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Speaker 1: Well, coming up in this episode, Laura and her boyfriend

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Joe join and we find out that Joe that's something

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he really likes to do in the winter.

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Speaker 2: My neighbors call him the shovel Fairy. They're like, does

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the shovel Fairy want to come visit our house?

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like a fantasy, the shovel Fairy. It's a different kind

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of fan. It's like an adult fantasy. Now, God, I

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wish the shovel Fairy put on that outfit, Joe and

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come on over. Of course, when Laura's around, the conversation

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has to get a little rich. Top five there's five

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Speaker 2: Really trivia music, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Because what would you like? Porn music? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I feel like you need a different about audio, like

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seduce me music.

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Speaker 1: Seduce you music. Okay, all right, Well, while you're thinking that,

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I'm gonna pull up some seduced me music. Hi. All right?

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Speaker 2: So the top five that there needs to be more of.

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Speaker 1: Everybody loves to blame the ref and Joe happens to

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be a collegiate football referee, and he explained.

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Speaker 3: Some things just think like the average fan just doesn't understand,

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and that I could be four feet away from somebody

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and that's not my responsibility of looking at that. I'm

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looking at something else. So the average fan just doesn't

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understand that every official on the field is their eyes

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are already set to look at something, not where the

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mix in some vodka, call it a pun. From the

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Speaker 1: It's Billified the Bill Moran Podcast. Well, hello and welcome.

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Thank you for getting your pod on. Thanks for checking

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out the website Bill Moran Productions dot com. There's pictures

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up there. Laura will be up there later. It's not no, no, no, no,

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not no. She watched the listening photos. Is that what

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you want? Is that where we're going? Is that what

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Speaker 2: Why not? You're gonna get fan emails?

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Speaker 1: No, and you can email right through there. Yeah, it's

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just it's it's been. Uh, it's been. It's been weird

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for me because I don't know anything about anything. I'll

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I don't know photo chop. Well, I don't know any

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I own it all. Yeah, yep. So I had a

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logo that I had created for another podcast that I

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was doing, and somebody wrote me an email through the

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website and said, is it Bill lightenmant or Bill Lightment

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because you have it two different ways? And I look

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at the logo and I went man, So I took

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like forty minutes and fiddled around with it and got

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Speaker 2: Get it to where you want you doing, Like Canva.

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Speaker 1: Or I have I pay for Canva. Yeah this was

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through my photoshop on Adobe. Okay, Yeah, I'm learning all

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this stuff. It's like.

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Speaker 2: It's one thing that I cannot I don't do my website.

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I don't do anything I pay to have that done.

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Speaker 1: Who do you pay the like go Daddy or somebody.

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Speaker 2: My website is through by the way, great name. Yeah,

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like run through go Daddy or I built my website

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through wis. Go Daddy is like where I.

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Speaker 2: No, I have my like my branding coach.

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Speaker 1: You have a branding coach, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Like a business coach who does all my branding and stuff.

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like that. It's one thing I don't know how to do.

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what I'm starting to realize. If you want to be successful,

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and how much you don't really enjoy making the reels

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and editing and everything because it's so much work.

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Speaker 2: I try my business.

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Speaker 1: I try to do a cute story on Instagram today

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where you have a picture back and then you have

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the story you're reel up here and people can click

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to go to your reel, but it's over in the corner.

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able to say to somebody, hey man, you do this.

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this and this, and that's where we're headed clearly. But

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get everybody's picture up. There was a little bit of

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here and there and cass Oh, by the way, it's

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look into buying polished dot com. Forty dollars is what

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Monday because he asked if I could come in. I

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was like, my drive to Pulteneyville took about forty three minutes.

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hazard conditions and certain bands of snow can produce up

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to three inches of accumulation an hour, paired with blizzard

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is slated to see another three feet of snow. There's

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only about three hundred and fifty people in the tug

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snow this winter this winter. And that's like old school

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I thought they were still predicting because I talked

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to Mac. He's got his place up there and he

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likes to go up and run the sleds. Yeah right,

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and he's like, man, I don't know. We're supposed to

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get it, supposed to warm up. They're talking about a

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warm stretch. We will probably have a bunch of mud.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's never gonna go down. I can't believe. Yeah,

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how much snow we've gotten and it just has not stopped.

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He has not an until my plow contracts last year.

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Speaker 1: You did because they because there's nothing right, there's nothing coming.

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Speaker 3: I know, Josie told me you were going to put

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me on can what I just had?

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Speaker 1: I had to put you on camera. I said, you

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I won't put you on camera.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I did say, well here, he's a pretty man.

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Speaker 1: He yeah, he doesn't want No, No, we don't have

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to have it, honor. But do you does he go

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Speaker 3: I'm a shoveling connoisseur. As soon as the snow hits

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the ground, I'm like the guy from a Christmas story.

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I'm out there, I'm shoveling. Really, Oh yeah, I love shoveling.

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Speaker 3: Like, I'm gonna go shovel Yeah, it's strange. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: My neighbors call him to the shovel Fairy. They're like,

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does the shovel Fairy want to come visit our house?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Okay, yeah, that sounds like a really fan It's

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like a fantasy, the shovel Fairy. It's a different kind

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of face. It's like an adult fantasy. Now, God, I

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wish the shovel Fairy put on that outfit Joe and

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come on over.

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Speaker 2: I shall for the first time this winter because I

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got home early and he had had a long day

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shovel fairry for Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: No, Lauria hates Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so are you off the hook completely? Then?

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Speaker 3: For val off the hook completely?

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Speaker 1: But what did you do? You did something?

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Speaker 3: I just wrote a cheesy Facebook Oh okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: I hate I do Valentine's Day. I only started doing

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Speaker 1: Ah.

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Speaker 2: So Friday morning, I like tied little Valentine's balloons to

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their chairs. In the morning, I made them red pancakes,

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you know, whipped cream.

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Speaker 1: That's really cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Are you like a chocolate bar and the newest

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prime drink? That's what they got for Valentine's Day? Okay,

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but no, I hate. I think it's really cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but what about adult all right, we were talking

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about this last night. What if you got like sex

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toys for Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's fine, but why can't you give me

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sex toys on the other three hundred and sixty three

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days all of the year.

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Speaker 1: Because it's February and there's a lot of snow on

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the ground, and it just seems to make sense.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me for Christmas? So then I had those cold

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months go quicker.

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I gotta be taking notes. Take some notes. Over there.

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Speaker 2: With his momma.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's work.

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Speaker 1: I haven't been there once. I know, I know, I

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something has happened. I'll tell you. Like my weird, I

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everything where I needed to be, and I have not gone.

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I was here and then I would go home. Now

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Speaker 2: It's like choose your own adventure.

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Speaker 1: Well it is sort of. I mean you get the

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just the stuff. There's a lot of fluff in there

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right that we can cut out. So doing that and

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then a whole bunch of writing, getting the website up.

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I've got this TV pitch I need to get done.

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I'm looking for places for me and Jamison. It's been NonStop.

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So I have not gone over there once, and it's

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been two for one week, but I have not gone,

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and I was thinking of going. I was like, I

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could go tonight because we're doing it earlier the podcast. Yeah,

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and then I'm like, nah, I got to get I

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gotta go home. I gotta go home because I want

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to start. I just there's just a lot I have

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unfortunately stuck my head in the sand for a couple

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of years, right, you know, kind of you know, just

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sort of like drifted. And now I feel like I've

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got a little bit more of a direction and I'm

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I gotta get myself out of this shit.

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Speaker 2: Understandable.

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Speaker 1: And it's weird because you're right, I would love to

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go over there and play, and you know, and I

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even thought about it, I go, I can't. Here's the

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problem because I had a conversation with a professional and

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I and they said, well, you know, why won't you

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go out? And I go, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's like slippery slope.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I said, they go, you can't trust yourself.

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You need to prove to yourself that you can go

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and just have one or two. And I go, I can't.

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I'm not there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean I can anywhere else, but I can't there,

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especially if they're around. I love hanging out with those

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Cheers show.

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Speaker 2: Like everybody knows your name.

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Speaker 1: Well, walking, it's not that. It's because I walked in

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there about a week and a half ago, and I

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knew nobody in there, like I didn't recognize anybody, like

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none of my buddies were there. So I slipped into

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the bathroom and then slipped out the door. I didn't

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want to it, I mean, so the bar workers would

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know me, but I didn't, so I was like, eh,

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I go, that's a sign I shouldn't be here. So then,

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but my problem isn't that I can't stop. That's not it.

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I can because I'll have a glass of wine at

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home and I don't need to keep drinking. But when

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I'm in that environment and we're having fun, and what

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happens is it's like time travel for me. The next

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thing I know, it's one o'clock in the morning, you

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know what I mean. And I'm but I've had so

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much fun, and you were gonna leave, or even said

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I'm gonna leave, and all of a sudden, magically, I mean,

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you've got the driveway shovel fairy. What is he called

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the shovel fairy, the shovel fairy.

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Speaker 2: You have the beer fairy.

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Speaker 1: No, I got the Guinness fry, the Guinness ferry. We

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used to have that in our neighborhood. We used to

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leave like cases of guinness on Yeah, me and my

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neighbor would leave cases a guinness on each other's steps.

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So once in a while it was the Guinness Fairy.

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But yeah, but I just know that I can't do that.

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So I have not been out, and then I'm like,

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I want to. There's certain things, certain goals I want

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to get to, and I'm I want to. I'll be

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back out by Saint Patrick's day.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's another month.

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Speaker 1: That's it. I got a month. I got a month.

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I got to pull my shit together. I got a

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lot of ship I got to pull together.

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Speaker 2: He said last night to me, He's like, you haven't

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been drinking wine at home as much. I was like,

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I'm really trying to cut down during the week.

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Speaker 1: You know. You know I noticed because you're not as

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wild at night.

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Speaker 2: Oh maybe, yes, yes.

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Speaker 1: Right, you're a little calmer. You're like, I gotta go

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to bed. I got it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I feel like I'm trying to not

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drink when I'm alone, and a lot of times i'm

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alone at night, you know, even if the kids go

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to bed. He's not home until normally nine thirty, but

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because it's break week, he's getting home around six. So

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he's like, where's your dream?

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Speaker 1: Look at this? All right? So how can I ask? Like,

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I don't know how you can ask anything? Why I

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can ask you anything? We already we've already a sta

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that I don't know how comfortable Joe would be. And

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it's not a dirty question, it's not. It's just like

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you're coming home and your your life, in a very

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very short period of time, went from every mess that

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was made was yours to now your there's two kids,

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there's there's all this stuff, and you just seem to

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embrace it, like, dude, you like you really like it.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I've no, I've always got a clean

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freak when I live by myself. I've made a couple

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of comments to Laura, and I'm trying to get the

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kids pick up after themselves.

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Speaker 1: But they're kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, it's not too messy, so I can't complain.

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You know, what's a half hour hour aund the house?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean I'm just saying, like, that's that's

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a big switch, right for nobody. Yeah, only you too?

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Now you know. I mean I see the pictures there.

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You're like a jungle gym for them. They're on your shoulders,

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but he's hanging off your arm.

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Speaker 3: You know this is true. But I mean I've worked

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with kids for the last fifteen years.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so that makes it all pretty easy.

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Speaker 3: Very good.

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Speaker 1: We'll take a moment, Laura. I found some stats and

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and we'll ask you, and I hope it doesn't get

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too bad. But it was a survey from Bloom, an

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erotic audio platform. Okay, it's called Bloom. Everybody wants to

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go check it out. I'm sure they have dirty novels

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and it's got some surprising insight into women's porn preferences.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't your I was like, wait, Bloom, yeah, Bloom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the chatbot pops up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Please nentwer your question and don't leave out any details.

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This will help get your question fully answered as soon

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as possible.

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Speaker 1: Wow, what's the question?

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Speaker 2: Who's the blonde?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? That's really funny. Well, so like go through there

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because I'm curious. I was thinking, like do I do?

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I was trying to give each podcast its own page

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because I don't want to get too confusing. But then

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I'm like, dude, should I do bill bilified audio, bilified video,

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bilified clips? Do I keep it all together? These are

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all the things that have been running through my head

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and I haven't been able to you know, I'm figuring

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it out. I'm also figuring out and you'll know, Oh,

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look at this. I have a question, Laura, I just

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got it.

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Speaker 2: You got so it came through.

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Speaker 1: It comes to forwards to my other email because I

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I don't know, okay, but even that took me a

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while today Joe to figure that out and set that up.

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But uh yeah, so I'm trying to do it as

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user friendly. I'm not sure I like the cover page exactly,

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but yeah, you know what I mean, Like, I feel

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like you need something that more more to grab you

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in some way. Almost what I'd like to do is

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like an intro video. Yeah, you know, hey, welcome from

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come by, and then.

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Speaker 2: Show you clips interactive website Yeah yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: That kind of thing. So it would be like, hey,

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thanks for stopping by. You know, here's some of the

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things you can do and blah blah blah. Yeah, and

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but again I go where am I.

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Speaker 2: Going to get the time for I know that's why

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sometimes you got to hire it out.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you got to hire it out, or sometimes you

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just have to realize that while you're doing this you

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cannot you just can't sleep, not can't sleep, but you

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just gotta work.

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Speaker 2: Got I mean they also believe me, man I laid

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on the.

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Speaker 1: Couch for a while. I'm like, my gut shows it.

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Speaker 2: Don't overcomplicate your website either.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't want to overcomplicate anything, but I'm starting

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to see and then somebody who owns a business has

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the two kids, right, and when you have the kids,

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you are the single mom. I know that Joe's on

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site now, but you know a lot of the heavy

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lifting is still going to be you. And I mean,

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I got eat. I'm starting to realize, like I go,

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I can give an hour to this, but I get

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so involved AGO want to keep going, and then I

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fuck up everything else.

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Speaker 2: You know, I know, sometimes I have to break away

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from my computer and be like stop doing emails stuff

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Speaker 1: It's a weird thing, all right, Laura, Here we go

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the top five fantasies women want to see more of

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in porn. Let's see if you can get like, I

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don't know what ones would you think? Give me? Like

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the top five there's five of them?

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Speaker 2: Really trivia music, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Because what would you like porn music?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I feel like you need a different about audio, like

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seduce me music.

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Speaker 1: Seduce you music. Okay, all right, Well while you're thinking that,

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I will pull up some seduced me music. Okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: So the top five that there needs to be more of, yeah, more.

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Speaker 1: That women want to see more of. Top five imporn

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that women want to see more of. I would say

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this is according to the Bloom website, the Bloom platform.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to say, older women with younger men really

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like being seduced by a young man.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so okay, that's very specific, but I think that

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would fall under what fifty two percent of women are

472
00:22:45,599 --> 00:22:51,000
calling romantic sex, okay, right, being kind of romantic romanticized. Yeah,

473
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,000
but older women younger guy.

474
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I Yeah, because I think you have

475
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,079
vice versa a lot of times.

476
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:03,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean I've I've watched pure taboo, which is

477
00:23:03,319 --> 00:23:05,519
usually like a couple seducing a young.

478
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,799
Speaker 2: Girl, oh okay, teaching.

479
00:23:07,519 --> 00:23:12,319
Speaker 1: Her their wily ways who's the you know, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

480
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:16,960
yeah yeah yeah yeah she becomes Laura. What else you got?

481
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 2: Okay, Damsel in distress, Damsel in distress?

482
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,440
Speaker 1: Okay, is that on there?

483
00:23:24,559 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 3: Now?

484
00:23:25,079 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 1: No? See, you're going specific think of, like what actually

485
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they'd like to see?

486
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:30,599
Speaker 3: I have?

487
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Speaker 1: All right, let's see what you got, Joe.

488
00:23:32,039 --> 00:23:34,559
Speaker 3: I think it's gotta be like dadbods.

489
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Speaker 1: Oh, dad bots, okay, normal guys.

490
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,839
Speaker 3: You're always talking about two guys that are too small

491
00:23:41,839 --> 00:23:42,519
and too skinny.

492
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 2: So, oh yeah, I don't like is that on there?

493
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 1: No regular? So here's what women want to see more of.

494
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Seventy seven percent of women said they would like to

495
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:59,319
see more threesomes in porn, and they don't give you specifically,

496
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,119
like what kind a threesome? Right, that's what it be?

497
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,759
Two girls and a guy, two guys and a girl.

498
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:10,640
Doesn't say women receiving more oral sex fifty would like

499
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to see that and.

500
00:24:11,319 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 2: Born Okay, romantic they just want that more in life.

501
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,200
I mean seriously, I can't get it there.

502
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 1: I'll get it into my fantasy. Romantic sex comes in

503
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,400
at fifty two percent. Rough sex comes in at fifty

504
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:37,079
two percent. Okay, yeah, like yeah, domination oh doude really yeah, domination,

505
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,920
you're looking at everything, looking at looking at you.

506
00:24:43,039 --> 00:24:46,519
Speaker 3: All right, So I guess I can expose myself whatever. Yeah.

507
00:24:46,559 --> 00:24:49,680
So Laura likes to be slapped around and everything else.

508
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,359
I'm not that type of guy. Yeah, Like one time

509
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I slapped her and I just start laughing my because

510
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,480
I'm like, what the hell am I doing? This is?

511
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:01,480
This is awkward? Just starts looking at me like what.

512
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:07,599
Speaker 2: Wa black eyes? Time I accident?

513
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 1: What you just like your face slap? Oh?

514
00:25:12,799 --> 00:25:18,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, joked. But then the other day we had like

515
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:20,680
midday sex and he went to do that. I was like,

516
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:22,559
you can't do that in the middle of the day.

517
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Speaker 1: It's got to be dark out night time, buddy. I

518
00:25:26,519 --> 00:25:27,359
wouldn't know either.

519
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:29,079
Speaker 3: What do you want this?

520
00:25:29,319 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 1: What am I supposed to do here?

521
00:25:31,519 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 3: Having so rough sex?

522
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:35,880
Speaker 1: Oh?

523
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:36,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it.

524
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:42,519
Speaker 1: Do you like cuffs? And how about like a like

525
00:25:42,559 --> 00:25:43,880
if somebody got a leather.

526
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,160
Speaker 2: Oh we've talked about that. We don't have one.

527
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 3: What what was that sex room show? Yeah? The girl

528
00:25:50,039 --> 00:25:50,960
always had that whip.

529
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:55,039
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, not one, not a whip, but like

530
00:25:55,079 --> 00:25:58,519
this was like alger yeah, flogger, flogger. Oh you're so

531
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,079
good man, you're so in, you're so on this, you're

532
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,200
so now accepting floggers.

533
00:26:03,319 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 3: This old Lady sex show for eight episodes and all.

534
00:26:06,599 --> 00:26:08,039
Speaker 1: What's the old lady sex show? I don't know?

535
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,519
Speaker 2: Call how to Build a Sex Room? And it's like

536
00:26:10,559 --> 00:26:11,519
a what is it on.

537
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 1: A dy channel?

538
00:26:14,759 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 3: Oh?

539
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,319
Speaker 1: Really, it's called how to Build a Sex Room?

540
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 2: And it was amazing because like it was everything from

541
00:26:21,279 --> 00:26:26,200
like a married couple to like a group orgy that

542
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:30,000
like she built like a house for them to have

543
00:26:30,039 --> 00:26:31,000
their sex parties.

544
00:26:31,279 --> 00:26:34,160
Speaker 1: Man, it was amazing. Get to air that place out

545
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,000
when it's done, Oh yeah, oh yeah, good lord.

546
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, there were some really creepy looking people on it too.

547
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: According to this, there are experts like doctor Nizine Moali

548
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:50,200
and sexologist Nicolette Heideger offer some context for these results,

549
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:53,880
suggesting that these fantasies empower women to overcome societal shame

550
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,079
and take control of their desire. Yeah, but they seem

551
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,160
very generic, Like I liked your specific.

552
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 2: I was thinking more it was yeah, yeah, yeah, they want.

553
00:27:03,319 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 1: That sort of Threesomes may help women feel desirable and

554
00:27:06,799 --> 00:27:10,480
proficient because they always got to be doing something taking

555
00:27:10,519 --> 00:27:11,319
care of somebody.

556
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,519
Speaker 2: So desirable, then it has to be too men.

557
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: I got it to me. That's no.

558
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,759
Speaker 3: No, she wants to get punched in the face, but

559
00:27:21,799 --> 00:27:23,839
she can't watch two guys messing around with one girl.

560
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,000
That makes a lot of sense.

561
00:27:28,519 --> 00:27:31,279
Speaker 2: I mean, I could watch it, It's just that I like,

562
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,319
I don't know, I guess if all the attention was

563
00:27:34,319 --> 00:27:37,160
on me, Like, but you know, you think about in threesome, like,

564
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,599
are they gonna be touching each I don't want that?

565
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:45,759
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, wow, here you go. Well that's it's

566
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,880
weird because women in same sex relationships tend to act

567
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,519
on and enjoy group sex fantasies more than straight women.

568
00:27:52,839 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 2: Obviously.

569
00:27:54,759 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would think that that is obvious too. Yeah.

570
00:27:58,079 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 2: If you think about it, if you and your partner

571
00:28:01,519 --> 00:28:05,000
both like the same sex, then you're gonna be more

572
00:28:05,039 --> 00:28:07,319
willing to bring in another one of the same sex.

573
00:28:07,559 --> 00:28:08,920
Speaker 3: You're you would be.

574
00:28:10,759 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 1: Younger person, right, and I mean you're I don't even

575
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:15,839
know how old you are, thirty nine?

576
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 2: Thirty nine?

577
00:28:16,559 --> 00:28:21,599
Speaker 1: Okay, so but of that age, right, independence are women

578
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,839
more open to talk about sexual fantasies now than they were?

579
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 2: I think so?

580
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:30,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I would compare to howl'd your sister similar

581
00:28:30,079 --> 00:28:32,880
age to you too. Okay, so she's too close, but

582
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,400
your mom probably didn't feel like I don't know if

583
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,359
she even discussed it with her friends.

584
00:28:38,759 --> 00:28:41,839
Speaker 2: I remember my mom telling me that sex gets better

585
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,039
once you turn forty.

586
00:28:44,079 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: Well, I think there's a reason why you are. You

587
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,559
don't give the ambitions, like you're just gone.

588
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you're you open more about like this is

589
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,880
what I like in bed, this is what I would

590
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:57,880
like to try. And I do think that people are

591
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:02,640
getting more open into those things. You hear the conversation.

592
00:29:02,359 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: Well, older though, and more confident, a little more experience. Yeah,

593
00:29:07,559 --> 00:29:11,240
not ashamed of your body even. Yeah, I would be

594
00:29:11,279 --> 00:29:13,759
with Joe at first, but I'm afraid that if I

595
00:29:13,839 --> 00:29:18,240
would get so into the slapping, spitting, punching, choking that

596
00:29:18,559 --> 00:29:21,000
I would lose my head. I would I would like,

597
00:29:21,119 --> 00:29:24,039
I would like I would have an out of body experience.

598
00:29:24,839 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 2: I swear that he's a big guy, but he's so

599
00:29:28,039 --> 00:29:33,359
like gentle, no comment.

600
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 3: All I know is it's just it's very awkward. She

601
00:29:38,599 --> 00:29:41,359
just pull my hair, slapped me, you know, sneaking in

602
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,200
here and there, but like, yeah, it was just weird.

603
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:52,319
Speaker 1: She gives you an instruction manual at least yeah guessing. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

604
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,079
that that's exciting, right.

605
00:29:55,119 --> 00:29:57,559
Speaker 2: It keeps me think the exact same thing every time.

606
00:29:59,880 --> 00:30:04,039
Speaker 4: I ah, yeah, some not you don't get into a routine,

607
00:30:04,319 --> 00:30:10,359
so like no, not currently, I don't think it's a routine.

608
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: I don't mean like a routine like you're on top,

609
00:30:13,799 --> 00:30:15,079
then I'm behind.

610
00:30:15,359 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 2: So I will say, obviously I slept with.

611
00:30:21,759 --> 00:30:26,559
Speaker 1: Oh, slapped asses happened and relaxed ass. It's an unhappy asso.

612
00:30:29,119 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 2: Slapped ass is a happy as that's right.

613
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:38,599
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, Joe's did Joe have big hands? Big hands?

614
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,160
Joe I got, Yeah, he's a big hands. It's like

615
00:30:41,799 --> 00:30:43,119
leaving a big hamprint on here.

616
00:30:44,759 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 2: I did leave the Yeah, I get lost ham.

617
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:50,799
Speaker 3: You woke up the next morning you had a.

618
00:30:50,799 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 2: Hamp I like handprints, I like brewses, bite marks, like

619
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,640
whoa the biting stuff.

620
00:30:58,359 --> 00:31:03,079
Speaker 1: I gotta draw the line there, crap.

621
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:08,119
Speaker 2: Like I will say, like my ex husband, it was

622
00:31:08,119 --> 00:31:12,599
the same one, two three every time. Yeah, like and

623
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,079
I think that that is even when I would say,

624
00:31:15,119 --> 00:31:17,599
like I need something more, like we need to switch up.

625
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:25,559
It was that's why we ended up not having all right, well.

626
00:31:25,119 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 1: Those are the old days, those are the old days.

627
00:31:28,559 --> 00:31:33,319
Now you're backing living. You would even film yourself, wouldn't you?

628
00:31:34,039 --> 00:31:36,519
I have you have yeah, okay, not with me.

629
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,359
Speaker 3: No, it wasn't me. It was not me.

630
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:39,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

631
00:31:39,839 --> 00:31:42,839
Speaker 3: But would you think I don't have any interest?

632
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: Yeah? I don't think you know you wouldn't go back

633
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:45,799
and break down the tape later on.

634
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 3: I mean, Bill, if I was swinging a twelve inch deck,

635
00:31:48,079 --> 00:31:49,279
I would film it in a heart.

636
00:31:49,279 --> 00:31:54,039
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but I hear you, but no, this stuff

637
00:31:54,079 --> 00:31:56,200
isn't gonna get out anywhere. It's just for you guys.

638
00:31:57,920 --> 00:31:58,680
I used to love it.

639
00:31:59,279 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 2: I have key. He has said, like, I'm never going

640
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,640
to send you. He's never gonna send me a dick pic.

641
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:04,680
He's never going to do anything.

642
00:32:04,839 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 3: Laura's fantasy is for me to jerk off so you

643
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:11,079
can see a cum shot. Whoa, that's I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

644
00:32:11,319 --> 00:32:19,519
Oh my god, orgasm watching me have a cum shot? Wow?

645
00:32:19,839 --> 00:32:20,480
How bad it is?

646
00:32:21,359 --> 00:32:21,839
Speaker 1: Wow?

647
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 3: After I punched her in the face.

648
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:32,319
Speaker 1: That's called love, folks have Holy God, Flora, this okay,

649
00:32:32,519 --> 00:32:33,319
I do I have.

650
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,559
Speaker 2: I have some weird obsessions. I have some weird fetishes.

651
00:32:38,599 --> 00:32:38,799
Speaker 1: Yeah.

652
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,599
Speaker 2: The other day, like I sent him a nude from upstairs.

653
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:45,079
I was like come war me up, and you hear

654
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:46,200
him up the stairs.

655
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:50,079
Speaker 1: I'd be running. I'd be like, yeah, I'd been running.

656
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:54,480
That's a u okay. The filming thing reminded me there

657
00:32:54,519 --> 00:32:57,200
was a joke that Sam Kennison used to do. Some

658
00:32:57,279 --> 00:33:00,720
girl talked him into filming sex. I think this is

659
00:33:00,759 --> 00:33:02,720
a joke, and he goes, why would I want to

660
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,240
watch that? It looks like it looks like she's being

661
00:33:06,319 --> 00:33:09,480
raped by boular bear. I always love that line. I

662
00:33:09,559 --> 00:33:12,240
just love that line because I go every it's one

663
00:33:12,279 --> 00:33:15,039
of these things like I always say when people you'll

664
00:33:15,039 --> 00:33:17,400
see guys getting bar fights, right, and you'll hear them

665
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,720
bragging you never look as good as you think you do, Okay,

666
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,039
like in a bar fight, every swing and why they're

667
00:33:23,079 --> 00:33:26,039
all over the place you see, right, And I don't

668
00:33:26,039 --> 00:33:27,880
know why that's my analogy, but I would say the

669
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,359
same thing for you never look as good as you

670
00:33:30,519 --> 00:33:33,839
think you look. You know, maybe she does, I don't know,

671
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:38,359
but I would think most guys, no, no, no, I mean,

672
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:41,000
we need a three camera sho it's.

673
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:45,759
Speaker 2: Like hot to know that it exists for the two

674
00:33:45,799 --> 00:33:47,319
of you. But it's not like I'm going to go back.

675
00:33:47,359 --> 00:33:50,039
Speaker 1: Well, that's what I'm saying. It's hot right exactly. But

676
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,000
Joe's an athlete, he's a he's a referee for football

677
00:33:53,079 --> 00:33:57,799
at the collegiate level. He's used to breaking down film.

678
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 2: Can we replay that?

679
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 3: I think I should just put a camera up and

680
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,640
not record, And then you think that we're recording.

681
00:34:05,759 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 2: Oh, I would be I would be like, I.

682
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: Think Laura would be putting on a show.

683
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:16,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, absolutely, And then you would be like, God,

684
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,280
damn it, I wish I actually recorded that.

685
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 1: To watch that code, I don't know.

686
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm a large white male. I'm gonna go

687
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:23,880
with the polar bear fras.

688
00:34:24,599 --> 00:34:30,159
Speaker 1: So I would say, all right, we'll take a moment.

689
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,920
Since Joe's here and he was a referee, I have

690
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:36,079
to bring up one of the controversial things from football

691
00:34:36,159 --> 00:34:39,440
and how hard that is and how much we don't appreciate,

692
00:34:39,679 --> 00:34:42,079
I don't think fully what ruffs have to deal with,

693
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:46,360
and how quick that game is and compensation did they

694
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,639
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731
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:05,400
watching live on Facebook or YouTube, and we can feature

732
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your comment, like our friend Vinnie, who wrote, have.

733
00:37:10,159 --> 00:37:11,199
Speaker 2: To say about me today?

734
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:13,119
Speaker 3: Stuff?

735
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, you love Joe wants meet Minnie.

736
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,119
Speaker 1: Vinnie said where is Danny when you need him? Trick question,

737
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:23,920
you don't. But he's crying in his bible or that

738
00:37:24,039 --> 00:37:27,559
he says, oh, all hands, the pirate ship is sailing

739
00:37:27,639 --> 00:37:32,639
full speed, gagging throats of passion. The throats of passion.

740
00:37:32,639 --> 00:37:37,800
I wonder if that is a porn Yeah, and then

741
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,519
he says, whip out your tits, fat boy, meaning me,

742
00:37:40,519 --> 00:37:43,039
meaning me. That's what you mean, That's that's what he's

743
00:37:43,039 --> 00:37:43,599
talking though.

744
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 3: That's right.

745
00:37:47,039 --> 00:37:50,119
Speaker 1: We can feature your comments if you'd like to, uh

746
00:37:50,199 --> 00:37:53,000
to do that. Are you traveling anywhere in the near future.

747
00:37:53,159 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, We're going to Charlotte in like a month.

748
00:37:56,079 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 1: Are you nervous?

749
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 2: No, No, it's rare that. I feel like there is

750
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:09,239
a lot of news about the small little things too.

751
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:16,480
The DC flight that, yes, there had been no like

752
00:38:16,639 --> 00:38:23,039
American flights crashed in so long, the small little flight

753
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:28,599
that went down in Philly, Philly like that has happened more.

754
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,480
It's just you know, but I feel like the DC

755
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:37,800
caused this massive attention, right and then Trump like taking

756
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:43,159
away some of the air marshals or traffic controllers. Like

757
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,639
it's just there's a lot of eyes on it right now.

758
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,719
But whatever, Yeah, I.

759
00:38:48,639 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 1: Would think that it's still the safest way to go.

760
00:38:51,519 --> 00:38:51,679
Speaker 3: Uh.

761
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: How many car accidents have we had today? I mean

762
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,320
we're just talking about I was talking to somebody about

763
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,719
the weather we talked about earlier in the tug Hill area,

764
00:38:59,119 --> 00:39:03,079
and they said, sobody was leaving Watertown. Uh, and they

765
00:39:03,159 --> 00:39:06,039
rolled their car right hit black ice rolled their car.

766
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,960
So you have that or you could have you could

767
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,639
end up upside down. In Toronto. Everybody survived.

768
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:18,039
Speaker 2: Everybody thirty thousand dollars per person, which is about six

769
00:39:18,119 --> 00:39:20,760
times with the people who when they landed on the

770
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,719
Hudson they got five thousand each.

771
00:39:24,679 --> 00:39:25,079
Speaker 3: Uh.

772
00:39:25,119 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: And I'm trying to think, like, what what one is

773
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:32,119
worse now? Granted we're talking years later. Yeah, but I

774
00:39:32,159 --> 00:39:36,039
think upside down is scarier than landing on the water,

775
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:38,159
although landing out of the water you could be worried

776
00:39:38,199 --> 00:39:41,360
about sinking and your luggage and all that shit. I'm

777
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:43,320
not sure I.

778
00:39:45,159 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 2: Think that the Hudson they knew that there was plane problems, yes, Like,

779
00:39:50,199 --> 00:39:52,079
so you had more time to be scared.

780
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like so that would be more money that I

781
00:39:54,679 --> 00:39:57,000
think should have been. We call that emotional distress.

782
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're terrified right where that what is that delta

783
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,519
upside down supposedly like happened last minute.

784
00:40:04,039 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: You don't need Did you watch it come in? It

785
00:40:06,039 --> 00:40:08,440
was like the weirdest thing. Yeah, and I think it

786
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,079
was pilot error. I think the pilot didn't lift the

787
00:40:11,119 --> 00:40:13,519
nose up enough. From what I was reading, I know

788
00:40:13,519 --> 00:40:16,599
nothing about this, but people commented saying it would look

789
00:40:16,679 --> 00:40:20,480
like pilot error pilots talking, so I would assume that

790
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,880
that's true. But I got to tell you, I would

791
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:23,880
expect to get nothing.

792
00:40:24,519 --> 00:40:27,679
Speaker 2: Oh, I would expect something, you would sure, Oh yeah,

793
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:29,239
like a free flight.

794
00:40:30,559 --> 00:40:33,639
Speaker 1: Oh you know what I'm saying, Like I wouldn't know. Yeah,

795
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:36,920
I guess thirty thousand dollars. What is it gonna cost them?

796
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:39,519
Two point two million, which really isn't that big a

797
00:40:39,559 --> 00:40:43,000
deal at the corporate level of their size. Thirty thousand

798
00:40:43,039 --> 00:40:47,400
dollars is nice, and they're claiming it's not preventing anybody

799
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:51,960
from filing a lawsuit. In addition, yeah, you're not. It's

800
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,559
not as though, hey, you take this money and you

801
00:40:53,559 --> 00:40:55,639
can't file a lawsuit. They're not doing that well.

802
00:40:55,760 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 2: I think that anyone who was injured should probably get more. Yeah,

803
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:05,800
you know, man bills and things like that. But if

804
00:41:06,159 --> 00:41:07,119
you weren't injured.

805
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 1: Fuck, I'm thinking I got a great story thousand dollars.

806
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:13,719
I got a great story in thirty thousand dollars. I'm

807
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,239
telling that story. It is going to change from year

808
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,440
to year to year to I'm the one who is

809
00:41:19,039 --> 00:41:21,039
I'm on the wing, the wing's on fire, and I'm

810
00:41:21,039 --> 00:41:23,960
helping old ladies out. I mean, that story's gonna change

811
00:41:24,039 --> 00:41:28,519
for years and years. But thousand street crowd, Yeah.

812
00:41:28,559 --> 00:41:30,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, would I want to go through a

813
00:41:30,639 --> 00:41:34,639
traumatic experience for thirty thousand dollars? Probably not. But do

814
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:37,360
I think that it would soften the blow? For sure?

815
00:41:37,559 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 1: Yeah?

816
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:41,039
Speaker 2: But I think landing on the hudsone, Yes, that was

817
00:41:41,199 --> 00:41:42,400
God how many years.

818
00:41:42,199 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 3: Ago that pilot made millions with his book, Yeah, oh yeah,

819
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,880
and the movie movie Tom Hanks played you.

820
00:41:49,039 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's pretty good. That's true. He got a ton

821
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,679
of money. You got five grand.

822
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:55,639
Speaker 3: There's not going to be a movie about a plane

823
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,400
landing and then flipping on his ass. That's not going

824
00:41:58,440 --> 00:41:58,960
to be a movie.

825
00:41:59,119 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: No, But the other people didn't. I mean, that's a

826
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,079
good point, because the pilot makes all the money Sully did.

827
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,000
We had somebody who was on that flight in the studio.

828
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:13,039
Really yeah, And he said like they were putting you

829
00:42:13,119 --> 00:42:14,719
up in a hotel. They were trying to get you,

830
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,280
you know, over into Jersey because you're on that side

831
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,639
of the river. And he goes one guy's on the

832
00:42:19,679 --> 00:42:22,119
ferry and he's trying to book a flight for that

833
00:42:22,199 --> 00:42:23,559
night because he wants to just get home.

834
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:24,039
Speaker 2: Yeah.

835
00:42:24,159 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 1: I mean I understand that. I would think to myself,

836
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:31,039
I I totally would I go, what are the chances

837
00:42:31,079 --> 00:42:34,920
of it happening again? None? Or I'm not going to

838
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,199
say none, that's not true, But I would think in

839
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:42,039
my head very minimally, right, minimal minimal to do that.

840
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,480
I don't even know how you determined the value though,

841
00:42:44,559 --> 00:42:47,840
of what somebody went through. Who has to sit down

842
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,800
and come up with the number thirty thousand per person?

843
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:52,159
Speaker 2: I don't know.

844
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,519
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, like, Yeah, that's an odd Yeah,

845
00:42:56,559 --> 00:42:58,760
it's a number. Well, they've been crunching this for a

846
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,320
while and probably went back and forth with lawyers. What

847
00:43:01,639 --> 00:43:03,559
and don't tell me it's not to try to buy

848
00:43:03,639 --> 00:43:07,000
off lawsuits? Oh absolutely, because I would feel like I

849
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,639
got a great story. I wasn't injured a little bit

850
00:43:09,679 --> 00:43:12,559
of a scare, Okay, no big deal.

851
00:43:12,639 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, that's all.

852
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:16,119
Speaker 1: That's the way I would look at it.

853
00:43:16,679 --> 00:43:19,519
Speaker 2: Are the four people that were critically injured, they're.

854
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:23,039
Speaker 1: Not saying that they're getting able more money? No hospital.

855
00:43:23,559 --> 00:43:25,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't really followed up on anything.

856
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,639
Speaker 1: I haven't either, because the news cycle goes so fast

857
00:43:27,679 --> 00:43:30,000
and we go, well, it's all right, Hey, I hope

858
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:33,199
you do well, buddy, and now you got thirty thousand dollars,

859
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,400
which but it's really not all that much money when

860
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:37,039
you think about it.

861
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 2: I don't. I think it's a good chunk.

862
00:43:41,079 --> 00:43:43,079
Speaker 1: No, it's a nice chunk to get. I'm not going

863
00:43:43,159 --> 00:43:45,679
to deny that. But when you you could spend that,

864
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:47,079
you should.

865
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,639
Speaker 2: Also get free Delta flights forever.

866
00:43:49,519 --> 00:43:50,199
Speaker 1: Do you want them?

867
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:50,880
Speaker 2: Fuh?

868
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? I would too if I get Joe.

869
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,159
Speaker 2: How much would I be gone if I could fly

870
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:55,679
for free?

871
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 3: Oh yeah every weekend. I literally you don't have the boys.

872
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,400
Even with the boys, they'd probably be gone. Yeah.

873
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:04,280
Speaker 2: I love to be on the go traveling.

874
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:08,039
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. The other day was like, where's your favorite

875
00:44:08,039 --> 00:44:08,599
place to go?

876
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 2: I don't know. If I love island bed. I don't

877
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:23,000
think I have a favorite place because I like to

878
00:44:23,039 --> 00:44:25,559
see new places all the time, Like, you.

879
00:44:25,559 --> 00:44:29,159
Speaker 1: Know, are you familiar with Charlotte? No, never, never been.

880
00:44:29,559 --> 00:44:31,000
That's a fun that's a fun city.

881
00:44:31,119 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm excited too.

882
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 3: Is it fun for adults or fun for kids? We

883
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:40,280
went to Boston in the summer and Boston felt like

884
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,239
more of an adult town than with kids.

885
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:46,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, are you bringing the kids? Oh well, I don't know.

886
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,239
You'd have to look do a little research. I only

887
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,519
would know the adult stuff, right, And I never took

888
00:44:51,599 --> 00:44:55,400
my kids to Charlotte. Took them to Savannah, which was probably.

889
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,079
Speaker 2: Savannah like a year and a half ago when I

890
00:44:58,119 --> 00:45:00,280
really liked it, but not with the kids.

891
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, the NFL season's over. I was trying to find

892
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:08,000
stories all throughout the year to talk about every day. No,

893
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:11,519
there's really nothing going on. But the one big controversy,

894
00:45:11,559 --> 00:45:13,840
and it keeps coming back to, is you know, they

895
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:18,199
change the rules. What's this? What's that? It's easy to

896
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,239
say things like they should put a tracker in the ball,

897
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:23,000
and they do have it right because you can get

898
00:45:23,039 --> 00:45:25,679
a lot of stats already. I think next gen stats

899
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:29,440
is tracking the footballs to where it is, but in

900
00:45:29,559 --> 00:45:32,320
terms of like locating, but that still doesn't tell you

901
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,400
if somebody's knee is down, correct, and do we not

902
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,400
a little bit? I mean, I know this sounds counterintuitive

903
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,360
to everybody, but don't we like bitching about it? Don't

904
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:45,960
we like seeing that they got it wrong? And if

905
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:49,440
they had only seen I think there's an element of

906
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,280
fandom that is that.

907
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 3: I really, do you got to blame somebody?

908
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 1: I yes, I just think there's an element of fandom

909
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,199
that's that. And when you watch that game, it is

910
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,400
so fat. I don't know how you guys see anything.

911
00:46:02,519 --> 00:46:04,840
Who the hell could tell where he was? You know

912
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:06,840
what I'm saying? Like it in real life. So I

913
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:10,639
guess if we had the technology, but even there, who

914
00:46:10,639 --> 00:46:12,719
would know when the knees down? When you start putting

915
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:14,960
things in running backs knees and quarterbacks, you know what

916
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:16,280
I mean? It's crazy.

917
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,039
Speaker 3: I just think like the average fan just doesn't understand

918
00:46:19,079 --> 00:46:22,440
that I could be four feet away from somebody and

919
00:46:22,559 --> 00:46:25,039
that's not my responsibility of looking at that. I'm looking

920
00:46:25,079 --> 00:46:28,639
at something else. So the average fan just doesn't understand

921
00:46:28,639 --> 00:46:31,159
that every official on the field is their eyes are

922
00:46:32,199 --> 00:46:35,599
already set to look at something, not where the ball is.

923
00:46:36,159 --> 00:46:39,119
So not only that, but there's always angles. We always

924
00:46:39,119 --> 00:46:41,760
see the instant replay on TV. You know, I could

925
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,480
be standing right behind a guy, I'm not going to

926
00:46:43,519 --> 00:46:44,960
see that. But if the camera is in front of

927
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,920
the guy, the camera's going to see that. So fans

928
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,639
just got to know between the angles and the correct

929
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:54,440
mechanics that officials have to do. That's where the controversies.

930
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's interesting. I didn't realize that you are you.

931
00:47:00,039 --> 00:47:03,480
Our job is to focus here and something that happens

932
00:47:04,199 --> 00:47:09,440
within your purview, not necessarily your call, not necessarily in

933
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,559
my call. Yeah, wow, I had seen. Now that's something

934
00:47:12,599 --> 00:47:13,239
that I never know.

935
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:15,519
Speaker 3: There you go, because the average people they got to

936
00:47:15,559 --> 00:47:15,840
know this.

937
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,280
Speaker 1: Well, we would and we'd start pitching. The guy was

938
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:19,920
right there, How does he not call it? I could

939
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,599
see it from here with the fuck's roy with that guy? Right?

940
00:47:22,679 --> 00:47:23,280
Isn't that what it is?

941
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:23,639
Speaker 3: Yeah?

942
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:25,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, And do you get a lot of Do you

943
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,719
hear a lot of the complaints from the stands when

944
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:29,360
you're doing a game.

945
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,559
Speaker 3: So when I was doing high school, I my position,

946
00:47:32,639 --> 00:47:34,119
I was on the sideline a little bit, so I

947
00:47:34,159 --> 00:47:36,840
would get flag from the fans or the coaches or

948
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,480
the players. But I'd say the last decade I've been

949
00:47:39,519 --> 00:47:41,639
in the middle of the field, so I don't really

950
00:47:41,639 --> 00:47:42,599
hear too much bullshit.

951
00:47:43,199 --> 00:47:45,679
Speaker 1: Okay, did you ever say anything to them?

952
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 3: Oh? The players? Oh off air, I know we're on air.

953
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:51,599
I've had stuff the player.

954
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 1: Well no, here's why I say that. My son played

955
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:58,039
basketball and a guy I know was from one of

956
00:47:58,039 --> 00:47:59,880
their games, and all of a sudden, he stopped and

957
00:47:59,880 --> 00:48:04,760
he's like he threatened to throw an imposing fan out

958
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,519
because they were getting they were chirping. I couldn't hear

959
00:48:07,559 --> 00:48:09,480
him from where I was, but that guy had just

960
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:10,679
had it that day.

961
00:48:11,159 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 3: I've never done that. But uh, I did toss the

962
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:15,719
player out of the game because he called me racist,

963
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,159
So I did. I did throw my flag, so I

964
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:20,519
took his ass out again.

965
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 1: I have who could even tell you? I mean, honestly,

966
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:27,239
god it And I know this is gonna sound weird.

967
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:31,239
You could look. You can't tell when you're refing who's

968
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,199
what color a lot of times because they're covered up,

969
00:48:34,599 --> 00:48:37,800
helmet on, you're just looking at the play, you're listen,

970
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:38,880
just looking at the uniform.

971
00:48:39,039 --> 00:48:42,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, I remember, he just got up. He said, you

972
00:48:42,079 --> 00:48:45,320
didn't call that penalty because you're a fucking racist. WHOA, Well,

973
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,840
here you go. And I have a good one, and

974
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,400
then the coach wanted an explanation, told him and a

975
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:51,639
lot of being about a boom.

976
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 2: Didn't you get into it with a coach this year?

977
00:48:54,639 --> 00:48:56,800
Speaker 3: No, I haven't gotten to a coach. The only thing

978
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,079
I've really gotten into a coach was a mistake. I

979
00:48:59,199 --> 00:49:01,599
was definitely, say, maybe two three years ago, and I

980
00:49:01,639 --> 00:49:03,000
didn't want to go to a game, and I was

981
00:49:03,039 --> 00:49:05,159
trying to find a replacement. I did a reply all,

982
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,000
so I replied to like ninety people telling them that

983
00:49:08,039 --> 00:49:09,599
I had no one to watch my dog and I

984
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,360
was sick and everything else. So for the whole year,

985
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,719
everybody was just making fun of me. I show up

986
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:15,880
in this varsity coaches laughing, Oh I heard you were

987
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:17,800
sick and nobody was watching your dog, And I'm like.

988
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 1: Shit, yeah, those reply all, that's gonna be brutal. Why

989
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,559
do you do this because it seems thankless?

990
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 3: I would say. I started when I was twenty two,

991
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,519
twenty one, and it was all from an adding the paper.

992
00:49:31,679 --> 00:49:34,679
I never played football. You never played I never played.

993
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:36,920
I went to Aquinas. I was big, I was sloppy.

994
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:38,800
I thought I was running back at three hundred pounds,

995
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:41,280
how tall are you six two?

996
00:49:42,039 --> 00:49:45,039
Speaker 1: You were three hundred pounds at six to two. Okay,

997
00:49:45,639 --> 00:49:49,119
did you play? I played recreation and no, But I mean,

998
00:49:49,119 --> 00:49:50,639
did they ever try to get you to play? I

999
00:49:50,639 --> 00:49:53,800
guess it was my question. Quinas had a good football

1000
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:54,400
team for the.

1001
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,280
Speaker 3: Were States two out of the four years.

1002
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:57,800
Speaker 1: I was really Oh yeah, it was.

1003
00:49:57,800 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 3: One of the So that was one of the biggest

1004
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,800
regrets of my life. I never played because you know,

1005
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:04,760
I'm athletic and I had the ability. So no, I

1006
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:07,480
just saw add the paper. Always loved the game of football.

1007
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,559
I figured I'd give it a whirl and just kind

1008
00:50:10,559 --> 00:50:11,199
of rode with it.

1009
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:14,280
Speaker 1: So when when you answer the ad training that you

1010
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,199
have to go through all that kind of stuff, what

1011
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:16,880
do they do there?

1012
00:50:17,079 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, so in the summertime, it's about a six to

1013
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:25,719
ten week program once a night, twice a night for rookies,

1014
00:50:26,039 --> 00:50:28,880
about two hours of class. You go through mechanics, you

1015
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:33,920
go through rules, you get test questions on field time.

1016
00:50:34,679 --> 00:50:37,079
I know, back in the day we had a lot

1017
00:50:37,119 --> 00:50:39,880
more officials, so you didn't go straight to divarsity. You

1018
00:50:40,079 --> 00:50:42,679
do JV and freshman your first two three years. But

1019
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:45,800
with the short of officials, you have first year guys.

1020
00:50:45,599 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: Going out, but you don't do high school anymore.

1021
00:50:48,079 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 3: No. I stopped doing college about six seven years ago.

1022
00:50:51,079 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: How did you get the college gig?

1023
00:50:53,199 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 3: College gig? They kind of have some kind of recruitment.

1024
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:59,679
You got to have somebody looking out for you. Somebody

1025
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:04,519
Reckon recommended my name. I had an interview and started

1026
00:51:04,519 --> 00:51:06,800
doing college. And here we are.

1027
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:11,519
Speaker 1: To say this. Every level that we talked about in

1028
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:16,320
football is that much faster. You watch D one games

1029
00:51:16,519 --> 00:51:19,400
and they look really really fast. You go to the

1030
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,239
NFL and those guys are saying, oh my god.

1031
00:51:22,159 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 3: You know I can. You know, that's a good point.

1032
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,440
So like one of the reasons why I quit high

1033
00:51:25,440 --> 00:51:29,119
school is, you know, no offense to the two schools.

1034
00:51:29,159 --> 00:51:32,400
But I had two country schools. I don't know, Batavia Leroy,

1035
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:34,840
And the night before I was at Cornell and it

1036
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:37,239
was sprint football, so everybody was a hundred eight pounds

1037
00:51:38,199 --> 00:51:40,960
and they're flying all over the So I'm doing a

1038
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:43,519
high school game the next day and it's it's just

1039
00:51:43,639 --> 00:51:45,719
slow as molasses, and I'm like, what am I doing?

1040
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:47,800
I don't want to do this anymore. It's not fun.

1041
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:53,239
So that was my last season. And yeah, but yeah,

1042
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:56,400
you can definitely tell the speed of the game. I

1043
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,760
don't think there's a huge difference. I've done a couple

1044
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:01,039
of Syracuse practices, but you beat you have.

1045
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:03,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, those are D one guys.

1046
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, just practices and scrimmages.

1047
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:07,079
Speaker 1: But do you want to be a D one ref?

1048
00:52:07,119 --> 00:52:07,320
You know?

1049
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:12,079
Speaker 3: At one point I did. But the time, commitment and

1050
00:52:12,119 --> 00:52:15,639
the steps for me to go, yeah, I don't think

1051
00:52:15,679 --> 00:52:17,239
I have an interest anymore because.

1052
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 1: There's a couple guys I think in the area, yeah

1053
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:24,039
that do it. And I knew. I once interviewed in

1054
00:52:25,159 --> 00:52:31,119
North Carolina in the Triad area and wake Forest was

1055
00:52:31,159 --> 00:52:32,880
down there, and I was on a flight with a

1056
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:37,000
guy from Rochester who was a D one basketball ref YEP,

1057
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:39,280
And I'm like, damn, dude.

1058
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,119
Speaker 3: There's probably I don't know, I would say six to

1059
00:52:42,159 --> 00:52:45,039
ten guys and a seventy mile radius. Who are D

1060
00:52:45,119 --> 00:52:46,639
one NFL officials around here?

1061
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:50,639
Speaker 1: They are or D one D one officials? Yeah yeah, basketball,

1062
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:54,239
I mean football, football, football, you really don't want to.

1063
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:58,679
Speaker 3: I think, uh, there was a time. So in my organization,

1064
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:02,679
our next step was is usually the mac Okay yep.

1065
00:53:03,199 --> 00:53:06,199
But now I think our next step is the Missouri Valley.

1066
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:10,519
Speaker 1: I mean you have to travel North Dakota.

1067
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:13,039
Speaker 3: Yeah North. Yeah, you know you're traveling.

1068
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:14,599
Speaker 2: You pay for your travel, You.

1069
00:53:14,559 --> 00:53:17,039
Speaker 3: Pay for your travel. You're not making a ton of scratch.

1070
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:19,079
So the next step up.

1071
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: Wait, you have to pay for your travel.

1072
00:53:21,039 --> 00:53:24,199
Speaker 3: Dude, for the little D one divisions?

1073
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:26,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, what about D three D three?

1074
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:30,320
Speaker 3: Yeah? Oh yeah, oh you're paying my own gas money

1075
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:31,360
and driving down the road.

1076
00:53:31,559 --> 00:53:35,760
Speaker 2: The playoffs like playoffs he gets actually like hotel?

1077
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:37,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, the playoff they put us up in a hotel

1078
00:53:37,639 --> 00:53:39,840
and paid for a mileage, so wasn't too bad.

1079
00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:44,119
Speaker 2: But if he was D one, you pay for your flights,

1080
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:46,960
you pay for your hotel and everything. So if you're

1081
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:50,159
getting twelve hundred dollars a game, you may really end

1082
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:53,159
up bringing home one hundred dollars if your flight's in

1083
00:53:53,199 --> 00:53:55,119
your hotel are expensive.

1084
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:55,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know.

1085
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 3: I know a couple officials. They've started and they've just

1086
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,519
moved up to the Missouri Valley. They done, you know,

1087
00:54:00,519 --> 00:54:03,480
two three years, and they're breaking even or losing money.

1088
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:09,559
Speaker 1: Really Yeah, well, how about like the NFL, because these

1089
00:54:09,559 --> 00:54:12,000
guys are going to age out, I mean some of them. Look,

1090
00:54:13,199 --> 00:54:15,320
I don't even know how. It's not one guy. It's

1091
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:18,119
such a big gut. You're seeing more and more in

1092
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:20,760
shape refs right right, You are seeing that there's still

1093
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:23,559
the others on the fringe. But I would go they

1094
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,039
there are some full time refs.

1095
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 3: I honestly all NFL is full time at this point.

1096
00:54:29,559 --> 00:54:32,079
Speaker 1: It is. I think, So, okay, that's interesting because I

1097
00:54:32,119 --> 00:54:34,960
was wondering about that. And but they're paying. I thought

1098
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:36,800
these guys were making like one hundred thousand dollars for

1099
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:37,400
the season.

1100
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:40,559
Speaker 3: The NFL officials are, yeah, making they're making good money. Yeah,

1101
00:54:40,559 --> 00:54:42,199
I would say six figures easy.

1102
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:45,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, So, I mean I think Joe needs to go.

1103
00:54:46,599 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 3: It would be nice. I just so I worked with

1104
00:54:49,519 --> 00:54:51,199
A I did a playoff game this year, and for

1105
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:54,960
the four of the guys on the crew were being

1106
00:54:55,000 --> 00:55:00,480
looked at by D one conferences and whatnot. I could

1107
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:02,360
tell the difference. I mean, if you were to ask

1108
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:05,480
me three years ago, I wanted it one, but just

1109
00:55:05,519 --> 00:55:07,960
hearing the stories and everything else, like, I know I

1110
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:10,960
have the ability, It's just I don't know if I

1111
00:55:11,039 --> 00:55:12,000
have it anymore.

1112
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:12,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1113
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 3: As far as like the passion and wanting to do.

1114
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:16,840
Speaker 1: It, what about coaching, I have.

1115
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:17,880
Speaker 3: Zero interest in coaching.

1116
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 2: He tries to like coach the kids like Jackson, but

1117
00:55:31,639 --> 00:55:33,440
he's more of a basketball coach.

1118
00:55:34,519 --> 00:55:37,320
Speaker 3: Joe Ish, Yeah, yeah, I would say that. So at

1119
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:40,400
work I coached, I tend to coach basketball. I played

1120
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:43,800
basketball and football, so those are my two sports. But

1121
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:47,519
I'll officiate anything. You know, it's just nobody you officiated basketball,

1122
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:50,239
because that looks just at work.

1123
00:55:50,559 --> 00:55:53,840
Speaker 1: That looks thankless to me, that one, especially because they're

1124
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:56,800
right on top of you. You can hear everything. You know.

1125
00:55:57,079 --> 00:56:01,639
Speaker 2: It's funny because Joe's now both my boys basketball and

1126
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:05,800
Joe knows some roughs like that are roughing Lucas's league

1127
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:07,800
and they've been like, what are you going to start

1128
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,599
roughing here? He's like, no, no, nothing it.

1129
00:56:10,679 --> 00:56:14,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, youth sports is terrible. Yeah, that is the hardest

1130
00:56:14,159 --> 00:56:15,000
thing to officiate.

1131
00:56:15,079 --> 00:56:17,760
Speaker 1: And yeah, because you're calling a penalty probably every play.

1132
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:19,880
Speaker 3: Well, no, you're not calling a penalty every play. That's

1133
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:21,800
what makes it so hard. So when it's crunch time,

1134
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:23,840
you know, parents want to see a travel or an

1135
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:26,199
offside or anything like that, and it's like, I could

1136
00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:27,880
have called that the entire game. I'm not gonna call

1137
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:29,599
it the last minute. Yeah, because it means.

1138
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 2: Something, Yeah, like nine ten year olds. They're letting them play.

1139
00:56:32,119 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, so right, get the experience to play. Yeah, that's

1140
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:38,239
a good point. All right, Well take a moment. Joe

1141
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:41,280
brought something up and we had somebody on the podcast

1142
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,800
on a regular basis for a little while who used

1143
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:49,719
to have suitors do this? What are you making a

1144
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:50,280
vase for it?

1145
00:56:50,519 --> 00:56:54,119
Speaker 2: I'm wondering who what I'll tell you?

1146
00:56:54,679 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: And uh, but I wanted to see because there is

1147
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:06,360
it's a new thing that sexually transmitted infections don't necessarily

1148
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:13,880
have to come from penetration. Yeah it doesn't. No, not

1149
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:20,119
even not even that. We'll get to it right after that.

1150
00:57:20,199 --> 00:57:23,320
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Space is limited, reserve your spot today. This would be

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more eighties style, not your two thousand trivia style. What

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00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:33,960
kind of questions do they ask the two thousands trivia?

1185
00:59:34,159 --> 00:59:35,039
Speaker 2: I have no idea.

1186
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:39,639
Speaker 1: Oh okay, it was like Y two k trivia, Y

1187
00:59:39,679 --> 00:59:41,400
two k trivia and it's sold out.

1188
00:59:41,559 --> 00:59:45,599
Speaker 2: It's sold out. I have So we have been on

1189
00:59:45,639 --> 00:59:48,519
like this theme thing, and so when we saw two

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00:59:48,559 --> 00:59:53,079
thousands of trivia, we're like, yes, but we want Matt

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00:59:53,119 --> 00:59:55,679
to do a doop like night.

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00:59:56,480 --> 01:00:00,519
Speaker 1: Who's Matt Matt Reese? Oh yeah, I'm sorry. I was like, wait,

1193
01:00:00,559 --> 01:00:01,119
who's Matt?

1194
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:05,039
Speaker 2: Well, Like, we're like into the like douop era listening

1195
01:00:05,119 --> 01:00:06,880
to that music, We're like, how much fun.

1196
01:00:06,679 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: Would have Are there duop bands out anywhere?

1197
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:12,719
Speaker 2: I don't know, do wop karaoke? Like if Matt could

1198
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:15,159
do like a duop brunch, Like and I've talked to

1199
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some of my friends at the gym, all like these

1200
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:18,679
forty year old women. They're like, that would be so

1201
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:21,519
much fun because he's doing those two thousands.

1202
01:00:21,559 --> 01:00:24,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, in the nineties and they sell out. Yes,

1203
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:27,519
they all sell out. I know. Yeah, huh, that's an

1204
01:00:27,519 --> 01:00:30,360
interesting thing. I wouldn't think like two thousands trivia, but

1205
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:30,920
sure why not?

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01:00:31,159 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, that would be like a trivia that I

1207
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:37,679
could actually win on, like fucking Kevin's name, that tune

1208
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:40,719
that I never went closest to the pain that I'm

1209
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:42,559
like last night.

1210
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 1: Oh, I saw this article today about Sti's and I

1211
01:00:48,760 --> 01:00:51,679
thought it was sort of interesting, only because I remember

1212
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:54,320
when Stephanie would come in here. She was very adamant

1213
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:56,840
before being in the long term relationship that whoever she

1214
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:59,199
was going to be with had to be tested. And

1215
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then one guy invited to go away, and just before

1216
01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:04,039
they were about to take off, he never got the

1217
01:01:04,079 --> 01:01:06,800
test done and he started the ghost her, and you know,

1218
01:01:07,039 --> 01:01:10,519
I guess that's telling you something, right. So I saw

1219
01:01:10,599 --> 01:01:13,199
this thing, and it says that you can get it

1220
01:01:13,239 --> 01:01:20,000
from skin to skin contact certain STIs, which ones, well,

1221
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:23,159
they're saying oral sex, even share personal items like razors

1222
01:01:23,199 --> 01:01:28,039
or needles can also spread infections. Syphilis, goneria, chlamydia, and

1223
01:01:28,119 --> 01:01:31,480
herpes are among the STIs that could be transmitted through

1224
01:01:31,559 --> 01:01:39,199
non penetrative means. Okay, syphilis, goneria, chlamydia, and herpes.

1225
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 2: Is it sharing like a razor to like shave your pubes?

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01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 1: I wonder if it's sharing, like I'll say this. I

1227
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:51,400
wonder if let's say, you grab his razor to shave

1228
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:54,199
your legs. Don't tell him, but it was right there.

1229
01:01:54,239 --> 01:01:56,280
It's just easier. You're in a rush, and he comes

1230
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:59,760
in later and shaves his face and nicks it. And

1231
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if there was something on you there, it is you

1232
01:02:03,599 --> 01:02:06,000
know what I mean, and you wouldn't even know it. Potentially.

1233
01:02:06,039 --> 01:02:07,519
I think there's a lot of people who don't even

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know they have an STI oh, I believe that. I

1235
01:02:09,599 --> 01:02:12,280
think there's something that that people just carry. They're just carriers.

1236
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:15,199
They don't even and oh, never mind.

1237
01:02:16,239 --> 01:02:17,239
Speaker 2: You're gonna tell your story.

1238
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 3: Oh should I tell my story? I'll tell a story.

1239
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:23,599
Speaker 1: I wasn't trying for something, Joe, you don't have to

1240
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do it, buddy.

1241
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Speaker 3: You know you totally use the keyword carrier. So I

1242
01:02:26,719 --> 01:02:29,639
have to have to tell my story. I was on

1243
01:02:29,679 --> 01:02:32,239
a couch taking a nap. It's probably eight nine years ago,

1244
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:35,079
and I woke up from a text message from a

1245
01:02:35,119 --> 01:02:38,039
girl who told me that she just had her annual checkup.

1246
01:02:38,079 --> 01:02:39,840
And I said, okay, you know, blah blah blah. So

1247
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:42,079
I'm reading this text message and it said that she

1248
01:02:42,199 --> 01:02:46,159
tested hot for committia. Now this is the Friday before Easter,

1249
01:02:47,039 --> 01:02:49,239
so I get this text message. I'm supposed to be

1250
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:52,039
at work in an hour. Twenty six minutes later, I'm

1251
01:02:52,039 --> 01:02:54,400
at urgent Care and the doctor goes, what brings you here?

1252
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:57,760
I go this text message right here. Doctor starts laughing

1253
01:02:57,800 --> 01:02:59,920
his ass off. He goes, you know, usually for men.

1254
01:03:00,079 --> 01:03:02,199
I was, I would give you the test, but at

1255
01:03:02,239 --> 01:03:04,880
this point I kind of believe you probably have it.

1256
01:03:05,239 --> 01:03:07,719
So he just came back with two giant ass blue pills.

1257
01:03:07,719 --> 01:03:09,559
He said, I got your Easter eggs for you. Told

1258
01:03:09,599 --> 01:03:13,360
me to wrap it up. So she was a carrier,

1259
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:15,280
she had she was she was a carrier.

1260
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:21,360
Speaker 1: So he's saying that you so what it was chlamydia?

1261
01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:24,880
And I don't know anything about these things enough. I

1262
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:26,880
would love to get an expert on to talk about this,

1263
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:30,000
because there's a way I'm gonna take this conversation in

1264
01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:32,599
a second. But my curiosity is.

1265
01:03:32,719 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 3: I had a symptom?

1266
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:35,599
Speaker 1: Are there always?

1267
01:03:35,679 --> 01:03:35,800
Speaker 3: No?

1268
01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:38,079
Speaker 1: But is it always? You know how like herpes is

1269
01:03:38,119 --> 01:03:41,679
always with you, Like herpes can lay dormant, it's always?

1270
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:43,239
Is that the same with chlamydia?

1271
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:45,679
Speaker 3: I understand. Committee is like a cold.

1272
01:03:45,519 --> 01:03:48,519
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, you were sneezing out your yeah

1273
01:03:48,679 --> 01:03:50,280
pretty much. Yeah did it burn?

1274
01:03:52,559 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 3: My symptoms like.

1275
01:03:55,679 --> 01:03:57,679
Speaker 2: That, like you can get over you can get out

1276
01:03:57,719 --> 01:04:05,119
of it, literally like you have it? Yeah, yeah, no, no,

1277
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:07,440
I was literally I was with my college friends. You

1278
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:09,840
were there but this past weekend, and we were like,

1279
01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:13,639
how did we all escape from college without anything?

1280
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 3: Okay?

1281
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,519
Speaker 2: And my one friend goes, well, you know I did

1282
01:04:16,559 --> 01:04:17,199
have a baby.

1283
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:19,599
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, but you won the prize.

1284
01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:22,039
Speaker 2: None of us, we never got anything.

1285
01:04:23,599 --> 01:04:26,159
Speaker 1: I almost wondered, like, with the fact that this is

1286
01:04:26,199 --> 01:04:28,599
out now right, we could just have it sexually turned

1287
01:04:28,719 --> 01:04:31,599
you could have somebody, you could have your partner cheating

1288
01:04:31,639 --> 01:04:34,960
on you use his razor or her razor. You know

1289
01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:37,519
what I'm saying, Like, there's our ways that shit can happen.

1290
01:04:38,199 --> 01:04:41,400
The chlamydia one sounds like it sounds nasty to me,

1291
01:04:41,760 --> 01:04:43,840
And I remember looking at picture books when I was

1292
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:46,000
a kid of you know, Klymya. They show the worst

1293
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:48,159
thing in the world, look like LEOPARDSY go like, yeah,

1294
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,119
a piece of the dicks on the floor. I don't know,

1295
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:53,079
but this is uh. I wonder if they need to

1296
01:04:53,119 --> 01:04:55,239
teach sex ad differently.

1297
01:04:55,840 --> 01:05:00,039
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that when you're so young and

1298
01:05:00,039 --> 01:05:02,320
you're learning about it, you sort of laugh it off.

1299
01:05:02,559 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, because because it's embarrassing and it's something that your

1300
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,360
parents probably never talked to you about, so it's a

1301
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:12,639
little uncomfortable. And then you think, again, it's never gonna

1302
01:05:12,639 --> 01:05:14,519
happen to me, right, It's never gonna happen to me.

1303
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:17,960
Speaker 2: I know someone an older person. Actually.

1304
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,079
Speaker 1: By the way, Joe, I'm sorry to interrupt. Was that

1305
01:05:20,119 --> 01:05:21,400
a group text you received?

1306
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:23,599
Speaker 3: Oh?

1307
01:05:23,679 --> 01:05:30,599
Speaker 1: No, plus people at the top.

1308
01:05:34,519 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 2: Urgent you hear because of the Karen too.

1309
01:05:39,719 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I wanted to see. After I read this,

1310
01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:49,199
I go, okay, I need to know stats on contraceptive

1311
01:05:50,039 --> 01:05:53,599
no contraception use because the skinned the skin thing is scary.

1312
01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:56,039
I still think it's going to be rare. I think

1313
01:05:56,079 --> 01:05:58,679
most people were getting STI s are getting it from

1314
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:02,079
oral sex or some kind of oral sex. Or sex.

1315
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 2: No, I do know someone who's older who has herpes

1316
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:11,480
because their husband, well ex husband cheated on them, got it.

1317
01:06:12,079 --> 01:06:13,519
Never told this person?

1318
01:06:13,679 --> 01:06:16,320
Speaker 1: And but wait, do we know that he got it

1319
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:19,320
from that? Because again I think some of these things

1320
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:21,719
I think can lay dormant in you, Like it could

1321
01:06:21,719 --> 01:06:25,400
have been someone like Joe who didn't know she had

1322
01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:27,639
it and then she gives it to you, and you

1323
01:06:27,679 --> 01:06:29,440
go another ten years and then all of a sudden

1324
01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:31,599
your accused of cheating and he didn't. Yeah, but did

1325
01:06:31,599 --> 01:06:32,480
he admit to cheating?

1326
01:06:33,639 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 2: I mean, yes, he got divorced.

1327
01:06:35,679 --> 01:06:39,360
Speaker 1: Okay, all right? So I went through and I wanted

1328
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:45,480
to see what specific statistics are for people like twenty five,

1329
01:06:45,559 --> 01:06:49,000
because there's more people I think now we're living longer,

1330
01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:53,280
especially women. We hear about one of the hottest spots

1331
01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:57,360
for STIs is the villages in Florida, right, I mean right,

1332
01:06:57,400 --> 01:06:59,840
it could be, don't They have the different loofahs and stuff.

1333
01:07:00,119 --> 01:07:01,719
Speaker 2: Karen was just telling me her parents are going to

1334
01:07:01,760 --> 01:07:02,719
buy a place down.

1335
01:07:02,599 --> 01:07:08,519
Speaker 1: There, so they did. I was looking through a twenty

1336
01:07:08,639 --> 01:07:12,519
seventeen CDC report. Now we're going back, believe it or not,

1337
01:07:12,519 --> 01:07:15,719
it's close to ten years, right, seven years found that

1338
01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:20,440
out among unmarried men ages thirty five to forty four okay,

1339
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:25,519
unmarried guys, yeah, who had sexual intercourse in the past

1340
01:07:25,519 --> 01:07:29,199
three months, twenty five point eight percent reported using a

1341
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:33,000
condom during their last sexual encounter. Only twenty five point

1342
01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:37,239
eight percent. Well, because I just don't think, I swear

1343
01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:38,880
to God, I don't think.

1344
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 2: As you get older, you think, oh, I escaped my

1345
01:07:41,039 --> 01:07:43,000
college years. I escaped my young years.

1346
01:07:43,119 --> 01:07:45,719
Speaker 1: Yes, and I think that's where we're seeing the greater

1347
01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:50,519
STI stuff, because that's it. And I think even women, right,

1348
01:07:51,119 --> 01:07:54,480
you know, I mean I probably never told somebody, hey,

1349
01:07:54,519 --> 01:07:58,000
you got to put a condom on. I'm not I'm

1350
01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:00,280
not I'm not looking. I'm not looking. Why we all

1351
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:03,519
laughing at? What did I do? That's something You're going

1352
01:08:03,599 --> 01:08:04,079
to go first?

1353
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 2: You fairst you can go first.

1354
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:07,079
Speaker 3: All right? You want to go at the same time?

1355
01:08:07,719 --> 01:08:09,280
Speaker 1: One, two, three, do it.

1356
01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:11,280
Speaker 3: I don't believe e condoms. You don't believe in them either.

1357
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,480
Speaker 1: I'm not a car okay, right, because they don't feel

1358
01:08:14,519 --> 01:08:14,880
as good.

1359
01:08:15,000 --> 01:08:18,079
Speaker 2: No, I mean I did. I did use them.

1360
01:08:18,199 --> 01:08:19,399
Speaker 1: Well, this is the worse.

1361
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:22,319
Speaker 2: But like if I was sleeping, sleeping with the same

1362
01:08:22,359 --> 01:08:26,560
person consistently, fuck now, okay, can't make them go tested.

1363
01:08:26,319 --> 01:08:28,359
Speaker 1: Right, and you didn't make them go get tested. Okay,

1364
01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:32,199
So these figures suggest that condom use decreases as men age. Yeah,

1365
01:08:32,359 --> 01:08:36,359
particularly among those incommitted relationships, right, even if they're not

1366
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:39,600
married but committed. Uh So, then I wanted to see

1367
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:43,800
women over twenty five and a lot of the data

1368
01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:46,199
for this stuff is really limited. You can't really find it.

1369
01:08:46,279 --> 01:08:48,800
I mean, I'm not a research expert, but yeah, you know,

1370
01:08:49,119 --> 01:08:52,399
there are tools we can all use now. So they

1371
01:08:52,399 --> 01:08:54,920
have data from twenty seventeen to twenty nineteen. In the case,

1372
01:08:54,920 --> 01:08:58,279
that's sixty five point three percent of women in the

1373
01:08:58,359 --> 01:09:02,920
United States ages fifteen to forty nine. We're using contraception,

1374
01:09:03,359 --> 01:09:08,760
which I believe is probably true. And I guarantee contraceptive. Yes, yes,

1375
01:09:09,199 --> 01:09:12,600
I'm not saying but we could throw a condom into

1376
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,479
contraception presenting pregnancy.

1377
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:19,159
Speaker 2: But is birth control contrast.

1378
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,319
Speaker 1: So there's two things that I took away from this one.

1379
01:09:22,199 --> 01:09:25,279
The majority of this falls on a woman, and I

1380
01:09:25,319 --> 01:09:27,800
don't think it's ever discussed. It just does. And I

1381
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:30,000
think for guys, I don't like econdom. Yeah, I don't

1382
01:09:30,039 --> 01:09:31,560
like the way it feels either. Don't worry about it.

1383
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:35,399
And so what else is there for a dude right now?

1384
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:37,560
I mean I I they haven't come up with a

1385
01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:40,800
pill yet, right or anything. Okay, So therefore it falls

1386
01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:43,720
on the woman and that seems a little bit unfair

1387
01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:49,199
if you think about it. But according to contraceptive use,

1388
01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:53,479
approximately sixty five point three percent of women in those

1389
01:09:53,479 --> 01:09:57,520
age groups, twenty one percent of women age eighteen to

1390
01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:06,319
ninety four. What ninety four. Yeah, it's a relative of

1391
01:10:06,399 --> 01:10:07,720
Laura's from way way.

1392
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it makes sense.

1393
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:13,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, great, great grandmother's still howling at the moon. Yeah,

1394
01:10:13,359 --> 01:10:15,560
it does, say eighteen to ninety four reported using econdom

1395
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:20,199
during the most recent vaginal intercourse. Wow, but that's twenty

1396
01:10:20,239 --> 01:10:25,279
one percent. But still love, It's still love, and so

1397
01:10:25,399 --> 01:10:27,560
most of it is, I mean, the only thing. I

1398
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:29,720
just wonder because and then you got to think about

1399
01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:35,439
this too. Now, there are things that are done and

1400
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:39,640
I'm not so sure they're marketed toward kids. You're boys

1401
01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:41,560
age or maybe a little bit older than you York boys,

1402
01:10:41,560 --> 01:10:43,800
and about my son's age are slightly younger than him,

1403
01:10:44,119 --> 01:10:49,600
and it would be these vaccines, right HPV. Yeah, And

1404
01:10:49,640 --> 01:10:52,840
I'm not sure. I'm not sure about them, but the

1405
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:57,000
HPV usually doesn't. Guys can be carriers and it doesn't

1406
01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:59,600
really affect them, but it does affect women. It can

1407
01:11:00,239 --> 01:11:00,960
caused cancer.

1408
01:11:01,079 --> 01:11:05,600
Speaker 2: It's so so so common HPV. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they

1409
01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:07,199
say like eighty percent of people.

1410
01:11:09,039 --> 01:11:10,720
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's the highest eighty I was.

1411
01:11:11,920 --> 01:11:13,479
Speaker 1: I was starting to think eighty five.

1412
01:11:14,920 --> 01:11:17,079
Speaker 2: I was really thinking it was like eighty percent.

1413
01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:20,199
Speaker 1: I thought it was higher than that. No, I'm guessing,

1414
01:11:20,239 --> 01:11:22,359
but yes, so I mean, do you think that that's

1415
01:11:22,399 --> 01:11:25,079
a good idea or not. I always worry, like another

1416
01:11:25,199 --> 01:11:28,199
vaccine doesn't really work? What are we doing here? I'm

1417
01:11:28,199 --> 01:11:34,640
not sure I trust science? You do, yeah, okay? If yeah, Well,

1418
01:11:34,920 --> 01:11:38,159
look the thing is like down the line, who knows

1419
01:11:38,199 --> 01:11:41,359
when you're fifty five years old kicking back in the

1420
01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:44,479
villages and all of a sudden, you're plumbing is falling

1421
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:48,239
out because you got you know, because you didn't use

1422
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:51,279
stuff in the past. It's just it's just interesting to

1423
01:11:51,359 --> 01:11:53,479
me and scary.

1424
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:56,079
Speaker 2: But I do think that like, yeah, there should be

1425
01:11:57,319 --> 01:12:00,159
fuck you should go to bars and have con them

1426
01:12:00,199 --> 01:12:05,119
is out like because people I don't think people always

1427
01:12:05,159 --> 01:12:06,439
go out and they're prepared.

1428
01:12:07,319 --> 01:12:13,600
Speaker 1: I thought this area was one of the highest for

1429
01:12:14,199 --> 01:12:18,840
STDs in the country. St Yeah, because I know.

1430
01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:20,119
Speaker 2: That I'm really lucky.

1431
01:12:25,079 --> 01:12:29,199
Speaker 1: Who's willing to take a camel tonight? It's coming up tonight.

1432
01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:34,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've heard that too.

1433
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:38,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just figure everybody's a walking peatri dish, and

1434
01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:41,039
you gotta you're gonna take your chances, you know what

1435
01:12:41,079 --> 01:12:41,359
I mean.

1436
01:12:42,079 --> 01:12:48,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, but when you're I mean, when you're drinking, you

1437
01:12:48,359 --> 01:12:49,720
don't always make the best of.

1438
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 1: Course, you don't make good decisions when you're drunk. No,

1439
01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:56,439
your ambitions are gone. Wake up next to people that

1440
01:12:56,479 --> 01:13:00,119
you would never even probably have a conversation with. It's like, well, oh,

1441
01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:02,800
not that I would know anything about that. I've never

1442
01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:06,560
been there. I'm just saying that that's the uh. Yeah,

1443
01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:11,119
so you can see. I think chlaminia Mississippi leads with chlaminia.

1444
01:13:11,239 --> 01:13:13,119
How about Georgia leads with HIV.

1445
01:13:14,520 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 2: Well, I won't be fucking in Georgia.

1446
01:13:16,199 --> 01:13:18,760
Speaker 1: No, but I think WHOA, We don't worry.

1447
01:13:19,199 --> 01:13:20,600
Speaker 3: The only person you're fucking is me.

1448
01:13:22,359 --> 01:13:25,920
Speaker 1: But I think the Georgia stuff. I wonder sometimes if

1449
01:13:25,960 --> 01:13:27,880
there is a lot of download.

1450
01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:31,560
Speaker 2: Too, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, I could see that.

1451
01:13:32,119 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 1: Who did a joke recently somewhere an award show or

1452
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:38,439
something goes, oh, there's a lot of gay men here

1453
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:43,680
tonight with their wives, kids on the d L and

1454
01:13:43,720 --> 01:13:46,239
that's the stuff. Look, years ago, I did.

1455
01:13:46,039 --> 01:13:49,479
Speaker 2: Something because if you're having I mean two gay men,

1456
01:13:49,560 --> 01:13:52,319
you're not really worried about getting pregnant.

1457
01:13:52,039 --> 01:13:54,840
Speaker 1: No like, but you should be worried about other things

1458
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:59,119
potentially potentially yeh. And anybody should be is my point.

1459
01:13:59,119 --> 01:14:01,199
But here here's something in that I did on the

1460
01:14:01,239 --> 01:14:03,800
radio many many years ago, and it was something when

1461
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:05,920
I looked back on it, it always made me feel

1462
01:14:06,079 --> 01:14:09,560
pretty bad for the person. We had heard that people

1463
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:13,119
would go to area parks and if they backed in

1464
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:17,159
and they sat in their car, they were looking for

1465
01:14:17,199 --> 01:14:20,479
a hookup. And it was the same sex hookup guys.

1466
01:14:21,159 --> 01:14:24,079
So we decided that we wanted to see who was

1467
01:14:24,119 --> 01:14:27,479
the hottest member of the morning show, and we went

1468
01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:29,760
out and we timed who got hit on first?

1469
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:32,439
Speaker 2: Right, how many hours did it take it?

1470
01:14:32,439 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 1: It didn't. It was quick for some people. So the

1471
01:14:37,039 --> 01:14:41,439
interesting thing was there was one guy who had backed

1472
01:14:41,479 --> 01:14:45,560
in and an older gentleman just looked like the happy grandpa,

1473
01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:49,880
happy grandpa. He comes and he's like, hey, he's because

1474
01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:52,079
he was backed in and this guy backs in next

1475
01:14:52,079 --> 01:14:53,560
to him and he goes, hey, how's it going. He

1476
01:14:53,560 --> 01:14:57,520
goes hey, and he's like, uh, you want to take

1477
01:14:57,520 --> 01:14:59,479
a walk in the woods, because that's what they would do.

1478
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:01,239
They would take a walk on these back pads. He

1479
01:15:01,279 --> 01:15:03,560
wanted to take a walk in the woods. And the

1480
01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:06,159
guy goes, no, I'm just waiting for my wife. He goes, ah,

1481
01:15:06,199 --> 01:15:08,600
I'm married, and the guy goes holds up his hand.

1482
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:12,119
He goes me too. He said me too, and he goes, Oh,

1483
01:15:12,199 --> 01:15:14,359
my wife's coming down with the dogs. We're gonna walk

1484
01:15:14,399 --> 01:15:16,399
through the park. He goes, oh, okay, no problem. Now,

1485
01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:19,119
there was nothing rude about this at all. The man

1486
01:15:19,239 --> 01:15:23,159
was not aggressive or anything but honest to God. When

1487
01:15:23,199 --> 01:15:25,880
I thought about it and made me the only thing

1488
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:28,520
I can come up with is sad and sad because

1489
01:15:28,720 --> 01:15:33,159
this guy who was married was living a lie. Because

1490
01:15:33,319 --> 01:15:36,239
society at that time was never going to accept this dude.

1491
01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:41,560
He did not appear, as we would say, whatever, the stereotypical.

1492
01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:44,439
Sometimes you can spot it. Some people like to be flamboyant,

1493
01:15:44,439 --> 01:15:47,279
and that's just them. That wasn't this guy right. He

1494
01:15:47,319 --> 01:15:51,079
was a little more well, we would say like a guy.

1495
01:15:51,119 --> 01:15:53,479
He's just a guy, and he was on the down

1496
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:56,199
loan and you think about the shit, all the shit

1497
01:15:56,239 --> 01:15:58,720
you can bring home. You're just hooking up with some

1498
01:15:58,920 --> 01:16:01,920
rando in the park. You know, they put on their

1499
01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:04,000
best sweater that day, and you know what I'm saying,

1500
01:16:04,079 --> 01:16:06,600
You know what I mean, like their jeans were pressed.

1501
01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:09,319
I don't know, they look neat how I yeah, you

1502
01:16:09,359 --> 01:16:11,439
can't tell. And I go, that's the stuff that I

1503
01:16:11,439 --> 01:16:13,920
think is the most scary. And it made me feel

1504
01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:16,239
terrible for this guy because I go, you know, he's

1505
01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:21,239
lived his entire life never fully satisfied. Don't tell me

1506
01:16:21,279 --> 01:16:24,079
that somewhere along the line his wife could pick up

1507
01:16:24,119 --> 01:16:26,960
on something was missing. But you know, we're in a

1508
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:29,359
time where you stayed together, you had kids, you did

1509
01:16:29,399 --> 01:16:32,239
this thing, and now here you are and the journey's

1510
01:16:32,279 --> 01:16:35,359
almost over, and you're fucking some guy behind a bush

1511
01:16:35,399 --> 01:16:39,039
in a park to be who you really are. I mean,

1512
01:16:39,079 --> 01:16:40,880
I don't mean to put it that bluntly, but I'm

1513
01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:43,800
putting that bluntly. I honestly got to go, God, man,

1514
01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:46,560
we fucked people up with these rules. Be who you

1515
01:16:46,600 --> 01:16:49,560
want to be, because it isn't that long and who's

1516
01:16:49,560 --> 01:16:54,319
getting hurt, you know, I mean if he if he no, yes,

1517
01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:57,560
in this situation, the current situation, Yes, a lot of

1518
01:16:57,560 --> 01:16:59,680
people are getting hurt, the wife, the kids, if they

1519
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:01,920
find out out, what's going to go on, all the

1520
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:05,159
psychologicals yet. But if that guy could just be authentically himself,

1521
01:17:05,159 --> 01:17:08,840
who's getting hurt? Yeah, nobody, Yeah, nobody is not fucking

1522
01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:10,720
up my life, you know what I mean. I mean,

1523
01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:12,359
it's a great story. If all of a suddenly I

1524
01:17:12,399 --> 01:17:15,279
was in the porgan I saw I mean, this mister

1525
01:17:15,399 --> 01:17:18,880
Morgan down there, I don't be on the bush coming

1526
01:17:18,880 --> 01:17:20,760
out pulling up his pants. Here comes another guy. They're

1527
01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:22,159
high five, and it's like.

1528
01:17:22,279 --> 01:17:26,399
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, this story is my what well,

1529
01:17:28,560 --> 01:17:30,640
what how does this happen today?

1530
01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:32,520
Speaker 1: Like three or four times, you guys go, oh, yeah,

1531
01:17:32,560 --> 01:17:34,000
you want to tell a story. I'll tell a story.

1532
01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:35,840
Speaker 3: This has nothing to do No.

1533
01:17:37,199 --> 01:17:41,079
Speaker 2: So my ex husband, Yeah, his girlfriend that he's been

1534
01:17:41,119 --> 01:17:44,760
with for three years, her x came out as gay

1535
01:17:45,159 --> 01:17:48,680
or actually had two kids. And he had a boyfriend

1536
01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:53,000
who lived in Brazil who was like a lot younger

1537
01:17:53,039 --> 01:17:53,479
than him.

1538
01:17:53,600 --> 01:17:54,199
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1539
01:17:54,279 --> 01:17:56,840
Speaker 2: I mean he's a super super nice guy. I've met him.

1540
01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:58,720
I'm sure he is numerous hides.

1541
01:17:58,920 --> 01:18:03,079
Speaker 1: But was that relationship going on, because there are people

1542
01:18:03,159 --> 01:18:05,720
who we know have gotten married went by the societal

1543
01:18:05,760 --> 01:18:08,479
things suppressed to you or suppressed and then one point

1544
01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:11,920
go maybe they made out with somebody, didn't go that far,

1545
01:18:11,960 --> 01:18:14,039
but they're like, I can't live this way. It's a

1546
01:18:14,079 --> 01:18:16,000
lie to you, it's a lie to me.

1547
01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:18,960
Speaker 2: Were never going to be you know, I've never like

1548
01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:23,600
really asked details because I don't want him to feel

1549
01:18:23,600 --> 01:18:25,880
like I'm judging or her. But like, I just know

1550
01:18:26,000 --> 01:18:27,479
that they.

1551
01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:29,600
Speaker 1: Got away getting it out, Laura.

1552
01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:33,279
Speaker 2: I also, I am going to say, like I respect

1553
01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:36,159
their privacy, but I know that as you.

1554
01:18:36,199 --> 01:18:40,479
Speaker 4: Just told the whole story, we don't know who they

1555
01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:42,960
always actually I'm.

1556
01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:49,239
Speaker 2: Not saying their names, but I know that he came

1557
01:18:49,279 --> 01:18:52,760
out and said I'm gay and I have a boyfriend,

1558
01:18:52,760 --> 01:18:56,039
and that was the end of their marriage. Like he's

1559
01:18:56,079 --> 01:18:58,760
still with the guy actually, Like I've talked to him

1560
01:18:58,760 --> 01:19:00,319
about going to visit his boy friend.

1561
01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 1: The guy still lives in Brazil. Oh yeah, so better

1562
01:19:04,960 --> 01:19:08,359
get him here legally. So what does he do?

1563
01:19:08,399 --> 01:19:10,239
Speaker 2: He has to fly to visit each other.

1564
01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:18,319
Speaker 1: I know must be worn out, but it's a very

1565
01:19:18,319 --> 01:19:18,960
busy weekend.

1566
01:19:19,399 --> 01:19:19,720
Speaker 3: Uh.

1567
01:19:20,079 --> 01:19:22,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you would think that you'd want someone closer

1568
01:19:22,800 --> 01:19:27,680
that's a little more available. Yeah, maybe maybe that's a

1569
01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:30,359
nice thing. You know, you've been married for a couple

1570
01:19:30,399 --> 01:19:34,560
of years. He did that whole routine. Yeah, yeah, okay. Yeah.

1571
01:19:35,359 --> 01:19:37,560
Speaker 2: When I started dating Joe, He's like, I have a

1572
01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:39,640
hard schedule. I work like two to nine.

1573
01:19:39,680 --> 01:19:41,520
Speaker 1: And I was like that perfect.

1574
01:19:41,640 --> 01:19:45,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't know, I will like I was like,

1575
01:19:45,119 --> 01:19:47,079
that gives me my mean time. I don't have to

1576
01:19:47,119 --> 01:19:48,680
like cater to you most nights.

1577
01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:52,600
Speaker 1: Like that's the Uh it is, Yes, it is an

1578
01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:55,840
interesting thing like that. I had a friend Bobby Slaton,

1579
01:19:55,840 --> 01:19:57,640
who's been on the podcast, and Bobby used to do

1580
01:19:57,640 --> 01:20:00,880
a whole joke about, you know, how jealousy was of

1581
01:20:00,960 --> 01:20:06,199
gay guys because they because he's like, come on, you're

1582
01:20:06,239 --> 01:20:09,359
hanging out with another dude right after the acts done.

1583
01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:11,359
You want to watch the ball game. You watch the

1584
01:20:11,359 --> 01:20:12,880
ball game together. It's awesome.

1585
01:20:14,760 --> 01:20:17,640
Speaker 3: No, you're not buying that.

1586
01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:21,079
Speaker 1: This whole thing, like, you know, he would go on

1587
01:20:21,199 --> 01:20:23,319
and on. It was really funny the way he presented it.

1588
01:20:23,359 --> 01:20:25,279
You know, he's like, I don't have to cuddle, there's

1589
01:20:25,279 --> 01:20:27,039
no cuddling afterwards, I don't have to hold you. I

1590
01:20:27,079 --> 01:20:28,720
don't have to, and I'm going.

1591
01:20:30,079 --> 01:20:32,399
Speaker 2: Rene and I joked that we used to wish we

1592
01:20:32,439 --> 01:20:35,000
would be lesbians together. We're like our house would be

1593
01:20:35,039 --> 01:20:37,399
so clean, like we would both be on top of shit,

1594
01:20:37,680 --> 01:20:40,560
like you know, one of us would always be cooked.

1595
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:42,840
Speaker 1: Don't you need a little bit of the opposite somewhere

1596
01:20:42,840 --> 01:20:45,840
along the line, like a little bit Well, yeah, somebody

1597
01:20:45,840 --> 01:20:50,359
who's a little bit different slightly, Yeah, I mean yeah,

1598
01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:51,000
I don't know.

1599
01:20:51,479 --> 01:20:52,359
Speaker 2: I prefer man.

1600
01:20:52,680 --> 01:20:56,439
Speaker 1: I know, I can tell, I can tell she wants

1601
01:20:56,439 --> 01:20:57,720
two men once in a while.

1602
01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:03,479
Speaker 4: No, I'm just saying that was the fantasy, like.

1603
01:21:03,520 --> 01:21:07,279
Speaker 1: People watching, watching watching, Yes, why.

1604
01:21:07,199 --> 01:21:08,720
Speaker 2: Don't you me to shut the windows?

1605
01:21:08,760 --> 01:21:10,960
Speaker 1: Okay, fringe fast next year?

1606
01:21:12,239 --> 01:21:14,279
Speaker 3: Absolutely not, what are you talking about.

1607
01:21:14,479 --> 01:21:17,359
Speaker 1: It'll be an art thing. We put you down at

1608
01:21:17,800 --> 01:21:22,079
like the what's that square in downtown innovative Square? We

1609
01:21:22,119 --> 01:21:25,039
put you there and then people get to watch.

1610
01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:29,800
Speaker 3: We can polar bear what if we did?

1611
01:21:30,279 --> 01:21:34,520
Speaker 1: What if we did like the two way glass so

1612
01:21:34,680 --> 01:21:38,399
you can't see out, you can't see out, but everybody

1613
01:21:38,399 --> 01:21:38,760
else can.

1614
01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:41,920
Speaker 3: Eventually I'm gonna come out of that door and then

1615
01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:43,119
everybody is gonna.

1616
01:21:43,000 --> 01:21:45,199
Speaker 1: No, the police have to get everybody away, and then

1617
01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:46,920
but that night you'd be at dinner and all of

1618
01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:48,680
a sudden, a couple of free drinks show up. I

1619
01:21:48,720 --> 01:21:52,960
mean that dude put on a show today, the best

1620
01:21:53,000 --> 01:21:59,800
fringe frest ever. Okay, just check it, just.

1621
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:01,119
Speaker 2: Check your options open.

1622
01:22:02,680 --> 01:22:07,560
Speaker 1: All right, worse trivia tonight, grah the ice Plex?

1623
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:11,680
Speaker 2: No, no, the one Now you're Sea brace O. Whole

1624
01:22:11,680 --> 01:22:12,600
bunch of burn people.

1625
01:22:12,800 --> 01:22:15,359
Speaker 1: Okay, burn people going to well go, drink.

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01:22:15,119 --> 01:22:17,000
Speaker 2: Beer, have burgers, and then be at the gym in

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the morning.

1628
01:22:18,319 --> 01:22:21,079
Speaker 1: See that's great. Burn it off. Yeah, I gotta get

1629
01:22:21,079 --> 01:22:25,359
that disappointment. I got Joe, thank you for coming in

1630
01:22:25,399 --> 01:22:25,800
and playing.

1631
01:22:26,119 --> 01:22:26,399
Speaker 3: Thanks.

1632
01:22:26,399 --> 01:22:29,079
Speaker 1: He was great. The NFL stuff was great. Your story

1633
01:22:29,119 --> 01:22:32,479
about the carrier was fantastic. You know the group text

1634
01:22:32,560 --> 01:22:37,920
you receives about it, and Laurie, you never disappoint ever.

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I'm Bill Moran. We'll see you next week. California Baby,

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Friends of god Worth.

1637
01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:50,479
Speaker 2: He's a land up opportunity for me.

1638
01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:51,319
Speaker 1: Is just a curse.

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01:22:51,920 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 3: Judge, you make us feel