Speaker 1: Violet Voss. My guests tonight, you know where you can
Speaker 1: find are at Violet Voss XO Violet, thank you so
Speaker 1: much for coming on with Midnight.
Speaker 2: Yes, of course, thank you for having me.
Speaker 1: Now. There are two types of women in the world
Speaker 1: that I cannot make laugh and generally hate my guts Okay.
Speaker 1: The first of those two are medical professionals. They just
Speaker 1: don't like me. They don't find me funny. I try
Speaker 1: and crack a joke when I'm around them or whatever,
Speaker 1: I get nothing. I get zero. The other type of
Speaker 1: women that just hate my guts it teams are femdoms,
Speaker 1: which I would like to get into with you at
Speaker 1: some point. But can I start with my just initial question,
Speaker 1: boring typical how it always starts. How did you initially
Speaker 1: decide to get into whatever aspect of the industry you
Speaker 1: first got into. Was it modeling first? Was it you know,
Speaker 1: the websites? What was it? Talk me through it?
Speaker 2: Sure, Yeah, I was modeling. I had been modeling previously,
Speaker 2: not particularly like adult work, just like fashion modeling, which
Speaker 2: I did throughout like high school as a hobby, and
Speaker 2: then like throughout my kind of early adult years, I
Speaker 2: did it as well. Just it was more like a
Speaker 2: weekend hobby for me while I still had my full
Speaker 2: time job. But you know, things didn't work out with
Speaker 2: my job. I was in the real estate industry, and
Speaker 2: after about five years, I decided, like that it's just
Speaker 2: not like fulfilling me way that I had thought it would.
Speaker 2: So I kind of had this epiphany that modeling I
Speaker 2: could do it as a full time job as an
Speaker 2: independent model. So I decided, what the hat, I'll give
Speaker 2: it a try and see if I can actually make
Speaker 2: a living from being an independent model. And I did,
Speaker 2: And that's kind of how originally got started.
Speaker 1: So I had a cousin who did modeling, Like that
Speaker 1: was the big talk of the family when we were little, Like, oh,
Speaker 1: do you know this person got invited to Barbazon? Was
Speaker 1: it Barbazon? Was that one of the modeling agencies? Okay,
Speaker 1: whatever it is. I never saw learn a Sears catalog,
Speaker 1: so I'm just assuming my cousin never made the cut.
Speaker 1: Did somebody approach you? Were you recognized to just like
Speaker 1: this this teenager's gorgeous, She's a beautiful girl. She'd be
Speaker 1: a great model. Did you have features that they that
Speaker 1: people look for? Like, are you a taller girl, do
Speaker 1: you have long legs, whatever it is that they look for,
Speaker 1: did you like apply to one of those things and
Speaker 1: you were like the Lebron James of that modeling camp
Speaker 1: and they put you up to the top.
Speaker 2: I definitely was approached as a younger, I guess my
Speaker 2: younger teenage years, you could say, not even by I
Speaker 2: think people that were in the industry, just people that
Speaker 2: thought I should be a model, like people that lived
Speaker 2: in my town. And I got that a lot. And
Speaker 2: I actually went to my parents and said, like, that's
Speaker 2: something I would be interested in doing, but they're like,
Speaker 2: you know, basically, they were like, no, you have all
Speaker 2: these other extracurricular activities going on, so you kind of
Speaker 2: have to pick and choose. So I chose sports and
Speaker 2: other activities besides going into modeling. But later on as
Speaker 2: a teenager, once I decided to like put a halt
Speaker 2: to all those activities, I started modeling for like my
Speaker 2: own little blog I had, like a fashion blog, but
Speaker 2: I never actually signed with an agency, and I never
Speaker 2: did like any campaigns. I think I definitely could have
Speaker 2: had that been my choice, but no it was not.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I've done everything independent since then.
Speaker 1: And then you said the full time job you had
Speaker 1: when you were modeling a little later on was real
Speaker 1: Was that real estate? You were doing real estate?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So what I mean did you think you liked real
Speaker 1: estate or did you just think you could be successful
Speaker 1: at it? Or like, I mean, over here, you're doing modeling.
Speaker 1: You've been doing modeling for years. My first thought is
Speaker 1: that sounds awesome. Maybe it's not. Maybe it is. My
Speaker 1: first thought would be like, yo, let's make this career career. Now,
Speaker 1: that's probably why I'm a podcaster at the age I am.
Speaker 1: But but I will I gotta laugh. Say, but was
Speaker 1: there did you just get bored of the real estate?
Speaker 1: Was it just a bad market at the time and
Speaker 1: you decided, hey, fuck it, let's make this full on
Speaker 1: modeling or you know, what was your situation there? What
Speaker 1: was like the turning point where you were like, fuck this,
Speaker 1: I'm not selling houses anymore.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it was actually like when I was a kid,
Speaker 2: I knew like the first job I ever wanted to
Speaker 2: do is be a model. But like once I kind
Speaker 2: of like came to the realization like the type of
Speaker 2: model I wanted to be probably was going to happen,
Speaker 2: then it transitioned into wanting to be a real estate broker,
Speaker 2: and I had my site set on that for like years.
Speaker 2: It just didn't pan out the way I thought. I
Speaker 2: was in it for five years. I did property management
Speaker 2: first and then got into the sales side. But I
Speaker 2: think the turning point for me was it was hard
Speaker 2: to like get solid list of clients and like work
Speaker 2: with people because I was so young, Like they didn't
Speaker 2: take me seriously. You know, this is like the biggest
Speaker 2: purchase of most people's life, So like, how am I
Speaker 2: going to sit there and take a twenty year old
Speaker 2: that looks like this seriously? So that was some issues
Speaker 2: that I faced. Plus it was around the time of
Speaker 2: the pandemic, so the company I was with had a
Speaker 2: massive layoff and I was a part of it. So
Speaker 2: that kind of like got me to the point of
Speaker 2: being like, Okay, they've decided to lay me off. I
Speaker 2: wasn't feeling it for a while, So is this what
Speaker 2: I want to continue or do I want to pivot?
Speaker 1: It's always about the pivot in life. I mean, that's
Speaker 1: how we find the direction we're supposed to be going in,
Speaker 1: as we had down the wrong one and going a
Speaker 1: different way. So how and congratulations to you for making
Speaker 1: that jump in it appears being quite successful with it.
Speaker 1: When was the first time you When did it go
Speaker 1: from modern to nudity? Did you start the only fans?
Speaker 1: Did you or were you approached to take that next step?
Speaker 1: And did you have any reservations about that? Did you think, like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to do this? Did
Speaker 1: you dip your toe? Sorry, I always give too many
Speaker 1: answers at the beginning here, which one of those is yours.
Speaker 2: Yeah. When I did modeling, like right off the bat,
Speaker 2: just because you know, being in my early twenties, like
Speaker 2: you know, trying to make her career as a fashion
Speaker 2: model at that point isn't like great, especially as an
Speaker 2: independent model. So a lot of the like photographers that
Speaker 2: I was in contact with that would hire me were like,
Speaker 2: this is what I want. Most of them did want
Speaker 2: nudity definitely was like a little shocking to me, Like
Speaker 2: I knew like that was probably going to come, but
Speaker 2: I was like, well, I feel like the only way
Speaker 2: I'm really going to make a good amount of money
Speaker 2: doing it is why naked? And so that was like
Speaker 2: pretty much right off the bat, And at the same time,
Speaker 2: I started an only Fans. I don't know why I
Speaker 2: decided to do like a faceless OnlyFans, because I think
Speaker 2: there was some part of me that thought I may
Speaker 2: go back into real estate or a different career path.
Speaker 2: So like worst case scenario, I can take it off
Speaker 2: my account, off the internet and my face was never there.
Speaker 2: But that didn't it didn't work out very long. I
Speaker 2: think I did that two months and then you know,
Speaker 2: I had to start showing my face and all of that.
Speaker 1: Can I tell you a crazy misconception that I heard
Speaker 1: from two separate people over the last two nights that
Speaker 1: I've done interviews. Both won a major mainstream girl and
Speaker 1: one a up and coming girl that's just getting started.
Speaker 1: Both of them thought that OnlyFans was just a modeling
Speaker 1: website where you could just put your modeling pictures up.
Speaker 1: And both of them were contacted by a guy, not
Speaker 1: the same guy. That would be fucking really weird. Uh,
Speaker 1: both of them contacted by guys and they were like,
Speaker 1: where are your videos? And they were like, what the
Speaker 1: would what do you mean where are the video? What
Speaker 1: are videos? One of my posts? I'm just posting my
Speaker 1: mamling pictures. Did you have any misconceptions about that or
Speaker 1: did you know how far only fans would have to
Speaker 1: go to become as successful as you would hope it
Speaker 1: was going to be.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I thought the same thing. I thought, I
Speaker 2: can post bikini pictures and like I can sell like
Speaker 2: just photos of my titties if I'm going to for
Speaker 2: an extreme amount of money, But like that's not the case.
Speaker 2: And but actually I think my story was different was
Speaker 2: I was posting all the lingerie photos and whatever, but
Speaker 2: obviously couldn't see my face right off the bat. So
Speaker 2: a lot of people found me because they thought it
Speaker 2: was a previous per porn star that was also named
Speaker 2: Violet Voss that isn't longer in the industry, So they're
Speaker 2: asking for like content that they thought that Violet Boss
Speaker 2: would have, And I was like, what do you mean.
Speaker 1: Don't you remember that seven Guy gang Bang? You did? No? No,
Speaker 1: not quite.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's when I found out there was another
Speaker 2: porn star with my name. But also like, oh so
Speaker 2: this is what only fans is. And then I started
Speaker 2: like doing a deep dive is to have some of
Speaker 2: these creators make that much money? And all started to
Speaker 2: make sense.
Speaker 1: And then can I ask, did you go to Did
Speaker 1: you go to college for anything?
Speaker 2: I did for a year before I was kicked out
Speaker 2: of college.
Speaker 1: Hey, we've all been there. What was your major or whatever?
Speaker 1: You were studying?
Speaker 2: Finance?
Speaker 1: I've been saying, Okay, finance is good for this too.
Speaker 1: I've been talking to girls lately, any of the new
Speaker 1: girl who come on, and they're like, you know, what
Speaker 1: would I do to really get in Boba? My suggestion
Speaker 1: is freaking take a marketing class at your local community
Speaker 1: college and learn how to edit on final cut. Like,
Speaker 1: I mean, my theory is that, And this is no judgment,
Speaker 1: but I'm just gonna throw numbers out there. A seven
Speaker 1: who out of ten who really really really knows the algorithm,
Speaker 1: knows how to edit, knows this, and that can make
Speaker 1: a lot more money than a ten in this industry.
Speaker 1: If she I don't really like using social media that
Speaker 1: much and I'll just be hot. Is that accurate you think?
Speaker 2: Oh? God, yeah, I mean I've even seen it myself
Speaker 2: time and time again. Like marketing is key in this industry.
Speaker 2: It's something I continually am learning as well, because it's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't love posting on social media all the time,
Speaker 2: for example, but it's like you have to stay consistent
Speaker 2: because that's the only way you're actually gonna be able
Speaker 2: to sell things on you know, these pay sites or
Speaker 2: you know, build your brand. So marketing is everything, even
Speaker 2: in the adult industry.
Speaker 1: I would say it's what ninety five percent of working
Speaker 1: in porn is not shooting porn. You're shooting this much
Speaker 1: and then all of the post production blah blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. Do you have people that work on those
Speaker 1: things for you in terms of editing or is that
Speaker 1: something you had to like jump into, Like are you
Speaker 1: loading footage into your computer and cutting it up or
Speaker 1: did you find someone that you're like, h, he'll cut
Speaker 1: it up. That's good.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I did do everything by myself, but you know,
Speaker 2: I became very spread then, so now I have a
Speaker 2: full time video editor. I have a business manager that
Speaker 2: helps me with like all the back end stuff, accounting
Speaker 2: and all the stuff that you know I don't want
Speaker 2: to deal with, just so I can get out there
Speaker 2: and create and shoot. So yeah, Like, I think it's
Speaker 2: really important as well, like to up level your success
Speaker 2: in the industry, to have help. It's like I hired
Speaker 2: a publicist, I have agents to help book shoot, So
Speaker 2: like all of those things are really important vital to
Speaker 2: success in my opinion.
Speaker 1: Sure, do you know what, do you remember what your
Speaker 1: first shoot, your first mainstream type of shoot was.
Speaker 2: Uh, yeah, and porn, yes, because it was fairly recent,
Speaker 2: I think it.
Speaker 1: Was okay, deed, all of your modeling experience prior to
Speaker 1: that make it a little easier to step on the
Speaker 1: set or is this a whole different arena? Is this
Speaker 1: like being the best basketball player in the world then
Speaker 1: you step in on a football field.
Speaker 2: Now, yeah, it was. You know, it didn't hurt to
Speaker 2: have the previous modeling experience. Like I'm someone that's really
Speaker 2: confident in front of the camera and that knows generally
Speaker 2: knows my best angles and things like that. So like
Speaker 2: that portion I had done because apparently there is a
Speaker 2: big fear of like performing in front of the camera,
Speaker 2: and that really didn't occur for me. But everything else,
Speaker 2: you know, like bre in post production was new to
Speaker 2: me because you know, there's a lot more aspects to
Speaker 2: go into filming a production, like a pornographic film versus
Speaker 2: just you know, modeling for some amateur photographer model.
Speaker 1: Now, did you point out to any of your directors
Speaker 1: or have you been there yet where they're like, okay,
Speaker 1: turn to your left and you're like, oh no, my
Speaker 1: right side's actually my best side. Just so you know,
Speaker 1: like I assume most girls come into it just kind
Speaker 1: of I'll just listen to whatever you say, Like the
Speaker 1: girls who come in without that experience and who think
Speaker 1: like I'm just I'm gonna fucking get paid and it's
Speaker 1: gonna rule. I assume it's just turn this way, turn
Speaker 1: that way. You do this. Are you adding any input,
Speaker 1: like I really do look better from this side? Blah
Speaker 1: blah blah, or I prefer it? Do you and do
Speaker 1: if you have Do the people on set appreciate that?
Speaker 1: Are they a little bit like all right, Violet, quite
Speaker 1: down over there, You're good, we got it.
Speaker 2: Actually, most of the time, most of the shoots I've had,
Speaker 2: they actually like look at me and they're like, well,
Speaker 2: you're the model, so like you tell us what you
Speaker 2: want to do, really like this is what we need obviously,
Speaker 2: like you've got to get the pretty girl pictures before
Speaker 2: you film the pornow And you know, they are always
Speaker 2: very like open to suggestions or whatever, So I never
Speaker 2: really have an issue. Hell, a lot of the times
Speaker 2: They're like, what is your best side, and we'll shoot
Speaker 2: that side. So I don't ever really have to even
Speaker 2: put in my input because they're already asking for anyway,
Speaker 2: which I appreciate. I think it's great.
Speaker 1: I'd be such a shitty hot girl. I would be like,
Speaker 1: are you directing? You fucking do it? You pick the
Speaker 1: best angle, and if it's not good, I'm gonna blast
Speaker 1: you online about it. Uh.
Speaker 2: Sometimes they in life that like, just tell me what
Speaker 2: to do at this point, Like, you know, I've been
Speaker 2: shooting for ten days in a row, so sure.
Speaker 1: I My normal line of questioning on these shows are
Speaker 1: more like, you know, do you like this? What are
Speaker 1: some kings of fetishes? You're interesting? Blah blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: But would you mind if we touched on a little
Speaker 1: bit of the femdom stuff?
Speaker 2: Of course? I love talking femdom.
Speaker 1: Okay, so here's the thing. Does okay, let's run through
Speaker 1: all the basic ignorant I'm a dumb cave man questions.
Speaker 1: Does that mean you hate men? No? Okay, all right?
Speaker 1: And I like your response was you were a little
Speaker 1: bit annoyed. I felt like with me, like, oh, this
Speaker 1: guy's stupid. He doesn't get it. That's just a role
Speaker 1: I'm playing. I have one hundred and sixty iq uh.
Speaker 1: So it doesn't mean you hate men. What do you
Speaker 1: like about femdom so much? What does it bring you pleasure?
Speaker 1: Or you maybe just very good at it and that's
Speaker 1: why you do it.
Speaker 2: I feel like it definitely came naturally once I started to,
Speaker 2: you know, participate in femdom activities. But I really enjoy
Speaker 2: the exchange of power and like you know, yes, I
Speaker 2: generally dominate men. And it's not again because you dislike men,
Speaker 2: but they are willingly handing over their power to you,
Speaker 2: like on platter, and there's something like that I just
Speaker 2: can't describe about the feeling of almost like you have
Speaker 2: this person in the poem of your hand, now what
Speaker 2: are you going to do with them? And so to me,
Speaker 2: it's always been about the power exchange and how exhilarating
Speaker 2: that is.
Speaker 1: I won't ask you names, obviously, and I don't have
Speaker 1: any to point out to you as examples, but are
Speaker 1: too Are there too many girls in the industry that
Speaker 1: try femdom stuff but maybe aren't as good as it,
Speaker 1: aren't as good at it, or maybe not quite their person,
Speaker 1: their natural personalities not suit it for it. I'll tell
Speaker 1: you what, every new girl I interview who's trying to
Speaker 1: get into this industry all says like, I definitely want
Speaker 1: to do like femdom and pay pig stuff. And my
Speaker 1: first thought, no offense is okay, So you don't want
Speaker 1: to take your clothes off. You want guys to send
Speaker 1: you a bunch of money done correctly, done with somebody
Speaker 1: with experience. I understand the fantasy of that, but is
Speaker 1: there people who this is now a buzzword and they're
Speaker 1: trying to grab onto it a little too quickly without
Speaker 1: knowing the background for sure.
Speaker 2: I mean people in the industry and not in the industry.
Speaker 2: I know a lot of girls that, like you said,
Speaker 2: don't really probably have the personality to really understand, and
Speaker 2: it tells you everything you need to know. They don't
Speaker 2: understand the difference between femdom and fin doom financial domination.
Speaker 2: Fenn doom is a specific fetish, a very niche fetish
Speaker 2: of female domination, and they think that that's what femtom
Speaker 2: is about, is paypigs. It's like that's such a small
Speaker 2: aspect of being a femdom that you know, if you
Speaker 2: don't even understand the difference of that, then you probably
Speaker 2: shouldn't be engaging in it in my opinion. But yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean I've even had like people outside of this industry,
Speaker 2: like my hairdresser, like, I guess the financial domination and
Speaker 2: pay pigs has become this super popular topic on like
Speaker 2: TikTok and she's like, well, like she knows I was
Speaker 2: a phendom or dominatrix. She's like, well, I would like
Speaker 2: to do that as like a side hustle. That's what
Speaker 2: they're basically pitching it as on social media. Is it's
Speaker 2: not sex work. It's a way to get to be
Speaker 2: fully dressed and take money. And it's like it's not
Speaker 2: even that, it's not even close to that.
Speaker 1: So findom is so femdom is the larger one. Findom
Speaker 1: is a portion of that that's like you have to
Speaker 1: be an underwater welder level of like technicality. It feels
Speaker 1: like to me, like you have to really know what
Speaker 1: you're doing. Otherwise you're just gonna ask a guy for
Speaker 1: money and he's gonna be like, hey, fuck you, and
Speaker 1: then you feel foolish, I assume, like silly, But yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: so femdom you you just you said, dominatrix stuff. Have
Speaker 1: you ever done in real life like dominatrix stuff or
Speaker 1: is it all digital through everything?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had a dungeon for about two years and
Speaker 2: I just recently shut that down. But I still do
Speaker 2: in person sessions. I'm just traveling so much now for filming,
Speaker 2: you know, porn that basically like after I'm done for
Speaker 2: the day, like I open up times for my clients
Speaker 2: to do like dominatrix sessions. So yeah, I still do
Speaker 2: in persons and I've been doing them, and there's definitely
Speaker 2: something fascinating about dominating someone in person versus online. And
Speaker 2: again it's something you can't really like explain when someone's
Speaker 2: there in person. But yeah, I think it's something I'll
Speaker 2: always do as far as uh, as long as I'm
Speaker 2: in the industry. But you know, I am very particular
Speaker 2: about who I do in persons with at this point.
Speaker 1: Any idea, and you may not know where that stems from.
Speaker 1: In you did you bullied as a kid and now
Speaker 1: you're just like, fuck the world, I'm anna burn it down,
Speaker 1: tie you up one guy at a time, or you know,
Speaker 1: are you just kind of I could tell you I
Speaker 1: would try and do that one because I would be
Speaker 1: the lazy girl that I told you at the beginning.
Speaker 1: I would just expect everyone paying me money, send me money,
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Then I'd reassess and be like, why
Speaker 1: do I want to do this? And for me it
Speaker 1: would be like, I'm not naturally a dominant person. I'm
Speaker 1: not even a sub either. I really have no classification.
Speaker 1: I kind of feel like I just go with the wind.
Speaker 1: But if I was doing that, I would probably a
Speaker 1: lot of it would come from anger for me, like,
Speaker 1: let's really whip this guy because fucking some guy pulled
Speaker 1: my hair when I was a kid. Explain to me
Speaker 1: why it's not from that. Maybe or maybe it is.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe you got beat up and if you did, I apologize,
Speaker 1: not that I did it. Does that come from that?
Speaker 1: From you? Does it come from again, you get a
Speaker 1: sexual gratification out of being able to control these people?
Speaker 1: Does that ever bleed over into other aspects of your
Speaker 1: life where you need to be in control of stuff?
Speaker 1: Tell me about domination and your view.
Speaker 2: Honestly from like, because I'm really into the psychological aspect
Speaker 2: of BDSM. So for me, I feel like it stems
Speaker 2: from I just remember, and I don't even know where
Speaker 2: it came from. Like I was the troublemaker in school,
Speaker 2: like and I would bully boys, Like I would pick
Speaker 2: out boys in class I didn't like, and I would
Speaker 2: bully them. And I don't know why. It was just
Speaker 2: like because my parents were fine and there was no like,
Speaker 2: you know, I wasn't like hating towards my parents. And
Speaker 2: I don't know where that came from, but yeah, it
Speaker 2: was like so that went on for a long time
Speaker 2: and I even had to switch schools at one point
Speaker 2: because I was such a terror. But I think like
Speaker 2: a lot of it, like being able to dominate and
Speaker 2: then stems easily from that. But at this point in life, like, yeah,
Speaker 2: there is sexual gratification from it. I just get like
Speaker 2: mentally stimulated. But yes, it is. You know, I can't
Speaker 2: say deny that I don't get turned on like draining
Speaker 2: a pay pig or you know, not necessarily beating someone
Speaker 2: to death. That's a different type, not to death, but.
Speaker 1: You death.
Speaker 2: Beating someone. I'm not a murderer.
Speaker 1: Can I tell you the most fucked up part out
Speaker 1: of everything you said right there, And it's not the
Speaker 1: beating to death part. It's Actually, those boys went home
Speaker 1: and cried and said, Violet Voss whatever your real name is,
Speaker 1: Violet Voss beat me up at school today, and their
Speaker 1: parents went, that just means she has a crush on you.
Speaker 1: You know that, right? But you said you didn't have
Speaker 1: a crush on the guys. You picked the guy and
Speaker 1: went fuck him. I'm going to beat him to.
Speaker 2: Death pretty much? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh very now is there? Now there's gotta be guys
Speaker 1: going around who were like I went to elementary school
Speaker 1: with her and she picked on me. I could have
Speaker 1: dated her. No, you could have got your ass kicked
Speaker 1: if a teacher didn't step in.
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, there's definitely all right.
Speaker 1: So what about uh? I almost said straight porn? As
Speaker 1: if it's like, you know, there's classifications. I guess there's
Speaker 1: cank in this and that, but moving into straight porn?
Speaker 1: Are you a Are you naturally a dominant person though?
Speaker 1: Like in real life.
Speaker 2: I am. I'm definitely like just more reserved though like you,
Speaker 2: if you see me out in public, like yes, you'll
Speaker 2: definitely feel the dominant energy. But I'm not gonna like
Speaker 2: come on to anyone, and I'm generally just more reserved
Speaker 2: and that comes out when it needs to.
Speaker 1: But what if I was a shitty waiter to you,
Speaker 1: then would you be like, hey, hey, get your shit
Speaker 1: to would you call me out on it?
Speaker 2: You know, it depends on my mood. Like, yes, I
Speaker 2: do call people out, but most of the time, I'm
Speaker 2: actually a very understanding person too, so like I have
Speaker 2: a you know, I'm very empathetic, We'll say that. So
Speaker 2: there's part of like that's like part of my like
Speaker 2: heart strings because like sometimes yeah, so I just kind
Speaker 2: of want to be like very blunt and dominant, but
Speaker 2: also sometimes I'm like, Okay, well maybe they're just having
Speaker 2: a bad day. Like these things happen. So it just
Speaker 2: depends on my mood. You know. That's the female rage,
Speaker 2: I guess.
Speaker 3: But yeah, so when you were when you're shooting a
Speaker 3: mainstream team where you're maybe not going to be the
Speaker 3: dominant one there, do you have to like tone your
Speaker 3: natural dominance down or can you just kind of go
Speaker 3: It sounds like you can kind of just go with
Speaker 3: the flow with whatever the situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm really like easygoing in that sense. And you know,
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, yes, it's a it's
Speaker 2: an acting job, so it's you know, unless it's an extreme,
Speaker 2: like submissive role that they have me playing, which normally
Speaker 2: I'm not going to do. Is something that extreme. Uh,
Speaker 2: then yeah, it's really easy for me, Like, yeah, I
Speaker 2: part of me does like being submissive, you know with
Speaker 2: my like partner, Like you know, I prefer my husband
Speaker 2: to be the more dominant one like in our relationship,
Speaker 2: so imporn. It's easy because that switch can easily be
Speaker 2: turned on, like yeah, the man takes control in the bedroom. Like,
Speaker 2: that's pretty easy for me to get on board with.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we're gonna do a thing I like
Speaker 1: to call stat check. Now, you were gonna say this,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw this out at you, and you're gonna go, Nope,
Speaker 1: that's entirely wrong, that's inaccurate, it's off. I understand that
Speaker 1: it's not updated. Well, we are using the Inner had
Speaker 1: Adult Film database here. We're just gonna run through some
Speaker 1: of the stats you have and when you come back
Speaker 1: on a year from now and you're drowning in av
Speaker 1: and awards and you're like giving them away to mailman
Speaker 1: that come to your fucking house, here, take this one
Speaker 1: best anal uh whatever it is. That way we'll be
Speaker 1: able to compare it and be like, wow, look at
Speaker 1: the growth we've had in this time. So stat check,
Speaker 1: I have sixteen scenes worked with five guys, one girl,
Speaker 1: one AVN nomination, no wards yet, but we're working on that.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, what does the bang bus
Speaker 1: smell like?
Speaker 2: Dirty? I did not really want film in there, but
Speaker 2: like it's iconic, So definitely have shot many more scenes
Speaker 2: than that between like.
Speaker 1: As every time, sure, totally, I get it. They don't count.
Speaker 1: They don't count certain webs. Like it's good, we'll just
Speaker 1: use it as the stat check from there. But every
Speaker 1: time I always, and I warned girls too, I go, look,
Speaker 1: it's going to be totally off and they go, okay,
Speaker 1: no problem. And then I throw it out and they go,
Speaker 1: that's totally off, you know. I go, yeah, no, I know, right?
Speaker 1: Would you say? See? And in my questions here I
Speaker 1: have this word written, this is how polite I am. Okay,
Speaker 1: were you always promiscuous before you got into porn? Is
Speaker 1: the question? But that's like such a I don't want
Speaker 1: to be one of those guys. It's like, so, were
Speaker 1: you always like real slutty or whatever? Like did you
Speaker 1: have a lot of sexual experience getting into this or
Speaker 1: was this a huge jump for you?
Speaker 2: Yes, a lot of sexual experience. I was a slut
Speaker 2: in college. I can say that that was my first
Speaker 2: go out it, so I went, you know, pretty mean crazy.
Speaker 2: But so yeah, I've definitely was well experienced prior to par.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, now, has porn me you more or
Speaker 1: less promiscuit.
Speaker 2: Less? Probably because that's all I'm doing. You know, when
Speaker 2: I come home, I'm like, just pour me a glass
Speaker 2: of wine and let me chill, Like I don't need
Speaker 2: to be rescuous anymore.
Speaker 1: I'd like to please just sit on this bag of
Speaker 1: frozen peas for a while. Okay, if you could just
Speaker 1: give me a minute. Okay, have you had any sexual
Speaker 1: firsts in porn? Anything you didn't do beforehand that you
Speaker 1: like did for the first time in porn? And how
Speaker 1: did that? Was it exciting? Maybe the answer is no,
Speaker 1: so I shouldn't run through all the different scenarios if
Speaker 1: it's no, Yes.
Speaker 2: I would say the biggest like sexual first was a
Speaker 2: DP scene with two guys. Obviously that was very interesting.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I'm hard pressed to ask, but interesting
Speaker 1: in what way? Did you just did you? Were you like, wow,
Speaker 1: I didn't know my body could bend in that way.
Speaker 1: Were you impressed with men in their ability to maneuver everything? Like?
Speaker 2: Interested, very impressed with how they were able to maneuver
Speaker 2: her themselves inside of me? But then yeah, it was
Speaker 2: it was definitely like, Oh, there we go, I can
Speaker 2: feel that one for sure.
Speaker 1: Now have you done any so that was a deep heat?
Speaker 1: Have you done any duel? I don't know how you
Speaker 1: say this too in the same hole?
Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, that's I guess I was wrong. Yes, it
Speaker 2: was two in the same hole. I don't do anal.
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, dual in the vagint now, okay, I've also
Speaker 1: interviewed women before who've done three. I have a question
Speaker 1: for you. The guy in the middle is just coming
Speaker 1: based on the two dicks surrounding him, right, yeah, I thop.
Speaker 2: Part like, are you really feeling any pussies?
Speaker 1: No, you're just fucking dicks, sir. And you know what,
Speaker 1: congrats to you for being comfortable with your sexuality to
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 2: There you go. Congrats, very very congrats woman. But you're not.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, it's hey, it's not for me, but my
Speaker 1: thing is and I've said this a million times, as
Speaker 1: long as there's no dog or kid in the room.
Speaker 1: I'm totally fine with whatever anyone wants to do. Your
Speaker 1: choice as long as everyone's cool with it, run along
Speaker 1: with it. Let me get back to some of these.
Speaker 1: Are there any kinks or fetishes that you only learned
Speaker 1: you liked from being in this industry? Well?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean much learned about the whole fetish of
Speaker 2: female domination. I didn't even know that was a fetish
Speaker 2: really prior to getting into the industry. So a whole
Speaker 2: bunch of kinks and like I guess fetishes for me
Speaker 2: came from learning all the nichey little kinks and fetishes
Speaker 2: within that. But yeah, I would say that was my
Speaker 2: biggest thing because I didn't know that was a world
Speaker 2: that existed.
Speaker 1: Now my next question is the inverse of that, And
Speaker 1: you already said anal, Is there any kinks of fetishes
Speaker 1: you have? Zero? Maybe not anal permanently, we'll clarify that,
Speaker 1: but any kinks or fetishes you have no interest in
Speaker 1: pursuing in this industry where someone will be like, you know, Violet,
Speaker 1: you could really make a ton of money getting your
Speaker 1: feet pissed on, and you're just like, no, ain't for me,
Speaker 1: that's not it is there anything like that.
Speaker 2: Really, just my limits come from the dominator stuff, like yeah,
Speaker 2: I do golden showers, but I don't receive them, like
Speaker 2: it's mainly like a part of the power play. Like
Speaker 2: at this point in my life, I'm not going to
Speaker 2: participate in being bound anymore. I was a bondage model
Speaker 2: for a long time and learned I really don't like that,
Speaker 2: So I really don't want to be like tied up anymore.
Speaker 2: And any type of bondage, you know.
Speaker 1: You don't like that because it's uncomfortable for you, or
Speaker 1: because oh it's against your brain.
Speaker 2: Now okay, physically like just it's become physically like painful
Speaker 2: to my body, and my body doesn't tolerate pain wells.
Speaker 1: Well, then that that takes us back to the previous question.
Speaker 1: So anal anal off the table completely. ANAL something we
Speaker 1: may look into in the future. Is it a pain issue?
Speaker 1: Is it a degradation issue that you don't like? What
Speaker 1: is what is the the idea idea between the relationship
Speaker 1: you have with anal? Which is the most clinical way
Speaker 1: I can put that right.
Speaker 2: It's definitely a pain thing for me, Like if I
Speaker 2: could figure a way to get rid of that I
Speaker 2: would totally do it, but it's just it's very uncomfortable
Speaker 2: for me. Interesting, So I'm, like I said, if there's
Speaker 2: a way that I can find to participate in it
Speaker 2: that works for my body. It's not one hundred percent
Speaker 2: off the table. I mean it's mainly off the table
Speaker 2: because of that.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I have a lot of listeners right
Speaker 1: now with four inch dicks, just so you know, just
Speaker 1: so you know, I'm just getting boys. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: with you. What let's talk about the content you do
Speaker 1: make for your only fans, your own personal stuff. What
Speaker 1: type of stuff do your fans want that you want
Speaker 1: to make more of? And what type of stuff do
Speaker 1: your fans want that you're just kind of like, yo,
Speaker 1: stop requesting that. I like, you don't say it. Maybe
Speaker 1: make the videos, maybe do whatever, but you just wish
Speaker 1: it a request for something would stop coming in. Is
Speaker 1: there anything you want to say to the audience now
Speaker 1: that Hey, if we could just she doesn't love this,
Speaker 1: maybe request this instead.
Speaker 2: There are a lot of anal requests, so that would
Speaker 2: be nice to get rid of. But I understand no.
Speaker 2: I mean I make both my own like female domination clips,
Speaker 2: those are all like solo point of view, and those
Speaker 2: sell really well for me. And I've got a whole
Speaker 2: base fan base just uh you know that love my
Speaker 2: dominatrix work. And then I have almost this separate fan
Speaker 2: base that likes on my porn. So yeah, I would say, really,
Speaker 2: it's just you know, at this point, you know a
Speaker 2: lot of breeding requests, which is not my favorite to make,
Speaker 2: but in the right scenario for like custom videos and stuff,
Speaker 2: I'll do it.
Speaker 1: How Come it's not your favorite.
Speaker 2: I just I don't. I'm not turned on by that now.
Speaker 2: It makes me cringe, like I'm like, impregnate me and
Speaker 2: pregnate me like I just like I get a little
Speaker 2: like throw up in my mouth.
Speaker 1: So folks, you can request it, but just know she's
Speaker 1: gonna make that face as you requested as she's reading it.
Speaker 2: No, I have a very good poker face like that
Speaker 2: is why I'm a great actress, So we'll never know
Speaker 2: that I hate it, or look.
Speaker 1: Are you a great actress? Or do you consider yourself
Speaker 1: a great actress? I'll be the judge of that when
Speaker 1: I watch your videos later tonight.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: Isn't it funny? You've gone full circle? You were selling
Speaker 1: as a real estate agent. And now at some point
Speaker 1: inevitably someone will come to you and go, Violet, we
Speaker 1: want you to play a real estate agent in this
Speaker 1: What are you going to get stuck behind? Is it
Speaker 1: the dishwasher? Is it the stove?
Speaker 2: You know what I mean exactly.
Speaker 1: I want to pitch you an idea. I've pitched this
Speaker 1: the last couple nights for a series, and I want
Speaker 1: to know if you think this would work. Stationary mounted
Speaker 1: cameras up high, down low, set it up like a nannycam.
Speaker 1: Obviously we don't like including anything with kids, but like
Speaker 1: just for the scenario of it a nannycam, and it's
Speaker 1: like an Airbnb situation where the people know they're not
Speaker 1: supposed to fuck because there's cameras all over this house,
Speaker 1: but they just can't stop themselves. And that's the scene
Speaker 1: I would call it. I named it This Last Night
Speaker 1: AIRTNA like Airbnb but TNA. What do you think of
Speaker 1: this scenario? Have you seen it before? Am I stealing
Speaker 1: it from someone? Or can we copyright it right now?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I have never seen that done before, so I
Speaker 2: think it's a great idea. I mean, people love seeing
Speaker 2: that stuff, you know, I mean, so many like voyeurs
Speaker 2: out there. I mean, aren't we all? But uh so,
Speaker 2: I feel like that adds to that effect. So for sure,
Speaker 2: do it now.
Speaker 1: Oh I'm not going to do it. I don't know
Speaker 1: anyone hot enough to be in it. If it was
Speaker 1: all my friends, it would just be like a monster fastest.
Speaker 1: I'm not interested. What are do we have? You seem
Speaker 1: I mean very intelligent, very driven, very this and that.
Speaker 1: Do you have plateaus you want to hit over the
Speaker 1: next few years? Is it strictly monetary? Which, by the way,
Speaker 1: all the questions I'm going to ask, there's literally nothing wrong.
Speaker 1: If a girl came on here and said, you know,
Speaker 1: I want to make a million dollars and be out
Speaker 1: of this fucking industry, I would be like, go, go
Speaker 1: for it. Do it. Do you have goals you want
Speaker 1: to hit over the next few years? And then also,
Speaker 1: do you have a long term goal that you want
Speaker 1: to get to?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, obviously, you know, given that this is
Speaker 2: my career, they're always going to be monetary goals for me,
Speaker 2: and every year like I up those for my There's
Speaker 2: not like a set monetary goal though. I mean, as
Speaker 2: long as my income is growing and flowing, I'm happy.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I would say a lot of it is
Speaker 2: based on just my overall success and fame in the industry.
Speaker 2: Is I would love to get more nominations, win some awards.
Speaker 2: That would be incredible. And so that's really where it
Speaker 2: is for me at this point. And that's the big
Speaker 2: reason that I got into porn, is to like grow
Speaker 2: my brand name in the industry and hopefully one day
Speaker 2: be recognized as a well known person or legend or whatever.
Speaker 1: Legend. Legend is a whole other level.
Speaker 2: Legacy, my legacy.
Speaker 1: Legacy, You want your legacy now. You said this early
Speaker 1: on though, because I growing up when I did, I
Speaker 1: had seen footage from the other Violet Voss. When you
Speaker 1: learn that, did you have any like did you think fox,
Speaker 1: should I change this at all? Or did you think
Speaker 1: it was kind of good? Like maybe they'll look for
Speaker 1: that name out of the industry no longer. It's not
Speaker 1: like you're stealing someone's name and then oh they'll come
Speaker 1: across you. That's great too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I didn't. She had been out of
Speaker 2: the industry for a while from what I saw, so
Speaker 2: it was like, no harm, no foul. If they search
Speaker 2: for her, they're gonna find me and if they like me,
Speaker 2: then they'll just buy my content.
Speaker 1: Sure, And that's why I rename myself Abella danger Uh,
Speaker 1: because you know it helps the algo grow going forward.
Speaker 1: Do we have any Oh? I do have to talk
Speaker 1: about this, and you seem like you have a good
Speaker 1: sense of humor, so I have to talk about it
Speaker 1: because it's really cool kind of iron tech doll links
Speaker 1: in the episode description. Make sure people check it out.
Speaker 1: You have your own replica sex doll. Okay, I am
Speaker 1: looking at the website currently. You can. You can. You
Speaker 1: can customize the tongue of it. You can customize all
Speaker 1: the body parts. There's one thing you can put a
Speaker 1: back hanger on it, which is like a it looks
Speaker 1: like a meat hook kind of thing, like you put
Speaker 1: it in there. Now, your doll is very pretty. It
Speaker 1: is a nice representation of yourself. What was the process
Speaker 1: for that? Did they just take pictures of you and
Speaker 1: create it? Did they have to scan you? Did you
Speaker 1: have to mold yourself at all? Yeah?
Speaker 2: It was about an eight month process. I had to
Speaker 2: do numerous body scans and because they wanted body scans
Speaker 2: that showed, you know, the breakdown of like my fat
Speaker 2: percentage and muscle percentage and you know, but also like
Speaker 2: the scan to get the exact proportions of my body,
Speaker 2: we did molds of my hands, so like the doll
Speaker 2: has this veining in her hands that I have, and
Speaker 2: like even the same freckles on her chest. So they
Speaker 2: used a variety of scans, molds, and photos to create
Speaker 2: the doll. Yeah, it was a wild process. And then
Speaker 2: they sent me my own version and yeah, she is
Speaker 2: life size. She weighs more than me because of how
Speaker 2: it's built. So I mean, it's really incredible. And the
Speaker 2: skin is like oddly lifelike too, and hair is real,
Speaker 2: like the nails you can change your nails. But yeah,
Speaker 2: it's really quite I'm very impressed and I really have
Speaker 2: enjoyed working with them. But yeah, it's very fascinating. I've
Speaker 2: never seen anything like it.
Speaker 1: Did you Was that a plateau for you? Did that
Speaker 1: feel like a next tier up? Like, oh, you're you're
Speaker 1: in now You're invited into this industry for sure.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was definitely I think one of the first
Speaker 2: major like brand deals that I ever had, and they
Speaker 2: wanted to do it with me knowing that I wasn't
Speaker 2: even like a legitimate porn star. Yet it was just
Speaker 2: with my personality as a dominat trix and models. So yeah,
Speaker 2: it was a plateau for sure, and it was a
Speaker 2: big achievement.
Speaker 1: Still is Can I ask, has anyone what I assume
Speaker 1: you don't want? Are people who have purchased this doll
Speaker 1: sending you videos of them, you know, performing with it?
Speaker 1: You don't want that? Right? No?
Speaker 2: I'd love to see it?
Speaker 1: Okay? All right? Yeah, to all the gentlemen out there
Speaker 1: that are purchasers of the Iron Tech doll, yes, send
Speaker 1: it to her. Just keep sending them until she tells
Speaker 1: you please. You have to stop sending because it would
Speaker 1: make me really laugh if her inbox just blew up
Speaker 1: with videos of like, you know, nice two hundred and
Speaker 1: sixty pound dude just pounding away at this doll. Uh,
Speaker 1: what is the what is the what is the skin
Speaker 1: makeup of it? Is this some kind of latex? Is
Speaker 1: it something like that? Like?
Speaker 2: I honestly I don't remember exactly what it's made of,
Speaker 2: but it.
Speaker 1: Does does it feel soft? Does it feel skin like?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very soft. It does feel skin like. I
Speaker 2: mean it's a little bit more, yes, rubbery than skin,
Speaker 2: but it's very It looks just like skin. It just
Speaker 2: feels it's still a little probably you could say sticky
Speaker 2: almost like things kind of stick to it, but it'd
Speaker 2: be like you'd buy it one laugh, I guess on.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm I'm not totally in. I'm not into
Speaker 1: bondage personally. Again, personal preference, everyone can have their own.
Speaker 1: But I do love the what is it like a
Speaker 1: text or when? Is it pvc? Is that the other
Speaker 1: material they use for that? Do you like that type
Speaker 1: of stuff or no?
Speaker 2: I do? Yeah, I really like lay text and how
Speaker 2: it looks on me. I just hate the whole process
Speaker 2: of getting it on.
Speaker 1: That's what I've heard on.
Speaker 2: I hate how when I wear it, you know, it's
Speaker 2: not breatheable and sweat drips everywhere, but it looks gorgeous.
Speaker 1: Is it like a sauna in there? Are you just
Speaker 1: like pouring sweat by the end of it?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's ridiculous, but yeah, I mean, if
Speaker 2: you want to lose a quick few pounds, you better
Speaker 2: trap it on because you're going to lose all this
Speaker 2: like sweat. I mean it's insane. But yeah, I have
Speaker 2: a lot of a lot more PVC because it's a
Speaker 2: lot easier. But yeah, it doesn't normally look as nice.
Speaker 1: But really, okay, looks wise, you're saying, I guess I
Speaker 1: can't really tell the difference looks wise, but feel wise.
Speaker 1: You just saying it's a lot easier to use.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's much easier to get on. It's normally like
Speaker 2: aligned with a fabric on the inside, so like relid
Speaker 2: onto your body, whereas yeah, latex is just like rubber
Speaker 2: late so like you got to like oil up your
Speaker 2: body to put it on, and generally you have to
Speaker 2: have like two people to put it on.
Speaker 1: Folks, The things these women do for us, right, you know,
Speaker 1: to give us the joy of watching their videos and
Speaker 1: potentially shooting our own video with their sex dolls and
Speaker 1: sending it to them making sure it gets sent and delivered.
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, My guest tonight, Violet Voss. You know
Speaker 1: where you can find her at Violet Voss XO links
Speaker 1: to everything in the episode description. As always, Violet, you
Speaker 1: are a lot of fun and I hope nothing but
Speaker 1: the most amount of success you can make over the
Speaker 1: next few years. I hope you lay out your legacy
Speaker 1: and I hope you get everything out of this industry
Speaker 1: that you want thank you,