Speaker 1: Second date up daytime. We're going to Hartford. We have
Speaker 1: got Drake on the line, Drake.
Speaker 2: Good morning.
Speaker 3: Hey, what's up guys.
Speaker 1: Oh well, we're just hoping we can help you get
Speaker 1: some answers as to why you got ghosted on a date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that happened.
Speaker 1: So why don't you tell us about this great date?
Speaker 1: You went on a first date with a girl name
Speaker 1: what was her name?
Speaker 2: Heather?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Heather? Okay, I mean it was awesome. You know,
Speaker 3: we went to a really nice restaurant. The food was amazing. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and you know, I mean most important, like, I don't know,
Speaker 3: just the vibe felt right, like the conversation was good.
Speaker 3: I felt like a lot of chemistry and yeah, just
Speaker 3: she's not called me back. I've tried, you know, I've tried.
Speaker 3: I even left a voicemail a couple of times. I'd
Speaker 3: usually do that, but yeah, she's not getting back to me.
Speaker 2: Did you pay for the date?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah for sure.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 4: Did you make like any off color jokes about how
Speaker 4: much she ate or what she ordered or did you
Speaker 4: drink too?
Speaker 5: I'm just trying to get the obvious out of the way.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I don't. I don't think I did any
Speaker 3: of that. I mean, you know, obviously, you know it's
Speaker 3: they can you know, sometimes they'll say dumb things. But
Speaker 3: I don't think I said any like too many terribly
Speaker 3: offensive things on the date or anything like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like your honesty. Yeah all right, And you
Speaker 2: thought the conversation flowed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it felt like everything, Like, you know, we were
Speaker 3: both asking great questions and yeah, I just felt like,
Speaker 3: you know, we've really got to know a lot about
Speaker 3: each other, and you know, it's like a tennis match,
Speaker 3: you know, it's like kind of back and forth. And yeah,
Speaker 3: I definitely felt that asked her a lot of great
Speaker 3: questions and you know, she did the same, and it
Speaker 3: was Yeah, it was just it was a really good Uh,
Speaker 3: it's a really good date. That's why I'm like, you know,
Speaker 3: kind of surprised.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, did you aggressively try
Speaker 1: to put your tongue in her mouth at all?
Speaker 2: Sorry? Just all right, well.
Speaker 1: Good, just listen, you never know, it may have happened,
Speaker 1: it didn't happen. So we're gonna we're gonna put you
Speaker 1: on hold. You sound like a great guy, sounds like
Speaker 1: a great date. We're gonna put you on hold. We're
Speaker 1: gonna call up Heather and ask her about the day.
Speaker 1: He'll be listening in. Are you ready to find out
Speaker 1: why you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: All right, all right, sounds like a great guy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, he actually sounds very normal and polite. And
Speaker 5: what normal is. The word normal is a very important word.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of unnormal people out there. Aggressive. Hi,
Speaker 2: it's Heather, there's Hi. Hey Heather, it's Courtney, Heather, it's
Speaker 2: Walmart chef.
Speaker 5: Hey, it's Savannah.
Speaker 2: And you're on the radio. You're on Kiss ninety five seven.
Speaker 6: Good morning, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 1: You're on something called second Date Update. You get ghosted
Speaker 1: after our first date. We make the call and we
Speaker 1: get the answers, and that's why we're calling you this morning.
Speaker 2: Heather.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, all right, okay, super nice guy.
Speaker 1: Drake calls us, says, it takes you to a romantic restaurant.
Speaker 1: Thought you guys had a connection. He was the perfect
Speaker 1: gentleman at dinner. He's reached out to you and you're
Speaker 1: ghosting him. So we just want to know from you
Speaker 1: how the date went.
Speaker 6: That's what he said.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he said the date was great.
Speaker 1: He I think he said, was it a romantic or
Speaker 1: just a nice restaurant.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you also mentioned it was like a tennis match.
Speaker 2: You guys are going back and forth on questions.
Speaker 5: Did he did say that he was a good listener?
Speaker 6: Gotcha? Okay? Not how it was for me? Okay, I
Speaker 6: honestly I was. Yeah, I was really ready for a
Speaker 6: romantic date. Like I got all cute and put my hair,
Speaker 6: I did my hair for like hours. I was really excited.
Speaker 6: But then he showed up with his five year old kid.
Speaker 6: Didn't tell me like a.
Speaker 2: Like a child, like a two legged child, you're his child.
Speaker 6: A whole child, like a good a little tiny person.
Speaker 6: Who are you? Was just hanging out and.
Speaker 5: He didn't warn you, like, hey, I'm gonna bring.
Speaker 6: My kid, no warning. And even then when we got there,
Speaker 6: he didn't even addressed that the kid was there genuinely
Speaker 6: the whole time.
Speaker 1: So he didn't acknowledge the fact that he walked in
Speaker 1: with a child to his date.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna so like the kid. Wait, didn't mean then
Speaker 6: basically went back to his iPad and got onto the table. Okay, wait,
Speaker 6: watching you to.
Speaker 4: Wait, is this is this his kid? I'm like assuming
Speaker 4: this is his kid?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it's his kid.
Speaker 1: Maybe she doesn't know. He didn't address it, but I'm
Speaker 1: going to address it. Drake is listening in. Can we
Speaker 1: just bring him on the line, Heather, Oh.
Speaker 3: God, Drake, Hey, what's up guys? Okay, Drake, Yeah.
Speaker 2: You didn't tell you brought your son to on your
Speaker 2: romantic date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I didn't know, Like I didn't think
Speaker 3: it was like a big deal. I didn't. You know,
Speaker 3: he's he's really good at just kind of doing his
Speaker 3: own thing, and like I knew he wasn't gonna like
Speaker 3: care about, you know, what we were doing. He just
Speaker 3: wanted some food and to be on his iPad. And
Speaker 3: I just really didn't like think it was going to
Speaker 3: be that big a deal. Plus, like we went to it,
Speaker 3: like it was a really nice restaurant that we were at.
Speaker 3: Really kind of hoped it would, you know, compensate for
Speaker 3: you know, me bringing my five year old. It's like,
Speaker 3: you know, it's my weekend to take care of them,
Speaker 3: and I really wanted to go out of in the state.
Speaker 3: And yeah, I just didn't think it was going to
Speaker 3: be a big deal.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, showing up to a first date at a
Speaker 1: romantic restaurant with a surprise child.
Speaker 2: I think that would be a little off putting.
Speaker 4: Yeah, for forgive me if I yeah, forgive me if
Speaker 4: I'm a stepping out of line here. But I feel
Speaker 4: like on a first date, if you are going to
Speaker 4: bring your child, you should probably give the heads up of, like, hey,
Speaker 4: can't find a babysitter, would you want to reschedule?
Speaker 5: Would you mind if I bring my kid? You know
Speaker 5: what I mean?
Speaker 3: I mean, are you allergic? Like I don't understand what
Speaker 3: like the problem is. I mean, I definitely had to
Speaker 3: listen on my dating profile that I child, but it's.
Speaker 2: Creepy not to even address it. But if the kid
Speaker 2: is quiet and just under a table, just doing his own.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think the problem here, Drake isn't that
Speaker 1: you have a son or you brought your son. Problem
Speaker 1: is you didn't say, like what Savannah said, Hey, by
Speaker 1: the way, I can't get a sitter and I've got
Speaker 1: my son that weekend. It's a little odd that you
Speaker 1: just didn't even address it even when you got there.
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you, And then yeah, like I said,
Speaker 3: I mean, I didn't think it was a big deal, but.
Speaker 1: And you probably ordered fries and tenders off the kiddy menu.
Speaker 1: It's just all right, So you have no desire, Heather
Speaker 1: to go on a kid another date.
Speaker 2: If he if he's kid free that weekend.
Speaker 6: Yeah no, okay, yeah no, I think I'm good.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, listen, I appreciate you being honest Heather
Speaker 1: and letting us know why he was getting ghosted, and Drake,
Speaker 1: we wish you lock. I just think, like Savannah said,
Speaker 1: I just be honest up front, and you probably would
Speaker 1: have gotten a second date.
Speaker 5: No, I really want chicken fingers.
Speaker 2: I want a five year old, so up.
Speaker 6: I