scrape up the old flooring because

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we also did flooring there, and I had to be

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the guy that was great old wallpaper. These are like

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the worst jobs, okay, but I did that for an

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entire summer, okay, And the worst job that we ever

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had was an old folks home that was having the

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entire wings floor replaced. Now, this was decades of old

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people urine that had seeped into underneath the tiles, and

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I had, in a wing with no air conditioning, an

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entire summer to scrape up all the floor. This was hell.

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This was the closest that I've been to hell. Okay,

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And sometimes you would walk into the rooms and the

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old people were fully unclothed, and it literally was decades

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of pea underneath the tiles and the flooring. It was awful.

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And after that summer, I decided, I will never ever

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have a job like this again, and I will do

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anything my power to not do this kind of So

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that taught me a lot. It taught me how bad

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those kinds of jobs can be. But it was a

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learning It was a massive learning experience and it was

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super hard work. But there was actually positive to that,

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believe it or not. That horrible, horrible scenario when I

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was finished in the evenings, right because I think it

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was nine to five, we might've quit at four, I

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don't remember, But like I was like so relieved when

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the day was over, right, And it was just an

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extremely intense experience I'll never forget and it's weird to

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me to think of never having had that kind of experience,

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you know what I mean, that was a season of adversity,

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because I mean, if you're like fourteen fifteen, I don't

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remember how it was, you don't want to be doing that.

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It was just it was as bad as it sounds.

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But an entire summer of that. I think it was

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worth the bad experience. I guess I should say it

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was an intense season of adversity, and so guys are

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gonna have to figure out ways to challenge themselves, to

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take on types of adversities and to persevere through. I'm

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not telling you to go to boot camp. By the way,

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this ship was probably worse than boot camp. That was

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like my own personal boot camp. Hey, Jamie, could you

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make me an expresso? Jamie? And you might be an espresso.

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Let's see we come, We got all that, We got

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all that. Oh, you're gonna get homework tonight too, y'all

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gonna give you some homework. Uh, let's talk about the

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archetypes and then we're gonna talk about the ultimate awful archetype.

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I don't I mean, we don't have to go to

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like images of these people we can talk about everybody's

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familiar with James Bond, but I mean, you know some

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of the positives of James Bond without getting all puritanical

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and bitching about. I know that he's a spy for

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the government, he's a complete psycho, and he's a killer.

470
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:25,640
But there's certain things that James Bond has as qualities

471
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:29,400
that are attractive to women, whether we like that or not,

472
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,160
or whether we think it makes sense or whatever. And

473
00:33:32,279 --> 00:33:35,240
some of those are that he in the situations that

474
00:33:35,519 --> 00:33:37,680
I know. He's a fictional character, but in the in

475
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,559
the situations that he's in, he's not actually very rattled

476
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:45,839
by whatever's going on. Now, again, most dudes are not

477
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,839
going to be that calm in a situation, but he's

478
00:33:50,119 --> 00:33:53,960
calm enough in the situations that they don't rattle him.

479
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:58,599
He's not easily rattled, So he's able to control his emotions, right,

480
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:03,039
So that's something that is a positive quality to James Bond.

481
00:34:04,119 --> 00:34:09,960
James Bond also dress as well, right, he doesn't ever

482
00:34:10,079 --> 00:34:13,920
look like a slob. And even though James Bond is

483
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:19,360
middle to low class, you wouldn't know that in the

484
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,440
presence of James Bond. You would think this is some

485
00:34:22,639 --> 00:34:25,639
kind of you know, dude that's got stuff going for him.

486
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,199
I'm not saying you gotta wear a tuxedo, right, But

487
00:34:29,519 --> 00:34:33,239
James Bond is not afraid of walking up to people

488
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,719
and talking to them. He's not afraid of, even to

489
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,880
a degree, dying. And if he's not afraid of dying,

490
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,199
and if you if you've overcome some of these, you know,

491
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:47,440
classic human fears. Why would you be afraid of approaching

492
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:53,159
and talking to a woman? Right? And women are very,

493
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:59,559
very hyper sensitive to minutia or body language, or mic

494
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:07,559
aggressions or micro expressions. And so if you betray nervousness

495
00:35:07,599 --> 00:35:09,679
and fear and you're trying to talk to a girl

496
00:35:09,679 --> 00:35:12,360
in your hand, your hands and your voice is shaking,

497
00:35:12,599 --> 00:35:16,199
like she's gonna know that. Right, So that's a fear

498
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:20,400
that you've not yet overcome. He's overcome this. He's talked

499
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:23,199
to countless women. He's not afraid of talking to a woman.

500
00:35:24,599 --> 00:35:28,679
And why does the young guy feel that fear? Well,

501
00:35:28,679 --> 00:35:34,400
he's afraid of rejection. He's afraid of her not liking him,

502
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,440
not finding him attractive. What if he says something dorky,

503
00:35:37,679 --> 00:35:40,880
what if he stumbles over his words? Well, guess what

504
00:35:41,519 --> 00:35:47,440
who cares In the end, it doesn't matter. I've seen,

505
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:53,199
for example, in my past dudes that were not very bright,

506
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:58,800
not very suave, kind of idiots, but they were still

507
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,360
able to do okay with women just because they weren't

508
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:06,320
afraid of them. So a lot of guys, especially young

509
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:11,000
smart guys, totally overthink this kind of stuff. And there's

510
00:36:11,039 --> 00:36:13,840
all the red pillig grifty people like trying to sell

511
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,400
you a course and all this stuff. Like all you

512
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,079
got to know is to figure out, like don't be fat,

513
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:22,400
like fix your hygiene, try to be personal, make normal conversations,

514
00:36:23,559 --> 00:36:28,159
be yourself, stop trying to act like you're some Romanian weirdo.

515
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:35,400
And if yourself is super nerdy, work on yourself. For example,

516
00:36:35,519 --> 00:36:38,960
James Bond's gait, his gate, the way he walks, he

517
00:36:39,079 --> 00:36:43,960
walks like a normal, confident man. He does not walk

518
00:36:44,039 --> 00:36:49,199
like a nerd who speeds across. If you have noticed

519
00:36:49,199 --> 00:36:53,719
how nerds walk, they walk stiff and click like they've

520
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,360
got something in their butt, like they're scared, like they're

521
00:36:56,400 --> 00:37:01,079
little nerd mice running around. It's like, why why are

522
00:37:01,119 --> 00:37:04,880
you walking like that? You're walking like a mouse, Like

523
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:07,880
do relax, Like why are you walking like that, you

524
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:12,800
look like an idiot. Like James Bond walks into a

525
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,920
room and he looks like a normal guy. And he

526
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:16,880
goes and he stands over at the bar and he

527
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,159
he leans back and he has conversations. He does not

528
00:37:20,559 --> 00:37:25,199
walk in and like speed across the room like a

529
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:29,400
crow boin. If you've watched Malcolm in the Middle, then

530
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:33,119
you know who the Crowlboins are, Right, No crowboying is

531
00:37:33,159 --> 00:37:37,480
ever getting a girlfriend. And in fact, if you've not

532
00:37:37,519 --> 00:37:39,920
watched Malcolm in the Middle, it's almost worth watching just

533
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,320
for that kind of stuff. Right, Nerds have this spurgy

534
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,239
like do what why do you like something's wrong with

535
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:50,159
your body? Dude? Why are you walking like something's stuck

536
00:37:50,199 --> 00:37:53,480
in your butt? It's weird. They look they walk like

537
00:37:53,519 --> 00:37:58,119
they're like on some little invisible motorcycling. Right, And that's

538
00:37:58,119 --> 00:38:02,079
how the crow boys are in the show, right, crowboyn

539
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:11,039
and Malcolm in the Middle. They're the challenges children. And

540
00:38:11,079 --> 00:38:16,960
one of them like runs everywhere like he's like, oh,

541
00:38:17,079 --> 00:38:21,800
he does everything on a motorcycle. That's how nerdy dudes,

542
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:27,719
spurgy dudes act and walk. Okay, That type of body

543
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,880
language signals to a woman that you're a freaking dork. Dude.

544
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,400
It's immediate, like turn off. No girl is going to

545
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:38,480
find that truck. Okay, So there are archetypes that you

546
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,679
should shoot for. I'm not telling you to go sleep

547
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,079
with all the women. I'm just saying that, think about

548
00:38:43,119 --> 00:38:48,960
the positive qualities that James Bond exudes that are worth

549
00:38:50,039 --> 00:38:55,559
bringing into your psyche, that archetype, so to speak, because

550
00:38:55,599 --> 00:38:58,719
I guarantee you if you're a like who do you

551
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:03,480
think a woman would prefer Sean Connery or the chunky

552
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,079
gamer dude? I mean, it's this is not it's like

553
00:39:07,159 --> 00:39:09,159
kind of a lot of this is really obvious. It's not

554
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:14,239
rocket science. Okay, But for some reason, I guess a

555
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,320
lot of people do need to hear this kind of stuff.

556
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,599
If you've never asked out a girl. Look, if you're

557
00:39:19,599 --> 00:39:22,840
a ninth if you're above ninth grade, tenth grade, and

558
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:26,039
you've never asked a girl out, Okay, something's wrong. Something's wrong,

559
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:29,199
Like you should have done this by now. And I

560
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:32,519
don't need to hear a million excuses. Oh but the.

561
00:39:32,519 --> 00:39:36,039
Speaker 4: Girls are mean, Oh the girls that they're all whores now,

562
00:39:36,079 --> 00:39:38,599
Oh they're all trash, now, all the girls around only fans.

563
00:39:38,639 --> 00:39:44,599
All the girls are stop whining. Dudes need to stop.

564
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:51,519
Speaker 1: Whining, whine whining? Why why bitching on Twitter? Ugh, that's pathetic. Okay,

565
00:39:51,679 --> 00:39:54,360
all your pathetic qualities, which we're gonna talk about the

566
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:57,760
pathetic dude in a minute, the archetype of the worst dude.

567
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,800
All that shit's got to stop. None of that. Get

568
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,719
it out of here no more. Every time you're attempted

569
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,119
to whine and complain about women, this and.

570
00:40:07,039 --> 00:40:10,639
Speaker 3: When women women are liars because they wear makeup? Makeup

571
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:11,400
is a lie?

572
00:40:11,599 --> 00:40:15,320
Speaker 1: What? This is the stupidest shit I've ever heard. Dude,

573
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,880
that is so dumb. There's actually dudes actually say this.

574
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:22,840
Can you believe that I don't know what's going like?

575
00:40:23,159 --> 00:40:25,920
This is like the migtaiel in Selli type stuff, which

576
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:29,760
is just I can't stand that stuff. Never have cared

577
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:35,719
for that stuff. At least something like Neil Strauss's book

578
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:39,320
would teach you how to dress nice, how to engage

579
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,920
in conversation. Right, I'm not advocating for everything that the book

580
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:47,800
tells you to do, because any positive trait or quality

581
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:51,639
can be misused. Right, So you can learn social dynamics,

582
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,679
social skills, and you can misuse those, but you can

583
00:40:55,719 --> 00:41:00,920
also use them properly to your advantage. And these are

584
00:41:01,119 --> 00:41:06,400
skills that are kind of universal in other areas as well.

585
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,119
For example, you want to be a teacher, Okay, can

586
00:41:09,159 --> 00:41:13,000
you dress nice and communicate effectively? Or do you have

587
00:41:13,079 --> 00:41:16,599
weird speech impediments and you talk like a retort and

588
00:41:16,639 --> 00:41:21,800
you're you're sold up? Like the Idiocracy line goes, that's

589
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:30,159
a quote from a movie. I mean, it's just again.

590
00:41:33,559 --> 00:41:35,400
So if you're a young dude and you let's say

591
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,400
you've never approached a girl or asked a girl out, okay,

592
00:41:38,599 --> 00:41:41,239
well I would say, first of all, let's work on

593
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:44,119
the physical appearance. Okay, I'm gonna be your I'm gonna

594
00:41:44,119 --> 00:41:47,840
be I'm gonna be your Will Smith Hitch right here, right,

595
00:41:48,639 --> 00:41:55,000
you're Kevin James and I'm waltzed him off. I'm joking, actually, though,

596
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,360
maybe you should. I mean it sounds stupid, but like

597
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,440
maybe you should watch Hitch because Kevin Jane is like

598
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:04,119
a fat and nerdy dude and it's a stupid movie.

599
00:42:04,199 --> 00:42:07,679
But I mean, at least like Will Smith kind of

600
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:13,880
like shapes him up a little bit, right and helps

601
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:30,440
him out. And no, that's a footpart. Somebody said they

602
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:33,239
wanted to see my calves, by the way, and I

603
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,920
do have on shorts because I'm at home. So I'm

604
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,639
going to show you my calves. Because they said you

605
00:42:38,679 --> 00:42:42,679
do not have a game winning basketball calves, And I said,

606
00:42:42,679 --> 00:42:47,519
are you sure about that? So there you go look

607
00:42:47,559 --> 00:42:57,519
at them things. Those are a game basketball calves right there. Anyway,

608
00:42:58,079 --> 00:42:59,760
So if you've never asked a girl out, you've never

609
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,199
put the girl, you've never done this, You're gonna need

610
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,880
to go through this experience or you're never gonna get

611
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:07,880
a girlfriend. In fact, I was even talking to so much.

612
00:43:08,039 --> 00:43:10,719
This is not appropriate for church people. I was talking

613
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,920
to a cleric the other day and he had said

614
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:17,159
to me, I won't say who, but that he was

615
00:43:17,199 --> 00:43:18,920
talking to a bunch of this hot of tale and

616
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:21,679
he was talking a bunch of the young dudes. And

617
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,400
many of the young dudes have never talked to a

618
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,559
girl or asked them out in person. I'm sure they've

619
00:43:28,599 --> 00:43:31,440
slid into DMS on something. But okay, none of this

620
00:43:31,559 --> 00:43:37,880
is It's not the real world, right. So if you've

621
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:42,079
begun to fix your appearance, and you've begun to lose

622
00:43:42,119 --> 00:43:46,000
some weight, you begun to clean up. Okay. The best

623
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,440
thing for that kind of a dude to meet a girl,

624
00:43:48,519 --> 00:43:51,800
or to at least get over this fear of asking

625
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:55,119
a girl out and getting rejected, is to try something

626
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:59,880
that's day related, like a coffee shop. So take a

627
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:05,760
book and when you're doing your reading time, depending upon

628
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:09,199
what you kind of think the crowd in this coffee

629
00:44:09,199 --> 00:44:12,480
shop might or may not be, you're gonna take your

630
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,159
book and you're gonna sit in there for an hour

631
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:18,480
every few days, and you're gonna read in there, and

632
00:44:19,559 --> 00:44:21,880
you're gonna watch and wait and see if you think

633
00:44:22,039 --> 00:44:27,199
a cute girl comes in and maybe the first time

634
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:32,400
you don't immediately just hit on her. Maybe you strike

635
00:44:32,519 --> 00:44:36,280
up a conversation something like that. That could be very

636
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:41,199
easily done and it's very effective for rather than like

637
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:43,559
trying to go to bars and pick up people. Okay,

638
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:49,280
that's really annoying. Bars are loud, they're drunk people. It's

639
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,960
just a mess. It's not really worth it. The only

640
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:55,320
time that kind of a setting, I would argue, can

641
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:59,039
be okay is if you have a group of friends

642
00:44:59,079 --> 00:45:02,519
that are already going out, say to dance, and maybe

643
00:45:02,559 --> 00:45:05,199
you have you know, a date set up through that

644
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:08,320
or you know, your friends are arranging you to meet

645
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,679
their friends, that kind of that. That can work, right,

646
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:14,039
But the you know, just you and your bro going

647
00:45:14,079 --> 00:45:16,920
to the bars out, I mean that, that's just it's

648
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:19,239
just a It doesn't it's not the best. It's just

649
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:23,679
a shitty situation. It usually never works out. Very few

650
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:27,559
people have I ever even heard of who had significant

651
00:45:27,639 --> 00:45:30,400
lasting relationships that met at a bar like I've never

652
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:32,400
heard of this. Maybe it does most of the time.

653
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:38,920
People meet through other people, but not always. Sometimes you

654
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,320
may not be in that situation. Maybe you move to

655
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:46,719
some city for a job, you don't know anybody. Guess

656
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:50,800
what time to grow up? Time to meet new people.

657
00:45:51,519 --> 00:45:55,400
When I was young, I didn't like moving all the time.

658
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,320
My dad was in the military and we moved a lot,

659
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,400
and as soon as I I would make friends, we'd

660
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:05,079
have to move again. I went through that experience many

661
00:46:05,119 --> 00:46:07,280
many times in my youth, and it sucked. I didn't

662
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,000
like it. It would have been nice to stay in

663
00:46:10,039 --> 00:46:12,199
one place and have the same friends all my life,

664
00:46:12,679 --> 00:46:15,719
and there are advantages to that. But one good thing

665
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,480
that happened was that I got used to meeting people,

666
00:46:19,039 --> 00:46:23,840
meeting new people, being social et cetera. And not being

667
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:27,880
afraid of people in crowds. That was another big one.

668
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,400
So if you can get if you can gain these skills,

669
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,239
these are skills that will help you. For example, when

670
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,559
I was in high school, I took public speaking classes,

671
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,159
I took theater classes. I was able to act and

672
00:46:39,199 --> 00:46:41,159
do things in front of a camera, never been afraid

673
00:46:41,199 --> 00:46:43,599
of it. There were times in my life where I

674
00:46:43,599 --> 00:46:46,519
got out of practice. Throughout a lot of my twenties,

675
00:46:46,559 --> 00:46:48,159
I didn't do a lot of public speaking and that

676
00:46:48,199 --> 00:46:50,239
kind of stuff. I was kind of lost in a

677
00:46:50,280 --> 00:46:53,159
world of books. And that was a season that worked

678
00:46:53,159 --> 00:46:56,280
out okay for me. There was positive to that season

679
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:59,400
in my life. This season of my life is much

680
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,039
more enjoyed then the ten years in my twenties that

681
00:47:02,079 --> 00:47:06,360
I spent in books. But there are positive pros and

682
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:10,440
cons either way. But I would say again, it is

683
00:47:10,519 --> 00:47:14,159
advantageous to try to learn these skills right, to try

684
00:47:14,159 --> 00:47:17,159
to learn to walk like a normal dude and not

685
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:21,960
like a spurgy stick. To figure out how to make

686
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:25,599
small talk. And this is a difficult one for high

687
00:47:25,639 --> 00:47:27,039
IQ people because they.

688
00:47:27,679 --> 00:47:29,800
Speaker 3: There's a waste of time to engauge at small talk

689
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,079
that do not find it to be positive for me,

690
00:47:32,119 --> 00:47:33,559
and it is who cares.

691
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 1: Okay, you're gonna need to be able to have small

692
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,920
talk conversations with people to get along in this world.

693
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:43,440
So it doesn't matter like what you like and what

694
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,840
you don't like. Okay, we're doing like our boot camp

695
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:52,039
training course for dorks tonight, and you can do it

696
00:47:52,119 --> 00:47:54,079
over the internet. No one has to know you're a dork.

697
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,320
You could be a secret dork. We're gonna fix you.

698
00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:02,079
I'm gonna be your wall small You're wal smoth, Will Smith.

699
00:48:06,679 --> 00:48:10,960
I'm gonna come slap you because you got a lapecia.

700
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:14,679
I'm just kidding. Thank you, guys, Welcome everybody. Appreciate those

701
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:17,079
superchest You guys are being very generous tonight. You can

702
00:48:17,119 --> 00:48:21,239
also superchat through stream labs. Let's catch up on some

703
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,840
of those before we look at some more of the archetypes.

704
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,599
I got a little more archetype information that I want

705
00:48:26,639 --> 00:48:30,599
you guys to search or to contemplate, to meditate upon

706
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:37,519
as we learn rizonomics tonight. We have it's a category

707
00:48:37,599 --> 00:48:47,079
five riz tonight exactly. A great comment there at Marnie.

708
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:53,280
Small talk is necessary to be able to suss out

709
00:48:53,559 --> 00:48:56,159
whether the person that you're talking to is somebody that

710
00:48:56,159 --> 00:49:01,400
you would like to progress to further level of intimacy with.

711
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:05,880
You see, So a lot of nerdy people want to

712
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,960
bypass the things that they think are a waste of

713
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:13,320
time or whatever. Okay, nerdy dudes, you got to understand.

714
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,639
The way a female thinks and acts and works is

715
00:49:16,679 --> 00:49:19,159
not the way you think it acting work. It's very different.

716
00:49:20,199 --> 00:49:23,119
So a woman, for example, is going to be much

717
00:49:23,159 --> 00:49:29,599
more attuned to the way that you look, your composure,

718
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:37,239
your communication skills, your body language, your smell, your hygiene all.

719
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,880
She's going to read all that first, right, the same

720
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:43,039
way that a dude looks at a girl's face, boobs,

721
00:49:43,039 --> 00:49:46,719
and butt. A girl is going to gauge you. She's

722
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:51,039
going to run that terminator scan right to check all

723
00:49:51,039 --> 00:49:56,119
those things. And so the way that you start a

724
00:49:56,119 --> 00:50:01,400
conversation and have fun with a conversation is way more

725
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,119
important from the get go than all this other stuff.

726
00:50:04,119 --> 00:50:09,000
For example, some jamie was talking about a tweet that

727
00:50:09,079 --> 00:50:12,320
she saw from some dude saying that he went on

728
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,320
it no as a girl complaining about a date that

729
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:16,920
she had with a guy, and she said that the

730
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,840
guy was acting really weird and like some of the

731
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:24,599
first stuff that was said was I want you to

732
00:50:24,639 --> 00:50:27,159
know right away that I am intending to marry, and

733
00:50:27,199 --> 00:50:28,639
I would like you to be open to having at

734
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:30,840
least ten children and blah blah blah blah blah blahlah.

735
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:36,039
So it's like totally wrong. Okay, the first date, the

736
00:50:36,079 --> 00:50:39,639
first time you're meeting somebody, this is not a legal contract,

737
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:43,519
this is not a transaction art of the deal Donald

738
00:50:43,559 --> 00:50:49,000
Trump thing. Okay, that's business world. Okay. I know spergs

739
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:52,719
think everything's mathematics, but in this domain, it's not. Okay,

740
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,599
this is more like biology. You would actually learn more

741
00:50:55,599 --> 00:50:59,599
from EV bio and EV psych than you would from

742
00:50:59,639 --> 00:51:03,639
like math and those kinds of abstract disciplines. For example,

743
00:51:03,639 --> 00:51:05,360
as we're going to see from one of the videos,

744
00:51:05,679 --> 00:51:10,239
from a girl who actually talks about what women find

745
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,639
interesting and attractive in men. And I watched this video

746
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,000
earlier and I thought, actually, she's really good. I read

747
00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:18,199
an entire book just on the topic that she's gonna

748
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:22,159
talk about, in terms of indicators and signs that women

749
00:51:22,199 --> 00:51:25,519
are interested in. It's not even necessarily just about sexual stuff,

750
00:51:25,519 --> 00:51:28,559
but even like engaging in a conversation with you, right,

751
00:51:29,199 --> 00:51:30,679
And I know a lot of you in the audience

752
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:32,719
think why was he talking about this? I'm telling you, man,

753
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:38,960
you guys don't understand. There's like gaggles of dudes eighteen

754
00:51:39,119 --> 00:51:43,800
to twenty two who don't know this stuff. They've never

755
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:47,000
talked to a girl in person. Now, I know, the

756
00:51:47,039 --> 00:51:49,639
boomers are like, oh, you gotta dudes go to dance

757
00:51:49,639 --> 00:51:51,400
and walk up to and n ask her to dance.

758
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:56,079
It doesn't work like this anymore. People are like goblins

759
00:51:56,119 --> 00:52:00,599
now they're retorted. Now, okay, so boomers don't even understand

760
00:52:00,599 --> 00:52:04,960
how crazy it is. Okay, but here's my thesis. We're

761
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:08,239
still men and women. No matter how much propaganda is

762
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:11,360
pushed and all the inversion that's pushed, people are still

763
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:16,079
going to revert back to their normal biological functioning as

764
00:52:16,119 --> 00:52:19,480
male and females, and all the propaganda saying there's no

765
00:52:19,519 --> 00:52:21,800
such thing as male and female, it's just that propaganda

766
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:25,199
intended to destroy human pair bonding and to make sure

767
00:52:25,199 --> 00:52:28,440
that men and women don't produce more people. That's what

768
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:35,239
it's all ultimately about. So let me give you another

769
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:37,679
example of something that I realized when I was in

770
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:41,800
high school that okay, ninth grade. I dressed like a slob.

771
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:46,320
Then I realized that the guys that dressed nice and preppy,

772
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:49,360
all the girls like those guys. So guess what I did?

773
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:54,039
Did I whine and complain about girls? Girls just like

774
00:52:54,559 --> 00:52:58,159
to the top two percent. Now the problem was in me.

775
00:52:59,079 --> 00:53:01,880
The problem wasn't the dudes that I was envious of

776
00:53:02,079 --> 00:53:03,880
or the girls I was mad at because they didn't

777
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:07,360
like me. He dressed like a n am slob. I

778
00:53:07,639 --> 00:53:11,119
changed my wardrobe entirely, and I started dressing like a

779
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:16,119
nicely dressed dude. And guess what all that changed? That's simple.

780
00:53:17,079 --> 00:53:18,960
I mean it wasn't just that. Obviously there's other things

781
00:53:19,559 --> 00:53:22,239
involved as well, but like just the appearance was like

782
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:26,559
a huge one. And then all the other nerdy dudes

783
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:32,079
and slobby dressed dudes they never I had a friend,

784
00:53:32,119 --> 00:53:33,559
for example, who was a good friend of mine for

785
00:53:33,599 --> 00:53:39,000
a long time. One of them never had a girlfriend

786
00:53:39,079 --> 00:53:44,599
until out around towards the end of college. And why

787
00:53:44,679 --> 00:53:48,920
didn't he never have a girlfriend? He would never ever

788
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:51,599
change the way he dressed. And we had a lot

789
00:53:51,599 --> 00:53:55,840
of arguments over this, and I would be like, why

790
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,679
don't you dress this the way? This is? This He's like,

791
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:00,840
screw it. If they don't like me for who I am,

792
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,119
then they don't like me. I'm sorry, but that's just

793
00:54:04,159 --> 00:54:08,840
not true. Now, eventually he met a person, they got

794
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:11,440
married and so forth. I'm not dissing that, but like,

795
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,159
I have other friends who had the same attitude where

796
00:54:16,199 --> 00:54:19,119
they were unwilling to do anything on their part, unwilling

797
00:54:19,159 --> 00:54:23,320
to make any changes, and they still think they deserve

798
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,800
like a nine or a ten, or they're gonna get

799
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:28,559
a nine or a ten with absolutely no changes on

800
00:54:28,599 --> 00:54:31,400
their part. No, it's not gonna happen. So a lot

801
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:34,039
of people are delusional, men and women. I've seen the

802
00:54:34,079 --> 00:54:37,440
clips of where forget that black dude but he died

803
00:54:37,519 --> 00:54:40,559
or whatever, but he used to ask the black woman, like,

804
00:54:41,079 --> 00:54:42,119
what you think you deserve?

805
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,599
Speaker 5: I deserve a man a six y six and make

806
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:47,679
six hundred thousand dollars.

807
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:50,079
Speaker 1: And she's like five hundred pounds and got like six

808
00:54:50,119 --> 00:54:53,440
illegitimate children. Okay, that's famous clips of I don't remember

809
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:56,360
the guy's name. But and then you've got the same

810
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:57,880
thing going on with nerdy dudes.

811
00:54:58,199 --> 00:55:01,280
Speaker 3: I deserve like I would like Argo Robbie or whatever,

812
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:03,760
like she's super hot, like likes say like like with

813
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:08,119
it should like be they should have liked like like

814
00:55:08,119 --> 00:55:11,320
like like sports guys, like they shouldn't liked rich guys,

815
00:55:11,480 --> 00:55:12,519
like they should like beer.

816
00:55:12,639 --> 00:55:18,039
Speaker 1: Whatever. Why don't they like beer? Whatever? Well why would they? Right?

817
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:25,239
What do you bring to the table? Now? Most dudes

818
00:55:25,679 --> 00:55:29,639
at this stage get butt hurt and they want to complain.

819
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:36,760
That is lazy, that is weak. That is oppression narrative.

820
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:40,159
All the right wing nerdy dudes that bitch about all

821
00:55:40,199 --> 00:55:41,119
this stuff all the time.

822
00:55:41,599 --> 00:55:44,039
Speaker 3: LIVI, it shouldn't be very bakeup because it's a lie.

823
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:46,960
It's a lie. Dude.

824
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:52,559
Speaker 1: Look at you. You're in a basement, You're eating hot pockets,

825
00:55:53,039 --> 00:55:57,119
you're eating chicken tends in a microwave and chalky milk.

826
00:55:58,159 --> 00:56:01,440
You're you. You're not in that game. You're not in

827
00:56:01,599 --> 00:56:05,880
that tier. And I know this might sound like Wes

828
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:09,880
Watson or whatever. You ain't at my level. I'm just

829
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:11,760
making fun of West Watson, But I mean that part

830
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:15,960
is true though, right, Like, dudes and girls can be

831
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:19,599
super delusional, right, fat dudes, gamer dudes and fat checks,

832
00:56:19,599 --> 00:56:20,679
they could be super delusional.

833
00:56:21,199 --> 00:56:24,559
Speaker 5: I deserve a man with an escalate and six million

834
00:56:24,599 --> 00:56:27,119
dollars and a six pack and he's six foot six

835
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:33,239
because I got six kids. I'm not about a sid

836
00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:34,119
sax six.

837
00:56:35,559 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 1: No. So everything, let's put it this way, everything manchild,

838
00:56:42,159 --> 00:56:46,719
get rid of what are some other manchild characteristics beyond

839
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:50,639
whining and complaining all the time and bitching on Twitter

840
00:56:51,159 --> 00:56:54,840
this and that and just stupid stuff like women shouldn't

841
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:58,599
wear makeup, but that's to me, it's just weird, man,

842
00:56:58,599 --> 00:57:02,519
It's bizarre. Who can of women wear makeup? I mean,

843
00:57:02,519 --> 00:57:06,079
if you're like crazy looking like clown or something, I

844
00:57:06,079 --> 00:57:11,920
guess that's weird. But this crusade of weirdos, and it

845
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:15,880
starts to get Muslim, okay, it starts turning into like Salafi,

846
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:19,920
like women need to wear a bark Like that's just crazy, man.

847
00:57:20,039 --> 00:57:31,719
Some kind of weird cult is bizarre. So I'm getting

848
00:57:31,719 --> 00:57:33,920
off off, I'm getting off track. Let's get back to

849
00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:37,679
our archetypes. I apologize. I'm trying to remember there's any

850
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:45,039
there was another characteristic that Bond had. I think we

851
00:57:45,119 --> 00:57:50,679
covered most of that. Let's look at another archetype, which, uh,

852
00:57:51,039 --> 00:57:54,119
you might think this one is funny, but there are

853
00:57:54,159 --> 00:57:59,480
some elements that this type of an archetype. We're gonna use.

854
00:57:59,519 --> 00:58:06,000
The Jackson Sparrow archetype here is worth looking at because

855
00:58:09,639 --> 00:58:17,400
now Jack Sparrow is the wild pirate, crazy bro, right,

856
00:58:17,679 --> 00:58:22,760
who doesn't care. He's sort of the trickster fool archetype.

857
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:28,480
If we were talking about archetypes again, right, he's carefree, right,

858
00:58:28,639 --> 00:58:34,440
he is goofy, he's funny, he loves life, he jokes around.

859
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,960
That type of a guy, That type of an archetype

860
00:58:40,199 --> 00:58:45,679
is much more attractive than a nerdy gamer. No it

861
00:58:45,719 --> 00:58:50,760
all okay, So again we're thinking out the good elements

862
00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:53,400
of James Bond, the good elements of Jack Sparrow. Okay,

863
00:58:54,119 --> 00:58:56,639
not that he's a pirate or whatever, but the good elements,

864
00:58:56,840 --> 00:59:02,360
all right, the care free aloofness. Right in the storyline,

865
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:07,679
the women all like Jack Sparrow because he's again fun goofy,

866
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:11,039
and he's aloof I told you guys that I had

867
00:59:11,039 --> 00:59:15,039
a friend in high school that around this ninth tenth

868
00:59:15,119 --> 00:59:19,320
grade era, I started realizing all the girls like so

869
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:22,199
and so what does he have? What's his characteristics that

870
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:25,440
he's got? And he was much more of this kind

871
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:27,559
of an archetype than a James Bond archetype. Right, So

872
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:31,440
you have like the super you know, preppy dudes that

873
00:59:31,519 --> 00:59:34,320
a lot of the girls liked. That's the James Bondish

874
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:37,079
archetype vibe. And then you kind of have the wild

875
00:59:37,159 --> 00:59:42,719
party guy, Dyonissian, carefree type of dude, and a lot

876
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:47,800
of the girls like that guy from different circles, but

877
00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,519
maybe more of the alternative hippie type chicks, right, they

878
00:59:50,559 --> 00:59:52,639
resonated with this guy. But even some of the preppy

879
00:59:52,679 --> 00:59:55,039
girls would like these kinds of guys, right, because it's

880
00:59:55,079 --> 01:00:01,440
a bad boyish, edgy kind of vibe going on. Those

881
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:07,599
are characteristics that you could ingratiate from this archetype if

882
01:00:08,079 --> 01:00:11,280
you are imbalanced, so to speak. So let's say you're

883
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:17,079
a super nerdy, uptight, you know type of dude and

884
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:20,599
you're on a date and it's your first date or something,

885
01:00:20,639 --> 01:00:24,360
and the discussion comes up of paying for the meal.

886
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:27,800
I don't know how or why this ever became some

887
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:31,800
kind of huge debate all over podcasts and Twitter and

888
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:36,599
gender sphere. To me, this is utterly ridiculous. First of all,

889
01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:40,159
it's not a big deal like paying for somebody's dinner.

890
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 3: So what, well, you don't know, I don't make that

891
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:45,199
much money, and so I don't want to pay.

892
01:00:45,119 --> 01:00:47,800
Speaker 1: For a lot of So what are you signifying right away?

893
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:52,599
You're a loser. You're bitching over paying for a thirty

894
01:00:52,679 --> 01:00:55,960
dollars meal for somebody, like what you don't even know

895
01:00:56,119 --> 01:00:59,079
meals are like fifty dollars now, okay, whatever, fifty dollars.

896
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:06,800
Like immediately you're signifying that you're petty, you're annoying, you're

897
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:07,719
whining and bitching.

898
01:01:08,719 --> 01:01:12,199
Speaker 3: Well, it's the first day it has to be going Dutch.

899
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:15,639
Speaker 1: Why no, it doesn't like it's not a big deal.

900
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:23,000
In in my vast time of many dates, I don't

901
01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:26,639
ever remember an argument over who would pay. I would buy.

902
01:01:26,679 --> 01:01:29,079
It's not even a big deal. And then guys will

903
01:01:29,079 --> 01:01:31,239
be like, but with a lot of these girls, they

904
01:01:31,239 --> 01:01:33,320
are actually boucie off of you, and so you're like,

905
01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:36,320
you're just give it away, buddy, for free to the butches. Okay,

906
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:39,440
well guess what. That's immediately a disqualifier, right, Like, if

907
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:43,039
I've identified red flags with this chick that she's so

908
01:01:43,320 --> 01:01:46,079
weird and bizarre and messed up that she's mooching a

909
01:01:46,119 --> 01:01:48,559
meal off of me and not even really into the date,

910
01:01:49,559 --> 01:01:53,039
there's not going to be another date, like cross her off, right,

911
01:01:53,159 --> 01:01:56,960
So like lesson learned, not a big deal. It's just

912
01:01:57,079 --> 01:02:01,239
bizarre that, like on Twitter and in the domain, people

913
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:05,679
will argue over anything and everything, the most idiotic things.

914
01:02:07,159 --> 01:02:10,000
Should a guy pay for the meal? Yeah? Who cares?

915
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:17,280
So the Jack sparrow archetype would just throw the gold

916
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,639
coins down. He doesn't give a shit. It's not a

917
01:02:19,639 --> 01:02:24,280
big deal. And to a woman that exudes the confidence

918
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:28,280
that like, you're not hung up on little things, how

919
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,000
are you going to be a good mate or a

920
01:02:30,039 --> 01:02:33,280
good partner If you can't handle and you get hung

921
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:36,800
up on and lose your shit over something innocuous, it

922
01:02:37,039 --> 01:02:43,400
signifies a weak man and a weak character. And also

923
01:02:43,679 --> 01:02:45,840
like you ought to be able to make enough money

924
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:50,360
that even if some girl was mooching a meal out

925
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:52,519
of you, it's not a big deal. So what So

926
01:02:52,559 --> 01:02:55,280
you took one girl out and it didn't go well

927
01:02:55,599 --> 01:02:57,440
and you don't have another day, he don't call her again.

928
01:02:58,119 --> 01:03:00,440
It's like, why is it's not a fight? It's not

929
01:03:00,519 --> 01:03:05,039
even worth having a fight over. I mean, in my lifetime,

930
01:03:05,079 --> 01:03:10,480
I probably have paid for one hundred meals for dates,

931
01:03:11,719 --> 01:03:15,159
So what none of them even like I don't it

932
01:03:15,199 --> 01:03:19,760
doesn't even register as a problem, Like so why would

933
01:03:19,800 --> 01:03:22,559
you even argue with something It's just bizarre, like people

934
01:03:22,559 --> 01:03:25,920
are like almost not people anymore. It's like people humans

935
01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:28,639
aren't even humans anymore, they don't have normal human experiences.

936
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:33,800
Or it's just some kind of weird Mandela affect alternate universe.

937
01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:45,480
I'm joking, but halfway. Okay. So aloofness, care free fun. Okay,

938
01:03:45,559 --> 01:03:49,400
if you're blackpilled and miserable and whining and bitching, you

939
01:03:49,480 --> 01:03:55,400
cannot be aloof care free and fun. And every girl

940
01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:59,960
likes dudes that are aloof care free and fun. Pretty simple,

941
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:05,840
so try to ingratiate that archetype other archetypes. Now, this

942
01:04:05,920 --> 01:04:12,320
is a funny one, and this one is gonna be

943
01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:29,280
very relevant for theology bros and conspiracy bros. Okay, Now,

944
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:33,320
in the movie Conspiracy Theory, I want to recommend you

945
01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:37,559
guys watch It's a great conspiracy classic movie. If you've

946
01:04:37,559 --> 01:04:41,440
never watched Mel Gibson's Conspiracy Theory, I recommend watching it.

947
01:04:42,079 --> 01:04:43,719
And the reason I want you to watch it is

948
01:04:43,719 --> 01:04:46,480
that we're going to contrast some of the characters and

949
01:04:46,639 --> 01:04:51,159
their psyche and their modus operandi with others to see

950
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:55,199
the good and the bad. So here is a bad

951
01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:59,760
character archetype. Right, Jerry is a highly intelligent person. But

952
01:05:00,039 --> 01:05:03,079
Jerry has had, as we know from the movie m

953
01:05:03,159 --> 01:05:06,840
Culture things happened to him, and that's unfortunate, right it is.

954
01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:11,920
But the way that Jerry interacts almost entirely through the

955
01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:16,960
first three fourthsome of the movie with Julia Roberts is

956
01:05:17,519 --> 01:05:25,119
utterly spurgy, idiotic, creepy, weird and wrong. Okay, so you

957
01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:29,199
don't want Jerry game the way that he interacts. And

958
01:05:29,239 --> 01:05:31,960
Mel Gibson plays this perfectly right, Like he shows up

959
01:05:32,159 --> 01:05:36,039
one day at her office at some place and he's

960
01:05:36,679 --> 01:05:40,440
all spurgy and like all talking about conspiracies and acting

961
01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:45,159
like a lune. Right. And I'm applying this to theology

962
01:05:45,199 --> 01:05:48,880
guys too, because apparently young guys don't know that you

963
01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:51,079
should not strike up a conversation with a girl at

964
01:05:51,159 --> 01:05:52,880
church and take her out on a date and start

965
01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:55,920
talking to her about the essence energy distinction. Okay, that

966
01:05:56,039 --> 01:05:59,840
is not what you should do because girls are not boys.

967
01:06:00,199 --> 01:06:03,400
Girls are not into the things that boys are into.

968
01:06:04,039 --> 01:06:07,719
And that's okay. So a lot of young guys, instead

969
01:06:07,719 --> 01:06:11,960
of bitching and whining and moaning and complaining, just accept

970
01:06:12,639 --> 01:06:16,800
biological reality as it is. You are never going to

971
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:22,159
get girls interested in metaphysics, interested in your figurines, interested

972
01:06:22,199 --> 01:06:25,760
in war history, interested in male things. It's not going

973
01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:29,400
to happen. And that's okay. Women can be interested in

974
01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:32,960
women things and being women. That's the way it should be.

975
01:06:35,639 --> 01:06:40,400
You don't need a wife or a partner who is

976
01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:49,760
reading Thomas Aquinas. Okay. If you watched the Maya Ethan

977
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:56,559
Hawke flannering O'Connor movie Wildcat, you'll notice that flannering O'Connor

978
01:06:56,719 --> 01:06:59,519
was cursed with being a woman who was kind of

979
01:06:59,519 --> 01:07:04,719
a tomboy who loved reading theology. Now she's a great writer,

980
01:07:05,559 --> 01:07:08,199
she's amazing as a writer. Some of her short stories

981
01:07:08,199 --> 01:07:13,119
are some of the best. But her life was miserable,

982
01:07:13,199 --> 01:07:16,920
not just because of her physical illnesses, but because she

983
01:07:17,079 --> 01:07:20,760
wasn't feminine and she wasn't able to really ever have

984
01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:23,960
a good connection between her and a man. I mean,

985
01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:27,360
obviously she wasn't the most physically attractive either, but she's

986
01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:29,239
an example of what I'm talking about from the girl

987
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:33,320
side of how she just wasn't able to resonate with

988
01:07:33,400 --> 01:07:37,719
a guy because of all of her masculine characteristics. And

989
01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:41,079
I'm not saying. I mean, I'm glad that we have

990
01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:44,079
the Flannery O'Connor writings that we have. We wouldn't have

991
01:07:44,119 --> 01:07:49,679
those had she not been through that. But likewise, everybody's

992
01:07:49,679 --> 01:07:51,719
probably heard this. It's going on, you know, like the

993
01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:54,880
story of the spiders, and somebody got their feelings hurt

994
01:07:54,920 --> 01:08:00,440
over this. This is so just like mind blowingly minute

995
01:08:00,639 --> 01:08:05,280
and preposterous. When I think Jamie had a tweet talking

996
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:08,320
about the story of a guy who liked a girl

997
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:10,320
at church and I don't even know who it is,

998
01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:11,880
and I'm gonna tell a story because like it should

999
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:14,559
you should be able to laugh at these things. And

1000
01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:20,359
like the way that he approached the girl and spit

1001
01:08:20,520 --> 01:08:24,560
game was to ask her what her favorite spider was,

1002
01:08:28,239 --> 01:08:32,800
So the spider riz did not go well. However, actually

1003
01:08:33,199 --> 01:08:37,079
looking back, that might actually work nowadays, Like that's actually

1004
01:08:37,079 --> 01:08:40,479
probably not a bad idea for spinning case. Like if

1005
01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:42,600
you if you could actually play this right in a

1006
01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:45,520
certain setting where you actually probably could ask a girl, hey,

1007
01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:51,520
what's up, what's your favorite spider? If you could play

1008
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:53,720
it off as like a funny thing, that might actually

1009
01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:57,039
kind of work. But I guarantee you in this poor

1010
01:08:57,119 --> 01:09:00,560
kids situation. It was not that, and it came off

1011
01:09:00,600 --> 01:09:03,800
as like literally the most spurgy thing ever. And Jamie's

1012
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:06,279
tweet talking about this story, which is a hilarious story,

1013
01:09:06,359 --> 01:09:09,359
went viral, and all these people were in that right.

1014
01:09:09,399 --> 01:09:14,119
They were like bitching at you, there's nothing mean, Well

1015
01:09:14,159 --> 01:09:16,920
are you being me and making fun of this poor Okay, look,

1016
01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:19,600
you got to be able to be made fun of.

1017
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:23,239
You got to be able to be I remember the

1018
01:09:23,279 --> 01:09:26,079
first time we did blood Sports, and it was the

1019
01:09:26,079 --> 01:09:29,520
first time I'd ever been like in a livestream debate

1020
01:09:30,119 --> 01:09:34,279
with five thousand people watching live. And I saw the

1021
01:09:34,319 --> 01:09:39,039
comments and like almost all the comments within the JF debate,

1022
01:09:39,079 --> 01:09:42,800
they were making fun of me and they said everything

1023
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:45,079
imaginable about me, and that was the first time I'd

1024
01:09:45,079 --> 01:09:47,000
ever seen it, like thousands of people are dissing me

1025
01:09:47,079 --> 01:09:52,399
right now, and guess what, I'm okay. It didn't hurt me.

1026
01:09:53,319 --> 01:09:55,600
I literally didn't even feel anything. I was a little

1027
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:58,479
nervous the first time you see thousands of people calling

1028
01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:02,439
you everything. Of course, I ended up winning the debate,

1029
01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:06,159
but still it was a weird, novel experience for me

1030
01:10:06,199 --> 01:10:08,560
to have five thousand people largely making fun of me

1031
01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:11,960
and calling me names. Now I'm okay, like I made

1032
01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:18,039
it through that. And if your psyche is so fragile

1033
01:10:18,640 --> 01:10:23,479
that you can't laugh at yourself and laugh at like

1034
01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:27,239
your ridiculous spider game that you tried to spit like,

1035
01:10:28,039 --> 01:10:30,840
you've got problems. Man. The problem is not all the people,

1036
01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:34,840
The problem is in you. Another great example of like

1037
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:39,800
an ultimate beta male. Remember the Star Wars Kid. The

1038
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:43,399
Star Wars Kid was that chunky dude who was acting

1039
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:47,439
like an idiot with a broom that he cgi had

1040
01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:50,119
a lightsaber onto and he was like dancing around with

1041
01:10:50,159 --> 01:10:52,960
the lightsaber and he fell. It was like the first

1042
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:57,760
big viral video. Well, this guy could have actually ridden

1043
01:10:57,840 --> 01:11:02,680
that been famous and success, but from day one all

1044
01:11:02,720 --> 01:11:08,319
the way until now, he has been traumatized by the event,

1045
01:11:09,079 --> 01:11:12,560
has always tried to get people to take the video down.

1046
01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:17,199
Like basically twenty plus years of whining, bitching and complaining

1047
01:11:17,239 --> 01:11:21,199
and crying claims he's like some traumatized victim from a

1048
01:11:21,319 --> 01:11:24,159
viral video that he made and put up and got

1049
01:11:24,159 --> 01:11:30,600
mad because people laughed at it. That's the ultimate beta move.

1050
01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:42,039
That is a pre eminently weak man, pathetic, pitiful, And

1051
01:11:42,079 --> 01:11:47,600
this is why instinctively I think jocks don't like nerds,

1052
01:11:48,520 --> 01:11:54,920
and jocks make fun of nerds. Is it's a filtering

1053
01:11:55,039 --> 01:12:00,479
system actually to help the nerd. Now, women worked this

1054
01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:04,119
way because making fun of a woman is not going

1055
01:12:04,199 --> 01:12:07,560
to inspire her to do better. It's gonna hurt her feelings, right,

1056
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:11,600
unless it's playful jabs. Right, we're going to listen to

1057
01:12:11,640 --> 01:12:13,399
this woman in a minute. She's going to talk about

1058
01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:17,319
if a woman is flirting with you and she's playfully

1059
01:12:17,359 --> 01:12:19,680
making fun of you or making jokes, that's a different thing.

1060
01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:23,000
That's not what we're talking about. Right. When guys want

1061
01:12:23,159 --> 01:12:26,319
to spur another guy on to be better or to

1062
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:30,039
toughen up, we make fun of each other. Guys love

1063
01:12:30,199 --> 01:12:32,000
to riff on each other. We love to make fun

1064
01:12:32,039 --> 01:12:35,359
of each other. And it's a sign of can this

1065
01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:40,680
guy mentally take it or is he mentally weak? I

1066
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:44,159
remember in high school I had a friend who for

1067
01:12:44,239 --> 01:12:47,239
a long time made fun of me, and we were

1068
01:12:47,279 --> 01:12:50,159
pretty good friends, and I kind of put up with it,

1069
01:12:50,199 --> 01:12:52,840
but sometimes it would really get on my nerves because

1070
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:55,520
he did it all the time. And I'm not saying

1071
01:12:55,520 --> 01:12:58,960
that that's a good thing, but one day I realized,

1072
01:12:59,159 --> 01:13:02,920
wait a minute, rather than me getting annoyed and bitching

1073
01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:07,239
about that. Why don't I use this in like mental

1074
01:13:07,359 --> 01:13:14,279
judo as a way for me to think about getting better? Right? Like,

1075
01:13:14,319 --> 01:13:17,359
I remember we played basketball and he said something about

1076
01:13:18,159 --> 01:13:20,159
I don't know something that I sucked that in basketball.

1077
01:13:20,159 --> 01:13:22,399
I don't know, right, but he would always make the

1078
01:13:22,520 --> 01:13:26,159
joke about I don't know, maybe it was my defense

1079
01:13:26,199 --> 01:13:27,840
sucked or something I don't know. Let's say let's say

1080
01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:30,880
that every time we played basketball, you know, Let's say

1081
01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:33,720
he said, you know, jayd I who plays no defense. Right,

1082
01:13:33,760 --> 01:13:36,399
Let's say he said this like every day, all right,

1083
01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:38,199
getting it's getting annoying, get annoying.

1084
01:13:38,319 --> 01:13:38,520
Speaker 2: Right.

1085
01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:40,439
Speaker 1: Well, finally I was like, all right, I'm gonna just

1086
01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:45,000
I'm going to play defense, and then there will be

1087
01:13:45,159 --> 01:13:49,119
no cause for this, you see. So rather than getting

1088
01:13:49,119 --> 01:13:51,000
mad and bitching and trying to have some you know

1089
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:54,960
what's fight or something, use that as a way to

1090
01:13:55,119 --> 01:14:00,399
better yourself. Think about when people are dissing you, instead

1091
01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:03,840
of being a woos and being weak about it, use

1092
01:14:03,920 --> 01:14:08,159
it as a way to better yourself. Or again, this

1093
01:14:08,239 --> 01:14:10,520
is a big one with young dudes and nerdy dudes

1094
01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:14,960
is envy. They're eaten up with envy. Instead of giving

1095
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:19,359
into envy, think about how you can be better and

1096
01:14:19,399 --> 01:14:24,479
more like the guy that you're envius of. And I remember,

1097
01:14:26,359 --> 01:14:28,279
I mean, I think all of us have had temptations,

1098
01:14:28,279 --> 01:14:29,920
and we've all at some point in our lives been

1099
01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:32,680
envious or thought, hey, I should have that. Why does

1100
01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:37,079
he get that? That's something I should have. I remember

1101
01:14:37,079 --> 01:14:41,359
one time, let me think it, so nineteen maybe twenty.

1102
01:14:42,319 --> 01:14:45,279
I remember this dude that was involved in a campus ministry.

1103
01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:48,279
I think his name was Mason, not a Freemason, his

1104
01:14:48,359 --> 01:14:51,640
name was Mason, and I remember Mason had he was

1105
01:14:51,720 --> 01:14:54,680
dating this really good looking blonde girl that everybody in

1106
01:14:54,720 --> 01:14:58,840
the campus ministry stuff liked, right, and Mason was a

1107
01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:01,159
nice guy, but I didn't I think there's anything super

1108
01:15:01,159 --> 01:15:04,239
special about Mason. But Mason ended up marrying I think

1109
01:15:04,279 --> 01:15:06,800
her name was Cindy or something, and uh, you know,

1110
01:15:06,840 --> 01:15:09,079
I remember thinking to it. Man, I was like, you know,

1111
01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:12,239
I should have had Cindy. Why why does Mason get her?

1112
01:15:12,279 --> 01:15:15,279
He's freaking nervous. So I had this temptation and this

1113
01:15:15,560 --> 01:15:21,760
envious attitude because in that case, Mason actually possessed qualities

1114
01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:25,359
that I didn't have. He wasn't like super alpha but

1115
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:29,920
Mason was probably good with better with people. Uh, Mason

1116
01:15:30,119 --> 01:15:33,800
was probably more financially stable. He had a good, high

1117
01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:34,399
paying job.

1118
01:15:35,279 --> 01:15:35,399
Speaker 2: Uh.

1119
01:15:35,720 --> 01:15:39,439
Speaker 1: You know, Mason had qualities I didn't have. But at

1120
01:15:39,439 --> 01:15:44,119
that time, my initial immediate reaction was envy. And so

1121
01:15:44,199 --> 01:15:45,560
what did I want to do. Well, I wanted to

1122
01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:48,399
tear him down. Well, Mason doesn't blah blah blah blah blah,

1123
01:15:48,399 --> 01:15:49,840
and Mason blah blah blah, bah blah blah, bah bah

1124
01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:51,880
bah blah blah. All of it was coming from envy.

1125
01:15:53,600 --> 01:15:55,399
And one day I actually realized. I think it was

1126
01:15:55,399 --> 01:15:58,840
when I was reinscripture. I was like, oh, I've been envious.

1127
01:16:00,199 --> 01:16:03,640
It's not Mason's not the problem on the problem, and

1128
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:10,159
I I got to cut the envy out. And all

1129
01:16:10,199 --> 01:16:12,840
of us. I think when we see somebody doing better

1130
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:16,279
than us, or having more success or this or that,

1131
01:16:17,079 --> 01:16:22,520
we're all tempted to be envious because we're all falling, right,

1132
01:16:22,560 --> 01:16:27,439
We're all susceptible, some of us to some vices over others.

1133
01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:30,359
But I think every human being has the potentiality to

1134
01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:32,520
be envious just as much as they have the potentiality

1135
01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:35,720
to be magnanimous. Right, So, as you know, the way

1136
01:16:35,720 --> 01:16:39,039
to combat a lot of the vices in our spiritual

1137
01:16:39,039 --> 01:16:43,439
tradition is to fight it with the competing virtue. So

1138
01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:50,800
if you're if your sin in this case is being envious,

1139
01:16:51,159 --> 01:16:55,439
I should have that Lord, all right, what's the solution

1140
01:16:55,600 --> 01:17:02,039
to that? The solution is the complementary virtue of magnanimity,

1141
01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:07,680
generosity instead of wanting and to trying to take your giving.

1142
01:17:09,319 --> 01:17:13,079
And many of the spiritual writers talk about the way

1143
01:17:13,119 --> 01:17:17,960
to defeat those passions is the opposite virtue. And that's

1144
01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:20,239
one example that I can recall where I was like, yeah, no,

1145
01:17:20,279 --> 01:17:22,920
actually it wasn't Mason that was a problem. It was

1146
01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:27,439
me that was a problem. And I mean, I'm not

1147
01:17:27,479 --> 01:17:29,479
saying though I've never been envious, I'm sure that there's

1148
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:32,199
other times there's other people. I'm sure I've been envious.

1149
01:17:32,199 --> 01:17:35,319
Sub But that's the thing, is, like you overcomment with

1150
01:17:36,479 --> 01:17:42,880
the opposing virtue. So young guys, don't be envious, don't

1151
01:17:42,880 --> 01:17:48,439
be haters. There's nothing more pathetic than people constantly complaining

1152
01:17:48,479 --> 01:17:50,760
and hating on and whining about other people all the time.

1153
01:17:52,399 --> 01:17:56,039
When I see Twitter, the reason that I have to

1154
01:17:56,239 --> 01:17:59,680
try to discipline myself not to respond, it's because so

1155
01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:03,159
many people and all these threads whining, complaining, and uh,

1156
01:18:03,800 --> 01:18:08,359
it's just a total waste of time. And does anyone

1157
01:18:08,399 --> 01:18:10,920
actually think that whining on Twitter is gonna do anything?

1158
01:18:12,319 --> 01:18:14,720
Is it gonna change anything? So, not only is it

1159
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:19,800
wasting your time, is wasting everyone else's time. All right,

1160
01:18:19,880 --> 01:18:22,159
back to the archetypes. Thank you, guys. We've gotta read

1161
01:18:22,159 --> 01:18:23,960
a few super checks. You guys being really generous, so

1162
01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:25,560
we've got quite a few here. Let me read some

1163
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:31,640
of these now. Haiti's undead. He gets it. He sends

1164
01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:33,880
twenty bucks. He says, should I preset my girlfriend on

1165
01:18:33,920 --> 01:18:37,239
a first date? Is that riz? And that is not riz?

1166
01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:43,640
That is the wrong action. A first date should be lighthearted,

1167
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:47,800
casual and fun. Okay, In fact, don't even go into

1168
01:18:47,920 --> 01:18:54,479
talking about vast dramatic histories if you can, right, don't

1169
01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:58,840
voluntarily bring up all the things of your past dating

1170
01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:03,239
and your past problems. It's supposed to be casual fun.

1171
01:19:03,760 --> 01:19:05,720
You want to get to know this person and try

1172
01:19:05,760 --> 01:19:08,720
to You can figure out, usually pretty quickly, whether or

1173
01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:11,119
not this is somebody that you want to have another

1174
01:19:11,159 --> 01:19:13,760
date with and try to progress to the next phase too. Right,

1175
01:19:14,199 --> 01:19:17,720
So if this is not somebody that you want to

1176
01:19:17,800 --> 01:19:20,760
have a connection with. You're gonna know that pretty quick.

1177
01:19:20,840 --> 01:19:23,279
And you don't want to volunteer or get into a

1178
01:19:23,319 --> 01:19:26,840
bunch of deep stuff that's not appropriate for a first

1179
01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:34,680
date impropriety. It's not wise. So but great question there,

1180
01:19:34,720 --> 01:19:41,319
Hades Riley GVP six four two nine. These are great tips.

1181
01:19:41,359 --> 01:19:44,279
I shared them with my twenty two year old son,

1182
01:19:44,479 --> 01:19:47,000
and that's referring to the previous video, Thank you so

1183
01:19:47,079 --> 01:19:51,319
much without lies Aslam Dies five dollars. I feel riz

1184
01:19:51,840 --> 01:19:57,399
then you are getting what I'm You're catching what I'm throwing.

1185
01:19:57,840 --> 01:20:01,399
Old Man Jenkins three dollars. Well, dressing like the Joker,

1186
01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:04,840
bring me a lot of hose twenty nineteen. Joker Actually

1187
01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:08,119
dressing like the Joker in the days of the Adam

1188
01:20:08,159 --> 01:20:11,239
West Batman is what will get you the girls. Schmieven

1189
01:20:11,359 --> 01:20:14,960
Schmirk twenty bucks. I only wear Brooks Brothers buttoned ups

1190
01:20:14,960 --> 01:20:19,880
and long sleeve shirts and slacks. Is that cool? I

1191
01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:23,439
have a relative who was. Maybe he's not anymore, but

1192
01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:25,880
at one point he was like a super duper Brooks

1193
01:20:25,880 --> 01:20:31,800
Brothers guy. I don't I mean, I think if you're

1194
01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:37,000
looking for like some kind of upity up aty city girl.

1195
01:20:37,159 --> 01:20:40,600
Maybe I don't, but only wearing Brooks Brothers to me

1196
01:20:40,680 --> 01:20:45,119
sounds a little boring. But maybe you're joking. One shot

1197
01:20:45,159 --> 01:20:48,439
a seventeen five bucks. Thank you for reminding me how

1198
01:20:48,439 --> 01:20:50,479
cringe I used to be when I dressed in my teens.

1199
01:20:51,039 --> 01:20:53,399
Those were dark cringe days that I managed to forget

1200
01:20:53,399 --> 01:20:56,239
about until tonight. I think a lot of us go

1201
01:20:56,359 --> 01:21:03,279
through cringe days, so it's okay. In back in the nineties,

1202
01:21:03,680 --> 01:21:06,279
when I started high school, I had a bunch of

1203
01:21:07,279 --> 01:21:11,399
slobby clothes, and then I realized I gotta go deck

1204
01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:18,399
myself in Tommy Hill, Figure, Nautica and Polo if I

1205
01:21:18,479 --> 01:21:21,279
wanted to have any chance talking to girls. And that

1206
01:21:21,399 --> 01:21:25,000
was correct. Steve Grady ten dollars. The worst guys are

1207
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:27,720
the guys that bear, that wear all of these, buy

1208
01:21:27,760 --> 01:21:32,319
all these official jerseys. I couldn't agree more. I mean, oh, great,

1209
01:21:33,119 --> 01:21:38,199
great reminder. Worst example. Okay, who is the literal worst

1210
01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:44,880
paragon of style, worst famous person ever for style? Can

1211
01:21:44,880 --> 01:21:48,800
anyone guess who it is? You got it? Kevin Smith?

1212
01:21:51,600 --> 01:22:04,000
And I blamed Kevin Smith for making jorts and jerseys

1213
01:22:04,279 --> 01:22:11,640
some sort of like perennial thing wide world of jorts. Okay,

1214
01:22:11,680 --> 01:22:14,880
here's Kevin Smith in the nineties when he was fat,

1215
01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:19,319
Kevin Smith, right, and he's got giant Jinko jorts on.

1216
01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:23,760
And then here's present day Kevin Smith, still with jorts on.

1217
01:22:28,319 --> 01:22:32,199
This is the worst, okay, but he's known for always

1218
01:22:32,279 --> 01:22:38,000
wearing the jersey with the jorts. This is the worst

1219
01:22:38,439 --> 01:22:42,800
possible style ever of all time. Here's him in twenty

1220
01:22:42,840 --> 01:22:48,920
twenty four, again with jeorts and jersey. Okay, Kevin Smith

1221
01:22:49,119 --> 01:22:55,039
should never be forgiven for popularizing this look. And I

1222
01:22:55,079 --> 01:22:58,960
would say, to this day, a sizeable portion of the

1223
01:22:59,000 --> 01:23:04,399
male population still dresses and looks like Kevin Smith. So,

1224
01:23:05,479 --> 01:23:08,520
Kevin Smith, fart upon you for all of the horror

1225
01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:11,720
that you've given to this world. For the last fricking

1226
01:23:11,800 --> 01:23:17,199
thirty years. The jersey guys go around with another man's

1227
01:23:17,279 --> 01:23:20,640
name on their back like their high school girlfriends and boyfriends,

1228
01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:25,119
wearing his jersey exactly. Julio Marita twenty five dollars, Jay.

1229
01:23:25,279 --> 01:23:27,800
Have you heard of the channel the aria Appa Fasis. Yes,

1230
01:23:27,920 --> 01:23:31,399
I'm familiar with him from many years ago. I've never

1231
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:34,000
interacted with him, but I've seen his channel over the years.

1232
01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:39,680
He is involved in neoplatonism and rational field theory with

1233
01:23:39,800 --> 01:23:46,199
proper explanations of the reality of magnetism, water, holography, electricity,

1234
01:23:46,720 --> 01:23:49,760
and the potential for free energy. Okay, by yes, And

1235
01:23:50,159 --> 01:23:52,600
over the years I have watched some of his videos.

1236
01:23:52,640 --> 01:23:55,439
They are pretty fascinating. A lot of it is stuff

1237
01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:58,000
that I just don't know much about. So I don't

1238
01:23:58,039 --> 01:24:01,760
know a lot about magnetism and electricity and holography, but

1239
01:24:02,640 --> 01:24:05,439
I'm sure he's got a lot of cool insights. Emperor

1240
01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:08,479
Palpatine three bucks. I noticed that when the fat acceptance

1241
01:24:08,560 --> 01:24:12,760
movie movement came along, they were saying physical exercise is

1242
01:24:12,880 --> 01:24:15,880
minimal in weight loss. Yeah, this is kind of well. Actually,

1243
01:24:15,880 --> 01:24:19,800
their whole thing was to not care about weight loss.

1244
01:24:20,319 --> 01:24:22,640
I fear that there is a push by social liberals

1245
01:24:22,680 --> 01:24:27,640
to actually keep people fat, unmotivated, and unable to exercise. Oh. Absolutely,

1246
01:24:28,159 --> 01:24:34,800
Now you're talking to legit conspiracy Chad bro right here,

1247
01:24:35,439 --> 01:24:39,319
you bet. Okay, we're not nerd conspiracy theorists, we're Chad nerds.

1248
01:24:39,359 --> 01:24:42,039
And what that means is like, yes, we know that

1249
01:24:42,159 --> 01:24:47,800
absolutely it is a plan to keep people lazy, fat, dull,

1250
01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:52,119
domb stupid. Absolutely undred percent. In fact, the movie Branded

1251
01:24:52,239 --> 01:24:56,840
is actually about the conspiracy to do that mkge five Canadian.

1252
01:24:57,479 --> 01:24:59,720
It's not what you say, it's how you say it.

1253
01:24:59,720 --> 01:25:03,520
It actually works both ways. That was something that we

1254
01:25:03,520 --> 01:25:05,199
were talking about an hour ago, so I'm not sure

1255
01:25:05,199 --> 01:25:11,399
which thing. Maybe when you're talking to girls. I can't

1256
01:25:12,319 --> 01:25:15,079
unrose rep. I can't read that ten dollars. This is

1257
01:25:15,119 --> 01:25:19,079
a random one. But my two years of community college

1258
01:25:19,119 --> 01:25:23,439
for construction management is going to be hard in the field,

1259
01:25:23,479 --> 01:25:26,319
but eventually I want to join a union and manage

1260
01:25:26,359 --> 01:25:31,000
the building and movie show sets. Well, more power to you,

1261
01:25:31,039 --> 01:25:33,520
good luck with that. I mean, I'm not I'm being serious.

1262
01:25:33,560 --> 01:25:35,720
I'm not dissing you. I don't I don't know anything

1263
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:39,840
about construction. I don't know anything about unions. So I

1264
01:25:39,840 --> 01:25:43,079
hope that works out. Probably would be better off than

1265
01:25:43,119 --> 01:25:45,319
a lot of the people getting college degrees, like the

1266
01:25:45,359 --> 01:25:48,319
four year degrees. Chris fifty bucks. One of the best

1267
01:25:48,319 --> 01:25:50,159
things that my mom did was telling me at age

1268
01:25:50,199 --> 01:25:52,359
eighteen that she was going to start charging me rent

1269
01:25:53,119 --> 01:25:56,359
and I had to help pay for college. Now I

1270
01:25:56,399 --> 01:25:59,520
am almost thirty, I have a house, many assets, and

1271
01:25:59,680 --> 01:26:01,880
I have money to send you for super chats. Well,

1272
01:26:02,399 --> 01:26:05,880
thank you, Chris, to your mom, because without your mom,

1273
01:26:06,039 --> 01:26:10,319
we would not have you sending the super chats? Prophetic

1274
01:26:10,399 --> 01:26:12,760
seven seven, seven ten dollars? Jay? Do you have kids?

1275
01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:15,680
Why not? What are you waiting for? I've addressed this

1276
01:26:15,800 --> 01:26:19,560
many times. Thank you for your superchat MKG Canadian five dollars.

1277
01:26:19,600 --> 01:26:21,800
I think of a lot of guys now think that

1278
01:26:21,840 --> 01:26:25,840
women act the way that they do on say, the

1279
01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:29,840
Whatever podcasts or Fresh and Fit. However, most women out

1280
01:26:29,840 --> 01:26:33,800
there are normal and looking for someone who is not abnormal.

1281
01:26:34,119 --> 01:26:37,439
I would say that that's probably true. I mean again,

1282
01:26:37,479 --> 01:26:41,399
I've not interacted in the dating sphere in several years,

1283
01:26:41,399 --> 01:26:44,760
so I don't know a lot about today's dating market

1284
01:26:45,359 --> 01:26:49,119
from direct experience, obviously, but I would imagine that this

1285
01:26:49,199 --> 01:26:51,920
is a little overblown. I don't I can't imagine that

1286
01:26:52,079 --> 01:26:56,159
all of the girls out there are exactly like the

1287
01:26:56,239 --> 01:27:05,279
Whatever podcast. I would imagine that it's difficult. But the

1288
01:27:05,319 --> 01:27:07,760
world is a big place. There's a lot of people

1289
01:27:07,760 --> 01:27:14,079
out there, and not everybody is evil, not everybody is bad,

1290
01:27:14,920 --> 01:27:17,600
and not all things are bad. Not everything is a

1291
01:27:17,600 --> 01:27:21,319
giant conspiracy, not everything is black pilling. And to get

1292
01:27:21,359 --> 01:27:24,720
that attitude is I think, only going to hurt you

1293
01:27:24,760 --> 01:27:29,159
in the long run. CHD two dollars. Ha ha, all right,

1294
01:27:29,199 --> 01:27:31,800
this is my kind of topic, he says Ronald, five dollars.

1295
01:27:31,880 --> 01:27:34,119
I presuck my grandmother and she will not bake chocolate

1296
01:27:34,199 --> 01:27:36,800
chip cookies from anymore. Do you have any advice pre

1297
01:27:36,880 --> 01:27:40,760
supper even harder? I'm pros rep. Two dollars. Small talk

1298
01:27:40,880 --> 01:27:44,319
is my problem, to be honest with you, Well, that

1299
01:27:44,479 --> 01:27:51,800
is a challenge when you may not be in scenarios

1300
01:27:51,880 --> 01:27:54,399
where you are meeting a lot of people, you know

1301
01:27:54,439 --> 01:27:57,439
what I mean. Like let's say you work a nine

1302
01:27:57,479 --> 01:28:00,760
to five or a forty hour you know, and you're

1303
01:28:00,760 --> 01:28:03,600
not spending a lot of time interacting with people, and

1304
01:28:03,640 --> 01:28:06,840
maybe your only interactions are in the evenings going to

1305
01:28:06,840 --> 01:28:13,319
the grocery or I don't know, going to wal Mart

1306
01:28:13,439 --> 01:28:16,199
or something. Well, if that's the case, what I would

1307
01:28:16,239 --> 01:28:19,239
say is set aside time then to go out and

1308
01:28:19,399 --> 01:28:28,720
find situations where you can meet people and interact. Like

1309
01:28:28,800 --> 01:28:33,800
I said, the coffee shop, or the next time you

1310
01:28:33,880 --> 01:28:37,000
go out to eat, pay attention and see if there's

1311
01:28:37,039 --> 01:28:39,920
a cute waitress next time you come in there to eat,

1312
01:28:40,239 --> 01:28:42,560
maybe try to get her to be your waitress. Maybe

1313
01:28:42,640 --> 01:28:46,319
you strike up a conversation with a waitress I don't know,

1314
01:28:46,399 --> 01:28:48,600
Like do people not do this. I know that when

1315
01:28:48,600 --> 01:28:51,640
I was single back in my twenties and thirties, I

1316
01:28:51,760 --> 01:28:58,159
probably had throughout those decades ten dates with waitresses. I mean,

1317
01:28:58,840 --> 01:29:01,359
if you are out in look and you have a

1318
01:29:01,399 --> 01:29:06,359
cute waitress, start talking to her. Don't do this. However,

1319
01:29:06,439 --> 01:29:09,720
if you if you're trying to spit game at a waitress,

1320
01:29:10,119 --> 01:29:14,159
don't be a dork and crazy tip her because that

1321
01:29:14,239 --> 01:29:21,800
looks weird and needy. Tip her in a normal way. Okay, uh.

1322
01:29:21,840 --> 01:29:27,560
And because the reason I say that is, like, let's

1323
01:29:27,560 --> 01:29:31,720
say you're a dude who's not asked out a girl before,

1324
01:29:31,840 --> 01:29:34,199
you're scared or whatever you're The next time you're at

1325
01:29:34,239 --> 01:29:35,960
a restaurant, you have a cute waitress. You and your

1326
01:29:36,000 --> 01:29:38,239
buddy are out eating. You tell your buddy, as she's

1327
01:29:38,319 --> 01:29:40,800
kind of cute. Your buddy says, talk to her.

1328
01:29:40,800 --> 01:29:40,960
Speaker 2: Man.

1329
01:29:41,039 --> 01:29:43,479
Speaker 1: So you strike up a conversation and you're gonna ask

1330
01:29:43,520 --> 01:29:46,159
her out, and she says, I don't know, I'll think

1331
01:29:46,159 --> 01:29:47,800
about it, and then she goes back to wring up

1332
01:29:47,800 --> 01:29:50,600
your tab and then I'm gonna leave her fifty dollars

1333
01:29:50,640 --> 01:29:53,760
to show her that I like her. No, no, no,

1334
01:29:54,119 --> 01:29:59,000
don't do that. Leave her just a normal tip, all right,

1335
01:30:00,119 --> 01:30:05,479
and yes, you should follow the standard device of something

1336
01:30:05,560 --> 01:30:09,279
like the movie Swingers. Do not call her the day

1337
01:30:09,319 --> 01:30:12,840
that you get the number, dummy. I know this sounds

1338
01:30:12,920 --> 01:30:15,479
kind of common sense, but if you just met your

1339
01:30:15,520 --> 01:30:18,600
waitress and you're talking about going out on a date,

1340
01:30:19,520 --> 01:30:23,439
do not text her that day or call her that day.

1341
01:30:23,560 --> 01:30:30,680
You wait a while. And dudes, do not text walls

1342
01:30:30,720 --> 01:30:35,680
of text. Okay. When I get dudes that text at

1343
01:30:35,840 --> 01:30:38,760
me walls of text, number one, I don't read it.

1344
01:30:39,279 --> 01:30:50,640
Number two, it's feminine. Dudes text dude ways. Okay. Dudes,

1345
01:30:50,680 --> 01:30:54,319
don't use a bunch of emojis. Sometimes you can do

1346
01:30:54,319 --> 01:30:55,760
it if you're in a hurry or something and that's

1347
01:30:55,800 --> 01:30:59,760
your friend or your mom. Okay, like I reply to

1348
01:30:59,840 --> 01:31:02,399
him my mom with a thumbs up emoji or something. Okay,

1349
01:31:02,399 --> 01:31:05,239
that's fine. But like, if you're trying to meet a

1350
01:31:05,279 --> 01:31:10,039
girl and set up a date or something, don't text

1351
01:31:10,119 --> 01:31:13,079
her a bunch of emojis and weird shit. It's just no,

1352
01:31:13,399 --> 01:31:18,159
don't do that. These are like number one, no nos,

1353
01:31:18,600 --> 01:31:22,800
storm the cat five dollars. I saw coyote yesterday. Oh damn,

1354
01:31:23,640 --> 01:31:27,760
I thought he was talking about coyote. Ugly Vane five dollars.

1355
01:31:28,000 --> 01:31:31,199
So I cannot prece up my grandmother's epistemic assumptions or

1356
01:31:31,199 --> 01:31:33,319
my girlfriend or excuse me, I misheard that I cannot

1357
01:31:33,319 --> 01:31:37,199
prece up the epistemic assumptions of my first date. If

1358
01:31:37,239 --> 01:31:39,359
you want to ensure that there's not a second date,

1359
01:31:39,720 --> 01:31:43,119
then yes, Gabeka five dollars. What is a good horror

1360
01:31:43,199 --> 01:31:45,640
movie to watch for, say, a second or third date?

1361
01:31:46,159 --> 01:31:49,640
My wife and I watched The Possession and it was bad.

1362
01:31:50,359 --> 01:31:56,800
We are married, though, Uh, a horror movie for second

1363
01:31:56,920 --> 01:32:07,760
or third date? What not? Yet? There's quite a few

1364
01:32:07,800 --> 01:32:10,239
super chats. I haven't gotten to them all yet, so

1365
01:32:10,399 --> 01:32:13,000
Jamie's trying to tell me to not forget super There's

1366
01:32:13,239 --> 01:32:15,920
a bunch of them. I have not forgetting them. Let

1367
01:32:15,960 --> 01:32:22,520
me think, let's see horror movies. Let's see a good,

1368
01:32:22,800 --> 01:32:27,920
uh scary movie for a second or third date. I

1369
01:32:27,960 --> 01:32:36,520
did not like Oddity Substance was gross. Uh, Apartment seven

1370
01:32:36,560 --> 01:32:39,479
A was not bad. That could be a decent date movie.

1371
01:32:39,880 --> 01:32:44,720
Nos Ferrati was gross, Misery the Menu was a little

1372
01:32:44,760 --> 01:32:49,720
too weird. Hereditary is a pretty good horror movie, but

1373
01:32:50,039 --> 01:32:53,119
it might also be a little too much for second

1374
01:32:53,239 --> 01:33:00,600
or third date. MM there haven't been very many good

1375
01:33:01,479 --> 01:33:03,640
Cabin in the Woods would be a good one. Cavin

1376
01:33:03,680 --> 01:33:07,279
the Woods is pretty good movie. I liked Y two K,

1377
01:33:07,479 --> 01:33:12,359
so if you're interested in nineties culture, two thousands of culture,

1378
01:33:13,039 --> 01:33:16,439
I thought Y two K was funny. Kyle Mooney is

1379
01:33:16,479 --> 01:33:21,119
like the best last thing from Saturday Night Live. That's

1380
01:33:21,159 --> 01:33:25,920
still funny, and most of Kyle skits are pretty funny.

1381
01:33:25,960 --> 01:33:31,119
I think he's really good comedic writer. Jamie and I

1382
01:33:31,199 --> 01:33:34,039
laughed at it. We thought it was pretty like horror comedy.

1383
01:33:34,600 --> 01:33:37,079
The Hunt was actually better than I thought. That's a

1384
01:33:37,119 --> 01:33:42,159
decent horror movie. Cavin in the Woods. Nick Cage's Arcadian

1385
01:33:42,279 --> 01:33:45,279
was a decent horror movie. Long Legs there you go

1386
01:33:46,039 --> 01:33:51,479
watch Long Legs. There's a great horror movie for second

1387
01:33:51,560 --> 01:34:02,920
or third date. So interesting, interesting question, Lumbago five bucks.

1388
01:34:04,600 --> 01:34:08,199
I think a lot of guys overthink how to start improving.

1389
01:34:08,880 --> 01:34:10,479
I think you're right. I don't think you have to

1390
01:34:10,680 --> 01:34:13,760
overthink this, right, Like a lot of the basics that

1391
01:34:13,800 --> 01:34:17,560
we're talking about, they're kind of common sense, right, Like

1392
01:34:18,800 --> 01:34:24,119
fixed your fucked up teeth, Uh, don't be fat, don't stank,

1393
01:34:24,960 --> 01:34:29,079
don't stank, like I ass be fun and care free,

1394
01:34:29,119 --> 01:34:33,000
and aloof like, these are some basics. Don't dress like

1395
01:34:33,000 --> 01:34:37,960
an am slob or a kid, and we're gonna look

1396
01:34:38,000 --> 01:34:40,680
at the worst elements of the worst archetype here. In

1397
01:34:40,680 --> 01:34:42,800
a second, I got a whole list of all the

1398
01:34:42,840 --> 01:34:47,520
stuff to avoid, and we're almost done with the archetypes.

1399
01:34:47,600 --> 01:34:50,920
We'll see that I have any more archetypes. I don't

1400
01:34:50,920 --> 01:34:55,600
think so. Now we got a huge super chat every

1401
01:34:55,680 --> 01:34:58,560
day I'm struggling in. Every day I'm struggling in. He

1402
01:34:58,640 --> 01:35:03,840
sends a four hundred dollars super chat. Jay, I'm going

1403
01:35:03,920 --> 01:35:06,520
in for a callback audition to be a lead in

1404
01:35:06,560 --> 01:35:11,239
a movie opposite John turturo Ah. Yeah, this this man

1405
01:35:11,359 --> 01:35:15,199
right here, he's he's rolling Big Baby. I hope you

1406
01:35:15,199 --> 01:35:18,039
get a dog. I've been an actor for eight years,

1407
01:35:18,840 --> 01:35:22,319
but I am becoming orthodox this pasca. Hey man, that's amazing.

1408
01:35:22,359 --> 01:35:24,920
That's great to hear. This would be my first job

1409
01:35:25,000 --> 01:35:27,800
post conversion. Do you have any advice on how to

1410
01:35:27,920 --> 01:35:34,840
spiritually prepare? Quote all of John Tarturoau's lines from Big

1411
01:35:34,920 --> 01:35:38,359
Lebowski right back at him. I'm saying, that's kind of

1412
01:35:38,520 --> 01:35:43,920
weird shit. I would do. How to spiritually prepare for

1413
01:35:45,760 --> 01:35:53,000
a callback audition for a big lead role. I'll tell

1414
01:35:53,000 --> 01:35:55,720
you what my favorite thing is for all those types

1415
01:35:55,760 --> 01:35:58,279
of spiritual preparations. And I'm not your spiritual father, so

1416
01:35:58,319 --> 01:36:01,359
I can't give you a spiritual rights. But my favorite thing,

1417
01:36:01,760 --> 01:36:05,039
bar none, for any kind of spiritual prep is just

1418
01:36:05,079 --> 01:36:08,720
simply to pray the psalms. That's it. And if it's

1419
01:36:08,720 --> 01:36:11,600
something big and heavy, I would pray a lot of psalms.

1420
01:36:12,399 --> 01:36:15,319
That's it. This is sort of in line with your

1421
01:36:15,399 --> 01:36:21,199
comment of corresponding virtues to vices. Yeah, yeah, man, fall

1422
01:36:21,239 --> 01:36:27,560
in love with praying the psalms, Crypto Crusader, But thank

1423
01:36:27,560 --> 01:36:30,720
you so much for that massive fat super Jeby the way,

1424
01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:34,439
Crypto Crusader, two dollars. How many dates do I wait

1425
01:36:34,720 --> 01:36:38,359
until I presup her? Never? I'm just kidding. It depends

1426
01:36:38,600 --> 01:36:44,840
like you could do this theoretically in a playful way.

1427
01:36:45,760 --> 01:36:48,359
Let me give an example where you could do this.

1428
01:36:48,479 --> 01:36:55,600
So previously, way before I ever knew Jamie or anything

1429
01:36:55,640 --> 01:37:02,119
like this, I dated a girl who was Catholic but

1430
01:37:02,319 --> 01:37:05,479
was interested in becoming an evangelical. When we met, right so,

1431
01:37:05,520 --> 01:37:11,439
she had been attending an evangelical church, and we went

1432
01:37:11,520 --> 01:37:15,520
on several dates, and I met her at a coffee shop. Okay,

1433
01:37:15,600 --> 01:37:18,640
so again, this is just a memory that I have

1434
01:37:18,800 --> 01:37:22,319
of one way that guys could meet girls, not in

1435
01:37:22,399 --> 01:37:25,760
a bar setting, but in a more innocent day setting. Right.

1436
01:37:26,800 --> 01:37:30,520
I remember walking into a Starbucks one day with no

1437
01:37:30,600 --> 01:37:33,199
intention other than to just get a coffee and read

1438
01:37:33,279 --> 01:37:36,399
my Bible. And I met her that day through striking

1439
01:37:36,479 --> 01:37:38,439
up a conversation because I was reading my Bible in

1440
01:37:38,880 --> 01:37:42,359
the coffee shop, and so we were not right for

1441
01:37:42,399 --> 01:37:44,359
each other. That was not who I was supposed to

1442
01:37:44,399 --> 01:37:46,199
be with. And thank god, we didn't get married, but

1443
01:37:46,840 --> 01:37:50,399
we did have a four year relationship after that. And

1444
01:37:51,359 --> 01:37:53,720
what happened in that case was I was able to

1445
01:37:54,279 --> 01:37:58,079
get her eventually interested in Orthodoxy. So even though I

1446
01:37:58,119 --> 01:38:00,960
didn't become Orthodox at that time, ended up being Orthodox,

1447
01:38:01,239 --> 01:38:03,920
and that ended up being perfect for her. She found

1448
01:38:03,960 --> 01:38:06,720
the right Orthodox man for her later on down the road,

1449
01:38:07,359 --> 01:38:12,439
and that all happened perfectly into buying providence. But in

1450
01:38:12,520 --> 01:38:16,359
that case, I was able to gradually sort of move

1451
01:38:16,399 --> 01:38:20,720
her in the direction of the theological position that I believed,

1452
01:38:21,000 --> 01:38:25,239
loosely speaking right or was moving towards. So I think

1453
01:38:25,319 --> 01:38:29,359
what can happen in these scenarios is, let's say you're

1454
01:38:29,359 --> 01:38:32,279
a young guy and you meet a girl who's a Baptist. Okay,

1455
01:38:32,279 --> 01:38:34,039
a lot of these young nerdys.

1456
01:38:33,960 --> 01:38:36,640
Speaker 3: I will do hear she's a Baptist, she's a heretic, dude.

1457
01:38:36,680 --> 01:38:39,560
Speaker 1: Come on, all you got to do is think about

1458
01:38:39,680 --> 01:38:45,239
if you're a strong, reasoned, masculine leader, you can bring

1459
01:38:45,319 --> 01:38:50,159
her towards orthodoxy and if over a span of time

1460
01:38:50,319 --> 01:38:53,640
she refuses, well then you can move on. But like

1461
01:38:53,760 --> 01:38:56,079
to throw everything out from the get go. I've heard

1462
01:38:56,079 --> 01:38:58,960
a lot of dudes in the last say two years,

1463
01:39:00,359 --> 01:39:04,039
younger dudes, right. I hear them saying stuff like, oh,

1464
01:39:04,119 --> 01:39:06,800
I can't go out to the gym because the girls

1465
01:39:07,359 --> 01:39:09,720
are wearing tight clothes, and then I can't go there,

1466
01:39:09,760 --> 01:39:12,039
and I don't go there because the girls there are

1467
01:39:12,079 --> 01:39:16,720
this and that. So there's all these excuses, and in

1468
01:39:16,760 --> 01:39:20,199
their mind it's just kind of like a way to

1469
01:39:20,279 --> 01:39:23,880
check out. And well everywhere is evil and all the

1470
01:39:23,920 --> 01:39:25,680
places are bad and all the girls are evil, and

1471
01:39:25,720 --> 01:39:29,319
so I am I am excused, and there's no I

1472
01:39:29,359 --> 01:39:33,800
don't have to I'm just there's no good girls. It's like, okay,

1473
01:39:33,840 --> 01:39:37,880
but this can't be the case, right, I mean, it

1474
01:39:38,039 --> 01:39:44,079
just can't. Like there have to be cute waitresses, cute

1475
01:39:44,079 --> 01:39:49,039
Baptist girls, cute baristas, cute check out people. Okay, that

1476
01:39:49,159 --> 01:39:52,600
has to still exist, right, We're not in the total

1477
01:39:54,159 --> 01:39:59,600
Fema dystopia yet, Right, it's not that bad yet. Maybe

1478
01:39:59,600 --> 01:40:04,640
we're not far from that, but come on, seriously, I

1479
01:40:04,760 --> 01:40:06,680
just I find it hard to believe that it's that

1480
01:40:06,880 --> 01:40:09,039
bad to where and a lot of these guys are

1481
01:40:09,039 --> 01:40:11,479
just making up excuses because they want to be you know,

1482
01:40:11,640 --> 01:40:14,239
lazy or whatever. Like somebody was saying, Oh, I can't

1483
01:40:14,239 --> 01:40:15,960
go to the gym to meet a girl or talk

1484
01:40:15,960 --> 01:40:20,159
to a girl because I'm at the gym girls wear

1485
01:40:20,239 --> 01:40:23,479
tight clothes. And it's like, well, dude, I mean, we're

1486
01:40:23,479 --> 01:40:26,479
in this weird culture where you're not going to find

1487
01:40:27,319 --> 01:40:31,760
a Bay's trad wife at the gym to begin with. Okay,

1488
01:40:31,840 --> 01:40:34,159
you're probably not going to find a Bays trad wife,

1489
01:40:34,359 --> 01:40:41,399
especially not out there in the wild. Okay, So the

1490
01:40:41,439 --> 01:40:46,560
best bet for young dudes is to find a somewhat

1491
01:40:46,600 --> 01:40:50,039
pious Baptist or Evangelical girl, or even a Catholic girl

1492
01:40:50,039 --> 01:40:54,239
and convert her. And if you're a decent enough dude

1493
01:40:54,239 --> 01:40:57,239
who knows this stuff, you can do that. I don't

1494
01:40:57,279 --> 01:41:00,439
mean through debating with her. That's not how parents and

1495
01:41:00,439 --> 01:41:03,159
girlfriends convert. What have we been telling you guys forever?

1496
01:41:03,279 --> 01:41:06,039
Don't debate your parents? Well, guess what rule number two?

1497
01:41:06,159 --> 01:41:10,520
Don't debate your girlfriend or your perspective date. Do not

1498
01:41:10,560 --> 01:41:13,600
talk about theology on your first date. Do not talk

1499
01:41:13,640 --> 01:41:18,159
about conspiracies on your first date unless you want to

1500
01:41:18,199 --> 01:41:21,159
not have a second date. And I'm like, I'm halfway

1501
01:41:21,199 --> 01:41:24,119
being tongue in cheek, like, if you don't like this

1502
01:41:24,159 --> 01:41:26,560
girl and you want out of it, then maybe you

1503
01:41:26,560 --> 01:41:30,840
should talk about conspiracies and theology because most likely then

1504
01:41:30,880 --> 01:41:32,880
it's an easy out. You won't have to talk about

1505
01:41:33,640 --> 01:41:35,600
you won't have to have a second date or planet

1506
01:41:35,720 --> 01:41:40,159
you will not be interested easily. Okay, But I'm saying

1507
01:41:40,159 --> 01:41:43,079
this because I'm telling you, guys, I've talked to a

1508
01:41:43,079 --> 01:41:45,600
lot of young dudes in the last two years, and

1509
01:41:45,640 --> 01:41:47,399
I know how they're thinking, and I know all the

1510
01:41:47,439 --> 01:41:49,720
excuses that they're making and all the stuff they're saying.

1511
01:41:50,920 --> 01:42:00,600
There's no movie gruels. Well, I know in the Bible

1512
01:42:00,640 --> 01:42:08,720
Belt there's a ton of Baptist evangelical girls, so well,

1513
01:42:08,760 --> 01:42:13,880
Ken Vernon, dude, what are you talking about Okay, I

1514
01:42:13,880 --> 01:42:23,159
think we've got our archetypes. I had one more archetype. Yeah,

1515
01:42:23,239 --> 01:42:24,760
one more archetype, and then we're going to go to

1516
01:42:24,800 --> 01:42:26,720
this thing. So we do not want to be Jerry.

1517
01:42:26,760 --> 01:42:30,079
Oh the other thing with Jerry from Conspiracy Theory, this

1518
01:42:30,159 --> 01:42:35,319
is a super spurggy beta, although ironically Jerry is actually

1519
01:42:35,439 --> 01:42:38,359
kind of an alpha, but he's like traumatized and so

1520
01:42:38,479 --> 01:42:41,239
he's beta. I think by the end of the movie

1521
01:42:41,279 --> 01:42:42,920
we think, you know, he kind of gets healed. But

1522
01:42:43,680 --> 01:42:47,600
don't be mel Gibson from Conspiracy Theory. Be Mel Gibson

1523
01:42:47,640 --> 01:42:52,760
from Braveheart. Right again, these are kind of obvious characteristics

1524
01:42:52,760 --> 01:42:58,720
of a masculine hero archetype right back when Hollywood made

1525
01:42:58,840 --> 01:43:05,880
somewhat masculine type hero movies, right Obviously, mel Gibson made

1526
01:43:05,880 --> 01:43:08,479
probably the best one with Braveheart, one of the best movies.

1527
01:43:10,159 --> 01:43:15,840
They don't really make movies like this anymore, obviously, But yeah,

1528
01:43:15,880 --> 01:43:24,359
he's a noble, heroic masculine fighting stands up to corruption.

1529
01:43:25,399 --> 01:43:29,159
Pretty much all the classic masculine archetypes.

1530
01:43:29,239 --> 01:43:29,319
Speaker 2: Right.

1531
01:43:29,359 --> 01:43:34,319
Speaker 1: I can't think of a better movie dude archetype to

1532
01:43:34,319 --> 01:43:38,640
shoot for. Right, and remember, in the case of our

1533
01:43:38,680 --> 01:43:42,079
examples of James Bond. There was just certain characteristics that

1534
01:43:42,119 --> 01:43:44,479
we wanted to pull from Bond, not every characteristic.

1535
01:43:44,640 --> 01:43:44,760
Speaker 2: Right.

1536
01:43:44,840 --> 01:43:49,279
Speaker 1: We don't want Bond in the sense of the completely empty,

1537
01:43:49,359 --> 01:43:55,439
nihilistic psychopath. Okay, that's not ultimately going to serve you

1538
01:43:56,279 --> 01:44:00,600
in the long run, all right. We don't want the

1539
01:44:01,239 --> 01:44:06,479
lackadaisical drunkenness, say of Jack Sparrow. Right, So there's bad

1540
01:44:06,560 --> 01:44:10,079
sides to these characters. In the case of Mel Gibson's

1541
01:44:10,079 --> 01:44:13,680
portrayal of William Wallace, there's not really many bad qualities.

1542
01:44:13,720 --> 01:44:17,119
He's pretty much the ultimate sort of hero. The men

1543
01:44:17,199 --> 01:44:21,199
look up to him. I can't remember does he sleep

1544
01:44:21,239 --> 01:44:23,680
with the French chick I'm trying to think of he

1545
01:44:23,920 --> 01:44:26,880
even has any Maybe he's a little too much of

1546
01:44:26,920 --> 01:44:29,039
a hero, right, Maybe that's the only criticism is like

1547
01:44:29,680 --> 01:44:31,359
I can't remember if he sleeps with Sophie mare.

1548
01:44:31,319 --> 01:44:31,760
Speaker 2: So or not.

1549
01:44:31,880 --> 01:44:35,000
Speaker 1: But we'll give him a pass because you know, he's

1550
01:44:35,079 --> 01:44:42,600
like the ultimate sort of alpha dude. And then, oh,

1551
01:44:42,680 --> 01:44:46,760
last archetype. We got a couple comparisons here, right, So

1552
01:44:51,359 --> 01:44:56,479
Lloyd Dobbler and Lloyd is a good one because if

1553
01:44:56,520 --> 01:45:02,520
you've never seen say anything, you should say it's number one,

1554
01:45:03,039 --> 01:45:07,960
Cameron Crow classic eighties movie. And what's interesting, as I've

1555
01:45:07,960 --> 01:45:10,640
thought about this for a long time, is that John

1556
01:45:10,680 --> 01:45:16,039
Cusac's character is actually totally Sigma if you think about it. Right.

1557
01:45:16,560 --> 01:45:19,079
First of all, he doesn't care at all about what

1558
01:45:19,159 --> 01:45:22,359
anyone else in high school thinks. He's totally himself. He's

1559
01:45:22,439 --> 01:45:25,760
not interested in the stuff that the rest of the

1560
01:45:25,840 --> 01:45:28,800
high school people are into. He's not a jock. However,

1561
01:45:29,079 --> 01:45:33,159
he's super fit and he's into MMA before anyone else.

1562
01:45:33,279 --> 01:45:37,159
This is way before MMA, and you know Brazilian jiu

1563
01:45:37,239 --> 01:45:40,840
jitsu and fighting, and Lloyd wants to be a kickboxer,

1564
01:45:41,199 --> 01:45:45,520
which is very out of the norm for the eighties, right.

1565
01:45:47,239 --> 01:45:50,600
But there's one problem with Lloyd, and Lloyd's one mistake.

1566
01:45:51,279 --> 01:45:56,520
Even though he's a natural Sigma dude, he's confident, he's

1567
01:45:56,600 --> 01:46:03,359
fun he's funny, he's carefree. But when he meets Iona

1568
01:46:03,439 --> 01:46:09,800
Sky and falls for her, right, she becomes everything to him,

1569
01:46:10,479 --> 01:46:13,399
to the extent that he's then willing to change all

1570
01:46:13,439 --> 01:46:18,800
of his future plans to follow her to England. That

1571
01:46:18,960 --> 01:46:24,760
is Lloyd's major, massive mistake, right, He changes his career

1572
01:46:24,800 --> 01:46:28,760
plans for her, his whole future for her. So although

1573
01:46:28,800 --> 01:46:31,920
he's been super And by the way, the other thing,

1574
01:46:32,000 --> 01:46:35,560
as you guys know, is that he, in order to

1575
01:46:35,600 --> 01:46:39,800
try to get her back, does the infamous, famous, one

1576
01:46:39,800 --> 01:46:42,600
of the most famous movie scenes of all time, right

1577
01:46:44,039 --> 01:46:48,960
standing outside her window with a giant boombox playing in

1578
01:46:49,000 --> 01:46:56,600
your eyes by Peter Gabriel. Okay, this is only in Hollywood. Okay,

1579
01:46:57,880 --> 01:47:00,720
if you are outside of a girl's window with a

1580
01:47:00,760 --> 01:47:04,880
boombox trying to get her back, you've already lost. No,

1581
01:47:05,159 --> 01:47:08,000
this is only in movie world. Does this exist? Okay?

1582
01:47:09,760 --> 01:47:15,279
And so Lloyd is actually a great archetypal Sigma character

1583
01:47:16,359 --> 01:47:22,520
who loses all of his sigma is by completely changing

1584
01:47:22,560 --> 01:47:26,079
from being the guy that Iona Skuy originally likes. Right

1585
01:47:26,159 --> 01:47:30,479
because she's this preppy valedictorian chick who is supposed to like,

1586
01:47:30,680 --> 01:47:33,800
you know, the jock or the valedictorian dude or whatever.

1587
01:47:34,279 --> 01:47:37,880
She's going to some fancy private prep school or whatever.

1588
01:47:38,199 --> 01:47:43,840
You know, she's not supposed to like Lloyd Dobbler. But

1589
01:47:44,000 --> 01:47:47,880
all the traits that Lloyd has that she likes, he

1590
01:47:47,960 --> 01:47:52,760
eventually sacrifices and loses them all. And I think at

1591
01:47:52,760 --> 01:47:55,680
the end of the film, when you see Lloyd on

1592
01:47:55,760 --> 01:47:59,159
the plane with her we kind of get the impression

1593
01:47:59,199 --> 01:48:01,600
that this is not going to work out because he's

1594
01:48:01,640 --> 01:48:05,239
basically surrendered and given away all the things that she

1595
01:48:05,399 --> 01:48:14,680
liked about him. Do not be the Sigma who loses

1596
01:48:14,840 --> 01:48:21,479
his riz and becomes some sort of It's almost like

1597
01:48:21,560 --> 01:48:24,640
he's worshiping It's like an idolatry. It's like he's worshiping

1598
01:48:25,119 --> 01:48:29,520
the Sigma to simp pipeline exactly, it's exactly what is

1599
01:48:29,560 --> 01:48:40,000
the tragedy of Lloyd Dobbler. Okay, last archetype we did? No,

1600
01:48:40,039 --> 01:48:42,119
we got? I think we got all those? No? Oh,

1601
01:48:42,199 --> 01:48:49,399
last one. Yes. If you've not seen this movie, I

1602
01:48:49,439 --> 01:48:53,359
do recommend it for dudes. It is not an easy movie.

1603
01:48:53,399 --> 01:48:56,560
It is hard to watch movie, but it is worth watching.

1604
01:48:57,920 --> 01:49:01,359
And it is Blue Valentine. Maybe some of you have

1605
01:49:01,399 --> 01:49:03,239
seen it or heard of it. And we're going to

1606
01:49:03,319 --> 01:49:11,680
contrast two different versions of Ryan Gosling. Okay, blue Velvet. Now,

1607
01:49:12,239 --> 01:49:15,720
the Ryan Gosling Blue Velvet is not a you don't

1608
01:49:15,760 --> 01:49:21,640
hate the guy, right, He's this sort of super kind, generous,

1609
01:49:21,960 --> 01:49:26,119
hipster guy who actually has some talents. He's kind of

1610
01:49:26,119 --> 01:49:29,640
a fun, funny guy, and he has this crush on

1611
01:49:29,720 --> 01:49:33,960
Michelle Williams and you know, he does this thing here

1612
01:49:33,960 --> 01:49:36,840
where he stands outside the shop she works at, and

1613
01:49:36,880 --> 01:49:40,000
he's come up with this little ditty where he's flirting

1614
01:49:40,039 --> 01:49:43,560
with her and trying to get her to go out

1615
01:49:43,600 --> 01:49:46,600
because he's written this little serenade on a ukulele. Right,

1616
01:49:47,600 --> 01:49:50,279
And I mean, okay, maybe in the two thousands this

1617
01:49:50,319 --> 01:49:53,199
would have worked on some kind of like city hipster girl,

1618
01:49:53,279 --> 01:49:56,600
but like, don't do anything like this nowadays. This would

1619
01:49:56,640 --> 01:49:59,319
never work. So guys, don't treat this like some kind

1620
01:49:59,359 --> 01:50:02,279
of sperg So experiment where you're gonna go sing some

1621
01:50:02,439 --> 01:50:04,600
gay song in a ukulele to a chick. She'll just

1622
01:50:04,600 --> 01:50:07,680
think you're crazy and call the police. So only in

1623
01:50:07,680 --> 01:50:11,680
the twenty ten's in a hipster city setting would this

1624
01:50:11,800 --> 01:50:16,039
maybe work anyway, So this sends up. I'm not gonna

1625
01:50:16,039 --> 01:50:19,920
spoil the movie because they end up being together and

1626
01:50:19,960 --> 01:50:27,600
they have a long relationship. But like, let me put

1627
01:50:27,640 --> 01:50:31,880
this in a way more extreme version of Lloyd Dobbler,

1628
01:50:32,840 --> 01:50:36,399
and I wouldn't. I would not class Ryan Gosling's character

1629
01:50:36,479 --> 01:50:40,399
in this movie as alpha or Sigma at all. He's

1630
01:50:40,560 --> 01:50:45,880
a decent enough hipster dude, but the problem is that

1631
01:50:46,399 --> 01:50:51,560
he becomes ultimate beta cent and that's what the movie

1632
01:50:51,680 --> 01:50:55,159
is about. Hence it's a blue Valentine and not a Valentine.

1633
01:50:55,640 --> 01:50:59,239
It's a sad Valentine. And I'm gonna tell you to

1634
01:50:59,279 --> 01:51:04,520
watch it because as a dude, everything that he does

1635
01:51:05,399 --> 01:51:08,479
is the wrong move. That's why this movie is instructive.

1636
01:51:08,880 --> 01:51:10,720
And I remember watching it when it came out, and

1637
01:51:10,760 --> 01:51:12,600
I was like, I'll never forget this movie. This is

1638
01:51:12,640 --> 01:51:15,479
a very instructive movie, even if they didn't intend it

1639
01:51:15,520 --> 01:51:21,079
to be instructive, Like, this movie ends up being very instructive.

1640
01:51:22,920 --> 01:51:28,279
And like, I'm not gonna say what happens because you

1641
01:51:28,319 --> 01:51:31,920
need to watch it. But like, although you feel for

1642
01:51:32,039 --> 01:51:35,159
Ryan Gosling as he's making every one of these mistakes,

1643
01:51:36,680 --> 01:51:40,079
and although what Michelle Williams does is not right, it's

1644
01:51:40,159 --> 01:51:46,920
kind of like, bro, yes she did. You're wrong, but

1645
01:51:48,279 --> 01:51:53,760
you did everything possible to make it worse. You see

1646
01:51:53,800 --> 01:51:59,479
what I'm saying. Did I cry? No? I didn't cry

1647
01:51:59,479 --> 01:52:06,880
about Ryan Gosling losing his girlfriend, But uh, that's funny.

1648
01:52:07,039 --> 01:52:09,600
Blue Valentine is the common trope for guys. What does

1649
01:52:09,600 --> 01:52:11,720
that mean? You mean that's the experience that guys have

1650
01:52:11,960 --> 01:52:21,640
of losing girlfriends. I don't know about that. Yeah, that's

1651
01:52:21,680 --> 01:52:23,760
a good way to put it. AM my Life, Texas.

1652
01:52:23,840 --> 01:52:27,640
That's a good way to put it. It's not a romance,

1653
01:52:27,760 --> 01:52:29,720
So people are missing. This is not a rom com.

1654
01:52:29,800 --> 01:52:34,159
It's not a romance. This is a dark drama. Okay,

1655
01:52:34,199 --> 01:52:38,359
so you guys are misunderstanding. This is not a hipster

1656
01:52:38,600 --> 01:52:41,920
love story. This is a tragedy in like a Shakespearean

1657
01:52:42,279 --> 01:52:47,640
tragedy sense. Okay, Okay, Now we're gonna contrast that with

1658
01:52:47,760 --> 01:52:52,359
a different Ryan Gosling, and this is the Ryan Gosling

1659
01:52:52,479 --> 01:52:58,520
in Drive. Okay, the literal absolute opposite. Drive is a

1660
01:52:58,520 --> 01:53:01,239
great movie. This is what helped to kick off the

1661
01:53:01,399 --> 01:53:04,880
entire synth wave trend, if you remember in the early

1662
01:53:04,960 --> 01:53:09,760
to twenty tens. I'm not a huge fan of Nicholas

1663
01:53:09,800 --> 01:53:16,640
Reffin because he tends to make these nihilistic movies. I

1664
01:53:16,680 --> 01:53:20,000
know a lot of the audience over here is split

1665
01:53:20,119 --> 01:53:26,560
on only God forgives, But I think everybody has to

1666
01:53:26,760 --> 01:53:30,239
agree that Nicholas Refins Drive is a really good movie.

1667
01:53:30,640 --> 01:53:33,960
It's an excellent, excellent movie and probably one of the

1668
01:53:34,039 --> 01:53:39,520
last eras of movies where there was a kind of

1669
01:53:39,560 --> 01:53:43,439
an alpha trend still going on. I mean, I know

1670
01:53:43,479 --> 01:53:51,399
there's John Wick. But John Wick is so almost fantastical

1671
01:53:51,479 --> 01:53:53,560
and fictional that it's not even real, you know what

1672
01:53:53,600 --> 01:53:57,359
I mean. At least, I mean, James Bond is Hollywoodish

1673
01:53:57,399 --> 01:54:00,479
and fantastical, but at least there's a little more reality

1674
01:54:00,560 --> 01:54:02,680
with Bond than there is with Like John john Wick

1675
01:54:02,760 --> 01:54:05,560
is just completely not real. But I mean, I think

1676
01:54:05,840 --> 01:54:12,399
Ryan Gosney's character in Drive is just the exact opposite

1677
01:54:12,680 --> 01:54:17,279
of the character in Blue Valentine. Right, I'm not telling

1678
01:54:17,319 --> 01:54:20,159
you to go be a vigilante, but I'm just saying, like,

1679
01:54:20,159 --> 01:54:22,319
like that dude is just doesn't give a damn right,

1680
01:54:22,439 --> 01:54:29,840
he's he's in Uh. It's funny because who is this

1681
01:54:29,920 --> 01:54:32,199
chicken that's always forget her name? She's like I always

1682
01:54:32,199 --> 01:54:35,680
get her mixed up with Michelle Williams. Who's that girl, Jamie,

1683
01:54:37,000 --> 01:54:39,239
the one that I always get mixed up with Michelle Williams.

1684
01:54:39,279 --> 01:54:42,199
She's actually in Drive. Michelle Williams is in Blue Valentine

1685
01:54:42,239 --> 01:54:45,359
and she's in Drive. But I always forget her name.

1686
01:54:45,479 --> 01:54:49,439
She looks just kind of like her, you know what

1687
01:54:49,479 --> 01:54:53,199
I'm talking about. Anyway, it doesn't matter. It's just funny

1688
01:54:53,199 --> 01:54:57,720
to me that, like in Blue Valentine, he's losing the

1689
01:54:57,840 --> 01:54:59,840
chick that kind of looks exactly like the chick that

1690
01:54:59,880 --> 01:55:06,960
he helping in Drive. Yes, Kerry Mulligan and Michelle Williams,

1691
01:55:07,000 --> 01:55:11,640
I was get that mixed up anyway. Yes, thank you

1692
01:55:11,640 --> 01:55:18,640
guys appreciate that. Yeah, isn't John Wick like a comic

1693
01:55:18,680 --> 01:55:22,039
bookie thing anyway? I mean I'm just saying that, like,

1694
01:55:22,439 --> 01:55:25,359
at least the only action movies I can think of,

1695
01:55:25,560 --> 01:55:29,239
like so you Got, you Got, Jason Statham, The Expendables

1696
01:55:29,800 --> 01:55:35,279
and John Wick, Like that's the last of male action

1697
01:55:35,960 --> 01:55:40,359
hero movies that like, that's it, that's gone, but it

1698
01:55:40,439 --> 01:55:43,600
still existed in twenty tens, and maybe Drive was kind

1699
01:55:43,600 --> 01:55:52,720
of the last of that and kind of in the

1700
01:55:52,760 --> 01:55:56,640
same vein two of the I remember this scene. There's

1701
01:55:56,680 --> 01:55:59,319
a scene in The Recruit which is pretty funny where

1702
01:55:59,800 --> 01:56:02,920
if you never watched, it's worth watching just because it's

1703
01:56:02,960 --> 01:56:05,640
one of the first movies that the CIA openly talked

1704
01:56:05,680 --> 01:56:10,239
about consulting on. And in the movie, when they bring

1705
01:56:10,239 --> 01:56:15,319
the recruits to Langley or into the farm or whatever,

1706
01:56:16,159 --> 01:56:19,279
they have all these training missions and things they have

1707
01:56:19,319 --> 01:56:22,920
to go through. When one of them is that Colin

1708
01:56:23,000 --> 01:56:26,680
Ferrell has to go and learn game and learn to

1709
01:56:26,880 --> 01:56:31,239
interact with and meet women at a bar. And so

1710
01:56:31,840 --> 01:56:34,920
the this is when they're all still in training. This

1711
01:56:34,960 --> 01:56:38,279
is it right here, right, al Pacino says, Okay, your

1712
01:56:38,279 --> 01:56:40,640
mission that they think they're going into some fight or something.

1713
01:56:40,720 --> 01:56:42,279
It's like, oh, your mission is you have to come

1714
01:56:42,279 --> 01:56:44,880
out with a girl's phone number, and they're like what.

1715
01:56:45,760 --> 01:56:48,760
And so again, I know that we're not spies, but

1716
01:56:48,800 --> 01:56:51,840
I'm trying to tell dudes, like, maybe try to think

1717
01:56:51,920 --> 01:56:55,960
of having this kind of a mindset, right, like the

1718
01:56:56,000 --> 01:57:00,640
way that Colin Ferrell's mindset and attitude is in movies

1719
01:57:00,760 --> 01:57:04,880
like The Recruit. Okay, and it's kind of a stupid movie.

1720
01:57:04,920 --> 01:57:09,119
It's worth watching from a geopolitical perspective, but I've always

1721
01:57:09,199 --> 01:57:10,680
just thought it was funny because, by the way I've

1722
01:57:10,720 --> 01:57:12,399
actually read, this is a real thing. Right, So, if

1723
01:57:12,439 --> 01:57:17,279
you actually were recruited into CIA British Intelligence for field operations,

1724
01:57:17,720 --> 01:57:20,279
you do actually have to learn how to go out

1725
01:57:20,359 --> 01:57:28,239
and get a person's phone number, a crazy pimp on

1726
01:57:28,279 --> 01:57:31,199
a propeller one dollar. Do you have thoughts on Mormon

1727
01:57:31,279 --> 01:57:35,239
maxing or Muslim maxing going to Mormon temples and mosques

1728
01:57:35,359 --> 01:57:39,680
to meet women? That does again, why you want to

1729
01:57:39,720 --> 01:57:44,680
do that, go Baptist Max, an Evangelical Max, and if

1730
01:57:44,760 --> 01:57:47,680
you have to, maybe Catholic Max. I would do that

1731
01:57:47,720 --> 01:57:52,279
before going to some damn crazy Mormon Muslim stuff. Vain one,

1732
01:57:52,319 --> 01:57:55,119
women like you if they think you don't give an

1733
01:57:55,279 --> 01:57:58,880
f about them. That's the earlier discussion that we had

1734
01:57:59,000 --> 01:58:04,560
about the archetype of the aloof Captain Jack Sparrow. Right,

1735
01:58:04,640 --> 01:58:06,640
So remember when we were talking about maybe you weren't

1736
01:58:06,640 --> 01:58:08,920
here yet, Vain, but earlier we mentioned some of the

1737
01:58:09,359 --> 01:58:13,359
archetypes from movies that can help us, and one of

1738
01:58:13,359 --> 01:58:16,560
those was some of the characteristics of Jack Sparrow. Obviously,

1739
01:58:16,600 --> 01:58:20,039
not like being a drunk, but the sort of lackadaisical,

1740
01:58:20,119 --> 01:58:26,760
carefree fun aloofness of Jack Sparrow. And your homework, guys

1741
01:58:27,399 --> 01:58:37,479
is to watch Blue Valentine and then contrast that with

1742
01:58:37,800 --> 01:58:43,359
either Ryan Gosling and Drive or Mel Gibson's Brave Heart. Right.

1743
01:58:44,439 --> 01:58:53,000
Contrast these two guys, and it's not rocket science, right. Obviously,

1744
01:58:54,319 --> 01:58:58,720
the Drive or the Mel Gibson is what we want

1745
01:58:58,760 --> 01:59:03,279
to shoot for as a loose guy versus being like

1746
01:59:03,399 --> 01:59:09,399
damn Ryan Gosling and Blue Valentine or even Lloyd Dobbler

1747
01:59:09,439 --> 01:59:12,439
in or Lloyd Dobbler and say anything that's another good one.

1748
01:59:13,359 --> 01:59:19,600
So that's your homework. Now, last thing we're going to

1749
01:59:19,640 --> 01:59:21,479
look at here before we call it a night. This

1750
01:59:21,880 --> 01:59:23,560
went on way longer than I thought it was gonna

1751
01:59:23,600 --> 01:59:28,239
go on. I know we already, so we already talked

1752
01:59:28,239 --> 01:59:32,000
to Dick at the beginning about looks and diet and health. Right,

1753
01:59:32,039 --> 01:59:34,960
So obviously you want to be in the gym. Obviously

1754
01:59:35,000 --> 01:59:39,199
you want to be fixing if you got messed up

1755
01:59:39,479 --> 01:59:45,920
facial features, right, not going crazy with like weird botox

1756
01:59:46,039 --> 01:59:51,479
and whatever crazy stuff, but minimal types of things. If

1757
01:59:51,479 --> 01:59:53,439
you've got something really wrong with you, right, like if

1758
01:59:53,439 --> 01:59:55,880
you got jacked up, messed up teeth or something you

1759
01:59:55,960 --> 01:59:59,359
get you got to get that fixed, hands down. Absolutely.

1760
02:00:03,600 --> 02:00:06,520
And then obviously those are the other things we already covered, right,

1761
02:00:06,560 --> 02:00:08,920
Like we already talked about diet, We talked about you

1762
02:00:08,920 --> 02:00:12,479
got to get fit all that stuff for sure. If

1763
02:00:12,520 --> 02:00:15,600
you're fat, like you don't, you don't you don't have

1764
02:00:15,640 --> 02:00:18,039
to be a bodybuilder. As this chick's gonna point out,

1765
02:00:18,640 --> 02:00:20,560
I remember, if it's this video or some other video,

1766
02:00:21,239 --> 02:00:24,199
like girls are not actually expecting every dude to be

1767
02:00:24,520 --> 02:00:30,199
a super jacked like massive arnold dude. I mean this

1768
02:00:30,760 --> 02:00:33,199
Jamie says it. This chick says it too, and with

1769
02:00:33,199 --> 02:00:37,359
her videos. That's for dudes. I mean, I don't get it.

1770
02:00:37,399 --> 02:00:40,000
Like I think it's nice. It's good to be you know, muscle,

1771
02:00:40,239 --> 02:00:42,720
have muscles and be fit, but like dudes that are

1772
02:00:42,720 --> 02:00:46,199
into being like super jacked, to me, it's weird. I'm

1773
02:00:46,199 --> 02:00:48,439
not into it. Maybe there's some chicks that like that,

1774
02:00:49,800 --> 02:00:53,199
Uh to me, it's like dudes trying to it's like

1775
02:00:53,239 --> 02:00:55,600
a dude, it's dudes and other dudes like that's I

1776
02:00:55,600 --> 02:00:58,880
don't I don't know. That's like like women with shoes.

1777
02:00:59,479 --> 02:01:02,079
Dudes don't care about that. Okay, women are wearing shoes

1778
02:01:02,199 --> 02:01:05,159
so that other women see and shoes talk about shoes,

1779
02:01:05,319 --> 02:01:09,279
like women have a shoe language and universe that guys

1780
02:01:09,319 --> 02:01:12,800
are not in. Okay, we don't know this for dudes

1781
02:01:12,800 --> 02:01:16,560
shoes or shoes and like, but women are like have

1782
02:01:16,680 --> 02:01:22,479
this cryptocurrency language about shoes that just is totally foreign

1783
02:01:22,479 --> 02:01:28,199
to dudes. Likewise, dudes that are like super into being

1784
02:01:28,439 --> 02:01:34,359
megabuff dudes. I don't get it. It's not me, but whatever,

1785
02:01:34,520 --> 02:01:37,239
some dudes and maybe some chicks like that. I don't know,

1786
02:01:39,239 --> 02:01:41,640
I've always found that, as I think she says in

1787
02:01:41,680 --> 02:01:43,079
some of her other videos, I don't even know who

1788
02:01:43,119 --> 02:01:45,319
this woman is. I just happened across our video today

1789
02:01:45,640 --> 02:01:47,680
and I thought this was a good one for the

1790
02:01:47,760 --> 02:01:51,279
young dudes who are wanting to go out on a date.

1791
02:01:51,279 --> 02:01:53,479
They've never asked their girl out. You want to experiment

1792
02:01:53,520 --> 02:01:54,920
with this, You've got to do it. You got to

1793
02:01:54,960 --> 02:01:57,760
get over your fears. Well, one thing that's going to

1794
02:01:57,840 --> 02:02:00,560
help you is, as we mentioned, women are really good

1795
02:02:00,640 --> 02:02:06,439
at knowing and seeing micro expressions, right, And we're not

1796
02:02:06,479 --> 02:02:09,760
gonna be spurgs about this, Okay. The point of this

1797
02:02:09,840 --> 02:02:13,359
is not to get you over analyzing and obsessing on

1798
02:02:13,600 --> 02:02:16,399
like how the girl is moving her hands and where

1799
02:02:16,399 --> 02:02:18,800
did she place herself? Where did she? Is she leaning

1800
02:02:18,840 --> 02:02:21,279
in or is she leaning away from me? Is she like?

1801
02:02:21,439 --> 02:02:25,159
Don't spurg about this, but there are going to be

1802
02:02:25,399 --> 02:02:31,000
indicators that girls naturally do as part of their biology

1803
02:02:31,000 --> 02:02:34,640
as females, where they will indicate to you that they

1804
02:02:34,640 --> 02:02:39,439
are interested in you. And guys don't really think this way.

1805
02:02:39,600 --> 02:02:41,720
So a lot of guys don't know about this, and

1806
02:02:41,720 --> 02:02:44,359
that's why it's helpful to actually understand this. This is

1807
02:02:44,359 --> 02:02:46,720
actually something I've actually read quite a bit about. I

1808
02:02:46,760 --> 02:02:50,560
do know about this topic, and there are actual studies

1809
02:02:50,560 --> 02:02:53,239
on this. This has actually been studied at a biological

1810
02:02:53,319 --> 02:02:58,880
level universally that females, whether human or even other species,

1811
02:02:59,199 --> 02:03:03,039
they will actually do certain bodily movements and actions to

1812
02:03:03,279 --> 02:03:09,880
indicate interest and approval for the opposite sex. Now, I

1813
02:03:09,920 --> 02:03:12,600
know that for women, you're like, uh, guys don't know this.

1814
02:03:13,680 --> 02:03:17,520
Guys don't know this. Girls, you inhabit a different world

1815
02:03:17,520 --> 02:03:21,560
from dudes, and a lot of guys don't know this.

1816
02:03:23,239 --> 02:03:28,520
For example, an easy one, Let's say you're on a

1817
02:03:28,600 --> 02:03:31,119
date with a girl and it's the first date and

1818
02:03:31,159 --> 02:03:35,640
you guys are talking. If she's laughing and smiling and

1819
02:03:35,920 --> 02:03:40,079
playing with her hair, that is a universal immediate signal

1820
02:03:40,399 --> 02:03:43,399
that she's interested in you. Does that mean that like

1821
02:03:43,479 --> 02:03:47,479
your soulmates? Okay, we're not some kind of weird internet

1822
02:03:47,520 --> 02:03:49,960
cult twin flames crap, No we're not. We're not talking

1823
02:03:50,000 --> 02:03:55,119
about that. They're just indicators that there is a bodily

1824
02:03:55,239 --> 02:03:58,319
expression of what's internal and going on, that she does

1825
02:03:58,399 --> 02:04:01,760
find you interesting, find you track, and she likes having

1826
02:04:01,800 --> 02:04:06,279
the conversation with you. Right if her body posture was

1827
02:04:06,359 --> 02:04:13,159
like removed and cold and static, right, that might indicate

1828
02:04:13,199 --> 02:04:16,600
that she's not interested in you. If you are telling

1829
02:04:16,640 --> 02:04:21,960
a story and you rest your hands and she intentionally

1830
02:04:22,000 --> 02:04:27,079
reaches out and touches your hand, those are signs that

1831
02:04:27,119 --> 02:04:29,840
she perhaps is interested in you. Now, some people are

1832
02:04:29,880 --> 02:04:33,319
just very friendly, so it might not necessarily mean.

1833
02:04:33,800 --> 02:04:38,079
Speaker 3: Okay, that she likes you or a little The first

1834
02:04:38,119 --> 02:04:40,119
date with a girl and she touched my head, we're

1835
02:04:40,159 --> 02:04:40,800
going together.

1836
02:04:40,960 --> 02:04:44,680
Speaker 1: No, don't be a spurg. Okay, don't be like that.

1837
02:04:44,680 --> 02:04:49,319
That's the worst. But the hair flip, this is like,

1838
02:04:49,560 --> 02:04:55,560
you know, biological beings, like trying to attract them. Mate,

1839
02:04:55,800 --> 02:05:00,800
It's very simple. So this girl's deal. We're gonna comment

1840
02:05:00,840 --> 02:05:03,159
on some of this and then I think we'll call

1841
02:05:03,199 --> 02:05:05,079
it a night. Hopefully you guys enjoyed. There's something out

1842
02:05:05,119 --> 02:05:10,000
of the pale of what we usually do. But so

1843
02:05:10,079 --> 02:05:14,920
many uh nerdy dudes out there that need some some serious,

1844
02:05:14,960 --> 02:05:17,960
some serious help out there. We gotta we gotta get

1845
02:05:17,960 --> 02:05:21,479
more wall smaths out there for the Kevin James hitch

1846
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boys out there. Caleb ten dollars. I'm going to attend

1847
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my first liturgy tomorrow. I'm a little nervous. Any advice

1848
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on what I should do. Nope, just go and uh

1849
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follow the instructions. That's it. Don't be nervous. Look, guys,

1850
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we got to get over being nervous. Think about the

1851
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men of your men that went into battle with swords

1852
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and got their arms chopped off, and dudes that rode

1853
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horses into a joust. Do you think those dudes were nervous.

1854
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I'm sure they were, but they were courageous. And you're

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nervous about going to church. I'm not dissing you, I'm

1856
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challenging you. Guys, we got to get over these pitiful fears.

1857
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Not you, Caleb. What I'm saying in general, I'm scared

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to talk to the girl. Dude, come on, come on.

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This is why I was talking to the other stream about,

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Like guys that have never been in a fist fight.

1861
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How have you never been in a fight like did in?

1862
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Every dude in high school run into some butthole that

1863
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they couldn't stand, and you end up in a fight

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because you talk ship for a whole semester and then

1865
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you just go fight, and then dudes get over it.

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They usually end up being friends. Like every guy should

1867
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go through middle school, high school fist fighting somebody. I

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mentioned this the other day and slow Boy was like, oh, well,

1869
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they'll call the cops on you. Well, I know that

1870
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they call the cops on us in high school too.

1871
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But what you do is you would have the fist

1872
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fight at Arbi's or behind the Walmart later that night, right,

1873
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and then if the guy didn't show up, everybody knew

1874
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he was a wors and then he gets made fun

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of for the next three weeks in school because it

1876
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didn't show up for the fight. My mom would let

1877
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me go to Walmore. Uh yeah, sure, you just didn't

1878
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want to fight. You got scared right anyway. All right,

1879
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So let's listen to some of these and then we'll

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call them at night.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be talking about subtle things women do to

1882
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see if men are interested. Understanding whether a woman is

1883
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interested in you can sometimes feel like trying to read

1884
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between the lines. Women aren't always bold or direct when

1885
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it comes to expressing their feelings. Often they rely more

1886
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on subtle actions, hints, and nonverbal cues to communicate their

1887
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interest in you.

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Speaker 1: Now, guys, nerdy guys, young guys, you are gonna have

1889
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to accept this. I know a lot of you guys

1890
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think what does it make sense. Why wouldn't she just

1891
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say what she's feeling. It doesn't matter if it makes sense,

1892
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It doesn't matter if you don't understand it. This is

1893
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how it is. Women like the subtlety, the flirting, the

1894
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stages to things. Thus your logical approach of on the

1895
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first date, I'm going to ask her my questionnaire.

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Speaker 4: She is going to be interrogated to see if she

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is a fitting wife for me.

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Speaker 1: No, you got it all wrong. There has to be

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stages in build up. You can't go from zero to

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one hundred unless you just immediately want to strike out right.

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So again, well, I don't like this. This isn't there.

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It doesn't matter what you think it's fair. This is

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how it is. And this is the biology and the

1904
02:08:51,600 --> 02:08:54,439
nature of women. So you either have to reconcile with

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02:08:54,520 --> 02:08:58,439
that and adapt accordingly, or you check out. And a

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lot of dudes do check out.

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Speaker 2: These behaviors are often intentional, offering her a way to

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gauge your response without putting herself in a vulnerable position.

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So in today's video, we're breaking down some of the

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most common and often overlooked ways that women show interest

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in a man. By recognizing these subtle signals, you'll avoid

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missing opportunities. So let's get right into it, Okay. The

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first subtle thing that women do is create opportunities to

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be together. A woman who is interested in a man

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will often take the initiative to create opportunities to spend

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time together. This might include suggesting something casual like grabbing coffee,

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inviting him to join her and her friends for a

1918
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group outing, or even asking for his help with something

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like fixing a minor problem teaching her.

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Speaker 1: So guys, be aware that if you are noticing that

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type of a signal, that was kind of an obvious one, right. Like, again,

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here's the key thing to remember that with this kind

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of stuff, a lot of nerdy dudes and spurgy dudes,

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they will immediately assume too much. Okay, So not in

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every case is she necessarily doing that because she likes you.

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She might be setting up a situation to be around

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you to see if she likes you. Right, So, sometimes

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guys will jump the gun and assume way too much

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and assume that the girl is really into them when

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she may not be at that level or that stage.

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She may just be feeling it out and seeing if

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she's interested in or wants to progress to the next

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level of knowing you. So if you begin to see

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these indicators, do not jump into thinking that, oh, she

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likes me, he has a crash, the you don't know.

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Speaker 2: That yet to do something, or even giving her advice.

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These moments might seem small or coincidental, but they're often intentional.

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Women do this because they want to gauge how much

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effort a man is willing to make to connect with them.

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It's not just about testing interest, but also about building

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comfort and familiarity. By creating these low pressure opportunities, she's

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signaling that she values his company and wants to see

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if he feels it the same way.

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Speaker 1: You want a deeper level. Now this is really important too,

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because a lot of guys want to rush things and

1946
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they want to get like again, to level one hundred

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from immediate. All of that signifies desperation, social awkwardness, and

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just weird creepiness right like immediately saying on at the

1949
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beginning of the day like this guy did in this

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example of I'm interested in ten children and i'd like

1951
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to know if that's where you are, Like, that's not

1952
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appropriate for the first time you're meeting somebody. It's just weird, right,

1953
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Even if that is your long term goal, you want

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ten kids, that's fine, but it's not appropriate when you're

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a first talking to somebody. It's just freaking weird.

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Speaker 2: Well here, creating these opportunities is also a way for

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women to minimize vulnerability. Rather than directly asking about his feelings,

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which can feel a little bit risky and bold, setting

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up time together allows her to observe his actions and

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behaviors more organically for her. It's a safer, less confrontational Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And also like, it's okay to be in situations where

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you're around people for a few times even before you

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moved to asking them out or you know, progressing, right,

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that's okay. A lot of times successful relationships are people

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who met in friend groups and they met and lasted

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because they hung out enough times before they went to

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the date stage. Right. It can happen both ways. There's

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no rule, ironclad laws here, like you can't ask a

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girl out and it produced a relationship. But a lot

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of times it's that you've been around this person for

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a while at work or in a friend setting or whatever,

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and then it progresses and that's okay. Just point being guys,

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you don't have to like rush and make it like

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something super quick and a lot of the stuff I'm

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telling you, like, I've made these mistakes before. I've like said,

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you know, I've laid down all my cards, you know,

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after too many too soon in dating people and stuff

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like that. I'm telling you when I was younger, right,

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I've made these kinds of mistakes too. So if you

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are a young guy and you are beginning to go

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out on dates and let's say you make some big

1982
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mistake and you spurg out or whatever, it's okay, right,

1983
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don't be too hard on yourself. There will be another

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one way.

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Speaker 2: To get clarity about where she stands to him, And

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for all of you guys watching, I think it's helpful

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to recognize these gestures for what they are, a sign

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that she's interested in looking to build a connection with you. Now,

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if you're interested in her too, accepting these opportunities and

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showing enthusiasm about it is key to letting her know

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that you were on the same page. Okay, My next

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point here is she teases or lightly jokes. When a

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woman teases or lightly jokes with a man, it's often

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her way of testing the waters. Playful banter really helps her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that one's kind of obvious. I think we

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mentioned earlier like this is not where you dis a

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girl in order to teach her a lesson in the

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sense of life, like really degrading someone. That's not gonna

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work with a girl, right. So the way bros work

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where you, you know, constantly make fun of a bro

2001
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to get the bro to be more of a bro

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like that doesn't work in the domain of females. But

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that's not the same thing as playful banter and mild

2004
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nags that are joking and playful like that stuff is fun.

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Jamie and I make jokes about each other all the time.

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We have fun. That's what she's talking about. And that

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kind of stuff is a sign or a signal of

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interest or indicating that she likes you. This one is

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important here.

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Speaker 2: My unbody language to gage a man as true feelings,

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as it can reveal more than just words. She'll watch

2012
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for cues like leaning in, maintaining eye contact, or mirroring

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her movements. These signs show interest, comfort, and engagement, while

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more closed off posture or avoidance might signal disinterest. What

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men may not realize is that women also look for

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signs of nervousness. A little fidgeting can actually be in deering,

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showing her that you care, but excessive avoidance might suggest insecurity.

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Speaker 1: There you go, and this applies to all the other

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signs of spurgy, nerdiness, walking like you have something in

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your butt, like you're on some sort of crowboying motorcycle,

2021
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acting weird, talking about inappropriate things at the first date. Right,

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just don't do that stuff.

2023
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Speaker 2: It's also checking for attraction. Lingering, eye contact or leaning

2024
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in closer can signal a genuine interest. Body language is

2025
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also going to help her feel safe and build trust

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with you.

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Speaker 1: Oh, this is another one that just that just came

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to mind. Looking a person in the eye. A lot

2029
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of weird spurgy. Young people cannot look people in the eye.

2030
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And I don't know if that's like the tism or

2031
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what's going on, but you're going to have to overcome that, right,

2032
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And so, especially if you're on a date and or

2033
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you're going to walk up to some wanted to ask

2034
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them out, like, you need to be able to make

2035
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eye contact. It shows that you're confident that you're a

2036
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normal person. You can communicate you're not a weirdo who's like,

2037
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you know, can't look people in the ice. That's just weird. Right,

2038
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So we want to eliminate all of the things that

2039
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are spurgy and weird. And I'm telling you, man, there's

2040
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a giant section of the audience of dorky Christians and

2041
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Spurgs and ortho nerds and conspiracy tards who really need

2042
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to hear this stuff because they are unsuffer insufferable.

2043
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Speaker 2: I think open, respectful cues reassure her that you're engaged.

2044
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And for all of you guys watching, I think small

2045
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adjustments in posture, body language and the attention that you're

2046
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giving her can communicate in.

2047
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Speaker 1: I forgot. Posture is a big one, right, So like

2048
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you're not going to be like sitting there like some

2049
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kind of slumped over weirdo. Right, you sit up. You

2050
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have the gait that we talked about, like Bond has

2051
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when he walks in a room. He does not walk

2052
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into a room like a spurg. You see, that's the

2053
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same type of thing that we're talking about.

2054
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Speaker 2: Tris more clearly than even words can sometimes, So just

2055
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something to remember. Okay, the next thing women do is

2056
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they will subtly mention future plans when a woman casually

2057
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brings up future plans, it's often a way to test

2058
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your level of interest and initiative. For example, she might

2059
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mention wanting to try a new restaurant, attend a concert,

2060
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or check out some local event. While it might seem

2061
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like small talk, she's watching to see if you take

2062
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the hint and express interest in joining her or suggests

2063
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making it happen together. Women do this because it's a subtle,

2064
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low pressure way of gauging your willingness to make an effort.

2065
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If you respond enthusiastically or take the opportunity to plan something,

2066
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it's going to signal to her that you are interested

2067
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and you're paying attention. What misses how you respond?

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Speaker 1: Now, this is another one that's kind of obvious, right,

2069
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But also don't jump to conclusions. Just because you get

2070
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a compliment does not necessarily mean some chicks after you.

2071
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She may just be being friendly, but you can also

2072
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read that as a possibility, a doorway that's opening up

2073
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to something next, something beyond. Right, These are indicators, not proofs. Right,

2074
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So these are signs or indicators. But I know how

2075
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dudes think, and I know a lot of nerdy dudes

2076
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are gonna think. I have a checklist, and I've checked

2077
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off three of the ten. That means she is in

2078
02:18:35,639 --> 02:18:37,319
love with me. No, it doesn't mean that.

2079
02:18:38,399 --> 02:18:40,920
Speaker 2: When a woman compliments you, whether it's about your style,

2080
02:18:41,079 --> 02:18:43,920
your sense of humor, or something unique that she's noticed,

2081
02:18:44,000 --> 02:18:47,440
it's rarely just a casual comment. Compliments are often a

2082
02:18:47,440 --> 02:18:50,920
way of creating a connection, engaging your interest. In return,

2083
02:18:51,159 --> 02:18:53,879
she's paying attention not just to your words, but how

2084
02:18:53,920 --> 02:18:56,840
you respond to her. Do you smile and accept it confidently?

2085
02:18:57,120 --> 02:18:59,959
Do you downplay or deflect it? Or do you recipe

2086
02:19:00,360 --> 02:19:03,000
with a compliment of your own? Women do this because

2087
02:19:03,040 --> 02:19:05,559
how you handle a compliment reveals a lot about your

2088
02:19:05,559 --> 02:19:09,040
personality and your confidence. A genuine thank you, paired with

2089
02:19:09,079 --> 02:19:10,959
a smile shows self assurance.

2090
02:19:13,879 --> 02:19:18,879
Speaker 1: And again this is actually good advice because to act

2091
02:19:18,959 --> 02:19:22,840
weird about compliments is also can be a sign of

2092
02:19:23,040 --> 02:19:26,159
weirdness or off something off with you. Right, So the

2093
02:19:26,159 --> 02:19:28,319
best way to handle that is be all thanks, appreciate

2094
02:19:28,360 --> 02:19:31,239
that right, not to act weird about it, and not

2095
02:19:31,479 --> 02:19:35,479
to necessarily say the exact I like your brains too.

2096
02:19:35,600 --> 02:19:37,799
You think I'm smart. I like you too because you

2097
02:19:37,879 --> 02:19:40,559
also think that that you are smart. That means we're

2098
02:19:40,559 --> 02:19:44,040
both smart together, like don't know, uh huh right. In

2099
02:19:44,120 --> 02:19:47,079
other words, it needs to be something natural and not forced.

2100
02:19:47,479 --> 02:19:51,239
So if someone compliments you, it's just awkward to immediately

2101
02:19:51,239 --> 02:19:55,319
compliment them back, right, Maybe wait till later on in

2102
02:19:55,319 --> 02:19:58,959
the conversation if you say something nice, but also don't

2103
02:19:59,040 --> 02:20:01,879
overly compliment people that you don't know much about or

2104
02:20:01,920 --> 02:20:05,879
that you just met. That would also be weird, right,

2105
02:20:07,200 --> 02:20:09,879
Like first time you're on a date, right.

2106
02:20:11,040 --> 02:20:13,719
Speaker 3: I just think I just think you're really beautiful.

2107
02:20:14,040 --> 02:20:19,280
Speaker 1: No, that's not appropriate, it's it's impropriety. It signifies a

2108
02:20:19,319 --> 02:20:23,840
weird kind of simply desperate energy. If it's the first

2109
02:20:23,840 --> 02:20:31,319
time that you met somebody and you know, the the

2110
02:20:31,319 --> 02:20:33,639
better that you can sort of play it off like

2111
02:20:34,360 --> 02:20:37,159
you're having a good time and you're you're interested in

2112
02:20:37,280 --> 02:20:40,319
you know, we'll see a lot of will sees this,

2113
02:20:40,440 --> 02:20:43,159
you know, you know. In other words, like she says

2114
02:20:43,319 --> 02:20:45,239
I'd love to go out again, and be like, okay,

2115
02:20:45,360 --> 02:20:47,040
I mean, yeah, we'll see what's going on this week.

2116
02:20:48,120 --> 02:20:52,680
Don't immediately give the impression that everything.

2117
02:20:52,319 --> 02:20:54,879
Speaker 3: That I hope for all of my dreams capture today

2118
02:20:54,959 --> 02:20:56,760
because you said you wanted a second date.

2119
02:20:56,879 --> 02:20:58,520
Speaker 1: That's just crazy.

2120
02:20:59,079 --> 02:21:03,760
Speaker 2: Right, While brushing it off or making a self deprecating

2121
02:21:03,799 --> 02:21:07,479
comment might suggest insecurity, she's probably going to The.

2122
02:21:07,440 --> 02:21:11,079
Speaker 1: Reason for that, by the way, is that would indicate

2123
02:21:11,159 --> 02:21:16,879
to her that you don't have other things going on. Right.

2124
02:21:17,399 --> 02:21:19,600
You don't want to give the impression that you have

2125
02:21:19,719 --> 02:21:23,920
nothing going on in your life and you are eager

2126
02:21:23,959 --> 02:21:29,040
for the possibility of a second date. Right. That's so

2127
02:21:29,760 --> 02:21:32,120
in her mind, she's thinking, Okay, wait a minute, this

2128
02:21:32,200 --> 02:21:34,440
is a guy who we had a good time on

2129
02:21:34,440 --> 02:21:37,760
the first date, and he doesn't have anything else going

2130
02:21:37,799 --> 02:21:42,639
on to the extent that he can immediately plan a

2131
02:21:42,680 --> 02:21:46,520
second date when I haven't even told him when. Right.

2132
02:21:46,520 --> 02:21:48,920
So let's say she's giving you the indication that there's

2133
02:21:48,920 --> 02:21:50,520
going to be a second date, she wouldn't mind doing

2134
02:21:50,520 --> 02:21:53,719
another thing, and you immediately jump to it because you're

2135
02:21:53,760 --> 02:21:56,479
so excited and you're so nerdy and spurgy and happy

2136
02:21:56,479 --> 02:22:01,799
to have somebody somebody likes me, someone likes Right, it

2137
02:22:01,920 --> 02:22:07,159
comes off pitiful, Well, do you have other things going

2138
02:22:07,159 --> 02:22:11,559
on in your life? She wants to think, Yes, what

2139
02:22:11,719 --> 02:22:13,719
girl would want to marry a guy who has nothing

2140
02:22:13,760 --> 02:22:16,680
going on in his life or want to even have

2141
02:22:16,719 --> 02:22:23,399
a second at No, Right, So don't lay down all

2142
02:22:23,440 --> 02:22:28,280
of your cards, even within the first few days. Let

2143
02:22:28,440 --> 02:22:32,760
things flow naturally. Man, don't be a spurd.

2144
02:22:33,319 --> 02:22:36,000
Speaker 2: Be looking for a relation that feels warm and engaging,

2145
02:22:36,319 --> 02:22:38,239
as this is going to give her insight into how

2146
02:22:38,239 --> 02:22:41,159
comfortable you are with yourself as well. What men might

2147
02:22:41,200 --> 02:22:43,360
not know is that compliments are also a subtle way

2148
02:22:43,399 --> 02:22:47,000
for a woman to express interest without being overly forward.

2149
02:22:47,280 --> 02:22:49,680
It's her way of showing admiration while giving you an

2150
02:22:49,680 --> 02:22:53,159
opening to reciprocate if you're interested too. If she notices

2151
02:22:53,200 --> 02:22:56,680
your receptive it encourages her to continue building the connection

2152
02:22:56,760 --> 02:22:59,440
with you. And pretty obviously here, a woman's compliment is

2153
02:22:59,440 --> 02:23:01,440
also a way to to make you feel special and

2154
02:23:01,479 --> 02:23:04,200
stand out. This is a sign that she's invested enough

2155
02:23:04,200 --> 02:23:06,600
to notice these little things and wants to see if

2156
02:23:06,639 --> 02:23:07,280
you value her.

2157
02:23:08,719 --> 02:23:10,680
Speaker 1: I said, what if I actually have nothing going on

2158
02:23:10,680 --> 02:23:13,079
in my life? Well, you're not gonna let her know that, right,

2159
02:23:13,120 --> 02:23:17,360
So that's rule number one here at this point. Uh,

2160
02:23:17,680 --> 02:23:21,879
California prepper five dollars. Have you seen the foot relic

2161
02:23:22,079 --> 02:23:26,239
water clip making the rounds with Protestants? I have no

2162
02:23:26,319 --> 02:23:30,600
idea what that is. No foot relic water clip. Maybe

2163
02:23:30,600 --> 02:23:33,760
on the next theology stream we can talk about that

2164
02:23:34,319 --> 02:23:39,399
Intel Wild five dollars, Andrew Wilson, Rob, Jim bob Our

2165
02:23:39,479 --> 02:23:45,040
true Conservative goats. Who's Rob? I'm not sure who Rob is?

2166
02:23:50,079 --> 02:23:52,399
Speaker 2: In return for men, I think the key here is

2167
02:23:52,440 --> 02:23:56,159
to accept compliments with gratitude and confidence. If you're also

2168
02:23:56,239 --> 02:23:59,239
interested in her, use this as an opportunity to reciprocate

2169
02:23:59,559 --> 02:24:02,479
and build a stronger connection. It's a small gesture that

2170
02:24:02,479 --> 02:24:06,159
can completely open the door to something much deeper. And lastly,

2171
02:24:06,200 --> 02:24:10,200
here she introduces subtle physical touches. When a woman introduces

2172
02:24:10,280 --> 02:24:13,399
light physical touches, such as a casual hand on your arm,

2173
02:24:13,680 --> 02:24:16,239
a playful tap on your shoulder, or brushing against you

2174
02:24:16,239 --> 02:24:19,159
all talking, it's often a way of testing boundaries and

2175
02:24:19,280 --> 02:24:20,200
gauging your interest.

2176
02:24:21,319 --> 02:24:25,600
Speaker 1: Yes, so there you go, some easy indicators that a

2177
02:24:25,639 --> 02:24:28,079
girl is interested in you, or you might want to

2178
02:24:29,120 --> 02:24:32,959
if she's sending these signs, for example, she's wanting you

2179
02:24:33,399 --> 02:24:37,440
to ask her out right and guess what. Let's say

2180
02:24:37,479 --> 02:24:41,079
you misread the signs and she's not actually wanting that,

2181
02:24:41,239 --> 02:24:45,840
and maybe you misread and you jumped the gun and

2182
02:24:45,840 --> 02:24:48,319
you asked her out and she said no, Well, guess what.

2183
02:24:48,559 --> 02:24:52,399
Now you've had the experience of getting turned down. And

2184
02:24:52,479 --> 02:24:57,159
guess what, You're still alive and you're still okay, and

2185
02:24:57,200 --> 02:25:01,440
you're not gonna cry because you're a dude. Right, You've

2186
02:25:01,440 --> 02:25:05,399
had a normal human man experience of getting turned down.

2187
02:25:06,319 --> 02:25:11,200
So what okay? Uh? As we close it up tonight,

2188
02:25:11,239 --> 02:25:13,239
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2189
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2190
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ultimate terrible archetype. Okay, all the things that we want

2191
02:25:20,600 --> 02:25:27,840
to avoid as our final discussion point here. But before

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2219
02:26:57,600 --> 02:27:01,520
Many people in our domain, as we said, are dorky,

2220
02:27:01,760 --> 02:27:10,159
they're nerdy, they're they're debbie downers, they're super self righteous,

2221
02:27:10,319 --> 02:27:14,159
just annoying and sufferable people. And they're not fun. They're

2222
02:27:14,159 --> 02:27:19,840
not they're not funny, they're not interesting, and they're black pilled.

2223
02:27:19,959 --> 02:27:23,159
And that's all the stuff we want to avoid. But

2224
02:27:23,239 --> 02:27:27,360
what's the ultimate bad archetype for a dude. It is

2225
02:27:27,440 --> 02:27:31,280
the manchild, and that's what I came up with, and

2226
02:27:31,360 --> 02:27:34,719
Jamie and I together came up with as the ultimate

2227
02:27:35,159 --> 02:27:41,520
archetypes to avoid. So let's see, Uh, what are those characteristics? Well,

2228
02:27:43,280 --> 02:27:47,840
the manchild is no fun. He is black pilled. He

2229
02:27:48,000 --> 02:27:51,440
constantly winds in complains about all the things that are

2230
02:27:51,479 --> 02:27:54,760
wrong out there that are oppressing him. So he's involved

2231
02:27:54,760 --> 02:27:59,159
in the exact same social justice warrior oppression olympics that

2232
02:27:59,200 --> 02:28:03,159
he's always bitching about. He blames all his problems on

2233
02:28:03,200 --> 02:28:09,319
everyone else. It's the JQ, it's the Illuminati, it's the women, it's.

2234
02:28:09,399 --> 02:28:12,639
Speaker 3: This, it's the dad, it's the blah blah blah blah blah.

2235
02:28:12,680 --> 02:28:15,959
Speaker 1: All the problems are everywhere else and nothing to do

2236
02:28:16,159 --> 02:28:23,639
with him. Remember how we talked about what is fat acceptance.

2237
02:28:23,959 --> 02:28:27,120
It's this stupid conspiracy, which is a real conspiracy, but

2238
02:28:27,440 --> 02:28:31,239
it's also a bunch of lazy people who want society

2239
02:28:31,280 --> 02:28:35,959
to change rather than them changing, And they actually want

2240
02:28:35,959 --> 02:28:40,600
to alter reality because they're unhappy and they're miserable and

2241
02:28:40,600 --> 02:28:43,920
they're unhealthy, and they think that the reason they feel

2242
02:28:43,959 --> 02:28:46,959
the way they do is because society is oppressing them

2243
02:28:47,399 --> 02:28:51,920
by saying that it's unhealthy to be overweight, when in

2244
02:28:51,959 --> 02:28:57,479
fact it is objectively a fact that it's unhealthy to

2245
02:28:57,520 --> 02:29:00,840
be overweight. And so a lot of times this is

2246
02:29:00,879 --> 02:29:03,920
like pangs of conscience. Right, they know that gluttony is wrong,

2247
02:29:05,440 --> 02:29:08,280
but they would rather try to alter all of society

2248
02:29:08,799 --> 02:29:15,639
to fit their vice than they themselves change. And that

2249
02:29:15,799 --> 02:29:19,319
is also something that the manchild and the insults and

2250
02:29:19,360 --> 02:29:22,559
the migtiles and all these guys engage in two where

2251
02:29:22,639 --> 02:29:26,719
it's all the women's fault because women are the way

2252
02:29:26,719 --> 02:29:31,040
that women are. So they're actually mad at biology and

2253
02:29:31,120 --> 02:29:35,559
reality and acting, just like the social justice warriors are,

2254
02:29:35,680 --> 02:29:41,239
but in their own weird way. So man child men

2255
02:29:41,520 --> 02:29:45,280
whine and complain in our victims and pray. They play

2256
02:29:45,319 --> 02:29:50,319
the oppression Olympics just like the social justice warriors man children.

2257
02:29:50,440 --> 02:29:56,840
Manchild is lazy, he's a cousumer, marvel all this. There's

2258
02:29:56,879 --> 02:30:01,639
no self discipline, there's no self control. A lot of

2259
02:30:01,680 --> 02:30:06,360
men in this domain are gamers ipa bros. They're super selfish,

2260
02:30:07,000 --> 02:30:11,760
they're super emotional, they're easily provoked, they have temper tantrums,

2261
02:30:11,799 --> 02:30:16,000
they have rages, roid rages, as well, and they're super insecure.

2262
02:30:19,440 --> 02:30:21,280
A lot of these guys also who do end up

2263
02:30:21,319 --> 02:30:23,680
with a woman they think of or they treat a

2264
02:30:23,760 --> 02:30:27,200
woman as if she's a new mom, and so they

2265
02:30:27,280 --> 02:30:30,079
want a woman to be a mom to them rather

2266
02:30:30,159 --> 02:30:42,280
than the wife or the girlfriend. You see. Okay, I

2267
02:30:42,319 --> 02:30:44,719
think that's most of what I wanted to get to

2268
02:30:46,479 --> 02:30:51,000
in my notes for how to rismax, how to have

2269
02:30:51,280 --> 02:30:55,360
some game, how to have some mystery about you, how

2270
02:30:55,399 --> 02:30:58,879
to be a bit aloof, how to be a cool guy,

2271
02:30:59,479 --> 02:31:06,319
how do not be a manchild? Dorksburg, California Prepper says,

2272
02:31:06,440 --> 02:31:08,159
this sounds good. I tagged you on Twitter for that

2273
02:31:08,239 --> 02:31:13,159
clip until wild Rob NOA is his name? Okay, well

2274
02:31:14,040 --> 02:31:16,319
they see that libertarian guy. I think I've heard of

2275
02:31:16,360 --> 02:31:18,799
his name, Crypto Crusader. One Night and nine, did you

2276
02:31:18,840 --> 02:31:21,360
watch Father Moses' video? It was it on point. I

2277
02:31:21,360 --> 02:31:25,680
did not see it, no, from what I can tell

2278
02:31:25,760 --> 02:31:28,920
from what I heard Father Deacon and other people saying,

2279
02:31:29,760 --> 02:31:35,319
wasn't really that controversial. So I do know the background

2280
02:31:35,360 --> 02:31:39,239
as to why he took it down, but I did

2281
02:31:39,239 --> 02:31:42,600
not actually ever see the original video. A lot of

2282
02:31:42,639 --> 02:31:45,200
the drama that goes on, I don't ever actually see it.

2283
02:31:46,079 --> 02:31:51,280
So people are always asking me about did you see

2284
02:31:51,319 --> 02:31:53,319
what somebody said on Twitter?

2285
02:31:53,360 --> 02:31:53,440
Speaker 2: No?

2286
02:31:53,920 --> 02:31:57,000
Speaker 1: I don't. And you know why that is. I never

2287
02:31:57,200 --> 02:32:01,200
ever look at the for you. I don't. For one,

2288
02:32:01,239 --> 02:32:05,120
don't have time for it. And I also know that

2289
02:32:05,159 --> 02:32:08,920
the for you is there to rile me up. And

2290
02:32:09,239 --> 02:32:14,920
I am not a person who is worth my time,

2291
02:32:15,040 --> 02:32:18,079
is not worth being riled up on Twitter. Now, sometimes

2292
02:32:18,079 --> 02:32:20,440
people do rob me up on Twitter. But that's a

2293
02:32:20,520 --> 02:32:25,920
thing that I'm trying to not let happen, you see. So,

2294
02:32:26,079 --> 02:32:28,600
like when I go to Twitter, for example, I view

2295
02:32:28,639 --> 02:32:32,319
Twitter as something that's only about what we do. I

2296
02:32:32,360 --> 02:32:38,239
am not there to try to change people's minds. I'm

2297
02:32:38,239 --> 02:32:41,280
not there to read the comments. In fact, ninety nine

2298
02:32:41,319 --> 02:32:43,479
percent of the time I don't read the comments. Sometimes

2299
02:32:43,520 --> 02:32:46,440
I see the comments that reply to me. But like,

2300
02:32:46,559 --> 02:32:49,239
let's say I put up a tweet that got a

2301
02:32:49,280 --> 02:32:54,520
lot of views. Okay, Like, let me see the last

2302
02:32:54,520 --> 02:33:01,000
one that got quite a few views. Okay, here's one

2303
02:33:01,079 --> 02:33:06,840
with twenty thousand views or impressions and forty comments. Haven't

2304
02:33:06,879 --> 02:33:09,639
read the comments, don't know what anyone said, don't care.

2305
02:33:11,479 --> 02:33:17,600
Let's see here's one with twenty two comments, didn't read

2306
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any of the comments. Sometimes I do see people's comments,

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so I'm not saying that I never do. But I

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am not over here on this for you, because this

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is one huge reason people waste all their time and

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they get agitated. As we pointed out, because the for

2311
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you is intentionally there to agitate you. They will show

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you things that they know are the opposite of you,

2313
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or that people are saying to roll you up. And

2314
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that's literally one percent in the algorithm and it's admitted.

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So I am not going to waste my time on that.

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Theosis five will you put your words in Brazilian famous

2317
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soccer players via lip sync? The Orthodoxic Gospel will be

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preached in Portuguese. I don't know what that means. I

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guess you're talking about some kind of app that makes

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you speak over people. I mean, I guess that could

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be kind of funny. I just haven't looked into that.

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And for palpitating five dollars. A lot of gen Z

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are reductionistic pessimists. They love to appeal to all this

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negative data to then define their own worth by statistics

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and some sort of vulgar determinism. There is no room

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in their mind for any meritocracy or willpower. It all

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boils down to quote faith, I don't know what you

2328
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mean by it all boils down to faith. You mean

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the Ortho dox Christian faith, or it all boils down

2330
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to having faith in willpower. I don't know what that means,

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but yeah, I mean one of the reasons I'm doing

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tonight's discussion is precisely because of all this weird pessimism

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that people have blackpill all this kind of stuff. To me,

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I don't, I just it's it's a it's a lot

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of times a cloak for laziness.