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<v Speaker 1>Second date up daytime. We're going to Hartford. We have

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<v Speaker 1>got Drake on the line, Drake.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, what's up guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, we're just hoping we can help you get

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<v Speaker 1>some answers as to why you got ghosted on a date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>So why don't you tell us about this great date?

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<v Speaker 1>You went on a first date with a girl name

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<v Speaker 1>what was her name?

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<v Speaker 2>Heather?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Heather? Okay, I mean it was awesome. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>we went to a really nice restaurant. The food was amazing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, I mean most important, like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>just the vibe felt right, like the conversation was good.

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<v Speaker 3>I felt like a lot of chemistry and yeah, just

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<v Speaker 3>she's not called me back. I've tried, you know, I've tried.

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<v Speaker 3>I even left a voicemail a couple of times. I'd

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<v Speaker 3>usually do that, but yeah, she's not getting back to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you pay for the date?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you make like any off color jokes about how

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<v Speaker 4>much she ate or what she ordered or did you

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<v Speaker 4>drink too?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just trying to get the obvious out of the way.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, I don't. I don't think I did any

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<v Speaker 3>of that. I mean, you know, obviously, you know it's

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<v Speaker 3>they can you know, sometimes they'll say dumb things. But

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I said any like too many terribly

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<v Speaker 3>offensive things on the date or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like your honesty. Yeah all right, And you

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<v Speaker 2>thought the conversation flowed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it felt like everything, Like, you know, we were

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<v Speaker 3>both asking great questions and yeah, I just felt like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, we've really got to know a lot about

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<v Speaker 3>each other, and you know, it's like a tennis match,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, it's like kind of back and forth. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I definitely felt that asked her a lot of great

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<v Speaker 3>questions and you know, she did the same, and it

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<v Speaker 3>was Yeah, it was just it was a really good Uh,

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<v Speaker 3>it's a really good date. That's why I'm like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>kind of surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the day, did you aggressively try

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<v Speaker 1>to put your tongue in her mouth at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry? Just all right, well.

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<v Speaker 1>Good, just listen, you never know, it may have happened,

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't happen. So we're gonna we're gonna put you

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<v Speaker 1>on hold. You sound like a great guy, sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a great date. We're gonna put you on hold. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call up Heather and ask her about the day.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll be listening in. Are you ready to find out

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<v Speaker 1>why you're getting ghosted?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, all right, sounds like a great guy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, he actually sounds very normal and polite. And

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<v Speaker 5>what normal is. The word normal is a very important word.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of unnormal people out there. Aggressive. Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>it's Heather, there's Hi. Hey Heather, it's Courtney, Heather, it's

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<v Speaker 2>Walmart chef.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, it's Savannah.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're on the radio. You're on Kiss ninety five seven.

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<v Speaker 6>Good morning, Hi, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on something called second Date Update. You get ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>after our first date. We make the call and we

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<v Speaker 1>get the answers, and that's why we're calling you this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Heather.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh okay, all right, okay, super nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Drake calls us, says, it takes you to a romantic restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Thought you guys had a connection. He was the perfect

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<v Speaker 1>gentleman at dinner. He's reached out to you and you're

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<v Speaker 1>ghosting him. So we just want to know from you

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<v Speaker 1>how the date went.

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<v Speaker 6>That's what he said.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he said the date was great.

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<v Speaker 1>He I think he said, was it a romantic or

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<v Speaker 1>just a nice restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you also mentioned it was like a tennis match.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys are going back and forth on questions.

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<v Speaker 5>Did he did say that he was a good listener?

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<v Speaker 6>Gotcha? Okay? Not how it was for me? Okay, I

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<v Speaker 6>honestly I was. Yeah, I was really ready for a

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<v Speaker 6>romantic date. Like I got all cute and put my hair,

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<v Speaker 6>I did my hair for like hours. I was really excited.

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<v Speaker 6>But then he showed up with his five year old kid.

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<v Speaker 6>Didn't tell me like a.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a child, like a two legged child, you're his child.

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<v Speaker 6>A whole child, like a good a little tiny person.

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<v Speaker 6>Who are you? Was just hanging out and.

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<v Speaker 5>He didn't warn you, like, hey, I'm gonna bring.

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<v Speaker 6>My kid, no warning. And even then when we got there,

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<v Speaker 6>he didn't even addressed that the kid was there genuinely

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<v Speaker 6>the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>So he didn't acknowledge the fact that he walked in

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<v Speaker 1>with a child to his date.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna so like the kid. Wait, didn't mean then

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<v Speaker 6>basically went back to his iPad and got onto the table. Okay, wait,

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<v Speaker 6>watching you to.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, is this is this his kid? I'm like assuming

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<v Speaker 4>this is his kid?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, it's his kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she doesn't know. He didn't address it, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to address it. Drake is listening in. Can we

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<v Speaker 1>just bring him on the line, Heather, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>God, Drake, Hey, what's up guys? Okay, Drake, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't tell you brought your son to on your

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<v Speaker 2>romantic date.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I didn't know, Like I didn't think

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<v Speaker 3>it was like a big deal. I didn't. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>he's he's really good at just kind of doing his

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<v Speaker 3>own thing, and like I knew he wasn't gonna like

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<v Speaker 3>care about, you know, what we were doing. He just

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<v Speaker 3>wanted some food and to be on his iPad. And

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<v Speaker 3>I just really didn't like think it was going to

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<v Speaker 3>be that big a deal. Plus, like we went to it,

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<v Speaker 3>like it was a really nice restaurant that we were at.

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<v Speaker 3>Really kind of hoped it would, you know, compensate for

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<v Speaker 3>you know, me bringing my five year old. It's like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, it's my weekend to take care of them,

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<v Speaker 3>and I really wanted to go out of in the state.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, I just didn't think it was going to

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<v Speaker 3>be a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, showing up to a first date at a

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<v Speaker 1>romantic restaurant with a surprise child.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that would be a little off putting.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for forgive me if I yeah, forgive me if

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a stepping out of line here. But I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like on a first date, if you are going to

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<v Speaker 4>bring your child, you should probably give the heads up of, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>can't find a babysitter, would you want to reschedule?

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<v Speaker 5>Would you mind if I bring my kid? You know

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<v Speaker 5>what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, are you allergic? Like I don't understand what

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<v Speaker 3>like the problem is. I mean, I definitely had to

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<v Speaker 3>listen on my dating profile that I child, but it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Creepy not to even address it. But if the kid

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<v Speaker 2>is quiet and just under a table, just doing his own.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I think the problem here, Drake isn't that

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<v Speaker 1>you have a son or you brought your son. Problem

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<v Speaker 1>is you didn't say, like what Savannah said, Hey, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, I can't get a sitter and I've got

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<v Speaker 1>my son that weekend. It's a little odd that you

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't even address it even when you got there.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, thank you, And then yeah, like I said,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I didn't think it was a big deal, but.

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<v Speaker 1>And you probably ordered fries and tenders off the kiddy menu.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just all right, So you have no desire, Heather

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a kid another date.

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<v Speaker 2>If he if he's kid free that weekend.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah no, okay, yeah no, I think I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, listen, I appreciate you being honest Heather

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<v Speaker 1>and letting us know why he was getting ghosted, and Drake,

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<v Speaker 1>we wish you lock. I just think, like Savannah said,

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<v Speaker 1>I just be honest up front, and you probably would

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<v Speaker 1>have gotten a second date.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I really want chicken fingers.

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<v Speaker 2>I want a five year old, so up.

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<v Speaker 6>I