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Speaker 2: What's Up, Besties?

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to another episode of Your Manifesting Bestie podcast.

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I'm your host, Flora, and we are diving into all

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things mindset and manifestation like we always do. I want

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to apologize for last week. We had a missing episode

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due to the storm that came to Florida, and I'm

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really hoping and praying for everyone who was caught in

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these storms. We've had hurricanes back to back recently, and

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my heart really goes down to everybody because it is

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tough out here. But we are finally back and this week,

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I want to get into a very highly requested topic

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that our listeners have asked for. A lot of people

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within my academy have also asked for this, and it

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is a very popular topic. If you look online, there's

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a lot of conversation around this, more so in the

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dating world, and we're going to touch a little bit

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on it from every aspect and every avenue. But it's

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how to embody your feminine energy. And the reason that

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I get asked this question a lot is because I

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am very business oriented, very goal oriented, and people ask

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me how do I operate a multimillion dollar business in

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my feminine energy? And how am I not overly masculine,

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overly organized, overly planning everything right? How do I stay

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and embody my feminine energy while still making a very

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very generous income and overlooking so many different aspects within

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my business that I pretty much do by myself, running

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a podcast, running an entire manifestation platform which is the Academy,

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coaching our members, creating new digital programs, staying on top

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of content creation, staying on top of editing. There's so

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much that goes into running a business by yourself, and

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it can lean more into the masculine energy.

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Speaker 2: And that's totally normal.

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Speaker 1: I think people are afraid of like living in the

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masculine energy. But there is a time and place for everything,

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and that's what I want to talk about, because if

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we shy away from doing the work that needs to

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be done, especially if you're a business owner, or especially

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if you're somebody who is, you know, running some type

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of a career that requires their focus and energy, you're

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going to be leaning into your masculine And that's not

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a bad thing.

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Speaker 2: It's not a negative thing.

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Speaker 1: It's not bad to be organized, and it's not bad

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to take action, and it's not bad to block out

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time on your calendar to hustle and show up. These

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are not bad things, and there's a way to do

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all of that while still being in the feminine. So

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the difference between these two energies, number one, the feminine

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is receiving, the feminine is being. The feminine is full

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on embodiment, whereas the masculine is more so planning, organizing

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structure and physical effort and taking action. So there's a

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time a place to utilize both of these different types

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of energies. And each individual, whether you are a man

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or you are a woman, you have a combined energy

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of both sides because you have duality within you. Right,

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You're not just one. You're not just feminine and you're

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not just masculine. You embody both energies simultaneously. Now, what

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you're more dominant of, of course, is going to create

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different results in your life. And the way that you

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can remain in your feminine energy while dominating a business

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or while running something that requires a lot of energy

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and focus is pretty simple, and it's beautiful to talk

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about this because the art of manifesting, the art of

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manifestation in itself is a very feminine creation. So manifestation

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is being right, you be it until you become it.

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It is the embodiment of something new. So when we

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manifest and we work on our self concept and our

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identity to transform our lils into a new being, that's

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not action based necessarily, it's energetic.

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Speaker 2: Right. So it's you being it.

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Speaker 1: It's you thinking like it, feeling like it, behaving like it,

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having the personality and characteristics of the new self that

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already has those goals met. When you shift your identity

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by being someone new, someone different, is very different than

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taking a ton of action to try to change and

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force change in your physical world, which is much more masculine. Okay,

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So when we want to live in our feminine energy,

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for all my ladies who are listening out there, we

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can be feminine. We can live in that feminine energy

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of receiving of embodiment, of working on our energy, right,

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and then we can still take the necessary action to

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move the puzzle pieces that are right in front of us. Right,

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There's only so much like meditating and sitting around and

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feeling we can do until it's time to take inspired action.

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very feminine way to operate. It's a very feminine way

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to create something is through aligned action because you are

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doing it through a new energy, through inspired energy. You're

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not doing it through force, You're not doing it through

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the lack mindset. You're not doing it because you think

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something bad's going to happen if you don't take action,

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so you have to force it into place. Right, that's

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not what you're doing here. You are first aligning yourself energetically,

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which is a very feminine quality. It's very feminine of

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you to be like, hmm, I'm going to choose to

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embody my most abundant self today. I'm going to appreciate

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everything around me today. I'm going to choose to feel

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good internally today. I'm going to choose to pour into

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myself mentally, spiritually, physically, and emotionally today so I can

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take care of me. That is all very feminine. And

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when you're able to conjure up this new feelings state,

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you are becoming someone new, not because you took action,

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but because you're aligning yourself energetically to the desired outcome,

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which is the act of manifestation. So you can see

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now that manifestation is asking you and calling you to

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live more in your feminine energy. It's asking you to

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relax more, receive more, be more, rather than forcing and

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taking action and planning everything ahead and having this whole

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blueprint of what needs to get done. That's a very

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masculine operation. But when you get aligned, when you get

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when your energy is aligned. Let's say you're running a business,

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like uh, what we spoke about at the beginning of

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the episode. If you're running a business, you are going

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to need to show up. That that is a requirement

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of you. You do not start a business if you

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think you can just not show up.

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Speaker 2: Do not start a brand.

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Speaker 1: If you think you're just gonna like you're not going

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to be present, You're not going to need to take

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action daily. You need to if you want a successful business.

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That's where the masculine side kicks in. That's the part

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that says, hey, I need to get organized. Okay, Now

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that I'm fully aligned energetically, I feel good about it.

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My belief system is aligned. My energy is showing me

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that I am worthy and I am abundant. I feel

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really fucking good in my own skin, and I have

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a clear vision and I can feel it into being.

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I can feel myself being that new version of myself.

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inspired action that is going to propel me forward so

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much higher, so much faster, so much further than forced

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action would. Okay, so we think of masculine energy. Masculine

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energy is the showing up and taking action. It's the

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physical creation. It's the act of doing things. It's the

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organizing and the planning and the counting and the putting

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the physical puzzle pieces in the present tense together in

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front of you. It's you know, you want to start

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a business. It's cool, Go open up an LLC wonderful.

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organize it, edit it, film it, project it, write out

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your captions, build out your programs, create that consulting blueprint,

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whatever you need to do. That's all that masculine energy

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that you need to conjure up to take action. So,

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as you guys can see, you need a bit of both.

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Speaker 2: You need a.

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Speaker 1: Healthy balance of both energies. And what I'm seeing online

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is like one or the other is being demonized. Like

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if you're too masculine, you get demonized, if you're too feminine,

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you get demonized right, like they'll I've seen people online

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like make fun of women who take their business really seriously. Oh,

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you're so hyper independent, you're too masculine. No one's gonna

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want to And she's literally not doing anything other than

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just showing up for herself, and like people are ridiculing

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her time out that she's not in her feminine energy,

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and like, what are these people talking about? They have

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no idea what they're actually saying. Here, a person who

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is running and operating something that they're passionate about is

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so feminine. It's so exciting, it's thrilling, it's invigorating. To

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have passion and to show up for it is how

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you honor the depth of your feminine energy. Because the

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feminine has so much duality and so many different dimensions.

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The feminine is nurturing, it's calming, it's motherly. The feminine

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is also sexual, powerful, extremely fiery and bold and speaks

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their mind. Have you heard of the feminine rage? Like

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it is powerful. There is so much power, and the

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feminine people overlook it. They think it's about like wearing

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pink bows and hopping around with fucking bunnies in the

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field and picking flowers off the floor like that's all wonderful,

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The feminine energy is being it's being so authentic, it's

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being aligned, it's being energetically excited and in tune and

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turned the fuck on. That is your feminine energy. It's powerful,

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and people portray it like the super soft, delicate, dainty thing,

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that's nice. That's like the childlike feminine that is still

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in every single woman, no matter how old she is.

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We all have that childlike quality in us. We like

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the fun, the pretty, the glittery, the beautiful, the soft,

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the decor, the colorful, the pink.

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Speaker 2: We love those things. I love it.

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Speaker 1: If I can roll around in cupcakes all day, I

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fucking would, Okay, I would. I love cupcakes, and I

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love the glitter, and I love the sprinkles, and I

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love the pink bows, and I love getting my nails done.

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I love all that shit. There's nothing wrong with it.

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The feminine is fire. There's so much passion in the feminine,

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there's so much authenticity there's so much boldness. When you

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hear a woman speak up and speak her mind, she

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is feminine, They'll be like, oh, she's assertive, so she

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must be masculine.

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Speaker 2: You're so wrong.

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Speaker 1: She's authentically herself and she's not afraid to open up

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her fucking throat chakra and express herself full. A self

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expression is a godlike frequency. So we cannot demonize people

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or talk down on this girl for being different from

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this other girl. And it creates all this competition and

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I hate seeing it. I absolutely hate seeing it. It

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blows my mind. I'm like, why are we turning women

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against each other because they operate this way or they

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operate that way. I'm like, what the fuck are we

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really doing here? Like it's not helping anybody. So you

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have all these different dimensions within you, You have so

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many sides, see so many different aspects to you, and

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to allow them to come to surface and to allow

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them to be seen and to allow all these different

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sides of you to be expressed fully, is you honoring

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your feminine energy. It's you no longer shutting your mouth.

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It's you choosing no longer to be small and put

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into a box. It's you no longer, you know, shriveling

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yourself up to make other people fucking comfortable around you.

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It's you saying no to being a people pleaser moving forward,

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that's you honoring your feminine energy. It's not about being

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soft and submissive. There's a time and a place for that,

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of course, But for you to hide parts of yourself

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that are authentic to you because you fear what other

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people might think, that's not how you're going to honor

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your feminine That's not how you're going to embody your

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most authentic self, your highest self. Okay, So when we

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think of the feminine energy, we want to think of

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embodiment and how do we achieve embodiment? Just like in manifestation,

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when I want to manifest something, I have to create

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full embodiment of the new identity. And there's three steps

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to creating embodiment, which is going to be also three

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steps to living in your feminine energy. Like it's so

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crazy how manifestation goes so hand in hand with all

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of this. So if I want to create embodiment of

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a reality that I have not yet experienced or achieved, right,

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the first step is changing my thought patterns. The second

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step is changing my speech patterns out loud. And then

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my third step is going to be changing my behavior,

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how I respond, how I act right like my personality traits.

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So those are the three steps to full aligned embodiment.

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So let's say my goal is to achieve financial success.

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How do I tap into that version of myself? I

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create embodiment and I start to be it. So I

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start to speak like her, I start to think like her,

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and I start to behave like her. I start to

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respond to circumstances the way that she would. I start

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to change my perspective to everything is the unfolding, not

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that I'm losing things the way that she would. So

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if I was my most successful self, the highest version

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of me, what does that feel like? And what does

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that sound like? And what does that look like? And

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how do I behave? What are my personality traits? That's embodiment,

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that's being it so that you can manifest the desired outcome.

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That's the formula to manifestation. And if I look at

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the feminine, the feminine is all about embodiment and being

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being in alignment, being in the highest energy, feeling all

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the feelings right. It's and bold self expression and fluidity

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allowing things to be right. It's not forcing its being

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energy ties in to manifestation. If you're living in your

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feminine energy, you are being it, you are in full alignment.

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You are a master manifestor. And there's also this other

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part that ties into it so well, it's the actual brain.

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to it. There's the conscious mind and the subconscious mind.

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Do you guys know what they refer to these things

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as it's so crazy. The conscious mind is referred to

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as the masculine mind, whereas the subconscious mind is referred

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to as the feminine mind. Again another correlation to manifestation.

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think of like that, that being the smaller part of

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the mind in the front. It's conscious in you're waking hours,

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and it's there to analyze data and take action. It's

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there to collect data. Okay, what works for me? What

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doesn't work for me? What direction do I need to go?

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What do I need to wear today?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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sort through in your brain throughout the day. And then

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the bigger part of the mind is the subconscious. This

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is known as the feminine mind. And why do we

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call it the subconscious mind because it receives impressions. So

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a big part of the manifestation formula that I teach

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are sleep tracks, and I create customized sleep tracks for

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all my clients based on their goals. Right, So when

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a person is asleep, their conscious mind, which is the

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masculine mind, it's turned off. It doesn't need to sort

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through anything, it doesn't need to analyze any thing or

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take data. It doesn't need to take action on anything.

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It doesn't need to judge like the ego would. Right,

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So the masculine mind is shut off, and then the

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feminine mind, which is the subconscious mind, is open and

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permeable when you're asleep. So why does this benefit the person?

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new beliefs are being set in your brain, and the

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subconscious is open and permeable because the conscious mind is

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turned off, right, masculine versus feminine. The feminine mind takes

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the impressions it receives, it receives and accepts because that

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is what the feminine does. It's a receiver.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So the subconscious mind is open and permeable while you sleep,

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which is the feminine aspect of your brain, of your mind,

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and it's taking all these new impressions so that when

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you wake up in the morning, you have a new

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set of beliefs already that the conscious mind can then

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operate from. So that is how the masculine and the

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feminine work together in the brain. So you guys can

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see how feminine and masculine are necessary in every aspect

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of what you're doing. It's necessary in dating, it's necessary

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in finances, it's necessary with your health, it's necessary with everything.

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So we cannot demonize and shut out either side of

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ourselves because we have to have duality. Now, if we

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can really get aligned with the feminine, which is the

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feminine energy, which is the manifestation aspect, the energetics of

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who we are, the being, it, the energy, the embodiment.

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If we get that part of ourselves fully aligned, because

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we represent our higher selves energetically through our daily personal

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development practices, then the conscious mind, the masculine aspect of us,

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can take the proper direction and no longer self sabotage itself.

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By trying to keep it safe, because that's what the

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mind does. It hits like a a wall, it hits

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a ceiling. When your belief systems are out of whack.

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When your belief system and your desire don't add up

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your brain, your mind will sabotage you. It will compel

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you to fuck up. It will compel you to not

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take action. It will compel you to take the wrong action,

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or take the wrong turn, or say the wrong things.

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It will compel you to fuck up. It will compel

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you to make mistakes because your subconscious beliefs. A feminine

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mind is not fully aligned with your desire yet. Okay,

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so this is why feminine energy is so important. Energetic

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work is so important. We want to become embodiments of

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who we are actually trying to be. Not just say

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we're going to become her, but actually practice embodiment, which

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starts as thought patterns to speech patterns to behavioral patterns.

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That is embodiment because those three things added up create

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a feeling state. Your feeling state is what you embody.

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It's full on embodiment. And I just went over this

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in my Manifestation Academy coaching call earlier, where we were

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talking about. The feeling is the secret. Your feeling state,

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your dominant feeling state, which is made up by your

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dominating motions, is what you keep manifesting into the physical.

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So if we can create new embodiment, a new feeling

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state by tapping into our feminine energy and creating something

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way more aligned with what we actually desire our actions

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and where our masculine side kicks in to take action,

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is it's gonna have a breeze. It's gonna have an

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easy psy lemon squeezy fucking time. It's gonna be like, Oh,

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life is easy reality, This is easy to operate. Everything

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I do turns to gold. Everything I try and set

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out to do I achieve like everything just gets better

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and better. And the masculine side of you is gonna

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be like, man, life is not that hard. I love

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taking action. I love showing up. I enjoy waking up

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early to get things done. I enjoy organization and planning ahead.

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I enjoy looking at my finances, joy all these masculine things.

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Speaker 1: It's easy for me because I have mastered my feminine energy.

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I've mastered full embodiment, the energetics of myself right so

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as you guys can see, these things have to work

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hand in hand to create your desired reality. And it's

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silly of us to be like, oh, this person's more feminine,

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this person's more masculine.

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Speaker 2: Why do we do that? Like what? I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know where those battles and debates on

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fucking TikTok come from, but they drive me crazy when

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I see them. I'm like, okay, next, I'm done listening

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to it. So, if you are trying to tap into

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your feminine energy, let's say when you're dating, because that's

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a hot topic online, how can you embody your feminine

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energy when dating and attract the right partner. Well, if

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you look at the content online, it's going to tell

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you to be quite, be submissive, be a smaller version

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of yourself, Shrink yourself down to be more palatable to

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a man, or to whoever you are choosing to date.

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Will in my opinion, you are going to attract a

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person who is not aligned for you. The more you

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shrink yourself, the more you mute yourself, the more you

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make yourself smaller to make another person comfortable. The more

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you attract unaligned relationships with which end up in turmoil

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because you are not fully expressing who you are. You're

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not an embodiment of your highest self. You're not in

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the self expression. And we don't need to fear that.

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We need to embrace that so that we could attract

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people who are fully fucking aligned with who we are. Right,

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doesn't that make more sense? So say I'm out in

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a dating pool and I'm looking for my lifelong partner.

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Wouldn't it make way more sense for me to show

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up in my fullest expression of myself to attract a

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person who is aligned with that and magnetized to my authenticity?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Doesn't that make more sense than plain small and being

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more quiet and submissive to cater to somebody else, Like

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I'm just like using my brain here, Right? It makes

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way more sense for you to be authentically yourself when

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you're dating than to shrink yourself to appease to the masculine.

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Speaker 2: Doesn't make sense. I don't like.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand why people are teaching this stuff. Be

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more childlike and soft and feminine. No, why, I'm just

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myself and I need to be with someone who loves that,

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who values.

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Speaker 2: Me for who I am.

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Speaker 1: But they're not going to value me if I lack authenticity,

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if I lack embodiment of my true self. So express

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your femininity through self expression, through being exactly who you are.

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The way that you dress, the way that you style yourself,

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the way that you speak, the way that you move,

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the way that you feel it should be so authentic

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to you. That's how you embody your most feminine aspects.

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And there will be men and women who are magnetized

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by your authenticity and they're just so in love and

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like they have heart eyes for you. They can't look away.

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They're like, Wow, this person is authentic, magnetic speaks, their mind,

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is in tune with their emotions, does not shrink themselves

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for the likes of others. Do you know how fucking

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sexy that is? You know how attractive that is, how

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beautiful that is? Like that in itself is going to

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attract so many high value individuals into your life because

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you're no longer hiding who.

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Speaker 2: You actually are.

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Speaker 1: And then when we look at it from a financial

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and business aspect, if you want to make more money,

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you need to tap into your feminine You need to

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figure out your path of authenticity and your embodiment of

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who you want to become. You need to start searching

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for your most authentic path, that is your feminine expression

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in an nutshell. The women who are able to tap

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into this, who are embodying their true femininity by their

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self expression and being bold in who they are, those

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are the people who are making a fuck ton of money,

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like a lot of money. I remember in the very

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beginning of me starting out my business in twenty twenty two,

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like two years ago, I was like, I don't care

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what anyone is gonna say, what anyone is gonna think.

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I have shut my mouth for way too long. I

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played it safe for way too long. I cater to

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everybody else's needs for way too long, and I shrunk

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myself to be palatable, to be liked. And I was like,

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I don't want to do that anymore. I'm like itching

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to be my actual self. Right to take the mask

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off and be my actual self and use my voice

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and speak up and be bold. That was my version

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of embodiment. That was me using my feminine energy to

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be exactly who I want to become, and that blew

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up My business. Magnetized a crowd. It attracted a crowd,

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a client tele a community of people who love this

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type of stuff, who don't find it embarrassing to talk

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about this stuff, who enjoy it, who are plugged in right,

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because I'm not pretending to be anything other than who

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I am. That's me honoring my feminine energy. It's full embodiment.

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And then that created a multimillion dollar business for me

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because I was like, let me stop trying to be

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like everyone else, Let me stop hiding right, let me

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be okay with being seen, Let me use my voice,

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let me feel good about it. Let me look beautiful

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when I do it. Let me feel good about how

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I show up and be bolden in my presence and

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the way I show up and boom it blew up. Right,

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that was me embodying my most feminine side. It's my

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most authentic side. And then I use my masculine energy

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to do the work, to do the inspired action, to

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show up every single day, to do all the live streams,

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to answer all the questions, to record twenty different videos

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in two hour settings so I can have videos on

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videos on videos being pushed out. To grow my audience,

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I had to do all the masculine stuff that people

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shy away from because they're like, oh, that's not me

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embodying my feminine What do you mean you got to

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do both? You have two sides to you, two aspects

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to you.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So, and it doesn't feel like hustle, and it doesn't

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feel like hard work and blood, sweat and tears, it doesn't.

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It feels fun, it feels exciting, it feels thrilling and invigorating.

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I'm turned on for my business. That's how I know

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my feminine energy is activated. My body is fully fucking

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turned on like electricity, because I love this stuff. I

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love doing it. And when you find something like that,

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especially in business or in your career, that is you

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embodying your femininity. It's just it's you being who you are.

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It's allowing yourself to be who you want to be.

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That is so bold, and that's so powerful, and it's

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so authentic. I still online somebody said that the God

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I say that the God frequency is love, but somebody

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said online that the God frequency is actually your most

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authentic self and your most authentic self expression is you

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honoring God. It's you praising and worshiping God by allowing

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yourself to be fully expressive and embodiment of who you

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truly want to be and I was like, wow, I've

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never heard of it put like that, but I feel that,

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Like I feel that to my core, like that does

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sound like the God frequency. If I can operate and

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live like that every day, I am honoring and worshiping

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the Creator because I'm not hiding myself. I'm not throwing

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my life away. I'm present and I'm showing up in

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the way that I want to. That's why I was

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gifted this life. And when we get a hold of

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these energies, guys, life becomes fun and thrilling and exciting

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and fast paced and mood. Okay, So, for all my

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beautiful women out there who see all this content online

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about like how to embrace your feminine energy, throw it

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all away, throw it all away, because a lot of

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that content is telling you to be smaller than who

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you are, and be lesser than who you are, and

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be quieter than who you actually are, and it's putting

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you back into that submissive role that you were not

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meant to be in.

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Speaker 2: You just weren't.

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Speaker 1: You were meant for expression and boldness and power. And

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if you feel rage and if you want to cry,

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do it, express it, get it out like it be

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who you are and even more show up in who

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you want to become, which is even more powerful. Okay,

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So there is duality in every person, and we can

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use these energies simultaneously and harness them simultaneously to get

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the most out of life, to get the most out

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of our careers, success, our dating life, our health, our

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self confidence. The feminine and the masculine when they're married, energetically,

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they go hand in hand to support you, to allow

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you to receive all that you want and to be

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all that you are, and there's no reason to hide

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or diminish either side of yourself. My only rule of

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thumb that I recommend following is to first handle the

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feminine aspect, the energetic aspect, the mental emotional aspect of

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who you are and who you want to become, and

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then tap into the masculine, the taking action, the organization

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part of yourself. When you can do this cohesively and

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show up authentically, you're solid, you are bold, You are

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manifesting left and right the things that you want because

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you're not hiding yourself anymore. You're operating at your highest

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frequency of your highest self, which is the duality of

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the feminine and the masculine in one. Thank you guys

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so much for tuning in to this week's episode of

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your Manifesting Bessy podcast, and we will be back again

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next week with a brand new episode