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Speaker 7: that is to eight to nine four five. I was
Speaker 7: reading a story about Rod Stewart because apparently Rod Stewart
Speaker 7: got stuck in an elevator.
Speaker 6: That sucks.
Speaker 7: Now, luckily he was with his son and his son's girlfriend.
Speaker 7: His son, who's twenty by the way, he's eighty one.
Speaker 7: He had a kid at sixty one.
Speaker 1: Sorry, that's just wild.
Speaker 7: Shown even I didn't even hit the right button. I
Speaker 7: just went to a place of having a kid at
Speaker 7: sixty one.
Speaker 6: Sorry, you're not taking care of it at sixty one.
Speaker 2: There was a rolling stone that did it too.
Speaker 7: Oh, I'm a lot of Yeah, celebrities have done Yeah.
Speaker 7: Who was at the al Pacino? Yeah, yeah, a lot
Speaker 7: of people do. But the idea of doing that right now,
Speaker 7: I can't even envision myself at sixty one. Right, kids
Speaker 7: graduate from college. I'm going to be sixty sixty one
Speaker 7: and I can't get my head there.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry.
Speaker 7: From high school, I can't get my head there, right,
Speaker 7: But to have a kid at sixty one.
Speaker 6: Right, all over two o'clock feedings, diaper changes.
Speaker 1: Yet to go on tour?
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 6: No, I gotta go to.
Speaker 1: Mat Yeah, I gotta go on.
Speaker 7: But he was stuck in a Prada elevator apparently it
Speaker 7: was at a Prada store, and even Prada elevators apparently
Speaker 7: break down. And I was thinking of all the celebrities
Speaker 7: who I would want to get stuck in an elevator with.
Speaker 2: I don't know if.
Speaker 7: Frod's Stewart would be that bad. He doesn't come across
Speaker 7: as very annoying. Here's an example. I think Billy Joel's
Speaker 7: pretty annoying.
Speaker 2: Okay, any I'd love to get stuck in an elevator
Speaker 2: with Billy Joel.
Speaker 7: You've never seen a real interview with him, then, because
Speaker 7: he's cuckoo, like, go down that rabbit hole.
Speaker 1: So I don't want to. He's stuck in an elevator
Speaker 1: with someone who's.
Speaker 7: You know, as a conspiracy like a really crazy conspiracy theorist.
Speaker 7: Yeah no thanks, I'm already stressed out that we're stuck
Speaker 7: in an elevator. I don't need you to try and
Speaker 7: explain to me that this is all part of the plan.
Speaker 7: So the question is what celebrity would you like to
Speaker 7: get stuck in an elevator? And, as we just demonstrated
Speaker 7: with Billy Joel, Lindsay likes Billy Joel, you can't just
Speaker 7: jump to that. You got to think about what they're
Speaker 7: like in real life.
Speaker 2: I think Kevin Hart would be fun to get stuck
Speaker 2: in an elevator with because he's down to earth. He's funny.
Speaker 2: You could ask him questions about did he p did
Speaker 2: he I feel like he wouldn't mind going there, like
Speaker 2: he wouldn't mind you know.
Speaker 1: That about sex and trafficking.
Speaker 7: Let's talk about your involvement in that.
Speaker 1: He might not give me what he got.
Speaker 6: Eddie Murphy comes to mine. He's a funny kind of guy.
Speaker 2: I feel like he would like Yeah, I don't feel
Speaker 2: like he would be talkative. I think he would be like,
Speaker 2: leave me alone, man, just let me alone. I don't.
Speaker 2: I just want to get off this elevator and not
Speaker 2: be messed with.
Speaker 6: Dave Chapelle is another one that comes to mind.
Speaker 2: He would be good.
Speaker 6: I think I like I like old Dave Chappelle, not
Speaker 6: the new Dave Chappelle. The new revins to Dave Chappelle.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if I I like Dave Chappelle.
Speaker 7: I just don't know if I want to be stuck
Speaker 7: in an elevator for hours where he goes off.
Speaker 1: On his tangents.
Speaker 6: Oh done? Why Why didn't I think of this in
Speaker 6: the beginning? Snoop Snoop a loop right, because he's carrying
Speaker 6: always always, and we just sit in there and get
Speaker 6: ripped waiting for them to open up his elevator.
Speaker 1: That's really good.
Speaker 6: Like they open it up and it's like.
Speaker 2: And if he's not, hopefully GIMPI is, so they can
Speaker 2: just enjoy the time.
Speaker 6: Oh no, I ah, man, I would not want to
Speaker 6: embarrass myself with the quality of weed.
Speaker 1: You know hoops with Kobe it exactly right.
Speaker 6: So so yeah, the weed that the get is good,
Speaker 6: but it ain't Snoop a Loop good.
Speaker 1: Come on now, right.
Speaker 6: They'd be like, what is what is this trash? Like, well, sorry, broh,
Speaker 6: it's all of God.
Speaker 7: He's not going to the local dispensary, you know, the
Speaker 7: goat pee dispensary, right, He's got his own probably grow facility,
Speaker 7: right that is highly curated, always has that person with
Speaker 7: him who is paid to roll the blunts for him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's his job.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so of course, yeah snoop, forget all those other ones.
Speaker 7: I said, that's a solid day, that's a solid good
Speaker 7: I think I'm picking Dolly Parton. Okay, she just hasn't
Speaker 7: had very many you know. Her conversations always feel like
Speaker 7: scripted in character. Yeah, and maybe you get to see
Speaker 7: the guard come down a lot.
Speaker 6: Right, or she's just gotten really good over the years
Speaker 6: of keeping that appearance up. Yeah, no matter what the
Speaker 6: situation is. That's the fun thing about when we do
Speaker 6: the select questions and stuff like that. Like for me,
Speaker 6: I think it's all an act.
Speaker 1: Oh well, who you see.
Speaker 6: In the news and on television and in their music
Speaker 6: and stuff. That's I don't think that's who they really are.
Speaker 6: I agree, And maybe that's that's the benefit of being
Speaker 6: stuck in an elevator with him. Like you said, with Dolly,
Speaker 6: you actually get to see the real person.
Speaker 7: I think you see tidbit like pieces of what they are,
Speaker 7: but they do it in character form. Meel Manson's a
Speaker 7: great example of that, right. You see him in his
Speaker 7: character form and you think he's all about throwing salami
Speaker 7: on girls asses, which he's done and admitted. But he's
Speaker 7: a very intelligent human being.
Speaker 1: Yeah right. Another one would be Kine from wrestling WWE.
Speaker 7: Right, Okay, you see him as the wrestler and you,
Speaker 7: but he's a sophisticated financial expert.
Speaker 6: Right. Rob Zombie is another great example of something like that.
Speaker 1: Would be so you see who they.
Speaker 7: Are, but they're also a character, and it's easy to
Speaker 7: see the separation. Someone like Dolly, you get an I
Speaker 7: think you get an idea of who she is as
Speaker 7: a person, but she does it in character, right, And
Speaker 7: so being in an elevator that long, you would hope
Speaker 7: that would break down.
Speaker 6: Maybe maybe it just gets too hot. She's got to
Speaker 6: release two pops.
Speaker 2: I doubt it.
Speaker 6: I don't care. We've been staring at take off the.
Speaker 1: Suits for her. You got a cups what they're all
Speaker 1: just built into her shirt. She's got that missdown fire
Speaker 1: suit on. Jim it, Dolly, you fooled this all.
Speaker 6: Good for years.
Speaker 1: Good for you. She's like down. In the beginning, it
Speaker 1: was kind of tough, but now the suits get really sophisticated. Right,
Speaker 1: do you know very many women? She's eighty three, is
Speaker 1: that right?
Speaker 7: I believe so yes, let's find Do you know very
Speaker 7: many women that can walk in heels like she can
Speaker 7: at eighty she's eighty at eighty.
Speaker 1: Much less thirty eight?
Speaker 2: No, Jane Fonda, Maybe.
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't know.
Speaker 7: I don't think I've seen Jane Fonda and heels in
Speaker 7: a while. Yeah, but she does it effortlessly. Share SHARE's
Speaker 7: pretty tall, right, Yeah, I don't know if she needs
Speaker 7: the heels anymore. Right, it's always like like you think
Speaker 7: they wear these boots, like boots, and then you see
Speaker 7: videos of Vince Neil on stage and you're.
Speaker 1: Like, le's wear a new balance, Right, he didn't mow
Speaker 1: the lawn before us?
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 2: How old is Madonna?
Speaker 6: Oh, she's got to be in their seventies.
Speaker 7: And to me, I feel like, you don't see Madonna.
Speaker 7: I got I don't know if I see her feet
Speaker 7: that often, But Dolly, you'll always see she's wearing the
Speaker 7: thick pantyhose huh and heels.
Speaker 6: Madonna's sixty seven years old, and there's pictures of her
Speaker 6: feet on the Internet, a little website called Wiki Feet.
Speaker 1: Oh geez, yep, it's sixty seven at her and no,
Speaker 1: it's just different pictures throughout the years of Madonna and
Speaker 1: her feet. It's weird.
Speaker 6: It is a little bit, a little bit.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but she she does it effortlessly. All right, who's
Speaker 7: the worst? Who would be the worst person to be
Speaker 7: stuck in an elevator with? I got a great answer,
Speaker 7: Candace Owens. Why Hi, she's just annoying at her.
Speaker 2: Every video right now is all about Erica Kirk, and
Speaker 2: it's just.
Speaker 6: Well, that's because her friend was murders and also that's
Speaker 6: what she does.
Speaker 1: Yea.
Speaker 7: Scorpions do scorpion things. Yeah, and wasn't Erica Kirk pregnant?
Speaker 7: I don't know anyway, I don't want to do that.
Speaker 7: Who would you pick, Gimpie.
Speaker 6: That's a tough one, right, because we were talking about
Speaker 6: Jane Fonda. You can say Jane fond of Bette Midler
Speaker 6: and a whole bunch of those other ones Rosie O'Donnell
Speaker 6: with their over political views and just get out of here.
Speaker 6: I'm tired of hearing about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to get yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, So outside of that, hmmm, I don't know. Part
Speaker 6: of me, says Miley's Irish. I feel like it might
Speaker 6: smell fun. Oh no, Britney spears Brittany, I do not
Speaker 6: want to be stuck in an elevator with that bitch.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, that's not a bad take either.
Speaker 2: Just start dancing.
Speaker 6: Oh god, And there's always turns in her video, so
Speaker 6: eventually one's gonna come out. There's gonna be one of
Speaker 6: the elevator Brittany, Come on, Harvey Weinstein.
Speaker 1: Me either, that's what you didn't pick. You picked a Candice.
Speaker 7: I'm picking Harvey Weinstein because I just don't want to
Speaker 7: be associated.
Speaker 1: I don't even want to be like, well, you spend
Speaker 1: a day in an e.
Speaker 6: There's only one way to pass the time in this elevator.
Speaker 1: Settle down. I'm gonna kick your walker out from underneath her.
Speaker 6: Ron Jeremy is another one, just yeah, standing.
Speaker 7: I don't okay, I don't think though they've done similar things,
Speaker 7: I don't think Ron Jermy is on the same level
Speaker 7: as Harvey Weinstein.
Speaker 6: Not when it comes to that. But I'm just talking
Speaker 6: about sheer appearances. He's so goddang greasy, and I'm just like,
Speaker 6: you look like you smell funny. Yeah, I don't want
Speaker 6: to be stuck in an elevator because there's no air blowing,
Speaker 6: there's no circulation, so you be the.
Speaker 7: Heart can stink too, though that is true. You don't
Speaker 7: know what people smell like. Just because they're bad people
Speaker 7: doesn't mean they automatically stink.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they could have just left the gym. We don't know.
Speaker 6: You're stuck in an elevator with snoop. You know it's
Speaker 6: gonna smell like we Yeah, maybe it will eventually.
Speaker 2: I don't want to be stuck in at elevator with
Speaker 2: one of the Paul brothers, either Jake or Logan.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't know enough about I'm gonna make that call.
Speaker 7: I'd take some I'd take some drippings, you know what
Speaker 7: I'm saying, Like, you want to involve me in a video?
Speaker 6: Okay? Right?
Speaker 1: Why why would you?
Speaker 6: What?
Speaker 1: Curiously? For curiosity reason?
Speaker 7: What puts them on the same level as Candice Owens
Speaker 7: to not be stuck in an elevator with I.
Speaker 2: Just can't stand the side of them. They are just
Speaker 2: s talkers, They're just annoying, they're trolls.
Speaker 7: They're also brilliant marketers and business people, brilliant. I'm surprised
Speaker 7: you didn't say Jade Pikett.
Speaker 1: Smith, Oh was it?
Speaker 2: She hates I don't like her?
Speaker 1: Never have. It's not doesn't like her, she hates her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just.
Speaker 1: Hates hates like murder.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't like to say hate because hates like murder,
Speaker 2: but hates.
Speaker 1: Like I don't understand that.
Speaker 2: I just don't like the word hate because it's like murder.
Speaker 1: What does that mean?
Speaker 2: It's such a strong word.
Speaker 1: Hate and murder are equal for you?
Speaker 2: Pretty much?
Speaker 1: Yeah, huh.
Speaker 2: I dislike her very much. I just think she's a
Speaker 2: waste of space.
Speaker 1: And that's not worse.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she ruined her. I think she ruined
Speaker 2: our boy. Will she ruined him?
Speaker 6: That's possible.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think any of these people would not be awesome.
Speaker 7: Britney Spears is good just because I don't, you know,
Speaker 7: need to see a video. I don't want to be
Speaker 7: the background of a video.
Speaker 2: Can you imagine us standing there like all awkward? Yeah,
Speaker 2: just dancing around you. They should have used that in
Speaker 2: the New Scary Movie movie for that, Yes, spoof her dancing.
Speaker 7: They just go with the same old Trumps though, so yeah,
Speaker 7: they wouldn't need to. I would like to be stuck
Speaker 7: with Donald Trump because we would only be stuck for
Speaker 7: about five minutes.
Speaker 6: Maybe we're in his elevator. It's the greatest elevator until
Speaker 6: it broke down. Now it's not the greatest elevator.
Speaker 1: If I would have had the elevator but been fixed already,
Speaker 1: yeah right, right, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 7: You're probably right though. Any president can get unstuck pretty fast. True, right,
Speaker 7: but Rod Stewart wouldn't be that bad and be stuck
Speaker 7: with your kids wouldn't.
Speaker 1: Be bad either.
Speaker 6: Really, get to know each other at that time.
Speaker 1: I would hope you already know each other pretty well.
Speaker 7: Really, they are your kids, so I would hope they
Speaker 7: would know you would don't pretty well. All right, we
Speaker 7: got to take a break. We're gonna do best and
Speaker 7: worst of the weekend. What's the best part of the weekend.
Speaker 7: What's the worst part of the weekend.
Speaker 1: We'll be back.
Speaker 6: It's time for newsquakies. World news, local news, and news
Speaker 6: that just makes you say, what the Here's Corbyn, Gimpi
Speaker 6: and Lindsay with what's going on news quakies from the
Speaker 6: Big nd Morning showing ninety seven.
Speaker 2: Five woman arrested for drunk driving a lawnmower inconvenience store
Speaker 2: parking lot. This happens in Tiffin, Iowa, where thirty six
Speaker 2: year old Michelle Hudson showed up at a Casey store
Speaker 2: on a riding lawnmower, and witnesses called police after she
Speaker 2: appeared intoxicated. She was stabbed about a mile from her home.
Speaker 2: Officers noted slurred speech, poor balance, and bloodshot eyes. During
Speaker 2: a field sobriety test, her breath test registered under the
Speaker 2: legal limit, but police believe she was impaired by drugs.
Speaker 2: Hudson refused to provide a urine sample. She was charged
Speaker 2: with operating under the influence driving while barred, both aggravated misdemeanors.
Speaker 2: Her prior record included theft, assault, meth possession, and other offenses.
Speaker 1: Matthew, don't say here, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she had a prior drunk driving conviction from twenty
Speaker 2: twenty two as well.
Speaker 6: Yeah, hey, if it's good enough for George Jones, it's
Speaker 6: good enough for this lady.
Speaker 1: Get that on a shirt, that's right.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Well, that arrested for appointing gun on KFC employee over
Speaker 6: slow service. So this actually happens in Kentucky, all right,
Speaker 6: where this thirty three year old gal Naita Roman goes
Speaker 6: into her local KFC. It actually happened back in May,
Speaker 6: but the story's just coming out. She's in the drive through.
Speaker 6: As fried chicken does it takes some time to cook,
Speaker 6: so they're like, well, you're gonna have to wait a
Speaker 6: little while. She didn't like it, so after exchanging words
Speaker 6: with the employees there, she pulls up a little bit,
Speaker 6: gets out of her car, goes back to the back
Speaker 6: of her car, opens up the trunk, pulls out an
Speaker 6: ar oh my, points it at the employee before taking off.
Speaker 1: Huh.
Speaker 6: Of course police get called. They use the video surveillance
Speaker 6: footage from the store, along with body cam footage from
Speaker 6: earlier traffic stops, to identify the woman. They also used
Speaker 6: a photo lineup with the employee and they're like, yep,
Speaker 6: that's her, that's the one. So they went ahead arrested her,
Speaker 6: got her for first degree want in danger names.
Speaker 1: Listen, you shouldn't point guns at people. It's one thing
Speaker 1: to point a handgun, right, it's a whole other two holster,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, right, A long rifle.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that kind of gets the message across. And again,
Speaker 6: I don't know if it does. It's just like, hey,
Speaker 6: you scare people. That's true, That's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 6: don't know if it's the message across them. I'm trying
Speaker 6: to scare them.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Trooper id's high speed chase suspect through social media
Speaker 7: and he's facing charges after the Tennessee State Highway Patrol
Speaker 7: used social media to identify him as a suspect in
Speaker 7: a high speed chase. The trooper reportedly tried to stop
Speaker 7: Devin I'm gonna post this and get clicks Jackson Sunday,
Speaker 7: but says he refused to pull over in his red
Speaker 7: Corvette he was driving douchebag. Instead, he allegedly fled, reaching
Speaker 7: speeds of one hundred miles an hour. The next day,
Speaker 7: the trooper went online to search for post about police
Speaker 7: pursuits in the county and found pictures of him and
Speaker 7: his car tagged on Instagram. He now faces charges including
Speaker 7: evading arrest in a vehicle, reckless driving, and reckless endangerment.
Speaker 1: Good yeah, right, you got what you deserve for.
Speaker 7: Posting it, because it's the world called wide Web, or
Speaker 7: in this case, the County Wide Web.
Speaker 6: Social media actually doing good for a change.
Speaker 1: Right, red corvette? Huh yeah?
Speaker 6: I think he was listening to Prance.
Speaker 1: I think the top was down, oh of course, yeah?
Speaker 1: Or was it t top covet.
Speaker 6: I don't think they have t tops anymore, target top
Speaker 6: if anything. Yeah, not a little convertible. Yeah, solid piece
Speaker 6: goes in the drunk.
Speaker 1: I just don't think it sounds cool to go hold
Speaker 1: on buckle.
Speaker 6: I've seen an older guy and his lady in a
Speaker 6: Mustang convertible Saturday, and I thought to myself, it's been
Speaker 6: a long time since I've seen a convertible out on
Speaker 6: the road. Oh no, No, I just think you just
Speaker 6: don't as much anymore. You're right, And I was like,
Speaker 6: would I ever want a convertible? Maybe? I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't know if I want a convertible or not.
Speaker 1: If you want jokes, but I always find it funny
Speaker 1: when you see guys in their guys girl.
Speaker 6: I don't think it works. It seems to make sense
Speaker 6: for girls to be driving.
Speaker 7: But a guy and then he's got the windows up
Speaker 7: right in the ConL I'm like, no, I get it.
Speaker 1: You don't want the wind.
Speaker 6: Right right, but I want the openness. It's called a
Speaker 6: sun roof, exactly. You still get that wide openness wind.
Speaker 1: What models coming convertible right now?
Speaker 6: Well, we know the Mustang because I just mentioned that one. Yeah,
Speaker 6: I think the Camearo does as well. I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 6: I don't know if they still calling me out as
Speaker 6: m X five or whatever.
Speaker 1: Met is still a car like that still comes out
Speaker 1: every year?
Speaker 2: Yeah it does, I believe so.
Speaker 6: I think they change it.
Speaker 7: BMW four series, N eight series, Chevrolet, Corvette Portion nine
Speaker 7: eleven and seven eighteen Boxter, Mercedes Benz SL Class Mini
Speaker 7: Coop Bentley.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what did you say?
Speaker 2: What Carr do you think Volkswagen has like a EOS
Speaker 2: or Iron or something.
Speaker 7: They do not offer any convertibles right now in the US.
Speaker 7: The last one was the t Rock Cabrolet.
Speaker 6: I gotta look to see what this Volkswagon it looks
Speaker 6: like at Cruiser pt Cruiser to be honest.
Speaker 7: The EOS they discontinued it after twenty fifteen, lindsay eleven
Speaker 7: years ago, over a decade ago.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 7: And then the Golf Rabbit they used to I remember
Speaker 7: the Rabbit? What we used to have one?
Speaker 1: Did the Saturn? Do one remember Saturn's Yeah?
Speaker 6: The car made of plastic?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I don't think they did.
Speaker 7: Uh, Jeep Wrangler, that's not a convertible.
Speaker 2: NA Chrysler. Chrysler had one. Was the uh oh Sea Bring.
Speaker 6: Or yeah, what was You're right with the sea bring
Speaker 6: oh way back?
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they don't make those.
Speaker 1: No, I don't even think there's a Toyota or Chevrolet
Speaker 1: that does it.
Speaker 6: Uh, Camaras, I've seen, okay, I've seen convertible Camaras, funny looking.
Speaker 7: My mom had a convertible, had a Cutlass Supreme seventy
Speaker 7: eight colors, Supreme Fire orange.
Speaker 1: Now that's badass, right, that's a muscle car.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I took my driver's license in a convertible.
Speaker 2: Nice.
Speaker 6: It was ninety five ninety four Dodge Shadow convertible, Yes night,
Speaker 6: it was blue wed. We'd just moved here to Tulsa
Speaker 6: and my parents had gotten that car and they'd already
Speaker 6: had a Shadow and they liked it. So they got
Speaker 6: that one cheap. And uh yeah, I mean Mama rolled
Speaker 6: around with that damn hood or that top down constantly.
Speaker 2: I don't remember the year. My dad had a white
Speaker 2: Mustang with red leather interior. It was so cool.
Speaker 1: Was he single at that time?
Speaker 2: No? No, he he had a little pick him up truck.
Speaker 1: And pick him up truck, yeah, I mean a pickup truck, yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, And he traded that in and got this I
Speaker 2: think it was like my mom called it his midlife
Speaker 2: crisis car. Yeah, and then we h we had to
Speaker 2: take it up up north in Michigan and he spun
Speaker 2: out and it was so scary, and that was the
Speaker 2: last time he drove that. He traded it in and
Speaker 2: got scared of cheavy blazer.
Speaker 6: Yeah, this is too much power for me.
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Speaker 6: Good Luck, Good morning, Gimpie All, Good morning, Corbin. So
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Speaker 7: Best and worst of the weekend. What's the best thing
Speaker 7: that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened
Speaker 7: this weekend? Bm my mass and whatever that is to
Speaker 7: eight two, nine, four five. I'll read those in a minute.
Speaker 7: Lindsay what was the best and what was the worst
Speaker 7: of the weekend?
Speaker 2: The best? I had a fantastic Saturday at the Creek.
Speaker 2: I posted a picture of it on Facebook and everyone
Speaker 2: was like, where is this? Where is this? Well, it
Speaker 2: doesn't really have a name that I am aware of.
Speaker 2: A girlfriend of mine, this is where we're going, but
Speaker 2: we have to go early. I said, all right, I'm down.
Speaker 2: It's before Smoky Valley, That's all I can tell you.
Speaker 2: And it is a long strip of beautiful rocky land
Speaker 2: that is a gem of a find if you get
Speaker 2: there early.
Speaker 1: Because are there a lot of people that go there.
Speaker 2: Throughout the day. Yes, So we got there really early.
Speaker 2: We left the house around seven forty five in the
Speaker 2: morning and got there around nine, and we were the
Speaker 2: second people to pull up there. But by noon it
Speaker 2: was pretty packed, but we still had our own little area.
Speaker 2: No one really bothers you. I mean there was a
Speaker 2: big rope for kids to jump and play, and I
Speaker 2: mean It was really nice. The water was super clear
Speaker 2: and nice and cold and refreshing, some deep areas, just
Speaker 2: everything you would expect. It was the perfect day. And
Speaker 2: finally it wasn't so hot, but we knew if we
Speaker 2: went to the lake it would be just kind of
Speaker 2: swampy still the water, you know. We witnessed a baptism
Speaker 2: while we were there, which was cool. One of our friends,
Speaker 2: their vehicle was kind of stuck trying to get out
Speaker 2: in the rocks, and so that same group came and
Speaker 2: helped them push her vehicle out, which was awesome. I
Speaker 2: was afraid leaving because you're going up this giant incline
Speaker 2: to get back onto the highway. I thought, oh my god,
Speaker 2: is my palace. I'd gonna make it up this. Sure
Speaker 2: enough it did. I was nervous, but it made it up.
Speaker 2: The worst part of the weekend. Later on Saturday, my
Speaker 2: left hip. I don't know what I did, but it's
Speaker 2: killing and I had to have a little doctor visit yesterday.
Speaker 1: Like a chiropractor.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for an adsement, and yeah, all around my left
Speaker 2: side is just inflamed. And now I got a steroid
Speaker 2: in me. He started a pack those and.
Speaker 1: Yeah, is our chiropractor's office is always open on Sundays
Speaker 1: or is that my I have.
Speaker 2: One that comes to the house. Oh that's he's a
Speaker 2: mobile chiropractor. David Harker.
Speaker 1: He just does that name drop even Okay, yeah, that's.
Speaker 2: All he does. No, no office building.
Speaker 7: Best and worst the weekend? What's the best part of
Speaker 7: the weekend. What's the worst part of the weekend? BM
Speaker 7: mess and whatever that is to eight two, nine, four five?
Speaker 7: Gimbe what was the best and what was the worst?
Speaker 6: I'm curious if Lindsay's at home chiropractor does the same
Speaker 6: thing like John Redcorn does on King of the Hill.
Speaker 6: You know when he goes over to Dale Gribble's house
Speaker 6: and services his old lady for her problems.
Speaker 1: Does he have to set up like a big table
Speaker 1: and do you have space for that? You just go
Speaker 1: to the reading room, like what do you do now?
Speaker 2: Usually in the in the living room sets up the
Speaker 2: table behind the couch, like where some people might have
Speaker 2: like a table sitting behind their couch, you know, like
Speaker 2: a sofa.
Speaker 1: Uh table, No, we don't.
Speaker 2: Have that, you've said. It's up his his big long
Speaker 2: table and plugs in the you know those all those
Speaker 2: guns that they wear guns, their guns. All those things
Speaker 2: are so awesome.
Speaker 6: Easy listening music.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 7: One time I had, uh, somebody coming to a massage
Speaker 7: at my house. Somebody recommended the guy who does massages
Speaker 7: on sark Shanda officer who got shot, and so I
Speaker 7: had contacted the guy was like, yeah, came over. He
Speaker 7: gave me a I didn't have anywhere to put the
Speaker 7: table like it was.
Speaker 1: It was like backed up against a wall trying to
Speaker 1: I was like, this is dumb. Why are you here?
Speaker 1: I got it. I'll just go to your office next time.
Speaker 9: Right.
Speaker 6: Anyhow, so best and worse the weekend. Best part of
Speaker 6: the week on had been Saturday. Uh. I didn't go
Speaker 6: to the creek, but my lady and I picked a
Speaker 6: car and we went to the lake. Spent a couple
Speaker 6: of hours out there hanging out so I and you know,
Speaker 6: enjoying the sun. That was a good day. Uh. And
Speaker 6: then we came home and cleaned up and went had roadhouse, which,
Speaker 6: by the way, when I asked for a fourteen hours Rabbi,
Speaker 6: I want a ribbi, not a goddamn New York strip. Sorry.
Speaker 6: I just had to get that out of there, all right.
Speaker 6: You can clearly tell the difference. But did I send
Speaker 6: it back.
Speaker 9: No.
Speaker 6: I was hungry and tired and I just ate it
Speaker 6: out of it.
Speaker 1: One are at the same price point there.
Speaker 6: I think that I don't know, be honest with you,
Speaker 6: maybe close. Maybe it's just a few dollars off. You know,
Speaker 6: it's like two or three dollars. Okay, it's not a
Speaker 6: big deal. But if it was like ten or more
Speaker 6: like okay, I'm bitching a complaints checked. I ain't worried
Speaker 6: about it. But yeah. So that was the best of
Speaker 6: the weekend. Saturday, going to the lake. It's good, good,
Speaker 6: no kids, none of that stuff, just just going having fun.
Speaker 6: Worst part of the weekend it was yesterday. So my
Speaker 6: brother and myself and my buddy Josh, we go out
Speaker 6: to Chandler Park. We're gonna play some disc golf. It's
Speaker 6: been a while since we've all done that. So we
Speaker 6: go out there and we play, and I was kicking ass.
Speaker 6: I was kicking ass for most of the round. I'm
Speaker 6: making long, long birdies shots, you know, just sinking am in.
Speaker 6: I was three down, the other two were over par,
Speaker 6: and then we get down. I guess I was just
Speaker 6: I don't know, I got tired, my foot was hurting
Speaker 6: me get down to like the last three holes, and
Speaker 6: I asked the bed and ended up losing the match
Speaker 6: and my brother ended up coming back and winning, and
Speaker 6: I was like, all right, Dan, whatever story, I'm alive.
Speaker 1: Fast and worst of the weekend. What's the best part
Speaker 1: of the weekend. What's the worst part of the weekend?
Speaker 1: Bmm mass and.
Speaker 7: Whatever that is to eight, two, nine, four or five.
Speaker 7: Fast to the weekend? Was uh, one of my friend's house.
Speaker 1: I was a pool.
Speaker 7: We got it was awesome, so windy though it was
Speaker 7: so windy, but it's been an all day in the pool.
Speaker 7: Fun Hell, yo, had some beaver jes.
Speaker 1: It's great.
Speaker 6: Was this Saturday?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, so that I made the posts. I'm like
Speaker 6: Lindsay's at the Greek and GIMP's at the.
Speaker 7: No I saw, yeah, No, I saw Dick tell us
Speaker 7: funny they weren't. We'll do one for you and we'll
Speaker 7: see how great it is. Yeah, it's it's funny when
Speaker 7: it's someone else that's getting insulted.
Speaker 9: I wash.
Speaker 2: They know us.
Speaker 1: Of course they do.
Speaker 7: And then the worst part of the weekend is Friday night,
Speaker 7: Pizza night.
Speaker 1: You're going to have some pizza. Had some cocktails. My
Speaker 1: mom calls, can't get the garage door closed? Oh no,
Speaker 1: like okay, so I'd go over there. The carriage isn't
Speaker 1: attaching to the track. I'm like, all right, I'll just
Speaker 1: close it and lock it and i'll deal with it
Speaker 1: tomorrow morning. Do some research.
Speaker 7: Garage door is over thirty years old, probably not going
Speaker 7: to find a part. I could probably have someone service
Speaker 7: it for that one part. I could just replace it,
Speaker 7: sure for the service call in the report. And so
Speaker 7: I just went button new one and installed it a
Speaker 7: new whole garage door. Yeah, grudge door opener, O garage
Speaker 7: door opener. Yeah yeah, okay yeah, And the opener took
Speaker 7: like no time at all. But I had to put
Speaker 7: a new carriage kit up to hold the garage door opener.
Speaker 7: Well that took, you know, seventy percent longer than it
Speaker 7: took to I started at eight thirty.
Speaker 1: I was done by nine thirty. But then I had
Speaker 1: to do this carriage kit. I didn't finished almost one.
Speaker 1: I gotta figure out the links and the thing. And
Speaker 1: you're gonna do geometry. I'm like, what am I doing?
Speaker 2: But you did it?
Speaker 1: I mean it's up there, that's true.
Speaker 6: Yeah, is the door opening and shutting properly.
Speaker 9: It is.
Speaker 6: The belt's a little loose, but I'll figure it out
Speaker 6: as long as the door opens and shuts properly.
Speaker 2: Our kitchen sink had a it was a it's like
Speaker 2: a touch closet. Yeah, And the batteries. I felt like,
Speaker 2: for the past probably three months, we've had to change
Speaker 2: the batteries and then it's six takes six double A batteries.
Speaker 2: And for the past three months we've been changing the
Speaker 2: batteries in it, which it feels like every two.
Speaker 1: Weeks, Like it doesn't feel normal, No, an.
Speaker 2: S ton of batteries. I'm like, you know what I'm
Speaker 2: going to I called the company and they sent me
Speaker 2: some new parts and I thought, well, this isn't helping,
Speaker 2: and it's got a lifetime warranty on it, and I thought,
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm just going to remove the the
Speaker 2: part to where it's just going to be a manual fawcet.
Speaker 2: And I'm reading and I'm like, this looks really confusing,
Speaker 2: but I'm like, I'm going to give it my college try.
Speaker 2: And I got down and I removed the batteries on
Speaker 2: this thing. I removed this cord thing took these little
Speaker 2: clasps off, and I turned off the water, of course,
Speaker 2: and I'm unhooking these the whatever the line for the water.
Speaker 2: And I dismantled this faucet and I put it back
Speaker 2: together and I turned the water back on, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: I did it. I did it. I felt so good.
Speaker 2: I was like, I didn't need a plumber. I didn't
Speaker 2: need a tech on the phone with me. I didn't
Speaker 2: need my husband.
Speaker 3: So what you do?
Speaker 7: You just turned out you just disconnected the waterline and
Speaker 7: then reconnected it well.
Speaker 2: And I removed this product that makes it a touch. Okay,
Speaker 2: so it's no longer a touch, no longer fancy. It's
Speaker 2: a manual faucet now. But then I realized once I
Speaker 2: turned it to a manual faucet, the water pressure for
Speaker 2: the cold was way better. I was like, so, okay,
Speaker 2: now it's even improved. I was so proud of myself.
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, just I'm the handy one in
Speaker 2: the house now, okay. I always have that.
Speaker 7: I guess best and worst of the weekend. What's the
Speaker 7: best part of the weekend, what's the worst part of
Speaker 7: the weekend?
Speaker 6: Best?
Speaker 7: After years of trial and there, I finally made Chili
Speaker 7: Verde as good as El Roncho Grande. Worst, I didn't
Speaker 7: wear food handling gloves when I peeled my freshly roasted
Speaker 7: hatched green chilies, and my hands burned for hours.
Speaker 6: That sucks you least least you know that before you
Speaker 6: did anything else.
Speaker 1: You know right right.
Speaker 7: Best, got my nephew a job at Max Barbecue and
Speaker 7: took Worst. My dog killed a skunk. Now smells like skunk.
Speaker 7: It's not that bad. I like to smell what smells
Speaker 7: like weed, and.
Speaker 2: The tomato bath is supposed to help with a skunk.
Speaker 7: Smir Best part of the weekend was getting to recoup
Speaker 7: over most of it from a short three day, two
Speaker 7: night trip to Nashville that absolutely wore me out, but
Speaker 7: in a good way. Worst part was my last day off.
Speaker 7: I had to deal with my store receiving customer complaints.
Speaker 7: Kind of made me feel like I shouldn't have taken
Speaker 7: time off.
Speaker 6: That's what happens, man. Take a day up. Place just
Speaker 6: falls apart.
Speaker 1: Bess was. We had a gig just outside of Chicago
Speaker 1: this weekend. The old theater was uh may Zine, the
Speaker 1: Italian food at Chicago and the Chicago Dogs were unbelievably
Speaker 1: delicious and the gig went great. Worst the theater was
Speaker 1: three stories, so.
Speaker 7: As I'm coming back up the stairs to the stage
Speaker 7: with stuff in hand, I tripped or a theater ghost
Speaker 7: gave me a shove. It was one of those trip
Speaker 7: and falls where you levitate for a second before you
Speaker 7: hit the ground, but no chance of stopping the fall,
Speaker 7: and I hit so hard I'm pretty sure I shook
Speaker 7: the entire concrete building. Son of a I'll be limping
Speaker 7: for days.
Speaker 1: Best part of the week and was the wife had
Speaker 1: rare time off, so we got to spend time as
Speaker 1: a family.
Speaker 7: Took the little one to see Spider Man. Worst was
Speaker 7: I was lazy and failed to mow in great weather.
Speaker 7: Somebody told me the Spider Man is visually awesome, all right,
Speaker 7: like it's one of the best visual Spider Man's ever,
Speaker 7: But they missed the mark on telling the Spider Man story.
Speaker 6: I can't get into Spider Man. I watched that very
Speaker 6: first one back in the early two thousands, and I
Speaker 6: never watched another one after that.
Speaker 7: Dude, the Spider Verse ones are amazing. I'm not a
Speaker 7: big Spider Man guy either, but the Spider Verse ones, yeah,
Speaker 7: really good. Best of the weekend was on a cruise
Speaker 7: all week in Cozamel and the Ucatam, Mexico. Worst of
Speaker 7: the weekend is returning back to reality. Best part of
Speaker 7: the weekend got to celebrate my fifteen year old daughter's
Speaker 7: birthday and we adopted the cutest little bully. Worst part
Speaker 7: fifteen year old has injured her knee and hobbling around
Speaker 7: with an immobilizer brace.
Speaker 1: How did she heard it?
Speaker 6: For real?
Speaker 7: Because the mobilizer brace means like you may have done
Speaker 7: some real damage.
Speaker 6: Maybe sports, I mean fifteen year old, Okay, I can
Speaker 6: see that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, like you or something like it. Mobilizer brace like
Speaker 7: is exactly like your leg locked. Yeah, you can't do anything.
Speaker 7: You don't kick the ball, so next time or walk whatever?
Speaker 7: Yeah right, Yeah that sounds like it sucks. I had
Speaker 7: a buddy who got knee surgery. My age got knee surgery,
Speaker 7: and I'm like, eh.
Speaker 1: I don't want knee surgery.
Speaker 6: Nope.
Speaker 1: Now they say knee surgery and hip surgery.
Speaker 7: When you have it, like, the recovery time is super fast, right,
Speaker 7: Like they get when you get a new surgery, you're
Speaker 7: walking the same.
Speaker 1: Day, right.
Speaker 6: They want you rehabit in as quick as pot.
Speaker 7: They want you back on and then hip like the
Speaker 7: next day, but they want you walking on it immediately. Yes, yeah, no, thanks,
Speaker 7: all right, we gotta take a break. We got tickets
Speaker 7: the Smashing Pumpkins we're gonna give away when we come back.
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Speaker 6: Well corviness is here that Louisiana's ag says that the
Speaker 6: state will investigate Fauci. Louisiana Attorney General Liz Murrel says
Speaker 6: that her state will investigate doctor Anthony Fauci. Of course,
Speaker 6: this comes after he repeatedly invoked the Fifth Amendment during
Speaker 6: a sentence hearing last week. Old Murrell said in a
Speaker 6: post that Fauci claim to not recall many key details
Speaker 6: of his own actions, and now we are discovering contemporaneous
Speaker 6: records that he kept. Republicans say that Fauci was deliberately
Speaker 6: downplaying the theory that COVID originated from China's Wuhan labbed
Speaker 6: while reveling in his own celebrity.
Speaker 1: Weack likes first time someone's invoked the fifth.
Speaker 6: There right, yes's on TikTok. He remember that uh Chappelle
Speaker 6: episode where he's like, I played fid what two people fifth?
Speaker 6: And it was it was Fauci up there doing it.
Speaker 6: It was the areush what else we got here? Idaho
Speaker 6: police credit armed bystanders with saving lives at deadly in
Speaker 6: Now shooting. An armed Good samaritan and an off duty
Speaker 6: state trooper are being praised by Idaho police for quick
Speaker 6: actions during a deadly fast food restaurant shooting on Saturday.
Speaker 6: The bystander and the trooper both opened fire on the
Speaker 6: suspect at the In and Out Burger in Twin Falls,
Speaker 6: helping drive him away from the scene. That's where the shooter,
Speaker 6: Ididas Chad Chad Williams.
Speaker 1: Typical Chad Bead, put his mountain dew down and went
Speaker 1: to it.
Speaker 9: Uh huh.
Speaker 6: They say he used an AR fifteen style rifle to
Speaker 6: feel three and wound seven before apparently turning the gun
Speaker 6: on himself. Twin Falls police chief afew Hits said that
Speaker 6: the two armed men prevented further casualties by getting the
Speaker 6: shooters away from the restaurant and giving people time to escape.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and he ended up taking his own life. So
Speaker 1: we don't know the motive as of right. Now, here's
Speaker 1: a question why that place?
Speaker 6: Why the in and out?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I was trying to think of the like what
Speaker 7: drove you there? I don't know what time of day.
Speaker 6: It was, with a afternoon like early to late afternoon,
Speaker 6: Like that's about three o'clock.
Speaker 1: They're not gonna be that busy, not at two or
Speaker 1: three o'clock, you know what I'm saying, Like, if you
Speaker 1: were trying, you assume people that do this, they're trying
Speaker 1: to inflict the most damage, right, right, And so to
Speaker 1: go to in and out Burger or any fast food
Speaker 1: place at two or three o'clock in the afternoon doesn't
Speaker 1: feel like it's that So it makes me think maybe
Speaker 1: there was something personal against the place or an individual
Speaker 1: who was there.
Speaker 6: Maybe. So maybe much like that story that I read
Speaker 6: this morning, she just got mad because it was taken
Speaker 6: too long to get her food and she just pointed
Speaker 6: the gun of people. Yeah, he got mad and started
Speaker 6: shooting at them. Yeah, terrible story. Hey what else we
Speaker 6: got here? Google shuts down AI tool for Google Earth.
Speaker 6: Google is scrapping a tool that lets people use AI
Speaker 6: to create fake images on Google Earth. The company pulled
Speaker 6: the plug after just one day because journalists and researchers
Speaker 6: showed that it was easy to manipulate satellite data to
Speaker 6: cover up things like war crimes. In one case, the
Speaker 6: BBC made an image that falsely showed the Eiffel Tower
Speaker 6: in pieces. Google's like, oh, yeah, we shouldn't do that,
Speaker 6: why would you? And then lastly here the grand reopening
Speaker 6: for Oklahoma Music Hall of Fame following a sixteen month renovation.
Speaker 6: After sixteen months of renovations, the Oklahoma Music Hall of
Speaker 6: Fame is preparing to welcome visitors back with a grand
Speaker 6: reopening celebration on September twenty six. Located inside the historic
Speaker 6: Frisco Freight Depot in downtown Mascoe, the museum has undergone
Speaker 6: a transportation transformation designed to create more interactive experience while
Speaker 6: preserving the building's historic character. The free grand reopening will
Speaker 6: feature live bands performing every hour, food trucks, vendor booze,
Speaker 6: and guided tours of the renovated museum.
Speaker 1: It's nice, yeah, and the last time you went to
Speaker 1: a museum here.
Speaker 6: That wasn't like gil grease or something like.
Speaker 1: That, And I can be that. Then the last time you,
Speaker 1: as a citizen of this community, went to a museum.
Speaker 2: Would a church studio is be considered a museum?
Speaker 1: No, because you had to go for work.
Speaker 2: No, I went after that. I've been since, but.
Speaker 1: That wasn't count. Okay, I don't think it's.
Speaker 6: Really a museum. Yeah, it's it's a studio.
Speaker 1: It's not a museum. No historical place. Sure, so last time.
Speaker 6: I've never been to any of the museums around here
Speaker 6: at all. Whatsoever?
Speaker 7: Philbrook would be and we went in November and then
Speaker 7: turn On went in December for the Christmas stuff.
Speaker 1: But we're members.
Speaker 6: There, Okay, so you like, I gotta get my money's worth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we only went because they were doing something
Speaker 1: with the kids stuff. They were like, oh, that's fun. Okay,
Speaker 1: but I don't remember what it was.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I haven't been to Gill Christ Philbrook. I haven't been
Speaker 6: to any museum.
Speaker 1: I'm not a music The point I'm trying to make
Speaker 1: is we have some really great museums here. The Woody
Speaker 1: Guthry Museum is awesome.
Speaker 6: And the fact that the Oklahoma Music Hall of Fame
Speaker 6: is just right down to Mascogi that's not that far.
Speaker 1: No, No, I think that's a pretty big deal. Yeah.
Speaker 7: I don't think a lot of people realize it's right
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Speaker 1: And on the line is Nick, Hey, Nick, how are you?
Speaker 9: I'm good? Are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good?
Speaker 10: Uh?
Speaker 1: Nick Is says you're engaged. How long have you been engaged?
Speaker 9: Over around eleven years?
Speaker 1: You've been engaged.
Speaker 8: I've known her for around eleven years. Sorry, oh kay,
Speaker 8: I've been engaged since two thousand and one.
Speaker 1: You've been engaged since two thousand and one.
Speaker 2: Five years is still a long time?
Speaker 1: Nick, two thousand and one, Oh.
Speaker 2: Two thousand and one, I was thinking twenty.
Speaker 1: One, twenty one.
Speaker 9: Sorry, okay, twenty one.
Speaker 7: We were gonna have to have a different conversation. That's
Speaker 7: a long time to be engaged.
Speaker 8: Uh.
Speaker 1: Cool. When do you guys getting married?
Speaker 8: No date inside bud?
Speaker 1: Okay? Is it the hold up her you or what's
Speaker 1: the plan?
Speaker 8: A little both. I don't really want to go through
Speaker 8: the state. I don't think it's really a marriage between
Speaker 8: us and the state. It's not the way marriage is
Speaker 8: supposed to be.
Speaker 1: Okay. What do you think marriag should be?
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Speaker 6: Okay?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 7: And so will there be a ceremony or anything? Or
Speaker 7: do you guys just consider yourself married now?
Speaker 8: I just kind of we've lived at marriage for married
Speaker 8: for almost eleven years now, so it's kind of like,
Speaker 8: what's the hurry?
Speaker 1: Yeah, how did you meet her.
Speaker 9: Anything?
Speaker 8: I guess it was at a bar, even though I
Speaker 8: don't really go to bars. I was at there is
Speaker 8: it and her friend that worked there, and yeah, she
Speaker 8: approached me.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you remember what her opening line was?
Speaker 9: She didn't have one.
Speaker 8: She just stood by me smoking a cigarette and I said,
Speaker 8: you know those things will kill you.
Speaker 7: Right nice and then bliss after that.
Speaker 9: Huh oh a little bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah uh. And you guys have some kids together. What's
Speaker 1: the oldest?
Speaker 9: My oldest kid is twenty seven?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 9: This year?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 7: Do you remember when it turned into hey, this is
Speaker 7: like they're still my kid, but they're an adult and
Speaker 7: you have different conversations with them.
Speaker 1: Do you remember that?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Well, what was it? What was the Do you remember
Speaker 1: how it went down?
Speaker 9: Not exactly. There's just been a lot happened since it's been.
Speaker 7: Okay, it says you broke your leg changing a tire.
Speaker 7: Tell me how that happened.
Speaker 8: Oh, well, I was changing some tires from one truck
Speaker 8: to another for a dealer guy that I was working for.
Speaker 8: He bought a truck himself and was just taking some
Speaker 8: rims off of a truck at the lot that wasn't running.
Speaker 8: And I got all the way through them, all got
Speaker 8: the last one was tightening the last lugnut, and it
Speaker 8: was on a bigger board truck, so it had like
Speaker 8: the extend lugnuts and the last one was broke, so
Speaker 8: as I was trying to tighten it, the four way
Speaker 8: slipped my leg and body turned, my foot stayed planted,
Speaker 8: and I basically collapsed. My ankle was twisted so much
Speaker 8: that my accusans tended was right around the hill. It
Speaker 8: broke my tiva amphibiula.
Speaker 7: Wow, And it says here you didn't exactly go get
Speaker 7: it looked at right away?
Speaker 9: Well, we were.
Speaker 8: We went straight to the urgent care site and they
Speaker 8: said it was basically a little too urgent for them,
Speaker 8: as offered to call an ambulance, and I was like nah.
Speaker 8: So we went to the emergency room and they reset it,
Speaker 8: gave me a drug cocktail, and basically sent me on
Speaker 8: my way with instructions to call a surgeon that wanted
Speaker 8: two fifty up front that I didn't have to.
Speaker 9: Start a surgery. Yeah.
Speaker 8: So I went about a month without anything done to it.
Speaker 8: But I think the next day after it all happened,
Speaker 8: and went to work.
Speaker 1: And was that did you have to stand in that job?
Speaker 8: I was mechanic, and I mean, honestly, there wasn't much
Speaker 8: I could do. I just determination I was gonna do it,
Speaker 8: but my boss wouldn't let me I just you don't realize,
Speaker 8: like how much you use your leg even when you
Speaker 8: are laying down and stuff.
Speaker 7: Now, there's a weird note here that Gimpie gave me,
Speaker 7: and it said you slept on a toilet during this time?
Speaker 1: Is that true?
Speaker 9: I had a lot of nights.
Speaker 8: Yeah, because it was the only way I can get
Speaker 8: any kind of comfort laying in the bed any like.
Speaker 8: I guess the weight of my leg, putting pressure on
Speaker 8: my heel would cause me discomfort. So the only place
Speaker 8: I could get any kind of comfort was putting my
Speaker 8: foot flat footed on the floor and sitting on the toilet,
Speaker 8: and I'd fall asleep.
Speaker 2: I can't imagine.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I can't imagine that either. And so when you
Speaker 7: finally got it worked on, how long was the recovery?
Speaker 9: Oh? Three months?
Speaker 1: And was the pretty brutal?
Speaker 6: Was that?
Speaker 1: How many times have you had to go through recovery
Speaker 1: for an inch? Is that the first time and only time.
Speaker 9: I broke my wrist? Was really young?
Speaker 8: But it was I was so young, I don't remember,
Speaker 8: so yeah, I mean for anything that substantial, for sure.
Speaker 8: I mean it sucked not being able to put weight
Speaker 8: on my foot and having to climb upstairs to an
Speaker 8: apartment and.
Speaker 9: Trying to make ends meet.
Speaker 8: I mean, I ended up learning how to drive using
Speaker 8: my left foot for the gas pedal and break so
Speaker 8: I can go do deliveries or something.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I just got to make money.
Speaker 1: That sounds like it was rough, Oh it was.
Speaker 9: It was.
Speaker 8: I mean the day I got approval to put foot
Speaker 8: weight on my foot, I was doing a physical so
Speaker 8: I can go.
Speaker 9: Get a job.
Speaker 1: Right, just to get back to what you like doing.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it says you're you're an Uber driver and that
Speaker 7: you picked up a guy at a cemetery at two
Speaker 7: forty five in the morning.
Speaker 8: Yeah, that was back when I was doing it at night.
Speaker 8: I gotta ride for up in Uber up in Edmund,
Speaker 8: and when I pulled up it the address just happened
Speaker 8: to be a cemetery, and I pulled up there, thinking, oh,
Speaker 8: what's going on here? It was actually a really dark
Speaker 8: night and I didn't see anyone around. So with Uber,
Speaker 8: you gotta wait a certain time before you can cancel
Speaker 8: it if you want any kind of pay for driving
Speaker 8: up there. So I was sitting there and then all
Speaker 8: of a sudden, the guy popped up from behind a
Speaker 8: headstone and started walking towards the car, so I let
Speaker 8: him in and he actually turned out to be a
Speaker 8: pretty cool guy. I had a fun ride on the
Speaker 8: way to his destination. A little creepy starting up though.
Speaker 1: Did you ask him what he was doing there?
Speaker 8: No, not really my business. I'm not one to start
Speaker 8: conversations a lot. And he started the call conversation and
Speaker 8: it went a different direction.
Speaker 1: Now, is what's the longest you've ever gone for an
Speaker 1: uber like distance? You think?
Speaker 8: I had to pick up two ladies here in Oklahoma
Speaker 8: City at the airport, and I took them to Dallas,
Speaker 8: right by dallasport Worth Airport to an apartment complaint.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, how much was that?
Speaker 9: Let's see?
Speaker 8: I think it was one hundred and thirty dollars is
Speaker 8: what I ended up getting, and then they gave me
Speaker 8: like a twenty dollars tip Ooh, but then I turned
Speaker 8: that into a night and half day in Dallas making
Speaker 8: money bill.
Speaker 1: So you just stayed down there and picked up ubers?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 8: Yeah, I started out delivering thinking it's kind of late,
Speaker 8: and then I started about five o'clock doing uber rides.
Speaker 8: A lot of them in Dallas were too airport.
Speaker 1: And do you still do that? You still do that?
Speaker 1: You do the ubern or are you done doing that?
Speaker 8: I'm doing it at the moment because I had left
Speaker 8: the job. I'm just trying to get make ends meet
Speaker 8: and I'm about to try to find another job. Not
Speaker 8: really sure which direction go, but I've been many directions
Speaker 8: over the years.
Speaker 9: So what do you have a quick on anything? Matten
Speaker 9: is above me?
Speaker 1: What do you like doing?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 1: What would be your dream job?
Speaker 9: I don't know.
Speaker 8: I can't really say I've ever really had a dream job.
Speaker 8: I think building motorcycles would be cool, but I also
Speaker 8: built boats for ten years and I enjoyed that quite
Speaker 8: a bit.
Speaker 7: It says here that you met Bob Stoops. Tell me
Speaker 7: about how you met him and that what was that like?
Speaker 8: Well, my daughter ended up having a Wilms tumor at
Speaker 8: four and a half years old, and when she went
Speaker 8: through the treatments and stuff and shell there was a
Speaker 8: place called Toby Keith Hits Growl in the Oklahoma City area,
Speaker 8: and they actually helped a lot, like giving us a
Speaker 8: room to stay stuff like that through the treatments and
Speaker 8: through them they set up like a charity auction where
Speaker 8: we ended up going and doing that. But the time
Speaker 8: that we actually met Bob Steps. They were doing that
Speaker 8: Toby Keith tribute at ou Stadium and my daughter and
Speaker 8: another kid named Jack's was invited to go out on
Speaker 8: the field with him and stand there during the tribute.
Speaker 2: That's so cool. Did she even realize who it was?
Speaker 9: It was?
Speaker 8: No, she didn't, but she had a lot of fun
Speaker 8: being out on the sure everybody's churn and so on.
Speaker 7: And it says that a band sang to her too
Speaker 7: or was that a different thing?
Speaker 8: Yeah, at that charity auction before that, we had seen
Speaker 8: Stoops there and there was actually quite a bit of alumni.
Speaker 9: But they had a the Eli Young.
Speaker 8: Band there and it was a charity auction for the
Speaker 8: Kid to Kid's Growl. But they h at the end,
Speaker 8: like when everything was winded down and they were singing. Uh,
Speaker 8: she was hoot up to the stage and he sat
Speaker 8: down on the stage with her and sang crazy Girl
Speaker 8: to her.
Speaker 1: What was that like when you saw this happened to her?
Speaker 6: What was it like.
Speaker 9: As far as the singing or the cancer?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, no, the singing, Like what was going through
Speaker 1: your mind when you know they were singing to her?
Speaker 9: I thought it was a pretty awesome experience. It was.
Speaker 8: It was pretty cool. I mean, but not only was
Speaker 8: that going on. As I was watching that, Toby Keith
Speaker 8: sold his daughter was talking with my son and interacting
Speaker 8: with him, and.
Speaker 9: I thought that was pretty awesome too. He's got a
Speaker 9: pretty awesome family.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's cool. That's cool. And how is your daughter now?
Speaker 9: She is seven?
Speaker 1: And how's the cancer free.
Speaker 8: Or she's gone? She went through cancer twice because she
Speaker 8: went through it, went into remission and then they found
Speaker 8: some nodules on her lungs and put her back through
Speaker 8: it in a bow marrow transplant and stuff. And for
Speaker 8: the last I guess this August seventeenth will be a
Speaker 8: year and a half.
Speaker 2: Of being cancer free. Oh wonderful.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that is good news. Well, dude, it's it's been
Speaker 7: great talking to you man. Good luck with everything, and
Speaker 7: give our best to your family. Man, it sounds like
Speaker 7: you've got a great family and good luck with everything.
Speaker 9: Thank you you guys too.
Speaker 1: All right, buddy, I appreciate it. That's nick. Our listeners
Speaker 1: are awesome.
Speaker 7: We're going to take a break and we'll be back
Speaker 7: if you're listening to the big men.
Speaker 1: Rules came out of hygiene rules. You didn't learn until
Speaker 1: you were much later in life, okay, And I didn't
Speaker 1: learn you were supposed to trim your pubes until like
Speaker 1: I was twenty four. Oh, okay, twenty five.
Speaker 2: A girls like, a you's supposed to look like that?
Speaker 1: Can you the vacant house looks a little uh preoccupied?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I was.
Speaker 2: Actually I'm kind of in the same boat. I was
Speaker 2: a little younger, but I was with a girlfriend of
Speaker 2: mine who we were getting ready to go swimming, and she.
Speaker 1: Was like, whoa spider anger spider Yeah.
Speaker 2: Like it isn't like I think the seventies girl, you
Speaker 2: gotta trim that up? Why are you looking at me?
Speaker 2: And it's like probably sixteen or seventeen years.
Speaker 1: Old, dramatically younger.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, that's not a conversation I remember, no one's
Speaker 7: ever had with me except this girl I dated.
Speaker 1: So I learned that one pretty late. This person said
Speaker 1: they didn't learn you were not supposed to rinse your
Speaker 1: mouth after brushing your teeth until they were twenty six.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think it was a couple of months ago
Speaker 2: when we talked about that on the air, about you're.
Speaker 1: Supposed to leave the toothpaste in your mouth.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I brushed my teeth and then I turned
Speaker 2: the water onto the shower, so the toothpace does sit
Speaker 2: in in my mouth until I hit up the shower
Speaker 2: and you're rints in the shower. I do.
Speaker 1: Some person said they never washed their belly button was
Speaker 1: soap until they were an adult, because you thought the
Speaker 1: water running over it would take.
Speaker 9: Care of it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's weird.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't remember being told to wash my
Speaker 1: belly button.
Speaker 2: I have only because I haven't any belly button. Sure,
Speaker 2: so that was one of the things, like, ah, I
Speaker 2: don't know since I was my parents bathed me. They're like, yeah,
Speaker 2: you take the washcloth and stick it inside your belly button.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 7: It used to be earlier, but now I have like
Speaker 7: a A I forget what it's called.
Speaker 1: I think it's called a numbilical hernia.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, sticks out a little bit.
Speaker 7: And that's your I guess it's I don't know if
Speaker 7: it's my town. I don't know what it is, but
Speaker 7: it's something protruding out of my belly button.
Speaker 1: Sure, that's just like we can do surgery, but why, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's fine, it's just there. It's just there.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 7: Another person said that they used Q tips to clean
Speaker 7: your ears. Every day, and you're not supposed to do that.
Speaker 2: Right, I still do because I do too.
Speaker 1: After a shower getting all that water, I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, the other day I did it in a
Speaker 1: giant piece of some reason. After I wear earbuds, I
Speaker 1: get a ton of wax that comes out for me.
Speaker 2: It's when I swim. If I'm swimming for a while,
Speaker 2: then I'll get some old wax that's been hardened back
Speaker 2: there and I haven't gotten it. Yeah, and it's so
Speaker 2: satisfying to pull that out.
Speaker 1: How often do you change your toothbrush?
Speaker 2: If I get sick, if I have like an upper
Speaker 2: respiratory infection, I will change it after I'm recovered from that, yeah,
Speaker 2: But otherwise I will change it when the bristles.
Speaker 1: Are smoohing out. Yeah, this Is're supposed to change it
Speaker 1: every three months apparently.
Speaker 2: Eh, that could be. I mean, if that's how long
Speaker 2: it takes for him to get smooshed out, then yeah.
Speaker 1: I didn't know how long to change it.
Speaker 7: But when they started putting the bristle color and when
Speaker 7: it fades away, you change it. That's when I was like, oh, okay,
Speaker 7: so if you have the little blue streak on yours. Yeah,
Speaker 7: it will fade, and as it fades away, when more
Speaker 7: white starts showing, you're.
Speaker 1: Supposed to ditch it. I was like that perfect for me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's just a way to sell more
Speaker 2: toothbrush heads.
Speaker 1: Are you a loof of person?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Not really apparently supposed to change your loofah a lot?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because they do hold bacteria.
Speaker 1: Like a sponge.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 7: You shouldn't put anti purspirate deodorant on wet armpits.
Speaker 1: No, I didn't know. I don't use antip person because
Speaker 1: I don't want to block my sweat pores. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think that's crazy. How you don't smell from not
Speaker 2: using it?
Speaker 7: Yeah, because it's blocking. It's aluminum blocking your pores. I'm
Speaker 7: not a fan of that.
Speaker 2: I still sweat my armpits will still sweat. It just
Speaker 2: doesn't smell bad.
Speaker 7: When you buy new clothes, do you wash them?
Speaker 2: If I get them online? Yeah, But if I buy
Speaker 2: them from a actual store in the mall, then no.
Speaker 7: What's the difference, because to me, you don't know where
Speaker 7: it's been from the online.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: That's why usually like it. I see it package and
Speaker 2: it'll have a weird smell sometimes I don't know, but
Speaker 2: then I watch shit. But then like in the store,
Speaker 2: it'll smell like it smells nice when it's in the store.
Speaker 7: This is you're h This person didn't realize you're supposed
Speaker 7: to wash new clothes before wearing them. And they somebody
Speaker 7: commented that they worked at Target for a long time
Speaker 7: and they'd watched a lot of dirty people try clothes
Speaker 7: on and not buy them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's gross.
Speaker 1: Or they end up on the floor, and what do
Speaker 1: they do? They just get picked up and put back
Speaker 1: on the rack.
Speaker 2: I think though, that sometimes you can see, you can
Speaker 2: tell when when a piece of clothing has been tried
Speaker 2: on and put back on a hand, Oh, there makeup
Speaker 2: on it. For a girls, there's makeup on it sometimes,
Speaker 2: or that's the obvious. Yeah, there's deodorant marks.
Speaker 7: But that's to me, that's not always evidence.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're taking a chance.
Speaker 1: Dirt doesn't always leave a in my mind, it doesn't. Uh.
Speaker 1: Somebody said they didn't know they were supposed to wash
Speaker 1: their feet. Huh, like the bottom of their feet.
Speaker 8: Uh.
Speaker 7: I used to brush my teeth immediately if I puked.
Speaker 7: You're not supposed to do that. It's bad for your
Speaker 7: Nemel sprints with water, wiping down your phone and its
Speaker 7: case frequently. Apparently they're as dirty as some toilets. Yep,
Speaker 7: that's why I own a phone scrubber. That is the
Speaker 7: product name. I think I'm crazy for doing that. I
Speaker 7: don't care.
Speaker 2: No, you're not. And there's cars now that come with
Speaker 2: phone scrubbers.
Speaker 1: I've seen those. I want tablet ones for my kids. Tablets.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I do the remotes in my phone, I do
Speaker 7: my watch, I do my or ring, I do all
Speaker 7: that stuff in the phone scrubber.
Speaker 2: I just use good old Lesol wipes.
Speaker 1: Uh. This person says they didn't wash behind their ears
Speaker 1: for the longest time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's gross.
Speaker 1: That is gross.
Speaker 7: They said they use Toner for those of them. Know
Speaker 7: you can buy I forget the name of the brand.
Speaker 1: But if you use.
Speaker 7: Toner and then like wipe the back of your neck,
Speaker 7: it's so dirty thing except that will drive your skin
Speaker 7: really bad.
Speaker 2: One. But I mean I like it because if you ever,
Speaker 2: like if you break out or if you have oily skin,
Speaker 2: using that rubbing alcohol, I mean it can it just
Speaker 2: feels refreshing and you see the back of that cut
Speaker 2: and swab and it's like.
Speaker 1: Oh, so for you, it's the reward of seeing the
Speaker 1: dirt on those Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it gives me a little bit of a complex
Speaker 7: because I don't think I'm that dirty, and then you
Speaker 7: do it and you're like, you are a filthy animal.
Speaker 2: It's gross.
Speaker 1: It is you, you pig doesn't help the mirrors in front.
Speaker 2: Of Also, so if you if you take a shower
Speaker 2: at night and then you wake up in the next
Speaker 2: morning and you do that, it's unbelievable. You think you're
Speaker 2: clean and you haven't done anything but slept, but you wouldn't.
Speaker 2: You don't realize how much you sweat in your sleep
Speaker 2: and you lose that skin in your sleep.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's gross. I think it's gonna be a wild take.
Speaker 7: I think you're not ever clean. You shower, you're only
Speaker 7: clean when the water. Even if you're touching the ground,
Speaker 7: you're now dirty. And if you touch the handle, you
Speaker 7: touch the handle dirty a minute ago.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Some people will go to the bathroom and not wash
Speaker 7: their hands and just go get right in the shower,
Speaker 7: and then they get out of the shower and they've
Speaker 7: touched the handle that was just moments ago touched by
Speaker 7: your toilet hand, right.
Speaker 2: Like experts say that your towel, once you use your towel,
Speaker 2: it is it is dirty and lives that it gets
Speaker 2: completely dry one hundred percent. And they're saying you leave
Speaker 2: it out so direct sunlight is hitting it, right, it
Speaker 2: is completely dirty. That's why I will use a towel
Speaker 2: one time for my body, and then the next time
Speaker 2: it's just using it for my hair, and then it
Speaker 2: gets put in the hamper.
Speaker 7: Uh the somebody texting, you're supposed to leave the damn
Speaker 7: toothpaste in your mouth?
Speaker 9: What?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's it's not meant to be spit out. You're
Speaker 7: not supposed to rinse it out. I mean, don't hold
Speaker 7: or a manchr routh right, you can spit it out
Speaker 7: the extra, but yeah, it's supposed to hang out on
Speaker 7: your teeth and do its work.
Speaker 9: Weird.
Speaker 7: You know what I learned about washing dishes. I always like,
Speaker 7: rinse all the soap off.
Speaker 1: You don't have to do.
Speaker 2: That, Yeah, you do, otherwise your food is gonna taste
Speaker 2: like soap.
Speaker 1: No it rints, it comes off.
Speaker 6: I know.
Speaker 7: I think it's crazy too, but it's just like people
Speaker 7: that don't wash cast iron pans, it's okay to wash
Speaker 7: it it's fine. Yeah, but the you just wash whatever
Speaker 7: pan or plate and you don't have to get all
Speaker 7: the soap residue off and you just said it and
Speaker 7: then it'll come all the way off.
Speaker 2: I don't trust that. I don't trust that at all.
Speaker 1: I mean a lot of people do it.
Speaker 7: So either they're tasting food that's soapy and they think
Speaker 7: that's the way food tastes, or it really does go away.
Speaker 2: No, in fact. And also they say you don't have
Speaker 2: to rinse your dishes before putting into the dishwasher, but
Speaker 2: I do that too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not supposed to do that.
Speaker 7: Modern dishwashers have technology to determine how dirty it is,
Speaker 7: and if you rinse it off, it will go through
Speaker 7: the cycle. It determines that, and maybe not do as
Speaker 7: aggressive of a wash as of an agitation because it
Speaker 7: thinks they're not dirty.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm just trying.
Speaker 1: It's not just a line fucks filter, man, what's that.
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to hope out my dishwasher filter. I
Speaker 2: don't want to see food in my dishwasher.
Speaker 1: Well, there's always gonna be food in dishwasher. Yeah, literally,
Speaker 1: why why you have it?
Speaker 2: I just don't like to see chunks on plates and
Speaker 2: stuff when it gets loaded.
Speaker 7: When you clean that filter, you realize how gross a
Speaker 7: dishwasher is. Yes, yeah, are you supposed to rinse soap
Speaker 7: off dishes?
Speaker 6: I don't know.
Speaker 1: If we want to hear this, you should rinse soap
Speaker 1: off dishes, remove residue from a soapy taste on food
Speaker 1: and drinks. See there you go straight from Google. We're
Speaker 1: gonna take a break. We'll be back.
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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, join us in the studio now. Is Jeff
Speaker 1: Heinsley of Hensley Associates. Hello, Jeff, how.
Speaker 3: Are you Dan? Well, good morning.
Speaker 7: Jeff's here to answer any question you have about childcare.
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, child custody, guardianships, maybe a divorce you're going through.
Speaker 7: And you can get your question to us a couple
Speaker 7: of ways. You can text BMMS and whatever that question
Speaker 7: is to eight two nine four five. You can email
Speaker 7: show at kmod dot com or call eight three three
Speaker 7: four six Oh KMOD. We got a text one that said,
Speaker 7: I've heard the possibility of having a burial plot on
Speaker 7: my property. Is this a possibility? And can you point
Speaker 7: me in the right direction as to who to talk to?
Speaker 10: You know, that's a good question I've heard. You know
Speaker 10: there are such things as family plots on pieces of
Speaker 10: lands and things like that. So but I think it'll
Speaker 10: you know, boils down to your owning laws and things
Speaker 10: like that. So if you will give Leah a call
Speaker 10: at my office up in Pahsca, they can answer that
Speaker 10: question and get you the information you need.
Speaker 3: That's I haven't had that one before. That's a new one, so.
Speaker 1: Right, well, that just shows the scope of things that
Speaker 1: you can ask. Jeff.
Speaker 7: He's here on the air today to talk about family law,
Speaker 7: so custodies and guardianships and things like this. This text
Speaker 7: one came in said, my ex and I have worked
Speaker 7: out a custody schedule between ourselves, but I want to
Speaker 7: make it legally binding so neither of us can change
Speaker 7: it on a whim. We have two boys, six and nine.
Speaker 7: Is this something I need a lawyer for? Can we
Speaker 7: just file paperwork.
Speaker 10: Yeah, you need a lawyer for it, so it's done
Speaker 10: right for starters and you know, everything's great now. And
Speaker 10: you know Corbyn said this forever is it's great until
Speaker 10: it's not.
Speaker 3: And so you know, I commend you for reaching an agreement.
Speaker 10: But you know, people get a little frisky and funky
Speaker 10: whenever you start filing paperwork to say, well, I want
Speaker 10: to make it legal.
Speaker 3: Well don't you trust me, don't you trust me? Don't
Speaker 3: you think I'm going to do the right thing.
Speaker 10: Well, you know that sounds great now, but sometimes people
Speaker 10: get pissed off when you start filing things. So, yes,
Speaker 10: you're going to need an attorney to make sure it's
Speaker 10: done right, the paperwork's correct. We know the ins and outs,
Speaker 10: we know the judges, we know the laws, so we
Speaker 10: want to make sure that you're taking care of especially.
Speaker 3: At the other side's decides. It gets a little decide
Speaker 3: to get a little crazy.
Speaker 7: Can we I'm going to push a little bit on that. Yeah,
Speaker 7: so let's let's clarify some things. It's great you work
Speaker 7: it out, but it's not a document with any powerwithstanding
Speaker 7: until a judge signs off on it.
Speaker 10: Absolutely, So until there's a judge. Signature in the document
Speaker 10: doesn't mean anything. So, you know, let's say you've got
Speaker 10: an agreement and she decides to say, well, you know,
Speaker 10: screw you, I'm going to keep the kids this weekend. Well,
Speaker 10: we have an agreement, we signed it, we have a notary,
Speaker 10: and I remember it. Notaries notaries are nothing more than
Speaker 10: people saying, yes, the person in front of me is
Speaker 10: who they say they are. It doesn't make the document binding.
Speaker 10: That's what's probably one of the biggest urban legends out
Speaker 10: there is that a notary makes something legal.
Speaker 3: That's not how it works.
Speaker 10: All it is is somebody saying, yes, this is the person,
Speaker 10: this is their signature, and I'm stamping this because I'm
Speaker 10: allowed to do that and I have a.
Speaker 3: License to do that. To say that this is who
Speaker 3: they say they are, that's all they do. Okay.
Speaker 10: So with that being said, it doesn't make the document
Speaker 10: binding or legal at that point. So, yeah, if either
Speaker 10: one who decides to break it, there's nothing the other
Speaker 10: side can do. You can't get rid of assistance to
Speaker 10: have the cops go get the kids and bring them
Speaker 10: to you. You can't file anything at the core to
Speaker 10: say well she or he denied me visitation. So yeah,
Speaker 10: you want an actual document signed by a judge.
Speaker 2: But at the same time, doesn't a will. Isn't a
Speaker 2: will something that needs to be notarized in order to
Speaker 2: do it?
Speaker 9: Does?
Speaker 10: But more importantly, the big thing about wills is is
Speaker 10: in addition to the notor, you also have to have
Speaker 10: the two witnesses. So you've got a notary and two
Speaker 10: witnesses on top of that. And the will's a will
Speaker 10: is different than a custody arrangement because well, there's lots
Speaker 10: of different reasons and we'll want to but I mean,
Speaker 10: it's very different than a custody But yeah, I mean
Speaker 10: I see your point. But at the same time, too,
Speaker 10: you also have two separate witnesses that come in and
Speaker 10: also witness that will as well.
Speaker 7: Jeff from Hensley Associates is in the studio to answer
Speaker 7: questions about family law.
Speaker 1: See if we can do the phone thing here. Good morning,
Speaker 1: you're on the air. What is your name?
Speaker 7: Hello, good morning, you're that happens And so we've got
Speaker 7: an email one that came in. It says, if one
Speaker 7: of my kids ages out of child support and my
Speaker 7: alimony payments cut off, do I have to pay a lawyer?
Speaker 7: The full retainer or can I pay an hourly for
Speaker 7: a new child support computation.
Speaker 3: Let's see if I can parse that.
Speaker 10: So if your child ages out, you need to model
Speaker 10: one if you want, right, So that means you have
Speaker 10: other kids. I mean, every firm is gonna have something
Speaker 10: different the way they handle that. But I mean the
Speaker 10: idea behind it is is that you file to modify
Speaker 10: all right, and then the other side gets pissed off.
Speaker 3: They just do even if the kid ages out. I
Speaker 3: don't know what it is.
Speaker 10: But whenever that happens, even when the kid ages out
Speaker 10: or you know, graduates high school and it's turned eighteen
Speaker 10: and inten clean under the law's age doubt and all
Speaker 10: these things, and you go to modify it because you
Speaker 10: want to make it right, they get upset. And so, yeah,
Speaker 10: you want a lawyer, and you're probably going to need
Speaker 10: a retainer and hourly fee all that stuff because at
Speaker 10: some point it's probably going to get into an argument
Speaker 10: and unfortunately it's going to have to go to a hearing.
Speaker 3: I mean, I've seen these things happen.
Speaker 10: You would think it would be as simple as well, yeah,
Speaker 10: you're right, the kid is out, let's change it that's rare.
Speaker 10: A lot of times it's I can't believe you're doing this,
Speaker 10: You're full of crap, blah blah blah, your income has changed,
Speaker 10: mind has changed, and they start getting into these arguments.
Speaker 10: So yeah, I mean, you're going to probably need a
Speaker 10: full retainer because it's going to go to a hearing
Speaker 10: more than likely, not eighty percent of the time, it's
Speaker 10: going to go to a hearing.
Speaker 1: But I can understand where someone is one being to
Speaker 1: do it the most cost efficient way they think they
Speaker 1: can to which I would say, you would be better
Speaker 1: served having somebody you're comfortable with and trust rather than
Speaker 1: do it the most cost efficient way.
Speaker 10: Sometimes, right, absolutely, And it's one of those things too
Speaker 10: that again, just because we file a emotion to modify
Speaker 10: something doesn't mean that the other side is going to
Speaker 10: sign off on agreed order, at which point it is
Speaker 10: going to go to a hearing, at which point you're
Speaker 10: going to need an attorney to do that, at which
Speaker 10: point they're going to require a retainer. I mean, understand,
Speaker 10: retainers are money paid up front for work that we're
Speaker 10: going to do. We do that because that way we
Speaker 10: can actually start getting paid for what we're doing, Right, away.
Speaker 10: A lot of times if we try to do it
Speaker 10: the other way with oh well, I'll just pay if
Speaker 10: you just pay an hourly fee, a lot of times
Speaker 10: we get stiffed. Okay, I hate to say that, but
Speaker 10: the fact of the matter is if we don't get
Speaker 10: our money up front, we get stiffed.
Speaker 3: And people have.
Speaker 10: This idea that they can you know, stiff an attorney
Speaker 10: and not pay. And unfortunately that's why we do retainers
Speaker 10: because we don't want to get screwed. I hate to
Speaker 10: say it that way, but you know, I understand wanting
Speaker 10: to do things cost efficiently and I have no problem
Speaker 10: doing that, and we try to do that. Our best
Speaker 10: at our firm is to make sure we're we're consciences
Speaker 10: with people's money and what we're doing with it.
Speaker 3: But at the same time too, it is what it is.
Speaker 1: Jeff Finsley from hensleyn is SOE. This is in the studio.
Speaker 7: If you have a question, you can email show at
Speaker 7: kmod dot com, text BMMS whatever your question is to
Speaker 7: eight two nine four five or call eight three three
Speaker 7: four to six. Oh KMOD. This text says my son
Speaker 7: is disabled and receives an SSD check. My boyfriend is
Speaker 7: wanting to leave my son money in his will but
Speaker 7: doesn't want it to affect his checks.
Speaker 1: Is this possible.
Speaker 10: I don't think it would affect his checks. It's one
Speaker 10: of those things that it depends on the amount. I mean,
Speaker 10: if we're talking millions and millions of dollars, that might
Speaker 10: affect it, because obviously that money would then go into
Speaker 10: a trust and be used to take care of the
Speaker 10: kid and that sort of thing.
Speaker 3: So I think it would depend on the amount. So
Speaker 3: what you need to do.
Speaker 10: Give us a call in Tulsa. We'll hook you up
Speaker 10: with Leah up in Pascas. She'll give you a call
Speaker 10: about that, because that's a will and a trust issue,
Speaker 10: so to speak, and so she can get you the
Speaker 10: best answer.
Speaker 7: Jeff Fensley from Hensey and Associates is with us. This
Speaker 7: text says, my brother's going through some mental health issues.
Speaker 7: He broke into his ex wife's house caused a disturbance.
Speaker 7: I was unable to find him when I got a
Speaker 7: call saying he was suicide. We made police reports about
Speaker 7: his mental state. What can I do to get him
Speaker 7: help he needs? I think this is a tricky question
Speaker 7: because when you're talking about dealing with people with mental health.
Speaker 7: It's a there's still individuals. You don't have control over
Speaker 7: them and what they can do at that point, and
Speaker 7: trying to get them help is kind of hard to navigate.
Speaker 10: Well, it is, and you know, guardianships work in these
Speaker 10: situations where you can get them the help that they need.
Speaker 3: But again, it's hard.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not Is that enough to get an
Speaker 1: emergency guardianship?
Speaker 3: Read it again, let me hear it one more time.
Speaker 7: My brother's going through some mental health issues. He broke
Speaker 7: into his ex wife's house, caused a disturbance. I was
Speaker 7: unable to find him when I got a call saying
Speaker 7: he was suicidal. We made police reports about his mental state.
Speaker 7: What can I do to get him help he needs?
Speaker 9: Right?
Speaker 3: So, I mean it's hard.
Speaker 10: Even a guardianship is hard because you've got to show
Speaker 10: that they're unable to make their.
Speaker 3: Own decisions, you know what I mean.
Speaker 10: It's one of those things you've got to and you
Speaker 10: have to have a doctor or sign off on it
Speaker 10: that says, yes, this person is incapacitated to the point
Speaker 10: that they're no longer able to make any decisions on
Speaker 10: their own, whether they be medical or financial or whatever
Speaker 10: it may be.
Speaker 3: So you can get them help. I mean it's a
Speaker 3: really hard place.
Speaker 10: I mean, doing everything you can to help your loved one,
Speaker 10: no matter what is the key. I mean talking to them,
Speaker 10: trying to get them to go to counseling, trying to
Speaker 10: get them to go to I mean, if it's caused
Speaker 10: by substance abuse, it doesn't sound like that may or
Speaker 10: may not be the case here, but I mean getting
Speaker 10: in the rehab or getting the help they need.
Speaker 3: I mean, we live in a society today that is.
Speaker 10: Far more in tune and astute to mental health than
Speaker 10: we've ever had in the history of humanity, in my opinion,
Speaker 10: And so what that means is is there are tons
Speaker 10: and tons and tons of resources out there that weren't
Speaker 10: available even ten years ago. And with that being the case,
Speaker 10: I think that there are all sorts of places that
Speaker 10: you can call and say, look, this is the situation,
Speaker 10: this is what's going on, this is what happened.
Speaker 3: What can we do?
Speaker 10: And there are all sorts of places out there they
Speaker 10: can say, well, you do this and this and this,
Speaker 10: and let's try this and let's do I mean, there's
Speaker 10: so many resources out there now that didn't exist in
Speaker 10: the past, and so I think first step is trying
Speaker 10: to find a place that you know, this city has some,
Speaker 10: the county has some. You can call any of the
Speaker 10: mental hospitals here in Tulsa and talk to them about options,
Speaker 10: what they can do, so you know, at the end
Speaker 10: of the day you can get the list of those resources.
Speaker 10: But also too, at the end of the day, if
Speaker 10: he doesn't want to go, you can't force somebody to
Speaker 10: go unless you have a guardianship. And to get a guardianship,
Speaker 10: you have to prove that they're mentally incapacitated and can't
Speaker 10: make their own.
Speaker 7: Decisions, and and somebody being violent or irrational hardly crosses
Speaker 7: that threshold.
Speaker 1: Right, Well, it would take a little bit more.
Speaker 10: It would take it would take more than that. Yeah,
Speaker 10: I mean, maybe he was pissed off at his ex wife.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 10: I mean, what was the reason he broke into the house.
Speaker 10: I mean, there's there's a lot of holes we've got here,
Speaker 10: but yeah, I mean it's one of those things that
Speaker 10: it's a tough place to be.
Speaker 1: I mean, is suicidal enough, well.
Speaker 10: I mean, if there's suicidal, you can take them and
Speaker 10: drive them to the mental hospitals. You can drive him
Speaker 10: to Lareed or to Parkside. Well, okay, so park Site's
Speaker 10: not doing adults anymore. They're only doing children, which laureate
Speaker 10: and other places. You know, you can and see if
Speaker 10: they'll go, but again, you can't force them to go.
Speaker 1: That's just the bad fifty one fifty one fifties Well
Speaker 1: hold for oh being crazy?
Speaker 10: Well yes and no, but I don't know that they're
Speaker 10: used a whole lot. I mean you've got to show
Speaker 10: that someone is a danger to themselves those kind of things,
Speaker 10: and with suicidal you know a lot of times you
Speaker 10: can get somebody put in a mental place for that.
Speaker 3: I mean, there's it's just it's a really sticky situation.
Speaker 10: But again I would encourage whoever this is to reach
Speaker 10: out to all the resources here and Tulsa if you're
Speaker 10: in the Tulsa area and check to see what's available,
Speaker 10: and they can lead and guide you. Those professionals can
Speaker 10: lead and guide you to it's best to help you
Speaker 10: or brother in law.
Speaker 1: Whatever is psychiatric holds a thing? Is that something?
Speaker 10: There are psychiatric holds, But again those are only a
Speaker 10: certain amount of time. I mean they can't hold them indefinitely,
Speaker 10: so right, you know, it just all depends. I mean,
Speaker 10: if you go in and shoot somebody, uh, because you're insane.
Speaker 3: I mean, there's all sorts of things that can.
Speaker 10: Cause a psychiatric hold, but at the end of the day,
Speaker 10: they can't hold them forever. And unless you've got to
Speaker 10: diagnosis and those sorts of things that say they need
Speaker 10: to be locked up or put into an institution or
Speaker 10: something like that. I mean, there's just there's a lot
Speaker 10: of variables, and so again, contact the resources we have
Speaker 10: here in the Tulsa area. We've got hospitals and doctors
Speaker 10: all over this place. There's lots of people out there
Speaker 10: that can help you.
Speaker 1: Jeff Finsley from Hensley and Associates is in the studio.
Speaker 7: You have a question about divorce or custody or guardianship,
Speaker 7: you can ask it now. Eight three three four six
Speaker 7: oh kmod, good morning, you're on the air.
Speaker 1: What is your name, April, April? What's your question for?
Speaker 1: Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates.
Speaker 11: Go ahead, Okay, So it's it's kind of a I'm
Speaker 11: I'm going to shorten down the story. In twenty fourteen,
Speaker 11: I was in a really bad place in my life
Speaker 11: and I lost custody of my children through DHS. A
Speaker 11: family member got them and she legally adopted them. As
Speaker 11: time went on, things I had ended up getting into
Speaker 11: some trouble and I went through a court ordered you know,
Speaker 11: rehabilitation program graduated it in twenty twenty, and I have
Speaker 11: been clean and sober and on the right shock since
Speaker 11: twenty eighteen. In twenty twenty, my relative let me take
Speaker 11: my kids back. I still don't have legal custody of them.
Speaker 11: I don't even have a guardianship of them. But I've
Speaker 11: had them since twenty twenty and DHS has actually come
Speaker 11: in and checked out the situation, and you know, they
Speaker 11: say it's fine. I would like to get legal city
Speaker 11: back of my kids. I don't see any reason that
Speaker 11: I wouldn't be able to. I just don't know the
Speaker 11: proper way to go back about or to go about it.
Speaker 3: Well that let me stop your idea.
Speaker 11: Of one of my children is turned nineteen, so she's
Speaker 11: not even really involved anymore in the legal process of it.
Speaker 3: So the nineteen year olds out, they're an adult. No,
Speaker 3: they're not part of this.
Speaker 10: I hate to say it, but there is no way
Speaker 10: back once your rights have been terminated to your child,
Speaker 10: at least from that standpoint, there's no way to get
Speaker 10: legal custody again.
Speaker 3: Now you could do.
Speaker 11: I mean, so they weren't necessarily terminated. I'd signed them
Speaker 11: over in agreeance that at some point maybe you know
Speaker 11: that we could we can mend it through it.
Speaker 10: No no, no, but but that's let me back up. And
Speaker 10: if she did legally adopt them, your rights were terminated
Speaker 10: despite what your agreement was, and there may have been
Speaker 10: an agreement. There are things called post adoption agreements, where
Speaker 10: you know, you say that that the people adopting will
Speaker 10: let the parent visit and be a part of the kids,
Speaker 10: lie for send pictures. I mean, those those are things,
Speaker 10: but those don't give you custody once your rights have
Speaker 10: been terminated. The only way around it in theory, would
Speaker 10: be maybe a guardianship, but you'd have to have a
Speaker 10: reason for the guardianship. How does the one kid that's left?
Speaker 10: I assume you said there, you said two, right.
Speaker 11: So, well there's there's two. There's a thirteen or fourteen
Speaker 11: year old and they've lived with me in my care
Speaker 11: since twenty twenty. I have a power of attorney because
Speaker 11: we actually even moved towns, and now because of that,
Speaker 11: I'm able to take them to, you know, enroll them
Speaker 11: in school, take them to doctors. I mean, they've been
Speaker 11: fully in my care.
Speaker 3: Since two thousand, right, And I understand you started go ahead.
Speaker 10: I was just saying, there's just not a legal avenue
Speaker 10: in the state of Oklahoma that, once rights have been
Speaker 10: terminated through an adoption, for a parent to come back
Speaker 10: and say I'm better now, I want my rights back.
Speaker 3: It doesn't work that way.
Speaker 10: It doesn't work that way in Oklahoma, never has and
Speaker 10: so unfortunately there's not an avenue in Oklahoma. The only caveat,
Speaker 10: and again this would be in theory because I've not
Speaker 10: ever seen it done. But in theory you could get
Speaker 10: a guardianship, which is just an expansion of your power
Speaker 10: of attorney.
Speaker 3: So to speak.
Speaker 10: But the other side would have to be willing to
Speaker 10: agree to the guardianship, and the guardianship in this particular
Speaker 10: case doesn't get you any more than what a power
Speaker 10: of attorney would and what you're already doing, does it
Speaker 10: make sense? So, and there's no emergent situation because they've
Speaker 10: been with you forever. And I mean everyone says it's
Speaker 10: okay and all that, but I think at the end
Speaker 10: of the day, you're just kind of stuck.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you. I want to ask you a question.
Speaker 1: Do you just want to go through with that part
Speaker 1: because it feels like the final chapter of that and
Speaker 1: putting it behind you because Jeff's saying you already have
Speaker 1: the power pretty much all the rights.
Speaker 10: Well, I mean, if you want, well, and I guess
Speaker 10: another way would be is wait till they're turned eighteen
Speaker 10: and do an adult adoption so that they're then adopted
Speaker 10: back and to you so to speak, I mean, that's
Speaker 10: another way to do it, is I mean, you could
Speaker 10: do it with your nineteen year old now and wait
Speaker 10: till the other two get to that point and do
Speaker 10: it that way. If you just want to say I've
Speaker 10: adopted them back and I'm now you know legally mom,
Speaker 10: if you wanted to do that, that's another option.
Speaker 3: But again, going after.
Speaker 10: A guardianship now is not going to give you any
Speaker 10: more power, so to speak than your power attorney, other
Speaker 10: than to say, oh, well, I have a guardianship.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 11: I mean, honestly, I've had no problems with the power attorney.
Speaker 11: The only thing that I've had to have, Like, we
Speaker 11: went on a cruise vacation and I had to have
Speaker 11: her find you know, my relatives find something other than that.
Speaker 11: I've had no problems with the power of attorney, So.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm just saying, and that's probably where you're kind
Speaker 10: of stuck until the attorney eighteen and then, you know,
Speaker 10: then give me a call and we could do three
Speaker 10: adult adult adult guardianships or to me adoptions and do
Speaker 10: it that way so that they can be legally yours.
Speaker 10: But unfortunately, in the state of Oklahoma, when riots have
Speaker 10: been terminated, that's it.
Speaker 3: There's just no way back.
Speaker 11: There's no way back from Okay, all right.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, girl, have a great day, good luck.
Speaker 1: It's just not reversible.
Speaker 10: No, I mean, short of showing fraud or deceit or
Speaker 10: something like that, there's really not And that's just the
Speaker 10: way Oklahoma is. I don't know what the adoption laws
Speaker 10: are in other states, but that's how we are here
Speaker 10: in Oklahoma. The idea is to give the child or
Speaker 10: children some sort of permanency so that they can move
Speaker 10: on kind of things like that. I applaud this woman
Speaker 10: for turning her life around and being sober since twenty eighteen.
Speaker 10: I think that's awesome. I congratulate you on that. That's
Speaker 10: a big accomplishment. Unfortunately, our laws just aren't that way. So,
Speaker 10: and I say this all the time when I'm on
Speaker 10: the air with you guys, if you have a problem
Speaker 10: with the way a law is in Oklahoma, contact your
Speaker 10: local legislature. So whoever that is, whether they be in
Speaker 10: the House of the Senate, contact them and say, look,
Speaker 10: I have a problem with this, and here's why. And
Speaker 10: they're the ones that can make the difference. They're the
Speaker 10: ones that can change the law.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, and you could probab also say that being a
Speaker 1: mom isn't something the court decides you are there doing
Speaker 1: that or you're not. And it sounds like she's doing that.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 10: I mean, that's the thing is she's already doing the
Speaker 10: mom stuff. She's she's treating it. I mean, she's doing
Speaker 10: what she should be doing and loves to do obviously
Speaker 10: because she loves her kids. It's just as far as
Speaker 10: a terminology of quote unquote custody, it's just that's the
Speaker 10: wait is once it's terminated, and you're kind of stuck.
Speaker 7: We got this text from somebody and they said, someone
Speaker 7: tried to tell me that Oklahoma is no longer a
Speaker 7: mother's right state. Is that a true or an accurate
Speaker 7: When you have these type of questions which will let
Speaker 7: Jeff answer in a second, you need to call the
Speaker 7: folks at Hinsley Associates. They can answer those questions at
Speaker 7: any time. Nine eight three, nine eight five six nine two.
Speaker 7: There's a lot of misinformation. People get it wrong. They
Speaker 7: have water cooler lawyer talks with each other and try
Speaker 7: to decipher what they should or shouldn't do, or can
Speaker 7: or can't do. But you need to just go to
Speaker 7: an authority that can answer those questions, and the folks
Speaker 7: in Hinsley Associates are that mention kmo D you get
Speaker 7: a free consultation nine one eight three, nine eight five
Speaker 7: six nine two for hinsleyan Associates.
Speaker 1: Is Oklahoma no longer a mother's right state?
Speaker 3: It's not.
Speaker 10: In fact, we're at this particular juncture. We're a fifty
Speaker 10: to fifty state when when it comes to divorce and
Speaker 10: paternity cases. I just tried a paternity case last two
Speaker 10: weeks ago on Friday and one and got joint custody
Speaker 10: for my client, who is very very happy. He's a
Speaker 10: great dad. But no, we're a half and half state,
Speaker 10: so I call it half and we're a fifty to
Speaker 10: fifty state right now. Now, there used to be we
Speaker 10: used to be something very much so mother's right states.
Speaker 10: A long time ago, there was something called the tender
Speaker 10: years doctrine that said that kids from the age of
Speaker 10: birth to age four should be mom should have soul
Speaker 10: custody and dad should have frequent continuing visitation, but not
Speaker 10: full visitation.
Speaker 3: Those kind of things. Those don't exist anymore.
Speaker 10: You might get one of those rulings out in some
Speaker 10: Podunk county out here somewhere where there's a judge from
Speaker 10: who's eighty five years old, but that's very very rare,
Speaker 10: because the law is the law. And I will tell
Speaker 10: you that in Tulsa County especially, they're following the law
Speaker 10: of the fifty to fifty to start, because you have
Speaker 10: to show that the other parent is unfit in some
Speaker 10: way to come down off of fifty to fifteen if
Speaker 10: they're not unfit. Now, remember, being a jerk is not
Speaker 10: unfit as just being a jerk. They're difficult to deal
Speaker 10: with and they're a pain in the ass. That's not
Speaker 10: good enough for unfitness.
Speaker 7: Nine eight three, nine eight five six ninety two for
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Speaker 7: you find yourself in other areas of law needing assistance,
Speaker 7: the folks at Hensley Associates are available.
Speaker 10: Too, absolutely so through our office in Pusco. Don't worry
Speaker 10: about where it's at. They go everywhere and they talk
Speaker 10: to anybody by phone or zoom or in person or
Speaker 10: whatever you need.
Speaker 3: Give Lee a call up there. Leah does a great job.
Speaker 10: She handles everything in addition to family law up there.
Speaker 10: So if you've got a criminal case, if something as
Speaker 10: benign as a speeding ticket or duy all the way
Speaker 10: up to murder and everything in between, she can help
Speaker 10: you with. If you've got a will or a trust
Speaker 10: that needs to be drafted, if you've got a probate
Speaker 10: issue you which is when someone passes away in their
Speaker 10: estates now being dealt with by the cord. Or if
Speaker 10: you've got a contract review you're selling a piece of land,
Speaker 10: whatever it may be, literally anything in addition to family law.
Speaker 10: Give them a call up there. If you don't want
Speaker 10: to call up there. Just call here and Tulsa. We'll
Speaker 10: transfer you up to Leah and she will get you
Speaker 10: taken care of.
Speaker 1: Six nine two for Hensing Associates. We'll be back. I
Speaker 1: saw on the side of the road a truck and
Speaker 1: it had fruit in it, and I think there were
Speaker 1: watermelons if I remember correctly. And it's interesting how people
Speaker 1: will go and just buy fruit from those people, like
Speaker 1: buy a watermelon. Sure, I don't have a reason why
Speaker 1: you shouldn't trust him, but I don't know along that
Speaker 1: fruit's been sitting in the back of that truck. And
Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever seen a fruit truck
Speaker 1: with just a couple back there.
Speaker 2: No, Right, it's always loads and loads and loads.
Speaker 1: Yeah, same with corn onions. Onions is another one. And
Speaker 1: I don't know. You just assume they have a farm, yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's they're getting them from there, right, I'm just
Speaker 1: trust it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're not driving to the grocery store and buying
Speaker 2: every onion that they have.
Speaker 1: They might be.
Speaker 7: They might be going to buy bags of onions at
Speaker 7: Sam's or Costco. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I feel like they would be like, give me every
Speaker 2: single onion in the store.
Speaker 1: Though you can buy palettes of onions.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and well what does the store care?
Speaker 1: Right, They're getting their money and they don't care what
Speaker 1: you go do with it.
Speaker 7: And so then there's another there's a lady by my
Speaker 7: mom's house and she wheels out like a bookshelf every
Speaker 7: day and puts some fruits and vegetables there from her
Speaker 7: own garden. And you put a little money in the
Speaker 7: thing and take what you'd like. It's nice, it's fine, right, Yeah,
Speaker 7: But also I don't know how she's grown it.
Speaker 1: She could be grown in poop. I don't know, I'm not.
Speaker 1: The expectation that she must follow guidelines isn't real, right,
Speaker 1: She's just grown up the way that works for her.
Speaker 2: Sure, have you ever purchased any of her veggies?
Speaker 1: Do you know?
Speaker 8: Me?
Speaker 1: I don't trust people, right, right?
Speaker 2: Has your mom?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: Okay no?
Speaker 7: But to my point, what do you you take a gamble?
Speaker 7: I'm sure it's fine. I'm sure ninety nine percent of
Speaker 7: them are fine. Also, people suck. The human race in
Speaker 7: general does bad things, or they think it's fine the
Speaker 7: way they do it.
Speaker 1: Sure, but it may not be. Maybe you're maybe they
Speaker 1: cover their fruit and vegetables with seven if you know
Speaker 1: what that is, and then they just wash it before
Speaker 1: they bring it out there and put it on display.
Speaker 7: It's a pesticide for those of another kills pretty much
Speaker 7: every bug awesome. So how do you trust that?
Speaker 2: You just you just do.
Speaker 1: You just take a gamble, which feels wild to me.
Speaker 2: You try it once and if you enjoy it, then
Speaker 2: you go back.
Speaker 1: I always get a kick out of people like I
Speaker 1: don't let my kids eat red dye, and then they
Speaker 1: go do stuff like that, which feels completely I guess
Speaker 1: as reckless as letting them have a red dye.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've actually talked about it, like we would love
Speaker 2: to be able to have our own garden. We don't
Speaker 2: get enough sun like though in our backyard.
Speaker 7: I mean, god, God, listen, have a garden on whatever.
Speaker 7: But to then sell it, there's no way you're making
Speaker 7: a profit.
Speaker 2: No, it's just someone who has an over abundance. They
Speaker 2: had a good year.
Speaker 7: So now this is just adding to my my conspiracy
Speaker 7: because you're not a good judge of what you're supposed
Speaker 7: to be doing.
Speaker 9: Right.
Speaker 1: You overgrew, you overproduced.
Speaker 2: Or they thought that they maybe in years past they
Speaker 2: didn't overproduce, and then this year. It was like, oh
Speaker 2: my gosh, I can't believe it. I finally have a
Speaker 2: good garden. Now there's not enough of me to eat
Speaker 2: all of this, and I don't want to be wasteful
Speaker 2: food bank. So yeah, that's that that too, mm hmm.
Speaker 2: But maybe a food bank can't accept it.
Speaker 1: Then you shouldn't. Right, Somebody texting and you're ruining fruit stands.
Speaker 1: For one, I'm not trying to ruin it.
Speaker 7: I just take notice of very peculiar things that we
Speaker 7: accept in society as normal.
Speaker 2: And listen, I'm very trusting, So I'll take from a
Speaker 2: fruit stand all day every day. As I'm trusting, I
Speaker 2: will do that. I will look for them.
Speaker 1: And I don't know if me not being trusting is
Speaker 1: a good character trait or you trusting is a good care.
Speaker 1: I don't know which one's right. You probably could talk
Speaker 1: both ways.
Speaker 2: No, I don't wind me up in someone's trunk someday,
Speaker 2: I'm sure and cut up in a million pieces.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 7: So, like I'm reading a book and it all started.
Speaker 7: I was driving down a road. It was a rural road,
Speaker 7: all gravel, and there was a man on the side
Speaker 7: of the road. I pulled over cars weren't going by
Speaker 7: for miles. And what did I do? I took food
Speaker 7: from him.
Speaker 1: We say don't take food from strangers, and here we
Speaker 1: are buying food from strangers because you think there's some
Speaker 1: bale of security there.
Speaker 2: No, I have my limits, like I don't pick up
Speaker 2: hitch hikers things like that. I worked with a guy
Speaker 2: who did do that on a rag. Oh yeah, picked
Speaker 2: up pitch hikers. Someone who worked here used to do that. Yeah, well,
Speaker 2: it bothered me. One day he said that he was
Speaker 2: traveling down the road with his toddler in the back
Speaker 2: seat and he picked up a hitchhiker, a male who
Speaker 2: was probably in his late thirties early forties. And I said,
Speaker 2: what possessed you to pick up a hitchhiker with your
Speaker 2: child in the back seat? And he said, wow, he
Speaker 2: had a veterans hat on.
Speaker 1: He was that good will.
Speaker 2: That's why I said, he could have gotten it out
Speaker 2: of a garbage can, for all you.
Speaker 1: Know, killed a veteran. He took it exactly.
Speaker 2: It bothered me so much. I was so I said,
Speaker 2: you put your child in danger. You're toddler.
Speaker 7: Let me ask you this, and why is that so
Speaker 7: much more dangerous than stopping on the side of the
Speaker 7: road and buying food from a stranger.
Speaker 2: Because it's just food and I'm not eating it right
Speaker 2: then and there. I'm going to take it home and.
Speaker 1: Wash it doesn't mean it can't be contaminated on the
Speaker 1: inside or or.
Speaker 2: Like I've seen in uh, the television show that I've
Speaker 2: been watching, The Cape Fear, he injects stuff into an
Speaker 2: apple like snow white, I guess poison, and so that
Speaker 2: could happen too.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, how far is the distance of
Speaker 1: crazy from that guy? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, to stopping and
Speaker 1: buying food from a stranger that you don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you just you just have this expectation that they're
Speaker 1: hard workers, because they're perceived to be farmers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess I feel because I'm probably I'm most
Speaker 2: likely not the only one buying from the Yeah.
Speaker 1: Have you ever stood in line? Have you ever stood
Speaker 1: in line with the guy in the truck? Right?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 7: No, you don't usually like the only one and he's
Speaker 7: just glad to see somebody, or is just sleep in
Speaker 7: the cab of the truck.
Speaker 1: It's just a weird thing that we do.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I love farm fresh tomatoes and farm fresh corn and
Speaker 1: all squashes and so I love all that. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I have bought stuff from the side of the road,
Speaker 1: but when you think about it in a context, you're
Speaker 1: like buying food from strangers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're trusting people.
Speaker 1: Gotta take a break, we'll be back.
Speaker 3: That's rush.
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