Speaker 1: Since you were little, you have been taught to look outward,
Speaker 1: to look for someone to blame, to put a name
Speaker 1: and surname on your suffering. And yes, many times that
Speaker 1: name is your mother's. But here's what nobody dares to
Speaker 1: tell you. It's not your mother who still holds you back.
Speaker 1: It's what your mind did with her. No, this is
Speaker 1: not a criticism, it's not an attack. It's a truth
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable that very few dare to name it. The
Speaker 1: mother lives in your unconscious long after she has left
Speaker 1: the room. You have tried to move forward, you have
Speaker 1: sought peace, but peace doesn't come when you are still
Speaker 1: trapped in a war you don't recognize. Do you know
Speaker 1: which one? The war against an image, against a figure
Speaker 1: that is neither flesh nor bone, but shadow, an archetype
Speaker 1: that settled inside you before you could even speak. And
Speaker 1: the worst part of all is that this shadow doesn't
Speaker 1: leave on its own. The mother complex, that's what Carl
Speaker 1: Jung called it. And no, it's not just another psychological label.
Speaker 1: It's an emotional prison with invisible bars. It's that voice
Speaker 1: that judges you without speaking. It's that emptiness that can't
Speaker 1: be filled with anything it's that need for approval you've
Speaker 1: been dragging since you were a child. And the cruelest
Speaker 1: part is that it's not even yours. It's an inheritance,
Speaker 1: an echo, a mark on the skin of the soul.
Speaker 1: And you may wonder, how do you heal something like this.
Speaker 1: Here's where the real work begins, because as long as
Speaker 1: you keep seeing your mother as an all powerful figure,
Speaker 1: whether to idolize her or to blame her, you're not
Speaker 1: seeing your mother. You're seeing a myth, a projection, a
Speaker 1: distorted image shaped by years of unmet needs, unnamed wounds,
Speaker 1: silences loaded with resentment. And you know it's worse that
Speaker 1: myth rules your life more than you'd like to admit.
Speaker 1: Every decision you make seeking approval, every relationship that breaks
Speaker 1: because you expect someone to save you, every time you
Speaker 1: can't set boundaries, all of that has roots much deeper
Speaker 1: than you think. And those roots are born in your childhood,
Speaker 1: in a gaze that was missing, in a hug that
Speaker 1: never came, in a word that was never said. And
Speaker 1: now now you're an adult, but inside you're still that
Speaker 1: child who wanted mom to tell him everything was going
Speaker 1: to be okay. But here's the most brutal part. It's
Speaker 1: not going to happen anymore because healing isn't making her change.
Speaker 1: Healing is stopping waiting for her to do so, and
Speaker 1: that that is devastating. They told you that forgiveness is
Speaker 1: the key, that understanding her is the way that you
Speaker 1: must put yourself in her shoes. And yes, all that
Speaker 1: can help, but not if you don't first do the
Speaker 1: most important thing. Look inward and recognize that the wound
Speaker 1: is no longer anyone else's responsibility. It's yours, only yours,
Speaker 1: and no one is coming to heal it for you.
Speaker 1: Now tell me something, how many times have you caught
Speaker 1: yourself acting like her? How many times have you said
Speaker 1: or done things you swore you'd never repeat. There lies
Speaker 1: the trap. The complex is not only emotional, it's behavioral.
Speaker 1: It inhabits you, it guides you, and if you don't
Speaker 1: make it conscious, it turns you into its repetition. The
Speaker 1: pattern repeats over and over again until someone has the
Speaker 1: courage to break it. And breaking it hurts because it's
Speaker 1: killing an illusion. It's giving up hope that one day
Speaker 1: what wasn't will be. It's accepting that there will be
Speaker 1: no magical repair. That childhood will not return, that the
Speaker 1: comfort you didn't receive you'll have to give yourself. Are
Speaker 1: you willing to do that? Are you ready to stop
Speaker 1: expecting to be loved the way you needed and start
Speaker 1: loving yourself as you deserve, Because that's the door. There's
Speaker 1: no other. The mother in Jung's language is not just
Speaker 1: the woman who gave you life. She's an archetype, a symbol.
Speaker 1: She represents origin, security, emotional nourishment, but she can also
Speaker 1: represent suffocation, dependence, fear of being yourself. And when that
Speaker 1: archetype isn't integrated, it becomes a shadow you project onto everything,
Speaker 1: your partners, your bosses, your friends. You expect someone to
Speaker 1: save you, to understand you without you having to explain anything,
Speaker 1: to care for you unconditionally. But that's not love. It's lack,
Speaker 1: and lack isn't filled with another person. It's filled with truth,
Speaker 1: with awareness, with courage. The first step is to stop
Speaker 1: idealizing her. She wasn't perfect, she wasn't a goddess, but
Speaker 1: she wasn't the demon you sometimes feel she was either.
Speaker 1: She was a human being, broken, wounded with her own
Speaker 1: internal battles. She did what she could with what she
Speaker 1: had and sometimes what she had was very little. That
Speaker 1: doesn't excuse the damage, but it explains it. And by
Speaker 1: understanding this, something loosens, not as an act of forced forgiveness,
Speaker 1: but as a liberating understanding. Because idealization is as toxic
Speaker 1: as resentment. Both keep you trapped, both take you away
Speaker 1: from reality. The reality is this. You don't need a
Speaker 1: mother anymore. You need a stronger you, a more compassionate you,
Speaker 1: a more aware you. And that version of you doesn't
Speaker 1: appear by itself. You have to build it. Do you
Speaker 1: want to know how? Start by observing your reactions. Every
Speaker 1: time you feel rejected, ask yourself, who am I really
Speaker 1: seeing the person in front of me or the wound
Speaker 1: I haven't healed yet. Every time you demand unconditional love,
Speaker 1: ask yourself, do I want love? Or do I want repair?
Speaker 1: Every time you abandon yourself so another won't, ask yourself
Speaker 1: who abandoned me first? Healing isn't linear, it's not pretty.
Speaker 1: It's a descent into hell, an uncomfortable conversation with your
Speaker 1: inner child. It's looking at the memories you buried, reliving them,
Speaker 1: feeling them, and then letting them go. And yes, sometimes
Speaker 1: that child cries, but other times. It screams, It sabotages you,
Speaker 1: It gets angry because it has been waiting too long
Speaker 1: to be heard. Do it, Listen to it. Don't try
Speaker 1: to silence it with self help phrases, don't cover it
Speaker 1: up with cheap spirituality, give it space, ask it what
Speaker 1: it needed, and then give it to yourself self compassion.
Speaker 1: It's not weakness. It's medicine. It's the only bomb that
Speaker 1: works when everything else has failed. And to practice it
Speaker 1: you need courage because there's a part of you that
Speaker 1: has learned to despise itself, to blame itself, to demand
Speaker 1: from itself to repeat the same punishment that was once
Speaker 1: imposed on it. Break that cycle. Re Educating yourself emotionally
Speaker 1: isn't just reading books. It's seeing yourself with new eyes.
Speaker 1: It's creating new responses. It's stopping the search for mothers
Speaker 1: in the wrong places. Because I'll tell you clearly, the
Speaker 1: world won't give you what you didn't receive. It's not
Speaker 1: designed for that. The world will demand from you, judge you,
Speaker 1: ignore you, and there in the middle of that chaos,
Speaker 1: you have to build yourself. Emotional freedom begins when you
Speaker 1: stop repeating the pattern, when you choose differently when you
Speaker 1: realize you're no longer five years old, You're no longer
Speaker 1: trapped in that house, you no longer depend on a caress,
Speaker 1: you no longer need permission to be yourself. But there's
Speaker 1: a part of you that still believes it, that still hopes,
Speaker 1: that still silently begs. That part isn't to blame, but
Speaker 1: you do have the responsibility to heal it. Do it
Speaker 1: not tomorrow, not when you feel ready, Do it now,
Speaker 1: because if you wait to feel prepared, you'll never start.
Speaker 1: Healing doesn't come when everything is calm. It comes in
Speaker 1: the middle of noise, of chaos, of fear. And when
Speaker 1: it comes, it doesn't feel like you expected. It feels
Speaker 1: like gloss, like emptiness, like silence, because healing is also
Speaker 1: letting go of a part of you that you knew
Speaker 1: very well. It's saying goodbye to the victim role. It's
Speaker 1: stopping waiting and starting acting. Does it hurt, Yes, But
Speaker 1: it hurts more to stay where you are. So look
Speaker 1: at yourself, but really look, ask yourself, what part of
Speaker 1: my suffering still belongs to that inner figure I call mother?
Speaker 1: And how much longer am I willing to let it
Speaker 1: control me? Make peace? Not with her, with yourself, because
Speaker 1: in the end, the most important mother isn't the one
Speaker 1: who raised you. It's the one you choose to be
Speaker 1: with yourself, and that one is yet to be born.
Speaker 1: And now that you're here, after daring to look at
Speaker 1: what others prefer to ignore, let me take you even
Speaker 1: deeper because there's something we haven't touched, a darker layer,
Speaker 1: more hidden, but in credibly powerful, the invisible loyalty. Yes,
Speaker 1: you heard that right, a loyalty you didn't choose, but
Speaker 1: that directs you as if you had a string tied
Speaker 1: to your soul. No matter how much you progress, how
Speaker 1: many books you read, or how many therapies you do,
Speaker 1: if you don't understand this principle, you'll always come back
Speaker 1: to the same point. Want to know what that secret
Speaker 1: trap is, I'll tell you. Your unconscious believes that if
Speaker 1: you surpass your mother, you betray her. That's how perverse
Speaker 1: the game is. And don't think about it logically. This
Speaker 1: is not reasoned, it's felt. It's imprinted deep inside your
Speaker 1: emotional system. Because you grew up learning that your identity
Speaker 1: was tied to hers, that what she lived, suffered or believed,
Speaker 1: you also had to carry it without realizing it. You
Speaker 1: made a pact, a silent pact, an invisible promise that says,
Speaker 1: I won't be better than you, mom, I won't be
Speaker 1: freer than you. I won't fully heal if you didn't
Speaker 1: do it first. See the prison, And the most terrifying
Speaker 1: part is that prison looks like love. We're not talking
Speaker 1: about hate or anger. We're talking about an unconscious fidelity
Speaker 1: that chains you to her pain, her frustration, her limits.
Speaker 1: That's why you repeat stories you don't understand. That's why
Speaker 1: every time you're about to achieve something bigger, you sabotage
Speaker 1: yourself because a part of you says, if I'm happy
Speaker 1: and she wasn't, then I'm being disloyal. But here's the
Speaker 1: brutal truth. Your pain doesn't honor her, Your stagnation doesn't
Speaker 1: save her, Your unhappiness doesn't repair her. So why do
Speaker 1: you keep carrying what doesn't belong to you. There's a
Speaker 1: scene that repeats in thousands of wounded souls, the child
Speaker 1: who doesn't allow themselves to live fully so as not
Speaker 1: to hurt the feelings of a mother who's no longer
Speaker 1: here or who was never really there. It's as if,
Speaker 1: deep down you want to tell her, Look, Mom, I
Speaker 1: suffer too, so you're not alone in your sadness, and
Speaker 1: that that's what's killing you. The real betrayal isn't leaving
Speaker 1: her story behind, it's continuing to repeat it. Because if
Speaker 1: you really love her, if you really want to free
Speaker 1: yourself without dishonoring her, then there's something you must understand.
Speaker 1: Honoring the mother is surpassing her, not as an act
Speaker 1: of ego, not as rejection, but as evolution. She gave
Speaker 1: you life, and you have to multiply it, not reduce it.
Speaker 1: You have to turn that inherited pain into something new,
Speaker 1: into awareness, into transformation, into authentic life. But for that,
Speaker 1: you need to break the secret vow, the one you
Speaker 1: made before you could even speak, the one that says
Speaker 1: I won't be freer than you. Break that promise, not
Speaker 1: with anger, with love, Tell her, in silence, even if
Speaker 1: she's no longer here or can't hear you, Mom, thank
Speaker 1: you for what you could give me. But now I
Speaker 1: follow a different path, and that path is not toward resentment.
Speaker 1: It's toward your freedom. Because as long as you live
Speaker 1: trapped in that hidden fidelity, everything will become repetition. You
Speaker 1: will repeat her fears, her frustrations, her way of loving,
Speaker 1: her way of not setting boundaries, her need to be accepted,
Speaker 1: her guilt, her sacrifice, her pain, and you will do
Speaker 1: it without knowing it. Have you realized how many decisions
Speaker 1: in your life have been guided by that shadow. Maybe
Speaker 1: that's why you can't tolerate rejection. Maybe that's why you
Speaker 1: feel guilty when things go well for you. Maybe that's
Speaker 1: why you whose partners who make you feel small, not
Speaker 1: because you're weak, but because you're being loyal. But that
Speaker 1: loyalty has a very high price your life. And if
Speaker 1: you dare question it, look it in the face, something
Speaker 1: opens up. Avoid appears a strange silence because for the
Speaker 1: first time, you're separating your identity from hers. For the
Speaker 1: first time, you're saying I am not you and you
Speaker 1: are not me. And that, for the child you were,
Speaker 1: feels like abandonment. But for the adult you can be,
Speaker 1: that is birth. That's where it all begins, and it's
Speaker 1: not about cutting off the relationship, it's about redefining it
Speaker 1: within you. Because even if your mother was the most loving,
Speaker 1: the coldest, the most absent, or the most overprotective, what
Speaker 1: matters is not her. What matters is the place you
Speaker 1: have given her in your psyche, and that place, if
Speaker 1: you don't organize, it, becomes an altar or a prison.
Speaker 1: Either you idealize her or you enslave yourself to her,
Speaker 1: but both are the same, a distortion. The only way
Speaker 1: to heal is to dismantle the fantasy, and that fantasy
Speaker 1: takes many forms. The martyr mother, the perfect mother, the
Speaker 1: sacrificed mother, the omnipresent mother. But none of those figures
Speaker 1: is real. Their constructions of your mind, myths that prevent
Speaker 1: you from seeing the essential. That she was also a daughter,
Speaker 1: that she also dragged her own ghosts, that she was
Speaker 1: also a victim of her context, that she also loved
Speaker 1: as she could, that she also failed. And you, you
Speaker 1: are not here to repeat her destiny. You are here
Speaker 1: for something bigger, to transform that emotional inheritance into wisdom,
Speaker 1: to make the unconscious conscious, to close a cycle so
Speaker 1: that your children, if you have or will have any,
Speaker 1: don't carry what you're carrying now, because that is what's inherited.
Speaker 1: Not objects, not genes, but unresolved patterns, undigested emotions, silenced traumas,
Speaker 1: the weight of the unspoken. And here comes the most
Speaker 1: important part of all this. You cannot change the past,
Speaker 1: but you can change how the past lives inside you.
Speaker 1: Do it not for her, for you. You don't need
Speaker 1: to break up with your mother. You need to break
Speaker 1: up with the distorted archetype you carry inside. You need
Speaker 1: to dismantle the voice that judges you every time you shine.
Speaker 1: You need to question the guilt you feel every time
Speaker 1: you choose yourself. And that liberation is not against her,
Speaker 1: it's for you. Because the original wound doesn't define your destiny.
Speaker 1: What defines it is what you do with it. Oh,
Speaker 1: here's the final question. How much longer will you keep
Speaker 1: paying homage to a pattern that no longer serves you?
Speaker 1: How much longer will you live dragging a story that
Speaker 1: you didn't even start. The time has come to turn
Speaker 1: that inherited pain into your engine to stop surviving and
Speaker 1: start living. But for that you need one thing. Courage.
Speaker 1: Courage to let go of loyalty, Courage to rebuild yourself
Speaker 1: without that figure who either gave you everything or denied
Speaker 1: you everything. Courage to look in the mirror and say,
Speaker 1: now I am the one who takes care of me.
Speaker 1: And when you do, when you choose yourself, when you
Speaker 1: free yourself. Then and only then will you truly honor
Speaker 1: your mother. Because the greatest tribute you can give to
Speaker 1: the one who gave you life is to live it.
Speaker 1: And just when you think you've let go, when you
Speaker 1: think you've finally broken that internal loyalty, something else appears,
Speaker 1: something more subtle, harder to detect, more treacherous, emotional self abandonment.
Speaker 1: And yes, it's directly linked to that mother archetype still
Speaker 1: living in your shadow. Because what does a child do
Speaker 1: when they don't receive the emotional care they need. They adapt,
Speaker 1: They shut up, They learn to ignore themselves, to repress,
Speaker 1: to pretend it doesn't hurt, and that survival skill becomes
Speaker 1: years later, your way of life. Have you noticed how
Speaker 1: you treat yourself, how you talk to yourself inside, how
Speaker 1: you demand from yourself what you would never demand from
Speaker 1: someone you love. That's no coincidence. It's the continuation of
Speaker 1: the same pattern. It's the way that poorly integrated archetype
Speaker 1: expresses itself inside you. You yourself reap producing the abandonment
Speaker 1: you lived. But now from within and here comes the
Speaker 1: most brutal not of this story. No one is hurting you.
Speaker 1: Now you are the one who keeps hurting yourself in
Speaker 1: the name of an old programming. Every time you deny
Speaker 1: yourself rest, every time you minimize your pain, every time
Speaker 1: you betray yourself to avoid making others uncomfortable, every time
Speaker 1: you accept the unacceptable out of fear of not being loved,
Speaker 1: you're repeating the same script. If I ignore myself, maybe
Speaker 1: they'll love me. Do you know what that means? That
Speaker 1: you learned to survive by ceasing to exist emotionally, and
Speaker 1: that is a slow massacre, invisible, silent. You have become
Speaker 1: your own authoritarian figure, the one who doesn't let you cry,
Speaker 1: the one who demands you be strong, the one who
Speaker 1: pushes you to perform, to give, to hold everyone, accept yourself.
Speaker 1: And you know what's the most twisted thing. The more
Speaker 1: you abandon yourself, the more you expect someone else to
Speaker 1: come rescue you. But that won't happen because no one
Speaker 1: can give you what you're not giving yourself. So here's
Speaker 1: the real revolution. Start taking care of yourself like no
Speaker 1: one ever did. Be your internal mother. Re Educate yourself
Speaker 1: from scratch, Learn to give yourself the affection you were denied,
Speaker 1: To give yourself permission to feel without judgment, to speak
Speaker 1: to yourself tenderly when you fall, to not demand perfection,
Speaker 1: when you only need comfort. And Yes, at first, it
Speaker 1: sounds strange because for years you've been used to the whip,
Speaker 1: to criticism, to emotional coldness. But none of that is yours.
Speaker 1: It's borrowed software, a system you inherited, not because it works,
Speaker 1: but because it was all you knew. Do you want
Speaker 1: to break that cycle? Start by asking yourself this, How
Speaker 1: would I treat a child who just went through what
Speaker 1: I went through? What would I say if I saw
Speaker 1: them exhausted, worn out, on the verge of breaking. Would
Speaker 1: I push them, tell them they're weak? Or would I
Speaker 1: hold them without asking anything in return? And now realize
Speaker 1: that child is you. Yes, even to day, even if
Speaker 1: you're thirty, forty fifty years old, even if you've hardened,
Speaker 1: even if you seem to have it all under control,
Speaker 1: that child is still there and still waiting. But no
Speaker 1: one is coming, not how you imagine, because it's not
Speaker 1: about finding the perfect savior. It's about becoming the figure
Speaker 1: you needed. And this is not cheap mysticism, it's deep psychology.
Speaker 1: Young knew it. What is not made conscious manifests in
Speaker 1: your life as destiny, and this applies here brutally. If
Speaker 1: you don't make yourself abandonment conscious, you will repeat it
Speaker 1: in every relationship, every job, every decision. You will live
Speaker 1: from scarcity, from emotional hunger, from the need to be saved.
Speaker 1: And the paradox is this, You only stop needing to
Speaker 1: be saved when you become your own refuge. Difficult, of course,
Speaker 1: because no one taught you how to do it. They
Speaker 1: taught you to compete, to perform, to prove yourself, but
Speaker 1: they didn't teach you to hold your inner world, and
Speaker 1: much less to embrace your own shadows. And here we
Speaker 1: come to another forgotten piece, the negative inner mother, that
Speaker 1: voice you carry inside that is not yours, the one
Speaker 1: that tells you you're not enough, that you're late, that
Speaker 1: you don't deserve it, that you need more, that you
Speaker 1: shouldn't feel what you feel. That voice is not you,
Speaker 1: but you have adopted it as if it were your conscience,
Speaker 1: and it's not. It's an internalized figure, a distorted archetypal
Speaker 1: energy that occupies the space of your self esteem. And
Speaker 1: until you dismantle it, you will live believing your worst
Speaker 1: enemy is you and you're not you're just repeating what
Speaker 1: you learned. So how do you dismantle it by listening
Speaker 1: to it? Yes, listening, because what you resist persists, but
Speaker 1: what you observe transforms. The next time that voice appears,
Speaker 1: don't run, don't silence it, don't try to cover it
Speaker 1: up with empty affirmations. Look at it, ask it. Where
Speaker 1: do you come from? Who do you belong to? What
Speaker 1: are you repeating to me that isn't even mine? And
Speaker 1: you will see, You will see there, you will see
Speaker 1: the origin. And in that moment, something inside you will awaken,
Speaker 1: not like a mystical illumination, but like a brutal clarity.
Speaker 1: You will realize you've lived trapped in a discourse you
Speaker 1: never questioned, and when you question it, you regain your power.
Speaker 1: That is the true psychological awakening. Not mantras, not gurus,
Speaker 1: but this moment, the instant you stop being the echo
Speaker 1: of your childhood and become the author of your adult life.
Speaker 1: But beware, don't confuse this with cheap positivity. It's not
Speaker 1: about ignoring the pain. It's about taking responsibility, about seeing
Speaker 1: yourself without filters, about stopping asking someone to fill your
Speaker 1: emptiness and instead beginning to fill it. Yourself with small
Speaker 1: conscious actions. Want a guide here it is. Start by
Speaker 1: not abandoning yourself when you need it most, when you're tired,
Speaker 1: don't push yourself, rest when you're sad, don't judge yourself,
Speaker 1: Accompany yourself when you feel afraid, don't be ashamed, Listen
Speaker 1: to yourself. That is the new language, the new internal motherhood,
Speaker 1: the new emotional structure that breaks centuries of inherited patterns.
Speaker 1: And I know all this sounds immense unmanageable, but remember this.
Speaker 1: You don't have to do it perfectly. You just have
Speaker 1: to do it differently, because if you don't break the cycle,
Speaker 1: no one will do it for you. The change you
Speaker 1: so desperately want isn't outside, It's in every inner gesture,
Speaker 1: every time you choose to take care of yourself, even
Speaker 1: when you don't feel like it, every boundary you set,
Speaker 1: even if your voice trembles, every no you say, so
Speaker 1: you can say a yes to yourself. That is the
Speaker 1: te true act of love, and that, believe it or not,
Speaker 1: is an act of revolution, because in a world that
Speaker 1: teaches you to demand, punish, and compare yourself, choosing to
Speaker 1: treat yourself with tenderness is a subversive act. It's looking
Speaker 1: your family history in the eyes and saying, with me,
Speaker 1: the pattern breaks not because you're better, not because you're stronger,
Speaker 1: but because you've decided to wake up. And when you
Speaker 1: wake up, nothing can put you back to sleep, not judgment,
Speaker 1: not guilt, not that old voice that used to paralyze you.
Speaker 1: Because you no longer walk seeking approval. You walk from
Speaker 1: within from a new root, a root built with awareness, boundaries,
Speaker 1: real love, not a love that demands, not a love
Speaker 1: that sacrifices, a love that sustains, that respects, that cares,
Speaker 1: the kind of love you should have always received, and
Speaker 1: that now you can give yourself, and that, even if
Speaker 1: it doesn't seem like it, is the true inheritance worth
Speaker 1: leaving behind. And when you get this far, something inside
Speaker 1: you has already changed. You don't need anyone to confirm it.
Speaker 1: You feel it. It's that subtle vibration that appears when
Speaker 1: you've looked at something you've been avoiding your whole life.
Speaker 1: It's that strange mix between emptiness and power, between grief
Speaker 1: and rebirth. Because yes, the end of this entire journey
Speaker 1: isn't an internal applause, nor a magical enlightenment. It's silence,
Speaker 1: a new silence, a clean silence, because finally you dared
Speaker 1: to break the noise of what was inherited. Now you
Speaker 1: understand why many times you didn't know who you really were,
Speaker 1: why it was so hard to be at peace with yourself,
Speaker 1: because you lived inhabited by voices that weren't yours, burdened
Speaker 1: by needs that weren't born with you reacting from a
Speaker 1: pain that came from generations ago, but no more. What
Speaker 1: remains now is yours, your space, your identity, your voice.
Speaker 1: And here's the most interesting part. It's not that you're
Speaker 1: going to live without wounds. It's that, for the first time,
Speaker 1: you will live with them consciously, and that changes everything,
Speaker 1: because wounds aren't the problem. The problem is living running
Speaker 1: away from them, pretending they don't exist, pretending that if
Speaker 1: you don't name them, they disappear. But they don't disappear.
Speaker 1: They transform when you look at them, when you speak
Speaker 1: about them, when you go through them, And at that
Speaker 1: final crossing right there, something is born. Your true emotional maturity,
Speaker 1: not the one based on controlling everything, pretending coldness, but
Speaker 1: the one that accepts that inside you coexist broken parts
Speaker 1: and wise parts parts that still cry, and parts that
Speaker 1: have already learned to hold on. Do you know what
Speaker 1: that means? You have crossed the threshold, that point of
Speaker 1: no return where you stop being a symbolic child of
Speaker 1: the past and become the symbolic father or mother of
Speaker 1: your present. You no longer live from what was missing.
Speaker 1: You live from what you choose to create. And that
Speaker 1: is a power very few reach because it requires courage,
Speaker 1: brutal honesty, and an almost wild will to let go
Speaker 1: of excuses, justifications, inherited fears and begin to live yourself
Speaker 1: from within, not from the echo of an ancient story.
Speaker 1: And now that you know this, what are you going
Speaker 1: to do with it?