1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Creativity is an addiction. Unplugged because we will always say 2 00:00:03,799 --> 00:00:06,839 yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes, 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,080 so turn it into a tool. This is arrow unplugged. 4 00:00:10,359 --> 00:00:13,880 M m m mmm. Another one of those cloudy mornings. Man, 5 00:00:13,919 --> 00:00:16,760 they play hell on my ambitions. This is not a 6 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:21,120 negative because research shows we're all different on the full 7 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,800 effects of having no sunshine while waking up with Some 8 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:29,079 minds are in need of serotonin. Others find themselves thinking 9 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,399 clearer on a cloudy morning. It allows some people to 10 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:36,560 improve their focus, although it's hard to believe having sunshine 11 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,640 dulls the mind to risk and thoughtfulness with or without 12 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:43,960 the sun. The true moods are created by your personality. 13 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:48,119 In reality, does anybody know what their true personality is? 14 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:50,679 We know what we put out there on social media 15 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,240 and how we beef up or complain while we're with 16 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:58,039 friends and family, But in reality, what is our personality? 17 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:00,799 The one statement I hear a lot of these days, 18 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:05,920 I'm burned out, I'm depressed. I hear that so much 19 00:01:06,719 --> 00:01:09,079 I made a pact with myself several years ago to 20 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,359 never say anything like that, I'm burned out, I'm depressed. 21 00:01:13,359 --> 00:01:15,959 Don't say it, because what you're doing is you're convincing 22 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:20,319 yourself that you are burned out and you're depressed. Living 23 00:01:20,439 --> 00:01:22,920 in a moment of now means winning is a choice. 24 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:27,159 The goal should be to move mountains. Hey, Sarah, this 25 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,879 is the Daily Mess, a chronological walk through in everyday world. 26 00:01:30,159 --> 00:01:34,280 I am a daily writer. Things like this become weight 27 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,959 on my path, and when I'm weighing myself down with 28 00:01:38,079 --> 00:01:41,079 thoughts like this, I've got to go and do research. 29 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,359 I want to know why I've been called to such 30 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,840 a subject. And that's what's fun about being a part 31 00:01:46,079 --> 00:01:49,840 of the Daily Mess is that we're all thinking seventy 32 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:54,519 thousand thoughts a day, But which one will be your choice? 33 00:01:55,079 --> 00:01:58,640 This is the daily Mess. What if we could spend 34 00:01:58,799 --> 00:02:03,120 sixty seconds in the unwritten future, what would you like 35 00:02:03,159 --> 00:02:07,079 to see? I'm talking about one minute viewing the unknown, 36 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:12,879 unpredictable and yet so often spoken. Business leaders every day, 37 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:17,840 along with politicians, are NonStop about talking about the future. 38 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:22,599 While talking contracts with terrestrial radio, the managers always ask me, 39 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,120 where do you see yourself in five to ten years? 40 00:02:25,719 --> 00:02:27,800 I always found that to be a lack of connection 41 00:02:27,879 --> 00:02:29,919 with me. What do you mean, where do I see myself. 42 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:33,840 Forecasting a five year plan shook me free of living 43 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,439 in the present. If all my sites are set on 44 00:02:36,479 --> 00:02:39,400 a five to ten year plan, why am I wasting 45 00:02:39,479 --> 00:02:43,080 time with what is right now? Here's what I base 46 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:47,080 it on. I missed a lot of real radio when 47 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,840 I went from market number two fifty seven to market 48 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,360 thirty seven. I was reaching for that five to ten 49 00:02:53,439 --> 00:02:58,759 year plan by driving over two thousand miles to an opportunity. Sure, 50 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,560 I've had my long list of amazing celebrations, but the 51 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:06,639 artist inside still questions, what if I had focused on 52 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:13,560 month by month and not five to ten years? What 53 00:03:13,719 --> 00:03:17,000 is your plan today? Can you answer it? That's like 54 00:03:17,039 --> 00:03:18,879 walking up to somebody and saying, what's your favorite song? 55 00:03:20,039 --> 00:03:23,000 Most people just kind of walk into their day and 56 00:03:23,039 --> 00:03:28,000 they allow other people's ambitions to control them. What is 57 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:33,159 your plan today? How do you execute what you don't know? 58 00:03:33,759 --> 00:03:36,759 I'm just going to play along. I'm just here because 59 00:03:37,199 --> 00:03:39,840 I need the check. We hear it everywhere we go 60 00:03:39,879 --> 00:03:42,199 when it comes to co workers or even family members, 61 00:03:42,319 --> 00:03:45,319 where people want that handout. They don't want to have 62 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:49,599 ambitious goals. They just want to play along, to be 63 00:03:49,639 --> 00:03:52,800 a character. But why not be in the front of 64 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:57,400 the stage, the frontman of a band. Why not be 65 00:03:57,719 --> 00:04:02,840 present in your now? I understand we all have dreams. 66 00:04:02,919 --> 00:04:05,319 This is where I would like to be, and it 67 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:08,159 might be my age that I knew where I wanted 68 00:04:08,199 --> 00:04:10,960 to be at a certain time of my life, but 69 00:04:11,039 --> 00:04:14,439 it didn't happen. It was out of my control. I 70 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,600 knew the exact time and day that I was going 71 00:04:17,639 --> 00:04:21,000 to have a master's belt wrapped around my waist in 72 00:04:21,079 --> 00:04:25,639 martial arts. But something happened on July twenty first, two 73 00:04:25,639 --> 00:04:30,839 thousand and nine, at six fifteen pm. That's something was 74 00:04:30,879 --> 00:04:36,319 a heart attack, and it changed everything. So what is 75 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:39,800 your five to ten year plan? What happens when there's 76 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:43,720 a rock in the stream and that rock begins to 77 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,920 block the water and it floods the lay of the land, 78 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:53,120 and it changes who's living on the land. What is 79 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:55,639 in your present? What do you plan on doing with 80 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:59,800 your present? Let's work on it at this level the 81 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:03,360 and let's grow forward. I'm Maril and that's the daily mess.