1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice 2 00:00:03,399 --> 00:00:03,799 mix in. 3 00:00:03,759 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 2: Some vodka colored. 4 00:00:06,599 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: A podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio in 5 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:14,839 Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dots. Gee Ram, It's 6 00:00:14,919 --> 00:00:17,679 Billified the Bill Moran Podcast. 7 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 3: Well, hello and welcome. 8 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:30,879 Speaker 2: Boy. 9 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:32,079 Speaker 3: Am I excited for this? 10 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:32,679 Speaker 4: Me too? 11 00:00:33,079 --> 00:00:36,719 Speaker 3: Yeah? I know lauris here, but I'm not the starter. No, 12 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:37,399 you are not. 13 00:00:37,439 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 4: I'll start today, And actually I think it'll be a 14 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,359 good conversation because it's coming off of when we had 15 00:00:43,439 --> 00:00:47,880 Mercedes Bascus Simmons on which we all got brought up, yes, 16 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,320 which you said, you you like that one. 17 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:51,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's pretty good. 18 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 4: That's great, very very impressed with how all that went. 19 00:00:55,719 --> 00:00:56,399 Speaker 5: Very diverse. 20 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:01,119 Speaker 4: Yeah, And a lot of interesting things came out of 21 00:01:01,159 --> 00:01:04,400 there that I think are I think when you were here. 22 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:10,079 Speaker 3: Were you here when we did the Rich and Trashy? Yeah? 23 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 4: Right, And I said, taking government money if you're if 24 00:01:14,519 --> 00:01:15,920 you're poor, it's trashy. 25 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 3: If you're rich, it's classy. Yeah. 26 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:21,319 Speaker 4: And that's one of the things that I think. When 27 00:01:21,359 --> 00:01:26,000 you heard her say my mother would never take government money, 28 00:01:27,159 --> 00:01:30,400 it's interesting because you know, I'm sure it was needed, 29 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,719 but she didn't do it because there was the stigma 30 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:33,120 to it. 31 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,359 Speaker 5: When she said that her mom handed out five dollars 32 00:01:36,359 --> 00:01:39,959 for every a yeah, for kids, I was just like, damn, 33 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:45,120 what a awesome way to like kids. Yeah right, and 34 00:01:45,159 --> 00:01:48,480 to you know, be like a community leader because you 35 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,000 know that everyone's going to respect you, kids are going 36 00:01:51,079 --> 00:01:51,719 to look up to you. 37 00:01:51,799 --> 00:01:54,959 Speaker 4: Then. Uh, just for anybody who didn't listen to that episode, 38 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:58,640 Mercedes Veskae Simmons is running for New York State Assembly. 39 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:04,280 She kind of fell into the legislature. And what was 40 00:02:04,359 --> 00:02:06,359 interesting to me was like I would see her stuff 41 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,719 pop up on my bilified Facebook page and there was 42 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:12,599 boxing stuff. She's standing with Sugar Ray Leonard and all this. 43 00:02:12,719 --> 00:02:14,319 I'm like, who is this woman? 44 00:02:14,479 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 3: Yeah? 45 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 4: And then it turns out she was a boxing promoter. 46 00:02:16,719 --> 00:02:19,840 So I called and the podcast didn't go the way 47 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:22,479 I thought it would. You know, we talked a lot 48 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:28,759 about kids and things, and there was a point that 49 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,240 she said something that has stuck in my head ever since. 50 00:02:31,719 --> 00:02:35,039 Speaker 3: She talked about kids, real kids right here. 51 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,439 Speaker 4: In Monroe County, and I think this could apply to 52 00:02:37,879 --> 00:02:41,879 any big city in our country, maybe around the world, 53 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:46,680 but definitely in our country. And they said if I 54 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:49,960 make it to sixteen. If I make it to sixteen, 55 00:02:50,879 --> 00:02:53,400 and when you think about that, it's not when I 56 00:02:53,479 --> 00:02:55,639 turned sixteen. Remember when you wanted to turn sixteen, Like 57 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:57,680 you're all excited, You're gonna get your car, your license, 58 00:02:57,759 --> 00:02:58,439 whatever it was. 59 00:02:58,800 --> 00:02:59,599 Speaker 3: It was a big deal. 60 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,319 Speaker 4: And I want to know, what are these kids actually 61 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,400 thinking and what the hell is kind of missing? And 62 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:12,319 Laura said, well, my boyfriend Joe works at that rec center. 63 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,479 Speaker 5: He works at the Carter Street Rec Center. 64 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:17,479 Speaker 3: And that's the one that Mercedes was talking about. 65 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I thought it was just interesting, and I thought, boy, Joe, 66 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,000 you probably have some great insight to this because you're 67 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:29,280 right on the front line so to speak with the kids. 68 00:03:29,879 --> 00:03:33,719 Because I have often said, like the answer, and I 69 00:03:33,759 --> 00:03:35,960 don't know if if it's necessarily true, but I feel 70 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:40,199 like the only way to combat so much stuff is 71 00:03:40,599 --> 00:03:41,960 building a kid's self esteem. 72 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:43,599 Speaker 3: And when I say so much stuff. 73 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 4: Anybody's seeing this Instagram ad that's going around where it 74 00:03:46,199 --> 00:03:50,439 was like it's little kids and they're saying, Wait, in 75 00:03:50,479 --> 00:03:54,000 the future, you can order food that comes right to 76 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,800 you through this box. In the future, you just look 77 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,360 at everything on this box. Wait, you can't. Yeah, it's 78 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,800 like so it's like kids. There's like little kids in 79 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:06,599 the eighties being told what's coming. Okay, right, it's supposed 80 00:04:06,599 --> 00:04:08,960 to be flashback and it just shows you like that 81 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,479 simpler time and like one kid goes, wait, in the future, 82 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,479 people just don't sit and. 83 00:04:14,879 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 3: Stare at the stars, you know what I mean? 84 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,639 Speaker 4: And something to that effect, I'll have to I should 85 00:04:19,639 --> 00:04:20,480 have found it for this. 86 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 3: But the. 87 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:27,199 Speaker 4: With Mercedes saying all that stuff and I say, build 88 00:04:27,199 --> 00:04:30,800 self esteem, I think the self esteem sometimes can help 89 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:33,920 combat all the influence. 90 00:04:33,959 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 3: If you feel good. 91 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 4: About yourself, I don't need this other bullshit. But it's kids, right, 92 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:44,279 and what looks cool and what's going on? So I 93 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:46,480 feel like it's a buzzword. And I don't know how 94 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:51,800 you necessarily build self esteem in kids other than trying 95 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,639 to incentify them that winning feels good, or when you 96 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,079 do well it feels good, or when you work hard 97 00:04:58,439 --> 00:05:02,079 and there's a payoff, it feels good. But I'm just 98 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:07,240 curious because if I make it to sixteen, that kind 99 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,720 of that hits is like a real thing, right, you 100 00:05:10,759 --> 00:05:13,800 know what I'm saying. It's a strange thing. And then 101 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,079 I'm just wondering when you see these kids. What's something 102 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,040 kids casually say that would kind of shock people who 103 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,639 don't live in that world, who aren't around those that 104 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:23,199 the Carter Center. 105 00:05:23,199 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 3: I mean, do you hear things like this? 106 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 6: I mean, I don't hear stuff like that, per se. 107 00:05:28,879 --> 00:05:32,680 I guess it's just more the language that kids use. 108 00:05:33,199 --> 00:05:34,879 An eight year old the way he talks that my 109 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:38,040 rec center is completely different than an eight year old 110 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:41,279 that's Laura's kids or the kids out here in the 111 00:05:41,319 --> 00:05:43,439 suburbs and stuff like that. So I don't hear anything 112 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:47,439 directly the way you're saying it. But what I can 113 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,519 say is, you know, you're bringing up the age of sixteen. 114 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 2: Our leagues that we run usually end at fifteen. 115 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 6: So that sixteen seventeen year old kid, if he's going 116 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,759 the streets, he's going the streets. If he enjoys the 117 00:05:59,759 --> 00:06:02,399 rec center, we're making an impact on him. He stays 118 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,040 stays at the rec center still. So it's a very 119 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:08,519 interesting age where you do see kids choose. 120 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. 121 00:06:09,399 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 6: So with that being said, I guess our impact is 122 00:06:13,959 --> 00:06:17,199 on the younger kids, hopefully changing them so they when 123 00:06:17,199 --> 00:06:18,360 they turn sixteen. 124 00:06:18,079 --> 00:06:19,720 Speaker 2: They stay with us or they get a job. 125 00:06:20,079 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 6: Right, if we get those kids who are fifteen sixteen 126 00:06:22,759 --> 00:06:25,839 at the time, nine times out of time, they already lost. 127 00:06:26,319 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 4: Really, man, because I'm thinking when when you walk into 128 00:06:31,399 --> 00:06:35,000 the rec center, and if it's mostly younger kids, then I'm. 129 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 6: The youngest we serve is I think I have a 130 00:06:38,319 --> 00:06:40,120 five year old, and then it goes all the way 131 00:06:40,199 --> 00:06:41,959 up to I mean seventeen. 132 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:43,199 Speaker 2: It's supposed to be high school. 133 00:06:43,319 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, but if we have some of our regular kids 134 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:47,879 who've been there for a couple of years, we let 135 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:51,399 them come in. I'd say you probably go up to 136 00:06:51,439 --> 00:06:52,959 like twenty two, twenty three, twenty four. 137 00:06:52,759 --> 00:06:53,439 Speaker 2: We'll let you come in. 138 00:06:53,639 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 3: What's the uh what's the vibe when you go in there? Like? 139 00:06:57,199 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 4: And by that, I mean is there are the kids guarded? 140 00:07:01,439 --> 00:07:05,519 Is there kind of a hopefulness with them? The survival mode? 141 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:06,399 Speaker 3: I mean these are all. 142 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:09,839 Speaker 6: No, I wouldn't. I mean it didn't miss. Everything's different. 143 00:07:10,079 --> 00:07:11,800 So the rec centers are coming go as you please. 144 00:07:12,279 --> 00:07:15,279 It's not a daycare facility. So when we get parents 145 00:07:15,959 --> 00:07:18,439 that drop their kids off, they literally think we're just 146 00:07:18,439 --> 00:07:20,759 gonna watch their kids all day. Then we tell them 147 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:22,720 that their kids are free to leave. They can leave 148 00:07:22,759 --> 00:07:27,040 whenever they want, So that scares parents at times because 149 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:28,720 it's like, I have a seven year old. 150 00:07:28,759 --> 00:07:29,839 Speaker 2: I don't want my seven year old. 151 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 3: To just walk away, right, you know, we're not just gonna. 152 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 6: A lot a seven year old walk away, but technically speaking, 153 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,759 he could. The other thing that a lot of parents 154 00:07:38,759 --> 00:07:41,439 and the public season they worry about it sometimes, is 155 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:43,480 that huge age gap. You know, at one point you 156 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:44,759 can see a six year old and then you see 157 00:07:44,759 --> 00:07:47,399 the nineteen twenty year old. It's a big brother, big 158 00:07:47,439 --> 00:07:50,759 sister program. Ok, brother, little sister. Yeah whatever I'm trying 159 00:07:50,759 --> 00:07:54,720 to say, it's that so and that's like the most 160 00:07:54,759 --> 00:07:57,160 beautiful thing I've seen, and I've been there, you know, 161 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:00,959 eleven twelve years now. It's just it's just cool to 162 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:04,000 see that fourteen fifteen year old look after the six 163 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:04,800 and seven year old. 164 00:08:04,839 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 2: So it's a family. 165 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:09,439 Speaker 3: That's what I would say. Yeah, I mean, that's to me, 166 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:10,439 that's pretty cool. 167 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 4: I guess the thing that I hear, and I don't 168 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:15,920 know if you hear the same thing, Laura, when a 169 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,000 kids says, if I make it to sixteen, I feel 170 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:23,680 like they feel as though they don't matter, you know 171 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:25,959 what I'm saying, Like I really do, I do these 172 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:27,519 kids believe that they actually are. 173 00:08:27,439 --> 00:08:30,839 Speaker 5: Made value or just from I think it's also from 174 00:08:30,959 --> 00:08:35,200 what they see of their peerers. So if you know, 175 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,720 I know, Joe has said that he has had a 176 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:42,120 lot of kids come through that you know, eventually he 177 00:08:42,159 --> 00:08:46,200 does lose to gun violence. Or even when the Kia Boys, 178 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:49,559 he knows a lot of them because they came through 179 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:51,720 his program and he's like, you know, we thought we 180 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:53,360 were going to save them, but then we couldn't. So 181 00:08:53,399 --> 00:08:57,840 it's if you have that as a older sibling or 182 00:08:57,879 --> 00:09:01,440 a family member that you looked up to and then 183 00:09:01,919 --> 00:09:06,720 you see the violence happen or going you know, the 184 00:09:06,799 --> 00:09:10,799 wrong route, is that what you expect for yourself. 185 00:09:11,639 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 3: I could totally see that. I mean I could see that. 186 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:15,600 Do kids feel like that? 187 00:09:15,639 --> 00:09:17,679 Speaker 4: I mean, it feels like you guys make them feel 188 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:20,759 like they matter that the rec center sounds like it's pretty. 189 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 6: So what I was gonna say is when you were 190 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:26,279 talking about incentivizing kids with money and stuff like that, 191 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:29,600 what we do at the rec centers attention. You know, 192 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:33,279 just giving giving kids attention is huge. It goes a 193 00:09:33,279 --> 00:09:35,759 long way. You know, just hey, how is your day, 194 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,600 or we're joking with them. One of the biggest things 195 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:41,279 is just literally just joking with kids all day. And 196 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:43,000 that's one of the things Laura gets mad at me 197 00:09:43,039 --> 00:09:45,440 about because I'm a joker. So I'll joke with Laura 198 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,519 and stop picking on me. And it's like, this is 199 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:51,279 the love, you know said at the rec center. 200 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:52,519 Speaker 2: Teasing people is love. 201 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 3: Laura likes teasing, just of a different kind. Yeah so 202 00:09:58,399 --> 00:10:05,480 you I mean, oh yeah, the whole world knows, Joe. 203 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:07,919 The whole world, oh world knows. 204 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,919 Speaker 5: But yeah, I mean Joe. I think that was one 205 00:10:12,919 --> 00:10:15,120 of the first things that when we met and I 206 00:10:15,159 --> 00:10:19,080 found out what he did for work and I got 207 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:22,480 to see like his heart. From that standpoint, it impressed 208 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,240 me a lot, you know, knowing what he does. And 209 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:29,360 one of the first days I think that we were 210 00:10:29,399 --> 00:10:31,759 talking our first few weeks, he had texted me. He's like, oh, 211 00:10:31,799 --> 00:10:35,960 it's this one kid's birthday today and he's homeless, so 212 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:37,639 I want to make sure I stop and get him 213 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:39,519 some things so that he feels special. 214 00:10:39,759 --> 00:10:43,559 Speaker 4: And it was you know, when it comes to home improvement, 215 00:10:43,759 --> 00:10:46,399 you've got choices. Let's say there's a hole in the 216 00:10:46,399 --> 00:10:51,720 bedroom wall and somehow nobody in the house knows how 217 00:10:51,759 --> 00:10:52,399 it got there. 218 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:54,799 Speaker 3: You could fix it. 219 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 4: I mean there's always YouTube, right, but you know three 220 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:03,440 hours later it's gonna look like a patch job, not 221 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:06,399 even a good patch job. And how about that leak 222 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:09,080 under the kitchen sink? Yeah, you said you'd get to it, 223 00:11:09,159 --> 00:11:12,360 and that was what two and a half three months ago. 224 00:11:12,879 --> 00:11:16,600 If we're being honest, we all have that list, the 225 00:11:16,639 --> 00:11:19,720 one where deep down you're not totally sure you've got 226 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,639 the skills to pull it off. If it's my list, 227 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:27,039 I'm calling Mac of All Trades. 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They'll handle it so you 235 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:04,279 don't have to Seebee Buckner had a brutal day behind 236 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:04,679 the plate. 237 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:06,519 Speaker 3: Brutal day behind the plate. 238 00:12:07,879 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 4: Buckner had six ball strike calls overturned by Major League 239 00:12:14,639 --> 00:12:20,519 Baseball's new automated ball strike challenge system. Okay, so including 240 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,480 back to back incorrect strike three calls, this guy was 241 00:12:23,519 --> 00:12:26,200 more like a suggestion box with legs that day than 242 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:27,519 he was an umpire, you know. 243 00:12:27,519 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 3: What I mean? Like I think I think that was. 244 00:12:31,279 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 4: And overall the teams went six for eight in the challenges. 245 00:12:35,279 --> 00:12:39,440 I think the Reds were five out of five in 246 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:42,279 their challenges, and then I think the Red Sox were 247 00:12:42,399 --> 00:12:46,840 one for one for three in theirs, including like a 248 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:53,399 strike three call that triggered an injection and from Alex 249 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:57,399 for Alex Coora, the Red Sox manager. So look, we 250 00:12:57,399 --> 00:12:59,600 can all go bad on pire. This to me wasn't 251 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:04,360 about one bad umpire. It's what happens when technology starts 252 00:13:04,399 --> 00:13:07,600 creating human beings in real time, and what do we 253 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:11,559 think of that? In a way, because there's a piece 254 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:13,559 of me that goes the human error. Who are you 255 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:16,639 gonna yell at? I like yelling at somebody. I want 256 00:13:16,639 --> 00:13:18,039 to blame you for a shitty call. 257 00:13:18,279 --> 00:13:19,879 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? I want to blame you 258 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:22,360 for a shitty call. Now I can't. It's it's it's 259 00:13:22,399 --> 00:13:23,000 a machine. 260 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:24,759 Speaker 2: You want to blame me for a shitty call. 261 00:13:24,799 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 6: It's the same way I want to blame you for 262 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:29,039 a shitty coach, So like, yes, I make exactly. 263 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 2: As a referee. You've made plenty of mistakes as a coach. 264 00:13:31,799 --> 00:13:34,279 Speaker 4: Just yell at me, right, But I'm just saying, like, 265 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:37,759 even as fans, we like that shit. And and that's where, 266 00:13:37,799 --> 00:13:42,360 like I go, what happens when authority figures can be 267 00:13:42,519 --> 00:13:46,320 instantly corrected Like take that to like parenting or or 268 00:13:46,759 --> 00:13:50,399 I don't care, teachers, whatever you know. And it's like, man, 269 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:54,759 because umpires, they weren't reviewable for a number of years, 270 00:13:54,799 --> 00:13:57,159 and I think they they tested this first because the 271 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,000 Red Wings had it the minor league baseball. 272 00:13:59,039 --> 00:14:00,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, they tried to triple A. 273 00:14:00,759 --> 00:14:04,519 Speaker 4: And does this make the game more fair or do 274 00:14:04,519 --> 00:14:06,879 you think it kind of chips away at respect or 275 00:14:06,879 --> 00:14:09,759 are we looking to just eliminate umpires all together? 276 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,799 Speaker 6: I mean, I think you still need them for a presence. 277 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,720 I think technology is great to get the correct call 278 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:18,279 in the field. 279 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 3: Sure, I think you need both. 280 00:14:22,159 --> 00:14:24,159 Speaker 2: I don't think you can just go straight to technology. 281 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:25,000 You can't have. 282 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:27,559 Speaker 6: Robots on the field just calling stuff because you still 283 00:14:27,559 --> 00:14:29,200 got to have some humanity. 284 00:14:29,279 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 4: Human Yeah, everybody, Well that that's kind of my thing too, 285 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:36,360 And that and that's the thing, like, can you imagine 286 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,600 being fact checked in real time on ship when you're. 287 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 5: Just that would be it would be amazing and also 288 00:14:43,519 --> 00:14:46,799 so annoying. Well, yes, and you have your own opinion, 289 00:14:47,039 --> 00:14:51,360 so it's not always what you say. Not everything is 290 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:56,399 false or correct, it's just sort of right opinion. But 291 00:14:56,559 --> 00:14:59,320 I guess in the sports, when there's money, when there's everything, 292 00:14:59,559 --> 00:15:00,840 well that's the problem. 293 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:04,679 Speaker 4: Now is so gambling that was fought by all these 294 00:15:04,759 --> 00:15:07,840 leagues or pretending to be full by off these leagues, 295 00:15:08,399 --> 00:15:11,080 you know, and now they're making so much money off 296 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:15,240 of it. It is they got to get the call correctly, 297 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:20,080 are correctly. That's the part that I guess that it's 298 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:22,440 almost ruined it. But do we want a flawless game? 299 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:25,480 I mean, do we want a flawless game? 300 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:27,159 Speaker 5: And then who do you have to blame? 301 00:15:27,919 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 3: I don't, Well that's my point. It's like bad calls 302 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:33,559 have always been part of sports today. 303 00:15:33,679 --> 00:15:36,399 Speaker 6: I just it depends on what hill is. I mean, 304 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:38,639 let's just look at the sport of basketball. 305 00:15:39,759 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 2: A player fall. 306 00:15:40,559 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 6: Do I want to go to replay every time to 307 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:44,759 see if it's your faul? 308 00:15:44,879 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 2: No, it is what it is. 309 00:15:46,399 --> 00:15:49,639 Speaker 6: And then with that being said, every individual who calls 310 00:15:49,639 --> 00:15:51,919 the game is going to call the game different. Yes, 311 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:55,159 you know, sometimes you let stuff go, sometimes you don't. 312 00:15:55,159 --> 00:15:56,840 It just depends on what kind of referee you are. 313 00:15:57,360 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 4: Well that I mean like if we erase human error, right, 314 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:07,080 to me, you're erasing human moments like that. That's sort 315 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:09,879 of the imperfection of the game. Like you know what 316 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:16,840 the ESPN. I I time myself in the morning by 317 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:21,240 watching ESPN, So when they get to Get Up, which 318 00:16:21,279 --> 00:16:22,720 is on at eight o'clock. 319 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 3: They could do twenty minutes on a back hall. They can. 320 00:16:27,799 --> 00:16:28,879 Speaker 5: Get up every morning. 321 00:16:29,279 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 4: Yeah right, I mean I like it. I think Greenberg 322 00:16:32,679 --> 00:16:35,200 does a great job. For a while, I was watching 323 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:37,759 the NFL thing and then I just kind of fill in. 324 00:16:37,799 --> 00:16:40,039 So that's become my daily habit. And I think they 325 00:16:40,039 --> 00:16:40,679 do a great job. 326 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:44,039 Speaker 3: But they would do right. What was the call recently? 327 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 4: I think it might have been in Oh no, it 328 00:16:45,759 --> 00:16:47,960 was in the World Baseball Classic. 329 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 3: At the Oh. 330 00:16:50,799 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's okay. 331 00:16:51,519 --> 00:16:54,159 Speaker 4: But either way, they did like twenty minutes on it, 332 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:57,720 and I go, you get these shows stop existing? 333 00:16:58,039 --> 00:17:00,519 Speaker 6: Well, I mean that's the issue, and it's too you 334 00:17:00,559 --> 00:17:03,240 look at twenty years ago, you didn't have the technology 335 00:17:03,279 --> 00:17:06,240 for replaying this and that and whatnot. So everybody was 336 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:07,240 fine with human error. 337 00:17:07,559 --> 00:17:10,759 Speaker 2: Now you're so quick to highlight a call and you 338 00:17:10,759 --> 00:17:11,359 can show. 339 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:14,079 Speaker 6: It from forty different angles, and then you can make 340 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:17,480 it so egregious that that's all people want to talk about. 341 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,039 Twenty years ago you went to a baseball game, how 342 00:17:20,039 --> 00:17:21,759 many people actually knew it was a striking it was 343 00:17:21,799 --> 00:17:22,119 a ball? 344 00:17:22,759 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 2: Maybe the people behind home player. 345 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:26,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's about it. That's about it. 346 00:17:26,559 --> 00:17:28,599 Speaker 4: And now right and now you can see and we 347 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:31,240 slow it down, and there's cameras everywhere, and. 348 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 3: I mean, I guess part of that too, if it's. 349 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:38,279 Speaker 4: Not automated in a way, gives us stuff as fans to. 350 00:17:38,279 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 3: Are you it was right there, Bob? 351 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 4: But I go, you know, people worry about AI replacing them, right, 352 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:50,440 replacing certain. 353 00:17:50,279 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 3: Jobs and things, And I go, well, I think it 354 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,279 does start out by helping. Yeah, right, right now we're 355 00:17:56,359 --> 00:18:02,079 just assisting and then yeah, slowly, you know, it goes away. 356 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:04,279 Speaker 4: And and that's that's why to me, this is like 357 00:18:04,519 --> 00:18:08,079 a bigger conversation. It's not about the umpire. It's about 358 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:11,880 every job, every job that that that people are doing 359 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:13,000 it and I don't know. 360 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:19,519 Speaker 5: It is funny at like Lucas says basketball games this season. Yeah, 361 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:21,880 Joe would be like, oh this rough is not calling 362 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:25,920 anything today, or he just comments. I think sometimes you 363 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:28,799 even do it to yourself. But I hear it about 364 00:18:28,839 --> 00:18:30,640 oh that was a bad call. That should have been 365 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,920 a call. This should have been a call. And the 366 00:18:34,039 --> 00:18:38,079 other parents. Everyone's gotten to know Joe, all my parent friends. 367 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:41,519 They will look at Joe sometimes for a call, especially 368 00:18:41,559 --> 00:18:46,079 at football, like when Lucas's team is playing another team, 369 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,599 and he'll be like, no, Lucas stepped out of line, 370 00:18:48,759 --> 00:18:51,440 like that's not you know, it's not that he always 371 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:55,920 sides with Lucas's team, but they all respect his calls. 372 00:18:57,319 --> 00:19:01,880 Would my coach, No, I don't want to coach. 373 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:05,519 Speaker 6: I mean I coach for work just because it's you know, 374 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,400 it's there, basic, it's there. 375 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:11,599 Speaker 2: But outside, No, I'm not a I'm not a head coach. 376 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:13,759 Speaker 6: I could be like an assistant coach or like a 377 00:19:13,799 --> 00:19:16,880 helping coach, but head coach now, I don't have an interest. 378 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 4: You could be, uh, but the kids would love it. 379 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:22,599 Speaker 5: Lucas had asked. 380 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:29,599 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, my hours, hours, hours are bad. 381 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:31,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, the hours are bad for family life. 382 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, and that was one of the you know, I'm 383 00:19:33,839 --> 00:19:35,839 a little off topic or whatnot, but that was one 384 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:37,319 of the things I told Laura when. 385 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:37,759 Speaker 2: I first met her. 386 00:19:38,759 --> 00:19:41,440 Speaker 6: I I don't really I can't have a relationship with 387 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:44,119 somebody with kids because my work hours suck. It's not 388 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:45,880 fair to you. It's not that you know, I looked 389 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,119 at Laura different from having kids. It's like, you got 390 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:51,359 two kids. I'm not gonna be around and that's the 391 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:54,799 tough part. But like I take personal time. I take vacation, 392 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:55,720 I take sick days. 393 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:56,400 Speaker 3: So I'm there. 394 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:58,839 Speaker 6: I you know, I I'm there as best I can. 395 00:19:59,799 --> 00:20:02,039 But it's about the quality of time too. It's not 396 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:05,359 just being there. Just take time for it. 397 00:20:05,799 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 3: Mm hmm. Wow, where'd you find this guy. 398 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 5: Bronk at a bar? 399 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 3: See? That's one of the best love stars man. I yeah, 400 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,960 to tell you a little alcohol we get you can 401 00:20:22,039 --> 00:20:22,960 find the right people. 402 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 5: I mean, it was I think neither of us expected 403 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:33,160 anything and then it just happened very quickly, so right, yeah, 404 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,400 I mean it was New Year's Eve when we met. 405 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,880 We were out with different groups of people and one 406 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:46,000 of my friends is married to someone who also ref's 407 00:20:46,039 --> 00:20:51,000 college football and reft with Joe, and Joe went up 408 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,799 to him and was like, hey, Dave, who's your blonde friend? 409 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,519 And Dave said, don't waste time. 410 00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:02,279 Speaker 3: Wow, really don't waste your time. What did that? That's 411 00:21:02,279 --> 00:21:03,160 a challenge, buddy. 412 00:21:03,519 --> 00:21:04,079 Speaker 2: It wasn't that. 413 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:06,839 Speaker 6: It was a challenge. It was I mean, you guys 414 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:09,440 probably had plenty of podcasts about Laura in her past 415 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:09,920 and whatnot. 416 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,319 Speaker 3: Laura was having I don't know what you're talking about, Laura. 417 00:21:13,039 --> 00:21:15,160 I know what you're talking about, Joe. I take great 418 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:15,720 offention that. 419 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:21,319 Speaker 6: No, yeah, but no, Laura was having fun. Laura wasn't 420 00:21:21,319 --> 00:21:24,480 really looking for a relationship. I wasn't looking for a relationship. 421 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:26,920 It's just hey, you know, we'll go hang out, we'll 422 00:21:27,319 --> 00:21:30,039 go to live music together, and you know, see whatever 423 00:21:30,039 --> 00:21:33,000 happens happens just blossomed in new a relationship. 424 00:21:33,759 --> 00:21:36,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's uh, that's pretty good. 425 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:40,039 Speaker 5: See that where like that stupid epitome of like things 426 00:21:40,039 --> 00:21:43,960 happen when you least expect it. Sure like neither of us. Yeah, 427 00:21:44,079 --> 00:21:46,920 he was like, because I was like, I don't do relationships. 428 00:21:47,559 --> 00:21:50,559 I'm happily single. And he was like, I would never 429 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,799 date a single mom just my hours and we hung 430 00:21:53,839 --> 00:21:57,119 out a couple of times, just at sort of group outings, 431 00:21:57,319 --> 00:22:00,799 and it's just immedia. 432 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,839 Speaker 4: You never think you're gonna need a personal injury attorney 433 00:22:04,279 --> 00:22:07,839 until you do. It's not something you plan for. You know, 434 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:09,920 one minute, you're just living your life. 435 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:11,880 Speaker 3: Do do next thing? You know you're dealing with. 436 00:22:11,839 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 4: An accident and injury, missed work and a whole lot 437 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,839 of stress you didn't ask for. And here's the truth. 438 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:23,319 Insurance companies they've got a plan, They know exactly what 439 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:23,960 they're doing. 440 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,519 Speaker 3: The question is do you. 441 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 4: That's why if it's me, I'm calling Connors and Ferris. 442 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,000 They know the system, they know how to fight, and 443 00:22:33,039 --> 00:22:35,759 more importantly, they know how to take care of people 444 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:37,400 when things get messy. 445 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 3: You're not just a case file to them. 446 00:22:40,079 --> 00:22:42,559 Speaker 4: They walk you through it step by step and make 447 00:22:42,599 --> 00:22:45,920 sure you're not getting pushed around when you're already down. 448 00:22:46,559 --> 00:22:49,000 So if life throws you one of those moments, don't 449 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:52,000 try to figure it out alone. Call Connors and Ferris 450 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:57,440 or visit Connorsanferris dot com, with offices in New York City, Syracuse, Rochester, 451 00:22:57,519 --> 00:23:00,720 and Buffalo. Because when it matters most, you want someone 452 00:23:00,759 --> 00:23:04,359 in your corner who actually knows how to win Connors 453 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:09,000 and Ferris, and I often think, like after a good 454 00:23:09,079 --> 00:23:11,359 night's sleep, I go, there's nothing serious going on here, 455 00:23:11,799 --> 00:23:14,559 you know. I really believe, like you never really get 456 00:23:14,599 --> 00:23:16,400 it wrong and you never get it done, and if 457 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,200 you get it done, it means you're dead, so you know. 458 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,440 And and the other thing, I just said it to somebody. 459 00:23:22,279 --> 00:23:22,839 Speaker 3: The other day. 460 00:23:23,279 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 4: They go, well, you know, you only live once, And 461 00:23:25,039 --> 00:23:28,359 I said, true, But I say, you only die once. 462 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,640 Get to living, Yeah, you know, get to living because 463 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:32,759 you only die once. And that and that's the part 464 00:23:32,759 --> 00:23:36,720 that I think is sometimes lost, you know. But it's 465 00:23:36,759 --> 00:23:39,039 taken me to this ripe old age of where I 466 00:23:39,079 --> 00:23:41,880 am to see life that way. I mean, that's that's 467 00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:43,480 the bad part. I go, I'm running out of time. 468 00:23:43,519 --> 00:23:44,680 I'm running out a runway. 469 00:23:44,839 --> 00:23:48,799 Speaker 5: You gotta. I joke that I like to be on 470 00:23:48,799 --> 00:23:51,240 a plane every other month, like I want to be 471 00:23:51,319 --> 00:23:54,359 going somewhere. I want to be doing something. And now 472 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,519 we get to do it together and it's so much fun. 473 00:23:56,799 --> 00:23:57,039 Speaker 3: Yeah. 474 00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:58,759 Speaker 4: And now that the kids are gone, and you guys 475 00:23:58,839 --> 00:24:02,160 must have they're gone this week right for the whole week. 476 00:24:02,039 --> 00:24:05,559 Speaker 5: The whole week. Wow, I know I'll miss them. 477 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 3: But will you? I mean, I mean, of course, but 478 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:14,039 we get to have fun. 479 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:20,079 Speaker 4: Yeah, somebody looks like they got they went like around. 480 00:24:19,839 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 5: Rounds, you know, I know, I got jokes. 481 00:24:22,839 --> 00:24:23,759 Speaker 3: I'm trying to think of like a. 482 00:24:25,279 --> 00:24:30,160 Speaker 4: Rabbit puncher, you know, like Manny Patio rabbit punch Joe. 483 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:30,759 Speaker 5: What happened? 484 00:24:32,559 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 6: I fell, just like every domestic Uh, yes, yes. 485 00:24:38,079 --> 00:24:39,880 Speaker 3: That is because that's true. 486 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:40,599 Speaker 2: I fell. 487 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:42,400 Speaker 3: His eye. 488 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 4: He came in here and he can't really see it 489 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,599 because of the way our lighting is now, which is great. 490 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,119 But he came in and I knew he was playing 491 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,279 basketball today and I thought he got an elbow in 492 00:24:53,319 --> 00:24:55,880 the Ey'm like, damn, only because around the orbit of 493 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:59,200 your eye is fragile and it could break, and he 494 00:24:59,279 --> 00:25:01,599 had it almost also look like He's like, oh, you 495 00:25:01,599 --> 00:25:03,599 can see this, and I'm like, see it. It looks 496 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,319 like it looks like you're in a fucking glam band 497 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:07,079 from the eighties. 498 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,559 Speaker 5: You gotlin it is purple. 499 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,839 Speaker 3: I'm waiting for you to start singing round and round 500 00:25:13,519 --> 00:25:15,799 like a rat or something. I'm like, what is going on? 501 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:18,960 And then I I don't know what. 502 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 5: Someone may have hit his head on the headboard last night. 503 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:31,480 Oh well, oh we were finishing. 504 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:37,319 Speaker 3: Oh, man lost his footing and just went wow, we were. 505 00:25:37,279 --> 00:25:39,599 Speaker 5: A little too high up on the bed. When he 506 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:44,240 came down, it was just like damn full weight right on. 507 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,000 And then we had to go to a dinner party after. 508 00:25:47,039 --> 00:25:48,759 Speaker 3: Wait, this was an early round. 509 00:25:48,839 --> 00:25:50,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was an early round. We were gonna go eat. 510 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,839 I don't want to be all full of food and everything, like, 511 00:25:54,319 --> 00:25:56,559 let's get it done. Three in the afternoon. I had 512 00:25:56,599 --> 00:25:58,480 just gotten home from work, took a shower. 513 00:25:58,839 --> 00:25:59,839 Speaker 3: I literally texted. 514 00:26:00,279 --> 00:26:02,839 Speaker 5: I literally texted him like while I was at work, 515 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,599 I was like, meet me in bed at four o'clock. 516 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:07,799 Speaker 1: And yeah. 517 00:26:07,839 --> 00:26:09,920 Speaker 5: So he showed up to the dinner party and people are. 518 00:26:09,799 --> 00:26:10,839 Speaker 3: Like, what happened? 519 00:26:12,799 --> 00:26:14,440 Speaker 2: What else do you guys want me to say? I 520 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,640 guess we go in a little Do I go into 521 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:17,119 the details? 522 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:22,440 Speaker 3: No, you don't have to go to Laura watched Laura 523 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,200 will fight at all. 524 00:26:23,839 --> 00:26:25,599 Speaker 5: No, I'm so used to this. 525 00:26:26,039 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 6: Ora would like to know if I'm the only person, 526 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,880 So I guess put it out there. 527 00:26:30,039 --> 00:26:32,079 Speaker 2: Listeners will respond to this. 528 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 3: Okay, so great. 529 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:39,759 Speaker 6: As a male, when I orgasm, I have very intense orgasms. 530 00:26:40,559 --> 00:26:42,599 Speaker 2: I hold on to them to the point where I 531 00:26:42,599 --> 00:26:48,960 can't and when I release and a good term. I uh, 532 00:26:49,759 --> 00:26:50,519 my body. 533 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 6: Tangles like you have a seizure, I like lose coordination. 534 00:26:53,759 --> 00:26:57,279 And I was having a good time last night. Yeah, 535 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:01,640 usually I braced myself or whatnot. I just embrace myself. Yeah, 536 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:02,519 I just took a tumble. 537 00:27:02,599 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 3: No I could, uh yeah, or do you convulse a 538 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:06,240 little bit too? 539 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 5: Yeah? 540 00:27:07,039 --> 00:27:08,599 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah yeah. 541 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 5: Shake some balls. So normally when we finish, I have 542 00:27:14,519 --> 00:27:16,720 to be on top so he doesn't fall or else 543 00:27:16,759 --> 00:27:19,720 he'll fall on top of me. Oh and I mean 544 00:27:19,759 --> 00:27:22,319 that happened too, but that's what was going on last night. 545 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,279 But he was just I guess we were higher on 546 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:28,039 the bed. 547 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:33,039 Speaker 3: Dude, I'm sorry. It looks painful, that's all. It looks painful. 548 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:34,599 Speaker 2: It really doesn't hurt. 549 00:27:34,599 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 6: It was just it was more funny and embarrassing because 550 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,359 it was literally like, at the same time I finished, 551 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,799 I whacked my head and it was just She's like 552 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,680 she's over there, you know, enjoying and bliss and I 553 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:46,359 got my hands. 554 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 3: She's all happy. 555 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:59,119 Speaker 6: She looks over she's like, oh my god. 556 00:27:55,599 --> 00:27:57,759 Speaker 5: There's a video of one of my friends took the 557 00:27:57,839 --> 00:27:59,680 video at the dinner party last night because there was 558 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,240 like different couples and She had us all doing this 559 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,759 game where we had to put a cucumber on our 560 00:28:04,799 --> 00:28:07,440 head and try to get it into our mouths, and 561 00:28:07,519 --> 00:28:11,759 everyone's like, and then you just see Joe have ice pass. 562 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:14,519 Speaker 3: For Joe. 563 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,440 Speaker 5: All right, Hey, you know we had a little Saturday 564 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,920 fun ness. Yes, what's wrong about that? 565 00:28:22,319 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 3: Absolutely nothing, no, nothing. 566 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 4: It's just that it's an interesting black guy and it's 567 00:28:27,079 --> 00:28:28,200 the best black. 568 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:29,279 Speaker 3: Eye story I've ever heard. 569 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,079 Speaker 2: I felt, no, but I. 570 00:28:31,039 --> 00:28:32,880 Speaker 3: Mean that go with that. 571 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 4: But I mean, when you get into the details, that's 572 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,000 a great reason to get I mean, I'm like, wow, 573 00:28:38,359 --> 00:28:40,160 exactly you need you know, what you need to do 574 00:28:40,759 --> 00:28:42,839 is you need to buy one of those pool noodles, 575 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,359 cut it in half and just put it over. 576 00:28:44,319 --> 00:28:46,559 Speaker 5: The edge of the I know, but it's heaven Like 577 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,960 we're like if we're standing or anything towards the end, 578 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:54,039 we always have to plan it out because you can't 579 00:28:54,079 --> 00:28:55,519 just drop it's a. 580 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,119 Speaker 2: Hit with a tranquilizer. 581 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 3: It's just, oh god, that's phenomenal, Joe. That's the best. 582 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,400 That's the best I've enjoyed the conversation overall. 583 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 4: That's we saved this for the last but really man insightful. 584 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,359 I think I see the big heart you're talking about, 585 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:23,680 and what a wonderful thing you're doing. And I hope 586 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,839 you find something that fulfills all that for you. 587 00:29:26,839 --> 00:29:29,119 Speaker 3: You know, I really do that that gives you all that. 588 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 4: And I love the fact that he's saying, you know, 589 00:29:31,599 --> 00:29:36,799 I haven't had a family, so now I'm retiring from 590 00:29:36,839 --> 00:29:39,960 getting screamed at by over zealous dads on the sideline. 591 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:40,759 Speaker 3: Well we've said it. 592 00:29:40,799 --> 00:29:44,799 Speaker 5: Maybe he'll go back down to Roughing High School eventually. 593 00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, when the boys are right, if they whatever. 594 00:29:50,559 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 3: I know right now. 595 00:29:51,799 --> 00:29:53,839 Speaker 5: He just gets to wear that pinstripe suit around me. 596 00:29:54,559 --> 00:30:03,359 Speaker 4: Oh really flagging the play seven minutes for Roughing, seven 597 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:07,240 inches for Roughing, I don't know, all right, for Joe 598 00:30:07,519 --> 00:30:10,880 the Man, for Laura, I'm Bill Moran. 599 00:30:11,079 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 3: We'll see you next time.